“I Can’t Go Back”: 30 Expensive Purchases That Really Paid Off, As Shared By People In This Online Thread
It often doesn't really matter if you buy the cheaper version of an item — think store brand versus name brand — to save a buck. But every now and then, the difference in price translates into a difference in using the darn thing.
Interested in products that are worth the extra dollar, Reddit user u/Bellabuns_xo made a post on the platform, asking everyone: "What's something you used to be cheap on, until you tried a high-quality version, and now you can't go back?"
From eggs to winter jackets, here are some of the most-upvoted replies.
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Good bras. God! It helps to have a good bra which would fit you and not leave marks on your skin.
if you have a really good bra, there is no difference. That´s how it really should be
Load More Replies...If you find a good one, buy all you can afford right there because once you leave the store you'll never find that style again.
Nope, if I do that they all won't fit a week later. Got different sized left and right boob and different sizes depending on the time of the month. I've been to a store, got measured and everything, and the b(r)e(a)st bra I ever tried on didn't fit anymore the morning after, cause boob A decided to plunge from the cup and boob B was on a diet...
Load More Replies...There are a lot of women here saying you shouldn't even feel a bra. What size are you? If you're large breasted, please tell me the brand, because I need it.
Yes! Well fitted bras shouldn’t be kept as a secret!
Load More Replies...Women shouldn't have to pay so much for their underwear. When my college GF told me she spent over $100 on her bra I was blown away. It's really unfair.
This is a real problem. Little sizes you can buy cheap, but big sizes are expensive and that's so unfair because it are the big sizes that need the most support, otherwise you can have backpains of back problems.
Load More Replies...While working as a physiotherapist I have seen an awful lot of ladies with back and shoulder problems caused by badly fitted bras. Ladies, please get your bra fitted by a professional and get measured at least every couple of years. I would recommend buying the best one you can but a properly fitted cheap one is always going to be better than a badly fitted expensive one, fit and support are everything.
Or those straps slipping off your shoulder all the time or the hooks at the back biting your flesh or the under wire coming through the cloth and piercing your skin, or or or. GRRR
So you've never owned a well fitted bra. If they fit correctly, you don't even notice you're wearing it.
Load More Replies...No, sorry but strongly disagree. Bras are awful. After 2 years of covid slacking in my pj's I just don't want to wear them anymore, even "good" bras. I wear kids bras instead (don't know the name in english). My best "bras" are cheap. (Yeah I'm lucky to not have huge boobs. No offence. But to me this statement is SO wrong)
Of course, pricier purchases are impossible if you don't have the money for it. Right now, more than three in four Americans (77%) are feeling anxious about their financial situation. So it's probably the right time to rethink our budgeting.
At first glance, what's so hard about it, right? You just put together numbers and stick to them. But we humans are flawed creatures, full of expensive urges and impulses, and as Doug Nordman, who retired at 41 and now runs the website Military Financial Independence and is the author of The Military Guide to Financial Independence and Retirement, pointed out, changing our habits is hard.
"Our ancestral hunter-gatherer brains have not evolved for today's society," he told Bored Panda. "Behavioral financial psychology wants instant gratification instead of providing for future you — let alone for your freedom."
My bed.
Please everyone, treat yourself and buy a high quality bed set. Mattresses are expensive but it’s worth its weight in gold. Even if you just get a new set of covers, something with a high thread count. Sleep itself isn’t as important as how you sleep.
Completely agree! Someone once told me to spend money on my bed, my couch and my shoes because you spend the majority of your life in them - have always followed that advice!
YES! I'm obsessed with sheets and have about 30 pairs. I used to buy 1000+ thread counts but I've recently found that I like bamboo sheets. They have a nice, cool feeling and are usually less expensive, but it's hard to find a good quality version. I usually have to order this specific brand I like online. I HATE sateen. Every pair of sheets that are reasonably priced are stupid sateen and it's frustrating. Linen sheets can be nice, too but are ridiculously expensive and not worth the cost. Full, high thread count cotton or bamboo are the way to go. There's just nothing better for my mental health than slipping into nice, clean sheets. I literally sleep better.
I love any and everything bamboo and had no idea that bamboo sheets exist. What brand do you recommend? You sound like me: multiple sets of sheets, always on the lookout for a soft, cooling set, changing them often so I always have that "slipping into nice clean sheets" feeling at night, and yes it DOES improve sleep and mental health!
Load More Replies...This can not be emphasized enough. A high quality mattress literally changed the quality of my life for the better.
Much more important than the thread-count is HOW you sleep. If you sleep on your side: put a pillow between your knees. If you sleep on your back: put one pillow under your lower back and one under your knees. This may sound weird, but it relaxes the muscles in your back immensely if the back and knees are supported. Because you may not feel it while lying down, but your back muscles rarely fully relax.
I don't agree. You need to buy what suits you. I've found that expensive mattresses have too much foam on top, making them too hot and too soft. We bought the cheapest QB mattress the store sold...couldn't be happier.
Totally agree, though I sort of went in the other direction on mattress types: we had a memory foam mattress from online that didn't cost too much but I really liked it, when we moved we got a new mattress that my wife really wanted for a reasonable chunk of change but I miss the old memory foam.
Load More Replies...I went to buy new sheets some time ago and discovered that there is an ongoing war on thread count that makes shopping for quality sheets impossible. I have seen 3000 thread count! How is that even possible? If anyone has any info on brands that don't inflate their thread count, let me know. Ditto for flashlight lumens. Some Amazon offerings would be considered weapons if their marketing was real.
Used to buy the cheapest mattresses. Then I got back problems. So now the mattresses I buy cost 4 figures but it is so worth not waking up in crippling pain.
I bought a $2000 select comfort over 22 years ago, and it has been one of the best investments ever in my life. I have no idea how much worse my insomnia would be without a decent bed.
Clothing.
I used to buy cheap polyester clothes from Kohl's and other massive retailers, but one day I was shopping in a higher end place and bought a really nice heavy duty cotton henley and every time I went into my closet I wanted to wear it.
So I decided to empty my closet and start over with better quality clothes. Now I have half as many clothes as I did before, but I feel good in all of them, and they will last for years instead of months.
Instead of buying four $10 Polo shirts, I buy one $40 *quality* Polo shirt.
The Vimes Theory on social economics and boots. If you can afford good quality boots or other items they will not only outlast the cheap ones, but in the long run you'll spend less than if you had bought the cheap ones.
Terry Pratchett was a genius. He might not have been the first with the theory, but certainly put it in the best words.
Load More Replies...I would love to, but I cannot find any good quality clothing anywhere. I also refuse to buy anything made of polyester, but I’m ending up with less and less choice of what I can buy. The clothes I see are all still expensive alright, but they’re of very poor quality and awful materials. I’ve put on a bit of weight over the past two years and am running out of things to wear, as I just can’t buy any new clothes - *everything* seems to be made from polyester.
As they say, you buy cheap, you buy twice. You can spend twice as much, but it lasts 3 times as long.
The problem is "more expensive" very often does not translate to "better quality".
I buy cheap cotton t shirts and sneakers from the supermarket, around $7 and $15 , but buy a lot, so I may use the same t shirt about one or twice a month, ssme with my shoes, that way they last me for years, and here in Peru we have very good cotton so they're ok. Bonus point: no logos.
Great theory but for some, coming up with the cost of higher quality when needed is not feasible for everyone.
It depends on how you use your clothes too. If you are probably going to buy even a few new outfits a season, you don't need high quality clothes. If you are going to wear things for years, you don't need creative/fashionable clothes, so you should look for more boring but better made clothes that don't have to fit perfectly.
Load More Replies...Indeed, for many households, sticking to a budget is way easier said than done.
A 2019 study found that even though most consumers (74%) have a budget, 79% of them fail to follow it.
On average, the weekly amount that people spend — not including bills like mortgage or rent, utilities, etc. — is $340, or $143 more than the average $197 budgeted. That extra spending adds up to roughly $7,400 each year.
Cheese. I used to eat Kraft singles on my sandwiches until I got with my wife and she buys the nice Tillamook cheese. I could never eat that fake plastic s**t EVER again
We are spoilt for choice in Southern Europe. A cheese maker comes to my house once a week. Mozzarella, stracciatella, ricotta freshly made. Local cheeses made with sheeps’ milk or goats milk or from the new local buffalo farm. Ahh, cheese.
TILLAMOOK! YES! Call out to all my fellow Oregonians! We may not make as much cheese as Wisconsin, but we make better cheese. Check out Rogue Creamery sometime.
When I was a kid on family vacation, we stopped at the Oregon state capital in Salem. The nice information lady was handing us pamphlets about various Oregon things but stopped before handing one over. "Where did you say you were from"? she asked. "Wisconsin" we replied, and she put that one away and said, "You probably don't need that one". It was about the cheese.
Load More Replies...Not sure why you were down voted Caro, have an upvote and enjoy your cheese:)
Load More Replies...Used to eat them as a kid. Adult me has no idea how I did it.
Load More Replies...I don't even give that c**p to my child. He has Edam and Gouda mainly. I say that as someone who had Kraft singles in his youth.
Try some baby Swiss, too. It's wonderful! Creamier and not as much bite as regular Swiss, but still that great flavor.
Load More Replies...Yeah, true, but there's still some about a kraft gelled cheese. Mayne it's the poor in me from when I was a kid, you gotta grow up with it to get it.
Yup! Melty American or velveeta is the ultimate call back to childhood. Such comfort food!
Load More Replies...Yes. There's something so nice when you bite a piece of cheese and it has those crispy little crumby things that denote how good quality it is. I love a nice sharp cheddar. Yum yum yum.
I bought a okay gouda. Then was away from home for emergency ( quick trip turned into months ). Came home and it had aged nicely while gone. Yum crunch.
Load More Replies..."Scheibletten" belong on toast hawaii or microwave nachos... nothing else.
I always thought I loved plastic cheese until my neighbor made me a grilled cheese with havarti and Asiago cheese slices. I admit I did not want to eat it but I didn’t want to be rude and I’m glad I did! I will forever now pay for the more expensive cheese. Best cheese sandwich I have ever had! I also use provolone or Asiago on my burgers and it’s been a game changer!!
I am german, sooo: Bread.
I work in a bakery and get all the free bread I want. Nice crusty sourdough. The stuff from the grocery stores doesn't even compare.
A few years ago I tried baking my own bread, and now I can't go back.
I bake flatbread every evening for supper from grain grown in fields I can see from my window. My wee town has 4 bakeries baking great loaves of which I buy about 4 a week. All using local flour. 1.50 euro per loaf for hand made bread. Lovely.
Okay but I didn't know German and good bread were synonymous. French and Italian maybe.
lol. You can use a baguette or ciabatta to wipe up olive oil or sauce but if you want bread find a German bakery
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A winter coat.
I had one, too. Very Warm. The warmest coat I ever owned was a white long haired timber wolf coat...no collar. If it was in the zeros in NYC I would wear it and be toasty.
Load More Replies...Yeah. I'm next door and I think my heaviest coat has been worn once. Only if I'm going to be outside on the coldest of winter nights but not all that active do I want it at all--and I could perfectly well do the same thing with layers, it would just take a little longer.
Load More Replies...Ah yes, I know the jacket addiction of which you speak.
Load More Replies...Had a family friend make a long winter coat for me. £25 for the pattern, £40 for the cloth and quilted lining, £40 for making it up. This was 25 years ago. She asked if I wanted housecoat quilted fabric lining the sleeves. YES. And huge lined pockets. I could crawl out of my nest, pull on the coat and stand outside whilst the dog did her thing (wearing the coat I made for her elderly self) without finding out quite how cold it was outside
I love my Navy pea coat. Thick wool, big buttons, high collar stands up on its own. Keeps me warm when the wind is howling. I've had it for over 15 years.
Absolutely. Anything for the winter. My wife gave me a really high-quality pair of snow boots for Christmas one year, and the difference from what I had been wearing previously was/is amazing.
Keeping your feet warm is critical outdoors! Feet and head!
Load More Replies...I just replaced a 30 year old Columbia parka with another Columbia parka. Expecting the same life out of this one. Nice and warm. Can't wait for winter to hit BC. The old one had kept me warm on Edinburgh, Berlin and San Francisco and even British Columbia. But it was time.
I have a good quality Winter Jacket, that I bought at Millets(Or Blacks I forget) in a sale. It cost me £70. I still have it, though its only two years old and if it doesnt have an accident like the last one did(which I had had for about five years and then had an unfortunate encounter with a sharp piece of metal in the women's toilets), will probably last me twice as long.
It’s amazing how technology has lead to the fabrication of highly effective material that can replace the need to wear animal skins.
The only artificial material I will wear is jacket shells and faux sherpa. No one dies to keep me warm!
Load More Replies...So it might be best to start with little changes and take it from there. "The biggest mistake people make (early in their financial literacy) is not knowing where their money goes," Nordman said.
"Track your spending for a few months (whatever way is easiest for you), cut out the waste (you get to decide what’s wasted), and automate as much of your spending and investing as you can."
I find it weird that this comment isn't here (unless i overlooked it) but TOILET PAPER!
Once i started using 2ply i knew there was no way in hell i was going back to 1ply.
Same, I thought 2 ply was the basic. Didn't even know 1ply was a thing.
Load More Replies...2 ply? noob, after spending childhood with 1 ply sandpapery TP, now i don't buy anything less than 3, 4 preferable. Same for tissues. My nose is happy nowadays.
It took the pandemic to teach me that most of Europe and Japan have the right idea about Bidet toilets and Bidet toilet seats. We have two and there is nothing quite like a heated seat and warm water wash, especially in the winter. You will use 70% less toilet paper as well.
Well these comments are illuminating. 3- and 4-ply toilet paper is a thing? I've only ever seen 1- and 2-.
I think a bidet belongs in this category. Best purchase ever. Cheap 1 ply TP doesn’t matter because you are just drying and not using it to clean.
Butter
Yep. I only use real butter, even tho i dont actually like the taste. I buy it cause its not full of plastic and doesnt come in a plastic tub
And its absolutely better for you. Margarine or other imitation butter = hydrogenated oil. Stuff like so called butter sauces like pizza joints that pass out tubs of that equals some artificially gross oil sauce with fake garlic. Yuck!
Load More Replies...I LOVE real butter! Margarine to me tastes like lard. I especially enjoy Irish butter or Plugra.
“Real” butter also uses lower temp on the stove top. (I remember when butter came as a brick as well). Also makes a heck of a better butter sandwich *S*
Aussie here. IMO, butter should be yellow! That picture looks like feta cheese.
We cheaped out and bought low quality garbage bags once. It made our week a misery. They split, leaking bin juice all over the pantry floor. They burst halfway to the wheelie bin. They just make more work all round, and never end up being a saving as you have to double up anyway. False economy.
My workplace keeps buying thinner and thinner trash bags. This latest batch splits every time and we end up double bagging. So we go thru twice as many bags now and they wonder why we ask to order more so often.
I got the last decent stapler that the office supply woman was allowed to order. The cheap ones didn't last a week, but were all she was allowed to buy. I put my name on it and let others know they could borrow it, but it lived on my shelf. Fail to return it at your peril. I was told it was still around, with my name renewed, over a decade later
Load More Replies...Ohh. I learned this lesson. It was a hard 50 week lesson while we were forced to double bag the cheap bags in the 100 bags package. The bags would often split top to bottom just opening them.
Same thing for zip lock bags, aluminum foil, scotch tape, and stick glue.
Double-bagging low quality bags must cost the same as the better bags cost.
I buy black refuse sacks with the yellow tiestrings and put them in the garbage bin outside when full. You can get about 20 in a pack that will hold up to 30 litres of rubbish for about seven quid.
I really do miss the cheap grocery bags instead of the ones you need to pay$0.10 for now in California
"Penny wise, pound foolish."- Robert Burton in his work The Anatomy of Melancholy published in 1621. Burton was a scholar at Oxford University, primarily in the field of mathematics. He wrote The Anatomy of Melancholy as therapy for his own chronic depression.
At its core, good budgeting is not about depriving yourself or being cheap. It's about being honest with yourself on what's important to you and then putting your money into your virtues.
It's basically aligning your spending with your values and cutting back on areas that don’t reflect them.
Running shoes. I thought I could just get regular tennis shoes and call it good. I started to train for a 5k and my “reward” to myself for finishing was to get a pair of actual running shoes. My gosh the difference is unbelievable and I will never be able to run in anything else ever again
I generally spend over $120 on a good pair of shoes. They far outlast the cheap ones so by the time I have actually worn the good ones out I would have spent more on buying cheapo pairs.
Load More Replies...When You Get "Old" ......... spending money on the best running shoes (light weight but with good cushioning) is even more important. A great pair of shoes will help you put in more miles and enjoy those miles. (Decades ago, my first two runs over 16km/10 miles were done in tennis shoes/trainers, so I can confirm what the OP says about wearing proper shoes is 100% true)
Give me a decent pair of jungle boots. I like the ankle support and the reinforced toes and soles.
I splurge on orthotics since I have weird feet. Now I can actually walk longer than a mile.
The thing is, even quality running sneakers should be replaced after max. 1000 km, 800km recommended. So it's approximately 100€ almost twice a year, but worth every cent.
Shoes, a good work chair, comfortable bed, quality bra...anything that helps keep you healthy physically is really worth the money. A good bra will keep you from getting knots in your shoulders from a tiny strap and won't hurt your back or cut into your boobs. Good shoes will keep your feet safe and help your knees and joints. A good work chair and good bed will help keep your back and neck good. I had a friend who couldn't really afford much and she started exercising but quit because her knees and feet hurt so bad and it was because the shoes she was wearing were so cheap. They aren't all the same. Once she got a good pair she found she could walk more and longer. Take care of your body- we abuse them enough with bad diets and overworking so at least do the little things you can.
And the cost to your feet from wearing the wrong footwear for running cannot be overestimated.
It really depends on how many km you do ... I weight nearly 100kg and run about 100km a month. My shoes will not even last 1 year and I buy very good quality one
Load More Replies...Same goes for hiking shoes. A pair of good sturdy ankle boots designed for walking in the mountains make doing hikes so much more comfortable. Even better when they come in in-between sizes, like I have. For regular shoes I always have to choose between (European) size 39 or 40, depending on the particular fit of the shoes. My last pair of hiking shoes were in an in-between size (39,5) and they fit so well. They were expensive, but lasted 12 years. At the end of that lifetime the soles degraded. If I will go to the mountains again I have to buy new ones, and I really hope I will find a pair that fit just as great.
Eggs. Once I tried free range organic farm fresh eggs with those deep orange yolks..I just couldn't go back. Paying over $6 a dozen isn't cheap but so worth it.
My brother's neighborhood bylaws decided that chickens where okay as long as you have no more than 6. That was a few years ago and now the whole family just get our eggs from his chickens. They are SO much better. Unless I'm going to be baking up a storm and need a lot of eggs, I'll choose happy backyard chicken eggs over store bought every time.
free range eggs taste better because of fresh feed and access to tasty bugs in the farmer's wife's garden. Production egg factories stack the chickens in cages four or five levels high. They only feed the top row. Guess what the chickens in the other four layers get to eat?
The free range part is important. Remember eggs can be ‘organic’ even if the poor things are restricted to cages or overcrowded barns. Good food for the chickens does not have to have the label ‘organic’, it’s just important to know what you are feeding them is good stuff, that the hens are well cared for and the yolks will be that lovely colour.
Not in Germany and probably neither in other EU countries. Organic is by regulation always a step above free range regarding indoor space per animal, and on par regarding outdoor space.
Load More Replies...Can someone explain why they are so expensive in other countries? Over here (Nigeria), free range eggs, cage free and other types are roughly the same amount.Though prices differ over regions, they're not usually significant. I specifically buy Rhode Island hen eggs because they're so nice. There's no significant difference in price.
At least in Germany it's probably a combination of efficiency and space. Land is expensive, and manpower is expensive too. The less land you need and the less work has to be done by a human, the cheaper the product gets. Keeping the chickens outside requires a lot more work by a human than keeping them all in a fully automated hall.
Load More Replies...I am really lucky that I can get my eggs from a local farm. Free range? You have to be careful when pulling into the farm to dodge the chickens! Ameraucanas have beautiful blue tinted eggs. My favorite.
Just a gentle reminder that free run can mean : 1) up to 60,000 chickens in one barn who although are no caged would be like you being in an elevator with 15 people….”free run” technically, but not really. OR 2)Free run can mean a small 2x4 feet square of outside area which would comfortably fit perhaps 3 hens….the access doors to this “patch of free run” is usually at one end of a barn…. This would be like 1 bathroom stall in a stadium if people…. Technically it’s there snd you can use it, but, getting to it probably would not happen in your life time. 3) ALL male chicks on egg farms are killed on the day they hatch ( without exception, as they cannot lay eggs and are not the “breed” for meat). They are killed en mass by either suffocation ( basically thrown into bags and put aside like trash), or usually macerated ALIVE ( like a giant blender), and turned into pet food. Finally 4) All egg laying hens are slaughtered after a short life
That's why on our side of the pond we have symbols: 0,1,2,3 and it goes like this: 0 is the chicken goes where it wants, totally free of restrictions to some closed barn and eats healthy, 1- it mostly roams free (but can be close like for the nights), 2 is closed all the time in a building but no cages, and 3-the worst-caged the whole life
Load More Replies...We get our eggs straight from the farm and love the freshness. They cost more than the store, but worth it. Plus, we can get duck eggs too.
Having my own chickens... yep. Interestingly -- my 5 (ex battery) hens were €10 (for 5). They've more than made up for the feed and their own costs now in Eggs.
Windshield wipers. I used to buy the cheap ones and would get so annoyed that they would always skip across the windshield. I thought all wipers did that until I bought the expensive ones. I’ll never buy the cheap ones again.
This is one I was thinking of adding. I work in the new car business, and the manufacturer brand we sell isn't cheap, but, they last. Good wipers can last you years. I never had to change them on my last lease, that was 3 years. Buy good ones
I agree. I always used to buy that stuff you can spray on your windshield to bead up the water so you can see easier and I didn't realize what I really needed was just a good pair of new blades. I got some really good ones and it made a huge difference in my ability to see better in the rain and snow.
Load More Replies...Top tip for all Uber/Lyft drivers. I get anxious enough being in a car without being driven by someone who can barely see.
Yes! Same with car tires. Last year, I was worried that my car was starting to show signs of having transmission problems. Then, despite the fact that my tires were still in OK shape, I bought new ones because I was going on a long distance trip involving snow, and I knew my tires slipped a little in wet conditions. Turns out, they slipped more than a little in all conditions. What I had thought was transmission trouble was actually just shitty tires slipping on everything. My new tires are SO MUCH BETTER; it's like I have a whole new car. I feel so much safer driving.
I use the RainX blades and RainX windshield juice and rarely use my wipers when it's raining, especially on the highway. The water just beads up and rolls away
I think the skipping is something that happens when either the wiendshield isn't clean, and the contaminats make the blade "airborn" as it passes minor bumps, or when the blade has become too old, so the rubber has stiffened up.
Same goes for what's underneath the wipers, i.e. the car on which they are mounted. Bought my 2002 BMW 325i when it had 112,000 miles on the clock, and had no troubles with it through today with 210,000 miles. Maintenance is cheaper, too as I don't have to replace the timing belt every 37,000 at $1,200 each time (like I did on the Honda Accord) since it has a timing chain. No rubber driveshaft boots to replace every other year like I had to on the Honda whose driveshaft boots got eaten by cold weather - another $1,000 each time. The BMW is rear-wheel drive, hence no such thing. It took the Honda (bought new) only 79,000 miles to rust out where the body meets the chassis. The Germans haven't figured out yet how to make a car rust.
Shoes
Same. I occasionally wear other comfy shoes like crocs, etc but if I'm going to be wearing shoes for a few hours or more, gotta be Birkenstock. They have gotten outrageously costly, but they support my feet perfectly and last practically forever. I have older sandals and newer, clogs (about 20+ yrs old), closed heel slip on shoes and shearling ankle high boots. I love them because they give me happy feet!
I love birkenstock. Where I live we can get some kind of very, very good quality knock-off. Comes at half the price, same quality
Load More Replies...If you're like me and spent 10-12 hours a day on your feet, yeah you need good shoes. I need a new pair of work shoes and I'm looking at some Steel toed Non-skids that run about $90. It's a lot but the last time I bought that brand they lasted about 7 years.
I've tried buying expensive shoes, but no matter what kind I buy, my feet get at least one sore spot from any shoe that's not a sneaker. I have to switch the pairs of shoes I wear in winter, so my raw heel can heal while my big toe gets chafed for a few days, and the other way around. I compromise with medium-prized shoes, cheap ones for parties, barefoot whenever I can.
I tore up my ankle many years ago and have excruciating plantar fascitis as a result. I can be on my feet all day with Vionic shoes. No other orthopedic shoe works as well for me, and they make some really cute shoes.
same with boots, my Doc Martins are expensive but every pair I have had last me over 10 years till the sole was completely worn. break down the cost yearly and I saved a ton.
I buy quality shoes and boots and have never looked back. Blundstones are my go to.
Can't chintz on shoes. They are supporting the foundation of your body. Bad shoes leads to all sorts of back, hip, neck, and headache problems.
Coffee.
We always had instant coffee/chicory blend growing up poor, and I would always enjoy good filter coffee if we went to a restaurant. Then in grad school someone introduced me to good instant coffee (100% freeze-dried arabica, no chicory), and then 6 months later the students clubbed together to buy a cheap drip-filter coffee machine and that was that.
Also around that time I bought my first pair of Calvin Klein undies at a sale. Never looked back in either arena.
Worth mentioning, to feed our coffee addiction we used to brew two pots in the morning, with freshly ground beans to lure the punters in, and basically sell one pot's worth for a marginal profit which allowed us to pretty much not have to pay for our own coffee. Also we were cheaper than the coffee stand nearest to our building, so we captured the departmental coffee market.
A few years ago the Senseo broke. It was 3 yo!!! Got out the old filter coffee machine and oh boy, what a difference. The coffee is great and cheaper to make too.
Twice a year in my town, people let in front of their home all the things they don't want anymore. Before the garage collectors get to collect them, a lot of people (including myself) get their nose in the unwanted suff. I got half of my fournitures that way, a lot of toys and once, a French presse. Like you, my Senseo broke so I decided " why not try the French press?". Well, that was an epithany! And you don't even need filter !
Load More Replies...I was going to say the same. You can buy all the fancy coffee makers in the world and nothing will beat a French press with fresh ground beans. I'm lucky enough to know someone that has a small business roasting beans sourced from all over. So those beans, ground at home right before use + a French press + the patience to brew a proper cup in that press = heaven!!!!
Load More Replies...I feel the same about filter coffee. In South Africa, most middle class people (well, the ones I know) don't have coffee makers; they buy Ricoffy (our standard instant coffee that everyone buys). I hate it and used to buy Nestle instant brands, which were better, but ethically a no-no (Nestle is an evil, evil company). Well, my SIL moved in with her coffee machine and filter coffee and I never looked back! I even grind my own beans sometimes!
I use a french coffee press. No filters = no strange paper of chemical taste and you don't lose the natural coffee oils.
I love coffee with chicory essence! I rarely drink coffee though, so instant does it for me.
I'm not a fan of drip coffee (it tastes weak to me), so I purchased a gorgeous stainless steel percolator that makes my coffee the way I like.
Olive oil
My hair and skin cry if I don't feed them Olive oil daily. I never run out of it. Edit: extra virgin olive oil is the best.
Do you mean from consuming it or do you actually put it in your hair and on your skin?? I’m curious because I have horribly dry/frizzy hair and I’ve never been able to find products that help?!
Load More Replies...Went to Greece and when I got back to the states was very saddened at what is marketed as Greek olive oil here.
Κορωνεικη (Koroneiki) variety is probably the best I've ever had.
Load More Replies...This! I'm Portuguese and this is our main ingredient. I struggle to find good quality here in England. In Portugal there are tons of different ones and you can even check the acidity.
Yes, real cold pressed, extra virgin. None of those blended oils for me.
I'm asking since Google can be a pit of different answers: if my hair tends to be oily, is it still okay to use olive oil? Also, how exactly do you use olive oil on skin and hair? Just rub it on and rinse it off???
Steak.
It's not something I buy often due to the expense (more of a rare treat), but when you do, It's best to go for one that's high quality (lots of marbling, well-aged, a good thickness & cut, etc). When cooking steak, there's not a lot you can do to make a low quality one taste great, but if you start with a quality ingredient, then there's likewise not a lot you can do to go wrong with it.
Find a good butcher and your life will change for the better quickly and in all the right ways (except maybe your bank balance lol)
The best setup I had was actually at an old Super-K (remember those?). I was nice to the butcher when asking for a special cut. Nobody ever talked with those guys. They really appreciated someone taking the time to be friendly. After that they would always let me know what was fresh and give me the nicest cuts. I am a big fan of Delmonicos and that was the only place I could get that cut. Get to know your local butcher!
Load More Replies...We have good steak for eating as steak, and what I call utility steak for fajitas, stew, soup, beef stroganoff.
I get the filet mignon at the butchers, a small one since it's just me. Love them. Cheaper than eating out and they can't cook it right anyway. To rare or over done.
I prefer this cut too. The next most expensive cut is scotch fillet, which has veins of fat running through it, which makes it sweeter. But I prefer eye fillet. Restaurants usually serve smaller portions of it than eye fillet, or filet mignon.
Load More Replies...There is something you can do to make "low quality" steak taste good. Cook it very low and slow. After you purchase the steak, leave it in your icebox, do not freeze, for about two to three weeks. Take the steak, salt with garlic salt and pepper. Take a good quality cast iron frying pan NOT one made in China and heat it to very hot, where water "skitters" across the pan when you put a drop on it. You do not have to "grease it, but you can if you want, but it will smoke. Throw the steak in the pan, cook until it starts to brown on the bottom. Turn it over, turn off the heat, cover the pan and continue to cook. The fat and tendons and other protein/fats will melt into the meat, giving it more flavor. The steak will be tender, juicy and cooked all the way through. It isn't how "little" you cook the meat, it is HOW you cook the meat. The higher the temp, the dryer and tougher the meat and you do not get the flavors from the fats melting into the meat.
Great cooking advice, starting with letting the meat mature in the fridge!
Load More Replies...I agree. Ince you spend the money on a good steak from the butcher you will never buy another grocery store steak ( even if it is from the butcher counter)!
That's how it was cut in the old days, sometimes on wooden chopping blocks. Butchers used steel brushes to scrub the blocks clean.
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dish soap. my god, i will never again purchase great value dishsoap. dawn ftw
In South Africa it's Sunlight dishwashing liquid. Other brands just don't compare.
In the UK the equivalent to Sunlight washing up liquid is Fairy Liquid. When I first moved here it really made me giggle, wondering how they got the liquid out of the fairies.
Load More Replies...The UK equivalent to Dawn is Fairy. I've been buying that brand ever since we moved to the UK from the US.
If I use Dawn, my hands get a rash. I don't know what it is about it. I have to use Palmolive. I can't use cheap store brand, must be Palmolive.
Ecover or I have to wear rubber gloves and risk dropping more stuff.
Load More Replies...I'm so sick of abbreviations or whatever THE HELL its called. What the hell is ftw??? F**k taco waffles? For the weed? Free the worms? Just say what you mean damnit!!
It's 'For the Win', I think. (Although F**k Taco Waffles is great!) :) OP is endorsing Dawn as the best. I agree, abbreviations have got out of control, but I doubt our opinion will make any difference so I've just decided to try to keep up with the times...
Load More Replies...All of the "cheap" cosmetics, soap and other materials are made in China and are quite dangerous. The Chinese put anti-freeze in toothpaste to make it taste sweet. "Nicaraguan police seized 6,000 tubes of a Chinese-made toothpaste suspected of containing a chemical that killed at least 51 people in nearby Panama last year, the health minister said Sunday." NBC News.
I also always buy Dawn but I do it for the birdies. I didn't realize that it is Dawn specifically that they use on birds to wash them up until my cockatiel got caught in a fly trap. Took him to the vet specializing in birds and they went out and got Dawn to fix him up. I learned 2 things: 1) never out up a fly trap in a house hold with birds with unclipped wings and 2) buy Dawn dish soap. The little ducks on there aren't just for publicity!
Computer chair
I really need to get a good chair. When Covid happened and we were sent to work from home, I just set up a makeshift desk with a folding chair I had because I thought it would only be for a few weeks. 3 years later I'm still using it. I decided to just get a good chair and...OMG companies have drastically increased their prices for them. I've bought nice work chairs for 100-150 dollars before and now most places, even walmart and amazon, are charging like 250+ for decent chairs. It's really price gouging.
Load More Replies...I bought an Aeron Miller chair for $1500 about 12 years ago. And still use it. I've even slept in it, it's that comfortable. Best money I've ever spent. Really does make a difference
Steel Case Leap chair (just under 1K from memory). Had it for about a decade. The gas strut leaked and the guy who set the chair up at my home came around with a new replacement chair! Most comfortable chair I've had. Oh, I guess I spend too long in it sometimes.
Load More Replies...Yes. And making sure it’s fully adjustable for your back. Trust me, back pain is no joke and can mess up your life.
I took my gamer chair into work since I quit playing computer games so much. Great decision as the one at work was sooo cheap.
I have to replace my desk chair because after an hour in it, I can feel the twinges in my back and legs.
I agree. Just upgraded my desk chair since I work from home and OMG what a difference. I'll be paying on it for 6 months but totally worth it.
Ballpoint pens, used to get the 99 cents for like 5 or 6 and now pay $2-3 per pen
This. I know my day's going to suck a little bit more if I get to work and realise I forgot my good pen. Cheap biro's are horrible.
I love writing with a good pen! Such a simple thing makes a big difference!
I am almost embarrassed at how much I love nice pens and stationary supplies of all sorts. Please note that I said "almost" lol.
I use an ink pen, I have two - one for blue ink and one for black. I only have to buy the cartridges, but one lasts for ages and it cuts down on the amount of plastic I buy.
The joy of taking a few moments to fill your pen from an ink bottle should not be understated. You're not stuck with paying the premium for cartridges, and there are so many great inks out there. Personally I favour Waterman and Private Reserve.
Load More Replies...I'm still looking for a smudge-proof pen. As a leftie, I always smear the ink no matter how carefully I try to write.
I buy the 99 cent ones because I have a terrible habit: I can take a ballpoint pen apart using only one hand.. and I tend to do it without realising while reading or on the phone. I can't count how many times I was working on my computer and realised I had taken another ballpoint pen apart without noticing
Maybe get yourself a silent fidget toy you can use in one hand? Fidget toys are really popular now, so there's tons of different types. Something like a "Flippy Chain" could work well.
Load More Replies...Just wait till you try a nice fountain pen. Doesn't have to cost much, all that matters is the nib. The flow and lack of resistance is amazing
Ballpoints??? Pfffft. If it doesn't suck ink from a bottle, it's not a real pen.
My Dyson vacuum. My dog sheds a lot and cheap vacuums would only last a year before breaking.
Kercher is great, my dad has a Karcher power washer.
Load More Replies...Yep...I got a shark vacuum at a thrift store. Even used it lasted years an worked beautifully. I was shocked at how dirty my floors must have been before. I couldn't go back and when I could finally afford it, I got a new one.
Shark is EXCELLENT! When I worked in animal medicine that was the preferred brand of vacuum for most clinics.
Load More Replies...We had a Dyson, tried a shark and were blown away by how much the shark picked up after using the Dyson (like I literally vacuumed the room twice back to back). I don't think I'll be going back
With respect to the Dyson company, I traded mine for a Shark. I have long haired cats and found the Shark far superior to the Dyson.
I second this. I bought a Shark back around 2013 and that thing is still going.
Underwear! I decided to try some more expensive underwear and I bought some form 3 different brands. One of them definitely stood out as the winner, AND I'M NEVER GOING BACK!!
I did too. I love Tomboy X. I am partial to their longer women's boxer briefs. Why should guys wear comfy undies and women wear horrible ones. You do get what you pay for in these
TomboyX for the win!! I have more than 20 sets (because I gotta match). The ling boxers are the best. I love the fun patterns, too. Who says dinosaur undies are only for kids? When I wear mine, they guarantee a happy day! 😂
Load More Replies...I've switched to Bombas merino wool. The merino is anti-bacterial and doesn't smell. It regulates body temp, so you can wear it on the hottest days and the coldest days. They also guarantee their socks forever. If you get a hole, your dryer eats one, whatever, they'll replace them. Plus, Bombas donates 1 pair of socks to homeless people for every pair sold.
Load More Replies...Not only do I buy good quality underwear, I do NOT dry them in the dryer, which is a killer of elastic bands.
Yes! In summer our MeUndies are outside on the line, and all the different patterns create a fun and varied viewing. In winter they hang on the shower curtain.
Load More Replies...I stopped wearing underwear almost 30 years ago and never went back..
What do you do about discharge or periods? I could never not wear underwear.
Load More Replies...I bought a pair of MeUndies for myself and for my husband. It's what we wear now and worth the price.
There's a department store chain in the UK called Dunne's. They sell their own brand of underwear both in multipacks, and individually. The multipacks are cheaper, but the individual underwear is just so much better WRT quality/fit that it's worth it. I've tried a few other UK brands, and I really prefer the individual Dunne's briefs the best.
They don't even have to be costly, just good quality. Target carries a brand called Gilligan O'Malley that is far superior to others like Hanes and Fruit of the Loom, and more on par with VS and Warners. The bras, last time I purchased one, were about $15 and they are comfortable, beautiful, and they last a LONG TIME.
Yes! Pair of Theives boxers at Target are so comfortable that I slowly started replacing my underwear until they were all I owned. They're amazing and worth every penny
Soap! Cheap soap just strips your skin. Expensive soap makes it so you can't keep your hands off yourself - skin so soft and pliable, plump and fresh and glowing and smooth. Wow. Game changer.
Anything with natural ingredients. If you can’t pronounce half of them then it is alcohol and will strip your skin. If it’s different oils in the ingredients then its good.
Load More Replies...I'm allergic to a lot, can't use scented anything or perfumes, have to have hypoallergenic products for everything including house cleaning. I use Dove sensitive soap, and daily shampoo, and Dawn dish liquid with no ill effects so that's my criteria. Green dish soap stripped my hands raw so don't believe all the advertisements, use what actually works for you. Cheap can be better than expensive, price isn't the best indication of a good product at all.
I'm the same, but also allergic to soap, so have to use either vegetable soap or body wash. I use a body wash with no fragrance.
Load More Replies...Bath and Body Works is my guilty shopping pleasure. I know they just rotate some of the same scents under new names but it creates the ultimate spa night when you have a fun new scent in a scrub, bubble bath, and body butter. Like, "I smell like poppy flowers now."
I just use dish soap. It's my shampoo, body wash and shaving cream and only costs $1 a bottle.
I have a couple great sources for handmade soap and buy it direct from the maker. I love the soaps and it supports small business. Haven't bought "store" soap for about 5 years now.
Due to autoimmune disorders, I will only use soaps like Olay, Dove, Caress that don't dry out my skin and make it itchy.
Cat food. Now that I buy the fancier brand that actually looks like food I don’t think I can go back to feeding my cat lumps of brown mush that look the same no matter what the meat is.
Oh yesssss....no mystery meat for my cat..... He eats better than I do.....
I was shopping in Pet Smart for the usual cheap cat food when I was stopped by a store employee who asked me why I was buying that brand. She then showed me the labels on that brand and the better brands and explained cat nutrition to me. The good stuff is more expensive up front, but your cats eat less (way less) because they're actually getting the nourishment they need. It ends up costing less in the long run and my cats were never sick, with shiny fur and eyes. Bonus: they also pooped less, so I didn't have to buy as much litter.
Better quality food during their life equals a longer life and less vet bills.
Cheap food can ruin their kidneys.Make the extra effort for your kittey; it may save you the heartbreak of seeing them die of renal failure. I still feel guilty.
Mine flat out refuse to eat the lumpy stuff- but they all get duck or rabbit because one of them is allergic to chicken.
A menstrual cup! I cannot describe how much better it made my period days. No mess and way less discomfort than when I was using pads and tampons. Never going back!
This 100%. I know they don't work for everyone, but if you can, please do try them. Yes, you have to get a bit more up close and personal with things, but it's not only more comfortable for a lot of people (for a lot of reasons), it's also very budget-friendly, as you can use one cup for up to 7 years (though I'm guessing it varies by brand), and it's putting much less of a strain on the environment than disposable products. If you can't use them, or don't like them for any reason whatsoever, it's fine, no biggie, but please, do try if you can.
I can 100% attest to this! I love my menstrual cup. I never have to worry about being caught needing tampons, I can leave it in for a long time, and even though you do have to get a bit more “up close” as OP said, the “No string” has been a game changer for me! It’s so much more sanitary. Best of all, I’m doing something better than worse for the environment.
Load More Replies...I really loved the idea of these and I tried, I really did but it was just a horrible experience. If you are overweight I think it might not be for you. It was incredibly painful trying to put them in. I know everyone says you just have to figure it out but I tried for 2 cycles to do so and it was never not painful. Trying to fish it out was almost impossible and when I did finally contort myself to dig it out, blood went everywhere like a bad Kill Bill scene. I can't just sit on the toilet and pull it out. Even with tampons I have to be standing with a leg up to put it in and to pull it out. So it was pretty messy. I really had high hopes but it's definitely not for everyone, especially if you're overweight.
I'm sorry for you for having such a bad experience. I just have to say that I'm overweight and cups work fine for me. So I wouldn't say it's a weight related issue. Sometimes trying a different brand works. All hoohaas are not similar, so not everyone can use a cup, but I encourage everyone, no matter what weight, to try if it works for you.
Load More Replies...This was a huge change for me too. I followed 10 of 12 periods with a UTI. I got so used it that I was chugging expensive cranberry and OTC during my period just to catch it early and not have to get medical treatment AGAIN. On top of that, tampons just made everything not feel good for up to a week after. I got a menstrual cup and all of that just...went away. no more UTIs, no more discomfort (dryness and sensitive). Did I have a few 'incidents' while getting into the swing of using it? yes. yes i did 😂. but nothing terrible. One of the biggest things that seems to bother people is that it's 'gross' to have to pull it out and dump it, but honestly I think having post-use pads and tampons in the trash way more gross.
My goodness, Whitney! That must have been a nightmare! I've had two UTIs in my life and they were excruciatingly painful. So glad you found a solution!
Load More Replies...these didn't really exist when I had my period and I am annoyed! lol
I alternate both, panties are great for sleeping in. No more leaking!
Load More Replies...I imagine at least half of the readers here (me included) had no idea that there was such a thing. Where does it go? Which way up? So many questions...
You fold it together and put it in the vagina. It kinda plops open in there, creating a slight vacuum. You wiggle it around a little bit until the cervix (lower end of the uterus where the blood comes out) is inside the cup and all the blood flows in there. You can pull it out when sitting on the toilet and simply empty all the blood directly into the toilet, wash it and it goes back in. It's more bloody than tampons while you deal with it, but you only have to empty it two or three times a day and it's so much less of a hassle...
Load More Replies...Depo Provera, no periods, and missed menopause until it was all over after 38 years of being on it! Best invention since fire!
Ill second this, an even better my gp put them on prescription so i could jab myself! My destiny was mine 🤣
Load More Replies...Parmegiano
The real stuff, a hunk of it. Not pre grated, or that dry stuff in cans.
We've only recently switched to shredding our own cheese when needed. What a game changer!
Load More Replies...Italian here, it's spelled "Parmigiano", just be careful to buy the real one.
Parmigiano Reggiano or Grana Padano. Anything else is not worthy of the name. Yes, it's more expensive, and worth every penny.
My (exchange-student) sister is from Italy, Her family sends us real parm every so often. Its so delicious. I can barely stand the pre grated anymore
You are one step closer. When you eschew the fake stuff for the real your journey will be complete.
Load More Replies...Don't forget to save the rind for sauces and soups. It adds a beautiful flavor!
Freshly grated cheese vs. that grated stuff mixed with wood pulp and plant fibers.
Whiskey. Alcohol tax is high in Aus so if you are already paying a buttload, you may as well buy the actual good stuff.
I wasn't much into whiskey, until I found the products of Islay.
Good Scotch whisky beats other whiskey any day, IMHO.
Load More Replies...If you're drinking it straight or on the rocks. If you're mixing it with Coca Cola (or whatever they have on the gun), or making a whiskey sour, it doesn't matter as much. I remember I was at a bar once and a guy sitting next to me ordered a "Hennessy and Coke". You don't mix good liquor. You're just wasting money at that point.
Single malt from Islay. Preferable Bowmore Gold Reef. There are (a bit) cheaper ones, like Ileach and Wee Beastie, which are both very nice.
I always thought I hated whiskey until my wife brought home a bottle of Irish whiskey. Then I realized that I actually just hated bourbon. Now I have a debilitating alcohol addiction.
Art supplies. I got to use really high-quality stuff for my college classes changed my life.
Especially kids art supplies. The good sulfite construction paper is thicker, stronger, and fades a lot less. Crayons, scissors, brushes, colored pencils, paint, clay, and ceramic glazes are always better at a higher dollar and last for years. The difference it makes in the quality of their artwork is amazing. And I taught them how to take care of their supplies properly and how to conserve the high end stuff. 700-1100 students per year.
So true. And you can be confident that the crayons won't have lead in them like some cheap ones were found to have.
Load More Replies...I go one further and say all supplies/equipment whether they're for work or pleasure.
This. Same here. Not just for my own work but for my kids, grandkids and great grandkids!
buy cheap and you will get cheap, cheap pastel pencils, all the lead broken throughout the pencil, had to re-sharpen so often and it would fall out, went through a pencil in no time. Also paper, really makes such a difference. I also found out in college years ago :)
Earbuds/headphones. Used to think people who paid over $20 for earbuds were ridiculous. Eventually got tired of my $12 ones breaking or being such low quality.
Try high quality wired earphones, next level. Bluetooth really drops the quality.
another big plus for wired : very difficult to loose just one bud...
Load More Replies...I cannot use ear buds, they are too painful. I do have a really good set (for me) of headphones that only cost about £30.
Yes, I find ear buds either uncomfortable or unusable (because they fall out).
Load More Replies...i saved up for a while to get these $50 wireless headphones (with a 3.5mm jack) but they are so worth it - they’re very very very durable and have a really long battery life, and they just sound nice! highly recommend if you listen to music a lot
I've been wearing these wrap around speakers on my neck. Keeps my ears open so I can hear traffic around me when I'm biking. BTW biking with earbuds/earphones, very dangerous. DO NOT bike with earbuds in.
I need to try this. I jog 3x a week and my headphones work fine, but they hurt my ears.
Load More Replies...Same with my headphones. I had cheap ones that would break a lot, a friend bought me some higher quality ones. Wired over ear headphones, mine are a "trendy brand" type, but the quality in the make and sound are obvious. I hope that they don't break any time soon though, it's getting difficult to find non-bluetooth ones, and not only are they awwwwful in sound quality, but my 2012 Walkman can't use them.
I worked in a data center where the noise level was usually around 70 db. I had Bose wireless noise-cancelling over-ear headphones with microphone. Well worth it. People could hear me when on the phone and the noise was very low
i bought these 5 dollar wireless SOUNDPODS and i didn't think they would be very good but I've had them for a while now (maybe about a year?) and they're still delivering good quality audio. i haven't tried a more expensive kind so i guess i don't have much to compare them against but for five dollars these things are amazing
By the time you go through three or four cheap ones, you couldn have bought the better ones.
Ha! Just ordered this exact set of buds about 30mins before reading this.. I have several different options for different circumstances and uses, but these are my fav!
Technology. Like, screen monitors, consoles, laptops, phones, etc. some of it high quality products are far more worth the buck
I generally buy Motorola. Cheapest option, does the job. Stay away from Huawei or any phone that comes with TikTok pre installed. I'm normally not a conspiracy theory person, but TikTok is a huge red flag for personal security.
For phones though, do pay attention to more than the price when judging quality. Try them out. When I last had a phone (wow that was a while ago...) the options most available were a Huawei, IPhone, or Nokia. The IPhone most expensive, Nokia second, Huawei cheapest. Trying them all out, the quality went straight to Nokia by far, had that thing for years.
I think it depends. Some people are brand name whores and literally put themselves in debt trying to keep up with the latest and newest stuff. They'll be behind on rent but 'must' have an iphone or the latest android. There are a lot of great products out there by lesser known companies and are way cheaper and work just as well. I think it's more important to have the right components to make what you have run well. A good anti-virus, a good screen shield/case, a good router. Make sure you get what you need so if you're gaming, you get a computer that can handle that. Don't download apps if you don't need them. Get a good external drive so you don't overload your computer and make it slower, etc., etc.
Monitors, period. Invest in the BEST monitor you can afford. Your eyes will thank you, and it's the one thing you will probably not replace when you replace the computer.
I made the switch from HDD to SSD a while back, and I'm still happy with my decision.
I only buy used Dell laptops that are only a few years old. You can't kill a Dell unless you really really try. I buy new ZTE cell phones. Great quality and bang for your buck. Has all the latest features for much less.... who needs a $2K phone when one for $300 does exactly the same thing?
That's why I love my Apple iPhone and iPad. Quality that lasts years and Apple keeps their products updated until the hardware can no longer take it.
Airplane tickets. I can’t go back to economy for long flights after experiencing first class.
This is a little hard to do, not too many can afford a first class ticket.
Yes! And most of the people outside US travels few times a year for few hours. I rather go trough few hours of discomfort every year than paying three times the plane ticket cost.
Load More Replies...I mean I’m sure that’s true but Christ, where do you work that this is feasible? And are they hiring??
I paid an extra $1100.00 for business class for a flight back from Kenya. The flight over was tough. The flight home, I slept the majority of the time. I'm going to upgrade anytime my flight time is more than 8 hours. It will be worth it. That Kenya flight was 13 hours.
I try to balance by skimping on the way there (cheapest seat I can find while being able to select it) and splurge on the return (when I'm more likely to be tired and cranky, not to mention that the fact that I usually have a lot more luggage means that the extra allowance when it comes to that one covers a good chunk of the difference). Another advantage? Return trips are booked farther in advance, so you can usually get a cheaper fare
If you can afford first/business class then go for it. My flight from New York to London was so uncomfortable and claustrophobic as I was essentially sat bolt upright the whole time and as I had the aisle seat I kept getting knocked by the trolley and people going to the toilet every time they went pass. Not to mention the food was disgusting. The worse thing was it was with American Airlines, and the economy passengers had to walk through business class to get to the economy class. I was so jealous seeing the business passengers in their own little booth with loads of room and a duvet. Talk about rubbing it in. 🤣🤣
Honestly, even as a reasonably big guy I don't find first/business class to be that much better than economy. But where I do spend the extra money is on the better airline, if I can. I would rather spend a few hundred extra than fly Delta most any day, if I have that choice. I also choose nonstop flights if I am able, because with kids and usually at least one checked bag, running across one of the largest airports in the US to make a transfer just isn't that fun.
i always fly internationally in business class. such a difference, i arrive rested and ready for the day. locally, even for short trips, i fly first class. so much less stress. i have chronic pain issues and mental health issues, and flying in business or first class makes all the difference. international, use a travel agent, they can save you $2000 off a $5000 ticket.
I use to fly economy until my company sent us to London on business class. Now either I fly premium economy or business class when I can afford it. Even on 5 hour flight say to Hawaii, I choose first class. Makes a big difference.
I looked it up not too long ago - it's actually cheaper to go on a transatlantic cruise in a balcony cabin than it is to fly Delta First Class.
Suuuure, I am gonna spend all my life spendings on one flight instead of.. you know... flying economy and travelling regularly... Don't get me wrong, if you can afford it go for it. But I don't think anyone out there is booking economy because they don't understand how much better first class is.
Comforter for your bed. My parents live in Canada and the room I grew up in had some problem with the heating duct so in the winter, the vent only faintly provided heat. I had some kid's polyester filled comforter which wasn't very warm at all. I'd always double or triple up with some sheets. When I was older and had a job, I absolutely splurged on a $300 down filled duvet with "box construction" (Meaning that it wasn't just a down sandwiched between two sheets and then stitched together into quilted compartments, each compartment had cotton walls sewn into it so the top and bottom of the duvet didn't touch. Anyway, the first night I slept with that duvet was pure heaven. So very soft and warm. 30 years later, that duvet has travelled across the country with me and we used it every night still, and it's still warm and cozy.
I've used 100% goose DOWN duvets for years. Just the right weight and keeps me warm. I've even used two when it gets down to zero and below here at night and sleep like a log. Goose down is easy to care for. Put in washer then dryer until completely dried. May take a few cycles to get all the wet spots dry. I've even used hot water to wash mine and then a hot dryer and guess what? No difference than using cold water and warm heat. These things can last literally for years and years. I have some down comforters now for 20 years. They pack up to virtually nothing during the summer and fluff out like new in the dryer for 5 minutes. Also buy some good 100% cotton flannel sheets. Made in Portugal look for it on the labels for excellent quality.
If you have a cheap mattress it might not be well insulate. Put a cheap duvet between the mattress and sheet to keep you warm from below too
There are some amazing synthetic comforters out now, if you ever need to buy another duvet for a different bed please consider synthetic. ALL down comes from the breast of LIVING birds ( usually geese or ducks)… thd birds are kept in large barns with no access to water to swim in etc, and then they have their feathers LITERALLY torn from their bodies, placed back in the barns so that new diwn will grow and have the process repeated until they are finally slaughtered at a young age. Imagine thd absolute pain to have your “feathers” ripped off you! Don’t believe me? Check it out on the internet.☹️
Socks. I used to get the basic twelve pack of white socks, but switched to darn tough wool socks. I was a little sticker shocked at first but I’m not blowing holes in them because of my fungus toe anymore.
I wish it were that easy! There isn't just one standard treatment that I'm aware of, and it can be very expensive. One doctor said that the only thing that could cure it cost around $800, and we simply couldn't afford that. Another listened to my complaint while she cut the nails down to the quick, despite the weeks of pain of letting them grow out past the fleshy side bits in order to not hurt anymore. I thought she was doing it in order to trim the nails off on the sides and then she said that she just doesn't do anything regarding toe nail fungus other than cutting the nails. She said that AFTER she cut them. I'm not proud of it, but I left in tears. I've seen so many doctors over the past nine years for that alone and I'm really not sure what to do now. Going to the doctors hasn't helped at *all*, so now what?
Load More Replies...It makes your nails much thicker and they are super hard to trim, so the nails grow out and away from the nailbed and not only will it rip your socks, it can also go right through some shoes' toebox. I love the soft moccasin like slippers with the rubber bottoms so you can wear them anywhere. My last pair lasted almost 6 months before the nail managed to rub through the suede making a hole. Unfortunately, treating toe nail fungus is difficult, and I've been to five podiatrists, none of whom could cure it, one said that the treatment was around $800 and there's no way we can afford that. I'm on the hunt for a new one who knows how to deal with this stuff, which is hard if you're on certain insurances. And now your question has been answered with probably WAY more detail than you wanted!😉😊
Load More Replies...I totally agree. Cotton socks just don't last and it's bloody annoying to gets toes stuck in the holes, fungal or not. I find bamboo socks last longer than cotton.
I'll have to try that. I'm horribly rough on foot wear.
Load More Replies...1. avocadoes. bought them from a company that buys them directly from the farmers, and i cant go back to storebought ones. 2. hiking boots. i learned to appreciate good hiking boots when i went on a hiking trip wearing. sneakers.
Not all expensive hiking boots are created equal. Bought a $350 pair (mid 90s) recommended by some friends. Thought I'd broken them in but got blisters anyway, Took them into a shoe repair place run by this old Italian guy to get them stretched. Pulled them out of the bag and all he says is "Oh, those goddamn things"
Conversely bought an expensive pair of running sneakers from a specialty shop and they destroyed my knees. Back to reasonable Nikes!
Load More Replies...PC, doesn't matter if it's a laptop or desktop, I'll never be using a cheap one unless I'm forced to. I want to play games at ultra graphics and have apps running well.
I believe a good PC really does pay for itself. When I have to use a cheaper one at work, the difference is obvious in seconds.
Also, spending more on quality parts means it’ll last longer. My old gaming rig kept running and performing really well up till it was 7 years old. Some of the hardware from it is in my new rig.
Load More Replies...Advice I wish I followed. I bought a new laptop before the pandemic. It wasn't cheap but it wasn't expensive either, I didn't need it for much so it didn't need to be special, just basic. Then the pandemic happened, I had no money for a better one and had to force this poor little thing to do things it wasn't meant to do. Now I'm in the market for a new one and have decided to splurge.
Gotta love sharing a $200 PC with six other people and the boss sitting there with a $2000 machine. Then he'd reprimand us for spending too long printing labels. "Sorry boss but when it takes five minutes to open excel, what am I supposed to do?"
Spaghetti. Started off with no name stuff. Then barilla. Now de cecco or rummo. In absolute terms it’s not much more expensive and tastes way better.
Any one that uses brass dies is a good starting point. It gives just a slight texture that makes the sauce cling. I am lucky in that I have a local Italian deli that makes their own. I can't go back!
Barilla makes the best gluten-free version, seriously, tastes 99% like regular pasta
Same with the sauce. But, instead of buying expensive pasta, make it. It's not hard
Add instant Ramen to that list. Top Ramen and Maruchan are garbage. You want the ones that come with three to five flavor packets. It's a bit more fiddly, but so worth it.
Toilet seats. I didn’t really pay attention much and assumed any “upgrade” would be expensive. But a wood one that *soft closes* is a game changer and only about $10 more than it’s plastic counterpart.
Interesting- the soft close, for me, was a disappointment. I'm unsure of the price range of it, but it wore out quicker than I ever would have thought, and I never even bothered to fix it- I just.... lowered the lid by hand.
Considering we all use the toilet, it's amazing how many people still go for cheap toilet seats. Wood is definitely better.
There is a down-side, though. I, too, loved my oak toilet seats until I read the book "The Tiger - A True Story of Vengeance and Survival" by John Vaillant, in which he mentioned at one time that the only reason we in the west can buy oak toilet seats for less than several hundred dollars is because the are made in China from poached/stolen oak. To the detriment of the Siberian or Amur Tiger's habitat.
Conversely, I love my super thin molded plastic one. It's soft-close too, but extremely light, so even if it did slam, it still wouldn't be that loud, and it has a bit of give to it, which is nice when you sit down.
Old fashioned shaving soap & brush. My uncle is a retired barber whose bathroom is decorated with all that old time barber stuff. After seeing it for years i was finally curious enough to try it. Never went back to barbasol or Edge. Much smoother shave and face feels so much better after a shave now.
I want one of the things that heats shaving cream while it's dispensed. Now and then I get a hot shave at a barber, and it feels so nice.
My son bought himself a high quality shaving brush and uses a shaving mug with shaving soap and a Merker razor (not cheap). I buy the Merker blades directly from Germany and they last forever and stay sharp.
Meat. Especially goat. So tasty, and worth the price
A container for my water. Broke a few bottles in my life from dropping them so I just said f**k it and bought a Stanley Thermos Master Series 44 fl. oz. Best 80 bucks I ever spent and it's got a lifetime warranty.
yes, it's a thermos and can be disassembled for cleaning and has thick walls. if you think they're expensive buy a used 40 years old one for 20
Load More Replies...i have a free water bottle i got from work a few years back, it works fine, cost nothing. Not paying 80 quid for a water holder
I would never pay 80€ for a water bottle. The pictured one, the aluminium bottle from SIGG, is almost indestructible in my experience, and costs around 20-25€ for 1liter.
What the person bought was actually a metal thermos and probably would have been much tougher than what is pictured above, Stanley is predominately a tool manufacture and so their products are designed to be tough enough to be bashed around a fair bit on the work site.
Load More Replies...I have my dad's Thermos Master that he took to work every day for 50 years. Still in perfect condition. UNBELIEVABLE quality! I've had it now 8 years since he passed. $80 well spend, OP!
Cameras. Sure, if you know your stuff, you can tease beautiful pictures out of a Holga, but if you do low light stuff, high speed stuff, or a combination of both, you gravitate to the best you can afford. Tablets/laptops. I used a very expensive Microsoft Surface as my main computer for years and was quite upset when my friend dropped it and killed it. But for the rest... I am cheap. Cars, bikes, electronics, furniture, clothes, groceries...
Actually, it's more "Rather than the newest Iphone, acrylic nails and hair extensions, and a $700 a month car payement , budget and buy quality where it matters
Load More Replies...Some options are just too pricey for me, even if really enjoyable. There's a limit to how much I can indulge myself.
Exactly. I'm not flying Business Class but I can afford good toilet paper. ;)
Load More Replies...For me, it’s tea. Yes I’m British. But after knowing what a cup of single estate Yunnan tastes like I’m not going back to store brought tea bags. (Fwiw, yes this sounds like snobbery but I honestly don’t care about any other item of food or drink. Those are fine whatever)
When you factor in the per-cup price, is it expensive to have a cup of tea that you really enjoy?
Load More Replies...What NO ONE addresses are good food storage containers. The lower end ones are easily used for other things. But higher end last longer, are dishwasher safe, and so on.
Cars for me. Since my first truly high-end car, I am now spoiled with all the technology, the ride, the power, etc. Mmmmm... massaging seats....
I agree with this to a point. Where instead of buying a high end car I usually buy a car 4 or 5 thousand below my budget so I can get the extended warranty, wheel and tire package, and scheduled maintenance covered. As wells as having good car insurance with a low deductible. I drive 100 miles round trip for work. It's nice knowing everything is covered. There's almost nothing that will pop up on me.
Load More Replies...Lotion. My go-to brand costs 5x more than what I used to pay but it's superior to every brand I've ever tried.
I've said it before, and I'll say it again; it's expensive being poor. Instead of buying one item that is of better quality and will last for years, you end up having to buy the cheaper item that only lasts a fraction of the time, and needs to be replaced. In the long run, you spend more money. Frustrating.
You also are stuck paying rent, higher interest on loans, not getting the advantage of compound interest, having more expensive health care because you can't treat every problem the second you suspect something and because cheap food leads to poor health (unless you grow your own, but even then there are problems). You also can't invest as much in yourself so, unless you are truly a standout genius or have some other specialty where you perform in the tiny top fraction of a percent of the population, there is no path away from the hard jobs that don't allow someone to elevate their social standing. Add 40 years of economic policy directly and openly hostile to the working poor, and it's no wonder economic mobility is at such a low.
Load More Replies...Instant Ramen. Real ramen is a special treat but there is good instant ramen out there. You can spot the good ones by the number of flavor packets than come with the noodles. Top Ramen and Maruchan have one. Mama ramen has three and Indo Mio has FIVE! Indo is so good. Toss an egg in the water and soft boil it before adding the noodles to kick it up a notch.
Actually, it's more "Rather than the newest Iphone, acrylic nails and hair extensions, and a $700 a month car payement , budget and buy quality where it matters
Load More Replies...Some options are just too pricey for me, even if really enjoyable. There's a limit to how much I can indulge myself.
Exactly. I'm not flying Business Class but I can afford good toilet paper. ;)
Load More Replies...For me, it’s tea. Yes I’m British. But after knowing what a cup of single estate Yunnan tastes like I’m not going back to store brought tea bags. (Fwiw, yes this sounds like snobbery but I honestly don’t care about any other item of food or drink. Those are fine whatever)
When you factor in the per-cup price, is it expensive to have a cup of tea that you really enjoy?
Load More Replies...What NO ONE addresses are good food storage containers. The lower end ones are easily used for other things. But higher end last longer, are dishwasher safe, and so on.
Cars for me. Since my first truly high-end car, I am now spoiled with all the technology, the ride, the power, etc. Mmmmm... massaging seats....
I agree with this to a point. Where instead of buying a high end car I usually buy a car 4 or 5 thousand below my budget so I can get the extended warranty, wheel and tire package, and scheduled maintenance covered. As wells as having good car insurance with a low deductible. I drive 100 miles round trip for work. It's nice knowing everything is covered. There's almost nothing that will pop up on me.
Load More Replies...Lotion. My go-to brand costs 5x more than what I used to pay but it's superior to every brand I've ever tried.
I've said it before, and I'll say it again; it's expensive being poor. Instead of buying one item that is of better quality and will last for years, you end up having to buy the cheaper item that only lasts a fraction of the time, and needs to be replaced. In the long run, you spend more money. Frustrating.
You also are stuck paying rent, higher interest on loans, not getting the advantage of compound interest, having more expensive health care because you can't treat every problem the second you suspect something and because cheap food leads to poor health (unless you grow your own, but even then there are problems). You also can't invest as much in yourself so, unless you are truly a standout genius or have some other specialty where you perform in the tiny top fraction of a percent of the population, there is no path away from the hard jobs that don't allow someone to elevate their social standing. Add 40 years of economic policy directly and openly hostile to the working poor, and it's no wonder economic mobility is at such a low.
Load More Replies...Instant Ramen. Real ramen is a special treat but there is good instant ramen out there. You can spot the good ones by the number of flavor packets than come with the noodles. Top Ramen and Maruchan have one. Mama ramen has three and Indo Mio has FIVE! Indo is so good. Toss an egg in the water and soft boil it before adding the noodles to kick it up a notch.
