50 People Take The Chance To Say “It Doesn’t Work Like That” About Their Jobs In This Thread
As you enter the workforce, it becomes pretty clear that most jobs actually involve a lot of busy work that might not be visible to the naked eye. A chef might spend all day prepping ingredients without “cooking” a single dish, while a teacher may spend more time grading papers than standing in front of a classroom.
Nevertheless, between mass media and just plain ol’ stereotypes, there are all sorts of misconceptions many of us believe about different careers. So what better way to educate yourself than through the magic of the internet?
A curious Reddit user asked “What's a myth about your profession that you want to debunk?” and professionals from across the internet gave their best examples. So get comfortable as you scroll through, and be sure to upvote the replies that taught you something new!
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Nurse: oftentimes we can't control death, only how we greet it, so for the love of God, do not refuse the comfort medication for your loved one. It's not going to [end] them, their disease is!! The comfort medication just help to ensure they have no pain or anxiety when they die. Let us help them so they don't die crying or trashing in bed, confused and scared out of their minds.
The hospice nurses loaded my dad the f**k up when he was dying and I'll forever be grateful for that.
Can confirm I want to be the farthest point available from lucid if I'm dying.
I'm fine with being lucid. What I don't want is pain and suffering or a slow death, and depending on the circumstances I'd gladly go out on my own terms and schedule.
Load More Replies...And anyone who says no to it because it might make them sleepy or not as lucid, taking time from your last days with them... it's selfish and about you and not your dying loved one. Prescription opioids, whether at the end of life or not, is about making quality of life more manageable and tolerable.
Back in the early(ish)days of covid, had a family that not only refused to accept the notion of comfort measures, but even anything that would help to reduce the patient's work of breathing. Respiratory rate was nearly @ 40 (on BiPAP) and family kept refusing the morphine because they were worried about them "becoming addicted." No matter how many times or ways we tried to convey the importance, they kept refusing. Pt was confused and disoriented, but her eyes conveyed this perpetual look of "help me." Please know that "Possible addiction" is not the f*****g priority when your struggling to breathe or at the end of life. That poor patient died and, because of their family, did so having suffered way more than a person ever should.
Load More Replies...Halodol. I've second guessed myself for years that the extra bump I allowed them to give my mom was a fatal dose but I know it actually made that last hour more peaceful. Flipping butterflies on the door.
I was likely a very small dose just to help her be more comfortable. They don't give large doses of that d**g alone to palliative patients, usually they're started on a combination of d***s designed to relieve pain calm the mind and body down. If they seem uncomfortable, they get small top ups as required. Please don't beat yourself up over it, it sounds like you looked after your mum well.
Load More Replies...So tired of the self-righteous " lord giveth and the lord taketh away " bible-thumping crowd that think you should have no say about when you want check out when you are terminal or what D R U G S you should be allowed to use for pain relief. If it's my turn give me that morphine and plenty of it!
God, this is so right. When my Mum was dying, the hospice nurse told me that it's harder for the body to die if it's in distress. Pain/anxiety medication quiet the brain and relax the body, enough so the person can go quietly and with serenity. She even told me not to hold back in her last days, if I felt she was in distress. I didn't and she was comfortable at the end - the closest she looked like herself in weeks.
It will tear your heart out to hear a loved one ask "Why is nobody doing anything to help?" as they are struggling with their last breaths. You will never forget the sound of those words. You will wake up with night terrors. You will break down randomly because the memory popped into your head. Let them go peacefully without knowing the impending doom.
I wish they'd done that for my mate Bert. Home hospice care minimal pain meds. RIP Bert. I hope you're burning up the clouds on your R1.
Geez, US home hospice. The Dilaudid and fentanyl flowed freely. We monitored Mom's doses but if she asked for more, she got it. I accidentally got blow-by from a fentanyl patch. No one wants that if they're not dying. public service announcement. Wear rubber gloves when dispensing meds to your hospice patient.
Load More Replies...People are so selfish when it comes to loved ones dying. The constant prayers to their God about keeping their loved ones alive. The refusing of pain meds that will help them die peacefully. It makes me sick! Let them go for them. It's not about you!
Former dog walker. Cesar Milán is full of s**t. Dominance training does NOT work for most dogs. It creates more aggression and fear. Positive reinforcement with gentle corrections is *so much better*.
Those alpha wolf studies? Total BS as well. Most wolf packs are family units. Your derp wolf/dog needs a dad, not an alpha douche.
Caesar abandoned that technique over a decade ago. Now he helps people to understand their dog better. The show is called Better Human, Better Dog. His technique is very gentle and focused on how most problem dogs are created by their owner.
I am not a fan of CM. He takes a short cut by conditioning and dominance instead of taking the time to get dogs used to certain situations and taking out the stress out of a lot of situations and issues. That leads to reappearing issues when the "training" is stopped or the owner is not as "dominant" as the trainer. I prefer a dog that doesn't feel the need to a certain behaviour over a dog that still wants it but supresses it.
Alpha training is like old school classroom teaching techniques, it can work well for some, ok for many and it really screws up a few. Just like with people, you have to use the style your dog needs because they aren't all the same.
Some episodes are classified here as animal cruelty and are banned. Tells everything you need to know about this "trainer".
If you're going to use a TV personality to base your approach to understanding another animal on, use Jackson Galaxy. The basis of how he observed and came to his understanding works for other animals too (methodology in actual approach varies). I understand my geckos because I took the Galaxy spirit with me. Also some people in the gecko sphere think they act 'dominant,' but they don't, because again, dominance theory is b******t.
Load More Replies...I know this might upset a few, but could we ease up a bit on voting all the puppies and kitties into the top three in every single subject? There are already plenty of articles dedicated entirely to fluffy cuteness.
As a professional canine (and K9) trainer, I agree basically. We use what is termed LIMA, Least Intrusive Minimal Aversion, where we want to understand WHY the dog does A or B or C, and work with his natural drives and individual personality to achieve the training goals as desired. Use the dogs own innate capabilities and drives to drive the behavior we require. And it works WONDERFULLY in almost all instances.
I agree that dominance training is bull. I see a lot of "dog trainers" on YouTube that do really stupid things just to "show their dogs who's boss". But a lot of what I learned from Cesar (and keeping in mind that I haven't watched his older stuff) has been a lifesaver in my house with difficult dogs. Stuff like not showing a dog that you're scared of it, and not showing anxiety on a challenging situation because it makes your dog anxious. I could never bath my dog or clean her ears or brush her teeth because she would freak t f out. I learned from Cesar to not give in and stop doing it (because she's freaking out and I'm scared she'll bite me) but to power through it and show her that I'm not going to back off and that it's not gonna be as bad as she thinks. Now she's fine doing all of those things. I'd never be able to do that without Cesar. And she's a perfectly happy and loved dog (and also clean and healthy), she's certainly not stressed or scared of me.
School Custodian here and we are NOT overpaid cleaners. What would you pay someone that can paint, Sheetrock, tape/mud, patch concrete/asphalt, operate/repair commercial landscaping/snow removal equipment, operate/repair commercial custodial equipment, restore various types of floors including vct/hardwood/carpet/tile, replace toilets/faucets, air filters, belts, trim/fell trees, shovel roofs, etc? Not all of us are cleaners/janitors, which are vital and underpaid as well. Some of us are Jack/Jill of all trades and you want to pay us peanuts? All employees of a school are important and administrators shouldn't try to balance their budgets on the backs of workers when I've seen an exponential amount of administrative salary and stupid purchasing decisions, not to mention unfunded mandates from the state.
I remember our custodian in elementary. Super chill old black guy with serious granddad/wise old man vibes. He was a very nice man.
Came here to tell my elementary school janitor story :) Mr. Herkimer was his name and one day a student was making fun of him. My teacher had been writing on the bored and stopped dead in her tracks. She whipped around and said "Do NOT talk about him like that! He works hard and deserves respect! " She was pissed and I still vividly remember it some 30+ years later. It was an important lesson.
Load More Replies...I'm a teacher. We're hiring a new custodian, the expectations are high. The person is expected to be great in dealing with kids (friendly but also dealing with teen behavior), welcoming for anyone who comes in, be very handy, etc. The person should be paid accordingly. Custodians are one of the most important faces of the school for the teachers and students alike. I still remember the custodian that worked in my HS better than the teachers. He was awesome.
The custodian at my old primary school (we just call them janitors) was one of the most popular guys on staff with us kids. He was the very definition of a gentle giant, always happy to help us out by retrieving things from roofs and in one instance a drain he crowbarred open just to get this kid's deck of cards back.
I'm a groundskeeper for a school district. We dig, we cut, we mow, we paint, we break rock, we lay concrete, we deal with plumbing issues, we move and put together/take apart furniture. We cut trees and limbs and haul them away. We work in the rain and we work in the heat. This is in texas. It's brutal and grueling work and no one appreciates us. No one thanks us. But if anything goes wrong? We get blamed. It's thankless and the pay isn't enough and we have to do the jobs of others who won't pull their own weight. They get the credit for nothing that they do. Before this I worked at an Amazon warehouse. This is still better.
Sadly it seems that nowadays the custodian don’t get payed enough and have barely any of these skills cause the ones that did shared higher pay, then they are over run by uncontrolled children due to inadequate staff. FUND THE SCHOOLS
It all depends on the school district. Stateside it's local property taxes and gamed district boundaries. Here in Ontario it's now provincialy funded yet the teachers union is one of the richest and most self entitled groups I ever had the misfortune to deal with. They cry about not being paid in the summer... their annual salary on average is now just short of 100k, class sizes are to big at 20 when 30+ was the norm, PD days because they can't do it during the summer. Etc etc etc Can we exchange ours for the ones that have managed to survive stateside?
Load More Replies...Is this a thing? Do people ACTUALLY think maintenance workers are overpaid? What the heck is wrong with people. I think they should be getting paid more than admin. (Yes, I work in a school.)
One event that taught me to always respect the janitor was when I stupidly left my school ipad in a classroom. That would not have been that bad but the teacher specifically told us not to leave anything important in the classroom since he was leaving right after class and was going to lock the door. This iPad was at the time the only device I had besides a phone that I owned and I wasn't allowed to have my phone during school. I realized partway through Break (and about 15 minutes after the teacher left) that I'd left my iPad in the now-locked classroom making it incredibly difficult for me to take the electronic test that I needed to take 3rd period which was a mere 30 minutes away. the classroom was a 10 minute walk from everything else on campus and my 3rd-period teacher was a huge jerk about people being late. I spent the first 10 of my precious 30 minutes getting to the part of campus my iPad was in. I spent the next 9 finding an adult who could call maintenance. cont.
Maintenance got there 5 minutes later and unlocked the door and got my iPad in about 15 seconds. For those of you who can do math, you'll realize I had about 5 minutes to make a 10 minute walk. except that the maintenance guy just had me hop on his golf cart where he sped off across campus and got me to class on time. That was probably the payout/karma for all the times in after-school care when my lonely friendless butt practiced their sweeping/mopping skills because the janitor was the only person who would talk to me.
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IT. Rebooting is NOT a waste of time and solves a remarkable number of problems.
Also, if I say to stop because it'll cause a fire... please unplug it, I'm not kidding.
I always reboot before calling tech support because I know that’s step 1 every time
And then they tell you to do it again, because people lie about it all the time.
Load More Replies...I do it every night, but I always have the same problems with my life in the morning 🤷🏻
That's how we fix the majority of issues with the VFDs and control systems we use where I work. Power down, wait 15 minutes for the capacitors to clear and restart. Problem solved 99% of the time.
Replying to Mark Alexander, have you ever seen a computer, much less used one?
Yeah, it's kind of annoying that you can't reply to people when they're down voted
Load More Replies...I wouldn't mind so much if it wasn't recommended again every time the call gets escalated, and it's already happened three times...
I work in IT and the amount of people that tell us they have already rebooted when they clearly haven't is ridiculous. I mean, we can tell when it was last restarted.
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People in minimum wage retail and restaurant jobs are not all high school dropouts or losers who wish they had gotten better educations.
Or cut to the chase and treat EVERYONE with respect and kindness!
Load More Replies...Nobody should make fun of anyone’s employment. They are out there earning a living, or trying to!
The minimum wage has not been increased in 15 years! This is inexcusable and unforgivable. But try to get it increased to at least a living wage, and a chorus of brainless a$s-parrots begins to squawk about $20 tacos and robotized fast-food joints.
Load More Replies...Fast food work is *HARD*, stressful, incredibly fast paced. Add to that a lack of respect from customers, entitled Karens/Kevins and even having food/drinks thrown at you. It is *not* easy, and at the end of the day, who to f**k do you think is gonna make your burger/taco/chicken/pizza if no one works there?
If you don’t respect what they do, don’t eat at fast food restaurants or shop in stores! Their jobs make it possible for you to get what you want.
I like to think, if it's acceptable for them to shop at, then it's acceptable for them to work at.
Load More Replies...I have 2 college degree and work 3 jobs and usmc vet I work where I'm comfortable
Still treat like @#$% by ...new college student hold mommy and daddy money
Load More Replies...Treat all employees with respect and kindness unless they give you a specific reason at that time not to
I remember walking past a woman whose kid asked her what the trolly attendants job was (they were just standing on the carpark), she told her kid that they work here because they can't get anything better .... I muttered "but it's ok for you to shop here" to myself. Anyone willing to get up and work everyday is doing just fine, who cares what it is 🤷🏻♀️
I can't stand how some think minimum wage work is simple and menial, and the employee is just doing one task the whole shift. Or that all retail and fast food jobs only pay minimum wage. There are people out there who decide to stay in the job because they like it. A lot of these jobs do give some raises to employees who stay long enough and/or get trained in various departments and positions. My job, for ex., it looks like I just sort through donated stuff and hang it. But what I'm doing is using my brain to determine what is acceptable to put out, and what must go into recycling and what goes into the garbage. I handle hazardous substances, such as human or animal excrement. I also have to keep up with the loads given to me, make sure I'm switching tasks with my teammates and changing departments when I'm needed elsewhere. I provide service to customers, contribute to sales, maintain safety and cleanliness in my department for staff and customers. No time for dillydallying.
Veterinary medicine is not a happy-go-lucky career choice where you get to deal with cute animals rather than people. Most of your patients are sick and/or scared, and every case involves a fraught negotiation with their stressed-out human.
Plenty that mostly aren't. Lab technicians, radiologists, pathology...
Load More Replies...IIRC, veterinarians are the career with the highest number of suicides in the US.
I never assumed it would be a happy career choice. Most people take their pets to the vet once an emergency happens (if the pet is even lucky - so many people online will ask for medical advice for a pet that absolutely needs a professional but the owner won't bring it in). At best it's for a yearly checkup and even then the animals are usually stressed from shots and other animals making noises, etc. People said I should have gone into vet school growing up, but from a young age I knew that meant dealing with a lot of loss of lives or pain and sickness in animals and that's not something I could handle emotionally.
Right? It seems logical, but as a veterinarian, If I gave you $1 for every person who came into my clinic and said (to myself or my staff) "I would love to have this job, you get to play with puppies & kitties all day!😍"" you'd have a giant pile of money to roll around in. It is an emotionally draining profession with one of the highest suicide rates, but I do truly love my job I love being able to help/heal/and be an advocate for those who are innocent & can't speak for themselves, but damn, sometimes I wish animals could drive to the doctor on their own because more often than not, humans are what make this job hard.
Load More Replies...I wanted to be a veterinarian when I was young...but, I realized I would not be able to handle the sad times...over, and over, and over. That, and the first time someone wanted be to put down their pet because they didn't want them anymore, I would likely have been arrested...
6-year-old me: I wanna be a vet! 10-year-old-me, after having a couple of sick pets: I could never ever ever be a vet.
One of my trainers was a vet tech, and it was dealing with people who WANT to save their friend, their life mate pet, and CAN'T, for whatever reason, was what killed it for her.
I could never be a veterinarian. Not only are the animals sick, they may have parasites you may have to handle. The animals are scared and want to attack. If you want a job handling animals at their best, maybe get into pet sitting.
Or, if you have to work with my cat, your patient is full of righteous, indignant rage because you had the audacity to take her temperature.
Ambulance Drivers, no such a thing.
There’s highly trained Paramedics that just happen to also drive ambulances. As well as dispense over 47 medications, IVs, cardioversion, defibrillation, cardiac pacing, 12-lead EKG monitoring, advanced airways, are able to perform dozens of medical procedures, etc.
There are still some places where local ambulance drivers are not trained paramedics. One of them (in France) helped me remove my motorbike jacket after a serious accident where I'd hit the crash barrier in the middle of my back while flying upside down... I had 9 fractured vertebrae and the moron actually helped me (in so much pain not thinking straight) twist around to get the jacket off. And they couldn't give me any d***s either. Thankfully a doctor arrived with morphine soon after, followed shortly by the helicopter.
Ouch. Lesson 1 is not to move anyone until the medics arrive!!
Load More Replies...Actually it is a thing. He may the second paramedic on the team, but ambulance driver is not just a regular Joe who has a driving license. Ambulance driver has to undergo extensive training in special driving techniques in all, including extreme conditions, and has to undergo yearly medical checkup and refreshment course on driving, at least in Poland. These guys are professional drivers first, paramedic second.
AND they deal / negotiate with those who are there in a state of shock / panic / anger / fear and every other emotion. Paramedics see the very worst and occasionally best of what humankind can do to itself or each other. I wouldn’t swap places with them for all the tea in China.
And of all the medical professions? So far my experience is that they are the most understanding and helpful professionals in that field. They work at the raw edge of things, and their insights should be extremely important to the first aid departments, because they've seen the circumstances in which a patient is found, however, unfortunately they are often sent away after they delivered the patient.
We have paramedics, advanced paramedics, and ambulance technicians here in the UK. Their training varies quite a bit, but they all drive ambulances.
Not all Paramedics drive ambulances... I drive a desk in the Emergency Operations Centre (EOC) managing complex incidents, but that's just me being pedantic...
Load More Replies...We have driver-only personnel here in Türkiye. They are nuts, which is necessary in our traffic.
Not only that, but they have to maneuver through high traffic at high speeds with all the clueless ‘a$$hats’ on the road.
Is there an "ambulance driver" stereotype out there? I feel like everyone knows these are paramedics...
Yes, that stereotype does exist. I have heard it from snobby nurses who never worked with an ambulance. I'm a retired nurse. I started in healthcare as an EMT-Basic.
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Anesthesiologist: you're not asleep you are anesthetized. When you're asleep and someone stabs you, you wake up.
I went to sleep in the hospital and somebody stabbed me and stole my kidney! I thought they were taking the p**s when I woke up. At least they didn't have the gall to take my cholecyst. Though one of them did have the nerve to ask me about my basal ganglia.
You actually have amnesia. Propofal(sp?) is called milk of amnesial for a reason
Well duh, does anybody really think it's just sleeping? Except for young kids? Obviously everybody just says sleeping as a matter of speech.
You'd be surprised. I had a lady have a wall-eyed fit in my clinic lobby because I refused to put her dog "to sleep" just to insert a microchip. After she called me every curse word in the book and loudly accused me of animal cruelty, I explained to her that anesthesia is a (hopefully) reversible coma that reduces brain activity to levels similar to brain-stem death. How could that possibly be less cruel than just a quick stick for a microchip? Yeah, I'm gonna tax your pet's vital organs just so YOU feel better about the needle. 🙄 To this day I have no idea exactly what she thought "to sleep" was because she stormed out 🤷♀️
Load More Replies...As long as everything goes right and you don't have atypical reactions to the anesthetic. Like processing it faster than normal.
Load More Replies...British spelling. American English dispenses with the second “a”.
Load More Replies...I have been told that I hold pretty good conversations when I am under for surgery. Nice to know I am not a babbling idiot hahaha
Teachers are NOT indoctrinating your children to be gay.
Nor do books about gay people or books that feature gay people. ............. If a "gay" book can turn your straight child gay, then shouldn't a "straight" book turn your gay child straight? ........ There's millions of books featuring straight characters; and yet I've never heard of a gay child being turned straight by one.
Nor are Drag Queens who just read kids the same books the kids are already reading in school.
Load More Replies...Omg, I could barely get students to read “Of Mice and Men.” Or do homework. How the hell would I convince them to be gay with everything else in the world telling them not to??
Why was that the book to read every year throughout Junior High and High School? Our teachers would get us to read the book, then show us the movie.
Load More Replies...Any more than they're indoctrinating your children to have brown eyes, or any other trait one might be born with.
They're not giving gender reassignment surgery either. That would be free healthcare and you know that isn't happening in the US.
But they are teaching your children, WE HOPE, to be tolerant of differences and accepting of people who look, talk, walk, speak differently from you.
Came here for the comments claiming teachers are doing this lol. Tell me you've never worked in a school without telling me you've never worked in a school. Honestly for 90% of us our goal is to try to make our students better people than when they walked into our classroom and to be prepared for what life might throw at them, the other 10% are just tired.
I think it's crazy that people think that teachers have time for that lol
Speaking as an unemployed disabled, most of us *want* to work, but society won't give us a chance.
I have an invisible disability, (Chronic Pain)and I can't work regularly due to the unpredictably of it. I don't know when I will have good days or days where the only thing I can do is sleep.
I have Chronic Pain and Fibromyalgia and I am the same way. More bad days than good for me unfortunately. /gentle hug
Load More Replies...Or they can't do it. My mom has CFS, which, so far, is uncurable. It's just that you're constantly exhausted. (And yes, it *is* an issue, and yes, it *is* a real medical thing, and yes, the PACE study *is* BS [citations and more info: undark.org/2016/10/27/chronic-fatigue-graded-exercise-pace/, statnews.com/2016/09/21/chronic-fatigue-syndrome-pace-trial/, theconversation.com/how-a-study-about-chronic-fatigue-syndrome-was-doctored-adding-to-pain-and-stigma-74890, virology.ws/mecfs/ (collection)], because you shouldn't change the criteria midway through so someone can HAVE NO CHANGE AT ALL BUT BE COUNTED AS AN IMPROVEMENT). Currently, ME/CFS is GREATLY underfunded, although Long COVID may change that. But stats from 2019 [content.iospress.com/articles/work/wor203173] have it as incredibly low. Part of that could be because its sufferers are primarily female. But you can't really hold a job when you randomly need to take off for several days at a time because you're so tired.
Chronic fatigue is horrid and I feel for your mom. I am still waiting to see if they finally will be able to figure out what underlying and unknown (and probably auto-immune) disorder causes this condition, I know people like to think it is "all in their head" and that is just typical when you know that it's mostly women who suffer from this. That said, most sufferers of auto- immune disorders deal with this incredible fatigue , which is probably caused by chronic inflammation. Yeah I am one of them as well and believe me when I say that in spite of the severity of the illness the worst, absolute worst part is the fatigue.
Load More Replies...Or if you do try to work you lose your benefits and won't be able to get back on them.
Exactly. If you are on government disability, you can NEVEr have more than 2000 in your possession or you loose everything and have to reapply. So if you have apaycheck of $2001 for a single month you are screwed (and no one can survive on that these days).
Load More Replies...My field is all desk work. In 15 years of being a hiring manager, I have yet to have a person in a wheelchair apply, although they would have no restrictions at all. It's strange. Did have a deaf person interview but they said they required us to hire a translator simultaneously so we passed.
Being in a wheelchair isn't the only disability. When a deaf (and therefore, disabled) person interviewed, you did not hire them. That is exactly what OP means. I also doubt your company would want to hire people with mental disabilities, intense neuroatypicality, dystonia, etc. And the people with disabilities know it. That's the reason they don't apply - not because they don't want the job, but because they are fully aware they won't get it.
Load More Replies...This is very true. My daughter is on disability. The discrimination is rife. She had a wonderful dentist. When she tried booking another appointment just after getting on disability, the receptionist's attitude towards her flipped 180. All she kept saying was "I don't know if the dentist knows how to talk to people on welfare." really loudly. Then she referred my daughter to the university dentistry program. I'm sure it's good, but my daughter felt apprehensive, as she's already nervous about dentists and was so glad when she found one who provided the care she needs. Just to have that dashed away because they don't want to deal with patients based on their income source. Thing is, we had been paying the dentist directly, and that was helped by family. Her disability would have covered her dentist bill. No uncertainty nor negotiating about the bill. Now, we're trying to find a new dentist for her. We're getting the same coldness with doctors.
Could I work? Yes. Will anyone hire me with my physical disabilities? No 😒 Even when I was working with my physical disabilities I worked remotely so the employer couldn't see how much pain I was in or that I was laying in bed doing my job.
My husband works at a college, helping disabled students get through their courses by giving help, either by the means of equipment (computers/ readers/ software) or by having a person to help them. It's getting harder to get the financing they need (UK) , and if there is no access to courses or training , there's less chance for the person to get a job.
Well some countries help. It can be hard for employers to know how. Agencies often will fund alterations and guide how to doit. In Australia the national disability insurance scheme is tax funded (free) and specifically funds this sort of help on a custom personal basos. If you cant fix a disability then you must consider how to make it work to benefit that person. .
Politics here. Presidents do NOT control the economy!!!
They might be able to have some minor influence, but you are NOT experiencing inflation, a recession, or an economic boom because of a president.
Congress has more influence, but honestly economies are just complicated.
Plan: block all intelligent reforms. Then blame the other guys for the problems. Looking at you, Republicans.
Magicrat thinks the left leaning are are the most hateful???? Has she heard the hate coming from tRump??????? And he can't even respect people by calling them by their actual name. Always a schoolboy bully type nickname.
Load More Replies...As exhibit A for the political "process" I submit Texas. Decades of republicans in charge and the republicans are campaigning on fixing probelms caused by democrats. If you've been in charge for that long and think there are bunch of problems that need fixing maybe you're the problem.
Ah, "Ted Cruz and the Ice Storms". Great children's book for all aspiring politicians on how not to respond to a crisis.
Load More Replies...Don't tell me facts! I didn't want to research candidates or platforms; I only want to vote on emotion. /s
That is partly true. A president or Prime Minister can only do a little to improve a country's economy but as Liz Truss, the former UK Prime Minister showed, they can do an awful lot to completely wreck a country's economy.
Yeah, it's always easier to damage than to repair.
Load More Replies...Prices are going through the roof here in Australia too. The government has launched an investigation into the big supermarket chains because it's gotten absolutely ridiculous.
Conservatives live in a small bubble of filtered distorted news. If they hear news that disagrees with their view, they ignore it or claim it is fake news. So they have no belief that the food inflation is worldwide.
Load More Replies...People need to realize it's not just their country that is experiencing inflation. So it cannot be possible for one country's leader to be responsible. It's many factors, and you will find yourself lost and in a bigger tangled mess trying to find out where it all leads. It's not the fault of one country, one organization, one company, one source. It's a collective and a general reason of pure greed.
A US President's effectiveness in office (or lack thereof) really can't be measured until they've been out of office for at least a decade. I sometimes call it the "two or three presidents later" rule.
Teachers have very little say in anything. We advocate the best we can but most of the time it’s out of our hands including holding children back who desperately need help.
In some countries they are. Even if school here in Finland has gone downhill too, being teacher is still an university-educated profession with a good salary. It's also a really respected position, and the teacher-education is really hard to get into.
Load More Replies...We need politicians out of education. The more involved they are the dumber our curriculum becomes. Let teachers teach.
You mean all education should be privatized? The world’s best education systems are all government-run. The fact that the government itself is dysfunctional in some countries, like the US, is a separate issue. But privatization only makes education worse, and the US is a perfect example of that as well. Fix the system as other countries have done — don’t just outsource it to the market.
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Trying to get a child held back who needs it can be almost impossible, especially if the parent doesn't want to believe that this might help their child.
It's gotten SO bad over the last 5-6 years (can't blame Covid on this). Parents expect kids to raise themselves while they(parents) stare at their screens. Worse, they expect teachers to teach them proper etiquette then b***h when the kids are reprimanded for acting out. Whether you like it or not if you, as a parent, fall into this category the local school is doing your job.
That is very true. One resource teacher tried holding my daughter back from graduating, despite her passing marks. The teacher, of course, didn't get her way after a meeting with both principal and vice principal, her guidance counsellor, outside advocate and disability workers, the social worker and other teachers present in the meeting. I'm very proud of her for advocating for herself in speaking up in front of all those people in the meeting. She graduated that year.
I’ve been teaching 30 years. Teaching is 1% what you know about your subject. 99% being calm, patient, and reasonable.
In many places in the US the upcoming elections aren't just about the president. The people who decide on things like that are voted in too. Just saying
There is sooooo much more to the speech-language pathologist scope of practice than working with kids who stutter or can't say their "r"s. An entire half of the field is in the adult medical setting working with people who have dementia, swallowing disorders, oral cancer, strokes, Parkinson's disease, and voice disorders, plus some other niche areas like transgender voice or accent modification. The pediatric half of the field also works with AAC devices, social skills, literacy development, syntax, executive functioning, writing, feeding, and more.
I learned that when my daughter had a stroke. Y'all need a serious rebranding marketing strategy. 😉
My mom had aphasia after her stroke, worked with a speech pathologist but the reconnections just never happened. But we had our own way to communicate with her
SLPs are of major importance when it comes to safe oral intake after stroke. Without their help, many recovering stroke patients would not be able to safely balance the need for oral intake with avoidance of complications like aspiration pneumonia. Definitely an essential (and much appreciated) part of the care team following acute stroke! Sincerely, a Neuro RN
And while we're on the topic of speech - you need a speech or language impairment to get speech services. you can't just throw it in there for funsies, there needs to have been an actual evaluation.
Yup. My kid had to be referred by her pediatrician. It's amazing what they notice that a parent will not be able to notice. I thought her reading and speaking was fine. But her vocabulary was more deficient and reading a bit slow for a kid who's been read to since infancy. I thought she was fine. But the Public Health Nurse and pediatrician said otherwise. I thought she would catch up on her own, however that can't be encouraged because Pre-K is looming and there are requirements for kids to be prepared. (Here, Pre-Kindergarten is attended the year before Kindergarten, and is required.)
Load More Replies...I couldn't say Js. So "jump" was "dump". How I got a speech therapist in my tiny Midwest village in 1985 still baffles me.
I wanted to become a speech pathologist. But I had to do a test before signing in. I've never met such mean docents/profs. They let me chew/swallow/drink/eat/reading out loud/sing and afterwards they said I had a problem with swallowing and pronouncing correctly Z, S and R. They said I was not capable to do these studies and I would waste their time. I was a young girl and stupid enough to listen. I was so dissapointed that I gave up my studies. I regret this very much, no one who stood behind me, believed in me or encouraged me. This still hurts.
Yes thank you for this! I’m an SLP that prefers working with the 0-3 population, but works with all kid age ranges. This includes pre- and post-natal strokes, a huge variety of syndromes, deafness, selective mutism, concussion, abuse, learning disabilities, deficits from being born too early, those that aren’t talked or read to and the families of all these kids.
my sister needed months of speech therapy after a traumatic brain injury (car accident) and coma.
Bartender here. No I am not hitting on you, I just want a good tip and maybe a nice review with my name so boss knows I'm working hard
Either I give off f**k off vibes or it is just that I've never been to a bar in the US but most bartenders I've met does not seem flirty. They are mostly friendly and professional.
Maybe you've been fooled by BP's complete inability to choose a suitable photo, but the OP is likely female, and men (even when they aren't drinking) can be very good at thinking a woman who's simply being friendly is flirting.
Load More Replies...Best bartender ever, I went to see a friend's band and sat at the bar for a 45 minute set. B asked if I wanted a refill, I mouthed "One's my limit, driving." There was ice water in front of me immediately (looks better for the establishment to have a drink in front of people). But, no attitude, a smile and instant water refills. I left him a $10. It's not about the money...I was just there a short while to support my friends and greet then go. But it was so thoughtful.
Never do I ever think a server is hitting on me. If anything, I can tell when they try way too hard for that tip.
Women bartenders in particular (in any workplace, for that matter). I am not smiling at you because I think you're cute and NO, I am not coming on to you. I smiled at you because that is my job. Get the f*ck over yourself.
Yeah, but bar staff are constantly around people who have been drinking (and who therefore have lower inhibitions). Those people are not as good at interpreting social signals. However, that doesn't explain why air stewardesses have to fend off advances all the time - they ARE just being friendly. No, wait, it's drunks again.
Yup. They smile at you because that's called customer service. They wear whatever clothes they want because fúck you telling us what to wear or deciding who we're wearing it for.
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Maintenance is worth doing and definitely worth paying for.
"I don't know why we pay those maintenance guys, nothing ever breaks around here."!!
The reason Germany and Japan (and South Korea) became and remain such manufacturing powerhouses is because they know the value of maintenence. If you keep everything in clean good working order, you end up with minimum down time. Working maintenance into manufacturing schedules keeps output level, because you have no unexpected downtime.
It's the same for your car or your home. Setting aside time and resources for maintenance means you won't lose unexpected time and resources when things break. Good maintenance will spot things before they break and switch them out. That's worth paying for.
Yeah, well, germany has stopped doing that and guess what, our bridges are breaking down, railroads and interstates are constantly out of order...
lol i remember times, when germans were so proud of their highways.. now it´s a slugfest to drive through this country.. shame.
Load More Replies...There's a quote from Futurama that I love about this. "If you do things right, people won't be sure you've done anything at all."
I really wish my boss understood that. Nice place, good people and we do amazing things. But aging machines without any maintenance plan is catching on us. Increasing down time and it's never at a good time...
Yeah, I've had bosses like that, can't convince them that we need to take a machine offline for an hour or so to fix a minor problem now or we will have to take it offline for days to fix the problem when it gets worse, and it will get worse.
Load More Replies...North America has a high replacement mentality. It ends up being expensive and potentially dangerous. I like that homes are given as examples. I'm currently in the middle of moving because the suite I've been living in and trying to maintain in my power has become a losing battle. The mgmt doesn't want to properly inspect any of my concerns. They don't want to go aggressive in eradicating the pest problems, nor repair damage from pests. They ignore water leaking and refuse to locate the source. They refuse to replace the linoleum and carpet that mice have peed on. They say they will do repairs then never come back. My faucet is corroding. The water has been coming out yellowish, and sometimes green. They don't want to find out if the pipes are copper or not, cos if they are copper then they will have replace all the pipes in every suite, and that is too costly and inconvenient for them. I'm leaving before the government forces the immediate shut down of the building.
As a Maintenance girl, could not agree more, must of my work is planned preventive maintenance, we look after things before they break down.
Same with a good IT department. If they are doing their jobs right everything works well.
I get this all the time as an IT guy, "Why do we need you, when everything always just works !"
This is also why having a functional health service is good for the economy. Keep your populace well-maintained and they will be productive. Even Victorian industrialists knew that.
Nursing is a profession, not a devotion, calling, whatever other b******t they tell you.
Yes, it’s an honor to care for people at their most vulnerable, but stop telling people they’ll be a terrible nurse if they say they became a nurse because of the job security or semi-decent wage.
And they can do just as good a job, or even better. Choosing any job because it's what you always wanted to do doesn't mean you will be good at it.
Load More Replies...Got into nursing because two liberal arts degrees didn't provide a living and my Army Reserve unit needed LPNs. Went on to RN. Ended up really liking it.
every time someone glorifies nursing, motherhood or anything else, they just want to feel better and make themselves forget that these things include a lot of s**t society burdens people with. Not enough nurses, not enough support for parents - but hey, it's a "calling", so they are living the dream... :(
On the other hand, you ARE a terrible nurse if you became one for the power-trip.
The first part of a work/life balance is earning enough money at work to have fun in life!
People need to have empathy to be a nurse, regardless of salary, especially in aged and hospice care.
Professions are labeled a 'calling' so they have an excuse to pay less.
Nurses are either the kindest most compassionate person you ever met or a power-tripping asswipe
I am a public librarian. While curating books is still a portion of the job, much of it these days is taken up by database assistance and training, program development and teaching, and public education. It’s much closer to school teaching, but for adults and without grading homework, than it was in the past.
I live in a small town, and our local library is absolutely wonderful. Checking out books is a small portion of what our librarian does. She applies for grants, stays current on different interests, and sets up programs for the community, anywhere from toddlers on up to senior citizens.Thank you to all the librarians.
Librarians, especially small town librarians, are awesome.
Load More Replies...Around here they also have to deal with d**g addicted homeless poeple looking for a place to get high
Forester.
I am not the one who actually cuts and hauls the trees, that's a LOGGER. If you have a problem tree you need removed from your yard or trimmed, you need an ARBORIST.
My job is to create and implement management plans, cruise timber for volume and defect, and mark trees for the logger, among other preparatory and managerial tasks.
Furthermore, my presence does not mean that a forest is being clear-cut (hardly ever). "Clear-cut" does not necessarily mean the complete removal of every tree in an area. Most importantly, the cutting and removal of trees is not automatically a bad thing; more often than not a forested area needs to be thinned to encourage growth/production, increase carbon sequestration efficiency, and reduce fire risk.
Forester, logger, and arborist. Tree jobs are mentioned in this story.
I was going to sarcastically applaud you for your ability to count...then I got the joke 😆.
Load More Replies...I also heard that Arborists have to disinfect there garden tools so they don't pass infections from one tree to another.
That is very true. Tree diseases can devastate a large area of trees and be passed on to others in different regions. Winnipeg has a Dutch Elm Disease problem and we have lost many trees from that illness.
Load More Replies...I live in colorado, my dad works for the city. He trims trees, plants them, cleans up the city, sets up for parades, cleans up afterwards and so on, anyways he comes home early from work. Never ever does. He's very hard working and twidles his thumbs if he's not working or keeping busy lol he's mad and he ended up almost cutting his leg off while trimming trees with a chainsaw. Funny part he was so mad about his Ariat jeans. His favorite. Not the 200+ stitches in his leg but the jeans lol sorry way off point of this story but reading this made me think of it.
And since CA and some other BLUE States are NOT thinning their forests, they are having all these horrible FIRES!!!!!
There's a great show on Amazon Prime called "Sandi's Wood". Sandi Toksvig and her wife, Debbie, purchased an ancient 40 acre woodland in Hampshire. It's fascinating to see what a little TLC can do to help nature along.
Yes! And culling animals, (responsibly!), while heartbreaking, can be necessary to ensure they don’t die out from disease, lack of food, etc, in an area with finite resources.
"As a forester, I have nothing to do with deforestation." And if you believe that, I've got waterfront property in Florida to sell you.
I'm an accountant. Whenever people jokingly talk about the good looking people in the office, it's always "Lisa from accounts".
As an accountant, I wish to point out that most of us look like a bulldog chewing a wasp.
The Crimson Permanent Assurance is a very jolly firm.
Load More Replies...There is a huge difference between being an accountant and being someone who works with accounts.
I always thought that 'Accounts' was a sales position. Like you hire people who are good at convincing others to work with your company (so attractive and charismatic) - I'm thinking advertising execs not number crunching when I hear 'from Accounts'. I might be totally off on that though.
My sister-in-law is a qualified accountant with a double first degree in maths. Can't do basic arithmetic for sh!t
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I am a stay at home dad and former NICU nurse.
No, I do not sleep all day as a stay at home dad. No, I did not get to play with cute babies all day as a NICU nurse.
I would imagine being a NICU nurse is very stressful. Like another panda said above, all medical professions have some degree of stress to them
That's a job there's no way I could do. Sick me? Fine and dandy. Sick kids? I don't deal with that well.
Load More Replies...My husband is a stay at home dad and doesn't get the credit he deserves from a lot of judgmental people. I work from home, so on top of the ignorance about what a stay at home parent does in general, there are people who think my being there means we're both essentially coasting all day. But my job can be intense and stressful and it's not uncommon for me to work a 10-12 hour day, some days longer even than that. It requires my full focus, so childcare is almost 100% on him all day long - plus he takes care of me by making me meals when I forget to eat, etc. It's a lot. We're both working hard.
From seeing NiCu nurses when my kid was in there, it seems to be 90% trying to find veins that'll work and ensuring the oxygen doesn't get ripped out (babies really want to grab!). The other 10% is paranoid levels of cleanliness as even a simple cold can take away those fragile babies.
If a baby is in NICU the baby has serious problems. Unfortunately, some of these babies don't make it. I can't imagine what it must be like to see babies pass away.
Are people really that stupid to think a NICU nurse can play with babies? If the babies were healthy enough to play, they would be home with their parents, or at the very least at the normal children’s unit.
My now 19yo was in NICU for 2mos. I can assure you they do not play w the babies! They do hold them like footballs tho.
I couldn't imagine being a NICU nurse. My first daughter was born 6 weeks early, 3lbs 10oz. She was in the NICU for 3.5 weeks. During that time, 5 other babies came in...Of those 6 total babies, only my daughter and a little boy who was born 9 weeks early made it. I would be heartbroken working in it.
No. You work yourself into exhaustion, doing everything under the universe, to keep those VERY SICK babies alive. Most of those very sick babies have tubes and wires going into their tiny little bodies. In every place you can imagine - and then some. You go to work every day knowing you won't be able to save all these sweet little ones, and there's NOTHING you can do about it.
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Therapist here- specifically couples therapist
Therapy is not just about venting or having someone agree with you all the time to make you feel better. Yes we validate and listen and venting happens at times. But we also challenge you, encourage you to set goals and make change, and sometimes give “homework.” Therapy is an active process and if you want to see change you have to be willing to make change. I think media has really warped peoples ideas and they expect miracles to happen by showing up without any effort. I wish I could do that for you! But I need you to partner with me to make things happen.
Also- very few therapists actually have you lay on a couch
A therapist who only listens to you and tells you what you want to hear is not doing you any favors. it's just a paid friend at that point.
Had a paid 'friend' like this for 10 sessions. Didn't address the issues at hand and it was just me crying for the whole 10 sessions. Couldn't even give me a straight answer when I asked about my progress and how to proceed. I know he can't give advice but there was no guidance to help figure it out myself and nor did he challenge me. First psychiatrist I went to was the coldest and briefest consultation ever. I was feeling dead inside anyway so didn't bother me much at the time. The recent psychiatrist I went to spent time getting to know me and it was a warm experience. New psychologist I have is great and challenges me and I get homework. I'm slowly meeting goals. Finding the right mental health professional is like dating. You have to kiss a couple frogs before you find 'the one'.
Load More Replies...Also, most psychiatrists are NOT THERAPISTS. I hate that Hollywood keeps perpetuating this myth.
Yes psychiatrists follow the medical model mostly and are more about medication than any talking or behavioural based therapies.
Load More Replies...Oh man ive been through my share of therapy and actually on it now but anyways there was a therapist I once had for a few sessions that I ended up changing cause she was acting more of a friend. Anytime I said something she would compare it to something in her life, kinda tit for tat thing, she would ask me to go to lunch with her, says she's getting together with the girls and would often invite me, maybe it was just me but I found that very unprofessional and I'm there for help not a over paid friend.
Completely unprofessional and inappropriate. She should be reported.
Load More Replies...I like the idea that someone else can listen to me and validate my feelings or challenge my beliefs (especially with myself) without having an agenda like family & friends have. Sucky part of therapy is needing help but not being able to afford help. And no, 6 sessions in a year that health insurance pays for will not be enough for me to be normal, lessen my anxiety, get to the root of my current issue.
Sertraline + Buspirone was really effective for my anxiety. They might be able to give you refillable prescriptions so you don’t have to have too many sessions.
Load More Replies...If the first therapist you see doesn't feel right, keep looking! Maybe you have to visit a few but keep looking until you find one you feel comfortable with. My husband and I finally found someone wonderful who has helped us immensely but it's work. You have to be willing to make changes.
I’d say give it a few sessions unless it’s a blatantly bad fit. Things were a bit awkward with mine at first, but as I got more settled in it got much better. We work really well now.
Load More Replies...Mine let me pick whichever seat I wanted, and then sat in the chair that was facing me.
Load More Replies...Also, if you lie to the therapist, don't be surprised when the therapy doesn't work. I've known so many ppl in the past who lied and said it was weird because they'd been in therapy for so long and it just didn't work for them, whereas it started working wonders fpr me after about a month or so. Just tell the truth, folks.
The only therapist that ever made a difference for me was the one that gave me the tools to change.
That’s what they’re there for. Anything else and they’re wasting your time
Load More Replies...And we NEVER say "how did that make you feel?" That really gets my goat 😡
old school therapists definitely said this to me. but we are talking in the 80s and 90s
Load More Replies...Keep looking. The good ones absolutely don’t take it personally if you want to switch to somebody else. And if they do they aren’t good ones. (ps I think you’ve just coined “needa” as a new compound word. Like “another”)
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If you go to the ER via ambulance, it does NOT mean you will be seen quicker.
ERs take the sickest people first, definitely not the ones who come in by ambulance first.
And then there is the opposite situation of people who really need an ambulance but are too stubborn/proud to call one. I worked as a nurse in a hospital emergency department and saw this a few times. One time a man called us and said he was on his way to the hospital and that he was having a heart attack. We knew he arrived when we heard the loud crash as his car hit the concrete wall by the parking lot. But he did survive.
I didn’t decline the ambulance ride for stubbornness or pride. I declined it because I was in no position to pay off a 4-figure debt.
Load More Replies...English person here - I just want to clarify that we DO pay for the health service, including ambulances. We do it as taxes, not as insurance. It costs us much less per person, but it ISN'T free. I have never understood why Americans are so against socialised medicine when they pay for so many things via taxes, just like us. Schools, libraries, public parks, roads and bridges, fire and police services etc - they are all funded by taxpayers collectively because no individual can afford to pay for their own.
A favorite tactic of the Republican party here in the US is to cut spending to public services like fire departments, schools, road maintenance, etc., but for years, with things in those institutions getting progressively worse over the years. Then they say that obviously the government can't run the services efficiently, so they should be turned over to private industries. That's how we ended up with privatized prisons, that are hot beds of corruption.
Load More Replies...I used an ambulance just once in my life. I shouldn't have. It cost me $1K, and I make less than $40K a year. Next time, unless I think I am actively dying, I will move heaven and earth to just get a friend to drive me. ... Guess which country I live in? :P [I will add on another note that the paramedics who picked me up were a fricking delight. Nicest guys ever.]
It's not you who "shouldn't have" called an ambulance. It's the ambulance that "shouldn't have" cost you $1K... or even a penny to be fair.
Load More Replies...Wasn't there a story on here once about a guy who actually tried pulling that to get seen quicker at the emergency room? Just actually called himself an ambulance?
Pretty sure I read that here, too. Also folks, don't say you have chest pain just to move ahead in line. When the lie gets discovered, they'll send you back to the waiting room. Watched it happen a couple of times.
Load More Replies...In America only the very poor or very rich can afford ambulances, the rest of us try and avoid their use.
It used to mean that years ago when the only reasons people used an ambulance were for serious health issues and not for minor reasons like scraping a knee or stubbing your pinky toe. Unfortunately so many have abused using an ambulance to get seen first in the ER, it has changed to how it is now. Only the sickest people are seen first as it should be anywhere.
They've made an emergency inquiry service here, where you can call and tell the symptoms and they telll you if you need to go to the er and how or if you just need rest or see a doctor. Btw I got from a walk in to a hospital bed in less than an hour for being sick enough. (sepsis)
3 days on a trolley with a smashed ankle after getting hit by a car. Can confirm.
OBGYN.
Childbirth *absolutely* can and does changes the caliber of the vagina. The entire field of urogynecology wouldn't exist if that weren't the case.
TwoXChromosomes and other women's empowerment places on the Internet love to say everything goes back to normal after delivery. It's not true and it doesn't make you an anti-feminist to acknowledge the realities of pushing a 10cm diameter, 9lb sack of potatoes out of the pelvis.
This messaging detrimental and causes patients with incontinence and prolapse not to seek help.
This is NOT to say that the "husband stitch" is a good thing...or even that it exists. I've literally never heard of it being performed outside of the Internet, and a partner has only asked me about it once in my entire career. (my response was: "Do you need it?")
I agree with everything except for the husband stitch not being a thing. That s**t really happens
I was overstitched (accidental... it was a trainwreck at the time down there). No fun for anyone when hubby can't fit.
Never heard the vagina being mentioned in calibers, but now that I have I am never going to look at my black powder rifle in the same way again.
Can, folks. It is important to be honest about possible problems and provide adequate treatment for these women --all the best to each one of them. No body shaming there please. On the other hand, there is a good chance of no permanent damage due to childbirth. Like a lottery...let's be honest and sensitive, but it's not all worst case.
I have intermittent sciatica, a cystocele and a rectocele because of pregnancy. Fun story: I'm a retired labor and delivery nurse. I was helping at a delivery and while the OB was repairing the perineum, the husband asked him to "put an extra stitch in." The OB, without missing a beat, said, "Why, are you that small?" Total mic drop!
If you manage control, pelvic floor exercise when you are still you it can become an issue later in life . I'm 58 and since menopause am beginning to lose some control
Hubby asked for an extra stitch after the first birth. I told him to get the divorce papers ready, then told the Doc to stitch me up completely to keep the F****R out. Neither happened, obviously, and we are still together after 25 years and a second child! Lesson was learned!
Logistics is a vital component of our society.
Everything we touch, everything from the doorknob of your home to the oil in your car to the coffee shop to your desk to your commute to your bed has employed around 10 people.
More if it’s food related.
Logistics wins wars and ends them.
Take a banana -
From the planting, fertilizer, cultivation and harvesting involves about 8 different types of transportation, warehousing, storage, distribution and delivery.
On average 17 people will physically touch a banana before it’s eaten (and very few people wash the outside of a banana)
I’ve been in logistics for years, previously a break bulk specialist with my area of expertise being Russia.
It’s a very interesting career
When I look at mass produced cheap junk it breaks my heart because of the logistics it takes to get it to the store and presented as an option to me. The amount of resources used to produce the junk, the amount of people hours required to get that junk to me is astounding. Just for 90%of it to end up in a landfill...truly depressing.
Getting a degree in supply and logistics management really did open my eyes to the sheer complexity of the supply chain. Nothing is ever a 2-step process any longer, and rarely does it take fewer than 10 steps between raw materials to product in your hands.
I occasionally will tell people “the supply chain is never coming back. Not like it was before”. It was 2-300 years incrementally building it up piece by piece. And then it all crashed to the ground (or technically the water I guess). We don’t have the luxury of growing the chain in tandem with the growth of the global marketplace again. It’ll be a perpetual game of catch-up, or at least until I’m long gone.
Load More Replies...UPS and Amazon delivery requires a complicated algorhythm to determine the shortest most efficient route to delivery hundreds of packages. Some brilliant mathematician came up with that formula.
My grandfather worked in an import/export business in NYC and had to visit the docks on a regular basis. The one fruit he wouldn't eat was bananas because of dock workers and where they 'aimed'.
You don’t need to wash the outside of the banana. You don’t eat the outside. As long as you don’t touch the flesh with a hand that touched the peel, you won’t be ingesting any external contaminants.
That all lawyers make absurd amounts of money. The ones that won't sell their entire life for big bucks tend to make pretty average money.
That makes sense, my lawyer when I got set on fire was super loaded, but I asked about his life outside work one day, and his wife had left him with the kids as he was too dedicated to work and helping people genuinely seek justice, he had no friends and no hobbies and nothing but his work 24/7. His payouts were massive, but he is a superhero
I had to go to a lawyer because the strata destroyed my huge, roof-top deck to get to the roof underneath, and then told me to replace it. I spoke to a lawyer, pretty much told him what to write (because he seemed stumped), which he did, and for which he charged me $2,000 (back in 2010). For a letter. Which I dictated. Research has, moreover, clearly shown that a significant portion of the population cannot access justice because of what lawyers charge. It's also widely known that justice has more to do with how wealthy you are than the specifics of a given case.
Being a LAWYER just means you graduated from LAW SCHOOL. To PRACTICE Law you have to pass the BAR, and THEN you become an ATTORNEY!!!! Attorneys MAKE 'pretty average money'!!!
so it is either absurdly high, or absurdly low... or absurdly average
Ejection seat mechanic. Goose would not have died in Top Gun. The canopy explosives can malfunction but moving at the speed that a Tomcat moves at would’ve ripped that canopy off and Goose would’ve escaped without perishing. Obviously done for dramatic effect.
I always wondered why they wouldn't put the explosives in series with the seat motor. No explosives, no rocket seat
Because it’s better to eject through the canopy than ride the bird to the ground because the canopy failed to seperate.
Load More Replies...If memory serves, that sequence was inspired by an actual seat malfunction during the development of the Tomcat prior to it entering service. You are right about the air stream pulling off the canopy, though. What's also wrong is that someone in a flat spin is "headed out to sea." If you are in a fat spin the only direction you're heading is down.
You are forgetting that the Tomcat was in a flat spin. The canopy stayed above the plane due to the fact that it no longer had a forward velocity, instead of being blown backwards. It's based on fact. Multiple deaths were caused by it. That's also the reason why the British fighter jets use explosive cord in the persplex canopy. They don't eject the canopy before they eject the seats, but rather eject the seats through a hole blown in it
In the real incident the death of Goose was based on the guy broke his leg.
I think you forgot that they were in a flat spin. So the Tomcat was not moving forward enough to blow the canopy out of the way. Yes, I have seen that movie way too many times.
Daylight savings time isn't for the farmers, please quit blaming us.
Can we all just agree that daylight saving time serves no real purpose and stop changing the clocks.
We’re not blaming you, we’re blaming the governments who won’t get rid of it!
I always thought that was such a dumb excuse for it - like the cows will care what the clock says when they need to be milked.
It means that cows who usually get milked at 6am in the summer need to be milked at 5am in the winter.
Load More Replies...My father in law was a dairy farmer and he never changed his clocks because the cows didn't know what time it was.
Other excuse usually trotted out in UK-so Scottish schoolkids can walk to school in daylight.....
I'm from Danmark and I know that even with daylight savings I still had to have lights on my bike going to and from school, and when I couldn't find my back light I had to skip first, and sometimes last lesson.;)
Load More Replies...My father in law was a dairy farmer and he never used to change his clocks. He'd say "The cows don't know what time it is."
Biomedical/bioinorganic chemist: no, there's not harmful levels of metals in your vaccine. HOWEVER, you absolutely should get your drinking water tested for lead, arsenic, mercury, and all the other nasty metals. Harmful levels of lead, for example, are common in cities and with well water...
Covid was all just a ruse because they needed to replace the batteries in the birds!
Might have a bit of extra limescale in certain areas because of filtering through all the chalk, but a little chalk in your water won't kill or even really harm you, so drunk up that lovely, cold, refreshing (especially in winter) tap water in the UK!
Load More Replies...Genetics are so diverse that an injection that has no problems for thousands of people can still do serious damage to a select few. There really isn't anything you can inject into your body that can be guaranteed safe for everyone. That goes for pretty much any kind of medication. So although side effects may be relatively rare, they should not be dismissed as non-existent.
God, people are stupid. My stepdaughter won't speak to us anymore because I was upset to hear she wasn't having her precious little one vaccinated. She married a MAGA Moron and has drunk the Kool-Aid.
Water Quality expert here, if you are on private well water absolutely have your water checked for toxic metals. If your water's pH is below 7, pay particular attention to lead and copper. Also test regularly for Total Coliform bacteria and nitrate. If you are on municipal water, your water supplier does a ton of testing, which they have to make available to you. But you still want to check your water for lead and copper coming from your plumbing.
If your plumbing was installed in the US after 1987 it most likely will not have lead solder
Load More Replies...when i was house shopping i learned that something like 80% of the wells in my area test positive for arsenic. i'm currently on a community well that supposedly filters for it, but i also filter my drinking water again just to be sure.
Teacher here..Specifically Preschool/toddler..I DO NOT PLAY ALL DAY!!! I am engaging children, making moment by moment decisions and keeping children safe.
I've worked with small children myself and if you think one or two are a handful try managing twenty of the little devils at once with just one other person to help! And that's when you're not even trying to teach them but just make sure they're all fed and safe and not (to give a random example) attempting to hang themselves with a piece of string tied to a drainpipe. I've never run so fast in my LIFE. (EDIT: These were kids aged about five or six and I was just an assistant who did not have any say as to whether they were allowed to have access to string, or anything else. They were just doing it as a "game" and were quite indignant when I freaked out and put a stop to it).
Not a teacher but saw two middle school boys wrestling out side a school building. One had the other in a head lock and was bending his head sideways. I work healthcare and freaked out. Early teens just have no idea of the damage they can accidentally do to each other. Teachers do not get paid enough at all. And in the state of Texas the schools don't have to cover any of their health insurance costs.
Load More Replies...Also, if people DO play with children, that doesn’t mean it’s fun, especially with toddlers. Have you ever played with a toddler? Their games make no sense and they easily get upset about the most unexpected things. Playing with a toddler is something you do because they love it, not because you love it.
I helped out in a Kindergarten one day when I was in High School. It was not enjoyable. Most of the time I had to help out kids clean up their spills, figure out why they were crying, set things up and generally sit and watch the kids to make sure they're paying attention.
and i am grateful there are people like you to do this job. love my kids/grandkids, but not cut out wrangle more than 2-3 at a time, nevermind 15-20!
Anybody with young children should know taking care of just one is exhausting, frustrating, sometimes mind-numbing. Multiply by a classroom and it should become obvious teachers/daycare workers aren't having playtime all day.
Let the people who think you play all day work one day in a daycare. instant mind change.
I can write code. I cannot debug most of your windows problems without googling them.
You lost me, so I had to use my own Googling skill, since I was only familiar with the first definition of that word -- so I learned something new today! or·thog·o·nal adjective 1. of or involving right angles; at right angles. 2. STATISTICS (of variates) statistically independent.
Load More Replies...You have to do your research on the sites to make sure they're giving good instructions. Some sites will give you instructions that will turn your problem into a bigger problem.
I write code as a daily job AND I fix Windows problems as a secondary activity. I don't really understand how a pilot can know nothing about mechanics.
Do you want the pilot to inspect the jet turbines for stress fractures or should you leave that to the experts? I manage Linux servers and know some Windows and Mac but I am not the right person to diagnose involved issues.
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Performing in a touring band is hard a*s work and a myriad of things can lead to depression and burnout. Also, crew on tour (sound engineers/TM’s/merch people) are what keep your favorite musicians from imploding and having fights on stage. If you see one at a show, thank them too.
Being a roadie is truly hard work, particularly on the really large productions. Include theater, dance, ice shows.
🎶 cause the rockers rock, but the roadies roll 🎶
Load More Replies...I'm amazed at artists who can put on the same performance over and over and over with the same level of enthusiasm and charisma. That can't possibly be easy.
Those are the ones that play for the fans, not the money. Iron Maiden could have all retired decades ago, but they continue to show up instead of collecting their pensions.
Load More Replies...I spent the 1970's on the road in ten different bands. When they were tight smokin' bands, it was a lot of fun. Egos, interference from wives and girlfriends, alcohol abuse, and jerk leaders of the band were some of the forces that broke them all up.
Having to sing for an hour or 2 every night can wreck havoc on your voice. You have to plan tours and anything can happen you can't predict but know is a risk. Such as getting sick. People already paid for their tickets so the pressure is on to decide if you're well enough to perform, or should cancel a show and reimburse pissed off fans. You have to pay for all the equipment, maintenance, staff, venues. Some places don't just allow a band to play for free. They may reimburse costs paid depending on how everything turns out. You have to go into it accepting the risks, knowing what is worth the risk and not worth it, and for the love of music.
Sound / stage manager here. More truth has never been spoken. Studios too. It's often like hearding cats.
Family member was guitar tech for the big rock / metal acts, he was in demand due to his skill / knowledge. He spent most of his year away from his loved ones, rarely saw the countries he visited and days off on tour were rarely spent sightseeing. They were spent catching up with everything that had been happening at home. Yes he went to some amazing places and was involved in some epic events but he worked bloody hard for his wage.
Hospital lab workers DO exist! No really! The lab isn't just a black hole where tubes go in and results come out, but there's people inside making that happen!
They also come and draw blood at 3 am so the doctor can have the results at 7 when they makes they make their rounds.
Our old hospital had a train communication system. The little cars ran on a track inside the walls with an exit at every nursing station. Things went into the train boxes at one station and came out where they were supposed to go. My blood sample got off at the wrong station, the nurse called the lab to ask why the results were not back yet and they hadn't gotten it. So she had to take another sample and they sent it to the lab with a person and not on the train.
And we get paid for it too. Been doing it for 42 years. I'm still love the job. We do things now that were science fiction when I was a student learning them filed.
Exactly, there are people in there making things happen. This can be applied to other areas of work as well.
Just try not to startle them, it gets kinda isolated in that lab/black hole
idk... I've had some of my blood tests go missing before... xP (ok it was only twice but still)
I've often wondered why the lab is always in the basement. That might be why some think it's a black hole.
I was a Domino's manager for most of a decade. Nobody seems to know that we actually stretch and top the pizzas by hand. I used to make hundreds of pizzas a day, every day, just to have people think we reheat frozen pizzas. On top of that, we were required to be able to make a large pepperoni (from stretching the dough to sliding it into the oven) in under a minute. I was making pizzas at breakneck speed for people who thought I did nothing all day but reheat frozen food.
The bread sticks, cheesy bread, etc. were also made by hand. The pan pizzas were made by hand. Anyone who came in to the store could have watched me make their food and known how much work I actually put into it, but most people ordered for delivery or stepped outside after they ordered or just didn't pay attention.
For my 30th birthday party, I decided that I would make homemade pizza for everyone. I was really into making homemade bread and beer at the time. It was kinda fun, and the pizza was delicious, but it was so much work that I didn't really get to enjoy my birthday. Everyone else had a good time, but I never had a chance to make the pizza I wanted because I ran out of dough. However I did get a slice from every other pizza. But I still don't recommend any one doing that. Between the cost for ingredients, and the time I spent cooking, It cost more than if I had just bought pizza from my favorite pizza joint instead.
That’s the thing that keeps getting glossed over when people say, “You can make it better at home,” about any restaurant food. If you don’t have the experience or the equipment, you probably can’t, and many food items will cost you more to make at home because restaurants buy most staples in bulk and so get lower prices. The average home cook can’t do that except with non-perishables because you won’t use it all before it goes bad. Sure, routine stuff can be cheaper at home, and many chain restaurants and fast-food joints don’t have the really skilled cooks in their kitchens, but a properly prepared, high-quality restaurant meal is usually going to be better than anything most people could make at home. (Doesn’t mean you shouldn’t try if you want to, but don’t kid yourself that what you’re making is automatically better than what you pay someone else to make.)
Load More Replies...Same. I see so many people hating on Domino’s here on BP, but where I live, it’s unanimously the best pizza you can get. Whenever we have friends or family over (who don’t live in a Domino‘s delivery range), they beg us to order from Domino’s.
Load More Replies...I remember field trips to Dominoes and seeing how the pizzas were made. We got to make our own pizza dough. That was one of the best field trips.
When I drove for Domino's 30 years ago, the dough for everything but the pan pizzas was shipped in preset sized lumps of dough, and was stretched by hand. The pan pizza dough was literally stacked, already formed and partially cooked. Just had to top them.
Archaeologist. The myth that most of the stuff we find is financially valuable. I’ve had literally hundreds of people ask me to look at the tiny stone tool fragment or the s****y piece of pottery they found because they think they’re gonna pay off their mortgage. Buddy I have bags of 100,000 of those things sitting in the lab.
And location context is -everything-. If you have an arrowhead and know where it came from, you know something about who was there, and when, and why. If you have an arrowhead and don’t know where it came from, you have an arrowhead. “There were arrowheads” is already common knowledge.
It’s also gruellingly physical work and you’re not guaranteed to be digging in nice weather. It can be cold, rainy, and muddy or bakingly hot.
Oh, you are definitely not digging in nice weather. It's hot, sweaty, dirty work. Often with mosquitoes and other bugs.
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Load More Replies...But museums put them out in glass display cases like they are worth millions.
Social worker here. We do FAR more than just take kids away from their parents. Child protective services social workers make up such a small percentage of us social workers. We work in so many different fields. (i.e. geriatrics, medical/ hospitals, criminal justice, government, foster care, domestic violence, schools, hospice, prisons, the list goes on!)
Many with advanced degrees, shite for pay and very little acknowledgement but we tend to love what we do.
Six years of college for a starting salary of $24k (1999). It's better now, but not by much. Except at the VA. There salaries are so high they become "golden handcuffs." No one else will ever match your salary (or benefits).
If you grow up with no contact with social workers and also playing Sims you get conditioned to think that social workers are evil. And it kind of takes a lot to unlearn that.
I studied social work for a little bit in college. CPS wants to keep children and families together.
I can't help noticing you regularly get downvoted. Maybe you should think about why that is.
Load More Replies...Massage is not sexy, professionally. If you want a sexy massage...idk, do it with a partner or a sex worker, not your physio.
I got a neck and shoulder massage on a whim and thought it'd be relaxing! What I actually got was a muscular young man going at my own muscles for 15 solid minutes in a way that was actually quite painful. I didn't start feeling relaxed until *afterwards*, and the soreness lingered for at least an hour. Definitely nothing sexy about it, but boy did it work out those knots.
When i was about 22 or 23, i was in the houston galleria shopping mall, and there was a tiny little old asian man with one of those upright massage chairs giving shiatsu massages' $20 for a 15 minute massage. Guy looked like he was about 90, little wisp of a thing....but two minutes in, my entire body was POURING sweat. Incredibly painful, but the good kind of pain. Furthest thing in the world from relaxing in the moment, but once it was over it was the first time in about 8 years, and the only time in the 20 years that have followed that i didn't have any back pain.
Load More Replies...I got a massage from a professional masseuse (not a physio). It felt amazing... for the first 15 minutes. Then I started getting uncomfortably overheated, and when I left I realized I had a migraine. Turns out that massage increases bloodflow, and for some people, increased bloodflow can trigger migraines! Who knew?
I guess this is where I mention that a few months ago there were some news articles online about this woman here in Denmark who works as a masseuse. She was so upset because ppl thought she was some kind of prostitute because one of her offers is a testicle massage. She was very serious that it is not a sexual thing. That, sure, some men ejaculate from the massage, but it is not a sexual thing. There are just a lot of nerve ends in that area and so much tension down there because too few men get these sorts of massages on a regular basis. This is not a sexual thing, folks. At least to this woman.
Reminds me how late 19th-early 29th century doctors treated hysteria with 'massage'.
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Commercial aircraft are built almost entirely by hand. Like 96%. There's very little automation in the process.
If you mean built as in assembled, then yes. If you mean fabricated, then no.
I’d say it’s inferred that they don’t process the iron ore and synthesize the plastics on site with thier bare hands
Load More Replies...The same is true of their fighter jets. I got to tour the non-classified area of the F-16 plant at Boeing, where most of the body is assembled, and it was amazingly quiet and sedate on average, not the stereotypical high-speed factory. Skilled sheet metal workers at dozens of stations, spending more time cleaning and inspecting than bending/cutting/riveting/whatever. Of course, massive government contracts no doubt more than cover the expense of being slow and careful...
Yeah? So the 17,000 employees Boeing just announced they're laying off are all administrative positions? I mean, we already know they did away with the entire quality control department years ago, so...?
I’m not seeing the connection. They didn’t do those layoffs because the workers are being replaced with automation. They did it to arm-twist the strikers who are objecting to pay cuts while the C suite gets bonuses for losing money hand over fist, and destroying the company’s reputation.
Load More Replies...The best part of this is the low failure rates it produces. And yet, increasingly we tend toward automation in other areas. It's for profit, not for quality.
Depends on the company. The Boeing manufacturing process doesn't sound so great
Load More Replies...I'm a security guard. The myth that we don't actually have any power is false. We have the power to call the real police if there's real trouble. 😁
Everyone has the power to call the real police if there's real trouble.
Neighbor working as a security guard told me, "They don't pay me enough to directly confront that burglar, so I pretend I think he has reason to be there, calmly continue my rounds then call the cops as soon as I'm out of earshot."
Did this for a while waiting for my divorce. Bank guard: orders were to hide behind a pole and get a good look at robbers. Most of the time was moving drunks along. (Market St, San Francisco, 1970)
I’m close enough to face blind that I’d make a terrible witness. If a particular feature, like the shape of an ear, can’t be precisely described with one or a few words, I can’t remember it to recognize it. And since I can’t visualize, I can’t call it up in my head and give a sketch artist “warmer, colder” feedback.
Load More Replies...I respect security guards, but I understand that they are primarily there to deter opportunists, and reassure civilians/workers. They aren't sufficiently trained or paid to tackle serious threats and should not be expected to. If you (as a civilian) wouldn't leap in to confront a burglar, drunken aggressive customer or similar, then why do you think someone who is just you (plus a laminated badge) going to be happy to do so?
You have the power of Perceived Authority. The uniform and badge have a psychological effect on people, even those that sneer at you for being a “rent-a-cop”.
They also have the power to take down a fleeing felon before the real police arrive if necessary. They can also do first aid and are very good at it. I scalded my hand and part of my chest with hot coffee, the paper cup split for some reason, security was called first and 3 officers showed up, one had his first aid training he treated my burns then every 30 minutes or so one would walk past my desk and check my wrist to see if I should be going to Emerge. At noon when my shift was over one came for one last look and said I could go home. But come back to Emerge if it starts getting hot again.
No offense to your profession, but I'm pretty sure we all the "power" to call the cops if there's real trouble.
If I'm at an event, I may not be paying attention to an intruder.
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Professors sit in cushy chairs all day thinking important thoughts, publishing stuff nobody will read, spending zero effort on teaching, and lighting cigars with wads of grant money.
The reality is we're all frantically trying to keep dozens of plates spinning at once, desperately begging for the money needed to pay for basic supplies from granting agencies with a
…with a <10% success rate, inundated with b******t "service" that the admin foists onto us, and sometimes get assigned classes literally less than two weeks before they start.
When I was teaching, there were times when I was assigned classes the DAY they started! In a case like that, you are just one week ahead of the students.
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Nail tech here. We are not uneducated or lacking intelligence. In order to do the job safely, we need a deep understanding of product chemistry, anatomy, and must able to recognize a ton of diseases and disorders that impact the hands and feet. In the US, we are also required to have continued education on these topics.
We also aren’t being greedy by charging higher prices. We not only have to purchase way more products for our services than other professions in the industry, but we also have some of the highest product costs. So no, we can’t afford to provide a LUXURY service with quality products, keep up with our educational requirements and also charge $20 for a full set or a pedicure. If you find a salon charging that low, run. They are absolutely cutting corners somewhere, and it’s anyone’s guess as to whether that cut comes from low quality products, safety, sanitation and disinfection, or labor law violations. For transparency sake, I am on the low end of pricing in my area and a full set starts at $60 and a pedicure starts at $45. At those prices, I’m barely making more than minimum wage after overhead.
Same with hair dressers. The amount of different bits of science you need to know is mind boggling.
I never complain about the cost. I always take it in consideration any little extra thing I would like. The salon I got to charges extra for French nails, and another fee if you want a double French. There's a fee to use extra tools, for ex. cat eye effects. My infill includes 2 solid colours, mani, oil and hand massage. That is all fine and dandy with me. Since I'm well acquainted with nail art, as I used to do all that myself, taking hours, it's a no-brainer that, of course, nail art will cost a lot. I'm usually surprised my salon doesn't charge more for art. There is also the time constraints. One nail tech I had was spoken to about taking 2 hours on my nails, and that was largely because I had a design in my head with no reference pictures. She did a good job, though.
Want to know a crazy regulation? I worked as a Podiatry Nurse for years, when I retired, I thought I would continue by providing home care for homebound people. After looking into State regulations I was informed that I could not provide nail care unless I went through a 1600 hour beautician/nail tech program at a beauty school. How crazy is that???
As a customer, I can tell you that a spa or salon mani/pedi is worlds away from the cheaper boiler room style mani/pedi. The higher priced services are relaxing and rejuvenating and seem to last longer than a cheap nail joint.
Anyone who is providing a physical service for someone who's capable but lazy should have the freedom to charge whatever they see fit.
The reason I don't go anymore is because of the upsell BS. A simple Mani-Pedi $45. Oh, do you want your nails TRIMMED and filed (WTAF) $10 more, What? You want your cuticles pushed back? $10 more. All that should be what a mani-pedi entails. For $45 I guess they expect to just sit there and look at your toes. I can do them at home, thanks.
I must have been to an outlier nail tech then... because, you see... I thought that they were everything described here. I remember asking the tech questions as I was s/he was applying the basecoat/colour/whatnot... and everything was "I don't know." or " look, who knows, go ask someone else, like a doctor or something" (I was asking about possible reasons for things like nail ridges/yellowing, anything they knew, since I figured of course, they'd know more than I would) - nope... nada... they just got irritated with me.
Scientist (more specifically, molecular biologist in biotech).
I am not hiding the cure for cancer, and idk s**t about actual medicine.
Pharma companies aim to make money, like any other company. Its lack of regulation of insurance that's the tragedy. If anyone could cure cancer or heart disease nothing would stop them selling it. Its plain expensive and unpredictable to even try to find new treatment. The body didn't evolve to be logical, understandable or fixable. The complexity is hard to fathom, even for someone who spent their life in the field. Trillions of moving parts per cell, trillions of cells, in a spatial and temporal organism. Per individual...
There's over a hundred different types of cancer, there's no way to make a singular "cancer cure". There are vaccines that prevent some types, and there are some promising treatments in testing for other types, but they're all very specific.
Load More Replies...Blocking patents have prevented access to lower prices, sustainable, healthier, and curative products in the US for over a century. There were a myriad of inventions and discoveries that were blocked by industry giants, military, and political interests over the past 100+ years. Learn about what isn't in the history textbooks.
Easy. Four years for a Bachlors and another 4-7 for a Ph.D studying esoteric scientific subjects. Medicine has nothing to do with gene sequencing or Cryo-EM microscopy.
Load More Replies... Bartender.
We're not short pouring you. The glasses are different sizes.
Light ice = more mixer, not more alcohol.
No, I'm not giving you anything for free. If you were someone I liked enough to do that, you wouldn't have to ask. Also, if I do indeed give you something for free, it's not free, it's just gonna be me paying for it.
No, I can't take a picture of your ID. I need to see and touch the ID. Would you try this at the DMV? No.
And if we ask you for ID don't get upset -it's a compliment!! And don't get upset with us coz you didn't bring your ID with you. No matter how old you are you should always have your ID on you in a licenced premises
Last time I was asked for id I was almost forty. Of course I thanked for the compliment
Load More Replies...when I ask for light ice, I am not trying to get more alcohol/coffee for free. Very cold beverages hurt my teeth.
I once had someone suggest I leave my post, walk down the street, and talk to her employer to verify her age. Grow up!
and don't forget my particular favorite (which can apply to more than just bartending)--no one is worth losing my job for to get caught giving the owner's stuff away for free. Short of millions of $$$, your promise of making it 'worth it' or tipping me 'extra' doesn't pay my bills long term
Yes! people thinking they will get s stronger drink when the request "less ice" is hilarious. Doubly so if they have that "you're not gonna fool me, bartender" look on their face when doing so. They really be thinking they outsmarting. Gawd it never gets old lolol
Print industry - your paper isn’t as recycled as you think it is.
Check out Penn & Teller's assessment of recycling, they don't exactly recommend that it's the best idea to recycle paper.
take that show with a grain of salt though- they've retracted some of them like the one on climate change and secondhand smoke
Load More Replies... I doubt this will be popular, but here goes… Not my profession anymore, but I sold diamonds (for engagement rings primarily) for a number of years, and have three separate certifications of expertise.
TLDR: diamond rarity is a more complex topic than people realize, and they are incredibly expensive to produce. Diamond companies have done s****y things in the past no doubt, but the stone itself gets a bad rap for no reason. Besides a sapphire or a ruby, if you put anything else in an engagement ring it will inevitably break regardless of how “pretty” you think it is.
The idea that diamonds are worthless, or should be much cheaper than they are, is incredibly misinformed. People talk about them being “common.” As in, there’s a lot of them mined out of the ground. That is true in a technical sense, but reflects a lack of understanding. 90% of diamonds that are mined are industrial grade and not suitable for jewelry. Of the remaining 10%, about 2/3 to 3/4 are of such low quality that you won’t ever see them being sold (color grade below K-M, clarity below I1). For people who don’t know what those grades mean, color has to do with the presence of nitrogen in the carbon chains that makes it look yellow and clarity is about imperfections in the crystal formation. The price of poor color and clarity jewelry quality stones will be accounted for later in this comment. Of the remainder, they get much rarer as they approach being “perfect” (D colorless, FL flawless color/clarity respectively). Size itself plays a huge factor, because while it’s true that numerically a lot of diamonds are mined, only about 1% are a carat or above in weight. I did the math on this once, and a flawless, colorless, 1 carat Diamond is a 1 in 10 billion stone. Really changes the understanding of what makes a diamond “rare.” Most diamonds also have some degree of fluorescence, which is as undesirable trait, so add in no fluorescence and it gets closer to 1 in a trillion.
However, all that aside, there’s elements of pricing strictly related to diamonds as a commodity. The cut quality of a diamond is absolutely crucial to how it looks and how it sparkles (no one wants a dull diamond). Cut quality is graded to microscopic specificity when it comes to angles and proportions (literally hundredths of a millimeter can effect the symmetry grading). As you probably already know if you read this far, diamonds are also the hardest substance on earth. Long story short, it takes an extremely skilled individual with extremely specific and expensive equipment to cut and polish a diamond and there are not that many of these people left, either. As you can imagine, they are paid very well, and that cost is incorporated into the stones.
There’s also the matter of sourcing the stones (before I get anything about bLoOd dIaMoNdS do some research, it’s not the 90s anymore. If you wanna talk about child labor in Africa, you better never consume chocolate, African coffee, or basically anything made over there at all). Anyway, back to the sourcing. Diamonds are mined out of kimberlite shafts, which go deep underground in the sides of volcanoes. They take about 10 years and a billion dollars to build. So there’s that. 90% of the stones mined are sold for industrial use in bulk for not a lot of money, so for it to even be economically sustainable, the money needs to come from somewhere just to cover costs of mining. Then cutting, not to mention the cost of transportation around the world in armored shipments.
Everyone commenting here seems to have missed the point this OP is trying to make. It's not about liking or hating diamonds, it's about what makes them expensive, rare and valuable which he explained very well.
However, it has been documented that diamond producers such as De Beers in fact DID stockpile diamonds in order to drive up demand and prices, and not just once, but quite regularly. I assume this still happens.
De Beers has lost much of its influence in the diamond market since the dissolution of the Soviet Union in 1991. Nowadays their stockpiling will have a rather limited effect compared to their monopoly days.
Load More Replies...Thank you so much for this. As a gemmologist it drives me nuts how often people keep insisting diamonds are not rare and have no value.
"If you wanna talk about child labor in Africa, you better never consume chocolate, African coffee, or basically anything made over there at all." So you agree, child labor is being used to mine diamonds? Knock it off with the whataboutism. The more products of child labor we can stop buying, the better, and that includes diamonds.
They aren't doing whataboutism. They are saying that you SHOULD boycott coffee, chocolate etc if you think that child labour is bad (and it is). They are saying that you can't reasonably get upset at the diamond industry for using child labour if you support other industries that also do so - you either have to call them all out or accept that you are a hypocrite.
Load More Replies...The champagne diamond scam ought to be mentioned. They're basically the rejected brownish discoloured ones remarketed with a glitzy name.
They did briefly mention something about discoloured diamonds as being less desirable, or rare. Any flawed diamonds being remarketed as something to be desired comes down to the marketers. I see it as a way to do something with the refuse, trying to make some profit from it, instead of just tossing it in the waste pile. This is a common business tactic.
Load More Replies...It's a sparkly, obscenely priced rock. over 120 million carats of diamonds are mined each year. 20-30% of those diamonds are considered to be gemstone quality, and 3-4% of those are 1ct or greater....so i really don't know where you're pulling your math from. But even if everything you said were taken to be true, lab grown diamonds are 65-85% cheaper and where mined diamonds produce 57,000 grams of emissions per CARAT (a carat being equal 2/10ths of a gram) mined, lab grown stones produce 0.028 grams per carat produced. That someone has developed a difficult skill, which is thankfully dying off....isn't a justification for the environmental impact, the manufactured scarcity, nor the 10-20x markup applied to finished jewelry pieces, when that "value" disappears the second you take it into your possession. Diamonds, and everything about them outside of industrial use, are terrible....stop defending a century old marketing campaign.
1948: De Beers 'A diamond is forever' campaign invents the modern day engagement ring https://www.thedrum.com/news/2016/03/31/1948-de-beers-diamond-forever-campaign-invents-the-modern-day-engagement-ring
Im not saying diamonds are worthless but I am saying that they are so overinflated and a huge scam. The proof of this is THERE IS NO SECOND HAND DIAMOND MARKET unless you are talking about huge flawless Elizabeth Taylor type diamonds. If diamonds had actual value and not overly inflated value due to societal pressures your diamond wouldnt loose 2/3 of its value as soon as you buy it. I am not just talking about the ones you buy in a store in the mall Im talking about going to a diamond dealing and picking out a good diamond and having it set in a custom ring. You will never get even close to what you paid for that diamond back because it is an artificially over inflated market.
Get moissanite. Almost as hard as diamonds and more sparkly. And a tenth of the price.
And made in a factory under horrendous circumstances using an incredible amount of energy 🤷🏻♀️
Load More Replies...I know that quality jewelry diamonds are rare and expensive. But personally I would prefer a lab grown stone if I have to accept a ring with a stone on it. But I will choose a smooth ring over one with a stone set into it.
Marine biologists do NOT get to play in the ocean for 90 percent of their careers. Tons and tons of desk work, data analysis, report writing, etc.
What about when Kramer drives a golf ball into the ocean and it gets stuck in the bowhole of a whale?
That is an easy question. The great Marine Biologist George Costanza to the rescue!
Load More Replies...I was so disappointed when I found that out later in life, having grown up with Jacque Cousteau specials, etc as a kid!
Engineer here. We can’t fix everything. I’m mechanical, I know enough to stay away from electricity, not enough to fix most electrical problems.
Engineer here as well. "Electrical engineering degree" does not mean "qualified electrician."
I did Pro-audio and synthesizer repair for 38 years. We once hired a guy with a four year electronics engineering degree. He could design an amplifier, but had no clue how to even trouble shoot the simplest failure in that amp.
Load More Replies...As an electrical engineering technician for over 30 years & I can not fix a set of Christmas tree lights to save my life.
My grandfather was an engineer at a factory. But all my mother told me was that he was an "engineer". Which to me as a kid meant he drove a train. I was very disappointed when I found out the truth. :)
I'm a network engineer - I can't fix computers.... BUT - I can help if your WiFi is having issues.
Engineer is the general term. The prefix will tell you which field of engineering.
Engineers are trained to design things. Sometimes, this training will also provide some experience in fixing, but not necessarily. And different types of engineering are not interchangeable.
My husband is a nuclear engineer. He calls an electrician when we need something electrical done.
That's why you have toolmakers. To fix what engineers have worked on.
I was a tandem skydiving instructor for a bunch of years. For some reason, people thought that I was an adrenaline junky and risk-taking, pass-on-a-blind-curve guy.
I just worked my way up to a pretty easy job that became mundane and boring 99% of the time. The only time it was adrenaline inducing was when something went wrong. It’s not the type of adrenaline high anyone would seek out.
The vast majority of people will never go skydiving, rock climbing, whitewater kayaking, caving, or a bunch of other things. That doesn't keep plenty of them from having wildly uninformed opinions about the actual risk or the mindset of those who do engage in those things.
I get car sick just being in the passenger side. Roller-coaster rides equal sickness. Just going down a fast elevator makes my head spin. No planes for me. Free fall? I would have to be anesthetized!
Boring is good. Gotta be damn careful in that industry. A friend of mine's son was an extremely experience skydiver who died after his chute failed mid-jump. My friend wasn't the same after that.
That is what keeps me from skydiving. It could happen to anyone, no matter how rare it can occur.
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Fashion design is not glamorous. It has glamorous moments, but is mostly a catty corporate mindf**k and the 2nd biggest industrial polluter, I think. you might have a nice colleague here and there but in general people and management tend to be f*****g AWFUL. 4/10 stars, do not recommend.
Duh. Paris doesn't exist. It's all Hollywood CGI. Have you ever seen a movie or TV show set in Paris where someone who lives in the city CAN'T see the Eiffel Tower? No, because they all can. Because it's fake.
Load More Replies...Can confirm. It’s more akin to app design with Phillip morris like ad campaigns.
Has any of the contestants actually made it big since being on the show?
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Load More Replies...That's why I design and make clothing only for ME. And the occasional family member.
Board game inventors aren't usually multi-millionaires, nor are they all broke with a dream. Many of us just make some extra yearly cash that helps with the daily expenses.
A Polish board game "Kolejka". It's a great game about shopping in the communist era, when there were shortages of almost everything - meat, sugar, toilet paper, shoes, soap, lightbulbs... Not fun to live in such world, as I remember. But that game is both fun and broadening horizons.
Load More Replies...I need to know what game that is with the tiny little people?!!
Me, my brother, and my dad have thought of two random board game ideas, and we're trying to sell Suit and Fry (I jist drew a fry with a tux when I was seven and it became a thing wtf) to Exploding Kittens. If they take it maybe they'll take the coliseum race idea
The infrastructure, services, applications, and database platforms of even the largest global companies are all held together by hopes and dreams.
In many cases it's text files and excel held together by hopes and dreams.
In fairness many of the worlds “premier” business software uses lots of text files for configs etc. excel is a bit of a stretch though.
Load More Replies...Don't get me started on network infrastructure for most government agencies - most of the equipment is old enough to order a drink at a bar in most cases.
Don't get me started on how many Excel and Access databases still hold everything together...
Working from home does mean I have any free time to do what I want. No, I cannot talk to you to hear the latest gossip. No, I can't go meet you for lunch. No, I do not go to sleep in the middle of the day. In fact I barely get a chance to go to the toilet. It is not easier working from home.
While this is not profession-specific, it is a work-condition that needs debunking.
I work from home and I have shifts I need to be around for so yeah, I AM at home but please don't drop in on me I am working.
My daughter works from home and she shuts her phone off during her work hours so she is not interrupted or distracted.
Load More Replies...I rarely have time to make myself a sandwich during my work day at home.
I guess it depends on the work. There was still the productivity expectations as there was in the office. I did have naps on my breaks. I was able to sit on my cushy couch with my feet up, and wear whatever I wanted. But after a while, working from home did lose it's charm. My home/work life and space blurred. I would spend a good half an hour to an hour after my shift getting lost in social media. I really didn't like being told what I could and couldn't do in my own home, just because I was on the clock. I didn't like that my kid was bound to either the bedroom or go outside until my shift was done. If the building mgmt came around, they didn't respect that I was working, and try speaking to me while I was on the phone with clients. I'm lucky my mgrs either didn't pick that up, or let it go, because it was considered a breach of privacy to have other people in listening shot. But I they weren't so understanding about emergencies in my home.
LOL, I work from home and I DO usually take a nap every day. As long I I show up to meetings and complete all my tasks no one cares. I do sometimes have to work at night or on the weekend if a client needs something. But it's quite flexible. I refuse to ever go back to an office every day!
My daughter has this problem with her in laws, they think they can call her up and get her to run multiple errands for them. Even having her husband explain things to them didn't help, she now blocks them during the day.
Teachers do not get the summers off. We do not work only from 7-3:00. We have no decision making powers concerning curriculum, discipline, or testing. There is very little autonomy remaining for teachers.
What does the op mean by they don’t get summers off? What do they do? I have heard a teacher use that as the reason he was a teacher.
Teachers work theur a*s off with students for 10+ months and then nmost have to find a summer job to make ends meet. The checks get stretched to 12 months to help the districts. If you thought you needed that break from your teachers, double that for the teachers who are dealing with the kids, their admin, and parents. If it were an easy job, there would not be a shortage. Just look at how many parents were DESPERATE for their kids to go back to in-person school in 2020-2021 in the US.
Load More Replies...I teach in Japan, and have been at the same school for many years. I get to work early, often stay late. When the students are on holiday, I'm doing planning, making new materials, etc. because during the year, I don't have a lot of time. However, I'm really lucky in that I have almost complete autonomy when it comes to my curriculum. At this point, I can do pretty much whatever I want. Part of that is because I know what the school wants, and have a pretty good idea how to create a curriculum that delivers that. However, I feel I have a LOT of freedom to do what I want.
When i was still in school, back in the 90's, class hours were from 7am - 2:15pm, and most teachers were in the building by 5:30-6am, and didn't leave until 5-7pm. Nights and weekends were spent either grading papers and doing lesson plans, or doing that on top of engaging in side gigs as coaches or tutors. I grew up in a very snobby, rich town with one of the best public school districts in the U.S....and starting salary for teachers there in 1996 was $26,000 a year. Summers were spent taking another job...and taking mandatory classes to stay current on any changes to the standardized testing, which dictated curriculums, and any changed how teacher were expected to teach their classes, because those tests dictate funding. It was brutal enough that the entire school district went on strike for 16 months while i was middle school, i don't imagine things have improved since.
You get them "off", but we usually need to do summer school, summer camp, gigs or other stuff to make enough money and pay those loans off.
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Being a full time artist is enjoyable or good fun. It isn’t, it’s like any job, you have to get up every day and work wether you like it or not. It’s hard work, because you need to turn it on and concentrate 8 hours a day, every day. Because you’re doing it day after day, year after year, you’re rarely impressed by your own work. It is rewarding though, but you have to work really hard to get that feeling.
This is also why people under-value original artwork. People are constantly surprised at the cost of an original or commissioned piece because they just don't get the years of study that go into it plus the hours and hours it takes to create a single work. My husband occasionally does commissioned pieces, and he's really talented, but it's hard to come by work because people are constantly like "what, you can't do this for free/whatever measly price I suggested???" Well bro, did YOU spend 20+ years studying and perfecting your technique plus hours upon hours working on the piece? No? Then stfu and pay $20 for whatever mass produced c**p you want.
Yep they assume artistic skill is just inbuilt and not trained you spent 20 mins on the piece at most. That's without thinking of the astronomical cost of art supplies. They think you're using £5 kids paint or sharpies or something.
Load More Replies...This is why I prefer keeping my talents as a hobby. What's not mentioned is you have to be the marketer, accountant, administrator, bookkeeper, salesman, promoter. You have to figure out the taxes, insurance and make sure you pay yourself and your business. There is uncertainty all the time that people will be interested in your artwork. There are not a large amount of collectors. People generally just want one thing they think will look good in their home and if they like the aesthetic your art brings, they might buy another piece. But you could shift to another subject or style. It can take a long time to get returning customers. There is a lot of b******t in the art industry. Lots of distrustful people who say they want to help, but they're just after your business. My mom used to own a custom framing business.
The same with being a commercial music composer. That hobby you enjoy becomes a drag when you have to produce a style you hate just to have an income.
Postal workers aren't paid by your taxes, it comes from postage.
And, BTW (at least in our local office), many are part time, with no expectation of full time status.
Not all mental health workers have mental health problems.
My shrink is totally nuts. One of the weirdest people I've ever met. But he's good at his job. :)
Not all mental health workers have mental health problems, but the best of them do. Seriously. Those mental health workers who haven't grappled with problems of their own aren't as understanding or competent.
That people in the funeral industry really do care about the families and communities they serve and we’re not out to just gouge your wallet at one of your most vulnerable times. Yes, there are certain entities and people that ruin the reputation for everyone else, but that the majority of people in the industry are in it for the right reasons.
I was sat in the pub with the son of a local undertaker amongst others, and his pager (yes it does date this anecdote) went off. He sighed, put down his drink, said "Time to go and scrape someone off the road" and left. Made me think, poor sod going out on a wet winter Friday night to do that job, losing all your social time. That's stuck with me for a long time.
Not only them, but the ones who have died alone and not been found for some time: aka a dirty pick up! Also the mortuary staff who have to prepare them for PM so that a cause of death may possibly be found.
Load More Replies...Where I live all the bigger funeral homes are gobbling up the smaller family owned ones. The big ones are the ones that will get you
System admin for a major company. It's NEVER as easy to make a change as you think.
"It's just text. How hard can it be to change??!!"
Changing that specific text requires changing 5 training files, multiple Sharepoint pages, 10 other places in the application, and on top of all of that, a code change, which costs time and money. We also have to ensure that the display doesn't break if the new text is a different length, on 3 browsers, and mobile devices. Then, there is translating it to the 20+ languages that we support.
Just so a single executive director can see it say "Personal Time Off Request", instead of "Vacation Request", because that's what he prefers to call it.
Now, that's just for a single line of text. We get change requests every single day for things that not only change the entire fundamental reason for the system, but would require policy changes impacting 20,000+ employees.
Then we get often-escalating hate mail for a month after we let them know that the request was denied, and why.
I’ve had some experience with maintaining Product name/number files, part number files, Bill of Materials files, and product configuration charts. Those things all touch each other in ways you would never dream of. And in addition to maintaining the info, we had to maintain numbered records of what the changes were, when, and why they were made. And that’s just for when the information was accurate. Don’t -even- get me started on trying to chase down errors faster than they could propagate through the system.
Firefighters don’t all look like those calendars
I always buy the local firemen's calendar and I can testify that they look nothing like the Australian ones that hold puppies and kittens. Jean Louis has 6 car tires instead of a six pack, and Xavier is balding, but having met them at the firemen's ball I know that they have great personalities.
That sounds like the perfect calendar for me to be in. The "great personalities"calendar.
Load More Replies...I don't care what they look like. They have my respect. Anyone that would run into a burning building to save people and pets deserves to be lauded as heroes way more than the rich bums playing ball on TV.
I was an Amazon Delivery Driver, we aren’t lazy because we didn’t specifically follow the instructions you wrote. We have up to 500 packages per day and no extra time to read your message, your backyard looked sketchy, and the app never deleted old instructions so 1/2 the time it’s outdated info.
And honestly Amazon is world famous as the company that delivers things to your porch, you should expect the package to go on your porch.
After the very first one was delivered to the vacant place across the street subsequent drivers have been gems.
Ours used to tuck things out of sight behind a fence or under something. We never had any problems with porch pirates but the front of the house was so exposed it looked like we would.
Load More Replies...Train conductor here. We do a heck of a lot more and are responsible for a lot more than “just taking tickets”.
Emergency Services Dispatcher here: Just because your alarm system is going off, does not mean PD/FD/EMS will respond any faster. They are far more inclined to respond to a confirmed call in progress than they are to the alarm system that goes off every time a spider walks over a motion sensor.
Side note to that: Just because you have an actual emergency, doesn't mean emergency services will get there any faster. They can only respond so fast, depending on the geography of your jurisdiction and how busy it is that at any given time.
When I was 17/18 I worked for an alarm company as a monitor. The spider - motion sensor type thing is real, lol. We had an installation in a school annex building that had the microphone (yes, audio as well) mounted much too close to the time clock so that damned thing tripped several dozen times a night. One of the guys heard a strange rustling in a bank after the cleaning crew left. It wasn't rhythmic but it was noticeable. He notified the police and the "first person" who met the police there. They searched that building high and low and after about 20 minutes they heard the noise, of a mouse that fell into a newly emptied trash can. But in the end, just like the OP said, the cops aren't burning any tires getting to a call generated by an alarm trigger if they are involved in another violent crime situation.
I worked for an alarm company 25 or so years ago. Most of the police at the time were annoyed getting calls constantly. If your alarm kept going off we had to follow the specific instructions. If that meant waking up your third cousin 100x in the middle of the night who was the second contact or notifying the police a bunch. They would ask us to turn off alarms and stuff which we weren't authorized to do
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- Chardonnay isn’t “oakey” or buttery unless it’s overly manipulated
- Very few Rieslings are sweet
- Saying you want a Pinot Noir tells us nothing. Pinot Noir from Saint Aubin Burgundy France vs Otago New Zealand will be wildly different
- You don’t have an allergy to sulfites unless someone with the letters MD at the end of their name actually told you that you do
- Most red wines that are completely opaque are overly manipulated, and over extracted
- There is no alcohol in the world that won’t give you a hangover
I most likely don't have allergy to sulfites or anything, bit drinking red wine (or something like cognac) gives me a horrendous migraine every damn time. Even if I'd drink only one or two glasses.
White and rose wines don't give me a hangover like red does.
Load More Replies...There were errors in the posting. The first is that there are three main styles to a Riesling, the German Riesling which is typically semi sweet to balance the acid, the dry Austrian Riesling, which was made to be dry due to a scandal years ago, and the Fench (Alsace) Riesling which is also dry. The Australians and Canadians typically produce a semi-sweet Riesling, in America, New York Riesling are typically sweeter, Washington State one's are typically semi-dry. Chardonnay can be oakey if it is put in oak barrels, which is a fairly common practice and buttery Chardonnays come from a production method called malolactic fermentation, which is also common. It is not overly manipulated, it is just made using very common wine production techniques. opaque wines happen when certain varietals are left to ferment in a traditional method with the skins. Wine headaches are either caused by Quercetin, histamine, yeasts, tannins, sulfites or the alcohol. Sulfite allergies cause hives.
Thanks. I was actually just wondering to myself if the OP was the sommelier at Chuck E. Cheese as their wine *knowledge * seems a bit spotty.
Load More Replies...I don't need a person with the letters MD at the end of their name to tell me every time I eat or drink certain foods or drinks I get a migraine. I know. I don't care if it's an allergy, an intolerance or whatever name doctors want to give it, but I know it's harming me. And I couldn't care less if you or anybody else believes it or not, because I don't owe you or anybody else an explanation.
My daughter gets hives and a swollen tongue whenever she smells wine. We've mentioned her allergy to this one waiter. His response "Well, maybe you'll get used to wine one day and like it." I think he was trying to be funny. Either way, it was inappropriate to disregard this information and degrade it to "I just don't like it", which is definitely not the case. If someone says they're allergic, just respect their needs.
Yes yes yes. Some people claim to like one particular type of wine which they'll just order by default. Bit of a shock when they come to Europe where many traditional wines are not from single grape varieties and even if they are they will be nothing like the same varietal wine from California.
"Zero alcohol" products still have a wee tiny bit of alcohol in them and will go out of date much quicker
Most cops dont hang around waiting to ticket or arrest you. We just want the shift to end, go home, and see our family (or for me, play with my cats)
I've interacted with cops a few times, and they were either friendly or in "just another day at the office" mode. The most amusing was when I found a lost wallet. I had a look inside and there was an ID card indicating that it belonged to a policewoman. So when I got into town I flagged down a passing patrol car and said "hey, I found someone's wallet". The two officers clearly could not give a damn... until I added, "It belongs to a cop". Then they were suddenly super pleased. XD
The ones that I see swaggering with pants bloused out of their boots like some special forces washout, drops my respect level immediately.
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Cyber security is tedious. If you are doing pentesting, 60% of your time is spend on deliverables (aka reports). That's what you are paid for and that's what decides if customer will contact you again. Outside of assignments? Learning. Learning. Oh and learning some more.
The best part is the reports security people provide. You ask them tech questions on them and most have no clue and just say to read the report. "I just push the button on the scanner at the change time then email the report. I have no idea what the vulnerabilities actually mean"
That graphic design is just a click of a button. Ai still can't handle layout and typography well... at all.
It takes hours of work, study and implementation to pull it all off.
And after years of study and practice graphics designers still have zero taste and use twenty different fonts, have ten extra colored boxes, and ten unrelated images on one page of a magazine. As a senior with failing eyesight, reading a page with all these fonts is impossible. And package labeling on grocery store items? I need to bring a microscope to read them.
It is very rarely the graphic designer who does it. It's their customers, ie the people you are buying from.
Load More Replies...I used to be a 3D artist and no, the computer doesn't do all the job for us and no, there isn't a "better" software that'll make everything better in 5min and gosh no, there isn't that one button that makes everything like in my head instantly like in movies.
I've been doing 3D art/modeling/animation for nearly 30 years. When i first got interested in it, i was building 3D scenes using basic primitive shapes and boolean modifiers. When i first got my hands on 3D studio max a few years later, everything was comparatively much easier, with a lot more options and more powerful tools. Before i figured out how expensive the education would be against the s****y pay and long hours, i was working on my portfolio for uni applications...and i was an obsessive perfectionist. I spent more than 24 hours modeling hardware for a drawer, by placing individual vertex points...because the mirror function wasn't making things perfectly symmetrical, and the NURBs modifier ended up amplifying that distortion. So i agree with the sentiment....BUT....3D studio is great for modeling, while Cinema 4D has better animation tools. Poser made character rigging much easier, Face Robot was a godsend for rigging character faces and synching them to audio....
...Zbrush is an amazing piece of software for digital sculpting, strange character designs, and "imperfect" props are MUCH easier to manufacture and different flavors of Rendering plugins can quickly and easily change the "tone" of the scene once your modeling work is done. Bryce (now Daz) was once great software for making quick work of natural terrain while also having an amazing renderer (in the 90's) , but Vue d'Esprit replaced it while adding a collection of trees, flowers and other plants. Different piece of software have different strengths and weaknesses, and branching out can at least give you a jumping off point if you're struggling with something. It's still a long, tedious, meticulous process no matter what....but sometimes a different piece of software can make things better a hell of a lot faster.
Load More Replies...I used to repair digital pianos. They send out a digital code called MIDI. One customer of mine was once of the developers of the first 3D digital rendering programs. He would assign a piano note to run a sub program he wrote to do some of these 3D tasks. He has 88 assigned subroutines he could trigger just by hitting a specific digital piano key.
Attitudes like this are no doubt half of the reason why people think AI generated garbage is on the same level as real art.
That working with musicians is an awesome experience. Don't get me wrong, most of the time it is fun, but they are also some of the biggest Karens.
Many of the unusual request in the riders (as they're called in the industry) are there to make sure the local promoter and establishment are reading the entire contract. It can be a safety issue. So if the artist sees that no, not all the brown M&Ms have been removed from the bowl in their room, they also know they'll probably need to check to make sure that the special things they asked for on stage were done properly. Some of those other things in the contract can cause injuries if not followed to a T.
Load More Replies...I was a musician for over a decade and quit because the horrible attitudes I encountered just took all the joy out of it. There was so much completely unnecessary bullying and jockeying for position that I couldn't take it any more.
Most pathologists don’t do autopsies, except for medical examiners and those in forensics
Pharmacist
- we do not just count pills
- we find mistakes and interactions from your doctor all day and do our best not to throw them under the bus so you don't lose faith in them
- we have more training and have doctorate degrees in pharmaceuticals than your doctor and are not pill ATM's to just hand over what your doctor orders
- many of us work in areas where we don't talk to patients or doctors and have more financial, research, compliance/regulatory skills than you think we do
-your pbm is not taking your health plans/insurers money.. we have transparent contracts that are audited all the time and often your health plan or insurer is skimming off the top more often than you know with quality payments and marking up the programs they sell your employer/HR... your plan and pharma and congressman point the fingers but when you look at the contracts... your plan is the one charging your employer more than they are paying for the service. 90% of all pbm claims are pass thru where the amount your employer pays the plans is what they pay the pbm and is what the pharmacy gets paid... the 10% that aren't are set up for the plans' benefit, not anyone else's. We give 100% of the rebates we get from pharma ( the contracts that we have to negotiate and administer without fees paid to the pbm either) and the health plan is the one that is taking some of that rebate $ and not passing it to your employer...
Our pharmacist caught the beginnings of Tardive Dyskinesia in our daughter that was a side effect of a medication she had started a few weeks prior.
Pharmacists can save you from having a possibly life threatening reaction from your medications interacting. Especially if you're getting prescriptions from different specialists for different things and you haven't given them a full list of the medications you're already taking (happens far too often).
I once heard if you have questions or concerns about a medication don't call your doctor, they won't know anything. Call your pharmacist.
Had to get ear drops against and infection one day. My doctors handwriting made them think it was eye drops. So glad they realized that acidic eyedrops was most likely not what I was there for.
Will be a dietician next summer and most people think we want everyone to only eat salad and fruits, but in reality we urge people to eat a balanced diet. Which indeed includes what people enjoy to eat like junkfood, cake, alcohol etc. - it’s all about being physical active and eating varied, baby
Although the latest research indicates cancer metastasizes primarily because of a diet high in protein. In particular, animal based protein.
it sucks though, because as a cancer patient: protein from fish, meat and nuts can "feed" cancer cells, but at the same time, you need protein to stay strong, active and such during treatment, especially if you're like me and had surgery. I was told to stick to a high protein diet for weeks prior to my surgery to build strength up.
Load More Replies...Counselors aren’t analyzing you if you aren’t paying for a session. I’m not flipping thru imaginary DSM pages when you just need to vent. When I’m not at work my counselor brain can turn off to just be a good friend and listen.
"flipping through imaginary DSM pages" is a good one. That's a psychiatrist not a counsellor.
Architecture is not mostly inspiration.
1% inspiration and 99% perspiration and 200% worrying about where the next dollar is coming from.
I used to work in safety engineering. Laws on construction are literally encyclopedic. Like, we had rows of great big thick books. The main engineer I worked for was a specialist on stairs. People wouldn't believe how many laws there are on stairs: height, width, length, angle. The rail has to conform to specs on height, diameter and distance from the wall. There are rules on how slippery the stairs can be, and what can or can't be on the stairs. And lights! Rules upon rules on lights.
And following all those rules on stairs doesn't even mean they will be completely safe. Parent company got a new building designed and build. Everything was signed off on, first time I see the stairs I knew someone will break their necks on it. By the time I found out how to report an unsafe situation report, 2 people fell down. One concussion and dislocated shoulder, one broken ankle.
Load More Replies...Doctor here. Messaging your doctor through the messaging portal does not mean your doctor immediately sees your message. Depending on the healthcare system and clinic, it often sits in a pool for medical assistance or triage nurses to shift through first before forwarding us some of those messages. In addition, often times doctors have to find time to respond to your message in their own time that they are not getting paid for after their full day of patients. The messaging system should not be used to replace a clinic visit, only for quick questions. You do not want your doctor to miss something just because you gave them a vague description of what is going on and they handled it to the best that they could over text message when they might have done things differently after seeing you in person and getting a more thorough history.
I'm lucky. My primary care physician generally reads my message and gets back to me within 24-48 hours.
Airport workers don't make lots of money. Anytime I say that's what I did, people look at me like I was wealthy. Perhaps projecting on me the same way aerospace marketing is concerned. "Put aerospace on the name and mark the product up 50%".
Most people looking to work at airports aren't aware of the monopolies that Delta has. Work for any other airline or worse yet, a sub contractor (fueling, de-icing, baggage, and so on, you've got the s**t end of the stick) You're not making much. They even have the funny practice of falsely advertising benefits that aren't real. Namely flight benefits. I've seen companies lure people because of such false claims.
Maybe because air travel is so expensive and food at the airport is so expensive?
Load More Replies...Sales are a very important pillar of society. Yes, some salespeople are selfish and are only looking out for themselves. But the best services and products, especially complex ones, require sales people. Good ones make all the difference in the world (for both the company and consumer).
And people working in retail, dealing with customers, are often hit with the line about customers always being right. That is BS. The complete phrase, by Harry Gordon Selfridge, was "The customer is always right in matters of taste" meaning if customer wanted a hat that was not suited to the customer, if they want it, don't tell them that they have awful taste. Just sell them the hat. Google will help you find the full saying. Be nice to retail workers.
Ignorance of the law sometimes *is* an excuse.
Good HR people ARE there to protect the organization. However, they know that the best way to do so is to put the employee first.
We may not be "your friends" but we absolutely take care of you first. I've fired #2s, COOs etc that were jerks and detrimental to the organization's culture and staff (but were extremely successful in their role).
We also generally hate party planning but get stuck with it 😂
HR exist because humans are more complicated than buying 2" X 4". They are a specialized purchase department. Their purpose is to make humans as close to a 5lbs of nails as they can.
I call bull$hit on this. HR is there to protect the company, top to tails. That that sometimes means doing something that protects an employee, it is ONLY because it's in the best interest of the company. Sometimes it's cheaper to fire the COO, and sometimes it's cheaper to fire the lone complaining "assistant" even if it means paying out a settlement down the line contingent on signing an NDA. You take care of the company, how that ends up playing out has nothing to do with the employee's.
Nope. 30 years in corporate America have shown me that HR exists to protect the company and the bosses.
Nurses do not simply follow doctors' orders. Nurses make dozens (or perhaps hundreds) of independent decisions during their shift (within their scope of practice of course). They also need to determine how to best apply doctors' orders. Also, a nurse knows best what is happening with a patient because the nurse is right there working with the patient. The nurse often needs to be an advocate for the patient and contact the on-call doctor and convince the doctor that some order is no longer needed or that a certain new order is needed.
I often trust the nurse more than I trust the doctor. Nurses tend to listen more and relate to your experience. I truly believe that a nurse saved my life once when she offered to "help me to my car" and then told me privately that I should get a second opinion.
Load More Replies...Government employee. The people working at the public service level are not a bunch of lazy bureaucrats just out to screw you. We are dedicated to running our part of the system to the best of our ability. We have processes and procedures that were developed to make things run as expediently as possible (just like any private business) so if you have to fill out forms, go through an intake interview or provide us with personal information, there is a reason. And no, we can't break the rules just because you know someone higher up the chain of command. Those higher-ups are judging us on how well we follow the rules. They will often appease you to your face, but then tell us to do things just the way we are intended. Just know that we are trying our best to get you what you need as fast as we can.
Also, just because we work for the government doesn't mean we agree with that government. Also also, we're not throwing money at "every immigrant who gets off a boat". They need to qualify just like those of you born in the country. Also also also, I can't let you speak to "Jennifer". Do you know how many Jennifers work in the goverment? Because I don't, and I'm right there with them.
Load More Replies...I work production at a thrift shop. No, I can't change the price on the item. No, I'm not trained in grading/pricing, so if I tell you to see the cashiers about an item with a lost price tag I'm not trying to pass you off because I don't want to deal with you. If anything I want to help you, but I am not of authority to decide a price or change a price for you. The only thing I can do is guide you to the people who can help you with that. If you need to know where something is, I may or may not know. If I do, I'll definitely show you. If I don't, that means it's outside of my department and may be too new to know where everything is. I will have to get someone who does know. Yes, we are watching out for shoplifting. No, we cannot stop shoplifters, nor accuse anyone of shoplifting. What I will do is offer customer service, ask you if you need help, offer to get you a shopping cart/basket, ask if you're okay. We're also looking out for anyone who needs medical assistance.
High school Teacher: grading stuff is exhausting and that's why it takes so long. We can usually tell if a kid should be evaluated for ADHD, autism, depression, anxiety, dyslexia, or any number of other issues they might have. We can also tell when a kid comes to school high/drunk/whatever. The best students are those whose parents have raised them to take responsibility for themselves and their actions, not necessarily the smartest ones.
Dental professional.. very few people have actual enamel disorders. I couldn't even begin to count how many times people claim they're teeth are rotting, their bone loss, or their gingivitis is because of genetics. Yes, genetics will play a role, but it's typically not as big of a role as hygiene and eating habits. We can tell that you don't brush and floss daily, or, if you do attempt to brush daily, it's not done adequately. You can prevent that vast majority of tooth problems but you choose not to.
Nurses do not simply follow doctors' orders. Nurses make dozens (or perhaps hundreds) of independent decisions during their shift (within their scope of practice of course). They also need to determine how to best apply doctors' orders. Also, a nurse knows best what is happening with a patient because the nurse is right there working with the patient. The nurse often needs to be an advocate for the patient and contact the on-call doctor and convince the doctor that some order is no longer needed or that a certain new order is needed.
I often trust the nurse more than I trust the doctor. Nurses tend to listen more and relate to your experience. I truly believe that a nurse saved my life once when she offered to "help me to my car" and then told me privately that I should get a second opinion.
Load More Replies...Government employee. The people working at the public service level are not a bunch of lazy bureaucrats just out to screw you. We are dedicated to running our part of the system to the best of our ability. We have processes and procedures that were developed to make things run as expediently as possible (just like any private business) so if you have to fill out forms, go through an intake interview or provide us with personal information, there is a reason. And no, we can't break the rules just because you know someone higher up the chain of command. Those higher-ups are judging us on how well we follow the rules. They will often appease you to your face, but then tell us to do things just the way we are intended. Just know that we are trying our best to get you what you need as fast as we can.
Also, just because we work for the government doesn't mean we agree with that government. Also also, we're not throwing money at "every immigrant who gets off a boat". They need to qualify just like those of you born in the country. Also also also, I can't let you speak to "Jennifer". Do you know how many Jennifers work in the goverment? Because I don't, and I'm right there with them.
Load More Replies...I work production at a thrift shop. No, I can't change the price on the item. No, I'm not trained in grading/pricing, so if I tell you to see the cashiers about an item with a lost price tag I'm not trying to pass you off because I don't want to deal with you. If anything I want to help you, but I am not of authority to decide a price or change a price for you. The only thing I can do is guide you to the people who can help you with that. If you need to know where something is, I may or may not know. If I do, I'll definitely show you. If I don't, that means it's outside of my department and may be too new to know where everything is. I will have to get someone who does know. Yes, we are watching out for shoplifting. No, we cannot stop shoplifters, nor accuse anyone of shoplifting. What I will do is offer customer service, ask you if you need help, offer to get you a shopping cart/basket, ask if you're okay. We're also looking out for anyone who needs medical assistance.
High school Teacher: grading stuff is exhausting and that's why it takes so long. We can usually tell if a kid should be evaluated for ADHD, autism, depression, anxiety, dyslexia, or any number of other issues they might have. We can also tell when a kid comes to school high/drunk/whatever. The best students are those whose parents have raised them to take responsibility for themselves and their actions, not necessarily the smartest ones.
Dental professional.. very few people have actual enamel disorders. I couldn't even begin to count how many times people claim they're teeth are rotting, their bone loss, or their gingivitis is because of genetics. Yes, genetics will play a role, but it's typically not as big of a role as hygiene and eating habits. We can tell that you don't brush and floss daily, or, if you do attempt to brush daily, it's not done adequately. You can prevent that vast majority of tooth problems but you choose not to.
