Do you have a PhD in adulthood or are you just winging it?
How many adult skills have you mastered by now? From dinner parties to budgeting, adults are required to have a vast range of skills to survive in the wild. Let’s see how many adult skills you have in your repertoire.
Let’s get started! 🕵️
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Being Able To Take Responsibility For Pets And Plants
My mom clipped off a part of her christmas cactus, which I grew up with and have fond memories of in our dining room. Gave a piece to each sibling to care after. My wife and I are both awful with plants and it did not survive, despite us being told that it would be incredibly hard to kill. Thankfully, our children are not dead yet and our dogs are doing well so we're not total monsters.
my wife has a Christmas cactus cutting from her mother's from her grandmother's. It is over 100 years old.
Load More Replies...My mom stole grass from the beach (in which that specific beach told us not to do) and she kept it alive for a whopping 2 weeks.
I am responsible enough to know to not buy plants. And to give any plant someone gifts me back to them so I'm not responsible for it's death. Everyone who truly knows me knows not to give me plants.
No need to know how to look after pets or houseplants if you don’t intend on having any. Caring for the natural environment so wild species can thrive, that’s another matter
Why? Why must I? I don’t want pets or plants. I have 3 children who I have managed to take responsibility for since I was 30, why do I need to add pets and plants to that?
Well, you know, the dog comes and sits in front of you, mouth watering, tail wagging, gets up, walks toward bowl, comes back and sits down again, until you get the message. Plants don't.
Load More Replies...Emails
Me too, but that particular email addy is 15 or so years old!
Load More Replies...I check my personal inbox about once a week to once a month, when I'm expecting a specific email. Similarly, I don't check the horizon for smoke signals or ride my horse down to the Western Union station to check for telegraphs anymore.
Cooking
I am single so I eat tv dinners. Though I do know how to cook. I am also just to lazy to do it. Plus I am 65 and don't feel like I have the energy to do it.
My fantastic husband cooks. I hate all aspects of it. Except the eating part
Basic Computer Knowledge
Just came here to note how dumb as s**t this is. 80-year-olds are computer literate. Maybe not so much with cell-phone apps.... but yeah, the world has had 50 years to adapt to computers.
My dad's almost 80 and can manage the regular tasks, but gets lost with some phone apps. His wife (73) is very curious and manages them very very well, but sometinges just dm's me "Hi, how can I use photoshop?" or 'my printer doesn't print, what should i do?" like is something I can teach her via text message XD Still, she's great.
Load More Replies...What does knowing Excel have to do with "knowing your way around a computer"?
I have been working in IT since 1976. I have been a developer and a system administrator. I built my first computer in 1981 with a soldering iron. I just upgraded all my home servers to Windows 2022. Computers are both a career and a hobby for me.
I've been programming computers for 40 years. I think I know what I'm doing by now!
CCNP, MCSE AND CISSP to name a few pieces of paper on my wall. Bur, still cannot win the DOS Banana game
Knowing How To Use Public Transit
Same here. The closest city bus stop is over10 miles away.
Load More Replies...Around here, it is physically impossible to both use public transit and get somewhere quickly. I could bus across town but probably not back in the same day.
I always live in small towns and always had my owm transportation so if I had to use public transport I wouldn't know how or not sure.
Knowing How To Navigate Small Talk
I'm in my 40's and I hate small talk. I've never been good at it and would rather do almost anything else. Probably doesn't help that I'm also one of those people who is perfectly comfortable with silence. If I have something to contribute to a conversation I will but I don't feel the need to fill silence with talk of the weather.
where's the option for "I loathe having to ever make small talk"
Driving Skills
Same here, especially when I'm driving my van which is most of the time. The car is a Chevy Cobalt that was part of my mother's estate. Don't like it but it's an extra vehicle for me and my son if my van or his truck is in the shop for something.
Load More Replies...My dad taught me how to parallel park in 1974 or 5. It's hardly rocket surgery.
I can even drive a manual transmission (clutch). I've owned cars with a clutch.
I once had an automatic car for a few months, and I hate myself for it.
Load More Replies...Finding Your Personal Style
It's what I'm calling sports bras and sweats out shorts
Load More Replies...Absolutely. I dress like the village idiot most of the time. In autumn and winter, I dress elegantly in a serial killer or psychopath jacket, depending on how rainy or cold it is. For special occasions, I have styles in my wardrobe like a mushroom trip, it came from the 90s or a depressed gallery owner who came to work straight from a funeral.
My style is what my wife tells me to wear. I'm not good at style but she is.
I've learned I'm still a child at heart. I don't care if I don't look like an adult. I get so many compliments about my care bears bunnyhug.
Home Decor
I have a general atmosphere I'm going for but this is our working and living space, not a showroom.
Yep, ours looks lived in and functional for the most part but is clean and tidy
Load More Replies...Same here except with cats. My home is functional, not for show.
Load More Replies...my home is nice to me, but other people may consider the animal skulls etc a bit morbid.... I like to collect things like bird skulls (if I find them) and arrange them with dried flowers in little jars etc so they look pretty :3
Knowing What To Do If Something Gets Broken
It's a pretty good source for learning to fix things yourself and save tons of money.
Load More Replies...I changed my kitchen faucet yesterday. Easy as pie. Actually easier than a good pie.
I've fixed my dryer a couple of times, the washer 1 time, replaced a light fixture. I always replace burned out bulbs and and replace the light assemblies, wiper blades on my vehicles and check the fluids. My front steps needed new treads a couple of years ago. When we took the old ones off I sistered new stringers before putting the new treads on.
I renovated our house before my wife moved in. I’ll go for most things except gas heating. I value my home insurance too much for that.
Owning Must-Have Tools At Home
I have a large collection of tools and power tools, and know how to use them. I am woman, hear me snore...I mean roar...
Screwdrivers, pliers, a proper toolbox, various handsaws, a work bench, a proper drill ... not too bad. But you should see my friend! She has a whole arsenal of power tools, that girl really rocks it.
I'm a woman and I own many many tools, both power and manual and know how to use them. It's a great feeling to be able to fix things yourself instead of having to call someone and pay their extortionate rates.
Load More Replies...I have tools and can use them, drills, pole saw, chainsaw, reciprocating saw, small circular saw.
Boundaries
Knowing How To Throw A Dinner Party
If no other human being steps foot in my house until the day I die, I will consider life having been won.
I love to cook. I can barbecue for thirty-plus, create a fine dining dinner for eight to twelve, and cook a celebratory meal at Christmas for twenty. I’m proud that my friends never hesitate to accept an invitation to dine at my house. Having said that, eating at a restaurant means no cleaning up.
I registered for a china pattern when I got married back in 99. I got a few settings and I have never used it. Same with the good silver and stem ware. I knew deep down I would never entertain, but I just thought it was something everyone did when they got married.
I used to cook an annual Thanksgiving dinner from scratch for a large friends-and-family crowd. Those days are over since enough people died or moved away.
I own a big formal Arts-and-Crafts style house with a formal dining room. People talk about our dinner parties.
There was no option for "I prefer not to meet with people on my free time"
Cooking Meals Out Of Unrelated Ingredients
Anyone who has a stoner past will be good at this. I've come up with some of my best recipes while being almost too high to boil water, lol.
I ate cauliflower chopped up & sauteed with butter & sweetener because I was dying for oatmeal. Wasn't too bad but I haven't tried it since.
Load More Replies...I learned that you can toss almost anything to make delicious soup.
Cooking Exactly The Right Amount Of Pasta
Yes, I weigh it. Three ounces (85 grams) is perfect for me.
Load More Replies...I just usually make the whole amount. Then I will eat it for the next few days. If I make spaghetti, I usually make only a small amount of sauce but never know how much to make so I usually make a little to much.
The perfect amount is enough to feed everybody right then, and then just enough leftover for that midnight snack.
I'm a decent cook, and pasta, I can actually manage with... rice however. there is ALWAYS too much rice somehow
Having Knowledge Of Classic Movies/Books/Music
Never understood this. Why is a knowledge of old material better than a knowledge of contemporary material? All of our school projects were on "classics" and they were all depressing or violent. Handmaid's tale, Of Mice and Men, Macbeth. Even the anthologies were about famine, war and disease. Is it only worthy of note if it makes you feel like c**p.
100% disagree with this one. If you enjoy "classics' then by all means read them, discuss them, do whatever. But I don't think it's a necessity for anyone who has reached 30 to have a basic knowledge of them. I read some classics in high school like The Scarlet Letter and Billy Bud and HATED them. I read Shakespeare and enjoyed it. This is just about personal taste and no one should feel ashamed they didn't like or make the time to read Moby D**k or A Tale of Two Cities.
Why do you need to know about movies? They all end up with the same few themes anyway. Books & music, yes.
Have to disagree with what you said about movies. There are true masterpieces, movies that changed the perception and the lives of their viewers, movies that turned everything upside down, movies that are pure revolution. They don't end up with the same few themes, and if, it would be the same with music, books and every kind of art.
Load More Replies...Having The Perfect Excuse
That is two different things. I can very well have a perfect excuse (on forehand) not to go or do something I don't want to. Yet, when you have my word to do something, or to go somewhere, I'll stick to that if anyhow possible. And of course life happens, so it is not always possible, but there is something about being trustworthy and thinking before answering and then have to make excuses afterwards ....
Going To The Gym
gym memberships are so damn expensive here, I just exercise at home and go on walks since I'm in North Yorkshire and there's no shortage of nice country areas to go hiking in.
I used to go to the gym. But watching people exercise was too exhausting for me.
It's a lot of work, but I continue to struggle to maintain my flabby pear-shaped physique.
My local gym and fitness club is my second home! I work out most days, I like getting my money’s worth
Knowing How To Wrap Gifts
I wrap a beautiful package, but I prefer a simple bag. Does that mean I'm lazy?
I don't think so because I'm the same. I can wrap but I prefer bags because they're reusable.
Load More Replies...There should be an option " My gift wrapped packages look like they have been through the wringer"
Or at least: "I can, but it's not a gift on it's own"...
Load More Replies...I'm quite skilled at wrapping gifts, but it is a challenge with a cat around.
I am good at it, but I still prefer to buy the gift bag because I am lazy
The job in which I completed my my warehousing qualification, for everything we sent via the post office had to be wrapped in paper, those skills don't desert you.
But spelling does. Lol. I had too. You left that big motza ball out there. Again, so sorry
Load More Replies...Home Maintenance
None of the above, I have enough clothes that I just do the laundry when the basket gets full.
I do it when I only have a couple pairs of clean undies left.
Load More Replies...I do laundry once a week regardless how much laundry I have. That way I don't have to worry if I will run out of clean clothes. I have a specfic day I do my laundry and that my day is Thursday.
Work-Life Balance
I work from home, maybe 35 hours/week. But I don't make plans for my week. I just kind of go with the flow
Same. There's always something that comes up. Or nothing comes up. Why mess around with the time I can have to myself to do anything I want.
Load More Replies...Health
If you are an adult and you are not able to make appointments, you really should reevaluate your life. Nowadays there are a lot of doctors where you can book appointments online.
I have trouble making the appointments, I procrastinate. I hasten to add that I have to make buttloads of appointments.
Load More Replies...I live by myself and away from my family right now so if I need to make an appointment I have to do it myself. Even if I was near my family I still would make my own appointments. If you are at least 25 years old and you can't make your own appointments, then there is something wrong with you.
Communication And Conflict Resolution
'Resolving conflict in the other person's favour' should be one of the poll answers
That's not true, you've had very strong, mostly negative opinions to nearly every post so far.
Load More Replies...Knowing How To Reheat Pizza
Cold pizza for breakfast is the best. As long as it's proper Italian style, not one of those monstrosities with half an inch of cheese on them.
Cold pizza and hot coffee: the breakfast of champions.
Load More Replies...Dry frying pan. From cold, heat gently with a lid. When the pizza is hot, remove and then fry an egg in the pan with a little oil. Two slices of pizza (toppings internal) make a great egg banjo.
Knowing How To Tie A Tie
Nowadays I only wear ties to funerals, but I know two ways to tie one (four-in-hand and Windsor).
The bow tie is actually harder, in my experience.
Load More Replies...Networking
The people in management seem to always be a certain type of personality I'm not. I don't want to wander around, whispering to the other managers about employees behind their backs, literally, be all fake nice to everyone and pretend to be all outgoing constantly when I'm not that person. I don't even know what to say to higher ups that won't backfire on me.
Professional Skills Related To Career (Cv Writing, Job Interviews, Etc.)
The standards change too much to keep up. Then you have to tailor both resume and cover letter for each job. It has taken hours just to apply to one job. I need help with it every time. I'm not a salesperson, even to sell myself and skills. Once I get a job I would rather put up with the BS than job search again.
Coping With Stress
Folding Fitted Sheets
I worked housekeeping at a small motel as a preteen, I can fold them to perfect flat rectangles. Yes I am a witch. 🧙♀️🧙♀️🧙♀️🤣🤣🤣
My fitted sheet (singular) goes straight from the dryer back on the bed!
Financial Management
I really don't have a budget. I know what my expenses are and my money comes in and my money goes out.
I retired at 42, having been born in a very working class family. I can answer this question. Wealthy people know how to handle money.
Load More Replies...I'm retired, and have time to spare, only reason I made it to the bottom of this very stupid poll.
You don't need a lot of these to be an adult but at least most of the extra ones were adult related . They just should have been classified as highly competent adult skills. All you really need to be an adult is basic skills to be able to take care of your self and in the case of parents at least one other person.
The polls are the whole point, though. Otherwise it just be a random collection of images.
Load More Replies...I'm retired, and have time to spare, only reason I made it to the bottom of this very stupid poll.
You don't need a lot of these to be an adult but at least most of the extra ones were adult related . They just should have been classified as highly competent adult skills. All you really need to be an adult is basic skills to be able to take care of your self and in the case of parents at least one other person.
The polls are the whole point, though. Otherwise it just be a random collection of images.
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