Someone Asks “What Are You Convinced People Are Pretending To Enjoy?” And 35 People Answer
Trends come and go, and most people want to feel included in them, which probably results in a lot of them pretending to like something just to fit in. It seems that whenever you don't like something that's very popular you're met with "what?!" or just get labeled as a hipster. So this Redditor decided to ask an important and fun question: "What are you convinced people are pretending to enjoy?"
People were quick to jump in and give their honest answers. Some named some really popular things that a lot of people seem to like, while some named some more peculiar and specific ones. If you have an answer yourself, feel free to share it in the comment section below! And if you liked this post, click here for a similar one.

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Nothing. People legitimately have different tastes. Just let people enjoy their IPAs/gin/pickles/spicy food/whatever. If that's not your thing, have something else.
Exactly this, but STOP trying to convince me your stuff is the right stuff and mine is bad!
You must add some thin slices of cucumber in the gin and tonic.
Load More Replies...I completely and utterly disagree. You are quite simply WRONG. Celery is the devils penis and anyone who likes it is clearly broken. I will not hear of any arguments to the contrary. Period.
This entire listicle should just end with this one comment. People have different tastes and things that they love- that’s what makes us so unique and fascinating. It’s fine to live certain shows or hobbies that aren’t part of the mainstream.
Sooo.....you believe everyone always presents their actual and true likes and dislikes, and never falsely pretends to one or other other to, say, fit in, or to project a specific image of themselves to others, be it for positive or nefarious reasons? You are right that everyone has their own tastes and their perfect right to them without criticism, but I can think of many circumstances where one might pretend to others that aren't genuinely theirs. However, personally I will take people at face value. They say they like something, I will assume they really do, and good for them.
Load More Replies...While that might be the ‘goal’ some (most) people will ‘like’ things just to fit in with a group. I grew up in a small town and with a very special ‘don’t care what you think of me’ attitude because of that but I do understand conforming to a fad or whatever to ‘fit in’ even if I don’t do that myself.
The Kardashians.
I'd rather watch paint dry. At least you can see the texture of the paint change, and the little drippy bulbs run down the wall.
fun fact: when the Kardashians go swim in the ocean, the amount of plastic doubles!
What a s****y thing to say about someone’s appearance and a judgment against plastic surgery in general.
Load More Replies...I don't even know anyone who pretends to enjoy them, let alone actually enjoys them.
I resent the fact that Kim is now peddling her underpants in commercials that I am forced to watch. One of them starts of with her laying on the ground looking like she's about to do a porn shoot while she tells us "guys, I never used to wear underwear". She even snaps the panties against her a*s to show how stretchy they are. She's so gross. And yes, I usually change the channel or mute the TV, but sometimes I'm not quick enough. :)
Mayonnaise is more interesting than this vapid and narcissistic family.
I’ve never been quite clear on who the Kardashians are. All I know is that there’s a whole heard of them. I suppose that puts me in the “not very interested” crowd.
*Herd. I’m convinced people who say they don’t know who the Kardashians are, are just insincere.
Load More Replies...I cannot understand why corporate media keeps trying to shove these incredibly awful garbage monsters down our throats. Every single one of them is some varying ratio between sociopath and bona-fide criminal.
We asked Patrice Oppliger, Ph.D., some questions about this topic, and she gave some amazing insights: "I agree there are significant social pressures. One of the theories we teach is the theory of reasoned action - that it appears someone's attitude does not match their behaviors; however, there is a social norm element.
I think people often 'fake it until they make it' or are simply giving something a try. I recall not caring for Schitt's Creek initially. Everyone kept telling me to stick with it. It's one of my all-time favorite shows."
Bars and restaurants with loud music and terrible acoustics. What’s the point in being social in a place where they’re trying to make it hard for you to socialize?
Somehow I have a hard time thinking a packed club/bar/restaurant is full of people pretending to enjoy themselves. It's not for me, but as they say, "different strokes for different folks".
When you can't talk - you drink more and that's what they're after, I am afraid.
yes! socializing is hard by default, being not able to hear other people just adds annoyance
Nah, i remember One night ( almost 20 winters ago ) that i went with my friend to a night club, now in all fairness we where completly drunk, but era ended up having a Nice conversation at a " table " we found on the dance floor, later in a brief momento of clarity i noticed the table was actually a frikking 1.5m tall speaker, but that didn't stopped us from continuing our chat.
I've reached the ripe old age of 33 and I can say I'd rather swallow glass than be caught in the bars I used to frequent in my early-20's. I'm also convinced the music is louder now than it used to be.
I'm way older than you and I miss going to bars for the live music. I have no friends to go with anymore.
Load More Replies...Nothing like a nice evening of screaming at your friends and straining to hear their answers while some mediocre wannabe Ed Shearan is crowing in the room with bass so high your stomach is vibrating
The fact that bars and their methods still manage to bring in people and money, means they're doing something right. Only an antisocial person would really hate that scene.
Why do bars and restaurants blast you with music when you want to talk with your friend/s? Never understood it.
Baby showers/reveal parties
Do you mean that you do enjoy them or that you let people know you're not enjoying them?
Load More Replies...I do enjoy baby showers but gender reveals not so much, especially with the disappointing reactions in some videos when the parents (mostly dads) have a girl baby.
I’ve noticed that too, gender disappointment is very real. I’ve seen way too many people disappointed they’re not having a a boy. As for me, I haven’t really cared about gender as much as making sure they’re healthy and getting those early genetic tests done post birth. I have a boy and girl, but that doesn’t mean I won’t end up with two boys or two girls long term wise. =) or whatever it is they decide they feel best suited as their gender, it’s why I’m not too fixated on their “gender” they’ll probably define it themselves as they get older.
Load More Replies...I recently had a friend get mad at me because I told her I hate baby showers and would not attend her daughter's baby shower. She assumed that because I'm a gay man I'd want to go hang with the ladies. I was like, "Nope." She was pissy for a few days. Have a baby shower if you need stuff, but skip the gender reveal. No one cares.
I truly enjoy baby showers, having only ever gone to my families (one sis, two step-sis and our own).
Gender reveal parties are stupid, but baby showers can be fun if you care for the person having the baby.
nothing more punishing than sitting through events like this but the order I'd put in to most excruciating would be 3. weddings, 2. graduations and 1. baby showers
I agree these are all terrible but nothing is worse than a graduation!!! It's usually outside, usually hot, have to dress up, can't talk, and worst....no food OR booze. 😢😢
Load More Replies..."There is also cognitive dissonance at play. When one invests time and energy into a hobby, for example, they may convince themselves they enjoy it because if not, they are inconsistent and have wasted time."
Reality TV. How is watching garbage people complain about their lives entertainment?
It depends. I don't care about the ones with made-up situations, but I like the ones that are like little documentaries about real peoples' lives. They're usually about someone who has a medical/mental problem, like hoarding, or they're obese, or their kids have dental issues. What's wrong with learning about people?
Agreed. It's beneficial to learn how other people live - helps you develop empathy and an understanding for why someone might do something you think is wrong or weird or concerning. Often it seems to be due to how someone was raised, or a health condition, or conditioning through some other means (like in the modeling industry), and know why people act and think a certain way can help you relate or help someone out the best way possible. Or you just learn what you never want to do or be like because the people in the show are petty and merciless and terrible...
Load More Replies...Saying you enjoy something ironically means, you either actually enjoy it, or you don't enjoy it but watch it anyway.
Load More Replies...It's all garbage. Other people's lives are not at all important to me.
How bad it is is what makes it fun. Reality TV is my guilty pleasure.
I’d much rather watch reality TV than some fantasy show or some trite and overdone FBI mystery or crime show.
Those big spider-leg eyelashes they pay for and put on.
There’s a part in a Christopher Moore book where he refers to one of his characters batting her eyelashes like “a convulsing wolf spider” and this is why I love his work. 😂
This is what happens when you use awful old mascara. I try to avoid looking like this. It's a trend, who knew?
No no, it's even worse... they're talking about glued-on lashes I think :-/
Load More Replies...There's a fine line between nice lashes and looking like Snuffleupagus with those things.
I work as an LMT and the number of women that come in with enormous lashes and expect to not leave them in the room when they're done with the massage is insane. Or they can't get comfortable because they're trying to fit giant eyelashes into a small hole for your face is bananas. Edit: I don't want to sound like I'm against it if it's what you like or want to look like, it just doesn't seem practical or comfortable at all lol 😆
"It's generally benign to pretend to like something. The individual may not want to offend others who genuinely like it, or it is something that connects them to others. We all have the desire to fit in. It's a survival tactic. Where there may be some harm is if the activity is hurting others - something that includes racism or sexism, for example.
In my study of humor (The Dark Side of Stand-Up Comedy: Oppliger & Shouse, 2020, Palgrave), I find that laughing at a joke may appear to signal enjoyment - but it could also be politeness, discomfort, or peer pressure. For example, Will Smith's facial expression appeared to signal his enjoyment of Chris Rock's joke about Smith's wife."
3 hour long church services. Jesus gave the sermon on the mound in like 5 minutes. Get over your ego pastor!
He's not the Messiah. He's a very naughty boy!
Load More Replies...ahem, the sermon on the mount went on long enough they needed lunch - loaves and fishes!
Our church has Sunday morning service, Sunday school, bible study. I mentioned to two of our pastors that we have lots of teaching but little in the way of just plain fellowship time to get to know other people. I suggested we have a game day once a month and even agreed to be the host. One of them replied "that sounds great, we can start with a 20 minute lesson......". My heart just dropped. I get lots of teaching, what I need is friends.
Church games nights are great! I don't think the members of my church would have stood for them to be preceded by a sermon, when they were preparing for a 500 or scrabble battle :)
Load More Replies...You might want to check your sources; the Sermon on the Mount is generally thought to have occurred on a hill on the shore of the Lake of Galilee. Another word for hill? Mound.
Load More Replies...I am OK with 3 hour long church services as long as I don´t need to attend.
(*3 hours later) ".....which then brings us back to Ezekiel.....".
Load More Replies...if I was a pastor or whoever does that: JESUS GOOD, SIN BAD, COME BACK NEXT WEEK BYE
When I was growing up (and required to go to church), we had one priest who was a really big football fan. He would squeeze the normally hour long 12:00 pm Sunday mass down to 40 minutes so he could make it home in time for kick-off. We used to call him Father Fast Mass. LOL
Load More Replies..."Sermon on the MOUNT" ... but you know OP, there are other churches to choose from with shorter bite-sized sermons to tickle ears.
The Happy Birthday song. Everyone feels awkward singing it, and awkward having it sung at them. Can we please just not?
I refuse to allow people to sing me happy birthday. It's one of the reasons why I gave up birthdays (a bit overkill, sure).
You sound like my 8yo. Except she still wants the birthday, and all of the presents 🎁🎁🎁
Load More Replies...Some people actually enjoy it. I and my family love singing 'happy birthday' and sometimes make it longer on purpose (like singing two different versions or so). I also like being on the receiving end, even if it IS a bit awkward. It's only scary if it happens in public place or during a big event - but on the other hand you shouldn't sing it in public places or during (other people's) social events anyway.
Imagine how awkward it must be for a bunch of waiters, singing to you, but having zero idea of who you are. Let's not do this.
Oh god, my mom me, and a few other people are going to a restaurant for my birthday and I'm PRAYING the waiters don't sing me happy birthday-
Load More Replies...I would love for anyone to sing me the birthday song on my birthday. It would mean someone wanted to be with me on my birthday. Singing the birthday song in person is always done best in person.
My birthday is 23 December and tends to get forgotten about as everyone is getting ready for Christmas. So I’m honestly happy if people sing Happy Birthday, at least they remembered!
Happy birthday to you, happy birthday to you, happy birthday deeeeerrrrrr Arwen Happy Birthday to You. Do not read until 23rd of December
Load More Replies...This. I purposefully dont tell peeps its my bday because of the song
And to whoever first decided to add all those cha-cha-cha's to Happy Birthday, a curse on you, and your children, and your children's children, for a thousand generations.
I banned "s/he's a jolly good fellow" at my wedding by threatening to not let anyone have any alcohol.
Long-a*s, boring videos of their friends' kids.
Holiday videos... ,"And here's my big toe on the beach in Malta", looks at you in excited expectation of your glowing appraisal.. boring as F.
Pictures and stories also. I'm a proud father, but never show or tell anything about them except if asked
A friend once showed me photos of her stillborn son. She insisted that I had to see him. Very sad but I didn't want to see the photos
Load More Replies...Wedding or holiday videos too, what a bloody nightmare. Please don't show them to me. Pleeeeeease.
That they want you to watch as they hold the screen, watching your every reaction.
Reaction videos. Why would anyone care how a stranger reacts to something? Most of the time, the reaction isn't even real and just played up for the camera.
I like them. I have discovered some new music through these videos and it's fun to watch someone discover bands that blow them away.
I keep on returning to people reacting to Disturbed’s version of Sound of silence. I love the song and I usually love the reaction to the emotion and power of his voice.
Load More Replies...It's not always like that. I find it like watching a show or a video with a friend!
some reaction videos can be pretty educational / informative - not all of them are a dude producing a series of amazings/awesomes/brillliants or the opposites thereof - in some the posters either have relevant background and give you an informed breakdown of what one can see / hear in a video (e.g. The Charismatic Voice YT channel and many similar others of [instrument] teacher reacts to [video] type); in others one has a chance to see that the reaction is rather a discussion of the contents of a video in question through the lens of one's philosophy (e.g. Vin and Sori YT channel)
Charismatic Voice is great. I love her videos and interviews.
Load More Replies...I find reaction videos fascinating. For some it is fun watching kids discover things we've known for decades are awesome. On others watching the lack of watching comprehension is just puzzling. For others, it is kind of like watching a movie with a friend. Mostly, people are just kind of fascinating. Some reactions are so bereft of actual reaction you kind of watch trying to figure out why they thought 'reaction' videos were a good idea for them.
The only reaction videos I enjoy are when people give a baby a lemon for the first time. Hilarious every time! The faces they make are priceless. Seriously, if you're ever sad just go watch some baby videos on YouTube. Surprised babies are also quite funny - as well as kids who hate their first taste of baby food. :)
I admit, I kinda adore them if the content is something I’m into. I like the vicarious “first” experience. It feels like sharing. And sometimes, people’s reacts to dumb s**t on videos also feels like confirmation bias, which I admit makes the the brain prrr. Just have maintain awareness that it IS confirmation bias.
It’s a phenomenon observed first (I think) in Asia with Mukbang. Some people don’t want the pressure of having real relationships but like the illusion of companionship. I have ADHD and can be very socially awkward. These days, I’ll not even watch a TV series/movie; I’ll watch the reaction version with one of my fave reactors. After a while you get to know their personalities and it’s quite nice. This may be very sad-sounding, but it’s very helpful for some people that don’t want to be around others but also want the presence of someone there (without the stress of interaction).
Live action remakes
The first Jungle Book film was live action in 1942 starring Sabu. The cartoon was the remake.
I agree. There are plenty of books that I would love to be movies but they just remake Disney movies and it gets annoying
Nothing, but NOTHING can beat the books. I've read them at least 10 times and they can always make me cry. If you haven't read them, please do. Too many people think they are the cartoons. They are epic adventure, coming of age, good vs. Evil. You owe it to yourself. My cast is the best cast for me and it's all unknown
but the thing about books made into tv shows or movies is..... no reading. well unless you have subtitles or closed captioning.
Load More Replies...I am currently planning a version where a computer AI reads the ebook version, and you see the pages being turned while the computer uses text-to-speech. The director's version includes highlighting the words being read. No subtitles of course, it is intended for a US audience. Wondering if the computer should use one or more different voices...
The Jungle Book poster that is pictured is from 94, and not really a remake but more of a sequel after Mowgli is grown. With Jason Scott Lee, Cary Elwes and John Cleese. It is superb. The live action Disney remake from 2016 was yeesh
It's purely a method of retaining copyright on the "Disney version" of a story. However, as long as the film is *at least* 25% different to the animated version, then Disney don't have to pay the original writers/directors/animators etc. so much in royalty fees.
Open relationships. I'm sure there's some genuine believers but I wonder how many partners are opening up their relationship to keep their partner and just are afraid to be alone and date again. When I see couples talk about it it always looks like one person is way more into it than the other.
I have. Different people work in different ways.
Load More Replies...I mean personally I would never want an open relationship, but I mean as long as everyone is ok with it, they can do them.
They can, but it still seems fake and like someone probably isn’t okay with it.
Load More Replies...I've seen more than a few articles which go something like (gender neutral because they weren't the same makeup): "We opened our relationship to see others even though my partner was reluctant, I got no dates and my partner got a new friend, they're cheating on me!" Which makes me wonder what was actually intended here.
I just had a friend mention they were trying this and at first I was like “sure, yeah, sounds reasonable, if everyone involved is ok with it, do what makes you happy”, but at night my brain started processing it more and now I’m worried about all parties involved. >.<
I'd prefer to be in an open relationship because I am a s*x-repulsed asexual, and if my partner is perfect, but enjoys it, who am I to stop him from having it. I'd much rather have him satisfied and have his fun, then me and him can do our own fun
I'm not generally for open relationships, but I know someone who told her husband to go get a girlfriend because she was done catering to his physical and emotional needs. So he did, and she's a lot happier. Kinda like a separation but keeping the roommate and parenting.
That is more like a separation but still being roommates not an open marriage
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Having constant drama at work, in friend groups, and elsewhere really can't be all that exciting... can it? If I have one friend causing me too much drama I usually avoid it like it's the plague.
I think this is the other way round. I know plenty of people who claim to hate drama but actually love it, or at least seem to get themselves caught up in it a lot
My theory is that people learn this from TV. A TV show is nothing without drama and some people have learned to think that's how life is supposed to be. If it doesn't occur, they create it.
Load More Replies...I just had this convo with someone. I have a relative that attracta drama every which way they go and it is exhausting to constantly hear about it.
My mom is in her 70's, and I swear her group of friends are like a bunch of 13 year olds. All they do is gossip and trash talk about each other on the phone. They're the Mean Golden Girls. ;)
Some friends are toxic and too drama-filled. However, dealing with people (and life) requires a certain amount of drama. If you want to be a good/adequate friend/family member than you learn how to be there for someone (when it's not detrimental to you). Life doesn't exist without drama; birth, marriage, successes, failures, promotion, enjoyment, music, art, etc. People waving their hand at drama expecting it to disappear are just being silly.
This one usually goes the other way around. People who say they hate drama secretly love it.
These things bring about adrenaline rushes, rage induces them very well too. The adrenaline spikes and rushes can be quite addictive to some people, so starting drama and making yourself or someone else angry can get them, in a way, high.
Podcasts where the hosts just laugh at everything they/other hosts/guests say. Nothing is that funny for that long, dude.
Few-hours-long, 'spontaneous' (ill-prepared) podcasts full of forced jokes and/or inside jokes. If I'd want to listen to other people's casual chats, I'd just awkwardly stand near random people, eavesdropping on them.
A thousand times this... When the first twenty minutes is just chatting before they get to the topic, I usually end up switching to something else.
Load More Replies...I have only found one good podcast, i don't get why people listen the kind where it's just a friend group talking
When I hear those chatty podcasts, I picture the listeners as sad people sitting alone in a dingy apartment, pretending the podcasters are their friends, just hanging out together.
Load More Replies...I agree. People need to realize that not everybody with a microphone and an opinion is a podcaster. Some of the ones I've tried out are so bad that you just want to slit your wrists halfway through the first episode. People need to learn the hard way that they just aren't as funny as they think they are. I rarely will start a podcast until it has been going for at least 100 episodes. Show me you have what it takes to survive before I waste my time on you.
That's why I stopped listening to one podcast years ago. Can't even remember the name of it. The content was decent and interesting, but the two guys spent too much time joking and laughing, and that ruined it for me after a while.
sometimes when the host barely laughs but then one episode something is really funny, it can be fun cause it makes me laugh too
I was thinking about something like this the other day about David Dobrik's videos, the way he laughs so exaggerated and over the top, like, dude, calm down, ain't that funny lol.
Clubbing. It's loud, there's 50 people all up in your space constantly, the music sucks half the time, the alcohol is watered down, there's so many drunk people that have to be either carried out or they puke all over the sidewalk outside, everything is overpriced. Literally nothing about it is good enough to warrant doing it repeatedly.
Same, it's weird how that changes. I used to love going out to clubs, but now you would have to force me.
Ditto, in my early 20s i would end up in a club twice a week, today in my mid 40s only at gun point....
Load More Replies...and if you're a female, you get groped by dudes who assume you're there to get groped and frankly, I could get groped much cheaper and in better circumstances than a dumb club.
I hate the meat market type places....everyone crowding around the bathroom mirrors, preening. People dancing extra slutty so people will look at them. It all seems to be about getting attention instead of just catching a little buzz and having fun with your friends. Not like drinking in the Canadian Legion basement I'll tell you, THAT'S a good time! ......*cheers*
I mean, gay clubs are the s**t. I LOVE going clubbing somewhere I feel safe and am less likely to get groped by a man. My girlfriend and I used to go all the time before the pandemic.
LinkedIn.
I'm honoured and humbled to have had this great new opportunity to comment on this post! It has really made my career trajectory worthwhile!
One is people desperately trying to get noticed by their peers whilst the other is.. hang on which was I talking about with the first example? Umm.
Load More Replies...LinkedIn is good to post a "professional" version of yourself. It's still a good social network for professionals. Jobs can be found on there so don't knock it.
I hate LinkedIn. Uppity version of Facebook, which I also abhor.
I refuse to join. No matter how much peer pressure I get about how it would be good for my career will convince me.
If only I was as popular in real life as I seem to be o LinkedIn
It's sad that LinkedIn has become such a must, when really it's a security risk as well as a risk to future jobs.
I liked it at first(years ago), but now it’s just a Facebook wannabe full of influencers and asinine posts.
Twitter. I can't comprehend why anyone would WANT to "tweet"
I love shouting into the void (aka tweeting). It's a great way of getting stuff nobody cares about off your chest without boring my SO. In the case of this particular example, someone bemoaning twitter who is posting on reddit is like moaning about fast food when in McDonalds.
Not really, Reddit is toxic but has a POINT to the subreddits. Twitter is just a soap box for anyone to use for better or for worse Its more like someone hating fast food but eating a hamburger
Load More Replies...I have Tweeted at companies and actually received meaningful responses. There's a gas station/convenience store in the northern US called Kwik Trip that when I asked for mini tacos - they got them. 😆
I hate this! I refuse to get Twitter yet most companies use it as customer support/service because they can't be bothered to have proper customer support
Load More Replies...I count on BP to take the most interesting Twitter and post them for our reading enjoyment.
I have a somewhat semi-active Twitter account which I use to follow wrestlers around the world. The point of Twitter for me is to interact or send encouraging tweets to them. Hey, they may read or skim past it, but knowing it's on their wall somewhere is good enough for me. Some even respond and that always makes my day.
I don’t have twitter but sometimes I just want to share a thought with someone, *anyone*, and when there’s no-one around just at that moment I guess that’s when I’d want to tweet.
I watch a live safari show and the main way questions while the safari is happening is through twitter. If you are interacting with a specific community then twitter is a great tool. They have recently started migrating this away from twitter and on to their own site chat, and it's far inferior. If you don't have that and you're just aimlessly clicking around, well yeah, it can be boring at best, a cesspool's at worst.
Theres a lot of info there, if you go strictly after what you want and stay away from all that toxicity , i dont post only lurk
I liked the limited characters, I enjoy being brief. But there is so much I hate about it. The misinformation to start with.
Trying to make everything Instagram ready.
I've fallen in that trap before, deleted everything but Reddit.
I'm much happier now living in the moment, watching my kids play instead of taking photos of them, eating my food instead of standing above it trying to take a picture in a crowded restaurant.
Once you stop feeding your ego, a lot of worry stops with it.
As someone who doesn’t have baby pictures, or pictures of myself younger. I take a lot of pictures of my kids, however I don’t post it on Instagram. I think it’s kinda dangerous to really put pictures out of your kids and they’re too young to consent having their photos everywhere.
Someone came up with an idea.(Sorry don't know who to credit) Getting an email address for your child and emailing pictures with a quick explanation of where/when they were taken and anything memorable. Give it to them when they are 18 or 21.
Load More Replies...I have deleted TikTok and Instagram, the only social medias I've ever had. My life is so much happier without all the toxicity
I was recently talking into posting my pictures of the animals I petsit on Instagram despite not being a social media person and never having used Instagram befroe and I'm enjoying it, but I think it's how you look at it. I'm just happy sharing adorable fur babies I love with people who enjoy seeing them and everything I follow is also adorable animals and it's great :)
As someone who loves photography, I used to love instagram. It introduced me to a lot of amazing artists. However, it’s become nothing more than a playground for Influencers. All I see in my feed anymore are bizarre advertisements, strange reaction and dance reels of people I don’t even follow. I’m rarely shown the content of people I even follow. Also, I’d have to post reels every day or lose followers. It’s kind of sad anymore.
Taking endless pictures for Instagram but missing out on the experience
You can still take a million pics of your kids but decide not to share them publicly, says someone with 60.000 pics in their cloud.
I only use Facebook, stooped or deleted everything else..... never felt better !!
I’m guilty of taking pictures of food but not at restaurants and I don’t have insta. Instead I’m sharing results with friends and family when I try new recipes. We all love to cook.
Abstract modern art. You know, the orange square on a blank canvas type thing. “It really speaks to me.” 🤨
If it speaks to you, either your dealer is really good or you should change your pharmacist/doctor.
Or people have different tastes in art, and we should just let them enjoy what they want.
Load More Replies...I painted a big blue rectangle in my back yard so that people looking from Google earth think I have a big swimming pool.
Orange square on a canvas is minimalist art not abstract. Breaking a real object down to it's base lines and elements. Abstract takes an object or scene and distorts or abstracts it from its true form. Most modern art is exploring techniques that have not been done before so they end up in museums because that artist was the first to come up with that idea. But I get it. Some is just shock appeal or maybe they were really high. No telling. I saw some stuff at the Ft. Worth Modern that I just shook my head at and walked away. Stuff I saw kids doing in art class in college. A wide molding picture frame with green paint wide brushed across the canvas and the frame. All drippy. And then there was the letter I out of a wood ceiling beam scrap sitting on the ground with a guard saying "Don't touch the letter" nearby.....not my taste.
Also in my opinion, their art required actual skill to produce, as in knowing how light falls on and reflects from objects, how perspective works and how paint behaves on a surface. Aside form actually being able to paint/draw.
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American talent shows like quite literally “America’s got talent”, and “American Idol”. Who the f**k are these shows catered to? The dialogue is cheesy, idiotic, and fake as f**k and the structure doesn’t make sense. Back then it had categories and the contestants would compete against their own groups which at least made it somewhat interesting. Now? Anything f*****g goes, and you could have a wanna-be jabawacky dance group of about 20 people Vs little Timmy playing a harmonica with his a*****e. It makes no god damn sense.
Some of the acts are actually amazing. Check out Light Balance on youtube, for instance. They got their start on America's Got Talent. The judges and inter act talking is often stupid, but there are some acts that are genuinely worth watching.
Just the American versions? How about ALLLLLLL the other countries that have the same bs?
I'd think most of people start watching them to see people making a jack-a*s off themselves on stage and sometimes get invested in one or two emotionally charged contestants
It seems every year it looks harder to even audition. Like you have to be able to sing better than bjork whilst conducting gandalf wizardry magic simultaneously being able to play the piano with your toes and allowing your acrobatic dancing warthog parade around with clothes and can lead you off stage because it's actually a service warthog for the blind - which you are from that tear jerking tragedy you had when you were 7 years old and was trapped in a tree and the killer ziller wasp of the jungle stung you in the eye causing you to be blind but you obtained professor X like super powers which you were too shy to show until AGT gave you your one shot to showcase to the world. giving you your own show in vegas. lol
Anything that requires an insane amount of waiting in line. Amusement parks, brunches at fancy places, night clubs, etc.
Like, you're engaging in an a barrier to make the "thing" you want seem worthwhile.
I dunno, I despise lines.
I'm not sure this person understands how lines work. They're not there to be a barrier between you to make something worthwhile, they're there because the venue isn't ready yet/there's not enough room for hundreds of people to get on a ride at the same time. Right?
You can understand the idea of lines but still hate them.
Load More Replies...Honestly, I don't see any reason to pay so much money to go someplace - like Disneyland- just to spend the whole day standing in lines and only getting to ride on two or three of them.
If you're interested in going to Disneyland/Universal/etc, (and I understand it's not everyone's cup of tea) I highly recommend researching the off season and going then. My family went to Disneyland in November and we experienced almost no lines. Breezed right past the "two hour wait from here" signs and got to ride our favorites multiple times back to back. Was it expensive - hell yes - but we still talk about it a few years later because we all had to much stress free fun. However, someone would have to pay me to do that same trip in July/August!
Load More Replies...My job once had a function that is kinda like a white-collar fair without the fun. While walking to a mandatory meeting, which is the only reason why I was there, I walked past an extremely long line. What was it for? To get free excess supplies the company ordered from years past—t-shirts with prior years stamped on them, mousepads, cheaply made office junk that no one ever actually uses with the company's logo, etc. I'm convinced that people only got in line because the length of the line itself convinced that the junk is suddenly valuable and worth it. I'm sure they all ended up in the trash by the end of the day.
Yeah, I don't do lines. Lunch: line at the Doner stand? I get something else. Clubs: Want me to queue up to spend money at your establishment? Nope. Gone. Public transportation: Waiting for the bus? Nope. I drive.
You know what OP is talking about, no need to be pedantic
Load More Replies...Watching pro golf on tv.
I like it. Not for the sport - no idea who anyone is, don't care who wins - but I find it strangely relaxing. Same with snooker. I think it's a combination of the slow pace of the game and the hushed tones of the commentators; it's not *quite* ASMR, but it's in the same general area.
The hushed tones of everyone besides John "shout it into the pocket" Virgo :)
Load More Replies...My parents will play golf all morning, then come home to watch golf on TV. I guess it's one of those things you either love or hate. They didn't start playing until their late 50's, so maybe I'm just not old enough yet? LOL, fat chance!
My dad puts it on so he can nap! Daddy knows what's up!
To each his own. My late father used to take off work every year for the Masters Tournament. I found out that the people at his work assumed he was flying to Georgia every year to watch the tournament. In reality, he stayed home , glued to the TV watching attentively the entire week. He absolutely was not pretending to enjoy himself. I don't see it, myself, but I only ever played golf occasionally. My dad played often until his hip went out and needed to be replaced. My heart aches for him, having to give up so many activities because of his hip. I never thought about it when he was alive, because he was very stoic, and never complained or lamented all that he had lost. His zeal for watching pro golf was the only indication of how much he missed playing, and it went right over my head. Thoughtless, insensitive child, even as an adult, I owed him more compassion than that. Treat your parents well, if for no other reason than to avoid regrets when they are gone that can eat you alive.
My brother used to say "The only thing more boring than golf on TV is golf on the radio."
Kombucha. Every, single one I've tried. Just undrinkable!
I actually like Kombucha very much and I don't get the hatred for it online. Maybe people expect something like Soda from it and treat as such.
I expect something palatable from it and have never found it. Won't try again
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I used to love kombucha, especially home-brewed, non-fizzy varieties. Now with my IBS, I can't have it. I miss the energy boost you could get without insane chemically tasting energy drinks.
I really love it. One of the few drinks I can enjoy that's not loaded with sugar or caffeine.
Getting black out drunk
I think most black out drunkenness is not done on purpose - I've never seen it happen to someone that wasn't embarrassed.
Alcoholics get to a point where they know they don't enjoy it but they can't stop on their own.
Nah, just took too many shots while playing drinking games with my latest Tinder hookup and lost a few memories of the night.
Load More Replies...I once knew a man who, in recovery, would talk about the end of his drinking, and he would wake up the next day after a blackout and, shaking and sick, would watch the news to see if there were any hit and runs. He'd also check his car to make sure there were no dents from a horrible accident that he couldn't remember.
I said to my sister once, when she was early 20s, I was late 20s, that I hated not remembering everything I did while drunk. It happened to me once or twice 10 years earlier and I never got so drunk again. My sister said 'that's how you know it was a good night!' and I just could not understand it.
A lot of popular modern rap music. There’s a lot of good stuff but there’s some where I’m like “seriously?”
Not to mention the lyrics full of sexism, drug and alcohol use (music videos too).
My dad used to say the same about my music. We're just getting older.
Mumble rap is terrible. The second I hear autotune and mumbling, I change stations.
The so called songs that have one line. That's it, just one line, sung over and over again, usually sung in a couple of different ways and at least 3 or 4 times with the long winded oh-ooo-ah-ohhoooooo noise to make the 'song' longer.
NFTs
People liked them because they thought they were going to get rich, but it turns out that buying a receipt that says you have exclusive rights to a number that points to a JPEG of a gorilla is a waste of money. Who'd have thought it?
Not to mention that if you show it off anywhere absolutely anyone can do a right-click-save or a print screen and now they have your ugly monkey too!
Load More Replies...This is truly one I can’t wrap my mind around no matter how hard someone tries to explain it to me. Why in the world would you want to spends thousands of dollars on some hideous jpeg of an ugly monkey wearing a pirate hat and smoking a corncob pipe?
I do like the SNL skit on NFTs though - they themselves, not so much. But that is hilarious.
NFTs we’re a thing, before they were called that. Artists used to make collection sets of characters with themes, and sell them. If artists can make money, all the power to them. It’s probably a lot less taxing than commission art work.
Still - I'd much rather have a piece of art made by an actual artist who put their time and heart into it than a hideous, vastly overpriced AI-generated monkey made by literal white supremacists. And I'd also rather not use crypto which is a NIGHTMARE for the environment.
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Insanely spicy food.... stop it. You're crying and there is no way you are enjoying that for any other reason except to brag about how hot your food is.
I love spice... when there is flavor. If it tries to melt my earwax then... NO!
Exactly, when all you can taste is fire and no flavour, then it's not a good spicy meal. Anyone here knows "First we feast?" (https://firstwefeast.com/video/)?
Load More Replies...It releases endorphins. The tears are just a result of your mucous membranes going crazy in an attempt to flush out the irritant (same as with chopping onions), and some people enjoy pain in a controlled setting. It's like BDSM, only you don't need to find anyone else to join in! (Related: big rollercoasters, extreme sports, etc.)
High tolerance and I love it. Grew up eating my Dad's food. He's Indian/African. My eggs where spicy.
Don't underestimate people who like the thrill. But I agree, if your stomach starts feeling off then stop because you can do some serious damage
Some of us can stand the heat. I mean, I've seen people fake it to be "cool", but I can honestly eat insanely spicy things and not realize how "hot" they are to others.
Being forced to keep the economy going in spite of rising costs and lower incomes.
Some of us still have to pay the rent and buy the groceries. Nothing worse than someone that doesn't contribute - no matter the size of the effort.
This I can fully get behind, not to mention lack of sick days. The viral epidemic every Fall through Winter, has been sending children/immune compromised, elderly and even regular people to the Emergency room. Perfect attendance is stressed so much in School. Stress, and sleep deprivation weakens the immune system so much. They definitely need to hire more people to make up for someone being gone 2 weeks to fully recover and not be a risk to other’s health/well being. They simply hire less, and drain their workers to death.
Weird addition. Someone doesn't understand basic living on-grid very well? I mean, I like food, for example.... Lol
Yes.... because just taking everybody's money away and making everything free is the secret, right? Tell me, OP... exactly how much of the crypto kool-aid have you had today? You sound like the kind of person who is just waiting for the government to collapse so you can rise to the top with your fake money.
An economy built on people buying c**p they do not need is not a stable economy
Surströmming. There is absolutely no way people in Sweden actually enjoy this can of puke.
Edit: As people are telling stories about their experiences with Surströmming I want to tell one of my own.
Once upon a time in Sweden, a mild summer in august, my family decided to host a dinner at our house for our friends. We had a lot of food of different kinds on the table and our friends brought some food with them as well. The weather was with us so we decided to eat on the porch outside. As we were getting ready to eat we decided it was time to open the cans…oh god! What occurred after have been stuck in my head for ages.
First came the smell, some of us almost puked, others kept their stoic faces on. But the craziest ones of us took a deep breath and said: “delicious”.
Shortly after, the invasion started. Hundreds upon hundreds of flies. There was chaos, crying, despair and my father screaming: “we have to get away from here.” We all grabbed what we could take and ran inside. Watched trough the windows as a cloud of flies descended upon the rest.
*heavy sigh*! aah yes, Sweden!
Open it outside... the can pops and it smells like the alien death of a thousand crabs on a hot summers day. I'd rather eat rusty nails with vinegar.
It doesn’t taste the same way that it smells. I am one of the “weirdo’s” who loves the stuff and I would never ever in a million years open the can indoors. Usually we open in a bucket of water since there is a significant risk of being sprayed with the stinky parts. I didn’t like it until I started eating nato regularly for the health benefits. Made me start enjoy more and more fermented foods. But if you try it don’t do the youtube version and pop slimy fish out of the can in a cloud of the vapour’s. First time a tiny bit fish (more like seasoning) on a nice bread with sliced potato, chopped onions and sour cream is the way if you truly want to give it a chance.
Swede here. It’s true - with the exception of a few lunatics who’ll have to row their own boat, we fυcking hate it. Most of have never even been in contact with it and that’s because it should be categorized as “biological weapon” and not “food”. Anything you have to open under water outside isn’t fit for human consumption.
biological weapon...hahaha......sounds like my sister's cooking.
Load More Replies...AS a Swede all I read is a group of people that has never experienced it before tried to handle it like any other canned goods and learnt their lesson 😃
Some people say durian smells terrible. Well, it's not that bad compared to Surströmming. And tasted better too.
It is brilliant stuff........but only in the ventilation fresh air intake of a car...they would never get rid of that smell
I would have trouble unless I went vegan in many countries. No mystery meat nor stinky anything.
Small talk.
I'm happy to live in Northern-Germany. Smalltalk is not a thing Here. Even a greeting using more than one word ist Seen as being too talkative.
This sounds like home. A dream come true. I'm not out in public to make friends.
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Load More Replies...Oh boy you'd love it in Finland. No one here looks at one another, nor do they speak to each other. Your own space and privacy is really respected
Worst. United States introvert. You know, the country where you’re not allowed to be an introvert.
I was being sarcastic. Although, it’s well known that introverts here usually have a difficult time. You peeps need to calm down. This isn’t a contest.
Load More Replies...i have to disagree on this one - I mean I like small talk sometimes because it can lead to an interesting conversation and sometimes it allows you to little by little develop and new understanding of someone. I know it's not everyone's cup of tea - but people love to do it in Japan. It's interesting.
Growing up with an un-diagnosed ADHD extrovert, I know there are some people who do like small talk. I am not one of them.
I like the catching up small talk with someone I haven't seen in awhile.
But that is catching up, not small talk. Small talk is just to cover up silence.
Load More Replies...Nespresso coffee, no clue why people are willing to pay such a premium for burnt tasting coffee
Nespresso: brought to you by Nestle. Just like Nescafé instant coffee. But George Clooney says it's good so it must be, right?
depends on which pod you are trying. You obviously tried the very dark roast.
@ censorshipsucks: The only one, within the choice of the brand, that tastes somehow like coffee. Prefs differ ;-)
Load More Replies...I've had several of those Nespresso pods. I could never remember the names, but I made sure to try different color pods to see the difference. Overall, it's not bad but I think it's overpriced. Maybe I'm basic, but I'd rather use my French press and get coffee from local coffee roasters.
I don't understand why people need to have a ln unsustainable disposable life.
You aren't doing it right or you bought the wrong kind. People who drink it without adding creamer are into tar coffee but if you make it correctly it's divine.
Compare a standard usa coffee to an Arabian homemade coffee. Now define coffee ;-)
Load More Replies...If you take the same coffee beens and try to rank them by end product quality, the first will *usually* be "in grains", second "ground" and then "instant" at the very end.
Running.
ETA: Exercise of any kind really. I have ADHD and struggle with eating healthy and exercising. I’ve just never been able to find any consistency with it and part of it is I just don’t enjoy exercise no matter what I do, and I’ve tried a lot of things to make it better. I’m a therapist but we obviously have our struggles too, and this is one of my greatest challenges, especially after the past three years. I’ve appreciated all the comments and insights and am thinking about ways to get moving again!
Once my friend said to me "Let's go for a rum!". Obviously I got excited and said YES, but we ended up running for some reason. We never found any rum that day, but we're still running together and looking.
using adhd as an excuse for poor lifestyle choices and habits is becoming an overused excuse
Exactly. Like, what does eating healthy and exercise has to do with having ADHD?!
Load More Replies...Find something you actually enjoy. Something that doesn't feel like exercise, but inadvertently is.
I'm loving aerial silks and pole fitness and it barely feels like exercise because it's so fun!
Load More Replies...I've tried so many things. I just don't understand when people say exercising give them energy. It just makes me dog tired. I tried running. What is this runners high they speak of? I'm not coordinated enough for a lot of things. Once upon a time I like to ride my bike, but that is no longer an option. I just don't get the joy I guess. I get bored with it so so very quickly and it just makes me extremely tired. I don't get how people find it fun. 'yay, I keep doing repetitive movements, so mentally stimulating'. Team sports, 'yay I got the ball', really don't get it.
You probably already tried it, but dancing? martial arts? parkour? Anyway, if that's how you feel during and after exercise, it almost sounds like you might have something wrong :-(
Load More Replies...You don’t have to run to get cardio, you can swim or try other alternate forms of exercise. Even walking uphill versus running, really works your muscles. As for eating healthy, just have to find what works for you and dabble in recipes. Don’t try to make life harder for yourself by trying to do what others do, what works for them, may not work for you.
There are other ways to gain exercise that don't involve running but do cater to the neurodivergent brain. I would walk with music playing, somtimes daydreaming too, for hours. That worked for me but won't for everyone. Explore your options.
Exactly. It took me a while to find what I liked and worked for me, but now I'd happily do those sports daily if I could. Plus with ADHD it helps burn off energy that I otherwise just hold onto and that then builds up and causes anxiety or depression or getting mad at someone over some stupid thing. If I can exercise and get to a baseline, it doesn't affect relationships with people and it helps all areas of mental health.
Load More Replies...I absolutely despise exercise, but I love hiking, kayaking, biking, surfing, and paddleboarding. I would last maybe 5 minutes, tops, in a gym before I got bored, but I could hike all day. I suppose the trick is finding something you enjoy.
THIS. I cannot stand physical therapy...riding five minutes in their exercise bike is tortiously long. But put me on a trail in the woods and I'll bike 12 miles without a thought because I enjoy the scenery and being outdoors. I try to take classes like dance or do sessions of a sport with other people because then there's accountability, socialization, learning, and seeing other people do certain feats pushes me to improve myself so maybe I can do that cool thing myself some day
Load More Replies...I love running! It's my 'me-time.' It's just me, my music, and the feeling of my shoes hitting the ground. It's entirely cathartic for those who are avid.
Other people
You think all people are pretending to like other people? Marriages, children, friends? We are all faking it?
It's sarcasm, no need to get your panties in a bunch. :)
Load More Replies...I’m met some really amazing people, many who I call friends. There are some truly kindhearted, unique, and fun people out there— sometimes it just takes some time to find them.
Going to a children's performance, especially if their own kids aren't currently on stage
The sound of kids singing makes me want to pull my fingernails off one by one
I think they were talking about having to sit through the whole thing just to see the one minute dance your kid does. However you have a point. In Dallas a while back my niece and nephew went to a huge soccer event with kids from all over the state. A girl was kidnapped and killed. The police asked for everyone's videos. They found like 200 convicted child offenders just walking around in the crowds. No kids of their own there. Creepy as hell. They did catch the perpetrator.
At my kids school, there is no public at the performances. You receive a link to download the video.
Your kid’s artwork. Yes, it sucks, but you have to pretend to like it and stick it on the refrigerator door anyway.
Unless you are a teacher at a school where your students are in a play? I know a lot of teachers at my school that come to our school's productions to watch their students, NOT because they are a p*do.
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Having a job
I enjoy working, I don’t enjoy the exploitation and lack of benefits. It’s extremely imbalanced.
I like to keep busy - that's kind of a job. Keep the house cleanish, make something to eat, keeping the yard in order, doing artwork...
Depends upon what you do & fancy. I love to cook and be creative, hence the Chemistry background. Working in the biomedical field which enable us to prolonge life & its quality. Every hypothesis proven practically is a victory. Yeah, I hate to get up in the morning and go to work but also have to pay my bills. Nevertheless it aint a bad job.
Waking up before dawn, to work out
I.... like it. Going out when there's no one on the street, with my favourite podcast on. It's the best moment of the day.
How do you get to that place, though? I'm such a night person and have tried, with limited success, to sleep train my body. Something always seems to happen right as I'm about finished/an earlier riser - I get sick, have to travel, etc and it's back to square one.
That’s the only acceptable time to work out in my opinion. Not doing all that s**t after dinner.
Kale. Love eating many leafy greens, except kale.
I think kale is completely misunderstood in America. In Germany, it is a traditional savoury winter dish, stewed and served with special sausage and potatoes. I do not know who first had the idea that it could be a smoothie or salad ingredient, but it was never meant to be consumed that way.
If you pan fry it with oil in a hot pan, it's actually nice. Finely chopped though. I swear that stuff is 99% fibre though.
Maintaining their jobs as YouTube, TikTok, Instagram personalities.
I *briefly* had *mild* success with a channel on YT 10 years ago and it was nowhere near the level things are now. And I see the production value and the regularity of some of the content. And I just think how much pressure these folks feel to feed the machine or perish.
They don't feel the need to "feed the machine", at least from experience and talking to people who are youtubers as a job. Most youtubers treat it exactly like they treat any other self employment job, many genuinely enjoy what they do and love entertaining people. It's not for everyone but it is genuinely enjoyed.
There are a few youtubers I follow - mostly technical content such as BigCliveDotCom who do it more for the passion. They have normal day jobs and then post YT content cos they enjoy it. I know there are some like Linus (I am a fan btw) who are doing it for the money which is evident by the massive enterprise he has created but there are many more doing it for fun.
Black licorice.
VonBlade which are you favourites? I love the bobbly ones and the filled liquorice rolls
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I love black liquorice especially salmiakki. Sadly I can’t have it now because I have celiac disease and most liquorice contains wheat flour
Getting older
I am ok with getting older, while my wife gets older with me and my children are growing.
It’s okay to be sad as we get older, about getting older. It can be hard as time goes by. There’s a lot of worries with health and finances as we age, and a lot of stress about retirement options.
I'm pushing 60 and I would never go back in time if given the chance. I love this age. Yes, I am slowly down a bit, but I am enjoying things more. I know what is important in life now. Family and faith are the most important parts of my life. Yes, I am an empty nester. Yes, I live alone and no, that is not a bad thing. For the first time since 1993, I can do for myself. I am still available for my two kiddo's if the need me, but I am old enough, smart enough, and have the funds now to do what I want with in limits. The only thing youth gives you is more energy. Age gives you more appreciation.
No getting older is f*****g awesome. I’m smarter and hotter and have more money than I ever have in life.
I can take or leave aging but continuing to mature, learn and grow is the bees knees and if you don't understand this you're doing life wrong.
Drake
For me there's only one Drake and that's Sir Francis.
Load More Replies...Eating healthy. I know it has a ton of benefits, and i try to keep my diet as healthy as possible for my good. But a lot of people who eat healthy stuff say that they enjoy it, and i really don't think they're being genuine. Unhealthy food (burgers, pizza, fried chicken, coke, beer, etc) is more fun/instantly rewarding for people in general.
I enjoy a good burger, but I do eat healthy 90% of the time. I really do just enjoy fresh food and my body feels far more amazing. I don’t find junk to be rewarding - if you’re not used to it, more than treat here and there can make you quite sick.
Healthy food is delicious....most people who say it's not have never had a decent cooked healthy meal. Burgers aren't necesarily unhealthy...sure if you are eating s****y mcdonalds but a good homemade burger doesn't hve to be.
Personally, heavy oils and sugars, make me feel awful. Healthy foods don’t make my body feel as terrible afterwards. I don’t want to have a tum or nap, after a greasy meal or drink a ton of water after having so much sugar. Excessive amounts of sugar just makes me feel dehydrated. Then Grease just makes me feel so sluggish afterwards.
My sister-in-law is one of these people. On one occasion when she & my brother stayed with us she was eating some revolting-looking & smelling home-made concoction for breakfast that she'd brought with her. When I commented on the aroma & asked her how it tasted she told me she ate it because it was healthy & not because of how it tasted...
Vegan “cheese”
If you've ever tried to melt this abomination over a veggie burger, you would be better off doing a double back flip into a volcano.
it's ok, sure better than tortured cow cheese, from a moral point of view. I suppose it depends on which country you're in and whether they have a decent product. Vegan cheese certainly is better than american "cheese" singles.
The range of European cheeses is massive and very tasty.
Load More Replies...Some people are allergic to real cheese, i am and cheese alternatives have improved hugely in the last few years, some are ok now 12 years ago there was only one brand and it tasted of soap
vegan anything. if you're so opposed to eating animal derived foods then don't make heavily processed fake versions of it packaged in enough plastic to make an island in the pacific. and vegan leather. call it what it is....plastic
People still want comfort food sometimes, whether or not they're vegan. Maybe try not telling people what to do since it doesn't affect you at all.
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Your boss’s jokes.
That nasty fermented shark they over in Iceland.
Hakarl? I plan to try it, but only with 3-4x the shot of brennivin.
Icelanders have to be inventive. But look at the planet, some inventions suck.
same could be said for heavily processed, artificial foods most of the western world consumes
Being a parent to Kids aged 0-2.
Even though my son had severe colic for the first 6 months watching him grow and learn so fast has been amazing
Load More Replies...What I wouldn't give to get that time back!! Now I am just praying for grandchildren.
Post partum depression can last years if untreated. I would sincerely talk to a mental health specialist if you are having trouble emotionally adjusting to parenthood, parenthood is hard, yes. However, if it’s continually stressful, where you are having issues bonding with your children, and it’s not enjoyable in the slightest, it’s important to seek help. Your needs are also important.
Some people just don't like babies, even when they like kids just fine. It's not necessarily hormonal.
Load More Replies...I liked them little. After about five years old, the outside world, mostly in the form of school makes enjoyment harder, at least for me.
my childhood was cool, i wanted to pass that on. (If I had known where the journey would go...)
My wife and I said this, once my daughter started walking and talking, that's where the fun of being a parent started.
Teen years in for my son, I may have forgotten how to stop liking it actually
Working in office
I prefer to use my brain indoors instead of my hands outdoors. As a job, I mean.
Vaping, seriously what the hell is the appeal? Especially if you didn’t smoke cigarettes before vaping. Edit: Probably should’ve clarified, I’m strictly talking about nicotine. I still believe there are many better ways to intake weed, but vaping a weed pen makes a little more sense to me than picking up a nicotine habit for no reason.
Somehow they were introduced to Nicotine, and got hooked. Nicotine is an extremely addictive substance. I don’t think people think it’s as “cool”, as it’s a crutch and way to try to cope with stress. People aren’t given many skills/tools, to learn to cope with their emotions/feelings. They see other people smoke or try it themselves, and use it as a method of their own. Mental health should be promoted, rather than blaming a person for a behavior/addiction/ poor coping mechanisms. I feel sorry that they feel the need to indulge in a substance, to feel a sense of calm or to escape feelings that are too difficult for them to face. I can not say I wouldn’t turn out the same as them, if I were in their shoes.
nicotine increases your heart rate and helps you wake up and concentrate. Thats' why you often see people eg in movies working late night with a full ashtray. Clubs as well, keeps you going longer. Source: experience.
I smoked for 20 years. Smoking was a nightmare, leaving was a nightmare... I vape from 4 years now, and it's a life-changer. Only for smokers, otherwhise it makes no sense. Vaping weed is OK, vaping with nicotine can save your life.
What about the ones that don't contain weed or nicotine? I don't get it in the slightest, but I've been in vape shops with frends who imbibe and 90+% of the juices were nicotine and weed free, just flavoured juices.
either way inhaling anything besides good ol O2 isn’t gonna be beneficial to your health… unless it is a medication of course. Imagine inhaling fabreeze air freshener and think about how it’d feel.. I can assume that it’d be an unpleasant experience
Load More Replies...Top 40 music. I cant be the first one to say that
Playing tag with a four year old. You have to let them win all the time to not make them cry you have to run really slow and you have to look like you're enjoying it.
So much hating on children in this thread. What's up with that? I love playing tag and racing my 4yr old. He laughs I laugh we get exercise. Pro tip you both win
Load More Replies...Their world is so much smaller than our own. They have very “big emotions”. That’s why it’s encouraged for them to learn to share or take turns as they get older. There’s no bad child, only bad guidance/parenting. All children are very different with their own personalities. Empathy/Social/Emotional growth starts out very early, yes as babies. When a caretaker is nurturing, they get positive associations with socializing, as well as feelings of safety and calmness. When a child feels more loved, cared for and safe, they are more receptive to the feelings of others,”Empathy”. Which helps them become more well-rounded adults with better coping mechanisms and children’s parents affect their attachment styles. The first years are critical and of crucial importance on brain development.
I let them win 80-20 always, sometimes you have to bet them and then go “wow, you’re fast, let me catch my breath”
Starbucks. There is no way people actually like burnt coffee.
I'd rather have McDonald's coffee than Starbucks.
Load More Replies...People who say this are getting those nasty coffee drinks and nasty sugary concoctions. Starbucks espresso is top tier.
Parades
A well put together parade with stupid costumes and free candy, yes please. A dinky, let's pretend being louder means being better, I'll pass.
Living in a conversion vehicle like a van, like a short look into #VanLife and you'll find all kinds of people that say they love their gray water tank. No you don't. You're s******g in a tub and driving it around.
I've travelled several countries in vans I've converted to campevans. Always have a campervan, just spent 9 months travelling around Australia in mountain biking, snorkeling, surfing hiking every day. It's fantastic. Spent a total of just over 6 years living in a van with my partner in different countries and we both love it.
One thing I can't wrap my around is dragging teenage kids into this and telling the world "oh but they love it"
Yeah I agree, poor kids need privacy and independence at that age.
Load More Replies...nah dude I would totally do this if I was a millionaire, I hate this sedentary 9-5 car house thing.
Life
nah, it's fine, unless you live in the 3rd world and are basically slave labour for the capitalist machine.
is there when you have an incurable disease that brings you to your knees
It probally works for some percentage of the populace.
But I believe most people aren't too contempt with having plans all the time, and the only valid excuse for not having plans or making them, is because they have other plans.
I usually try and tell my coworkers it sounds amazing, when they on rare occasions tell me they dont have any plans for the weekend.
Not doing s**t sometimes, is very healthy for mental health is my belief.
*"content" with. "Contempt" is disrespect. "content" means to be happy with.
I actively plan time where I do "nothing" (by that I mean hobbies like reading or writing) and tell peole I'm too busy to make plans. If I don't, I'll never get to those hobbies I enjoy so much (and some solitude I also very much enjoy even though I'm a very extroverted person).
Yesterday, I had stuff I intended to do and said eff it, I'm on vacation. I then watched horror movies for the day instead.
I used to think people pretended to like olives. I’d eat them if they were in a dish but I didn’t like them. A few years of that and suddenly I’m buying olives to eat on their own. Acquired the taste I suppose.
I like eating olives with popcorn.. in separate bowls of course so like i’ll eat a couple olives and then eat some popcorn. Don’t know why but I like salty food + popcorn combos more than the popcorn with candy and whatnot
Oh. That made my mouth water, I'll most definitely try it!
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Contemporary design trends. The all white/grey homes with rendered exteriors are so lifeless and all look the same. There's no way people actually want this, right??
Tbh, I'd want one. Maybe not exactly *white*, as it's a very impractical and difficult to maintain. But having an apartment in grey scale, with small hints of teals and greens? It would actually look nice. But I strongly dislike vivid colours, maybe that's why I'd enjoy it.
When you have 16 tons of $hit in a 6 ton house... yeah!
Load More Replies...no, I love it. I would make my place 100% white and grey if I could. The point is: if you want to put on a red duvet cover, or a purple curtain set, or a loud painting, you can do it in a place that's uniformly grey, because the loud colour won't detract from the rest, or get lost in the mess. Hippie places that are full of colours just look like a hoarder's house.
I like it, because I don't want to be constantly aware of my surroundings. I just need things to be clean and bright while I focus on other things that are more important to me than what my house looks like.
Weddings
Attended around 10 weddings in various capacities. none were enjoyable. maybe 2/100 people were really having fun and it is never the brides/grooms.
Coworkers. Like really. Coworkers
80% / 20% rule applies here... 80% of them are always not worth more than a hello
the 80/20 rule means something completely different.
Load More Replies...Some of my old coworkers have made wonderful friends, ad many things do require more than one person. Building a rapport with a lovely coworker is great.
I guess my work place is the exception. Our motto? #Relationshipsmatter. And they mean it!!!!
Tbh the more expensive a meal is, the shittier it gets. (I personally think it starts declining after $30-$50) Or it might just be that I'm a simple man who likes cheap food, idk.
These restaurants like Red Lobster, Longhorn, and Outback are ridiculous in their pricing. Over $120 for 2 people?!?! I made 14oz Ribeyes, 2lbs of crab legs, 24oz of shrimp, and a whole lobster with salad, loaded baked potatoes, cheddar Bay biscuits, and a blackberry cobbler with vanilla ice cream for 4 people a couple of nights ago. I already had the ingredients to make everything but the steaks and seafood so it was way cheaper than going out to eat and it was much tastier food, too! I adore cooking!🥰🍽️🦞🍤🥗🥩🦀🥧🔪👩🍳
Every year, my friends and I go to a restaurant after an event. The three of us spend around 500 dollars. It is worth every penny, and we can't wait to go back.
Answer is (b). You probably are in USA where they really do not have proper food. Try go to EU or UK top restaurants.
People being fake in place of realness. Personally I have problems being fake because assumedly it's a part of life.
example? Everyone puts on a face for each circumstance. You do not act the same in front of your beer buddies as you do on a first date. That's just how we are.
I checked this on Reddit, and apparently they were talking about being different in different circumstances. This was a 19 year old without a lot of life experience who thinks good manners are fake. Maybe they'll learn that kindness is the better way and that some kind of ability to adjust to circumstances smooths the way I life.
Load More Replies...That one friend whose vacation is always "Amazing" and his new shoes are "insanely great" and his car is "just awesome" ... people like to use these words inflationarily and basically all I hear is "good". Which is ... boring. How was the trip? Good.
Anything that is described as being an "acquired taste." Oh so you didn't enjoy it at first but continued to do it out of peer pressure until it stopped being repulsive? That's not enjoyment that's Stockholm Syndrome!
Going by this I would eat zero vegetables and ruin my health by living off chicken nuggets and chocolate. Glad I'm capable of learning to enjoy other things.
As a kid, I hated avocado and would order a hamburger over a steak any day of the week. My grandmother used to tell me these things were “an acquired taste” and someday I would acquire a taste for them. She was correct. 😉
ironically as a kid I loved avocados but nowadays the only way I’ll ever agree to eat them is when they are in the form of guacamole
Load More Replies...You know that taste buds mature too and can adjust overtime? If you still eat something you dispise out of peer preasure that's a whole other thing but nothing someone would call acquired taste.
So like the Kardashians' show? When does the repulsion go away? Asking for a friend.
I disagree. First of all, "acquired taste" doesn't necessarily mean that you were forcing yourself to do something before, it may as well means that your preferences or opinions changed. As we grow up, many things changes - our sense of taste, daily routines, needs when it comes to hobbies, social expectations... also, we start to know more, thus we see some things differently, comparing to our younger-selves. As a result, it's normal to suddenly start enjoying things we disliked few years or even months before. It just seems that we're changing and growing.
not really. I didn't like any of the following as a kid, now I love them: curry, chilli, olives, asparagus, mushrooms.
I already have a taste for a ton of things, the last thing I need is more.
I didn't enjoy sprouts when younger and was told many times that it's acquired taste, but eventually had someone prepare them in a way that brings out the most lovely flavour. If I had stopped trying them, I never would have discovered that they could taste so wonderful when properly prepared rather than boiled to mush. Or do I actually just pretend to like them now because I have stockholm syndrome?
I think this about alcohol, did anyone really taste their first beer/wine/vodka and actually think “YUM this is so much better than orange/apple juice”?
My presence
I can barely stand my own presence much of the time. Get away from me, me!
2022
I feel this. Especially last month. I lost an aunt and few days after, my younger brother died. F*ck 2022
My mom died 19 juni 2022 and 22 augustus 2022 my aunt died(mom's sister)
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I always eat one package at Easter time out of some misplaced sense of nostalgia. I am invariably disappointed. I still do it again the next year.
Hard liquor. I’m fine with being told someone likes to be buzzed but don’t tell me you genuinely enjoy the taste of that. They don’t make whiskey flavored sports drinks for a reason.
"...don't tell me you genuinely enjoy the taste of it..." the audacity! Yes! Yes they do. If you don't like it, that's fine too, but don't take your taste as universal.
Sports drinks? SPORTS DRINKS?! Most sports drinks don't even have a "flavour". Blue is not a flavour. An absurd explanation.
This makes no sense, fried chicken smells good but they don't make chicken scent body spray. A very good whiskey or other spirit can be really enjoyable tastewise.
Add a few drops of water. The flavors explode. Plus it cuts down the bite. Sorry, just getting into sipping bourbon with my cigar. Being a lightweight, I only sip shots. Not a dram or big drink. Especially when it's getting colder, I like that warm feeling in my tummy. But, everyone's tastes ate different.
Every time I tell someone I don't like whisky they say "oh, but you've never tried whatever, it's a totally different experience", I try it, and I'm afraid they're all equally as repellent to me. I'm sure people *do* enjoy it, but I imagine I'm not alone in intensely disliking it regardless of how delicious you assure me it is...
Load More Replies...I absolutely Do. When I went to Scotland with my father, we found the Scotch Whiskey Heritage Center. It has over 300 types of Scotch. We spent an hour and a half, drank 12 drams, each, and had a great time. My longest relationship started meeting over Scotch. And the best fudge I have ever had is the Glenfiddich fudge. I most absolutely Do like Scotch. I don't drink it to get drunk, or even buzzed. I drink it because I like it.
I like my Jameson. And a good single malt scotch like a Macallan 18 is really good.
Bushmills and Guinness. Love the taste of both, obviously not mixed together.
the MCU.
I had MCU fatigue after Endgame, seemed like a nice stopping point. Take a break, be more innovative, invest in small creators. But hey, studio wants a billion every movie
I love much of the MCU. I even cosplay Doctor Strange, have since the first movie came out. Its been my most popular cosplay.
I LOVE the MCU, the characters, the costumes, the fight set-pieces! I love it all.
lost interest after x-men 3, never mind the stuff that came after.
IPAs
everybody has been brewing IPA the last few years, all with Cascade hops because people like it. IPA used to be so creative and are so annoying now...
Load More Replies...Much tastier than those boring lagers. I very much like the bitterness of IPA's. I prefer unfiltered beer in general.
ok but IPA doesn't mean unfiltered. It mostly comes down to the choices of hop breeds.
Load More Replies...Raisins. They’re just bad, wrinkly grapes. That tiny little grape in a punnet of actual grapes that never really got to be a grape would be considered the best raisin in the packet. I will die on this hill.
mad person. Just think: Tastes like a grape but does not go rotten. can keep around as a healthy snack for months. Super useful.
No raisins, no IPA, no kale, no hard liquor. What’s wrong with people?
Ugh. All of these can be boiled down to "*I* personally don't like this (or that), so no one else possibly can"! It's fine to have opinions, but remember: other people are not you. They like different things and don't think & experience the world the same way you do.
Exactly, different strokes for different folks.
Load More Replies...What a sad life people must lead. Looking at everything with disdain and lethargy. This just sounds like depression in word form.
... this is exactly how i felt after reading all this. Sure some things I like and some I don't like. But this sounds like a depression
Load More Replies...Same here! I honestly don’t know what has happened to this site from the constant censorship, banning users, and rise of reposted content from Reddit. It used to be a site that posted quirky articles an artwork and now I’m scared to comment on anything that goes against the majority for fear of getting banned.
Load More Replies...Well, too many of these posts are like "I don't like it so no one else does" The self centeredness of many a people is astonishing and quiet alarming.
Some of these were pretty mean. Let people enjoy things. It’s fine not to like something, but don’t yuck someone’s yum. BoredPanda has been getting fairly negative with some of their listicles lately.
I knew a guy who used to go winter camping ffs.
Load More Replies...Ugh. All of these can be boiled down to "*I* personally don't like this (or that), so no one else possibly can"! It's fine to have opinions, but remember: other people are not you. They like different things and don't think & experience the world the same way you do.
Exactly, different strokes for different folks.
Load More Replies...What a sad life people must lead. Looking at everything with disdain and lethargy. This just sounds like depression in word form.
... this is exactly how i felt after reading all this. Sure some things I like and some I don't like. But this sounds like a depression
Load More Replies...Same here! I honestly don’t know what has happened to this site from the constant censorship, banning users, and rise of reposted content from Reddit. It used to be a site that posted quirky articles an artwork and now I’m scared to comment on anything that goes against the majority for fear of getting banned.
Load More Replies...Well, too many of these posts are like "I don't like it so no one else does" The self centeredness of many a people is astonishing and quiet alarming.
Some of these were pretty mean. Let people enjoy things. It’s fine not to like something, but don’t yuck someone’s yum. BoredPanda has been getting fairly negative with some of their listicles lately.
I knew a guy who used to go winter camping ffs.
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