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Pandas With Divorced Parents: How Did Or Would You Handle Them At Your Wedding?
I think the best option here is to: 1)Make sure someone is talking to them at all times 2)keep your stepsisters way from your brothers and mother. 3)For wedding photos, keep them far away one another. 4) Don't invite your older brother, and tell him to grow up. If they cause a scene, kick them out.Pandas With Divorced Parents: How Did Or Would You Handle Them At Your Wedding?
Not my parents but my husband’s were long divorced when we got married almost 14 years ago. (My mil has since passed) We had concerns about his dad or maternal uncle making a scene so we thought about sitting them together at the reception. Being more mature than that, we decided to elope and still don’t regret it.Pandas With Divorced Parents: How Did Or Would You Handle Them At Your Wedding?
I either want both my parents to walk me down the aisle, or I want them to walk with their partners and my sister can walk me down. They won’t be put at the same table, but they get along fine. My partner’s parents will be kept separate at all costs so we don’t end up with a murder. My parents will be in charge of distracting hers.Pandas With Divorced Parents: How Did Or Would You Handle Them At Your Wedding?
My parents are still yogether but my husband's are divorced as of 3yrs ago (both parents are now remarried). For our first wedding (covid) his dad didn't come. He said he was busy but actually just hung out at his house. We had limited numbers and could only have about 10 people so the decision was neither step parent could come. When the numbers went up to 30 beginning that day, because he said he was busy, he still didn't come. Ngl, I am not the biggest fan of his dad and this was the icing on the cake. He then held it against us for making him look bad. That lasted for the next year. For the seond wedding (what was essentially the *real* one). He came esp after his entire family dissed him hard. So both parents and their SOs. He refused any photos with his ex so essentially we had to do double the number of photos-- photos with my parents and his mum and wife then photos with my parents and his dad and wife and honestly-- I was okay with that. I would rather not have all the family photos brought down by having him be a downer in all of them. For the reception, we did harvest tables and separated them though there was some annoyance that his mum was centre but that was because as much as we wanted them separated we needed to have hi. And my family REALLY separated as he was still angry about my husband taking my name and he has a tendency towards non-pc behaviour (off-colour jokes, racy slang, derogatory against women and a tonne of lewd comments about me and sex... wanted that pretty far from my black, prim and proper, religious family). We made it through with only minimal animosity (thankfully his dad opted not to drink so as to 'avoid saying what he wanted to say' and his mum was very amicable the entire time). He also did not give a speech and my husband's mum and my mum kept it short and sweet. I also tasked my bridesman to diffusing things if it took a turn which he only had to once when some words got snippy between his new wife and my mum. If this all sounds like overkill well you should have seen how well my brother-in-law's wedding went and that was before my MIL even got engaged.Pandas With Divorced Parents: How Did Or Would You Handle Them At Your Wedding?
My mom and step-dad moved away in '92. My bio dad was estranged and I hadn't seen him more than a couple of times in my life. So, when I got married in '99 I simply didn't invite them. Problem solved. My wife's parents, and my best friend's family helped fill the void... Art, Digital Art
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I was sitting down eating in a public park and watching some video on YouTube. A man in his 50-60ties came up with a professional camera and just took pictures of me while I wasn't looking... I noticed, looked up, made eye contact and was too baffled to do anything and he just walked away without a word.Show All 17 Upvotes
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The U.S. Army Corps Of Engineers' 2023 Calendar Is A Funny Blend Of Engineering And Entertainment
Pandas With Divorced Parents: How Did Or Would You Handle Them At Your Wedding?
I think the best option here is to: 1)Make sure someone is talking to them at all times 2)keep your stepsisters way from your brothers and mother. 3)For wedding photos, keep them far away one another. 4) Don't invite your older brother, and tell him to grow up. If they cause a scene, kick them out.Pandas With Divorced Parents: How Did Or Would You Handle Them At Your Wedding?
Not my parents but my husband’s were long divorced when we got married almost 14 years ago. (My mil has since passed) We had concerns about his dad or maternal uncle making a scene so we thought about sitting them together at the reception. Being more mature than that, we decided to elope and still don’t regret it.Pandas With Divorced Parents: How Did Or Would You Handle Them At Your Wedding?
I either want both my parents to walk me down the aisle, or I want them to walk with their partners and my sister can walk me down. They won’t be put at the same table, but they get along fine. My partner’s parents will be kept separate at all costs so we don’t end up with a murder. My parents will be in charge of distracting hers.Pandas With Divorced Parents: How Did Or Would You Handle Them At Your Wedding?
My parents are still yogether but my husband's are divorced as of 3yrs ago (both parents are now remarried). For our first wedding (covid) his dad didn't come. He said he was busy but actually just hung out at his house. We had limited numbers and could only have about 10 people so the decision was neither step parent could come. When the numbers went up to 30 beginning that day, because he said he was busy, he still didn't come. Ngl, I am not the biggest fan of his dad and this was the icing on the cake. He then held it against us for making him look bad. That lasted for the next year. For the seond wedding (what was essentially the *real* one). He came esp after his entire family dissed him hard. So both parents and their SOs. He refused any photos with his ex so essentially we had to do double the number of photos-- photos with my parents and his mum and wife then photos with my parents and his dad and wife and honestly-- I was okay with that. I would rather not have all the family photos brought down by having him be a downer in all of them. For the reception, we did harvest tables and separated them though there was some annoyance that his mum was centre but that was because as much as we wanted them separated we needed to have hi. And my family REALLY separated as he was still angry about my husband taking my name and he has a tendency towards non-pc behaviour (off-colour jokes, racy slang, derogatory against women and a tonne of lewd comments about me and sex... wanted that pretty far from my black, prim and proper, religious family). We made it through with only minimal animosity (thankfully his dad opted not to drink so as to 'avoid saying what he wanted to say' and his mum was very amicable the entire time). He also did not give a speech and my husband's mum and my mum kept it short and sweet. I also tasked my bridesman to diffusing things if it took a turn which he only had to once when some words got snippy between his new wife and my mum. If this all sounds like overkill well you should have seen how well my brother-in-law's wedding went and that was before my MIL even got engaged.Pandas With Divorced Parents: How Did Or Would You Handle Them At Your Wedding?
My mom and step-dad moved away in '92. My bio dad was estranged and I hadn't seen him more than a couple of times in my life. So, when I got married in '99 I simply didn't invite them. Problem solved. My wife's parents, and my best friend's family helped fill the void... Art, Digital Art
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