Travel is awesome. It opens your mind, makes you more empathetic, lets you meet new people, gives you an excuse to eat tasty food, and allows you to go on actual adventures. What’s not to love? One of the best things about going abroad is that you get to experience cultures that might be very different from what you’ve known all of your life.
At times, those cultural norms can seem quite bizarre to outsiders. Some of the members of the r/AskReddit community shared the weird and cool things that are completely normal in their home countries but would confuse or amuse tourists. We’ve collected some of their most interesting insights below. Put on your hiking boots, grab your backpack, and scroll down to start your trip.
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In Sweden, it's a common tradition to watch Donald Duck (known as "Kalle Anka" in Swedish) cartoons on Christmas Eve at 3 PM sharp. This isn't just a casual thing - it's a national event!
Every year, millions of Swedes gather around their TVs to watch a specific 1958 Disney special called "From All of Us to All of You" (or "Kalle Anka och hans vänner önskar God Jul" in Swedish, which means "Donald Duck and his friends wish you a Merry Christmas").
Same in Denmark. The show is called "Disneys Christmas show" and is on at the same time every year.
The same in Finland. ”Samu Sirkan jouluterveydys” meaning ”Jiminy Crickets Christmas Greeting”
Load More Replies...In Germany, there's a similar tradition, but on New Year's Eve. The major television networks show the 10 minute short, "Dinner for One." It's about an elderly woman who invites friends over. Her sight has gone, and her friends have died. The butler impersonates the guests, and drinks their wine.
In Danmark we watch "Dinner for one" on new years eve too. I like to imitate the butler when serving guests.
Load More Replies...It get quit repetitive, it was fun in the 80/90 with two of three channels on TV and no cartoons. But now adult and infinite things online. 😅
Load More Replies...how did this start? It seems strange to me that so many Nordic (according to the comments) countries would be watching an American cartoon character on Christmas, there has to be a story behind this
Disney is HUGE in the Nordic countries, and especially the Duck universe comics (Mickey Mouse not that much). Don't know that much about the other countries, but in Finland Disney entered the market in a bang in 1951, WW2 had ended some six years ago, food rationing were at last ending, war reparations to Soviet Union were already almost paid and life started to look a little bit normalized already, people started buying cars and also the idea of a popular subscription based comic magazine (or Americans would say "comic book" I guess) started seem viable. So, Disney printed some 400 000 copies of sampler of the Donald Duck magazine for Christmas 1951 and sent them to families for free. Not everyone subscribed for the magazine, but it struck and soon it became a the most popular magazine in the whole country with several hundred thousands of subscribers, usually those were families with several children, but also the parents read it top.
Load More Replies...IDK about anyone else, but we always watch A Christmas Story on repeat Christmas Day
We used to do the same with A Charlie Brown Christmas, until some greedy billionaire bought the rights and put it behind a paywall.
a Polish yuletide tradition is watching Home Alone on boxing day
My husband with his Danish and Swedish grandmothers (as in, were born and grew up there) and his insistence about watching a Micky Mouse Christmas special every Christmas Eve suddenly makes more sense!
The USA did this too. Once upon a time, when over the air broadcast TV was all that was available. We all gathered to watch the Xmas specials, Charlie Brown, Grinch... Only on once a year. Something to look forward to. And on the day, kid friendly dinner, baths, pjs, and then the show. These days it's instant gratification via streaming, on-demand.
I miss that from my childhood. Those special once a year shows that we would plan our week around. The anticipation for it to come on was real!
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Actually telling people how you’re doing when they ask you how you’re doing. We don’t use a lot of polite phrases just for the sake of being polite, so when people ask “how are you”, it’s interpreted as a genuine question rather than polite smalltalk or a greeting. My grandma once asked a cashier how she was doing and she replied “Not great. I have type 2 diabetes.”
(I’m from Norway)
keep it simple..."I'm super happy, I have this constipated dog and it finally did it's business. Sorry for over sharing but this was causing us great distress" how are you today?
"I am AMAZING - I took the most fantastic s**t this morning and I feel so FREEEEEE"
Load More Replies...What is polite about asking a question, when you don´t expect a honest answer. I would call it superficial, but that´s just my opinion, I guess. You could just say, "A good day to you" to be polite.
Certain parts of the U.S. would consider you nuts for taking the question literally. Other really friendly parts generally want to know if you're doing well and if not, well, shucks, we'll pray for ya and bring over a casserole after Church. As I type that, I consider it's entirely possible that people say "Oh, fine," in regions where they don't like casserole.
Same in Germany. Don't ask if you're not prepared to hear the low-down!
There's a lot of that in the UK. Even more offputting is the friendly parting shot of "See you later!" from total strangers, cashiers,etc, when both parties know they''ll never recognise each other again, let alone see each other, and no one (bar this autistic tribble) has a problem with.
We Germans are similar to the Nordics: If you ask we'l (likely) answer. If you don't want to know, why ask? (Although there are gradients between "Could be better. My dog was hit by a car, but it looks like he'll recover" and a full blown status report on all of your health issues, your kids' troubles/accomplishments in school, and a list of recently lost acquaintances.)
Load More Replies...I try to give a different answer to this question every time I'm asked. Today's was, when asked by a stranger, "not great actually, can you help me?"
I tend to interpret the phrase "How are you doing" based on my relationship with the asker... If it is a stranger I would probably respond with a "Nothing" and go away (very North Italy, we have a reputation to maintain! XD). With a friend I see more as "There is something I need to know?"
I like this in a way - it's real human connection and reaffirms that other people we encounter aren't just NPCs or extras but are whole, complex beings like we are. I think it can boost empathy and compassion in us.
I am from USA. If someone asks this and you are bleeding from the head, you say "fine, you? Then you stumble off to some corner and pass out.
Unless you're from the southern United States, not all of us, but a lot of us will talk your ears off
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I'm Irish, and we tend to swear a lot in ordinary conversations. It means nothing most of the time, just a normal part of speech, but some of my non-Irish friends seemed a bit taken aback by it.
If its irish, you probably mean f**k the feckity;)
Load More Replies...I taught at a Catholic school in America. One of my more innocent and sheltered students was going to study in Dublin for the summer and work part time in a pub. I warned her that she would hear the f-bomb about every third word. When she returned in the fall, I asked her "Was I right? Was it every third word?" "No," she replied. "It was every third syllable."
A big pet peeve for me is grown adults who can't handle four letter words. They're just words humanity has, for whatever reason, deemed "naughty." Slurs are hurtful, IMO, they are different. But your garden variet f bomb here and there? So what??
The point is not that they are swearing, it's that every conversation with every second word being a swear word and you get sick of waiting for the point, because they don't have any capability for nuances in their sentences. The vocabulary is so limited. It's tiresome, and pointless. Swearing if you're angry? Fine. Swearing just to prove how cool you are? Give me a break. Literally.
Load More Replies...Same in Quebec, with french-canadians. Mostly swear words made up of catholic church names for sacred objects/people/places. The daily usage probably stems from turning our backs to the church in the 60s after years of oppression. And f*****k is also used without raising eyebrows. It’s funny because the f-word had been incorporated in our everyday french speech so it’s spoken « with an accent » and used as nouns-adjectives-verbs-etc.
As a Brit I used to do this too, however, now I live in the Netherlands I have to stop myself or else people think I'm angry
Depends on where you are. People from Rotterdam do this as well. They also use a lot of swear words as words of endearment
Load More Replies...100% kiwi but a quarter Irish. So does that mean that every fourth word out of my mouth is allowed to be a swear word? 😀
The global travel and tourism industry is huge and one of the most competitive in the entire world. It also has a large impact on various places’ economies. Statista reports that travel and tourism contributed a mind-boggling $9.9 trillion to countries’ gross domestic product. That comes out to around 9.1% of the total global GDP.
The industry is projected to grow to over $1.1 trillion by the year 2029. That same year, the hotels market, a large chunk of the travel and tourism industry, is expected to grow to 1.8 billion users.
In India, arranged marriage is still the norm. I went to law school with a guy who already had an engineering degree. He told me he only enrolled in law school because his family expects him to return to India when he's finished schooling and have an arranged marriage. As a result, he keeps enrolling in new higher education programs to postpone his engagement.
It's not quite as "arranged" as it used to be. These days families introduce the couple to each other and give them a few weeks/months to decide if they want to get engaged. Understandably a shorter courting period than with dating and falling in love, but there is definitely a sense of commitment from both so it tends to work out well in most cases.
There are advantages and disadvantages in either love marriages or arranged marriages. It depends on the person, culture, and health of their parental relationship
Tell me one (1) advantage of an arranged marriage.
Load More Replies...There can be an upside to this. In the West there is a very high divorce rate because so many people have unrealistic expectations about marriage. But when you start out only vaguely liking your spouse and not knowing much about them, there is less pressure on needing everything to be picture perfect from the beginning.
They think the are in love when it is merely infatuation and when that goes away bc infatuation always does, there is nothing there
Load More Replies...After the previous post about 30-year-old living with their parents, I know better, but I still can't help thinking arranged marriages are the norm because ya know what, the parents aren't OK with you being 30 and still living at home after all. >|^D
But it is also common for the new wife to move into her in-laws' home. So sometimes the new husband hasn't left at all, except to perhaps get a degree
Load More Replies...An expectation even when settled abroad our neighbours (also arranged marriage)
Evidently honest conversations between parents and adults children are NOT the norm there
This is sad... women from these backgrounds do this if allowed to continue education too
There's an Agony Aunt column in the Washington Post that's directed to immigrants and foreign students here in the US. This arranged marriage concept crops up often.
Going to the sauna with the whole family naked. Completely normal where I live but for almost the whole planet it would be very confusing.
Edit: yes, Finland.
I wish we had this. Instead, in the US we make everything so over sexualized that to see someone naked you automatically go SEX SEX SEX and it gets weird. If we could just appreciate the body for being a body and not look and go SEX I think we'd all be better for it.
It’s even worse. While advertising and pop culture are heavily sexualized, in education, sex is treated as taboo. Nudity is given even stricter age restrictions than violence, creating a perfect recipe for sexual frustration. In many other countries, like the Netherlands, sex education begins before puberty. This doesn’t necessary involve discussions about intercourse but rather topics like intimacy, consent, and body autonomy. By the time kids reach puberty, they have a solid understanding of these subjects. As a result, sex is no longer a giggly taboo but recognized as a natural and fundamental aspect of life. In fact, the Netherlands has the lowest rates of teenage pregnancy due to this approach. Meanwhile, in the US, parents freak out if their child sees a wee-wee.
Load More Replies...same in Latvia, it would be considered weird if u weren't naked in the sauna
Also sweden, albeit fewer saunas here. Kids also bathe naked at public non nudistisc beaches.
In Finland, it is also normal that small children do not have bathing suits on public beaches. Likewise, you may be topless on the public beach, regardless of gender and age. The law does not prohibit it.
Load More Replies...I was told (by a Finn in Finland) that it was normal for a young men and women to go into the sauna naked (they regard wearing things in the sauna as icky) and if, for example, the boyfriend of one of the girls wasn't present he wouldn't be in the slightest bit jealous.
Same in Germany. 100s of people have seen me naked in the sauna or an nudist beach and I don't give a fly (same for all partners).
Load More Replies...Good for Finland. Look, people, it's a human body, we all have one. And, I'm at an age now where, I hate to break it to you, but at some point if you are part of caring for elderly loved ones, you're gonna see the goods at some point. Might make it easier if the stigma weren't so....big. No pun intended, but I also kinda couldn't help it. :p
Germans use the sauna completely naked, too. Don't do that in any neighboring country.
Well, in Switzerland you definitly use the sauna naked.
Load More Replies...I expect the family gets rather chilly on the way to the sauna.
People dying because they don't have free universal healthcare. A lot of people will choose to not get medical attention because they don't have health insurance. So they end up dying. It's cheaper to die than have insane medical debt.
I'd rather die than be in a socialist society. I don't like social security or any of it. Let the chip fall where they may. Just kidding. I'll bet there are folks out there who feel like that, but do they turn down their social security retirement checks?
Do they drive on public roads? Flush their toilets? Call the fire department when their house is burning down? But for some reason universal healthcare will turn us all into card-carrying commies. So ridiculous.
Load More Replies...Dying is not that cheap either! It costs money for cemetery plots, caskets, headstones, obituaries, etc.
Four thousand for standard cremation. You cant get an broken arm fixed for that. Not only do we have to pay, we pay more because it is a profit system.
Load More Replies...Crazy how the pro-life law doesn't equate to the pro-living.. Its like a punishment of kind. Sort of like slavery but with extra steps?
With insurance, a blood test was $1,400 for my wife. My doctor called yesterday and wanted to set one up for myself. Told them I can't afford it
That is so unbelieveble for a simple blood test ???? With insurance ??? I am so sorry for you...
Load More Replies...The number of global inbound tourist arrivals recovered from 406 million during the height of the Covid-19 pandemic to 1.3 billion back in 2023. To put it another way, around every 6th person from around the world traveled abroad that year.
According to Statista, the most popular destination for international tourism continues to be Europe. Especially Southern and Mediterranean Europe. Around 265 million tourists traveled there in the 2022 period.
We pay companies in case we get sick or injured and they decide if we are sick or injured enough for them to use the money we pay them to help us. And we still have to pay more money once they help us.
Sounds like private health insurance. We have that too, but once you get sick, you do not have to pay more.
You must live in the USA...our NHS is far from perfect but will not bankrupt me if I need surgery
Not in Denmark - here it’s been paid for over the taxes even before your ambulance arrives at the hospital!
I'm fortunate enough to receive free healthcare, but I get extremely upset when my doctor prescribes medication based on test results and our conversations, only to have it rejected by the insurance company. I know first hand that doctors aren't infallible, but I also know insurance companies shouldn't be overriding the medical team and making the final decision.
In the USA you're worth more dead than alive if you get sick. Cuts into the profits y'know. Cant have that.
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In Vietnam, you can buy anything you want (and as much of it as you want) from the local pharmacy without doctor's prescriptions
How is misuse or over use prevented? How would the average person know what is needed?
Why should a pharmacist or government regulation prevent people from buying things? If they wish to misuse them, that is their responsibility. I'm sure the pharmacist can advise on dosages.
Load More Replies...Same in China and Egypt. I always wondered how tourists who buy huge amounts get them back into countries like Australia where they are illegal without a prescription.
They don't. They usually end up on the show Border Security Australia.
Load More Replies...I did fall in love with their 600mg ibuprofen gel caps. A thing of beauty.
Not entirely true, we were in Ho Chi Minh city and they wouldn't sell me event codeine.
So you can just choose whatever antibiotic you decide you need for any ailment you have regardless of whether antibiotics are indicated or not. Then take as much or as little as you please? Or take two medications that are contra-indicated and might kill you? "Oh, my 6 year old has a bad cough, let me just pick up some prednisolone for them." That's genuinely nuts.
I've been living in China for two years and I still can't bring myself to shout in a restaurant to get a server's attention. I'm British, so I'm so used to awkwardly raising my hand and saying, 'Excuse me' when the server looks in my direction. But in China, oh boy, you just have to shout and hope you're louder than the next table.
I watched a TV show explaining this part. If you're silent and meek in a restaurant, its either you did not enjoy the food or something's wrong. Well... I still respect their colorful culture. :D
China hasa lot of antisocial norms. A brit would have anxiety over their complete disregard of patience in a queue.
Most restaurants I know you don't need to shout. You look at the waiter when he or she passes by. They will usually give a nod and get to you as soon as they can.
And yes, it works at the local pizzeria also, it's not some high-class-restaurant thing.
Load More Replies...With so many people traveling abroad and domestically, mutual empathy starts to matter. A lot! This means that, as a traveler, you should try to be as respectful of other people’s cultural norms as possible. It’s unlikely that you’ll be prepared for everything before you leave on your trip (many norms are very subtle and take time to notice and truly ‘get’), but what matters is the effort you put in.
Learning a bit of the local language and about the etiquette amd taboos goes a long way. Do some online research. Talk to some friends who’ve been where you’re going. Even consider going to a local cultural center for some useful resources.
On the flip side, it’s a reminder for locals to try to be friendly to outsiders. Sure, some tourists will inevitably be loud, rude, and disruptive. But many and more of them are decent folks who are having completely novel experiences outside their comfort zones. A few helpful words, a smile, some recommendations, and a gentle guiding hand can really make their trip memorable.
In New Zealand being barefoot out of the house is considered normal. Many children walk barefoot to school (they have shoes, just choose not to wear them). You'll also see barefoot people in supermarkets and fast food restaurants
It's not as common as it was many years ago. As kids we didn't wear shoes unless expected to. Mind you, no snakes or venomous creatures here
TIL: There are no snakes or venomous creatures in New Zealand 👍
Load More Replies...The soles of your feet are the most absorbtive part of your body. This was so you could pick up trace minerals from dirt. In an urban environment it leaves you vulnerable to ringworm and other parasites. It is not safe; especially where there are dogs or cats.
Do you wear shoes at the beach? I spend most days barefoot around home, in the garden and greenhouse and at the beach. I've got more chance of getting campylobacter from bird sh!t than ringworm from an animal.
Load More Replies...My American father stopped going to his favourite convenience store when they started enforcing the law requiring footwear "no shirts, no shoes, no service"
No bare feet here-we have goat heads. 1000%worse than legos, they burn even after you pull them out. That and I burn my feet on the concrete just running the trash out to the bin.
Goat heads suuuuuuck! I always managed to have them break off in my heel.
Load More Replies...Ex MIL hated that i would ask if anything was a "shoe occasion".. Its the little things in life..
I used to kick my shoes off as soon as I got out of school & walk home in my socks. In retrospect I feel sorry for my mom having to wash those filthy things. And in a weird twist of fate, back in the days when glass soda bottles were common, one of my friends stepped on a broken bottle while wearing shoes. Because it was rounded & he stepped close to the edge, it swiveled up and stabbed him in the ankle, above the shoe. Got a pretty bad cut if I remember correctly (we were probably 6 or so at the time, so yeah this was shortly after the cooling of the earth.)
Keisha Castle-Hughes, who played Paikea in Whale Rider, had her shoes taken away for the entire time of filming. I can't remember why just her and not the other children, as I no longer have the DVD.
My mom would be mad if i ever go outside barefoot. When i was a kid a friend were bleeding becuse he stepped on a broken glass when we were playing near the rice field, he lost so much blood that he went unconscious, luckily he survived.
Used to be the norm in South Africa when I was a kid, adults and children being barefoot. Hardly seen anymore.
I really hated beginning of term, feet going back to prison.
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Cheering when someone accidentally drops and smashes something in a restaurant/pub.
My dad "meows" when someone drop something in a restaurant. It's not a cultural thing. It's just my dad being my dad.
Because cats like to knock things off surfaces. I get it.
Load More Replies...Is that just British we do it in America too lol or maybe just Texas
Load More Replies...I work in in lab and we do this when anybody breaks anything, it would be rude not to
Yeah we do too in the lab, it's like good luck lol
Load More Replies...I'm British and never understood this behavior. I always wondered if someone threw a brick through their window did they start cheering and clapping?
I interpret it in three ways 1) you all noticed a loud smash, it feels weird to just ignore it (which you obviously wouldn't a brick through a window). 2) people enjoy shouting together. See football. 3) this occurs at the pub so most people will have had a drink and thus it seems much funnier than it actually is. I also cannot stop myself from saying 'whey' when someone pops a cork.
Load More Replies...This might have it roots in a Jewish wedding tradition. The groom breaks a glass by stepping on it, and everyone says "mazel tov!" I've also heard people shout Mazel Tov when a crash is heard in a restaurant.
That's true - if you hear someone drop a glass in a café in Israel, people do shout "Mazel tov!" as if they were at a wedding.
Load More Replies...For me, it's someone accidentally doing for me what I want to intentionally do, so I shout, "Oh yeah!" anytime a coworker breaks something.
Rootbeer floats. I tried to introduce this American delicacy to some German friends. They thought I was playing a trick on them. Thought it was so weird and gross they wouldn't even try it.
Soemone who has never had an IBC root beer float..
Load More Replies...Geesh people, down voting is for comments that insult others, spread hate, are disrespectful, not because someone's opinion on food differs from yours. What a trivial reason to down vote, may I suggest a break from the internet and touch some grass, go frolic amongst some trees and gain some perspective; you've down voted someone because they like ice cream in soda not that they support Mussolini. Ice Cream. Soda.
That reminds me of a scene from Star Trek the Next Generation. Worf is off duty, and is tasting a variety of human beverages at the ship's bar. He reacts to root beer with "this is vile!"
Load More Replies...The best part is eating the fluffy foam that is made when you add the soft drink over the ice cream. Let it rise up tall! Then grab a spoon and enjoy it, adding more soda for more foam. There are WAY more varieties of floats. Try these: Coke float (Coca-Cola and vanilla ice cream), Dr Pepper float (same), or use Fanta! Orange is best. My absolute favorite is a White Float with 7-Up and vanilla ice cream. Sprite works too. Growing up in South Texas means floats in summer!
They're absolutely delicious. Every now and then, I'll buy vanilla ice cream and a box of root beer (cans). If you choose to make them at home, chill the soda first, or the ice cream melts too quickly. Also, if you use diet root beer, the ice cream will get a crunchy, icy edge to it.
I'm American but have lived in the UK for ages, when I visit family that's pretty much all I drink; root beer. I haven't had a root beer float in ages. If you get a really nice vanilla bean ice cream, sooo good.
Load More Replies...I can get A&W root beer here in Bangkok and all my Thai friends love a root beer float.
If you are grossed out by root beer floats,let me tell you about something called an egg cream: Seltzer water, chocolate syrup, milk, poured into a glass. Froth on top looks like whipped egg whites. But zero eggs in it.
I LOVE a good chocolate egg cream but it has to be made correctly, with fountain soda, not from a bottle or can.
Load More Replies...My BF loves root beer but not floats...I hate root beer but love Dr Pepper or Coke floats
No matter how different people might seem on the surface, there are always things that unite us. Food, for example, is something that’s shared across every culture across the globe. Sure, the recipes, ingredients, cooking methods, and eating etiquette might differ from country to country.
But broadly speaking, you’ll still see folks get together in a communal space to eat together. It’s difficult to imagine any culture not having some type of traditional soup or dumpling to offer. Eating is a way to connect with the people you love and to show respect to someone from outside the community.
Singing, dancing, music, and art—they’re also universal and core parts of the human experience. Even if you don’t speak the local language (well, yet), you can still find other ways to connect with everyone around you. Travel might seem scary initially, but you’d be surprised by how many people are kind to outsiders.
In Asian culture. Relatives fight with each other. Because each one wants to pay the bill for the whole family, eating out.
'I will pay. I am the most elder person. I have responsibility to the family'
'No I will pay. Even though I am young. I earn well enough. To cover. Let me pay this time'
That sorta argument happens.
When I tell it to westerners. They don't believe it.
This is an Arab thing, too. I would pay the bill when my friend was in the loo. It's actually fun, like a game, with the winner buying.
I've been waiting tables for 20+ years in the US and 100% guarantee this is a thing here too. So much so, that it's really uncomfortable having guests suddenly being aggressive, rude, and angry with me because I take one card over the other (my rule is whomever calls dibs first).
It's not uncommon in Spain or Italy. When you are out drinking with friends it's typically sharing in equal parts or paying one round each. When you are with family or people who you have business relations with it's common to have some polite arguing between people who want to pick up the bill. Good form would be offering and leaving the last word to the more senior member of the family or the highest ranking at the table.
My family does this as well. During large dinners with the family, the Men of the family keep an eye on each other, because sometimes, one of us will sneak away and pay the bill before anyone else can. i.e. Dad says he's going to restroom, but goes and pays the bill before it arrives at the table. We all try to out do each other, so its like a whodunnit. - This is in the U.S. Northeast.
Yes, "Asian culture." How many cultures are there in Asia? Hundreds? Thousands?
Load More Replies...My husband always fights to pay (Filipino-British). I've witnessed a half-hour stand-off with his Filipino friend here in Germany before.
My mom's brother in law was so mad that she paid the bill, that he made them go to another restaurant right after so he could pay. They're Korean -and insane lol.
Here in Sydney, the police regularly deploy d**g detection dogs at train stations. They bring them into pubs as well. People visiting from overseas seem genuinely shocked by it, but most people here seem to ignore it.
The poor dogs would go crazy, sensory overload.
Load More Replies...Why are we putting '*' in non-vulgar, non-derogatory words like d**g store, and a**a**ination. I feel like I'm watching Wh**l *f F*rtun*.
Mind you drűgs in Australia can be really expensive. At one point, a single gram of méth could be bought for $900AUS
Here in 'murica they're awfully easy to train into false positives. Which gives racist cops probable cause to "fish" for crimes. ..."I pulled you over cause the tints a little dark. BTW can I search? No, ok, well I smell pot, so we'll just wait for the dogs." Happens ALL THE TIME. Bovines with canines. Go figure. Sidenote- this is the same trumper trash cops that unironically have "freedom" plastered on everything they own.
I am german but went to boarding school in england. Once in a blue moon they would let dr*g dogs sniff every dorm room. I love dogs so much, i have a dachshund sleeping on my lap at the moment but those dogs that they used in school smelled sooooo bad! You couldnt get that dog smell out the room for days. I hated it!
Jesús, if they did that here the dog would go crazy, even at the police station
It's pretty hard to forgive a 10-20 year prison sentence for a victimless "crime".
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Saying "yeah, naaahh" = no. Saying "nah, yeeaah"= yes.
It's infested the US as well. For a couple of years or more.
Load More Replies...I don't get the confusion... isn't it like in German where the last one counts? "Ja...neh"->no
yeah, nah I understand, I use that myself occasionally despite having no cultural connection to it. But nah, yeah would confuse me.
Nah, yeah = I shouldn't but I'm gonna anyway eg. Ya want another bevy? - Nah (I should be going/I've had enough) yeah (but give me one anyway)
Load More Replies..."Yes no" = no - in Russian. "No, yes" meaning can depend on intonation.
What are some local cultural norms that you think outsiders would find a bit (or even a lot) strange, dear Pandas? On the flip side, what were the biggest culture shocks for you on your last trip? How did you handle them and how quickly did you adapt? You can tell us all about it in the comments.
Having a maple syrup reserve. The most lucrative heist in Canada's history was the Maple Reserve. Many millions of dollars in maple syrup were stolen. I just listened to the 'My Favorite Murder' podcast episode about it
As a non-Canadian, I find this commonsensical. You create a reserve of your most valued, most important commodity. In the U.S., we reserve gold, oil, and cheese. It only makes sense Canada would reserve maple syrup. I know of some people who would say Timbits, but I'm not that impressed.
I personally don't care for maple syrup very much, not even the real stuff. It's too sticky and too sweet.
The real stuff is a lot less sticky and sweet than Mrs. Butterfinger type products, and has a much better flavor. Having said that, I agree; I pretty much never eat either one.
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TV ads for pharmaceutical products.
Near the end of the ad it's like sound track and video are from two different sources. the video looks like a disney movie with cute animals and butterflies and happy people while the audio is from some horror movie as the announcer rushes through the side effects they are legally obligated to say - about how your head may rotate and vomit pea soup like in The Exorcist and which organs and limbs might explode or fall off.
Trust me, those of us who grew up before it was a thing find it weird and annoying too.
"Side effects may include rash, constipation, nausea, diarrhea, dizziness, drowsiness, insomnia, headache, dry mouth, stroke or death. Do not take if you are allergic to this medication. Ask your doctor for ____!"
Take the cigarette and alcohol adverts off the TV and replace them with even more heinous pharma ads.
I don't have to ask my doctor about a d**g in a tv ad. I'm pretty sure he makes enough money to own a television himself and so already has seen the commercial himself.
After hearing about the side effects, including death, makes the cure worse than the disease!
When I moved to the U.S. I was so confused by the number of pharmaceutical advertisements on the radio and bizarre Christian music stations...so strange.
In Malaysia, calling older people not related to you uncle or aunty
It's true for many Asian cultures. Any elder family friend is automatically an auntie and uncle.
My husband has no idea who he's related to when we visit the Philippines. He just knows who he knows so they're all family. There's a lot to be said for the social cohesion there!
Load More Replies...This is also a thing in the UK too. When I was growing up all of our neighbours and my parents friends were aunty or uncle.
But that's only for children in UK. A grown man wouldn't address an old man as uncle. But in these countries mentioned, he would.
Load More Replies...Common in China, a total stranger will offer their seat on a bus to a foreign Auntie or Uncle.
Happens in parts of South Africa as well, not always for older people.
If a child calls you "auntie", they're probably an Afrikaans child using "tannie". :)
Load More Replies...But now I understand why; it’s most common in South African coloured culture and that is heavily influenced by Malay culture.
Load More Replies...Adding tax onto the price listed on the tag. That drives non-USA folks nuts.
Yeah it's bc each state, nay each county in each state gets to set their sales tax, so the price is different from county to county throughout the state and throughout the nation...but it's stupid to not just put what that price is with the tax included on the sticker bc you're not going to take that item and run to a different county to pay for it 🙄
Load More Replies...Considering that many Americans have trouble determining that 1/3 is larger than 1/4, this always puzzles me. It really wouldn't be hard to show prices with and without tax.
If you saw an American inner city school you would 1: understand, and 2: demand a police escort or a gun. Most Americans don't WANT to have a gun with them at all times, they have to.
Load More Replies...I moved to my current state (Delaware, USA), in part because there is no sales tax
Same in Canada- each province has a different tax rate, so the retailers just put their price on the products, and then the register adds the tax. When I worked retail, I had a woman yell at me about how she shouldn't have to pay our tax rate (13%) because she was Albertan (5%), and it didn't matter how many times I tried to explain that didn't matter when you're shopping in Ontario. Also we have people who are tax exempt (like Indigenous peoples)
Yes but the sign on the shelf at that store, at that location, can still show the price with tax.Groceru stores print and change tags daily. Many retail stores now have digital tags that can be changed at any moment, there is no reason not to include the tax to the amount.
Load More Replies...It's because we have 50 states and 50 separate tax systems. Some states rake up $ on sales taxes while others may not have sales tax at all. Then there's local taxes and income taxes (both state and national). Oh, and excise taxes, tariffs, & etc. Don't ask me to explain our economics. I hate 'em!
I wouldn't mind if the price of the tax was included in the price as long as they were separated on the price tag.
In most countries its illegal to show a price that isnt what you will pay.
It’s stupid, so rather than driving us nuts it’s an eyeroll situation.
Living with parents is common in India. People aren't considered 'losers' for living with heir parents. I never understood why being 30 and living with your parents was considered as something 'bad'
I think this is common in Asia. It's totally normal to live with your parents even into old ages. It might even be respected because it means you are taking care of your parents. I was surprised to learn that this is considered bad in the West. I was even more surprised when I heard that some family expect their child to move out at 18.
Single Indian woman here.. stay with my mother now (dad died a few years back). Am glad i am at home and can help my mom in many ways. We are each other's support. My sister and her son now stay with us due to her husband's death. We all are now each other's support. Such big support
That's lovely, that's what families should be like
Load More Replies...Adults living with their parents isn't looked down on too much, as long as they're doing their share. Adults living with their parents, but not contributing financially and/or not doing their share of the household chores is (and the child and parents are equally to blame).
Yeah and that's generally not what's happening but it is what's harped upon bc it's a marketing scheme, they've focused on that to sell more houses and product, bc if you separate families you sell twice as much c**p.
Load More Replies...I think the extended family is a great environment to raise children under and just generally provided your family isn't abusive etc. It's wonderful, you have support, community, human interaction, everyone is healthier and happier.
Yeah, doesn't it seem like the way it 'should' be?
Load More Replies...I saw an Indian commercial once and it featured a young lady in her 20s with the voiceover "so and so lives away from her parents" and I thought it was really interesting
Families living together have their issues in Indian and similar societies. Parents esp. mothers dont know when to let go. The MIL and DIL fights are common.. But slowly things are changing. At times, the parents dont mind if the kids grow up and leave. They value their freedom. Also at times, many young people from smaller places have to move to big cities like Mumbai, Delhi and Bengaluru for better opportunities. They settle in these cities and have their own nuclear families.
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Weights and measures.
I’m 5’10” and weigh 195lbs
My over cooks at 350 degrees
My pool is 72 degrees
But
I drive 80km/h
The temp outside is 21 degrees
I buy meat in either lbs or kg
Milk comes in 1 litre bags
Liquor in 26 fl oz bottles
Lumber in 2”x4” (which are really 1 1/2 by 3 1/2) plywood in 4x8’ sheets.
You said milk comes in bags, you're ontarian! Hi friend
Load More Replies...South Africa went metric in 1961 (when we left the Commonwealth - well, when Verwoerd waved goodbye when told to get rid of apartheid) and those of us born after that have NEVER used the Imperial system. But I know that 1 mile is 1.6 kilometres because my Uber app somehow got calibrated in miles and I couldn't change it back. I know that 1 inch is 2.5 centimetres because the scrapbooking community uses inches. There are about three feet in a metre - just so I know what the heck people in American TV shows are talking about. (And a yard is about a metre - so Andy Dufrense crawled half a kilometre - 500 yards - through c**p.) I'm 1.69 metres tall, which Google tells me is 5 foot 5 and a half. :)
It gets really weird for pilots. Altitude in feet, distance in nautical miles, etc.
Speed either in knots or mph, temperature in Celsius (which we Americans aren’t used to)… all kinds of fun things to remember.
Load More Replies...It's actually kind of intuitive if you grow up with it. I know most of my peers can do measurements in both metric and imperial, so you modify as necessary. For example, someone 5'9 is 175 cm tall. 1 inch is 2.5 cm. 72 degrees F is 22 C. No, I didn't have to look any of those up. You just get used to it.
Load More Replies...I'm more wierded out by milk coming in bags. Unrelated: I don't think making all units a multiple of ten of each other is necessarily so brilliant. And let's face it, "deka" and "hecto" aren't used; it's really maming everything 100 or 1000 of each other. But what makes the metric system have a rightful place is the way each measurement related to each other: 1 cubic cm of water equals 1 ml equals 1 gram which takes 1 cal to heat 1 degree. Mixing imperial and metric units destroys this, the sole true benefit of metrics.
Where does this come from? Deka and hecto are commonly used in countries that follow the SI system. Most food items, like cheese or cold cuts, are measured in dekagrams at the grocery store, while large quantities of liquids are measured in hectoliters. "And let's face it", you still don’t understand what Neo-Stalinism and Neo-Sovietism mean 😉
Load More Replies...It's really easy to store though - squishy bags fit into a space better than gallon jugs. And less plastic too.
Load More Replies...Most of these things apply in Ireland too... but we wouldn't have a pool, our milk does not come in bags and liquor bottles are sized in ml (or cl).
"Liquor in 26 fl oz bottles" this is misleading everyone; our bottles display the volume in ml right next to the fl oz
Flashing headlights to warn incoming traffic of police presence or speed traps. Got a few awkward reactions doing it abroad.
Same in the US. But everyone considers it a common courtesy.
Load More Replies...Please please please refrain from doing this. It isn't ALWAYS about catching speeders. Sometimes you may tip off a child abductor or very dangerous person there is police ahead.
I never thought of that! Thank you as I have been doing this for 40 years and obviously times have changed.
Load More Replies...I think it's illegal in most of the EU. But we still do it regardless
Not in Denmark. I actually saw an article in a newspaper where police were saying it was all okay because it got people to slow down.
Load More Replies...I thought you flash your lights to tell the other person they forgot to turn theirs on.
Yep, or to say thanks for letting me pass/you're welcome. We don't really have police speed traps in my part of the UK anyway, only speed cameras. If someone flashes at me for no apparent reason I just get confused
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As an American, when i “lived” in England for three months, i realized just how rude and unacceptable Brits view the act of “pointing fingers”.
not that i was ever doing shit like pointing at and/or making fun of people, but just any kind of pointing even remotely in the vicinity of anyone’s direction was just a straight up no-no, regardless of context. my ex-fiancée (who was British) was constantly like “stop doing that” lmao. kinda interesting.
In America, pointing *at* someone is considered very rude. But I think OP means even pointing at where to go or something like that.
Load More Replies...Umm, pointing fingers is pretty darn rude anywhere including the United States.
IME, pointing at things is fine: "That brand of mayonnaise, right *there* in the middle." But pointing at people is not: "Oh, there's Jenny on the other side of the room." [Indicates with open hand, palm up.] -east coast, U.S.
Nobody in your family ever said to you "Don't point, it's rude"? I was told that a lot growing up, so I'm going to say that probably varies here in the US, as well.
Yes that's a much better way to describe it than I did in a rambled reply to someone else further up.
Load More Replies...My Belgian boyfriend hates it too, im not even allowed to point at views or objects.
triangulation!...it is literally the most effective way to direct someone's attention to something/someone...it's a sign of intelligence...yet, we are not supposed to use this techique based on old superstitions about evil eyes...no, i am not putting a hex on the woman who dropped her handbag as i tell the police who to return it to...i am just being efficient!
To avoid rudeness, Disney employees are taught to point using two fingers held close together, or to gesture with an open hand, palm facing up.
I thought they did it because that Walt Disney statue is doing it.
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In my family's home country, it is normal to "try" things out in food stands, like, just shove your hand in the pile and try one, you like it? You buy by weight from the pile of whatever it is you tried. And it is apparently totally acceptable to just snack on whatever while you shop and browse through the store, as long as you buy something at the end.
I had a massive cultural shock on my first visit 😂.
That's one way to develop resistance to all the bugs in the region. "What doesn't kill you makes you stronger" - Neitze
Tell Neitze or whoever that is that polio didn't make anyone stronger. The opposite, actually.
Load More Replies...So far outta the 40 countries, 5 continents I've visited, I have never seen this once. And I LOVE going to local markets, I literally seek them out every new place I visit. Never seen it. Not saying it doesn't exist, it would just be nice if we were given some geographical info too.
This is a bit of a problem in some large European bulkstores where it is very much Not meant to be done. Non-native customers would open things like pots of jam and try it. Which is terribly rude and basically equating to shoplifting from pur perspective, but I can imagine that if you come from a culture like this, it is not necessarily meant that way. In a bulk store I know they partially got araound it by putting out more testers, so at least the products they actually wanted to sell stayed fresh and hygienic
Surely opening products that have been hygienically sealed isn't acceptable anyway? As soon as a jar is opened the clock is ticking for it to deteriorate.
Load More Replies...I checked their Reddit bc I was curious too!! They said, “It was in Israel, very middle eastern market”
Load More Replies...The food in stalls and shops closest to the public toilets are the most flavorful.
In my country, eating rice with every meal is a must.
Someone I know was very excited to prepare a full English roast dinner for his south Korean girlfriend, but after one or two bites she apologised and went to cook herself some rice. She explained that she couldn't eat a meal without rice.
It saved my very picky husband when he was on a work trip in China. He ate rice at every meal since there was very little else he would eat.
There was an episode of Top Gear (British one) where Richard had supposedly only eaten rice for several days because he was a picky eater
Load More Replies...The Philippines is not the only country where rice is eaten at every meal.
Load More Replies...In Egypt as well, it is almost always either rice or Pasta with dinner, only few main course dishes are eaten with bread. You can't have fish without rice
My mom worked at a retirement home here in Sweden and a lot of the elders back then would always ask for potatoes with each meal. Like oh, this chicken and rice is good but where are the potatoes?
I love rice! Not every meal but if it were so, I could live with it!
Everyone when talking about "their country": "In my country..." and then proceeds with not naming the country.
Waving at magpies. I've done it in the USA and people look to see who I'm waving at and find a bird. I don't stop waving to the birds f**k off because of the superstition that goes with the number of magpies you see.
>One for sorrow, Two for joy, Three for a girl, Four for a boy, Five for silver, Six for gold, Seven for a secret, Never to be told".
Here in the UK it's perfectly normal to acknowledge a magpie or three. I've done it most of my life. Morning handsome maggers is my usual greeting. Got tedious this year when a pair built an enormous nest in my garden.
I like "handsome maggers". I think I might do this. I always say "Good morning, Mr Magpie, how's your wife today?" but I do tend to keep it to myself.
Load More Replies...In the North of England it is bad luck to see only one magpie (because of the rhyme in the post) so if you see just one you say to it, 'hey Mr magpie, where's your wife,' in the hopes of seeing a second magpie. We always did this with my son, and one day when he was around five we saw a single magpie and he turned to it and said, 'Hey Mr Magpie, what have you done with your life?' And a new tradition was born, asking magpies to have an existential crisis over their life choices.
In Australia we don't wave at magpies, we wave things above our heads to stop them swooping
In Australia we greet the magpies by ducking and running for cover.
Load More Replies...Eight for a wish, Nine for a kiss, Ten a surprise you should not miss, Eleven for health, Twelve for wealth, Thirteen beware it's the devil himself.
We have same, but it's for crows. Maybe not a lot of magpies around here? Had a pet crow when I was a kid (long story) and to this day I acknowledge any crows I see.
Apparently this stems from the 19th century. You would salute a solitary magpie as a show of respect so as not to invite misfortune.
Still don't know what 23 is. We have a huge number of magpies here as nothing predates magpies. I have seen and counted 23 together. They might be considered lucky in small numbers, but they eat eggs and chicks of small birds and in large numbers must have an affect on the population.
saw one bite the head off a small bird and fly off with it in it's beak looking like some double headed mutant,they regularly bully other birds and make such a racket all I have to say to them is will you ever shut up and F off...
Load More Replies...Coming over around diner time unannounced, fully expecting to be welcome and invited to dine with them.
Apparently, this is in the Netherlands. I can't even fathom someone walking into my home without telling me first, expecting to eat my food.
That could end very badly in some parts of the world
Load More Replies...I don't understand how this is logistically feasible. You show up at my house at dinner time? I made my husband and I one cheeseburger each. I can spare some fries but I don't just happen to have an extra burger lying around.
so Dutch people will NEVERRR stop by during diner time, and whenever they go, wont expect or demand food. I do think this is something of the older generations. I dont live in the NL anymore and will feed anyone that steps inside even just for 5 minutes, but i will never ever do so at others!
Some friends used to do that at the weekends. They would arrive at 6.0pm just as we were serving up. Naturally we offered the some, but they refused, but we could not eat with them watching, so they eat as well. We always had a roast of some kind at the weekends. This happened a few times, they would then have drinks. So, into battle. The next time they came around, we invited them to stay, and THEN bought out the meal. 'My wife is from Singapore, so we started with 'Frog porridge' made of a rice broth and frog meat. They left theriers. Next was Steamed Singapore chicken, but this chicken is a special breed, it completely black, tastes the same. They left this as well. The salad had 'century eggs' in it. They are basically eggs that have been buried for about 6 months, are black and smell like sulphur, and taste brilliant. Finally 'Durian the worlds most pungent fruit, it stinks like cat poo but is the king of fruit. This did it, they upped and left, Battle Won.
I don't even answer the door if I didn't invited you first.
if you come over around dinner time to the average american household, you will be offered food...it's rude not to
I have an "open fridge, open pantry, you know where the kettle is" policy at mine. If you turn up at mealtime you get fed. If you turn up hungry and it's not mealtime you feed yourself.
1. No small talks. You don't even acknowledge strangers, no random "How are ya" to people you pass on the street. You can say "Good day" to your neighbours or people you know, but not strangers. When you go shopping, you don't engage in polite banter with the cashier, it's just "Good day", they tell you the price of your items, you say "Card. Thank you. Goodbye" and that's it. No small talk with friends. No small talk whatsoever.
2. You can say "How are you" when meeting a friend, and the normal response to it is to complain about your latest problems. After they're done complaining, it's your turn to say "Ah f**k" and offer some advice or help, or tell them about you being in a similar situation. Complain about your problems, then they offer advice or help. And both sides mean to help, it's not just "Ah, call me one day, I could help you with that".
3. Don't talk about mayonnaise unless you want to divide people and start a war. Don't even think about starting mayonnaise conversation when people are drunk. It's very serious. It's something that's discussed at early stages of relationship and can be a dealbreaker for many.
Edit to add some more.
4. We don't tip. There's no tip culture. No one expects tip. You tip for excellent service, and if you leave a tip, people will be happy, but no one will be pissed if you don't tip.
5. We love to pick mushrooms. Every autumn most people go to the woods to pick mushrooms at least once. And I'm not even talking about the psychedelic ones. Every person in the country has at least basic knowledge about mushrooms that are safe to eat and the toxic ones. I was surprised when I moved abroad and found out how many people in my new home were scared of picking mushrooms because what if they're not safe? They just have no idea at all.
6. Carp fish swimming in the bathtub before Christmas Eve.
7. We celebrate Christmas on the 24th of December, not the 25th, and we open our presents in the evening.
8. SHOES OFF AS SOON AS YOU ENTER THE HOUSE.
9. There's a trash can under the sink in the kitchen and one drawer that has a plastic bag filled with other plastic bags. In every house.
10. You know that gesture when you beat your fist to your chest twice, like “I got you bro”, sign of truth and generally bro vibe? Yeah well in my country’s sign language it means “f****t”.
every country/culture seems to think they are home of the Plastic Bag With Plastic Bags. Dudes, its universal.
In Canada it's becoming reusable bags in a reusable bag.
Load More Replies...Many of these also fit Germany, the mushroom obsession would be the eastern Germany.
The no-small-talk is absolutely Germany, and I ,love it. But the mayo part I don't really get, but I'm living in BW, and here is not a war-starter thing.
Load More Replies...I think people have the "bag filled with bags" in every country of the world. :)
Ooooh, please elaborate! I grew up with both German potato salad and American potato salad, so my curiosity is piqued.
Load More Replies...Well, I guess I'd rather live with folks that don't say hi, but do vote so I have healthcare. Than live with folks that vote like selfish a holes, but are nothing but outwardly friendly. This is southern America... yes ma'am, no ma'am, holding doors, please, thank you, and my favorite: have a blessed day. Then get to the ballot box and are just complete a******s.
At first I was like: Russia, Ukraine? And then after celebrating Christmas it's instant Poland
We Germans do that, too. And enough of the other things that I kept guessing as well. Picking mushrooms is a very regional thing, though, and unless you're talking potato salad recipes mayo is not a problem. IF you do, however...! 😄
Load More Replies...Read this and thought: 1. Could be Germany. 2. Could still be Germany, depending which part. 3. Dude, WTF?!
If we're having a casual gathering at a house, we usually don't sit on long tables but put newspapers on the floor as a makeshift "dining table" and sit around it to eat
I've had parties like this my whole life and it was only when my foreigner friends got culture shock from it did I realize it's not a norm in other countries.
I'm guessing this is in a warm country, where being closer to the ground can be desirably cool.
We spread newspaper out on picnic tables to eat crawfish; it makes cleanup a snap. SE LA Isaan Thailand villages without a chair in the whole village and dining is around a cloth spread on the floor. I almost wrote 'table cloth'.
Perhaps it's not a cultural thing, but maybe it's just what they do in that household?
Curious if OP has seen the large newspaper chairs used on the set of Russell Howard's TV show.
Bunny chow 😅 " an Indian South African fast food dish consisting of a hollowed-out loaf of white bread filled with curry and a serving of salad on the side.".
This might be just the place to ask! I knew about "bunny" in SA, but does anyone know what Indian word it might be derived from? For instance, I'd imagined a word that maybe looked like "bhani" originally?
I assumed it was because the bread could have been a bun originally.
Load More Replies...That sounds delicious 🤤 reminds me of here in the states getting hollowed-out sourdough with chowder inside. Mmmmmm
"The term "bania" came from the Sanskrit word for merchant. "From the 'bania man shop' came the 'bunny man shop,' and from bunny man shop came the bunny chow," says Dilip Soni, a jewelry maker in Durban." https://www.npr.org/sections/thesalt/2017/02/01/511834972/bunny-chow-south-africas-sweet-sounding-dish-has-a-not-so-sweet-past
Did you know that a couple of Indian guys who moved to California in the 90's (?) had to change the name of bunny chow because Americans thought it contained actual bunnies!?
Can confirm. I had it for the first time a week ago - in South Africa.
Bringing your own alcohol to parties, being naked in saunas, ice bathing, no gendered toilets.
In my experience, men tend to behave terribly in public restrooms, except when they're uncertain about the next person's gender. In those cases, they're more careful and tidy. Non-gendered bathrooms in Finland or Estonia were by far the most civilized experiences I've had, and I see no reason not to standardize them internationally. The model works in most households, and all it takes is a lock and a bin.
I used a non-gendered restroom in Japan (I think it was Japan) and it was just more practical. Common wash up area, stalls were like little rooms with no gaps. More toilets in less space because the wash up area was shared instead of being built twice.
Load More Replies...I live in the US, and know a few people who never bring their own alcohol to parties. They usually show up uninvited, drink the most, and are the first to suggest a packie run. When they show up, me and my alcohol generally leave.
American here never heard of a "packie" run also was never expected to bring my own alcohol to a party unless it was specifically a tacky byob thing, also never expected anyone to bring their own alcohol to a party I threw, I provided. Exceptions being a dinner party when a bottle of wine is a courtesy.
Load More Replies...Nude ice bathing parties where everyone brings a fifth of booze. What could go wrong?
Apparently ice in a drink.
I work for an airline with a lot of American passengers and they love their ice!
Sipping a cold drink just hits differently. I love the sensation.
Load More Replies...I love ice in drinks, the cool and the sound. Mr Auntriarch thinks I'm bonkers...
most of the Americas was built post automobile and refrigerator car, most of the rest of the world was not, therefore transportation of ice was built into the infrastructure here and has become part of the culture, it's something I don't even think about till I visit another country
I love in Scotland and no matter how hot or grey and miserable the weather, I always take ice. It's the only refreshing way to enjoy juice
I LOVE ice water and iced tea!!! I don't care that my house doesn't have heating and the windows are freezing over, I've got my 32oz container of ice water by my shivering side.
What makes you think I let my drink sit there while the ice melts and THEN drink it? Have some common sense!
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Asking “how are you?” after greeting someone, and no, you are not supposed to answer this question. Goes like “how are you” ping pong. Especially weird when you switch to silence right afterwards (shop/taxi/store).
In Canada, the most common answer is “good, you?” Reply “ good thanks” and then the conversation goes on, or is done.
Load More Replies...In Greece the typical question is not "how are you?" but "what are you doing?". Boy did that need getting used to, since the typical answer is "I'm fine"
Trust me I do too. I'm American & 52 & it's annoying & pointless
Load More Replies...In USA -"How are you?" "Good, you?" out loud. Inside, "terribly depressed, lost my job last week, was diagnosed with an incurable illness, and my dog is ill"
My general response to this question, to people I know or those I've met on several occasions - like Dr's office, grocery store, etc, is "Been better, been worse" !
Congratulating everyone who is present at a birthday party.
* shaking hands* "gefeliciteerd", * shaking hands* "gefeliciteerd", * shaking hands* "gefeliciteerd", * shaking hands* "gefeliciteerd", * shaking hands* "gefeliciteerd", ...
Tegenwoordig schreeuw ik gewoon: gefeliciteerd allemaal! En loop dan door 😅
Load More Replies...As a German, it was one of the most confusing things when moving to the Netherlands. And the one-cookie-rule
i live in Belgium, they find it funny :-D when we visit my family and friends, my BF has learned to just say "congratulations with (birthday boy/girl) ! " I was at a Belgian party, walked in, said hi and only congrats to the person who was having a birthday. Then a Dutch girl entered and she was so polite doing the whole ritual... i didnt even hear her, i saw her and poked my BF :-D also managed to upset a boomer for not shaking her hand and congratulating her when her daughter in law was having her birthday. I usually just go "congrats everyone!" and wave. Elderly people find this deeply, deeply rude :-D
It's not quite as "bad" as that in Germany, but when you come to a birthday party or something like that it's still considered polite to shake hands with everyone. That can get very tedious, so if there are more than a handful of people I greet the host personally, and then knock on the tabe and/or wave with a general look around ans a "hello /good evening everybody"
Load More Replies...We also don't know. No, that's not true, we congratulate them on birthday person's birthday. But why?? I have no idea. We just do.
Load More Replies...Not the same thing but I don’t understand applauding yourself. If I’ve done something great and folks are applauding me I’m going to sit there and blush or nod thankyou at them. I’m not going to applaud me. I guess it varies from country to country but I (Kiwi) don’t get it.
I'm sorry but that's nonsense. If there's so many people how do you expect to get things moving along when everybody is busy greeting. Weird and unnecessary
We have a great solution for that: we all sit in a circle. You just greet everyone who is already in the circle and sit at the next available seat. Then whoever comes in next does the same. Dutch bday parties are really fun! /s
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Tipping in addition to paying for a meal or service.
U.S.A. Other than the menu price, add 10% for sales tax in our area, add 20% for tips when dining in. Each meal is 130% of total menu prices. It's expensive.
It's actually more, since tips are usually post-tax. By your numbers, it would be 132%
Load More Replies...I hate the American tipping system. It has gotten insanely out of hand. Everyone expects tips now. I go to a little coffee shop and if I pay with a credit card, the barista automatically brings up a screen where I have to tip. Pay your workers a damned living wage! The U.S. is so insanely behind in many things that it's mind-boggling at times.
Bar and restaurant workers in Michigan were recently protesting an increase in minimum wage... because they fear "people won't tip as much." WTF??? It doesn't even get rid of the tip option. Besides, most people in this country are sick and tired of subsidizing cheap-a*s employers. I don't want to tip a s****y server $20 just because I know they won't be able to buy groceries if I dont... I want to tip people who actually do a good job.
lots of places do, thats not the problem. The problem is people expecting you to do so and getting angry when you dont,
India has optional tipping culture. Also the restaurant at times adds certain amount which we can remove.. the restaurant cannot ask us for tips unless we want to
I don't eat out anymore because the tipping is so onerous. And some places now expect 20/25%! Pay your workers a fair wage! I will dine out if I know the price is fixed.
Bizarrely its socially accepted the employer can barely pay its workers and the customers seem to accept that its their job to pay them. And the process of paying even builds in a suggested tip that is far higher than 20% on the bill.
Saying that we have several loonies in our pants.
Canadian!! Loonies are our gold coins worth $1, they are called 'loonies' because they have a picture of a loon on them.
I knew someone who had loonies in his pants, but a doctor gave him a shot and got rid of them.
There are people who say that someone would have to be looney to want to get into my pants, but the ones who are Canadian are of course to polite to say so.
Toonies. Where are you in Canada that you use two in the word?
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Tipping.
It's very strange going to Asia or Europe and walking away from a meal without leaving money on the table or adding an extra $10 to the receipt.
In many european countries you just round the bill .... 38 euro to 40, for example. However, in south-european countries tips are a bit more expected, but nothing extreme, just around 10%. But if you don't tip, they don't go after you, as in the stories from the USA.
Yeah I usually tip 10% if I really like the restaurant or if the staff was great. Round it up if it was good but not exceptional. And give nothing if the service / food was really bad. (From western Europe)
Load More Replies...most people do it in the Netherlands but our waiters get paid a normal wage too.
I knew a couple who had emigrated to the US from Taiwan and raised their kids in the US. One year they had a family reunion in Hawaii with lots of family from China and had dinner at a restaurant. Apparently the waiter wasn't expecting to get a tip because everyone was speaking Chinese all night, then he heard the kids speaking in American accents and jokingly brought the check out to the American couple (who did tip).
My husband tipped for our dinner in Berlin and the waiter was very happy and offered us a digestif.
It's not 'guess the country' - tell us the country and then make your point. Too much North America as usual, the ones from the rest of the world were much more interesting.
In my country the government hate cars. They tax you for having a car. Most of the cost of fuel is tax, and then they tax you on the tax! There are not many places left you can park for free. Even the hospitals charge to park when you turn up! But they keep allowing people to build shops and services outside of towns. But our public transport is so expensive and bad that people are left no other option but to use cars.
It should be illegal for doctors and hospitals to charge patients and their visitors parking fees, which are higher than a co-payment.
Load More Replies...My favourite was learning about Canadian loonies and toonies, and thanks to pandas explaining about it being named after the bird on the tails side.
I would have expected guns to get a mention. The usa seem hell bent on executing each other and seem to consider a right to have arms is entrenched but it wasnt even in the constitution. Its was an amendment. Why not amend it back a bit?. Who needs an AR for protection?
When visiting London I found the people to be very "rude". My brother pointed out that it's because South Africans look each other in the eye when they walk past someone, and Londoners don't. I was always terrified someone was going to bump into me because they never looked up.
So, nice trivia game trying to work out the geographic location of most of these
It's not 'guess the country' - tell us the country and then make your point. Too much North America as usual, the ones from the rest of the world were much more interesting.
In my country the government hate cars. They tax you for having a car. Most of the cost of fuel is tax, and then they tax you on the tax! There are not many places left you can park for free. Even the hospitals charge to park when you turn up! But they keep allowing people to build shops and services outside of towns. But our public transport is so expensive and bad that people are left no other option but to use cars.
It should be illegal for doctors and hospitals to charge patients and their visitors parking fees, which are higher than a co-payment.
Load More Replies...My favourite was learning about Canadian loonies and toonies, and thanks to pandas explaining about it being named after the bird on the tails side.
I would have expected guns to get a mention. The usa seem hell bent on executing each other and seem to consider a right to have arms is entrenched but it wasnt even in the constitution. Its was an amendment. Why not amend it back a bit?. Who needs an AR for protection?
When visiting London I found the people to be very "rude". My brother pointed out that it's because South Africans look each other in the eye when they walk past someone, and Londoners don't. I was always terrified someone was going to bump into me because they never looked up.
So, nice trivia game trying to work out the geographic location of most of these
