Like it or not, when you come from a country that dominates news headlines, movie screens, and sports stadiums worldwide, others tend to notice the things that set you apart. On the subreddit r/NoStupidQuestions, user Vector1013 sparked an evocative discussion, asking what makes Americans instantly recognizable in an international crowd.
Thousands of direct replies rolled in, with people mentioning habits and features they consider both positive and negative. Does that mean everyone from the United States shares these traits? No, but apparently they’re common enough.
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You’ve been programmed that America is the best.. and it drips off of you.
Totally the best! Except in terms of education, health care, health outcomes, mass shootings, democracy, social equity, wealth inequality, incarceration, life expectancy, or overall quality of life.
If things deteriorate any further, third world countries will start sending money to the US as relief funds
Load More Replies...As an American who has been living abroad since I was 21, (34 now) I cannot agree more. So glad I was out before I got too brain washed.
Oh dear - given the number of outspokenly critical Europeans I have witnessed when visiting the US, I beg to differ.... "UGH, this coffee is FROZEN!" "UGH, these portions are TOO BIG!", "UGH! Why are you talking to me when I don't know you!", "UGH, what do you mean I can't WALK there!"
Yeah, it goes both ways. I've seen a couple of German tourists blow up at a sales clerk in a sporting goods store because he could not provide European sizes or metric measurements. If you're in another country, you need to inform yourself about that stuff too.
Load More Replies...Although john stock has an excellent point, there is still plenty of self criticism that goes on in America thanks to the very American Right to Free Speech. Unfortunately social or political criticism will still get you killed or imprisoned in many countries in Asia, South America, Africa and the Middle East.
Lyone Fein: exercising the right to free speech is enough to get you locked up and deported, or refused entry to the US in the first place if you happen not to be a US citizen. Visitors have to deactivate their social media accounts and use "burner phones" if they've ever criticised the current administration or they'll not clear immigration. I've also read of many federal employees who have been sacked for criticising the current administration. The USA is no longer the land of the free: https://www.theguardian.com/commentisfree/2025/aug/29/us-authoritarian-donald-trump-national-guard
Load More Replies...Why does a Finish-based international website almost exclusively use American English spellings and language conventions?
Did BP change locations? Last time I checked they were Estonian, not Finnish. Anyway: many posts like these are "imported" from US based or at least US centric sites like Reddit and facebook.
Load More Replies...john stock: the thing is, people are avoiding the US like the plague these days. It's not a safe place to visit. The idea that "everyone is trying to get in to the US" is just far right xenophobic propaganda. Hardly anyone in Europe wants to go to the US, much less live there. We have far safer streets, schools, police and so on and a far higher standard of living than the US. And if we *did* visit the US, we might just get locked up by ICE so the immigration detention centres can make more money. Best to stay away.
Load More Replies...err, not so much... the amount of self criticism I see in Belgium (where I am from) and surrounding European countries (have some contacts and read more than just BP) makes me think the oppisite even.
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Americans are loud. I say this as an American. After a few weeks in Scandinavia, encountering other Americans in public made me think, "why are you so damned loud?".
My brother is the epitome of "loud American", he constantly talked loudly and rudely in Britain, Germany, & Switzerland, where everyone was so much quieter
All of the people from the USA that I've met have been lovely people, every single one of them. But they are so loud, so very loud. There was one person I met, and someone asked if they were American. I replied they must be Canadian as they were not demonstrating the American volume. The Canadian lent over, and whispered, "Thank you." and grinned.
Sometime loud English speaking tourists are assumed to be American, but it's not always the case! I was in Germany with my husband and in-laws a few years ago, and my English FIL walked into a restaurant and loudly asked for a "table for 4" in English (sooo embarassing), and then we heard the waiter sneer to the kitchen staff "Americans". My husband and I then made sure we consistently spoke German to all the staff!
I've noticed Australians come in at a close second as far as loudness goes. My Aussie sister in law insists it's only when they are not in Australia.
Part of the blame goes to American restaurants, bars, waiting rooms, etc., that have music/TV playing so loud one needs to try to outyell the noise to be heard. I have a sister who lost most of her voice to thyroid cancer, and I cannot hear her in most restaurants unless I request the volume be lowered. The last time I asked, it was amazing how quickly people around us started speaking in normal tones. It was much nicer immediately, as most of the diners were senior citizens, and not party people. Americans don't understand what ambient noise levels are. It's not restful or welcoming when all one wants to do is eat a meal or wait to be seen by a physician. Add in personal phones & such, and it can become painful.
I'm German - we (well, my family in particular) are often too loud as well.
Load More Replies...Generally, yes, but as someone who is a wee bit deaf? I like it!! At least I can hear you.
Beyond anecdotal observations, a 2023 Pew survey shows that people around the world generally see the U.S. as more or less similar to other wealthy nations.
However, a median of 31% respondents from 23 countries say the United States is less tolerant than other wealthy countries and just 21% say it is more tolerant, while among Americans, the balance of opinion is reversed: 44% say the U.S. is more tolerant than other nations, while 22% say it is less tolerant.
Imma go against the usual grain of Europeans c***ping on Americans and everything American
They're the best kind of tourists here (Greece) and somehow in recent years, they've all decided to come here?
Anyway, polite, smiling, enthusiastic, chill/down to earth. You MAY think this is how most people are on their holidays but believe me, they're NOT. I don't wanna mention here other uh... potentially problematic nationalities I compare them to (ALL from Europe btw...)
So as far as I am concerned, what makes Americans stand out is being this cheerful, outwardly polite person. MAYBE that's a facade, it probably is, but this salesman type of personality is what I think of when I think of a stereotypical American.
When we were there, we tried to use the language and let people know how happy we were to be there, Maybe we didn't do it right, but we were thrilled to be able to experience the history of that place.
most Americans are this way, its a small number that are the loud rude ones (there are studies that back this up) that give the rest a bad rep. Many Canadians will "act American" when they want to behave badly abroad bc of those stereotypes. Most Americans have the outward politeness and enthusiasm when visiting foreign countries.
Expect to pay in USD everywhere. Like, no. Just no.
My question, to Americans who thought this: why would you think that you can use your currency? And would you not find it strange is someone would come to the USA and try to pay with their own currency?
As an American, I am equally baffled by this assumption. I recall visiting some stores in a major shopping mall in Toronto, Canada that accepted USD without giving change in the 1990s (they had signs posted), but credit cards are so much more common now anyways. We do occasionally see Canadian coins mixed in with change, but that's probably just because some are similar in size and color.
Load More Replies...I met with a financial advisor last week. A financial advisor. And he asked me if he would be able to pay with US Dollars on his upcoming trip to the UK.
When I travel, while I convert to enough local currency, in most Tourist areas, the shops take USD, and some of the restaurants too. Last time I was in the UK, in the tourist areas, hald the places took USD. When I was in Hungary, many places had prices in Euro and USD as well, in the Tourist areas.
I on the other hand am surprised when places in foreign countries take USD
The exchange rate they offer is usually brutally in their favor.
Load More Replies...We (Americans) were just in Scotland a week or so ago. Virtually "everyone" just took a "tap" on our credit cards. Best Country ever!
They are not talking about taking your money, they are talking about not taking America currency, you knucklehead. Oops! Maybe you'll ask Bored Panda to ban me now! This isn't the US and Trump doesn't run this site.
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Smiling. Very American thing to smile at people when making eye contact. It’s actually an interesting anthropological anecdote. Since America was more diverse (albeit mostly European) smiling was a way to indicate you were friendly with someone who might not speak the same language.
They smiled at me and I smiled back. It helps in a strange place
Load More Replies...The aforementioned study also suggests there are differences when it comes to the relative political stability of the U.S.
A median of 33% of people in the 23 surveyed countries believe the U.S. is more politically stable than other countries, while 17% say it is less stable.
Americans themselves take a more pessimistic view: 34% say the U.S. is less politically stable than other wealthy countries, while 23% say it is more stable.
Loud, love small talk, exaggerate everything and speak in absolutes "this is the best meal I've ever had".
"I completely agree with that statement about Trump; he's among the worst leaders we've seen."
Preternaturally white teeth.
I once asked my dentist if he could whiten my teeth. He took out a set of slightly differently coloured teeth, matched them with mine and told me, 'No, you're fine. Your teeth have a normal colour. I'm not going to mess with that.' So he didn't and that's fine. White teeth are unnatural.
I did too, so in case anybody else is wondering: beyond what is normal or natural.
Load More Replies...Most outstanding example to me is Shemar Moore , who played Derek Morgan in Criminal Minds and later Hondo in S.W.A.T. Up until then Tipp-ex hand't been on my list of go-to toothpastes.
A default assumption that people outside of the US have general knowledge of US states, cities, geography etc. (while not having that same knowledge about other countries).
Sometimes I can't work out the abbreviation for the states. Some I know NY, CA, FL, others I have to really rack my brains to work out and still come up blank. Also the fact that nobody ever says how old a child is just what grade they are in and that means nothing to me.
Add five to a grade. 2nd graders are seven. 9th graders are 14.
Load More Replies...And giving the country as they would the state after every town or city name. When I say Paris, I obviously mean the original one in France. I don't need to qualify it!
"Chicago" is known world round. I grew up south of there but it's what I use unless I'm talking to somebody from home.
Yeah, that's a universal thing. The further away you are from home, the bigger of a city in the area you pick, hoping that people have heard of it.
Load More Replies...I always just say southeast US. "Oh, you mean Florida?" "Yeah, sure." I'm not from Florida.
Actually, I can understand someone from Florida trying to conceal it by saying "southeast US".
Load More Replies...I know quite a bit about America because we were educated at school to learn about other countries and NOT just America ( which I think a lot of American schools teach) , I watched a video on YouTube a while back where someone was asking young people (16-20ish) basic questions about America and the world, the amount that didn’t even know what countries border the US was astounding and couldn’t name 3 other countries in the world , a lot of them said .. Europe ( thinking it was 1 country) Paris was another, I was mind blown to say the least
The American lean is a big one. We see a wall and immediately assume we need to lean on it to hold it up. It's a tough job, but someone has to do it.
Looking deeper, Gallup also found that Americans have become less likely to value religion and less patriotic than in the past while becoming more likely to value money.
And while Americans seem to be placing more value on community activities than in previous years, there is a decline in the perceived importance of having children.
The clothing is a definite tell. Much more athleisure for all scenarios.
Remember that most Americans abroad are Americans on vacation. Those there on business probably dress differently.
True. Most Germans on vacation don't dress the way they do at home, either, especially in very warm countries.
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Tipping. If you want to look less American, then stop tipping for every little thing. It's a dead giveaway.
Don't assume that just because the USA doesn't pay liveable wages, no other countries do.
When I travel in Europe (been to 5 countries there), the service staff love Americans bc we tip. And Tip is to show we loved the service, not bc of the wages they are paid.
Load More Replies...We tip just to show that we appreciate good service, no matter what country we're in.
as if only Americans tip... we always tip. Super common where i come from.
It's hard to break learned behaviors. It can be a habit. A lot of these I understand people can become more aware and dim down but others deserve some empathy and understanding. Same goes for people who visit here in the US.
Yes, but it is always best to look up the culture and habits of different countries before visiting them, learn what can cause offence. No excuse not to really. Some can be insulted by tipping.
Load More Replies...The U.S.A. isn't the only country that fails to provide livable wages—come to Canada and you'll see. It's been said that to match the economic power boomers had in the 1970s, today's workers would need to earn $65 an hour.
Americans wear a lot of sports team clothing.
Lol I was going to say...we were just traveling around the UK and France, and I was astounded by all the children in walking around in soccer jerseys. I live in a very Ital-Canadian area where its basically law that all of the children play soccer, but I've never seen any walking around in a jersey (outside of fifa game nights or getting ice cream after practice).
Load More Replies...Americans (in general) have a weird fascination with all things sports. I think it's because culturally, we tend to be very competitive.
I also think because culturally, there's not much else.
Load More Replies...My neighbour's children never wear anything else other than football kit... the eldest is football mad.
No one does it quite like football fans in the UK!
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Besides loud and good teeth - look at the way Americans walk. We walk like we own everything and everyone- it is a sort of mega confidence that I have only seen in Americans (yes, there are elites elsewhere, but Americans have that strut and go fast).
On the other hand, I hardly found any sidewalks to walk during my American journey; everyone was using a car, even for small distances. I was puzzled when a police officer stopped me and asked whether my car was broken. "You don't have a car, ma''am??" Um, no, but - for a 10 minutes walk - I have feet 🤣
In one of travel writer Bill Bryson's books, he moved his family to the US after living in the UK for many years. He & his wife invited their neighbours to dinner & the neighbours arrived in their car - from their house next door
Load More Replies...I think this is mostly urban dwellers. I live in a small town in the Midwest US, and whenever I go to a large city in my own country I notice how fast and self-involved (?) all the other people on the sidewalks are. They are like steamrollers.
That’s a regional thing, and I noticed it in Canada too. East coasters from Toronto to Philly will walk a lot faster then anyone else on the planet.
Can't say I found Americans to be faster on average. The ones I've met seemed to walk at a fairly ordinary speed.
I wouldn't say it's a confidence display.. Quite the opposite.. In a desperate attempt to make yourself feel greater than others, as I'm sure it's none of your fault since you've been brainwashed that you are indeed the greatest nation on earth, you walk as if you're the king/queen. Which, in other people's eyes looks absolutely ridiculous
Sorry to disagree, but we walk with "confidence", with a plan on going from point A to B. Why do you find fault with this?
I’m the fast walker…I can power walk like some people jog. I use an elliptical exercise machine and I believe that’s the reason, my stride is longer than average.
My grandfather telling every European he met that we saved them in WWII.
Turned up two and a half years late, just as the tide is turning, and then claim all the credit.
1) Before the tide turned, 2) Who do you think supplied the UK and USSR via lend lease. You think the 7,000 fighters, 3,000 bombers, 500 recon, 1000 transport and 3,000 other aircraft to the UK didn't help? The over 100,000 Trucks, 50,000 Jeeps, 8,000 tanks (At El Almein the British had more American Tanks and Aircraft than British ones for example), not to mention 35,00 vehicles of other types. The US Made 800,000 Enfield rifles for the UK and other 50,000 other small arms and machine guns, over 800,000,000 rounds of rifle ammo (130 million before the US entered the war). Before the US entered the US gave 50 destroyers to the UK for Convoy protection, and over the war gave the British thousands of boats of all types. Not to mention Oil, food, metal, etc, to keep the UK afloat. Yeah, you think the UK would have held out without the US being "the arsenal of Democracy"? 3) When the Germans were fighting outside Moscow the US began to supply the USSR with weapons,
Load More Replies...Yeah - we are mostly well aware of our historical responsibility. Názi Germany was a plight, and názis in general still are. Good riddance! We are, however, somewhat sensitive about people rubbing it in, especially if they themselves didn't do a thing at all.
Load More Replies...As opposed to the French who only know how to surrender and collaborate . . . ?
What about Canadians? We rolled up our sleeves and took on some of the toughest jobs during the war. There's even a monument in the Netherlands honoring our efforts—and every year, they send us thousands of tulip bulbs to say thank you
I've heard that we are sometimes seen as being overly friendly to strangers.
Sometimes you don't want to speak to a stranger, you just want to be left alone.
Load More Replies...Absolutely. A buddy and I worked on a set in the Netherlands, and he made small talk with any stranger sitting next to him on public transit. Nobody ever expects the unsolicited enthusiasm of this man.
It's funny because I have a friend from Colombia who is accused of the same thing?
I’m English and I do it. Had a lovely chat with a German woman in Berlin in a combination of my very poor German, her rather better English and a certain amount of mime
Load More Replies...Or we're just curious and want to know more about the place that we're visiting.
How we use a knife and fork. Many Americans will cut something with the knife, set it down, move the fork to the hand the knife was in, then eat the food; repeat. That's not as common in most other countries. Most people keep the utensils in their hands the entire time without switching which hand they are in.
I eat me peas with honey / I've done it all me life / It makes the peas taste funny / But it keeps 'em on the knife - Pam Ayers.
That’s older than Pam Ayers - as am I. Although the “me” instead of “my” maybe hers alone.
Load More Replies...I never noticed this in all my years living in the US until like a year ago when a friend pointed it out. I was just like.... why would you keep switching hands tho?
Are you an English wolf hound or a French terrier? 😎😂
Load More Replies...I must have been raised by Europeans, then. Knife, right hand, fork, left hand is how I was brought up.
We call it eating continental. I went to ireland for a month as a teen. Still eat with 2 utensils without switching. I was also told that hands under the table at meals was rude.
I'm an Aussie and I eat like this. Maybe because I'm right handed and find it easier to use the fork with that hand.
Most people are right handed though and a lot of us will still eat with the fork in the left hand... for most people it's how you're taught/habit/culture. 🤷
Load More Replies...Americans are the only ones I've seen using the same hand for both knife and fork
In the 1800s, that was the high french style, the keeping in each hand without switching was the British aristocracy. The US adopted the French style, but at some point the French adopted the style of the British elites. Different countries do different based on who influenced them
Everyone here eats with fork on their left and knife in their right hand. That's how we are taught is the polite and correct way, and it just sticks. If you see an adult setting their knife down and using just fork it's seen disrespectful and childish. Of course everyone is free to eat how they want at home, but many still eat like this, especially if the whole family is eating at the same time. When eating some comfort food alone is completely normal to just use fork/spoon.
Why would anyone care so long as you are chewing with your mouth closed, you arent making a mess, why would you possibly care how theyre using their utensils? How is it disrespectful?
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Americans inevitably have a drink in their hands when out (water,coffee,fancy Stanley cup…). One of my Asian colleagues pointed this out to me when we were in Belgium for a work meeting.
Makes me think of those videos of American tourists downing bottles of water whenever they get the chance, as if it was hard to come by...
Don't underestimate how thirsty you can become sightseeing in the sun
Load More Replies...I like to stay hydrated and have something to do with my mouth so I can shut down small talk.
another stupid one. Everyone in Belgium has a drink in gtheir hands, esp the younger generations. They are not that huge as in the states, though.
Sure, but that doesn't mean you have to drink something every two minutes.
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As someone from The Netherlands, Americans stand out to me because they speak quite a lot louder in public than other native English speakers. There's also common phrases only Americans tend to use like they ask "how are you?" to someone they've never met before. It's just meant to be friendly but it often confuses non Americans where this sudden interest in a stranger's private life comes from.
When I'm in a foreign location, I don't ask "How are you?" nearly as often as I ask "Where am I?"
as someone from the Netherlands, people from the Netherlands are the last to be talking about loud.
I assume most people are living with chronic loneliness? So whatever anyone does in whatever country still leaves people in chronic despair and loneliness? I think our way of speaking to others as such is shallow. Nothing deep to it majority. They probably won't even really remember you 10 mins after the Hi.. hello. I rarely talk to people. I have music in and put blinders on. I get many people who like to get in my way when I'm just doing my own thing. Start up some sorta BS I didn't ask for. These are entitlements people have and I have target on me. Then there's some people with a personality that think you are their best friend 3 seconds after meeting... just run. I perfer deep genuine people with empathy who are self aware. This is rare to find. I actually want to move from the US and adapt. I'll probably be happier.
how are you is just the American way of saying high, its not actually asking for details, but a way to show I view you as a friend, it is a remnant of the old immigrant culture as a way of people of different cultures to interact
Even the word "friend" varies WILDLY in scope from one place or culture to another. I don't know anyone who'd view a random person on the street as a friend. That title belongs to people I've known for a while, where I could spontaneously list at least five points from their personal details like preferances/dislikes, home address, allergies/medical problems, occupation/hobby, parents/sibling names. Anything below that is an acquaintance 🤷(for perspective: I'm German)
Load More Replies...For an American it's manners, for us it's a question because that's literally what it is. If you're in another country, you adapt your manners accordingly.
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The notorious American laugh can be heard from all corners of the world.
Maybe we're laughing at people who think a round planet has corners.
They're so loud and full of themselves that's probably why their actual president want to make Canada the 51st state
Personal space. American here. Been around some French people while vacationing at a national park. Not sure why they need to be right next to me. I was close enough the French tourist often; so close I could’ve whispered sweet nothings into their ears.
Amused by the downvotes. How are you offended that I was surprised by a smaller personal space bubble than I was used to? 😂
Load More Replies...I work in France. I keep having to push one of my colleagues back a bit as my eyes just don't focus that close any more without taking my glasses off.
When she was three, my niece realized she could make my head bob by moving her face in and out of my focal plane. That was a long phase.
Load More Replies...I was going to tell a man at a museum that he needed to take me to dinner and a movie before he got that close.
In Germany practically had a german man standing in my shoes! He was most put out that I wanted some distance (you know a few cms would do!) between me and him! Though I think that was a 'him' thing, not a cultural thing! No one else seemed to have the problem.
I think this has changed since the Covid days. I have noticed a lot more people now stand a healthier distance away when queueing.
Americans hold a bouquet of flowers like it’s a trophy but Europeans carry them downward as it’s gentler on the flowers.
Maybe it depends on what part of Europe; I’ve never seen it in the U.K. but perhaps it’s normal in other parts?
Load More Replies...I saw something like this in a show. There were able to tell someone was a foreigner by the carried flowers.
Calling people Maam and Sir. Being super friendly and optimistic.
Ducking and looking around when they hear a loud bang, like someone dropped a plank of wood in a hardware store. Americans tend to be quite edgy about that kind of thing happening unexpectedly.
Saying excuse me when walking around in a crowd and thinking you are getting too close or they are in the way when they aren't. Partly because most of America isn't as densely populated as most European countries. Americans typically have a larger personal space and talk loudly too.
I've been living here for a couple of decades, and still not really used to it.
Maybe when they hear a loud bang they think someone is shooting, so ducking down is a reflexive action
That is not at all common New England (and other places). M'am and sir are more of a military and southern thing.
Agreed. As a born & raised New Englander (north east section of the US), using ma'am or sir is so unusual that it sounds weird and sarcastic. I only hear it when folks are trying to get a stranger's attention if the person dropped something, for instance. Also, I did ROTC (officer training classes that you take while attending civilian college in preparation to join the military as an officer after graduating, I dropped out of the program and did not serve), so that also influenced my attitude towards using ma'am or sir. Only officers are addressed that way.
Load More Replies...I once called a co-worker ma'am(USA). She was DEEPLY offended, "I'm not old enough to be a ma'am" (she was the admin to a school principal.. students present) "Ok, how about assistant wench?". Oddly enough, she didn't like that either. From serving in the military and several years in the south, 'ma'am' and 'sir' are my default.
I have had the EXACT same experience - I had to explain to her that it was a Southern thing, and I wouldn't do it again, but meant no offense.
Load More Replies...Sir and Ma'am are a sign of proper manners. I couldn't stop it if I tried.
🇨🇦 That's how I was raised too. I guess some people would prefer we say "Bro" or "dude" There's always "Karen" for the ladies" 😜
Load More Replies...I still can’t wrap my head around the fact that they have ‘ shooter drills’ in schools. I mean WTF
The “excuse me” thing is definitely weird. I have lived here 20 years now and I still don’t/can’t do it reflexively and then i feel bad that people may think I am rude
If you go to 🇨🇦, be prepared to hear "sorry" even if you bump into another person
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Our sense of entitlement is one thing. I was in France one time and we were at a restaurant ordering food. I had asked for a small change, like no onions or something. The waiter was shocked that I had asked for that. You’d think I had asked they change their entire menu or something. Me asking the chef to change the way he makes food was an insult to them. Haha. Lesson learned.
The french take their food very seriously asking for any change is probably an insult.
What if you have an allergy ? Would they be more understanding?
Load More Replies...That's a PIA habit for everybody else, servers and fellow diners alike.
We were in an Italian restaurant in Blackpool a few years back. The only other customer (it was February) was an American who wanted something which wasn’t on the menu at all. Apparently whatever it was is on every Italian menu in NY and she was not happy. She threaten him with a bad trustpilot reviews; he didn’t quite laugh in her face but was clearly unimpressed. He had a menu, his food was cooked fresh, if he didn’t have it, she couldn’t order it. She eventually stormed off. My son was agog! We did get a free drink for the inconvenience.
Don't worry, in Brazil it's very common to ask to modify the menu as well.
That depends on the kind of food you order as well as the place or country in general. Sure, it's easy to leave off one ingredient of a pizza, salad or döner, since they're prepared à la minute, assembly-line style. But many restaurants have dishes that take hours to prepare and are done in big batches, like soups, roasts, stews or sauces. NO chef will de-onion or un-celery their bolognese sauce for ANY guest, because a proper bolo has been simmering for hours and the veggies have mostly disintegrated. It's impossible to pull mustard from a roast that was prepared four hours ago, and many sausages have whole mustard grains in the ground meat. So, outside of assembly line dishes and allergies, you'd do better to keep the changes on the order to a minimum, rather than going for "French onion soup without pepper, beef wellington, but no mushrooms, with sweet corn instead of the peas, ranch dressing on the side, and no salt on the potatoes, please"
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I lived in England for awhile for grad school, and one of my English friends told me and another American early on that she knew we were American right away because when we were meeting people at the start-of-term grad school function where we met, we'd go up to people and immediately introduce ourselves by name-- maybe one sentence of small talk first if the conversation started from someone making a side comment to us, but then right to "I'm Amy, I'm studying anthropology" and possibly even shaking hands (though I don't think I did that). She said English people had to do small talk first before even exchanging names, though I'm not sure how true that is.
I know I got a *lot* of odd looks when I sat on the floor in a bookstore to look at some of the books on the lower shelves. And once I was sitting on the floor outside my advisor's office, waiting for him and reading an article. I was sitting criss-cross and one of the other professors came by, walked past, did a double take, back-tracked, and then asked me what I was doing. I was like "Uh, waiting for a meeting with Jay?" and he said "Oh, I thought you might have been praying to Mecca or something" (again I was sitting criss-cross applesauce and. reading. He was pretty racist though). I think it's not unusual to sit on the floor in a bookstore or library in the US, and it's not unusual for students to sit on the floor in the hallway when there aren't chairs, or to sit on the floor in a dorm to sprawl out and study. Apparently this is not universal.
We *are* generally loud. People in England also commented on how much Americans smile, which my mom also remembered being something people said a lot when she visited the USSR as a college student.
I think that while we can be blunt/direct, or maybe more like straightforward, we also tend to not like to say overtly negative things-- I've heard comments like "When you ask Americans how they are, if they say "Great!" they mean "Fine," if they say "Fine," they mean "I'm hanging on by a thread," if they say "Okay," they mean "miserable," if they say "Oh, hanging in there!" they're on the verge of breakdown.".
"Criss-cross, applesauce" is used in elementary school now a-days. It was adopted over the previous term for sitting with your b u m (why is that censored??) on the floor and your legs crossed in front of you with both feet tucked under the opposing knee, "Indian-style," which is considered culturally insensitive. (It's my understanding the "Indian" refers to Native Americans, not those from the country of India.) It's a term used with children, but adults will often use it, too. (Sorry if I'm coming off as pedantic - I'm not sure how much of this is known outside of the USA.)
Load More Replies...It used to be called sitting "indian style" and schools replaced it with the non-racist "criss-cross applesauce"
Load More Replies...Meanwhile, I can have multiple interactions with the same person over weeks or months and still neither of us has introduced ourselves by name!
Whether an American introduces themselves by name or not is not the telling factor. Whatever they first say, you hear their American accent so you know. (Yes, I know Canadians sound like Americans, but they all start out with "Sorry" instead of their name.)
Actually I think we are suspicious of people and we want to know who is around us to feel safer. At least I do.
Sitting so someone can fall over you is not good manners. It also blocks wheelchair users or those with mobility issues.
Baseball caps and leaning on things.
you have a problem with fans of the Nationals, Phllies, Angels, Reds, etc?
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I don’t know if it’s okay anywhere else in the world to walk out of your house in pajamas.
Also- the shorts. People everywhere talk about the shorts. You know the ones.
People started doing this in the UK a while back, wearing pj's whilst dropping of the kids at school and then going to the supermarket. Some schools and stores soon put a stop to the nonsense
An American trend I wish would go away - PJs and bedroom slippers are for your house. Not your trip to Walmart.
I’m American and I cannot comprehend wearing pajamas outside the house. Getting dressed is the first thing I do when I get out of bed because I just don’t feel complete wearing PJs when I’m not sleeping
As to the shorts, a lot of places in the US are a lot warmer than some countries are.
But I barely see people combining shorts with hoodies everywhere else.. but many times in the US 🤷🏻♀️
Load More Replies...I honestly never have but I do live in a quite posh and decidely wealthy area. Though I hasten to add that I am neither posh nor wealthy myself!
Load More Replies...To do what in your pyjamas though? Just collect mail or bring in your bins, or actually go out?
It started in the UK at least, as mums on the school run and students started doing it in novelty onesies. It was horrible and unhygienic.
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Chino shorts and polo shirts with trainers is the American tourist uniform.
Didn’t see where anybody has mentioned the American lope. Maybe it’s less of a thing now?
When I lived in Central Europe in the latest ‘80s, Americans not only towered over the locals (just look out over the heads to see the American you’re meeting an in a crowd), Americans’ heads went up and down as they walked. Perhaps we habitually have a longer stride? Europeans were gliding like swimming ducks while Americans were bounding in and out of view across the way. Doing doing doing.
Atleast compared to us brits, Americans are way more animated than us in practically every way.
I'm American and I tried impersonating a Brit once over text. Someone instantly called me out on my use of the word "got." Apparently "get" and "got" are more frequent in American English than in British English, at least in this case between me and this other guy.
I remember the late great British comedian Sean Lock roasting Americans who say "Can I get a coffee?" at a Starbucks. "No," he said, "you may HAVE a coffee. If you GET a coffee, you WORK THERE! THEY get it for you, YOU have it!"
Can I get is not acceptable. The response is: I don't know, can you? May I have is the polite request, preferably with a please added.
I hate the non-word "gotten" but it's increasingly being used here in Ireland, I want to scream every time!
Take seems to be a word that isn't in the American vocabulary, it's always bring. Drives me up the wall.
Yeah... I struggle with that one. I'll take someone a cup of tea and they might bring me the empty cup back. It feels weird to me to bring someone a cup of tea. British friend said to me once 'I'll just bring Nicky her cup of tea' and it just feels a tad alien to use it like that! Makes me want to ask 'bring it where?' British English uses "bring" for movement toward the speaker and "take" for movement away from the speaker.
Load More Replies...Gotten is not a word [in British English]. So you better be gettin used to it! Edited for clarity - though the whole thing is about impersonating a Brit, it should be bleedin' obvious!
Robert T: er, well... (he said, donning his hard hat and fire-proof clothing 😉): https://www.sarahwoodbury.com/on-the-use-of-the-word-gotten/ and https://www.theguardian.com/commentisfree/2025/jun/04/use-word-gotten-some-readers-upset
Load More Replies...'Gotten' *is* a word. Example sentence: "I've just gotten up out of my chair."
Besides being pretty much dropped from British English, I suppose it seems weird because it's often used in sentences that could be a lot shorter and more precise. I got up or I've just got up would suffice for example. Even I just got up from my chair should the latter part, for some reason, be necessary. Not that I mind, it's just different cultures/habits.
Load More Replies...One of the examples from that class (allegedly) is the way we count on our fingers. We start with the number 1 on our pointer finger, while Europeans start with their thumb. Obviously not exclusive to Americans, and I have no idea how they count on other continents.
My wife will count on her fingers, "you DO know, if it's over 10 you must take off your shoes". She always indicates I'm number one, at least I think that's what that single finger is for.
I always spot American plus size women because they dress amazingly! Here In Greece plus size clothing is either ugly or pricey.
You get punished and have to pay for the extra fabric when you are fat seems to be the attitude.
It's not a punishment if you need more material than others, that's just smart resource management. Why should the rail thin people subsidize your plus size?
Load More Replies...This is sad. I know extra weight is unhealthy but everyone deserves to feel good in what they wear. Weight doesn't define your worth. This just feels cruel. I understand about the extra cost for fabric but the other part feels like a superiority thing maybe even a bit of power and control that defines your worth for you.
Completely agree with this, except for one thing: extra weight isn't necessarily unhealthy. There are fat people much healthier than the skinny ones who lost their weight through dangerous fad diets, eating disorders and dubious meds. And even if it was, I shouldn't have to preface every debate with "I know it's unhealthy, but..." as if I had to constantly apologize to the world for the way I am.
Load More Replies...well its getting better here in Europe finally! I always see so many great looking plus sized girls in the States. Also saw bigger sized hotpants and short dresses etc before they became more common in Europe
Asian manufacturers of clothing to be sold in the US ask what the item will sell for and then charge 1/6 the retail price. It has absolutely nothing to do with the amount of fabric in the garment. Source: New Yorker article on the Asian garment industry.
Very forward. In America, I can go to an event, make a new connection, and at the end they will hug me goodbye. A complete stranger! However, I am American so it never really struck me. When I lived in South Korea though, they would look at me as if I had 2 heads when I hugged them. Same with hand shakes. It was a reaction that I never really thought about until then. Oops. We are an overly friendly bunch.
Sometimes you hug a person on short acquaintance because you need to know how deep to dig the hole.
Ooh. Yes, be careful with hugging. Just as another of these posters mentioned how the idea of personal space is different between the French and Americans, hugging has a different interpretation of intimacy depending on the country that you are in!
i like hugging so much more than all the kissing. You get introduced to a friends friend and slurp slurp slurp your cheeks are wet. No thanks. I prefer a polite hug, and even beter, a GOOD hug from friends.
No. Dont do that. Hugging people is something wich makes you look very weird
Ugh. NEVER hug a complete or near stranger. VERY uncomfortable and sends the wrong signals.
Load More Replies...I'm a hugger. When I was divorced, getting a hug was the main thing that I missed. I know a lot of people who live alone, so I hug them - I ask before I first hug someone if they mind being hugged. One friend hates it, so I don't hug her and also warn others not too.
I’m an American and so NOT a hugger! I might shake your hand, but only if there’s a way I can wash my hands after…it’s nothing personal! Twenty plus years in healthcare…
A germaphobe in healthcare. Will wonders never cease.
Load More Replies...Based on my experience. When we ask you, "Where are you from?" Americans will typically mention the state that their from instead of United States. I've only gotten this type of response from Americans haha.
I like that. There are many “cultures” in the US, and I find it interesting to know if someone is from Arizona, NC or Maine.
The problem is, to most people outside of the USA, it means nothing. I have no idea how someone from NC (what even is NC??) is different from someone from Maine. Some states are well known (e.g., Alasaka, Hawaii, California, Florida) but all 50 are not.
Load More Replies...But you keep telling us that you can spot us Americans from a mile off by our walk, our loudness, our clothing,.... Since you already know our country, we now offer specifics.
Haha see I’m the one who says Ohio USA and have been met with “I know that’s a US state! I’m no daft!”(response from a Scottish lass) :)
Everyone knows Michigan! Or should I say the "mitten" state?
Load More Replies...Actually as a UK person, Londoners do this. They give you the 1st 2 lines of their address but never say London, they expect you to know-like its famous and we should all know. Irritates the fvck out of me!
I’m a northerner; I’ll do that if I’m in the town I live in. For example if I lived in Newcastle and was talking with someone in Newcastle I’d say I’m from Jesmond but I’d qualify it with but I’m from wherever originally
Load More Replies...We use it to clarify what part of the country we are from. Florida and Oregon may well be different countries in terms of behavior.
In the US, states have more decision power than states/regions in some other countries, where power may be more centralized, especially in the case of relatively small countries. Especially right now, people who live in democrat-dominated such as California may emphasize the state over the counrtry, because they don't want to be associated with MAGA-Americans.
Americans are either the most fit, built, athletic, people you have ever seen or overweight. For some reason there are not as many average build people. I think this fits in with the theme of America the land of extremes.
I remember reading that Americans squat on their toes not their heels, and that we wear tennis shoes everywhere.
I think I squat on my toes from my youth years playing baseball. I was occasionally catcher and you do NOT sit back on your heels there. On your toes is READY position. Hmmm...and now I metatarsalgia in my feet. Interesting...
I think this is culture based and starts very young. It can be learned but it takes a long time to stretch established tendons. I've always admired people who can squat comfortably for hours. They always have a chair wherever they go.
As opposed to which item on this list so far? 🤔
Load More Replies... As a Brit
-Leaning a lot more
-Smiling at people
-Loud or projecting voices
-American English terms “sidewalk”, “diaper” “freeway” etc
-Asking for coffee creamer
-Being resistant to walk places
-Starting conversation with shop workers
-Spreading out on public transport
-Tipping all the time
-The term “Irish goodbye” (this isn’t even a thing in Ireland)
-Expecting food shops to be open really early
-Talking about suing people
-Having the chicken pox Vaccine
-Using medication to treat everything
-Always saying “*Blank* in the world” or “*Blank* in history”. Like if you’re talking about the worst serial killer. It will always be “the worst serial killer in history” or “in the world”. Whereas they may only be the worst in America.
-Talking about your rights
-Equating constitutional rights to human rights. So saying “*Blank* is against my human rights”. When it’s not against the human rights act it against the United States constitution.
-Talking about people “having an accent”.
-Thinking South Africans using the term “Coloured people” is offence
-Referring to someone’s heritage by region or race. In Britain people are more specific than the US so someone is Nigerian or Bangladeshi etc.
Of course! But not casually adding it to a random conversation 😀
Load More Replies..."Irish goodbye" is like "French leave" or "Dutch courage" - terms never used in the named country for obvious reasons.
What the hell is an Irish goodbye? I say this as Canadianized Scot now living in the States. I have never heard this term from my cousins or anywhere in either Canada or the US.
I've always thought it meant to leave without informing anybody or saying goodbye.
Load More Replies...One thing I have noticed, as a Brit who lives in the US, Americans constantly mention church. “I know them from church”, “we did xyz after church”, “that’s near to my the church”. To me it’s a type of virtue signaling. I don’t care that you go to church, that’s your business. You don’t have to keep working it into the conversation.
As an American who isn't religious, but lives in the South and hears this quite often - I promise it's not virtue signaling. It's just that church is a big part of a lot of people's community - to them, it's just as natural to say 'that's near my church' as to say 'that's near my kid's school' or ''that's near where I buy groceries.' Church is just an integral part of a lot of peoples' lives - for better or worse.
Load More Replies...Yep, as a South African I've been told more than once not to call people Coloured. Hon, call them anything else and they will cut you.
I always talk to shop workers (UK). Imagine being there all day and no-one speaks to you.
Think of it as evolution; like the tortoises on the Galápagos Islands
Load More Replies...When they travel they dress like they're going to Walmart, or about to mow the back yard..
I'm an American and live abroad. This annoys me to no end. Dress up a bit when you travel, people, you're not just heading down to the Stop and Shop. I bet all of Italy thinks we're a bunch of awful slobs.
Just to keep with the clichés: I bet many halfway decently dressed Italians (and French) think that of about half the tourists they meet - especially Americans and (us) Germans.
Load More Replies...We like comfort. But if you are saying you see American travelers dressing like folks from the People of Walmart website, yikes!
I went to America and everyone was so outgoing and funny, one person asked me if i was from “butt chart gardens” in the most southern accent ever known to man. He meant to say the Bouchard Gardens in Victoria BC which is literally a garden centre and not a city but the thought was there. It still never fails to make me laugh.
I’m in Denmark now and a waiter told us that Americans always order drinks first and then food while Danes order food first and then drinks. I had never heard that before or thought about it and thought it was kind of a sweet simple thing to notice.
Ordering drinks first gives the table time to think about what to order. The hope is by the time the waiter returns, the table is ready to order their food.
And I want my drink asap. I'm always thirsty. I can be drinking while figuring out my meal.
Load More Replies...That makes sense. In America the waiter always asks to take your drink order first, gets the drinks while you have time to look at the menu, and then asks if you are ready to order when they bring your drinks. I'm not sure how it is done in other countries, but after a lifetime of ordering at a restaurant a certain way, it would be natural for Americans visiting another country to not pick up on this social cue.
Same in U.K. and most European countries; I’ve been to Denmark a couple of times and I don’t remember it being different there but then it was a while back
Load More Replies...It can be humorous too. Danish exchange student, when at a restaurant was asked by the server "Soup or salad?" (Midwesterners speak rapidly) "I don't know, how big is it?"
And we order both at the same time. If the waiter comes before we can decide on foods, then we might order drinks first.
Apparently, we kick when we walk while Europeans step.
Please explain - heel to toe or toe to heel? I think I'm weird walking toe to heel - it helps cushion my bad knees and makes you almost silent when walking. I scare the c**p out of people here and they accuse me of sneaking up on them
In my experience you guys seem to try and always have something to say about anything. Whether it's prompted or not.
I'm not saying this is a bad thing, but it's an observation that's brutally confirmation biased. :D.
Loud and interrupting. Demanding .
It will also depend on where you are. In many places e.g. Russia (well 20 years ago and further. not sure if its that way now): smiling in public. Immediately known as american. Also, frankly, weight. And not like grossly obese, just not as angular, regular eating is evident.
I remember when Alexander Mogilny played for the Leafs and all the players were asked what they would get for gifts at Christmas as kids. Alex simply stated “orange”.
I'm glad to see that most of these are just cultural differences and not outright offensive behavior.
How many times BP? Stop being hack “writers” and come up with something original. Lazy and boring
I love how excited American tourists are about things I see every day: An old church, a Fachwerk house, cobble stone streets etc. It reminds me how much history and beauty is around me all the time. But taking you to dinner can be a bit difficult, if you are not used to "foreign foods".
Yes I think we get so used to all our old architecture that we forget to appreciate it. So it's nice to be reminded to stop and just take it all in.
Load More Replies...I’m definitely guilty of smiling too much for two reasons: 1) I have resting b*tch face, when I don’t smile people look a little scared when our eyes meet. 2) I had really bad teeth growing up now I have a beautiful top plate so no more closed mouth smile for me. I flash my nice new teeth every chance I get. I have a ton of confidence now! :))
The ginormous backpacks younger Americans carry. Makes it difficult especially in touristy places to get round. Bath for example is a nightmare particularly in the summer.
Those are rapidly falling out of style here, at least domestically. Tiny little bags like the Loungefly brand are taking over.
Load More Replies...Another hit piece...take a break and bash another country for a change.
can we pick another country now please instead always Americans?? Lets do Dutch and or Belgians :-D
I’ve never found Americans particularly friendly, and often pretty entitled. One couple on an Antarctic small boat cruise demanded towels to be changed twice a day. The younger ones seem to use the word ‘like’ a lot to punctuate sentences when their brains can’t keep up.
This just makes me realize how Europeans look down on Americans without realizing there are other parts of the word that share some of the same traits. Europeans are no better than anywhere else. I’m not American but this post made it sound like Europeans were superior to so many other countries and cultures. Makes me want to visit there less than I already did.
You had me and my sympathies in the first half. Yes, many Europeans come across as arrogant about culture and manners. They often see/misunderstand people from the US as shallow and ill-mannered, when many of the clashing points are easily explained by the respective "bubbles" (especially things like the "how are you" inquiry/small talk). But unlike US Americans we don't have a "European" culture claiming to be better than others. We have hundreds of different cultures, many of which get a lot of attention and visitors from people from other countries and other cultures, which makes the locals in London, around the Mediterranean, in Paris, or the puszta draw comparisons and see patterns. There are plenty of clichés about the Germans, English, or Swedish out there, too, many of them derived from (bad) tourist behaviour - just no "European" ones in the way that US citizens are "American". And US citizens apparently grow up in the "knowledge" that there is no place in the world better or as free as the states.
Load More Replies...I'm glad to see that most of these are just cultural differences and not outright offensive behavior.
How many times BP? Stop being hack “writers” and come up with something original. Lazy and boring
I love how excited American tourists are about things I see every day: An old church, a Fachwerk house, cobble stone streets etc. It reminds me how much history and beauty is around me all the time. But taking you to dinner can be a bit difficult, if you are not used to "foreign foods".
Yes I think we get so used to all our old architecture that we forget to appreciate it. So it's nice to be reminded to stop and just take it all in.
Load More Replies...I’m definitely guilty of smiling too much for two reasons: 1) I have resting b*tch face, when I don’t smile people look a little scared when our eyes meet. 2) I had really bad teeth growing up now I have a beautiful top plate so no more closed mouth smile for me. I flash my nice new teeth every chance I get. I have a ton of confidence now! :))
The ginormous backpacks younger Americans carry. Makes it difficult especially in touristy places to get round. Bath for example is a nightmare particularly in the summer.
Those are rapidly falling out of style here, at least domestically. Tiny little bags like the Loungefly brand are taking over.
Load More Replies...Another hit piece...take a break and bash another country for a change.
can we pick another country now please instead always Americans?? Lets do Dutch and or Belgians :-D
I’ve never found Americans particularly friendly, and often pretty entitled. One couple on an Antarctic small boat cruise demanded towels to be changed twice a day. The younger ones seem to use the word ‘like’ a lot to punctuate sentences when their brains can’t keep up.
This just makes me realize how Europeans look down on Americans without realizing there are other parts of the word that share some of the same traits. Europeans are no better than anywhere else. I’m not American but this post made it sound like Europeans were superior to so many other countries and cultures. Makes me want to visit there less than I already did.
You had me and my sympathies in the first half. Yes, many Europeans come across as arrogant about culture and manners. They often see/misunderstand people from the US as shallow and ill-mannered, when many of the clashing points are easily explained by the respective "bubbles" (especially things like the "how are you" inquiry/small talk). But unlike US Americans we don't have a "European" culture claiming to be better than others. We have hundreds of different cultures, many of which get a lot of attention and visitors from people from other countries and other cultures, which makes the locals in London, around the Mediterranean, in Paris, or the puszta draw comparisons and see patterns. There are plenty of clichés about the Germans, English, or Swedish out there, too, many of them derived from (bad) tourist behaviour - just no "European" ones in the way that US citizens are "American". And US citizens apparently grow up in the "knowledge" that there is no place in the world better or as free as the states.
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