I was born in 1994, so I'm technically a '90s kid. I wasn't into Nirvana, Pearl Jam, or wearing flannel shirts – I was simply too young. But I remember thinking Space Jam was the coolest movie ever and that wearing wide-leg jeans was the epitome of fashion. Now, after my generation grew up, we're remembering things with rosy nostalgia glasses.
Technology that's obsolete now seems like cool gadgets to own, and movies that we once denounced as "childish" have become comfort watches. There are lots of things from the '90s and the early 2000s that people wish would make a comeback. So, when one person online recently asked, "What do you miss the most from the 90s/2000s?", thousands of folks had an answer ready.
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There was a general sense of optimism in society at large. We all genuinely believed we would graduate from school and work hard and be rewarded with a fulfilling life, free from financial worries.
IDK, maybe it was youthful ignorance, but it really did feel like the world was our oyster. Now, everyone is just SO. ANGRY.
I remember my friends having parents being low bank employees and moms working part time able to own their home, going to vacations and some of them having country/ sea houses. Going to restaurant for saturday evening was nearly standard. Some didn't have that, but lived with dignity without having to struggle. Also employment stability.
Yep my best friends mom was a single mom who worked as a librarian and still managed to own her own home in one of the most expensive cities in Ontario in the early 90s. Now her son who makes way more than she does can’t even buy an apartment in the same town
Load More Replies...Reasonable rent and the possibility to own a house! That's not possible now (especially my state)!! Jobs!! Everyone I knew never went more than 2 months without a job.(ages 16-40). Now it takes a YEAR to land one.....
I'm an X-er, so I remember the 90s clearer than most. Bill Clinton was President. The economy was coming back from the first Bush recession. The Soviet Union had just fallen, and we weren't pointing nukes at each other anymore. They even had an election! Democracies were breaking out all over Eastern Europe. What Happened? Two words - NEWT GINGRICH.
It wasn't ignorance, for me, it was a sense of relief. The Cold War was over and we were not going to be vaporized by nuclear weapons. The fall of the Soviet Union and the Eastern Bloc led to freedom for millions. That relief changed the vibe of the world. It just seemed like the world was a better place, opportunities were endless, creativity, collaboration, innovation, and hope felt unlimited. It felt like you could do anything and anything was possible. Sure, there were still war, poverty, and horrible tragedies, but it felt like we were going to conquer these issues finally and that it was almost within our grasp. Unfortunately, this is when things usually slip through our fingers. I can imagine that for many young people, it's hard to grasp how much 911 changed the world. This is not about who, what, where, or why. Just the outcome. It felt as if we went from the beginning of a new era back to the Dark Ages where ignorance, violence, and death ruled.
I graduated high school in 2000, and all through high school I was repeatedly told by every single adult I knew that if I just got a college degree - it didn't even matter what in! - I'd be set for life. I'd be able to get a job that would support me and my family and I'd be financially secure. ZERO advice beyond that; literally just go to college and it'll all be fine. So I went to college. The recession hit the year I graduated and the field I intended to go into was suddenly flooded with recently laid off people who were vastly more qualified than me. It hasn't gotten much better since. I now make a salary that 2000s me would've been floored by, and I'm still living paycheck to paycheck. That sh*t absolutely did not pan out.
Just like that! Sometimes, at least in Germany, Millennials are called "generation crisis" (Afghanistan, Iraq, climate, economy, education, financial crisis, Euro crisis, COVID). We grew up with all that. If you're fifteen or so, it doesn't bother you to a certain point. But as you grow older, you can't keep your eyes closed to that. And now, everyone is angry. It's sad.
That's funny, because I was raised on media telling me the world would be either a) a corporate dystopia or b) a nuclear wasteland.
Live music ticket prices. I saw Beastie Boys and Rage against the Machine for like $20 in 1993.
This. I saw Slayer, Anthrax, Megadeth and Alice in Chains in San Francisco in 1991...tickets were $15. I went to Metallica's Summer Sanitarium Tour w/Korn, Kid Rock, System of Down & Powerman 5000 at Candlestick Park in SF back in 2000. $25 a ticket. Both of those shows would costs hundreds of dollars today (thanks to all the b.s. Ticketmaster fees)
Can't even tell you how many shows we went to in the Boston area in the 90's. I think the most I ever spent was $30 for a ticket? That plus the fare for the T and some beer money and you were ready for the night.
Load More Replies...Not same style, but teeny bop tickets were 30 to see Nkotb and the lot
The Cars, 1979, $3 tickets @ the Santa Monica Civic. The opener was John Cougar (!?) And the Zone.
Looking back, the amount of insects. I remember there being insects all over the place when you get outside. I feel like in my country (netherlands) about 75% of them have died. And this can't be good for nature or us.
I agree with you, seems like the Veluwe (national park) has less and less bugs, it saddens me
Recently I made a road trip. Usually a lot of bugs hit my windshield so by the end of the day I have to use the filling station squeegee to remove them. But I had hardly any splats on my windshield this time. I am worried. Humanity cannot live without insects. OK, we can definitely live without mosquitoes, ticks, fleas and bedbugs; but we cannot survive without bees, butterflies, ladybugs, and other beneficial insects.
I used to be a nature photographer, and liked very much to just walk around some meadows, forests etc. snapping photos of butterflies, bees, dragonflies and birds. For the last 3-4 years finding a nice butterfly became so rare, that I walked less and less end eventually given up on this activity entirely. It simply was not pleasant to lug a camera for several kilometers hike, and snap 2 photos of some common bird.
It's all the people spraying their property. I feel like the only reason we see them is that we have 5 acres that we don't spray & have some connecting woodlands that are also mostly untouched.
Load More Replies...I agree. I used to see Christmas beetles, Slaters, Click beetles and Monarch butterflies everywhere. I can't remember the last time I saw a Christmas beetle, rarely see Slaters and Click beetles and there is much less Monarch butterflies about.
I'm in Pennsylvania and u used to look out at night, at any field area espescially, you would see thousa ds of fireflies just flashing everywhere! There was never true darkness I. The summer months because they were every where u looked. Now I get ex ited to see 3 flying around outside my.house at night. I've always lived the bugs and salamanders and now I can barely find them...
Please people, please do not use Systemic Bug or Weed Killer/Fertilizer it might take out your Aphids, Dandelions etc... but it also does in Butterflies, Hummingbirds, Bees, Tree Frogs, Bats and others that depend on bugs for food. It's 1am, sitting on my deck w/the light on, there should be clouds of moths etc...and Bats flying about...there's nothing, not a single night time flyer, and I've been out here fir an hour.
Miss bugs? Move to the Carolinas. Friend of mine moved there and returned in a year: the bugs could have carried her away.
No subscription bs.
I remember when you didn't have to pay 1¢ for good quality programs. You might only have 5 channels (10 if you lived in a broadcast overlap zone, or more if you lived in a big city), but you could still see a lot of your favorite shows without having to pay for them. Cable and satellite were for the rich, and for the rest of us it was CBS, NBC, ABC, & PBS (Fox and a few others if you lived in a big city)
As if cable TV or buying thousands of dollars worth of DVDs and CDs is some cheap prize.
Yes, but my DVDs and CDs are mine, for as long as they physically play. I don't have to worry about a title up and disappearing because of streaming rights, etc. Physical media is a worthy investment.
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Load More Replies...I'm glad there is still a lot of free to air tv in Australia, and they all have a streaming option.
News that actually reported the news.
Some 40-50 years ago, BBC R4 was an excellent (and unbiased) news source: now it has metamorphosised and degenerated into little more than agitprop for the liberal left metropolitan set.
Load More Replies...Another one Australia still does, you just have to choose non-commercial stations. ABC and SBS are still fantastic.
What happened was you used to watch the news for an hour every night. CNN was the first 24hr news network and they had to fill those 24 hours with something so they filled it with "commentary" and "editorial" content. It started innocent enough. Short form documentaries and such but then came FOX "News" and all hell broke loose.
Yes, and if they run out of news, they report floodings..
Load More Replies...Oh warner-discovery ,yes news is entertainment but it's like a documentary too. No real reason to cancel it. Ref Newshub, tv3. Glad Stuff has come to the party.
Well at least in the US all news are biased on report one side of the story. Edit: each news will either be like Biden is Jesus and Trump is Satan or Trump is Jesus and Biden is Satan, rarely does it get even close to the middle.
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Common sense and respect from strangers. Society is so damn stupid and judgemental these days, especially in our younger generations. Technology is actually destroying a humans basic functions...
Only selfish? How about mean, violent and stupid?
Load More Replies...I would argue that the older generation has become insufferably rude and cruel. If anything, the younger generations seem to more empathetic and kind-hearted.
Yes! Older generations also are the most entitled, sadly.
Load More Replies...There is no love for thy neighbor anymore. If people see someone hurt or dying, they will rather record for views and likes than help....so sad.
"The young people of today have no respect" every generation EVER since EVER. Was BS then and it's BS now..
"Society is so damn...judgemental these days" They said, judgementally.
Load More Replies...People used to have more common sense. They used to be able to do math. They used to know about geography and history. These things are not so common anymore unfortunately. Their feelings are hurt so easily, it's difficult to tread lightly enough as to not to offend anyone. Getting sick of it.
Younger generations are actually so broaded minded? They are judgemental of people who are not respectful, which is awesome. But they are also the nicest person when you realize the world we're planning to leave them. They are doing their best with all the s**t they have to go through because of older generation. So respect the youngs, because they are going to build such a wonderful world if we don't destroy it before they manage.
Common sense has never been common. I agree technology is affecting younger generations, but I've always disagreed with the "this generation..." sentiments from older people, because there is literally nothing new under the sun. People have always been stupid and judgmental. We're just seeing it more thanks to the internet and 24/7 news cycles.
lol what? Not if you were the first at your school with a nose or eyebrow piercing. Or both.
People have always lacked common sense, not to mention how judgemental most people are. The fact that we have almost unlimitted access to witness pretty much the whole human behavioural spectrum through social media has just made us more awar of how sh*tty the world has always been in certain respects.
I really liked the huge malls with every store imaginable. All closed now.
I greatly enjoy being able to walk into a store and physically see/try on the item I am purchasing rather than waiting days only for it to not be what I expected/not fit and have to return it and start the process again.
Online shopping is incredibly helpful for a lot of people with anxiety.
Load More Replies...I enjoy people watching. Midland Mich has a mall still. Only generator store(big chain) is the Target at the end. No more Sears, JCP....
Where I live (Mexico City) they are still a thing and they're packed especially during the weekend. I used to enjoy them a lot some years ago, not anymore, and not precisely because of online shopping, I still much rather buy stuff at a store or a local market.
As a young teen, it was basically THE hangout for my group of friends. Our moms would let us wander for an hour, then come check in, then wander for another hour, then meet for dinner, then finally decide on that one thing you wanted to buy because it was all the allowance you had. Kids certainly can't do that today (or at least shouldn't) and it was such a sense of freedom and excitement.
Live a mile and a half from the Puente Hills mall, after six years we still haven't visited.
Plenty of them still in Australia and I hate them! I refuse to set foot in Chadstone since it's focus is purely to retain the 'largest shopping centre in the southern hemisphere' title.
I certainly spent lots of time in malls as a teen, but I really don't miss going to multiple stores trying to find a gift and not coming home with anything. Mostly because I'm antisocial. Online shopping is the best thing that ever happened to me! :)
Not worrying about someone recording me in public to ruin me or for their own clout.
I especially hate the augurments that "oh you're in public, it'll happen", it's one thing to be a random person in a background and to have someone specifically trying to record you.
I'm not interesting enough for anyone to want to film me. "Oh look, she's buying gelato again!". :)
If you have an embarrassing moment, like falling down, you will be!
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Blockbuster and Pizza Hut on a Friday night.
I am from India. When i was small, most people did not have the VCRs. So when holidays came and i had my cousins come over to stay, we would hire the VCR from the local shop and get three cassettes of one Hindi, one English and one Marathi movie. And we would watch the whole night. It was a done thing
We're homebodies. But we were just talking about how we miss renting movies. It was an excuse to get out of the house just for a bit. And it was just the right amount of being around other people. We realize that's why we do Friday or Satursay night snack runs to the grocery store. It feels like you're doing something without actually doing anything. It makes a night in feel a tiny bit eventful.
Mix tapes. I rocked a Walkman for years. Our friend group would exchange tapes and try to outdo each other. A mix tape could even have been a romantic gesture if you did it right.
Mix tapes (fortunately I'm just old enough to have made them myself) can be a work of art if you get them right and were a huge source of undiscovered greats to me. I made one for my then girlfriend back in 1999/2000 and she still has it apparently. Purely for the fact that I went to so much effort to tailor it to her tastes. Spotify makes it easier, but it lacks the soul of tape.
I made my childhood soundtrack from my dad's dual tape deck, the radio, and his massive collection of cassettes and vinyls. I only had a mini-boombox to listen to it on, but I got it for Christmas one year and my parents were only too happy to pay for the 2D batteries to keep it running for the whole month! That thing was my only steady friend for almost 3 years, but my tape (which I'd made a total of 6 copies of after I got the first one how I wanted it) stayed with me for nearly 7 years...
I have a number of mixtapes (CDs though) still in rotation in my car cd player
Yes though I do feel playlists have replaced these. My nephew was glowing telling me a guy he's really into had shared a private playlist on sloitufy with him!
When I was I a kid I spent hours and hours making mix tapes. It's just not the same on Spotify.
Being disconnected.
From social media 100%. Everyone used to ring each other. We’d actually talk! We knew about each others lives from talking, not posts.
Finding cool stuff at garage sales, flea markets, pawn shops, antique stores, that was not automatically marked up to whatever the item recently sold for on eBay!
Walking into a Goodwill lately and seeing their prices. Are they now an offshoot of Christies auction house?
What's worse is seeing a box with the original price tag that's lower than Goodwill's price!
Load More Replies...Come to Southwest Scotland, we have Community shops, think really reasonable charity shops, volunteer run and full of all sorts of useful trinkets, a mix of good clothes and the occasional hidden gem. I recently got 3 pairs of Wrangler Jeans, practically brand new, £2.50 each ($4 -$5, idk exchange rate) list price new £60+ each. Plus money raised goes directly back into local community (after shop running costs which are heavily subsidized by local gov/letting agents) Local one raised over £70k in the last 6 months!
I can never resist a charity shop or a second hand shop. You can get some real bargains sometimes. A few years back I bought a full set of Harry Potter books for my daughters for about £10. Three of them were first editions.
Load More Replies...We went thrifting yesterday and found clothes marked higher than their actual retail value, with no dressing rooms or return policy.
I still do this! I also know from personal experience that you're not going to get the same kind of money at a garage sale or flea market that you would online, unless the stuff is still sealed in its original packaging, and even then you're only gonna get about half what you'd pay in a store for it...
I used to love garage sales but now all they sell is c**p. The people sell the good stuff on marketplace and gumtree now.
being laughed at because you wore second hand clothes from the 60s and 70s. (i mean vintage items)
90s cartoons were top notch compared to cartoons today.
I miss Cow and Chicken, Dexter's lab, I.M. Weasel and many more so much
Load More Replies...Rose colored glasses. For every Ren and Stimpy there was a dozen Street Sharks. Seriously after TMNT everyone tried to cash in on the anthropomorphic action cartoon thing. Street Sharks, SwatCats, Biker Mice from Mars. I've blocked most of them out.
TMNT or as it was named in Europe "Teenage Mutant Hero Turtles" was in fact the last cartoon I watched regulary every saturday. And then I became kinda too old and had other priorities.
Load More Replies...First, you're never too old for cartoons. I'm almost 50, a huge TMNT fan. Second, there are a lot of great cartoons still being made. Again, this comes down to not looking hard enough.
Feeling relatively safe. Yeah s**t went down. But riding my bike literal miles away from my home at age 9 and coming home when the street lights came on. No influencers, no social media, no constant communication via cell phones, feeling unreachable, easily getting lost in the wilderness on trails (in a good way i.e. not running into a bunch of people), conversations with strangers, and really life being affordable.
I remember we lived in an apartment in small town area with little stores around and stuff. I was about 8ish believe and my parents would let me walk/ride my bike the 2-3 blocks to go to the penny candy store or the 711. ( I am only 35 the penny candy store was crazy to still have around I loved it so much)
Not around here where I live. We could go anywhere and do anything and not feel afraid.
Load More Replies...My friend was abducted in the late 80s. Lots of crimes against children happened. I'm thinking you don't read much. Check out the California highway serial killer, he molested neighborhood kids like crazy.
Getting a job without having to create a profile, copy/paste all the s**t from your resume into the bubbles, write an essay, do a test and do 7 interviews for a minimum wage job. I miss turn in the resume and filled out form, done.
Back in 2012, I was looking for a job. I'd spend hours on the computer, filling out online applications, tweaking my resume, and taking those stupid personality tests. My mom constantly asked me why I didn't just go and get a paper application in person or just hand them my resume. One day I got tired of explaining and when we were driving, I just innocently asked her if she'd like to go with me to apply at a couple businesses. She did and I was told at the three businesses I walked into that it was online application only. At the third business, my mom irritably asked why I couldn't just hand my resume over to be given to the manager. The clerk answered that they wanted all resumes submitted online and if I gave them my paper one, it would probably just be thrown away. That finally shut my mother up.
This. After my previous employer closed due to Covid, and never reopened, I found my self having to apply for jobs for the first time in 25 years. Good god, it's crazy. Back in the day, you turned in the app, and they either called you for an interview, or they didn't. Now it's a 20 step process.
Last time I was job hunting, several things ground my gears. One was having to fill out my experience EVEN THOUGH IT IS ALL RIGHT THERE ON MY F-----G RESUME! Granted, searching on the Internet is a lot easier than pounding the pavement; however, if a place had an application process that IMHO was a royal pain in the bottom, I gave up and moved on. I have sent complaints about absurd jump-through-hoops-of-fire application processes, and told them that they should simplify their process if they really wanted to hire somebody.
For my current job, I emailed a shop foreman, gave him a couple of sentences about my background, and said I wanted something to keep me busy while I was in town. That was 5 years ago. For the job before that, I just said to my then wife, "hey, let's open our own shop"
Video games you just plugged in, threw a disc in, and played. Now it's a fifty step account user process with endless updates and other nonsense. I still play modern games but it's just annoying sometimes.
Games back then were designed with the knowledge that they had to full, complete, and working, because the console couldn't connect to to internet to download 5,000 updates made after the sale because of the half-a$$ attempt at completion to get them out the door. That's honestly what makes retro gaming so awesome today, because the same, complete game just works, as well today as back then. No internet required.
I love the old video games. Super Nintendo and Nintendo 64 are my faves.
Maybe if you buy games from Ubisoft. I use GOG and Steam. Click click click, installed play.
My first (and absolute favorite) "video game" was the plug-and-play learning console called Socrates! All you needed to do was put your TV on Channel 3 (2 if you had the handy little switcher hooked in), plug Socrates in, and you were playing games that actually taught you stuff! (My favorite game on it was the spelling one)
Disc? No, no no.... Cartridges. That's how you know you're getting older. 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
Privacy and a sense of optimism about the future.
Today is my birthday and while I never thought I would make it to this age, I can't help but wonder how many more birthdays I have left. From wondering how much longer the Earth can handle our BS to wondering which idiot will be first to hit the big red button, it's all just too overwhelming.
Happy Birthday, I hope you get all the fish your heart could desire today.
Load More Replies...Well, I wouldn't call GenX optimistic. Sullen and withdrawn, perhaps.
You knew where everyone was by finding the house with all the bikes in the front yard. No texts needed.
Or in my son’s case, because they knew there was food. I also quickly learnt pasta with tomato sauce and butter was cheaper than a couple loaves of bread. 20 - 25 years later those kids, when I see them, still thank me. (We lived in a middle class suburb but most mums worked or didn’t want kids over.)
Even though I lived in the country as a kid, and the suburbs as a teen, I never really had this. Both towns were really big area-wise and I didn't live near any of my friends
Sigh. By the 1990s, this wasn't true. It was the height if "Stranger Danger" and other paranoia. Kids in suburbs did not play outside - they had plenty of technology to occupy themselves.
I think this depended on where you lived. It definitely was where I grew up. I grew up in a neighborhood that was considered safe and it wasn't very big. There were a couple of key hangout spots, and you could check out the 2 cul-de-sacs to see if there was a kickball game going on. The kids ranged from about 6 to 16, and we all just looked out for each other. Plus, our tech was limited to Nintendo consoles and even that got boring after a while.
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How holidays felt (Christmas, Thanksgiving, etc.).
Holidays felt different because it was your parents and.or grandparents doing all (or almost all) the preparations. Nowadays when you have to do all the stuff yourself it is quite different. Not worse, but so much different. We also used to have white christmas, with world covered in snow, but now it is mostly covered in mud during christmas. This also make them feel different.
I remember spending Christmas 1971, when I was four, at my grandparents' place in Queens, NYC. I got a Big Wheel, and got to use it because it was 60°F
Load More Replies...I think it's because of the way the holidays are portrayed in the media. They weren't perfect back in the day, but now if you haven't picked out the perfect gifts, made a gourmet meal and decorated every inch of your home you feel judged. The expectations were simpler in the past.
When I was a kid Christmas and New Year were awesome. In those days you didn't see Christmas stuff in the shops until around November and that made it more exciting. Christmas was just around the corner. Back then I had a large family and we all got together for parties and visits every day. It was a great time. Now Christmas is rammed down your throats in the shops in the UK from August onwards and everybody treats it as a competition to see who can buy the most stuff. And everybody just has to be the very first person in the street to put their decorations up (some of them put theirs up the day after Halloween). By the time Christmas finally comes around the magic has gone because it has dragged on for months.
The ability to disappear. There was such a sense of freedom in just leaving the house, where you'd become uncontactable.
I tell this to all the kids I work with all the time! They lose their mind thinking about not having a phone on them all the time
I think sometimes parents are to blame. Helicopter parents demanding to know where are his/her kids 24/7 and to always be in range are just destroying kids freedom. Worse if the parent is not only trying to know everything, but also control every minute of kid's time.
Load More Replies...I still do this. I REFUSE to get a cell phone. HATE the idea of being too available.
Man my dad let me do this as long as I'm home before nightfall and he knew the vague area where I'm hanging out at. Now it's difficult to do that nowadays because most cities are full of junkies and crackheads and it feels way too dangerous to hang around when you're anywhere below the age of 18.
This. Sometimes I feel guilty because my kids don't enjoy the same freedoms that I did when I was their age but there seems to be druggies and beggars on every street corner and outside every shop these days. It has got worse in the last 10 years or so.
Load More Replies...I grew up in a small town so that was impossible even then. Everyone knew everybody. I hated it. That's why I live in a city now. I can disappear whenever I want.
Unfortunately, the largest city nearest me has cameras on every street corner. I'd drive to the ferry and be on camera there, walk from the ferry to work and be on camera on the street, work all day with a camera on me, then go home the same way, still on camera. The only place there wasn't a camera was driving home and that's because I lived in the boonies. If I had lived in a suburb, I'm sure there would be umpteen cameras put up by neighbors that could record anyone driving down the street, walking by, or entering their home. The feeling of being watched all the time is horrible.
Load More Replies...Affordable rent.
Affordable ANYTHING. The real reason there are so many homeless people is they can't afford rent. I feel fortunate that I can rent a room in a large house. Too many people have jobs but are literally sleeping in their cars. Do NOT get me started on how the minimum wage has not increased in 15 years - or on this country's war on homelessness--
In my area a 1 bedroom apartment starts around $2,200. My first place when I was younger only cost me $1,095. If I was just starting out in my career now I'd never be able to afford to move out of my parents' house. I don't know young people are doing it!
The simplicity of the internet. No obnoxious ads everywhere, no influencers, etc.
This was either written by someone who was not on the web in the early 2000s or has somehow forgotten what it was like back then. That's when ad-blockers were INVENTED because invasive advertising was so thick. Hell, AOL was spamming your real mail with all those free CDs.
Pop ups on every website that froze your computer while you were on dial up, you would have to turn off the computer unsafely , and everytime you opened the browser it would happen again.
And no having to sign up, scan QR code, give access to data etc to access pretty much b anything and everything.
Truth, I'm fed up with all the video ads either choking my bandwidth or how they are targeted. Bring back. Simple internet!
Music for sure. The late 90s early 2000‘s were the last times that I really enjoyed a lot of newer music. These days it’s very hard for me to find some thing I enjoy from any genre..
I find new music I love all the time. It just happens to be modern synthwave that sounds a lot like 80s and 90s electronic music. Gunship and The Midnight are two of my current favorites.
Thanks for hints, never heard of these groups, but I will try them. And if you are into 80s style synth, did you listen to mixes by ThePrimeThanatos on Youtube? I find them quite interesting.
Load More Replies...I think everyone likes the music that they grew up with. IMO 80's music is the best, but understandably my parents prefer the 60's. (Which is my second favorite)
Search out a really good independent radio station. I recommend The Colorado Sound. It is really good.
There's so much good music around! I am still collecting new music and I'm 65! You need to check out new sounds!
My biggest issue with modern "music" is that it no longer tells a story or has any message (hidden or obvious), and the few songs that do have one or the other don't get the playtime they deserve. I think that point, more than anything else, is what OP is trying to convey here. Speaking as a Gen X who nearly had a heart attack when the Oldies station started playing songs from the decade I was born in.
Don't listen to mainstream! I wasn't interested in music at all really in the late 90s, early '00s. Then I started listening to a local non-commercial station in my 20s and found so much I liked.
I know I must be getting old because I couldn't tell you who's in the charts any more. Most of today's artists all sound the same to me and the songs these days are so miserable and depressing. Most of what is on my playlist is from the 80s, 90s and 00s.
Thumbs down for laziness. There is plenty of great music out there, in all genres. It is just not on the radio. Thankfully.
Pop culture being ubiquitous through TV, movies and music instead of the endless content on streaming where no one watches the same things.
Yeah. I remember big blockbusters like Ghostbusters ot Titanic absolutely dominating everything everywhere for months.
......or reliving the latest Seinfeld episode,, X Files, or In Living Color at work the next day. "Whudya think about Homey D Clown?"
Load More Replies...I see this as a positive. Everyone can watch what they want to watch. I don't want to be part of the larger conversation in what happened lately in Friends (or modern equivalent). I want to watch my niche Korean dramas. I don't care if anyone else I know has seen it.
I liked that “Internet” and “gaming” was just one thing you do at home amongst other things. It was just one small part of a whole day.
Playing outside, with friends or by yourself, regardless of weather, was 85% of a kid's day when they weren't in school, and recess was most kids' favorite subject! Even if your preferred "playing" was sitting under (in) a tree with either a book or a sketch pad, you were outside! I'm of the firm opinion that the world would be a better place if more people would just unplug from their surgically attached electronics for a few hours a day and just go outside and enjoy nature!
I mean, it can still be that way, although it's difficult to completely disconnect of course. Gaming is still a thing you do at home, in principle.
Before internet we gathered in some friend's house and either played split screen or hot seat mode games, or sometimes we made a LAN parties. It was gazillion times better than playing online.
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From the 90s? US perspective, the feeling of hope and moving into a new collaborative global world. It wasn't all unicorns and rainbows, but it felt like we were getting closer to a global kumbaya situation. I really miss the optimism and "togetherness". We were progressing as a global society. 2000s was the reality check decade, and 2010s just built on that fear and division. I think that's why Obama had a great initial campaign, he was running on that 90s sentiment.
Thank Bill Clinton. When he went on Lenno and played the saxophone with the house band that was PEAK 90s. The President of the USA was playing with a band on live TV.
Remember that, and I am not even american :) 1990s was a time of change here in Poland, we finally broke from Soviet occupation and went free. It sure looked good back then.
Load More Replies...This rings so true. Now it’s all about division. Being petty. AITAH. Some of the s**t people post for likes is so, um, really? You really want the world to know? For likes?. But they get the likes and then other people think they can also get away with this in the real world. I wish I could be more articulate at this moment but I’m so ready for sleep however this is a big issue currently occurring.
These were the days that inspired Francis Fukuyama's book The End of History. He really believed that the end of conflict was imminent, and apparently he thinks all this (gestures broadly) is just a hiccup
Obama was one of the best communicators I've ever seen regarding making people feel they were part of something bigger...together.
Not feeling like everything is a commodity for someone else's profit.
Passing letters/notes between class with your crush in high school. Kids today will never know there was an actual art to folding your letters. There was nothing more satisfyingly than sitting down in class and reading a long letter from your crush.
Coming home from school on a crisp fall day, riding my bike until it got dark, logging into AIM to talk to my friends, watching TV Land until I fell asleep, and never knowing what it felt like to have a cell phone near by.
I'm 43yo and I still do literally do that. Did you know you can find big blocks of old video recorded onto VHS that has been digitized and uploaded to YouTube? I like it when they leave the commercials in. Makes me feel like a time traveler. I'm watching an episode of Siskel and Ebert from 1988 right now. OH memories. EDIT: Minus the AIM of course. Never had that.
Everything felt relaxed. Time was slow. I remember feeling ALIVE! Yes I was a kid, but things were cheaper to do and easier to afford a simple happy life. Now its about being or getting filthy rich to enjoy a leisurely life like that again….
The biggest problem with this one is that the same piece of candy (like a full size Snickers) cost 25¢ in 1985 and $1+ today for a smaller "full size" Snickers.
Everybody wants everything yesterday these days. We've got used to having everything we want when we want it at the touch of a button now.
No evidence of the stupid s**t I did. lol.
Oh man this, I said many incredibly stupid and ill-informed things as an edgy weird teenager, so glad there isn’t any proof of it now except my mom reminding me. :p
A notion that pissing off the status quo was the duty of the youth. A lightness in the conversations and humor. A lack of internet control and censorship.
It’s crazy that you can’t write f**k but you can show a person being killled on the internet.
I also remember liking the fashion of that era. I had this pretty purple top with long bell sleeves, made me feel like Ella Enchanted. And I had purple suede boots, which I wore everywhere. I remember roll on glitter perfume, glitter tattoos, Limited Too sequins tops and crochet ponchos… Clothing that was just very colorful and very girly. Made me feel like a total girl 😇.
umm, no, thanks. 90s and 200s were awful - low rise jeans, crop tops, neon colors and everything had to fit someone with anorexia. Models from these days all were sick. It was awful and put in kids heads as soon as they went to schools.
Amen. So many of these trends are coming back! I have the urge buy several pairs of skinny, high rise jeans before the low rise ones take over again.
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Face to face conversations.
It seems nowadays 95% of the time I talk to my friends it’s online… I miss going out but we never have time.
I miss the how the world looked. In my childhood in the early 2000s, I remember everything looked much more vibrant and colourful. Now the world seems to look grey and dull.
A big part of it has to do with architecture and interior design. The current trends lean towards a more drab sterile non-offensive color palette. Additionally, a lot of companies who had such wonderfully vibrant aesthetics have gone out of business. There are also other environmental factors in play as well, but the primary culprit is the current aesthetic trends. Basically, we've gone reverse Wizard of Oz (1939) and Pleasantville (1998).
Load More Replies...Like cars. back then you could see a plethora of colors. Now? Black, white, grey and silver. And maybe some red in between.
So many places have become developed, now. There used to be natural grasslands, woods, meadows... I remember being surrounded by farmland and now it's become houses. So sad. I miss the country life!
Back then, for you, it was a whole different perspective! You were only 2'6", now you're almost 6'! Oh, and your eyesight is beginning to fade! :-)
General television and entertainment back then. Certain shows, movies and games.
Snow on Christmas.
Come to North Dakota! The last few Christmas's have been BRUTAL to the point where we can barely celebrate with loved ones.
Hey!!! Come live in the southern hemisphere! There's never snow at Christmas!
Northern California resident here; I have literally never had a 'white Christmas'.
I miss simple HTML coding that was done in Notepad without any embellishments.
Cue BP showing a pic of neither simple HTML or Notepad.
I can still program in simple HTML. My website is all hand-done. I know it's primitive, but I don't care - I don't need a lot of fancy bells & whistles.
Recipe websites. They used to be like cooks.com, but thanks to Google, they became required to include a damned life story. Also, most recipes from different websites are exactly the same. You are lucky to find more than 2 different recipes.
I have several cookbooks thanks to my grandmother. I turn to them - and usually that's all the farther I need to go.
Group phone calls after school. “Be by your phone at 4:30.” Someone would have to hang up for someone needing the internet and have to hang up, dropping the caller they added. We’d have to do roll call lol
Also, AIM, Gameboy, passing notes (or notebooks ;) ), Lisa Frank was everywhere, Nickelodeon, cheesy but memorable Disney movies, etc,
90’s kids were the last generation to grow up during the transition into the internet.
Our patience was stronger then. For how long we waited for one image to load after Asking Jeeves.
I'm sorry, but that dial phone in the picture hasn't been used since the late 70s.
Many older people still had rotary dial phones then. This was even more likely if they lived in an older house. Up until the 80s, you didn't have the option to have a phone in any room you like because of a wall jack. The phone company had to come out and install your phone. My Grandmother had her rotary dial phone well into the 90s having lived in the same house for 40 years. Also, there were usually only 2 or 3 phones in a house. The kitchen, living room, and master bedroom. Many of us remember talking on the phone and stretching the cord from the kitchen trying to achieve some kind of privacy.
Load More Replies...A lot of things. People minding their own business…not being so self obsessed…basically I guess I miss the pre-social media era. I genuinely think it’s a curse upon mankind at this point. It’s devastating our communities and we allow it to do so. People don’t know their neighbors anymore…there’s no more stuff like a 4th of July block party or a bake sale/potluck fundraiser etc…people don’t randomly stop by to say hello and catch up. Families don’t eat together at the kitchen table and talk about their day. Kids want to grow up to be social media influencers or a YouTube streamer rather than be of service to the public or learn a skilled trade. People don’t care about one another like they used to. Now it seems they all just avoid one another and they’ll ignore each other in passing at the grocery store just to go home later and throw shade via Facebook. I’m not a religious person…at all. I could probably be described as agnostic at best but mostly I’m just a heavy skeptic. But lately I’ve found myself considering finding a church. The older I get the more I start to see that maybe church has some things to offer after all. Good things. And I don’t necessarily have to “drink the kool-aid” to get its benefits. Community is an important aspect of living a happy life and it seems to be mostly ignored in today’s day and age. The community is online now but online is not the real world and we need physical contact and face to face interaction. Humans are social creatures by nature…anyways, just some food for thought. …oh and Pogs. I miss Pogs. Those were dope.
Ironically, due to a propensity to abuse myself with d***s and alcohol growing up and developing an addiction to both, I have a guaranteed community wherever I go. AA and NA are worldwide. 33 years clean and sober today. Disclaimer: I do not recommend becoming addicted to a substance just to 'hopefully' be able to stay clean, just for access to 12 step support 😂
If you find a church. they'll probably be bigoted, misogynistic, and demand you be baptized into their religion. Churches are political these days and are all about money.
Above comment made by someone with little experience with churches.
Load More Replies...I think you can still find a sense of community outside of religion: volunteer at a local non profit, join a hobby club, pick up an instrument, join an amateur theatre group, consider a team sport, or… be the change you want to see, start a local tradition involving your neighbours.
The lack of political s**t EVERYWHERE. If you were hitting your teens in in the late 90s, you got to enjoy a time where life felt free, possibilities felt endless and the world was such a carefree place. People had a goddamn sense of humor and being offended as an occupation was totally not a thing. Even after 9/11, when things got legitimately political for the first time I can remember, people were more together than they ever were. I was 16 in 2001 and remember that time as a really good example of what America looks like when race stopped mattering to us as a whole. The floods of New Orleans was another. Everyone was just American during those days. Somewhere along the line, everyone forgot about all that and people hate others for not conforming to their political affiliations. That was SO not a thing I saw growing up, not at any point. I'm thoroughly disgusted by the constant preoccupation with being an "activist" these days because that's not the world I came of age in.
Oh no, no, no noooo... there was tons of political BS back then. However internet access was rather limited at the time.
"The lack of political s**t EVERYWHERE." OP was too young to be paying attention. The Clinton Impeachment, the Republican Revolution, The Moral Majority. That was all happening in the 90s and it was huge politics.
I think the OP means that back then, people didn't make politics their entire personality.
Load More Replies...I remember the internet actually being useful and kinda fun. Also seem to remember the simpsons being good in the 90s And airtravel was actually fun.
As for The Simpsons - they have gone on entirely too long. The first few seasons were great, but then they got boring and uninspiring.
Yeah - the last time I enjoyed a flight was in the late 1990s. Then came the 9/11 attacks. I had cuticle scissors confiscated even though the blades were only 3-4 mm long.
Peoples political opinions being like their income - don’t ask about it.
McDonaldland cookies.
I'll be honest, I miss the MCdonald mascots and Burger King Kids Club Gang...
Imagination, I’ve allowed access to content to make my brain lazy.
Sometimes I specifically just kick back with my mp3 player, my "inspired" playlist and work on stories in my head. Music is a great way for me to disconnect from the world and engage my imagination.
I miss the days when we had to blow on our video game cartridges to make them work and when Tamagotchis were our only responsibility.
Any dust in them, and the game wouldn't work properly. Went through this all the time with the family's NES.
Load More Replies...My barbie cd player that only played barbie songs.
Flip phones. Don’t get me wrong, I love my addictive piece of glass, but I still wish I had a flip phone.
Phones were more exciting then. You had to wait 2 years to get through your contract, but the technology had advanced so far in that 2 years that the newest phones were AMAZING! Today, you basically buy a new phone because you have to or you want to switch teams (Google or Apple). My last 3 iPhones feel exactly the same and I had to get them out of need, not want.
You can probably buy a phone case that recreates that. Personally I like the ones that turn my phone into a little book.
People actually seemed to have conversations with their friends about topics that weren’t just their kids lol I’m 32 (married no kids) or “did you see my post” or idk just SOMETHING interesting lol.
I don't have socials, but people talk as if everybody does. Did you see so n so's photo/post...nope. Oh, you didn't know such a person did this or that...nope again. I will say it is like hearing the hot gossip when people tell me these things that are common knowledge on socials. Oh, and if someone is going to unfriend me, they have to do it to my face.
I think we need to hear more from people who were older than 30 in those years. :p
I miss the days when I wasn't old people (actually I don't really, but you are absolutely right)
Load More Replies...People need to learn about nostaglia, phenomenology, statistics, selective perception etc...
Ya there are a good few things in this list that are not nostalgia but are just simply thr poster realising they are no longer young.
Load More Replies...One of the things i miss a lot is libraries.. physical ones... i loved to read the latest books and magazines.. i was a member of the British Library which was the biggest one in my city and had a large number of english books, magazines and even DVDs. Covid happened and they went online. I am not a member anymore and feel sad. if i want online books, i have other options
That's sad that they're not around for you anymore :-( They really are the best. Our local public library (in northern Virginia, US) is *the* place to be for kids who can walk there after school. It has book clubs for different ages; baby/toddler "Mommy & Me" programs; conversation groups for English language learners; and even some tools (mostly the more expensive electronic ones like heat sensors for if you're weatherizing your house), board games, and activity packs (with directed activities for exploring local parks, etc) you can check out. The problem that we're having is that they always seem to be the first on the chopping block when budget cuts happen :-(
Load More Replies...What's with the Poll at the end? Platform shoes were not a '90s thing, they were all the rage in the '70s, for men and women. If they made a brief resurgence 20 years later then I must have blinked and missed it.
They were definitely a thing here in ireland in the late 90s. My parents were horrified they made a return. They thought they'd seen the last of them in their time. Maybe it was a geographical thing but platforms are very ubiquitous with the 90s. Think spice Girls and the fashion of that era.
Load More Replies...I think a lot of these are, "I miss being a care free child, and not an adult". Not a bad thing, or a good thing, but I know my world view and observations have certainly changed in the last 30 years 🤷♂️
to much "those were the days" for me, life and earth was already a mess, we just saw it with young mind.
Pffft, I still wear flannel shirts! Perfect for when a hoodie is too warm, and it's too chilly for just a t-shirt.
I think we need to hear more from people who were older than 30 in those years. :p
I miss the days when I wasn't old people (actually I don't really, but you are absolutely right)
Load More Replies...People need to learn about nostaglia, phenomenology, statistics, selective perception etc...
Ya there are a good few things in this list that are not nostalgia but are just simply thr poster realising they are no longer young.
Load More Replies...One of the things i miss a lot is libraries.. physical ones... i loved to read the latest books and magazines.. i was a member of the British Library which was the biggest one in my city and had a large number of english books, magazines and even DVDs. Covid happened and they went online. I am not a member anymore and feel sad. if i want online books, i have other options
That's sad that they're not around for you anymore :-( They really are the best. Our local public library (in northern Virginia, US) is *the* place to be for kids who can walk there after school. It has book clubs for different ages; baby/toddler "Mommy & Me" programs; conversation groups for English language learners; and even some tools (mostly the more expensive electronic ones like heat sensors for if you're weatherizing your house), board games, and activity packs (with directed activities for exploring local parks, etc) you can check out. The problem that we're having is that they always seem to be the first on the chopping block when budget cuts happen :-(
Load More Replies...What's with the Poll at the end? Platform shoes were not a '90s thing, they were all the rage in the '70s, for men and women. If they made a brief resurgence 20 years later then I must have blinked and missed it.
They were definitely a thing here in ireland in the late 90s. My parents were horrified they made a return. They thought they'd seen the last of them in their time. Maybe it was a geographical thing but platforms are very ubiquitous with the 90s. Think spice Girls and the fashion of that era.
Load More Replies...I think a lot of these are, "I miss being a care free child, and not an adult". Not a bad thing, or a good thing, but I know my world view and observations have certainly changed in the last 30 years 🤷♂️
to much "those were the days" for me, life and earth was already a mess, we just saw it with young mind.
Pffft, I still wear flannel shirts! Perfect for when a hoodie is too warm, and it's too chilly for just a t-shirt.
