“Well, back in my day…” says a twenty-something year old, reminiscing about “the good old days.” While that might sound funny, some people are old souls who might relate to the elderly more than they do with their own peers.
Many young(-ish) people, like yours truly, often find themselves agreeing with people a few generations older than themselves. Just take this post on Threads, for example: one user asked fellow netizens what is something that makes them go “I’m with the boomers on this one,” and many were eager to share, discussing all sorts of issues and situations. You can find them on the list below.
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Children should be well behaved in restaurants. Yes, you actually can teach them to stay in their seats, bottoms on the cushion and not screaming and running through the booth or climbing under tables. Don't poke the people at the next table:
I used to work in this brewpub back in 2005, We kept telling our hosts "NEVER EVER seat families with young children at Table 1". There was a fire alarm at that booth. Guess what happened EVERY WEEKEND. The hosts would seat kids at the booth they were expressly told not to. Kid yanks fire alarm. Again this happened at least once a week.
I would have somehow rigged a large bucket of water and ice cubes directly above the booth to tip over when the alarm was pulled.
Load More Replies...We had a psychologist friend who let her 3 year old run around restaurants until the manager brought the kid back and told the mom it was dangerous not only for the kid but for the workers. The psychologist mom said she wanted her kid to grow up with no emotional inhibitions. That generally means the kid will be a rude insensitive jerk as an adult.
Agree, I'm 44yo father of two sons. 17yo and 12yo. And yes, You can teach them to behave and have good attitude on public. Doesn't need to be hard on them, just a pure love, discipline and living example.
This is exactly why we get takeaways and eat at home with our 2 year old. He is super curious and exploring everything. Loves to climb things. But why would I spoil other people's dinner by letting my child run loose. Or we go to a restaurant with a kids playground. Problem solved.
Parents seem unable or unwilling to teach their kids how to behave in public. I and my cousins were raised not to be nuisances in public, esp not in a restaurant. All it took was a look from one of our parents, aunts or uncles and we'd settle down so fast.
My kids who are 13 and 15 months apart, were always well behaved in restaurants. If they weren't, we'd pay and leave, and then not go out again until they could be trusted. And they'd know why. No yelling, no scolding. "Behave yourself or we're leaving." "You couldn't behave yourself, so we can't go out again."
I don’t want to scan a QR code for everything. Please just give me a physical menu.
A local restaurant in my town has QR code menus, but they also have printed menus stashed under the bar so if someone doesn’t have a phone, they’ll give you one of those instead :) (I just pretend I don’t have my phone on me lol)
Load More Replies...I don't want to use my phone for everything - for the menu at the restaurant, in the supermarket to pay for the groceries, in the public transport etc.
I once had the situation in a "cool new burger restaurant" that my phone went flat when I wanted to order. The waitress told me that unfortunately there not only was no paper menu, but she also was unable to take my order as she could only do transactions by phone and had no option of manual entry. Not her fault, though, this was store policy. She had pity on me and lent me her phone so I could order, but - just why...
Dumb store policy. Why do places do this? If you are selling, you have to make it easy for people to buy.
Load More Replies...We went to a restaurant that had QR codes ONLY to order with. We left.
Hate QR codes with the heat of a thousand suns - not to mention that they are also a security threat.
It makes sense in certain situations. I worked in a Brewpub for 12 years. The beer menu changed almost every week. This place had about 150 seats. That's about a ream of paper a week. I pushed for QR codes just for the beer menu. It would have saved a few trees.
A physical menu doesn't have to be a paper one. In my local bar with frequently updated beer choices there're blackboards with the beer menu placed so that the writing's clearly visible from any seat.
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Basic human interaction skills and sharing public space. “Excuse me, thank you, pardon me, etc.” Stepping to one side on a sidewalk, escalator, or trail. Manners have gone the way of the dodo.
People have forgotten how to communicate with words. Manners seem to be treated like turn signals, optional.
With the rise of mobile phones and the ironically named social media, the sad fact is that many (not all) younger generations are growing up without basic social skills. With that goes things like learning manners, how to be kind, respectful and learn to wait your turn. Now we're in the age of instant gratification and entitlement sadly.
Three of us went out for lunch recently, women ages 60, 68 and 72. We actually listened to each other talk and finish a sentence, and had actual conversations! So refreshing! I live alone so there's no one to talk to. At work, forget it. Hardly anyone there knows the social graces of communicating. It's a lost art form all around.
And stop parking your grocery cart in the middle of the aisle as you peruse the items.
Any time I step in front of anyone, whether I'm in their space or not I always say "excuse me." I also try to be polite as much as possible.
Yeah, just you. If you need to walk up stairs that bad, just find the stairwell. Even if someone can sorta walk up if they're on an escalator, doesn't mean they're going to be the speed to your liking. Have some compassion and patience.
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I pay way too much in taxes for our public school to not supply crayons, pencils, and tissues to kids.
You have to pay the coaches salaries. Isn't winning at sports more important than basic teaching tools or teachers salaries?
My kid's public primary school supplied crayons, pens, pencils and paper, and the sports team coaches and managers were volunteer parents.
Load More Replies...Problem is that your taxes don't go to the schools. They go directly into the pockets of billionaires.
Our teachers DO get a stipend every year to purchase class supplies.
What really bugs me is I take my kid shopping for all these supplies, he picks out cool folders, notebooks, scissors then we get to the school and we’re just suppose to put it in a pile for all the kids? I want my kid to use the stuff he picked out, I don’t want Tommy Nose-Picker touching the cool space themed notebook my son was excited to use.
For some reason, teachers seem to check their humanity at the door and refuse to acknowledge the blatant unfairness of this approach. YOU paid for the stuff for YOUR kid and YOUR kid is the ONLY one who should ever be using it, unless they choose to share in a specific situation. The teachers need to keep their bloody hands OFF a child's personal possessions that their parents bought for THEM.
Load More Replies...I am curious - really not being rude, what do you think is a decent wage? I am a teacher.
Load More Replies...This is 'Murica - we throw money at the Department of Education thinking things will magically improve.
Espically since so many of us pay taxes that go to schools and don't have kids in those schools. Should be plenty of money.
I’m child-free and I’m happy my taxes help support schools. We shouldn’t ONLY care about things that affect us personally, otherwise it would be a pretty crappy world to live in. I want happy educated kids in my country, so we can have a good future. I’m cool with my tax dollars going to that.
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I miss tv seasons with 21-24 episodes every 9 months. This 6-10 episodes every 2 years on streaming platforms is stupid.
Also WEEKLY RELEASES. This new "binge" format of releasing all episodes at once is so, SO stupid. Everyone watches a season within two days, then the hype fades within a week, and all you can do is wait 2-3 years for a new season - and only if you're lucky and the show doesn't get canceled.
I prefer my episodes released all at once so I can decide when to watch. My bf and I will do one episode every night/every couple nights until we’re done the season :)
Load More Replies...Boomer here. TV shows used to have - wait for it - 39 episodes a season. And for the other 13 weeks of the year, there was usually a different summer replacement show, not reruns.
Watch a lot of British shows. Have huge problem with a 10 hour movie broken up into six episodes.
I wish for TV shows, especially ones with promise, to be booked for more than one season at a time. Sure, if it bombs, that's understandable, but so many amazing shows get released on streaming services and then just disappear after one or two seasons (I'm still salty about Mindhunter).
this 100%, streaming tv shows are at most 10 episodes, and if it comes out every 2 years, you are lucky, some take way more than that.
I don't like the 21-24 episode commitment. The filler fluff episodes don't do it for me. I agree the release them whenever format is annoying, but that is because of scheduling people who do TV shows and Movies on the regular. We would have to go back to the separate TV and Movie actors to get that. I miss the appointment television. Releasing an entire series at once is not fun for me.
There is only so much you can bill for a season, so short seasons generate more profit. Why sell a season with 30 episodes for 30$ if you can do three with 10 episodes for 20$ each?
One season with 30 episodes at $30 each: 1 x 30 x 30 = 900. Three seasons with 10 episodes each at $20 per: 3 x 10 x 20 = 600. How is $600 more profitable than $900 for producing the same total number of episodes (30) ?
Load More Replies...I have no clue how it works these days. I quit watching TV two decades ago. I mostly watch YouTube these days.
I hate screens in cars. Give us radios with knobs and buttons. Give us real dash gauges. Give us climate control knobs. Texting and driving is illegal, but you have to mess with an iPad to turn on the damn AC.
How can you keep your eyes on the road in front of you with big screens in the middle? How is that safe?
It’s not! More and more studies are coming out these days that show these screens aren’t safe at all. So glad my car’s screen only shows what music is playing & the backup camera - every other control is a physical k**b. Some manufacturers bury basic functions like climate control 3 menus deep in an unintuitive touch screen interface and it’s maddening. I work in the auto retail industry and the problem seems to be getting worse before it gets better.
Load More Replies...Don't you dare touch your phone while you're driving, but here's a television on your dashboard. To change anything, please pull over and enrol in, and complete, a software engineering degree. Once you've completed that, you'll be able to locate the required setting to adjust the volume on the entertainment system
I dislike touch screens in cars. In my 2000 Volvo XC70 I can operate ALL of the controls by feel. I can deal with the radio, adjust the A/C, anything I want ALL BY FEEL and muscle memory. To operate a touch screen, you have to take your eyes off the road to find WHERE to touch.
If the rumor is true many manufacturers are starting to, on the more basic models at least , return to tactile controls. Our salesman bemoaned the fact our 2018 had only a driver info center vs a screen. We assured him that was a selling point.
Several auto manufacturers have gone on record recently responding to this complaint. I think at least some knobs, dials & buttons are coming back.
If the screens were reliably voice activated it wouldn’t be so bad. I wouldn’t mind telling my A/C to turn itself down a notch, or whatever. That’s a decent trade off to memorizing the location and shape of k nobs and buttons on older cars, because both can be done while keeping your eyes on the road. However, having to take them off to not only turn the A/C down but also first have to switch to the correct screen then touch the exact right place in that screen to do it, is way more dangerous than talking on your cellphone while driving—-which is illegal. How TF did car manufacturers ever get this OK’d in the first place? Yeah I know. Money. Bribes made in the name of “lobbying”. Hypocrites.
When I'm backing up, the view on the screen from the rear camera is quite helpful. A map of where I currently am can be useful too. But otherwise, no thanks.
Mine has a message saying it's dangerous to read the screen while driving. Duh.
It's actually a perfectly good idea to have a simple backyard pitch-in wedding rather than going into debt on an overblown extravaganza
"I spent $50,000 on my wedding and all I have to show for it is this lousy spouse."
Load More Replies...I read somewhere (I wish I could remember where, as it was a good source) that the more expensive the wedding, the shorter the marriage. Apparently, it's to do with expectations.
Second marriage in 2001-24 total people, service and nice dinner at a historic restaurant, local judge to officiate (dinner for him and his wife also), flowers, open bar, cousin had digital camera to take snaps. Total under $1200.00 and everyone had a good time. Can't see how some extravaganza would have been better. Save your bucks, kids - they come in mighty handy later!
Me, my wife, the preacher, his wife and one other witness, Chinese for five afterwards. Under $50 and 42 years later we're still married.
Load More Replies...The best wedding I ever attended was a surprise. They invited everyone to a backyard BBQ/housewarming and when we all got there they said "By the way, we're getting married right now." And then they did. It was awesome.
My daughter's second wedding is this coming Friday. They're getting married at a local park. Very low key and low cost.
Or getting married at the courthouse with a couple friends as witnesses. The MARRIAGE is what’s important, not the wedding dress, reception, rings, or honeymoon. Hell, if all the stress of planning a wedding is driving you crazy, then just say f**k that noice, and elope. You’re still married, and can have a party later on to celebrate if you want. Instead of wasting all that money on one day, either save it as a nest egg or use it for the down payment on your first house instead. Much MUCH better investments too.
We eloped and then had a party in my sister's backyard. It was a blast.
I think boomers pioneered the crazy expensive wedding industry. This would be agreeing with the silent generation which in this case I do.
Everyone expected you to have a big wedding, if you could, back then. In the 40s/50s, it wasn't expensive (in today's dollars).
Load More Replies...£2k in 1999 including an indie band, 50 people, perfect and memorable.
It's how my parents got married. Been together for 60+ years.
Everyone is responsible for their own well-being; it’s no one else’s job to shield you from potential triggers (also, hate the word “trigger”)
I agree to a point. My friend’s mom just died, and when a coworker was gushing about a secret Mother’s Day trip she’s planning for her mum, my friend needed some fresh air. I won’t be telling her about my Mother’s Day plans this year because it’s just not a reminder she needs right now. That kind of respect can go a long way. But for the most part, a lot of things we censor in society under the guise of protecting someone from being “triggered” are a little too much. Just be kind and have empathy for those who need a little extra kindness sometimes, there’s nothing wrong with that
Load More Replies...This is polarizing to me. I can agree to the sentiment but the tone makes me angry. It's like they're saying "I shouldn't have to deal with your mental health issues, so stop being triggered and suck it up, so I don't become triggered. I don't like the word trigger because I wasn't allowed to address my trauma growing, so no one else should be allowed." That's how this is coming across.
Good point, although I suppose what OP meant is that we shouldn't have to walk on eggshells all the time. When I meet someone, I can't possibly know what sort of trauma they may or may not have had in the past, and I definitely can't start asking questions to "profile" them.
Load More Replies...Eh. I think having trigger warnings for films and TV is a good thing. I agree that your triggers aren't even else's responsibilities though. I think it's okay to mention them and people can politely be considerate of them. But, no, the world does not revolve around you.
For films and TV I agree with you, I really do not want to see animal abuse or r@pe or t*****e depicted (I get nightmares really easily) and it would be nice to know which shows to avoid before I get to those scenes
Load More Replies...I mean, maybe you shouldn't brag about, say, your pregnancy in a company of someone who has recently suffered a miscarriage (and you know that for a fact), but using words like "m u rder" or "ra pe" in public shouldn't be punishable in any way
And they aren't, so there's no need for OP to whine about it. Though you know what? I'm careful with talking about r**e in public because I'm aware that if there's 3 or 4 women around,likely one of them has been r***d. And usually there's no need for me to talk about these things in public, so I just shut up. And oh, look - it didn't k**l me.
Load More Replies...To a certain degree this goes back to manners, sometimes it's really easy to be considerate of others' feelings. I think sometimes people get mad about the idea of trigger warnings because it implies that by not being respectful of the trauma of other people that they have been rude their entire life. They aren't mad because you don't want to talk about certain topics, they're mad that because this is a new page in the book of manners that they weren't the polite proper person they claim to be. But yeah, also, "I wasn't allowed to be upset about this so you shouldn't be either." Is very much also an element of it.
Nope. If you're triggered by an abūsive boss, for example, it's not your responsibility to deal with his abuse. The company needs to deal with him. Not that I speak from personal experience...
I don't think the actual abuse is ever referred to as triggering - it's the small things that people say remind them of a past abuse or upset that they claim are triggering. But I agree with OP - getting triggered is a you problem, not an everyone else problem.
Load More Replies...OP objects to the concept of triggers, yet obviously thinks it's ok for them to be triggered when that word is used.
Yeah, must be hard to show some compassion to people with severe trauma. I get the feeling, OP needs to suffer themselves, then they'll sing a different tune. What's the r**e rate in your countries? 25%, just for women? Add the male victims. So, do you really need to talk about r**e in your bar? Sometimes yes. Most of the time no. So why not shut up on behalf of the victims around you and talk about something else? Ohhhh, but that's too much to ask, is it? And for the record: I don't mean to deny r**e. Just be aware that whatever s**t you talk about, someone around might have experienced it. It's not hard.
Or how about not eavesdropping on conversations you're not a part of? That's the issue. I'll always be sensitive to people I'm talking to and respect their boundaries even if they differ greatly from my own. And I know how to use my indoor voice in public places so I'm not imposing my words on strangers. But I'm not going to censor myself just in case someone I'm not even talking to decides that my conversation is their business.
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Kids should still be taught cursive and grammar.
I stopped writing in cursive as soon as possible. I am left-handed and my handwriting was partly illegible because of the cursive. Now it is neat and I can write quickly. I would personally emphasize handwriting in general because it is important to create a personal signature. More and more disputes arise where it is not possible to prove whether a signature is fake or genuine. According to research, handwritten things are remembered better, which helps in learning new things and processing information.
We should allow left-handed people to write from right to left. :D
Load More Replies...As a European i was utterly astounded to discover recently that Americans are not taught to write property. It's the basic sign of an educated person. Children with a problem, like being left-handed, can be helped with good teaching.
I skipped third grade which is when kids (in the US) are taught cursive. I did learn it but was rushed and I never got comfortable with it so always wrote in print. It irks me to this day that I can't even muster up a consistent signature that looks like it was written by a literate adult.
Load More Replies...I find it shocking that there are some children who leave school who can barely read and write, never mind have decent handwriting or know how to construct a sentence
Sadly, these kids are graduating. My senior year English class, we were being taught to write basic five sentence paragraphs, and most kids were struggling. I was appalled and felt bad for my fellow classmates, it was a school of mostly minorities and it was the county with the lowest school funding in my state. I was not raised in that county/in that school, I was raised in a well funded school, but sometimes even then, there were high schoolers whose sentences and grammar I struggled to read.
Load More Replies...I wonder how many online “signatures” have been faked. Part of the reason for learning cursive writing is to develop a distinctive signature that’s hard to forge. Not to mention that cursive handwriting, when done well, can be downright beautiful. Yeah I know, most people’s (mine included) cursive writing is an illegible scrawl that they even have difficulty reading sometimes. But I bet it’s damned near impossible to forge their signatures.
OMG you don’t need cursive to create a signature. Draw/ write something and keep that something the same on all your documents. Ta-da! You have a signature. If someone tried to write my name is cursive I could PROVE that’s it’s a forgery. My signature is unique and NOT my name in cursive.
Load More Replies...Good luck with the former. Grammar, however, I insist on in my classroom.
Kids are always going to hate the writing they're forced to use. Previously, a holdover from the apartheid regime was that kids had to write in their books in cursive. Teachers would be reprimanded if the kids wrote in print, so we had to fight with them constantly, as they'd "forget" to use cursive and write in print. Now that we let them write in print, some of them actually WANT to use cursive! A person can't win.
Cursive would be good for them to learn. Teachers could treat it as a funny 'before there were computers' lesson. It's not necessary for today's kids and future kids. They won't even remember the word 'cursive' in another 20 years. However, grammar will continue to be necessary and should continue to be taught.
Why are robots taking over phone customer service???? No I don’t wanna listen to my 8 different options let me talk to a real person😭😭
It's worse than that, companies are actively hiding their contact numbers so you cannot ring them. Recently I had to call Virgin Media about the final bill they sent me as was leaving them. The published number (once I found it) is fully automated and just gives you some blurb and tells you to go to the website. I had to use Google to find a different number where I did actually speak to someone once I was done screaming at the automated voice prompt as it didn't include an option to speak to a person. Saying that the person I did speak to was super helpful and explained everything clearly
Can it be called customer service if you hang up out of frustration? I can only push 0 so many times.
I tried calling Lowes home improvement store the other day. The AI phone connected me to not a single person after four calls. It does not recognize the word "manager" or "customer service". I can only assume an idiot programed it.
Load More Replies..."OPERATOR! MANAGER! OPERATOR! MANAGER!" If I'm making a phone call these days it's something too important to be handled by a stupid machine.
I needed to locate a package. Both of the carriers I called got me stuck in voice prompt Hell, on a bus.
There's so much you can let your customer do online. You don't need a person - let alone a phone bot - for them to add their new address. Do that, have proper systems to manage these changes (which is possible - that's literally my job) - and have people on the phone for things too complicated, or where customers need advice. The only thing I'll vouch for is asking to put in their customer number first - it might help the agent to see who they are talking to, and too many call and say "oh, I don't have my number, just look for my name, it's Jane Doe. What, no , I won't give you my post code, that's sensitive data!!!!" :p
Then have a secondary ID, like cross-referencing them by their phone number or something not sensitive (never ask for a social security or credit card number, for instance). A lot of the time, a company will already know who I am by their Caller ID, and just ask a question like my house number to verify it’s me, which relieves me of having to have my account number.
Load More Replies...What I hate is going through all the automated stuff, THEN hearing "before I transfer you, let me see if I can help" NO! CUSTOMER SERVICE!!! I want a person to talk to!
I recently changed my cell phone carrier. After spending about 2 hours trying to speak to someone about a minor issue I gave up and promptly went back to my old carrier where I never waited more than 5 minutes to speak to a live person.
I absolutely disike when eating out the music is so loud that you can’t hear each other.
I eat out to catch up with old friends. If your music is that loud, at most you've been downgraded to a take out restaurant, which is a rarity for me.
And TVs every—fvcking—where. Restaurants, waiting rooms….can’t people tolerate quiet anymore?
When I last bartended, I had a bar manager who would refuse to let me turn the music down. It wasn’t even a party bar, just a chill local watering hole for the loggers and fishermen. I couldn’t hear anyone’s drink order and they couldn’t hear each other talk. Constantly asking me to turn the music down and if I tried, my manager would suddenly appear behind me shaking his head. He was a terribly unintelligent man honestly, lost us a lot of business over his power trips.
Exactly if I go out it is to hang out with others and talk with them.
My brain got so stuck on the phrase “eating out the music” like the gutter-dwelling sleaze bag it is 😂 giving my own head a shake
I only want to make one click to get to the link. Don’t give me a link then make me play a game or give you my email address just so I can browse your website. I will leave and not come back.
Amen. I lived over 65 years without whatever you're peddling, I can live a few more without it. I don't need your emails.
If I need to provide my e-mail address..I don't want it.
Load More Replies...get a throwaway account on gmail. give it out whenever you are forced to, but don't want to use your real email. You can then safely ignore anything that arrives to the throwaway. You can do the same thing with a free Google Voice telephone number. Give it out anytime you are forced to but don't want to you real number buried in sales/spam calls
Wish i had thought of this about 20 years ago!
Load More Replies...If they want me to create an account before I can see their website, I bail.
Never click on a random link for starters. If it is something you might be interested in, look for the official website, if there is one, and only https// never http// and even that is never 100% safe. Look for reviews as well. This from a boomer who had never heard of websites 30 years ago!
I can't do those Captcha things. The images are so small I can't tell if the red blob is a car. I do wear glasses and still can't tell 😂
just use an adblocker, or a browser like brave that has them integrated
At this point I think we need to have a purge for advertising agencies. They literally provide zero benefit to society.
Tipping culture has gotten out of hand im not tipping at a 100% digital restaurant pay your employees better
So happy to live in a country where we don't tip. But when we do, food& service were exceptional, and the tip will show that :-)
Load More Replies...It isn't "TIPPING CULTURE" that's the issue. Workers in traditionally non-tipped industries are asking for tips because the MINIMUM WAGE is NOT LIVABLE! Raise the minimum wage for ALL WORKERS!
Best comment. Corporations are ripping us ALL off…..and we just roll over and accept it.
Load More Replies...I think Covid opened the door to "tip abuse." There was a point to extra tipping at the time, but not anymore.
Why does everyone care so much? Just click the no tip option and go on with your life.
Tip them in cash. It's their service you're tipping, not the food, not the chef's, or the dishwashers.
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my hatred of apps. i should not need a different app for all of my appliances and ordering pizza or whatever
Car, fridge, washer dryer, anything really... we've purchased recently are as unplugged as they can be.
In the past ten years, I have bought a fridge and a washer. Both are bare basics. The fridge doesn't even have an ice maker.
Load More Replies...There is an app for an app that opens another app. It is ridiculous.
I don’t have the Google app, but if I’m googling something on my phone, sometimes I accidentally hit Google’s microphone button next to the search bar. Which opens a new page that redirects to the App Store. If I close the App Store and reopen my browser, it opens that page again and redirects me to the App Store. Close App Store, open browser, redirect to App Store, close App Store, open browser….i get stuck in a death loop and I HATE IT lmao, I don’t need the stupid Google app!
Load More Replies...I've become very selective about the apps I allow. Nope, I don't need a notification that I usually get coffee at 10AM. And I don't need anymore tracking on me thank you very much.
100,000 upvotes! My refrigerator has ONE job. And I’m not so stupid or so lazy that I need it to tell me I’m low on milk.
well we have one app you can order at restaurants, groceries and xxx toys.. quite clever strategy for singles at weekend I guess 🤪🤪
Back in my day, fast food was cheap.
In just three years a full fast food meal went from averaging $5 to $12! But in just six weeks my mutual fund investments lost 50% Thanks Donald!
There are three qualities to everything: fast, cheap, and good. You can only have two.
It’s still cheap—-for the fast food companies. They just gouge the general public for as much as they can. They’re not the only industry that does that, of course.
It was a HUGE treat getting fast food when I was a kid. When we went to visit cousins (about 300 miles away), we'd stop at McDonald's. Burgers were 5 for $1.00. There were 5 of us.
I don’t want to download a goddamn app so that I can patronize your business. I give you money and you provide goods and services. We’re not friends. And quit calling everything an experience.
My local supermarket has enacted this nonsense. It was perfectly good then they decided to change it so you need the app for everything. BS, I'll shop the next town over, no app and the prices are better. And, I don't have to take a CS course to get to the weekly ad.
I had a loyalty card for a certain chain. Worked really well and the program was top notch. Then they brought in an app and tried to force everyone to get that instead. Pretty soon the deals weren't honoured with the loyalty card, only with the app. So after having been a loyal customer for about 40+ yrs, I simply stopped going there. Cashed out all my points on my card and threw it away. Have not set foot in that store or its related stores since.
Load More Replies...I downloaded the Starbucks app just because you're not asked to tip on the app, but you are when you pay by credit card.
1. I want buttons and knobs to control essentials of my car (radio, A/C, ect.)
2. I don’t need a subscription or even an account to use every functionality that I bought a device for.
3. Older cars are easier to work on
Window cranks. They were so much better than buttons and electric windows.
I love my 26 year old car, I can reach out and adjust mirrors, a/c, whatever without taking my eyes off the road.
Too few people understand why I am so happy with my 2007 Honda. It's so simple: it does everything I need it to and nothing I don't. Also, the majority of maintenance can be done relatively easily, at home, with limited tools.
I lucked out and found a 2013 Toyota Venza with only 125K miles on it. I has none of that new lane assist, adaptive cruise control, automatic braking stuff that will cost a fortune to repair.
I work for a few dealerships. Here’s some of the stupidest repair bills I’ve seen lately: 1) Heads-Up Display won’t stop flickering and it’s annoying. 2) Rear Camera Mirror stopped working (it’s a camera screen in place of a rear view mirror, so when the camera breaks, you don’t get a rear view mirror at all). 3.) Cruise control won’t work because the front sensor constantly thinks there’s a car stopped right in front of it and it won’t engage. 4.) Touchscreen is black and won’t turn on, and the climate control buttons are on the touchscreen. Heat was left on blast and owner can’t turn it down since screen won’t turn on, car is too uncomfortable to drive in this hot weather. 😂😂 like I’m so glad my older reliable car would never have issues like this.
Load More Replies...Yes, older cars are SOOOO much easier to work on, BUT I also like my remote start and heated seats on freezing mornings as it gets into the single digits in winter where I live.
People wearing earphones whilst hanging out with their friends. Like, how important is that music that you've got to listen it in place of listening to your friends
Hell, there's pubs I won't go because their music is too loud to have a conversation.
Yeah, I guess if they’ve got the earphones in just for the noise cancellation and they’re not listening to music or talking on the phone, then there’s a logical explanation for it.
Load More Replies...If I'm with friends, wanting to socialize, I'm not listening to anything. Sometimes I keep my earphones in to dull out sharp noises and low base that hurts my head, but I can hear people talk just fine. If I'm not out to socialize with friends, I'm not going to be hanging with them. What is rude, is trying to strike up a conversation with someone clearly listening to something and getting upset when they are not in the mood to talk to you.
Honestly, I'd rather leave the place and find a better bar, pub, etc to hang out. Why should you have to do anything to make the noise bearable for you? It's the owner's job to make you comfy.
Load More Replies...To be fair, I know people with autism and brain injuries and they usually have one earbud in because it helps keep them calm.
This is going to get worse not better and people will just need to put up with it - AirPods for example will now function as low level hearing aids. Hearing aids have Bluetooth so you never know what people are using what for. Stop being so judgemental and just read the room - if you’re talking to someone and they don’t pay attention it’s likely they’re an a**e whether they’re wearing earbuds or not.
I'm more concerned by people who where them while biking. I see that a lot and it's just asking to get hit by a car.
They told us that as soon as walkmen came up. And there's truth to that. If anything, it taught you to actually LOOK, not just trust your ears (and get run over by another cyclist). But today, will all the electric cars that you don't hear anyway, it's not much of a difference.
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Kids with tablets every single place they go and whenever they’re at home is so freaking wild and I hate it lmao, the boomers know what’s up with that.
And for the love of Ostara, sing to your child in the bus if you must, but don't entertain it with a phone or pad and some noise game. YOU don't hear it anymore, but WE do!
As long as the kid isn't kicking other people, running wild and climbing all over the seats, and pulling the stop cord.
Load More Replies...I’ve noticed less and less kids with their noses buried in screens over the past couple of years. Gives me hope
My kid (12) plays video games a lot with cousins and friends that live out of state cause that is the only time he has to "hang out" with them, but that is usually when it's to late to be outside. But during the day, it is a pain to get him to come inside sometimes lol.
Load More Replies...My only issue with boomers complaining about this is it's always with the assumption that they wouldn't have done the same thing if it was available for them as parents.
Late Boomer here (1960). The issue our grandparents bitched to our parents about was the amount of TV we watched. Same issue, we just swapped TVs for iPads.
Load More Replies...I don't see it any different than bringing books along, or a Gameboy when, us, Millennials were kids.. It's just another tool for kids to learn.
Thank you! We let our kid play video games a lot (he does spend most of his time outside during day light hours) but he wants to be a video game programmer.
Load More Replies...Boomer parents used to kick the kids out after breakfast, and tell them to come back at dinnertime. I loved it, we never got into trouble, and we were healthier physically. Now, the kids are wrapped in bubble wrap with trackers on them, and have to set up play dates with supervision instead of just taking off on their bicycles.
I think you may have your timeline a bit off. Baby boomers were the ones who would disappear from breakfast til when the streetlights came on and our parents were "the greatest generation" not the boomers. As a boomer parent, my kids were much more monitored, but nowhere NEAR as monitored as they are today.
Load More Replies...At the same time, the kids who have them are getting better grades in school. Look up the "I-pad divide".
Studies have also shown that ipad kids have less developed social skills.
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I paid for a computer with a hard drive onto which I would like to save my files. Do not upload them to the cloud, save them locally on the hard drive for which I paid money. Especially if cloud storage will eventually cost me money, which I have already paid for a hard drive onto which to save my files. If I would like to back up said files to cloud storage, I will do so manually, do not make this the default option on the computer with a functioning hard drive for which I paid money.
For a separate backup of your hard drive you can quite cheaply buy a small external hard drive to plug into your computer/ laptop. All very easy to do.
I have an external hard dive connected to my primary hard drive, without it I would have lost everything when my last computer crashed.
Load More Replies...The energy & environmental cost of the cloud is astronomical - the only reason you're getting that for free is they want your data.
I hate the cloud. It's very limited space and I keep getting notifications my storage is too full.
One of my nephews (a computer geek, now IT specialist for his local school district) set up a cloud account for me years ago. I never used it and I never will. My work and life are such that I have no need for it.
Very few people actually do need it. For the small number of things I really want to make sure I never lose, I just email them to myself. Poof! Free cloud storage.
Load More Replies...This same person will blame the computer when they lose all their data
Errr, yes? So why don't you just set up your device to work the way you want it? Rocket science it is not. All else apart all of those cloud storage options will only work if you've explicitly logged into them, so the first time they ask you for an ID and password gives you a perfect opportunity to change the default to your hard disk where you ant it to be. (Or maybe not, I could imagine Apple using the same credentials for your local login and everything else mentioned, but then you've already tacitly accepted this choice when you made the purchase).
You should be able to raise a middle class family on the salary of one mediocre white man.
LOL We all wish! The middle class is being crushed into non existence.
Yet a third of the country that bothered to even vote re-elected a scammer who will make sure the middle class is destroyed completely. He has a good start in just six weeks of economy destruction.
Load More Replies...Are they suggesting that a mediocre black, brown or yellow man doesn't deserve, or need, the same right? I just wonder why they felt the need to specify "white".
Just a thought - back in the day when minimum wage was first established and meant to be the minimum amount for one man to raise a family on by himself, white men were being paid a lot more on average than non-white men. Not sure if that’s what OP meant but maybe? 🤷♀️
Load More Replies...Different times.. but on my hourly pay, and TONS of OT, We managed to raise 2 girls on my factory pay. Wife worked when called (school temp), but rarely a weeks pay for her in a month.
Why are commercials so LOUD, but the TV show so quiet??? I can’t be changing volume every 5 mins!
They are loud because they know you went to the toilet during the commercial and they want you to still hear the ad.
Load More Replies...Not to mention the TV show being filmed so dark it looks like your TV picture is off.
Yes! What is that? I was starting the new season of Handmaid's Tale and can't watch it during the daytime for that exact reason. Half the episode I couldn't see a darn thing.
Load More Replies...It's banned in the US since 2012. ( https://www.fcc.gov/media/policy/loud-commercials ) But nobody reports them so they've been slowly going back to having them.
Load More Replies...You might want to look at Ronald Reagan's legacy on broadcasting rules.
When they started making the commercials louder than the show, they told us there was no difference between the two. They had studies to prove it. We all know you can manipulate anything/study to prove your point. We didn't buy it then, and I don't buy it now. I also don't have a TV anymore.
I want to show up in person dressed for an interview and get the job on the spot. Not on the internet survey.
Being offered a job on the spot was never really a common thing outside of casual labour.
And it's often a big red flag about turnover there.
Load More Replies...I want paper applications back. I want to be able to walk into a business and hand my resume to an actual person.
I hate the reliance on algorithms instead of human judgment. If you’re worried about thousands of applications for one job, then don’t advertise the job on a national website. Put it on a popular local job board instead. Hell, put it in the Help Wanted ads in your local paper (or its website—-sad that newspapers are a rarity these days. I remember getting out a pen, curling jobs I was interested in and qualified for, then calling their number to set up an interview—-no waiting for a reply, because I had a human being on the phone to schedule it).
At least an in-person interview, they have to interview all prospects before being given a job on the spot. I am old and in-person interviews were the only thing used.
Having conversations while eating at the table or while you're out with others instead of being in your own world on your phone
Yep, this one drives me bonkers. What's the point of being with friends if you don't actually talk to them. Definitely smartphone a d d i c t i on.
Really agitates me when friends I'm meeting for dinner start texting in the middle of either their or my sentence. Like, we already don't see each other enough. You can't put everything else on hold for one single hour???
I saw a picture on Bored Panda several weeks ago. It showed a group of people, probably 8-10 of them, sitting around a table in a restaurant. Every single one of them was on their phone. I suggested that they put the phones in the middle of the table, and the first to grab their phone had to buy the whole table's dinner.
Me and my daughter find ourselves doing this when we run out of things to talk about, but them we show each other something and it turns into a conversation. To each their own.
Hahaha 3 friends plus myself went out for brunch a couple weeks ago. We all left our phones in our cars on purpose, so we could enjoy each other’s company. Then the food came and it was beautiful 😍 turned out one gal had her phone in her purse so we took turns passing it around and taking shots of our food. Idk why humans love doing that so much 😂
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I’m glad I kept most of my CDs now, and quite a few DVDs.
There's a company in Southern Ontario that I frequent: Deja Vu. They accept/trade/sell CDs, DVDs, and vinyl records. Prices excellent, and their site has a search feature. If you need a certain artist or movie, someone might just have second-handed it there. (Not an advert. I'm just a fan.)
My parents have probably 100+ old Disney VHS tapes from my childhood. I’m trying to convince them to let me take them lol.
Load More Replies...Got rid of a bunch of CDs way back in the 2000s, when I got an mp3 player. Now I'm having to rebuild my music collection. Thank goodness for thrift stores.
Same. I will always be pro-physical copy. Books, movies, games, music, anything.
We don't have a lot of physical space, so I just buy our favorites on physical media. Everything else is nbd if it gets dropped by pur streaming services.
My partner went hunting for a game this morning. So far they've gone through four full CD spindles, with three to go. Still not found it, knows they have it, will be glad when it's found because the game is no longer available.
(they found it btw, on spindle #5, and is happy as a clam to still be able to play it)
Load More Replies...My grandson has all of my DVDs and CDs. He wanted them, so I had to buy him a DVD/CD player. It was a good thing I still had my tape rewinder. Did you know you can buy that stuff on Amazon?
People having loud conversations on their phone everywhere they go. I don’t want to hear about your boyfriend drama or grisly medical procedures at Aldi.
It's even worse when they facetime whilst walking around so you hear the whole conversation
But how is this different when people are having a face to face conversation?
People being loud, in general. Most people talk too much, and they talk too loudly.
I hear people having very private conversations on the bus. I don't want to hear about your relationship problems.
I've discovered conversing with them ( because if they're doing that, obviously this must be a public conversation, right?) usually works.
Get the 24" monitor out of my dashboard
What I don't like about Tesla is that there is no speedo directly infront of you - you have to look at the screen in the middle (shades of a Mini, which I wouldn't buy either). A HUD would go part of the way to solve the issue.
The reason it was done on the original mini was cost savings. Put the instruments in the middle and you don't need different dashboards for left and right hand drive
Load More Replies...Tesla cybertruck in a nutshell: "This is glue, strong stuff" Tell me if you get the reference
Someone needs to photoshop Elon's face on Elwood for this scene, and put him in front of a cyber truck... ...
Load More Replies...Is this real or AI? 24" seems excessive for anyone but a professional truck driver.
The picture is real, but the claimed measurement is not.
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Physical media. I much prefer actually owning a movie or series on Blu-ray/DVD than having to rely on streaming.
Ah. But then you won't have to pay to watch it again, and no company wants that.
The concept of streaming is nice because then you don't have to have physical copies to clutter your home. The reality of it sucks.
Depends on how you define "clutter". I want a home, not a sterile house.
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I had neighbors that would throw ridiculous house parties every few weekends… cars up and down the street, bass so loud my walls ACROSS THE STREET were vibrating, and drunk 20 year olds puking in the front yard(s) and bushes. I’m 35 and need to SLEEP, man 😭😂 One of the best parts of moving was leaving those neighbors.
When I was in college, the guys in the apartment next door had no music player of any kind. So they requested that I always play my music really loud. (The walls were kind of thin.) I complied. I even took requests.
That’s kind of awesome 😂 you were like DJ Neighbour
Load More Replies...Let me guess, college town, the neighborhood was close to campus, and it had way too many rental houses on every block. Other scenario is a resort town that doesn’t keep rentals separate areas from year round neighborhoods. That kind of mix NEVER turns out well. It just drives the year round residents away, then the neighborhood goes to s**t.
About to buy our first house and this is kind of a fear of mine, but still WAY better then living in an apartment.
My upstairs neighbours. They’re usually loud and obnoxious, but one time they were so loud, the walls were literally shaking.
Maybe, or maybe they had their cars parked for the night. I’m going to hope for the latter 🥲
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Model trains, ham radio, homebuilt crafts, knitting (some guys learned in the navy), gardening.
I will add gardening, people watching, and just strolls through the neighborhood with no destination in mind.
We call it “going for a mosey” :) I love just going for a mosey around the neighbourhood
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there’s absolutely a way to conduct yourself in a professional work setting, no matter how low level your job is. i see so many young kids treat their jobs like a place to scroll tiktok while occasionally acknowledging customers or other employees. take a f*cking shower, put on clean clothes, don’t smell like weed, make eye contact, say hello to people, be helpful.. take some god damn pride in yourself because you’re making your millennial manager lose their f*cking mind over your gen z sh*t.
You take money out of schools and make it harder to raise children because you need 3 jobs. But no matter how many barriers people put up, you are expected to grin and bear it.
Load More Replies...And you know what? I'm not gonna trash-talk employees who do absolute minimum or not even that, Gen-Z or not. They mostly don't get anything more than what's legally required. The company would pay them nothing if they could get away with it. The employers demand commitment and enthusiasm while providing NOTHING to warrant that. Everyone, stay lazy until you get a solid reason not to.
Unless you're the manager and in charge of employee morale, it's not our job to monitor and police our coworkers. Let them do them. I have team mates who constantly gossip and complain about who's doing what, or not doing something. At the end of the day, I have my own job to do. I know what I'm doing. That's what I will be doing. I don't get paid enough to stress about numbers and manager stuff. Not even supervisor stuff. I stay in my lane. I'm a musician in this orchestra. The managers are the conductors. If we all work together, doing what we're supposed to do, the harmony is smooth af. I go home with little stress and no work drama sludged on my brain.
Load More Replies...Honestly, as a millennnial, I remember hearing the exact same stuff about my generation when we were younger 😂 I’m sure you heard that about your generation too. A tale as old as time, “kids these days!!!”
Load More Replies...And here we are: "kids" who "don't look people in the eyes" are a problem. But if the managers behave like f*****g cavemen, that's not mentioned? Speaking as an almost-boomer: what I want back is managers who know about the job their department is doing. I want managers professional enough to step in when one employee harasses others. I want managers who take enough pride in their job not to tell employees that there's no money for more than a 2% annual salary rise while raking in millions. How about we sort those guys out and let the poor kid have a bit of weed (because the manager is drunk on expensive wine by lunch time and that's not mentioned either).
I just want the cups back for water and the free coffee, and the kleenex. We get no appreciation anymore.
Load More Replies...I hate making eye contact with people. It's threatening to me. I don't like how people look at me. The faces they make. How their eyes get wide and piercing. Everything else I agree with. One guy I work with smells horrible. Like he hasn't showered in a month or just takes clothes out of his dirty laundry hamper.
Job applications should’ve stayed in person, and getting a job from actually taking to people, instead of online applications
My resume will never get past the bots. I have more than 30 years in NYC hospitality and all I want is WFH CSR job for minimum wage. Any person with half a brain could see that I'm more than capable of ensuring that customers' issues are resolved in a timely and cost-effective way but I'll never get a job because bots can't extrapolate. It's incredibly deflating.
A hiring manager with experience, good judgment, and a knack for reading people can never be replaced by an algorithm. If you’re worried about having to weed through thousands of applications for one job, then it makes absolutely NO sense to advertise the job on a national website. Put it on a popular local (with a decent radius) job board instead, and you won’t get those thousands of applications to weed through. Also, do some networking within your office. Ask your present employees if they know anyone who would be a good fit for the job (not the office social club, but the job), and see if you can set up a time to talk to them. Not everyone company needs to advertise jobs on Indeed or LinkedIn, ffs.
Load More Replies...Online applications are so much easier. Instead of wasting time and money and resources printing out resumes and wandering around and taking a whole day to travel and only apply to like 8 places, I can quickly and easily apply to as many as I want. Plus, as someone who’s been a hiring manager, it’s easier to screen candidates this way too.
Majority of my jobs I have had I have gotten them by handing in my resume in person. I have gotten like 1 job from applying online. In person applying is so much better because they can meet you and get a better feel of who you are rather than some s**t on a piece of paper.
Load More Replies...On-line applications are just as good as the old paper ones. Both are just forms you fill out at home in advance and submit. Interviews should be in person - for the sake of both parties.
There doesn't need to be an app for literally everything.
Why is everything a subscription?
Why am I paying for Amazon and still getting ads?
Bring back physical media
I don't know if this is a boomer thing but I hate dark restaurants. Why are the lights off in this steak house?
To make it harder to tell if your steak was under/over cooked.
I haven't struck this lately. But when I did, I always wondered about the cleanliness, and wear of the fabrics, etc. of the restaurant.
I'm convinced it's to hide the "blemishes" and unkempt areas. Perhaps even a pest issue.
“It’s cause you’re always on that phone!”
Unless you’re doing business, there is no reason you can’t sit through a family diner without touching your phone. Like…DISCONNECT, please!!!
Unfortunately I sometimes need to be reachable by phone professionally, but I absolutely hate it. My - less then ideal - workaround is a smartwatch set to vibration, which allows me to inconspiciously screen my calls and ignore most of them, but I would really rather get rid of it.
No you do not. The world has been turning for billions of years without using smartphones. The world won't end if you're unreachable for a few hours. It's a choice, and you've chosen to be reachable, but don't tell me there's no other way.
Load More Replies...I remember being SO bored sitting at a restaurant, being the only kid. But back then, some of the adults spoke to you like a person. Then I would doodle on a paper pad my mom would bring.
I don't actually want to speak to anyone on the telephone but if I HAVE to, I want to speak to an agent, dammit, and not an automated message that takes a month to get through and has all the most important options at the end. Like, are they getting midroll ads? I wanna talk to a HUMAN.
MTD ( they make lawn mowers ) and Water Boss ( house water softener ) have humans answering phones. And will talk you through service.
Agreed. I have a Water Boss softener and called customer service, expecting the worst, but was surprised when I got a very nice lady who talked me through the problem and waited to make sure everything was working properly.
Load More Replies...I remember when I was transfering my phone service from Google to Mint and I was yelling OPERATOR over and over again. AI is bloody useless in even the most basic job.
This! So much this! If I have to make a phone call I'm already upset because I hate doing it. Making me deal with automated answers that NEVER answer my question just makes me more upset. This is not how you make customers happy.
I went through a robot menu this morning in order to be connected with a "Customer Satisfaction Specialist", who turned out to just be the appointments clerk, the person I wanted.
Please don’t make me start an account. I just want to buy the thing. Please let me just give you my money without starting a goddamned account.
I, in so much as I can, avoid buying from companies which don't have guest checkout. But it is getting more difficult.
Most of the time it's just so they can spam you. And their loyalty accounts? You have to spend so much before reaping any benefits.
I want to talk to real customer service people and not write with chat bots who only say what’s on the homepage anyway.
"speak to a real person" repeated four or five times will usually have the desired effect, although you'll still have had to go through three or four menus first, selecting the 'other' or equivalent option on each.
Representative, Representative, Representative
Load More Replies...I find that ( most of the time ) if I don't say a word I'll get transferred to a human. Example: Automated voice asks me to state my name, date of birth, my reason for calling etc etc ' to help to get me to the right dept' and I don't say a word. Then it says" I didn't quite catch that, please state your name blah blah blah"..I stay silent. Then the magic words " please continue to hold while I transfer you to the next available agent"
The concept of time blindness, and people thinking that being late is acceptable.
I don’t get it whatsoever.
And making sweeping statements about others without listening to those who say different is entitlement and arrogance, too. You might want to work on your own before complain about it in others.
Load More Replies...This one I kind of disagree with. I have ADHD and suffer with time blindness. I have no concept of what time it is if I have been focused on something. However I mitigate that with timers on my phone. I kept coming back late from my break at work and now I set a timer on my phone so I know I need to head back to my desk. Time blindness is a real issue for ND people however it's not an excuse, it can be worked around.
I think this is why I don't agree with the time blindness concept of OPs post. If you truly are time blind most people know they are and figure out workarounds like you did. Most, not all of course, people I've dealt with who are consistently late for everything just don't care about anyone else's time or feelings.
Load More Replies...I have time blindness but like in the opposite direction. I’m always super early for things.
me too! like if I get invited somewhere, I will wait for it to start.
Load More Replies...The term "Time blindness" is new-ish to me, but explains my life. I can explain what this is and how it can affect people. It's often symptom of Dyscalculia (Math dyslexia) and ADHD, but not necessarily only. The best way I can describe it is a chronic, (not just sometimes) daily issue where you could be doing something with the intent of it taking you, say for example, 5 minutes. So go do that thing, you do it quickly. Next thing you know, what felt like 5 minutes was actually an hour that went by. I don't know what it's like for those without this "time blindness" thing. I can only imagine it would like being able to precisely know what 5 minutes feels like, much like people can know how many objects are in a large group without counting (apparently this is supposed to be a skill kids should be able to do. I cannot.) This affects how someone judges how much time it takes them to get somewhere. The time it takes to get ready. A real "time blindness" disorder can turn into OCD, too.
However, I do not think this is an employers, or anyone's, problem to deal with. Like all mental/developmental disorders, it's an area I'm constantly having to exercise, like a weak muscle.
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Gotta turn the radio down in the car to see at night.
That's something been around for about a century. My Dad, in the 1950's, did this every time we went anywhere, and even when he taught me to drive, that was part of the lesson.
Why the F**K do I gotta log in to EVERYTHINGGGGG all the time. Especially with Apple Pay/samsung pay/paypal where I don’t need to save card info within a proprietary app! Leave me ALONE get out of my EMAIL
*checks remember me* Next time logon: Verify your computer, enter your password, scan your fingertip, we need to look at your retina, and go find your phone because we need to text you a confirmation code.
And there are places I can no longer deal with because they won't send a code via email and I have a landline phone so they can't text.
I'm with the boomers on this. I hate it when I actually reach an agent, or I'm at customer service, and an employee tells me to take out my phone and log into this and that. Then they get all irritated that I'm irritated I have to do these nonsensical steps when the employee is right there and can sort out the issue. It just gives the vibe no one wants to do actual work if there's an app for it.
Technology keeps wanting to verify who I am. I'm not that thrilled with who I am, so stop reminding me!
That is annoying. Put your password in and still have to retrieve your phone for a code.
Boomer here responsible for a website's authentication, and I mustneeds to gotta say that Two-Factor Authentication is a huge step up in ensuring you are who you say you are.
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Dresscode for Work and basic etiquette
So much pushback when the boss decided to provide us with T- shirts (custodians). They were so well designed I had a couple out of 5 left 4 years later when I retired. Why would you want to wear your own stuff in that situation? Bought the Dickies work pants, and I was good for 5 years.
Dress code never made me work better, it only made life more complicated and more expensive. Leave that for people who need protective work gear.
My business-casual dress code is being changed to a specific tshirt and jeans next month. We each get 5 of these tshirts and we don’t have to pay for them. It’s going to save me so much time and decisions in the morning honestly, I’m excited. No more spending money on a nice wardrobe for work either. It’ll save me time, money and brain power.
Load More Replies...I'm not sure it's a bad thing that I am no longer required to know how to use a shrimp fork, or when a double breasted jacket is appropriate and in which instances peaked lapels are tolerable on a tuxedo. As to dress code in the office, I am not important enough that I should not be able to wear a hoodie in winter and a T-shirt in summer.
I don't have a problem with dress codes, but they have to be appropriate for the times, we don't need to dress the same way people did twenty years ago
This. I love having a lax dress code at my job since we don't' deal with customers face to face, but sometimes things people wear feel very inappropriate for an office setting. But, it might just be me. I'm 41 so I'm certainly not "hip on fashion"!
Load More Replies...Nope. I rarely work with guests at my job, so there's no reason I need to wear anything other than what I'm most comfortable in. Leggings and untucked button-downs FTW.
What is the dress code good for, exactly? Goddammit, work already dictates sheer majority of aspects of your life. You should at least be able to wear whatever the hell you want.
I miss when people who worked in the public were like… nice… or knew about the place they worked at, or anything inside of it.
(I knoooooow there’s a lack of training and staffing. I know. But it wasn’t like this when I was younger and we weren’t allowed to ignore people walking by us)
The same can be said for customers. Some people treat public facing folks horribly.
Then tell their employers to pay a decent wage and ask their old knowledgeable employees, who they laid off in favor of a constant turnover of new minimum wage workers who don’t know their a*s from a hole in the wall, to come back and run the place the way it should be, and used to be, run before management got greedy.
Too many of these jobs are part time jobs. The person that doesn't know the entire stores layout may only work there one or two days a week and has 3 or 4 other part time jobs to work at.
We've all been new employees in training. I direct customers to someone who I know can help them if I can't. People don't want to waste time on an employee trying to "take a bash and guess" or figure it out without assistance. It's okay to admit you just don't have that info yet.
Load More Replies...We have a person who comes to the deli almost daily. No matter how nice or promt you are she always looks like you insulted her. Never says thank you either.
Most of today's music sucks.
There are plenty of objective reasons for this, such as autotune.
I want one generation to break the cycle of hating the all the tastes of a younger generation. The music isn't for you. It isn't bad, you just don't like it. Adults should learn, at some point, that just because something isn't your taste doesn't objectively make it bad.
Absolutely! It happens the exact same way with every single generation. Fashion, trends, slang, music, hobbies, new ways to make stupid mistakes, technology, etc... We can look back 100 years ago and hear the exact same complaints about almost entirely the exact same subjects. It's kind of funny because it's so ridiculous. And I say this as a middle age mom.
Load More Replies...I can always find something I do like in any era. The problem with mainstream music of today is everyone sounds the same, all the female vocalists have autotuned their voice to the same squeaky, creaky, high=pitched childlike voice, with the same annoying meow accents. The males all sound the same. I can't tell which song is by Bruno Mars, Harry Styles, Jonahs brothers, Shawn Mendes. Even the rappers are starting to sound the same. Music artists used to have very distinctive voices and music styles. You knew what a Madonna song was, or an Elton John song. It's not just the autotune, it's everyone sampling from 20th century music, and trying to be retro with a modern spin. It's been going on since the late 2000s, which is why the 21st century is a quarter in but each decade has been blending, and not defining. Sorta makes time feel stagnant.
Good and bad music in every era. I do think that today's pop/rock when compared to pop/rock from earlier eras have less of an emphasis on the individual musicians and their instruments. People knew who was in Led Zeppelin and what they played but not for most of today's hit makers. Oh, and freaking Autotune. D**n you Cher!
Please explain. Cher has been around long before autotune.
Load More Replies...Your loud-ass car is obnoxious. And if it's loud and isn't even fast, you're twice the dumbass.
A nauseating loud sub bass is offensive, but a sub bass on blown distorted speakers is just stupid.
When it's set so low it's just a vibration that makes your head feel like it's about to implode, that s**t should be so illegal subs shouldn't be allowed to make that type of noise. It's an a*****t weapon at that point. One doesn't have to be that old to experience it like that.
Load More Replies...Some cities are cracking down on loud cars in highly populated areas especially around restaurants with outdoor seating. You can get fined if your car is above a certain volume (decibel?)
Heard the street racers blocks away over the weekend. I love it when I hear the sirens right after.
I hate when people drive way over the speed limit everywhere they go or drive aggressively.
I love it when someone speeds to get ahead of me and ends up sitting at a red light.
Especially people who drive right on your back bumper when there's an empty lane right next to you. If you're in that much of a hurry, just GO AROUND, dang it! I firmly believe that a huge number of accidents could be prevented if people were smart enough to realize they're saving 2 or 3 seconds, at most, by following so close.
People need to understand you use more gas going fast than going slow.
Stay out of flori-dah. Out of the four states I have lived in and the 20 or so states I have driven through, flori-dah is by far the scariest, most stressful to drive in. Hell, I drove through Manhattan, and it was a piece of cake I lived in Cali with its traffic, and flor-dah still takes the prize for worst drivers.
Yep. Don't complain about a speeding ticket you've got, until they actually tricked you (and then talk to a lawyer, not me). You speed, you pay the price. Literally. It's not necessary at all. Oh, so the person in the car behind you gets angry at you? Oh no, a stranger doesn't get what they want, the horror!
Shows/concerts start too late and have too many bands on the bill. Like sorry, I’m not gonna stay until 1am to see your band play. Doors at 7:30, opener 8-8:40, Headliner 9-10. Done. If it’s during the work week, shift that back another hour.
I'm not yawning because I hate your band. I'm yawning because I work the early opening shift and am up past my bedtime to see you.
I strongly dislike having to read cell phones and computer screens in TV shows and movies.
And what is going on with so many movies being so dark that you can barely tell what is going on in the scene?
Ha, was discussing the exact same thing recently. Many shows seem obsessed with having the most important scenes take place on a moonless night, preferably in a thick forest or even a cave!
Load More Replies...Oh thank god! I stopped watching a movie today because i was tired of having to get up to read the text on phone.
It's like they assume everyone has a 63" TV 2' away these days...
Load More Replies...Tipping for retail purchases. (Note: I am former service industry and tip service industry people really well).
Once again, workers are doing this because the minimum wage is no longer livable. The Federal MW, and the MW in many states is $7.25/hr. That's $290/wk for full-time work. They're not asking for tips because of some new "tipping culture" where everyone thinks they deserve "extra" for doing their jobs; they just think they deserve to eat.
I have to disagree here. It depends on region. MW in my state is $15/hr, and many retail/food places start at $19/hr. Yes, cost of living means that's not an awesome living. BUT, so many people who are trying to purchase something are not actually making more than that. Average income in my state is $21/hr. It feels entitled to be working ask someone who makes $6 more an hour to tip you $6-$10 for 5-20 minutes of work.
Load More Replies...Ok I have to ask, I take my dog to a doggy daycare about twice a week. I pay the daily wage, but here is a tip box in their waiting area. Should I be tipping them? Like, don't get me wrong they're great and my dog loves going there, but I pay the daily wage they set do I need to tip also?
I work at a doggy daycare, and we do not expect them. They're a great perk and a nice surprise, but if I'm just doing my job, I already get paid for that. However, if your dog is having a rough day and you see I spent 30 minutes or more 1:1 with your dog, more or less just above and beyond the job, then throw a few bucks in if you have it. But, again, they are NOT expected. We all know we're struggling.
Load More Replies...We stopped eating out about 25 years ago, but I still tip everyone else. I tip $20 to the plumber, the electrician, the pizza delivery, etc... I just automatically tip $20 unless, of course, the service was s****y, then no tip. Hell, I tip our dog groomer, and she owns the business.
Turn all the music down...in restaurants, in supermarkets, in church, everywhere. Music is supposed to be enjoyed, not endured.
I've noticed a lot of this disappeared during Covid and has stayed gone due to the need to lower overhead costs. (Public music usually needs to be paid for to cover licensing, etc.)
That kids shouldn’t have their own smart phones or have social media profiles. (I don’t necessarily have an issue with older kids having call/text phones, just not smart phones). I’m such an old fogey about this and I don’t care.
"I'm such a (X) about it but I don't care" isn't always a good thing. Make sure your claim is factually correct before you play the martyr card.
That's their opinion. I agree that children are having phones at far too young an age.
Load More Replies... - people buried in their phones when we’re supposed to be hanging out
- I don’t want to download your stupid app
- stop texting me 8 times a day for donations, politicians
- I don’t want to pay a subscription fee for every little thing
- groceries are far too expensive
Just like spam emails, spam calls annoy me to no end (so does Spellcheck, for that matter, which wrote “annoy” as “a phony” for some reason). I even have spam blockers on my phones, and they still get through.
I saw 'buried in their phones' and I thought why would you want a phone when you're dead?
You won't, but the they can't manage to pry it out of some people's hands in death any more than they could in life.
Load More Replies...I don't want to receive so many videos and memes from people. Msg me when you want to actually talk to me.
My phone tracking me with everything I do. Checked out the place where the iPhone keeps track of this and immediately deleted a bunch of apps that were contributing to profiles on me even though some even said in TOS they didn’t do that. They have the right to change TOS at any time. Stop with all forms of surveillance cultures!
I find it really interesting that western governments bag China for collecting personal information. However, I'm pretty sure that private US companies, particularly Google and Apple, are far more interested in me, than the Chinese government would ever be.
Yeah, I'm in the US and never understood the "China is spying on us with Tiktok" or whatever they keep going on about. Doesn't every app do that? I mean, too many times to count I've *thought* about something, not even said it out loud, and my phone gives me an ad about it. I swear, the AI is that good and has been for a while, they can listen to you talk and anticipate what you'll think next.
Load More Replies...I have mixed feelings about this. They aren't interested in you per say, they are interested in information about you to better sell you products. They don't care if you are getting married, they just want to sell you stuff to "help" you get married. The problem is what is stopping the US government from getting it and persecuting people over it. Trump is thought policing people at the moment especially with respect to Gaza.
If I need to get a problem solved, I call. I don’t text.
Depending on the situation I text for record keeping purposes. Having a paper trail via text message is sometimes all you have.
This only works if they answer every question asked. I have on multiple occasions have them answer the first question then ignore the rest. Email for more answers to the other questions get only the first answered. Let me call and get them all answered at one time.
Load More Replies...Having to text requires my 2 hands and focus on trying to spells words on tiny keys on a touchy touch screen. I spend more time trying to fix errors and make sure my tone matches the context. Just let me call and speak to ya.
If there's a lot of information and options involved, I'll make it easy for you to read and email it.
Kids that run up and down the hallway in the building. The people below (me) don’t want to hear that all day!
The last place I lived in was so bad. Then the mom got him an electric kiddie car with a loud WRRRRRRRRRRRR
Researching vs going on google. The library is a great place to read, cross reference and think before forming an opinion instead of doing an internet search, reading the first few lines of a random article and being self righteous about something that requires time to think about.
You can cross-reference on Google, but you do have to be careful of the sources,
Google Scholar, or any of a number of research sites, only most of them require membership, or student status.
Load More Replies...One big advantage of online sources is that they are current, even updated every few minutes. A newspaper is “old news” even before the ink is dry, and magazines are worse. Just be sure to use reputable sources.
Public libraries are *not* good places to read and cross reference. This is simply because they do not have the range of publications needed. University libraries are a far better source of a range of publication, and current/up-to-date information. It's even simpler to use search engines, and learn how to differentiate the quality of sources. Reading the first few lines of a random article be it online, in a public library, or university library is most definitely not 'research'.
I find the books in the library can be outdated, depending on what you're researching. Anything to do with space, I want it as recent as today, if possible.
That may be true, but it's also heavily moderated. If you're uncertain/its for an important paper, Wikipedia also has their sources listed, so you can go from there. It's a good starting place or overview for a topic!
Load More Replies...People have been uninformed and self-righteous about it before Google. Nobody went to the library to cross-reference whether gay people deserve to be ridiculed. And there's a s**t ton of books you better don't use for 'cross referencing'. Rather the opposite: we're no longer dependent on having university-level libraries nearby. Even from a tiny village you have an enormous amount of information available. What you do with it, is your thing.
Kids today need to write thank you notes for graduation and wedding gift.
I actually would like to see the end of cards. I don't know what to do with them once I've read them. I feel so guilty throwing them away, especially with what they cost, but also I feel like I'm discarding the sentiment they express. Do I need to keep them all? Can we just go with verbal or text thank yous?
Yes thank you! I don't mind receiving/giving cards now and then, but like I don't give anyone but my mom birthday cards anymore. They just go in the trash and are a literal waste of money. If someone calls/texts me a thank you - happy birthday - merry Christmas - that's good enough for me. Though I do like to receive Christmas cards with those letters saying what the family did all year from close friends and relatives. But I wouldn't ever be mad if they stopped doing it either.
Load More Replies...Ugh. No. I think my mom gave up on getting me to do all that. I get no thank you cards from other people, so.... I say thank you and do nice things for others. That's enough for me.
Oh ffs. I’m 64, and never wrote thank you notes because I have always been too busy, with school, or work, or just life. I call and thank people, or thank them when I see them, so it’s not like I don’t thank people at all. I just don’t have the time for all that note writing. I’m the same with Christmas cards. I only send out a few to very close family and friends, not hundreds to everyone I ever bumped into on the street. You write your thank you notes to your heart’s content. Leave me to my calls and in-person thank yous.
You can make a sandwich at home.
And salads too, couple bottles of water/tea, one frozen to keep stuff chilled, bring it to work. Saved thousands over the years.
I work hard for my money. So hard for my money. I work hard for my money, so I'm going to treat me right.
If you are a sit down restaurant (vs fast food/take out place) please bring back real dishes/cutlery . I’m over it paying restaurant prices for paper plates and flimsy plastic forks.
Especially when you order something like a steak, and they give you the flimsy plastic stuff to cut and eat it with. Like, come the f**k on. You really expect me to cut my steak with a safety knife that’s guaranteed not to cut anything? Am I a child who can’t carry sharp objects or something?
That would be a restaurant I do not return to for sure!
Load More Replies... Allllll the computer work required for kids in school now.
So. Much. Computer. Work.
Too many apps.
Too many websites.
Some of it is the OTT load of homework being given to even the youngest schoolchildren. I’m 64, and don’t remember having ANY homework until I was at least in 4th or 5th grade—-and that was minimal in itself. What it meant was I had time for play every day, inside and outside, in addition to recess at school. I wasn’t chained to my desk doing piles of homework until high school, and even then there were plenty of days I didn’t have much or any homework. Kids are burning out from the constant mental load, being overscheduled with activities (soccer practice, dance lessons, etc, some of which the parents make them do even if they’re it interested in them), and the lack of an outlet for their youthful energy. There has to be a balance to it all, instead of going so OTT with it. Kids aren’t machines. They can’t keep up such a busy pace without finally breaking down. So parents, dial it back a bit, ffs. Listen to your kids when they say they don’t want to play soccer or take dance lessons, and stop forcing them to go. Schools listen up. Forget the mountains of homework. Dump the No Child Left Behind teaching to the test and start actually teaching—-and both listen to ANd support your teaching staff. Quit forcing them to put up with unruly disruptive kids. Give them a process to either try to rehab the kids or get them out of normal classrooms and into specialized classes instead, with teachers specifically trained to teach difficult kids. And TELL the parents “NO!” when they’re in the wrong, ffs! You aren’t teaching any good lessons by letting the bad get away with bad behavior, and you are certainly doing a great disservice to your well behaved students by letting the bad seeds run the school. Shape up. Step up.
wow, this sums up my thoughts more eloquently than a whole book could. were you an English teacher perchance
Load More Replies...Funny. We used to say that the generations that grow up with computers will know how to use them instinctively. Turns out we were wrong.
Load More Replies...Too many Whatsapp groups for every single class with infinite daily messages. Just leave me alone!!! Im not going to schedule my kids homework, because schoolwork should have been done IN school and not I my free time.. because I would homeschool instead! And how many centuries had people survived without sharing everything they did during the class!!! Fck Whatsapp parents groups
It's hard to deny that computers do come in handy for some situations, such as the comparison of "go to Netflix" instead of having to sign out a DVD player to watch a movie in class. And it's easier to do homework in some cases
distressed jesns with holes. wasted fabric AND stolen valor of the lifestyle that would give your pants holes
I HATE those. When my jeans got to that point I patched them if possible and if not cut out anything good to patch other things.
Well, in the 80s the holes in my jeans were real, and they really were distressed - but I was a kid after all...
Load More Replies...if only i could sell my distressed by work jeans to those who want them.
Picking a show to stream is too much of a commitment sometimes; I like flicking through the channels and finding something random, halfway through the episode.
I tend to spend an hour trying to find a show. Netflix doesn't have much I'm interested in. But even Tubi I find can take some time. By the time I find something I'm no longer in the mood for watching anything.
People drive too fast and music is usually too loud.
Surprise endings in movies not ruined by internet spoilers. Can you imagine if Planet of the Apes came out today? Being cheated of that shock? I still remember sitting in the theater at the end of Empire Strikes Back, my eyes going dry because I didn’t blink for about five minutes after that bomb was dropped
I remember going to see the original Planet of the Apes when it first came out. I hadn't read the book it was based on, and that ending was quite a shock.
minecraft movie just came out, luckily YouTube videos tell you in advance if there's spoilers
OP complains about spoilers but has just spoiled the end of Empire Strikes back for me.
They took advantage of their time.
As did we.
As will gen Z when their time comes.
Nobody wrecked nothing for noone. There’s ways around the current problems as there were before.
Every generation faces their own problems.
I'm 63. So I'm a boomer. We lived under the possibility of nuclear war. No more, or less, of a source of stress than previous, or subsequent generations have had to deal with.
I hate to break it to you but you're still living under the threat of nuclear war. The cold war has heated up some lately.
Load More Replies...Riiiight.. "nobody wrecked nothing" Only f.cked the planet, and got sensitive about everything!!! People can't even think without "triggering" anyone else's "discomfort"
If you go to a store to buy an item, especially an independent mom and pop store, you should have their undivided attention.
Conversely. If you're in a large store, you should be left alone if you ask to be. I realise the staff are paid on commission, but the most insistent aren't the ones getting my sale.
I hate being approached and watched as I'm in a store. I like to be in the store gazing at everything. No, I don't know what I want yet. No, I don't want to hear your special offer. No, I don't want to sign up for anything. No, I still don't know what I want, yet. Stop talking to me and let me go into my fantasy head of wonders and magical discoveries.
9-10 bedtime. No sagging. No yelling in the morning. No running in the house. Either you're inside or ur outside. I gotta list
Modern dating culture/hook up culture ruined relationships. Men feel like they have multiple options for the first time ever so they’re always searching for the next best thing.
I do think women fall into the trap of constantly searching for the next best thing as well, but men go about it in such abrasive and disrespectful ways lol.
Very true. And since there are infinite options available 24/7, there is no real commitment or responsibility anymore
I feel like now, today, holding off on s*x and not wanting casual flings, viewing s*x as sacred (not necessarily in the religious sense.), or something more meaningful and personal is taboo, now. It's not something I could do. It's too personal and invasive.
The concept of using a service to match up couples with similar interests is a good idea. Otherwise one has to wade through hundreds of strangers in person to find one with similar interests.
Nah. Those sites may find you like-minded people with similar interests, but it doesn't tell you anything else. You still have to dig around. Plus, last time I was on those sites, all I kept getting matched up with for 2 weeks for the same guys who were looking for one night stands. Despite my profile stating I was looking for long term relationship. The guys I saw I was attracted to, just by their faces, ended up being jerks to me for asking them about themselves. The guys who did msg me were creeps who demanded to pick me up in their car, at my address, then got really mad when I declined. Yikes. It made me super uncomfortable that these people were in my area, saw my face and knew I was single and looking.
Load More Replies...OP completely out of touch on this one. Women are so empowered these days to say and do whatever the hell they want.
Are we, really? Is that why men demand s*x on a first date if they decided to treat us? Is that why women are hooking up with so many men until they find someone who's willing to stick around because she "puts out"?
Load More Replies...Knowing how to dress for the occasion. I am so tired of going to find dining restaurants having put a lot of effort into my appearance, hired a babysitter, the whole shebang… Then there’s a table of people who look like they came straight from a sweaty soccer game. Yes, I could be mad at the restaurant for not enforcing a dress code because there’s no universe where athletic clothes belong in places we are spending minimum $100 per person, but also why can’t people read the room?
I once booked a dinner on a fancy 1930's refurbished train. Every single web-page, printed material said that the dress code was strictly enforced. You even had to click a box saying that you understood and agreed to the dress code before your payment was processed. Sure enough, some dumbash showed up in cargo shorts and a tee shirt with his favorite band on it. I can't even tell you how happy I was when they refused to let him board. The ambiance is part of the experience that everyone is paying for, there's no reason you can't put on pants.
When the door-greeter starts to lead us to our table, I'm not above asking to sit farther away from the loud/scruffy/kid-loaded table. I think that's acceptable, and usually works.
I confess this doesn't bother me a jot. Mr Auntriarch is a very dapper chap, and I take Iris Apler's approach that more is more and less is a bore. We do what we do, and my enjoyment is not diminished by other people's style.
Given that Millennials are now 44 and Xers are now 60, maybe it’s time to have some narrative other than boomers.
And there seems to be a total lack of awareness of all the good the boomer generation did. Lowering the voting age to 18, getting civil rights legislation passed, enabling women to open bank accounts without a man's signature, passing the Clean Air and Endangered Species Acts. All of it landmark legislation that set the precedents for the many of the freedoms and protections we now take for granted. Not to mention their contributions to the creation and development of the technology that we're using right now to b*tch about how bad boomers s*ck.
Load More Replies...I bought a gift card at "Wally World." Cashier activated it, and at home I discovered the packet was empty...no card. I went back and asked where the card went, and was informed that I have to scratch off a code and submit on a website to have the credit issued in 1-3 days. WHY????? I just wanted a stupid CARD that could be SWIPED at a store or restaurant! I'm never giving them as gifts again, especially to someone my age or older.
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Early voting is for the morals and values of older people I don't see the values and morals in older generations, I just hear them talk about it. The practice is crucial. Older people are famous for not liking things just because they are different. All humans for that matter. A lot of these points were good points, but too many were "I just don't like that", which isn't a good reason to tell other people how to live. It is good for your own boundaries, though.
"What aspect of your life makes you relate to older generations?" I don't know. My age?
Given that Millennials are now 44 and Xers are now 60, maybe it’s time to have some narrative other than boomers.
And there seems to be a total lack of awareness of all the good the boomer generation did. Lowering the voting age to 18, getting civil rights legislation passed, enabling women to open bank accounts without a man's signature, passing the Clean Air and Endangered Species Acts. All of it landmark legislation that set the precedents for the many of the freedoms and protections we now take for granted. Not to mention their contributions to the creation and development of the technology that we're using right now to b*tch about how bad boomers s*ck.
Load More Replies...I bought a gift card at "Wally World." Cashier activated it, and at home I discovered the packet was empty...no card. I went back and asked where the card went, and was informed that I have to scratch off a code and submit on a website to have the credit issued in 1-3 days. WHY????? I just wanted a stupid CARD that could be SWIPED at a store or restaurant! I'm never giving them as gifts again, especially to someone my age or older.
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Early voting is for the morals and values of older people I don't see the values and morals in older generations, I just hear them talk about it. The practice is crucial. Older people are famous for not liking things just because they are different. All humans for that matter. A lot of these points were good points, but too many were "I just don't like that", which isn't a good reason to tell other people how to live. It is good for your own boundaries, though.
"What aspect of your life makes you relate to older generations?" I don't know. My age?
