50 Of The Most Supportive Family Members Of LGBTQ+ Folks Right In Time For Pride Month (New Pics)
Interview With ExpertHappy Pride Month everybody! How are you celebrating this year? Are you attending your local Pride parade? Maybe you're indulging in a little bit of innocent rainbow capitalism and buying a tote bag or some other Pride merch? Or are you baking a rainbow cake for your queer loved one?
We here at Bored Panda are celebrating this year's Pride Month with another edition of wholesome pictures. We're featuring awesome parents, grandparents, brothers, sisters, cousins, aunts, and uncles who proved they love their LGBTQ+ family members no matter what. Love is love, right? So check out the most inspiring and heartwarming pics of family members supporting their LGBTQ+ folks. And warning – you might need a tissue if you're an easy crier like me.
Bored Panda reached out to LGBTQ+-affirming Therapist Lisa S. Larsen, PsyD. She kindly agreed to tell us more about the role that family plays in an LGBTQ+ person's life. She also offered some possible coping strategies for queer individuals who have been rejected by family members. Read her expert insights below!
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My Son’s Boyfriend Gave Me A Father’s Day Card Because I’ve Made My Home Safe For Them Both
My (adult) son’s boyfriend didn’t have a healthy or safe father, but he’s watched me with my son, and it’s given him a new way to understand families. I came home from work today to find this card and sticker waiting for me, with this message inside. It takes a lot for him to express his feelings this way, so this is a priceless gift from him. I’ve had a hard time recently, losing a woman I’ve been deeply in love with who chose a different guy who doesn’t treat her well, struggling with money, feeling embarrassed at not being able to do more for my sons, plus being in counseling as a survivor of domestic abuse from an ex who told me I’m worthless, stupid, ugly, and that I should have ended myself years ago. I’m slowly rebuilding my life, and things like this give me hope that I’m doing a good job.
And here come the onion ninjas. Thank you so being such a loving, empathetic, and kindhearted person to your son and his boyfriend.
I love you already 🫂 You are precious. So glad you're recognised at last.
Well, for your son's SO to think of you this way, proves you are a diamond in their lives. What a wonderful gift.
Mom Says She Knew I Was Gay Before I Did. I Guffawed. She Showed Me This
He looks like he's about to break into a chorus of "Puttin on the Ritz"!
Load More Replies...I do not think that word ("poser") means what you think it means.
Load More Replies...Wishing Everyone A Supportive Grandma
This list is going to be such a source of hope for me. I am bookmarking it so I can be reminded of the good in humanity even when it all seems so dark or futile.
Normally I get coffee down my shirt, today it's tears. That's a classic grandma
"We humans need a secure attachment to [our] caregivers and family members in order to survive and thrive," Lisa S. Larsen, PsyD, says. "Being securely attached means that we know that our caregivers are there for us against all odds, including societal rejection and oppression. When we don't have that, it is harder to handle stress and navigate the struggles that we all face."
"Unfortunately, members of the LGBTQ+ community also face minority stress, in addition to the usual challenges of daily living. When our own families reject us, ridicule us, or disrespect us, we may not know where to turn. It is a lonely experience to believe that we don't belong anywhere and that even our own family would turn [their] back[s] on us."
Elders Are Our Most Cherished Asset
Lost A Chance To Show Support With A Great Dad Joke
Damn, that's rough. You are gonna have to really crack down on those dad jokes to make up for it.
I worked midnight shift at a nursing home. One nurse and one CNA (me) worked each floor. We had a woman pass, and the nurse I was working with called the lady's family. Now, these people have been awakened in the middle of the night to be told their mother is gone. Then they dressed and came to the nursing home. They arrived around 3:00. Now, these are NOT people in a good or joking mood. The guard brings them to our floor. The nurse walks up to them, and says, "Hi. I'm Gaye." Dead looks. "I mean, my name is Gaye." I doubt the family remembered that later, but 35 years on, it still makes me half-smile, half-wince.
My mom's best childhood friend was named Gay Bender. :)
Load More Replies...When my friend came out as trans (FtM) my dad asked me if this meant if I had a boyfriend now lol
You Can Tell She Gives Those Good Hugs Too
god... I would love some mom hugs..... I lost 2 and going to lose a third one.... {1: my birth mother: when I was 7 due to men that were trying to shoot me cause I was albino, and then they were old, drunk, and thought I was a "demon"........2: my adopted mom I lost her last year on may 22 2023: {who adopted me at 11, after the orphanage/asylum that I was at finally found my dad and stepmom and my mom thought I was trying to "steal" money from my dad so she cut and sliced my face up and then slit my throat and left me to die, only for my Birthmom's friend to hear it, go to japan, adopt me and take me to the USA, she passed from kidney failure and cancer}...... 3: My aunt, who is my adopted mom's sister and raised me as her own with her: she had cancer and has been given 4 more months to live {was said 6 months but it was 2 months ago, altho when my adopted mom was dieing they said she had only 3 weeks an stayed for 4 months} my aunt hurt her hip, she wont go to the hospital....
My mom's just turned 81. She'd be more than willing to count you in, if you don't mind sharing with me and two cats.
Load More Replies...Have you ever seen any of these "mom hugs" videos? Omg soooooo crying.
I’ve always wondered how I could ask my dad to wear a shirt like this to Pride…
"LGBTQ+ youth are at greater risk for substance use, depression, anxiety, and suicide," the therapist notes. "They are very vulnerable to the pressures of political and social stigmatization and persecution. Many of my clients talk about their fear and disbelief at how risky it can be to be ‘out’ as LGBTQ+. If they also face discrimination from their own families, it creates a sense of hopelessness and helplessness."
Larsen says it's important for families to understand what it means to be LGBTQ+, accept their queer family members, and love them unconditionally. Just as they would a cisgender or heterosexual child. "Unfortunately, some ultra-religious families cannot accept their child's gender identification or sexual orientation," she says. "I have even seen young people get kicked out of their families' homes with nowhere to go."
My Dad's Hatred For Men Got The Best Of Him
That's what my dad would have said (in fact, he did say it. "Men are jerks. Stay away from them." If only I had listened.)
We Then Had A Frank And Open Discussion About Both Of Our Struggles And She Asked Me For Any Books She Could Read To Help Her Understand Transgender Stuff More In Order To Help Me Out
This is how religious people *should* think. I love it too.
Load More Replies...I am posting this to people that are religious so they can understand god doesn't care about straight or gay
So Glad He Was So Accepting
Lmäo it’s just a random keyboard smash to show excitement
Load More Replies...Excellent advice. It's just as easy to love a rich woman as a poor one! 💙💛❤💚💜
We put a great deal of significance on the concept of family in our society. But there's also a saying "The blood of the covenant is thicker than the water of the womb." Sometimes, the bonds we choose might be stronger than the ones we're born into. Larsen says that while the concept of a chosen family is not specific to the LGBTQ+ community, it does apply.
For All The Folks Asking: He Does Not Speak Chinese, And When I Told My Grandma She Said "Ah I Guess You'll Have To Continue Being The Family Translator Then"
I am learning Chinese so i speak a bit of chinese but at the same time i don't. Does this mean i am gender fluid?
I also am "does not speak Chinese", but I do wish that I could. I am currently learning Hebrew, German, and Setswana. I have a deep passion for other languages and hope to always be learning a new one!
Load More Replies...I am does not speak Chinese! But I speak Japanese if that's good enough!
Sweet Grandma
I love grandmas. I lost mine when i was 5 and i like to think she would be supportive of her lesbian granddaughter and her bisexual soon to be wife.
no dont iron the flag! keep the wrinkles in so its less straight!
That's So Nice
I knew a kid who was constantly and deliberately misgendered and dead-named by his family, to the point that he wanted to erase himself from existence. I told him I would give him love and support and in return he had to take care of himself and stay healthy. It is now six years later and he is happy and healthy, and he is also officially my son as my husband and I were able to adopt him as an adult.
To be misgendered by your entire family is just sickening, thankfully your grandpa is caring enough to call you by your preferred gender 💙
From the 'like once', I get the feeling she meant accidental slips of the tongue.
Load More Replies..."People who have been abused or neglected by their families of origin might also choose not to associate with their blood relatives or caregivers from childhood anymore. Each person gets to decide for themselves what makes sense for their mental health. If you are repeatedly dead-named or insulted because of your gender identification or sexual orientation, that can have damaging effects long-term."
A Couple At The SF Pride Parade Today
I love this! Ik I'm gonna be down voted, but I'm Christians and Republican but still love my lgbtq friends!
Then why do you vote for a party that goes out their way to make your friends' life miserable on purpose? I assume you will vote for Trump?
Load More Replies...I Mean, Who Can Be Mad At An Honest Grandpa Who’s Going To Do His Darndest They Way He Knows How
Remember: you don’t have to know everything, just how to be respectful and compassionate.
I don't get the trans thing. I simply just don't understand it. I don't have to. Jesus didn't say understand. He said love. I find it a lot easier to love most trans people than most people who claim Christianity.
Load More Replies...theres a lot of things i dont understand, but the first thing i will say is "you have my support"
My grandparents sometimes ask me to explain things like being bi or trans, and they sometimes struggle but they make such an effort to understand and it means so much to me that I know if I ever did come out to them they would support me and love me all the same
What's supposed to be complicated about it though? This just kind sounds like someone who won't use your pronouns / new name.
These Are The Happiest Little Squirrels Ever
I don't think the squirrels minded, and if they didn't, it's nobody else's place to say.
If you knew squirrels, this is very much in line with their natural orientation.
What's wrong with squirrel pride? I'd be proud if I was a squirrel!
"It makes sense to find people with whom you connect emotionally and to accept you the way you are, without [them] having to change you for their own comfort. The important thing is to find people who accept you the way you are and show you unconditional love; whether it's a blood relative [or] someone you have befriended or adopted along the way is unimportant," Larsen emphasizes.
Also, I Cannot State Enough How Sick Of A Response That Was In 2006 Of All Times, In Alabama Of All Places
Does the father happen to use a wheelchair and have telepathic powers?
Has Been Pointed Out To Me That I Should've Like Asked For Some Congratulatory Cash But Oh Well
It's all about perspective. I knew someone with a similar story, and especially considering where we grew up, it was a great outcome.
My mum said "is that ALL? I thought you were gonna say you were pregnant."
Finally Came Out To My Grandpa And His Response Is So Sweet
However, this still doesn't diminish the fact that being rejected by family is one of the toughest things a person can go through. "It is tempting to assume that no one else will love you if your parents or other family members don't, but that is simply not true," Larsen explains. "When I think of the courage it takes to come out to family members, it's amazing that people do it. However, sometimes, family members don't know what to do with the new information, and so [they] react fearfully."
Grandmothers Are The Best I’m So Happy You Have A Supportive One
You are blessed with this lovely lady. Wish my parents had been as tolerant. Not me specifically, but I had friends they didn’t like me hanging with. I did anyway because I didn’t care what they thought. These friends were special to me.
The Strudel Is The Most Important Stuff
We could end all wars if we simply realize that no matter who we are, what we believe or where we were born, we all share a love for grandma's apple strudel.
Load More Replies...I'm a lesbian. The mother of one of my former GFs told me the very first time she met me, that she didn't understand how I could be the way I am, and that her husband is the same and does fine with everything she does, but that she would respect it and not try to push anything on me against my will. I was shocked and told her "That's fine. You don't have to understand it, as long as you can accept that I love your daughter more than I've ever loved anyone in my life." She started laughing to the point of crying and almost choking and finally said, "No, no! I was talking about you being diabetic and not eating sugar! My husband is also diabetic but he eats what I eat and he does fine. But I won't push any cookies or baked goods on you. Oh my God! Of course I am completely happy with however you identify--I started the Gay-Straight Alliance at my daughter's school, and a pride march in our little town!"
Reminds me of my fiancée' s grandma when i was vegetarian. She had 0 problems with me being a woman and dating her granddaughter, but not eating meat nor fish was a concept she found really hard to understand (for context: we're from Italy).
Load More Replies...Anyone that doesn’t want grandma’s apple strudel doesn’t deserve you
They'd better, or I'll come and shove strudel down their throats.
When I came out to my nana she repeated the funny family story of my big brother rushing into their bedroom excitedly announcing that he had a baby brother, only to have our father 'correct' him because he actually had a baby *sister*. And then she laughed with me because 'well I guess he was right all along!"
The Rock prefers the pie, but I hear you two, Billy Gunn and Chuck Palumbo, prefer... *People's Eyebrow* the strudel?!
Parents Threw Him A "Gayceañera" On His 15th Birthday To Celebrate His Coming Out, And Make Him Feel More Accepted Among Family And Friends. You See? It’s Easy. All You Need Is Love
bro in the first picture is DRIPPED OUT OMG!!!!!!!! WHERE CAN I FIND THAT SUIT?
the young lady/man in the pink hat should consider modeling. she/he is STUNNING.
Larsen gives some possible internal coping strategies for LGBTQ+ people. First, she says, it's paramount to keep in mind that deep down, you're still the same. "Remember that you are still the same person you were before you came out, with the same strengths and challenges. Your family's rejection does not mean that you are worthless or unacceptable. Their rejection of you says more about them than it does about you," Larson tells Bored Panda.
This Is Amazing. I Say Acceptance Is A Lot. When A Person Changes, Cause It Shows They Love You For Who You Are
This Just Gave Me Energy And Warmth Like A Sun Beam! That Is So Sweet
Kinda get it. But for me it was Prince Eric in the Little Mermaid, lol!
Aladdin was kind of when I realized I was pansexual because Aladdin is hot but so is Jasmine and then the Genie appeared and DEAR GOD WAS, HE MAGNIFENT TO 12-YEAR-OLD ME!! RIP Robin Williams
Uuhhmm..... the first celebrity crush I had was.... kermit the frog. 🤭 I was a 4-5yo kid at the time and for some reason i just loved that frog. Lol
That’s Lil Brother Love
Secondly, LGBTQ+ people should stop seeing themselves through the eyes of others. "Learn to see yourself through your own eyes," Larsen says. "Hopefully, you know your own talents, qualities, and values. Those don't change based on what other people think of you. They are enduring characteristics that you have as long as you choose to keep them. You might have to detoxify from how other people have treated you or seen you in order to find your own perspective of yourself."
My Birthday/Pride Was Cancelled, But My Whole Family Stepped Up. Without Consulting Each Other First
Maybe work or it could have been during the Lockdowns?
Load More Replies...My Dad's Response To My Coming Out
Based off of your comment. I need to ask you ask you a very important question. Do you need a hug?
Load More Replies...He's Trying
When I doubt go with they them that's what I try to do.
Load More Replies...Lastly, Larsen recommends finding refuge by confiding in others. "Find resources in the community where you can meet other LGBTQ+ people to connect with and, hopefully, befriend. If necessary, join a support group for those who have lost family members due to rejection."
In Case Y’all Are Wondering, It’s Going Great. They Been Talking To Each Other Since We Sat Down
Your Grandfather Is Epic
I Came Out To My Dad A Few Months Ago. We Were Talking About Gender And He Just Asked If I Was Non Binary, And I Said Yes
I was terrified because, in the past, my dad has said some very transphobic things. But a few days later, when he came to pick me up for something, he called me by my chosen name (which my mom told him). And since then he’s been trying his best to use my pronouns and he corrects himself constantly, it makes me so happy. Here’s a picture of him wearing a shirt I got him.
"Allow yourself to process the grief and trauma of being rejected, but don't let it define you as a person," Larsen reiterates. "There is so much more to you than the rejection. In the community of other like-minded people, you'll be able to resurrect your self-esteem."
His Sign May Be Smaller, But His Message Is Much Bigger
A few years ago, shortly after the Pride Parade in Atlanta, I chased away some "good, bible-thumping, christians", complete with a bullhorn. They had cornered some teenagers and literally were spewing hate and filth right in their faces with that bullhorn. I simply took it from them and made them chase me out of the park to get it. By that time people had stopped what they were doing/came around from vendor booths, and made like a parade across the entrance beside me. So the "good christians" had to settle for riding around the park in their truck, yelling horrible things until their battery ran out on the bullhorn.
People like that make me sick.
Load More Replies...god is angry with the wicked every day. just i hope you realise who the wicked truly are. hint: it's not gay ppl
love the sinner (the person), not the sin ( being gay).
Load More Replies...Pride Gnome My Grandma Got Me
Yess an ace gnome would be awesome
Load More Replies...The gnome can't see! *quickly crochets a white cane*
I want one!!! Debating asking my mom who has only every semi-acknowledged then ignored my Bisexuality… but she crochets/knits like a champ!!
Thought This Might Be Appreciated Here. Happy Pride Everyone! I Put This Together For My Dad And His Husband
https://shop7g.lol/ProductDetail.aspx?iid=791589161&pr=25.88 Found it! :)
Load More Replies...4 Years Ago I Came Out To My Parents On Thanksgiving. I Was Horrified But My Mom's First Response Was "When Are You Guys Getting Married?"
the mother wants a marriage and grandchildren, no matter with whom :D
Look How Cute She Is! So Supportive Of Her (Many) Queer Grandchildren. No Seriously There Are Tons Of Us, Happy Pride
Exactly, it's after 5pm somewhere in the world.
Load More Replies...Nana looks like the 'after' of a queer eye hero :D fabulous
Load More Replies...Such Important Words
Many, many Christians are also allies. And for me, it's not in spite of being a Christian, but because of my Christian faith. God bless
This, at least for me, is a litmus test for those who claim Christianity. Can you freely love those who are different from you or those you may not understand or agree with? If yes, you pass. Jesus showed love to many his society shunned: the woman at the well, the Syro-Phoenician woman, the woman with hemophilia, lepers, etc. If you call yourself a Christian this unconditional love is non-negotiable.
Load More Replies...In Honor Of Pride Month, My Brother Painted The Lesbian Flag On The Back Of His Pickup Truck
You Are A Lucky Guy
That based on size is infact a whippet
Load More Replies...I Came Out To My 76-Year-Old Grandpa Today
If you know me you know he is my favorite person. I was so nervous after hiding this part of me for years. His response was “you have to be you and proud to be you. I’m more proud that you told me”. I ugly cried y’all. I’m so lucky.
Found A Roll Of Film From Pride. Got This Great Picture Of My Mom. She Has Gone To Every Pride Parade Since I Came Out! I Couldn’t Ask For A More Supportive Mom
This Has Got To Be The Sweetest Thing Ever
I'm going to have to take a break for another cup of tea because I swear I'm about to dehydrate from happy tears
I Made A Presentation To Explain My Transness To My Family
It went really well. I made the whole thing humorous, so it wouldn't seem confrontational, but it was a great way to inform them and set boundaries. I saw an instant change in pronoun usage and a general awareness of how they treated me.
After Coming Out As Transgender And Non-Binary, My Mother Crocheted Me A Giant Pride Flag Blanket To Show Love And Support. It's Super Wholesome And I Love It
Crochet is actually super easy, especially flat stuff like that! If you want to learn, go for it! There’s a ton of awesome tutorials on YouTube,
Load More Replies...How can you be transgender and nonbinary in the same time? Please don't downvote me. I really want to know if there is an explaination.
Nonbinary is an identity that falls under the transgender umbrella (so you can think of it as a form of transgender), I think that’s how, it’s just like a more specific way of saying it (somebody please correct me if I’m wrong lol)
Load More Replies...I am honestly confused about this one. How can you be a gender and not a gender at the same time?
Transgender means not the physical gender you were born as. that's it. being non-binary is not the same as being agender.
Load More Replies...My Mom Surprised Me With The Gayest Fans During Our Mother/Son Dance At My Wedding
ok for the support, it's cute. but a white dress for her gay son’s wedding...it borders on the big implied :)
My Girlfriend, My Mom, And I Made An Asexual Cake For Pride
Extremely jealous (because I’m celiac as well as ace so I don’t get to eat most cakes (or garlic bread))
Load More Replies...So incredibly sweet. My mom still doesn’t believe asexuality exists and would try to “fix me” me with horrible trips to the therapist or she would say nobody wants to be with someone who doesn’t have sec which broke my heart and soul. So this makes me cry tears of happiness. To my ace friends who get constantly told they’re broken or asexuality doesn’t exist or that you don’t belong—- you are loved and valued just the way you are.
Your mom is horrible. You’re not broken, you belong, you’re valid, you are loved, and you’re awesome just the way you are (just in case you needed to be reminded, too)
Load More Replies...That's a new one for me. I didn't get the ace references earlier. Thanks for this post! 😁
My Mom And I Made Rainbow Cupcakes To Celebrate Pride Month
That’s beautiful! Maybe some rainbow frosting would be great tho
*grabs a cupcake and runs under the sofa to eat it*
Sooo many cakes!!! ❤️🧡💛💚💙💜... Anyone else feel like they've gained weight from just reading about all these amazing cakes? 😄
That’s The Reaction I Want From My Parents
My Mom Got A Bi Scorpion Tattoo Because I'm A Scorpio, I Love Her So Much. I Don't Even Believe In Zodiac Signs But She Does And This Almost Made Me Cry
Your Parents Are Doing It Right
Came Out As A Lesbian This Year. Christmas Gift From My Older Sister. It Is Safe To Say She’s Supportive
As the first of 4 siblings who is also gay, i can confirm that's the highest form of sibiling support.
I Came Out To My Sister And It's Like A Weight Has Been Lifted
When my bro came out, really heartfelt speech to mum tears all that. All I got was a text off him saying ‘Sibling owes you £50 you won the bet’ 🤣
I think almost everyone knows that I’m gay now. I am absolutely not masculine, and I keep staring at other men at the pool. I can also sorta tell if someone else is gay (not 100% accurate, I’ve had incidents)
My Sister Being Subtly Supportive Is Just Really Nice
I’m at college and asked her to bring some hangers since I didn’t have enough and she was coming to campus. I didn’t realize at first what colors she’d brought! It’s really sweet because in her sophomore year, when my mother and I drove up to bring her back for break, she needed hangers and I strung together a few in the colors of the ace flag (she’s ace). She had come out about a year ago then and I’ve been out to her for just a few months now.
For My Daughter. She Recently Came Out As Bi And We Wanted To Show Her Our Support
Adidas did some pride shoes... heterosexual here, but I have a pair. I try to show my support
Load More Replies...Got This From Dad For My 24th Birthday
where would I get this? just a curious panda wanting to know more about our society🤗
I Came Out As Trans To My Family And My 9-Year-Old Sister Sent Me This
I Married Into This Awesome Family This Year! You Can Probably Tell Which One Is Me
My Supportive Mom Got Me And My Girlfriend Matching Bracelets
Wearing My Father's Day Gift From My Youngest With Pride
This is such a great message. Folks, it’s possible to be a patriot and show acceptance!!
The Most Wholesome Picture From Pride This Year
I Came Out To My Parents A Couple Months Ago And Now My Dad Just Texted Me Saying He’s Been Trying To Learn More About The LGBTQ Community And I’m So Happy
How I Came Out To My Mom On Coming Out Day
I was telling my mom about a friend of mine who has a trans son. After I said my friend was very supportive of her kid, my mom said "well how else would you be?". Meaning she couldn't imagine not being supportive of her own child. I'm so lucky to have the most awesome mother. :)
Load More Replies...Coming Out Is Such A Relief And A Weight Off Your Shoulders
Love To See Supportive Mama And Papa
My Mom And I Are Sporting Our Pride Glasses! My Mom Wishes Everyone A Happy Pride And Gives You All Mom Hugs
This Is Incredible
Whaaaaat no way! For people who may not know: the one on the left is Katherine Moenning the actress who played Shane in The L Word, a tv show about the lives of a group of queer women.
My 73-Year-Old Mom Is Cooler Than Target. She Got Me This Hat And Realized Target Forgot The Purple. So She Queered It Up For Me
I Found This In My Room From My Little Sister (12). I Think I Might Start Crying
Bubble gum with an arrow. Oh be still my heart. This is adorable!
My Mom Took Pictures Of Me At Pride, And This One Looks Like An LGBTQ Poster You’d See In School During Pride Month. This Is The Coolest Photo Of Me To Ever Exist And I Want To Draw It
My Sister Recently Got Into Knitting, So I Obviously Had To Ask Her To Make Something Gay
and she knit you a blanket :-D she could have started with a hat or something? :-D well done!
Having Supportive Parents Is Awesome
Pride Parade Today! Supporting My Trans Kiddo
In The Past Years, My Dad Had A Hard Time Excepting Me Being Gay. That Is What My Parents Had For Me Today
*eye twitch* accepting... not excepting.... *eye twitch*
My Parents Are On Holiday In NYC (Their First Time Ever Outside Europe) And I Still Smile Knowing My Dad Thought Of Me When He Saw A Pride Flag Outside On Their Second Morning There
I’m Proud She Was Raised With The Confidence To Be Who She Wants To Be
Aww, I love to see someone on the younger side comfortable with their sexuality already!
When i was her age i already knew i was into girls but i tried to suppress my feelings because the world wasn't nearly as accepting as it is today. I sound ancient but i am 36, and in the 90s there wasn't much acceptance, like the only times i ever heard the word lesbian were when people used it as an insult, so i didn't want to be associated with that. I am so happy to see young people today being free to be who they are without having to hide.
What A Special Day It Was Yesterday
As I was getting my hair and makeup done preparing for Ferndale Pride, there was a knock at the door. It was my grandmother, who had taken her first greyhound ever down from Northern Michigan, to surprise me. I am so blessed to have the support system and family that I do! Feeling the love and blessings today!
HAPPY PRIDE MONTH!
Just Came Out To My Dad
A Few Days After I Came Out To My Parents, Me And My Mum Saw These Pride Shoes While Shopping, This Is What I Got For Christmas
As a doc martens wearer, I approve, I think i'm gonna have to get these for my trans bestie.
My Mom Made This Birthday Cake For My Friends And I To Have On Board Game Night Celebrating My Birthday
Happy Pride! Came Out To My Parents
My Sister Made This For Me
I wish I could tell one of my family but I'd be ranted at I bet lol. My parents are very homophobic.? idk if it would fall into this catagory though. I'm guessing it would. I'm straight and she-her, that's not the problem. It would be the problem to tell them about the therian and furry sort of stuff. ((Btw, THANK YOU FOR ALL THE SUPPORT!! my heart is breaking with joy)) :)
Oh hun… Try to make a new family? I know that’s what people always say, but it’s easier said than done. In the meantime, stay connected here and you’ll find support.
Load More Replies...It brings me happy tears to see so many supportive and loving families here! This is what the world needs more of.
I am crying happy tears. For any of my fellow pandas who don't feel safe enough to come out or have come out and haven't had the love and support they have a right to, hold on, stay safe, do what you need to until you can make it out and live your life. Virtual mum hugs whenever you need one and remember you are perfect the way you are, love is love and love is desperately needed in this world ❤️🩷🧡💛💚💙🩵💜🤎🖤🩶🤍 x
i accidentally came out to my silent gen parents in 1991 and for the time it was amazingly low key. i wasn't terribly afraid because my mom's best friend was a gay man, but it's different when it's your own kid, right? dad "we overheard you talking to your friend and it sounds like you might be confused about your sexuality." me "i'm not confused, i like guys and girls." mom "ok, but no more sleeping over at teresa's house." *raised eyebrow from mom*... yeah, she wasn't wrong, i was busted. but considering the times and the amount of homophobia and hate running rampant at the time, it was pretty amazing.
This made me smile and brought some tears to my eyes. There's too much hate in the world, this is what we really need.
i came out to my parents as demisexual today. my father was soo supportive about it, & he really made me feel validated. 🥰
Every time I read one of these posts about people coming out someone is cutting onions. Makes me so happy to hear people's positive coming out stories, I was lucky myself when I came out that people were supportive. Its sad that so many people can't come out for fear of the response, or lose their closest friends or family as a result
I wasn't familiar with all the flag varieties, only a few. Just spent a solid 30 minutes looking at all the various flags on a different website.
I wish I could tell one of my family but I'd be ranted at I bet lol. My parents are very homophobic.? idk if it would fall into this catagory though. I'm guessing it would. I'm straight and she-her, that's not the problem. It would be the problem to tell them about the therian and furry sort of stuff. ((Btw, THANK YOU FOR ALL THE SUPPORT!! my heart is breaking with joy)) :)
Oh hun… Try to make a new family? I know that’s what people always say, but it’s easier said than done. In the meantime, stay connected here and you’ll find support.
Load More Replies...It brings me happy tears to see so many supportive and loving families here! This is what the world needs more of.
I am crying happy tears. For any of my fellow pandas who don't feel safe enough to come out or have come out and haven't had the love and support they have a right to, hold on, stay safe, do what you need to until you can make it out and live your life. Virtual mum hugs whenever you need one and remember you are perfect the way you are, love is love and love is desperately needed in this world ❤️🩷🧡💛💚💙🩵💜🤎🖤🩶🤍 x
i accidentally came out to my silent gen parents in 1991 and for the time it was amazingly low key. i wasn't terribly afraid because my mom's best friend was a gay man, but it's different when it's your own kid, right? dad "we overheard you talking to your friend and it sounds like you might be confused about your sexuality." me "i'm not confused, i like guys and girls." mom "ok, but no more sleeping over at teresa's house." *raised eyebrow from mom*... yeah, she wasn't wrong, i was busted. but considering the times and the amount of homophobia and hate running rampant at the time, it was pretty amazing.
This made me smile and brought some tears to my eyes. There's too much hate in the world, this is what we really need.
i came out to my parents as demisexual today. my father was soo supportive about it, & he really made me feel validated. 🥰
Every time I read one of these posts about people coming out someone is cutting onions. Makes me so happy to hear people's positive coming out stories, I was lucky myself when I came out that people were supportive. Its sad that so many people can't come out for fear of the response, or lose their closest friends or family as a result
I wasn't familiar with all the flag varieties, only a few. Just spent a solid 30 minutes looking at all the various flags on a different website.
