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Odd eating habits or little OCD quirks are one thing, but lying about childhood traumas or hiding a nanny camera in the bedroom to spy on your partner could be dealbreakers.

A Reddit user recently asked: “What is the most disturbing thing you found about your partner?” and people did not hold back.

Studies have shown that keeping secrets in a relationship can weigh on your well-being, and they often have a way of coming out even when we don't want them to.

Below are some of the responses Reddit users shared, each highlighting a different experience or situation.

#1

Couple having serious conversation at home, woman looking upset as man tries to comfort her in tense moment. My ex and I connected over very severe and alarmingly similar childhood trauma experiences. almost a year into our relationship, he revealed (extremely casually, like it was no big deal) that he’d made it up. He’d heard about my past from a former mutual friend, and felt it’d be easier to get to know if we had this in common. He genuinely didn’t see an issue with doing this.

He then proceeded to ask, “since it bothered me”, if I wanted to know everything else he’d made up, too.

turned out, about 75% of what I knew about him was fake. weird funny stories and experiences, childhood memories, things that had allegedly happened to him at work - he was just making things up. When I asked him why, he reiterated that he didn’t see it as a big deal, and then explained he felt I “needed to be humbled a bit” because “my life wasn’t *that* interesting”, so he’d made up things to “match” my stories/experiences.

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Miriam Insidecor
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1 week ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Pathological lying is often associated with psychopaths.

Mark Childers
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1 week ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

So, he's not just a lair but also is trying to take her down a peg. I hope she dumped him fast. Personally, I don't understand putting others down to feel better about yourself. I know a lot of people who do that, but I've never understood it.

Emilu
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1 week ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I can understand the logic behind it but I would never *do* it. The logic is subconsciously or consciously, I feel bad about myself because of X, Y, Z... and maybe I'm not worthy of her? I don't want to lose her, though, so I don't want to *outright* insult her, so if I squish her ego just enough that she thinks it's a her problem, I don't look as inadequate and it's not immediately obvious enough to drop me. (Situational to this topic) And she can't drop me if I've had the same experiences she's had." I've used the genders in the post, but obviously this can apply to anyone. I promise I've never done this and never will, but seen it happen enough that I'm fairly confident in my assertion.

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Karma Black
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1 week ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Eeeeew ew ew my ex-husband did this, and I was dumb enough to fall for it! It took me ten years to grow a brain, but the divorce was finalized in November 🥰

Earonn -
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1 day ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Your brain is fine. You're the victim, his brain is faulty. And his heart. and the whole rest of that PoS.

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Spittnimage
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1 week ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I would've found it very suspect that he'd had the same experiences i had.

Earonn -
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1 day ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

You think child ab.use and child ra.pe is rare? Oh you sweet summer child.

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    #2

    Woman smiling and waving during a video call, illustrating moments when people found out something terrifying about their partner. He put a nanny cam in our bedroom so he could spy on my therapy sessions during covid. He made a big show out of putting on headphones in the other room because he knew he could just listen in later.

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    Paul C.
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    1 week ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩Controling or what?

    Jaya
    Community Member
    1 week ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    That is not even a red flag anymore, that is absolutely crossing the line big time. I really hope OP broke up with him. The boyfriend should not be in a relationship at all at the moment, if he thinks this is okay. And I wonder if it might even be illegal.

    Lee Gilliland
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    1 week ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    That crosses the line into a***e.

    Emilu
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    1 week ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    That's just creepy.

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    #3

    Two women embracing closely with one whispering to the other, hinting at a terrifying partner secret revealed. That she is still in love with her ex girlfriend and has been having an affair with her since before we even got married. But didn’t tell me that it was her ex girlfriend for real until this year and everybody on her side played along with it as they were only “best friends” which in turn had this girl pretending to be MY friend and my “wife” allowed it for 5 years.

    Don’t worry I’m leaving lol.

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    Emilu
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    1 week ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I think that these people have to be sociopaths, honestly. We don't care if you are in love with your ex. It's when you pretend you are in love with someone else but then show you're stringing them along that shows that you're an AH of the highest order.

    Ace
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    1 week ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I would very much care if my partner was still in love with someone else.

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    Earonn -
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    1 day ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I get that one person, the partner, can be such a psycho. But all the other people around, what were they thinking? That they are somehow good people?

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    #4

    32 People Spill The Darkest And Most Disturbing Secrets Hidden By Their Partners My ex wife spent the last decade of our marriage accusing me of having multiple affairs and/or being gay. I've since found out that during that decade she had 2 boyfriends and a girlfriend (not at the same time) so turns out it was all projection.

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    Lady Eowyn
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    1 week ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Not the only person to accuse others of what they're doing.

    Emilu
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    1 week ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    What I've learnt from BP: If you're genuinely not guilty of cheating and yet you're accused of it, it's probably your partner projecting. (Being genuine. I wouldn't have picked it, myself).

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    Dan St John
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    5 days ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Just like the pig in the white house.

    Loki
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    5 days ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Every accusation is a confession and all that

    Candice Burris
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    15 hours ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I've heard this growing up. The guilty dog barks first.

    #5

    32 People Spill The Darkest And Most Disturbing Secrets Hidden By Their Partners He had such a history of using his mother and his sister, while also regarding them with scathing contempt. Both of them were flawed and selfish, but loved him deeply and unconditionally.

    When he casually remarked that his forty-year-old sister (who, incidentally, was gorgeous then and still is) was a "fat old woman covered in tattoos, and she needs to start being realistic about how she wants to be treated by a man," that was when I knew our days together were numbered and that I would never be able to un-see what that said about his regard for women.

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    Spittnimage
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    1 week ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    An in-law thinks he is superior to his family; calls them rednecks, can't stand to be around them. I don't like him, but his family are the nicest people.

    Skogsrået
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    1 week ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    So he turned out to be yet another woman hater?

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    #6

    32 People Spill The Darkest And Most Disturbing Secrets Hidden By Their Partners I found out a few days ago that my wife has been texting inappropriately with her boss, kissy emojis, going out for drinks and sushi, calling it date night. Still trying to understand the full scope of it and how to proceed.

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    Elchinero
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    1 week ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Drive far far away and do not return

    David Paterson
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    I don't see a problem, there's a huge difference between flirting and infidelity. And if the flirting helps to ensure a steady income ...

    #7

    Young man in blue hoodie eating alone, reflecting on a terrifying discovery about his partner in a quiet setting. They bite their fork when they eat. My soul leaves my body every time.

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    HF
    Community Member
    1 week ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    better than biting the knife, but still weird

    UnclePanda
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    1 week ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    These are the tines that try my soul.

    highwaycrossingfrog
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    1 week ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I think I do this, but I genuinely never realised until someone said to me "oh, you're one of those people" (I'd just met them so bit weird but if they find it annoying I get it). It's not biting down, more removing the food from the fork with your teeth rather than your lips or whatever. It's completely unconscious in my case (hence why I said "think", because presumably I still do it, I just don't notice that I'm doing it.)

    AlithenewMC
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    1 week ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I eat with my teeth too- drives my husband crazy, but he chews loudly (mouth closed), so he can't complain that much because his issue is worse imo lol

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    Nikole
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    1 week ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    The thought of this makes me shiver

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    #8

    32 People Spill The Darkest And Most Disturbing Secrets Hidden By Their Partners He had a years-long affair with his stepmother.

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    Paul C.
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    1 week ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Did she keep getting trapped in the washing machine? I may have seen the film!

    Val
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    1 week ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Um, what's the movie called? Asking for a friend, of course.

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    Iris C
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    1 week ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I just felt my soul leave my body after reading this. This is so disturbing on so many levels!!!

    Binky Melnik
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    6 days ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    It depends.if he was an adult when his dad married her, it’s waaay less alarming.

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    Angela C
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    1 week ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    They've made a lot of movies about this sort of thing

    #9

    Person eating spicy chicken wings from a black bowl with seasonings on a rustic wooden table. When he orders wings he eats the whole thing….bones and all. The plate is sent back empty.
    I think the first time he did it to get a reaction out of me but it’s been 4 years and he’s still crunching away. .

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    kzys59pcrp
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    1 week ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    How?!? Chicken bones tend to splinter when broken.

    Nikole
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    1 week ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Yeah, you're not even supposed to give bones to animals to chew on!

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    Learner Panda
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    1 week ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I have never understood the fascination with chicken wings. They're just bones, skin and a bit of meat. Why not have the legs, which are probably three times the size for quantity of meat.

    Quinn
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    1 week ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    #1. Chicken legs are dark meat. Chicken wings are white meat. Taste and texture are fundamentally different. #2. The ratio of skin-to-meat is much more equal with chicken wings than with chicken legs; which, again, affects the taste and texture. And because of that more equal ratio, you can also taste the spicy sauce/coating more on chicken wings.

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    SPV
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    1 week ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    That's it. That's enough internet for today.

    UnclePanda
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    1 week ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Do you hear screams from the bathroom the next day?

    Kristiina Männiste
    Community Member
    1 week ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Stomach acid dissolves bone tissue. Well mine does at least. I had food issues growing up (parents sometimes forgot that children eat - not addicts or anything, just careless(?)) so I started to swallow pieces of bone and stuff to feel full longer. Now it has become a habit. But I never had any problems from it

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    Julie S
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    1 week ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    One day he is going to get a bit stuck in his throat.

    Emilu
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    1 week ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    ... He eats the bones? I think this is officially now the pettiest dealbreaker I have, but... yeah. Nah.

    Olga Litvinsky
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    1 week ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Well let him enjoy that

    nichomach
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    1 week ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    1. He didn't do it to get a reaction 2. He's comfortable with pretty much anything going in his mouth?

    Robert Larson, LPN, JD
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    4 days ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    UGH! I worked with a nurse who did this. We had to stop ordering fried chicken or wings when she was on shift with the rest of us. Truly scarry just waiting for her to choke on a bone.

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    #10

    32 People Spill The Darkest And Most Disturbing Secrets Hidden By Their Partners He handled the finances. He died. I found $36,000 in gambling debt.

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    Crystalwitch60
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    1 week ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Rule no one ! NEVER let one person take solo control of the finances , you should always both know everything , COS OF THIS for one always protect yourself ,

    Emilu
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    1 week ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I *had* a 'friend' who would refuse to have anything to do with finances; that was the "man's" problem. As soon as she split with her partner, she claimed 'financial a***e' because she didn't have anything to do with the finances, despite previously saying she didn't *want* to have anything to do with said finances. She stopped being a friend after that, because I work in an industry where we see *actual* financial abu‍se and how awful it can be. If there's anything I've learned, it's to make a personal, private account for emergencies and stash something away so, absolute worst scenario, you have some money to aid you if you need to leave in a hurry. Hopefully for most people they never need to touch it, but for the ones that need it, it's the difference between leaving and staying with an abu‍ser.

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    Miriam Insidecor
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    1 week ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    This is wilful ignorance. Finances should be transparent if its shared money.

    Emilu
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    1 week ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Unfortunately there are many that would not agree/or generally do this. Likely to their detriment.

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    Floeckchen
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    1 week ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    He was propably ashamed of the debt and tried to cover it up. It sadly happens a lot to people with gambling addictions

    Rob Miles
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    3 days ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I have tried for years to get my wife (married 35 years) to get involved in our finances, but she has no interest. I've sat her down to try to go over it, but she wants no part of it. I'm trying to setup something to take care of these things should something happen to me, but it requires a lot of trust in someone else knowing all my accounts and whatnot.

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    #11

    Organized refrigerator with clear containers holding fresh produce and drinks, illustrating surprising partner habits revealed. Nothing truly scary, just their obsession with organizing the fridge by color. It’s disturbing… but also kind of impressive.

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    JL
    Community Member
    1 week ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    So when something goes bad and changes colors, do they throw it out or move it to a new color zone?

    Janet Sparrow
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    1 week ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I don’t know if this is the same kind of thing, but my first husband was super tall and he used to store things in the highest cabinets, in order, by size. I don’t know where the size thing came from but I used to tell him I don’t even know we have stuff up there because I can’t even see inside those closets.

    UnclePanda
    Community Member
    1 week ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    "Too bad that one thing there is a bit crooked."

    Mimi M
    Community Member
    1 week ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Nope, guaranteed this shows up elsewhere. Also likely causes poor use of space.

    Emilu
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    1 week ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I'm kind of creeped out and kind of impressed by this. Can't decide which feeling is more prominent.

    Elchinero
    Community Member
    1 week ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Yeah, if there is only one purple plum

    #12

    32 People Spill The Darkest And Most Disturbing Secrets Hidden By Their Partners His relationship with his mom. First when we moved in, big drama that she doesn’t get enough attention. Then constant messages good morning and good night. Then visits every week for coffee, tea, goes to her for lunch etc. I’m living with a man and i’m loosing respect for him. I see him as a mamas boy now and having hard time imagining our future together, and it’s breaking my heart.

    I fell in love hard, for the first time in my life. And i’m broken that i’m starting to see him differently.

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    Janet Sparrow
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    1 week ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I’m sorry, but this is so weird. I see so much stuff on here about toxic mothers-in-law, boy mom‘s not letting go with her sons, etc. I have a son who is married to a really nice girl, we all get along, I even get along well with her mother. I would never in 1 million years interfere with their lives the way these people do. What is wrong with people?

    Spittnimage
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    1 week ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Mommy will always win. Get out while you can.

    Julie S
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    1 week ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Maybe she needs to get him to set boundaries with his mum before she makes a big decision if that doesn't work then maybe end it.

    Amanda Reinstatler
    Community Member
    1 day ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Tell him you want to be with a man, NOT a BOY

    Robert Larson, LPN, JD
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    4 days ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    He needs to escape from her, the girlfriend that is.

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    #13

    32 People Spill The Darkest And Most Disturbing Secrets Hidden By Their Partners The most disturbing thing I found about a partner once was how they handled conflict, they’d go completely silent for days instead of talking things out. It wasn’t dramatic or explosive, just unsettling.

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    Mimi M
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    1 week ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Unsettling and very manipulative.

    highwaycrossingfrog
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    1 week ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Could be manipulative, could be poor home environment where they were never taught healthy conflict resolution, and/or a*****e parents who punished them for negative emotions.

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    Skogsrået
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    1 week ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Maybe this is how they learned to deal with conflict? Not everyone was raised knowing how to deal with conflict the correct way, some of us had to learn through other ways and with the help of other people and not our own family.

    S P
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    5 days ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I was taught it was better to remain silent than to say something I can't take back. Quiet, reflect, discuss it calmly later.

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    hannahbahngswife
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    1 week ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Silent treatment is a form of manipulation.

    Helena
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    1 week ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Was the silence used for punishment or for processing? I can go dark for a few days while processing and not wanting to say anything I can't take back or don't actually believe if I think about it.

    Candice Burris
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    15 hours ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Ohhhhh my ex did this when he didn't feel well. The first time he got sick he just stopped talking to me for week. I Def should have realized that was a warning sign that his mind wasn't right.

    Amanda Reinstatler
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    1 day ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Very weak minded with very low emotional intelligence

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    #14

    Person holding a fern leaf covering their face in a forest, symbolizing discovery and terrifying partner secrets. Doesn't like nature. At all. It took me a while to accept this one. I had assumed that intentionally being in nature would be a source of spirituality, awe, and peace for everyone. My partner is not one of those people and only experiences extended time in nature as an annoying and inconvenient experience. But they find sources of awe and wonder and spirituality from other things such as art, music, literature, etc. We're all just different.

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    Mimi M
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    1 week ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Benign. Though he may have areas of nature that he prefers. I used to think I wasn't a big nature person, b/c I associated nature with green spaces, hills, mountains, forests. Turns out, my home is the sea.

    kzys59pcrp
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    1 week ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I want to enjoy nature more but being allergic to d**n near everything out there, including the sun, I just stay inside.

    Crystalwitch60
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    1 week ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    at least you like it , I’m so sorry you have to live like that lovely 💔

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    Loki
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    5 days ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Eh, nothing wrong with that. Now i personally don't know if I could stay in a relationship like that solely because I'm a zoologist, planning a career as a zookeeper, volunteering outdoors, and constantly even driving around to enjoy the outdoors and animals lol. And a lot of my vacations have a big focus on the outdoors and nature.

    Bored Retsuko
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    1 week ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Maybe it's the act of "being in nature", going outside, walking... maybe he/she has some condition that makes it unenjoyable. You don't have to "be in nature" to appreciate it, though. There are houseplants, animals, documentaries, lots of ways to be in awe about nature.

    Candice Burris
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    15 hours ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    He wouldn't allow me to open curtains or blinds. Told me he would go outside if wanted to see the sun. I told him to ef off and go into another room as I was there first

    Mark Childers
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    1 week ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I love animals and even bugs, but that's pretty much it for me as far as nature goes. I have horrible allergies to almost every tree, grass, and weed out there. If I have to be outdoors at all, I keep it to a minimum. Plus, ticks are really getting to be a problem with alpha-gal and lyme, among others.

    Aileen Grist
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    3 days ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I'm a townie - I live near the sea, but in a town. I enjoy driving into town via the coast road and looking at the sea - and the hills we can see out of the window, but it's the buildings and the people that I love.

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    Doesn’t like it , nope sorry him ain’t human , how can anyone not like it , I get being allergic , I get hayfever ,some yrs very badly , n I’m a keep gardener out in a very very rural area lol like farmland etc ,but NOT LIKING IT ok that’s just wrong , does he like animals ?

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    #15

    32 People Spill The Darkest And Most Disturbing Secrets Hidden By Their Partners My ex told me he was the victim of a lot of terrible trauma. It was how I explained away a lot of his bad behavior to myself.


    He made up a lot of it! If not all of it. I can't know for sure if it's all made up, but the fact that at least a good chunk of it was made up doesn't fill me with hope. 


    I think he was very afraid of rejection and would twist the truth in horrible ways trying to make it impossible for me to leave. It makes me sad to think about, honestly. Must be harrowing to live in his brain. But good god am I relieved not to be around him anymore .

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    Tom Brincefield
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    5 days ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    No, it isn't the same person as the earlier story. Billions of people on the planet, every story gets repeated.

    While there are white lies or private thoughts we keep to protect ourselves, for some people holding back might also be a way to maintain a sense of independence or personal space within a relationship. And sometimes, keeping a secret simply feels safer than risking judgment or conflict. Some experts say that as long as we are clear about why we keep a secret, we can avoid obsessing over it.

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    #16

    32 People Spill The Darkest And Most Disturbing Secrets Hidden By Their Partners My ex wife poisoned me for about 4 months.

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    David Paterson
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    1 week ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    There's a lot to unpack here. Deliberate vs accidental poison. Effective vs ineffective poison. Deliberate effective repeated poisoning is about as heinous as a crime can get.

    kzys59pcrp
    Community Member
    1 week ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Unless there’s more to the story this doesn’t say anything about the partner.

    Paul C
    Community Member
    1 week ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I don't know - it's one of the most disturbing things you can find out about your partner: That they are trying to k**l you. I think that would be covered by a dark and disturbing secret your partner has.

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    Elchinero
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    1 week ago

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    Maybe you deserved it?

    Angela C
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    1 week ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Would you still say that if the genders were reversed?

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    #17

    32 People Spill The Darkest And Most Disturbing Secrets Hidden By Their Partners He didn't like cats .

    ProudNinja111 , Manja Vitolic Report

    Skogsrået
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    1 week ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Yeah no, that's a dealbreaker.

    Mimi M
    Community Member
    1 week ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Maybe that 'didn't' is past tense.

    Emilu
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    1 week ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Because the partner offed him, or...? Edit: Right, right, I forgot the /s tag. Far out, some people here do not get sarcasm unless it's blatantly pointed out to them. This is what happens when you assume everyone has 'common sense' because it's supposedly 'common'.

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    Karma Black
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    1 week ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    My boyfriend and I would LOVE cats. It breaks his heart that he's severely allergic to them.

    Dragon Ashes
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    5 days ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Same here. We had a cat for a bit and he went literally insane.

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    No one
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    5 days ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Same w dogs. Deal breaker

    Earonn -
    Community Member
    1 day ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    So what, it happens. Doesn't say anything about one's character, no matter how much the romanticising crown insists on it.

    Loki
    Community Member
    5 days ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Yeah dealbreaker for me. It's fine to not like cats but I'm always gonna have at least one so it just wouldn't work out. I'm gonna have snakes too, but you can be away from them. Cats are free in the whole house

    Wij
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    1 week ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    The door to far and away is over there.

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    #18

    Metal wall decoration spelling Live Laugh Love above framed family photos and flowers, conveying a partner's comforting home atmosphere. She hung a Live Laugh Love thing on the wall. 


    I don't understand how someone who is otherwise 100% awesome does that. Disturbing for sure.

    slartibartfast64 , albertpullinger Report

    Mimi M
    Community Member
    1 week ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Okay, this and the toe-socks thing and the bookmark (though I'm iffy on toe-socks and def iffy on LLL signs).

    Matt
    Community Member
    1 week ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Live laugh love is always a hard no

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    Susan Teter
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    5 days ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    If you need signs to tell you what to do and how to live...here's YOUR sign

    Crystalwitch60
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    I do as well ,nothing disturbing about it it what so ever , sounds like a you issue not a her issue 😂

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    #19

    Close-up of feet wearing beige toe socks on speckled floor, illustrating unusual discoveries about partner experiences. She likes feet gloves or whatever they’re called. Just seeing her wear them, wiggling her gloved toes, gives me anxiety.

    Eborys , CoquinaAsesina Report

    Child of the Stars
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    1 week ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Compared to some of the others, this one is totally harmless.

    UnclePanda
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    1 week ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I just had a flashback to the 1970s and an aunt's lovingly knitted toe socks with each toe done in at least three colors. Lovingly made with thick yarn. Thick, thick yarn. Our toes spanned almost 180*. Instant rainbow hobbit feet.

    Skogsrået
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    1 week ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    The toe socks are really comfy actually, OP should try them instead of knocking them.

    Mimi M
    Community Member
    1 week ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Okay, this ties with the bookmark one for being benign. As long as they don't evangelize on the toe-socks.

    LollyLaLu
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    1 week ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    MMM, Warm...gotta get feet gloves...

    Kyle Simonson
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    1 week ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Sounds like you're the one with the issues.

    Lee Gilliland
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    1 week ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I cannot see this as a problem.

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    #20

    Open drawer filled with mismatched socks, illustrating a terrifying discovery about a partner's messy habits. He keeps all his socks in a single giant drawer with zero pairs matched. just a chaotic ocean of fabric. disturbing? a little. fascinating? also yes.

    BumbleMew , getautomated Report

    Ace
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    1 week ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    “Ah… so. Tell me—vhy does zat disturb you?”

    Remi (He/Him)
    Community Member
    1 week ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I'm weird in the other direction as in playing matchmaker to the socks after laundry is fun and I don't understand why anyone would skip it

    Helena
    Community Member
    1 week ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    All of my socks are the same ones. I am uninterested in spending time matching. I have one underwear sock drawer and everything gets tossed in. Anything that develops holes gets tossed out. When supplies run low I buy a new pack. I truly put zero effort into this.

    Julie S
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    1 week ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Nothing wrong with this.

    Val
    Community Member
    1 week ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Hm. I do that. I can't be bothered to match socks.

    Paul C
    Community Member
    1 week ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    To be honest, that sounds like my eldest. It's completely random if his right sock matches his left sock. He's too lazy to pair them up after washing, so just stuffs them all in a draw and takes out two when he needs socks. Weirdly, he always wants pairs of socks with different patterns or colours. I think he has decided random socks are his signature. Probably my fault for always pairing them up for him after washing them when he was a child (instead of making him do that).

    my sox are in flux
    Community Member
    16 hours ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I do this. Nbd. I know what socks came together in the same package, even if they are different colors, so I just grab them. As long as they came out of the same package, it's all good.

    Janet Sparrow
    Community Member
    1 week ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I started using a big safety pin to keep track of my socks in the wash. I still lost one or two along the way..

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    #21

    32 People Spill The Darkest And Most Disturbing Secrets Hidden By Their Partners When she eats Kit Kats , she doesn't break off pieces, she just eats the entire thing like it's one bar.

    mrsunshine1 , Justin Report

    Mark Childers
    Community Member
    1 week ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I can top that. A girl I went to school with would eat all of the chocolate around the Kit Kat, and then eat each layer by itself. She would also lick Doritoes until all of the seasoned powder was off of them until they were soggy, then she would slowly eat them bit by bit. We were part of the same friend group ate lunch together. I'm so glad I don't have to watch that anymore. Used to make me lose my appetite. It was so unnecessary and gross. I have a feeling she did it for attention, but I'll never know. Fast forward years, and I was living with a roommate who would twist and eat one strand of spaghetti at a time, even in restaurants. He was a pretty good roommate, but that was annoying. Eating in a restaurant could take hours. Just no.

    David Paterson
    Community Member
    1 week ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    With the aluminium wrapping still on?

    Karma Black
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    1 week ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    ... I think my boyfriend might've written this.

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    #22

    Partially used toothpaste tube with two different brands combined, illustrating something terrifying about a partner. He squeezes the toothpaste from the middle.

    Walmartian_Beta , reddit Report

    Mimi M
    Community Member
    1 week ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Nope, nope and nope. Though it might be salvageable, but only if each person keeps their own tube, which is what I'd do.

    Learner Panda
    Community Member
    1 week ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Hubby and I have separate tubes of toothpaste!

    David Paterson
    Community Member
    1 week ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I learnt quite late in life that this is always the best option.

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    Brian Droste
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    1 week ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Doesn't a lot of people do that? I don't. I squeeze from the bottom.

    Remi (He/Him)
    Community Member
    1 week ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Same really. That's why we don't share a toothpaste.

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    Experts point out that the types of secrets people keep also vary by gender. Women are more likely to keep secrets because they are worried their partners would not understand, while men are more likely scared that their partner would criticise or disapprove of their behaviour.

    #23

    Man in a blue shirt sitting on a couch reading a book, reflecting on terrifying partner secrets discovered. My fiance doesn't use bookmarks, he just memorizes what page number he stopped on. .

    Bestlifeever_ , freepik Report

    Mimi M
    Community Member
    1 week ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Okay, let' see if this is the most benign. So far, it is.

    Chich the witch
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    1 week ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Yep. Reading these threads can be a bit of a c**p shoot. All can be going merrily along and then OMFG.

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    Learner Panda
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    1 week ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    At least he doesn't turn the corner of the page over.

    Julie S
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    1 week ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I was going to say this, my biggest pet hate.

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    Stardust she/her
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    1 week ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Same! I can remember just based on the ‘feel’ of the paragraph I stopped on. I have this thing called synesthesia which basically makes me associate colours with letters, numbers etc. With that I can remember where I left off as I can just remember the colour sequence of the page number without remembering the actual number itself

    Child of the Stars
    Community Member
    1 week ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I have bookmarks in like 3 different books. This would not work for me!

    Julie S
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    1 week ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Yeah I'm usually reading 3 books at the same time. I have a downstairs book, an upstairs book and one in my car for reading in coffee shops.

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    Lee Gilliland
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    1 week ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Better than my husband, who has been known to use checks from his publisher.

    Blue Bunny of Happiness
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    6 days ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Hopefully, they’re not for huge amounts! I found a cheque for about £27 which was for a refund for my car insurance when I changed cars in about 1996. I found it in 2005 as a bookmark. Contacted the insurer and they reissued it. I like to think there was someone in accounts thinking, “Finally, the spreadsheet balances!”. Sadly, I suspect not.

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    Ace
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    1 week ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Yeah, and? I mostly read stuff on a kindle these days, but back in the day would just remember the page as well.

    J Gunn
    Community Member
    6 days ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I don't remember the page number, I go by the feel of the pages. If I'm halfway through, flip to the center, not quite there, flip a few pages more, and here is where I left off.

    Val
    Community Member
    1 week ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    That's pretty dang impressive.

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    #24

    32 People Spill The Darkest And Most Disturbing Secrets Hidden By Their Partners She pours the milk before the cereal. I’m sleeping with a psychopath.

    ParticularSyrup5760 , Binyamin Mellish Report

    Mimi M
    Community Member
    1 week ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Definitely weird. But still benign.

    Adam Zad
    Community Member
    6 days ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    No, no, NO! It is milk, then cereal, THEN bowl!!

    Andy Frobig
    Community Member
    6 days ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I went to school with a guy who would mash up a small bag of potato chips, then pour chocolate milk into the bag

    Miss Ann Thrope
    Community Member
    1 week ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Had a roommate. I put the banana on the bottom of the bowl, then the cereal, then the milk, then sugar. This was so I'd get the sugar on the cereal not on the banana. She thought I was unhinged.

    Crystalwitch60
    Community Member
    1 week ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Each to their own ! That’s as op issue not a her issue ! personally if n when I eat cereal , very very rarely , can’t drink milk it’s cereal then milk not very much off , but that’s my preference,

    Stardust she/her
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    1 week ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    OP, do you want soggy cereal? Do you enjoy the flaccidity of the cereal first thing in the morning? Because if you don’t do this you will get soggy cereal

    Angela C
    Community Member
    1 week ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    If your cereal is getting soggy you're not eating it fast enough so either you need to eat faster or pour smaller bowls of cereal

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    #25

    Young man wearing glasses reading Jordan B. Peterson's 12 Rules for Life book, reflecting on terrifying partner secrets. He used to crack book spines intentionally so they would be "easier to read." I got him to stop by introducing him to audiobooks.

    amandemic , Matt Lillywhite Report

    Child of the Stars
    Community Member
    1 week ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I'm with him. But then, I firmly hold that books, like toys, are meant to be held and manhandled, not kept in pristine condition. A well-worn book tells a story as much as the text inside it.

    Data1001
    Community Member
    1 week ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    The person in the photo here is far more problematic, reading a book by Jordan Peterson.

    Stardust she/her
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    1 week ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Well then how else am I supposed to keep the book open without stretching it from both ends? I’m a student who uses a lot of reference books and modules, I have to crack the spines to make life easier

    Asmodeus Hare
    Community Member
    6 days ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    One of my former GF's hated I bought two of any book and dissected one to scan into a digital book before e-books were a thing.

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    Andy Frobig
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    6 days ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    In 1986 I had a dorm mate who borrowed my 1st edition issues of Batman: The Dark Knight Returns, so he wouldn't have to crack the spines on his copies. To be fair, the value on them had gone from $3 to $20 in a month

    BookFanatic
    Community Member
    1 week ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I do that, and I'm a librarian. Nobody tell my boss.

    Elchinero
    Community Member
    1 week ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    "audiobooks" are high on the creepy spectrum ...

    Crystalwitch60
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    1 week ago

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    So u stopped him reading real books , cos he reads them like PROPERLY w*f coercive or what , audio books are nt the same at all ,

    JB
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    1 week ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I have books older than you that show very little damage (grandparents owned them) because 4 generations of readers treated them gently (this includes lending them to my nieces and nephews). It’s troubling you think the proper way to read books is to break the part that’s supposed to hold the pages together.

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    #26

    32 People Spill The Darkest And Most Disturbing Secrets Hidden By Their Partners He told me stories about the two affairs he had (that his wife found out about). He was quite the storyteller and this was many, many years after the affairs and in fact he had been widowed for six years. As entertaining as these stories were, they didn't make me think more highly of him for sure.

    SnootyManatee , Vlada Karpovich Report

    Skogsrået
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    1 week ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Well atleast he showed you who he truly was before getting serious.

    Susan Teter
    Community Member
    5 days ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Do you think he was trying to impress you, or seeing if you could outrun Usaine Bolt

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    #27

    Hand holding a bowl of popcorn while sitting down, symbolizing watching 32 times people found scary partner secrets. He actually likes popcorn MORE when it is stale. The man is a freak! But he's my freak lol.

    the_bird_and_the_bee , Lisa from Pexels Report

    HelyerT
    Community Member
    1 week ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I like dust at the end of the cereal box

    Brian Droste
    Community Member
    1 week ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I lIke the part of celery that is slightly yellow. Yes, I know that it is not fully developed.

    my sox are in flux
    Community Member
    15 hours ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I like stale cookies. They're easier to eat.

    Dragon Ashes
    Community Member
    5 days ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I like stale popcorn. I like it fresh too, but stale is just as good.

    Val
    Community Member
    1 week ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    😮I just said that!

    Mimi M
    Community Member
    1 week ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    This one is okay, again, as long as no evangelizing. Keep that religion to yourself.

    #28

    32 People Spill The Darkest And Most Disturbing Secrets Hidden By Their Partners Was gonna say that my bf sometimes does calf raises in the shower and has a whole mini shower work out routine but i guess that’s not so bad after reading comments….

    Euphoric-Purpose-162 , Ketut Subiyanto Report

    Mimi M
    Community Member
    1 week ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Another benign one. I'm liking all these benign habits and quirks. Not signing off on the color-coded fridge though.

    UnclePanda
    Community Member
    1 week ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I do 45 seconds of the tree pose on each leg in the shower to give the soap time to work on my feet.

    Crystalwitch60
    Community Member
    1 week ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Its called time saving , plus warm water warms up the muscles , it’s actually good for you ,.

    Elchinero
    Community Member
    1 week ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Tep ... must have a HUGE reefer!

    #29

    Hand holding fresh asparagus with sliced zucchini and Brussels sprouts on a dark surface, highlighting partner terrors concept. My husband only eats the bottom half of the asparagus.

    Needless to say, I didn’t know that when I agreed to marry him.

    Skorpion_Snugs , Louis Hansel Report

    UnclePanda
    Community Member
    1 week ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    You get the tender good parts and you're complaining?

    JL
    Community Member
    1 week ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I'm assuming you like the tops...opposites attract, what's the problem?

    Crystalwitch60
    Community Member
    1 week ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Well if that’s the only issue , lmao your doing ok x

    Sparky Hughes
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    1 week ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    He would be perfect! Then she just takes the top

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    #30

    My girlfriend had a secret online persona, it was weird seeing her completely different personality online.

    burger69man Report

    panther
    Community Member
    1 week ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Maybe the online persona is the real her, and the in person persona is the made up one?

    Helena
    Community Member
    1 week ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Online personalities can be like acting. Just because you can act a character doesn't mean you are that character.

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    Blue Bunny of Happiness
    Community Member
    6 days ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Or maybe she just posts on bored panda and doesn’t want people recognising her……

    Spittnimage
    Community Member
    1 week ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Maybe she has multiple personality disorder.

    #31

    32 People Spill The Darkest And Most Disturbing Secrets Hidden By Their Partners She has never, and will never watch Star Wars.

    TremontRhino , LJ Checo Report

    Mimi M
    Community Member
    1 week ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I watched the first one, no interest in anything subsequent. Ditto the Godfather - just not my style.

    Lee Gilliland
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    1 week ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Liking a movie is not required in order to be considered a human being.

    Julie S
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    1 week ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Nope never seen any of them.

    Val
    Community Member
    1 week ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Same. My brothers and dad were obsessed with it all.

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    Brian Droste
    Community Member
    1 week ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    A lot of people never seen Star Wars. Why would this be a big secret or a bad thing?

    Spidercat
    Community Member
    1 week ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    This is grounds for divorce...

    Loki
    Community Member
    5 days ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I've seen the first six, force awakens, and rogue one. And I just...dont care. I watched them because of family and I just do not care about them. Hell when I talk to Star Wars people they hate me because the only ones I enjoyed were Rogue One and Force Awakens

    Andy Frobig
    Community Member
    6 days ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I saw the first three (or the middle three to the cultists) because I was 10 when the original came out. Then I saw The Force Awakens, and I feel like I'm covered.

    Andy Frobig
    Community Member
    6 days ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Keep it that way. If she never sees it, she'll believe it's as great as you say

    Janet Sparrow
    Community Member
    1 week ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Star Wars, and at this point Harry Potter, are shared cultural experiences that are now embedded in our culture. You should watch them just for that reason.

    Remi (He/Him)
    Community Member
    1 week ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Don't talk about Star Wars in the same context as the shaitty wizard series. Not wanting to see the second one is perfectly understandable

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    Michael Largey
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    1 week ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I watched the first one only because my aged mother made me take her to see it. (She would watch anything Alec Guinness was in.)

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    #32

    She says "excape." We've got two kids so I'll stay.

    NsubordinatNchurlish Report

    Mimi M
    Community Member
    1 week ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Oh lord, that's a hard one. Right up there with nucular and aks.

    Angela Corvaia
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    1 week ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I cannot break my husband of 'Supposubly". Drives me crazy, along with 'crouch' instead of 'cr..otch'. His mom said it that way as well. He cannot hear the difference.

    nichomach
    Community Member
    1 week ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    If she says "irregardless", take the kids and run.

    Spittnimage
    Community Member
    1 week ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I had a friend who said ideal instead of idea, death instead of deaf, supposively instead of supposedly 🤦🏼‍♀️

    Facefullopubes
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    5 days ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    The Bristol L, Bristolians add an L to any vowel at the end of the word. Idea becomes ideal, Eva becomes Eval, prima becomes primal and so on. Also has to be said with a pronounced West Country accent. Gert lush, innit.

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    Julie S
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    1 week ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    My dad says Pacific instead of specific no matter how often I correct him.

    Mel in Georgia
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    1 week ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    A very good friend, very intelligent and lovely, says re-la-tor instead of realtor. It's not an uncommon mispronunciation, but my dad was a realtor and it makes me cringe every time. Debated whether to say something to her about it or not, and decided, no - don't want to embarrass her, and it wouldn't be kind.

    Emilu
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    1 week ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Torlet? (That one could be an Aussie-ism, admittedly. Still annoying AF though.)

    Detroit Citizen
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    1 week ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Warsh.. Warsh cloth, warshing machine. Im in Michigan so it usually wash. I understand in the south, deep south, they say warsh with a twang. Up here its just weird. But we do say doorwall (sliding glass doors in homes) party store (beer and liqueur) everyone here says pop, i say soda to be "different" lol. I do find i like the Aussie slang, and how you use the C word so much. Here its the no no word unless you are beyond beyond upset with them, still not great lol

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    my sox are in flux
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    15 hours ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    My husband says "ex-spresso". 😳 I just order for him.

    No one
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    5 days ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Is she a Spanish speaker? Spanish speakers often say peeksa for pizza. Might be a language thing

    Val
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    1 week ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Ugh. My daughter says "Instabul" instead of "Istanbul." 😜 [She's only 4. I'm just jokin'.]

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