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“His Reaction Was Priceless”: 30 Rude Clients Who Had No Clue They Were Speaking To Business Owners
Interview With Expert
Our culture is pretty obsessed with being young. We try to preserve our physical bodies from the signs of aging for as long as possible. We market everything based on whether young people like it or not. But there is one place where being young is a disadvantage – a boss's position.
Young supervisors get disrespected by customers (and also employees) very often. One person online wanted to know whether young bosses encounter disrespectful clients often and how they snap back at their demands to talk to the manager. So, they asked: "Small business owners, who look too young to own the business, what's your favorite 'I AM the boss, lady' moment?" Glad to have a space to share their inventive rebuttals, hundreds of young bosses told their stories.
Bored Panda sought the expertise of organization development consultant and award winning author of Work Jerks: How to Cope with Difficult Bosses and Colleagues, Louise Carnachan. She told us more about why young business owners get disrespected more often than their older counterparts, and what disadvantages they face in the entrepreneurial world. Read on and find her expert insights below!
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#1
I ran and ice cream shop. I must have had to say "Actually, I am the manager" at least once a week.
My favorite was this woman I eventually banned from the shop. She would come in with her husband and s****y kids. Then she would try to order a large (three scoops) and ask me to put it in three single scoop cups, but only charge for the large.
I said no. You either order three single scoops or you order a large. The difference in cost is quite a bit, but it's fairly standard for companies to do it this way. I wasn't having it. She got pissy that I wouldn't do it. First she said "Well the manager let me do it last week." "No I didn't," I told her flatly. "Well than whoever was working let me do it and they said they were the manager."
"No they didn't. I believe my workers over you."
"Well I want to talk to the manager."
"I am the manager. You are talking to me. I said no."
"Fine!" And she and her little family stormed out without any ice cream. No skin off my back. She was rude to me and my workers, I wasn't going to let her treat us that way. Then she proceeds to call the shop the next day, when I am working again (as the manager, I worked a lot.) She said "Hello, I need to speak to the manager."
"Speaking. How can I help you?" "I was in there yesterday and some little b***h lied and said she was the manager, but she wouldn't let me get what I wanted..."
"That b***h was me. You're banned from our location. Don't come back."
Bonus justice boner: She tried to call corporate to report me. Corporate outsources complaints to the manager with the highest rating in the area. Which was me. So when she called corporate to complain about me, she also got me. I wrote up the details of the conversation and forwarded all of her messages to the district manager, and he agreed with my decision and allowed me to send her an email officially banning her from the store.
Lyoness 1 year ago
Cost per scoop varies because of cost of materials and labour. 3 cups and spoons cost more than 1 and it takes a little longer to scoop and portion 3 individual servings than to do one triple scoop. The cost difference is likely $1 per transaction or so. If they do that twice a day it costs the business $720 a year - that's a full week's salary for one employee. It doesn't sound like it's much of a difference but profit margins in the food industry are very slim and businesses can't afford to make acceptions that cost money.
Seadog 1 year ago
Good for you and your DM and company policies. If more businesses would grow a spine and understand these people are NOT customers, they're an expense, and ban them, it wouldn't take long for people to realize if they're going to be able to shop anywhere, they're going to have to behave.
MalibuClassicMan 1 year ago
My friends this is the world we live in today; so sad it has gotten this bad, "me first syndrome"
nottheactualphoto 1 year ago
I imagine the woman had previously signed up for the loyalty program, the Frequent Whiner Card, or whatever it's called.
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#2
I used to work in the box office for an MLB team. The actual manager was usually extremely busy and couldn't easily respond to issues at 15 different windows, so we frequently pretended to be each other's managers. It was the easiest way to get back up when an annoying customer would not accept one of our policies.
On one night I was helping a very drunk customer who refused to accept a policy (I don't remember exactly what it was). He asked to speak to the manager, but he and everyone else around me were crazy busy. So I turned my back on the customer, turned back around, pretended to be a different person, and backed myself up. He accepted this without issue and went on his way.
Krystal Quigley 1 year ago
Worked banking call center. Customer wanted a fee waived and I knew they didn't meet criteria for a manager approved waiver. Put them on hold for a couple minutes. Come back "the manager said...'
#3
Once when I was working as a restaurant manager, customer gets upset about something I can't remember which he is yelling at one of the cashiers. I come out and ask if I can help.
Customer: "I need to speak to the manager both of you are just so disrespectful and s****y."
Me: "Well sir I am sorry I can't do anything else for you I am the manager."
Customer: "No you aren't! Go get me the manager right now!"
Me: *sees one of the food runners go by* "Hey Tim, will you please go get the manager for this gentleman?"
Tim: *confused look* "But..... you are the manager right?"
Me: "Thank you Tim that will be all".
Work relationship expert Louise Carnachan says that disrespecting young bosses and managers simply because they're young is ageism. "If you're young (or appear to be younger than your years), there's an assumption you don't know much."
"There seems to be a positive bias toward those in their mid-thirties to their fifties as the sweet spot for skill and wisdom. If you fall on either side of that, your competence is questioned. Of course, there are exceptions depending upon the profession and the person," she adds.
Carnachan says that it all comes down to appearing reliable. "The bottom line is that customers/clients want to know you are trustworthy and can solve their problem. If you appear confident and helpful, that goes a long way. Then you need to deliver results."
#4
This kinda fits: moved into a house across the street from a pretty upscale winery. First time I go out to mow the massive front yard with a push mower (all I had at the time as we only lived there a couple days) I notice there’s the old, dirty landscaping guy on a zero turn making the field next to the winery look immaculate. He crosses the street and ends up in my yard and says “lemme have a try at it” and saves me an hour of work with 5 minutes of using that beast of a machine. I go up to start small talk after and ask how long he’s worked for the winery. He says “oh, twenty something years. Since it opened actually. I own it.” My jaw hit the floor. He pointed to the massively expensive home down the street and goes “that’s my house.” He wasn’t lying. Don’t judge a book by its cover.
Bored something 1 year ago
Sounds like a top notch neighbour into the bargain.
Load More Replies... Damned_Cat 1 year ago
One thing I learned when I first got into wine is that the winery owner is not always the well-dressed, urbane guy that chats with the customers. It's often the guy in overalls that comes in to pour himself a glass and talk about the soil.
Mary Brizendine 1 year ago
Those are the kind of people I love. No pretence. What you see is what you get.
Deep One 1 year ago
The only millionaire I ever met was pushing a broom in a factory space my company was just moving into. They had just poured new cement floors over the old and he felt like tidying up. He was dress in overalls and I had never met him. A great guy. Sadly my boss wasn't and screwed him over on the deal, ducking out, moving the entire company out without notice on one weekend.
Rae Henderson 1 year ago
We had a similar experience many years ago in Rutherglen Victoria. We went to visit All Saints winery on a Sunday.The winery was built in the style of a castle. An elderly man was raking leaves . No one else was around and the place seemed shut. We stopped to talk to him and he said “ its not officially open , but I can show you around”. He took us in and shared a very rare special port. I asked him if it was ok, we didnt want to get him into trouble.I thought he was the gardener. He said “ I am George Sutherland Smith, fourth generation owner. People who wint talk toGeorge Smith the gardener, never get to meet George Sutherland Smith”
MalibuClassicMan 1 year ago
What a great neighbor you have, very cool person and not to snobbish to cut his own yard either.
#5
I don't have a particularly great story about it, but I owned a popular neighborhood coffeeshop for several years. I'd occasionally work behind the bar pulling shots and making drinks, and I lost count of the number of people who'd come in demanding free coffee or whatever because they "knew the owner and he always gives me free coffee".
It always went down the same way: "I know the owner."
"No, you don't."
"How would you know?"
"Because I don't know you. That'll be $2.50.".
Stephanie A Mutti 1 year ago
I don't understand.. if I knew the owner why wouldn't i want to pay for their product? Presumably I'm hoping they'll stay in business.
Amy 1 year ago
Ah, but selfish people don't care about the people around them, only what they themselves can get.
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Moira Nash 1 year ago (edited)
If you know the owner wuldn't you want to support their business by paying?
Kat Waterflame 1 year ago
I had a boss who, when someone said "I know the owner", would cover her name tag and then ask the customer if they knew her name. (Now, a smart customer might have actually looked at the name tag. Rarely were they a smart customer.) When they couldn't tell her what her name was, she replied "Then you don't know the owner, do you?"
Krystal Quigley 1 year ago
Need a sign that includes the surcharge for fake claims that you know the owner
Lululoohoo 1 year ago
$2.50 for a coffee?! WOW - can't get a cup of drip black coffee here for under $4
MalibuClassicMan 1 year ago
just goes to show ; people will lie about anything just to get over on someone, had they been honest and said they didn't have any money the owner may have given them a cup for free; just my opinion.
#6
I worked for a landscaping company ran by a man and his brother, Scott. The one brother Jim was the main boss, but his brother ran things when Jim when out of town. Jim was out for a week and his brother gets to one of their houses to cut it, The owner comes out and says, "hHey man, I'm Jim's cousin. He said you guys could trim the hedges while you were here today?"
Scott says "No sorry man, I don't have anything in my notes about trimming your hedges today. I'll talk to Jim tonight and get your hedges sorted out, but it might be a few days."
The customer doubles down, replying, "I told you, I'm his cousin, I think I would know if my family says he can trim my hedges for me."
So Scott laughs and asks, "well how come I've never seen you at any family reunions?"
"The guy looks confused for a minute and finally Scott says "I'm Jim's brother, and we're not trimming your hedges today."
Bouche and Audi and Shyla, Oh My! 1 year ago
Well, a lot of companies pretend they're family. Why not pretend the company you're hiring is?
The work relationship expert tells Bored Panda that sometimes young people might think they're being disrespected because of their age, but it can be just because the customer thinks they're not doing their job right. "If a customer challenges your ability because they aren't satisfied with your service, that's a different issue than being challenged because you're young."
"If it's the former, then make it right. If it's the latter, rather than snapping at them, here are some things you could say (with a smile):
- I've had experience with similar issues, let me help you.
- I realize I appear youthful, but I do have experience.
- Yes, I'm fortunate to have been able to open my own business. How can I help you?
- Appearing young runs in my family. (And it does, everyone was young once!)
#7
I used to have a window cleaning business. My employee, who is older than me, was standing nearby taking a short break while I continued working.
Typical "Karen" pulls up and starts asking my employee about our prices, how to get an estimate etc, etc. I start answering questions over my shoulder while I'm working (time is money right?). She gets all huffy, and says something sarcastic like "Sir, I was talking to your boss" in her best The Grownups Are Talking voice.
So I turn around, set my window cleaning tools down deliberately and carefully, take one of my cards out of wallet and said "well ok, but I just thought you might like to talk to the owner instead". So satisfying.
adnap derob 1 year ago
TLDR-Don't assume just because there's an old guy around, he's the boss! I (20something female) was the manager of a jewelry counter in a department store. My newest employee, just happened to be my oldest, 60+, and the only male on staff. I was helping a couple shop for watches. The man said, "Maybe you could ask your manager for a discount" pointing to my new employee. I said, "Actually, I'm the manager." His wife then correctly asserted, "Guess you're not getting a discount now!"
#8
This is late so it'll probably not be seen.
I'm not a business owner but I do basic dog training and walking and general pet sitting as a side hustle. I'm a very small woman (5' 110 lbs).
I got a call from a dog mom asking if I could leash train her 2 year old Great Dane rescue. She and her husband have just been completely unable to get this boy to walk on a leash. We negotiate a price. I work on the cheap side because I'm not licensed but I want to help people so they don't rehome their dogs.
I show up with my fiance and the husband and wife take one look at me and they are incredibly uncomfortable and a bit skeptical. I have my own slip lead and use their leash and collar. My fiance accompanies me and they ask their roommate to walk with us as well. Totally understandable.
This boy is about 150 lbs and he is STRONG. He is also insecure and almost impossible to walk on a lead. He doesn't follow directions well but I'm determined. This boy has been rehomed six times in his two years of living and his parents are considering rehoming him if this doesn't work. They already have 2 adult female Great Danes and a puppy living with them.
The first walk was horrible but like I said, I'm determined to help this pup and his family. The next day, I show up and he's excited to see me. He's a little bit better but not much. His parents are still skeptical. After a week of walks, when I show up, he actually goes and sits by the door to wait for me to leash him! His dad is amazed. Their lead was grossly wanting because they normally don't have to leash their females. I borrow one from my roommate that can hook around my waist.
After three weeks of leash training, his parents are moving and I will not be able to train him any longer. But this boy has made progress by leaps and bounds! His parents are able to take him for walks around the neighborhood. He follows directions. He doesn't bolt. He's not as insecure as he once was. Our last training session, I meet the rest of the household. They call me a miracle worker. We walked for an hour and the only leash I had to use was the one around my waist. We were able to walk hands free. His parents decided to keep him. I'm especially proud of myself for this one.
ETA: Omg thank you for the gold! My first ever!!
eric p 1 year ago
Yeah, BP censors the most mundane language but somehow this completely unrelated post is included here...
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#9
I was the manager at an EB Games back in the day. This was probably about 2000-2001. I was there for the launch of the PS2 and Diablo 2 (two biggest events I can remember).
We had an older lady come in one day and wanted to "return" a system she had bought for her son. She claimed he had gotten bad grades in school and was returning it as a punishment. She handed me this ridiculously old and beat up cardboard box. I opened it to find a dirty, dusty, cheeto fingerprint covered PS1. I knew that the original PlayStation launched in 1994 (...and now I feel super old), so what I was looking at in the box was at least 6 years old. I paused, looked back at her, and for whatever reason asked if she had the receipt. She actually did. Sure enough, it had the date printed on it, and it was from some time in '94.
I still hadn't said anything more, I was just looking at the mess in front of me when she spoke up and said something along the lines of "and I'll just take the cash back, that will be fine." I laughed, which was probably my first mistake, and said "I'm sorry, but I don't think I'll be able to return this, this is six years old, and clearly used."
She tried to argue that she had bought it here at this store and the manager at the time told her she could return it for "any" reason and went on this crazy diatribe about her kid being bad, etc, etc. It went on for a good 5-10 minutes. When she was done, I just flipped the receipt over and read her the EB return policy. "30 days from date of purchase for unopened merchandise... etc".
She completely lost it. It escalated so quickly I contemplated calling mall security (ha!) and the police. She wasn't having it. Then I told her she could "sell" the system back to us (it was worth about $40 at the time), which would have given her something, but she wasn't biting on that one.
She asked for the manager, demanded to see the manager, wouldn't rest until she told the manager how rude I had been (I was pretty much a saint for most of this) and was going to get me fired. I just pointed to my name tag, and in the most satisfied tone humanly possible said "Lady, I AM the manager, and there's no way on God's green earth that I'm returning an opened, 6 year old, clearly used, dirty PlayStation."
She stormed out, never to be seen again. It was glorious.
ॐBoyGanesh 1 year ago
Not to be pedantic, but PS1 came out in late ‘95 pretty much everywhere except Japan. I know, because I camped out to buy one on launch day the fall of 1995. One of the great things about a time before online shopping was camping out or overnight waits on lines for hard-to-get items. Like PS, seasonal fad toys & tickets to concerts. Front row (the “ purple circle”) for Prince’s Purple Rain tour for less than $50 or roughly the same price as any seat, rather than paying premium by sections online at anytime. No reselling at outrageous rates. You just got to the store selling the item to be as close to the front of the line & it was first come, first served at the MSRP.
Seadog 1 year ago
My now ex walked in to Fashion Bug one day and the girl behind the counter immediately says "you bought those jeans here didn't you?" Ex tells her she did. Employee tells her to find any pair of jeans she wants and take off the ones she's wearing. The one's she's wearing are at least 2 years old, have stains on them etc. Employee is adamant about the swap. So ex gets a new pair of jeans at no charge. Something about a recall due to seams coming apart. 2 years old and no seams coming apart, it's safe to say hers didn't have a problem.
Julia Ford 1 year ago
Nordstrom is the only place to return something very used and very old. Actually I don’t know if they still do that.
james stevenson 1 year ago
EB Games still exists (Or at least in Australia)
Load More Replies...Louise Carnachan says that it may be harder for young people to be taken seriously when they start a business. "Young entrepreneurs do have a disadvantage when it comes to obtaining investors. You may be highly skilled and have a wonderful business idea, but possessing skills is not the same as being able to demonstrate a track record."
"As Will Rogers said, 'Good judgment comes from experience, and a lot of that comes from bad judgment.' Investors want to know your judgment is sound, so be very thoughtful about how you propose your business plan."
"It's worth noting that being young is an advantage in some industries (i.e., pretty much anything technical)," she notes. "And the bias is actually in your favor. In the end, being or appearing young is a time-limited issue."
#10
I'm 21 and started a construction company about 4 months ago. I work in tract housing, and I work alongside other sub contractor for the same builder. I was asked to go into a house to fix another contractors mistake. The electrician, who was in the house when I went in, thought I had made the mistake and basically called me an idiot, saying the house next door was much better built/straighter/cleaner and that my boss shouldn't accept my work. I gladly told him that I was the boss, and I was the one who built the house next door. We both laughed it off, not trying to make enemies with other trades I have to work alongside of.
Hinrik Ævarsson 1 year ago
When I realise I'm being an a*s I find it best to apologise and/or laugh it off. Doubling down has never resulted in me feeling better about it.
#11
I run a small woodshop that takes commissions from locals. One guy came in looking to order something as I'm planing a piece of stock. I stop and ask him if he needs anything, the same thing I ask all my customers, and he says, "You can't help me boy, let me talk to the owner." Keep in mind, I started this company when I was 17, and that's probably how old I was at the time. I also had hair down to my shoulder blades and a beard that hadn't fully developed a mustache yet, so he was quite right in his assumption that I wasn't an adult yet, but he left soon after I told him that, "Sir, I do indeed own this building along with everything inside it, and if you don't think i'd be capable in helping you, you are free to leave." He left.
nottheactualphoto 1 year ago
I hope OP had that long hair tied back or put up. If a power tool grabs your hair, rest assured your day will be ruined.
ॐBoyGanesh 1 year ago
Small business loan? Generational wealth? Inheritance? Mortgage? There’s many people who own property at 17 or younger. My kid owns a lot & he’s 10 years old. He can build a home on it or sell once he meets the requirements of the trust it’s held in.
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Hobby Hopper 1 year ago
That was a very mature response for a 17 year old. I couldn't pick my nose straight at 17.
Seadog 1 year ago
I can relate. I too had my own business at 17. Auto repair, detailing and customizing. Only problem people I ever had to deal with was a woman whose Camaro had been repossessed and the bank contracted me to prep it for sale. $620 (early 80's) as she had totally neglected the car. She threatened to sue me. I told her be my guest. As a contracted business, she'd have to sue the bank. Guess you know how that turned out. The other was a guy, same bank repo'd his vette. Shop that had it when they repossessed it had taken certain thinks off the car as they were afraid he was going to steal the car at night. The car arrived at my shop with the floor pans nearly level with water, radio in the seat, seats and a few other things unmounted. He did satisfy the loan and the bank asked if he could come get it. Told them ok. He then shows up and lays into me about the state of the car. He changed his tune real quick when he found out how much I'd done to save his POS.
#12
Worked in retail, specifically a specialist bra fitting shop. One day I was working the change room desk upstairs, taking bookings for fittings and helping the 10 or so customers in the rooms for people who didn't need a fitting but needed me to just quickly check things sometimes and fetch different sizes etc. It was busy, and a woman came in on the lunch rush and demanded a fitting.
I politely told her that I was very sorry but all the fitters were booked and with other customers for the next hour or so, so I could help her a bit but can't give 1-1 attention as I'm helping all the other rooms too, so if she wants the full thing she would need to pop back tomorrow or later.
She flew off the handle, telling me how busy and important she was, that she made a special trip, she can't come back tomorrow, I should help her etc. She was really rude, aggressive and mean. I just politely repeated that I was very sorry but I couldn't help her for the reasons above, we just had no free staff, she ranted a while but then left.
A few minutes after she went downstairs I got a call from one of the till girls saying a customer was complaining about the young girl on the fitting desk who refused to help her even though she could see spaces on the list, and had been rude and had been swearing at her and wanted to see the manager about it. It should be noted I was about 24 at the time, but looked really young - maybe 18. She clearly had no idea I was the manager. I told the desk girl I would be down shortly.
I walked down those steps so slowly with a huge grin to let the horrible woman slowly recognise who I was. When she saw it was me her face was just a picture. I played along asking for a description of the "girl" who was so rude, as that is very much outside our standards I am shocked to hear such a thing happened, I was upstairs at the time and certainly would have intervened if I had heard such a thing etc.
She had caused such a scene that all the people in the shop were staring at us. So she either had to admit she had been lying and trying to get what she though was some poor shop girl fired, or she had to make up a description with me obviously going to be saying things like "hmm, no one here looks anything like that - try again".
She just was at a loss for words, her mouth agape gasping for air, bright red, not making eye contact. I forget if she said anything at all but she stood there for a long while, and just left.
I have never felt such satisfaction as I did walking down those stairs knowing what was about to happen.
brittany 1 year ago
i recently got myself professionally measured and the experience was great, but i found out the hard way i prefer undergarments with no underwire. the ones i bought all had underwire and while they are nice, i just dont feel i have the range of motion i need to be comfortable. i love them but only wear them if im going someplace super nice. other wise i wear my other ones
Judging whether a person is a good manager or boss based on their age would be inaccurate. "Age is a poor metric for assessing someone's leadership skill," Carnachan says. "Those with a gift for understanding people may demonstrate this early in their lives.
#13
Growing up my mom owned a business. She did the majority of administrative and behind the scenes work while my father and a family friend worked the front end. Occasionally if my father was off, a customer would come in and ask for the boss only to be surprised/annoyed when she said she was the boss. One time this happened she was just over it and walked back into the office put on a jacket my dad bought her as a joke that said “The boss lady” and went back to the customer to say “now do you believe I’m the boss?”.
#14
Similar but different. My mum owns a florist, and hired some new staff so that she wouldn't be working 10 hours every weekday. Her biggest rule is to NEVER refuse service to a customer, because the shop doesn't get too much foot traffic and all the stock is unusable after a week and gets thrown out, hence why every customer should be served. One day my Dad (who doesn't own the shop but has a lot of authority over it) was walking past the shop while a new staff member was on. He was about to ask if he could help (since just by looking at the shop, he could tell not much had been done) before she, without looking up from her phone, said that the shop was closed. The shop definitely was not closed. Dad definitely told the employee who he was, and definitely told mum what happened. The employee was definitely fired shortly afterward. As soon as she was fired, the shop went from potentially going bankrupt to profiting.
TL;DR My Dad had a "I am the boss, lady" moment... to an employee at my Mum's shop who was shortly after fired.
#15
My dad owns a roofing warehouse, i help run it. Well one day a guy comes in looking for something he asks for the price. He doesnt like it and gets a cocky attitude talking about how he knows the boss and how he'll get me fired. Just an overall karen attitude. I Fire back with " i dont think he would Fire his own daughter." His face dropped and he got outta there quickly.
Brian Droste 1 year ago
That is good. She should have hollered out "dad, I need some help. II have a upset custoner."
Kare Deter 1 year ago
Get you fired for what? Telling him a price he obviously doesn't want to pay? WTF is wrong with people?
"A good boss or manager is able to treat everyone fairly while paying individual attention to the needs of their staff through stretch assignments and motivating them. They are clear communicators and care about their employees. While we can train people to be decent managers in leadership classes, those who excel at leadership usually come in already wired that way," the work relationship expert explains.
#16
I'm the assistant manager of a makeup store. on one occasion a lady had came in and wanted to buy the whole store. Our company has policies on purchases over a certain number of items/dollars to resist people reselling. Anyway I explain that we need her to fill out a form to approve the large transaction which required her credit card to match her ID. The name on her credit card was a man's name and not hers. I refused the sale because it's money related s**t and I will definitely get fired if I allowed payment on that credit card (even if she knew the pin, which was her argument). Needless to say she left the store screaming every profanity possible at me and said she would report me to head office and make sure I get fired. This is after she demanded to see someone "that has the power to make me happy". I smiled as hard as I could and said "I am the manager, and there is nothing on my end to make you happy. This is credit card fraud" I happily handed over my business card and said have a nice day! A few weeks later, a man walks in asking for the manager on duty, which happened to be me again. He asks if I knew someone named blahblah come in buying something with a certain bank's MasterCard. I said yes (because we write reports to flag customers). To my surprise, he says "oh god that's my soon to be ex-wife. That b***h ran off with my credit card and is trying to make me bankrupt"
Definitely a Human 1 year ago
Maybe this story happened before he knew his card was missing
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OP didn’t say if they kept the CC, knowing it was fraud. That would’ve been such a relief, and probably the best thing to happen in a while, to the ex-husband, to have the card he thought was lost and maxed out handed back to him by OP.
Roberta Surprenant 1 year ago
all he had to do was cancel the card to stop her
Load More Replies... Brian Droste 1 year ago
The assistant nanager should have said excuse me for a minute. I need to make a quick call. Then called the cops and report her for fraud.
#17
I’m 20 years old and started a small business earlier this year when I was 19 making art from trash I find on the beach. When we sell the art it helps fund an artificial oyster bed sculpture we’re attempting to make and install in the water to help filter pollution from the water. It’s called Cilly Sells Sea Shells after a nickname I got when I was younger.
So about a month ago, I met a guy at an event in a gallery I had pieces hanging in (this place hangs a lot of different artists and host music events pretty often). We started talking and mentioned our majors (I’m environmental science, he’s marine biology) and he goes “oh you’re gonna love this.” He brings me over to MY OWN WORK and starts talking about it. Apparently his friend who worked there had told him about my work.
I didn’t know what to say, so I just didn’t say anything while he talked about it. He said he loved how the pieces looked like glass and that they use stuff from the beach. Dude was clearly super into marine bio and talked about the science behind oyster filtration and all that. He had apparently been super interested in my project for like 2 months before he came to this and really knew his stuff.
He picked up the big UV lamp that was underneath it and proceeds to show me how all of it glows in the dark. I pointed to my SELF PORTRAIT and said I liked how it glowed differently than the others. He looked closer and said nothing. At that point I had to walk away to greet an event organizer.
Ten minutes later, a worker came up to me and said someone would like to meet me. Brought me up to the guy I was talking with earlier. His reaction was priceless.
Caro Caro 1 year ago
This isn't negative. He was really nice. Just say "thank you, Nice you love my work".
Teutonic Disaster 1 year ago
I know right. The hopeless romantic inside of me wanted the last sentence to go something like "The look on my soon-to-be husband's face was priceless" .
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Karina 1 year ago
A quick "its mine" at any point could have turned that conversation into something oop have no idea what could have been. Instead the rest of their tine togheter was probably disrupted, at least somewhat, by embarresment and silent questions from the event organiser about why oop didnt say anything.
roddy 1 year ago
Sometimes it's hard to get a word in edgewise when the mansplainer takes over and is lecturing you. Not to mention that you are feeling rather stunned by the situation in general.
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Bidango Smith 1 year ago
I was expecting a "... and we've been married for 15 years now." or something. He's not man-splaining the work to the artist if he didn't know who the artist was.
Kali Chaos 1 year ago
Yeah, this is actually awesome though. As an artist, I'd be super flattered.
Belladonna.dreams 1 year ago
Sounds like he was so engrossed in the art that he was oblivious to who he was talking with. If I were an artist, I'd be proud of that.
Be_ Heard 1 year ago
Hahaha mansplaining at its best. At least he loved the work. It's too bad he was explaining something to someone who already knew it inside and out haha 😄
Jessie 6 months ago
This isn’t mansplaining at all, just a guy that was passionate about art and wanted to share his enthusiasm
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Sorry for the long read, tldr at the bottom. For background, I don't own the business, but I am the general manager at a pool and spa store. I believe this fits here though. I am also a rather short (5ft tall) woman who, despite being in my 30s, gets mistaken for a high schooler at first glance. Also, I try to get a mix of both male and female employees, but not a lot of women apply for a pool store, so besides myself, the other 4 employees that day are guys, and it being seasonal for all but GM and ASM's, they are all between 18-20 year old guys in between college semesters. Customer comes in with a pump with a frayed/broken cord. I greet him, and am promptly ignored. Knowing I'm the only one that has shopwork training (I was put in this location to fix a failing store and had to train a whole new staff to boot) I walk off the sales floor and into the shop area to work on other equipment while I wait for the customer. So customer walks up to the young guy on register and tells him he needs his pump fixed, is told that shopwork is done by the manager and gestures to the shop window. Customer proceeds to ask 2 other brand new employees, they tell him they are still in training, but I would be able to help him, and point him towards me. Exasperated, the customer walks up to the shop window, and in spite of me standing there working on a disassembled robotic pool vac , says in a snippy tone, "hey, I need the manager to fix my pump, where is he?"
I put what I was working on down, and with that "customer service smile" on , ask if his pump is 110v or 220v since the plug is missing (I can tell once i open the pump, but I prefer to collect all the parts needed first if I can) and if there were any other issues he can tell me about to ensure I have all the parts or if i need to get some from other locations.
Customer looks at me, looks at the screwdrivers and test leads and says, "Honey, they told me I needed the manager, they said he was the only one who can do this, is he here?" (All in a tone like i was bothering him) I kept that smile and reached out to shake his hand, saying "hello sir, I'm the manager, fuzzyoverlordsmom. Besides a new cord, is there anything else I can help you with today?" Unfortunately this guy was a jerk, and instead of brushing it off, apologizing for dismissing me, or just acting like a normal person, he questioned if i knew what i was doing and if ive ever even fixed anything before. I told him it was his choice to leave it w me to fix or not, but he does need to talk to me w the same courtesy and respect that he is being shown in spite of how hes been acting. He left and I fixed the cord, the pump seal & gaskets. Pump worked great after, and his wife came and picked it up.
He came in a week later and apologized to me, and ended up giving me another tip. Hes been a model customer since.
TLDR: customer comes in w shopwork for repair, doesn't believe the young looking female employee could be the manager or fix a pool pump, is rude. Ends up apologizing when proven wrong.
Hphizzle 1 year ago
Something tells me his wife did not let that fly when he told her what happened.
Tabitha 1 year ago (edited)
After his wife picked up the perfectly fixed pump from the woman manager he had complained to her about when he dropped it off, she went home and gave him a good piece of her mind for the way he had treated OP, so he sheepishly turned his act around, because he knew damned well his wife was going to kick his a*s—-again—-all the way to next Thursday if he didn’t.
Justme 1 year ago
I would have replied “yes sir, thankfully this particular model doesn’t require a penis to repair it”.
whineygingercat 1 year ago
I used to get this when I worked at Sears Hardware. With the Craftsman handtool exchange, we were able to rebuild socket wrenches. So when one came in, we exchanged it with a rebuilt and later rebuilt the returned one. A lot of guys wanted to keep the one they had - it had been passed down from grandad to dad to son - so I would tell them to wander about for 10 min and I'll rebuild it now. These guys would look at me, a 20 something gal and be all like 'you're the one refurbishing these?' I'm like 'yup' 15 min later, they're done and on their way back to work.
Annita Stephanou 1 year ago
My early days as a technician electrical engineer. Gotta love these guys...
Danish Susanne 1 year ago
When I go to get a new tool or building materials I always try to find a young woman that works there, because she is the best of them at finding out what I need.
"Entrepreneurs of any age may or may not be good leaders," Carnachan adds. "Typically, a start-up entrepreneur attracts employees who are enthusiastic about the product and service. When the business is new and small, the shared vision is compelling. However, as a business grows and matures, an entrepreneur may not be able to make the leap into successfully leading others."
#19
I used to own a store. One day I'm at the register, watching tv when a woman comes up and asks for a refund. My policy was no refunds unless defective or something like that. She wanted to return a $200 item for her cash back. Told her sorry, but I wont be able to make a return and told her why. She got all huffy puffy and said "Listen, I know the owner of this store, do not make me call him". I gave her his "new number" (which was just mine) and made an apologetic gesture, telling her he'd tell her the same thing. She actually called the number. I pick up on my cell and tell her that we dont make refunds unless the product is defective. She looks at me with wide eyes and I tell her "Ma'am, I am the owner, I opened this shop a couple years ago". She walks out muttering about reporting me to Yelp.
Brian Droste 1 year ago
I would love to be there when you gave her your own phone number then she immediately dials it and you it pick up in front of her. That would be hilarious .
Kare Deter 1 year ago
Why would you give your personal number to an irate customer? No good can come of that, but a whole lot of evil can. Sorry, having a hard time believing this one.
#20
Many years ago I was managing a chain pet store. I was in my early 20s and had long hair. I didn't "look" like a manager. We offered samples of dog and cat food at the cash register and some woman gave me a real snarky answer when I asked if she wanted some free samples of cat food for the cat she was buying toys for. She said she feeds her cat from her plate and doesn't give it cat food. She said it like I was an asshole for asking if she wanted free samples. I nicely said that cats have a specific digestive system and cat food is specifically formulated for cats. She angrily said "Garfield eats lasagna, my cat eats what I feed him too." I just said "Ok, have a nice night." and walked away.
About an hour later one of my employees tells me there is a woman on the phone who wants to speak to the manager. So I grab the phone and ask how I can help her. She goes on to tell me about the rude "long hair kid" who told her she was a bad owner for feeding her cat human food. That never happened. Then she goes on to tell me that the same "long hair kid" threw one of the ferrets into the ferret bin from 5 feet away and said "I'm playing ferret basketball." That ABSOLUTELY did not happen.
I let her go on and on, trying not to laugh. I finally said "Ma'am, I am that long hair kid, and none of what she just told me actually happened." she started to cut me off "....furthermore you are no longer welcome in my store." She huffed and hung up. Never saw her again.
somnomania (she/her, queer) 1 year ago
i do feel like pet stores should be able to have a bit more authority if they learn someone's being wildly negligent with their animals, like feeding them only human food. i know it's a free country and all but vets and the better pet stores exist to help you care for your pets. if you're not interested in caring for them properly you shouldn't have them!
Seadog 1 year ago
Our last cat had zero interest in people food. We could sit and eat anything with him on our lap and he wouldn't even raise his head to sniff. He also wouldn't touch wet cat food. He got 1 cup of food a day, if he ate all from the day before which he usually didn't. 22 pounds and tall enough to stand on the floor and look on the counter to see what we were doing.
Danish Susanne 1 year ago
I heard about some cats getting blind because they were fed dog food. I don't know if that could happen with human food too.
Jessie 6 months ago
It could because cats need food with lots of taurine, which is found in fat on meat. Most meat products people eat have most (if not all) of the fat cut off, not to mention a cat’s diet is almost exclusively meat while humans eat vegetables and other stuff. Dog and regular human food do not have enough meat to meet a cat’s minimum taurine intake, which can cause loads of issues like blindness and kidney failure.
Load More Replies... Roberta Surprenant 1 year ago
gosh, there is another pet store story where the customer calls and says ferrets were being tossed, almost like they were made up by the same AI or something....
#21
Not really a ‘manager’ but more of a supervisor/lead of a department in a retail store. I’m female and I worked in the tools department so I got looked down at a lot. The best story I have, is when a guy walked in and tried to return something and I had to tell him no. He got pissed and demanded a manager, the only one available was the one who knew nothing about the area I worked in. She literally came over, listened to him, looked at me and asked “so, what’s the policy?” The guy then realized that I was not just some employee. When I told her what the policy was, she turned to him, shrugged and said “she knows more than I do back here.” And walked away. He was not too happy with the outcome.
Some guy 1 year ago
The only thing better would have been if the manager who "she knows more" had been a man.
Seadog 1 year ago
Been there, done that. Most still want to talk to another guy. I was store manager and my merch pro (female) would take a call or assist a walk-in and they'd say "I need to talk to one of the guys" She'd hand of to me or my AM and every single time it would be some question pertaining to something she'd been doing for years. We'd always tell them, let me get the person who knows the most on that and turn them right back over to the merch pro. Yes, we all knew the answer but it was more gratifying to teach the jerk a lesson that women can know about mechanicals.
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Gracie Mae 1 year ago
i worked in a similar situation & was an asst mgr in training, being the only female on duty working with 3-4 males. Guy comes in, I greet him ask him what I can help him with, he says something to the effect of "I need to talk to one of they guys at the counter." I tried to tell him that I could help him, but he brushed me off. Thankfully, I worked with a great group of guys & they saw this happen, so when he got back to them, when he told them what he needed, they pointed to me and said "She's our resident expert on just what you're looking for" and they all walked off. Of course I helped him with a smile, & didn't even have to use the computer or the books to look up the part. I could tell he was slightly impressed, and while he didn't apologize, he did 'trust' me after that to take care of his parts issues.
#22
Became a supervisor for a welding contractor when i was 19. Had an engineer ask to talk to my boss out on a job site that i was the only one at (5am was the first one there).
Me: "He's out at the truck"
*get out to the truck and swap out to my white hard hat*
Also me: "are you the one to blame for these s****y f@#$ing blueprints?".
Papa 1 year ago
I gave it an up vote for the last sentence, having had to deal with more than my fair share of similar drawings.
Scott Rackley 1 year ago
Oh lord yes, some engineers think they are draftsmen
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#23
Everytime an older (60+) customer comes into my yarn shop and my mother’s visiting the shop. Apparently, at 35 I’m too young to own a yarn shop. My mom (62) looks the part, so they all sidestep me to ask her.
Even when I’m the one answering they still turn back to her with their questions.
Shelli Aderman 1 year ago
I, too, as a 53 year old, might make the same mistake. Sorry about that! (Also SWOONING over this yarn photo!💕)
Kare Deter 1 year ago
IKR?!? So many never-to-be-realized projects dancing in my head.
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Michael Largey 1 year ago
Send your mom to competing yarn stores, and let her sow chaos and confusion as she goes from shop to shop.
Tanya Mattson 1 year ago
Not quite the same but I volunteered at the Salvation Army foodbank here where I live. My granddaughter needed volunteer work for graduation so she came with me having permission from the manager. My granddaughter is taller than I am and she is intelligent but the other volunteers would direct questions about her to me. I would just say ask her, she's standing right here.
#24
My girlfriend got to turn down an MLM this way. "How would you like to be your own boss?“ “I am...".
TheElementalGod️️ (He/him) 1 year ago
HEY pandas. How would you like to join an MLM so that I can suck you dry of all your money? be a boss babe and just go to www.scampeopleuntiltheyrebroke.com and be your own boss!
Bruce Wollen 1 year ago
I'm sold. Anyone who knows how to properly use "their/there/they're" and "your/you're" has to be legit. On my way to sign up!
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Ripley 1 year ago
I have no interest in being my own boss. I like my job in a large, secure company that pays me reasonably well, provides annual and sick leave, pays me for public holidays, pays into my superannuation (a bit like a 401K, I think), and provides workers insurance in case I'm injured on the job. Working for The Man isn't always terrible.
#25
I was working in a start-up when I was 20 or something, and at the moment I, so happened was going through medical exams for the army, and one of the doctors asked me where I was working. I told her that I ditched the uni for my business, and she'd told me that I'm probably stupid and my business isn't successful, as I'm sitting with her, in this c****y cabinet. So, the next thing she sees is an article with my photo, in a very respectable finance journal. This look on her face was priceless.
Skp2MyLou 1 year ago (edited)
Given how poorly this was written, given the horrible grammar and punctuation, I'm gonna declare shenanigans on this one.
HTakeover 1 year ago
OP said it was in Russia and they were trying to get medical disqualification from mandatory service.
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Nikki Gross 1 year ago
I think he was trying to get a medical disqualification to avoid serving in the military, which in some countries is compulsory. In Israel it is mandatory that starting at age 18 you have to serve at least 2 years in their Army. The only way to avoid it would be to have some type of medical reason or issue to avoid serving.
Dav Carro-Ripalda 1 year ago
So, you were a very successful startup, but were on medical exams for the army? Do not understand this. Why would you like to change a money making business for a killing business?
Seadog 1 year ago
I'll never forget the day I had called my Congressman and he returned my call while sitting in a waiting room. It didn't take a genius to figure out who I was talking to and the look on some woman's face when I addressed him by his first name was priceless. She was one of those that seemed to look at anyone else as subordinate. And yet here I was, just some 30 something guy chatting with the Congressman. I could literally hear the gears turning in her head as she's wondering now just WHO I am to know him that well.
#26
I co-own a clothing company and we do a lot of expos and booths. I don’t know how many times recruiters, printers, manufacturers, whatever have completely ignored me and have gone to my athletes that come to help for the day to ask if they could be our manufacturer or if we could be a part of their event. I’ve been asked how long I’ve been working for the company, if I can give their card to my “boss”, you name it. Even when the other athletes tell them I’m the one to talk to, they kind of talk to my athlete/ambassador or helpful friend instead of me especially if they’re male and white. I just toss their card into the trash.
Jinx (she/her) 1 year ago (edited)
I can understand initial confusion, we're all humans, we all make mistakes based on bias, but when it has been pointed out to you, why keep going? Why keep doing it?
Danish Susanne 1 year ago
Save the cards with a notice on them, so you do not accidentally give them business later.
Tabitha 1 year ago (edited)
No they didn’t. OP said the reps choose to talk to white male athletes instead of OP, the actual co-owner of the business who is obviously not white and/or male. Those reps are the ones whose cards get thrown out. Reading comprehension is hard.
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#27
I own a coffee shop. One time a lady came through and wanted to order a latte, with a bunch of add on ingredients, which all cost extra, because it costs us extra. When I told her this, she thought the idea was preposterous that double flavor, extra espresso, soy milk, etc would cost extra, and demanded to speak with the manager. So, of course I say I can actually have her speak to the owner, stuck my hand out and introduced myself and let her know I owned the place. She lost her s**t, but still comes back every day to do the same thing over and over to all of my employees. They're all aware of her issues and just tell her if she doesn't like our coffee and prices that she should go somewhere else, but she just keeps coming back.
Seanette Blaylock 1 year ago
Apparently, one purchase a day is more important to the owner than the mental health of their staff, who I hope keep leaving for jobs where their boss will have their back when a customer gets abusive.
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Create a new drink - whatever it is she usually orders, total up the extra costs and make that the base price for that new specialty drink.
arthbach 1 year ago
If I were the owner, I'd give this woman five more chances. Then note down each incident, time, date, person who received an earful of her complaints. Once she reaches the magic number, ask the staff to refer her to you, and let her know she has been fired as a customer. You are looking out for your staff, and will not accept her behaviour.
Papa 1 year ago
I agree with you, except replace "five" with "one" in the first sentence.
Load More Replies... Hobby Hopper 1 year ago
I don't like the price of shop coffee either, but I don't blame the businesses for that. They've got to make a profit after all. If you can't afford it, just make your own coffee, or switch to a different drink.
#28
I [high schooler, F] am a manager at a local restaurant due to having worked there the longest and being very good at what I do. My coworkers are usually significantly older than me, so it’s hilarious when someone asks for a manger to a 50 y/o and they come and get ME. The most significant memory I have is some lady who laughed in my face and then left, but most of the time people drop the attitude right away.
David Martin 1 year ago
I'll admit, my dumb self saw the "high schooler, F" and for just two seconds thought that was a grade point average before the other side of my brain told me "...You're an idiot"
ShadySlytherin 1 year ago
Don't feel bad!! Sometimes I type something like 50 x 1000 into a calculator and then just stare at the answer while contemplating my absolute stupidity
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i will never understand places that make highschoolers a manager. i was smart as a teen, but not that smart, and i feel like most teens just aren't equipped for that kind of responsibility, emotionally, mentally, etc. having worked there for X amount of time =/= being capable of managing others.
Seadog 1 year ago
I have news for you, it's very similar being the oldest person in the business. I'm a couple years younger than the owners, but they rarely come around anymore. That leaves me as the senior member of staff followed closely by the service writer. Next oldest is about 15 years younger and they go down from there to early 20's. Most just won't listen to what we say as if we've just been hired from fast food or something. Nevermind that we've been doing this longer than some have even been alive.
#29
I ran a small non-profit for a while. It ended up being a kind of big deal at a local level, which I'm super proud of.
I had a sticker of the non-profit on my water bottle. At a party, a friend of a friend had the same sticker on her phone case. I pointed to her phone, then my water bottle, and gave her a thumbs up. She walked over and proceeded to tell me all about the organization and what she thought of it and how she got involved etc etc. She talked for a few minutes before asking how I'd heard of it. I told her that I suppose I'd first heard of the organization while sitting in my kitchen creating it.
E.V. 1 year ago
Or, you could've told her you founded it and thanked her for her support instead of acting like a b. She seemed very enthusiastic about your organization.
Zarquonsniece 1 year ago
We don't have enough information to judge OP from this post because they ended the story on the punch-line. You can read it that person with the water bottle was embarrassed and ended the conversation quickly. OR that they both laughed and kept talking about the non-profit.
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Lame Llama 1 year ago
Why the passive aggressive vibe? This other person was obviously appreciative and enthusiastic about the org. Maybe OP should try getting off their high horse every now and then.
Skye Ragsdale 1 year ago
Interesting. I didn't read it as passive-agressive. To me it came across more as a funny way to deliver the news. Interesting what people assume, isn't it? Because we have absolutely no way of knowing.
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#30
I just And I mean JUST (since September) opened a nightclub with my husband and a few friends (we also rent movies but that’s beside the point) We have punk nights and EDM nights and rap nights - depending on the crowd I have had some really interesting interactions
One was a guy who literally asked me “So do you come here often?” I kinda laughed and said “well I own the place so yeah I guess I do” (normally I wouldn’t be this brash but he was being creepy long before our “conversation”)
#31
Years ago I worked in retail and a customer asked for help finding a certain item, while I was sitting briefly at the fitting room desk. I said, “of course, let me get our expert in the area that will be able to help you.” She said, “um you could’ve just helped me,” while rolling her eyes. I said politely, “I apologize, I just wanted to give you the best help from our expert in the area.” The expert was standing there waiting to help the lady, as the lady continued to give me an evil eye. They walked away and found what she needed in five minutes (would’ve taken me far much more time to help her). Then while she was leaving the fitting room, she asked the expert if the store was hiring. The expert said, “she’s the manager, she would know best,” while pointing at me. The lady’s jaw dropped and she said she was so sorry for how she acted earlier. I said no worries and told her how to apply. She didn’t get the job. (I didn’t block her opportunity but no one would pass her on to second interviews after hearing from employees who witnessed how she treated the manager, me). Lesson learned: never treat receptionists or fitting room people, or anyone in general poorly, because you never know.
Ronna Black 1 year ago
Never treat the receptionist badly. They are the first contact and will likely be asked about your demeanour/behaviour, especially for interviews. I know I always was.
Tabitha 1 year ago
They’re also the person to ask about the company management and general environment, though you have to be careful and tactful about how you ask. I have found out a lot about companies I applied to, just by having a friendly chat with the receptionist while waiting for an interview. Dodged a couple bullets, as well as found some great places to work.
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#32
I run a textbook rental store. A chick comes in with books so overdue that she has a $260 late fee. I wasn't going to make her pay that, but the only way to pull that off without hardcore unbalancing my drawer was to have her pay the replacement fee so that she owned the books, then sell them back to the store. I knew the sell back prices, so I knew she'd get out of the store paying less than $40 as her late fee. However, when I suggested this plan, b***h went ape s**t. She starts talking about how she didn't know the due date (it's on the receipt we give them, and I send out TWO reminder emails - if you didn't get the email, sucks to be you), and that it's not fair, not fair, not fair! When I pointed out to her that our store stickers were on her textbooks which would have been a reminder of where she got them and that there's a due date, she asked to see the manager.
I probably shouldn't have, but I actually walked to the back of the store and then walked back up with a big, fake smile on and said "Hello, I'm the manager. What can I help you with?" She was livid. She tried to pull some "I manage a store too -" bulls**t but I cut her off and said "If you manage a store as well then you understand that this is a business. I have policy to follow. No one at this store is your mother, and you are a COLLEGE STUDENT. If you can't remember due dates, you got problems girl." Cue this ol' chestnut - "I am NEVER coming to this store again, none of my FRIENDS are EVER COMING HERE AGAIN!!" I told her good, go write a Yelp review. B***h.
#33
I started my own cleaning service. I’m in my early 20’s so there’s NO WAY I’m the owner right? I do houses and cars. Well I got a call from an older lady asking for the owner. I obviously said I was the owner and we talked for a bit about what she wanted done. I do have a lower kind of raspy voice so I sound older than my age over the phone. I then went to the ladies house to assess everything and figure costs and before I could even get to her door she opened it asking if the owner was gonna be there. I said I’ll tell him to call you. I then took my phone and called her house phone. She went in to get it and when she picked up I said “hi I’m the owner of (insert company name) how may I help you today”. Needless to say she apologized. I definitely felt like a d**k for it but I am tired of older generations thinking a kid can’t own his own business.
Tabitha 1 year ago (edited)
I’m a late boomer (1960), and I would be tickled to death to find out someone so young is enterprising enough to start and run their own business. My husband and I own a business, and it’s not easy—-and we’re older with college degrees. So someone right out of high school doing the same thing has really got to be 100% on the ball, and I totally love that (I wasn’t that poised and sure of myself at 18, and didn’t even know what I wanted to do with my life. so I really admire that confidence and drive in someone else). I always wish them well, and hope to see their companies succeed, and maybe go national one day, so I can say I knew that business tycoon when they were just starting out. TBH, if I had any kind of power, I’d make sure everyone could succeed in life.
#34
I'm 28 and look 15 so when my mom helps me run my soap booths everyone asks her what's in it. What are the scents, do you have anything for rosacea? And she just says I just work here, the owner is my daughter. The customers just look at me in horror as I answer all their questions and I get asked a lot how old I am to be owning a business.
Lexekon 1 year ago
We kinda have to give a pass for cases involving unusually youthful appearances. The same logic which insists we card people for age restricted sales, even if they look like they MIGHT be old enough.
Bobby 1 year ago
I worked in a liquor store years ago and the people who got the most angry about being carded were either just old enough or under age. Always thought that was kinda funny
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I used to help at adoptions fairs through a local shelter at a local chain of pet shops (multiple shops in the same city) the owner dresses way more *comfortably* than anyone would expect.
One time a lady was throwing a fit over the shelter's policies (the shelter and the pet store chain are partnered but share no management) and the owner the of pet store chain came over to find out what the commotion was all about. He just quietly listened as she raved and ranted about complaining to corporate and how she was going to get him fired and everything. He just took down her info and never bothered to tell her that she was yelling at and being abusive to the owner. Honestly he's kind of a cool dude.
#36
This happens all the time for me, I'm a younger guy who owns a construction company specifically flipping houses. We also rent them etc. But every time I go over to a tenants house and fix something, or send the crew there its the same story. "I know you came here to fix this but your boss said you'd also do blah blah blah" Most the time I'll just do it to keep people happy but there's been a few times I've had to tell them I am the boss and that never happened.
#37
I wasn’t running the business but I was employee #1 at the time and working all alone in the store (it’s very small) over the summer when I was 19. A guy comes in, asks if we’re open, and then asks when the boss gets back. I said “today you’re looking at her.”.
Rob D 1 year ago (edited)
While I am all for people asserting their position in the face of toxic masculinity/wrongful assumptions/prejudice... please be careful of people casing the place; particularly those of you who work alone or small staffed.
MissMePhoenix 1 year ago
I dont kno why you got downvoted, its a legitimate possibility that workers should be aware of
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I am a 24 year old PhD student working in IT. I am commonly referred to as ~18. I and a partner own a small service business. I always enjoy people trying to pay me directly for my service rather than going through the business. I don’t always correct them, but the malicious ones always have a great look on their face when they realize I’m the owner they’re trying to screw.
#39
I run a retail business with my other half. I'm a 26 year old female but I look around 15/16 and often get mistaken as the student part-timer.
One customer told me I looked 15. When I told her I owned the place he said, "Wow, you're so successful for being so young!" Had to break the news I was 26, not 15.
Another time, a woman stormed in with a complaint about the delivery she just ordered. I explained the issue she had wasn't ours to fix (driver problem, they're not our drivers) and she cut me off with, "Can I speak to your manager." I deadpan, "I am the manager." She sizes me up, huffs, crosses her arms and asks what I'm going to do about her problem, then.
I also remember a guy who started with, "So where's the boss today? The guy that runs it?" I pass the guys drink over and say, "Oh, you mean my husband?" He flustered for a bit and followed up telling me he knew I was also a manager and that that "guy" was my husband. Sure, dude.
Oh, but my favourite one is the Asian lady who was unbelievably surprised I ran the shop we do (it's Asian based, my other half is Chinese) because "you're white, I didn't think you'd know what you're doing.".
#40
My favorite is a common one. I am the youngest in my store by 30+ years. Customer asks about price of product, says are you sure, and walks off. Usually 5 min later I will see them talking to a coworker asking about price and coworker yells "diabetesh can you check price on ...." I walk over smiling and just say the same price I said before seeing the look of shame that they didnt trust me cause I am a young s**t.
arthbach 1 year ago
I've had people try this in my shop. For us, it isn't an age thing, but people trying to get someone to sell it to them cheaper.
Upstaged75 1 year ago
It's like a kid asking dad when mom has already said no. :)
Load More Replies... Seadog 1 year ago
It kills me when people say "This stuff just keeps going up." No dude, it's actually been the same price for 4 years now. And then there's the ones that say, something like "Last time it was $10." Really? You haven't bought any of this since 2001? (yes I was here in '01 and that's the last time it was that cheap)
#41
A guy at the library asked me if I was studying and I told him I was working on my online business. We chat, but he hints at me making a mistake for not having a "regular job". He now works for me :).
#42
Working night shifts at a gas station, My coworkers sister came into the store trying to buy cigarettes without an id. I didn't say anything about it. He rejected the sale just cause he could. Using the excuse " the manager may chew my ass out", she responded with something along the lines of "how would he know?" I chime in Cooley with "I'm the manager".
Anna Chandler 1 year ago
In my state, if you sell cigarettes or alcohol to anyone without an ID, you're getting a $500 fine. Do it again, it's easily double that, and possible jail time. And you're definitely getting fired. The store I was at, the register wouldn't continue a sale without an ID being scanned.
Colleen Glim 1 year ago
But you can walk into a Walmart and buy a gun? That’s some screwed up priorities
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Just today actually, and it wasn't even a bad one! I [27F] took over a small used bookstore in my town about a year ago (full year on the 26th, go me!). This place had been in town already for about eight years, and passed through one other person before me since the original owner, who I had actually worked for about five years ago. That said, this lady is in, wandering around and checking things out, making conversation, the usual. She mentions that her son brought her in, and last she heard the woman running it had a kid. I just laughed and answered that she was speaking of the previous owner, and that I was the new one and had been for a year. To which she seemed properly astonished, and then complimented the store- we have christmas decorations up, and a lot of them are handmade papercrafts because the decoration budget was nil.
#44
M- me BM- big Momma.
Me and my buddy ran a little hole in the wall bakery, and we once had this woman (let me rephrase, a 300 pound, ready to devour our shop woman) come in and she sat down and ordered a donut and coffee .
So i bring it out and walked back to the kitchen and 30 seconds later I hear a loud thump that sounded like a fall. So I ran out, and she had slammed her fist down on the countertop and knocked a few if our displays down.
She starts yelling "my donut was not good enough, I demand a new one right now"
M- "sorry ma'am, unless your donut was under baked, or something foreign was in it, it's against our policy "
BM - " I want to see the manager!!"
M- " I am the manager ma'am, and I'm telling you, we cant do that"
BM- "then let me talk to the person above you "
By this point i was so fed up, I decided that I was gonna make her so mad she'd just leave.
So I walk to the kitchen, yell my own name and I walked back out. She asked where the owner was, and I said "Oh, your looking at him, and now I think you should leave, thankyou for your business and come again soon"
She stomped out and I had to deal with the broken jar and fallen picture frames, but I was just releaved she was gone.
Thankyou for reading
Edit: omg thank you for my first silver.
kathyberthahazel 1 year ago
I don't see how her physical appearance has anything to do with this story.
#45
Me and a colleague, let's call him Michael, had a customer complain about something that was clearly stated in our Terms of service. Further more, the request simply was not possible. Michael is a very friendly guy, but has also a line that he is not willing to cross. So this guy keeps arguing and discussing and at some point tells Michael that he now wants to speak to the manager. Michael looks him dead in the eye and answers: "Oh, then you are lucky. On Saturdays I am the manager. How may I be of help? " The guy froze and left with an angry face. Story is still legendary around the other colleagues.
#46
Me but also not me kinda I look older than I am (guy on gfs account) and my old boss looked slightly younger than i. Well some lady came up and asked me if we had a specific phone case. I was honest and said I didn't know and that I could look (we had custom cases). As I started to look, the owner came over and asked if everything was OK. She replied with "yes sir, the owner is looking for a specific phone case" The owner replied with "I am?" And he started looking too. I turned around and told the lady that I couldn't find that specific image for her phone but the owner can make one for her if shed like. She stood there confused and then asked who the owner was. I pointed to my boss and said he is and my boss patted my back and said I was. So the lady stood there and was even more confused. A few moments went by and then co-owner came by and asked what the problem was. The lady said "I am looking for a specific image for my phone and they couldnt find it. Neither one of them could find it and the tall one said the owner can print one for me. I asked who the owner was and the tall guy pointed to [him] and said he was but [he] patted the back of the tall guy and said he was. Are you the owner (asking co-owner)?" The other owner laughed and said yes. He said he could do it and asked for the picture. She ended up getting the phone case but I don't think she ever found out who the owner was.
Victor Botha 1 year ago
Great way to alienate and lose customers. What a bunch of childish d!ckheads. Pranks are for friends and family Not your paying customers.
Seadog 1 year ago
Where I work we've had 2 people that actually tell people they are the owner. Both are nothing but salesmen. One is gone and I wish the other would go. I'm not sure what either have told people beyond being the owner but there must be a lot more to it because when people find out they're just salesmen, they always get a combined look of shock and horror on their face.
Skp2MyLou 1 year ago
So the OP is sharing a story that he and the two owners were jerks to a customer?
Jas Warner 1 year ago
She started by saying that the owner was helping her find something. Don't go assuming people are the owners is the lesson
Load More Replies... Auntriarch 1 year ago (edited)
I confess I do often in my head assume "rank" in a shop, but would always refer to the person helping me as "this lady" or "the other gentleman" even if said person looks like they should be in school. Looks like I've saved myself from much embarrassment over the years.
#47
When I was 23 I has just started a roofing company, put about 40 roofs in this neighborhood. Went to pick up a check for one of sales reps and got a very suprised look when I introduced my self as the owner.
#48
I’ll take my boyfriend to yearly conferences and when at booths or when I’m getting supplies or reading material the people running booths will usually talk to him first, thinking he’s the one in the field I’m in.
Rae Andringa 1 year ago
If she's busy "getting supplies" and he's not, I don't see a problem with customers speaking to him first. I'm sure OP has had bad experiences, but they're the ones doing the assuming here.
#49
All of them. Literally all of them. They jaw drop, the mystified look when they hear it, the stutter, the “oh s**t I f****d up” realization.... I relish each and every moment it happens.
P Peitsch 1 year ago
OP was reffering to all of his experiences withouit pointing one specific one.
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Phred 1 year ago
My wife and I buy eggs from a woman and man who run a stall in our local farmers' market. Last year they raised the price of eggs by $1 per dozen; the only surprise was that they hadn't raised the price sooner. So naturally, I rolled my eyes and said to the man "well, I suppose I should scream and stamp my feet and threaten to call corporate?" He jerked his thumb at the woman and said "she's corporate." (Just in case it's not obvious in print, we were both having fun. And she does run the business--it's her name on the credit card slips.)
DC 1 year ago (edited)
A friend works in plumbing, as a ... civilian on a military complex. He was a soldier before, but before that, he learned plumbery. Anyway, to promote him, he had to learn something, and was basically told, "here's a set of slides on the issue, get most of that straight and you're set!". He wrote the slides. Ok, not that much of a surprise.
DumYum 1 year ago
TIL people actually make up horrible stuff to f**k service people up. Wow, what a trend.
Steve Hall 1 year ago
The only time I have ever asked to speak to the manager is when looking for a job.
LinkTheHylian 1 year ago
I used to do that. Then as time went on I didn't even end up dealing with the manager. And now? I am the manager! Is that good? No. You can't smack people upside the head, and there are millions of people out there who need a good beating. And kids who should be sent to military school.
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Socks Thecate 1 year ago
I think this happens because people take advantage of the Customer Is Always Right narrative that was baked into boomer American culture. People would swan into any joint and assume they owned the place.
Phred 1 year ago
My wife and I buy eggs from a woman and man who run a stall in our local farmers' market. Last year they raised the price of eggs by $1 per dozen; the only surprise was that they hadn't raised the price sooner. So naturally, I rolled my eyes and said to the man "well, I suppose I should scream and stamp my feet and threaten to call corporate?" He jerked his thumb at the woman and said "she's corporate." (Just in case it's not obvious in print, we were both having fun. And she does run the business--it's her name on the credit card slips.)
DC 1 year ago (edited)
A friend works in plumbing, as a ... civilian on a military complex. He was a soldier before, but before that, he learned plumbery. Anyway, to promote him, he had to learn something, and was basically told, "here's a set of slides on the issue, get most of that straight and you're set!". He wrote the slides. Ok, not that much of a surprise.
DumYum 1 year ago
TIL people actually make up horrible stuff to f**k service people up. Wow, what a trend.
Steve Hall 1 year ago
The only time I have ever asked to speak to the manager is when looking for a job.
LinkTheHylian 1 year ago
I used to do that. Then as time went on I didn't even end up dealing with the manager. And now? I am the manager! Is that good? No. You can't smack people upside the head, and there are millions of people out there who need a good beating. And kids who should be sent to military school.
Load More Replies... Socks Thecate 1 year ago
I think this happens because people take advantage of the Customer Is Always Right narrative that was baked into boomer American culture. People would swan into any joint and assume they owned the place.
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