As perfect as most wedding photos seem, there's a lot of chaos behind them. Kids causing mayhem and bridezillas going ballistic are just the tip of the iceberg. And what better way to sum up wedding fails than create a list of some of the funniest memes to scroll through when the (emotional) hangover hits after the ceremony? Scroll down to check out the entries and upvote your faves!
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Getting your guests to honor the most ridiculous dress code is easy. If you lie to them.
I expect people would probably be better dressed - some of the things people wear to weddings thinking it's appropriate stagger me.
Load More Replies...Great idea. The wedding pictures are fun. Also, if they change their mind at the last minute (because they realize they want a different wedding or want to elope or want it on another date or something), they could simply say they just dressed up as bride and groom ;D
I have friends who did that on April Fool's Day. No one was sure if they were actually getting married or if it was just a prank. Yes, they actually did get married.
We were going to have a Halloween wedding, surprise baby arrived so we eloped instead
This is the best comment on the weirdness of how a couple getting married are supposed to dress up I have ever seen! Kudos!
Making a wedding work is easier than making a marriage work. True, you still have to compromise, but it involves a lot more cake.
If it was my wedding the superhero one would be the brides. I wouldn't stand a plane white wedding cake.
Load More Replies...I'm a lady, and I would be extremely happy if the superhero design was on both sides
Caption says it all. "Marriage is all about compromise." ♥
Load More Replies...Nothing is as real as a ring accompanied with the words "till death do us part."
This meme goes so well with the concept of Yuri!! On Ice. It is a legit meme... yoi-5c6a90...3f18fe.jpg
Wedding photos and photobombing go together better than groomsmen and awkward speeches.
I think the girls had no idea what the groomsmen were planning
Load More Replies..."Hey bro, how should we photobomb our bro's wedding." -- "I don't know bro, how 'bout we make out?" -- "Um, bro?" --- "*blush* it's just for the picture, bro." -- "*tears in eyes* Aw, bro..."
It's always awesome to see a bunch of guys that don't take themselves too seriously and are comfortable enough in their own skin to do something like this. Bravo!
It's great!! I bet the reaction on the bridesmaids faces were all genuine!!
Wedding DJs are a great way to add spice to any reception and break a few of your grandparents' limbs.
It's a picture of the Shakers, a religious movement in America during the 1700s (I think). They all practiced celibacy and women and men could not dance together. They were allowed to adopt children and the kids were raised by the community. I think there are only 2 shakers left in the US
Load More Replies...Not sure but I think this is a sketch of a religious group known as the Shakers, from the early 1800s.
Yeah, if you do a Google search for “Shakers”, this image is the first that pops up.
Load More Replies...Wearing white to a wedding isn't the only way to make enemies with the bride.
I know! I'd be really mad because I was so happy and then now everyone is talking about this instead
Load More Replies...What if she says no? Imagine the effect on the celebration. I always feel like these kind of proposals are almost extortionist
not to be rude but she's not gonna say no to that cutie
Load More Replies...if the newly married couple agreed to it i don't see a problem with that one. just don't do it without getiing permission first
Why does anyone want to do it on someone else's special day though? Go find your own thing.
Load More Replies...Also the “minimized my own big announcement“ too! An engagement at a wedding is way less exciting than an engagement on any other day.
Load More Replies...Photographer: "Okay, everyone say 'Cheese', and Buddy will take the photo." Me: "Fetch!" *dog runs off*
Gimme a treat, then the interview. Ah,who am I kidding, I am extremely qualified. Ooh!!! Is that the neighbor dog I always bark at? Lemme go say some more,colorful words!!!
If everyone took their duties as responsibly as a best man does, the economy would reach its peak before that one uncle gets wasted.
I am laughing out loud and so hard at this. What a best man! He did his duties to the fullest.
Wedding ceremony seating basics: you are where you belong. And if you're surrounded with children who are at least 20 years young, you are where you belong.
I invited a man, his wife and son to our wedding. They asked if their other son and his girlfriend could come. Reluctantly we said yes. It turns out no one in that group showed up. Oh and they never called with an explanation or apology. We should have sent them a bill especially after asking to add two more people to the party. Grrrrr!
I say/write anyways all the time. Maybe it's a Midwestern thing?
Load More Replies...Here in Finland it is also a tradition to allow also people who were not invited to participate to a wedding. But if the uninvited person behaves badly that person can be removed from the party.
People should be able to attend the ceremony if not invited. But not expect to go to the reception event, where numbers are important for catering. Many people on a limited budget cannot afford to invite ALL their friends for an expensive meal afterwards.
Load More Replies...We did potluck for our reception. To get in you had to bring your favorite side dish, with the recipe, and any stories behind it, for the couples cookbook. So,ermines I just read the thing
Répondez s'il vous plaît, which means; "Please respond"
Load More Replies...I've been to hundreds of weddings, due to family business and social contacts. Hands-down, the best weddings are the shoestring budget weddings, especially those with potluck receptions. The variety of food pleases all the different pallets, there's usually more than enough food to go around, extra people bring extra food, so that's not a problem, and people are more relaxed and less socially standoffish. Oh, and the bride and groom have more money for a great honeymoon, and down payment on a house, whatever, because they didn't blow it on fancy flowers that will die or a one-use dress that costs half a year's income.
Very nice, and the total opposite of those who want to charge the entire overpriced
There's a fine line between a reasonable woman and an emotional wreck who has no regard for human life, and it's called a wedding.
Everyone at the wedding may be looking at her, but she will be looking at you and only you
Absolutely! Made sure my hubby was involved in the planning and since he didn't see my dress beforehand, I didn't see him dressed up beforehand either.
Shocking twist, the coat-tails are normal length, it's just that Kevin Hart is a tiny, tiny man.
If the Bride does not laugh at your account being just you, then say No when asked 'do you take....
Kevin Hart knows that every family's history book begins with a wedding photo.
Nope. There's a step ladder under her dress. And she's stood on the top rung.
Load More Replies...The perks of marrying someone involve having a person to split your life mistakes with.
This meme I s the best one. My wife and I have been happily married for 18 years. We spent a pittance getting married and are still blissfully together. Ironically nearly all the weddings we’ve been to have ended in divorce and they spent a fortune on them. What a waste of money. I like to gloat about this. Marriage is about the love between two people all the rest is just filler. Yes it should be a special day but it doesn’t need to be expensive. Alas a lot of people or shallow, obsessed with status and are materialistic.
I got married within a week or two of a work colleague. Mine was a simple, low cost affair with only immediate family and best friends. There's was a massive, expensive do that was of course described as 'the best day of their lives'. They didn't make it a year. Still with my husband after 10 years.
Load More Replies...I got married by the river in flip flops and a cocktail dress lol...it was perfect
If someone has an expensive wedding, 9/10 it isn’t even a fraction of “all their money.” I do think super expensive weddings are dumb, but spending a few grand on the biggest party you’ll ever throw isn’t a big deal if you have savings and careers and parents helping.
People frequently spend more money than they have on weddings - borrowing to achieve the 'wedding of their dreams'. My eldest sister had a fairly big expensive 'dream' wedding. She says it all seems a blur now, that she didn't get to talk to everyone she wanted (but several she didn't) and couldn't remember the food they had. It might also not be the biggest party you'll ever throw either. People always think their marriage will last, of course, but when around 50% don't survive that's not great odds to be spending thousands on. It's usually the number of guests that cause the costs to rocket so if you don't know someone that well why on earth do you want them to be at your wedding? It's a very personal thing to do - declare your love and commitment to each other. I think people forget it's a marriage first and foremost.
Load More Replies...Go to Vegas and then have a rip-snorter of a party afterwards! Get gifts and have more fun and save the money for a down payment on a house. Unless you live in California, then you're screwed.
My husband and I had each done the big wedding before, so we decided to just have fun. We sent party invitations, rented a pontoon boat with a grill in back, had hamburgers, salads, and a sheet cake. Everyone was required to wear proper attire—jeans or shorts. We had a great time, and we’re still married and crazy as ever after 20 years!
That is one thing which I really do not understand. So many preparations, so many - let's say it - wasted money - just for one day. What do you have from it? Crowds of disliked family members which you just HAD to invite, tons of stress and bunch of awkward photos. Also, few quarrels with your family and a huge hangover, if you're particularly unlucky. Yet, people feel *obligated* to throw a big party. Really, what is so wrong in small dinner and/or dancing with only friends and closest family members? Is that a reason to be ashamed?
It's a nice day for a white wedding, until you realise you've gone over budget.
I bet this couple went to a pizza place on their first date.
there's no law saying wedding cakes have to be white
Load More Replies...At my reception we had it at a park, I was in shorts and flip flops. We ordered pizza from the local place and BBQ.
Well done! Best wedding ( most honest and most focused right ) had "please bring a plate" thingy... a tiny bit more organized than that as in : "you please bring some salad, ' you please bring some meat main cold " . At a fire fighters' Hall.
Load More Replies...If you want to marry someone you've known for a week, fly to Vegas. If you want to wait for the perfect person in the perfect place on the perfect day with a perfect perfect... Good luck.
This was taken from a Brazilian novela. And the actress - yes, she's an actress - is Dame Fernanda Montenegro.
i once heard someone comment (on a tv show, i think) that if you wait until you can "afford" it (have kids, etc), you'll never be able to do it. totally agree. sometimes you have to plan & work around life to accomplish your goals, but don't put them off!
That would be me too. But only if I can bring all my fur babies with me too.
Nothing wrong with waiting. It's more reasonable than getting married in a spur of moment, after week of acquintance, because "this is my true love". Besides, you can be a happy couple without getting married. This is even more likely because there is no sense of obligation and coercion.
And it looks like she married herself. Not that there's anything wrong with that lol
Wedding etiquette rules: the bride is always right. Also, the bride is always right.
Plot twist twist, she's Harley Quinn and this wedding is a trap! ♥
Load More Replies...it could have also been "find a Guy who will let you get married by Batman"
Expectations and reality tend to differ. Especially during weddings.
That dress makes me crave for a big bowl of strawberry and vanilla ice cream.
The best guests are those who bring more guests. More guests who run around without their pants and smell like poop.
What?! People taking my joke seriously? Gotcha! *heads to editing comment by adding quotation marks* Thought the heart was enough of an indication. Sorry, my bad.
Load More Replies...Small kids are so annoying and I don't get why people act so offended that others don't want them at events.
Because oftentimes it means the parents can’t go either then.
Load More Replies...NEVER understood having small children IN a wedding, let alone attending. The whole cute flower girl/ring bearer thing--no thanks. I've seen too many "cute" kiddie meltdowns to make it worth the trouble.
I had an adult only wedding-almost everyone came 100 invited, 95 attended and this was 13 yrs ago. I suspect it's more common now.To each his own. People don't have to attend if the can't or are offended. It was OUR big day-& wanted people to celebrate w/ us if they could make it. The reasons were for some stated here already, noise during vows, etc. And also, we were on an extreme budget. You are charged per head. If someone brings their child, & they don't eat their meal (as kids often don't) we would be charged regardless. More than one venue told us this & I would expect that anyway. Everyone does their wedding how they want it to be.
Why should the couple have to accommodate kids? Wedding ceremonies and receptions have nothing for children to do because they should not be there.
Load More Replies...Everyone knows my wedding will be child free. Not even the kids I like can come. Some things are just for adults.
That’s a poor attempt at understanding my comment, Nia. You’re not dumb so I’ll just say you’re being intentionally obtuse because you’re so emotional about this. If you change your mind, I’ll invite you to my wedding dude lol.
Load More Replies...I gave people 8 months notice to get babysitters and still got calls the month before to ask if they could being their (perfectly behaved) children. I used the excuse that I saved on insurance by having no minors. Everyone who cake loved the no kids policy.
Marrying this year. Luckily I don't really know anyone with small kids. :P
Just means I don't have to go! Perfect excuse to get out a social engagement. Yes! (4 kids are hard to find a free [we are broker than broke] sitter for)
Is everyone in the wedding business a thief? Or is every thief in the wedding business?
EVERYTHING at a wedding. Bows on the pews, c**p sprinkled on the aisle runner, c**p to throw at the newlyweds, c**p all over at the reception - centerpieces, keepsake favors, endless c**p...
Load More Replies...Exactly - too much tat involved. Nice dress, open bar - who cares about the rest!
Load More Replies..... and be featured on pinterest fails. OMG! SO F*****G TRUE!
Saw some in a school once and it was full of insects. Ugh.
Load More Replies...A wedding photographer is always a good investment.
Let's be real, they probably didn't pay the friend and got what they paid for
We actually did that and yes our pictures turned out just like this! 43 yrs later who cares? Don't even know where they are and don't even care didn't matter then and doesn't matter now. PS Then we do it the right way for our daughter's wedding and the dude's camera got stolen at the reception. 12 years later they are still in love and she doesn't have a dusty box of pictures somewhere. Life is for living not reminiscing!
everyone should have at least a few funny & totally candid shots of their wedding! just think of the memories you can relive later
If you fear you look bad in front of the wedding photographer, believe them when they say that they've seen a lot worse.
I used to work at a fabric store, and I never understood why people use burlap for weddings. It sheds everywhere, and bolts are treated with formaldehyde. Not only does it stink, but it's bad for you too! If you MUST go rustic, use muslin or osnaberg, and off-white lace. You get a similar effect that won't cause breathing problems.
i thought this was a southern thing?! we're big on mason jars in the south...
So basic!! But to be totally fair, black girls do this too. It’s like a middle American thing. No matter who does it, it’s the least original s**t ever. Same for all those white a*s poses they do in their wedding party pics. Gag.
Didn't have a first dance! Gets in the way of the champagne drinking.
Load More Replies...They should've actually attached it to her and let her walk around with it.
Mum can either lump it or stay away. Or maybe I'm just not that close to my parents.
Agree. If it's not your mother who pays for your wedding, she has nothing to say. The same applies to the father, brother, mother-in-law, best friend and neighbor's dog. Your wedding = your choices.
Load More Replies...It is your wedding, not your parents. So they can only give you some suggestions.
It always annoys the snot out of me these parents that think its their right to make choices / demands about YOUR day. Even if they agreed to pay for it that does not give them the right to dictate how your wedding is gong to be its your big day, they need to keep their nose out of it unless you ask for advice.
YES. They already had their chance (or not). Give the money freely or don't give it at all.
Load More Replies...Whose wedding is it? You are an adult person. Take your own decisions.
My family was so easily offended - could not invite one uncle without inviting another one you hadnt seen for years or the cousin you had never even metetc. Had 2 such big families that there was no chance of actually inviting any friends at all.
Tell him he can pick the guests for any wedding he might have in the future. Your wedding, your guests. I'd rather say no to any financial help then let anyone tell me who to have. If you don't see them regularly, and by choice, then why invite them?
Load More Replies...Cake can transform a bad wedding into a good one. And a good one into the perfect one. And the perfect one into... You knew where this is going, don't you? Cake.
When my husband proposed, I was nervous and before I said yes, I asked "Can our cake be chocolate?" We've been married over 25 years and I have never lived this down...
Load More Replies...Just plain chocolate?! What’s wrong with you people?? The best cake flavor is chocolate cinnamon swirl!!!!!
My sister ordered her cake from a place that was highly recommended. The specialized in "edible monuments". It was truly lovely in design, very simple yet classy. I got to the reception before her and saw this monstrosity they had delivered. It had white icing with bright BLUE roses cascading down the side. And I do mean cascading - September in Seattle in usually really humid and the flowers were literally melting off this cake. She took it like a champ and we just dealt with it. The cake itself was awful. It took 3 months (and 2 days of picketing outside the bakery) to get her money fully refunded. They have since gone out of business.
same when pics of pregnancy start to pop up in timeline. "unfriend"
i love all my friends & relatives on FB, but don't follow them all for exactly this reason!
I can't speak for anyone but myself but when people I love post these things, I'm happy to share their joy.
No, doggo pictures are acceptable - desirable even!! Well, ANY animal pix.
Load More Replies...Yes, they're both awful, but the second didn't even TRY. That ribbon is completely different. So many "fails" are ignoring instructions and using completely different items.
I can actually gat that way when doing a DIY project. At first I think “I don’t have this so I’ll just have to improvise” and before I know I’ve ended up with the second pic.
Load More Replies...This photo shows Jack Kerouac's novel "On the Road", which he typed out on this 120 foot long roll of paper.
If the parents are footing the bill they can pay for who they want
This happened to my friend! She's having a 100 person MAX wedding and her mother had a list of 250. Mostly people who she had a swimming class with 20 years!
That is ridiculous. Her parents had their own wedding where they picked the guests and now it's not up to them (and if they let their parents do it to them, tough - break the chain!). This is your friends turn. Doesn't matter who is paying - though I'd rather have a small, cheap wedding then invite people I've only met a few times.
Load More Replies...Refuse their help and have a small but perfectly formed wedding.
Load More Replies...My wedding is in 1 week and we only spent $5,000 which is a lot of money for us. With all the drama and c**p planning I really wish I went with my groom's idea for the courthouse....
I'm really sick of Bored Panda trimming down threads after a few hours. There were 112 items here, and I enjoyed them enough to scroll through them all. People who come late to the show have no choice but to stop at 30. Why? (screenshot: https://pasteboard.co/I11ONvf.png )
Yeah. I love this site but when they trim it down by over 50 items which happens quite a bit, it gets a bit annoying...
Load More Replies...I feel that the more over the top the wedding is the more likely it won't last.
I get the feeling that there is a keeping up with the Jones mindset, and playing one upsmanship to all of this wedding planning. A wedding should not be a competition and people should not brag about the its opulence or the amount of money spent.
Please add more memes to this post. They're all so true, I could keep reading!
Same, except, there used to be more. Like, 82 more. BP trimmed the post after 3 hours.
Load More Replies...Weddings are overrated. We had the shortest ceremony, then just had a fun party. We served grilled cheese!
I LOVE I LOVE I LOVE!!! As a Wedding Coordinator These are so awesome!!! 112 are simply not enough <3
Every wedding? none of this happened at most of the weddings I've been at!
I've never not related to anything harder than I have most of these pictures.
My wedding is in 1 week and we only spent $5,000 which is a lot of money for us. With all the drama and c**p planning I really wish I went with my groom's idea for the courthouse....
I'm really sick of Bored Panda trimming down threads after a few hours. There were 112 items here, and I enjoyed them enough to scroll through them all. People who come late to the show have no choice but to stop at 30. Why? (screenshot: https://pasteboard.co/I11ONvf.png )
Yeah. I love this site but when they trim it down by over 50 items which happens quite a bit, it gets a bit annoying...
Load More Replies...I feel that the more over the top the wedding is the more likely it won't last.
I get the feeling that there is a keeping up with the Jones mindset, and playing one upsmanship to all of this wedding planning. A wedding should not be a competition and people should not brag about the its opulence or the amount of money spent.
Please add more memes to this post. They're all so true, I could keep reading!
Same, except, there used to be more. Like, 82 more. BP trimmed the post after 3 hours.
Load More Replies...Weddings are overrated. We had the shortest ceremony, then just had a fun party. We served grilled cheese!
I LOVE I LOVE I LOVE!!! As a Wedding Coordinator These are so awesome!!! 112 are simply not enough <3
Every wedding? none of this happened at most of the weddings I've been at!
I've never not related to anything harder than I have most of these pictures.
