“Mommy, Look! She’s So Pretty!”: 30 People Share The Biggest Ego Boosts They’ve Ever Gotten
Nothing can turn my frown upside down faster than receiving an unexpected, genuine compliment. If someone boosts my ego, I’m going to remember that moment for the rest of my life. And I’ll be on cloud nine for at least the rest of the day!
We all deserve to have our egos boosted every now and then, and it feels wonderful to spike your loved ones’ self-confidence too. So if you’re looking for ideas on how to do so, Reddit users have recently been sharing examples of wholesome moments that shot their egos through the roof. Enjoy scrolling through this list, and be sure to upvote the things that would totally hype you up too!
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This is weird, but here goes. When the vet tells me, genuinely, my kitty was a good girl, a couple grumbles, put liked the pets and lovies and was cooperative. She has a checkered past, and when I first adopted her, her foster family had been kicked out of three vets. Her first vet appointment I took her to required three very experienced vet techs and the vet to be in protective gear. I just loved her and was happy to have her even if she was just a stone cold psycho forever. I never expected she would become such a lovey and snuggler and be my little shadow. That she is a good girl for the vet makes me so happy for her and makes me feel like I did a good job helping her feel safe. I am also so happy other people get to love her too. ETA - this is important to me because growing up, as an adult I realize, pets in our family were not well taken care of. It matters to me that I grew up to be a person who cares for pets well.
Looks askance at my grumpy terrier who hates being woken up... um...
Load More Replies...The vet told me my cat has the tiniest and cutest front paws. I knew that already but it was good to get it confirmed by a professional.
My vet told me my void Jack is the finest example of cat he’d ever treated. Jack was the runt of his litter, but grew into a nearly 17 lb sweet cuddly void boy. He turned 10 years old this summer, and may be slowing down a tad, but he’s still the sweet boy he’s always been. He also has a vet visit coming up next month, so he’ll be getting more praise from the vet then.
Attila is as sweet as pie to the vet, and can't wait to get home so she can resume her sneak attack on the Balkan regions of my body.
Unfortunately, in 10/2020, my last cat passed away from cancer. The only cats available for adoption were kittens, and I wanted an older or senior cat; I would have taken a bonded pair. I was finally offered a "shy" four year old large tabby in a shelter where I had previously volunteered. Turned out, he was completely freaked out and hid under my bed for two weeks. The shelter "neglected" to supply me with his anxiety meds. He now is ok with me, but runs and hides when he hears someone in the hallway outside of my apartment. You are so lucky.
This means you created a safe space for her to heal and get comfy in!!! Thank you!!! 💝
It means "edited to add", meaning the original author added what follows the ETA after writing the post.
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I was in the mall bathroom and it was packed. While I was gussying up, the toddler next to me points at me and told her mom ‘mommy look shes so pretty.’ I got shy because there were so many people. Ill never forget you little girl!
When I was still blonde, one day in the supermarket, I heard a little girl say to her mother in this shocked sort of awed voice, "mom, look, it's Elsa!!" (I had my hair in a braid that day.) I was basically walking on air for the rest of the day with a big stupid grin on my face.
Happened to me but I was brunette and I just had that exact braid, it was so kind!
Load More Replies...Once a toddler stumbled and fell down while walking past me because he couldn't take his eyes off me. When his mother picked him up , he pointed at me and said 'love'. I no longer remember his face but I will always remember how special I felt
I'm 6ft, 200lb, with a face that could frighten a police horse. I was shopping yesterday and stopped next to a trolley with a little girl, probably no older than 2, in the seat. I smiled at her and she gave me a huge, ear-to-ear grin in return. Her mum looked round to see what she was smiling at and with a surprised look on her face said 'Wow! She NEVER smiles at people she doesn't know'.
I remember I was in Burlington one time, and this woman complimented my hair beads. 🥰
My biggest shame that’s eaten at me for decades: I’d been driving all day and was tired, hot, and hungry. Stopped at a diner to have a quick lunch, and in the booth in front of me was a little kid who kept standing up, turning around, and staring at me. I was NOT in the mood. I kept making horrid faces at her, hoping she’d get the message, but she kept right on. Then she whispered something to her mother who turned around and told me that her daughter thinks I’m the most beautiful woman in the world and I must be a princess. I was so ashamed I dropped a bill on the table and bolted; I couldn’t bear for that kid to turn around one more time. I hated it that her “princess” was a crabby b***h. I wish to christ I could get over it, but it’s gonna follow me to my grave. (On the upside: I’ve never sucked like that again.)
I work at Walmart as a picker(I shop for online orders). WM can be overwhelming anyway, and when the store is busy, customers hate us, always saying we're rude and in the way, but one day I was in an aisle waiting for some customers to get by me and an older woman said to me "you have the sweetest smile" when she walked by and it was the nicest thing anyone has ever said to me. My mom or no one else in my life has ever said anything nice to me like that and I'm 57.
It really made my day.
The kindness of strangers can be amazing. Give someone you don't know a compliment today. 🧐
Unfortunately I've heard stories about girls who gave a compliment to a stranger to be friendly and ended up being stalked by that stranger afterwards. It's a messed up world when you have to be afraid of everyone.
Load More Replies...Anytime I'm out anywhere, I compliment other people, random strangers. You don't know what others are going through, so try to put a smile on their face. Who knows, it could be only smile they've had all week.
Why would customers hate them? Aren’t they just like any other shopper, except the items aren’t for themselves?
They have to wear their smocks, I expect, so entitled people probably think they're taking the "good" stuff to hide it in the warehouse in the back so no one can buy it. After all, the purpose of any store is to prevent people from buying things.
Load More Replies...57 now myself, I started more an dmore with polite, friendly comments to strangers in random situation. Not to have a conversation, but acknowledge us in a nice way. Makes me feel good. And the reactions are great, 99/100.
no matter who I talk to, stranger or friend or ransom person in the story, I always tell them "hello, thank you, please" and I always " wish them well, hope there happy or getting better" A few times iv told them and had them tell me back that they needed to hear it was "I love you, you matter, don't worry, even tho we might never see each other again, know I love you and I'm proud of you and everything you do!" Cause I Want everyone to know that even if you feel alone, and no one loves you, REMEMBER I DO, so you always got 1 person no matter what!
At my first proper job the team in my office started becoming toxic and the one guy I was on good terms with called his girlfriend and I overheard him tell her that I was the only decent guy in the office. As someone who struggled with making and maintaining friends, this made me feel like I am no longer the a*****e schoolboy heavily influenced by my a*****e father.
An old friend from elementary school I haven't stayed close with (we went to different middle schools, and then ran in different crowds in high school) told me on Facebook that I was one of the only two nice kids in our entire class. She said everyone else was mean to her except me and this one other girl. I remember those days, and yes, yes they were. I think she had severe ADHD and lived with just her mom, who was not the most attentive parent, so she had some behavior problems. I also had/have ADHD, although nowhere nearly as bad as she did, and was a bit of an outsider, although had some close friends, fortunately. But sadly, my friends, although not outright mean to her, were clearly made uncomfortable by her, so they didn't want to hang out with her. So I would either hang out with my regular friend group, or sometimes just her, by ourselves. But never all together. 😥
Whenever we go camping I always light the fire. Every year someone will try to usurp me and every year I will be dragged away from building my tent because they can't get it going. I am the fire queen. .
I grew up on a self-sufficient smallholding and all my friends agree that, come the apocalypse, I'm the lady with the skills we need to survive! That made me laugh but also feel quite good!
SAME. I was one of those teenage hooligans who liked setting fire to things and blowing things up--it's nice to be able to put my talents to good use. Except for the time 2 years ago when the campsite gave up rubbish firewood and no matter how hard I tried, I COULD NOT get a fire going. I was thoroughly ashamed.
When I went camping as Girl Scout, some of the other girls called me Pele (the Hawaiian goddess of fire https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Pele_(deity) ). I also enjoyed tending the fire because it gave me something to do since most of the other girls wouldn't hang out with me/were actively mean to me. But at least the one who was kind of my friend started calling me Pele, and some of the other girls did too (especially when I was first getting the fire going, and they would go, "Great Pele, give us fire!"), and it made me feel appreciated, even though I never felt included. I quit Girl Scouts after middle school.
Oooo, I want to be the Fire Queen. I'm not good at starting fires but I love the title.
That's my mum (and sometimes me)! We both secretly laugh when my dad, the city kid, tries it and just doesn't understand that it's more than a pile of wood. He gets indignant, but if you know what you're doing, you don't need to use lighter fluid, especially not half a bottle.
OMG - me too! I went camping with my ex and my two kids. I dug a fire pit about 2 feet deep, with a smaller, shallower area for cooking. My kids & I went out to find wood and kindling. Someone had ridden a horse through there, so I had my 4 y/o daughter pick up the "horse apples" - they are totally the best fuel to get a fire started. My son (9) comes over with his firewood and askes me why his sister is playing with "horse s**t"? She freaked out - "You let me touch horse poop?" We had quite the collection, so I just told her - wait until we light the fire. I put about 6 horse "apples" in the fire pit with kindling on top. It took less than 30 minutes to have a roaring fire going (pyromania runs in my family). I told her to go ahead and throw a horse ball in - the flame was a brilliant bright blue. She was suddenly oh, so, proud of herself.
When my dog chooses to cuddle with me instead of anyone else in the room.
ohh yesterday we were at an open air cinema and a woman hat her tiny senior rescue with her... guess who ended up with them on their lap most of the time (after asking of course)? It was the loveliest little mix full with attitude but dignity...
When my blue-eyed cat chooses to cuddle and kiss with me more than anyone else in the house.
I am usually cuddled up with 4 of the 6 dogs in my house. Missing them all at this moment, healing from a car accident and can't have them jumping on me
I am not a pet person, but that doesn't mean I don't like animals. A few weeks ago I went to visit a dear friend of mine. She has 2 small dogs, she knows they're both part Chihuahua, but knows for a fact the taller one is part Rat Terrier. The other one took a liking to me and my friend was so worried about all the dog hair on my clothes - you know what? I'm washable. I LOVED getting to know her "ladies", Lilly (the long legged) and Daisy, who, for whatever reason just loved me.
ALL of my cats come to me and choose to be around me...not my son, and not my husband. You don't know how much that means to me!
i had a similar thing with one of our farm cats ( we had a couple ). she'd enter our living room where our family ( 5kids + parents) were watching telly. Everyone tried to pick up her attention, and 100 times out of100 she jumped on my lap and started snuggling.. too bad i could not take her with me when i moved on my own...
To my dog my dads the best person yet sje always cuddles me :)
When I get to exercise my vast collection of random information I have amassed over the decades of diving into rabbit holes on the internet. Being able to answer the questions most people say "Who TF even knows this s**t?" feels so good! Makes me feel smart and educated even though I'm a dumb dropout.
Everyone's smart in their own way, the fact that you learned to do things in a different way, than they taught you at school, doesn't make you dumb. It tells that you're thinking outside the box
I’ve got a high IQ but no general knowledge. Facts don’t stay in my head. I’ve always thought people who know facts and can quote poets and authors are so impressive.
Load More Replies...My translation research has led me up some weird and wonderful alleys over the years. I have also amassed a crazy amount of trivia. Makes me great at the pub quiz but my short-term memory is c**p. I have no idea what I did yesterday.
I think we’re long- lost twins. I call it my Magpie mind, picking up anything shiny. Served me well at a recent work conference; we ended the day with a team trivia game, which my team (headed by our big boss) won. I went up several notches in his estimation just for knowing random useless stuff.
Load More Replies...OP is an Autodidact, self-educated, not "a dumb dropout." There are a plethora of ways to educate ones self not just the conventional.
This is one of the reasons I love long conversations with my brothers. All 3 of us tend to go down weird random rabbit holes consuming vast amounts of [mostly useless] information, so we never run out of interesting things to talk about.
My friend told me while we were at the aquarium the other day, "Being here with you is like getting a free guided tour."
You are NOT a dumb dropout. You just learned a different way that didn’t get marked. You are a smart cookie!
I totally relate to this - BTW Why did pirates wear gold earrings?
A few (possible) reasons: the earring would help protect the wearer from drowning; the earring prevented seasickness; the gold could be used to pay for burial (assuming the pirate wasn't just thrown overboard); the hoops specifically were given to commemorate crossing the equator...
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Recently a guy a the grocery store said “wow, you have the most vibrant eyes”. Then he turned to his girlfriend and said “aren’t they amazing?” It felt like a huge compliment because I’m a guy and he clearly wasn’t hitting on me….and yes, I’m sure it was his girlfriend because he was all over her.
I speak rather rudimentary Japanese and one day while waiting in the queue at the convenience store near Mount Fuji, an old woman patted me on the arm and smiled at me. She pointed to my eyes, and said they were beautiful. As beautiful and blue as the sky above Mount Fuji! I nearly cried!
Being told I’m the reason someone didn’t give up.
My sweet math teacher who said 'every one of you can do maths, you're all capable, don't give up, I'm here for you'. Thank you so much, Mr Badjagou, I wish you the best.
I am a large straight man, at my last job the two lesbians that worked there were STUNNED that I was single.
I have been riding that high for almost 6 years.
That's the TLDR version, the verbatim conversation was...
L1 - "You've got a girlfriend right?"
Me - "Nope, still single."
L2 - "Really? You aren't dating anyone?"
Me - "That's right, haven't dated in a few years."
*Both girls look at one another, then back to me, and say in unison*
"HOW?!?".
I usually get the stunned "how" when on the rare occasions I can truthfully say I HAVE a girlfriend.
Tell me you're an icel without telling me you're an incel 😒
Load More Replies...When someone says their pet likes me, or if an animal chose to sit in my lap instead of someone else's. That always makes my day.
Because pets are generally better at telling a comfortable person than many people are.
When my mom was young, she learned she was a cat person... from someone else's cat!
Load More Replies...My housekeeper has been mildly afraid of animals, especially cats, his whole life. He was very nervous at first. It didn't take all that long for him to not jump every time he saw them. They sensed he was uncomfortable, and mostly stayed away. Normally, both cats will come up to a visitor within a short time. I think they're giving visitors job interviews. Anyway, five months in, Olly won't get Bouche out of the sink, but otherwise mostly just ignores them. Audi lies in doorways to supurrvise the cleaning, and Bouche has decided to tame Olly. She leaves around his feet, marking him with her scent.
Is not so good for me with allergies. Cats and dogs seem to love me, and I sure love them, but I do have to double-dose on the antihistamines!
The first time I met my now mother-in-law both her dog and her cat snuggled up on either side of my lap. She said normally the cat hides when there's someone new in the house. I was very complimented.
Getting the official seal of pet approval is the best feeling ever
Load More Replies...I got talking to this woman who had two greyhounds with her. Just as she said "greyhounds are aloof dogs; they don't seek out affection" BOTH dogs came right up to me wagging and asking for pats. :D
When my friend tells me that her cat doesn't like anyone but as soon as I am the only person around the cat is on my lap 😂
I went to a friends house and their pers were with me far more than anyone else it was amazing
When someone genuinely laughs at my jokes ❤️.
Especially when you make them snort coffee out of their nose in an important meeting
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Multiple people have commented on my laugh before but it never really sank in until one of my buddies says "Man, your laugh is one of my favorite things to hear" and that's when I realized "Maybe I do have it pretty good".
I love it when someone else's laugh makes other people laugh. Doesn't matter if you haven't heard what's funny, it just makes you laugh. So rare and so awesome.
That was my brother. He made even the dumbest movies feel like the most hilarious things I'd ever watched just because of his laugh. I loved watching things with him. RIP Baby Bro.
Load More Replies...The other night my husband parked on a city street and I got out to find he was parked next to a newly planted strip of greenery. It had been raining for several days and the pot was a huge mud puddle. I started laughing because I was teetering on the curb. A woman walking by said 'that is a great laugh' and I appreciated that a lot.
A co worker of mine had the best laugh. Even hearing her across the room made my heart happy.
Overhearing someone compliment or say something positive about you when they don’t think you are listening.
When the older black lady calls me sugar or honey.
I call everybody sweetie. When I get on the train and the gangsta guy is manspreading over three seats, I go up to him and say 'hey, sweetie - mind if I sit?' - he scoots over right quick.
That sounds like such a positive take? I applaud you for this and am amazed.
Load More Replies...The sugar/honey thing always made me uncomfortable. It felt overly familiar and kinda patronizing, even when I was 7.
Upvoting you because I hate being called "my lovely" by anyone (although probably more because grammatically it's an adverb, not a noun), and also being addressed as "love" by strangers, which happens pretty often in the UK. I'm not your love. It does feel overly familiar and just weird and inappropriate
Load More Replies...I don't know exactly what was said, but I do know that when I was about to be made redundant at work, a LOT of my co-workers fought to make the boss change his mind, saying I was a valuable employee and hard-working and that they needed me around. I'd spent the last significant number of years generally just hiding out in my office and keeping my head down to avoid drawing the (horrible) boss' attention and yet I'd still gotten that level of respect and liking from my colleagues, many of them quite highly placed. That still makes me feel good, even if their efforts failed. That boss was an idiot.
He must have been a real idiot, for other workers know who does well.
Load More Replies...WHY is that always so endearing? Its like a warm hug without ever touching
That’s the perfect description! It makes me feel so warm inside.
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The compliment I got from some random woman at a bar a few weeks ago where she said I (a man) had nice hair and then disappeared into the crowd never to be seen again. I remember your words random lady and thank you for them.
Its really strange to think about it cause like there has been random times over my 36 years, as rare as they are lol, and I remember them lol
When my son tells me that I'm the "best mama ever". It makes me feel like I can conquer the world.
Mine tells me to go away, and once told me that he thought I should be dead (he's 2). My daughter's a sweetie, though! (Thank God.)
My son (3) plays this game of power with me and I never fall for it. 'I don't love you mom'. Too bad, but nevermind, I love you, son. (Then he says he loves me and hugs me). 'I don't want a hug, mom'. Okay, maybe later (then he hugs and kisses me). We also have the 'okay to be upset but not to be mean' thing.
Load More Replies...My 7 year old yells at me when I say I'm fat. He says he hates when people are mean to themselves. "You are not fat! You are beautiful."
Careful how you speak about yourself in front of your child - to them, we will always be beautiful. There was a wonderful experiment once in Germany asking children to say who they thought was the most beautiful person in the world, and after thinking about it it a little, they all said their mums. They liked their softness, their cuddles, strength, compassion. That's what matters most to little kids. When I say I'm fat to my kids, it's because I am not a healthy weight, not because I don't like myself. I am working on making healthy choices so that I can be there for my kids for as long as possible. This also teaches kids that fat is nothing shameful.
Load More Replies...My youngest (25) just told me the other day that she was glad she had the parents she did. We may not have been perfect, but we tried
Receiving a compliment from a woman as a man.
I would like to compliment men more often, but they immediately interpret it as flirting and want more.
Same! I wish there was a way to compliment platonically that wouldn't end in some guys accusing you of leading them on!
Load More Replies...I trybto compliment men as often as I see a chance, and I often get a bewikildered responce. But then it often turns into something that I dont want. But I still do it because even as much attention and support wonen get for living in a world of toxic men, and they should, we often forget that most men have it just as bad, because they dont recieve the same support ❤️ and men are sooo much more toxic to other men, and it somehow goes under the radar
To me compliments from a man feel the same as from a woman. I still remember a male cashier looking at me and going "Wow, your glasses are awesome" out of the blue. His facial expression showed that he very likely hadn't planned to say that out loud, but I still remember it to this day.
I always try to tell anyone that I see with a cool shirt that I like it. Men usually are much more surprised than women, but I think that most appreciated it. It's also a good way to avoid the misinterpretation of flirting, because it's more of a drive-by "hey man, I like your shirt" than an actual conversation.
Honestly I read this a lot here on BP and find it surprising. It is very common for women to give male friends/colleagues compliments where I come from.
Load More Replies...Just remember, just because someone is friendly, doesn't mean that they are flirting with you.
I remember the last time I got an unsolicited compliment on my looks. I was 6 years old. I'm 41 now.
When a child tells me I am pretty. Kids are genuine. I believe them.
"Here, I made you this necklace, so that you can remember you are a woman" - it dosnt have the same ring to it 😂 She also touched the face of my Bob Marley tshirt i was wearing and said " wow, you have all this bumps in your stomack", so I had to explain abs to her. She is very sweet tho, my little neighbor ❤️
No idea why but it looks like someone’s systematically gone through and downvoted a lot of your comments without any clear reason
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Making someone I care about happy.
Making my mom laugh out loud is one of my favorite feelings in the world
My grandma reminding me I'm a cutie patootie.
Someone remembering small details about me.
As long as that small detail isn't your name, I'm your girl! I remember so much "small"stuff about people. I will know when you rabbit died, what kind of soup you dislike, how you named your childhood pet, how you "fight"with your significant other about the favorite spoon in the house....What I will not remember is your name
I always make sure to remember the details about those who are important to me. The last girl I dated I caught off guard, really surprised her, because I ordered her lunch. She sleeps late, I wake up early, so while she slept, I got hungry and ordered food. I decided to get her something too, since I knew she'd be hungry. I ordered a burger, exactly the way she likes it, even though it wasn't from anywhere we'd been to before, she'd never actually told me how she likes her burger. I just paid attention when we were together and could predict it.
I had a job once where I don't think the store manager even knew my name after almost five years. New manager took over and the first time I met him he not it knew my name but somehow had found out that I was a Trekkie and a writer. Can you guess which one I remember more, 15 years later?
I remember so many small details about people but keep it to myself so they don’t think I’m weird.
Being able to help someone or to somehow improve their day.
I just did that! A colleague from the packing station mumbeled "Help!" as I passed by. I was already on my way to my workplace as it dawned on me. He really needs help. So I went back and asked him, if he really needs help and he smiled and said "Yes, please!". Turns out the boss walked by this morning and complained about the stuff standing around everywhere. Other colleagues came in late yesterday and didn't pack their stuff away, so the boss told him to do that - additional to his regular duties. We did the work that maybe would have took him an hour in about 15 minutes and he was very happy. His face made my day. :)
My favourite part of my last job! Seeing someone come in worried or upset and leaving with a smile on their face was awesome.
Seeing my work published or recognized.
I have not had anything published, but I read a story I wrote in kindergarten class, and when I finished they all clapped.
When the girls and the gays compliment my outfit.
Our society (USA in particular) doesn't really encourage straight men to be fashion conscious, or to know how to give platonic compliments. Maybe we can work on fixing this? The outfit in the photo is very nice, sophisticated casual? :) ... and I know men tell women to smile too often, but she does look happy and happiness makes any outfit look better.
When same sex (and gay folks) compliment a gal, it feels better than when a guy does. You know it’s sincere.
When you haven’t seen someone in a while and they say “You look great” and you know it’s genuine.
Out of the blue compliments of my abilities at something I love doing.
When my photography gets appreciated.
Plus, all photography is great, you took the picture so that must mean you saw something worth photographing...even if it's those duck face selfies...still great because it's great to the person in it.
Anything that you do, that is important to you, when it is appreciated by someone else, makes you feel good.
Knowing my writing resonated with someone.
I used to write fanfiction years ago. Sometimes I still get email notifications saying someone liked my story, and even though it has been ages, it still makes me get all giddy inside.
Oh, wow that’d be awesome *sits on my hands so I don’t go manically checking on all my old fanfic accounts *
Load More Replies...I wrote my master’s thesis about a very niche project that I never thought anyone else would ever read. I had someone contact me a couple of years later to tell me they found my project and their team was using it as a guide as they went through the same process. (I don’t even know how they found it - it would be hard for *me* to find it and I actually know it exists!) It was the best compliment I ever received.
When you crack a joke in front of a bunch of people and they all laugh.
Something I'm always a bit proud of was my annual presentation at the company conference at my last job. I hate public speaking, (public anything, really) and it was a tough audience of about 150 people. I always had them laughing and interacting with my presentations. They though I was really confident - in reality I always had nightmares days before and a stress migraine after.
When I slide in an obscure reference as a joke and the one person who gets it is in tears from laughing so hard
This! And the reverse - when you get a reference! was learning about this database structure today and the guy explaining it told me the bridge structure between data workbooks was a “bifrost” something or other. I was like…wait…bifrost!? And then lost it laughing. Whoever named it deserves a high five!
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Receiving an unexpected bonus or gift.
Yeah, this always gets me. I'm not used to getting gifts so like when a friend is like, here I got you this...I'm like huh..why? Lol but I appreciate it.
When my fiancee smiles at me. I wish I could explain it.
I don't have a fiancee but I imagine it feels like looking at a sunset while sitting under the cool shade of a tree.
When someone finally admits I’m right. BECAUSE THEY KNEW IT IN THE FIRST PLACE BUT HAD TOO MUCH PRIDE TO ADMIT IT.
Random compliments from ladies that you have never seen and won't see again in your life on public transport or supermarkets or anywhere public.
I, a 48 y/o guy, understands that we can take a compliment wrong. But one will always, always stay with me. I work in the plumbing section of Home depot. I dont get a lot of women in my department. I was having a stressful day and some random woman just stops, looks into my eyes and says "OMG!! You have the most beautiful green eyes (my eyes change color {hazel, blue, green).". With that she vanished as quickly as she appeared. Thank you for the compliment dear stranger. It is the kindest, sweetest, most wholesome thing anyone has ever said to me. I am still living off that high almost a year later. Thank you. Thank you. Edited for grammar, spelling. I got teary eyed reliving this core memory again. I always do :) Edit #2: Forgot two words because of those onion ninjas lol. Just proof its the best compliment ever!!
This happened to me once when I was a teenager and I was in shock for days lol
Knowing I’ve left a lasting impression.
When someone laughs at my jokes and genuinely finds me funny.
Yeah, especially someone who gets the jokes or references. I've been on the other end of this too where no one laughs lol I'll just see myself out at that point.
Usually when i'm done weed eating and I can perform 'hand on hips/nod/yep' stance.
I don't know what this means. You eat weed then stand with your hands on your hips & nod?
"Weed eating" refers to using a string trimmer. Weedeater is the brand name of one of the first ones, so it's become a catch-all name for all brands. OP is saying he or she gets satisfaction from doing a good job with that tool, and then standing back and admiring the result.
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People calling me a hacker in a game.
Especially to whoever made the client they’re using (joke)
Load More Replies...They always called me "you useless Hobbit" or "where's that ridiculous gnome". We are not the same.
When my wife handles her own when men are chatting her up.
When people notice my weight loss or fitness progress.
I’ve been on a weight loss and fitness journey (65 pounds down, 31 to go) and my sister said she has been telling her coworkers about how well I’ve been doing. That made my day!
i wish i knew what this feels like ive worked hard for the past 6 months and lost 29 lbs so far and not one single person has noticed except for me
When I'm on aux and my friends pull up Shazam.
Receiving a public thank you.
Currently #42 is “getting high grades on a difficult exam?”
Load More Replies...Making my chest bounce like Terry Crews. Once i found out I could do that after I'd been hitting the gym for a while, it was the best day ever.
Being invited to speak at an event.
Noooooo. Thanks, but no! I'm pleased OP considers it an ego-boost, but that would have me running for the nearest bunker and not exiting until I was sure whoever had found someone else, lol.
Opening a jar when your girl can't.
I used to open them for my husband, but since having kids my grip strength is so c**p he has to open all the gherkin jars these days.
So nice to have an article centred around something positive rather than the usual negative articles. This is VERY much appreciated, BP!!!!!
WRITE TO THEM and tell them so they’ll see it! They don’t read comments, so tap the “contact” link and TELL THEM! If they knew what we like (and don’t), we’ll get more (or less) of it! Pleeease, folks: TELL THEM!
Load More Replies...One of my favorite compliments was being told by someone that I was the best person they'd known.
I Heard a conversation between my sister and my 4 y.o nephew "Mommy Aunt Franci can fix everything ..all the broken things?" "Yes also the impossible one ..." ..and everytime he break a Toy "no problem ..Aunt can fix It.. he make me feel a sort of super Hero
"You're so strong. I would have k****d myself." From a gay acquaintance living with HIV before there were effective treatments, after I got a bit tipsy and briefly described my journey in life. That dark compliment from someone with his own dark struggles made me feel "seen" for once.
My aunt adopted a cat a while ago. He is quite shy and a scaredycat and won't go up to just anyone. I've been the go to catsitter and he absolutely loves me! Wants to cuddle so much and just wants to be near me all the time when Im there. It makes me feel so special
My daughter was having some trouble with a girl who was harassing her, threatening to self-harm if she stopped being friends with her. It came to the point we had to call the police. As per protocol, the police wanted to talk to my daughter and then me, because this girl was trying to pull an Uno Reverso. They said I obvious I care about my daughter a lot. Coming from authorities figures that typically look for the bad, it was a big boost in confidence and relief.
So nice to have an article centred around something positive rather than the usual negative articles. This is VERY much appreciated, BP!!!!!
WRITE TO THEM and tell them so they’ll see it! They don’t read comments, so tap the “contact” link and TELL THEM! If they knew what we like (and don’t), we’ll get more (or less) of it! Pleeease, folks: TELL THEM!
Load More Replies...One of my favorite compliments was being told by someone that I was the best person they'd known.
I Heard a conversation between my sister and my 4 y.o nephew "Mommy Aunt Franci can fix everything ..all the broken things?" "Yes also the impossible one ..." ..and everytime he break a Toy "no problem ..Aunt can fix It.. he make me feel a sort of super Hero
"You're so strong. I would have k****d myself." From a gay acquaintance living with HIV before there were effective treatments, after I got a bit tipsy and briefly described my journey in life. That dark compliment from someone with his own dark struggles made me feel "seen" for once.
My aunt adopted a cat a while ago. He is quite shy and a scaredycat and won't go up to just anyone. I've been the go to catsitter and he absolutely loves me! Wants to cuddle so much and just wants to be near me all the time when Im there. It makes me feel so special
My daughter was having some trouble with a girl who was harassing her, threatening to self-harm if she stopped being friends with her. It came to the point we had to call the police. As per protocol, the police wanted to talk to my daughter and then me, because this girl was trying to pull an Uno Reverso. They said I obvious I care about my daughter a lot. Coming from authorities figures that typically look for the bad, it was a big boost in confidence and relief.
