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Nothing can turn my frown upside down faster than receiving an unexpected, genuine compliment. If someone boosts my ego, I’m going to remember that moment for the rest of my life. And I’ll be on cloud nine for at least the rest of the day!

We all deserve to have our egos boosted every now and then, and it feels wonderful to spike your loved ones’ self-confidence too. So if you’re looking for ideas on how to do so, Reddit users have recently been sharing examples of wholesome moments that shot their egos through the roof. Enjoy scrolling through this list, and be sure to upvote the things that would totally hype you up too!

#1

“Mommy, Look! She’s So Pretty!”: 30 People Share The Biggest Ego Boosts They’ve Ever Gotten This is weird, but here goes. When the vet tells me, genuinely, my kitty was a good girl, a couple grumbles, put liked the pets and lovies and was cooperative. She has a checkered past, and when I first adopted her, her foster family had been kicked out of three vets. Her first vet appointment I took her to required three very experienced vet techs and the vet to be in protective gear. I just loved her and was happy to have her even if she was just a stone cold psycho forever. I never expected she would become such a lovey and snuggler and be my little shadow. That she is a good girl for the vet makes me so happy for her and makes me feel like I did a good job helping her feel safe. I am also so happy other people get to love her too. ETA - this is important to me because growing up, as an adult I realize, pets in our family were not well taken care of. It matters to me that I grew up to be a person who cares for pets well.

BnCtrKiki , Gustavo Fring/pexels Report

Thee8thsense
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1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

We are often mirrors to our pets, as they are to us.

Rosie Hamilton
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1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Looks askance at my grumpy terrier who hates being woken up... um...

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TheElderNom
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1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

The vet told me my cat has the tiniest and cutest front paws. I knew that already but it was good to get it confirmed by a professional.

Tabitha
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1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

My vet told me my void Jack is the finest example of cat he’d ever treated. Jack was the runt of his litter, but grew into a nearly 17 lb sweet cuddly void boy. He turned 10 years old this summer, and may be slowing down a tad, but he’s still the sweet boy he’s always been. He also has a vet visit coming up next month, so he’ll be getting more praise from the vet then.

LizzieBoredom
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1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Attila is as sweet as pie to the vet, and can't wait to get home so she can resume her sneak attack on the Balkan regions of my body.

Sarah Suelzle
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1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I love this ... it's amazing what love can do ❤

Jude Laskowski
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1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Unfortunately, in 10/2020, my last cat passed away from cancer. The only cats available for adoption were kittens, and I wanted an older or senior cat; I would have taken a bonded pair. I was finally offered a "shy" four year old large tabby in a shelter where I had previously volunteered. Turned out, he was completely freaked out and hid under my bed for two weeks. The shelter "neglected" to supply me with his anxiety meds. He now is ok with me, but runs and hides when he hears someone in the hallway outside of my apartment. You are so lucky.

Claire Elise
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1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

This means you created a safe space for her to heal and get comfy in!!! Thank you!!! 💝

Kelly H. Wilder
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1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

It means "edited to add", meaning the original author added what follows the ETA after writing the post.

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Multa Nocte
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1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Aw . . . what a great job done!

Feelings are fake
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1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

So basically, I am a normal person so praise me

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    #2

    “Mommy, Look! She’s So Pretty!”: 30 People Share The Biggest Ego Boosts They’ve Ever Gotten I was in the mall bathroom and it was packed. While I was gussying up, the toddler next to me points at me and told her mom ‘mommy look shes so pretty.’ I got shy because there were so many people. Ill never forget you little girl!

    anon , Thomas Ronveaux/pexels Report

    detective miller's hat
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    When I was still blonde, one day in the supermarket, I heard a little girl say to her mother in this shocked sort of awed voice, "mom, look, it's Elsa!!" (I had my hair in a braid that day.) I was basically walking on air for the rest of the day with a big stupid grin on my face.

    Nadine Debard
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Happened to me but I was brunette and I just had that exact braid, it was so kind!

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    Howl's sleeping castle
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Once a toddler stumbled and fell down while walking past me because he couldn't take his eyes off me. When his mother picked him up , he pointed at me and said 'love'. I no longer remember his face but I will always remember how special I felt

    Rosecat
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    When I was working at a restaurant playgroud, a little girl told her mom that she liked my lipstick, and then got shy when her mom told me🥺

    UKGrandad
    Community Member
    1 year ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I'm 6ft, 200lb, with a face that could frighten a police horse. I was shopping yesterday and stopped next to a trolley with a little girl, probably no older than 2, in the seat. I smiled at her and she gave me a huge, ear-to-ear grin in return. Her mum looked round to see what she was smiling at and with a surprised look on her face said 'Wow! She NEVER smiles at people she doesn't know'.

    Slap Shot
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    1 year ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I was at my husbands company party standing by a male friend and someone asked him if I was his wife and he said “I wish”. I realized at moment that I could do better. I’m now divorced. And no I’m not with the man who complimented me, but l’m oh so happy.

    ZuriLovesYou
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I remember I was in Burlington one time, and this woman complimented my hair beads. 🥰

    Binky Melnik
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    My biggest shame that’s eaten at me for decades: I’d been driving all day and was tired, hot, and hungry. Stopped at a diner to have a quick lunch, and in the booth in front of me was a little kid who kept standing up, turning around, and staring at me. I was NOT in the mood. I kept making horrid faces at her, hoping she’d get the message, but she kept right on. Then she whispered something to her mother who turned around and told me that her daughter thinks I’m the most beautiful woman in the world and I must be a princess. I was so ashamed I dropped a bill on the table and bolted; I couldn’t bear for that kid to turn around one more time. I hated it that her “princess” was a crabby b***h. I wish to christ I could get over it, but it’s gonna follow me to my grave. (On the upside: I’ve never sucked like that again.)

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    #3

    “Mommy, Look! She’s So Pretty!”: 30 People Share The Biggest Ego Boosts They’ve Ever Gotten I work at Walmart as a picker(I shop for online orders). WM can be overwhelming anyway, and when the store is busy, customers hate us, always saying we're rude and in the way, but one day I was in an aisle waiting for some customers to get by me and an older woman said to me "you have the sweetest smile" when she walked by and it was the nicest thing anyone has ever said to me. My mom or no one else in my life has ever said anything nice to me like that and I'm 57.

    It really made my day.

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    Owen
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    The kindness of strangers can be amazing. Give someone you don't know a compliment today. 🧐

    Susan
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Unfortunately I've heard stories about girls who gave a compliment to a stranger to be friendly and ended up being stalked by that stranger afterwards. It's a messed up world when you have to be afraid of everyone.

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    Ashlie Ann
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Anytime I'm out anywhere, I compliment other people, random strangers. You don't know what others are going through, so try to put a smile on their face. Who knows, it could be only smile they've had all week.

    Kari Panda
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Why would customers hate them? Aren’t they just like any other shopper, except the items aren’t for themselves?

    Bouche and Audi and Shyla, Oh My!
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    They have to wear their smocks, I expect, so entitled people probably think they're taking the "good" stuff to hide it in the warehouse in the back so no one can buy it. After all, the purpose of any store is to prevent people from buying things.

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    Sven Horlemann
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    57 now myself, I started more an dmore with polite, friendly comments to strangers in random situation. Not to have a conversation, but acknowledge us in a nice way. Makes me feel good. And the reactions are great, 99/100.

    Leoninus Fate
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    no matter who I talk to, stranger or friend or ransom person in the story, I always tell them "hello, thank you, please" and I always " wish them well, hope there happy or getting better" A few times iv told them and had them tell me back that they needed to hear it was "I love you, you matter, don't worry, even tho we might never see each other again, know I love you and I'm proud of you and everything you do!" Cause I Want everyone to know that even if you feel alone, and no one loves you, REMEMBER I DO, so you always got 1 person no matter what!

    Bin Miggy
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Is this your picture? If yes, then you do have a wonderful smile

    Feelings are fake
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Typical guy who gets the hate but never the love from women

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    #4

    “Mommy, Look! She’s So Pretty!”: 30 People Share The Biggest Ego Boosts They’ve Ever Gotten At my first proper job the team in my office started becoming toxic and the one guy I was on good terms with called his girlfriend and I overheard him tell her that I was the only decent guy in the office. As someone who struggled with making and maintaining friends, this made me feel like I am no longer the a*****e schoolboy heavily influenced by my a*****e father.

    EnchantingEva35 , William Fortunato/pexels Report

    Angela C
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I hope both of you found better jobs since

    Laura Gillette
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    An old friend from elementary school I haven't stayed close with (we went to different middle schools, and then ran in different crowds in high school) told me on Facebook that I was one of the only two nice kids in our entire class. She said everyone else was mean to her except me and this one other girl. I remember those days, and yes, yes they were. I think she had severe ADHD and lived with just her mom, who was not the most attentive parent, so she had some behavior problems. I also had/have ADHD, although nowhere nearly as bad as she did, and was a bit of an outsider, although had some close friends, fortunately. But sadly, my friends, although not outright mean to her, were clearly made uncomfortable by her, so they didn't want to hang out with her. So I would either hang out with my regular friend group, or sometimes just her, by ourselves. But never all together. 😥

    #5

    “Mommy, Look! She’s So Pretty!”: 30 People Share The Biggest Ego Boosts They’ve Ever Gotten Whenever we go camping I always light the fire. Every year someone will try to usurp me and every year I will be dragged away from building my tent because they can't get it going. I am the fire queen. .

    Big_Art_4675 , Oleksandr P/pexels Report

    cerinamroth
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I grew up on a self-sufficient smallholding and all my friends agree that, come the apocalypse, I'm the lady with the skills we need to survive! That made me laugh but also feel quite good!

    Kangaroo
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Ooooh I’m the same way! My friend group is made up of mostly guys so it makes me feel pretty cool and tough when the men can’t get the fire lit and they have to call me, the former Girl Guide over to help 😎

    detective miller's hat
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    SAME. I was one of those teenage hooligans who liked setting fire to things and blowing things up--it's nice to be able to put my talents to good use. Except for the time 2 years ago when the campsite gave up rubbish firewood and no matter how hard I tried, I COULD NOT get a fire going. I was thoroughly ashamed.

    Laura Gillette
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    1 year ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    When I went camping as Girl Scout, some of the other girls called me Pele (the Hawaiian goddess of fire https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Pele_(deity) ). I also enjoyed tending the fire because it gave me something to do since most of the other girls wouldn't hang out with me/were actively mean to me. But at least the one who was kind of my friend started calling me Pele, and some of the other girls did too (especially when I was first getting the fire going, and they would go, "Great Pele, give us fire!"), and it made me feel appreciated, even though I never felt included. I quit Girl Scouts after middle school.

    Karina
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Hehe, me too. Taught by another fire queer ❤️

    tuzdayschild
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Oooo, I want to be the Fire Queen. I'm not good at starting fires but I love the title.

    RageOfAquarius
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    That's my mum (and sometimes me)! We both secretly laugh when my dad, the city kid, tries it and just doesn't understand that it's more than a pile of wood. He gets indignant, but if you know what you're doing, you don't need to use lighter fluid, especially not half a bottle.

    Lotekguy
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    Premium
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Good to have useful skills, but don't mention your title if ever accused of arson.

    Celtic Pirate Queen
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    OMG - me too! I went camping with my ex and my two kids. I dug a fire pit about 2 feet deep, with a smaller, shallower area for cooking. My kids & I went out to find wood and kindling. Someone had ridden a horse through there, so I had my 4 y/o daughter pick up the "horse apples" - they are totally the best fuel to get a fire started. My son (9) comes over with his firewood and askes me why his sister is playing with "horse s**t"? She freaked out - "You let me touch horse poop?" We had quite the collection, so I just told her - wait until we light the fire. I put about 6 horse "apples" in the fire pit with kindling on top. It took less than 30 minutes to have a roaring fire going (pyromania runs in my family). I told her to go ahead and throw a horse ball in - the flame was a brilliant bright blue. She was suddenly oh, so, proud of herself.

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    #6

    “Mommy, Look! She’s So Pretty!”: 30 People Share The Biggest Ego Boosts They’ve Ever Gotten When my dog chooses to cuddle with me instead of anyone else in the room.

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    Multa Nocte
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    That's because you are the bestest person in the world to your dog.

    sturmwesen
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    1 year ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    ohh yesterday we were at an open air cinema and a woman hat her tiny senior rescue with her... guess who ended up with them on their lap most of the time (after asking of course)? It was the loveliest little mix full with attitude but dignity...

    Julia H
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    My hubby is the animal whisperer. All animals prefer him. It's a definite boost when they want scritches from me.

    Abdullah Abd Rahman
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    When my blue-eyed cat chooses to cuddle and kiss with me more than anyone else in the house.

    SmooshyFries
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I am usually cuddled up with 4 of the 6 dogs in my house. Missing them all at this moment, healing from a car accident and can't have them jumping on me

    Celtic Pirate Queen
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I am not a pet person, but that doesn't mean I don't like animals. A few weeks ago I went to visit a dear friend of mine. She has 2 small dogs, she knows they're both part Chihuahua, but knows for a fact the taller one is part Rat Terrier. The other one took a liking to me and my friend was so worried about all the dog hair on my clothes - you know what? I'm washable. I LOVED getting to know her "ladies", Lilly (the long legged) and Daisy, who, for whatever reason just loved me.

    Susan Teter
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    ALL of my cats come to me and choose to be around me...not my son, and not my husband. You don't know how much that means to me!

    Ilkka Holma
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    i had a similar thing with one of our farm cats ( we had a couple ). she'd enter our living room where our family ( 5kids + parents) were watching telly. Everyone tried to pick up her attention, and 100 times out of100 she jumped on my lap and started snuggling.. too bad i could not take her with me when i moved on my own...

    Aroace tiger (she/they/he)
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    To my dog my dads the best person yet sje always cuddles me :)

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    #7

    “Mommy, Look! She’s So Pretty!”: 30 People Share The Biggest Ego Boosts They’ve Ever Gotten When I get to exercise my vast collection of random information I have amassed over the decades of diving into rabbit holes on the internet. Being able to answer the questions most people say "Who TF even knows this s**t?" feels so good! Makes me feel smart and educated even though I'm a dumb dropout.

    DaGoodSauce , Michael Burrows/pexels Report

    DutchPanda
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Everyone's smart in their own way, the fact that you learned to do things in a different way, than they taught you at school, doesn't make you dumb. It tells that you're thinking outside the box

    Zoe Vokes
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I’ve got a high IQ but no general knowledge. Facts don’t stay in my head. I’ve always thought people who know facts and can quote poets and authors are so impressive.

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    cerinamroth
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    My translation research has led me up some weird and wonderful alleys over the years. I have also amassed a crazy amount of trivia. Makes me great at the pub quiz but my short-term memory is c**p. I have no idea what I did yesterday.

    MC Scott
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I think we’re long- lost twins. I call it my Magpie mind, picking up anything shiny. Served me well at a recent work conference; we ended the day with a team trivia game, which my team (headed by our big boss) won. I went up several notches in his estimation just for knowing random useless stuff.

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    Leigh James
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    OP is an Autodidact, self-educated, not "a dumb dropout." There are a plethora of ways to educate ones self not just the conventional.

    detective miller's hat
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    This is one of the reasons I love long conversations with my brothers. All 3 of us tend to go down weird random rabbit holes consuming vast amounts of [mostly useless] information, so we never run out of interesting things to talk about.

    RageOfAquarius
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    My friend told me while we were at the aquarium the other day, "Being here with you is like getting a free guided tour."

    Red_panda
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Apparently this is me. Awhile back someone asked a question and no one else had the answer, then they all looked at me. I asked them, why do you all assume I know the answer? They said, well do you? Yes, but that's not the point!!

    Julia H
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I love the shocked look some get when I happen to know something cool

    StrangeOne
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    It doesn't always take school to learn.

    Dee Rutherford
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    You are NOT a dumb dropout. You just learned a different way that didn’t get marked. You are a smart cookie!

    MotherofGuineaPigs
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I totally relate to this - BTW Why did pirates wear gold earrings?

    DramaDoc
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    A few (possible) reasons: the earring would help protect the wearer from drowning; the earring prevented seasickness; the gold could be used to pay for burial (assuming the pirate wasn't just thrown overboard); the hoops specifically were given to commemorate crossing the equator...

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    #8

    “Mommy, Look! She’s So Pretty!”: 30 People Share The Biggest Ego Boosts They’ve Ever Gotten Recently a guy a the grocery store said “wow, you have the most vibrant eyes”. Then he turned to his girlfriend and said “aren’t they amazing?” It felt like a huge compliment because I’m a guy and he clearly wasn’t hitting on me….and yes, I’m sure it was his girlfriend because he was all over her.

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    cerinamroth
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I speak rather rudimentary Japanese and one day while waiting in the queue at the convenience store near Mount Fuji, an old woman patted me on the arm and smiled at me. She pointed to my eyes, and said they were beautiful. As beautiful and blue as the sky above Mount Fuji! I nearly cried!

    Ashlie Ann
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    First thing I notice about someone is their eyes 👀

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    #9

    “Mommy, Look! She’s So Pretty!”: 30 People Share The Biggest Ego Boosts They’ve Ever Gotten Being told I’m the reason someone didn’t give up.

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    Nadine Debard
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    1 year ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    My sweet math teacher who said 'every one of you can do maths, you're all capable, don't give up, I'm here for you'. Thank you so much, Mr Badjagou, I wish you the best.

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    #10

    “Mommy, Look! She’s So Pretty!”: 30 People Share The Biggest Ego Boosts They’ve Ever Gotten I am a large straight man, at my last job the two lesbians that worked there were STUNNED that I was single.

    I have been riding that high for almost 6 years.

    That's the TLDR version, the verbatim conversation was...

    L1 - "You've got a girlfriend right?"

    Me - "Nope, still single."

    L2 - "Really? You aren't dating anyone?"

    Me - "That's right, haven't dated in a few years."

    *Both girls look at one another, then back to me, and say in unison*

    "HOW?!?".

    Spurnch , Karolina Kaboompics/pexels Report

    Doctor Strange
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I usually get the stunned "how" when on the rare occasions I can truthfully say I HAVE a girlfriend.

    Ashlie Ann
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    For some strange reason, I get asked that a lot as well. 🤷

    Feelings are fake
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    1 year ago

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    It is because many women get their emotional knowledge and support from TikTok.

    Gen X Feral
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Tell me you're an icel without telling me you're an incel 😒

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    #11

    When someone says their pet likes me, or if an animal chose to sit in my lap instead of someone else's. That always makes my day.

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    Multa Nocte
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Because pets are generally better at telling a comfortable person than many people are.

    nottheactualphoto
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    When my mom was young, she learned she was a cat person... from someone else's cat!

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    Bouche and Audi and Shyla, Oh My!
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    My housekeeper has been mildly afraid of animals, especially cats, his whole life. He was very nervous at first. It didn't take all that long for him to not jump every time he saw them. They sensed he was uncomfortable, and mostly stayed away. Normally, both cats will come up to a visitor within a short time. I think they're giving visitors job interviews. Anyway, five months in, Olly won't get Bouche out of the sink, but otherwise mostly just ignores them. Audi lies in doorways to supurrvise the cleaning, and Bouche has decided to tame Olly. She leaves around his feet, marking him with her scent.

    Angela C
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Especially if their pet doesn't like most people

    cerinamroth
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Is not so good for me with allergies. Cats and dogs seem to love me, and I sure love them, but I do have to double-dose on the antihistamines!

    Salty_Sasquatch
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    The first time I met my now mother-in-law both her dog and her cat snuggled up on either side of my lap. She said normally the cat hides when there's someone new in the house. I was very complimented.

    Gen X Feral
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Getting the official seal of pet approval is the best feeling ever

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    Beak Hookage
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I got talking to this woman who had two greyhounds with her. Just as she said "greyhounds are aloof dogs; they don't seek out affection" BOTH dogs came right up to me wagging and asking for pats. :D

    Grace Knowlton
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    When my friend tells me that her cat doesn't like anyone but as soon as I am the only person around the cat is on my lap 😂

    Carole G.
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Pets see our souls. Don't trust a person your pet doesn't like, it's a huge red flag.

    Aroace tiger (she/they/he)
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I went to a friends house and their pers were with me far more than anyone else it was amazing

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    #12

    “Mommy, Look! She’s So Pretty!”: 30 People Share The Biggest Ego Boosts They’ve Ever Gotten When someone genuinely laughs at my jokes ❤️.

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    Kim Kermes
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    1 year ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    No day is wasted wasted when we make someone laugh.

    Jennik
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Especially when you make them snort coffee out of their nose in an important meeting

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    Hey!
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I still laugh at my husband's jokes after 35 years.

    #13

    “Mommy, Look! She’s So Pretty!”: 30 People Share The Biggest Ego Boosts They’ve Ever Gotten Multiple people have commented on my laugh before but it never really sank in until one of my buddies says "Man, your laugh is one of my favorite things to hear" and that's when I realized "Maybe I do have it pretty good".

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    Lyoness
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I love it when someone else's laugh makes other people laugh. Doesn't matter if you haven't heard what's funny, it just makes you laugh. So rare and so awesome.

    Carrie
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    That was my brother. He made even the dumbest movies feel like the most hilarious things I'd ever watched just because of his laugh. I loved watching things with him. RIP Baby Bro.

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    Mary Obrien
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I still remember when someone told me my laugh was contagious.

    Salty_Sasquatch
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    The other night my husband parked on a city street and I got out to find he was parked next to a newly planted strip of greenery. It had been raining for several days and the pot was a huge mud puddle. I started laughing because I was teetering on the curb. A woman walking by said 'that is a great laugh' and I appreciated that a lot.

    Randa Eden
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    A co worker of mine had the best laugh. Even hearing her across the room made my heart happy.

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    #14

    “Mommy, Look! She’s So Pretty!”: 30 People Share The Biggest Ego Boosts They’ve Ever Gotten Overhearing someone compliment or say something positive about you when they don’t think you are listening.

    When the older black lady calls me sugar or honey.

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    Mimi M
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I call everybody sweetie. When I get on the train and the gangsta guy is manspreading over three seats, I go up to him and say 'hey, sweetie - mind if I sit?' - he scoots over right quick.

    Kari Panda
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    That sounds like such a positive take? I applaud you for this and am amazed.

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    Hobby Hopper
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    The sugar/honey thing always made me uncomfortable. It felt overly familiar and kinda patronizing, even when I was 7.

    highwaycrossingfrog
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Upvoting you because I hate being called "my lovely" by anyone (although probably more because grammatically it's an adverb, not a noun), and also being addressed as "love" by strangers, which happens pretty often in the UK. I'm not your love. It does feel overly familiar and just weird and inappropriate

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    Beak Hookage
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I don't know exactly what was said, but I do know that when I was about to be made redundant at work, a LOT of my co-workers fought to make the boss change his mind, saying I was a valuable employee and hard-working and that they needed me around. I'd spent the last significant number of years generally just hiding out in my office and keeping my head down to avoid drawing the (horrible) boss' attention and yet I'd still gotten that level of respect and liking from my colleagues, many of them quite highly placed. That still makes me feel good, even if their efforts failed. That boss was an idiot.

    Danish Susanne
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    1 year ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    He must have been a real idiot, for other workers know who does well.

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    SmooshyFries
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    WHY is that always so endearing? Its like a warm hug without ever touching

    Steph Rs
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    1 year ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    That’s the perfect description! It makes me feel so warm inside.

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    #15

    “Mommy, Look! She’s So Pretty!”: 30 People Share The Biggest Ego Boosts They’ve Ever Gotten The compliment I got from some random woman at a bar a few weeks ago where she said I (a man) had nice hair and then disappeared into the crowd never to be seen again. I remember your words random lady and thank you for them.

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    DennyS (denzoren)
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Its really strange to think about it cause like there has been random times over my 36 years, as rare as they are lol, and I remember them lol

    #16

    “Mommy, Look! She’s So Pretty!”: 30 People Share The Biggest Ego Boosts They’ve Ever Gotten When my son tells me that I'm the "best mama ever". It makes me feel like I can conquer the world.

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    cerinamroth
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Mine tells me to go away, and once told me that he thought I should be dead (he's 2). My daughter's a sweetie, though! (Thank God.)

    Nadine Debard
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    My son (3) plays this game of power with me and I never fall for it. 'I don't love you mom'. Too bad, but nevermind, I love you, son. (Then he says he loves me and hugs me). 'I don't want a hug, mom'. Okay, maybe later (then he hugs and kisses me). We also have the 'okay to be upset but not to be mean' thing.

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    SweetCheesySpaghetti
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    My 7 year old yells at me when I say I'm fat. He says he hates when people are mean to themselves. "You are not fat! You are beautiful."

    cerinamroth
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Careful how you speak about yourself in front of your child - to them, we will always be beautiful. There was a wonderful experiment once in Germany asking children to say who they thought was the most beautiful person in the world, and after thinking about it it a little, they all said their mums. They liked their softness, their cuddles, strength, compassion. That's what matters most to little kids. When I say I'm fat to my kids, it's because I am not a healthy weight, not because I don't like myself. I am working on making healthy choices so that I can be there for my kids for as long as possible. This also teaches kids that fat is nothing shameful.

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    Rosecat
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I got called a beautiful mommy princess by a girl that wasn't my daughter. Best feeling ever till I had my own.

    Hey!
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    All through their teen years our children compared us with their friends' parents. Apparently we were the best, which is why everyone spent their time in our home most.

    Colleen Glim
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    My youngest (25) just told me the other day that she was glad she had the parents she did. We may not have been perfect, but we tried

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    #17

    “Mommy, Look! She’s So Pretty!”: 30 People Share The Biggest Ego Boosts They’ve Ever Gotten Receiving a compliment from a woman as a man.

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    zatrisha
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I would like to compliment men more often, but they immediately interpret it as flirting and want more.

    Vivi Pettiss
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Same! I wish there was a way to compliment platonically that wouldn't end in some guys accusing you of leading them on!

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    Karina
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I trybto compliment men as often as I see a chance, and I often get a bewikildered responce. But then it often turns into something that I dont want. But I still do it because even as much attention and support wonen get for living in a world of toxic men, and they should, we often forget that most men have it just as bad, because they dont recieve the same support ❤️ and men are sooo much more toxic to other men, and it somehow goes under the radar

    xolitaire
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    1 year ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    To me compliments from a man feel the same as from a woman. I still remember a male cashier looking at me and going "Wow, your glasses are awesome" out of the blue. His facial expression showed that he very likely hadn't planned to say that out loud, but I still remember it to this day.

    CrazyKnitter
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I always try to tell anyone that I see with a cool shirt that I like it. Men usually are much more surprised than women, but I think that most appreciated it. It's also a good way to avoid the misinterpretation of flirting, because it's more of a drive-by "hey man, I like your shirt" than an actual conversation.

    Dahungryfella
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    This almost never happens and it is incredibly sad.

    Nea
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Honestly I read this a lot here on BP and find it surprising. It is very common for women to give male friends/colleagues compliments where I come from.

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    Ashlie Ann
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Just remember, just because someone is friendly, doesn't mean that they are flirting with you.

    Doctor Strange
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I remember the last time I got an unsolicited compliment on my looks. I was 6 years old. I'm 41 now.

    Argie Smith
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    As a man, receiving a compliment from a woman. There, I fixed it.

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    #18

    “Mommy, Look! She’s So Pretty!”: 30 People Share The Biggest Ego Boosts They’ve Ever Gotten When a child tells me I am pretty. Kids are genuine. I believe them.

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    Karina
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    "Here, I made you this necklace, so that you can remember you are a woman" - it dosnt have the same ring to it 😂 She also touched the face of my Bob Marley tshirt i was wearing and said " wow, you have all this bumps in your stomack", so I had to explain abs to her. She is very sweet tho, my little neighbor ❤️

    Dumb teenager
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    No idea why but it looks like someone’s systematically gone through and downvoted a lot of your comments without any clear reason

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    Hey!
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    One child asked me if I was pregnant because of my belly; his mother was horrified. I was ecstatic. I showed off my newborn. We were at the hospital for another reason.

    Kangaroo
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I walked out of my apartment and the two cute little girls playing outside stopped to say hi to me and one said “you are very beautiful” before bouncing away to play. 🥹 it made my day - this was actually like a year ago and it still makes me smile

    #19

    “Mommy, Look! She’s So Pretty!”: 30 People Share The Biggest Ego Boosts They’ve Ever Gotten Making someone I care about happy.

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    Lotekguy
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Almost 30 years together, and making my wife laugh is still a great source of joy for me.

    Lucky Hemlock
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Making my mom laugh out loud is one of my favorite feelings in the world

    #20

    “Mommy, Look! She’s So Pretty!”: 30 People Share The Biggest Ego Boosts They’ve Ever Gotten My grandma reminding me I'm a cutie patootie.

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    Lyoness
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Maybe it's a generational thing but my Nana called me the same thing. I still miss her.

    Rizzo
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    "Hot patoote, bless my soul. Really love that Rock 'n' Roll!" ;)

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    #21

    “Mommy, Look! She’s So Pretty!”: 30 People Share The Biggest Ego Boosts They’ve Ever Gotten Someone remembering small details about me.

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    The Nessie
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    As long as that small detail isn't your name, I'm your girl! I remember so much "small"stuff about people. I will know when you rabbit died, what kind of soup you dislike, how you named your childhood pet, how you "fight"with your significant other about the favorite spoon in the house....What I will not remember is your name

    Hotrodmom
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I remember your dog/cat/hamster/animal's name.....

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    Doctor Strange
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I always make sure to remember the details about those who are important to me. The last girl I dated I caught off guard, really surprised her, because I ordered her lunch. She sleeps late, I wake up early, so while she slept, I got hungry and ordered food. I decided to get her something too, since I knew she'd be hungry. I ordered a burger, exactly the way she likes it, even though it wasn't from anywhere we'd been to before, she'd never actually told me how she likes her burger. I just paid attention when we were together and could predict it.

    Zoe's Mom
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    This is huge for me. I remembering getting gifts in jewelry form in gold or gold tone. I only wear silver. As much as I appreciate someone thinking of me, it feels like they don't see me.

    The Phantom Stranger
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I had a job once where I don't think the store manager even knew my name after almost five years. New manager took over and the first time I met him he not it knew my name but somehow had found out that I was a Trekkie and a writer. Can you guess which one I remember more, 15 years later?

    Queen Jackson.
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I remember so many small details about people but keep it to myself so they don’t think I’m weird.

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    #22

    Being able to help someone or to somehow improve their day.

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    Rizzo
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I just did that! A colleague from the packing station mumbeled "Help!" as I passed by. I was already on my way to my workplace as it dawned on me. He really needs help. So I went back and asked him, if he really needs help and he smiled and said "Yes, please!". Turns out the boss walked by this morning and complained about the stuff standing around everywhere. Other colleagues came in late yesterday and didn't pack their stuff away, so the boss told him to do that - additional to his regular duties. We did the work that maybe would have took him an hour in about 15 minutes and he was very happy. His face made my day. :)

    S Bow
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Well done, that was very kind of you 👏

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    Nancy Honn
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    This is why I'm a nurse

    Beak Hookage
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    My favourite part of my last job! Seeing someone come in worried or upset and leaving with a smile on their face was awesome.

    LilLemon
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    This is literally why I work in the non-profit world

    #23

    “Mommy, Look! She’s So Pretty!”: 30 People Share The Biggest Ego Boosts They’ve Ever Gotten Seeing my work published or recognized.

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    Captive
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    As an unsuccessful author...

    Danish Susanne
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I have not had anything published, but I read a story I wrote in kindergarten class, and when I finished they all clapped.

    #24

    “Mommy, Look! She’s So Pretty!”: 30 People Share The Biggest Ego Boosts They’ve Ever Gotten When the girls and the gays compliment my outfit.

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    Robert Benson
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Our society (USA in particular) doesn't really encourage straight men to be fashion conscious, or to know how to give platonic compliments. Maybe we can work on fixing this? The outfit in the photo is very nice, sophisticated casual? :) ... and I know men tell women to smile too often, but she does look happy and happiness makes any outfit look better.

    Dee Rutherford
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    1 year ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    When same sex (and gay folks) compliment a gal, it feels better than when a guy does. You know it’s sincere.

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    #25

    “Mommy, Look! She’s So Pretty!”: 30 People Share The Biggest Ego Boosts They’ve Ever Gotten When you haven’t seen someone in a while and they say “You look great” and you know it’s genuine.

    tmac588 , Gary Barnes/pexels Report

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    #26

    Out of the blue compliments of my abilities at something I love doing.

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    Julia H
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Agreed. I just got an IM from a coworker thanking me for walking through something I understand, so they could. Then asking if I could walk through another item. For me, it's a huge ego boost

    #27

    “Mommy, Look! She’s So Pretty!”: 30 People Share The Biggest Ego Boosts They’ve Ever Gotten When my photography gets appreciated.

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    DennyS (denzoren)
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Plus, all photography is great, you took the picture so that must mean you saw something worth photographing...even if it's those duck face selfies...still great because it's great to the person in it.

    The Phantom Stranger
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Anything that you do, that is important to you, when it is appreciated by someone else, makes you feel good.

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    #28

    Knowing my writing resonated with someone.

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    Howl's sleeping castle
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    When people email me to tell they liked my article

    Firstname Lastname
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I used to write fanfiction years ago. Sometimes I still get email notifications saying someone liked my story, and even though it has been ages, it still makes me get all giddy inside.

    Brocken Blue
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Oh, wow that’d be awesome *sits on my hands so I don’t go manically checking on all my old fanfic accounts *

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    Steph Rs
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I wrote my master’s thesis about a very niche project that I never thought anyone else would ever read. I had someone contact me a couple of years later to tell me they found my project and their team was using it as a guide as they went through the same process. (I don’t even know how they found it - it would be hard for *me* to find it and I actually know it exists!) It was the best compliment I ever received.

    #29

    When you crack a joke in front of a bunch of people and they all laugh.

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    XenoMurph
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    My favourite is a pause while they work out what i meant, then the laugh.

    Jennik
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Something I'm always a bit proud of was my annual presentation at the company conference at my last job. I hate public speaking, (public anything, really) and it was a tough audience of about 150 people. I always had them laughing and interacting with my presentations. They though I was really confident - in reality I always had nightmares days before and a stress migraine after.

    New Everywhere
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    When I slide in an obscure reference as a joke and the one person who gets it is in tears from laughing so hard

    LittleTeapot
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    This! And the reverse - when you get a reference! was learning about this database structure today and the guy explaining it told me the bridge structure between data workbooks was a “bifrost” something or other. I was like…wait…bifrost!? And then lost it laughing. Whoever named it deserves a high five!

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    #30

    “Mommy, Look! She’s So Pretty!”: 30 People Share The Biggest Ego Boosts They’ve Ever Gotten Receiving an unexpected bonus or gift.

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    DennyS (denzoren)
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Yeah, this always gets me. I'm not used to getting gifts so like when a friend is like, here I got you this...I'm like huh..why? Lol but I appreciate it.

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    #31

    When my fiancee smiles at me. I wish I could explain it.

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    Papa
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    OP doesn't need to explain it to me. I've been married for 36 years. I fully understand it.

    DennyS (denzoren)
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I don't have a fiancee but I imagine it feels like looking at a sunset while sitting under the cool shade of a tree.

    Lotekguy
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Rarely does a statement need explanation less than this one.

    #32

    “Mommy, Look! She’s So Pretty!”: 30 People Share The Biggest Ego Boosts They’ve Ever Gotten When someone finally admits I’m right. BECAUSE THEY KNEW IT IN THE FIRST PLACE BUT HAD TOO MUCH PRIDE TO ADMIT IT.

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    #33

    Random compliments from ladies that you have never seen and won't see again in your life on public transport or supermarkets or anywhere public.

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    Papa
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I can't speak for all men, but I remember things like that for years.

    Detroit Citizen
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    1 year ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I, a 48 y/o guy, understands that we can take a compliment wrong. But one will always, always stay with me. I work in the plumbing section of Home depot. I dont get a lot of women in my department. I was having a stressful day and some random woman just stops, looks into my eyes and says "OMG!! You have the most beautiful green eyes (my eyes change color {hazel, blue, green).". With that she vanished as quickly as she appeared. Thank you for the compliment dear stranger. It is the kindest, sweetest, most wholesome thing anyone has ever said to me. I am still living off that high almost a year later. Thank you. Thank you. Edited for grammar, spelling. I got teary eyed reliving this core memory again. I always do :) Edit #2: Forgot two words because of those onion ninjas lol. Just proof its the best compliment ever!!

    DennyS (denzoren)
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    This happened to me once when I was a teenager and I was in shock for days lol

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    #34

    Knowing I’ve left a lasting impression.

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    #35

    “Mommy, Look! She’s So Pretty!”: 30 People Share The Biggest Ego Boosts They’ve Ever Gotten When someone laughs at my jokes and genuinely finds me funny.

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    DennyS (denzoren)
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Yeah, especially someone who gets the jokes or references. I've been on the other end of this too where no one laughs lol I'll just see myself out at that point.

    #36

    Usually when i'm done weed eating and I can perform 'hand on hips/nod/yep' stance.

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    Charlie the Cat
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I don't know what this means. You eat weed then stand with your hands on your hips & nod?

    Papa
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    "Weed eating" refers to using a string trimmer. Weedeater is the brand name of one of the first ones, so it's become a catch-all name for all brands. OP is saying he or she gets satisfaction from doing a good job with that tool, and then standing back and admiring the result.

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    Jen Mart
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    We call it weed whipping up north

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    #37

    “Mommy, Look! She’s So Pretty!”: 30 People Share The Biggest Ego Boosts They’ve Ever Gotten People calling me a hacker in a game.

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    Dumb teenager
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Especially to whoever made the client they’re using (joke)

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    Bouche and Audi and Shyla, Oh My!
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    They always called me "you useless Hobbit" or "where's that ridiculous gnome". We are not the same.

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    #38

    “Mommy, Look! She’s So Pretty!”: 30 People Share The Biggest Ego Boosts They’ve Ever Gotten When my wife handles her own when men are chatting her up.

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    Owen
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    This. It's the best feeling.

    #39

    When people notice my weight loss or fitness progress.

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    Enlee Jones
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I’ve been on a weight loss and fitness journey (65 pounds down, 31 to go) and my sister said she has been telling her coworkers about how well I’ve been doing. That made my day!

    tracy black
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    i wish i knew what this feels like ive worked hard for the past 6 months and lost 29 lbs so far and not one single person has noticed except for me

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    #40

    Being praised for my creativity.

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    #41

    When I am complimented by a stranger to my face. :).

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    #42

    “Mommy, Look! She’s So Pretty!”: 30 People Share The Biggest Ego Boosts They’ve Ever Gotten When I'm on aux and my friends pull up Shazam.

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    Julie S
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I'm so old I have absolutely no idea what this means.

    #43

    Receiving a public thank you.

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    #44

    Getting high grades on a difficult exam.

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    #45

    Making my chest bounce like Terry Crews. Once i found out I could do that after I'd been hitting the gym for a while, it was the best day ever.

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    #46

    Being invited to speak at an event.

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    Lotekguy
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    The invitation, absolutely. The pressure of doing it, not so much. At least until it's over.

    Serena Myers
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Noooooo. Thanks, but no! I'm pleased OP considers it an ego-boost, but that would have me running for the nearest bunker and not exiting until I was sure whoever had found someone else, lol.

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    #47

    Opening a jar when your girl can't.

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    Karina
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Designers fixed that where I live. Thank you!!

    cerinamroth
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I used to open them for my husband, but since having kids my grip strength is so c**p he has to open all the gherkin jars these days.

    #48

    Making a big sale or business deal.

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