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49 Times Women Brilliantly Shut Down Men’s Creepy Advances (New Pics)
Social media has plenty of downsides. One of the biggest ones is getting unsolicited messages on social media. It’s disturbing when someone you barely know or a complete stranger tries to ‘flirt’ with you in the creepiest way possible.
That’s where the ‘Creepy PMs’ online community comes in. Its members call out and shame the toxic guys who send women incredibly creepy private messages. Scroll down to see some of the very worst offenders.
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#1
He’s Just Shy
BeesEelsAndPups 8 months ago (edited)
I will sell you my used underwear for $50. I've got some with holes in them, I'll take $75 for those. For $100 I'll add some streaking, that will get that man stench good and rancid
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#3
Just Halloween Girly Things. 👻
#4
Did He Think He Was Being Clever, Or That I Was Just *that* Stupid?
#5
"Sorry About Your Sister.... Anyway, You Single?"
#7
Ladies, This Gem Is On The Market
sturmwesen 8 months ago
and that right there is the reason no sane woman will touch him with rubber gloves and tongs
#8
Much Older Coworker (M36) Got My (F21) Phone Number
Context: this coworker (M36) used to work at my store, but got moved to a secondary location because he couldn’t stop getting in fights with his ex-girlfriend, who was his coworker and is 18 YEARS OLD. He’s a creep; whenever I go to the secondary store to shop, he always has to say hi and/or compliment me somehow.
I am bringing this to my store manager tomorrow cause I feel like I wanna vomit.
BeesEelsAndPups 8 months ago
Sounds like he's a creep. But at least he backed off. I dated a work colleague once. It was really awkward. But I know other people where it worked out for them.
#9
Housemate After I Gave Him My Number. I'm An Adult Male. Felt Disgusted. He's A Creepy Old Guy
KatSaidThat 8 months ago
Christ. Either start looking for new digs or report this to the landlord.
#10
Woke Up To This
#11
I Hate Dating As A Black Woman
#12
Girl I Went On Two Dates With
I told her a week ago I wasn’t interested.
Finally blocked her today.
#13
Work To Panties In 0.2 Seconds
#15
Respectfully… The Worst Opener I’ve Ever Seen
Kiki Likes Sweets 8 months ago
I really dont get this whole role play description thing. Has it worked for anyone at any time ever? * vomits in my mouth a little* 🤢
#16
This Made Me Laugh
#17
I Feel Uncomfortable
#18
Being A Plus Sized Girl Online!!
Short but wth, this was his response after i asked how he got my snapchat. wtf!!
#19
To Be Fair I Was In Fishnets
Norwegian🇳🇴panda 8 months ago
So in his eyes, trans girls have to be ugly becayse if they are beautiful they can’t be trans? Okeey🙄
#20
Older Guy I Used To Work With Asked Me (A Teenager) Out
A man I used to work with who was in his forties asked me out earlier this year when I was a teenager. I’m an adult teenager, but I’ve been told all the time that I look 16, so it was super, super creepy for him to want to go out with me. And a few months later, I saw him in a grocery store when I was with my mother, he smiled at me and it scared the hell out of me, I thought I’d never see him again. His number has been blocked since January and the messages are from that time. I was also very dry with him over messages, but he didn’t get the hint.
BeesEelsAndPups 8 months ago
As a dude in his forties, there's no way I'd be interested in a person that young. That's super gross. I can look at an 18 year old and think "she's pretty", but in the same way you look at a little boy and think "he's a cutie". I honestly don't think I could date anyone more than 6 years younger than me. Even between my little bro and I (8 years) our life experiences were so different.
#21
Why Is It So Hard For Men (Over 50) To Accept A No?!
#22
The Younger Generation Is Scaring Me
Julianna Leon Hernadez 8 months ago
This one is wierd on the women’s part she should have been more clear not the skull emojis
#23
Girl Added Me And Made This Message When I Shot Her Down
BeesEelsAndPups 8 months ago
Without seeing the rest of the conversation, it's hard to say. I have been approached by women on dating apps that I wasn't interested in. I was honest, but always friendly and polite. No need to be a jerk.
#24
I’m Disgusted Wtf. I Got This In Response To A Comment I Said About Large Age Gaps
MonsterMum 8 months ago
Who wants an old man, it's their old, dusty s***m that is the problem. Maybe women should have younger male partners (if they want one)
#25
I Think I Hit A Nerve
#26
I Left Him On Delivered For 3 Hours 😭
Made me laugh so I thought I’d share. Match with this guy on hinge literally yesterday. Immediately comes on wayyyy too strong and kept calling me pet names. I literally leave him on delivered for 3 hours while I do other stuff and this is his response. Bro we’ve not even been chatting 24 hours. 🚩🚩🚩
#27
This Broke Her Brain
antoinette maldari 8 months ago
Hoping that the OP is on a dating site that caters to asexuals, because being on a conventional dating site is just a joke waiting to happen.
#28
This Is A Creepy Way To Start A Conversation With A Girl, Right?
#29
I Know This Is Grindr But Come On Man
BeesEelsAndPups 8 months ago
My friend showed me his grinder messages he gets, and this seems pretty tame in comparison
#31
Loser Deleted His Message LOL
Fat Harry (Oi / You) 8 months ago
That would be 9/10 dentists, surely? Guy can't even get that right.
#32
My Very Own Reddit Stalker *-*
BeesEelsAndPups 8 months ago
Well, pampas can be in Uruguay or Argentina as well. But I'm guessing he knows she's Brazilian. The fact that he's using English makes me think he's not in any of those countries. So she's probably safe
#33
I Just Got Sent This Gem From A 52 Year Colleague In My Team Who Has Two Teen Kids 🤦♀️
#34
"Are You Lactate?"
#36
I Got Another One 💀
BrunoVI 8 months ago
Here's how disgusted I am with the people in this group: after reading all the others, this one almost seems half-decent. Kinda like when you find out a priest has been violating his vows of celibacy and you're relieved to find it's with an adult woman. I say that hoping that this is more of a 22 yo hitting on a 16 yo who looks 19, and that by "face paint" he means something that could reasonably help conceal her age, not a 50 yo hitting on someone that got a flower painted on her cheek at the fair.
#37
Well...bullet Dodged
#38
“Gooning A Lot”
Talking to someone and he brings this up casually in his introduction😭 lol
Drop Bear from Hell 8 months ago
Gooning refers to a trance-like, hyper-focused state of mental absorption, originally linked to prolonged s****l arousal but now also used in internet and Gen Z slang to describe obsessive or zoned-out behavior.
#39
Dude Who Dated My Deceased Best Friend Hit Me Up For The First Time In Years
He’s 27. He dated my best friend in high school and continued to be creepy towards her even up to her death in September 2024. I messaged him after she died to see if he had any of her drawings from school and left it at that. I’m 22 and pregnant with my second. He knows I’m engaged. I never told him about “tied tubes”. I never told him anything. No we aren’t friends on Facebook. I keep my page locked down due to people just being weird in general. I genuinely can’t wrap my brain around what I have just read.
#40
One Of The Worst Things Someone Has Ever Asked Me
Drop Bear from Hell 8 months ago
someone accepted the chat request? WTAF I can't read any more of these....
#41
Liked A Random Comment And Got This Charming Reply
#42
First Time On The Apps And This Always Happens From The Most Wholesome Seeming Guys…
#43
What The Hell
#44
My Dad Sent Me This Text Tonight ..(I'm 34yo) 😐
I try my best to avoid my dad and have only visited him with my husband and brother during holidays. He lives with his mom out in the middle of nowhere taking care of her. (But also cuz he doesn't have a place to stay.)
Growing up he was never at home, he was a long-haul trucker so I was never close with him. Personally I see him more like that weird uncle you gotta see during the holidays but he is always trying to get me to visit him and if I don't he tries to randomly bribe me saying something like, "oh I bought you this at a pawn shop come over and pick it up when you get a chance."
This one's the creepiest one I've gotten and the last time I saw him in person he pissed me off so much I was thinking of never visiting him again even if someone went with me. I don't think I will ever go over there again.
#45
I Am A Bit Disturbed By This
#47
Not So Creepy, Just Funny In The Wrong Way (Also He's 40 And I'm 20)
#48
Ex Is From High School Still Texts Me And Swears He’s “Not Creepy”
#49
Received Today On My Main Account
BeesEelsAndPups 8 months ago
IDK, seems like a fair question coming from an autistic guy without a lot of experience with women.
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Multa Nocte (she/her/8647) 8 months ago
I now need a brain shower with lots of heavy duty soap.
UKDeek 8 months ago
Sadly, some people have no concept of manners, decorum or basic civility when contacting others. It is far easier to act like this via electronic communication methods, as doing this face to face often results in (well deserved) physical contact of the non-sensual kind (deliberately written like that to confuse the censor-bot)
Brian Droste 8 months ago
Yes. I am wondering if these men actually met these women in person they say in person what they posted online?
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I now need a brain shower with lots of heavy duty soap.
UKDeek 8 months ago
Sadly, some people have no concept of manners, decorum or basic civility when contacting others. It is far easier to act like this via electronic communication methods, as doing this face to face often results in (well deserved) physical contact of the non-sensual kind (deliberately written like that to confuse the censor-bot)
Brian Droste 8 months ago
Yes. I am wondering if these men actually met these women in person they say in person what they posted online?
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