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Travel enthusiasts would likely agree that one of the most interesting parts of traveling is getting acquainted with different cultures; and there sure are plenty of different ones. Boasting various unique customs, authentic languages and food traditions, among other things, some might be closer to what you’re used to, while getting acquainted with others might feel like stepping into a completely different world.

The latter is what netizens on X (formerly Twitter) have discussed when one user asked them about the biggest culture shocks they’ve ever witnessed. Quite a few people shared stories of what surprised them the most while immersed in one culture or another, ranging from food to language, to recycling and transportation-related matters.

Curious to see what other culture shocks they’ve experienced? Wait no longer and scroll down to find their thoughts on the list below, where you will also find Bored Panda’s interview with Professor at the Department of Geography and Environmental Studies at Wilfrid Laurier University in Waterloo, Canada, Sean Doherty, who was kind enough to share his thoughts on culture shock.

Netizen’s answers in the X thread covered nearly anything and everything there is, which is not surprising bearing in mind how different even the most mundane of things can be in different places.

Take food, for instance; something that’s a necessity for everyone in the world can differ quite drastically from country to country. (Even though some cuisines, such as Italian or Chinese, seem to be quite popular outside of the two countries as well.)

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2 weeks ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Weeeell, not quite silence, it is a mega city after all, but yes a packed train in peak hour Tokyo (and that IS packed let me tell you) can be remarkably quiet

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While food is a necessity in order for us to survive, it is much more than that, especially in the context of culture. A study delving deeper into the links between food and culture, as well as religion and traditions, emphasized that learning more about food by asking questions such as how something is made, what ingredients are used, and why the dish is called a certain way can help people understand the culture and its approach to life better.

“In the end, we can say that food functions symbolically as a communicative practice by which we create, manage and share meanings with others,” the study read in part.

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2 weeks ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

You can almost hear the sound of thousands of graffiti enthusiasts packing their bags now.

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2 weeks ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Of course they know their rights! There's a whacking great sign telling them!

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While different eating habits can be a common cause for culture shock, many people seem to be intrigued by or interested in acquainting themselves with new flavors; if not abroad, then in their home country, at least. Studies suggest the popularity of ethnic foods in the US has been on the rise, arguably meaning that more and more people are open to trying out something not that customary to their area.

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2 weeks ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

My wife and I went to Belize earlier this year. Beer (and maybe soft drinks also) came in glass bottles. You paid a deposit when you bought it, and got the deposit back when you returned the bottle. The bottles are returned to the bottling plant, where they are washed and re-used. That practice was common in the US decades ago.

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2 weeks ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

In the UK we call them Lollipop ladies/men as the big sign they hold yup to stop traffic for the kids looks like a lollipop

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According to Dr. Sean Doherty, another common—likely the biggest and the most immediate one, too—cause for culture shock is an unfamiliar way of speaking, be it a different language or even an accent. “It can be so difficult to perform even simple tasks, such as acquiring transport or booking a hotel, when you cannot communicate effectively. After that, trying to fit in and engage with locals is very difficult if there is a language barrier. I’ve had many culturally isolating experiences result from not understanding what is being said, or being able to share with locals,” he told Bored Panda.

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2 weeks ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

NZ police only carry pepper spray and batons. They have tasers in a locked box in the car. I remember when a guy was threatening me with a machete on the street three police cars screamed up and three officers jumped out of each car with their their batons at the ready. They seemed a little disappointed I'd already talked the guy into sitting in his car and waiting for the police to arrive.

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2 weeks ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Elephants is a bit of a stretch. Everything else wanders wherever they want. You’ll have to watch out for cows wherever you go

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“Other reasons for culture shock that I have experienced stemmed from attire, infrastructure, and transport differences,” Dr. Doherty continued. “We may look around and see unfamiliar attire and feel like we stand out or don’t fit in. We may end up in a city or town with buildings and roads laid out much differently than our home towns which can be disconcerting. The way people move about can also be dramatically different, with more people walking, cycling or using transit; all this can be a shock at first. Embracing these differences, or at least tolerating them, I think would reduce the culture shock.”

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2 weeks ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

When I was pregnant I once had to use one of those squatty hole toilets in Italy. The walls and the floor were nasty so I didnt want to touch anything but I could barely get back up again due to my huge belly 🙈

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2 weeks ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Whaaaaat??? No! This one gets me. If I bring something to your house, it’s yours - that half packet of barbecue chips? Yours. Those 3 remaining beers in the 6-pack? Yours. That unopened box of chocolates? Yours (damn it)

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2 weeks ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

For me, it depends on what I brought. A small pack of tic-tacs that I wanted? Mine. If I got them for you, yours. A giant pack of donuts? Always yours, I’ll only take one or two while I’m there, but never back home.

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2 weeks ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I am from Denmark. I dont know who you visited but this isnt the norm.

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2 weeks ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Hm. From my German experience here on the few parties I have been, it was common to ask the host if you shall take leftover of what your brought. Because otherwise the host will have to much stuff from all the guests and may throw them away - your don't want to throw away food and drinks

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1 week ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Yes, that is the only sensible constellation I can see here. Also: when there are a lot of leftovers (say a big pot of soup, lots of potatoes, or two whole cakes) the host may ask guests if they like to take anything home, even if it was not something the guests had brought. For exactly the same reason: no matter how delicious the ghoulash was, after three days and counting you get sick of it.

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2 weeks ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I've had this experience with a good friend from Norway. Took me a long time to realize. Quite a lot of awkward moments until then..

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2 weeks ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

would love to know wich countries this is a normal thing. im dutch and we are known for being verry stingy or frugal but we do not do that. if we take something with us its for everyone and we leave it unless its a thing where you take back the left overs but thats not a normal thing.

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2 weeks ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I'm Danish, and I promise you that anything edible/drinkable I bring to your house is yours to keep.

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2 weeks ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

That is NOT true ! In Denmark if you bring food and drinks they are left to the host

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2 weeks ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I don't recognise this at all! I'm Swedish, and if I bring something to you when I visit, it's a gift, a thank you for inviting me! It can be more of a teenage thing to do, you visit a school mate, you buy some chips on the way, and you share, but it's your chips.

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2 weeks ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

nordic countries ??? I went to Denmark and never seen this !!! Generalisation !

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2 weeks ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Fair enough. They are they’re snacks they are sharing with you at your house.

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2 weeks ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Makes sense. Otherwise you have to clean the pots and make sure they return to the owner.

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5 days ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

If someone brings snacks into the house when they are invited, The snacks are everyone's.

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1 week ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Or they're considerately making sure you're not inconvenienced...

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1 week ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

That comes with a society that can remember the was when food was scarce and no one wasted anything.

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1 week ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Opened sodas that they were drinking, or that someone else was drinking? If it's the first, well doesn't everyone do that? If it's the second, I think that's more of a them thing, than a cultural thing. Or maybe, they really wanted to annoy OP, for some reason.

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2 weeks ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

There's a whole thing regarding food in scandinavian countries. BP had an article about it. How if you go to someone's house as a kid, the parents won't feed you. IIRC it's because in Viking times, being fed now meant you were in debt to them. So to avoid that, now no one feeds guests anymore.

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2 weeks ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I think the "stinginess" is because the "host" seldom have treats for everyone and certainly not alcohol for everyone. So you bring your own and drink what's left when you get home, or leave it if it's already open, like a wine bottle or a packet of crisps. Even if someone host a grownup sit down dinner, you usually bring your own alcohol .

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2 weeks ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

In Latin America it is a disgrace to arrive empty handed to a dinner. You are showing appreciation for the invite with wine, beverages of the host liking, bread or dessert. You usually ask what you should bring. It is understood that it is to share and you'll bring something even if you are told not to. People usually say "bring nothing; we'll be happy to have you" or, if it's a close friendship "whatever you like to drink" or "bring dessert/appetizers/cheese/whatever, I've got the rest"... and you NEVER take anything back... except glass/ceramic containers you used to carry food. And it's the same if you are having dinner or if you are invited to watch a football match...

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2 weeks ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I was surprised to learn that if you are visiting a Scandinavian home and their mealtime arrives, do not expect to be invited to eat with them. This is so different to many European customs where hospitality equals feeding your guests. Why so different?

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2 weeks ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

It’s not stinginess, it’s to prevent their host from being stuck with extra trash or unwanted items. We don’t want to be stuck with your leftover junk, thanks.

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2 weeks ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

It has nothing to do with a stinginess. As a host I really dont want guests to leave behind opened snack bags etc. It's polite not to burden the host with all the remains and trash.

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2 weeks ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

And the reverse is true. If you're at their home during dinner don't expect them to feed you. https://www.independent.co.uk/voices/swedengate-sweden-dinner-guests-food-b2091012.html

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2 weeks ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

That's because mum wanta us home hy dinnertime, but Annas parents eat at 16.30 and we at 17. 😀😉

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Be it food, socializing, traffic rules or other aspects of living in—or even traveling in—a certain country that evokes it, culture shock can take some time adjusting to. Gitnux revealed that among overseas workers, for instance, roughly one-in-six need a year to adapt to the new work culture.

Gitnux also pointed out that quite a few people are likely to feel reverse culture shock, which stems from coming back to the country of origin after some time abroad. Statistics show that as much as 15% of foreign women in Japan feel said shock upon going back to their homelands.

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2 weeks ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

You haven't lived until you've ridden a tuktuk through downtown Thailand open air on a 6-lane road with the driver cutting through 2 of those lanes to avoid the on-ramp onto an expressway that is above another expressway. True Story

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Even though culture shock typically takes some time to get adjusted to, it is a completely natural part of immersing yourself in an unfamiliar environment, be it traveling in or moving to an unfamiliar place.

For Prof. Doherty, immersing yourself in different cultures and environments is one of the most important things to do in order to have a fulfilling experience whilst a visitor. “I try to seek these experiences out, be it traveling to markets and residential areas where the locals actually live, or seeking out natural or built environments different than back home. Sticking to tourist areas, or all-inclusive resorts, has limited appeal to me. But it can be challenging to identify these areas, stay safe, and not fall for tourist traps. Having a local friend, relative or guide is invaluable for this.”

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2 weeks ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

In the UK Lunch is referred to as 'dinner', except when it is referred to as 'Lunch', or 'luncheon'. Dinner is referred to as 'Tea', except when it is referred to as 'supper', or when it is called 'Dinner'. 'Tea', is dinner, except when it is drunk. Or when it is in the afternoon or cream (then it's scones, finger sandwiches, and cake). Sometimes Tea will be high, then it is is sandwiches, cold meats and scones.

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2 weeks ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

You were shocked to see people sticking to traffic rules? What country do you come from?

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“To me, it’s the new experiences, interactions, and conversations,” Dr. Doherty continued. “I love trying local foods, especially seeing how they are grown or prepared. New sites and natural areas can be exhilarating. Talking with locals about their experiences and lives, and sharing your own, can be uplifting and insightful. All this can dramatically change your own perspective and life when you’re back home, and build confidence to explore even further.”

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2 weeks ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

In Greece we go to the supermarket in sweats or leggings, but when we go shopping or for coffee we're dressed casually/relaxed but not overdressed. At least me and my friends.

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But for those who find it overwhelming, there are some ways to cope with it, such as spending time with someone who can explain certain customs or help with learning the language, connecting with other foreigners in the country or with things you find familiar and comforting (such as your local foods, activities, or rituals). Finding a hobby that can help relieve stress is also likely to help.

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2 weeks ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I'm assuming you meant napkin, right? Fun fact, the word serviette in Greece means period pad

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Research on culture shock’s impact on one’s psychological well-being suggested that action to minimize the detrimental effects can be taken even before coming into the new environment. The feelings of depression, anxiety and helplessness that often entail culture shock can be reduced by preparing for it - understanding the process of culture shock itself as well as the features of the new culture.

When in the new country already, working on self-confidence and optimism, accepting new cultures, and seeking social support are the three ways to overcome the psychological discomfort, if any.

The aforementioned research also suggested that sometimes the stress caused by culture shock can stimulate one’s passion for cultural learning, which can speed up people’s adaptation to new cultural circumstances. That’s why it might be beneficial to work on trying to minimize said stress rather than eliminating it altogether.

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2 weeks ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

And this is strange because … ? (Non American thinking I do this too)

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