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Generation X (or Gen X for short) is the Western demographic cohort following the baby boomers and preceding the millennials. They are the first generation to grow up with personal computers to some extent, thus defining what we now consider tech-savviness.

But in order to find out what it really means to be a Gen Xer, you have to ask those who know it better than others, the Xers themselves. “What is THE most Gen X thing?” someone asked on Ask Reddit and the responses started rolling in, revealing why and how this particular generation is unique.

From traits like quiet quitting to being the last ones to remember life before the internet, these are the surprising things characteristic to Generation X, according to people who gave it a good thought.

#1

Someone Asks "What Is The Most Gen X Thing?" And 30 People Dive Deep Down Memory Lane Being the last unreachable generation. There were hours where no one knew where we were and our parents has zero way to contact us.

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Danielle
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2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I miss this. People get upset with me now for being unreachable for a bit. I’m not a receptionist.

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To find out more about generational differences and what’s unique about Generation X, we spoke with Lauren McMenemy, a professional writer, journalist, and marketer with a burning desire to tell stories, to shine a light on society, to advocate for better mental health and self-care, who was happy to share some insights into the topic. Lauren is also a writing mentor and coach who runs workshops and training to help people get their words down right.

“I've never really been a believer in strict generational differences - we're all different in different ways! - but I do believe there is something to it when it comes to technology,” Lauren explained.

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    #2

    Someone Asks "What Is The Most Gen X Thing?" And 30 People Dive Deep Down Memory Lane Being old enough to remember (and appreciate) life before the Internet and cellphones but being young enough to transition into that world without a hitch.

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    #3

    Someone Asks "What Is The Most Gen X Thing?" And 30 People Dive Deep Down Memory Lane I'm just on that border between Gen X and the oldest Millennials but my sister is 8 years older than me. We would call the local rock station to request a song then sit there with a tape at the ready to hit record as soon as they played our song. Repeat that about 10x and you've got a nice mixtape.

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    #4

    Being able to entertain ourselves for hours. This came from being latchkey kids. I didn’t mind the covid lockdowns too much at all.

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    2 years ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I LOVE the lockdown. No mandatory social events to attend to.

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    “Gen X may not have grown up with the internet, but we did grow up with ever-advancing technology. The '80s were all about video games and the welcoming of computers into our homes, and it seemed every year there was a new version of Nintendo to covet. To me, that makes us adaptable and flexible - especially in terms of technology, but in general, too,” Lauren explained.

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    Lauren added that “we also had to amuse ourselves much more often - we were the 'latch-key' generation, with parents working full-time - so are less reliant on screens and can think through challenges with logic and precision,” she explained.

    #5

    Someone Asks "What Is The Most Gen X Thing?" And 30 People Dive Deep Down Memory Lane Remembering phone numbers.

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    Id row
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I still remember some of my childhood friends' numbers.

    Marcos Valencia
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I still remember a few phone numbers... including my grandma's, dead on 1989.

    Kathryn Baylis
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Carrying a little address book with all your friends’ addresses and telephone numbers in it. AKA the “little black book”, though they came in all different colors (I had a green one).

    Amy Ferguson-Shannon
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Yes and then in the late 90's I transitioned to a digital address book that eventually was replaced by my Nokia phone in about 1999/2000.

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    Rumple Schleppskin
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I still remember my grandmother's, best friends x2, parents and first girlfriends. I haven't dialed any of those in 30 years.

    Bob La Capra
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I used the phone number I had up to age 10 as a computer password for many years because in those days the first two numbers were letters. Jenny's phone number might've been Underhill 7- 5309 / UN 7-5309

    Loolie
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    That's a great idea. Gonna use mine too sometime.

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    Cassi Lyris
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    And your friends' birthdays too.

    Runs with scissors
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I waited for the Casey Kasem top 40 radio show on Saturday and spent several hours every few weeks to make my mixtapes.I banned my sister from our shared bedroom and sat by the radio to catch my favorite songs. It seemed like she always needed in and made noise when my most favorite song was playing. Infuriating!

    bkIllinois
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I still remember my childhood phone number!

    g90814
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I blame this on passwords.

    David Brown
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    People thought you were a genius back then if you could remember more than just a handful of numbers.

    onivdsrapowijap
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    No one remembering passwords anymore is a good thing. If your password is simple enough to remember, it's simple enough to hack. I use a password manager that lets me use a different 50-character password for all my accounts and I don't have to remember anything

    Baali Venomax
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I might be latch key generation but my parents didnt trust me. The only reason we started having a key outside was because Mom kept forgetting hers and getting locked out.

    Terri Martin
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Yep. And I still remember my phone number from 35 years ago 🤣

    Unaffected
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    And having 10-20 meters of cable to take the phone to your room to call your friends!

    Diana Pahule
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Yeah can't do that anymore. I have a pic of my phone # for when I have to fill out forms.

    Alexej Dvorak
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    To be fair, they were, like, 5 digits back then.

    AuntNéNé
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Specifically remembering the public swimming pool's payphone number, randomly calling to see who'd answer

    Marilyn Russell
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Yes I only know mine and my husband’s now.

    Jessica M
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    It's just crazy to me that I used to easily remember, at least, 50 phone numbers in my head, but now can't remember my own son's or mother's phone number!

    Shreeky
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Better yet having those in the lunch room at highschools back in the 90s and seeing a line of kids daily waiting to use the payphone at lunch🙃😂

    Jennifer Critchley
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    So you could call your parents and ask if you could go home sick before going to the office to call! I always wanted to tell my mom all of my "symptoms" and know that she was going to let me go home, before chancing her saying no to the receptionist in the office.

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    Kirsten Kerkhof
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I talked about this with my mother yesterday actually. We thought we knew so many numbers. Turns out we actually knew about three by heart (home, grandma, best friend, and in her case, work), and we had to use an address book or telephone book for the rest. I know three numbers by heart now (private phone, work phone, reception desk at work), so it is not that bad.

    Anon Ymous
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    That's because you were a kid and only needed to remember a few phone numbers. Our parents needed alphabetic address books to keep track of everyones phone numbers they needed lol

    John Hannah
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Still remember friends and exes phone numbers to this day

    Let’s Be Kind
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    When I was little, our area still used phone names, like “Trinity6” and then moved to names like “GL5” - no area codes either!

    SuperReasonabledoubt
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Solitude is so devine...my main goal is to have enough bread to become a recluse...

    Dudeman 612
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I never had nor saw a phone with that 4th column of buttons.

    Ozymandias73
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    OMG! I could easily remember everyone's number that I needed to. Now, the only number I can remember is my own.

    karma rose
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I'm a millennial and I still remember my childhood phone number and my childhood best friend's phone number. I make it a point to dial my husband's number every time I call him so I know it in case of emergency.

    Booklover<3
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Gen Z here. I know both my parents, my grandpa, and my brothers phone number. As well as mine

    Poeha
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I still remember my parents' and sister's phone number and they still have a house phone.

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    #6

    Someone Asks "What Is The Most Gen X Thing?" And 30 People Dive Deep Down Memory Lane Calling your girlfriend's house and hoping that her dad does not pick up. Kids will never know this fear.

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    #7

    Someone Asks "What Is The Most Gen X Thing?" And 30 People Dive Deep Down Memory Lane Massive CD collections neatly stored in binders for easy access.

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    Firstname Lastname
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    With another box hidden off somewhere with all the cases, because you still need them, but it's better than playing cd case Jenga.

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    Moreover, Lauren sees the Gen Xers as a bridge of sorts; “we can take the millennials' ideas and translate them for older generations, and can help smooth communication and ideological differences between them.”

    “We're also the forgotten generation, as the two generations on either side of us are such huge cohorts, which very much plays into the ‘slacker’ mentality of Gen X - we can get passionate, for sure, but it takes a lot to rile us up,” Lauren explained.

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    She also believes that Gen Xers are also used to be overlooked and making their own way, or being stuck in the middle. “As parents, I think Gen Xers are less ‘helicopter’ parents, more willing to let their kids make their own mistakes (but I say that as a non-parent!),” the writer and essayist concluded.

    #8

    The fact that our generation was kind if passed over. When I started my career, they wanted us to be deferential to older more experienced co-workers, “pay your dues and wait your turn!” As soon as we became more seasoned, they were like, look at all these amazing millennials and their great ideas! We’re like the Jan Brady of generations.

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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Then the owners saw the work ethics of those hyped millennials and went back to those reliant X's.

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    #9

    Someone Asks "What Is The Most Gen X Thing?" And 30 People Dive Deep Down Memory Lane Video arcade. Before Gen-X, graphics weren’t good enough, and after Gen-X, you’d play the games on your own home console. No other generation claimed them like we did.

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    #10

    Someone Asks "What Is The Most Gen X Thing?" And 30 People Dive Deep Down Memory Lane Swatch Watches.

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    Ches Yamada
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    2 years ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Aww, I love these. They had such funky designs! They still do, but I miss the one I found when I was little at a local park. No one claimed it so I got it. It was so cool.

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    #11

    Someone Asks "What Is The Most Gen X Thing?" And 30 People Dive Deep Down Memory Lane Always having a pencil in the car for the cassettes.

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    Alex Frohlich
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Born in 96, but still used these and VCR for a while, for old stuff until about 2014ish. I just used my pinky finger lol

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    #12

    Someone Asks "What Is The Most Gen X Thing?" And 30 People Dive Deep Down Memory Lane Be kind, Rewind.

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    Angela Turrall
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    You wouldn’t steal a car. Piracy. It’s a crime.

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    #13

    Someone Asks "What Is The Most Gen X Thing?" And 30 People Dive Deep Down Memory Lane Hair crimper, riding bikes with no helmets, buying smokes for my dad at the shop. Putting baby oil on and sunbaking (cause we were literally baking ourselves haha) doing whatever I wanted for one to two hours after school by myself cause parents were still working. Being allowed to roam the streets until almost dark. I forgot to add getting your hair permed curly.

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    Ches Yamada
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Ahhhh. I'd crimp my hair and then, for some readon, brush it out so it was all poofy. Lol

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    #14

    My kid called me a boomer, and when I told him, 'No, I’m Gen X,' he said, 'No one cares.' I couldn’t argue with that.

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    #15

    Someone Asks "What Is The Most Gen X Thing?" And 30 People Dive Deep Down Memory Lane The Sony Walkman.

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    Anyone-for-tea?
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Surely that should be a photo of the cassette version? I still have mine, and it works!

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    #16

    Someone Asks "What Is The Most Gen X Thing?" And 30 People Dive Deep Down Memory Lane Never getting mentioned in the news. It always goes from gen z to millennials to boomers.

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    Natalia Rubio
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    This is why I never remember which generation I belong to 😂😂

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    #17

    Someone Asks "What Is The Most Gen X Thing?" And 30 People Dive Deep Down Memory Lane What defined Gen X growing up was living under the constant threat of nuclear war. If you wonder why Gen X is defined as 'whatever,' it's because we believed that at some point in our future, we'd end up living, or dying, in a nuclear winter. The USSR was the 'evil empire,' and watching the succession of premiers being executed or disappeared confirmed that. So much so, that when Gorbachev actually started the process of Perestroika, I didn't believe it. I thought it was some kind of plot by the Russians to make us let our guard down. The threat of nuclear war was constant. The continuation of human life on the planet was not a given. I think there are many similarities between Gen X and the current generation (don't think it's Gen Z, but the kids currently going through elementary school). So, another 'whatever' generation growing up during COVID and the whole climate change crisis.

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    Ches Yamada
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I think for me it wasn't that I believed I'd die, but I was tired of living under a constant threat so: "eh, whatever happens, happens - I can only do so much to change the world". You can't worry all the time.

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    #18

    Telephone conversations. Like, calling up your friend and chatting for hours.

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    featherytoad
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Yep, we would see each other all day at school and then come home and talk on the phone for hours. My parents couldn't understand it.

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    #19

    Someone Asks "What Is The Most Gen X Thing?" And 30 People Dive Deep Down Memory Lane Mixtapes. Actual cassette tapes recorded on a boom box from songs on the radio. Bonus for Ramones tunes as part of the mix.

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    Hiker Chick
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    When a boy liked you, he gave you mixtapes.

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    #20

    Blockbuster on a friday night.

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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    And the ability to also rent the VHS machine!!

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    #21

    Someone Asks "What Is The Most Gen X Thing?" And 30 People Dive Deep Down Memory Lane Pong, space invaders, being the last generation to have to walk across the room to change the tv channel, being able to fix the tv by pounding on it the right way, getting the brown box for the tv and there only being 3 stations. Also being totally forgotten about by the other two generations. Like door mice.

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    BakedKahuna
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Only three TV stations and they weren't even 24/7 😂

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    #22

    Someone Asks "What Is The Most Gen X Thing?" And 30 People Dive Deep Down Memory Lane Reality Bites and Singles. Record stores.

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    #23

    The smoking section in a restaurant.

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    Tamra
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Yeah, I don't miss the smoking sections anywhere. The thought may have been nice, but the reality just meant the entire place smelled like cigarettes.

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    #24

    Someone Asks "What Is The Most Gen X Thing?" And 30 People Dive Deep Down Memory Lane Staying out until the street lights came on, riding your bike with a playing card in the spokes. Staring at that sweet IROC-Z down the street. First-generation CD players. Cordless phones. Skate City. FINISH HIM!

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    Danielle
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    My son still plays outside until the streetlights come on, and there’s quite some other kids in the neighbourhood too.

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    #25

    Quiet quitting. We've been doing that since the '90s, but they just called it slacking back then.

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    #26

    Someone Asks "What Is The Most Gen X Thing?" And 30 People Dive Deep Down Memory Lane Grunge music: Working with a handful of Gen-Xers and the only music they can consistently agree on is the Pearl Jam station.

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    Synsepalum
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Ugh, no. The Gen-Xer disagrees. Pearl Jam is terrible.

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    #27

    The Crow... Movie and soundtrack.

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    #28

    Someone Asks "What Is The Most Gen X Thing?" And 30 People Dive Deep Down Memory Lane Beepers. It felt so important to have one, even cooler if you paid extra for the voicemail service.

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    pico diablo
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Michael Crichton (under the name, John Lange) wrote about this in 'Binary'. The doctor who felt this way soon realized it didn't make him important, instead, it was an electronic leash.

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    #29

    Garbage Pail Kids.

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    Mad Dragon
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Trading cards that had kind of gross parodies of Cabbage Patch Kids.

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    #30

    Breakdancing.

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    #31

    Sun-In for hair. Feathered bangs. Blue eyeliner. Loves Baby Soft. Jellies.

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    Hiker Chick
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Melting your wood pencil eyeliner with a cigarette lighter and lining the lip of your eyelid, but being careful that you don't scratch your eyeball.

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    #32

    Trapper keepers.

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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I had one, once - my dad wouldn't pay out for a Trapper Keeper (I bought my own). To this day, I still wonder how I graduated primary school without it...

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    #33

    Watching mtv headbangers ball Saturday morning, ready to rec on the vhs when my favourite bands came on.

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    #34

    MapQuest printouts for road trips.

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    Ban-One
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    2 years ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    For me it was actually real physical maps. Bought at the bookstore or probably at the gas station. Unfold them to their true huge-a$$ size.

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    #35

    Using a payphonett to make a collect call with the intent of the call being declined. It's a messaging system that notifies your ride that you're ready to be picked up from the movies where you watched back to the future. Or from the arcade where you just blew a roll of quarters on super Mario bros.

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    Riani Kivela
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Will you accept a collect call from "Doneswimming Pickmeup?"

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    #36

    Blowing inside Nintendo cartridges.

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    TGHW
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Blowing inside ATARI cartridges!

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    #37

    Oregon Trail.

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    #38

    Columbia house collect notices.

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    Katy McMouse
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I got into a lot of trouble over those.

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    #39

    Valley Girl culture and talk.

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    #40

    Bartles & Jaymes. The original White Claw.

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    #41

    Someone Asks "What Is The Most Gen X Thing?" And 30 People Dive Deep Down Memory Lane Members Only jackets!

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    Mouse
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Members only hypnotizers · Move through the room like ambulance drivers.

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