Someone who is aware of the latest memes, internet events and niche pop culture is often labeled terminally online. However, there is no denying that after a long, tiring day, memes are a great way to get your mood back where it needs to be.
The “How Mental” Instagram page is dedicated to funny and sometimes all too relatable mental health memes. So get comfortable, ideally on a couch, as you scroll through, upvote your favorites, save some to show your therapist and be sure to share your own thoughts and experiences in the comments down below.
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The dilemma of adulting that no one bothered to explain to us. (OP, just finished watching Stone Cold Fox, a mediocre action thriller, bc I wasn't in the mood to do dishes and laundry.)
I need to break down boxes from Xmas deliveries and take them out to the recycling bin, but instead my kitchen has become a maze. Oh, and I also need to do the dishes. I've been watching Foundation! It's a few years old but I've only just, um, found it.
Load More Replies...Don't feel attacked. This is a safe place to acknowledge the inner sloth we all have. You're among friends, Min
Load More Replies...Me. Lying in bed reading this, feeling guilty about not doing all that other stuff that I'm too tired to do in the week when I get back home from work.
The relaxing takes precedence. The tasks will still be there when you feel like it.
I managed to get 2 things done (a load of laundry and cleaning one of the toilets) so the rest of the weekend is guilt free relaxation time for me
Well, it's obvious to me that the other person is to blame. Sounds like some seriously bad juju.
In a world that often feels like it is moving at a hundred miles an hour, the humble internet meme has emerged as an unexpected hero for our collective psyche. While your boss or teacher might see you scrolling through a feed of cats with misspelled captions or overly specific relatable scenarios as a simple distraction, there is actually a growing body of evidence suggesting that these digital snippets provide genuine psychological relief.
At its core, a meme is a cultural shorthand, a way of distilling complex emotions or situations into a single, punchy image. This process of simplification is incredibly soothing for a brain overwhelmed by information. When we see a meme that perfectly encapsulates our current stress, it provides a "moment of recognition" that functions as a tiny, digital hug. Research suggests that the humorous relief found in memes can trigger the release of endorphins, our body's natural feel-good chemicals, which instantly lowers cortisol levels and eases physical tension.
As someone who spent most of their time on the fringes of society, other people's opinion never much mattered. I have my opinions, and I can be very judgmental, so what goes around comes around.
Sometimes doing your best means curling up with a good book or your favorite movie. We all need downtime.
One of the most powerful benefits of meme culture is its ability to foster a sense of belonging. The "it me" phenomenon, where a user sees a meme and feels an immediate personal connection to the content, is more than just a funny observation. It serves as a reminder that our private struggles, whether they involve social anxiety, procrastination, or the simple frustration of a tangled pair of headphones, are actually shared by millions of others.
Gotta learn how to perform an Irish Goodbye. Has served me well for decades.
This "collective relatability" helps to dissolve the feelings of isolation that often accompany modern life. By using memes as a social tool, we are able to communicate our internal state to friends and family with very low stakes. Sending a meme to a friend is a way of saying "I’m thinking of you" or "I’m going through this too" without the pressure of an intense, long-form conversation. This low-effort social maintenance is vital for keeping connections alive during busy or stressful periods of life.
Don't forget to nod and thank them for their patience. They don't need to know the truth.
There are Pros and Cons to retirement, but one of the biggest Pros is not having to set an alarm bc there's no urgent reason to get out of bed.
Interestingly, memes played a particularly significant role during global periods of high stress, such as the COVID-19 pandemic. During times of uncertainty, people often turn to humor as a primary coping mechanism. A study published by the American Psychological Association found that viewing memes helped people cope with the stress of the pandemic by making them feel more confident in their ability to handle the situation.
Don't you wish you could refund all those dumb decisions for oh, IDK, a McFlurry or a taco, or anything but the humiliating flashbacks?
The study noted that even memes about the stressor itself helped viewers process their emotions more effectively. By laughing at the very thing that scares us, we strip that thing of some of its power. This psychological distancing allows us to approach our problems with a bit more objectivity and a lot more levity, preventing us from becoming completely paralyzed by the "big picture" anxieties of the world.
Most of us are ambiverts falling somewhere between introversion and extroversion. But I take solace in knowing that most introverts are intellectuals, a belief held by some of the leading philosophers, psychologists, and scientists throughout the ages.
There is also a fascinating clinical angle to this digital trend. For individuals dealing with depression or generalized anxiety, memes that specifically reference mental health struggles can actually serve as a form of validation. When a person sees a meme that pokes gentle fun at the difficulty of getting out of bed or the spiraling thoughts of an anxious mind, it can reduce the stigma they feel about their own condition.
I love living alone. It's the bestest thing I do for myself. No one complaining, no need for compromising, and no arguments. Ah, the peace is unimaginable.
I wasn’t invited to my High School Reunion. I later found out it was because the organiser knew I would decline & didn’t see the point of inviting me. I was incredibly hurt… I was very shy & insecure in HS & felt rejected all over again.
Rather than feeling like a "failure" for having these thoughts, the user sees that their experience is so common it has become a recognizable archetype on the internet. This therapeutic side of humor helps normalize the conversation around mental health, making it feel less like a dark secret and more like a shared human hurdle. It provides a community of support that is accessible at any time, right from the palm of your hand.
Furthermore, memes offer a unique cognitive benefit by encouraging us to look at our lives through a different lens. To "get" a meme, you often have to understand multiple layers of irony or cultural references, which engages the brain's creative and analytical centers. This brief mental workout can act as a "cognitive reset" when you are stuck on a difficult task.
Why are we like this? I understand if the scene is overstimulating, but that doesn't explain why it happens when the scene is pleasant. That sudden impulse of, Okay, I've had enough of [fill in the blank], time to go home.
This should be #1. Especially since the people who say, “You’re too sensitive,” whine like little bîtches if somebody says something THEY don’t like.
It provides a high-density burst of entertainment that satisfies our brain's craving for novelty without the time commitment of a full television show or movie. These "micro-breaks" can actually improve overall productivity by preventing burnout and keeping our mood elevated throughout the day. It turns the act of scrolling into a series of tiny wins for our emotional regulation systems.
I'd love to know what they were talking about. Tbh, I'm surprised no one has said this to me yet
I quit trying, the guilt was overwhelming. Now I just live with it, (not getting it together).
Of course, like all good things, the benefits of memes are best enjoyed in moderation. The goal is to use them as a "digital deep breath" rather than a permanent escape from reality. When used mindfully, they are a testament to human resilience and our incredible ability to find light in the dark. They remind us that no matter how strange or difficult life gets, there is probably a cat picture out there that perfectly explains how we feel, and millions of people who are ready to hit "like" because they feel it too. So, the next time you find yourself giggling at a screen, know that you aren't just wasting time, you are checking in with your community, lowering your stress, and giving your mental health a little boost.
There are very few of us who can fully relax on a weekend because there are house chores, yard work, entertaining kids, shopping,...
Suddenly I realize I treat my mental health just like my finances - once you tip over to red, you just ignore the warning signs because it doesn't make a difference if you're $100 or $1000 in debt if you can't pay it back anyway.
Don't you just hate that? You decide to join in and share some quirky story from your past only to notice everyone's horrified expressions. After such a major social faux pas, you need to go out and find new friends.
Funny how "dog holding his ball in his mouth" conjures up this picture and not the other one.
Oh, wow! Hey, thanks, cause that bit of sage wisdom never, ever occurred to me.
When you know you're talking BS, it's easier not to be hurt when people disagree
For me it's because I don't mind children, but forget that you also have to interact with their parents
Teenage me after realizing I laughed and socialized (I was supposed to act mysterious and not talk to anyone)
Besides watching tv shows and movies?? Well, I do read a lot. Oh, and I avoid doing household tasks, which is a hobby in and of itself.
Hmm, I sometimes ask my doctors how they are doing, because I think nobody else might ask them.
When it comes to giving advice, I'm brilliant. It's taking it that trips me up.
I always feel more like crawling under my desk and assuming the fetal position.
Problem is, after years of trauma it's nearly impossible not to look a gift horse in the mouth bc trust has vanished.
Having a sense of humor when the your world becomes a dumpster fire gives you the necessary space to see clear skies. Granted, it may be brief, but notice you were able to breathe.
I swear, I'm going to sue the next person who puts my family photos online.
When I was younger, my motto was "I'll sleep when I'm dead". Now that I'm older and catching glimpses of the Grim Reaper, I sleep for 10hrs a night, which is like practicing for death.
Even in retirement, I still take "breaks" at the time as I did when I was working. And yes, it's all about the snacks. At least they're healthier than they used to be.
Nah, your future depends on how you react when that invisible hand yanks the rug out from under you.
Optimism and pessimism are wastes of time. You have to find that sweet spot in the middle. Practical realism. Life doesn't give a cr@p about your optimism or pessimism.
RBF is very real! some of us really do have the 'stay away' attitude to match the face, but some of us are also very nice people once the ice is broken. we can't help that our face says otherwise
65 yrs old, just got back from a concert--wth, it ended by 11pm. no one else wanted to continue the party, meanwhile, i'm wide awake & rarin' to go!
My days of rising and grinding are past me. Now, I pull the blanket over my head and lovingly sink into a deep sleep.
I thought I'd accidentally switched to one of those plastic surgery posts, but it's not a person it's a doll
Hey, we're supposed to get 2nd and 3rd opinions for our health and come to a decision. Getting advice from others is like reading movie reviews, but the ultimate decision is ours.
What? Who do you think I am, some money-dripping celebrity who can afford a face change?
I have a confession to make, whenever I come up with a fake argument, it gets so heated that I start to cry 😭😭😭😭
I feel sorry for some of my neighbors. This is the last stop for most of us, so I can empathize when they cry. Sometimes, just putting a hand on their arm expresses the fact that I understand.
What do I do when life is going normally yet I still feel so miserable all the time. I feel like yeeting myself off the roof at least once or twice a week but I know I’m not going to. Therapy is too expensive and I tend to get better just before I start considering it seriously
Oh sweetie. I'm sorry you're feeling that way. We sometimes do that especially when we're young. I don't know where you are or if it will work for you, but look up Biddy Brunch Bunch on YouTube. It's a community made to reach people like you to have a space even if it's not in person.
Load More Replies...I always used humor as a coping mechanism in my life. I always say if you're not laughing you're crying
What do I do when life is going normally yet I still feel so miserable all the time. I feel like yeeting myself off the roof at least once or twice a week but I know I’m not going to. Therapy is too expensive and I tend to get better just before I start considering it seriously
Oh sweetie. I'm sorry you're feeling that way. We sometimes do that especially when we're young. I don't know where you are or if it will work for you, but look up Biddy Brunch Bunch on YouTube. It's a community made to reach people like you to have a space even if it's not in person.
Load More Replies...I always used humor as a coping mechanism in my life. I always say if you're not laughing you're crying
