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Couples often have to take their time when picking their wedding guestlist. However, generally most people expect their attending friends and family to at least behave. But as experience shows, people often make questionable decisions.

We’ve gathered some examples of the worst, trashiest and most tacky wedding guests out there. We also got in touch with Jhona Yellin, Editor of Bespoke Bride to learn more. So get comfortable as you scroll through, prepare to get angry, upvote the most egregious offenders and be sure to comment your thoughts and experiences below.

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#1

More For Attendees: Inappropriate Questions

More For Attendees: Inappropriate Questions

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ShyWahine
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1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Damn straight - mind your business, cousin!

Sandra Angulo
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1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

And continued to question it even after they had been told no!

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pep Ito
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1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I can assure you that in my family, if a cousin has a tumor, the whole family would know about it (we are family and we care about each other) and there would not be this misunderstanding.

Big Chungus
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1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I have had this happen before. Not at a wedding but an old job, the lady asked if I was leaving because I was pregnant, and I looked her straight in the ye and said no I am just fat. Never spoke to me again before I left lol.

RobbyRebecca Morrison
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1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Crazy sad too to read about your experience. Never let her question define your wedding day with joy, reframe. Her issues aren't yours, she has to live with her choices. I would avoid her until you feel comfortable about her intentions.

Matthew Famolare
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1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I disagree. You can ask. Just not over and over again.

Jay Cee
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1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

We announced our wedding in early June. The wedding was at the end of September and yes, the bride did have a slight bulge (note never get married when your intended is on her period!) so there were a few comments batting around. First daughter was born eight YEARS later. Longest. Gestation Period, Ever!

Ge Po
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1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I was pregnant when I got married. Fact is, we were engaged and the date was already set about half a year before I got pregnant. I got pregnant because we let it happen, because were getting married anyway and we both wanted kids. Some people were told, some people guessed it (quietly by themselves) but no-one asked because, as OP said, you just don't. (Unless there's some medical- or other safety-issue where it matters.) Especially not during a wedding.

Leslie Richardson
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1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

sucks her mom didn't protect her from that. zero reason to yell her cousin asked. cousin is ignorant. mom is mean

Paul Rabit
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1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

As gross as Cousin is, she didn't ask OP. So how did OP find out? Who is the a$$hat who felt OP needed to know this? Mom? If so, Mom is an AH.

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    Bride's Sister Made It All About Her

    Bride's Sister Made It All About Her

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    Glen Ellyn
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I'd divorce my sister if she pulled a stunt like this. Wow, how nasty.

    Tracy Sellars
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Groom stands up "well thank you for having those standards as it resulted in me improving my standards and not settling for second best"

    Libstak
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    And just like that, everybody got the back story of how narcissistic twin was cutoff permanently no contact with her sister and BIL from that day forward and every man who she considered not good enough breathed a huge sigh of relief at the bullet they all dodged..

    Captive
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Wow what an amazing piece of trash

    Brenda Spagnola-Wilson
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    1st - kick her out, escorted by security. 2nd - turn this horrible moment around by saying something funny/ embarrassing about the sister. People will remember the laughs more than groom's embarrassment. 3. After blocking sister on everything, post online about what she did. Now everyone knows how cruel, narcissistic and moronic she really is. Make sure to tag her friends, her coworkers, her boss & the company she works for. 4. Write that b!tch an actual letter, spelling out every horrible, bullying, mean th8ng she ever did to you. Make it concise (like bullet points), comprehensive and as detailed as possible. At the you say how nfeel, keep it short inform sister that if she ever, in any way, contacts you, or ,you are ever informed she so much as mentioned you/hubby's name to anyone - not only will you post this online, but you'll also send copies to people, publish it in papers, you find a way to get it into the media. You will ruin her life.

    RiceRiceBaby 929
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    What cracks me up is that she kept the letter. To stroke the ego? I mean that was so long ago. Get over yourself. This is so cringe, I'm embarrassed for her.

    XanthippeⓐWulf🇨🇦️️🇬🇧
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Right!? That is some obvious. deep-seated, festering jealousy lol. I don't even know these people & I'm embarrassed for her.

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    Anna Losonczy
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I don't know if I could ever forgive my sister.

    Jon Steensen
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Well then the groom should have stood up, "thanked" her for the speech and continued: "Luckily since then I have realized that beauty is about much more than just looks alone, and I am grateful that you declined me and I instead ended up with the far more beautiful of the two sisters"... Turn to the bride "babe, I love you, and especially your truly beautiful sole, which my stupid, superficial teenage-self wasn't able to spot at first back then ".

    cheryl60
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    what a twisted jealous piece of trailer trash ! so thats as polite as i could be

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    #3

    4 Weddings And A Cat Party

    4 Weddings And A Cat Party

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    StarCrossedFriday
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Tbf, a wedding full of cats does sound kind of amazing. But I wouldn’t force it on someone else 😅

    Janissary35680
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    "Wedding full of cats" sounds like a scene that cut out of "Sleepwalkers"

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    ucp
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I’m allergic to cats, so I’d just tell her that she can’t bring them (note, my allergy never stopped me adopting cats).

    DC
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    ... and the cats have expressed their desire to attend in what way, exactly?

    pineapple87
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I am one of those people who brings their dog along wherever I can. But never in a million years would I assume that an invitation to a wedding - or to any party for that matter - included her, unless it specifically stated so.

    Ren
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    My brother and his wife made a special invitation to their wedding for our dog, the wedding was in our backyard so there was really nowhere else the dog could go anyway lol but the invitation was a charming idea.

    Beth Wheeler
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I've heard of crazy cat lady but that chick is trying to take it to the extreme.

    Perfumista Perfumista
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    1 year ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Any chance this person was just worried about brushing up against the wrong pollen and bringing it home to the the cats?

    LakotaWolf (she/her)
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    An interesting consideration, but a truly devoted/concerned pet owner would change out of their wedding attire before going inside their house once they got home (e.g., in their garage or someplace else private.) I used to work in some places where I'd get filthy and covered in c**p that I didn't want to get onto my cats' fur, and I'd strip down in the garage and change clothes as soon as I got home. Or, you know, the woman could just... be careful with her limbs and body and not touch any of the flowers XD pollen from cut (dead) flowers generally doesn't just levitate into the air and stick to people.

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    Yu Pan
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    You are stressing the cat out. Stop it.

    Pollymere
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    6 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I'd let someone bring cats to my wedding... I'd enjoy watching them trying to keep tabs on them all day (I'd cat-proof the cake though).

    Sheena Leversedge Wood
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    My cat goes places with us, like when we visit family for an evening and so on, but I wouldn't dream of assuming he was invited to a wedding with us

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    Bored Panda got in touch with Jhona Yellin, Editor of Bespoke Bride, and she was kind enough to answer some of our questions. Naturally, given their extensive experience organizing all sorts of weddings every year, we were curious to hear if they have had any crazy stories.

    “Yes indeed! After 13 years of covering weddings all around the world, our team has a long list of some crazy stories. I once attended a wedding where a guest got into the couple's open bar a bit too early. By the time the cake was being cut, this person was on the dance floor, trying to reenact Dirty Dancing — solo.”

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    #4

    Because Some People Can’t Have A Single Day That Is Not About Them

    Because Some People Can’t Have A Single Day That Is Not About Them

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    Indosidius
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I say this knowing EVERY woman wants her wedding day to be special with all the trimmings and everything, however I will simply cancel the venue, get married in court, save a butt load on the ceremony finances, and just have a small informal reception at my house out of spite. But that is just my opinion, and opinions are like a******s: everyone has got one.

    María Hermida
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    1 year ago

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    Do you know EVERY woman on the planet? Because I'm a woman and I don't give a s**t.

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    Glen Ellyn
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I remember reading this one a while ago. Still awful and always will be.

    Steve
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Contact venue, explain the situation and how much you’re spending vs MIL. Then ask them which amount they want, because they can’t have both.

    cheryl60
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    monster in law alert ! def dis invite her at all costs or quickly cancel your bit n quietly go else where n get married n not tell her at all costs

    Damned_Cat
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I would have tried to let the other guests know (if they didn't already) so they could avoid going to the vow-renewal. When the MIL brought it up, everyone could just say, "that's nice" and change the subject.

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    Mother-In-Law Hires Someone To Throw Red Paint On Bride's Dress

    Mother-In-Law Hires Someone To Throw Red Paint On Bride's Dress

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    WindySwede
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    my thoughts are that she thinks the bride is stealing the groom from his mother?

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    Nimitz
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    1 year ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Clipped from Reddit: I was having doubts about posting this, but now that it's turned into a Twitter thread and there's IG reels about it, I feel like it's fair game. This poor girl (I don't know her but she's from my mom's hometown and news has spread) was hated by her MIL, as well as SIL and BIL, since the beginning. They threatened her repeatedly, made multiple SM accounts to harass her, and when confronted by the husband, they denied everything. BIL offered her a blank check to leave her husband and the family for good (boyfriend at the time). Now, as I said I don't know her, but what I have heard is that she is a lovely person and wouldn't hurt anyone. All of this hate comes purely from her socioeconomic status. Apparently husband's family wanted him to marry someone rich. She was so graceful throughout the entire ordeal. When MIL heard that the couple got engaged, she faked a heart attack and had to be hospitalized. She blamed her son and told him he'd have to cover all of her medical costs. The day of the wedding, MIL, BIL, and SIL all refused to attend, which, fair enough, but apparently they hired someone to throw red paint on the bride's dress right before walking down the aisle. Three men ran up to her, two with cans of paint and another recording, and covered her dress in red. The photos are of the aftermath. At first, guests thought the red paint might be blood. I can't even imagine what that must've felt like. Bride said she initially felt as if it was water, but then saw everyone's shocked faces, and her friends were trying to reassure her that she still looked beautiful. She says the worst part of it was looking at her mother's face, because initially she thought she had been physically hurt. The bride gracefully changed into another dress. She had to go home for this but all of the guests waited for her at the church. She changed into a lovely gold floor length gown and continued with her beautiful wedding. The groom's family also found out where the photos would be taken and sent an anonymous tip to the police saying that they could find d***s there, and that the groom might be in possession of them. The police arrived and all of the guests present were searched. The groom was close to being taken away in handcuffs. There is suspicion that BIL bribed the police, but thankfully in the end that didn't happen. After that, the wedding went on without issues. MIL's house has since been egged. She is hated by the whole town. SIL and BIL have been questioned by their friends and have denied everything, but do not deny that they loved hearing about it. FIL seems to just do whatever his wife says. He fired groom from the family business, but he was then given a job by his uncles who love him and support him. Groom's family all claim to be super religious. Lastly, after the wedding and before the honeymoon, the groom's family stole his passport and visa. They also tried to bribe the travel agency to ruin the trip. Fortunately they didn't work and bride and groom went on their honeymoon successfully.

    Rosie
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I would have hated to let them win, but I would not have married him. His family will stop at nothing and I would fear for my life.

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    Glen Ellyn
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    😲 Lowest of the low! Time to throw MIL out of the wedding.

    G A
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    The whole article is on BP already

    Debbie
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    yup i've seen these pictures before. Although I can't remember the entire story. And how do you get all that paint off the stones without ruining them? The dress is probably ruined for sure.

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    LSD
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I hope she didn’t go through with the wedding. Her MIL is going to make her life hell.

    Yellow dot
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Its called No Contact. Geez, everyone is so quick to be rid of the husband too. No idea how he reacted, no point in makong assumptions.

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    Simeon Nevel
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    depending on the cost/value of the dress, I guess that could be considered felony vandalisn/destruction of property. I'd call the cops.

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    Telling My In-Laws It Was On Them To Explain To Their Guests Why There Weren't Any Places For Them At My Wedding Reception

    Telling My In-Laws It Was On Them To Explain To Their Guests Why There Weren't Any Places For Them At My Wedding Reception

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    ShyWahine
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    In–laws have the audacity to be embarrassed…

    Mike F
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    The in-laws wanted the newlyweds to do the apologies! There's a few more lines to it if you click the link on the lower left corner. Fruitloops!

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    Kristin
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I don't maybe I'm just have more manners as a friend but if someone invited me to a wedding in which I didn't know the bride, nor groom and was just friends with the in laws, there is no way I would've even went. If I didn't get an invite from the bride herself then I'm not going. Only exception would be if I was going as someone's plus one 🤷‍♀️ that's just plain disrespectful

    Kay
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I went to a wedding where I didn't know anyone except my friend who brought me as his plus one - and even that was because he was in my town only for that wedding, and otherwise we wouldn't be able to meet. The bride's vows were so hilarious I told her I already fell in love with her 😂 we became best friends and were double dating for quite s long time after that

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    Kris
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I would tell them to leave

    Damned_Cat
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    This reminds me of a time when a friend's cousin got married. He knew he had a limit on how many people to invite to the church ceremony, but thought the reception would just be a "rager" (as he put it) and invited everyone he knew and told them to bring their friends. The fathers and groomsmen spent the whole time playing bouncer to keep out casually invited guests.

    Charles McChristy
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Embarrassed is how your in-laws SHOULD feel ffs.

    Pollymere
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    6 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I think they were very gracious. Mine was a formal meal so we'd have had to regretfully turn them away entirely.

    KatSaidWhat
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    A note for invitations: "you will be expected to show your invitation at the door. No invite, no entrance".

    Patricia the Grey
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Makes me wonder if you met them before wedding. Good luck

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    “Trust me, no one was ready for a full-body interpretive version of "I’ve Had the Time of My Life." It was... unforgettable, but probably not in the way the couple wanted,” she shared. Even the most conscientious planner would probably not have a strategy in place for something like this and many people are not nearly as good at planning as they think.

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    If I Had To See This You All Do Too

    If I Had To See This You All Do Too

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    Cerise Hood
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Probably gonna get downvoted, but I would just throw out the gift, and then sterilize the area. Fingernails can carry disease, imagine 8 years worth.

    Damned_Cat
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    "Dear Fred, it appears that my husband was only the _second_ grossest guy in college. The top honor clearly goes to you. As you are the rightful champion, I am herewith returning the trophy to you."

    brandyy17
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    honestly not cleaning up fingernail clippings isnt as gross as collecting someone elses fingernail clippings for 8 years....

    Glen Ellyn
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Well, Fred is one creature you need not endure ever again. 🤮

    The Other Guest
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    1 year ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Save it. Add more nails. Send it back to Fred for Christmas. Could become a tradition, sending it back and forth. Ah, the laughs and good times they'll have! /end facetiousness (Edited to correct typo I spotted the instant after I clicked "save")

    C.O. Shea
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Lose the gift... and the friend.

    Beth Wheeler
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    You're right that dude is creepy and disgusting. I would trash that thing and break out either the Lysol or bleach to clean anything it touched. That is very creepy and gross, your hubby needs to make him an ex friend.

    Tommy DePaul
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Why did no one mention how gross her husband is?

    Leslie Richardson
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    it's funny and gross. chill and throw away

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    #8

    Photographer Shaming A Guest

    Photographer Shaming A Guest

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    Nadine Debard
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    We had a no phone/no photo rule during the ceremony because we had 2 photographers. Then we shared pictures on a website.

    StarCrossedFriday
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    We did too - didn’t stop my arsewipe uncle from somehow thinking he could do better than the professional and actually smuggling in a camera under his coat. He didn’t do too much damage (as in block our lovely photographer’s every shot), but why can’t people just listen?

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    Red72
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    The picture that's on the cell phone doesn't match the background

    ucp
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Correct. Obvious photoshop. Also, the iPhone photographer would normally also be in shot - they’d want to see their screen to ensure the shot works.

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    Syrah
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I don't think it's to much to ask guests to switch their phones off during the ceremony. As guests we are there to celebrate and be present, not take pictures for social media.

    ShyWahine
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    How insensitive - I would’ve been furious…

    Glen Ellyn
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I hate people like this. Why can't they just be in the moment?? In-the-mom...d45aa1.jpg In-the-moment-6715f8cd45aa1.jpg

    LonelyLittleLeafSheep
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    And no other guest had the cajones to pull her out of the way and tell her to sit down and behave? These people won't stop unless confronted. And it could have been done quietly without disturbing the wedding procession.

    ConstantlyJon
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    maybe can crop the picture on the left at least. But damn, what a selfish prick.

    Rafael
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Honestly thought the man in the pic was the groom, good for the dad for looking this good.

    Bettye McKee
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    1 year ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Off the subject, but two (unknown to me) girls sat next to me at a dear friend's funeral and they spent the entire time scrolling through their phones. Afterward, I told them that I hoped at the next funeral they attended, they would show a little more respect. Needless to say, they were offended.

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    #9

    Wedding Guest Hires Their Own Photographer To Accompany Her To Friends Wedding

    Wedding Guest Hires Their Own Photographer To Accompany Her To Friends Wedding

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    Glen Ellyn
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    This is a new one on me. Narcissism on full display here.

    Brenda Spagnola-Wilson
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Oh, he'll, no! Toss her and her BF out on their a$$es. Allow photographer to stay as a guest, ifmthey like

    StarCrossedFriday
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Ooh, if I was that photographer I would’ve insisted on payment up front, taken 90% of the photos of the bride and groom (while coordinating with the ‘official’ photographer, if there was one), and then when Insta girl complained, said ‘I’m sorry, I assumed that’s what you wanted. Surely you’re not suggesting I should have made someone else’s big day all about you? Right?’. And then given the shots to the happy couple for free as a wedding gift.

    cheryl60
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    omg love it yup now that would have been ace to see lol

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    wowbagger
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I used to volunteer at a place where there was another volunteer who had won some state-level beauty pageant a few months earlier. She went everywhere -- to volunteer work, to meetings, to classes -- in her full pageant regalia. Her mother also went everywhere with her to film the daughter in everything she did. It was truly bizarre.

    Sophia Athene
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    She has to per conditions of her win. If she wears it to class everyday, that's a different story. But for the year, she has to wear her regalia and crown for official functions and pageant request photoshoots.

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    JP Purves
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Sarah should become an ex friend of the bride.

    UpupaEpops
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    How does the boyfriend cope with being the third wheel? I imagine her hiring a photographer for every date and event. 😬

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    #10

    A Guy That We (The Bride And Groom) Had Never Met Before Proposed To His Girlfriend At Our Wedding

    A Guy That We (The Bride And Groom) Had Never Met Before Proposed To His Girlfriend At Our Wedding

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    Glen Ellyn
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    This takes the cake, and I don't mean the wedding cake. I would hate to be proposed to in front of a group of total strangers!

    Rosecat
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    If someone proposed to me at someone else's wedding, I would say no

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    Tucker Cahooter
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    The correct response to this guy is something along the lines "Get out the f***ing way, they are cutting the cake"

    Brian Droste
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    If she was a former colleague and and not a very close friend or even a close friend why would you invite her and her bf to the wedding let alone to the reception?

    Koala ala ala
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Proposing at a wedding just screams I can't be bothered to think of a romantic scene for my partner myself

    BrownEyedPanda
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Or, "I'm too cheap to plan something special, so I'll just hijack someone else's special day!" I hope his gf soundly dumped him in front of everyone.

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    The Dave
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I’d ask them to leave straight away.

    Debbie
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    *ask him to leave - unless the reaction of the woman was not "Get out of the f*ing way, they are cutting the cake". The woman is not to blame. I hope.

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    Xenia Harley
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    She should have said no! Seriously? Ruin someone else's moment? I would say nope!

    Sue Denham
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    In this situation I think it is perfectly reasonable, when *the Question* is asked, for the entire wedding party and guests to all shout "No!".

    Bettye McKee
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    If you look up "Some people have a lot of nerve" in the dictionary, I'm sure his picture will be there.

    Beachbum
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    11 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Awful what happened, but why was she invited? Doesn't sound like she is close with either one of them

    GPawesomeness
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Why was she even invited? Send him a bill for at least part of the cost of the event.

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    #11

    The Audacity Of This Wedding Guest And Their Mom! Plan Your Own Special Moment, Cheapskates

    The Audacity Of This Wedding Guest And Their Mom! Plan Your Own Special Moment, Cheapskates

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    Winnie the Moo
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Just call bil and say if you plan on doing it on my day I will tell her before you do it

    ConstantlyJon
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    how about he either take that proposal elsewhere or they're both uninvited from the wedding so they can't make it about them?

    Renee Fiola-Homen
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Uninvite them! Everyone knows or should know that you don't propose at someone else's wedding.

    Alex
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I can understand not wanting that, and at the same time I have seen countless videos of exactly that happening (women lined up at the bouquet throwing, bride pretends, turns around, hands it to someone, engagement). I think it's fair to ask if that's possible.

    WindySwede
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    only if they respect the answer, some appear not to according to AITA threats seen here sometimes. 🤷‍♂️

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    Yu Pan
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I'd say no and uninvite them. They might secretly still try to pull something like this. Not going to happen.

    Beth Wheeler
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    There are some things you don't do at weddings, proposals or pregnancy announcements.

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    #12

    Father Ambushed Me To Walk Me Down The Aisle

    Father Ambushed Me To Walk Me Down The Aisle

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    Renee Fiola-Homen
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I'm so sorry that this bride had her choice taken away from her. Some people have no sense!

    Marianne
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    It might seem small from outside, but she must have been so angry.

    StarCrossedFriday
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Oh, this isn’t small at all. Small is me getting annoyed when we had very specific cues in the entrance music for the venue’s staff member to open the doors, and they missed it completely. This is way beyond that, and I cannot comprehend what the guy was thinking.

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    Regina Holt
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I would hope to have the presence of mind to just stand there and told him to go sit down, he's in the way.

    Rebel Peewee
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Disgusting, vile behavior. How do some people love with themselves, honestly.

    VNES101
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I would have burst into flames and tears.

    GPawesomeness
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    You have every right to be! What is wrong with people?

    Dee Rutherford
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I’m so sorry OP. He messed up your day so badly.

    Soleil SanMao
    Community Member
    1 month ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    All I can say is people can be so bold and phony. He knows you don't have a good relationship with him but had the nerve to pretend so he can go around bragging about walking you down the aisle. I am curious if you had a father-daughter dance with him.

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    So we were curious to hear just how often the happy couple actually plans for the sort of things on display in this list. “Now, when planning a wedding, you'd think maybe couples would consider these disasters, but surprisingly, wedding crashers or misbehaving guests aren't always top of mind.”

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    #13

    "I Just Thought Your Wedding Was The Perfect Place For My Child's Birthday Party"

    "I Just Thought Your Wedding Was The Perfect Place For My Child's Birthday Party"

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    Glen Ellyn
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    😲 Wow. Just wow.

    Con O Cuinn
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    1 year ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I can kinda blame her. At 14, I would have been mortified and shut that s**t down fast.

    TheReader19
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    At 14, she is still a child; do you think she planned this?

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    Marianne
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    1 year ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    If that had been my wedding, I probably wouldn't have minded, IF they had asked me nicely before.

    Regina Holt
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    This is a great way to get a free birthday party venue. Great if you have no shame. I would have gone over there and let it be known that they had to leave to have their party somewhere else.

    Debbie
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Meh, if it's someons birthday at your wedding, I wouldn't mind people singing for them. But the whole cakes and decorations - that's a bit much. At 14 you know you can also celebrate tomorrow.

    Lihi Porat
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Actually been to a wedding that happened to be on two of their guests birthday, so the couple brought out two birthday cakes for them.

    Philippa Davies
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    We didn’t go as far as getting cakes, but two of our wedding guests had their birthdays on the same day also, so I made a point of thanking them in my speech for spending their birthdays with us.

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    RobbyRebecca Morrison
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    When you have a wedding inviting ALL of the family, I didn't look at 150 birthday dates, but I had an extended family member whom I never met, at mine. I made sure she had everything she wanted and felt welcomed! DONE! Our vows were finished; reception was about family and friends. I did learn people said hurtful things; it hurts still when I read these posts.

    Gninja
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Meh. I knew 3 people Had birthday on our wedding. I gave them birthday cards at their seat. I might be a tad annoyed they didnt tell me But deleting pics... I wouldnt care but thats me.

    Billycat
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    No problem with this. I've been to plenty of weddings, including my own, where it's someone's birthday and everyone sings. It's nice.

    Dan Woodward
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    My cousin got married on my 30th birthday. After I received the invite I joked that she picked a fine date for her vows & that I'd probably be better able to remember her anniversary than her future husband. So, on the day, my parents, my sister, my gf, & I were at our own table at the reception and once the reception was in full swing, after toasts & meal & cake cutting & special dances, etc they were giving me gifts. The bride happened to be near our table as the gifts were being brought out. She got a huge shocked look on her face b/c, rightly so, she forgot it was my birthday. She rushed over to the cake table, grabbed a piece of wedding cake & brought it to me (I'd never say no to a 2nd piece of cake). She pulled the largest candle out of our table's centerpiece to stick on top and then led our table in singing Happy Birthday. It was hilarious.

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    #14

    Bridesmaid's Tale Of Her Wedding Date Trying To Bring A Date

    Bridesmaid's Tale Of Her Wedding Date Trying To Bring A Date

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    Glen Ellyn
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    That's pathetic. 🙄🤦🏻‍♀️

    Sue
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I would have just told everyone to point & laugh.

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    Justme
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I have a tame / innocent version of this: we had a small casual wedding and my bridesmaids dresses were simple day-dresses ordered from a department store. Groom’s sister showed up in the dress and she was horrified. I wasn’t mad but understood her embarrassment and proposed 3 choices - join the wedding party, sit with guests as planned and pretend nothing is wrong, or change into the dress she wore the night before at the rehearsal. She happily joined us at the alter and we had a laugh about it later!

    ucp
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Sounds like two reasonable people coming up with a reasonable solution.

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    Robin Roper
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Who the heck wants to wear a bridesmaid's dress when they don't have to?

    G A
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Again ensure she's not in any pics

    Tonyah Mcanelly
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    " Always the guest Never the bridesmaid LOL

    LGBTQpanda
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Why is no one kicking these people out of the wedding ceremony or reception?

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    #15

    She Looks Absolutely Gorgeous, Except She’s Not The Bride

    She Looks Absolutely Gorgeous, Except She’s Not The Bride

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    ShyWahine
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Don’t hide her identity, give her ALL the attention she wants…

    Taylor's Ferry
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    1 year ago

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    This wedding was during COVID. Not much dress shopping available. AND others in the wedding party wore white also. Pretty sure the bride knew and approved the dresses beforehand.

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    AnnaB
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Glad he found a comfortable place to rest his right hand.

    GPawesomeness
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Good catch, more than meets the eye? Phony story?

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    Marcos Valencia
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    She's not the bride... The problem is, is he the groom?

    Regina Holt
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I would get all of the bridesmaids together and every one throw red wine on that b***h's dress.

    Bubs (he/they)
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    so, I have a question. why is it that no one else is allowed to wear white at a wedding? I've never quite understood that. would love an explanation, thank you so much!

    JP Purves
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I hope that isn't the groom with her.

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    “It’s more like an afterthought, you know, that moment of "Oh, maybe we should have a backup plan in case Uncle Frank brings that friend again." I’ve seen a few couples add "no crashers" security at some venues — smart move, by the way, especially if you’re having a high-profile event or if your family has a reputation for a little too much fun.”

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    #16

    A Guest Filled 7 Tupperware Containers With Food From The Wedding Reception And Gave The Couple 5 USD As A Gift

    A Guest Filled 7 Tupperware Containers With Food From The Wedding Reception And Gave The Couple 5 USD As A Gift

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    AnnaB
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    At what point couldn't someone have stopped her?

    The Dave
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Sounds like something cousin Eddie from the National Lampoon movies would do.

    G A
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I'd get your Dad to have a few well chosen words...

    KnightOOwl
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I've read quite a few stories similar to this and don't understand why noone ever stops them or says anything to them? Most of my family and friends don't like confrontation but wouldn't think twice to stop someone doing something like this. At most of my family parties/events any leftovers are offered to anyone who wants them at the end of the night but if anyone tried to fill up loads of tuperware containers during the party, to take home, everyone who saw them would ask what they were doing and put a stop to the behaviour.

    Uncle Schmickle
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Go to her place and demand the food back !

    Sue Phillips
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    No one but total trash does this...

    JP Purves
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I hope OP's father talked to his friend about the gross, freeloading daughter.

    LGBTQpanda
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Sue her for the cost of catering

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    #17

    You’re Probably Wondering Why This Is Shame Worthy. Well How Do You Feel Now That You Know She Was Not The Bride

    You’re Probably Wondering Why This Is Shame Worthy. Well How Do You Feel Now That You Know She Was Not The Bride

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    Glen Ellyn
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I will never understand why some people think this is appropriate! Oh, and they look pathetic too, don't they? I imagine other guests are shaking their heads...🤦🏻‍♀️ Oh, wait! They're attention seekers, but too stupid to realize the attention is negative.

    LSD
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Tell me you’re a whore for attention without telling me you’re a whore for attention.

    The Dave
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Faces should be shown in pics like this.

    somed ay
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Friend’s mother literally wore her own wedding dress to my wedding

    LittleWombat
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Did you let her stay? I've always imagined I'd have people on duty to remove offenders, but when it happens in reality on your big day, idk!

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    G A
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Well she wouldn't be in any pics if she dressed like that at a wedding of mine, for a start....

    cheryl60
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    cant fix stupid 🤦‍♀️

    Yu Pan
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Some people really just have no sense. I'm on an asian forum similar to reddit and someone posted something like this and ask if it's appropriate. Most the comments see nothing wrong with it and one even said, "damn if you dress well (like this); damn if you dress terrible. You can't make everyone happy". I'm just speechless.

    Bret Sander
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Immediately escorted out of the venue.

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    #18

    My Dad’s Extremely Embarrassing Announcement At My Cousin's Wedding Celebration

    My Dad’s Extremely Embarrassing Announcement At My Cousin's Wedding Celebration

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    Paulina
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Oh, he does understand. He did it on purpose.

    Wolf princess quinn
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    This is why you don't do these things at OTHER PEOPLES WEDDIMGS GUYS!

    C.O. Shea
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Oh, daddy understood perfectly.

    Pollymere
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    6 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    My friend eloped then had her "wedding" on my first Wedding Anniversary. We didn't go.

    Sue Phillips
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Did you mean "very mature", or was that facetious?

    Con O Cuinn
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    1 year ago

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    Defeats the purpose of eloping if you just go and have a wedding reception.

    brandyy17
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    1 year ago

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    honestly i applaude the OP's dad. hes proud of his daughter and wanted her to have attention too cuz it was her bday. who cares if it was rude as long as the bride and groom didnt get offended i think its fine.

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    She was willing to provide some resources in case someone needed some extra help planning. “We always recommend couples to plan their wedding well, also for horrible events like the ones above. For example, they can read this bride's tips on how to throw a wedding your guests will love.”

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    #19

    I Went To A Wedding And Found A Decent Seat With A Good View. This Lady Sat Down In Front Of Me And Did Not Care One Bit That Her Fan Blocked The View Of Every Person Sitting Behind Her

    I Went To A Wedding And Found A Decent Seat With A Good View. This Lady Sat Down In Front Of Me And Did Not Care One Bit That Her Fan Blocked The View Of Every Person Sitting Behind Her

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    Brenda Spagnola-Wilson
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Yeah, that fan would be a pile of straw if it was there after asking her to lower it.

    Mike F
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    1 year ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I smoke, any guesses? Fwoosh!

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    Janissary35680
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    How flammable is straw, I wonder? Let me find out.

    ShyWahine
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Wow, what a total lack of disregard for others - hope someone spoke up

    nottheactualphoto
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Au contraire. She has PLENTY of disregard for others.

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    G A
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I'd have grabbed it and stomped on it

    Shark Lady
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Went to a wedding where a guest in the biggest hat ever blocked by view, there were plenty of other places she could have chosen to sit but me in my wheelchair could only be where I was. She wasn't even invited to the reception but was at the ceremony because all regulars from the church were told they would be welcome.

    Marissa D
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    My gosh, is common courtesy not a thing anymore?

    Wolf princess quinn
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Shed be continously picking that up off the ground wedding or not!

    Adam Chang
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Witches can't be hit by direct sunlight

    cheryl60
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    not all of us are bad witches lol us white witches are good its black as are bad oo look shes got a black dress on lol yup dark witch n they dont like holy water either just saying heheh

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    Lisa Tetlow
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I would have taken it from her and said, "You'll get this back after the ceremony."

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    #20

    Kid Wants To Dress Up As A Lion To Their Wedding. Also Told To Change Their Centerpieces As Kid Doesn’t Like Balloons. Kid Is Mother’s Best Friend’s Child

    Kid Wants To Dress Up As A Lion To Their Wedding. Also Told To Change Their Centerpieces As Kid Doesn’t Like Balloons. Kid Is Mother’s Best Friend’s Child

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    JP Purves
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    It's not the little golden child's party, it's a wedding. Mother and daughter can sit this one out...at home.

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    Glen Ellyn
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Friend isn't a best friend if she ignores the bride's simple request.

    G A
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Not even a friend. Mother needed to shut this s**t down

    The Other Guest
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I hope the bride & groom had someone acting as a gatekeeper/bouncer at their venue, to ensure people who ignore the dress code get politely turned away.

    Lyoness
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    If the furry is an issue at the ceremony only, then just don't have the kid at the ceremony. Tell them to just come to the reception. Post someone at the door of the ceremony to keep them out if they try to get in anyway. Problem solved.

    Bettye McKee
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    1 year ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Uninvite mother and child. Unless said friend is paying for the wedding, your wedding, your rules.

    Farnzy
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I had kids dressed as a knight, a ninja turtle, and a hotdog, and my nephew walked me down the aisle dressed as a literal haunted house...but we had a Halloween themed wedding. I highly recommend it❤️

    Wolf princess quinn
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Ya get a new friend. Preferably one with a spine!

    Brian Droste
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Absolutely not. It is your wedding and your special day. I already read the other comments. I agree with the one that said to post a bouncer/gatekeeper for anyone that doesn't dress according to your dress codes.

    Jon Steensen
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Sounds like it is about time that someone learns that the world does not revolve around them and their needs... and this is one of the unusual situations where that someone is not the bride, as her requirement is totally reasonable in this case. That child needs to learn that sometimes you need to compromise in order to fit in, and if her mother can't teach her that, then both of them needs to learn that actions has consequences by being excluded. What she wants is not an option, and hence she needs to choose between the options there are: Either dress apropriately, or don't bother showing up.

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    #21

    Wedding Guest Shaming - It’s Not Always Dealing With Bridezillas

    Wedding Guest Shaming - It’s Not Always Dealing With Bridezillas

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    ShyWahine
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Next time plan your 6000 mile travel accordingly…and arrive 20 minutes earlier!

    Wolf princess quinn
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Treated like a second class citizen?? Dude, show up on time and you won't be treated like the unfortunate a*****e you are

    GPawesomeness
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    OMG, pathetic race card c**p.......

    Rebel Peewee
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    So treat the bride like she's nothing then? Did they even acknowledge her presence? Act like trash, be treated like trash.

    Jon Steensen
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Should have answered: You have traveled 6000 miles and is about to miss the wedding, because you cannot manage to be here on time -That is why.

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    Lastly, we wanted to hear if she believed weddings bring out drama in both the guests and couples alike. “Definitely! weddings do seem to have this strange effect on people. It’s like the heightened emotions, the romantic energy, the pressure to look perfect... it all simmers together, and for some people, it brings out their inner drama queen (or king).”

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    #22

    Guest Invited Their Parents, Who We Haven't Met, To Our Destination Wedding

    Guest Invited Their Parents, Who We Haven't Met, To Our Destination Wedding

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    ShyWahine
    Community Member
    1 year ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Wow, some people have no sense or etiquette

    Lazy Panda 2
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    So in England a wedding ceremony has to be public which anyone has the right to attend. Obviously people don't march into other folks weddings, but you can't legally stop them. The reception though, that's private and invite only.

    ILoveMySon
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Serious question here and I am curious by nature. What happens if the venue is small and can only accommodate friends and family?

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    Adz86
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Up vote for not enabling the behaviour.

    GPawesomeness
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I hope "tried" means they weren't allowed to attend?

    Lihi Porat
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Is this guest's name Joey Tribbiani?

    Wolf princess quinn
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Somebody needs to break free from mommy and daddy

    G A
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Somebody got waaaay too excitable

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    #23

    A Wedding Guest Outdressed The Bride In The Philippines. A Little Too Revealing, And The Color Is A Bit Off For My Taste. What Do You Think?

    A Wedding Guest Outdressed The Bride In The Philippines. A Little Too Revealing, And The Color Is A Bit Off For My Taste. What Do You Think?

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    ShyWahine
    Community Member
    1 year ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    There’s always one who has to outshine the bride -no matter the country, culture, ethnicity, etc

    Frunkadunk
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    At my cousin's wedding, his stb wife's sister was the maid of honor. She wore a full length gown of disco ball sparkly gold. The WHOLE dress. It was beautiful, but definitely took away from the bride. lol

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    Damned_Cat
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I once had a coworker who had recently immigrated from another country where wedding party members and guests wear brightly colored traditional clothing for a wedding. She was to be a guest at her first wedding in the US and bought a long white dress to wear. She thought that in America all wedding attendees wore white. She was embarrassed when I explained that only brides wear white, but grateful that I clued her in.

    Amber White
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I was a chubby simple, dressed bride. But my sister-in-law is a gorgeous slender woman. I found a 1920s sparkly beautiful slinky silk sandy colored shimmery dress that I wished I could wear - I basically made her my own personal Barbie doll on my wedding day. I didn’t feel outshined because she WAS my shiny. I really enjoyed dressing her up to her model standard that she is and was, so yeah, there might be a story here that isn’t a negative one.

    Ge Po
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Good for you! Respect! (But it was your choice, not hers, to make.)

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    Miki
    Community Member
    1 year ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    One thing to overdressed the bride but there is no such thing as too revealing.

    Papa
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    It's fancier, but not classier, than the other post of the young woman who changed into shorts and the midriff bearing shirt at the reception.

    Rebel Peewee
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Why is the unhooked purse sending me. If you're going to go all out and then some, try a little harder.

    Mary Tonningsen
    Community Member
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    LOL! I noticed that, too. Maybe she didn't want to be 'too' dressed up! ;) HA!

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    #24

    I Can’t Believe How Entitled People Can Be

    I Can’t Believe How Entitled People Can Be

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    Iridian
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I enjoyed seeing how the engaged person handled that nonsense from the 'guest' deftly with each blow. I learned from that. Thanks for posting.

    DowntownStevieB
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    We had a no kids wedding, the only kids in attendance were my best friends kids because they were ring barres. After the ceremony, they ate real quick and went to my friends house to hand with the other kids and we had a sitter there for everyone. Worked out well. Parents could party and kids could too, right down the street.

    Sheena Leversedge Wood
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    also, why is it people now seem to think buying a new outfit is a requirement to go to a wedding. an obligation even. it's perfectly fine to wear something you already own. the only time I've bought new things to wear for other peoples weddings were when I already had my eye on a dress and just wanted an excuse to buy it.

    Needie
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    At what point in history did this outrageous demand start where you ask someone to pay for your babysitter and fuel to get to an event? That mindset baffles me.

    Chrw007
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I would've said: "Well, if the problem is my invitation. Then I'll take it back so it won't be a problem at all!"

    Kay
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    "your inviting me"... Yup, not surprised

    Lisa Tetlow
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Wow...This bride had more patience and tact than I would have had. I would have said, "Time to grow up, Sweetie and be an adult."

    Lihi Porat
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I really can't believe that some people just don't understand how family/friends events work.

    Rosecat
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    She doesn't have to buy a new dress

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    “Think about it: You’ve got family tensions, old exes, bitter bridesmaids, and so much more happening in one place. It’s not surprising that some people snap under all that. The wedding scene is almost like a pressure cooker for drama, and all it takes is one person to tip it over the edge.”

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    #25

    Inviting 20 Extra People To A Wedding

    Inviting 20 Extra People To A Wedding

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    YakFactory
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    How presumptuous is that? The bride and groom really want to pay for 20 extra meals for people they don't know.

    LonelyLittleLeafSheep
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Simply contact them and tell them they are no longer invited. And make sure there are ushers at the door who know so they can turn these a******s away if they show up. It's perfectly okay to rescind an invitation.

    Brian Droste
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Write back that is for them only and not for the other twenty guests. If they can't abide by this request, they are uninvited. If they don't like it, then they are uninvited.

    Regina Holt
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    This is insane. Who does this? And notice the age of the children. Yikes.

    LakotaWolf (she/her)
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I don't have children and never will, but I am baffled by parents who list/say their child's ages as "18 months" - no, they're "a year and a half old". 23 months - no, they're "almost two years old". I don't go around telling people I'm 512 months old.

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    G A
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I want to know the back story to this nonsense

    ShyWahine
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I would “accidentally” lose this RSVP…

    V Noe
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Use a big thick Sharpie to write NOPE across the card and send it back to them.

    Bettye McKee
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I don't understand how people have the nerve to do this.

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    #26

    My God. This Poor Couple. Not Even A Clueless Close Friend. Maybe A Child Wrote It. One Can Hope

    My God. This Poor Couple. Not Even A Clueless Close Friend. Maybe A Child Wrote It. One Can Hope

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    Glen Ellyn
    Community Member
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    This is so not cool.

    mandy the capibara
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I can also see some people just not understanding wedding etiquette. My partner was recently invited to the wedding of some people on our village, as they are football teammates. I know them well but wasn't invited. My partner was sure that it was allright if I'd show up as well to the evening party, and I had to explain that no, that's not how weddings work.

    Susie Elle
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Am I sexist for getting the feeling that his +1 wrote this RSVP?

    Otto Katz
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    The way it's worded "and Me!" makes me think you are correct.

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    V Noe
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    You return his RSVP card to him with a fresh card and a note saying "Try again, it's your last chance to get it right."

    Charles McChristy
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Uninvite immediately. There is just no way in hell that would stand.

    Amanduh
    Community Member
    6 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Better than the plus 20 one earlier

    Catherine Hutt
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    When my daughter got the reply card for her wedding back from my husband’s brother and his family, there was a great big NO scrawled across it. We’d already heard from them that they were coming, but their oldest daughter decided that since we didn’t go to HER wedding (Florida in July, and I’m in poor health), nobody from their family was going to my daughter’s. We didn’t miss them one bit.

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    #27

    The Best Way To Make Your Ex Realize They Made The Best Decision Of Their Life

    The Best Way To Make Your Ex Realize They Made The Best Decision Of Their Life

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    G A
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Exactly why he isn't marrying you....

    Radha Gopinath Mandir
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    The easiest way how to to convince the whole crowd that his choice of the bride was correct.

    Definitely not a catnapper
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Im guessing the cleaners forgot to get rid of that one piece of trash

    Damned_Cat
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    She showed up looking like a drunken piece of trash? Yeah, that'll make him regret dumping her.

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    “And honestly? A bit of drama makes for a way better story afterward. Who wants to remember a perfectly calm and uneventful wedding, anyway? For brides (or grooms) that really get stressed in the days before, we recommend reading our post about how to manage pre-wedding stress.”

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    #28

    "Thank You Sooooo Much For Sharing Your Special Day With Us"

    "Thank You Sooooo Much For Sharing Your Special Day With Us"

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    Glen Ellyn
    Community Member
    Premium
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    🙄 Nope, just nope.

    Alex
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Well.. The bride and groom might have been ok with it. Then nothing would be wrong here

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    ConstantlyJon
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I hope someone proposes at their wedding too. Genuinely.

    Tonyah Mcanelly
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Thats just the most tasteless unromantic thing a person could do . The wedding day should be all about the bride and groom not the guests.

    Rachel Pelz
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    The last place where you would ever suspect...exactly. Because a wedding simply is no place for a proposal.

    Wolf princess quinn
    Community Member
    1 year ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    You're disgusting, tacky, and should be embarrassed to have even posted this!

    brittany
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    the only only way this would work is iff the bride and grom are in on it and okay it before hand. and there have been cases where that has happened where the bride has orchestrated it with the guy proposing for a very close family member or friend. that is the ONLY way it wouldnt be cringe

    Laura Parker
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Nobody in their right mind would want to happen at their wedding. Trashiest. Thing. Ever.

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    Dread Pirate Roberts
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    If a guy proposed to me at someone else's wedding, he would get a "hell no" and a bitchslap

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    #29

    Someone Crashed My Wedding And Ruined It

    Someone Crashed My Wedding And Ruined It

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    Anna Losonczy
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    It was the DJ's fault too, YOU paid for him to play whaterver you like, not that cringe guy. He could've asked you about it at least.

    Kalikima
    Community Member
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    OP really should have told the DJ to not do it too.. really is a clusterfuck, with everyone to blame..

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    bbfa
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I have been a musician for 50 years. No, you cannot slobber and breathe disgusting bad breath and germs all over my expensive microphone. I don't care how badly you want to be the center of attention. And no, we won't plug you into the sound board if you bring your own. Venues provide mics for announcements.

    KnightOOwl
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Why let him sing for an hr and a half? If he's so awful, I'd let him do 1 or 2 songs then get someone to take the mic and get him off stage, he'd be happy as he'd get his chance to perform but it wouldn't take too much focus. It would just be a funny story about an awkward random guy at your wedding who insisted on singing. Letting him sing for so long sounds awful but could have been prevented very easily!

    Heather Menard
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I just read this as I had a inmate wedding

    Upstaged75
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I went to a wedding once where the bride's aunt and uncle brought a boom box up the aisle and proceeded to sing karaoke (very badly) to Morning has Broken by Cat Stevens. It was the most awkward and hilarious thing I've ever seen. I had to keep biting my lip to prevent myself from laughing out loud. A friend and I who was there with me still joke about it 20 years later.

    Regina Holt
    Community Member
    1 year ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Why was he not stopped? Someone should have kept it from going on for that long?

    LGBTQpanda
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Uncle should have told him to knock it off

    Issey
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Im sorry, 50 guests is "intimate"??

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    #30

    A Perfect Time To Propose. Bridesmaid's Friend's Wedding

    A Perfect Time To Propose. Bridesmaid's Friend's Wedding

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    Ellinor
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Don't do this unless you asked the bride and groom first (and if they said no, then don't do it either)

    Marcos Valencia
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Yes. Absolutely depending on the circumstances. Many people (as my wife and I did) don't take the wedding as the most important day in their lifes. The birth of our elder son two years before our wedding was much more important to us. Our wedding was a wonderful occasion to gather together family and friends coming from Italy (well, the wedding was in Italy, my wife's country), Spain (my country), Canada, Switzerland, France and the United States. Sharing the moment with them was way more important than any other feelings.

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    Glen Ellyn
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Only okay if the bride and groom are aware of the plan and have agreed to it. Otherwise, it's a huge NOPE!

    Little Wonder
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I saw a great one where instead of throwing the bouquet, the bride turned and handed it to a bridesmaid while her boyfriend snuck in behind her and was on one knee. THAT is a bride who has 100% agreed to and embraced a proposal at her wedding (and it's a really sweet video).

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    Fabulous chocolate cookie
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I never understand why people think it's okay to propose on someone else's wedding/special day.

    Damned_Cat
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I think it's because the guy thinks his girl will be so caught up in the emotions and romantic feelings of the day, she couldn't possibly refuse.

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    Angela C
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    If I was dating someone and they proposed at someone else's wedding the relationship would be over right then and there.

    Bored Trash Panda
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    This really depends on the closeness of the friends and if they planned it with the bride and groom prior. If my BFFs (pretty much sister) fiance had wanted to do this at my wedding, I would have GLADLY done something to help make it super special. BUT she does live on the other side of the country from me, so I don't get to see her much and would have loved to have been there for that.

    Sydney Jane Baily
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Third one of these. What madness is this?

    Philippa Davies
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Aside from how totally inappropriate this is, it would be very awkward if she said no in front of all the wedding guests

    Dread Pirate Roberts
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I can't believe how many cases of this I've been seeing on the net. Do people have no class anymore? How do that many people NOT know that it's rude af to propose at someone else's wedding?!

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    #31

    Starting My Wedding Ceremony Before My Mom Showed Up

    Starting My Wedding Ceremony Before My Mom Showed Up

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    Bettye McKee
    Community Member
    1 year ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I'm going to look that word up in the dictionary so I can see what your mom looks like. Then I'm going to look up entitled to see if her picture is there as well.

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    JP Purves
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Can't help but think OP's mother has pulled this kind of stunt in the past. She shouldn't have been surprised. Mom has always been "special."

    Yu Pan
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    On my sister's wedding day my parents were the first to get up and get ready. They could hardly sit still. I'm sorry your mom is so self centered and inconsiderate, Op.

    Lihi Porat
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    OP was the freaking bride, does her mother really thinks she had time to check on them? As a bride that wouldn't even be her responsibility to do that?

    RobbyRebecca Morrison
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    NOPE! My Pastor told me months before he had prior commitments! My ceremony began exactly on time! I hired a few local people scramble to pick up flowers (the florist had messed up my flowers so I couldn't store them).

    GPawesomeness
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    You had to know your own mom's c**p long before your wedding.

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    #32

    Guest At My Cousin's Reception Changed Into This Outfit Halfway Through The Night

    Guest At My Cousin's Reception Changed Into This Outfit Halfway Through The Night

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    Bugoy-420
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Hillbilly reception... Yee Haaw!!

    Papa
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Most hillbillies have more self-respect than that.

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    G A
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Wouldn't have taken a pic with her

    The Dave
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Straight outta the trailer park!

    Sophia Athene
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Nah, man, the trailer park woulda took her a*s to the woodshed. (I'm from redneck, hillbilly, trailer trash stock--we do better)

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    Nathan Lewis
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    what in the menthol cools is this s**t?

    Philippa Davies
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I wonder if the bride was pressured into getting this photo taken. I would like to know what her face is showing here

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    #33

    Stealing The Top Layer Of A Wedding Cake

    Stealing The Top Layer Of A Wedding Cake

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    Kristal
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I had petit fours for guests at my wedding as our wedding cake was a single layer and I explicitly said that the cake is not to be eaten. Came back from the honeymoon to find out that the cake was eaten. The intent was the cake was for us (wasn't big, like a normal, round birthday cake size) and the pieces we didn't cut at the reception was to be packed up and the petit fours were for the guests. It was a very low budget wedding, but I think the solution was good, until we didn't have any wedding cake to eat :( We divorced but it was still a nice wedding ... despite the cake. This post just reminded me of that. Who freaking does that? Taking the top tier?

    Paulina
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I'm just curious: Why go out to your guests with the cake they can't have? I thought the whole point of the wedding cake is that the newlyweds cut it for good luck that they want to share with their loved ones. At least that's what I always knew to be the meaning. And for me personally, showing people cake, then telling them "you can't have it!" seems kind of mean, tacky even...

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    Janissary35680
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    1. Lock doors. 2. Initiate search sequence.

    Beth Wheeler
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Who steals the top of a wedding cake?

    JP Purves
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Does the restaurant have cameras?

    Debby Keir
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    The old custom would be that the top tier gets saved and used in the next year or so for a christening cake. (Only with a fruit cake and Royal icing though - more modern cakes won't keep)

    Okido
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    The top layer of our wedding cake was also frozen for a year. On our first anniversary we ate it at the hospital where the day before our first son was born.

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    Kiss Army
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Same thing happened to us... the only thing that made it bearable was that they threw our cake topper off to the side and left it there so at least we got to keep that.

    DowntownStevieB
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    We did this, it's a good (yet gross) tradition. I hope that guest is embarrassed.

    Catharina Geerts
    Community Member
    5 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    A wedding cake that's not eaten at the wedding? But as late as after the honeymoon??? (How do you even preserve it, freezing it?)

    Sarah Fitzpatrick
    Community Member
    1 month ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    You typically freeze the top layer and eat it on your first anniversary.

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    BrownEyedPanda
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Oh, that is just beyond tacky! 🤬🤬🤬

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    #34

    Creepy Aunt

    Creepy Aunt

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    ॐBoyGanesh
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    MLMs are pyramid schemes and they’re cults. Their members are fully brainwashed. To lack such class & decorum along with an inflated self-importance & misplaced value on the crappy product, to the point of sacrificing someone’s big moment, highjacking the program for a sales pitch and forcing the cheap makeup onto the couple is downright crazy. I feel just as bad for delusional & brainwashed aunt, too.

    Curbz81
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    They are seriously brainwashed to the point of believing that they are doing you the favour

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    Kayci Styles
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    What does Mary Kay sell that would cause her to wink and say that they need it for their honeymoon? Like maybe she's using the eye makeup remover oil VERY wrong?!?!

    Kalikima
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Well, she said it was lotion, so obviously she thought they'd be getting kinky with some back rubs or something..

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    Mimi La Souris
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    reminds me a tupperware seller, they are mafia :D

    JP Purves
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Mary Kay cosmetics were (are?) very low quality, but high priced products.

    #35

    Maid Of Honor Too Busy Texting To Watch The Ceremony

    Maid Of Honor Too Busy Texting To Watch The Ceremony

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    Glen Ellyn
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Rudeness reigns here.

    Otto Katz
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I remember this thread on reddit. People were photoshopping funny things in her hands. I put in a big bouquet of flowers. Other people put dildos, a puppy, I can't remember what else.

    Sandra Angulo
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I’m sorry but I’m more distracted by the woman in front. Is she fixing the bride’s dress?

    StarCrossedFriday
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    She’s praying for the woman behind her to very quickly learn some manners.

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    Bettye McKee
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    She obviously didn't have enough lead time to get the phone surgically removed from her hand.

    Yu Pan
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I'd share them with the couple and ask if they want me to Photoshop something here. I want them to know who they are dealing with here.

    Amber White
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Photoshop her holding a flower! Add some tears since her eyes are down…

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    #36

    Oh God. I Found It On Facebook. Even Matching Pearls

    Oh God. I Found It On Facebook. Even Matching Pearls

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    The Scout
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    The image is not 100% conclusive, though. The outfit would be totally appropriate if they married each other.

    Zoe Vokes
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    She’s turning towards the man at the edge of the photo and turning away from the woman on the left. Pretty sure that if it was a couple’s photo there would be more interaction.

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    Nimitz
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I would 100% be like, oh those pearls are so white! What kind of plastic are they made of?

    Spittnimage
    Community Member
    1 year ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Women who try to outshine the bride SUCK!

    Dorota A
    Community Member
    4 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    defo she needs flowers too :/

    Pollymere
    Community Member
    6 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Artificial pearls with a dress that costs thousands. I suppose we should be grateful she got the lined version 🤢.

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    #37

    Brother’s Best Female Friend Pledged Her Love For Him At My Wedding Reception. He Was Already Engaged To Someone Else

    Brother’s Best Female Friend Pledged Her Love For Him At My Wedding Reception. He Was Already Engaged To Someone Else

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    ॐBoyGanesh
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Brothers poor best friend didn’t realize life isn’t a Disney fairy tale or a Lifetime rom-com.

    BossyHossy1
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    Premium
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    You forgot the Hallmark channel, especially during the holidays.

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    Bettye McKee
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I understand. My mother had one son to worship and four useless daughters. You should announce loud and clear that the subject is off the table permanently.

    Curbz81
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I think it may be time to get over it. 30 years ago it didn't bother the bride because weddings were still seen as a celebration of a union of two people and two families. Now weddings are very much about the bride's (and groom's) "special day" so bow OP feels robbed. I was sick and throwing up at my wedding and i definitely felt robbed for a while, but everyone else had a great time and that still means a lot to me.

    Ru Bee
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Tbf this isn't her brothers fault

    #38

    The Random Couple Who Crashed My Sister's Wedding Left A Card With $11.54 Inside

    The Random Couple Who Crashed My Sister's Wedding Left A Card With $11.54 Inside

    Halfway through a great wedding, I see my dad's best friend hauling a drunk couple out of the reception. We thought it was hilarious and thought nothing more of it until today when they opened their gifts and found a card from "Uncle David and Aunt Nancy". There's no David or Nancy in either family and the underlined bits are just in-your-face trolling.

    "Cheers to a life filled with many special memories. We feel so blessed to have been witness to your beautiful wedding. We wish you all the best in life!"

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    The Other Guest
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    At least they brought a gift, LOL.

    Kraneia The Dancing Dryad
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    wedding crashers! At least they got you a card :-D

    Mike F
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Harold and Maude, except at a wedding!

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    Matthew Famolare
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    This one’s not so bad. At least they didn’t mess anyone else’s night up. Funny card with whatever they had in their pockets. Funny.

    VNES101
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    They most definitely left a "special memory" behind. LOL

    Brian Droste
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    At least they left something. They could have left nothing.

    nottheactualphoto
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I actually do have an Uncle David and Aunt Nancy. Weird.

    JP Purves
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I'm sure "Uncle Davide and Aunt Nancy" got a lot more food and drink than $11.54.

    Caroline Overill
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Be funny if they bought a lottery ticket with it and won

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    #39

    "This Is Why Guys And Girls Can’t Be Friends"

    "This Is Why Guys And Girls Can’t Be Friends"

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    StarCrossedFriday
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    1 year ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    ‘Men and girls’ can absolutely be friends, but ironically ‘girls’ who are getting married are (I sincerely hope) ‘women’, and this is very much the reaction of a ‘boy’, not a ‘man’. Especially she he wasn’t invited in the first place, and I totally understand why.

    Mindi Rhoades
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Got on here to say that the title to this one is misleading. He deliberately considers himself and other guys “men” but women only merit the more dismissive “girls” from this, I’m sure, respectful, old fashioned, “nice” man.

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    Ashly Winters
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    so let me get this clear they said 'men and girls' is it a boy or girl saying this, and is it to the bride or groom?

    Kraneia The Dancing Dryad
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Well he's half right... "girls" can't be friends with HIM.... cos he sounds like an incel... lol

    duckie
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    He literally writes "I know you didn't directly invite me", so why on Earth would he write at all?

    Paulina
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    This actually made me gag 🤢 What a disgusting person

    Bettye McKee
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    This is disgusting. Someone is unclear on the concept of friendship.

    Deborah B
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Ten to one this guy was never invited in the first place.

    GPawesomeness
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    "Didn't directly invite me" so you didn't actually get an invite. 🙄. Another eyeroll....

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    #40

    I Look Good In White, And That’s What Matters At Someone Else’s Wedding

    I Look Good In White, And That’s What Matters At Someone Else’s Wedding

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    Glen Ellyn
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    The only way other guests would not notice is if they are also blind. Sheesh!

    Ashly Winters
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    ok but what if the bride heard from someone that was not blind that you were wearing white how would the bride react?

    The Other Guest
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Ableism aside ("She's blind, she won't know!), there are so many colors that complement brown skin that there's no reason to wear a white maxi dress (!!!) to someone else's wedding, unless the bride & groom *explicitly say* they would like the guests to dress in white. Even then I would avoid a maxi dress & go for something knee-length.

    Kristal
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Could have worn a very pale yellow

    Ashlie Benson
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    That's like farting in an elevator with a deaf person. Just because they can't hear it doesn't mean they won't know.

    Shark bait hoo haha
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Ugh I can't stand these types of people! It's not about you and your skin glow. Brown skin goes with so many other beautiful colors. Say it with me class...Narcissist!

    Beth Wheeler
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    There is no way on God's green earth that nobody wouldn't notice your stupid a*s wore a long white dress to a wedding.

    JP Purves
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    So was everyone else at the wedding also blind? What an entitled twaticuss.

    hwatinternation
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    >I really thought no one would notice No you didn't.

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    #41

    Someone Stole A $300 Gift Card From Our Card Table At The End Of Our Reception

    Someone Stole A $300 Gift Card From Our Card Table At The End Of Our Reception

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    BewilderedBanana
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Or... maybe the bridesmaid is secretly an evil genius :) She just placed an empty envelope in the box, already torn open, and let everyone know what was supposed to be inside. When the envelope is found, it will look like someone stole the gift, which was never there in the first place. Not only does bridesmaid save money, she also gets sympathy from everyone else muahahahaha!

    Jay Cee
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Went to a family wedding - wife's side but 1st cousins marrying (UK). We both smoked back then (before kids) and I'd bought her a Dunhill cigarette lighter as a Christmas present. It was on the table when we got up to dance. A bit later she asked me for it thinking I'd picked it up but no, it was gone, stolen. We looked around. EVERYBODY at the wedding was family - 1st cousins remember? There were no strangers.

    Bridgit Gilmore
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I was at my friends wedding years ago and found out later that the 'mailbox' for the cards (many with money in, ,mine included) had been stolen. The whole box. It was such a shame and they never found the culprit.

    Cerise Hood
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Could it be the mom? It was the last card, so first on the pile. Bride says it went home with her mom and they only started opening presents after their honeymoon.

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    #42

    Groom's Mother: "I'm More Important Than You"

    Groom's Mother: "I'm More Important Than You"

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    ॐBoyGanesh
    Community Member
    1 year ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Boot Barn???? Ann Taylor???? No, Boot Barn!!!! How I would have loved to have been perched on a hay bale atop the rafters of the barn with a bucket of popcorn to watch the other “BS” unfold. YEEHAW!

    Beth Wheeler
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Ummmm has she ever heard of a bridal store with the bride and groom mothers dresses or Belk? My son & DIL got married on the beach, nothing fancy but I got my dress at Belk on sale for under $100. I had wanted either gray or silver and found a silver dress just below the knees with small ruffles all the way down.

    Michelle
    Community Member
    6 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Should have went to Blouse Barn, eww David

    JP Purves
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Boot Barn????!!! I guess you can't make this stuff up.

    Jenny Mason
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I just went to look at the green dresses on Boot Barn 😬

    Wolf princess quinn
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Oh dear hillbilly weddings never go off without a hitch

    GPawesomeness
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    FFS, have you not read the other stories in this thread? Abhorrent behavior is not about whether you are rich (sometimes even more so because of entitlement mentality) or a hillbilly/redneck, it is about character. I have many relatives in the (proudly) redneck community and they are the kindest, most loyal people I have ever known.

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    Ansi
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I feel conflicted about this one. I agree that the whole dress thing is ridiculous and having the same dress is not a problem. But being the "bride's brother's date" (doesn't say fiancee so unknown commitment) isn't the zinger they think it is. "without the bride, you won't have a wedding at all. So she's staying." Again, the situation is stupid but if the bride and groom actually had to choose (not in this case but in a less ridiculous situation, so just in general) between the bride's brother's date and the grooms mother... 🤷 ...I would think the mother is without a doubt more important.

    Papa
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    You're right that two ladies wearing the same dress is not a problem. Since that's the case, the part about who is more important is completely irrelevant. If you found the reply from the bride's brother to be out of line, I assume it was sarcasm, and a fitting reply to the mother of the groom.

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    #43

    A Guest Asked If They Could Bring Their Pets To My Wedding

    A Guest Asked If They Could Bring Their Pets To My Wedding

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    ॐBoyGanesh
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    To be clear, she’s absolutely right about service dogs in training. I live between two states, one (there are 4) which has zero state recognition of service dogs in training (Hawaii) and another that codifies into law service dogs in training to have similar access as trained service dogs (California). For the latter, the training service dog must be visibly marked as being in training as a service dog, whereas in all states the the superseding federal law requires zero markings for trained service dogs. For many of us with legitimate service dogs (as opposed to emotional support animals or personally trained pets) , we welcome identification markings. That way there are no qualms about how (tirelessly & costly) well-trained our service dogs are.

    Another Panda
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I believe there are legitimate emotional support animals, but they must be trained and certified properly.

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    Deborah B
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Service dogs in accredited training programs are usually accepted in businesses etc with their trainer, it's part of how they learn and are evaluated. But it's more a courtesy than an entitlement.

    Wolf princess quinn
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Omg I had to stop...the dog is not a child. Yes they can be potty trained waaay before 4-5mo. Again NOT A CHILD. They can actually sleep for hours. That being said.. A WEDDING IS NO PLACE FOR ANIMALS!

    ॐBoyGanesh
    Community Member
    1 year ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    To be clear, she’s absolutely right about service dogs in training. I live between two states, one (there are 4) which has zero state recognition of service dogs in training (Hawaii) and another that codifies into law service dogs in training to have similar access as trained service dogs (California). For the latter, the training service dog must be visibly marked as being in training as a service dog, whereas in all states the several law requires zero markings for trained service dogs. For many of us with legitimate service dogs (as opposed to emotional support animals or personally trained pets) , we welcome identification markings. That way there are no qualms about how (tirelessly & costly) well-trained our service dogs are.

    Pollymere
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    6 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Service dogs are usually trained by professionals.

    Upstaged75
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Nut job! I see a shrink and take meds to manage my mental health issues - I don't drag baby animals around with me everywhere. That's ridiculous!

    cheryl60
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    erm clearly not an animal lover then pfft ! pets can help so much with mental issues ! they really help vetrans with with ptsd so enjoy life alone i feel sorry for you mental health is awful i know i deal with daily n im almost 60 (from years of abuse ) so will be diff to yours likely but honestly animals really really help and in uk dogs are used with thousands of people as mental support animals blessed be

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    #44

    Almost One Year After Our Wedding And It Is Official None Of My (Groom) Friends Gave Us Gifts

    Almost One Year After Our Wedding And It Is Official None Of My (Groom) Friends Gave Us Gifts

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    Marianne
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    While you can't demand gifts from your wedding guests, it's not only common, but kind of expected in most parts of the western world that you bring a present to a wedding. Not bringing anything is rude and I also wouldn't forget about it.

    Dan Gaulzetti
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I made my wedding as traditional as possible on a tight time frame (so her parents could come) and a tight budget (I had a poor paying job) and told everyone who asked no gifts were expected. Everyone but one person gave a gift. He's actually generous in day to day. Just apparently the only person who believes me.

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    Shark bait hoo haha
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    My wedding was similar as in we went to 3 different places to create wedding gift wish lists. We picked out things from $10 up so there was a huge selection should someone wish to buy us a gift. We had a kids included wedding as everyone had kids and we thought it would be cool. One of the daughters of our friends told her parents she felt bad for not bringing a gift as she knew it was customary. She was 14 years old so she made friendship bracelets in our wedding colors and presented them in a cute little satchel. She was so proud that we wore the bracelets all night long. A little girl didn't want to be rude even tho her parents bought us a nice gift and here are grown people who couldn't do a simple token.

    cheryl60
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    how beautiful ❤️those are priceless gifts money could never buy x

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    Steïcy Gya
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I think he should enquire. Maybe ask to the friends he is closest to. It seems quite weird that none of the friends would buy a gift our of 20 people. maybe they were never friends to begin with or they did contribute collectively towards a gift but the person in charge either forgot or took the money for themselves and never admitted.

    Jay Cee
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Or they all clubbed together and the delegated buyer . . . er didn't?

    Curbz81
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    So it was the groom's friends who didn't give gifts. I don't want to say "all men" here. But i think its plausible, especially if they are young, that they just didn't think to give a gift. But in my experience its often the women that carries the mental load of gift planning. If they brought dates the dates may not have considered it their responsibility as a plus 1 to provide a gift if they aren't close with the bride and groom. This is just a theory, please don't burn me at the stake. I had men bring gifts at my wedding but i got married in my mid 30s

    שני מוריק
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    In my country you suppose to bring money

    ॐBoyGanesh
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    1 year ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    It reads as if someone in the friend group erroneously told the rest of the group that the couple didn’t wish for them, in particular, to provide gifts. I simply can’t think of any other reason unless this isn’t the groom’s first wedding the group has attended or they really despise the relationship & have zero belief it will last. It’s surely not a coincidence and unlikely that every friend of the groom is classless.

    Jill Waters
    Community Member
    5 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    You could reciprocate with no gift at their event!

    Violetta Cogoni
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    6 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I would ask, because it happened to me that a “friend” of mine collected the money for a friend’s wedding and… kept the money!

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    #45

    Trashy Reverend's Wife, Not Even A Guest

    Trashy Reverend's Wife, Not Even A Guest

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    Apatheist Account2
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    There's that guy who does photoshop requests, but takes them very literally, so be careful what you ask for...

    Sue Phillips
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    The officiant's wife dressed like this? What is wrong with her?

    Bored Trash Panda
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    1 year ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I'm sorry, but this would have pissed me off. If you are coming just because your spouse is the officiant, the least you could do is dress nice to look like you fit in, or don't sit in the row right near the isle.

    Wilhelmina MISON
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    There are people on Youtube that do kind of stuff, so maybe ask them :)

    Otto Katz
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    1 year ago

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    I don't know. She's not harming anything, it seems like revisionist history to me for this one.

    #46

    My Mom Was Going Through Her Old Wedding Mementos And Found This Response Card From A Relative. How Tacky Can You Get?

    My Mom Was Going Through Her Old Wedding Mementos And Found This Response Card From A Relative. How Tacky Can You Get?

    "Sorry, i'm strapped for cash trying to start my own business - if you're interested in feeling better through natural nutrition in 30 days money back guarantee, let me know... I'll ship you info or products postage free!
    Thanks for the invite!"

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    LakotaWolf (she/her)
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    1 year ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    "Natural" nutrition? What is UNNATURAL nutrition? Styrofoam? Cardboard? Science fiction Asimov-esque meal-pills and extruded yeast cubes? XD

    Sarah Pryde
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    "....strapped for cash trying to start my own business.....natural nutrition.." = MLM

    Nikole
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    One of my cousins got into the purse/make-up bag/diaper bag/whatever bag one. I think she’s out of it now though… And I only bought one bag.

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    JP Purves
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    So sorry you can't attend, but you should know, as a very close friend of mine, that I only eat tree bark and fresh morning dew.

    Lisa Tetlow
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    A simple "will not attend" would have been sufficient.

    MiniMaus
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    OMG trashy.... in the same line as the Mary Kay posting above

    GPawesomeness
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    1 year ago

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    #47

    The Groomsmen’s Wife Wore White And Caused Drama The Whole Wedding

    The Groomsmen’s Wife Wore White And Caused Drama The Whole Wedding

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    ConstantlyJon
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    sounds like OP got a nice preview and wisely pulled the plug!

    GPawesomeness
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Well, that new marriage is off to a grand start. 🙄 So many eye rolls needed on this thread. Don't allow that negativity into your beautiful ceremony.

    Spittnimage
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Sounds like their (bickering couple) marriage is already over before it's even begun, really.

    #48

    Friends Of Ours Get Married Saturday. They Posted This Message On Facebook That They Received From A (Now Ex) Guest Yesterday

    Friends Of Ours Get Married Saturday. They Posted This Message On Facebook That They Received From A (Now Ex) Guest Yesterday

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    Glen Ellyn
    Community Member
    Premium
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    No great loss. Actually, I'd call this a win since you now know just what kind of person they are.

    Apatheist Account2
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    The world will grind to a halt because entitled people don't get "likes". Pathetic.

    G A
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    They could have just said something's come up and gone radio silence. Passive aggressive s**t instead.

    Beth Wheeler
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Well somebody wants attention. The Bride and Groom have more important things to do than reply to everybody on stupid Facebook. This person needs to get over themself!

    cheryl60
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    yes and your point is like 😂that sounds very much like a them issue and im very sure the bride was in fits laughing at this pathetic reply not a bride issue a them issue 😂😂😂playing the poor poor me u ignored me shite win win for bride they would have spoilt her day cos u can bet had she not made a huge fuss of em they would have created a scene an all about me scene blessed be

    Bettye McKee
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Your 13-year-old friend is getting married?

    Rafael
    Community Member
    1 year ago

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    People still use Facebook?

    Panda McPandaface
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Yes, quite a lot of us. I'm sure you of course are a superior being because you do not.

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    #49

    Disney Adults Make Everything About Them At His Brother’s Wedding

    Disney Adults Make Everything About Them At His Brother’s Wedding

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    ॐBoyGanesh
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Absolute lack of awareness. Also, Disney musical? I swear The Mouse is responsible for the vast majority of idealized relationships and overall delusion.

    Papa
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    And the Hallmark Channel is to blame for the rest.

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    ConstantlyJon
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I mean..... was there karaoke at the wedding? Could not be an issue at all. Or could be VERY awkward.

    The Other Guest
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Someone should have disconnected the mic.

    Lyoness
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    People disappeared for a reason.

    Joanne Hudson
    Community Member
    5 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I think its cute; provided they are people you know. There's nothing wrong with tasteful spontaneity. One song. Life is hard.

    UpupaEpops
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Oh, honey. Disney movies tend to end with the wedding and there's a reason most of the sequels suck.

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    #50

    Groom Party Had An Interesting Take On Attire

    Groom Party Had An Interesting Take On Attire

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    The Scout
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Looks more like a deliberate theme style, so maybe there is more to it?

    Con O Cuinn
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Yeah, because I'm kinda assuming it's the groom in the white shirt. You don't normally see photos of the bride, bridesmaids, groomsmen but NOT the groom.

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    BookFanatic
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I know I'm missing the point, but I love the bridal party's bouquets!

    JP Purves
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I'm guessing the groom is the one in the white tee shirt.

    DowntownStevieB
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    1 year ago

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    For the love of dog, please STOP hiking up your socks str8 men. It's never EVER been cool and will NEVER impress a woman. I say str8 men because I can't think of a self respecting gai guy who would do this. Also, cargo shorts?! Really?!

    Jaya
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    How about letting people wear whatever the f*ck they enjoy? Also, I'm a woman and I think cargo shorts on guys is quite sexy.

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    #51

    Wedding Guest I’ve Never Met, Insulted We Won’t Let Her Stay In The "Honey Moon Suite" With Us (The Bride And Groom)

    Wedding Guest I’ve Never Met, Insulted We Won’t Let Her Stay In The "Honey Moon Suite" With Us (The Bride And Groom)

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    Amelia Jade
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Had something similar happen. We had a tiny, tiny wedding and invited most friends and family to the reception only. The wedding was literally six people plus my maid of honor and his best man, the two of us and our officiant. That's it. We invited my MILs sister and her husband. I'd never met them and my husband hadn't seen them since he was little. The husband sent a note back saying that if we didn't consider him worthy enough to attend the wedding, he didn't see why he should be at the reception. Dude, we don't even know you. My own parents weren't even at the wedding. We invited you as a courtesy to my MIL. We were not bothered by his absence.

    Papa
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Even if it is "rude to expect important guests to have to stay in a hotel when the venue has lodging" was true, it still didn't apply, since the aunt had an exaggerated idea of her own importance.

    #52

    Friend Gifted His Bride Professional Pictures Of Only Himself

    Friend Gifted His Bride Professional Pictures Of Only Himself

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    StarCrossedFriday
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I hope he told the photographer what the purpose of the shoot was. I can only imagine their facial expression.

    Kalikima
    Community Member
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I don't see the big deal with this one.. if I was getting married, I'd love professional photos taken of the person I was marrying. You'd get lots of photos of you together at the wedding, and presumably ones taken together after you're married a while, so why not get some of the person you love by themselves?

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    #53

    Wait, What? The Crossed Out Name Is Her Husband

    Wait, What? The Crossed Out Name Is Her Husband

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    ॐBoyGanesh
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    1 year ago

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    The Other Guest
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    "I'm sorry that a 6" x 3" piece of fabric is preventing you from attending. You'll be missed!"

    ShyWahine
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    If masks don’t work for your family, don’t attend. Period. End of story.

    Bored Trash Panda
    Community Member
    1 year ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    My MIL had covid when it was my SILs (her daughters) wedding. She had me decorate an N95 mask for her to match her dress and even socially distanced as much as possible, except for pictures, which I made sure to do those ones as quick as possible. (I was the photographer).

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    #54

    From A Wedding Shaming Group I'm In. Bride And Groom Requested A Childfree Wedding. Entitled Guest Writes This Message On Their Invitation

    From A Wedding Shaming Group I'm In. Bride And Groom Requested A Childfree Wedding. Entitled Guest Writes This Message On Their Invitation

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    ShyWahine
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    It’s not about respect. Simply put, If you can’t abide by the bride and groom’s wishes - don’t attend the wedding

    StarCrossedFriday
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Well, it is. Abiding by the bride and groom’s wishes is far more basic respect. I’m assuming they didn’t see the irony when they wrote that c**p.

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    ॐBoyGanesh
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Idiots always argue semantics or very narrow scope of meaning.

    Wolf princess quinn
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    No unruly kids they're loose cannons. If this was a thing back in the day I'd totally do the no kids thing!

    #55

    Found This Gem

    Found This Gem

    The woman is doubling down because she was seeking validation and will not listen to anyone, and all of the comments are pegging her as the jerk in the scenario.

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    YakFactory
    Community Member
    1 year ago

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    I have a feeling that you did the right thing, ensuring your sister didn't have a permanent loan of your necklace. NTA

    Papa
    Community Member
    1 year ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Maybe she did the right not loaning the necklace to her sister, but the rest was just being a b***h to her.

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    #56

    Screw John Legend, All Of Me Is "Our" Song Only

    Screw John Legend, All Of Me Is "Our" Song Only

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    BewilderedBanana
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    They seem to be entitled to a lot more than just their feelings

    ॐBoyGanesh
    Community Member
    1 year ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    We are absolutely entitled to our feelings and opinions, but expressing them doesn’t exclude them from consequences.

    The Other Guest
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    That last paragraph is such an interesting way of saying, "How dare you say that I'm in the wrong!!!"

    שני מוריק
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    It's was my brother song as well when he got married

    TuesdayDangerGirl
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Normal person perspective "♥ Oh, Honey!! They're using the same song ♫ for their first dance ♥♥♥ ... *swoon" ♥♥

    bbfa
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I bet neither of them paid the required licensing fees to ASCAP, either. As long as they are being picky and selfish...

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    #57

    The Old Guy Who Stole The Wedding Cake

    The Old Guy Who Stole The Wedding Cake

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    Cas P
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    My mother took the top layer of my wedding cake home. I never got any of it and as we stopped speaking shortly afterwards, I never got any at all. I would still love to have a piece of wedding cake.

    The Other Guest
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    There is no law that says you cannot buy or bake a wedding cake if you are not having a wedding. I know it's not *exactly* the same, but at least you'd have a piece.

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    BookFanatic
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    The bakery my parents hired to do their wedding cake completely flaked. Big day comes. No cake. Ceremony finishes up. No cake. Reception starts. No cake. Very angry father of the bride on the phone. No cake. No apology. Luckily, my chronically over-prepared grandmother had baked a simple German chocolate sheet cake...just in case there wasn't enough cake to go around!

    Damned_Cat
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Maybe it was his wife's birthday and he saw a chance at getting a free cake.

    StarCrossedFriday
    Community Member
    1 year ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Some people have very odd priorities at weddings.

    #58

    That One Friend

    That One Friend

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    The Other Guest
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I'd ask the photographer to remove the "friend" from the photos. Oh, wait no I've got a better idea - crop everyone else out, enlarge the "friend," and send it to her so she's always got a reminder of what a classy woman she is.

    DC
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    ... but tweak the image a bit ... like, turn her eyes to the right by some 10...15 degree, both in the same direction. Making a face less symmetrical than it is, makes us perceive it as uglier than it is, but sometimes, we can't even point thereat, for we don't consciously know and process, but the results are what actually enters our mind. A different thing in every picture. Enlarge one boob, and make the other look like a skinny males' ones look like. Enlarge her feet. Discolour her. Oversaturate her. Add a little yellow stain, sort of centrally. Make every photo an embarassment.

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    Lyn Odom
    Community Member
    3 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    …but what about that OTHER friend…behind her…yikes!!

    Wolf princess quinn
    Community Member
    1 year ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Better yet...make a huge poster and send it to her parents

    #59

    My Aunt Texted Us To Say That The Children Were Invited To My Cousin’s Destination Wedding After All, And Today My Cousin Called Everyone To Tell Us That Was Not The Case

    My Aunt Texted Us To Say That The Children Were Invited To My Cousin’s Destination Wedding After All, And Today My Cousin Called Everyone To Tell Us That Was Not The Case

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    #60

    My Friend Got A Late Diagnosis Of ADHD And Has Become Super Entitled To It, Wanting Everything To Be Inclusive

    My Friend Got A Late Diagnosis Of ADHD And Has Become Super Entitled To It, Wanting Everything To Be Inclusive

    I am ok with this bit. I feel his demands are too excessive and demanding. For reference, I haven't seen him in 5 years. I got these messages out of the blue, and the wedding is in a week.

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    G A
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Dear whoever, f**k right off

    Otto Katz
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Yes to the bottle of water. Fǔck off with the rest of this sħit.

    Awesome At Being Autistic
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Okay but no. I got a late diagnosis of Autism, being neurodivergent is not a license a license to be an ärsehole.

    Vanessa Steis
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Late Diagnosis of ADHD here too, but I swear I would never dare to do something like that. Some people are just so strange..

    Moë
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    No is a complete sentence

    BookFanatic
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    No. On so many levels. Just...no.

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    #61

    Worst Maid Of Honor Ever, And I Have Been To Plenty Of Weddings

    Worst Maid Of Honor Ever, And I Have Been To Plenty Of Weddings

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    Jenny Mason
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    If my partner and I ever get married there will be no speeches! The wedding will probably take place with just our kids present and then we'll have a small party for extended family at a later date.

    crazydogmama
    Community Member
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    She made the mistake of thinking her party friends were real friends.

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    #62

    An Interesting End To The Night

    An Interesting End To The Night

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    Janissary35680
    Community Member
    Premium
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Yes, without it including Alex in the footage would be sooooo tacky.

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    #63

    All Jokes Aside, Please Don't Do This To Your Daughter

    All Jokes Aside, Please Don't Do This To Your Daughter

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    Sheena Leversedge Wood
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    using gaffa tape for the handle would look better than that.

    Bored Trash Panda
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I'm all for recycling and DIY, but if you are gonna do this, lace ribbon is cheap at most craft stores and Amazon.... at least decorate them to cover up what they really are...

    ConstantlyJon
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    alright, we were cheap as hell at our wedding. like, our bridesmaids had fake flowers, but they were tasteful. my wife's bouquet was real, smaller pieces were real, we just couldn't afford to have everything be perfect. But this is a different level. Just.... hold the flowers? idk.

    Kristal
    Community Member
    1 year ago

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    I don't think this is bad, it's just the holders for the bouquets.

    ॐBoyGanesh
    Community Member
    1 year ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    They’re still visible (hence, being minimally decorated) & likely will be seen in the bridesmaids hands during the procession and ceremony and likely on a wedding party table at a reception. But if wanting guests to envision wiping coochie or dirty b******e is ok, by all means use a cardboard roll that likely had the hands of people pooping touching it, not to mention the vast amount of fecal matter coating surfaces of every bathroom. Unless the mom didn’t upcycle the rolls & instead tore off all the TP whilst in a non-caca environment: 🤮🤮🤮🤮

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    #64

    This Is What Can Happen When A Wedding Guest Takes It As A Personal Offense When Their Friend's Wedding DJ Doesn't Play Their Song Request

    This Is What Can Happen When A Wedding Guest Takes It As A Personal Offense When Their Friend's Wedding DJ Doesn't Play Their Song Request

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    Marykay Klim
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    bad Reviews can kill you, esp. w/ a small business or seller.

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    #65

    Can I Just Shame My Own Toxic Maid Of Honor For A Minute

    Can I Just Shame My Own Toxic Maid Of Honor For A Minute

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    ॐBoyGanesh
    Community Member
    1 year ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Jesus, set some boundaries & have a little self-respect by casting this nasty person off. She’s pleading with you to do so.

    Carole
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I'm happy to report that she did! OP's update in the comments: "UPDATE I’m not good at Reddit and don’t know how to edit the actual post, but I fired her. I sent her a message saying her silence told me enough and it’s best if I found someone else to be MOH. Then I told her I was done with her blatant disrespect of not only my friends, but of my future husband. And I’m not putting up with it anymore. No answer back yet, but I pulled the plug."

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    StarCrossedFriday
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    If of all their best friends this was the best option for MOH, I dread to think what the rest are like…

    ConstantlyJon
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    plot twist, the rest of the wedding party and the groom are actually toxic and the MOH is looking out for her friend without ruining everything.

    Papa
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    "I'm not rude to people I don't like." Am I the only one who thinks that if she isn't given a reason she'll make one up?

    Shark Lady
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I didn't like my friend's now ex-husband at all, I can't even explain why I just didn't click with him. I never said anything though as he was her choice and she loved him (at the time) and that was all that mattered.

    #66

    My Sister Is Getting Married. This Is The Dress One Of Her Bridesmaids Bought

    My Sister Is Getting Married. This Is The Dress One Of Her Bridesmaids Bought

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    The Starsong Princess
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Fine if the bride wants a Pippi Middleton thing. Also fine if this is just a try on and the actual dress is ordered in a different color.

    #67

    Getting Married. Mother Isn't Invited

    Getting Married. Mother Isn't Invited

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    whodunnitfan2013
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    "Anger and hatred will make you sick" Gives off "They're still your family!" vibes

    ConstantlyJon
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    You will know the true colors of people when boundaries are set up that impact them.

    LonelyLittleLeafSheep
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    "I said 'no' and since you won't leave it alone, you don't need to come either."

    BookFanatic
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Hunh. Reminds me of a wedding I was in a few years ago. Father of bride cheated on mother of bride. They divorced. FoB brings the homewrecker to his daughter's wedding and insists she be in the wedding party pictures. Good times.

    #68

    Groomsmen Don’t Show Up On The Day Of The Wedding

    Groomsmen Don’t Show Up On The Day Of The Wedding

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    Kalikima
    Community Member
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    The title was confusing, I was expecting that all his groomsmen didn't show up. They should have said "groomsman".

    Kiss Army
    Community Member
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Sounds like no big loss as far as "friend" goes.

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    #69

    Guests Brought Their Dog To Our Wedding

    Guests Brought Their Dog To Our Wedding

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    bbfa
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    When I get married, I think instead of family I'll just invite their dogs.

    Justme
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I think my dogs would probably have a lot of fun at your wedding.

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    #70

    Wedding Guests, Please Don't Do This. It's Not Funny, And Putting "Just Kidding" Doesn't Make It Better

    Wedding Guests, Please Don't Do This. It's Not Funny, And Putting "Just Kidding" Doesn't Make It Better

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    The Other Guest
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    "Just kidding" so she *does* hope they'll get divorced??

    ॐBoyGanesh
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Also, leave out the tween happy face in just a few settings. Maybe keep it off of one’s mall kiosk job application and a wedding guest registry.

    #71

    Advice: Revoke Invitation. Optional, But Encouraged: Let Everyone Under The Sun Know Why

    Advice: Revoke Invitation. Optional, But Encouraged: Let Everyone Under The Sun Know Why

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    Libstak
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I always believe people like this should be allowed to humiliate themselves as much as they want. If the invitation clearly says no white and all accepted etiquette says no white then they show up in white...there will be comments, snickers, nasty gossip, possible red wine spills and who knows what other shenanigans from at least the brides family.

    Kiss Army
    Community Member
    Premium
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I volunteer as tribute! (to spill the wine...)

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    Bored Trash Panda
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Yea.. if someone would have done that at my wedding, my MOH would have "accidently" spilled red wine on them...

    Jenny Mason
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I have 3 older sisters and when the eldest got married (5th time) one of my other sisters showed up in an actual wedding gown. I didn't attend but I've seen photos.

    Regina Holt
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    put a sign on her back. Instead of saying "Kick Me" have the sign say "I'm a narcissistic b!tch"

    #72

    Guest Texts Bride Day Off For Address & Ride 2 Hours Before The Wedding

    Guest Texts Bride Day Off For Address & Ride 2 Hours Before The Wedding

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    Papa
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Asking that is not unreasonable in general, but asking the bride that question the day of the wedding is out of line.

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    #73

    Poor Photographer. That Said I'd Be Interested To See The Pictures That They Had To Capture While This All Went Down

    Poor Photographer. That Said I'd Be Interested To See The Pictures That They Had To Capture While This All Went Down

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    StarCrossedFriday
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Oh look, something else totally ruined by religion.

    Regina Holt
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    What I'm guessing is a religious person, someone downvoted you. I'm bringing you back to zero. Your comment deserves an LOL

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    #74

    Just Got Married, And Apparently A Couple Of Wedding Guests Were Badgering Other Guests For “Embarrassing Stories” About Me And The Groom

    Just Got Married, And Apparently A Couple Of Wedding Guests Were Badgering Other Guests For “Embarrassing Stories” About Me And The Groom

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    #75

    Never Thought It Would Happen To Me

    Never Thought It Would Happen To Me

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    LonelyLittleLeafSheep
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Respond with "there is no plus one and we have decided to trim back the wedding, so you are no longer invited".

    שני מוריק
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Plus one doesn't have to be someone you having romantic relationship it can be a friend or a family member

    #76

    Bride Has To Have A Child Free Wedding, Especially With New Restrictions On Guest Count. Guest Demands To Bring Their Son (18) Daughter (23), 3 Grandchildren, And A Dog To The Wedding

    Bride Has To Have A Child Free Wedding, Especially With New Restrictions On Guest Count. Guest Demands To Bring Their Son (18) Daughter (23), 3 Grandchildren, And A Dog To The Wedding

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    #77

    Wasn’t Invited But You Meant To Invite Me So I’ll Be There Anyway For Sure

    Wasn’t Invited But You Meant To Invite Me So I’ll Be There Anyway For Sure

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    #78

    Not Shaming The Bride But She Had Such Terrible Luck On Her Special Day And Her Bridal Party, Chapel Director And Guests Were Awful

    Not Shaming The Bride But She Had Such Terrible Luck On Her Special Day And Her Bridal Party, Chapel Director And Guests Were Awful

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    Marykay Klim
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I think the final statement is the most important thing. You might ask if any of the relatives took photographs. Maybe you could get some that way.

    Justme
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Wow - I sure hope the new graduates don’t have kids

    #79

    Bride Trusts The Wrong Friend And Is Robbed On Her Wedding

    Bride Trusts The Wrong Friend And Is Robbed On Her Wedding

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    The Starsong Princess
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    This bride took a bunch of random pills? She’s lucky that worse didn’t happen.

    Earonn -
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Pills given by an old friend who told her they were harmless. Don't try to shame her for trusting her friends.

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    Julie Love
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Ativan is a powerful d**g. it's a controlled substance for a reason

    Bartlet for World Domination
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    And this, children, is why we test our ԁrugs / await the effects on other people.

    #80

    What Was The Tought Process Behind This

    What Was The Tought Process Behind This

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    Jenny Mason
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    They butchered the hell out of this cake! 😬

    JackrabbitJax
    Community Member
    1 month ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Soooo I was that person at my cousin’s wedding?? I was asked right before the ceremony to be in charge of cake cutting. The cake was made by some aunt and was a strange crumbly texture. I did my best but boy, did I butcher that cake! I felt terrible. Luckily they thought it was funny.

    Slay Queen
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    At least you know what you did, even though you ruined their special day, I think this is worth noting.

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    #81

    Just Invite Yourselves And Completely Disregard The Bride

    Just Invite Yourselves And Completely Disregard The Bride

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    #82

    Uninvited Guest RSVPs Under His Dad's Name

    Uninvited Guest RSVPs Under His Dad's Name

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    Libstak
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Some people believe at least a member of the family should represent them if they can't attend, especially if they want a gift from their family to be given from them. It's very old school but I can see how it could happen in old traditional european families.

    Bored Trash Panda
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Idk, i mean maybe there was a health issue preventing the parents from coming and they wanted Sam to go to deliver the present? At least they weren't bringing him as an extra person.

    #83

    Friend Gave Me Permission To Post This Letter They Received A Few Weeks After Their Wedding

    Friend Gave Me Permission To Post This Letter They Received A Few Weeks After Their Wedding

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    Papa
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    If you get upset over not getting a thank you for a present, it may be time to consider the possibility that you gave the present for the wrong reason.

    Lisa Wittwer
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Rules of etiquette say you have up to a year after a wedding to send thank you cards. A few weeks is nothing.

    Kiss Army
    Community Member
    Premium
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    According to Emily Post: "Thank you cards should be sent within 3 months after getting home from your honeymoon for gifts received on your wedding day." So if this was only a few weeks after the wedding, they had not passed the timeframe of proper etiquette yet. (However, if they indeed asked for money for a wedding gift, I would say that was tacky.)

    Robin
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    We had this happen, and old relative assumed we hadn't said thank you because she only sent £20. We were grateful for every penny. But we hadn't sent anything because we were on our honeymoon.

    #84

    Wedding Photographers: What’s The Worst Thing That’s Happened To You At A Wedding?

    Wedding Photographers: What’s The Worst Thing That’s Happened To You At A Wedding?

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    Justme
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Yeah… your contract just got voided

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    #85

    When It’s All About You And Being Invited

    When It’s All About You And Being Invited

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    Justme
    Community Member
    1 year ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    My parents and I were only invited to the reception for my brother’s wedding and we are all a really close family. No one questioned it at all. Turns out they married on the balcony of the venue and it could hold only a handful of people. Plus, they just wanted it to be them and witnesses for the vows - it was just sort of a private moment for them and only took about 5 minutes. Sounded perfect to me!

    Papa
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Apparently the bride isn't the only one who "loves drama pretty much."

    #86

    What An Awful Thing To Do A Day Before The Wedding

    What An Awful Thing To Do A Day Before The Wedding

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    Shrek
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    wait, someone explain this to me?

    Taylor's Ferry
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Per the original post, the couple is marrying because the bride to be is 6months pregnant.

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    Otto Katz
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I have no idea what happened in this interaction.

    #87

    Copy Cat Friend

    Copy Cat Friend

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    SweetCheesySpaghetti
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I'd start gushing over the ugliest things to see if she was being vindictive, or we just had the same taste.

    Slay Queen
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    oooh um no if I were you I would be like, no way girlie and just be like BOOM yeah girl we not friends no more. friends don't do this. buhbye. BWAHHHHHHHAAAAAAAAA!!!

    #88

    Rude Guest Insults Bride Because He Doesn’t Know How To Use The Online RSVP System And She Didn’t Respond To His Message Instantly

    Rude Guest Insults Bride Because He Doesn’t Know How To Use The Online RSVP System And She Didn’t Respond To His Message Instantly

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    Kiss Army
    Community Member
    Premium
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    What are protocol apples? LOL!

    H. Nolden
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Well... 5 days later is not really instantly

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