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Woman Runs Away From Date Only 20 Minutes In: “This Is My Mom”
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Woman Runs Away From Date Only 20 Minutes In: “This Is My Mom”

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First dates are often a cocktail of excitement and nerves. You’re meeting someone new, hoping for a spark, and wondering how it’ll all unfold. But sometimes, the unexpected happens—and not in the “sweep you off your feet” kind of way.

One woman shared her first date experience, where the guy she met on a dating platform showed up… with his mom. What started as a promising evening quickly turned into an uncomfortable grilling session from the mother, leaving the woman baffled and questioning what she had walked into. Keep reading to find out how this unforgettable date unfolded.

A first date typically sets the tone for a potential relationship, offering a glimpse into compatibility and shared values

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A woman shared how her date casually decided it wasn’t a big deal to bring his mom along for their first meeting

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Image credits: Brock Wegner/Unsplash (not the actual photo)

After enduring a series of probing questions from his mother, the woman ultimately decided to walk out, still questioning if she had made the right call

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Traditionally, a mama’s boy refers to a man who is overly dependent on his mother and struggles with self-reliance  

Image credits: Oren Atias/Unsplash (not the actual photo)

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Meeting a guy for the first time often comes with a mental checklist—maybe it’s his manners, how he treats the wait staff, or even his height. But let’s be real, sometimes new red (or green) flags pop up that you didn’t see coming. 

Take, for instance, the classic “mama’s boy” trope. Traditionally, this term has been used to describe men who rely heavily on their mothers for everything—from emotional support to decision-making.

In extreme cases, a man overly attached to his mother might lean on her for things like balancing his budget, tidying his home, or even running errands he could easily handle himself. This dependence can sometimes blur the lines of independence, making it a point worth considering when evaluating potential partners.

In today’s world, the term has evolved to describe a man who is sensitive, emotionally connected, and deeply respects his mother while maintaining independence 

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While being labeled a “mama’s boy” has often been seen as a red flag, the modern take paints a different picture. Today, it can also signal a man who loves and respects his mom but is confident in his independence. A modern “mama’s boy” values his mother’s advice but also knows how to set boundaries and make his own choices—making it more of a green flag than you’d think.

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On the flip side, research highlights that men without healthy maternal relationships often face emotional struggles. Boys who fail to form secure bonds with their mothers are statistically more likely to show aggression during childhood and grow into emotionally detached adults. It’s a factor that can ripple into their personal relationships later in life.

So, marrying a “mama’s boy” might not be such a bad thing. Studies suggest that men with strong maternal bonds are mentally healthier, more empathetic, and better at fostering meaningful relationships with women. So, while it might come with its quirks, it could also mean you’ve found someone emotionally tuned in and capable of building a fulfilling partnership.

But in this situation, it seemed clear that the man’s mother overstepped a major boundary. Showing up to her son’s first date, let alone staying for the duration, turned what should have been a personal and intimate experience into an awkward interrogation. The author, understandably, found it overwhelming—especially when she faced direct questions about her personal life, which felt more like a job interview than a date. 

While meeting a partner’s parents is often a significant step in a relationship, doing so on the first date might be crossing a line for most people. What do you think? Have you ever experienced something like this? Would you be comfortable meeting a potential partner’s parents so early on?

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Many online commenters applauded her decision to leave, with some even suggesting she be upfront with the guy about why the date didn’t work out

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Nikita's knack for storytelling and creativity has led her into the world of writing. With a robust foundation in business studies, she crafts compelling narratives by seamlessly blending analytical insight with imaginative expression. At Bored Panda, she embarks on an exhilarating quest to explore diverse topics, fueled by curiosity and passion. During her leisure time, she savors life's simple pleasures, such as gardening, cooking homemade meals and hosting gatherings for loved ones.

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Ilona Baliūnaitė

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I'm a Visual Editor at Bored Panda since 2017. I've searched through a multitude of images to create over 2000 diverse posts on a wide range of topics. I love memes, funny, and cute stuff, but I'm also into social issues topics. Despite my background in communication, my heart belongs to visual media, especially photography. When I'm not at my desk, you're likely to find me in the streets with my camera, checking out cool exhibitions, watching a movie at the cinema or just chilling with a coffee in a cozy place

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Tams21
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1 week ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

If she comes on the first date, she's practically telling you you'll effectively be dating both of them. She'll be at least as controlling as some of the worst MIL stories we read on BP. Run. Fast.

Binky Melnik
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3 days ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Can you imagine her coaching them when they first have secks? “Cover your teeth with your lips, dear.” 🤮 🤮 🤮

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Tams21
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1 week ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

If she comes on the first date, she's practically telling you you'll effectively be dating both of them. She'll be at least as controlling as some of the worst MIL stories we read on BP. Run. Fast.

Binky Melnik
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3 days ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Can you imagine her coaching them when they first have secks? “Cover your teeth with your lips, dear.” 🤮 🤮 🤮

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