50 Women Finally Work Up The Courage To Ask Men The Questions They Were Embarrassed To Ask

One day I was talking about that with a boy friend of mine and I'm not even joking, a car slowly stop in front of us, the window roll down and the group of men in the car starts to call me a lady who sells her body for money, and then drove away. Oh, and my friends and I were both 13 at that time and those men looked 40.

Guys, never say anything to a woman in public that you wouldn't want a man to say to you in prison.

My theory is that it once worked…once…and the legend got passed down from man-child, to man-child that this is a “sure fire thing! It totally works!”

I'm not a woman so my perspective is obviously different but I must say that I have never seen another man catcall a woman in my 38 years of being on this earth. Not once. Either it doesn't happen that often here in Poland or it's just because I was lucky and/or doesn't happen around me. That being said, whoever does this is not a man but a manchild. Catcalling sounds cringe as all hells.

Just wave, smile and keep walking. Always works! Take it as a compliment about the genes you inherited!

I'm skeptical that being starved for positive attention is a common reason. I think there are a lot of guys who are following Wayne Gretzky's advice and taking the shot even when they think there's little chance of success. I think there are also lot of guys who tend to equate even minor friendliness with an attraction or interest.

Sorry if I'm being obvious, but at least one reason men ask the OP out at work is that's the only place they see her. They could contact her off the job by following her to or from work, but I don't think she wants that.

Let's face it Anna Nicole met her husband when she waited on him-it does happen. Find a graceful way to reject the gent with a thanks anyway and wear a ring if it bothers you. Of course you are being good to him because he is a customer, but that doesn't mean you might not like to go out with him. Stop searching for things to be upset about and just thank him for the compliment and tell him you are involved if you want to.

Gilbert actually had a strip on this; customer service agents being nice cuz it's their job, and guys misinterpreting that to think they're flirting

Happened often to me when I was young and worked at McDonald's. Late night/early morning shifts on Fridays and Saturdays often ended with some desperate guy wanting to have SOMETHING with him back to his bed, and then even a tired, sweaty, french-fry-grease-stinking vaguely female-shaped person in a gray dirty McD uniform might do. They often said "I'll wait for you outside after closing", and we said "Sure, you do that". What they didn't know was that we had to clean the restaurant and do all the dishes etc, before we could go home, so often another 3-4 hours before we were off duty. And, the staff went out the back-entrance. It wasn't a separate-building restaurant, it was a whole block with many different restaurants, opening onto the city's main avenue, so it was hard to find the back door to our particular restaurant.

Ok , but do it more privately. Women don't pull on their nips in public or pick out frontal wedgies ... Yuck. It's also very rude if you are a guy that talks with your hands and suddenly grab yourself to adjust... Makes the other people look , even when they don't want too.

Genuine question : Hypothetically, if our society would stop to gender clothes and no one never cared of what someone wear, would you guys wear skirts ?

It sometimes shifts to uncomfortable positions.

A groin bra for men has yet to be invented, but it would have its buyers.

I used to work for a man that I just adored but he was constantly adjusted himself. The joke among our staff was that someday I was just going to start talking to him, with a serious face, and start scratching my bosom. I don't even think he was aware of it, and I hope to God he didn't do it outside our office but since I don't think he was aware-who knows! I have adjusted my panty hose in an elevator by myself but only up to a point. Just so high! Everything was decent-it just needed to be done, and I didn't have time to take a break to the bathroom. I hated hosiery!

I am an attention and affection starved dweeb, I love compliments. As long as they know I only ever perceive compliments as kindness and nothing else.

The last compliment I got was from that old lady who told me, thar I am sweet little gentlemen when I was about five y.o.

A simple that's a nice shirt or haircut will make our month.

I once was stopped by a man when I was in college and he remarked on my dark hair and very blue eyes. I told him it was nothing more than good genes but I thanked him for it. It made my day and he didn't want anything more than to compliment me. After I thanked him for the compliment, his response was, "Wow-and you also know how to accept a compliment gracefully". Again, I thanked him, laughed, and told him he'd made my day! I try to always be complimentary to everyone. I hold doors, even for men and I like it when my chair is pulled out for me and even when my date orders my dinner order for me. I think it is gallant and says a lot about the quality of man that he is inside. When men used to open car doors for me, I would always reach over and unlock his door from my side. A boy I knew said that that single act told him a lot about what kind of woman he was taking out.

I will try to give my colleague a compliment when he has cut his hair. Both his wife and my husband work there too, so we are all safe from seeing more in that than a nice compliment.