43 Insider Secrets From Various Jobs That You’re Not Supposed To Know, But Are Industry Standards
Every job is its own weird little universe, with its own set of unbreakable rules and unspoken truths. It's the "common knowledge" that professionals learn on day one that the rest of us are completely, blissfully unaware of. It’s the secret menu of every single industry.
An online community threw open the doors and asked people from all walks of life to share one of these secrets. The responses are a mind-blowing peek behind the curtain, revealing the things we were never supposed to know about our food, our health, and even our pets. Prepare to look at some jobs in a totally different way.
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I don’t know about the “average person,” but as a former consular officer, it never failed to surprise me how many American citizens are shocked to learn that they have no special privileges overseas, that they are fully subject to local laws even if something is legal “back home,” and that the most a consulate or embassy will likely be able to do for you if you get in trouble is visit you in jail some time in the first few weeks and bring you a list of local lawyers.
If you’re really lucky, we’ll bring along some fresh fruit and a couple of old paperbacks, although that’s getting rarer.
Yeah, don't try to bring guns into foreign countries, for 'your protection'. It's amazing how often this happens!
LGBTQ+ folks need to be extra careful when traveling. Major prison time or even un-aliving in some countries- just for being yourself or being with your significant other.
I suspect that LGBTQ+ are on top of this, as there’s probably areas back home that they need to be aware.
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That an ungodly amount of people in big fancy office buildings have their usernames/passwords on a sticky note on their monitor.
I’m a janitor.
Everytime I advice people on how to change their password I tell them to NOT mutter it
Reminds me of a story from way back, when my father worked at a military base in the '80s as a flight controller for helicopters. After their systems were fully computerised, a supervisor of his called him in the middle of the night, and she was foaming at the mouth about how "the stupid machine is not working". He tried to figure the issue out over the phone for like an hour, but couldn't get anywhere with this woman, so in the end he had to get in his car and drive an hour to the base to see what was wrong. She had her password on a piece of paper next to the computer, and she kept entering it, but was denied every time. Dad took one look, then told her that the "o" with a / across it is not in fact an "o", but a zero...
Tech TIP - uses CONSOLAS FONT - it differentiates between similar letters/numbers...
Load More Replies...My daughter used to work in a office where employees HAD to change their passwords every ( I think) 8 weeks
Which is an excellent way to get weak passwords written down close to hand.
Load More Replies...I live alone, so even if I wrote passwords on a sticky note no-one but me would see them.
So, not worried about someone breaking in, stealing your tech and using your sticky-note passwords for whatever they can?
Load More Replies...I've heard a tipp, how to make relatively strong passwords, different for each application. Let's say, two passwords, one for the Funtel phone company, one for the Mad magasine account (neither exists.) Pick a sentence from your favourite book/tale/poem. Like "All mimsy were the borogoves, And the mome raths outgrabe." Pick the first letter of every word=>AmwtbAtmro Now add a number, like when it was published =>AmwtbAtmro1871. Now we have the base of the password, feel free to add (with a special character) whichever account belongs to it: AmwtbAtmro1871@FTPC and AmwtbAtmro1871@MM. You can even restore this type of password by googling the original source. BTW, do NOT use this example password.
Ok, your new password needs to be 26 characters including uppercase, lowercase, 3 special characters, and 3 Kanji characters. We will also be changing it every 4 1/2 days and you cant use any of your past 103 passwords. Oh and don't write it down.
We are graduating students who cannot read, write, or do simple Math; and not just a few.
A lot of my senior class was like this, at least with the reading and writing. They weren't entirely illiterate, but senior English they were teaching us how to write a five-sentence paragraph like it was third grade. It was one of the worst schools in my state, if I recall correctly, in one of the worst counties. I really didn't like it there at all.
High schoolers get a "socialized" diploma. Meaning that they leave school with their class, but they don't know s**t. Heaven forbid that we should hire more teachers and have decent class sizes, allow them to teach what kids need and teach kids in the way each of them learn best, have kids progress at their own pace instead of artificially putting them in grades and promoting them without having learned anything.
Yes. This is scary, and people absolutely do not want to deal with it, as evidenced by the politician comment below. If I told you that each year is an increase of 30% more kids who are getting m******d, you'd sure want to know what the hell is going on. Knowing that we are condemning them to sad lives is ok, though.
Trump "I love the poorly educated, the poorly educated elected me!"
Load More Replies...Illiterate isn't a C. I remember being in 10th grade with at least three people who were functionally Illiterate. My daughter just graduated with someone who purposely put no effort or work into a class and still was allowed to graduate. Just like we have a legal system instead of a justice system, we have a school system instead of an education system.
Load More Replies...Ever seen an expert look at you like you have three heads because you don't know something that's incredibly obvious to them? There's a name for that brain glitch: the "Curse of Knowledge." As the experts at The Decision Lab explain, it's a cognitive bias where someone who knows a lot about a subject forgets what it's like to not know it.
They can no longer imagine seeing the world from a beginner's perspective. This is the reason so many professionals in the online thread were genuinely shocked by what the public doesn't know. To them, it's just a normal Tuesday; to us, it's a mind-blowing secret.
Animal rescue and vet tech: People will give up a dog they've had for years and not shed a tear. They treat it like an errand. Some people don't stay with their pet when it gets euthanized. In the first instance, the dog will not want to leave the lobby and will watch you walk away, confused and try to follow. In the second, they look expectantly around the room for their person before they fall asleep.
If you don't have the strength of character to be there and hold your animal when their times comes so that they aren't terrified and alone, don't have pets. You don't deserve them.
The vet told me I can leave, don't need to watch it, but I told him I want to be with my cat until the very end, she was in pain and scared. It was 8 years ago, but yesterday got into my mind this specific memory, and I keep storking her head crying as hard as never, but didn't leave her alone with stranger to her. I'm still tearing up thinking of it.
Load More Replies...I've always had the vet come to my home and held my dog in my arms. It's a horrible thing to have to do, but it's being done to ease their suffering and, for me, that's been keeping them where they feel safe and loved. However, I appreciate that I've been fortunate enough to be able to afford to do that. I couldn't not be with them in their last moments.
The worst part of this is having to schedule and wait until the day comes. I was in tears every time I looked at her. She'd perk up a bit and I'd wonder if I'd made a mistake and should cancel. It was a ling-a$$ 5 days...But I agree this is the best way for your pet.
Load More Replies...It was all I could do to remain civil to a new neighbor after they said they couldn't stay with their dogs when the dogs were euthanized. It is hard as hell, but imagine how betrayed the pet feels. How can you give up a pet because it's "too old" or needs a little more help navigating the stairs or whatever? I don't understand.
Absolutely not. My dogs are my babies. I could never give them up, and would never leave them to face euthanasia alone. Ever.
The opposite is worse. Much worse. Animal torturers who cry copious fake tears in order to get their ab*sed animals returned to them. Ab*sed animals are returned immediately to their abusers. To go through more t*****e.
Any Naval vessel manned and maintained from the mid-1960s to the mid-2000s is likely operating with electronic components purchased from Radio Shack by desperate sailors who knew that obtaining the same parts through The System might take as long as 6 months.
Don't ask me how I know.
Last century, I did maintenance on a system that had a paper tape reader. The reader was not used much. The reader light bulb burned out, order a replacement through The System / supply. About a week later, coworker was in the base auto store, noticed some bulbs on a rack that looked just like the reader bulb. She bought a two pack for a dollar. We checked the specs, good match. Installed the bulb, reader works. I was sent to supply to cancel the order. They call up the order, bulb listed for something like $5, but was unavailable. Because the system the reader was in was marked as priority (the whole system was priority), the supply system changed the order to the next higher assembly, which was the reader head assembly, some $300. Unavailable, next higher assembly, the entire paper tape reader, thousands of dollars. Unavailable, next higher, six million dollar system. Do I get credit for saving the US Air Force $6M? Hah!
next higher - entire ship. and that was how we got a new ship because a light bulb burned out.
Load More Replies...Well in most cases a resistor is a resistor no matter where one buys it from.
Half my job is basically watching people find out the hard way that “no one reads that stuff” is not a legal defense.
In some cases it should be though. E.g. the online agreements are purposefully written to be hard to understand, ridiculously long, and as boring as possible. No reasonable person will read a user agreement as long as War and Peace to access an article, use a simple website etc. So in these cases it should be a valid argument that the company is fully aware that only one in a million users actually know what they agree to, and is actively doing everything to keep it that way.
You are thinking if contacts of adhesion. They really only hold up as far as they are "reasonable." Reasonable depends on judge to judge.
Load More Replies...I got into an automobile accident a couple of months ago, swapped some paint, pretty obvious that it was the other guy's fault. His insurance contacted me, requested that I go to their website to provide some information. The page pops up, long list of terms and conditions, some are giving up various rights. Nope, I did not go any further.
Discuss this with you own insurance. You fight lawyers with lawyers.
Load More Replies...Someone once, timed the reading of Facebook T&Cs. I believe it was over 24 hours. Obviously not binding.
You'd be surprised how many people don't even bother to read their lease agreement and then are shocked when they face eviction. They are written in plain English anyone can understand.
If you've ever felt guilty for letting a single banana go brown, brace yourself. One of the most common and shocking secrets came from people in the food industry, from grocery store clerks to restaurant chefs: the sheer, epic scale of food waste. We're not talking about a few scraps either. These insiders are talking about mountains of perfectly edible produce, bread, and meals getting tossed every single day.
According to The Restaurant HQ, a single restaurant can produce an estimated 25,000 to 75,000 pounds of food waste in just one year. This terrifying statistic also contributes to the global climate crisis, so maybe think twice next time you send back that untouched side salad.
A lot of wannabe authors pick writing because they think it's the easiest way to put their story into an artistic format. Fun fact: writing is not any easier than any other art.
Hmm, it occurred to me that thousands of want-to-be writers will now use AI to 'write' the Great [insert country here] Novel. Think of all those poor assistant editors that have to read the first five pages, then declare the work unfit.
I love the sites where you can put in a few vague details and 'ping' out pops a story - they're usually hilarious! No doubt some people try it on with that kind of start to a story!
Load More Replies...The "art" of writing is being able to write something that people will be able to read. Takes time, effort and revision. But at least you don't have to get a whole new hunk of marble when you blow it.
Maybe replace "will be able to read" with "will want to read"? For every rock star whatever, there are hundreds, maybe thousands, of 'garage bands' that never made it out of the garage. I suspect writing is no different.
Load More Replies...It may, however, be easier to pick up, as writing skills can (to a certain degree) be obtained from reading books and reinforced through writing assignments in school. In the schools I've been to, writing finds its way into every corner of the curriculum while other arts are relegated to electives. You get a bit of a head start that way.
The math department at my college argued that math majors writing theorem proofs was just a valid form of writing as other english papers.
Load More Replies...Anyone can write because we are all taught to do it. Most of us have never been taught how to sculpt or compose an opera.
Everyone has been taught to write, but very few have been taught how to write full length novels. Everyone has been taught to sing, but few do it well enough to be performers.
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There are more people with personality disorders (borderline, narcissistic, antisocial) walking among us than most realize.
Also, your therapist most certainly has their own psych diagnosis. Your psychiatrist probably does.
Newsflash: people with "dark" personality disorders are PEOPLE and not snickering cartoon villains.
Corollary...most people who go into psychology do so because they are aware they have issues. They are drawn to the profession because of their issues. Source: I have a masters in psychology.
'The best therapists have struggled and gone through their sh-t and are aware of it. The middling ones have never struggled or gone through anything, and the truly bad ones have struggled and gone through sh-t and have no self-awareness'.
Load More Replies...I've learned, after long practice, to act like a normal human being. Or maybe I am a normal human being. Who knows?
What is considered normal nowadays? Kind of difficult to blend in when one does not know what the currently accepted disorders are.
Load More Replies...This just comes out of learning so much more about people. Friend has a very rare disorder. Correction, HAD a very rare disorder. She isn't cured, they're just finding it in more and more people so the 'rare' level has changed to pretty rare. Same for more people getting diagnosed with things like ADHD, just diagnosing people who were previously not (me included!). Oh, does it explain so much! I may have an even 'rarer' genetic mutation. Or, seeing how these things go, they've just started finding people with it as they've just discovered the mutation. Rare today, less so tomorrow.
Borderline Personality Disorder will make you think you are crazy crazy and will never change. Narcissistic Personality Disorder will cause real emotional trama and will never change. Antisocial Personality Disorder will steal from you, lie to you, disrespect you, may physically harm you and will never change.
Saw a psychiatrist in a student health center at UT. He weighed at least 500 pounds. Yeah, he can help me bring order to my life . . . .
Consistently ignoring obvious personality disorders is a personality disorder.
How emotionally draining teaching is.
It will always be hard, but there shouldn't ever be any more than a dozen children in any classroom. And some kids even need smaller numbers or one-on-one sometimes. Too bad we don't value education. Or even value feeding kids.
My biggest class has 37, and that's not the largest I've had. 160 students a day is exhausting.
Load More Replies...Every time I'm looking at other jobs and want to quit something cute happens, like a kid brings me a picture they drew of us as mermaids or a former student comes back to tell me I was their favourite teacher and they remember xy and z. Exhausting and rewarding. The parents are by far the hardest part for me.
Here's a secret that will change the way you shop forever. Several retail and manufacturing insiders on the thread confirmed what we've all secretly suspected: the fancy brand-name product and the cheaper store-brand version are often the exact same thing, made in the same factory, just put in a different box.
Strategy expert Bob Caporale explains this is a genius business move because if a company can market one product under several brands, they can cover way more ground in the market but also cut their costs." So next time you're in the cereal aisle, remember that the only real difference between those two boxes might just be the price tag and the quality of the cartoon mascot.
How much store brand stuff is basically name brand stuff in different packaging. It's wild how much I have learned and saved from knowing this.
I worked in a printing plant that made packaging for retail items. Our "director of operations" went to visit one of our customers (a massively huge company) and while on a tour of the facility he noticed a run of private label stuff that we also printed. He asked the guide "what's the difference between the branded product and and the private label"? The guide held up the package and said, "that right there", indicating that the products were identical, just with different packaging.
Not always. Store label goods are often manufactured to a price point. The factory is told "We'll pay you so much for each item.. Try to make it as close the the real thing as that allows."
In a lot of instances it's the same company, selling their factory seconds and stuff that couldn't pass quality control. They use different packaging, but it's the same stuff.
Load More Replies...Okay, partially true. I worked in a canning factory. In the morning, a big truck staryed unloading. The ones at the top were firm, and the line ran slow. That was name brand. Then , a few hours in and a few feet down in the truck , we did the off brand. The kine ran a bit faster. For the last hour, hour and half, we did the bottom of the truck.Tomatoes were squashed, more bad spots. We were tired and tge kine ran quick. Not always easy to pick out all the bads ones. That was the black and white labeled can. So, yes, same factory, same truck of tomatoes. But not quite same final product.
But not always, check the manufacturing address on the label, if they are the same then it's more likely. Heard complaints about the name brand not being the same as the own brand, because the name brand was foul and the own brand actually good; they weren't even remotely manufactured in the same area of the country, why would they be the same.
Milk at a local wal mart is made at the same plant according to the codes on the jugs (which apparently required by law) Wal mart milk is betoween 50 cents and 1 dollar cheaper per gallon.
Grab a box of genuine Cheerios and a bag of your local store's oat Os. Eat a bowl of each. Tell me if there is a difference. (hint - they are not the same at all!)
Nonprofit (and also education):
First three quarters: spend as little as possible
Last quarter: IF WE DON'T SPEND THIS GRANT THEY WON'T GIVE US AS MUCH NEXT YEAR.
So dumb. Just give 30% of EOY remaining on top of next year's budget to incentivize cost cutting and saving for big purchases. Take 10 year rolling average spending to calculate annual budget. This prevents good and bad year "risk".
I have experienced this. I was able to do a 1 time savings for my department warning that this was a 1 time deal. My funding was cut by that amount the next year.
The frantic end-of-year ordering frenzy of parts to use up the allocation. Most will be cancelled in the new fiscal year.
I remember my high school doing this way back in the very late 1900s. Oak trim around every bulletin board in the hallways, shiny new lines painted in the staff and tiny visitor parking area, hella new landscaping and mulch
This is true for many industries... You would not believe how many wild projects I headed up in the last 3 months of the year at apartment complexes and manufacturers alike.
Many theater costumes aren't washed but are sprayed with vodka water to get rid of the bacteria that otherwise causes them to stink. It's worse if the show is double cast, and it's a 2 show day. The second performer has to wear a costume that's slightly damp with someone else's sweat. Wearing a t-shirt underneath helps. Pit pads, also known as dress shields, are sometimes used. They're snapped in place and laundered daily.
🎶🎵 "There's no business / Like show business / Like no business I know / ..." 🎵🎶
As a stage actor I definitely keep a personal bottle of Febreze with my stuff. Thankfully I've never had to share a costume, but they get do pretty gross by the end of a show run.
The same thing was often true to promotional host/hostess uniforms. One time I was working with a new girl and all day I was silently judging her for smelling like she haven't showered in a month. It turned out she got the uniform in the last minute, and the previous person wearing it did not wash it after sweating all over it, and just left it in a bag for a week. Some promotions also paid a lot more per hour for one person to be in some sort of a mascot suit, e.g. a big cartoonish dinosaur or bear associated with the chocolate/yoghurt etc. we were promoting. Apart from higher pay, you only had to work half a day and have a partner to switch with halfway through. A lot of my colleagues were fighting to be chosen for this. I watched just once how the first guy came out of that thick, hot foam suit DRIPPING from head to toe, and the next one slipping right into that soaked, sweaty mess, and just wanted to barf... Needless to say, I never accepted a job like that.
We imagine a corporate headquarters is like Fort Knox, with firewalls, biometric scanners, and laser grids. The shocking truth? According to IT professionals and office workers in the thread, your entire digital life is often being protected by the digital equivalent of a piece of tape, with passwords simply being stored on a sticky note.
The statistics are just as terrifying as the stories. A report from Spacelift found that 45% of people still write their passwords down, and a staggering 55% use the same password for multiple accounts. The IT guy in the thread is right to be sweating because the biggest security threat isn't a master hacker, it's Brenda from accounting and her love of the password "Password123."
That big companies in charge of your money, utilities, health etc. are all useless at IT and data security.
Because security measures reduce instead of enhance profit. And it's primarily your money, not theirs, at risk.
As they say though - if you owe a bank 20 thousand, you've got a problem; if you owe them 20 million, they've got a problem.
Load More Replies...Oh yes. Tell them, and watch hiw fast you are made redundant. Ask me how I know....
Data security is a placebo anyway. It doesn't exist and never has existed.
I've been telling people for years that whatever you put on a computer is about a secure as skywriting.
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As a locomotive engineer I’m not supposed to apply the emergency brakes until after I’ve hit you.
Not sure this is quite what it sounds... typically an emergency brake application doesn't happen until almost impact but that's not the only brake on a train. About the full sum of my knowledge and hubs is asleep so I can't get him to refresh my memory from the many 'train-related' bits of info he's shared. I love watching train disaster movies with him (genuinely) as he makes me laugh when he's explaining why it's often wrong! Anyone in the UK watch 'NIghtsleeper'?? Train departing reality...
For a lot of trains it takes long for the brakes to be fully on through the entire train but OP said they weren't supposed to "apply" the brakes until after impact which sounds insane and criminal.
Load More Replies...I'm a train driver, have been for over ten years, and I've never heard anything like this before. We do emergency brakes for people, I'm fairly certain it would be illegal to wait. Of course if someone jumps in front of the train you probably can only do so after the hit. But to clarify it would in almost all cases be impossible to come to stop even with emergency brakes but it still seems insane to not try.
Complete supposition, but I assume it's like hitting a deer. You have to go through it instead of trying to swerve because you lose control. I'd guess for a train braking before the collision would increase the chances of derailing.
Load More Replies..."but it worked on me" does not replace sound scientific evidence.
I hate the "argument" of "you're wrong about that because I did it and nothing bad happened". As if that's proof. All if proves is that the practice does not guarantee a 100% bad outcome. I usually try to give them the seat belt example, like the fact that you've been driving for 10 years without ever using the belt and you've never had an accident does not prove that it's safe. If you have ONE accident and you fly through the wind shield, statistically it will still be "safe" because that's just one incident over 10 years' worth of non-incidents. But will you feel better about that with your broken neck? Of course it's in vain, that sort of individual does not listen.
I just point out 'that's anecdotal' then usually have to explain what that means which, at least, diverts them! You're right though. As someone who had a head-on collision with a run-away lorry, I'm all for seat-belt wearing and airbags!! Mine was a pretty rare type of accident. It can happen. The following year I had a near-miss with, yes, another run away vehicle (car this time). You'd think once in a lifetime would be enough... So people who try arguments with me about how likely something is aren't going to get anywhere.
Load More Replies...Very few people understand the scientific method. These people are easily misled about science, unfortunately, and it's actually disturbing how many peer-reviewed papers can be torn apart with a tiny amount of scrutiny. Medical research is the worst, but a couple of others are vying for position these days.
Yes, as a scientist I need to add that "sound scientific evidence" at least 95% of the time is either restating the bleedin' obvious, or is heavily biased and based on insufficient information. Even such a simple thing as the "sound scientific evidence" for the cancer risk from passive smoking is heavily biased and based on insufficient information.
Load More Replies...We look at professionals like surgeons, teachers, and engineers as infallible superhumans who have it all figured out. But the most common, and perhaps most terrifying, secret shared by insiders is just how much of their job involves guesswork, winging it, and making mistakes. According to the Niagara Institute, the average person makes about 15 human errors for every 100 opportunities.
So when a teacher in the thread admits to passing a kid who can barely read, or a surgeon confesses that a lot of what they do is an educated guess, they're just revealing the messy, human reality of every single profession. It’s a terrifying, but also weirdly comforting, reminder that everyone is just trying their best.
Do you have any trade secrets that you want to share with the layman? Share them in the comments section!
Concrete doesn’t “dry” it cures through a chemical reaction and will do so under water. The same design mix of concrete will cure harder under water than above water.
While true, it does go from a wet state to a dry one, so "drying" while not technically true, does make sense.
I replaced my Mom's basement windows, and ensured the cement was kept moist. This ensured the cement cured properly, instead of the horrible job my current company contracted to repair concrete steps, which shows cracking and splitting. No, concrete doesn't dry. It needs to cure.
I wonder why they have not replicated the formula used for Roman concrete
They have. The Romans used dry quicklime and volcanic ash, adding water to create a highly reactive mixture that generated significant heat.
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Working at an opticians taught me that most people have no idea how bad their eyesight actually is.
They'll walk in saying "my vision's fine", then read the chart like they're trying to guess lottery numbers.
The wild part is when they finally put on the right prescription and go, "Wow, I didn't know the world looked like this."
Happens way more often than you'd think.
"What are you going to do when you get your new glasses?" "I don't know, I'll see".
Happens they other way round for me. I say 'my left eye isn't good' and for some reason they never really believe me. They'll go 'which looks clearer this... or this'. 'Um... neither???'. Made to read chart: Er, think I can see there are letters on the bottom row (the large one) but not sure what they are'. I CAN see, it's just with shadows and ghosting which even the best glasses can't get rid of. I don't notice it much as they other one is pretty good!!
A good exam will test each eye independently and then test them together to figure out the best rx for clear vision.
Load More Replies...I got a new eye doctor right after Lasix had settled and, without telling him, read the bottom row of the chart. I had 20/15 vision for about a year. The look on his face was priceless.
I was one of these people. First time i put on glasses it was like the world finally came in focused thank the universe for optometrists 😄😃😄😃
Me- adter getting glasses- look mom the trees have (individually discernable) leaves!
Load More Replies...My nephew got glasses at about 8 years old. How response was "woah, the world's in HD!"
Most food goes to waste just because it has a dent or produce/fruit has a blemish. They refuse to donate the food because they get tax write offs for damaged goods, and even after they document it; they still lock up their garbage so nobody can have the perfectly good food that is being wasted away.
They need protection from lawsuits to give the food away without incurring liability,
Load More Replies...There's a company here (actually, I think there are a few now) that purchase the produce the grocery stores don't want due to size inconsistencies or appearances, and then sell mixed boxes to consumers for less. I get a large box of fruits and vegetables once a week for 50$ and it's usually too much for the 4 of us to eat in one week, so some gets frozen or given to neighbours. The only "problem" is that you don't necessarily get what you might want. But I've had to become more inventive with my cooking now, so we're eating different things all the time and it's been really inspiring for dinner time
Some does get sent off to be eaten by farm animals - they tend not to be quite so picky about the odd blemish!
This they is vague is it stores or farmers sounds like stores to me.
Load More Replies...There is no way farmers are throwing away wonky shaped produce. Sure it sells for less but it goes to make products that are dices sliced or puréed, etc. They aren’t going to let it rot if they can sell it. The imperfect food companies are buying it cheaper and selling it as if they are saving unwanted produce from the trash.
Load More Replies...I've worked for 4 different grocery stores and they all froze the outdated meat and seafood. The fruit would be boxed and put in the cooler. It was all picked up by a company called gleaners about once a week depending on when I called them. I managed grocery departments, receiving, meat, produce etc.
It gets sold in NZ. At the supermarket. The goods are packaged as the odd bunch, and they are cheaper than "unblemished".
Don't know where this is in the supply chain, but in processing, dented and blemished produce is bulk bagged and sold to the juicing and canning plants. You don't think that your apple juice and pilchards in tomato sauce are made with the perfect eating produce I hope; it's made with the off colour, bruised, blemished stuff.
Most software you use is held together with some of the worst code imaginable
Source: some of which I have written.
"We can do it right or we can do it fast." "The schedule that executive management put together (with zero input from the developers) needs that subsystem now." "Fast it is. Tell testing and QA to get out of the way."
I used to leave disclaimers in the comments: "Look, I had two hours to pull this off. If I were to do it properly..."
Beat me to it, I just got in under B Hobbs statement. I'm good, and I'm fast, but I ain't cheap.
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Working wholesale produce , it would break your heart to know how much food you have to throw away.
Food waste in the US is stupid. No one in this country should ever go hungry, and everyone should be able to eat nutritious food locally sourced or at least produced here.
I agree that there is too much food waste in the USA. A eatable food not sold should go to a food bank immediately. Unfortunately most fruit and vegetables grown in country are in specific areas and are tricked to the rest of the country. Lack of water is a main issue.
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Safety guy for a construction company.
You know those diagrams at a butcher shop that shows what part of the animal makes what cut off meat.
Every state work comp has what is called a "meat chart". It basically lists out what each body part is worth and how many weeks off you get if you lose said body part or if it becomes non functioning.
Workman's compensation is entirely separate and different from health insurance.
Load More Replies...Yes to the money, no to the time off - time off is determined by the physician (sadly usually working for the best of the insurance Co, not yours). But, every body part is indeed worth a specific amount and percentage of disability (non-functioning) is the multiplier. Although determination of disability is up to the physician.
That the 'urgent' project request you just submitted will sit untouched for three days before anyone actually starts working on it.
"Poor planning on your part does not necessitate an emergency on my part." Sign at secretary's desk.
If you could wait till the last minute to submit it, how urgent should it be for us?
told the "mighty chairman" of a big supplier: You missed your deadline. Twice. I give you 36 hours. Then you are out. I got what I needed - in 24 hours. After months of waiting...
Most men say they like deep tissue massage, but they can’t handle it. So I dial it way back and many will say “so can anybody else handle as much pressure as me?” Nope. You’re one in a million, my guy.
I think I'd be afraid to try. I have back problems. Had a normal massage once and by the time it was over I couldn't feel my legs for several minutes.
Check out neuromuscular therapy! I used to have horrible back problems until I learned a lot of self treatment techniques.
Load More Replies...I love deep tissue massages, and once sent my husband to see my rmt. He told her to do whatever she does to me, then came home and asked how I could possibly still move after a session, let alone enjoy it and go back 😂
I went through the ten Rolfing deep bodywork massage sessions. Painful but like a religious experience in that removing years of knotted up fascia removed years of emotional hangups as well. We all hold our life's accumulated emotional scars in our tight musculature.
Most men are also walking around with very damaged bodies and undressed muscle issues
I can handle it. It hurts, but i need it sometimes. I'm a big chap, and have even had a Vietnamese masseuse run out if a massage room shrieking, only to bring her friends to show me to them. She was tiny, though, about half my size 😅
Deadlines are usually arbitrary and may often be ignored without any consequences.
“I love deadlines. I love the whooshing noise they make as they go by.” - Douglas Adams
Nothing inspires workers like clueless management who pick unrealistic timelines out of the ether, with no logical reasoning behind it.
It's not the ether they pick them out of, it's somewhere more, er, 'fundamental'. Think of them as 'a*s-umptions'.
Load More Replies...The only deadline that isn't arbitrary in the long run is the date you will die. You just don't know it yet.
There are people who have had it fairly well narrowed down for them. My wife's cousin died on precisely the day they told him he would. "Bring it on" was his defiant response. I'm 74, but you're never too old to find a hero.
Load More Replies..."I love deadlines. Especially the 'whooshing' sound they make as they fly past" Douglas Adams, while describing how he was actually writing the second part of a HHGTTG radio episode while the first half was being broadcast ....
Engineering and project management boils down to telling clients "no" without saying the word and finding creative ways to do so.
"I have an alternative that you may not have considered yet" was my version "No way, you frickin' idiot."
"There may be a more cost-efficient way to achieve this ... "
Load More Replies...Event management too... and prolly lots of fields where you have to manage someone's expectations. But you'll never do any of them well if you cant say no to a client in a considerate, and prolly camouflaged, way.
Architacts: "Build it so it looks like this." Engineers: "It can't be built that way."
Yep. In my experience of software development, customers say they want X and I realise they won't be happy if I give them X; I have to figure out what they *would* be happy with.
The number of hungover teachers watching your children is pretty horrifying.
The number of teachers who have reason to drink that much is much more horrifying.
Any number is bad, but I've been teaching over 20 years, and I have worked with hungover teachers almost never. Yeah, it happens, and that's awful, but it isn't as widespread as this makes it sound. It's just one person's experience (possibly a teacher wanting to feel better personally for teaching hungover, and so assumes it's a common thing).
There are a fair number of teachers drunk on the job.
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The process of getting electricity to your house is so complex and technical, you can’t believe how cheap it really is.
Well, that is a teeny weeny bit hard to believe when staring at an enormous bill. Though, we must never forget to factor in those poor, poor greedy people at the top who so need our money. How would they buy a bigger yacht or a second home without us. Poor things.
Every source of electricity is essentially free. Turning it into electricity and delivering it to you is very expensive, however.
The same can be said for pretty much anything though. Wood grows for free. In fact, I have so much wood at home that we just burn it to get rid of it. It's selecting the right bits and turning it into a table that costs money
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I actually cannot have you instantly "committed" if you say you want to hurt yourself. In fact I probably could not get you into inpatient psych treatment if you wanted very much to go and clearly needed it.
I got in pretty easily- My mom put me there when I was 16 after a fight and them kicking me out (I was blamed for something I didn't do and yelled and screamed at before being thrown out of the house.) I was not suicidaI, never have been, have never seIf harmed. My biggest issues were my undiagnosed ADHD and autism. I spent a week inpatient. Honestly, it was mostly just boring as hell.
I can relate... undiagnosed adhd got me into some pretty traumatic "care" situations that did more harm than good as a minor. Underfunded programs desperate for reliable insurance payouts had something do with it too. Glad yours was only a week, sincerely.
Load More Replies...I went in to "talk" to a counselor and just casually mentioned that sometimes I thought of s*****e. He went ape s**t and started yelling at me. "Are you gonna hurt yourself?" "Tell me the truth right now!" "If I even think you're gonna do something, I'm having you committed!" And so on and so on for 30 minutes. I finally calmed him down, told him our time is over and walked out. It was freezing cold that night, my dog was in my car, of course I wasn't going to hurt myself. But I will never, ever again tell anyone I mean to harm myself, even I plan to blow my head off around the corner. You'll just find my body in the morning. Thanks, you fat useless counselor. That's what you taught me.
Probably varies enormously by country and obviously by situation. In the UK a person can be sectioned very quickly in an emergency, often within hours or even minutes if they are taken to a "place of safety" under sections 135 or 136 of the Mental Health Act. In other cases, the assessment process takes longer, but for an emergency section 4, admission must happen within 72 hours.
You can in Colorado. Because of Columbine and the Aurora Theater shooting we have a state-wide Crisis response system. You can call 911 and will be picked up immediately and taken to a local ER. There you will be evaluated by a licensed mental health professional (often using Tele-health, especially in rural areas). If you are s******l/homicidal you will be committed for a 72-hour initial evaluation period at a locked psych unit. I am a retired LCSW child, adolescent, and family therapist. I could commit someone with my licensure. At the end of 3 days you are asked to voluntarily extend your stay. If you refuse there is a procedure to get a judge to extend your term of commitment (this is pro forma). There are Crisis Stabilization Unit's and Acute Treatment Units (max stay - 5 days), hospital-based psych units, and (the best in my opinion) stand-alone psych hospitals. Typically you get group therapy and medication management. To respond to an earlier comment, if you're intoxicated and are likely to be sent to detox it is definitely in your interest to say you're s******l. You get shunted to a psych hospital instead -- better food, better accommodations, better peers, MUCH nicer staff.
Unless youre a minor. Or in a state where 72 hour holds are up to a clinician's, and not a judge's, decision. Which is most of them.
In parts of the USA if you are picked up by the police acting irradically you will be taken for evaluation at the local ER. At that point you will be determined whether you need psychiatric observation. This is usually 3 days. If you are determined to be drunk or high you may just be arrested for public intoxication and spend the night in jail. The problem can be the person that is making the determination of drunk or high may be the police. If you are actually undergoing a mental health crisis spending the night in jail may sober you up but will do nothing for your mental health. Our system is badly broken for mental health as well as physical health. And in response to OP even if you need inpatient treatment there may not be any beds that you can afford since the state supported beds are all being taken up by people that have been found not guilty of crimes by reason of insanity.
Not in Oregon. No ER visit, straight to jail. They do put you in s*****e watch, where they strip you naked and provide a sorta metal, flexible blanket ( so you cant hang yourself). If you just say you are s******l, unless you have the means on you ( knife, gun ) , then that statement alone it is not grounds for commitment. And now you understand why Portland has a homeless problem.
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If you didn't put it there, you DONT TOUCH IT. People at my work have been fired for picking up the "cool thing" they found out in a field.
PARENTS - TEACH THIS TO YOUR CHILDREN! Oh look a bicycle by the side of the road? is it yours? NO, leave it alone. This simple rule would solve most of the current world problems.
Not necessarily something to be fired for, unless it's a safety risk (eg a carcass in a food place).
Accounting for big businesses isn't as black and white as people think it is. There are rules for a lot of it but at the same time there is a ton of gray area that we have no idea how to navigate. I've seen multiple high level directors get annoyed because they got into accounting because they liked the strict rules of the numbers and where the numbers go, only to now be forced to make decisions for millions of dollars with very little direction or rules.
As educators we were always scolded "You should run a school like a business." As OP points out, even businessmen don't know how to run a business like a business.
Bleeding gums mean you have to keep brushing them, not stop and avoid it. It can be a sign you are starting to brush them correctly.
They will only get better if they are bleeding when you brush. They heal and get tougher.
If you don't brush gums that bleed they will get worse and very painful.
Or it could be that you have damaged part of your mouth from over brushing after the last hygienist told you this gem. Ask me how I know.
Gums can also bleed from autoimmune disease and brushing them without treatment could make things worse... always check with your dentist!
Ah but how do you find these beasties, I've heard they're nearly extinct in the UK.
Load More Replies...It more likely means you are using too hard a toothbrush. I have to use an extra soft bristle or my gums bleed. Flossing is the most important act for gum health. And avoid eating potato chips and popcorn!
To all the people that post doorbell camera footage of a delivery driver tossing/dropping/throwing your package, chances are they didn't damage it. Packages go through way, way worse in warehouses during the sorting process.
I have a great game with one of the local delivery drivers, hunt the parcel. I found a parcel over 6 months later behind a large wooden planter. I only spotted it because the plants had died back for the winter. The umbrella inside was in perfect condition. Another notable one was when they wedged a small parcel above ground level between 2 wheelie bins. Took me a day to find that one…
One driver put a small package through an open window in our cloakroom! Took me a while to find it. FGS, I have a large parcel safe he walked past!
Load More Replies...I'm an ex worker for Fed-Ex. That fragile label is for everyone's amusement. Management didn't want to *see* you drop-kicking anything, but they really didn't give a d**n as long as you moved freight fast enough. And their lack of concern for your fragile and expensive items was surpassed by their lack of concern for their workers. Oh, they spin a nice line in how to lift and warm up before working, but they're going to wreck your knees and back, cause you tendonitis and neck strain, and ruin your body for shareholders' profit. Capitalism eats workers to make billionaires.
It's all about the packing material. I've sent and received delicate crystal and porcelain with no problems. I've also had a dumbsh*t eBay seller put a crystal vase in a box with no packing material and got very angry when I asked for a refund when it arrived in 100 pieces.
When I used to be in shipping and distribution, the way I'd test packaging was to knock the box off the top of and 8' tall skid, then throw it a good 50 feet, then kick it back to the original place. Open it up and make sure that it's still good. It always was. Throwing a package on your doorstep shouldn't hurt it.
Oil is used in almost every product you can think of. It’s in just about everything.
They are talking about crude oil, same stuff that makes gasoline/petrol. Whenever you see "artificial", chances are its an oil product. Many times, if you cannot pronounce it, it is an oil product/byproduct.
Yep. If the person in the photo is putting mineral oil on their salad...
Load More Replies...Fun fact: natural flavors can be worse for you than artificial flavors. To label it natural on an ingredient list, they start with something natural. But it doesn't matter what they do to it, so they process it, add chemicals, etc. it's easier and less bad for you to start with the chemicals and not try to make it sound good.
That we’re horribly understaffed and always on the verge of causing people to go homeless or starve or both.
OP is in Family Support Services (those in charge of helping a countries most vulnerable through food benefits, shelter, child protection, a*******n treatment, etc) - in America right now, this shortage is at crisis level - and not just due to understaffing. Chances are that almost everyone knows someone on the verge of homelessness or going hungry because these crucial basic needs are going unmet.
Not that we don't have people homeless, starving, under educated, or in need of health care, but much of that is the lack of our society's will fix these problems.
Load More Replies...You can put a peripheral IV in a baby’s scalp. That and that you can put a central line for fluids in their belly buttons.
No, they're for emergency access for the appendectomy. Saves cutting.
Load More Replies...If the person in front of you came to a stop and you had to stop behind them it DOES NOT count as you stopping. Do not go through the sign without stopping at the line yourself.
What if I'm already stopped at the line because the doofus in front me didn't stop until they were well into the intersection?
IMHO that would count. You stopped at the line. But 'near it' doesn't count.
Load More Replies...Assuming they mean a road Stop sign then this is absolutely common knowledge, nobody should pass a driving test without knowing this. In theory you must come to a full stop at a Stop sign, or a Solid white line in lieu, regardless of other traffic. (In practice, in many places it really is not necessary, so common sense may take precedence, your choice to take the legal risk. It's still illegal, but may be safe. A lot of junctions in France have Stop signs which would just be Give Way in other countries.).
In Greece, if you stop like this, everyone will get confused and angry. Yield signs are ignored, and stop signs are yield signs. And if you're ever here, try to remember that one way signs don't count if you live in that neighborhood and want to grab a parking spot, so....trust no signs.
same if you race your kids to school, no signs apply in your neighborhood
Load More Replies...Mentioning a stop sign in the first part would have made it easier to understand
One I see butchered all the time is coming to a full stop before turning right at a red light. I don't know if they even allow this across the pond.
You can get a joint replacement without general anesthesia.
Reminds me when I worked as a US defense contractor on a US military base in what was then West Germany. Contractors could not use on base medical facilities. I went to an off base dentist, found out I had a cavity. The dentist asked me if I wanted a pain killer. I said certainly, why do you ask that? It seems that German government healthcare pays for fixing the cavity but not the pain killer, that was extra. Nope, I am not raw dogging that.
Never once had to pay extra, all costs are included in your Beiträge. Unles you went private.
Load More Replies...Indeed! Suspect a new shoulder is in my future. I'd like to be unconscious please!
Load More Replies...I have had four joint replacements (2 hips 2 knees) with some kind of high tech freezing. Not general anaesthetic. Felt nothing during the 4 surgeries. F77
Oh heck no! They tried to put a drain in my chest while I was awake and I completely freaked out. I warned them, but no one was listening to me. 🤷♀️ They did eventually sedate me though.
An Epidural or a ring block is an adequate anaesthetic for many surgical procedures, much less risk involved than the full "putting to sleep" which is how we tend to think of a GA.
Agreed. First time I had a general anaesthetic, the recovery team found out I had sleep apnoea - apparently they had quite the scare. So did I, but only after they brought me back ...
Load More Replies...You certainly need to weigh the risks. A very good friend recently died, he had knee replacement (general anesthesia) and was never right in his mind again. He died a few months after the surgery, but of course it wasn't the result of the procedure. /s
How much guess work is involved in knee and hip joint replacements.. it’s incredible how forgiving the body can be.
Mine aren't They moan and complain all the time, especially going up and down stairs. Sad. I'm not old. Don't do gymnastics or jog folks. Brisk walking has near enough the benefits of jogging without the harm it can cause.
Load More Replies...There’s more guess work involved in medical care generally than we’re led to believe
There's more guesswork in medical care, than medical training tells medical practitioners!
Load More Replies...Doctors have wanted to replace both my knees (bone on bone) since 2006. Replacements only last 25 years. I'm in good health at 64. I'm not having it done again at 79!
I can mess up a LOT and pretty badly, but as long as I don't noticably react to the mistakes, the only people who will ever notice are other professionals.
I'm in HR, and same... Now, I'm pretty good at my job, so of course I don't do this 😂 But the amount of egregious and highly illegal/dangerous errors I've had to fix that went unnoticed for YEARS is astounding. Make sure you read those offer letters and employee handbooks, folks!
Depends wholly on the field in question. In some it certainly does, severe effects.
Load More Replies... Restarting any electronic device really does solve a lot of problems.....
Edit to add: a lot of my "skill" for new problems is Google-fu. Aa lot of the rest is from *everything* in our systems working in roughly the same way....
Too bad restarting something after it was shut down doesn't fix everything (looking at you, US government).
With newer Windows computers: Unless you know about and have turned off Fast Startup, always restart for issues and not shut down. Fast Startup saves the cache and state of the computer when it was shut down in order to speed up the startup, so shutting down the computer with that feature active will not solve the issue. Restating however clears the lot.
Have you tried turning it off and on again is a phrase that should be used more often
If you have dementia and can’t feed yourself because you forgot how to swallow or use the restroom, have no clue who anyone is, wander off, but other than being almost completely non-functional are healthy etc. you do not get the same medical benefits from the government as someone who has had a heart attack, diabetes, or other medical issue if your monthly income is over $1448.
I don’t even know what they mean by ‘medical benefits'
Load More Replies...I'm all in favor of death with dignity. If I'm judged to be no compos mentis by my family and an impartial judge of at least two, then let me go.
Be very careful. None of us know what it feels like to be inside someone else’s experience. As long as that person can feel pleasure, can feel safe, can feel cosy, who is anyone else to decide their life isn’t worth living?
Load More Replies...In the US healthcare is a privilege, not a right
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Mothers of the brides are the worst people in the world to deal with.
Oh, come on. We could spend all day naming groups far worse than the worst mothers of the bride.
Dog behavior is highly, highly hereditary. It’s not “all in how you raise them.” Along those lines, most dogs with anxiety weren’t mistreated. They have some bad genetics working against them and nobody bothered to socialize them right in early puppyhood.
"nobody bothered to socialize them" is exactly "how you raise them". This completely contradicts itself.
Eh... They do say it's not 'ALL in how you raise them' though. Which implies it's part. So if no one bothers to socialise them correctly they are saying the hereditary nature will not be tamped down or controlled. I don't see this completely contradicts itself, more that it's appallingly written.
Load More Replies...Thank you! The people that think they know all the answers to training always have Victorian gun dogs, which are bred to be a) highly motivated by food b) constantly checking in with their owner c) highly motivated to please their owner in any given moment. Not all dogs have been bred this way at all.
You should socialize ALL dogs as puppies. If a breed is an outgoing and friendly breed, then no harm, no foul. If the breed is a nervous and anxious breed, then all you can do is help. But understand that with a breed that is nervous and anxious, even if you socialize them and get them relaxed enough to be a happy and outgoing dog, there will always be triggers for their anxiety that might come up in the future.
I work in an office job that involves speaking to the public that email request you sent that you marked as urgent its only urgent to you not us. The amount of people that when i ask their name just give their first like they think i am being friendly no i need to know who you are or I ask for their address they just give me the postcode i ask for the address they repeat the postcode
I work in an office job that involves speaking to the public that email request you sent that you marked as urgent its only urgent to you not us. The amount of people that when i ask their name just give their first like they think i am being friendly no i need to know who you are or I ask for their address they just give me the postcode i ask for the address they repeat the postcode
