Apparently, some men think if a woman wears an ankle bracelet, she is either a lesbian or a prostitute. And don't even ask them about ladies who carry around their stuff in a backpack instead of a purse!
These things sound unbelievable, but just take a look at the subreddit r/NotHowGirlsWork and you'll discover that some guys have such wild misconceptions about females, it's like they're talking about an alien race.
I honestly don't know how they come up with such... theories. Maybe their ego couldn't handle a breakup, so they invented an explanation on why it was their partner's fault. Or maybe they're just following the wrong people on social media.
Either way, continue scrolling to check out the latest posts from r/NotHowGirlsWork and if you want more after you're done, fire up Bored Panda's earlier piece on the subreddit. Enjoy.
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Don’t Know If This Is A Repost. Got Sent This By My Mom Lmao
Adele’s Weight Loss Under The Spotlight Again
To learn more about women's role in today's society, we contacted Dr. Stephen Burrell, who is an Assistant Professor in the Department of Sociology at Durham University, and a Deputy Director of Durham's Centre for Research into Violence and Abuse (CRiVA).
Dr. Burrell also undertook an Economic and Social Research Council Postdoctoral Fellowship on the role of the business sector and workplaces in preventing violence against women and promoting gender equality, and how to engage more men in such efforts.
"Women face many of the same problems that men do, such as economic inequalities which mean that so many people in our society are struggling to get by, whilst others have huge amounts of wealth," he told Bored Panda. "But on top of that, they face numerous additional obstacles because gender inequality remains so deeply rooted."
In Simpler Terms: “I Straight Up Can Not Please A Woman”
I Uhm- Don’t Think That’s Right Chief
Girls Don't Have Ankles
Dr. Burrell believes our narrow expectations about who we allow and expect women to be holds them back from contributing freely and fully to society. "It can have detrimental impacts on their health and wellbeing, with violence against women and girls continuing to be a commonplace experience for so many throughout their lives – and also because healthcare services often fail to take account of women’s needs and experiences."
"It can hold them back in education and the workplace, where everyday experiences of sexism and gender stereotypes mean women and girls may not be encouraged and enabled to succeed and flourish in whatever path they want to pursue," he explained.
"They are often expected to juggle this whilst still doing the bulk of care work at home, with little support from wider society in terms of things like affordable childcare services, which holds back women’s positions in the labor market, and means those economic inequalities hit them harder too. Meanwhile, women are still significantly under-represented in decision-making positions across society, which means a lot of these issues aren’t understood or addressed by people in power."
He Got Called Out On His “Women Don’t Like Sex” Bulls**t. Welp, I Think They Just Don’t Want To Have It With You
Her Uncle Does Not Understand How Sexism Works...
The Girl Hive
Dr. Burrell also believes that men directly contribute to a lot of the problems women face. "For example, if we’re talking about violence against women and girls, and the widespread sexism and misogyny which feeds into it, it’s important to recognize that this doesn’t come from nowhere – it is predominantly being perpetrated by men," he said. "So we need to start talking more about men’s role in these problems, even if that is at times uncomfortable."
"But that also helps us to think about the positive part men can play in the solution. We can be agents of change, working together with women as allies in building a society that is more equal and fair for everyone – in our relationships, at home, at work, in politics, everywhere."
Uh. No
What?
I've Seen This Expression Alot Whilst Browsing This Sub, So I Thought I'd Share This Meme
In Dr. Burrell's opinion, this is particularly important when we remember that men continue to hold most positions of power. And this doesn't concern just individuals, it touches the way we organize society, too.
"We all learn rigid and restrictive stereotypes about gender from an early age, and have all probably played a part in reinforcing them at some point," Dr. Burrell, one of the co-hosts of the podcast 'Now and Men: Current conversations about men's lives', said.
"These hold everyone back – so we all benefit from breaking down gender norms, being free to be whoever we want to be, and creating a society in which everyone is equally valued and free from violence."
What’s The Secret Formula To Get In Bed With As Many Women As Possible!? Smh
Hmmm Yes, Pants Are Only For Men
No wonder so many men can hardly relate to women and their issues. Despite the genders' psychological overlap, studies on men have suggested they have trouble "mind-reading" and guessing what women are thinking and feeling.
For example, one study found that men do, in fact, interpret friendliness from women as sexual come-ons. Research also discovered that women prize men who try to understand them.
To see whether guys really do have trouble understanding ladies, Boris Schiffer, a researcher at the LWL-University Hospital in Bochum, Germany and his colleagues put 22 men between the ages of 21 and 52 (with an average age of 36) in a functional magnetic resonance imaging scanner, which uses blood flow as a measure to measure their brain activity.
Breast Milk Is Now Pee
That's because you have a complete functioning brain, and not the s**t-stained, roller rink carpeted, empty pinata floor model that the OP seems to be working with.
Load More Replies...It's pretty gross people drink cow juice. It's not milk, it's body fluids from a cow. Might as well drink cow pee. Stop giving cow body fluid to people!!!
I was going to say that too 😂 I'll upvote you instead, lol!
Load More Replies...the f**k does he think we survived before formula and bottles ? we we're born on cows milk ? what kind of idiot comes up with this ???
You calling my mom a cow?? The reason we don't give babies cows milk is because they can't process it. Human breast milk is not cows milk. Formula is not fake cows milk, it's fake human milk. Some people have no freaking clue
Load More Replies...Lots of stupid men posting on here but this one has outdone the rest.
Yeah, somebody with this ´opinion´ had to hatch froman egg, so I get that he doesn´t get the concept of mammals.
Again, I beg everyone to vote for leadership who will fund public schools.
Are, you, kidding me!! Public schools are a *nightmare*.
Load More Replies...So, exactly where on a cow does their milk come from—-which is also what they feed their calves? Also, how do you explain how the human race managed to feed their infants before they even domesticated cows? Lastly, pee is waste material being expelled from the body, and comes from a totally different anatomical area. Breast milk is not waste, but nutrients necessary for an infant to consume, barring their mother having any health issues such as allergies or other conditions where feeding formula is advisable, and/or difficulty producing or expressing it. Quit listening to your equally clueless friends, and read a real anatomy book. Well, at least look at the pictures and try to figure out the big words.
Milk is a bodily fluid that a mammal uses to feed a child. Milk (human) has been used to feed babies for millions of years. The only thing the poster was correct about - idiots are everywhere, and he sees one in the mirror every morning.
Blah. I'm so sick of breasts being so sexualized in western countries that when they are used for breastfeeding (what they are meant to do) these guys get weird feelings. Feelings that women are somehow "responsible" for and should therefore formula feed just so her breasts can keep being sexualized and only that. Please just grow up and understand the meaning of context. Yes I get boobs can be sexy while doing sexual things. While breastfeeding? Hell no. It's a context with a child...please! You can't say you actually have a hard time understanding that?
Preach it, sister! My daughters are 20 & 23 now, but whenever I see a woman breastfeeding, it makes me smile because it reminds me of when my girls were babies, and how much it made me feel like it was helping me bond with them, and all the women for thousands of years before me, that had done the same.
Load More Replies...I wonder how they think humans survived thousands of years before formula was invented.
ever had . . . goat milk or . . . coconut milk . . . . and i fukin know that you breatfead, dave
Someone would probably try leaving a somewhat coherent reply to this cascade of words, fail after several pitiful attempts, delete all they've managed to type, rub their forehead (facepalms come with a price), and finally give up while muttering, "Moving on!" (Me, it was me. I did that)
Ever heard of almond milk? No? Wow, impressive making a post with more sentences than you have braincells.
If milk only comes from cows, then what is goat milk? How do you explain that!?
So you're sayin' my mum's a cow!?! Go and fück yourself!
Milk from cows is for little cows. Milk from humans is for little humans. Here's your dummy back. 🙄
Me: You know, maybe humans aren't that- World: *creates people like this* Me: I stand corrected.
How does this guy think humans fed their children before formula was invented? Or how about all the other kinds of mammals that feed their young in a similar way? Now I'm just picturing every kind of animal out there secretly having a cow stashed away to feed their young with.
All mammals make milk....it's why we are mammals. Because of mammary glands that produce milk. Also how does this guy think babies were fed before the invention of formula?
Ya got nipples and your a female chances are ya got milk after a pregnancy and quite possibly all the time
Well if you think about a cows MILK is supposed to be for its KIDS so connect the dots
Where exactly does this person believe the milk comes from on a cow? We do not drink any other fluid from a cow except milk from the cows utter which is??🤦♀️
Thought it was a genuine ignorant moronic comment. But after the bit about the almond not-milk, I honestly have doubts. It sounds either like deliberate provocation/trolling, or like some sort of "false flag" comment to have your side facepalm at the stupidity of the other side. If someones gets where I'm getting and could better phrase it, ti would be great :)
Listen to yourself, you are basically saying women pee out of their nipples? 😂 and why do you think human breast milk exists?
I've seen this comment from lots of people, even women on posts about breastfeeding. It's so weird.
they act like the milk that comes from cows and almonds aren't technically that object fluids.
Soooo.....before formula and bottles were invented....we.......did...what?? Altho the "Idiots everywhere" thing is spot-on.....
This guy is an idiot. On science and existence. How is he even still here?
And yet we don't have a minimum intelligence requirement for breathing. This sorry individual is proof that we really should.
Yeah, and the he feels insulted and disrespected if a woman doesn't want to swallow...
Where the heck do these people get educated? (assuming they did at all).
Someone clearly has never heard about mamals, or have any concept of the nutritional value of breastmilk vs. pee. How can you have missed out so much in biology class?
Dude. Bro. Chill out, take a breather, and understand that all humans are mammals.
Load More Replies...This Guy Has A Weird Opinion
If someone else is eating something, they are not taunting you with something you can't have. If someone else travels somewhere you haven't been, they are not taunting you with something you can't have. If someone else has a hundred dollar bill and you don't, they are not taunting you with something you can't have. YOU ARE NOT ENTITLED TO SEX, LOVE, ATTENTION, NOR INTIMACY, DUDES.
This Pee Pee Maestro
The scientists then asked the men to look at images of 36 pairs of eyes, half from men and half from women, and guess the emotion those people felt.
The men then had to choose which of two words, such as distrustful or terrified, best described the eyes' emotion. The eye photographs depicted positive, neutral, and negative emotions.
Men took longer and had more trouble correctly identifying emotion in women's eyes.
Who Made This…
Logic Not Found
Some People Really Don't Like Seeing A Room Full Of Women...
Hide Your Ankles, Lest You Be Found Out!
Additionally, their brains showed different activation when looking at men's versus women's eyes. Men's amygdala — a region in the brain linked to emotions, empathy, and fear — activated more strongly in response to men's eyes.
Also, other brain areas tied to emotion and behavior didn't activate as much when the men looked at women's eyes.
The results indicate that men are worse at reading women's emotions. This "theory of mind" is one of the foundations for empathy, so the researchers suggest this could mean that men can have less empathy for women relative to men.
Legend Says That To This Day No One Responded
I Think This Belongs Here..
The Way Ppl Assumed Her Grandpa Is Her Sugar Daddy
Wtf I Just Read?
But the cause that leads to this is still unknown. While men could be culturally conditioned to pay less attention to women's emotional cues, there's also the possibility that their differential response is hard-wired by humans' evolutionary past.
"As men were more involved in hunting and territory fights, it would have been important for them to be able to predict and foresee the intentions and actions of their male rivals," the researchers explained in the paper.
Single Moms = Leftovers
Found Under A Thread Asking "What Would Female The Equivalent Of No Nut November Be?"
Not Sure What's Worse, The Joke Itself Or The Fact So Many People Like This Kind Of Humor
When it comes to simple biology, the picture is just as bad. A YouGov study conducted in the UK in 2019 asked British men to label a diagram of female genitalia, and the results were actually abysmal. Well, over half of surveyed men could not label the vagina or labia, and the majority could not point out where it is that urine comes out.
Very Confident For A Man With No Grasp Of Grammar Or Science
I'm convinced that this mindset comes from having no confidence in the bedroom department. It's basically, 'I want a woman who's not experienced, so she doesn't know how bad I am at it'. Personally I'd rather have someone with experience so that we can both increase our pleasure.
Yikes
Period Assumption Is My (Least) Favourite
Who Does He Think He Is?
Incels: We're Just Lonely Virgins! Also Incels:
Is He Looking For A Mother?
He Wants His Wife To R-Xxx With Him
Just Confusing...
Breast Size Is A Direct Result Of One’s Health
Nicole Kidman Is A Man. Obviously
Found On A Forum
“Itself”
" Women = Hen" - Peta
One Giant Leap For Mankind, One Small Step (Backwards) For Chad
This Was Under A Post Of A Girl Saying She's Scared Of Pain During The Intercourse....
Bruh...
I burn instant noodles in the microwave??? What's that got to do with anything???
First Of All Women Don't Decide Their Hobbies And Careers Based On Whether People Find Them Attractive
You Gave It To Chad, So Give It To Me
Youtuber Asking The Real Hard Hitting Questions
In Response To Men Ignoring Their Partners For Gaming
Pea Shooter vs. An Atom Bomb
I Wish This Was Satire
How're You Going To Use The Exacr Same Face For Different Asian Women
This Is All I've Learned From Tiktok Comment Sections
A Bit Unconventional Post But I Think It Perfectly Fits Here
Ugh! I can already hear the incels, using this as an excuse to rape children! "THeY WeRe mAtUrE, BeCaUsE tHeY HaVe rEsPoNsIbIiTiEs!"
All This Mental Gymnastics Just To Say: I Don't Accept "No" From A Woman Unless It Comes From A Man
Idk If This Fits Here But I Found It In The Wild And Needed Someone Else To Call It Ridiculous With
... and we are totally ignoring that if she spends all day at home she will not contribute to the household income. So unless her husband is really good at providing (read being rich or making a lot of money), there will only be half as much money to spend -which can add a lot of stress to her life, since getting by on tight budget can add a alot of work that you have to do by yourself, instead of just bying a service like cleaning. Most stay at home moms do not simply rest while the children sleep, that is when the have a bit of time to get the chores done, which is needed to keep the house liveable. For most people those chores will not fullfill her need to feel like she is doing something important, which a career, that she has chosen herself might do. Teaching about Jesus all day long? That alone should be enough to rule that path out, as exessive religous preaching never produces anything good, but is just obnoxious brainwashing in order to have things your way.
Umm...source Please?
They Ruin Life
I’m So Glad We Have People Like This Dude To Explain Periods To Us
9 periods per year? Does he think we stop menstruating once summer hits? or is it around holidays or smth?
A Year Of Hardcore Training, Ladies!
How Dare She Have Her Own Identity!!
Welcome To The 1950s
ahem, some men don't want children either, and for such men, not having to deal with the pressure from a woman who want to get pregnant can be a blessing. People are different, and want different things from life, so what is no no for one person could be the perfect fit for another.
This Is Just Sad
It is high tie sex ed in the US was made mandatory. The amount of men who are oblivious about biology is staggering.
Unfortunately Stumbled Across This…felt Like It Belonged Here
I think this guy needs to google the Dahomey Amazons. There were kings in the past who would only keep armies of female soldiers because they swore they worked better together, making them more effective in battle. It's been pretty well documented in psych studies that when in groups, women are better at communicating and forming teams, whereas men given the same tasks tend to compete with one another, making the group less effective. Men trained in the women's group and then sent back to the men's group become as effective as the women once they learn to work together as a team
What
Tell Me You’re Insecure Without Telling Me You’re Insecure
Learn how to satisfy women than, not just quick f**k and you're done.
I Found One!
That’s Not How This Work
Right, I Remember The Part Where Women Don’t Work 48 Hrs A Week…
With Nearly 7000 Up Votes On Reddit Too
If a pair of shoes has 50 previous owners they are most likely vintage and worth a fortune, far more than the average person could afford.
Ummm
Just Keep It Clean Ig
Just An Average Day In The Life Of An Average Female…
Sorry Gals But A Cook- *ahem* I Mean A Wife For A Man Is More Important Than Pursuing Your Own Dreams
So Apparently Majority Of The Girls Don't Know How To Download Songs... Are You One Of Them Ladies?
Why Do Ppl Think Women Are Constantly Out To Exploit Men?
Jesus…this Is Honestly Disgusting
What The...
"Freak Of Nature" Or "Work Of Art" ... Racism, Objectification And Misogyny From Psychiatrist
Seriously ???
A Full Grown Adult Woman Can’t Possibly Weigh More Than 80 Lbs
This can be a result of 1. He's never met a woman or 2. He has no idea of mass/scales.
Housework Is My Kink, My Only Fantasies Are To Serve My Husband Faithfully…
Do Guys Think This Will Mean Women Will Sleep With Them?
Found This On Instagram, Thought It Belonged Here
I Don't Think That's How It Works
Yikes
In A Real Self Help Book My Friend Found At The Grocery Store About How To Please A Husband. What Even..?
My Guess Is That They Smell Your Period Blood, Since This Always Happens To Me When I'm On My Period
Least Bigoted Incel
Tell me you have a tiny d**k complex without telling me you have a tiny d**k complex
Cs Joseph Says 15 Years Old "Is When A Woman Should Be Educated On How Best To Please A Man"
Found On Tinder. Never Seen So Much Blatant Misogyny In One Profile
Mhm..
Girls, There's Nothing We Won't Do For A Free Holiday!
Ma'am...thats Not How Lesbians Work
These Kind Of "Memes" Are Just Really Triggering
I'm At The "Throw Away Stage"
I Propose Don’t Be An Assumer
Wise choice by her. If he thinks his worth is measured in iPhones and that that is what is important in a relationship, it is clearly a relationship that will soon go under. So better cut the loses, and move on.
Sorry If This Was Already Posted
'I don't know how to talk to women, it's their fault also they're just a piece of meat to be f****d'
Another Take From The “Manosphere” Intellectual Powerhouse
Girls Over 125 Are Obese I Guess
I Just Don't Get These Types Of Memes
This Absolute Gem... It Has To Be A Joke...
Dressing Skimpy = Sexual Invitation, Obviously..
I’ll Let The Picture Explain Itself
Good News Everyone! All The Pain From Childbirth Solely Comes From Your Vagina. Also, There Is Not Pain Its All In Your Head
Csi Hymen Trace Edition
My First Find In The Wild
Bro, How Stupid Are You?
Ah Yes, Nothing Like A Felon To Turn Someone On
Oh no, I have a clean record bar some traffic summonses!!! How do I live with myself now that I know I don't stand a chance...???!!!
These Pointless Memes Dont Make Any Sense
Sometimes I Get Kinda Lonely Being Single But This Sub Cures That Shit Quick Lol
Hear That Ladies? If You're Heterosexual You Should Appreciate Getting Sent Dick Picks By Strangers
Apparently The Only Reason To Get Breast Reduction Surgery Is To Anger Men
Ouch
Yes I Know Thinking For Yourself Seems Too Much Work
On Today's Episode Of Pointless And Vaguely Offensive Gendering
Bruh. Honest Girls Just Randomly Disappeared In Those People's Lives?
Another Gem
Not How Disagreements Work
The person on the left is actually processing the disagreement. The person on the right is self medicating and repressing
"Women Need To Be Scared Of You Leaving Them"
women aren’t scared of you leaving them; they’re scared of you staying!
No But Okay…
These last ones aren’t even funny it just kinda hurts that people think it
Please Big Strong Candy Crush Man, Beat This Hard Level For Me
Average Touch-Starved Reddit User
Til That Women Can't Have Male Friends...
I Love Cats, But Wtf Is This?
Instagram Gem
Not Sure Where To Post, But Feel This Is The Right Sub
Thoughts On This Comic?
I Hate It Because It's Painful As Hell...
Why doesn't he try it out first and relate how much he likes having a d**k in his a**s.
Betrayal Is Hot
Ok Bestie
Ah yes, girls definitely don’t go to school or have mental health problems./s
The title is misleading. Most of men on those posts aren't ignorant about how women work. They simply hate women.
Wow this was hard to read, didn't even make it halfway through. Mostly makes me sad that there's so much hatred out there
Me too, I don't think this belongs here. BP has become a very negative space with all the ragebait content copied from reddit, twitter, etc
Load More Replies...Why are we giving trash like this even more attention they don't deserve?
Because it's important for women to know that this c**p is everywhere and important for decent men to know what women are up against on a daily basis. Know your enemy...
Load More Replies...Once again we are reminded as to why so many girls and women end up being murdered by some creep who couldn't cope with his inability to control her or accept being told no.
Honestly and sadly this entire thread makes me want to advise every girl in my life to stay away from men. I've heard a man once say if girls could hear how men talk about them behind their back, they would never go near them.
as a man I support this. We should have to interview and provide CVs. And if you aren't selected you must go onto HRT to calm the f**k down (active shooters seem to be incels).
Load More Replies...Question for BP: would you post a list of 130 examples of dehumanizing racism toward black people, or dehumanizing homophobia toward gay/lesbian people? At what point have we crossed the line from valuable education about the hatred that's out there to exploitation of oppressed people's pain for rage-baiting/click-baiting purposes? Is that line different for different groups of oppressed people? If so, why?
That is a DAMN good question, and one I'd like an answer to. What about it BP??
Load More Replies...The individuals posting these clearly have some abhorrent beliefs. The question is where did they come from, I would love to know how many of these men have had little to no sex Ed in schools and them “learnt” their “facts” from the wrong place on the Internet. There’s 8billon people in the world and you’re always going to get nutters what I can’t work out is if the Internet is making it more obvious, worse or both. I have a horrible feeling it’s both. It feels like we’ve had a “golden age “ of enlightenment and are quickly slipping backwards - even if you’re not in the USA which appears as an outsider to have its issues but in Europe too.
A lot comes from their culture and upbringing. Values past down from father to son. Most abrahamic religions favour men, and a lot of cultures are based on this. I don't know if Hinduism is mysoginist, but culturally there's a lot of that in India as well. It's hard to break the cycle of misogynistic upbringing, but I hope more men will. And there are plenty of decent men out there as well, the comment section showed that
Load More Replies...I had to stop reading this, I know there are people out there that are horrible. But reading this just ruined my day, there is soo much bad stuff going on, this is the last thing I wanted to read. I have come here every day to read light, happy, and funny stories, but not this.
Me too, I was about to throw up. This is highly unsettling.
Load More Replies...Nah, don't do that. We need the good ones more than ever.
Load More Replies...Hate to break it to you folks, but there are a TON of men out there like this. They aren't living in the "back woods," nor are they uneducated. I've had the displeasure of dating some of them. And yes, they do say and think these things. And yes, they think everyone feels the same way. Scary and warped, but true.
I think the USA recently had a president who believed this stuff... can't remember his name right now...
Load More Replies...This list pretty much sums up why I've never remarried. It's been 20+ years of being joyously single, doing as I want with my time and money, showing my male children that women can be strong, successful and loving and basically being happy. While I've dated long term a couple of times, what I learned was being alone and being lonely are two different things. Every one of those losers posted above can go jump off a cliff. Alone and lonely. As they deserve to be.
As a hardcore dweeb, I just want to know what it is in our society that makes some people turn out like this
sadly no. I know males who speak like this. Precisely two in fact. Pathetic.
Load More Replies...Read through it all. End result: I appreciate my husband even more, because he's nothing like these 50 idiots.
I can't believe I read the whole thing. Please tell me that the FBI has a department that just goes and watches these guys. They will be the ones buying larger guns than any eon could ever need.
I just…I mean…I don’t know what to say. Is there hope for humanity? Be careful out there.
I couldn’t even read most of these horrifying posts. This is a very scary world and these people live amongst you and I.
I can’t imagine these men have decent relationship with their mothers. If they do, where do they get these ideas from?
I finished this clearly understanding how people can be unattracted to men
Couldn't get past #85. Feeling disgusted and depressed. But silver lining - I've never met such a "man" in my life, so they aren't hopefully many of them
This is a great example of a few bad samples that gives the rest a bad reputation. And sometimes I wonder what happened to these bad samples to turn them that way? Or is it just plain stupidity and ignorance?
How can there be so many people like this? smh. This is worse than sad. It's tragic. Here's my advice to these people: 1. Take a basic health class. 2. Make some female friends. 3. Learn to listen, be open-minded and open-hearted and have empathy for people. This is just bilge-muck (or for the land-bound: sewer muck?).
I'm doing my very best to raise 2 boys to be good men, like their dad is, the fact that they can come across poison like this just being on the Internet terrifies me. I have control with the youngest as I have parental control on his device and have it locked to age appropriate content but my eldest is now legally an adult. We talk about consent about what is healthy in a relationship and what isn't and his dad is an amazing role model, but this stuff, just being out there for him to stumble over terrifies me x
Can we please start arresting men who post about femoids or identifying as incel?
I find it extremely difficult to believe all of these are true. I know us guys are thick headed, can't find things right in front of our face, etc. But these are just terribly painful and horrible. If any man actually believes this garbage, then a full frontal lobotomy is definitely in order.
I sometimes wonder if these postings are really meant seriously or if someone just wants to generate attention. I fear that some of these comments are indeed serious and from people with little education. That's why proper sex education is important for everyone in more than one grade. I don't mind parents insisting on teaching boys and girls separately, but no one should be allowed to withhold this knowledge from their offspring. In addition, free therapy should be made available to the unfortunate people with such feelings of hatred, as shown in some postings.
Couldn't finish this. I fully understand most men are not like this, but the fact that enough of them are out there and feel the need to go out of their way to post such hateful diatribe is beyond disturbing
You see the problem with this article is that that none of these are men. So it's inherently wrong from the get go. I think we can all agree that we need to make a new classification of human being that is non gender specific. We could call them. The dums..... cause that's all they are. Uselessly ignorant bags of flesh. The humans mentioned in this article in now way represent our gender and I am very offended at the insulation that they do.
While the examples were men talking about women, these examples don't represent men in general. I think we can agree on that Most men are good human beings and not as ignorant as was shown here.
Load More Replies..."So many men (incels), so many reasons to sleep alone" I learned long ago to not let self-righteous di**heads bait me to react to their game, I find that just pointing and laughing at them does such wonderful damage to their ego-- and not just to incels, to any arrogant, misogynistic, entitled " alpha" man that really really wants to put me in my place (as if), just point and laugh ladies, it confuses them.... The bigger the tree, the harder it falls. This was entertaining, like watching the incel Olympics would be!!!
I think it's good for all concerned that none of these men will ever procreate. Now please excuse me while I go find a brick wall to bang my head against.
Don't let these bad examples discourage you, there are good men out there as well. What you see on social media doesn't reflect the entirity of the male population.
Load More Replies...This was a train wreck I couldn't keep from reading. I prefer to have seen a literal train wreck with massive casualties than reading this knowing these guys are serious
I believe there is a lot of male ignorance about female bodies and feminism. Are boys not educated on human biology? It should be compulsory to everyone before the age of 12.
How old are these men? I thought they had sex education classes in schools.
From what I’ve gathered sex Ed in schools - especially in the USA is rather lacking. There’s a YouTuber called MamaDrJones that has some very interesting comments on this subject. Sadly I think this is far more about subjugation of women than misunderstandings- at least from the actual people starting it rather than the mouthpieces.
Load More Replies...Just like some men apply their experience to the majority of women. It happens both ways. And these posts aren't just jokes and memes, but reflect a sad truth that people should be aware of.
Load More Replies...So you need to (a) sign up for biology class and (b) exit your mom's basement and go out into the sunshine a bit and find a married man, preferably one with a degree, to explain to you why women are people and are worth engaging as human beings, not merely as fleshlights. (c) grow the f**k up. (d) you are probably 14.
Load More Replies...The title is misleading. Most of men on those posts aren't ignorant about how women work. They simply hate women.
Wow this was hard to read, didn't even make it halfway through. Mostly makes me sad that there's so much hatred out there
Me too, I don't think this belongs here. BP has become a very negative space with all the ragebait content copied from reddit, twitter, etc
Load More Replies...Why are we giving trash like this even more attention they don't deserve?
Because it's important for women to know that this c**p is everywhere and important for decent men to know what women are up against on a daily basis. Know your enemy...
Load More Replies...Once again we are reminded as to why so many girls and women end up being murdered by some creep who couldn't cope with his inability to control her or accept being told no.
Honestly and sadly this entire thread makes me want to advise every girl in my life to stay away from men. I've heard a man once say if girls could hear how men talk about them behind their back, they would never go near them.
as a man I support this. We should have to interview and provide CVs. And if you aren't selected you must go onto HRT to calm the f**k down (active shooters seem to be incels).
Load More Replies...Question for BP: would you post a list of 130 examples of dehumanizing racism toward black people, or dehumanizing homophobia toward gay/lesbian people? At what point have we crossed the line from valuable education about the hatred that's out there to exploitation of oppressed people's pain for rage-baiting/click-baiting purposes? Is that line different for different groups of oppressed people? If so, why?
That is a DAMN good question, and one I'd like an answer to. What about it BP??
Load More Replies...The individuals posting these clearly have some abhorrent beliefs. The question is where did they come from, I would love to know how many of these men have had little to no sex Ed in schools and them “learnt” their “facts” from the wrong place on the Internet. There’s 8billon people in the world and you’re always going to get nutters what I can’t work out is if the Internet is making it more obvious, worse or both. I have a horrible feeling it’s both. It feels like we’ve had a “golden age “ of enlightenment and are quickly slipping backwards - even if you’re not in the USA which appears as an outsider to have its issues but in Europe too.
A lot comes from their culture and upbringing. Values past down from father to son. Most abrahamic religions favour men, and a lot of cultures are based on this. I don't know if Hinduism is mysoginist, but culturally there's a lot of that in India as well. It's hard to break the cycle of misogynistic upbringing, but I hope more men will. And there are plenty of decent men out there as well, the comment section showed that
Load More Replies...I had to stop reading this, I know there are people out there that are horrible. But reading this just ruined my day, there is soo much bad stuff going on, this is the last thing I wanted to read. I have come here every day to read light, happy, and funny stories, but not this.
Me too, I was about to throw up. This is highly unsettling.
Load More Replies...Nah, don't do that. We need the good ones more than ever.
Load More Replies...Hate to break it to you folks, but there are a TON of men out there like this. They aren't living in the "back woods," nor are they uneducated. I've had the displeasure of dating some of them. And yes, they do say and think these things. And yes, they think everyone feels the same way. Scary and warped, but true.
I think the USA recently had a president who believed this stuff... can't remember his name right now...
Load More Replies...This list pretty much sums up why I've never remarried. It's been 20+ years of being joyously single, doing as I want with my time and money, showing my male children that women can be strong, successful and loving and basically being happy. While I've dated long term a couple of times, what I learned was being alone and being lonely are two different things. Every one of those losers posted above can go jump off a cliff. Alone and lonely. As they deserve to be.
As a hardcore dweeb, I just want to know what it is in our society that makes some people turn out like this
sadly no. I know males who speak like this. Precisely two in fact. Pathetic.
Load More Replies...Read through it all. End result: I appreciate my husband even more, because he's nothing like these 50 idiots.
I can't believe I read the whole thing. Please tell me that the FBI has a department that just goes and watches these guys. They will be the ones buying larger guns than any eon could ever need.
I just…I mean…I don’t know what to say. Is there hope for humanity? Be careful out there.
I couldn’t even read most of these horrifying posts. This is a very scary world and these people live amongst you and I.
I can’t imagine these men have decent relationship with their mothers. If they do, where do they get these ideas from?
I finished this clearly understanding how people can be unattracted to men
Couldn't get past #85. Feeling disgusted and depressed. But silver lining - I've never met such a "man" in my life, so they aren't hopefully many of them
This is a great example of a few bad samples that gives the rest a bad reputation. And sometimes I wonder what happened to these bad samples to turn them that way? Or is it just plain stupidity and ignorance?
How can there be so many people like this? smh. This is worse than sad. It's tragic. Here's my advice to these people: 1. Take a basic health class. 2. Make some female friends. 3. Learn to listen, be open-minded and open-hearted and have empathy for people. This is just bilge-muck (or for the land-bound: sewer muck?).
I'm doing my very best to raise 2 boys to be good men, like their dad is, the fact that they can come across poison like this just being on the Internet terrifies me. I have control with the youngest as I have parental control on his device and have it locked to age appropriate content but my eldest is now legally an adult. We talk about consent about what is healthy in a relationship and what isn't and his dad is an amazing role model, but this stuff, just being out there for him to stumble over terrifies me x
Can we please start arresting men who post about femoids or identifying as incel?
I find it extremely difficult to believe all of these are true. I know us guys are thick headed, can't find things right in front of our face, etc. But these are just terribly painful and horrible. If any man actually believes this garbage, then a full frontal lobotomy is definitely in order.
I sometimes wonder if these postings are really meant seriously or if someone just wants to generate attention. I fear that some of these comments are indeed serious and from people with little education. That's why proper sex education is important for everyone in more than one grade. I don't mind parents insisting on teaching boys and girls separately, but no one should be allowed to withhold this knowledge from their offspring. In addition, free therapy should be made available to the unfortunate people with such feelings of hatred, as shown in some postings.
Couldn't finish this. I fully understand most men are not like this, but the fact that enough of them are out there and feel the need to go out of their way to post such hateful diatribe is beyond disturbing
You see the problem with this article is that that none of these are men. So it's inherently wrong from the get go. I think we can all agree that we need to make a new classification of human being that is non gender specific. We could call them. The dums..... cause that's all they are. Uselessly ignorant bags of flesh. The humans mentioned in this article in now way represent our gender and I am very offended at the insulation that they do.
While the examples were men talking about women, these examples don't represent men in general. I think we can agree on that Most men are good human beings and not as ignorant as was shown here.
Load More Replies..."So many men (incels), so many reasons to sleep alone" I learned long ago to not let self-righteous di**heads bait me to react to their game, I find that just pointing and laughing at them does such wonderful damage to their ego-- and not just to incels, to any arrogant, misogynistic, entitled " alpha" man that really really wants to put me in my place (as if), just point and laugh ladies, it confuses them.... The bigger the tree, the harder it falls. This was entertaining, like watching the incel Olympics would be!!!
I think it's good for all concerned that none of these men will ever procreate. Now please excuse me while I go find a brick wall to bang my head against.
Don't let these bad examples discourage you, there are good men out there as well. What you see on social media doesn't reflect the entirity of the male population.
Load More Replies...This was a train wreck I couldn't keep from reading. I prefer to have seen a literal train wreck with massive casualties than reading this knowing these guys are serious
I believe there is a lot of male ignorance about female bodies and feminism. Are boys not educated on human biology? It should be compulsory to everyone before the age of 12.
How old are these men? I thought they had sex education classes in schools.
From what I’ve gathered sex Ed in schools - especially in the USA is rather lacking. There’s a YouTuber called MamaDrJones that has some very interesting comments on this subject. Sadly I think this is far more about subjugation of women than misunderstandings- at least from the actual people starting it rather than the mouthpieces.
Load More Replies...Just like some men apply their experience to the majority of women. It happens both ways. And these posts aren't just jokes and memes, but reflect a sad truth that people should be aware of.
Load More Replies...So you need to (a) sign up for biology class and (b) exit your mom's basement and go out into the sunshine a bit and find a married man, preferably one with a degree, to explain to you why women are people and are worth engaging as human beings, not merely as fleshlights. (c) grow the f**k up. (d) you are probably 14.
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