I love getting up early when everyone in the family - even the dogs - is still asleep. Quietly brewing myself a cup of fragrant coffee and going out onto the balcony, watching how gradually, with every sip, the city wakes up and a new day begins. This little ritual is actually incredibly important to me - after all, it has been bringing me joy for many years.
And you know what? Each of us has such little things, because life cannot consist only of great joys. So we actually want to rejoice, especially in this difficult world in which you and I have to live. So today we will talk about just such little things that bring us joy, or even happiness.
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When I feel my dog rest his chin on my leg.
Seeing my husband come thru the front door. Literally, my heart bursts with joy, every single time...No matter how many years, miles, times....He makes my soul and heart just SING.
"Some people bring joy wherever they go. Others, whenever they go." - Oscar Wilde
In this collection, based on a recent thread from the AskReddit community, several thousand people from all over the world tell us what simple pleasure brings them joy, no matter how many times they experience it.
As it turns out, it can be literally anything - from coffee or tea to the feeling of fresh bed linen or twelve hours of uninterrupted sleep. The main thing is that it brings people pleasure on a regular basis.
Reading a book. Super underrated.
Reading a book under a blanket while it rains outside is top tier.
Why have small joys become such a popular trend in recent years? Perhaps the main reason is the instability of the world around us, and people's uncertainty about the future. More precisely, the uncertainty that tomorrow will be at least good. This was influenced by the recent COVID-19 pandemic and the ongoing political and economic conflicts around the world.
As a result, people of different generations aren't sure about their well-being tomorrow. For example, this survey of American millennials showed that 74% of respondents are stressed about managing their personal finances. In general, younger generations tend to believe (and sometimes not without reason) that their financial situation is worse than that of their parents.
Knowing I can sleep in the following day.
So if there is stress, and there's no way to get rid of it once and for all, then it's worth trying to at least reduce its impact on us with the help of various kinds of small joys. Small purchases or gifts, unusual treats for loved ones or for just ourselves, or even finding pleasure in our daily routine.
In other words, anything that gives us a dopamine hit reduces stress levels and helps reassure us that life is actually really cool and enjoyable. Some might call it self-delusion, but it really works.
Complementing someone when it isn’t expected and seeing their face change. The change is almost ineffable but if you’ve seen it, you know what I’m talking about. It’s equal parts joy, stress relief, and gratitude. I normally refer to it as a glow.
One better, but not as simple: complementing someone to their loved one. Telling a parent what a good job they did or a spouse how amazing their significant other is. That’s a real joy.
We have a lot of bunnies in our yard. I love watching them hop around and do bunny stuff.
I love bunnies! I know some people think them a nuisance but they're so darned cute.
"In fact, the level of stress in the world, no matter how much it seems like our society is literally on the verge of collapse, is largely due to the fact that today we know much more about what is happening around the world than we did a couple of decades ago," says Valery Bolgan, a historian and editor in chief of the Intent news agency from Ukraine, whom Bored Panda asked for a comment here.
"News about all sorts of bad events, unfortunately, often have a more viral nature - that's just the way people are, and as a result, we get caught in a real avalanche of bad news from all over the world. As a result, it seems that everything around us is really bad - and at least something is needed to compensate for this stress."
The ocean. Hearing the waves, feeling the water on my toes, the colour the feel the vastness of the ocean.
"Something similar happened a quarter of a century ago, when, against the backdrop of an economic recession, sales of lipstick and cosmetics increased, paradoxically. People simply wanted to treat themselves, well, to some 'affordable luxury.' This effect went down in history as the 'lipstick index.' And today's 'little joys culture' is actually another manifestation of the same social effect," Valery Bolgan summarizes.
On the other hand, the ability to find positive aspects in everyday things, to enjoy life in even its most insignificant manifestations, is a great thing when it seems that the whole world has gone crazy. Another additional ray of light in the approaching darkness... Please forgive me for such poetic comparisons - I just obviously need another cup of coffee!
The Beach :).
Morning coffee.
For me it's weekend morning coffee. At work I just have cheap black coffee because that's what I can make in the 1-cup pot in my office without lugging in milk/creamer every week and keeping it in the community fridge to get stolen. But at home, weekend coffee is a moka pot of Cafe Bustelo mixed with half whole milk. Creamy, bold, and delicious. Weekend coffee is the best :)
When a song I haven't heard in a while comes on and I can sing right along in my car to my heart's content.
Well, now that the invigorating aroma of the drink has touched my receptors and pleases me with its wonderful appearance and scent, I believe it's time to invite you all to read this list to the very end, and also share your own little life joys in the comments below this post. And if you, like me, love coffee, then why not indulge yourself with another cup?
Having the house just to myself.
Green lights the whole way there!
As someone who hit every.single.red.light on the way to work today.....
For me, it’s the feeling of fresh sheets right out of the dryer. It’s such a small thing, but it’s always so comforting and cozy, no matter how many times it happens.
Taking a dump. Especially when you feel bloated or your stomach's acting up and a dump just fixes it...
Exchanging the air in my house. I love opening windows and getting stuffy air out, and due to my northern state location, that's not possible for half the year unless you want to make your furnace kick on.
I love love love opening up all the windows and just letting everything air out
The feeling when all the laundry is finished and put away. I feel like an adult 🤣🤣🤣.
Northern Lights. I can go out on my deck, look up and watch them dance
Edit: Some pics I’ve taken thoughout the years. Northwestern Ontario, 2 hours from Minnesota border. Second last is the most recent, sometime end of March/early April. Coolest part imo is when they’re right above you and form a dome as they hit the atmosphere.
A big pizza just for me.
Holding a baby! 🥰.
When I open bored panda and the first post is a fresh batch of unseen memes, the second is cute cats doing funny thing, the third is wholesome things people do for each other, and no AITA in sight.
When I open bored panda and the first post is a fresh batch of unseen memes, the second is cute cats doing funny thing, the third is wholesome things people do for each other, and no AITA in sight.
