“What’s A Common Rule That You Break Regularly Because You Fundamentally Disagree With It?” (45 Answers)
InterviewSome say that rules are meant to be broken, and so broken they will be, be it traffic regulations or the dos and don'ts of playing Uno.
These are just a couple of examples of rules that some people break regularly. And while the reasons for doing that might differ with each person, some do it simply because they fundamentally disagree with them.
Members of the ‘Ask Reddit’ community recently shared what rules they refuse to follow, because of said reason, after redditor ‘RGDJR’ started a thread about it. Covering everything from orders and regulations to expectations and social norms, netizens assembled quite an extensive list of rules that, in their opinion, should be broken, so scroll down to find them, and see if you agree with any of them.
Below you will also find Bored Panda’s interview with the person who started the thread, user RGDJR, who was kind enough to answer a few of our questions.
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“Breakfast foods.” Ive had coworkers walk in on me eating steak and mashed potatoes with asparagus at 7 AM for breakfast. When questioned I always respond “I don’t subscribe to societal norms of proper meal time foods”
Edit: I woke up to a ton of people agreeing with me so it’s clear ive been chosen as the leader of the rebellion. We march on Kellog’s headquarters at dawn
I agree. I'm not a big breakfast food person. I usually eat leftovers from the fridge 😋
Would also recommend pancakes and bacon for dinner. Around here we call that night breakfast
Load More Replies...My husband and I have been married for 40 years, and he still says that he can't understand how I can eat leftovers for breakfast. I just tell him that it is no more strange than having breakfast for dinner. To me, food is food, and it doesn't matter at what time of day it is eaten.
I always thought if breakfast is 'the most important meal of the day', why is it encouraged to eat cereal, or toast?! It makes so much more sense to eat leftovers, and I understand why so many countries outside of Europe and the states do this.
Yeah, that was originally a cereal marketing gimmick - created, possibly a bit ironically considering the last line, by the Kellog brothers. https://www.theguardian.com/lifeandstyle/2016/nov/28/breakfast-health-america-kellog-food-lifestyle
Load More Replies..."Leftover pizza" is a contradiction in terms at our house.
Load More Replies...Huzzah! Cold pizza for breakfast! Cereal for dinner! Throw off the shackles of food tyranny! If I want a burrito at 5am and waffles at 5pm why can't I have it?!?!?!
He starts work early and takes breakfast with him to eat before clocking in?
Load More Replies...Agree completely with the sentiment but I've never seen this as a "rule". Eat what you want, when you want. Not my business what or when you do.
Automatic respect because someone is elderly.
They get common courtesy, but everyone has to earn respect/authority before they can start bossing people around.
I believe you show respect to everyone until they show me they don't deserve it. Sometimes it happens within minutes of meeting people. You get what you give. And that includes how you treat others, not just me.
Agree entirely with Brenda. Besides, respect and authority are two totally different things. I don't respect anyone who is "bossing people around".
Load More Replies...Exactly! Old does not guarantee wise. If you are old and still stupid, you're stupid despite your experience and that's just sad.
Took care of a woman with a brain tumor. Her freeloading boy friend thought the service extended to him. He said you need to respect your elders (I was in high school). First adult I stood up to. I looked at him and said respect is earned,not freely given, once you earn anything, you'll get some respect. His girlfriend laughed. So did the neighbor , which I did make tuna sandwiches for.
Some elderly people will start barking at you for no reason and when you bark back, they start screaming about respect. Ummm, no... You get what you deserve. Doesn't matter what age you are.
I always saw it more on the "offer your seat on a crowded bus" or "let them enter the shop before you" kind of way.
That's common courtesy for anyone who appears less abled than you, regardless of age.
Load More Replies...As an old person, I wholeheartedly agree. Everyone deserves the respect of common courtesy until they prove otherwise, though.
The same thing goes for anyone IN the military, or is a veteran. It doesn't give you a pass to be an a**hole or a d*****bag. In fact I will hold you to a higher standard, and FAR too many active service or veterans are just terrible, terrible people.
"Earning" respect is a BS notion. Imagine if that were how things actually worked. I would treat you like s**t until you had jumped through whatever inscutable and personal hoops I imagine. But, then, you are also treating me like s**t because I haven't yet jumped through your hoops. Respect should be the starting point, without need to be earned. If it is lost, then things have to be worked on in order for it to be restored, sure. But it has to be the way things start.
Whether you are 12, 22, 72 - I respect you, talk normal to you, and it is your choice how to behave. And if you say or do dumb sh*t, you got to live with the response.
My state says I'm not allowed to provide alcohol to my own children until they are 21.
I will not let them be carted off to a bar on their 21st birthday unless they are already very familiar with alcohol and how different ABV% affects their bodies. I do not care what the law says, their first drink will come from me in the safety of their own home.
My daughter is 16, when we go for dinner I buy her a beer, or wine. Which she openly drinks because that's legal in UK. She loves Baileys also. She tends not to have a second because she doesn't like the way she feels.
My mom said that. If I ever wanted to start smoking or drinking I should come to her so she could be safe in the knowledge that I smoke/drink clean stuff and not get sh*t from who-knows-where with who-knows-what added to it.
In my country people can't buy alcohol before 18 but parents can allow them to try a glass at home under their supervision.
I was brought up in a family that owned a restaurant and was used to alcohol being available from a very young age (UK) It also taught me the correct way for a child to behave at the table. I cringe at these modern parents who let little Cedric run around. Yeah he's gonna look great when that soup leaves a scar down his face. Grrr control your kids. Sorry rant over.
My parents let my sister and I try wine when we were teenagers. Just a sip to get a taste. Drinking alcohol has never been this huge taboo or milestsone thing, which means there was little incentive to go over the limit. And it is the same for most of the people around me.
I’ve had two glasses of wine before I turned eighteen (legal age), one on two separate occasions, and frankly, just didn’t likely the taste. Can’t be bothered now to just walk into a pub and buy alcohol that I may not even like when I know my local Tescos and Asdas have a good milkshake that I do like.
I had my first wine at 12. This is south africa. We are mystified why americans are ok with giving guns to kids but think booze is scary.
My cousins grew up in more rural setting in NY in the 1990s. There were lots of drunk driving accident involving teens, since there wasn't much of anything else to do there. My aunt and uncle got together with other parents and rotated drinking parties at their homes, where the kids either stayed, or the parents would pick them up. Nothing stronger than beer was allowed, though. None of that group of kids got into DD accidents, but plenty of others did. These parents were realistic about what their kids were doing and would do,.so it was better under a trusted roof, and no one drives messed up, than their kids sneaking out, getting trashed, then winding up dead after crashing into a tree.
In a recent interview with Bored Panda, u/RGDJR shared that the thing that encouraged him to ask this particular question was a rule that he himself breaks on the regular. “I had just returned from some travel with a colleague and found that she and I differ on the need to put your phone into airplane mode before takeoff,” he said.
“She obeys this rule religiously. I, on the other hand, have never put my phone into airplane mode. My position is: if it's actually important, the airline wouldn't just ask people to do it, you'd need to show the flight attendant proof… or your phone would automatically switch to airplane mode when it sensed that you were moving at a certain speed. In any case, I don't buy that it's actually necessary. And it was this debate with my colleague that inspired the question. I was curious what other rules people break willingly.”
Tipping everywhere. Not exactly a rule but I ain't gonna tip where I haven't received an actual service where someone has to go out of their way to do something for me. I don't care if I get mean looks for it.
Not this again. US and Europe have very different tipping cultures and we will only get into a fight over this.
It's not even a Europe vs America thing anymore, it's gone off the rails in the US. If I didn't dine in at a restaurant, I'm not tipping, point blank.
Load More Replies...This!! Tipping is for the person who provided you a personal service.
Load More Replies...US culture aside, if I have provided my own service, I'm not tipping you. Or a machine.
Why should I tip at a fast food place? Why should I tip at Starbucks? If they brought the food to my table and actually served me, then yes, I would tip. I do tip well at this little Mom and Pop restaurant even though I order at the counter because it helps them to take care of their family and they are some of the nicest people I know.
I don't quite tipping in general. Like most jobs don't have it, can't we just not do it for all jobs entirely? For me it just adds an unnecessary pressure
I used to tip, but going out became so expensive I don't now. In UK it's sort of expected, but that extra cost would probably stop me going if I had to.
Load More Replies...I have seen som bizarre articles about tipping. I mean an autom[tive parts store? A car dealership was in my feeds just yesterday. Whaaaat?
Went in a gift shop on a resort in the Dominican Republic to buy a few souvenirs made my purchase and began to walk away the clerk screamed at me at the top of his lungs "Where's my tip"!!
I only tip when I'm seated and getting service, or ordering from a food truck, I will not tip on pick up orders.
Why not? You realize a real live person had to take your order, make your order, box and bag your order, put all your silverware and condiments into your bag, get EVERYTHING extra you requested, and give you it. It's not like this is all done by robots, ya know, a real live person does all this. Does just as much work, IF NOT MORE DEPENDING ON WHERE YOU GO, then a waitress.
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Account sharing. I bought the game, service, movie, etc, I get to decide who uses it
What family would not do that? I am not going to buy my son the exact same game I have, just so he can play! What?
If I have to pay for streaming AND get commercials, I'm sharing my login!
Yeah, buying multiple copies is just stupid. I can almost 100% guarantee that only one of us is using it at any given time, so their main complaint is b******t.
Their main complaint is that they don’t get to sell multiple copies
Load More Replies...Physical hard copies are becoming a thing of the past sadly. New video game consoles don’t even allow for a disk
Load More Replies...Well actually you don't. Once they pan password sharing outside of your own house you can't share anymore.
I gave my Peacock info to my adult son out of state and he still uses it. I sure hope it doesn't change.
Load More Replies...Do automobiles or bicycles have share policies? What greedy MF came up with this shiit?
'No account sharing' is a rule that a lot of services like Netflix are trying to implement
Load More Replies...The OP admitted that the volume of answers from the redditors caught him off guard; what surprised him even more was how many of them he agreed with.
“In fact, the top response is one that I'm aligned on wholeheartedly,” he said. “The idea that people shouldn't discuss their salary with each other is bulls**t. Talking salary helps to ensure pay equity. I have a team of people who work for me and I would never dissuade them from talking about what they make.”
YouTube TOS says I can't block ads. The day they can stop me is the day I stop watching Youtube.
Edit: 8000 upvotes and yet there's a lot of copium in this thread over me still blocking ads.
How would one go about blocking ads on youtube? and can it be done using the youtube app on a phone?
Load More Replies...It wouldn't be too bad if the ads were just at the start of the video, but they've taken to randomly playing ads during the video as well.
Exactly! I've had some videos where they play every 3 minutes or so.
Load More Replies...I think this is one reason BP isn't as popular as it used to be. The number of ads is infuriating.
It's insane how many ads BP has!!! It all changed what, 9 months ago? A year ago? It's the absolute worst.
Load More Replies...There is a reasonnable amount of ads and there's youtube's unskippable BS. I've watched a 25 minute video on my TV recently and there's been 11 ads in it, some skippable after 5 seconds some playing for 2 whole minutes.
My own little protest is refusing to buy the thing if I can't skip the add after less than 10 seconds.
If you can access a command console on your device, youtube-dl is a very handy script.
I love youtube-dl. An added bonus is that you'll have a local copy of the video, so you can still watch it after it gets taken down.
Load More Replies...I don't use an ad blocker. I have another technique for blocking them. When I get a "turn off your ad blocker" prompt, I leave and don't come back.
I do the same exact thing! More than likely, another site has the story without the ad-blocker. If not, I don't trust any of them to tell me the truth!
Load More Replies...My sensory issues make ads on videos a serious no-no. Jarring jumps to entirely unrelated content that's usually loud, busy and very annoying does not work well with me! It's enough to make me boycott a product that does that to me. I still won't go to Arby's after their annoying ads from about 15 years ago were briefly impossible for me to block!
Omg, as if prime isn't making enough on us, now if you don't want ads, pay more. Good God, gouge much?
I *actually* use my turn signal/blinker.
I eat cookie dough and I eat Nutella with a spoon
We might be related! Several people in my family LOVE cookie dough. In fact, for years Grandma made cookie dough for eating, not baking.
Load More Replies...People who don't use your turn signals, wtf is wrong with you? Its not an optional extra on your vehicle, they all have them and they are the only effective way to communicate with other drivers. You're risking everyone else's life and your own out of sheer laziness or outright stubbornness.
I have seen that in some states you only have to use them if other motorists are around, any other time it's not warranted. So bizarre. Just make it a habit to use em.
Load More Replies...Always use your turn signal....it confuses the hell out of the ones that don't use them.
Love it when they signal right at the corner. Way to give us some indication
Load More Replies...some bmw and audi drivers have filed a complaint to the highest court of snowflake for violating their feelings / anti-blinker sentiments
Hey, bmw driver. I use my blinker in park8ng lots. We are not all dolts.
Load More Replies...Seriously people, how hard is it to use your turn signal? You lift one finger, that's it
People who *don't* use their turn signals should be ticketed. Seriously.
I am thoroughly unconcerned about any form of bacterial infection, so I do the same with raw cookie dough. My immune system is a bacteria-murdering machine, the worst foodborne illnesses can do to me is give me a brief bout of diarrhea.
Jaywalking. If the street is obviously clear, I'm not going to wait for nothing.
Different rules and expectations in different countries. Germans in particular are very keen on everyone waiting for the man to turn green before crossing, even if they ca see hundreds of metres in each direction that there's no road traffic. I don't follow suit and get some funny looks whenever I'm there.
It’s not that bad. We only do that when people are around. Especially kids. We want to set a good example for the kids and tech them by doing it ourselfs. Kids here go to school alone and use the bus and stuff when they are 7 years old. They NEED to learn the safe way. This is how we keep them safe. (Teens of course are the rebels here too)
Load More Replies...I can't do it, I just can't, the years of conditioning by my parents to wait until it's green is what always outs me as a tourist in England. I'd probably still wait if I was the last person on earth.
Depends - I check if small children are watching, as I do not want to set the wrong example. You never know what the consequenes might be.
Jaywalking doesn't mean what a lot of people think it means. Where it is banned, typically all you're forbidden from doing is crossing a block between two traffic signals when the traffic signals are green, or even in some jurisdictions where right-hand turns on red are permitted, where there's a traffic signal at all. The reason for them is that the driver who does the hitting is ALWAYS at fault by law, unless the person who gets hit has broken the law. Jaywalking laws allow the idiots jumping out in front of traffic to be legally responsible.
Yeah, but I'm regular block shaped cities like NYC, that's literally every corner. Even if the road is empty.
Load More Replies...German here, always crossing the street if there are not cars or kids around. Nobody cares.
Load More Replies...I live in a very touristy beach city. Tourists typically jaywalk and they not only hold up traffic they endanger themselves and those around them. It's especially weird because why are you in such a hurry while on vacation?
If the street is totally clear, yeah, go for it, whatever, but the number of people I see rushing across a BUSY street when there is a crosswalk like 10 feet ahead of them drives me insane
Garbage thinking being above the rules of safety. Just a friendly reminder: if you get hit by a car while jaywalking then you are the one who is forking over the money for repairs. In addition to citations for violating traffic laws.
Finally some common sense. Jaywalking may not seem like a big deal but your lack of self control can cost you and other peoples lives
Load More Replies...Crossing at the light can be more dangerous Drivers don't look where they are going when they turn or they are driving up a pedestrians a*s making them hurry because they are frustrated about being stuck in traffic or they just don't care I've been narrowly missed at the light by a car turning and the driver gave me the finger for being in the way if the street in the middle of the intersection is clear it can be much safer
Thank you for actually knowing the definition of jaywalking! All other comments seem to be about crossing on a red light and I was starting to doubt myself
Load More Replies...“Pirating content is also an answer that struck a chord with me,” the redditor continued. “I make every effort to buy media. But if the world won't sell it to me, I'll take to the seas. I also thought there was some great advice on getting scientific papers from the authors as opposed to paying for them.”
Rules about pirating content that I am geographically restricted from streaming legally.
You wouldn't download a car... you wouldn't... erm... I forgot the rest of the ad.
Load More Replies...I'm sorry, but there are certain movies that are impossible to find for purchase, and are never available on streaming services, so the only option for these (typically older that have officially gone public domain) movies IS to "pirate" them...
Of that variety, Youtube is great. I was watching Charlie Chan movies last week. :D
Load More Replies...Immigrated when one would still own a DVD-player. Bought and paid. It's ours. We could not even use it on DVD's we also bought and paid for, because the player was 'sett' to our original country/world code. Had to buy a new DVD-player. And then we could not play the DVD's we already owned, because the new player was set to the current county/world-code.
All my dvd players I owned were multiregion. They were easy to find and cheap too.
Load More Replies...With the recent price hikes from streaming services, absolutely zero remorse.
I agree with this particular issue. But we need to be careful on this. I agree that „pirating” content you are restricted to get legally is ok. But it would not be ok to for example get a painting or photo or stuff like that without paying. Most stuff like that only damages the artist behind it.
Is thus because if different cost of the services in different countries? How they may use the materials in different countries?
Load More Replies...If you've already purchased something, are paying for a service which is showing that content, or that content is freely broadcast...there's no theft taking place. Legally, you're permitted to make dupes for backup purposes....the sticking point is that distributors encrypt content to prevent that (how both things are legal is beyond me) so given that, by pirating content, you're getting your legally permitted backup copy, and doing so in a way that avoids you, personally, from circumventing encryption! So they can suck on that....besides, studies have shown that people who pirate content are people that were never going to spend the money to buy the thing in the first place. It's theoretical losses.
Exactly! If ai had to pay for Game of Thrones, I wouldn't have watched it. Once Sean Bean is off, I wasted my time for a few seasons and gave up. I lost out on my pirating there. I've had to pirate high and low to find his movies and TV series. I couldn't buy most of it if I wanted to.
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If i find cash on the ground i'm not going to give it to the authorities
If I see who dropped it I will return it to them, or if it's a whole wallet with id cards I'll hand it in. But just loose cash on the ground, nah.
If you have no straightforward way of determining whose money it was, then trying to return it to the “owner” is futile. I’ll turn it over to authorities if it’s a large amount of cash, but everyday amounts? The police don’t want to deal with it either. If I can’t readily figure out who lost it, it’s mine now unless someone comes up shortly thereafter and can convincingly claim to have lost it.
Load More Replies...It depends on the circumstances, like if I find a duffel bag of cash I’d probably give it to authorities because that’s really odd, but a $20 bill on the ground I’d keep.
If you regularly find duffel bags full of cash, your dad isn't a chemistry teacher, he's just pretending.
Load More Replies...Yeh, of course depends on the amount and the location. 10 or 20 bucks on a random street would be immediately pocketed by 90% of people, larger amounts, and/or in a space where you have seen the victim, like someone dropping money at a supermarket checkout, would nearly always be returned. By most people.
If I find £10 or £20 on the ground, how am I supposed to find who lost it? If I wave it in the air asking who lost their money, everyone will want it. If people were always honest, I would give it back, but realistically I might as well keep it.
Wave it in the air, you hospital stay will cost more lol
Load More Replies...Loose cash on the ground: keeping it. Wallet on the ground: return it. Duffel bag of cash in wrapped bundles: definitely turning it over to authorities. Don't need any kidnapper/terrorist/d**g cartel types coming after me.
I've seen the movie "No Country for Old Men."
Load More Replies...I once found 20 Deutschmarks, and simply gave it to the next beggar. He could not believe his luck. It was much more worth to him than myself. I dunno. Felt like doing the right thing.
I did once track a wallet owner down and tell him I had it and that it was all intact. He told me to keep the cash and destroy the cards because they had already been blocked and replaced. Karma?
nah.. big cash i would give it to the police. small money, ii would still try return it. if not, i would put in a donation box. yes, i strongly feel guilt,not worth the mental torture
Absolutely. If it's a lot, the police. Tiny amounts go in the nearest charity shop. If it's say £40 right outside a supermarket, I take it into the shop in case someone didn't shut their purse properly (those new plastic banknotes are very bouncy)
Load More Replies...I used to buy lottery tickets as I found money, then in prayer the story of the old woman giving out of her necessity came to mind and it dawned on me that more can be achieved by giving the found money to charity no matter how small the amount.
Not expressing emotions to appear “strong/tough”. I had a hard year last year and I couldn’t hold it in and opened up with 3 coworkers I trusted. We have since then developed a very strong friendship and even since we all left out last company, we became really close friends.
If more people normalized mental illness the world would be a much better place.
Sometimes talking makes things worse, because every time you talk, you have to remember the whole ordeal again.. for what? I want the ordeal in the past, not permanently present because "talking is good". No. Talking makes things bigger and eternal
Load More Replies...Talking to a 30 yr old male. He was suicidal and we surrounded him and gave him support that he really can't get from his mom. I was saying I don't know if it's a male thing or a black thing or a combination and he said bingo. You got it. I said we'll, let's put that all aside, you are human and humans have emotions and it gets all too much sometimes.
Men need to be able to express their emotions without worry they're going to be considered "less manly" and women need to be able to express their emotions without being seen as "over-reactive or plain crazy". Human beings have all these complex emotions but we're not supposed to express them? I don't get it.
People have been getting so much better than this as the years go by, which is one of the few things that gives me hope for the future
That attitude is so stupid. People will also shame you by telling you what you should or should not feel.
Ha. hahahaha I understand this. I'm a woman, who was a girl, who has always been 'instructed' to smile more, stop being dramatic (often when others are being as such, not me.), and "why are you down? You're being ungrateful" Yeeeah... annoying...
Load More Replies...Men especially need to be able to do this and women need to be listened to about how they feel instead of people telling them how they should feel.
I'm sick of people goading you into talking about emotions... and then finding out that they just did it so they can respond AT you with their own 'wisdom' (ie: Try to find something you've done wrong, because that makes them so s-m-r-t) - often making assumptions and NOT listening to key parts of what you're saying.
And not just mental illness, but a normal bad mood as well. Like just feeling sad.
Lol was called a crybaby for the first 10 years of school. An now im a cold b with rbf 🧐
Despite agreeing with fellow netizens that some rules are meant to be broken—in some cases, regularly—the OP told Bored Panda that he absolutely believes that rules are necessary for people.
“Rules often exist for a very good reason. They help ensure a (generally) peaceful society. They deter criminal behavior that might endanger us. They guarantee that my football team is going to move 15 yards up the field if the opposing team is rough on our quarterback. That said, I don't believe that all rules are entirely necessary. And as this post proved, a sizable population of redditors would agree.”
Making the bed. Why would I make my bed all neat if I'm just going to mess it up again at the soonest opportunity? As long as nothing is sliding off the bed then it's fine.
It's better to not immediately make your bed so your mattress and blankets can air out.
Exactly! I straighten it up and fold the covers back. Haven't actually "made" the bed in years.
Load More Replies...I don't make the bed for me. I do it because that's the way my dogs like it.
Oh, I never saw a point in that. As soon as I moved out of my parents' house, I stopped. Never made bed since, never looked back
To me, it is luxurius ( spelling?) . Just says, I am not going to be nutty about chores.
Load More Replies...I make the bed a little while after I get up so there's not cat hair in the sheets when I go to bed.
Open up initially to air out then pull up covers before I leave. Keeps strange things from taking refuge unbeknownst to me. Or hide "things" if someone comes over.
Load More Replies...My mom's response to this, which still pisses me off, is "why wipe your a*s if you're just going to poop again?" As if it's in any way comparable.
Leave it unmade for a short while to air out, but then make it to prevent dog hair and dust from settling on the sheets throughout the day.
It's just being a slob. I would bet it's not just the bed that is a mess.
My employees dont pay for food on my shifts. we dont pay them a living wage, i’m not about to make them pay for a meal for themselves after theyve given me 8-9 hours of their day.
I doubt that's OPs decision. Sounds like they are just a manager.
Load More Replies...To the people saying op should pay a living wage - if you actually click on the link to Reddit before having a go at them, one of the top replies is someone saying just that, to which op says "because i am a lowly service/kitchen manager and this is retaliation against my bosses. trust me, if i could pay everyone enough to live well, i would". So maybe get the facts before insulting someone.
The fact that they say "my shifts" indicates they are a manager, who doesn't have control of the wages being paid. And if you click on the link in the lower left, you can see they are in fact, a kitchen manager with no control over wages.
I used to work at a brunch place that didn't do Family Meal for staff, but there was always a hotel pan of bacon on the line. One day, my manager said, "Okay, y'all. I do it, too, but we're going through an extra pig every week and it's starting to get noticed."
The bean counters also need to get f****d. Most large restaurant/hotel chains are not gonna notice marginal increases in waste unless somebody points it out to them
Load More Replies...I worked in a restaurant kitchen in high school and college. You could eat whatever you wanted, as much as you wanted, and whenever you wanted for free. Just get your job done, and do it right was all they asked.
Absolutely legend. You are doing what you can, (and in your control!), to help!
Separating laundry by colors, I just throw everything in together
No need to do that with 99% of modern fabrics, but take care with new garments, particularly deep reds, as some may still not be colour-fast at least for the first few washes. Dark blue jeans as well.
This, off course, does not matter if all you wear is black, red and jeans.
Load More Replies...While I definitely do not separate everything by color (usually I have a "dark" and a "light-colored" bin), some of my pink (former white) shirts would strongly disagree (overlooked a single red sock once). And if a pair of jeans can stain my sofa blue permanently, it will certainly do the same to my towels.
Mental cringe just reading this, it's ok it you don't mind grey whites, dull brights ok if your willing. But if you spend good money on your clothes you should look after them as they last better and therefore create less waste
They're a con. They change colour because their structure is specifically engineered to soak up and trap the dirt and soap residue in the water. They cannot prevent dye from one item of clothing from staining another.
Load More Replies...This isn't a rule, it's logic. If you don't want your white t-shirt turning pink, separate!
Yes, you only need to separate whites from colored clothes, so you bleach whites with chlorine bleach.
Load More Replies...New garments with strong colors from certain countries do bleed color but most modern clothes are prewashed and will be fine.
It's a matter of natural or artificial fibre, not which country it's from.
Load More Replies...Me too. The first time I started doing my laundry, I lived in an apartment building that provided washers and dryers. When it's $2.50 to wash and another $2.50 to dry, you can bet I didn't seperate my laundry. That was back in the 90s when I was probably making maybe, at the most, 6 or 7 dollars an hour working in retail part time.
Load More Replies...If it contains natural fibres (cotton/silk/wool) take care with colours. If it's 100% artificial fibre it doesn't matter, because artificial fibres are essentially plastics, and the colour is fixed. Plastic ducks won't turn your bathwater yellow for the same reason a red polyester shirt won't run in the wash.
I refuse to mix. I do darks, lights, whites (they need a higher temp imo), towels, bedding, all separately. ... That said, I have a large family, so it's easier. Once I'm back to just me and my husband, I might well need to throw in together or I'd probably wait weeks for a full load of each. Oh.. two other separate loads. Works clothes (husband and sons all manual workers so very dusty or oily clothes), and dog bedding etc (two dogs, lots of fur that I don't want on our clothes).
Ugh, the grey whites, the spotty darks, just take the time and do separate loads, your clothing will thank you.
"Do not discuss salary with colleagues or people outside this company." - F**k that.
Edit: Phew!
To be clear, I am not part of the US and not really part of the EU. The act of discussing pay is not legally protected here. It may be in the future though...
I work in the video games industry and we're open about salaries, but people freak out if you start talking about unionization. Legally we're allowed to say anything except directly tell people they should sign up for a card. But people act like it's taboo cause they're afraid of consequences from leadership
Try that union stuff in a work at will state like Georgia. They can fire you for unionizing.
Load More Replies...I think it's absolutely all right to discuss pay with co-workers. That's how you find out if you're underpaid for the same work or not. I also think companies should post expected salary ranges when they post want ads.
"To be clear, I am not part of the US and not really part of the EU." That's quite an elaborate way to say you're from the UK
Salary transparency will become law in Massachusetts next year. Should be fun.
Load More Replies...Corporations don't want peons within the company comparing salaries because they'll notice a pay gap for the same duties.
I've actually had the main office HR person tell me not to talk about paychecks. And her saying that was totally illegal.
Its illegsl to include such a clause in Australia. It became law to ban such clauses to assist females to access equal pay by removing such secrecy clauses
I refuse to use Starbucks sizes and say small, medium, or large.
To clarify, it's not on any sort of ethical grounds, I just don't like their coffee.
Load More Replies...I’ve just recently learned that some study found out Starbucks is the worst coffee you can get. It was about the quality of the coffee beans.
I don't want a sugary drink where you can't taste any coffee. With that said, their coffee is extremely bitter when you order it straight. Probably to make up for all the sweetners they jam in.
It'd been years since I've been in the US and drank Starbucks, but I liked the coffee. I put milk in it, so maybe that's the difference and black, it would be worse? I found it nice, strong but not undrinkable (again - with milk. But black coffee is undrinkable to me anyway). My brothers who are black-coffee-drinkers found it okay, too.
Load More Replies...I don't get coffee culture. I don't drink it but I've seen people argue about how they drink their coffee. Apparently there are rules and they judge each other on the kind of coffee they drink. 10 years ago, I was back in AZ at my dad's house and a few old friends stopped by. I was in my 30s then. Two of them walk in with Starbucks as my dad is making instant coffee. The kind you make per cup. Two of my friends holding Starbucks give him s**t and he turned around and said, "Why do you care if I drink instant coffee? If I like it, why does it matter? And this jar of instant coffee will last me three weeks and it cost less than one of those things you have that looks like a waterdowned milkshake." That shut them up.
I’m not a coffee snob. Any port in a storm. But instant coffee is a waste of good water
Load More Replies...If you say "small" at Starbucks, you will probably get a child-sized cup, which as I recall is what that's called. Most baristas will understand what you mean when you say "medium" or "large" however.
I don't think that's the case in every country and to be honest if I'm in the states a child cup is probably the size I'd expect for a "small"
Load More Replies...Simple solution, don't go to Starbucks. Plenty of better coffee stands. So.e of those little kiosks on the side of the road are so much better and privately owned.
but the owner of the coffee kiosk around the corner of my house is a right wing a*****e who rants about immigrants!
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I'm so tired of the "subscription" world we live in now. I basically just pirate everything. I used to still buy the discs. But many movies don't get released in UHD, so what's the point of even looking.
I don't want to stream compressed 4k. And I certainly don't want to worry about whether or not the company pulls the movie from their service or just stops it altogether.
Where I live, you can still buy blueray and not pay a monthly fee for c**p shows.
Sick of the whole 'stream only' and 'it's on the cloud' nature of movies/shows/games. What that means is that I'm not paying to own a thing - I'm just renting it... for... some.. indeterminate amount of time - and I can't play it if they decide their service is on vacation or undergoing maintenance. It's why I decided against the newest/latest console(s) too. I'm not paying $70-$100 for a game that I don't have the option of playing a year/2 years from now solely because, what, the server shut down? They decided to 'take it back' from consumers? Nooo... I paid for it to HAVE it, not to RENT it.
Subscription everything, even hardware in the pro world, like broadcom who makes you pay for switch ports.
I got rid of cable and I pay for 3 services. Much cheaper. Just have to cancel them if it's between seasons for the shows you watch.
Load More Replies...The few times that I have bought a digital copy of a film from a subscription service I have used software to download it to a hard drive.
We had to stop because we would constantly forget what subscriptions we had and when the money would come out, and then forgetting to cancel free trials. We're back to buying DVDs.
I use my phone calendar to pop reminders for me to cancel trials, and to remind me when subscriptions come out.
Load More Replies...Plus, if you buy digital content on one platform and that content gets licensed to another streaming site, there goes your "purchase"
I have been hermit crabbing hard drives for about 15 years now, when my 500gb got full of pirated movies I got a 1 tb hard drive and so on, I have almost filled my 4th hard drive with movies tv shows music and software, I have more stuff than all the streaming services combined.
Are you actually going to watch all the things repeatedly? If not, what’s the point?
Load More Replies...Please don't do that...Pirate entertainment. I know it may seem like it's not hurting anyone because its a big blockbuster movie, but 80% of the production crew and on screen talent make union minimum and rely on the residuals to tide them over until the next gig. Casual pirating of entertainment damages the people who cannot afford to be damaged while not doing much at all to the MAJOR players.
There is an outlet mall near us that has designated spaces painted with pink ribbons that are for breast cancer survivors. The spaces are always empty. I am a 2x ovarian cancer survivor. I use the spaces as needed.
That seems really weird. If you survived any cancer and are healthy, why would you need a special parking space? This seems more like PR and lip service to breast cancer awareness than it does practical or meaningful
Because even though you may have survived the cancer, there are often life-long side effects. I have CIPN (chemotherapy induced peripheral neuropathy) from my breast cancer treatment. Because of this, walking is painful. My feet hurt if anything touches them. I can't walk very far without extreme pain. Those spaces allow people to be closer to entrances, just like handicap spaces.
Load More Replies...As a prostate cancer patient I'd use this space. Might get some strange looks of course.
Men can also get breast cancer.
Load More Replies...Yes, it's a serious disease but it's not the only one out there. My great-uncle and my sister died from brain cancer. My son has a brain tumor. There is a gray ribbon for brain cancer but I've never seen one displayed. ☹️
I sure wish you'd said "parking" spaces. It took me forever to figure out what you meant.
My pet peeve is parking spaces for “mother and child” at grocery stores. Parenthood is not a disability. I used to park in those with my mother when I was in my 60s and she was in her 90s 😂
I've never seen any that say only "mother and child". What I see is "expectant mothers", which seems appropriate because many women that are in the later stages (and some in early stages) can definitely have difficulty with walking, or "new mothers", which also feels somewhat appropriate, too, because they may be adjusting carrying around the baby and dealing with strollers or putting carriers in carts or even just carrying the carrier. A lady with an 8yo definitely doesn't need special treatment.
Load More Replies...How do you prove that tho? Do you have to carry letters from the hospital and ID?
Considering todays "Karen" society, I can imagine people stopped using them because they got tired of the harassment from such people. It stems from handicap spaces/placards. "You don't look handicapped to me" blah blah blah. Next thing you know they think they can control everyone/everything.
Do socks really need to match, or is this just a bill of goods sold to us by Big Laundry?
"I met a girl in a bar. She said, you know you're wearing two different colored socks. I said, yeah, but to me they're the same because I go by THICKNESS." --Steven Wright
When I'm told that my socks don't match, i always reply "Really? I have a pair at home just like these." (And silently wonder "Foot fetish much?")
I once bought my BIL a pair of socks, one red with green print, one green with red print, stating that "the red/green sock belongs with the green/red". And he actually wears them. (His vice is funny socks)
I always buy packs of plain black socks, then it doesn't matter if I lose any.
White for me, and I have enough to last about three weeks (along with underwear). When the supply gets low I wash all of them in one load, then dump it all in a large drawer. Folding socks and underwear is the biggest waste of time ever devised.
Load More Replies...My mom said I looked homeless when she saw me wearing 2 different socks. I'm like, I'm wearing long pants and runners. Who's gonna know?
My dad would wear mismatched socks, and if someone pointed it out to him, he'd just grin and say, "Yeah, and I got another pair at home just like them!'
I buy multupacks of colorful ankle socks and often end up losing one half of each pair at some point. After that point, I just start wearing mismatched pairs since they're all the same style and thickness, and NOBODY has ever noticed.
They have to at least be from the same set if not the same pair, because I can feel it if they’re different.
Dress codes. Dress codes tend to be more restrictive for females than males (don’t tempt him with your exposed clavicles, ladies). Many of them are also racist. And they have absolutely nothing to do with someone’s standards or ability to perform duties, whether it be a job, a school, or even a restaurant.
Like the two ladies beach volleyball teams that were fined for refusing to wear the ladies gear and instead wore what the men wear.
The beach volleyball inequality is infuriating. Watching men's briefly last night, long shorts and one was wearing spandex long pants under his shorts. Wtf
Load More Replies...Sometimes the restrictions are the other way round. I worked in places were women could wear whatever they wanted while men HAD to wear long trousers. All well and good until the temperature outside is over 40ºC :)
Long trousers, tie AND jacket for one job I took. And no jeans. In another case I know, (not mine) the shirt had to be white and trousers and jacket both black. Women could wear whatever they wanted so long as it was long enough.
Load More Replies..."But but but it's so DISTRACTING to the boys." Karen, teach your son how to NOT GAWK.
Even creepier is when it's the teachers. Like, WTF? If the teacher is having a problem not staring at teenaged students' boobs, that's his problem. Also the school's. Not the kid's.
Load More Replies...I have to disagree on this one. When working in a warehouse, you need to get the shoes/boots for it, no dress but shorts are acceptable. If you're working with clients, no shorts (when working in an office). Some clothing have no place in a working place, leave it for the beach.
If the dress is the same length as the shorts, tell me again how it shouldn’t be allowed. And IDGAF who’s wearing it
Load More Replies...Exactly. I remember in middle school, the dress code was no ripped jeans, and no tank tops. The second a girl broke that, she got dress coded. I remember a guy came to school, wearing a tank top, and VERY ripped jeans, and you didn’t see him get dress coded. 🧐
Certain hair styles common among African Americans have been banned by some employers.
Load More Replies...School uniforms do have one benefit. When every child is wearing the same clothes (and in many cases from the same manufacturer or supplier) it stops the fashion wars where the wealthy kids turn up in the latest designer gear and a new outfit every day and mock the poorer kids for wearing the same cheap chain store /bargain store clothes multiple times.
Yet the wealthy accesorize differently or their shoes are high-end. It still happens. Just not in the way you see it. Ask teachers at schools that require a uniform and you'll learn the way wealthy students still pull rank over the poorer students.
Load More Replies...I work at a university, so there's no dress code and styles are all over the spectrum. But for certain events hosted by my area, we are expected to wear business attire.
This is a major perk of working at a university, I love it!
Load More Replies...I absolutely hate them. Only time it should be necessary is for safety reasons
The rule against ending a sentence with a preposition. That is one rule, up with which I will not put.
Grammar rules enables others to avoud misunderstandings AND learn a foreign language. You would not understand my English if I applied the grammar rules of my mothet tongue. That having said, it is very confusing that "they" is not solely plural anymore. I give up on quit ea lot of texts, because it is impossible to figure out how many people there are. You do you with your language, but for me "they" is more than 1.
They has been able to be singular before singular "the". Shakespeare was around to use singular they.
Load More Replies...I remember an old joke about a country girl who moved to the big city. She struck up a conversation with a casual acquaintance, and asked "Where are you from?" The other woman stuck her nose up in the air and replied "I come from a place where we don't end our sentences with a preposition." The country girl said "Oh, excuse me. I meant where are you from, b***h."
I had an English teacher who was pretentious about this rule, but she would always screw it up. For example, she would say, "That was a thing about which I didn't know about."
This was started by people who wanted to improve English by having it follow the rules of Latin. Ignoring the fact that, while English is full of words borrowed from many Romance languages, it is in fact a Germanic language,with different rules.
A lot of these Latinate grammar rules are literally impossible to violate in proper Latin. You can’t meaningfully end a sentence in Latin with a preposition because the language’s structure doesn’t allow it. You can’t split an infinitive in Latin because it’s a single word (a trait that remains in modern Romance languages). And so on. The imposition of these Latin rules dates back at least to the 19th century, and like many other customs of that era, should have stayed there.
Load More Replies...This rule - and the prohibition against splitting an infinitive - come from a time when people thought that formal English should resemble the structure of Latin as much as possible.
I studied my buns off but barely scored a C in Latin, back in college. All I can remember now is the poem that was carved into my desk by a previous student in that class, who apparently struggled, too... "Latin is a dead language. it came across the sea. It killed off all the Romans. And now it's killing me!" 😅
Load More Replies...It's usually just too awkward. If I can work it out so it sounds okay, I will, but otherwise, no.
That rule has now been more or less "officially" cancelled anyway. I think one of the big dictionary people did something semi official last year. I could go look it up, but I used all my energy typing this.
There is no difference between being at work at 8am and 8:10am. Especially when it’s not shift work and there’s no one waiting for you to arrive so they can leave. In every job I’ve had they always gripe about being right on time at 8am and then you have hovering managers looking at the door to see who’s late at 8:02am. I am always at work but I will not be there at 8am on the dot for the next 25+ years of my life. It makes no difference
Agreed. Luckily, I have flexible hours, so I can basically start whenever I want to as long as I do 8 hours a day (which is also stupid because I don't need 8 hours nor am I able to focus for 8 hours, but as per contract)
Isn't it just disrespectful to your colleagues though? If you aren't there until 8.10 someone else has to cover your responsibilities, like answering calls. 10 minutes a day is 42 hours a year they have to cover you. Just because you can't get out of bed
Answering calls is an unlikely task for many jobs, psh, as if mobile phones haven’t been invented yet. :p Edit: I wanted to add they might be staying later too.
Load More Replies...Maybe true in an office but in a customer service setting it matters. If you leave me high and dry on my own because you feel start times are arbitrary, I will make your life miserable!
I was head of finance in a local charity. “Office hours” meant that people needed to know that support was available. Beyond that, though, we were absolutely flexible. It helped that all staff were motivated with the aims of the organisation. I’d often be in by 6:30am, take a couple of hours from 7:45 to go to the gym, have a 15 minute lunch break, and finish at 5:30. Office hours were 9 to 5. As long as someone was about, we all rubbed along nicely. One lady would arrive between 8 and 8:30 so she could leave early for traffic. Learning which rules can be adapted to help staff, and make the organisation work more effectively, without costing more (for the charity or the staff) makes a better manager.
Yeah, no. Donations can start showing up on the dot when we open and if the person meant to meet them is late I have to do their work on top of mine.
And that extra five minutes because their bus was delayed matters how?
Load More Replies...If you didn't like it when they interviewed, you should have refused. Those are the hours you are HIRED to work and are PAID to work. Add up 10 min every day fir a solid year, that is what you owe back to the company in time or wages. My (,of all courses) music appreciation instructor in college started to lock the door when class began. Reasoning, when people come in late it disrupts the flow and causes repetition which takes time from people that are on time.
You do know you just work extra 10 on the end of your shift, right?
Load More Replies...I'm always early. Not because of some twisted sense of duty, but just because if I leave my house 20 mins later than usual, the traffic has built up so much that it can take an extra 45mins to an hour. And I can't be arsed to sit in traffic.
We’ve already proven that work from home is successful. Why do you need bodies in the office every day?
It may do if, for example, your company is contractually obliged to provide telephone support from 8am, and face a penalty if someone rings and gets no answer. It is very industry-dependent.
Ages on car seats. I think a kid’s age has zero relation and all car seat requirements should be based on weight alone.
My grandson is not quite 3 & weighs close to 40 pounds. Granddaughter is 19 months and weighs 33 pounds. Neither are overweight, both in the 95th percentile. By age, granddaughter should be seated facing backwards, but she's too big. They're both very tall and big for their ages, and pediatrician says very healthy. You have to go by weight and height.
Exactly. former co-workers son at age 2 was as tall as his 5 year old sister and she was by no means short or small for her age. Another former co-worker, her grandmothers first born was 17 pounds (i never inquired on height). Of course that was in the days before child seats.
Load More Replies...NO NONONONONONONONONONO STOP. I recently took a class in educating about this. Ages are listed, and IMPORTANT becayse it measures the childs physical development. Not growth. A child's body is developing, myscles are getting stronger, and they are all around getting more durable. Age, without seeing a doctor, is the only way to measure this kind of development. Just because by weight they are heavy enough to be sat in a forward car seat, does not mean they have the neck muscles to keep their head up. Or the physical ability to withstand the increased forces applied by being forward facing.
Yes, but if the seat is too small to fully accommodate the head, you have to go to the next size . Even if the age still fits . Isofix ISize ! Even if they hate it and complain! When their friends ride along and make fun of it, I describe in gruesome detail what happened to all the stuff in my car when it flipped over on the highway ... They usually are very happy to sit in a seat and buckle up
Load More Replies...Age does have a lot to do. At a certain age their neck is strong enough to sit forward facing but still need the protection of a surrounding car seat. Backward facing although the child may be long, their neck is no strong enough yet.
Nope, size as well. Thee seats are there because they are too short for the belt so that it doesn't go over the shoulder across the chest, but over the neck.
It is based on height and weight. The age is just an average for an example.
Talk to your Pediatrician. Don't just make up alternate "rules" you think make sense.
I wear socks and sandals. The people complaining are annoyingly ridiculous. I’m not gonna show my hairy feet if I don’t want to and I can’t stand the feeling/sound of sweaty feet on sandals.
I have CIPN (chemotherapy induced peripheral neuropathy). I wear socks and slippers 24/7. Anything touching my feet causes pain. The socks protect my feet.
Most fashion "rules" are just peoples preferences. You wear those socks with sandals, wear white after labor day, mix black and brown. Don't let fashion conventions control you. I did that for far too long.
Socks reduce the amount of blisters I get. So my blisters decided to appear between my toes, instead of an my heels. Go figure.
Yep, some sandals get real slippery inside when wet or sweaty. If the foot doctor at my church wears sock in sandals, he must know something
socks with sandals, yeah, such a terrible crime, complaining about it in the present circumstances of the planet means someone has got their "priorities" wrong
Lying on your resume. I’m not talking about completely lying that you worked at Google for 2 years when you didn’t. That’s a little much.
But in reality i have gaps between many jobs, due to either unemployment or just needing a damn break between jobs. but on my resume i have consecutively been employed with no gaps my entire career. I feel like recruiters see gaps as a red flag, and sometimes your resume doesn’t make it far enough to even explain the gaps, even if they’re completely harmless gaps.
In regard to background checks for new jobs I’ve personally still passed all of mine with no issues. To my knowledge the agency conducting the background checks can only verify information you give them yourself (not the employer). So I simply don’t provide exact dates, just the year I worked at whatever place. Of course this could backfire, but so far so good over here
Edit: I fundamentally disagree with it because employers lie about the job description all the time. What you actually end up doing rarely matches what they pitch you.
I don't put months either, especially if it was several years ago. It's old news.
Oh, I hate the attitude mist companies have for gaps. And it's not everywhere you can say "for my mental health" and they'd accept such reasoning without further inquiries and judgement
If you have a gap in your resume, the words "Health issue, resolved" are the perfect solution. In many countries it then becomes illegal for them to ask for further details.
Depends on the job you're applying to. You don't want to just say health issues if the job is physically demanding. They may see it as you could be a liability or unable to do the work.
Load More Replies...Some applications ask for the street address of former employers. Yeah, I worked there in 1968, but that company doesn't exist any more. Neither does that building. Maybe not even that street.
I can understand not writing in the months, so smaller gaps are not as visible, but anything other than that -at least in academics- really is a big no no.
It's even worse. Companies require rwo dozens skills, that would normally be done by three different people with different skill backgrounds. The entire system is nuts.
I would say that embellishing the truth is fine (even expected in the bullshít job hunt culture) just don’t pretend you can do anything you can’t do, and don’t lie about required licenses.
I'm in my early 50's, and have been doing work in my field since before college. It's gotten to the point where I have started removing some of the earlier jobs from my resume (as well as my education, which at this point is absolutely irrelevant to my capabilities, especially since I'm a software developer, and I use 0% of the stuff I learned in college because it's all obsolete at this point).
No putting your elbows on the table. It's a silly rule that was based on the idea of "if you have room to put your elbows on the table, it implies your host didn't provide enough food." We make bigger tables now. And most of the time I'm the one who is buying the food in question.
Complete;y fallacious explanation, that's not the reason for the 'rule' at all. It comes more from the concept that if you do so you're hogging the table space and blocking yourself off from your table neighbours.
I was once told that tables used to essentially be boards supported by saw horses, and if you leaned on your elbows you could tilt the board and dump everyone's food in their laps.
Load More Replies...I heard it was from back when tables weren't always level and putting extra weight could cause it to tip or lean .. not sure where I heard it though.
Tables were not as stable back in the day. Putting your elbow I was on the table could upset the setting
Nope. It was because tables were generally not affixed to the base. If you put your elbows on and put weight, the table would tip.
What really bothers me is when people lean their whole self into the table and start pushing it. Sit up or fúck off!
This was a rule my mom had for us as kids. She even still yells at my dad about it. We all know better than to argue with her. :)
Actually literally just watched an etiquette coach describe why this exists: it goes way back to the late middle ages when they used trestle tables, and placing your elbows in the table could tilt and upset the whole thing. So, a holdover from that, but maintained for the spacing and politeness of not hanging over your plate shoveling everything into your mouth. Host providing enough food has nothing to do with it.
As long as your elbows doesn't take table space for others, there's no reaon for this rule.
I'm conscious of the speed limit, but typically follow the speed of traffic first. So if traffic is going faster than the speed limit, I'm going to go faster to keep pace with everyone else.
Let the judging begin! Likely, this refers to some 5 km/h over or so ... likely, the comments will assume it's like doing 200 in a 30 during a snowstorm in front of a school at half past one, drunk and rolling a cigarette on the wheel, with a disabled Grandma tied to the roof.
Cannot lie, I needed that laugh this morning XD Thank you!
Load More Replies...Speed is the major cause of road deaths. Road deaths are the biggest cause of death of young people. Don't pretend that breaking a law that has saved hundreds of thousands of lives over the years is somehow noble.
No, this is the school of fish theory of driving. You're safest if you stay with the school of fish. Less likely to be picked up by police. And less likely to Be killed when a fish from the school comes hauling a** down the highway and rear ends your confusing 50mph car that's causing everyone else to have to zig and zag all around you. Creating a hazard. Stick with the school. You're safest that way.
Load More Replies...To a degree. I'll go 5 mph over the speed limit on the highway. If y'all zoom up and ride my a*s trying to force me to go faster, I'll park my cruise control exactly at the speed limit. And laugh when you hit the brakes because of the cop sitting up the road. And through construction zones? Speed limit regardless. You get the ticket. I won't.
I feel that going at the prevailing speed of traffic is safer than going the speed limit rather than becoming a road block prompting road rage.
Load More Replies...I'm sure the police will just let you go after you flatten a school child if you explain it like this
The police are much less likely to pick up someone moving with the flow of traffic than someone acting weird driving too slow. What's up with that guy?
Load More Replies...It's people who speed to catch up with the flow of traffic who close all the natural gaps in traffic. The natural gaps in traffic are what you are waiting for when you're trying to cross a road as a pedestrian or turn onto a main road in a vehicle. I can't stand the mindless idiots who keep pace with the mindless idiot in front who's keeping pace with the mindless idiot in front of them!
They are also the reason those who are legitimately trying to overtake the (for example) slow truck on the two-lane highway and can't because there is no gap. So they have to just swipe into the traffic and the speeders will have to hit the brake and THAT is the reason for unexplained traffic-jams. (and accidents, obviously)
Load More Replies...I do what is more likely to prevent accidents. And all highways should absolutely have a speed minimum in addition to a speed limit. When we lived in TX, there were roads that had a speed limit of 80mph, but no speed minimum, and we had people who would do 45mph - more accidents were caused by that than anything else.
Is this common in the US? I thin in Europe there is always a minimum speed for highways
Load More Replies...On the other hand, if I let all the crazy drivers pass me, they are now right in front of me where I can watch out for them.
Driving slower than the traffic flow will get you in as much trouble as speeding.
The rule that you cannot place a +2 on a +2 in UNO I am always going to break that rule no matter what anyone says
I have never heard that rule in my life. If I plus you, then I will plus you, and HARD.
it seems it is an actual rule, mattel came out to clarify that on twitter when asked, since nobody reads the rules of the game
Load More Replies...A +4 on a +4 is allowed in our house (as long as you don't have the colour called in your hand). But then we use one and a half decks, one full set and the nasties from the other. It makes the game more fun and interesting. We've played games where a person has had to pick up more than 10 cards on repeated +2s lol.
Load More Replies...You can do this if everyone agrees. But if the rest of the table wants to play with the original rules, then you need to do that too. If you don’t then you can’t play with the rest and boo hoo to you
I can if the game's at my house. That's what house rules means. When I go to their house I play their way and don't gripe about it.
Load More Replies...From the official website: Draw Two – When a person places this card, the next player will have to pick up two cards and forfeit his/her turn.
But what happens when the person after that also throws a +2? Which is totally within the rules because matching card if not colour?
Load More Replies...I can see both sides on this one. The rules -- in an ultimate sense -- ARE the game. It's actually why I don't play Uno anymore: There are too many individual rules, and when I've tried to sit down in the past to figure out what each new person's personal rules are, people get irritated and don't want to do it. Then, of course, there are fights during the game because no one knows what can actually be done or not.
Is that a rule? We've always played with that as a "ha ha"-rule, whereby you pass the problem onto the next one down the line who then have to pick up 4 cards, unless he has a +2 himself.
I refuse to spell out YMCA with my arms when that song comes on.
I don't do any movement dances, not the time warp, not the macarena, not ymca, not the chicken dance, not "im a little teapot". F**k off.
Me neither, and I f'king hate that one dance Nazi at every party who gets mad because because 'yOU'rE NOt dOinG tHe DAncE'.
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Not a rule but i refuse to fill out opinion surveys for service or something i bought. If you want me to provide you with optimization information for your business, i need something in return.
If I got particularly bad service, I will definitely do that.
Load More Replies...This isn't logical. There are potentially lots of reasons to contribute. The company isn't necessarily your enemy, nor do they owe you anything. They're asking how they can improve a service that you clearly required done at some point, most people know to appreciate that without getting greedy. Hell, a lot of places give you free stuff for filling out the survey anyway. That said, I never do them either - but I'm just lazy.
Ok thank you because I was thinking this didn't make sense. They say they don't want to fill out a survey for a service they received or product they bought, but they need something in return? You...you got the service. Or the product? Am I missing something? It's fine if they don't fill out the surveys but this was a weird explanation.
Load More Replies...If it concerns the service delivered by a specific person, I will do so, because it affects their yearly review.
Yes. I will do these to compliment a representative, because I've worked those jobs, and I appreciate how much of a grind they can be, and how thankless they often are. If the rep was kind and helpful, if my comment can help that person get a good review and possibly a raise down the line, then I'm very happy about doing those.
Load More Replies...Thank you for your post...please fill out a short survey on your experience posting here. To verify you are human, please click on all pictures of a duck.....🤣
In such a case I am sure I would instantly be unable to remember what a duck looks like.
Load More Replies...I was at walmart and had to use a stupid self checkout, just cause I was in a hurry and the line for a cashier was long (otherwise I refuse to use self checkout) and a lady came over to help with something and put in a 5 star review for herself on the pin pad before I could tape to cancel it. Like wow, really? She didn't deserve a 5 star anyways cause she was hella rude.
Speeding on the interstate. Get out of the left lane!
This is common sense, which is why people don't obey this rule of the road.
Unless you are from the UK, where apparently that IS the slow lane
Load More Replies...Seriously. I'm so tired of driving in the left on the interstate and some idiot in a pickup gets in front of me, while physically on their phone, to do the same speed they were doing in the middle lane. Like WTF? Get out of the way!
If I can pass you in the right lane doing the speed limit, you do not need to be driving.
If I come up behind you in the left lane and you don't move over you're a jacka$$.
Load More Replies...In New Jersey, in america, you can get a ticket for driving in the left lane unless you are actively passing someone.
In Southern California, we need every inch of freeway space we can get. The idea of leaving any lane open for passing just wouldn't work here.
Load More Replies...nah I find this obnoxious and dangerous. It's a law in our country but anyone going over 120km/h on the motorway is a c**t and must be stopped.
Who made you the police? Left lane in the US is the overtaking lane. Move your a*s over if you're not passing.
Load More Replies...I really want to make a bumper sticker that says "Check your ego at the car door".
Where I live, we have an opposite problem. "oh, my exit's in a mile? I can just coast there."
Also, if there is no one in the passing lane and you are coming up on a merge lane, get the hell over so people can merge in...dumbass.
I tip the minimum amount at restaurants.
Places nowadays want a minimum 25% tip and I will do 15% every time. You don’t get to tell me how generous I have to be. And in case everyone forgot, tips are OPTIONAL.
I don't tip by percentage, I tip by level of service. If service was poor, I tip less. If service was great, I tip more. I always take into account if the server is really busy, if they are new, etc.... I have never not tipped but it is MY choice how much to leave, not some random whoever that decided we should all tip this. I rarely eat out anymore because I am so disgusted that this is the 21st century and restaurants can still get by with paying their help less than $3.00 an hour.
They get away with $3/hr *because* of tipping. The only way to stop this, other than through the government, is for everyone to simply stop tipping. Even if that could be organized, that will feel like a punishment to servers who depend on tips. Sure, they'll quit, and then restaurants will be forced to offer better wages, but in the meantime, servers will be unemployed.
Load More Replies...In the US it's totally unfair that servers are paid ridiculously cheap and not livable wages (I've ;heard about $2.50!) because the owner feels they'll make it up in tips. And the waitress usually has to share the tips with the busboy and the chef etc. It's outrageous. there should be a national law about a bare minimum for servers!
Sadly that is the law for tipped employees in the U.S. Directly from the Department of Labor's website it says "Tipped employees are individuals engaged in occupations in which they customarily and regularly receive more than $30 a month in tips. The employer may consider tips as part of wages, but the employer must pay at least $2.13 an hour in direct wages." Each state may have their own rules but that is the federal requirement. I couldn't imagine making $2.13 an hour and relying on my customers to fund me the rest of my pay. Absolutely appalling!
Load More Replies...Tips are NOT mandatory by law, not even in the US. But tipping is frowned upon in Iceland 🇮🇸
Load More Replies...I will tip a lot better if I know I'm going to be returning to that restaurant multiple times, as that often equates to better service (and sometimes freebies) on future visits. But even if it's a place I know I'll only visit that one time, I will still do 20%. I hate tipping culture, but it's not the servers' fault, it's the owners & managers -- and I refuse to penalize the servers for that.
if you think 15% is minimum you have been brainwashed by the US tipping culture. Let's make something clear, the salary of the employees is the employer bussiness, not the patron.
Except generally the employees aren't paid a decent wage and yes it's stupid but you're punishing employees not the business
In the USA there are jobs which are classified as tipping roles… such as wait staff. If your job is classified that way minimum wage does not apply. Many of the people in those jobs are paid as little as $2 an hour because their cheap a** crappy employers are not bound by minimum wage laws. You literally, by tipping, may be helping those people pay their bills and feed their kids.
In the US culture dictates that tips are not optional. The mere fact that you haven't adjusted your tipping shows how old, stingy, and out of touch you are.
Don’t date where you work.
You spend nearly a third of your waking hours at work. You learn about the people you work with over weeks, months, years, and have a much better idea of compatibility than with a random club or dating app meetup.
I don't think the norm of not dating at work is about this. It's to prevent super awkward post break up situations and ij some instances to stop nepotism and inappropriate collusion between departments in a business
exactly ( and I'm saying this as someone who married a colleague) it's about making sure that the work environment stays professional, and that; whichever the relationship goes, it doesn't affect your productiveness, the reputation of your workplace, and feelings of equality within the team. So, while you can find a partner at work, it ususally means taking steps to ensure this.
Load More Replies...Studies show that if the couple breaks up, the woman is more likely to be asked to leave for”causing a disruption” in the workplace.
I have a friend who owns a restaurant with a very large staff of both male and female servers. Workplace dating is not prohibited, but the rule is, if any break-ups result in workplace drama, regardless of who initiated the break up, BOTH parties get fired.
Load More Replies...It's just awkward. I teach and a couple teachers got together recently. There was a lot of gossip and weirdness around campus. Granted, the guy teacher had JUST gotten out of a relationship with one of the PTO moms, whose daughter was in the woman teacher's class. That definitely fueled the fire. Anyway, people just need to be smart about it.
Especially if the company is huge and employ 99% of the local community. If your wife works there, you can't find a job.
And if it goes sour, you’re stuck working with this person for as long as one of you is at the company. Don’t s**t where you eat
This is a good rule to follow if you like keeping your job and avoiding drama at the workplace.
Isn't the OP's second paragraph suggesting that dating at work is a GOOD thing? It's phrased in a way that suggests you'll find more compatible people that way.
That's EXACTLY what they're saying. That they don't abide the rule of not dating at work because you know people better than on dating apps *eye roll*
Load More Replies...This is a good rule for many reasons. Recently a boss dated a new person and gave them all kinds of special treatment. It didn't end well for either person and office morale sucks.
A boss dating someone who works for them directly is another can of worms. No place with a competent HR department would allow that.
Load More Replies...Taking slightly longer breaks at work. Two 10min breaks and a 20min lunch on a 10hr shift. Nah
I used to work at a DG store so close to my house that you could holler and I'd hear you from my porch. They tried to tell me that, as the only key-holder, I wasn't allowed to leave the premises on my mandatory unpaid breaks. Nah, I'm going home to kick off my shoes and play with my dogs. Holler if you need me.
If breaks are unpaid, you are legally entitled to leave the worksite for the duration of your breaks.
Load More Replies...Depending on where you live it's mandatory to have at least a half hour lunch break for a ten hour shift. I guess those managers don't care if you're exhausted enough to not do your work correctly.
South Africa has strict laws about this and you can get in s**t if you do not follow them (as a manager). 15 minutes tea break at 11am and 1 hour at 1pm. I think there's also a 3pm tea break but I haven't read the Act recently.
Not where where you are, but that's illegal around here. 2 15's and a 30 are the minimum.
I got fired for not following this rule. I took two ten minute breaks on a six hour shift and was told that, by law, I was only allowed one.
The fact that there's no legal mandate about breaks and meals is ridiculous. There should be MANDATORY paid breaks and a mandatory 1 hr lunch.
In the US, at least, this is something regulated state-by-state, rather than at the Federal level. Paid and unpaid breaks are mandated where I live, but I can drive 15 minutes over the state line and there are no laws regarding them whatsoever.
Load More Replies...That short of a time is completely illegal in Canada! On my 12-hour shifts we get 2- 15 minute breaks and 2- 30 minutes breaks. Essentially we get 1.5 hours of PAID break time each shift.
My last job where I worked 12 hr shifts, I got one 30 min break, unpaid. That was it.
Load More Replies...In the USA, an 8 hour work day is allowed 2 - 15 minute breaks and 1 - hour for lunch (some give you 1/2 hour, but you get off 30 minutes early). If you're not getting your breaks, I'd reportit.
In what world do you only work 6.5 hours of an 8 hour shift
Load More Replies...Worked for AutoZone. one of the managers would spend between 4 and 6 hours a day outside smoking and cleaning the ashtray. Yes, she still took her lunch break on top of that. The store's already understaffed thanks to corporate stupidity. Our customers told us if they saw 2 customer cars in the lot as they approached, they'd just keep driving to the competitor down the hill because they know with 2 cars in the lot, they'd be waiting to be served because that manger would not come in to assist. AutoZone is a great company but is grossly mismanaged. No, it is not the only auto parts store I've worked for and I've worked retail for 50+ years. I know what I'm taking about.
On a 10 hr shift, I’m legally allowed two 15 minute breaks paid and two 30 minute lunches unpaid
I ignore margins in notebooks and write over them. Why waste space? I use the whole page.
I used to use them for clarifying ambiguity, my own observations, or for something I just remembered, I had to do, like adding something to a grocery list or reminder to call X since it's their birthday. If I wrote it down, right then or there, it was much likely that I would remember to do it.
Load More Replies...Why buy notebooks with a margin in them in the first place then? You can get them without, you know.
For journaling or notes, use the full page; for anything that someone else is likely to read (and potentially make changes to), respect the margins.
As somebody else hinted... margins/indentations were introduced to prevent losing text when the mice would nibble pages. It's not such a problem these days, but happened to paper in my old office... above a cheese shop!
In 1950s New Zealand they used to have six o’clock closing for all the bars by law. My dad was barely of drinking age but he used to line up with everyone else and hand over his cash while the publican sold flagons of beer over the back fence.
He told me this story to teach me this axiom:
“You don’t obey the *stupid* laws.”
When I grew up Sunday's were a no-no for serving alcohol. EXCEPT if you were travelling. So everyone would drive 40+ miles to a distant pub. Essentially you were encouraged to drink and drive.
My town had an earlier closing than the neighbouring one, which is why there are 3 pubs together on the jurisdictional border! Pubs closed, and everyone just walked down the road to keep going.
I grew up in a State where alcohol sales were illegal on Sunday. A friend and I used to make good money by filling the trunk of our car with beer.
I still live in a state which has that law. I don't drink anymore, so I don't care. But I remember in college rushing to buy beer on Saturday night before it hit midnight. :)
Load More Replies...SA has a stupid rule. You can't buy after 3pm on Sunday except at restaurants. So you just go shop at restaurants. Duh.
Who decides which are the stupid laws? In my book, seat belt laws are stupid. My son and I are both alive because we weren't wearing (2 different wrecks). If all of the data were released, it would show that seatbelts do not save lives. They "can" but you are just as likely to be injured or killed by it. Next time you hear of a wreck and they say person is dead and wasn't wearing, ask yourself, "would it have mattered?" They never answer that question because they don't want you to hear the facts. Remember, any stats or polls only seek and show the answer they desire, not the truth.
In Sweden you can't buy alcohol on Sundays, retail wise. The only store that sells alcohol is the government run store Systembolaget and they are open Monday to Friday 9am to maybe 6pm and on Saturday just a few hours in the morning. So there is no way to suddenly arrange a party because you have to plan in advance to buy the alcohol. I know that isn't the answer to this post but we don't have pubs or clubs where I live lol
Maybe not totally on point but if I have a device that breaks just out of warranty I will often buy a new one and just return the old one. I know two wrongs don’t make a right and it’s fraud but as far as I’m concerned selling me something that breaks within 1 year for the price of something that should last at least 5 years is legalized fraud so I’m just cheating them like they cheat me.
I do try and give the company a chance to honor their device regardless of the stated warranty but if not returned it goes.
How do you do this?? Oh... you... pretend the 'new device' you just bought broke? Wow... OP must be VERY careful with their stuff... doesn't show any signs of wear...?
No they buy something and put the old device in the new packaging and return that. I've worked retail and I can't tell you how many old used items I've found in boxes of a recently purchased item.
Load More Replies...I had a power washer die a month out of warranty. When I called them, the person on the other end of the line said "Month - schmonth. We'll ship you a new one." And they did.
people like you are how my dad got screwed out of a bunch of money years ago buying me the last available of a GPS device for my birthday only for it to be damaged and with somebody's home address stored in it, which we then couldn't get refunded. your actions affect others.
In Australia the warranty period is usually longer than the manufacturer says. Eg Apple said it was one year. Govt said its as long as your longest phone plan. If its a TV its years. Consumers have a expectation things will work. If the retailer offers a paid extra time it harms their defence. The seller is liable not the manufacturer
The stores rarely put such items back on the shelf. They sell them by the pallet to people running mom & pop discount stores. That's who your screwing.
I don’t get this one? Do you get money back if you return something after a year or something?
They buy the new one and put the broken one back in the box and return it to get their money back or a store credit.
Load More Replies...Except now many things are tracked by serial number and the newer sale isn't going to match the serial number being returned. So you not only don't get your refund but you also bring attention to yourself so that from that point on, any return is suspect. You may even get banned from making any returns. Yes, I work retail. Yes some of our items are tracked by serial number, such as expensive electronic items. Which in our case, even if it's a defect, the customer still has to return it to the manufacturer, we can't just replace it unless the manufacturer says so, and that's rare.
I would feel bad for the next person getting it if they don't know it's broken.🥺
That's what the person said. She returns a broken device after she has the new one. She puts the broken one in the box to get her money back or store credit. You do what you gotta do.
Load More Replies... City animal limits. YES if you can't take care of them they need to be removed, but in my city the limit is 4 cats/dogs total. Down the road in the next city it's 10 cats/dogs.
I have 8. It's b******t. It's my space and I'm taking good care of them, they dont roam. The only interaction with neighbors is if they see them in my window.
It really doesn't affect me much as most people around here ignore the rule too
I think these rules are to prevent hoarding pets; hoarding can be deleterious to everyone’s health, the pets’, the owners’, and even the neighbors.
My great-uncle was a pet hoarder. When we finally convinced him to go into assisted living, I helped my dad clear out his place. 14 dogs, 17 cats, 6 hamsters, 3 birds, and 2 snakes. We found one of the poor cats dead under his bed. God only knows how long it had been there. He couldn't even tell us what cat it was, hadn't realized it was missing. There is such a thing as too many pets and none of his were happy. Luckily, we found homes for almost all of them and the rest went into foster homes but if there was ever a time when I thought I wanted to live like 101 Dalmatians that experience set me straight. I'm more than happy with my two dogs. (One of which was his)
Load More Replies...Maybe to do with the city service cleaning the roads. Or people fed up with other peoples cats pooping everything under. This is puzzling me to no end: Why do I have to tolerate the cats of my neighbours using everybodys garden as litter box, but they throw a fit if a dog takes a dump on their lawn.
My city has restrictions on food bearing birds - how far they have to be kept from the house - blah blah blah. Like I get not having like a full on farm sized flock but goddammit - there's no restrictions on how many parrots I can have in and around my house but I can't have one chicken or duck to provide me fresh eggs because I can't keep the coop like 10' from any dwelling? Nah. My illegal duck is just fine hanging out next to my house where it's cooler.
Yeah, these rules exist for a reason. I doubt you having 8 and them allows you to give them proper room to exercise and be healthy, especially if they "don't roam" meaning they're confined to your property. And if they roam they have an ecological footprint on the area which needs to be considered. All of it adds up to you being the one that's b******t.
Yeah, 8 is too many. Even on a ranch you wouldn't need that many working dogs.
Load More Replies...Because the OP takes care of his/her pets does not mean the next person will. Can you imagine living next to someone with 4 or 5 dogs and they don't clean up the poop? That would smell awful.
If I have 5 cats, and I'm taking good care of them, and no one smells cat pee, no one should tell me I have too many cats.
Never heard of this, is it common in some places, or just arbitrary rules applied by HOAs or the like?
No, the rules limiting the number of pets are usually made by city or county health departments.
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5 second rule. If it falls on the floor I just throw it out. That’s gross.
Depends on the floor and what it is. If I drop a piece of candy or whatever on my floor at home, I'm gonna pick it up and eat it. If it's outside on the sidewalk, the candy is for the streets
It's your own body so you can lick the sidewalk and it would be ok. For the record though, you won't die from any germs you have on your floor. Nor would you get sick (unless immuno-compromised, of course).
Load More Replies...I use the 5 day rule instead. A peanut on the floor, how did that get there? Oh well.
There's such a thing as being too concerned with cleanliness. It's been shown that children who play in dirt (and sometimes eat 'mud pies') have a much stronger immune system than those whose parents insisted everything they touch be sparkling clean and free of germs. Our bodies are very robust mechanisms, and eating something dropped on the floor of your home isn't likely going to harm you (unless you're one of those people without a strong immune system).
There's probably worse germs on your counter or in your sink than on a clean floor, I just pick it up and eat it.
That's not a rule but something people say to be able to use spilled food. Anything on the ground will stick even 2 seconds after you drop it.
Scientists found that almost any contact with a surface, no matter how short, results in bacterial transfer. If it hits the floor, it's contaminated.
Load More Replies...Well I'm not gonna lick the ice-cream i dropped off my spoon on my floor but will eat the bagel... If it didn't land on the ice-cream that is
This has been clarified. Dry foods are absolutely fine to just pick up and eat. Wet foods will glob onto whatever gunk they land in and are not a good idea to eat after dropping. So pick up whatever dry foods you drop and feel fine about it, throw out whatever wet stuff you drop.
Sharing meds. My oldest and I had several of the same prescriptions and would use them interchangeably as needed between refills. It’s the same prescription. But I imagine some medical professionals would lose their minds.
Same, only if it's between humans though, do not take an animals medicine because the dosage and makeup might be different
Load More Replies...Naah, why would anyone be bothered about this? Only if you're substituting different meds or dosages would anyone feel that this is an issue, and indeed unless you're qualified to do so you really don't know what you're doing and at the very least risk reducing or losing efficacy.
My brother and I took the same very expensive heart medicine for the same condition. When he died, he left hundreds of dollars of those pills. I did not bury them with him.
I cadge my dad's pyroxicam all the time, I'm not going home for mine if I'm at their house when my wrists start to whinge. But I wouldn't take anything that I hadn't been prescribed at some point
This is not the reason not to share meds. Suppose you have a certain condition and the dictor prescribes a medicine. Then your friend describes her symptoms and you jump to the totally unjustified conclusion that she has the same condition and give her some of your meds. No no no no no! You could do her a great deal of harm. She needs to discuss her symptoms with her own doctor and let a professional decide what condition she REALLY has.
OP didn't say anything about self diagnosing and then taking someone else's prescription medication. It specifically says they both had the same prescriptions (with I assume the same dosages).
Load More Replies...If two people are borh prescribed meds why would they share? They both would each consumer one etc per day Illogical.
My kids both have the same prescription and dose. I put all the pills in one bottle and just take out two at a time.
Adding garlic and onion to the pan at the same time to soften. Do you want burnt garlic? Because that's how you get burnt garlic.
Soooo many recipes say to add the onion and garlic at the same time. Join the revolution against burnt garlic and do NOT do this!
Load More Replies...Y'all have the heat too high. I've never burnt garlic when throwing it in at the beginning with onion and/or ginger. Or I've burnt everything and had to start over...but never burnt just the garlic.
Pretty much every recipe I've followed tells you to add onions for like 5 minutes and then the garlic for a minute or two more.
I throw away the mail of the people who lived in my apartment before me rather than taking it to the post office every. Single. Day. If they wanted their mail, they would have filled out a change of address form.
I will write No Longer At This Address for the first month or so. After that, it's trash. I've done the forwarding thing with the post office and had it take weeks to take effect, so I don't mind doing it for a little while
We've lived at our current address for almost 12 years,, and we STILL get mail for people that lived here before us. I've done the "No longer at This Address " thing for a year, then decided that the mail must not be very important to them, so it goes in File 13.
Load More Replies...Put “not at this address”, and put it back in the postbox. You don’t have to take it to the post office. Don’t destroy it.
Can get a felony doing that which is stupid because taking it out and throwing it away is harder than just leaving it in the box for the mail carrier
You don't have to take it to the PO. Just write "Not at this address" on the envelope and stick it back in the mailbox. Very little effort and can help people when they do change their addresses, but businesses and/or laziness at the PO screw them over (which I've experienced personally).
I've lived in my house for 9 years and still get post for the last occupant. Returning to sender doesn't seem to help much.
Same with my parents, still getting the mail for the previous tenant from 2019. I have assured my mother that she's not a bad person for binning it now
Load More Replies...We send the previous owners of our house their mail. But we live there 4 years now. Any mail of theirs goes into the trash. They had enough time to redirect their mail.
You can tell your local post office all day and they just ignore you. I usually check my mail, then throw out anything straight in my trash bin that comes for the lady who passed away 5 years ago.
I've returned mail for years, belonging to a former tenant that occupied my place for 3 months(all previous tenants are noted and logged in the tenancy agreement. Idk why, probably for this matter). I still receive mail for them and it's been 10 fkn years. I just recycle that mess, now.
That you need to wait for other people to start eating, eat your food before it gets cold, I’ll just talk while I’m waiting
A good restaurant will bring all the food at one time, although it may take a waiter a couple of trips to serve everyone. In such a case it's still considered rude in most places to start eating before everyone else just because your plate came first. In less formal settings, especially at a larger table where it's clear that it may be more than a minute or two waiting it would be common courtesy for someone else to say "Oh don't wait for us, don't let it go cold" before starting to eat.
This is fine at a restaurant. But you'd better not start eating before my mom sits down! :) She's the one who usually cooks - and no one wants to invoke her wrath.
In my family this was strictly enforced so that the cook has a fair crack at second helpings. My husband (primary cook in our family) has been trying to break me of this habit for 20 years, but I just can't do it. It just seems disrespectful of the person who put so much time and care into making the meal!
I was always taught that you eat straight away if it's a hot dish, but if it's cold then you wait for everyone to be served.
At a restaurant if it`s obvious the food will get cold before everyone has their food it`s fine to start. If it`s just about serving or people arriving with their food in a work related environment (so... less than 3-5 minutes) i prefer everyone waiting. I hate every minute I have to wait, but I think a meal is more enjoyable if you really do it together which, to me, includes starting together (and people will not watch you hungry and envious while lucky you gobble down your food).
If someone started eating before everyone has their food, I would think that they're rude and inconsiderate. If there was a snafu at a restaurant or something then all gloves are off.
In my family we say it's OK to start eating if at least two people have been served.
Telling white lies to your SO is good.
No. I'm not carrying the baggage of lies. I'm always kind, and I'm always honest. Don't want to know thing? You better not ask me.
Late husband and I agreed to never lie to each other. Don't ask if you don't want to know. In our almost 27 years together, I never once lied to him.
Sorry, that doesn't work for everyone. If my wife asked me if I found her less attractive after she gained weight, in no way would I be honest and say "yes". That's a terrible idea for everyone involved.
Load More Replies...But there were times I may not have told him the entire truth to save him from being hurt.
Doesn't sound like you're "always kind" if you bluntly tell the truth every time. Truth isn't always kind.
Didn't say bluntly, did they? Tact and honesty are not mutually exclusive.
Load More Replies...I have an acquaintance who does this. She claims it makes her honest. I claim it makes her force her personal standards on everyone else.
Only people I lie to is my parents, if I tell them the truth about my various illnesses and conditions it makes them worry too much.
I had a boss that I never lied to, and he knew it. It infuriated him because he could not dismiss anything I said.
Using knife and fork to cut your food. If the food it's soft enough, why I can't use my spoon?
I guess if you're using just a spoon to eat, that's reasonable - whatever makes you happy. but if you're using a fork AND a spoon (instead of a knife), that's a bit weird :) you could use just the fork... but again, you do you :)
Fork and spoon aren't a weird combo. I discovered they're the main eating utensils in Thailand when I travelled there. To me, it makes sense to use them for rice and noodle dishes.
Load More Replies...And I for one will continue to use my fork like a shovel, as it is designed to do, and not ludicrously try to load food onto the back of it. And in the unlikely event that I am ever invited to Buckingham Palace for dinner, I will still do it
I never use a knife. I just pick the food up with my fork (or my chopsticks, depends) and take bites
Just bite it then. Cutting sushi in two, especially with a knife and fork, is utter heresy.
Load More Replies...I wear mismatched socks 99% of the time.
That drives me nuts! Almost all my socks are exactly the same so I don't have to worry about matching them up. Did the same when my kids were little. Now, as adults, they wear whatever as long as they're clean
Yep, do this too. If i miss a sock or if one sock has a hole, it does't matter because I just grab another sock since they all look the same. I do have some 'special socks' for special occasions thought.
Load More Replies...My work uniform requires black socks. So even off the clock I wear black socks. Buy them by the dozen, always the same ones. Sometimes one gets a hole in them and I throw that one out. Sometimes I lose one to the Laundry Gods. In the end it'll all even out.
there's a trend of wearing socks matching in themes (eg. pizza and fries on one, ketchup or another sauce on the other) not necessarily in colour, so anyone obsessing about mismatched stuff may try to chill a bit
There is a roundabout intersection near me that also has stop signs. I refuse to stop at the stop signs as it defeats the purpose of a roundabout (assuming no other cars or pedestrians are present). The roundabout is near a small strip mall so not a ton of traffic
But aren't you supposed to stop when you get to a roundabout? Or are the stop signs for the cars going round?
Usually if you can see the road is clear at a roundabout you can go. If there's a stop sign it might be because there have been accidents at that roundabout and warning people to take more time to check it's clear.
Load More Replies...Perhaps the locals need a reminder to stop. Certain types will assume they have a right of way and proceed without checking.
Personally I find roundabouts a sign of a highway designers insanity. My first experience with one was Gettysburg PA. Took me one time and I found a way around it that also saved me a couple minutes drive time. Now if a roundabout was maybe 1'2 mile wide, it might work okay, but I doubt it considering the way people fail to yield right of way to other traffic even on the open road.
Using a VPN when traveling to China.
Technically it's illegal though many people, especially visitors from other countries could care less. And there's no way I'd play nice and obey that law and not be able to use Reddit and virtually every major US site and service when I'm there.
I wouldn't break laws in China. I don't think they are as lenient as you're used to.
Or perhaps just don’t go to places where you don’t agree with their laws, politics, or customs?
Wearing clothes.
Ill be naked in my own home and in my own backyard as often as I want.
If im on public land camping/hiking and don't expect to see anyone except the group of friends Im with? Im being comfortable and getting naked.
If others want to wear clothes, more power to them. I prefer not to and don't like that its become a fairly general concern that someone being naked in public means they're up to no good.
Go back 50 years and almost everywhere in the world casual nudity was much more normal and not the big crime north america seems to think it is recently.
Naked bodies are one of the very few things that literally every one has!
If someone decides to peek while I'm skinny dipping, I refuse to pay for their therapy.
If someone decides to peek while I'm skinny dipping, I refuse to pay for their eye surgery.
Load More Replies...I'm 68 and 50 years ago, the only people walking around nude were toddlers or people in a nudist community.
We had a naked roller skater but that was 25 years ago and it was in Amsterdam.
Load More Replies...In Europe, nude beaches and nudist communities are a thing. We frankly don't get why Americans get so shocked when people are naked. It's not necessarily sexual.
Don’t forget saunas! One needs to be nude to get inside (covered in a towel and sitting on that, but no clothes allowed)
Load More Replies...This is nonsense. There wasn't casual nudity everywhere in the world in 1974.
I feel that nowadays (in the US) predators would take that as an open invitation to sexually harass people, no matter the size, shape or age.
I’m glad they mentioned North America. Nakedness is still normal in other places. We go naked into a sauna here and still have nude beaches.
I’ll start. I’ve never used airplane mode on a flight. I just don’t believe that if there was a risk, they’d leave it up to passengers to do it on their own.
Maybe look into exactly why they ask to do that, and then make up your mind. You're not getting a connection up there anyway so what's the point?
One phone might not a risk. Many at the same time? Yes, it may interrupt the aircraft's communications. You're just a selfish a*****e, don't play with other people's safety.
And if there was a risk of the plane crashing, those passengers would have brought their own parachutes.
Saying “bless you” after someone sneezes. I’m over it. Stfu
It's just being polite. Nothing wrong with it, but you don't have to say it if you don't want to.
It has nothing to do with politeness. It's a holdover from Medieval times where people thought demons could enter your body when you sneezed. Why does someone need 'blessing' for a natural bodily function? Would you say it if somebody farted? Would you bless someone if they hiccupped, and would you do it every time they hiccupped? If not, then you should stop doing it for sneezing. It's nothing more than an ancient ritual that is just plain silly.
Load More Replies...If you *have* to say something when someone sneezes, this is the only thing you should say. (Or what my mother used to say when my father sneezed: "Uh-oh, better take some Vitamin C!" lol)
Load More Replies...in Dutch we say "gezondheid" meaning "health" :-D and then you'll get the annoyed hay fever persons who sniff "im not sick"
If you're going to spray airborne bacteria around me, it's I who will need the blessing, thank you.
Why does this have so many down votes? I get some people might disagree, but this seems excessive.
Paying for the trolley. Straight up, the entire world is better off if I bum a trolley ride than if I pay to fill my car with petroleum and join the rest of you in traffic.
Doing this means that, in the long run, the system will stop due to people like you or that other people will have to pick up your fare in order for the system to continue to exist. Either way, why don't you get a bicycle then?
I agree that you should pay but the vast majority of income for transit agency funding comes from the state and federal government in the US
Load More Replies...So, switching to public transport for the environment, but not willing to pay for it? Disgusting Pos.
The entire world is better if you pay for your trolley ride, you numpty. How do you think the system funds itself?
What? Trolley? Can someone please enlighten this even more bewildered banana?
Train or tram, I imagine! Not a shopping trolley, which is what I originally thought.
Load More Replies...Some rules are not for the individual, but for population level risks. Putting oil down your sink appears to do no harm, but then everyone does it, and there's a massive fatberg. You think going 10km per hour over the limit harms no one, but everyone sticking to the limit reduces deaths by hundreds over the entire nation. You think you're not at risk so you don't get a vaccine, but then everyone does that, and we get polio back. We live in complex societies with complex results from simple actions.
Bruh. Bored panda. I l9ve scrolling you page while I am at work but it's getting very difficult with the pop ups. You don't need my email, I already have hulu. Relax.
not discussing proper body part names and function like periods. all of my kids had the body parts and period talk from about the age of 2 when they would clamor to get into the bathroom with me. i refuse to raise girls ashamed of their body and i refuse to raise a son to think periods are gross or some big cosmic mystery. i will not gatekeep knowledge.
I’m from Ohio, in the heart of “The” Ohio State University’s fandom, and I refuse to say “I-O!” after someone yells “O-H!”. Sometimes I’ll yell “Oh No!” In response to an “O-H!” specifically because it annoys people. I won’t do the O-H-I-O gestures either.
I ignore registering my dogs, especially if they are small dogs. My dogs, when I had them, never left the house unless they were being walked, on a leash. They don't pose a danger to anyone. Why do I have to pay the town to tell them I have a dog?
I don't wash my recycling (cans and bottles). I've got enough to do without washing my rubbish, and years ago I knew someone who was put into an asylum for doing things like washing her rubbish. It gets washed when it gets to the recycling centre anyway.
Some rules are not for the individual, but for population level risks. Putting oil down your sink appears to do no harm, but then everyone does it, and there's a massive fatberg. You think going 10km per hour over the limit harms no one, but everyone sticking to the limit reduces deaths by hundreds over the entire nation. You think you're not at risk so you don't get a vaccine, but then everyone does that, and we get polio back. We live in complex societies with complex results from simple actions.
Bruh. Bored panda. I l9ve scrolling you page while I am at work but it's getting very difficult with the pop ups. You don't need my email, I already have hulu. Relax.
not discussing proper body part names and function like periods. all of my kids had the body parts and period talk from about the age of 2 when they would clamor to get into the bathroom with me. i refuse to raise girls ashamed of their body and i refuse to raise a son to think periods are gross or some big cosmic mystery. i will not gatekeep knowledge.
I’m from Ohio, in the heart of “The” Ohio State University’s fandom, and I refuse to say “I-O!” after someone yells “O-H!”. Sometimes I’ll yell “Oh No!” In response to an “O-H!” specifically because it annoys people. I won’t do the O-H-I-O gestures either.
I ignore registering my dogs, especially if they are small dogs. My dogs, when I had them, never left the house unless they were being walked, on a leash. They don't pose a danger to anyone. Why do I have to pay the town to tell them I have a dog?
I don't wash my recycling (cans and bottles). I've got enough to do without washing my rubbish, and years ago I knew someone who was put into an asylum for doing things like washing her rubbish. It gets washed when it gets to the recycling centre anyway.

