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According to a 2022 survey by the Pew Research Center, about one in four married or cohabiting parents feel judged by people they interact with on online groups, with 7% claiming they experience this always or very often.
And the subreddit 'Insane Parents' is probably responsible for a fair share of the pie. However, once you scroll through this internet community, it becomes hard to blame them.
There's no shortage of moms posting their anti-vaxxer rants on Facebook and overprotective dads who want to forbid their kids from dating for as long as they're alive. So someone has to call them out before they convince anyone that such behavior is acceptable, right?
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#1
Dumped For Having Red Hair
Feathered Dinosaur 2 years ago (edited)
Ha, I love it! Not to mention I love ginger hair, wtf are people still treating it like some witches trait?
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#2
Parents That Make Fun Of The Hobbies Of His Kids Are Trash
A problem that 'Insane Parents' members face is that they are sometimes accused of faking their posts.
One of the most fascinating aspects of the sub is that the stories told rely on screenshots (often text messages between parent and child).
This leads to a strange dynamic where posters not only have to "prove" their experiences, but their struggles are also gamified into small, digestible pieces, the most surprising of which get upvoted.
#3
I'm 25, I Have Schizophrenia, And Have Zero Support From My Mom
#4
Another Found In R/S**tmomgroupssay …
Feathered Dinosaur 2 years ago
Dressing your baby in designer brands tells me you're most likely an idiot. Seriously...
#5
I Think We Should Make Leashes Mandatory For Everyone Under 15!
Feathered Dinosaur 2 years ago (edited)
Sometimes a leash is better than your suicidal toddler, running in front of cars, the moment you take your eyes off them to blink.
Speaking to VICE over Reddit messages, the moderators of 'Insane Parents' said the high number of screenshots is simply a consequence of the fact that a lot of communication now takes place via text
"As such, there is more opportunity to display insane parenthood with a screenshot," they explained. "It's the easiest thing to post."
#6
I Synced My Calendar With My Mum And Forgot I Have My Birth Control Implant Replacement Date Marked 3 Years From Now. She Saw It And Texted Me This While I Was At Work. I’m 20
#7
My Friend Hasn't Spoken To His Mother In Months. She Finds Out He's Living With His Girlfriend. He Also Shares Some Exciting News
#8
On A Post About Another Parent Selling Her Kid's TV Because She "Can't Act Right"
Nila Griffin 2 years ago
Stop expecting children to know how to clean up their stuff. You have to TEACH AND GUIDE THEM. That’s your whole job.
#9
My Parents Did Not Like Me Going Out To Get A Vaccine. Came Back To This
Despite a few negative messages from trolls and the occasional request to prove the screenshots weren't faked, many users think the subreddit is incredibly understanding, with most people helping to validate their feelings.
"Our sub is first and foremost a support sub," the moderators said.
They believe the community is a place where teenagers can come and "know that the abuse they've suffered is not a normal experience".
#10
Who Goes To Disney World Just To Make Their Kid’s Life Miserable
#11
Wtf Is Wrong With People
#12
This Woman Constantly Photoshops Her Daughter’s Body To Look Like This. She’s E I G H T
#13
My Father Tracking Me While I’m On A Date
Vasana Phong 2 years ago
Reminds of that episode from Hogan knows best when he tracked his daughter Brooke’s date
The good news is that when KidsHealth.org and TIME for Kids surveyed over 9,000 kids ages 8 to 14, 67% said they get along well, or pretty well, with their parents. And that's not all. 85% of them said they have fun with their parents, and 79% said they feel close to their parents.
#14
(15f) Parents Took My Antidepressants Because I Slept Through My Alarms... I Don't Even Know What To Do Anymore
Feathered Dinosaur 2 years ago (edited)
To stop taking antidepressants just like that has serious side effects, like making the persons try to kill themselves! Source: I'm a medical doctor, worked 5 years as a psychiatrist
#15
My Mom's Response When I Came Out To Her. Haven’t Talked To Them For Two Weeks Now
Feathered Dinosaur 2 years ago
I think I have to stop reading this soon, I'm growing more enraged by the second. 👿
#16
I Took My Clothes Off While I Was In The Shower And After I Came Out, I Saw That My Father Had Went Into My Room And Taken A Picture Of My Panties And Sent It To My Mother Without My Consent. I'm 20. I Can Clean Up After Myself. I Did It Immediately As I Stepped Out Of The Shower. Wtf
#17
My Mum Is Abusing Our Brand New Security System
Feathered Dinosaur 2 years ago
I hope these 'parents' all rot in the worst nursing home when they're old, alone and forgotten
Furthermore, even if children get into an argument with a parent, it's not like they immediately mess up their relationship. Most kids — more than 60% — said they usually take a little time and eventually things go back to normal. Some kids said that they make up quickly (28% of younger kids and 18% of older kids.)
It’s great if you can forgive (and be forgiven) quickly and settle things within the family and without the need to search for support on the internet.
#18
And Boomers Wonder Why Their Kids Don't Like Them
Feathered Dinosaur 2 years ago
That's what they'll do when they turn 18 and never talk to you again.
Clown fish 2 years ago
F#cking hell this is why I hated it at my mums and when I moved out she'd still come round and open my post. So I did it to her she didn't like it what a surprise lol
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ToastedCheesy 2 years ago
Hmmm. Blaming this on a boomer? A "kid" that a parent says has no right to privacy will be around 12 to 20 years old - That parent would most likely be 32 to 40 making that parent most likely a millenial or a very late generation X. But hey - OK Boomer...
Melody Shanahan-Kluth 2 years ago (edited)
you do realise that Boomers are Grandparents and not parents now ... right? So the generation you are talking about would be Generation X - you know - the generation all the TikToks are all about lol
Amy Taylor 2 years ago
I'm Gen X and have a 14 and a 15 year old. Most of my friends are grandparents now, lol I was a late bloomer to the parent thing. I'm a pretty laid back parent as long as they are respectful to all people and have self respect, I'm good. I'm definitely not controlling.
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Seabeast 2 years ago
What has this got to do with "boomers"? Most baby boomers are on to grandchildren by now, they're too old to have teenagers still at home.
TurquoiseTzarina 2 years ago
A proud Boomer weighing in. Boomers were born between 1946 and 1964. Unless I would have had a baby in my 50's, the only teenagers in my house are my grandchildren. Generalizing is never good.
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TooTrue 2 years ago
Boomers are 60+ years old and are more likely to be grandparents than parents of an 18 yo.
TurquoiseTzarina 2 years ago
Boomers age range: 58 years old - 77 years old.
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Amy Taylor 2 years ago
My dad is a Boomer and a wonderful person. He never treated us like this.
Mitchell 2 years ago
Lost a friend when we disagreed over a parents right to read their kids diary. There is no scenario where this is okay IMO. It leads to lifelong distrust and feelings of betrayal. “But I wanted to make sure they weren’t suicidal or doing drugs” is b******t. You were a nosy cow with no respect for your kids feelings.
Olivia 2 years ago
Wow! My mom would never read my diary! I can't imagine having parents like that and it makes me sad that so many people have to live like this.
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SheamusFanFrom1987 2 years ago
And when they eventually move out, you DON"T get to bombard them with calls and try to "reconnect" with them... Smh...
#TheGregoryProject | he/him 2 years ago
f@ck @ff with your Boomer references. they're tired and old and make you look incredibly stupid. #dobetter
Lyone Fein 2 years ago
Sorry but this is not a boomer issue. This is a child abuse issue. There are child abusers in every generation.
Blackheart 2 years ago (edited)
Kids are not property, they are people. Here again is a 3 sentence statement with no context. If you have a situation in your home with one or more of your kids like drugs, weapons, sibling abuse, or self harm, you the parent definitely need to be checking in more often. If that encroaches on the kid's privacy, so be it.
Blackheart 2 years ago
Children are people. And they are way smarter and perceptive than most adults give them credit for.
Blackheart 2 years ago
You can get on Bored Panda and insult an entire generation of people, every single member. Apparently, that is okay here. In my day, we called that biased. But what do I know? I am neither a Boomer nor a Millennial.
Patty Moss 2 years ago
As a Boomer, I'm wondering why this has Boomer in the header. Seriously, Boomers - in general - have grown-a$$ kids. wth?
Alessa Gillespie 2 years ago
How do we know this reply is from a "Boomer"? TBH, I really don't get this incessant bashing other generations whether older or younger. "Look! They grew up in a different time than me, with different life experiences. They are responsible for all the crappy things in the world!". Every generation is a product of their time. How far back are you going to go to assign blame for your circumstances?
Elaine Everett-Klimas 2 years ago
What does this have to do with 'Boomer' parents? Any 'child' born to a boomer would be at least in there 50s or 60s now! I think we've lost context of what a 'Boomer' actually is.
B Jean the Jelly Bean 2 years ago
I'm a Boomer and I was NEVER that way with my kids. My parents were somewhat that way and a lot of my friends parent were exactly like that.
Queen of cats and candy 2 years ago
Im a police and refering to kids as your "Property" raises some red flags in my line of work
Duane Johnston 2 years ago
Ummm most boomers kids are in their 30s right now. You must be talking about gen x or mellenials
Neuridivergent 2 years ago
On the back of a picture of me at nine months old my mom had written "Mine".
Julia Mckinney 2 years ago
Hell, I've never seen the inside of my adult daughter's bedroom in her apartment because I respect her privacy.
shawna Reich 2 years ago
honestly you should still allow your kid privacy to a certain extent rather than belittle them
barn owls ️ 2 years ago
my parents are like this. they don’t even know i have a bored panda account. id be grounded for years
Shifty McFlea 2 years ago
Ah yes. Children are “property”. If only there were something making that illegal. Oh wait…
crowspectre (he/they) 2 years ago
Second one sound slide my mom. She once told me she owned me
Jay Son 2 years ago (edited)
This could be my sister's ex. Apparently he's always checking his kid's phone, there's no privacy. The kid is only 14 and already doesn't want to go to his father anymore. And then his father has the audacity to complain "why doesn't he want to come anymore?"... Really, guy? We all, including the kid himself, hope the next four years will be over soon, so he no longer will be forced to go there.
the shrimp whisperer 2 years ago (edited)
technically minors dont have rights, except child labor laws. i learned this. children do not have freedom of speech. at least i cant go to jail for saying s**t tho xD my white female privege EDIT: IM SO SORRY my teacher told me this was true, this is incorrect :/
Dragons Exist 2 years ago
Shut the f**k up children do have freedom of speech in most countries.
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#19
Child Endangerment Is So Quirky
Feathered Dinosaur 2 years ago
Wow. Endangering your own baby by not fastening the seat right and driving like a crazy aṣshole, then posting it. *slow clapping*
#20
Parents Starve 6 Year Old To Death By Keeping Him Inside A Closet For A Month
#21
This. Just... This
#22
My Parents To A Tee
Feathered Dinosaur 2 years ago (edited)
Probably same for when she sees a disabled, or gay person or a person of color.
#23
Mom Just Asked Me For 600$ When I Work A Minimum Wage Job Then Tells Me To Stop Spending ???
#24
She’s Literally Killing Her Son. This Page Is Full Of Insane Parents Thinking They Know More Than The Doctors
Feathered Dinosaur 2 years ago
As a medical doctor I'd like to slap this bîtch silly. Then save the little boy's live.
#25
Mother Impersonated Me To Bofa To Remove $1500 From My Account Of My Awarded Scholarship Money As Punishment For Her Ex Husband Not Paying For Her Vacation
#26
Jesus Christ
Tucker Cahooter 2 years ago
That's right lady, make him keep all that hurt and anger bottled up for years and years until it all comes out explosively...
#27
The Sheer Nerve Of Not Wanting To Die An Early, Preventable Death! Disgusting
Feathered Dinosaur 2 years ago
Surprise: they will have a flower girl AND ring bearer, it just won't be you!
#28
It Sure Is A Mystery
Redpen88 2 years ago
Like all the times I've been asked to house sit for the duration of my mom's family vacation? Like WTF? I hadn't been invited ONCE until I'd said no and brought up the fact I have never been invited to the FAMILY vacation. Now, she doesn't ask me to house sit anymore and I've still only been invited that once. JFC.
#29
I Guess Some People Never Learn That Their Kids Are Separate People Who Deserve Autonomy Smh
#30
I Thought I Found An Airtight Escape From My Abusive Family In The Form Of A Great Job On The Opposite Coast. Guess Not. Ploy #397866 To Keep Me From Leaving: Unannounced Vacation That Conveniently Starts On The Same Day As My Job!
#31
You Aren't Stressing Hard Enough To Put Your Kid In An Actual School Though
#32
This Mom "Playing Chicken" With Her Kids And An Suv
Charlie the Cat 2 years ago
Reading all these stories, I'm just shaking my head in disbelief. I'm so thankful I have a loving normal family.
#33
'ethnic Stench'
#34
Stop Talking About Your Children’s Genitalia, You Weird Bastard
#35
Imagine Encouraging Or Even Allowing Your Children To Dress Up Like This On Halloween
#36
My Mother, After She Kicked Me Out When She Found Letters My Girlfriend Wrote For Me (We're Both Girls)
Lea Panthera 2 years ago
Oh yes, the cups. The cups for you. The cups called especially to arrest you. Your cups.
#37
Sending Her Daughter Away To A Church For A Year Because She Wants A College Education
#38
Twitter User Finds Their Dad Has Been Using A Tracker To Track Them After They Had Moved Out Of Their (Abusive) Household
Feathered Dinosaur 2 years ago
I'm slow losing the least shreds of hope I held for humanity...
#39
Is She Overburdening Her?
Stardust she/her 2 years ago
Wtf does a nursery student need tution for? All she has to do is learn colours, alphabets etc, not algebraic expressions or Shakespheare!
#40
I Remembered This And Thought It Would Fit Here
#41
Let's Hope He Didn't Get His PC With His Own Savings
Elizabeth Tayler 2 years ago
Poor kid, can't even escape his horrid reality for a while. I hope he has family support.
#42
Imagine Being Grounded For Being Considerate
pusheen buttercup 2 years ago
Again, child protective services. It's their choice whether they want to wear a mask
#43
(In University) Parents Track My Location And Knows I Didn’t Go To Class (Because I Had Already Turned In The Project We Were Working On And Didn’t Need To Work In Studio)
#45
I’m Going To An Iron Maiden Concert. I’m Also Almost 30
Feathered Dinosaur 2 years ago
This new music is corrupting our children! Wait, these 80s kids are just boring and quite ordinary adults now? Who would have thought
#46
I’m Sorry But That’s Pathetic
Lakota Wolf 2 years ago
The snarky a*****e side of me wants to say "Oh, so you'd prefer your son bring home a white BOY?" ...But of course a mom like this wouldn't support their son if he wasn't straight.
#47
I'm On A School Trip... On My Way To The School
#48
"Mommy Moment"
#49
I’m The Only Kid In The Family Who Didn’t Become A Doctor. My Mom Forced My Dad To Post For My Graduation Since He Always Brags About My Doctor And Dentist Siblings. This Is What I Got Lol
#50
Gotta Love My Homophobic Dad. I Wasn't Even Intentionally Making An Lgbtq+ Design, Lol. Just Wanted A Rainbow
Feathered Dinosaur 2 years ago
Beware the Rainbow Mafia! They come at you with glitter and fabulousness
#51
Imagine Saying This About Your Infant Daughter
#52
My Dog Ran Out While I Was At A Friends House. This Is What Happened
#53
I Wonder Why The Kid Likes Travelling More Than His Dad Than Spending Time With His Mother
#54
Vaccines = Injected Cancer. The Sheer Stupidity
Feathered Dinosaur 2 years ago
The ironic thing is that diseases themselves can/will cause cancer. Thus getting vaccinated prevents cancer. (Chronic Hepatitis B causes liver cancer, HP-Virus causes cervical cancer etc.)
#55
Traditional Asian Parents And Mental Health Don’t Usually Align
#56
Ladies And Gentlemen, My Mother After I Disabled Tracking Location App On My Phone, I Am 21 Years Old
#57
I’m 27 And My Mom Thinks It’s Ok To Still Spank/Smack Me And Gets Mad When I Defend Myself
#58
Not My Dad, Thank God
InvincibleRodent 2 years ago
This one is so funny. They heard "kids grow up to be adults.", and went "what kind of liberal nonsense is this???"
#59
My Mom Invites Me To Church With Her For The 457th Time While Knowing I Have Covid
Feathered Dinosaur 2 years ago
I wish I believed in hell, because that's where this egotistical mother would end up
#60
I Fell Asleep. He Called Me 31 Times Prior To This
#61
Trying Her Hardest To Kill Her Kids
Stardust she/her 2 years ago
As someone who lives in a “third world” country, it’s compulsory for everyone to be up to date on their vaccines. I feel that she would most likely avoid our country because of vaccines
#62
Seems Logical
#63
I Literally Went Out To Pay Dnd And Drink Beer, At 16 The Legal Age In My Country To Drink
#64
Hiding Her Zombie Bites
#65
Boy Oh Boy I’m So Glad My Dad Is Finally Paying Attention To Me! :(
#66
Thought This Belonged Here
Feathered Dinosaur 2 years ago
Why am I still reading this? It must be like a terrible accident you can't help but watch
#67
Does This Belong Here?
Stardust she/her 2 years ago
And if their phone is locked then how do they message without unlocking it?
#68
"Pronouncing It Wrong"???
#69
Mom Told Me She Was Going To The Store And Said She’d Be Back By 9pm. She Never Went To The Store And Was At The Bar For 6 Hours
#70
Mom Thought It Was Ok To Open My Packages And Then Get Mad About What I (M17) Buy With My Own Money
Feathered Dinosaur 2 years ago
So many little despots here on this thread, trying to rule their microcosm
#71
I Was Taking A Test
#72
Not My Parent But I Just Saw This On The Book Of Faces I Hope It’s Okay Here
Feathered Dinosaur 2 years ago
This is how you get your kids to stop talking to you once they're independent
#73
When Your Mom (62) Gets Mad Because You Won't Go Buy Her Cokes At 9pm And You Tell Her To Drink Water
#74
I Am 22 Years Old, Living On My Own With My Husband, And My Dad Still Trys To Control What I Do
Feathered Dinosaur 2 years ago (edited)
It's sad that she still complies with her dad's demands
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Stardust she/her 2 years ago
I was on the brink of a panic attack partway through this list and had to leave. Made me relive my childhood :(
SheamusFanFrom1987 2 years ago
Some people should never become parents. In fact, procreation should be made illegal in their cases. Smh...
rs_adahl1971 2 years ago
You should have to have a license to have a child.
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Monday 2 years ago
This list has reminded me that while my parents are far from perfect, they are absolutely wonderful and I'm lucky to have them.
Amy Taylor 2 years ago
Same!! They may have been unreasonable and pissed me off many, many times, but I know that I matter to them and they love me.
Load More Replies... Elizabeth Tayler 2 years ago
This post was so triggering. I can't believe so many kids have this kind of life. So many parents are so incredibly evil. I thought there were better support systems in place for abused children now, wtf.
Leo Domitrix 2 years ago
Sure, if the kid is *believed*. The default is "but the kid's lying, the adult says so" unless there's clear physical harm. (And clear physical harm where I live is sometimes apparently "bone sticking out"). Basically, nobody should be allowed to parent without first passing psych screenings.
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Pauline Tamere 2 years ago
I couldn't go through, it's the most depressing thing I ever read. I wish all of those kids are ok went NC
Cate 2 years ago
This thread caused me to experience considerable anxiety. I did end up with one of my daughter's friends on my sofa. She was escaping her toxic family. In the end the Police and Social Services became involved, and she ended up living with us. I desperately hope that many of the young people captured here escaped too.
kate h 2 years ago
WTH????!!! This should not have been posted at all. BP will block words like d*ck, but put up this horrific, triggering post?!! I come here for a quick escape to lighten my day. If I wanted to read schit like this I'll go to regular news outlets. Shame on you BP.
maswartz 2 years ago
Remember when this site was about cute animals and funny stories?
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Tim 2 years ago
I've long held the belief that both heaven and hell are comforting concepts. Heaven for obvious reasons, and hell because no earthly punishment seems sufficient for some people.
Tyranamar Seuss 2 years ago
I was abused by several people. But my I was talking to my therapist about my main perpetrator one day. She said something to the effect that he was going to Hell. She's Jewish. So it made me really happy she was willing to believe in hell for a moment. I tried to make some excuse for him and she said "I don't care. That doesn't give him the right to make someone else's life s**t!" Ah! I love that woman!
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Appalachian Panda 2 years ago
And these parents are shocked when their kids turn 18 and go full no-contact.
Junebugjump! 2 years ago
This whole thread displays predominantly American parenting. It also demonstrates how sick our country is. I worry that these kids will parent their kids like this instead of move away and break ties. These are largely absolutely disgusting parents.
Lara M 2 years ago
Believe me, Russian parenting is no better. More physically violent, in fact.
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Talitha Jansen 2 years ago
I think there are a group of people here who are here just to downvote. I've seen it happen on so many normal comments. It's not even funny anymore. Anyway, I'm glad the pill helped you with your heavy menstrual cycle! I luckily only had that for a few years before it lessened. It really is crippling.
Ki Li 2 years ago
I think sometimes it's accidental. I've accidentally downvoted when scrolling. I'm guessing that there have been times I haven't caught it
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NatalieC 2 years ago
These posts all make me wish I had been stronger and stood up to my horrible parents. I should have left the minute I turned 18.
Bubbles and sparks 2 years ago
You did what you could when you could. Looking back always makes us think "Why this, why that", but living in an abusive situation does things to your mind, especially if you're a girl. Don't doubt anything you did to get where you are now, you did what you could when you finally trusted your idea of the future and what would happen... I hope you're doing okay or at least better now. Take care!
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Cyber Returns 2 years ago
I've never felt such a stronger urge to go out and create as many orphans as I have after reading this page
KombatBunni 2 years ago
Makes me so damn glad I got tf out when I did. Brrr some of those people do not deserve kids
Bubbles and sparks 2 years ago
Many of those egg- and sperm donors actually only have one problem... that is the fact that they are still breathing. I hope all those kids, young als older, get/got the help they needed or could get out.
Bexxperience 2 years ago
Posts like this make me appreciate that my parents have been supportive, selfless and awesome all of my life. I'm in my 50's now and they'll both be turning 82 this year. The fact that I will have to say goodbye to them in a relatively foreseeable future breaks my heart. The ONLY upside of having s****y parents like these prime examples in the post above is that you won't have to deal with the pain of losing them eventually I guess.
Agnes Jekyll 2 years ago
Don't read this. There are entries about abuse and death in here. Don't open this.
Henrik Schmidt 2 years ago (edited)
Wow, couldn't even finish this list. These... people are a very good argument for mandatory training (at least) and even licensing before you're allowed to have a child. The idea that you're just the boss of your children and they should just follow your every order, with no love or even affection involved is so alien to me! I'm thoroughly disgusted.
Pete from Cali. USA 2 years ago
I really hope most of the parents on this list get estranged because they don't deserve to have loving children or to be taken care of in their old age by their children.
Kristy Nelson 2 years ago
I would normally say give parents a break, but these are awful! I hope these people ended up okay after these experiences.
Katie Lutesinger 2 years ago
And so the cheapest, nastiest nursing home in town continued to stay in business for another ten years.
Brando Dean 2 years ago
Somebody needs to tell the Iron Maiden hating mama that the song isn't what she thinks it's about- in fact the opposite. While I'm at it the drummer is a born again christian.
Grace Note 2 years ago
Well, that was depressing. Some people should not be parents. I only hope that their children leave them to it as soon as they're old enough because no one should have to live with these utter sh!tstains for parents.
Joni-lee Smith 2 years ago
I remember when my cousin was in college and her roommate was on the phone talking to her mother. The roommates mom was yelling at her and saying she was ugly and worthless and so many other horrible things 😠. My cousin was so upset she called her own mom crying and apologized for all the times she acted up and told my aunt(her mom) what a wonderful mother she was.
Jeff Diamond 2 years ago
Faith in humanity fading... fading... RISING!... fading... fading... gone.
Nordic And Sneezing 2 years ago
This is how you end up old and alone in a sh*tty old people's home with no one visiting you. And you deserve it.
KitTheNugget 2 years ago (edited)
just reading all of this makes me want to vomit. no wonder everyone is insecure…kind of makes me more insecure… (edit: i feel so sorry for all the kids, hope ur doing well❤️)
Kitten’s mom 2 years ago
I have been reading Panda for years and this is the first time I couldn’t stomach reading the whole thing. I wanna hug my mom and dad so bad right now, while they were/are not perfect this bull makes me appreciate their particular brand of crazy so much more!!!
Jilltdcatlady 2 years ago
Raise your hand if you feel imposter syndrome pretending to grieve because the evil parent died.
Tyranamar Seuss 2 years ago
Nope. Mines not even dead yet. But no contact since 2008. Mom's very sick. Totally do not care! Every time I think of her all I feel is relief that I'm not in that house anymore. It actually makes me kind of happy she isn't privileged enough to have a relationship with me. She didn't earn it. And I'm so good with that. Love that I'm free!
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Stardust she/her 2 years ago
I was on the brink of a panic attack partway through this list and had to leave. Made me relive my childhood :(
SheamusFanFrom1987 2 years ago
Some people should never become parents. In fact, procreation should be made illegal in their cases. Smh...
rs_adahl1971 2 years ago
You should have to have a license to have a child.
Load More Replies... Monday 2 years ago
This list has reminded me that while my parents are far from perfect, they are absolutely wonderful and I'm lucky to have them.
Amy Taylor 2 years ago
Same!! They may have been unreasonable and pissed me off many, many times, but I know that I matter to them and they love me.
Load More Replies... Elizabeth Tayler 2 years ago
This post was so triggering. I can't believe so many kids have this kind of life. So many parents are so incredibly evil. I thought there were better support systems in place for abused children now, wtf.
Leo Domitrix 2 years ago
Sure, if the kid is *believed*. The default is "but the kid's lying, the adult says so" unless there's clear physical harm. (And clear physical harm where I live is sometimes apparently "bone sticking out"). Basically, nobody should be allowed to parent without first passing psych screenings.
Load More Replies... Pauline Tamere 2 years ago
I couldn't go through, it's the most depressing thing I ever read. I wish all of those kids are ok went NC
Cate 2 years ago
This thread caused me to experience considerable anxiety. I did end up with one of my daughter's friends on my sofa. She was escaping her toxic family. In the end the Police and Social Services became involved, and she ended up living with us. I desperately hope that many of the young people captured here escaped too.
kate h 2 years ago
WTH????!!! This should not have been posted at all. BP will block words like d*ck, but put up this horrific, triggering post?!! I come here for a quick escape to lighten my day. If I wanted to read schit like this I'll go to regular news outlets. Shame on you BP.
maswartz 2 years ago
Remember when this site was about cute animals and funny stories?
Load More Replies... Tim 2 years ago
I've long held the belief that both heaven and hell are comforting concepts. Heaven for obvious reasons, and hell because no earthly punishment seems sufficient for some people.
Tyranamar Seuss 2 years ago
I was abused by several people. But my I was talking to my therapist about my main perpetrator one day. She said something to the effect that he was going to Hell. She's Jewish. So it made me really happy she was willing to believe in hell for a moment. I tried to make some excuse for him and she said "I don't care. That doesn't give him the right to make someone else's life s**t!" Ah! I love that woman!
Load More Replies... Appalachian Panda 2 years ago
And these parents are shocked when their kids turn 18 and go full no-contact.
Junebugjump! 2 years ago
This whole thread displays predominantly American parenting. It also demonstrates how sick our country is. I worry that these kids will parent their kids like this instead of move away and break ties. These are largely absolutely disgusting parents.
Lara M 2 years ago
Believe me, Russian parenting is no better. More physically violent, in fact.
Load More Replies... Talitha Jansen 2 years ago
I think there are a group of people here who are here just to downvote. I've seen it happen on so many normal comments. It's not even funny anymore. Anyway, I'm glad the pill helped you with your heavy menstrual cycle! I luckily only had that for a few years before it lessened. It really is crippling.
Ki Li 2 years ago
I think sometimes it's accidental. I've accidentally downvoted when scrolling. I'm guessing that there have been times I haven't caught it
Load More Replies... NatalieC 2 years ago
These posts all make me wish I had been stronger and stood up to my horrible parents. I should have left the minute I turned 18.
Bubbles and sparks 2 years ago
You did what you could when you could. Looking back always makes us think "Why this, why that", but living in an abusive situation does things to your mind, especially if you're a girl. Don't doubt anything you did to get where you are now, you did what you could when you finally trusted your idea of the future and what would happen... I hope you're doing okay or at least better now. Take care!
Load More Replies... Cyber Returns 2 years ago
I've never felt such a stronger urge to go out and create as many orphans as I have after reading this page
KombatBunni 2 years ago
Makes me so damn glad I got tf out when I did. Brrr some of those people do not deserve kids
Bubbles and sparks 2 years ago
Many of those egg- and sperm donors actually only have one problem... that is the fact that they are still breathing. I hope all those kids, young als older, get/got the help they needed or could get out.
Bexxperience 2 years ago
Posts like this make me appreciate that my parents have been supportive, selfless and awesome all of my life. I'm in my 50's now and they'll both be turning 82 this year. The fact that I will have to say goodbye to them in a relatively foreseeable future breaks my heart. The ONLY upside of having s****y parents like these prime examples in the post above is that you won't have to deal with the pain of losing them eventually I guess.
Agnes Jekyll 2 years ago
Don't read this. There are entries about abuse and death in here. Don't open this.
Henrik Schmidt 2 years ago (edited)
Wow, couldn't even finish this list. These... people are a very good argument for mandatory training (at least) and even licensing before you're allowed to have a child. The idea that you're just the boss of your children and they should just follow your every order, with no love or even affection involved is so alien to me! I'm thoroughly disgusted.
Pete from Cali. USA 2 years ago
I really hope most of the parents on this list get estranged because they don't deserve to have loving children or to be taken care of in their old age by their children.
Kristy Nelson 2 years ago
I would normally say give parents a break, but these are awful! I hope these people ended up okay after these experiences.
Katie Lutesinger 2 years ago
And so the cheapest, nastiest nursing home in town continued to stay in business for another ten years.
Brando Dean 2 years ago
Somebody needs to tell the Iron Maiden hating mama that the song isn't what she thinks it's about- in fact the opposite. While I'm at it the drummer is a born again christian.
Grace Note 2 years ago
Well, that was depressing. Some people should not be parents. I only hope that their children leave them to it as soon as they're old enough because no one should have to live with these utter sh!tstains for parents.
Joni-lee Smith 2 years ago
I remember when my cousin was in college and her roommate was on the phone talking to her mother. The roommates mom was yelling at her and saying she was ugly and worthless and so many other horrible things 😠. My cousin was so upset she called her own mom crying and apologized for all the times she acted up and told my aunt(her mom) what a wonderful mother she was.
Jeff Diamond 2 years ago
Faith in humanity fading... fading... RISING!... fading... fading... gone.
Nordic And Sneezing 2 years ago
This is how you end up old and alone in a sh*tty old people's home with no one visiting you. And you deserve it.
KitTheNugget 2 years ago (edited)
just reading all of this makes me want to vomit. no wonder everyone is insecure…kind of makes me more insecure… (edit: i feel so sorry for all the kids, hope ur doing well❤️)
Kitten’s mom 2 years ago
I have been reading Panda for years and this is the first time I couldn’t stomach reading the whole thing. I wanna hug my mom and dad so bad right now, while they were/are not perfect this bull makes me appreciate their particular brand of crazy so much more!!!
Jilltdcatlady 2 years ago
Raise your hand if you feel imposter syndrome pretending to grieve because the evil parent died.
Tyranamar Seuss 2 years ago
Nope. Mines not even dead yet. But no contact since 2008. Mom's very sick. Totally do not care! Every time I think of her all I feel is relief that I'm not in that house anymore. It actually makes me kind of happy she isn't privileged enough to have a relationship with me. She didn't earn it. And I'm so good with that. Love that I'm free!
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