Trends are everywhere. They influence people’s fashion choices, their decisions regarding home decor or hairstyles, and can even determine what video games or TikTok dances, among other things, are popular at a given time.
In addition to being seemingly omnipresent, they are also everchanging. As times change, so do trends; and it’s no secret that once you reach a certain age, it can be difficult to keep up with the current ones. Some of them might even seem bizarre or strange.
Seeking to learn what trends people consider to be the strangest ones of the past decade, redditor ‘PaceSubstantial1107’ turned to the ‘Ask Reddit’ community and started a discussion on the topic. Quite a few netizens shared their opinions, covering all sorts of odd or even disappointing trends, so if you’re curious about what they had to say, scroll down to find their answers on the list below.
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People filming themselves giving food or money to those in need .If you are going to help someone just do it don't broadcast your good deed.
I'm sure that's true for some, but if it generates income so they can continue I'm okay with it.
Load More Replies...Yes but - no filming, no money, no help - it's better than the innumerable people who walk past and offer absolutely nothing
I get why people find it distasteful, but I also kind of understand because it generates revenue for the causes and charity work they do. So it is necessary to fund it, but I prefer the ones that protect the privacy of the people they are filming by blurring it out. I appreciate the decorum and consideration. Those are people, not props.
other ways to look at it...1. better to give publicly than not at all and 2. it may inspire someone else to give and 3. charities advertise/publicize their giving efforts
I hate that. I've done lots of good deeds (not saying more frequently than average person, I've just been alive a long time). It has never even occurred to me to post about them online or take pictures. I'm okay with the ones that are genuinely trying to encourage others to do good. An example would be a local community that does a beach clean up after July 4th. Advertising for volunteers to come out this year, they had some photos of people doing the clean up last year. But nobody was showboating and I don't even know who the folks in the photos were. The photos were about the event, not the people.
Trying to help themselves out more than they are the person they're "doing the good deed" for.
these people often get donations from people watching their videos to "pay it forward".. they can film all they want IMO if it helps someone in need
A complete Disregard for science and discovery.
I never in my worst of nightmares believed that it would be possible for people to go backward on this. When I was growing up my father was a chemical engineer and the entire family basked in the growing knowledge that was out there, increasing all the time. My soul is in anguish seeing what people appear to believe these days, and how callously they toss away all the good that has come with science due to childish beliefs.
You're not the only one. A nation that led the world in scientific discovery - and even put a man on the moon - is now believing the earth is flat, vaccinations give autism - or great 5G - government is tracking them, they're being injected with RFID chips... and the lunacy goes on.
Load More Replies...The first thing that popped into my head was Marjorie Taylor Green recently blaming the hurricane damage on liberals / democrats making the storm hit the mostly republican areas. SMH!
Does this count as a "trend"? Conservatives have been against science for generations.
The US has had an anti-intellectual stripe for a very long time. Other countries too, I'm sure.
Load More Replies...The irony being that the misinformation and ant science hysteria spreads on the internet!!!
But...but... the Jewish space lasers, and the democrats weather machines, they have to be real, right? RIGHT??? 😜
In the 80s I read Asimiov's Foundation and couldn't wrap my brain around the idea that an entire culture could "forget" science facts. Let's just say I understand it a little better now.
I remember a group of us discussing how society seemed to be catering to the lowest common denominator. That was nearly 40 years ago. I honestly didn't think it could go lower, but here we are, surrounded by imbeciles.
Tipping for everything and anything.
This HAS to stop! I've seen it mentioned before that sometimes tradespeople (plumbers, electricians, etc.) ask for, or even expect, a tip.
In Europe, where our tiping culture is based on "if you're happy with the service you tip", it is custom to tip handymen ... unless it's the business owner himself.
Load More Replies...Along this line, when paying cash for something I'm sometimes asked if I "want my change?" I do now. Every damn bit of it.
I mean, if you are happy with the service, why not? Today I had an appointment for a trash company to haul away some amount of trash bags, old boxes and a couple smaller furniture items/electronic devices. The cost was a bit higher then I liked, but it took them about 10 minutes in total. You can bet your a** I gave both of them an additional fiver each for the help.
Actually, in some companies, some employees’ salaries depend almost entirely on tips. Really sad.
I don't have a problem with tipping for good service. I do have a problem where the tip is expected regardless of the level of service.
One restaurant chain in America (Joes Crab Shack) tried going tip free about ten years ago. They went out of business shortly after. They were in trouble before then, but sadly other tip based businesses promptly used that as justification to stay with the tip system.
Being in the UK tipping is not the thing it is in the USA but I did tip the lady who made my parents’ anniversary cake as it was astounding.
I’ll tip in restaurants and takeaway drivers but not cafés. I tip taxi drivers but I don’t use Uber at all.
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Anti-intellectualism. Being undereducated is a matter of pride in a lot of areas.
The last ten years? “There is a cult of ignorance in the United States, and there has always been. The strain of anti-intellectualism has been a constant thread winding its way through our political and cultural life, nurtured by the false notion that democracy means that ‘my ignorance is just as good as your knowledge’.” - Isaac Asimov (Newsweek, 1980). And not just in the United States.
Yeah I was watching 70s footage of reporters asking voters about an election, and they were all ignorant af. It was astonishing, and illuminating.
Load More Replies...The USA gets the blame for this due to its size and influence. But this is a serious problem in many countries. Much of Eastern Europe is seriously regressing.
When I lived in the eastern US, I always found it ironic that the same people who railed against 'East Coast intellectuals' revered the founding fathers, who were intellectuals who lived on the East Coast.
"There is a cult of ignorance in the United States, and there has always been. The strain of anti-intellectualism has been a constant thread winding its way through our political and cultural life, nurtured by the false notion that democracy means that 'my ignorance is just as good as your knowledge." - Isaac Asimov, 1920-1992.
Smart kids were ostracized for being nerds in high school. I was always on Honor Roll, tutored other students in nerdy subjects like math and physics, read voraciously, smoked cigarettes, did d***s, drank alcohol, listened to loud raucous music, and could rebuild a car engine. No one knew what the hell category to put me in.
yeah I've never met anyone who perfectly lives up to a stereotype.
Load More Replies...Boils down, always, to religion vs science. We all know which should win, except for a certain group of people
Though it's not new. For decades I had these weird people who told you "I never understood math, haha" with this weird laugh as if it was something to be proud of.
Pathologizing every conceivable human behavior so that no one has to ever be responsible for anything they do.
At first year of uni in beginning of 2010s I met one dyslexic woman, one 'High Intellectual potential' and one autistic woman. Which made sense given the breakdown within the population. All had difficulties in some areas (writing, being straight to the point vs going in every detail of a question, sub question, sub sub question etc) and everyone was understanding and supportive. Then in 2020, more than half of my 10-people working group presented themselves as having ADHD or being autistic, which confused me.
Yep - just had a conversation with someone recently where he told me he recently discovered that he has ADHD and dyslexia (self-diagnosed of course). I wanted to ask if he considered the possibility that he was just stupid instead, but then thought he'd probably tell me it was actually a severe knowledge absorption impairment that resulted in an intellectual deficiency disorder
Having a mental illness isn't a get out of jail or work or responsibility card. There have been days that I had all I could do to pull it together, but it would never occur to me to use it as an excuse to get out of my responsibilities.
I'll downvote this because thanks to advances in psychology we now have a much better understanding of our behaviors. "Suck it up" or "that's the way it is" is a thing of the past and we can actually help people who are in distress. So don't knock modern science. That being said ... PEOPLE need to stop being overly dramatic and talking stress or burnout or depression when they're just busy, tired or sad.
It's almost like science has advanced to where we can properly diagnose things now and compassion has advanced beyond locking them in a basement or just telling them they're stupid and need to suck it up. I agree self diagnosis is out of control (thanks tiktok!) but if an actual medical professional diagnoses someone who the heck are you to say otherwise?
Or, perhaps it's an awareness: that every person is wired a little differently? that people sometimes need accommodation for the way their brain is wired? I mean, you CAN take it too far. Anything taking to an extreme becomes a problem. But up to a certain point, isn't this a good thing?
Yup, but the key is in the wording of OP. 'Pathologizing every conceivable human bahvior' :). By emphasizing that every human is wired differently , and need accommodation, we completely erase those who actually have difficulties that have dire impact on their life. I'm quite shy, it can be a bit complicated at work but I get no excuses and work on it. One of my colleague is bipolar, navigating through work life & career is a real 'life struggling' issue. :)
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People forgetting how to talk into a mobile phone. Instead of holding it so the mic is by your mouth and the speaker by your ear, now people hold it flat and shout at the bottom while wondering why they can't hear the other person properly. I don't care if this makes me sound old, it just makes zero sense.
I shout at pieces of toast every morning. It's completely normal... right?
Load More Replies...If you put the phone on speaker people can hear both sides of the conversation. And participate while passing by.
In the privacy of my own home? I do put my phone on speaker and hold the mic by my mouth because I'm slightly deaf in one ear. I talk at a regular volume, I've damaged vocal chords too btw, but I always ask - "Is this too loud?" first. I know the volume, speaker/mic, that my phone needs to be set at now. I mean... The whole world and their dog don't need to know the results of my latest smear test!!!
I'm old enough to remember the Boost (I think) walkie-talkie style phones. "HELLO!" "I JUST GOT BACK FROM THE DOCTOR. SHE SAID MY HEMORRHOIDS ARE EVEN MORE INFECTED THAN THEY USED TO BE." It was nauseating. Finally had to kick the guy out of the library when he wouldn't step outside.
Reminds me of the time a guy arrived at the bus stop just as the bus came and shoved his way to the front to get on first. Since we were at the terminus there were plenty of seats and it wasn’t due to leave for 10 minutes, no one made a fuss. I was sitting in front of him when he got out his phone and started telling his boss he’d waited 30 minutes for the bus and now the driver had got out and left them (it was the end of his shift and the new driver actually got on while he was speaking) All this got too much for the elderly lady sitting behind him; she reach over, took the phone and told his boss what was actually happening before she handed him his phone back. The guy was stunned into silence!
Load More Replies...A friend once explained to me, that one of the kardashians hold her phone like this, so the viewers can also her what the other person is saying....
THIS!. It's literally reality TV that has popularised this. People see this and think it's cool because their favourite celebrity does it. Completely missing the point of why they actually do it. Simply because if they used the phone properly we'd only hear one side of the conversation.
Load More Replies...A manager at my work shouts at bruschetta phone, it’s ridiculous
Wy wife wears a hearing aid and does this as the hearing aid has bluetooth.
I hate this too but unfortunately I'm forced to do it sometimes, particularly if I'm outside. I live in a busy, noisy city, with very busy roads all around me, even when my volume is as loud as possible I still often struggle to hear anything due to traffic noise, so I have to put it on loudspeaker, and even then I still sometimes struggle to hear! For me the worst is when people do it on public transport, forcing everyone to listen to their entire (often very private/intimate) conversation, the only thing more irritating is when some idiot decides to play loud music with no earphones (I usually end up telling them off)
When i do that, i am wearing my earphones, so no use in keeping the earpiece to my ears. And yess it makes sense and in am 54.
Youtube families—- I mean it’s weird how you put your 11 year old crying over homework on youtube.
I think we will all eventually agree that it was a very bad idea to put children on the Internet.
Publically, most people have already agreed for quite awhile that it was a bad idea. Privately however, so many of those same people will then proceed to watch the content of those that put their kids on the internet thereby ensuring it will continue. The mentality of "i know it's bad, but it's ok for me to engage in because i acknowledge that it bad"
Load More Replies...My grandkids liked a vlog on YouTube called the Swedish Family. At the beginning both parents worked full time and when they started getting subscribers she dropped to part time and then quit. A while later they were even more popular and he quit as well. With the money they earned from the vlog they moved to different countries for a year at a time, bought a summer house in Sweden and fixed it up with regular updates on the vlog. Then they realised that the kids were getting older and new subscribers weren't at the level they liked so mom got pregnant. Now my grandkids don't want to watch because they have noticed, and said, that it wasn't right for the kids to have cameras in their faces all the time. Never a private moment. The oldest is almost a teen and she is getting some stuff said about her that is awful, you can guess what I mean. Still the parents carry on with filming her. It's wrong and they need to be stopped
Load More Replies...There is a documentary on Peacock about her. I didn't know about her until I watched it. Those poor children.😥
Load More Replies...I remember when facebook was fairly new and everyone was plastering it with pics of their kids and when I did not I got shamed for it, like I loved my kids less for not shoving them out into the internet. I feel like my kids as an adult and teen are less affected by the pull of social media for not having been exposed to it as small children. Kids can create their own social media when they are old enough to consent to it.
i think this is fine unless uve got a little child involved. if ur kids r high school or older and they agree then its ok cuz they likely have a channel of their own. but please dont use ur dont put a child who doesnt understand wats going on on the internet. i get it kids and babies r cute but dont use ur kid for likes.
Gender reveals.
I'm old enough to remember when a gender reveal was just an old man in a trench coat. /J
Hahaha thanks for that - will keep it in mind if i'm ever invited to one :) i just need to find a trenchcoat
Load More Replies...I mean, if you want to do a GR that's fine. But I'm gonna judge the s**t out of you if you make a huge mess or cause damage to the environment.
I understand it if it's your family getting together and there's a special cake or balloons or something. But the extent people go to is crazy.
I perversely want every child who's been "announced" in this way to realize they are living in the wrong gender and have their own gender reveal party.
These have been a thing for a long time. The issue is with the major over the top ones, like using colored smoke and starting a wild fire or dying a protected river a color for it. People who do those need to fully pay for the damage they did and serve time if any laws were broken. Was to have a gender reveal, get a dyed cake and cut it at the baby shower.
Massive numbers of people believing completely made up s**t.
Remember, even though Marjorie Taylor Green says it was the Democrats who made the hurricane hit Republican areas, we all know it's really the Satanic alien lizard people who control the weather. /J
You mean, completely made up s**t that isn't religion, right? Cause the masses have been conditioned to believe made up s**t since the beginning of civilization.
My mom and her husband will listen to what Trump says, even if he's obviously lying and just be like, "Yup, he's right." Windmills cause cancer, must be true. They're eating the dogs, must be true. Trump contradicting something he said 5 minutes ago, must be true. It's f*****g insane.
Lets not forget the stupid stuff that gets repeated by advertisers Like your mattress doubles in weight every few years from skin cells. Cascade is trying to convince you that running the dishwasher saves water every time. It might in some cases but they say 24 gallons per minute so yes if you run your faucet full blast while washing. Don't forget the oft repeated on BP "facts" Like we swallow 8 spiders in our sleep every year. It is much more than all the political nonsense.
Again, not new. Typical human behaviour since we emerged as a species.
Bigotry and racism making a come back. Didn't think we'd be going backwards.
It never left though. We have more access to the world from our devices now, so we see it in abundance across the world, rather than once or twice a year in our lives.
Came here to say the first line. Fully agree with the rest of your paragraph.
Load More Replies...A certain orange person normalized bigortry, and this is probably the most evil thing he did during the 4 years of his deranged reign.
I went to a "country" fair this weekend. Everyone was nice, mixed crowd, but tons of Trump-o-bilia. I saw a shirt I want to buy for every Trumpster I know - and the vendors didn't even realize how stupid it made them look - "I love Trump because he pisses off the people that I hate." TRUTH. YEP, that's a reason to destroy the country.
Load More Replies...As a gay man I really thought we'd turned a corner on homophobia and transphobia. But it turns out they were all just waiting for it to be okay to vocalize it again. Now they're going after us every step of the way and kids are afraid to come out again. I really hate that a new generation has to go through what I did.
Progress is always 2 steps forward, at least 1 step back. Change happens, then the slow thinkers get upset & drag us down.
Load More Replies...zionism is saying "hey maybe an indigenous group should have some land where they are from, since they have been consistently persecuted and last time the world did all of nothing to help them". Zionism is not "I agree fully with the modern state of Israel" or "I think Palestinians aren't people and should all be killed" or "I think settlements in the West Bank are ok" or "Bibi is awesome". It doesn't mean "I think all of the Middle East should be Israeli" or anything of the sort. It can mean "I think a hypothetical state of Israel, occupying the land given to it under the original UN plan, is good." Your claim that it is therefore "Nazism" can only mean that you think any Jewish state is bad - handing the region to the second-to-last group to hold it and utterly simplifying any actual issue, presumably because you haven't yet realized two or more sides can all have merit and/or be entirely wrong in an argument.
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“Alpha male” b******t.
Anonymous: My friend suggested if anyone non-ironically says 'alpha male' to you just say you're a 'turbo dude', and tell them its one above alpha male. I mean its made up anyway
And with it a total and frightening hate for women. Whilst complaining that women don't want to date them.
They are terrified little boys. Immature man fear comes out in anger. All they do when they post or talk is out how terrified they are.
Load More Replies...True strong males will never talk about themselves that way. They'll be diplomatic, find common ground, but always observant to shield their loved ones from harm.
I never hear tough people say they're tough, or smart people say they're smart, or cheaters say they don't cheat, or liars say they don't lie. Especially unprompted.
Load More Replies...No, they are alpha males, but alpha in the terms of software. Full of defects and not meant for public consumption.
Most of these self-called alpha males don't even know how to do their own laundry and would die within a few days out in the woods. Their hateful misogynists. That's their only claim to alpha male.
Referring to the picture: when I see a man wearing shoes without socks, I don't think "cool, sexy," I think sweaty, smelly feet and shoes.
The only time Alpha Male should be used is in refernce to a wolf pack, who do indeed have an alpha male, who also defers to the alpha female!
F***ing lip fillers and whatever plastic put to the body. Poor people. They don’t have to be pressured by non-essential physical standards.
I feel sorry for people who feel they need a lot of surgery and implants to be happy with their body.
Heras, Agree. Plus some mods introduce issues. A random video that showed up in my YT feed recently was about the 'myth' (or not) of "BBL stank". I clicked out of curiosity because I wasn't sure what BBL was. A doctor talked about different aspects but the take away was that after the surgery heals you shouldn't have odors. Except some women do because after BBL they had trouble wiping their own butts properly. Basically their arms were not long enough to reach around that big bubble they paid for. Funny, but also kind of sad. He did mention that installing a bidet could be quite helpful.
Load More Replies...Whenever I see one of those influencers with puffed up lips and lifted eye corners and what not I have to think about Bratz dolls. bratz-6717...09bee8.png
How much more plastic do we need in our bodies. The microplastics we're eating and drinking now being found throughout our bodies and especially in our brains should be a warning to knock this foolishness off.
If one day people woke up and decided they really liked their bodies the way they are… Just think how many industries would go out of business.
Not being able to talk to humans on the f*****g phone.
I have to call doctor offices for my job and I always have to press like 5 buttons, only to have to leave a message.
Some of us would rather NOT have to talk to humans. But, whichever your preference, you should be able to make the choice.
Yep. I was so happy once I figured out I could make about 85% of my appointments online.
Load More Replies..."Please listen carefully as our menus have changed." When? It's been the same fking menu since you've been in business!
I cannot stand those bloody automated phone systems. An automated response system will not be able to understand the complexity of the problem or physical complaint you have. I had that today with my pharmacy. I need to book in a repeat prescription so I'll phone up again tomorrow because I don't know if the message I left for my necessary medications is 4th in the machine or the 500th.
The dentist I went to my entire life retired and left his practice to a young dentist starting up. Not only am I mad about the fact that I can never get a hold of anyone unless I "leave a message" because they just NEVER pick up the phone, they also apparently reschedule appointments without consent and just leave you a message (supposedly) about it. They also seem to have gotten rid of all the long time hygienists (who are friendly and gentler on the teeth, but with maybe a bit slower pt throughput). I'm about half ready to tell them to f**k themselves.
That sucks. My dentist retired a few years ago. He brought in a young dentist a year ahead of time and she took over the practice. It was pretty seamless, and she is one of the few doctors that actually listens when I tell her something. Glad I didn't have to find a new dentist.
Load More Replies...In my experience emails and texts are better for avoiding miscommunication so i highly dislike phone calls (also because of severe social anxiety)
Hate to be rude, but boo-hoo. You're getting paid to press those 5 buttons, while all of us patients have to go through the same number of buttons, each with their own horrible music loop and repetitive messages. While sick or worried or just trying to make a damn appointment.
This is not a new thing that's only started happening in the last decade.
Not believing in science. It blows my mind the people who I used to think had their s**t together who now believe all of these conspiracy theories and “do their own research”. It’s crazy.
To successfully do your own research, you first have to accept the premise that research is based on facts, and that such a thing as "fact" does indeed exist. It also entails that you have at least a basic understanding of the subject you are researching (or at least that you are willing to aquire such an understanding). Otherwise it is just fruitless fellowship to conspirational theories.
May I add another requirement? You should also go into that research with an open mind, not with a firm opinion and only accepting research that reinforces your pre-determined conclusion.
Load More Replies...I've been doing my own research for years, but my sources are always well-known, accredited sources, like the Mayo Clinic instead of some guy's "health" blog.
Doing your own research somehow means finding other people to back up your point of view while disregarding everything else. Doing your own research means nothing if you're not smart enough to discern what is scientific, provable fact and what is just the opinion of someone calling themselves a doctor but in reality is a dentist, chiropractor or has a PhD in anthropology.
I got that from my cousin one time. "Cousin, you don't have the ability to scratch the surface on all the research that has gone before. Nevermind the fact that A) you've never done any research before at all, and B) you're a walking class in logical fallacies."
Why do people keep acting like this is new? For pete's sake, a significant portion of the world's population have been anti-science for thousands of years.
Stick them in the middle of now where, with no supplies and see how long they survive.
People making money from filming themselves 'reacting' to things.
A mostly ridiculous trend on youtube. I like some of them like the special FX guys commenting on movie clips and how the effects or stunts were done. But it's bollocks when some up and coming artist like Ren puts out a thoughtful music video on YT and then other people film themselves watching him sing his song.
I tell you what reactions I do like: professionals and artists reacting and giving a perspective based on their experience. For example, I watch a few youtube channels of professional musicials giving thoughts about youtube musicians and even other professional musicians, or things in the news (for example, copyright cases of songs that sound too similar). I find these illuminating.
Like Fil from Wings of Pegasus. He's awesome and very knowledgeable about music industry.
Load More Replies...This should be lower on the list. It might be silly and pointless but it is also completely harmless.
As soon as I see that picture within a picture, I stop watching.
Load More Replies...If you read through different social media it is common among teens and young adults to complain about 'forced social contacts'. You have to call real people to make an appointment, you have to talk to a cashier when buying things or it is unbearable If you can't order your pizza or groceries online without human contact. Maybe watching those reaction videos is like having a friend over without having a real person in your personal space. You are alone but not lonely.
I mean, sometimes it can be interesting. Like a lawyer or doctor reacting to videos about their professions. But mostly, yeah, its annoying.
Some are good, such as on songs and shows. The reactions from, say, Brits to the Abbott and Costello Who's On First skit as they see it for the first time are amazing. Non-metal people hearing Judas Priest's Painkiller.
People annoying/"pranking" others in public and filming ensuing reactions. Annoying customers/retail & fast food workers and filming whole thing for likes and content. Leave people alone.
You had me at "People annoying/"pranking" others" -- whether it is filmed or not. Just stop.
I saw one that made the news (I only saw it because it was on the news) of a 20 something guy pulling a prank on some other man and got the tar beat out of him. Wound up in the hospital and said, on camera, that he'd do it again! These challenges are vial.
One of them got shot and said he'd do it again. Guy that shot him needs more range time.
Load More Replies...I've seen a few and here in my city? You pull that sort of stuff on unsuspecting people? You'll probably be lucky to walk away with only a punch in the face!
Once again, not new. There used to be numerous shows on tv about people "pranking" strangers in public or with nuisance phone calls. It was an incredibly popular bit for radio stations too.
Was going to say, something doesn't remember Candid Camera
Load More Replies...I carry my key ring, and on my key ring is a type of heavy-duty fastener that can inflict serious damage, nothing fatal, but painful. Go ahead. Annoy me for the clout. Worst case scenario, I'll have their DNA to press charges.
The politicization of science. We've always had biased surveys and studies, but denying the concept of science entirely and the bragging about it like a badge of honor toward idealism is bizarre.
Humans: "There is no climate change!" / Climate change: "There are no humans..."
"Humans can't change the weather!!!!" also "Humans steered the hurricane to people they don't like!"
Load More Replies...Eliminate a proper education and replace it with teaching to the test, and the result is a voting populace who's never been taught to think a problem through, come up solid arguments, or to think critically. Poorly educated people run on fear because the sources they turn to are feeding it. Come November, they'll be voting. Again.
Concert Tickets starting OVER $100 each.
Cliff Richard is touring Australia next year so just for lols I checked the tickets. $173. I didn't pay that much for *Bowie* I'm certainly not spaffing it on Cliff.
I'm turning 40 this week and I had to google him. Never heard of him in my entire life and he's charging $173?
Load More Replies...I regret never making an effort to attend any big concerts back in the 70s or even 80s. I've been to smaller ones, seen a few big names as they waned enough to show up at smaller venues. But never any legendary type concerts. Somehow I went from teens / high school in the 70s, to busy in the navy, to divorced and paying child support, to too busy working... to.. now I'm retired and have the time, but the cost of concert tickets, airfare, hotel and meals is likely to cost more than I paid for my first car. I guess it's okay. On the whole I prefer studio versions of songs without the screaming crowds and smelly porta potties.
June 21st 1975, Wembley Stadium, London, England. The line up was Stackridge, Rufus (with Chaka Khan), Joe Walsh, Eagles, Beach Boys and Elton John. The ticket price? £3.50. Beat that for 11 hours of never to be repeated magic. Not only that but the sun shone all day! ☀️😁🇬🇧
Yet, the musicians don't make more money than they did before COVID. The venues do! Renting a venue is up to 240%, compared with 2019. Also, they don't only charge fees for the Merch, they put a concession on it to also make money with the merchandise itself. Plus there are less technicans than before - during the crisis lots of them got "real" jobs to cover their costs. The remaining technicans increased their fees due to the higher demand and the costs for electricity etc. increased, too. And on top of that, there are the ticketmaster-crooks getting richer and richer. It makes me angry when some people say "The artists are getting greedy!" What are they supposed to make money with? Spotify? LMAO!
The artists do get the t shirt/paraphernalia concession (merch) dollars. $40 for a t shirt? nope.
Load More Replies...I saw Jeff Beck at a local amphitheater a few months before he died and though they weren't the best seats, my ticket was only $60. ABSOLUTELY worth it. He was a genius. RIP, Mr. Beck.
1978 saw 3 bands for $5.00. About 2 hrs. wage. In the 80's saw the police for $30 abot 3 hrs wage. Now it costs 2-3 days wages to see a concert and I bet almost 1/3 is going to insurance.
Your pay certainly hasn't risen with inflation if you're paying three days wages for a ticket! I'm not a big earner but the prices quoted are about half a day's pay.
Load More Replies...And by the time they add all the fees it'll cost you about five times that.
$100??? Try a few thou! Funny, I remember seeing Led Zeppelin, Queen, Rolling Stones, The Who, etc. for anywhere from $7.50 to $10.99. Saw Bruce for like $20. Now a Bruce ticket is over a grand!
This isn't always the artist's fault, especially since the USA raised it's international performers' visas by 250%. If you’re a musician from outside of the United States hoping to perform stateside and you filed visa paperwork before April 1, the cost per application was $460. After that date? $1,655. Bands and ensemble groups pay per performer. A standard rock band of four members went from paying $1,840 to around $6,460. And if you can’t wait a few months for approval, add $2,805 per application for expedited processing. If the application is not accepted, that money is not refunded — on top of losses from a canceled tour.
I went to gigs almost every weekend in my teens and early 20s back in the early 00s, when they were actually enjoyable and affordable! The average concert ticket cost between £10 and £30 and you could actually enjoy the experience because people didn't spend the entire time staring at their phones or filming the entire gig. I stopped going to gigs when I noticed everyone was filming everything and you couldn't even see the stage for phones being held in the air, you also couldn't even hear the music because a huge % of the crowd seemed to spend the entire gig just screaming at the top if their lungs. (Whatever happened to just singing and dancing along or quietly listening and enjoying the music?)
Producers, directors and studios blaming audiences for not wanting to go see their remake/reboot/prequel/sequel.
also studios spending so much money on movies that it's virtually impossible for them to break even.
If they came up with something original instead of remaking films that didn’t need remaking in the first place, then they might get our attention
This is in no way a new thing. Remakes and reboots have existed almost as long as Hollywood itself. It makes smart business sense - invest in an untested new IP or in one that has a built in audience? Look at the new "live action" Disney movies for a perfect example.
Load More Replies...As Joe Public I feel Hollywood / Disney etc milk their IPs and franchises until the cow dries up which often means some of the sequels and remakes are trash. But my somewhat hypocritical acknowledgement on that is that if I was a movie executive and Movie 1 made me $500 million in profits and Movie 2 only made me $300 million, I'd probably still c**p out Movies 3 and 4 to mop up that last $100-200 million. But I'm sure every producer green lighting a movie is hoping for an Avatar, not a Waterworld.
Right! Make a NEW movie, don't ruin the ones that people already love.
*cough* Star Wars. Disney, you suck. Sell off your divisions for a dollar each and shut down.
Working inside the movie/gaming industry I can vouch for this. When they launch it's either $1 billion dollars everyone goes "whee!" or it's a failure. Kind of amazing to be part of a project with a thousand other people working our asses off and then it flops due to the 10 people in charge not listening to anyone besides influencers who were given previews/demos. I've seen it in real time and it's amazing/heartbreaking
Blaming Misogyny and racist as why certain shows of movies didn't do well. For example the Acolyte was poorly paced. The story they could have focused on they didn't. There was too much flash backs scattered over the whole series both ep. 3 and 7 both told the same Story with slightly more detail. Plus a rom -com level of not communicating caused the whole conflict. Telll the Jedi you are going to save the girls instead of turning into a smoke monster while a Jedi has hi light saber drawn. Oh and don't kill off all the important characters except four and you could make an argument that two of them aren't that important. (Kate Moss's character dies in the first episode.)
While I do like to go to the movies from time to time, being able to watch it at home is where it's at!
Why does somebody need to be paid $30m+ for a few months' work...that's why films aren't making money and box office fees are rising so fast.
I think actor celebrity status is what's killing movies. No one deserves tens of millions of dollars just for acting in a movie. This is where most of the ridiculous budget goes. Movies suffer because they have to make their budget back, so they make the movie for the lowest common denominator and it becomes a bland grey mush.
Blaming vaccines on everything from autism to, car accidents, to atheism, to drowning, to falling on ice, etc. Those people with fake tremors on social media just look like idiots.
I dunno man. I got the two shot covid vaccine. then a year or two later I got the booster. Then one of the backlights on my TV started going out. So you tell me. Is the vaccine 'safe' or did the nanobots in the vaccine screw up my TV? /S EDIT: Hah! I notice a downvote troll went through this comment section, using the power of the down arrow to express their outrage at people mocking conspiracy nutters. So WOW!, much powerful! LOL
Oh dear, I just realised my charger stopped working shortly after getting my booster shot. Must have been all those magnetic pulls going haywire.
Load More Replies...Had measles, mumps, chicken pox, and blood poisoning from a large splinter in my foot. Don't recommend any of them.
Load More Replies...I'm still mad that I didn't get magnetic or 5g wifi superpowers from the covid vaxxes.
I know, why was magnetism supposed to be a problem? are you kidding me? magnets! (well I mean except on flights and such probably but still: magnets!)
Load More Replies...I have a brother who's anti vaxxer and believes this kind if cr@p. He's got seven childern and at least 4 are autistic. Joke's on him.
The poor children, I hope they're ok.
Load More Replies...My coworker was always down for three days after getting a shot of the vaccine. I on the other hand felt nothing the first time, and only had a sore spot on my arm the second time...
some people react more. It's the same for other vaccines like flu. Part of it is how active their immune systems are. Vaccines have never really bothered me but I've read that as people get older (like me), the reaction is less than when they were younger because the immune system decreases as you age so it doesn't react as much to the same amount of vaccine.
Load More Replies...To be fair, it's quite likely that the vaccines are the result of atheism.
For me, it is incomprehensible how someone can believe in someone or something that is injected into your body, claiming it is harmless and has no consequences. Despite the overwhelming evidence that Covid vaccines are harmful, and that the companies producing them have become outrageously wealthy, none of the promised effectiveness of these vaccines has turned out to be true.
And, if the US doesn't pull it's head out of it's butt in the next two weeks, an anti-vaxxer persisting in spreading disinformation will be in the Cabinet.
Gen Z thinking that putting your life on social media is normal. It's not. It's never been normal.
My boomer grandmother posts more of her life on social media than any of my friends do, so dunno bout this one :/
It isn't that attention whoring is new. It isn't. It is that it is considered normal now.
Load More Replies...social media is not someting that have been around for a long time, people usualy post their updates in newspapers (wedding anouncemenets, Obituary, newborns...) it was their facebook, now its in their circle.... but its out of control how much personal information they share...
I always use an alias because there are an awful lot of people out there who have no qualms of resorting to violence if they feel offended or outraged by a comment. I know a dedicated nutjob could find my IP address, but that hasn't concerned me. Yet. So, no. I won't be supplying these online freaks with photos and addresses giving their vengeance easy access.
Mind you, it's probably a millennial speaking. They turned against Zs as soon as the boomers jokes were over. So tiresome.
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Tiktok. Like 95 percent is stupid human tricks.
So... don't use it?? I've never used tik tok. I've seen some tik tok videos because someone else posted a link. But I've never felt the need to install the app or make an account. Same for Twitter/X
Not using it isn't the point. TikTok accounts for 3% of global internet traffic. Of the 5.4 billion people online, 20% of them are on tiktok....and 99.9% of it is stupid human tricks, and a growing number of people watch someone become rich and internet famous for doing absolutely nothing, and proceed to try to hop on that gravy train. 57% of Genz have expressed a desire to become influencers. Not doctors, not scientists, not astronauts or teachers. Another clown clamoring for the validation of strangers.
Load More Replies...My phone (a Samsung; no idea what type; who cares) came with Tiktok already installed. It was the first to be UNinstalled! I don't need Chinese spyware thank you.
Same it was installed on my Samsung and it was the first app I uninstalled too.
Load More Replies...I will admit that I do watch Tiktok for 2 reasons. The first to get cool ideas for crafting and the second to help me fall asleep at night
Same, filters out all the useless crâp on fb videos too. I don’t wanna see a random useless, self righteous quote or self inflating sentences over the top of photos of random tiktok user s (my bf uses tiktok 😂 I peep sometimes).
Load More Replies...Tiktok is just a youtube alternative with less nazis though. My own tiktok feed is full of musicians, painters, sculptors, gardeners and wilderness landscape videos. What you search for is what it shows you, so if you're seeing garbage that's on you.
I view TikToks as a guest via links in trusted digital subscriptions articles I'm interested in. Generally, they're science, animal, or a Good News categories.
I have YouTube for DIY crafts, haunting & Cats, none of the others
Houses that are grey all over.
Don't forget Greige, which is for people who are tired of beige. It's Grey Beige!! Put your sun glasses on for that, too bright.
I have painted so many interiors this color. Sherwin Williams Perfect Greige.
Load More Replies...My home is a delightful rainbow, mostly focused on warmer colors, with most furniture being wood. I could never live in a white/grey/greige/beige home without any warmth.
My home is white walls and light colored wood to make the most of the light. Color comes from other things.
Load More Replies...People can do what they like, as long as it's not my home then I'm not bothered.
There's too much grey everywhere you go. Makes me depressed. And don't get me started on all new soulless cafes, bars and tap rooms popping up everywhere.
The previous owners of my home painted everything a medium sort of grey colour. They even painted the outlets. So annoying.
There's a trend of "new" light grey car colour. My wife and I always say, oh look that one is still in the primer.
Cars the same colour as the road, oh what a good idea....
Load More Replies...It's the trend that will not die, meaning I can't find a brown couch anywhere because all they have is gray!
Load More Replies...Homes? It's spread to just about every public space now. I go to Taco Bell and I feel like I'm back in jail.
I think McDonalds and the like are shooting themselves in the foot by removing the bright colors and eccentric decorations from their stores. What kids or teens have ever said “Hey let’s go to the office park after the game!” Kids won’t have good memories of eating tasty (but nutritionally crappy) food in a fun surrounding and won’t be lifelong customers. Even from the outside they all look like faceless shoeboxes. Not “destinations”.
Load More Replies...Around where I live the exterior colors are all muted shades of grey, green or beige. It's a little depressing.
Bring proud of being ignorant and uneducated.
"There is a cult of ignorance in the United States, and there has always been. The strain of anti-intellectualism has been a constant thread winding its way through our political and cultural life, nurtured by the false notion that democracy means that 'my ignorance is just as good as your knowledge." - Isaac Asimov, 1920-1992 (posted for the second time in this article)
Third time I've seen it in this article, but I'm upvoting it again.
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People filming themselves in public doing strange dances.
Haven't seen much of this one but it doesn't bother me as long as they are not blocking / harming other people. I hate it when people try to prank or otherwise make strangers the butt of their jokes, but seeing a couple/few people do some silly dance as I walked by would probably just make me smile.
Yeah! As long as they are not disturbing anyone, it makes me smile to see people dancing because I personally have two left feet :D
Load More Replies...Doing anything in public and filming it. Just this morning I read an article where a foreign tourist in japan did pull ups on one of these red gates on temple grounds. Holy Sh*t, the audacity.
Makes me cringe ... recently saw a mother filming a teenage daugher, sitting in a restaurant and doing those weird hand-under-the-chin poses, looking longingly at the food while lip-syncing some kind of song ... my kids were talking throughout and you could see the lady getting annoyed because we were ruining the take, apparently. At least they turned the music down and didn't interrupt us. But I had to cringe ... "fremdschämen"
Compared to other kind of short videos, these dance challenges are fun, harmless, and encourage to move and learn. I don't mind them at all, might even watch some.
Agreed, but many do it in public places full of people just going with their lives, jus to film people's reaction. I've been captured on 'quirky' live streams of people doing silly stuff, it's annoying to be recorded while just doing errands minding your own business.
Load More Replies...Well we used to post video of ourselves pouring a bucket of ice on our head . . . .
Young men driving around with "I EAT A*S" in huge letters on the back of their trucks. I mean, I'm not kink-shaming, but that seems like a really strange flex.
Nobody needs/wants to know in public what you like in the bedroom. Are we gonna see "I settle for missionary." stickers next?
Rather an eat-a*s-sticker than something telling that true men don't wear seatbelts or something like that.
Some news parody show, probably The Daily Show, interviewed one of these, ah people (best I can do, I'm at a loss), which was pointed out to him by the comedian, and you'll never guess, but he's a Trump supporter.
I've seen it at quite a few French markets, alongside the goat and wild boar. Not my personal favourite sausage, but each to their own.
Load More Replies...I'm more concerned at how these things block the rear window. I want to know what stupid antics the people who might rear-end me are up to.
In some states it's illegal to block more than a few square inches of a rear window..
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Saying the quiet part out loud.
Maybe I was just blissfully unaware, but it seems like most bigots of all types used to keep their hate internal or anonymous. Or at least, after the late 70s early 80s. But now days, even politicians will take to the "big stage" and spout off their hate as if it was perfectly normal.
I don't hate this one so much. I don't want to hear people preach hate, but I do appreciate when they at least tell us out loud they are a racist / homophobe / misogynist / whatever. It makes it easier to know who to avoid.
Problem is ever since Trump came along this has really emboldened the hate mongers and is causing serious problems. LGBTQ+, disabled peoples, women, and minorities are all experiencing a major cultural backlash and backsliding because of this.
Load More Replies...This is a trend of the last 10 years IMHO: people trying to be as much of a c**t as possible. Making fun of parents of children who died, mocking rape victims, competing to say / write the most racist / sexist / ableist s**t - the more brutal and inhuman, the better. It's like a fad or a hysteria.
At least as it pertains to media, I feel like a lot of it is fueled by a desire to stand out and get clicks. A lot of people like the mental equivalent of seeing a train wreck. So folks who make their living (or ego) from views keep getting more and more "outrageous" to get the attention. This is true even in professional TV with even mundane shows adding artificial drama to 'spice things up' because that somehow makes the show more interesting. I used to be able to watch home improvement shows that just literally showed how to do the job/repair/remodel. Now they spend a third of the show arguing over who stole the others tools or 'us/them' conflicts and so on. Basically "regular" shows became reality shows and realty shows became even more 'sensational'. People need to stop rewarding a-holes with attention.
Load More Replies...I'm from the North where -isms were educated out. Just watch your back. Closeted bigots can be insidiously nasty. Southern bigots let you know off the bat, giving you the choice to stay or leave.
Yeah, I have a some opinions that people probably wouldn´t like, but I know how to keep them to myself and be civil with people.
To fit into society, one must have balance between speaking their mind and when to tamper it down. Those who always tall it like it is are a problem. You're not shaking up the status quo for the right reasons.
Those Giant Tarantula Eyelashes!
I thought I killed a spider, but it turned out to be one of my granddaughter's fake eye lashes.
Oh, this made me think about Marjorie Taylor-Greene's eyelash cheap shot at Rep. Crockett and Crockett's off the cuff retort has me giving her respect. And Rep. Raskin's reaction was perfect.
Remembering how people overplucked the c**p out of their eyebrows throughout the 90s-2000s and now have none and how that has carried over into the fake eyelashes trend. Two of my sisters had various eyelash ladies that they went to once or twice a month. We have long luxurious eyelashes in my family, but now they can't grow any even after stopping for a year. F**k around and find out I guess
Plucking your eyebrows has no effect on your eyelashes 🤷🏻♀️
Load More Replies...I have enough trouble with my own eyelashes occasionally poking me in my eyes during high winds!!! 😄
Glamorizing mental health issues.
It's good that mental health issues are talked about. That gives some normality to people suffering from them, and might give information and push for getting help. The downsides are very annoying though. Like people self-diagnosing themselves and people demanding attention because of their mental health issues (who may or may not be the same people). But as a person with depression, social anxiety and panic disorder, I think the positives outdo the negatives.
I wouldn't call it glamorizing so much as using it to achieve some sort of sad social status. "oh look how immaculate my house is, thanks OCD!" or using it as some sort of excuse or justification for terrible behavior, and whatever the flavor of faux pas happens to be, it's sold as "normalizing so as to take away the stigma"
Or using social media echo chambers to wallw in your self-pity over having a mental illness instead of sharing what's worked for you and then using and legitimately trying to take steps to manage it.
Load More Replies...I agree, on a personal level absolutely no-one understood how various mental health issues wrecked havoc on my day-to-day life. "Just get over yourself or there is nothing wrong with you it's all in your" was Always said by family, friends and my Boss as well coworkers. Now that Mental health is proven to be accurate and there is so much information out there all of a sudden Every f@#%&£! Person has some Mental health issue as it's the New In Thing or Latest Trend! I'M just venting about my own experience.
Is this a thing? Like 'Look at me, I am so into depression, I am fragile as a butterfly!' Who would say that?
I am going to play Devil's Advocate here. A lot of people have glamourised mental illness. By stating they are OCD, being "gaslit", being ADHD and the like, when thy are in fact, not. It detracts from and trivializes those who are geniunely affected by mental health issues and other. processing difficulties.
Load More Replies...I absolutely cannot stand this. There is absolutely nothing "glamorous" about any form of mental health issue. They can be absolutely terrifying and can take over complete control of your life. You are not going to be Angelina Jolie in "Girl, Interrupted". Going through PTSD, acute anxiety, depression, et al? Having to take Propanalol to help get your heart rate down because you're starting with a severe panic attack? Can't breathe, hyperventilating? Oh yeah. So much bloody fun. Especially if it happens when you're out in public and you are far away from a place you feel safe, as in there's not a toilet bathroom nearby where you can go and close the toilet stall door, do your breathing exercises, take the two Propanalol you've got in your purse that you always carry and try and reassure yourself that's it's okay... It's a panic attack. Concentrate on your breathing and you're okay, fine, safe... You can do this. You can get home, back to your safety place...
I don't like it when people use mental health as an excuse for bad behavior/attitude or to shirk responsibility, otherwise, I'm ecstatic mental illness is becoming a household topic.
When you have a mental health issue, it's not glamorous. Are these people actually ill?
It's funny how i diagnosed myself and kept telling myself my mental illnesses can't be this because of course i am not a doctor... 3 months later the doctors confirmed my diagnosis (I asked about adhd next and had to convince them since i diagnosed myself correctly before why not test me for this too? -yap have it and apparently untreated adhd can lead to depression)
People posting really personal information publicly. I.e. “my dad just died and I’m so sad here’s a 20 second video of me crying”.
What i find even weirder is people posting things like "Dear dad, it's been 5 years since you passed...". It's attention/symapthy-seeking behaviour disguised as some sort of letter to a deceased family member. If you believe your dad (or whoever else) is enjoying some sort of afterlife, what makes you think they're reading your dumb shît on Facebook? If you believe their immortal soul is now basking in the glory of their omnipotent creator (or whatever other version of the afterlife you subscribe to), do you also believe they have Facebook over there?
I know a guy who does that with every single person and pet in his life that has ever passed away. He has some mental health problems and an extreme need for sympathy and attention that even lead him to fake cancer for a while. Almost every week he posts a long teary letter about the anniversary of the death of the hamster he had when he was 5, or his uncle who died 25 years ago. I have a lot of sympathy for him and his issues but it’s really REALLY hard to be around him or have a conversation with him without it becoming a long sob-story about his friend’s brother’s teacher’s wife’s cat dying and really “affecting him personally because he had a cat that died once.”
Load More Replies...And they still stage the video to look as perfect as possible. I think there was once a pic here on BP with a dude with oiled up pecs sitting on the side of the bathtub, clearly naked with a towel covering his crotch. He was covering his face with one hand and the caption read : " Crying for my dead Grandma." or something.
Pathetic, his grandma was probably sitting in the next room enjoying a cuppa at the time.
Load More Replies...I don't immediately talk to anyone really, apart from two very trusted friends, if something really bad has happened. When I was in hospital with Covid and Spinal Bruising? I obviously didn't post or reply, anything at all. I was dealing with a lot of things at the time. I remember when I was first talking about it though? I mentioned it in a public reply on a different FB group. A girl didn't believe me because "There's no photos, posts, nothing on your profile page about it so you're lying!"... Erm... Okay, first of all? I was severely ill. Once I started getting a tiny bit better, knew I wasn't going to die and all that? I was focused on my life and recovery. I knew I had a long journey ahead. There are photos and videos of that time that exist but they're locked away in my phone and elsewhere. Because no one at all needs to see that sh*t except for my doctors and specialists.
No event in my life has been posted on Facebook AFAIK. Nevertheless, the events did take place.
Load More Replies...Not my bottle of whisky either, but sometimes we just have to share our emotions. Nobody is forced to watch it and nobody gets harmed.
Thank you for spelling 'whisky' correctly. And for using that metaphor at all.
Load More Replies...Guilty. I share TMI about personal things on sites like this one all the time. Working on it.
If it helps to get things off your chest anonymously, go for it 😊 It's healthy and you're not asking for money. It's when people deliberately manipulate their emotions to manipulate others into feeding their online habit.
Load More Replies...Well private TV found this to be super successful, the Big Brothers etc. BS type of format.
I've mentioned it before, but I simply can't express the feeling of knowing my personal life was before the internet. Life has enough opportunity to bite me in the butt, and that's not one of them.
People basing their entire personality on who they voted for. 🙄.
Let's be real, only one side does this. At least I've never seen a Harris voter with a Harris hat, Harris shirt, myriads of Harris car stickers Harris flags, Harris bible that costs ungodly money...
I've never seen more than a sign or bumper sticker for anyone who isn't Donald Trump
Load More Replies...People basing their entire personality on only one thing in general. Could be their political candidate, what car they drive, what country they think they have a connection to because their great-, great,- great-grandparents came from there some 150-200 years ago...
...where they went to school, the fact that they are (ex-)military, their favorite football team...
Load More Replies...People who base their entire personality on anything such as but not limited to religion, sexual orientation, freaking Harry Potter! Ect...
The sheer amount of comments until now that go about Trump, Harris or one of the political parties. It's so crazy.
just be glad you don't live in Pennsylvania...if you come here (or to any of the swing states), you might not want to drive.
Load More Replies...My t shirt would say "I voted for them because they aren't the other lot"
My dear friend of many years was a Yellow Dog Democrat. But his life was filled by so many other things to do and enjoy. Probably due to his multi-faceted personality.
Yes, that's bad....but at least it informs on how the person views the world and the beliefs they hold, i'd take that any day over the growing number of people who base their entire personality around their race/gender/sexual orientation. Not to mention the ones who start every statement/opinion/conversation with "well....as a mother"
People “unboxing” stuff online and women tapping things with their nails in videos.
I like unboxing videos if it is a product I am interested in. You see exactly what you get, what they found they needed to go with it, and any problems they had setting it up. Mainly I'm talking about computer / electronics stuff there.
Same for board games. Nice to see what's supposed to be in the box.
Load More Replies...Ok it’s ASMR, it’s relaxing and good for anxiety, and anyone can do it, not just women.
I have anxiety and the tapping and ASMR really gives me more anxiety!!
Load More Replies...As long as that "unboxing" also involves actually testing and showcasing the products then it´s Okay.
No, for some reason they think it sounds good when they tap their new purchase they've unboxed - with all their fingernails going across the front. When they put something together, more clicking! This clips drive me insane. I have to quickly go to the next.
Load More Replies...Don't understand the appeal of unboxing videos, but there's far worse out there
Let's add a sub-complaint: cheap microphones that are styled to look like Neumanns.
The commoditization of every iota of human experience.
justpackingheat1: Oh, you enjoy piecing together puzzles? Why not sell your completed puzzle on eBay, share your best puzzle tips on an ad-covered blog, create an online seminar for helping others learn more about the joys of puzzles, or shove that puzzle up your a*s and sell the photos on OF?
YouTube recently offered me a video in the "Recommended" section about drawing...by someone who clearly never got beyond the basic stage of drawing. Think the "before" images of the "Drawing with the Right Side of your Brain" books. My child, if you want to teach me something, you should be better than me at said thing. Or at least better than any beginner.
what´s so bad about this? If there actually is a market for it and you could use some extra cash, why not sell your finished puzzle? Or find a community of like minded people?
Nothing’s wrong with finding a hobby you enjoy and making a living out of it, if you enjoy it. The point of this post is that people are pushed to do it for everything. My friend likes kayaking so she was pushed into giving lessons, hated it. Another friend is a hugely popular artist but ever since she started taking commissions, she’s miserable. I love Lego so much that my friend said I should start a blog. Hell noooo.
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Kids filming themselves in a grocery store, opening and licking ice cream, then putting it back in the freezer to be purchased.
Sometimes. I seem to recall reading about some girl / lady who got arrested for it. It's the same for any crime though - this, shoplifting, graffiti etc. Many are not caught in the moment. Though I do think posting your crimes on social media does increase your chances.
Load More Replies...Don't do this, but if you do by all means film it and upload it to your YouTube so they can find you.
They're cracking down on this. Not a lot of people remember the great Tylenol tampering/poisoning from the 80s but that's when they started making every product sealed in multiple ways. There were also stringent anti-tampering laws passed that are being invoked to prosecute them for doing this
General all people doing s**t in grocery stores. I saw one video where a dude took a big bottle of coke and threw it high in the air before running like a d*ck. Obviously the bottle burst and sprayed soda everywhere.
The broccoli haircut on every teenage boy.
Each decade has a new "haircut of shame" that will be looked back on with horror and regret.
Just a few years ago there was the haircut where guys pushed their hair up into the middle like a rooster. Not a full on Mohawk, just weird.
Load More Replies...Um, I have really curly hair and there aren't many options that look good.
Gen X here: Our parents hated our hairstyles too. Leave Generation Chia Pet alone.
Every generation has its style. Just wait for it to fade and the next one to start. Suffer in silence ;)
And every older generation has to criticize the younger one. It's almost like some people just can't wait to get old to put down the next generation WHEN THEY RAISED THEM. I stopped eating lunch with friends my age because it was all whining about the next generation. Especially when it's the generation that lived by "DON'T TRUST ANYONE OVER 30"
Load More Replies...NFTs have got to be the top.
NFTs are digital bridges. I have a bridge in Brooklyn for sale, slightly used.
My grandma once mentioned she'd like to get a bridge for Christmas... so I may call you at some point ;)
Load More Replies...Constantly using "disinformation" and "misinformation". Call it what it is: a lie.
Yeah...disinformation is an intentional lie. Misinformation is the broadcasting of ignorance without ill intent....ya know, because they're misinformed. Dr.Oz, spreads disinformation. When your $hitty relative repeats what Dr.Oz said as if it's factual, that's misinformation. Yes, technically the dictionary says that misinformation can be either intentional or unintentional spread of untrue information....but it also defines the word "literally" as both a literal manner, or sense; exactly" and "for emphasis despite being untrue"
One of the strangest trends to come out of the past 10 years is the Tide Pod Challenge. This was a viral internet challenge that involved people eating or biting into laundry detergent pods, which are highly toxic and dangerous. The challenge started as a joke, but some people took it seriously and ended up in the hospital or even died.
This unfortunately still goes on with today's dangerous trends.
At least when they've died, their stomach has that fresh daisy in a field smell and all the stains have been lifted out, now with added Febreeze
I like it. It's great material to discuss with your kid. What to do if his bros try to get him to do that.
Karens who counter being filmed in public by pulling out their phone to record them like it’s an uno reverse card.
Buying butt-ugly sneakers for s**tloads of money.
Buying any sort of sneakers but shitloads of money. My current sneakers (Hokkas) cost over $100 but the reason I wear them is my aging feet/body / minimize back aches. And of course even though that is kind of expensive to me, I know that is cheap compared to some of those overpriced show sneakers.
Women (usually) recording themselves just looking at the camera - moving it around, making kissy faces or pursing their lips - usually accompanied by some inspirational sounding quote or "advice".
It is the epitome of narcissism.
It's not just women, there are plenty of videos of men posing, making "flirty" faces etc.
Mukbang, f*****g gross.
Videos where people eat a sh*t- ton of food? Ever heard nikocado avocado or something?
Load More Replies...It didn't start out the way it is now... I like how it started, I don't like what it has evolved into.
The monetizing of social media. I understand why it happened but honestly, it's just created a bunch of influencers who live (and document) a life most people will never have.
I don't follow any people who use their pets for this (but they show up on my feed). I find it pretty creepy as their animals age that they suddenly get a much younger 'brother or sister'. Can't let that income stream go, so need to have a replacement ready to go.
" life most people will never have." - And, in many cases, would never want to have.
And, very often, a life the influencers themselves don't have
Load More Replies...I think it is not uncommon for animal lovers in general to get a new younger pet "sibling" when their current pet starts aging. This allows for the younger pet to learn good behaviors and etiquette (pet-iquette?) from the more mature pet. It also often brings out some extra youthfulness in the aging pet.
The fact that you have a "feed" of things that you presumably click on makes you very much a part of the problem, regardless of whether you "follow" anyone. It's your viewing of them that feeds the advertising machine that generates the revenue.
And either OP is incredibly lucky to always get the video where the "younger pet sibling" arrives, or they actually DO watch a lot of them.
Load More Replies...But..... variety means people can watch what they like.??? I don't like influencers and don't watch them. So if they depended on people like me they wouldn't exist and they certainly wouldn't "influence". But they get the monetizing from viewers who want to watch that. Even before internet... I personally hate soap operas. But they have existed for many decades because some people love them so advertisers buy ads. TDLR: You might not like youtube or netflix if you could only watch the things I like.
Soaps, and traditional entertainment mediums, have a bar to entry. Talent, looks, training, effort that involves social interaction and cooperation...and because there's a bar to entry, and a low chance of success, few people go that route. Social media doesn't have any of those bars to entry. You need to make a free account and have a phone with a camera. Youtube has 110 million "creators" only 28 million of 100 subscribers or more, 10 million have 1000 or more (the bar for monetization), Less than 60,000 are at the 1 million sub mark, and just over 2100 have 10 million subs...and those giants of youtube, started out just like every other nobody..."so it could happen to anyone!" Except most of those big names started out 10 or 15 years ago in a much less crowded landscape, and helped build the industry. No one looks at that, instead they film the minutia of their lives, desperately doing anything to get attention with the hopes of being able to shill garbage for some deep pockets.
Load More Replies...The deification of political figures. Reading thru history people always liked and supported their choice of president but the new trend of worshipping every word they say seems so crazy to me.
Not a new trend, but it seems there was a blessed time when political figures were perhaps put on a pedestal (Hello, JFK!) but not seen as Jeebus himself.
Them huge dark eyebrows, scary.
Easily this NPC thing from Tiktok where people pay to see somebody do something like fake lick ice cream and say "mmm how tasty" like an anime character 50 times in a row.
Young suburban white moms trying too hard to be “cool” and hip on the internet. Doing staged videos of them dancing or rapping along to a rap song, usually with their poor child in it, calling themselves “bad b***h moms”, etc. Honestly just people taking themselves way too serious in general, so many people try so f*****g hard to be “cool” online with their overly dramatic photo shoots and s**t. Everyone’s a celebrity in their own mind and everyone’s also apparently a comedian now, even though they’re just repeating what everyone else is doing.
I guess the word I’m looking for is.. narcissistic behavior. Oh, and the word narcissist is now a trend, usually being said by the people in the above paragraph lmao.
People being on video calls while at the grocery store or retail in general.
I will do this occasionally when my wife asks me to pick up something and I can't read the labels, but once I have my information, I go back to the standard call.
Had to do this the first time my wife asked me to buy her sanitary products. The boxes are practically identical with very minor easy to miss the differences
As a woman, I'd give this a pass. My SOP is to take a picture of the empty box and send it to their phone as reference but I do understand how confusing it can be and how often companies change up their packaging. BTW seeing a completely befuddled man in the sanitary supplies aisle comparing products to a picture makes most women think you're 10/10!!
Load More Replies...A couple of times a week I go shopping for elderly people. Having them on a video call to show them options is incredibly helpful to both them and me.
Our grandparents didn't talk about their problems enough while my generation and younger seem to talk about our problems wayyy too much, even to the point of exaggerating our problems for attention.
I'm paraphrasing Bill Burr's character from Old Dads but I think there's some wisdom to that line.
But what did you expect? That we, after doing not enough, suddenly find the exact correct amount? Especially, as everyone will have a different opinion what that perfect amount is? This is something that gets me again and again: we did something wrong, sometimes for thousands of years, and people are now complaining that we need time to learn how to do it right. What, you all learned to swim or to ride a bike in 3 seconds?
Gender reveal b******t… sorry but it’s so goddam pretentious given we talk about so many genders but our reveals are just 2. Seriously no one see a problem with putting this sort of c**p on a pedestal like this?
Hmm... sounds more like the parties I'd attend as a gay-in-denial
Load More Replies...I can't help but see those "gender reveals" as one last desperate attempt of conservative parents to reinforce the cis-normative society and celebrate their "only two immutable genders" dogma.
I mean, if it´s a simple backyard affair in their own home I don´t really care. It´s when they are doing in public, with over the top effects where it gets ridiculous.
Yeah, the main issue with gender reveal parties is the gender part ... come on!
Changing your avatar or status message to support the "current thing" when you literally do not give a s**t about any of it but definitely care about signaling to your group of social media pals that you support the current thing and are cool/righteous for doing so.
It's one of the worst things to happen in the past 10 years and it needs to die a very quick death. No one cares about this, or that, or those, or you, or me, etc. Just stop supporting "the current thing" and STFU. Worry about your own personal life and the things you have control over. Which is a very small and limited set of things, in reality, because almost none of us have the finances, time, and/or power to change anything. You WON'T make a difference. You do NOT matter in the grand scheme of things. Stick to your small social group. Avoid the trends like the plague.
Here is an example: the environment
If you care about the environment, participate in your local city council, write your congressman on issues that come up, plant a garden, etc. Changing your status or avatar will do jack s**t for the environment. In fact, using social media consumes energy which contributes to green house gas emissions and other forms of pollution. So you're just making things worse by pretending to be righteous on social media. Get off social media and actually do something local to make a difference. And if you don't have time for any of that, how about shutting up on social media until you can do something about it, locally, first?
This has become a very serious problem. Many people actually believe that just changing a profile picture or wearing pink in October is helping solve issues. Just like people commenting "in our thoughts and prayers" whenever there's a natural disaster. Social media has given people the illusion of doing something, when doing nothing at all.
Signals and symbols ARE important. Hence people waving (owning!) flags. Unfortunately, it seems that e.g. changing one's avatar seems for many to give them the feeling of having done something, so they don't feel the need to, say, donate money. The way OP puts it just comes across as bitter. As for "you won't make a difference" - the poor darling OP should perhaps look into history books a bit more.
I'm not sure but I think it started with the Charlie Hebdo murders ... when everyone had some kind of "I am Charlie" message going.
Paying real money for virtual cosmetics in games.
For me, this depends on the game. Sometimes i am really loving the game and want to throw some more money to the devs, so I'll buy random DLC, even if it's just cosmetic.
Is it me, or does her chair look like Darth Vader? I know, I know, but pareidolia is strong with me /j
Selling out is the coolest thing, now. monetize every part of yourself, your thoughts, body, opinions, etc.
The sheer amount of YouTubers and artists who have become comfortable taking sponsorships and doing ad reads for irrelevant things is really baffling to me. Isn’t it embarrassing? You would have to pay me SO fúcking much.
Somehow it has become normal to believe the federal government, big capitalistic monopolies, big tech, the media and big pharmaceutical companies actually care about you instead of your money and power.
“Hey look, Apple is flying a rainbow flag and posted a tweet supporting BLM. They must be such a morally good company!”.
You have to be pretty darn naive to think any business puts morals above profits. Businesses exist to make money for their owners, and if you fall for the whole "rainbow flag profile pic means we care" thing, then you're only proving them right (not referring to OP in particular here)
So, if they don't care about people, why are other people still promoting or hating on certain candidates or parties? Let it go, people. They will take you no where.
Being a s****y person to whoever you're "dating" or "seeing" or whatever word you prefer to use for being in a romantic relationship but are too scared to say that.
This isn't even bitterness although it kind of reads that way. If you haven't tried dating much in the past decade or so, this is actually a thing. You can't be too interested, too respectful, too nice, too generous, too anything positive or else you get labeled as desperate, weird, clingy, soft, etc.
It's both toxic masculinity AND toxic femininity. If you're one or the other, you are the problem in the relationship. Not the poor soul your harassing.
Asking random people on social media for advice.
I read quit a bit on reddit, and some of these questions are just weird. Once somebody asked at what age they should bring their cat in to get spayed/neutered, I answered " Why don´t you ask your Vet? They should know better then strangers on the internet." I am too lazy to look for that post, but I remember some people where not too happy about my comment.
I do like lurking around Reddit for skincare tips, dupes for expensive products, etc.
The number of people that asked what the estimated time of landfall for hurricane Milton was in the chat of a livestream on the topic surprised me. Like, you're already online, maybe check the official websites instead of asking strangers in a livestream chatbox.
This is probably going to be buried because I am replying late, but the random clown sightings of 2016 was truly bizarre
It was a fad. I was never sure if it had roots in the ICP / "Juggalos" crowd or not. But I'm guessing the folks doing it got tired of it. Sometimes they maybe got a funny reaction from someone but I'm guessing on the whole each outing veered one of two ways. 1. People ignored us, it's cold and dark out here, let's go home and do something fun. or 2. People didn't ignore us and now I'm having to try to convince a cop that I'm not a crazy stalker and don't need to be arrested or taken to ER.
Oh, I laughed so hard at these. My neighbor's kiddo, though, was eight and wouldn't come out of the house unless a trusted grown-up was with him. Just in case.
For some reason a lot millennials started smoking cigarettes lately. What’s that about?
Anxiety. This is why they loaded up soldiers with cigarettes during wars. As a former pack a day smoker I really think a huge percentage of smokers actually have an anxiety disorder. Once I stopped I finally realized all the times I was niccing out I was actually having an anxiety spike.
The daddy kink going mainstream.
I'm an older man, Please don't ever call me "daddy". That is a complete turn off.
The what now? Are we talking about middle aged men being (rightfully) called handsome, or is there something more sinister going on? Honest question.
It's women calling men, who aren't their fathers, "daddy" in a sexual way
Load More Replies... The excess of wokness.
It was supposed to be about raising awareness and being conscious about the injustice around us. But like everything else it got hijacked and turned into a culture war that taught a generation to become entitled and over sensitive while stripping away their critical thinking skills.
Oh no, of course, only OP has critical thinking skills! Not that others would have them, too, and it's normal for Humans to disagree, no! Only the unwoke (asleep?) ppl can think properly. Yeah, that kinda tells on itself. If you have to claim that the other 'side' cannot think at all, then you actually *don't* have critical thinking skills. Or you would realise, how statistically impossible that is.
Exactly what "they" wanted to happen. Contingency plan in case anyone "woke up"
Hospital bed selfies.
There is nothing wrong with this. They are not for you. Most people who end up in the hospital have people who care they are there and are worried. So when I see a photo in a hospital bed it is usually the person letting their friends know they made it through the operation (or whatever) okay. Plus, hospital stays are boring. I'm guessing most folks sooner or later end up thinking, man I'm bored, well, I could send a picture to my friends.. I might have done except the few times I've been hospitalized were before cell phones existed.
Perhaps the post refers to people who share such selfies on social media.
Load More Replies...In the USA, it's a money flex. 24 hrs in a hospital bed can cost more than a new Mercedes. (Sad, sad joke.)
Somebody better report me. I've taken one after every procedure/surgery I've had. I only share them with a handful of people; usually friends who can't be there and require proof I lived.
Rainbow food. Cake I understand. It’s the pizza, bagels and grilled cheese.
I suspect that's the marketing. A business makes (thing). Then some special day / week / month rolls around and they try to figure out how to make their (thing) fit into what everyone is doing. The rainbow stuff is more recent but another is 'green' stuff for St Patrick's day. Green beer, green bread, green cakes an so on.
Boomers used to b***h about how rude young people were using their phones in public. Now they all have cellphones, keep the ringer at the highest volume possible and stare at it for 30 seconds as it’s ringing loud enough to wake the dead before they answer it.
Whinging about "boomers" (or any other generation of your choice) as if these habits you dislike so much were unique to them.
I swear, the irritating c. 2017-2020 boomer bashing was so hateful and irritating, it probably spiked my risk of blood pressure issues. I am relieved that I can now look at a screen without witnessing bigoted screeching about that generation. Which generation you are is when in the past 100 years you were born, nothing else.
Load More Replies...I plead guilty. Boomers are often à bit hearing-impaired, you know, and if I don't have my ringer at top volume, in à noisy environment I won't even notice my phone is ringing
... usually with some kind of comment like "oh no, what does HE want NOW?" or "jeez these things are so annoying". Yes. They are. Hit the volume button to mute while you ponder whether to take this call or not.
you twerps complain about older generations while standing in the middle of walkways wearing huge backpacks staring at your phones blankly and not moving to let others go by. I never see a "Boomer" or an "Xer" (I know we are all boomers to you) do this. But the self-centered Millennials and Zoomers do it all the time, this post girls and boys is what we call projection
Believing that dogs are Nanny Dogs. Especially dangerous Pitbulls and Bully XLs.
Also referring to dogs as sons, or daughters. Bit weird and cringe to be honest.
They're pets.
Yes. Also acceptable is fur babies, floofs, or if you have a fat cat whose only modes of operation are stealing food and demanding belly rubs "piggle puff"
Load More Replies...Um, as a put bull owner, I can call BS on this. Pit Bull's have another name throughout history "nurse" or "nanny" dogs for a reason. They are gentile and sweet and actually do an excellent job herding children to stay close. They're extremely intelligent and compassionate. They only aim to please, so, as such, if you are kind, they will be kind, if you're mean, they will be mean. Actually, statistics show that the most dangerous breed are Labs. This poster seems like someone who shouldn't have a 'pet,' the post is heartless and "cringe."
There are a great many more Labs in the US pet population so the numbers scale. Also, any dog can bite if provoked, and I think Labs are not seen as dangerous so people allow bad behavior towards them that may then result in a dog bite. Not trying to Pittie-shame here but I read about deadly Pit attacks and honestly have never heard of a deadly dog attack that wasn’t a Pit except for one by two Presa Canarios in 2001 in SF.
Load More Replies...My sons would disagree with you. Right after ones puke up a hairball in my shoe and the other sheds 17 pounds of fur all over my current crochet project.
Please stop blaming dog breeds and start blaming owners. It used to be rottweilers and german shepherds with the bad reputation, now it's pitbulls and bullies. They're big dogs with a very powerful bite so if they do attack, they will do a lot of damage. But unfortunately, it is usually down to the owners deliberately training them to be aggressive, or not being able to handle them and keeping them permanently locked up. There's also a lack of education when it comes to how people interact with dogs. Some dogs don't like a lot of physical contact, especially from strangers and most people are not aware, so they just go up and expect to pet any dog coz that's what happens in Disney movies... Of course some dogs are aggressive just because they are - different dogs have different personalities, just like humans. But don't label an entire breed as "bad" coz it's usually the humans that are to blame
It's also still rottweilers and german shepherds. I don't condone dogs being put down because of bad owners, but dogs will be dogs and no amount of training can 100% prevent them from ever biting. Innate aggression, prey-orientation or other potential trains come with a breed. This doesn't mean every pitbull or shepherd is inherently dangeours, but there's a different fundament for a dog's character than, say, a labradoodle. Anything with teeth can bite, some just a little easier than others.
Load More Replies...The Nanny dog for Pitties goes back to the early 20th century. They were called that because when raised properly they bond really well with children. They become protective of their young ones. My father told me this. He would have been over 100 this year.
Some people may disagree, but I believe that part about thinking of pets as children is influencing people who feel like their animals can't be left alone, and must accompany their owners at all times. (See multiple posts here and on similar sites about people who insist on bringing their pets to places where they don't belong, like weddings.)
I don't leave my pets alone unless I absolutely have to but rather than take them to inappropriate places, I just choose not to go to those places at all unless I have to. If my dogs can't go then I'm not going.
Load More Replies...A few weeks ago my daughter got sick and I woke up to find her dead on the bathroom floor. She was already stiff and there was nothing I could do so I buried her in a shallow grave in my woods just past the pond. =-=- Now see? That makes a way better Halloween story than if I just said "my cat" instead of daughter. :)
Pitbulls are very good with kids. They have a very high tolerance for pain and form strong bonds with their family. So a kid accidentally falling on the dog or a baby grabbing a tail or ear in a moment of lapse isn't going to gother the pitbull. It's asswipes mistreating their dogs and using them to intimidate people that give these and other dog breeds a bad name. The problem isn't the dog but the people who shouldn't own one.
Drag queen story time for kids. Nothing wrong with drag queens, just surprised how popular this has become for both drag queens and kids.
It's proving a point that it is HARMLESS, unlike what the MAGA's want you to believe.
And instead of thinking about WHY that may be - perhaps the drag queens love an audience without some c**t shouting s**t, perhaps the kids love the "make believe" (honestly, I can't speak for either group, just speculating here), you feel the need to criticise it.
I 100% agree with you!! What if the drag queens dress up like Disney Princesses? Would it then be alright? How about the fact that back in the day ALL theatrical performances were portrayed by men?
Load More Replies...I'm a librarian. I would f*****g ADORE a drag queen storytime for kids. I don't even have kids. I'd be the weird lurker on the fringes.
Ridiculous comment. Most people just want to have control over the content their children are exposed to.
Load More Replies...Lots of duplicates and overlaps here, but basically two themes seem to dominate, videos designed to make money and videos designed to promote lies. The real question is not why people make such videos or spread shut nonsense, but why people watch it. I don't, do you?
Not exactly a "trend," but I am horrified Roe vs Wade (supporting women's constitutional right to have an abortion) was overturned in the US.
What about the trend of writing painfully dull articles with lists.... I'm looking at you BP. We don't read them, stop making your contributors write them! They must be even more painful to write than they are to read.
Tbh, I see 2 major trends here: "OMG, someone does something I personally dislike" and "OMG, there's this new thing society tries out, and we're not immediately perfect at it".
Same. Lots of people misunderstanding some concepts, and even more simply going for "I don't understand, so I don't like it, and therefore it's stupid" 🤷♀️
Load More Replies...Supreme. How did teenage dudes buying everything Supreme not make it on to the list. I worked with a guy who would buy everything and call it an investment because it would only go up in value. Oh honey, I lived through Beenie Babies and more. That t-shirt is going to the Sally Anne in 20 years
1989 baby here! funny enough me and my husband r being beanie babies for halloween. i dont mean those stupid plush one out today i mean the ones from the 90s. i want the stuff from the 90s to come back like it was back then. like wtf happened to my littlest pet shop its all wide eyed and chibi now. our childhood was epic! wats so special bout supreme and these stupid trendy stuff. only trend i ever jumped on was pumpkin spice. thing is tho ive always loved pumpkin pie so my curiousity was peaked. sure beanie babies and pokemon were trends but they werent the only things. we had so many options to choose from and it was still considered cool. these days if ur not following a specific trend ur not cool.
Load More Replies...Believing one US political party is virtuous and actually cares about the people while the other one is the root of all our problems is about as naive as it gets. They're just two sides of the same coin and both will throw you under the bus for any reason at any time.
I see a lot of that here. They are both out for power and care nothing about people
Load More Replies...Willful ignorance. It's one thing to believe something false, or not try to verify a claim before spreading it. I've made that mistake before, and been wrong before (specifically, regarding if most mainstream media owners donated to Trump; turns out not). However, there is no excuse for, upon being presented with well-documented evidence enough to change any reasonable person's mind, not only not changing your mind and realizing you were wrong, continuing to spread the debunked idea, and *still claiming ignorance* when asked. Honestly, even basic research fails on things you regularly post about and claim to have researched (eg anti-vaxxers who claim to have done the research) with abundant information easily available online, should also fall into this category.
one that wasnt listed is companies, tv shows, movies etc forcing movements into their business. perfect example is currently disney. y do we need to change the race of iconic disney characters in their live action remakes? y do companies need a trans or lqbtq spokesperson? y is it ok for men to b on a womans team in professional sports just cuz they identify as such? i have nothing against race or the lgbtq community. ive got friends of all races and friends and family from the lgbtq community. i just wanna kno y its being shoved in our faces everywhere we look. ppl need to stop getting their feelings hurt wen their group isnt shown or part of something. alot of ppl r getting fed up with this dei bs. my friend took her 3 year old daughter to disney and one of the disney princesses asked her 3 year old daughter if she was a prince or princess. she freakin 3 years old and u think shes questioning her gender? like come on. my friend left the moment that happened. she took her daughter to universal instead. had no issues there. she has no issues with the community she just doesnt want her 3 year old daughter having that shoved in her face.
Lots of duplicates and overlaps here, but basically two themes seem to dominate, videos designed to make money and videos designed to promote lies. The real question is not why people make such videos or spread shut nonsense, but why people watch it. I don't, do you?
Not exactly a "trend," but I am horrified Roe vs Wade (supporting women's constitutional right to have an abortion) was overturned in the US.
What about the trend of writing painfully dull articles with lists.... I'm looking at you BP. We don't read them, stop making your contributors write them! They must be even more painful to write than they are to read.
Tbh, I see 2 major trends here: "OMG, someone does something I personally dislike" and "OMG, there's this new thing society tries out, and we're not immediately perfect at it".
Same. Lots of people misunderstanding some concepts, and even more simply going for "I don't understand, so I don't like it, and therefore it's stupid" 🤷♀️
Load More Replies...Supreme. How did teenage dudes buying everything Supreme not make it on to the list. I worked with a guy who would buy everything and call it an investment because it would only go up in value. Oh honey, I lived through Beenie Babies and more. That t-shirt is going to the Sally Anne in 20 years
1989 baby here! funny enough me and my husband r being beanie babies for halloween. i dont mean those stupid plush one out today i mean the ones from the 90s. i want the stuff from the 90s to come back like it was back then. like wtf happened to my littlest pet shop its all wide eyed and chibi now. our childhood was epic! wats so special bout supreme and these stupid trendy stuff. only trend i ever jumped on was pumpkin spice. thing is tho ive always loved pumpkin pie so my curiousity was peaked. sure beanie babies and pokemon were trends but they werent the only things. we had so many options to choose from and it was still considered cool. these days if ur not following a specific trend ur not cool.
Load More Replies...Believing one US political party is virtuous and actually cares about the people while the other one is the root of all our problems is about as naive as it gets. They're just two sides of the same coin and both will throw you under the bus for any reason at any time.
I see a lot of that here. They are both out for power and care nothing about people
Load More Replies...Willful ignorance. It's one thing to believe something false, or not try to verify a claim before spreading it. I've made that mistake before, and been wrong before (specifically, regarding if most mainstream media owners donated to Trump; turns out not). However, there is no excuse for, upon being presented with well-documented evidence enough to change any reasonable person's mind, not only not changing your mind and realizing you were wrong, continuing to spread the debunked idea, and *still claiming ignorance* when asked. Honestly, even basic research fails on things you regularly post about and claim to have researched (eg anti-vaxxers who claim to have done the research) with abundant information easily available online, should also fall into this category.
one that wasnt listed is companies, tv shows, movies etc forcing movements into their business. perfect example is currently disney. y do we need to change the race of iconic disney characters in their live action remakes? y do companies need a trans or lqbtq spokesperson? y is it ok for men to b on a womans team in professional sports just cuz they identify as such? i have nothing against race or the lgbtq community. ive got friends of all races and friends and family from the lgbtq community. i just wanna kno y its being shoved in our faces everywhere we look. ppl need to stop getting their feelings hurt wen their group isnt shown or part of something. alot of ppl r getting fed up with this dei bs. my friend took her 3 year old daughter to disney and one of the disney princesses asked her 3 year old daughter if she was a prince or princess. she freakin 3 years old and u think shes questioning her gender? like come on. my friend left the moment that happened. she took her daughter to universal instead. had no issues there. she has no issues with the community she just doesnt want her 3 year old daughter having that shoved in her face.
