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In today's society, it's not that uncommon to come across people who try to present themselves as tough and unbreakable. But behind the bravado, many of these individuals are anything but. With the rise of social media, it's easier than ever for internet users to put up a false front and pretend to be someone they're not. This leads to hilarious and often cringeworthy examples of people trying too hard to prove they’re 'cool', in the hopes of creating a certain image for themselves.

For those looking for a good laugh, look no further because the subreddit “I Am Very Bad” provides a plethora of comedic content. This community is dedicated to sharing some of the funniest and most absurd examples of people trying to be seen as 'tough' online. From exaggerated posturing to outright lies, this subreddit is a goldmine of entertainment. If you'd like to check out our previous article on this group, you can find the link here.

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Precisely Why

Precisely Why

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Lakota Wolf
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1 year ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Precision drone strike to "take their guns away". Oh? The drone strike blew up their entire house, not just the guns? What a shame. (No, I don't actually condone this. I'm just sometimes ashamed to be an American when some of my fellow Americans are of the "CAIN'T TERK ER GUNZ" variety.)

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He's In Charge Of The One They Idolize

He's In Charge Of The One They Idolize

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Lakota Wolf
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

This person is "stairing down" doggos?! They're throwing dogs down flights of stairs! What an a-hole!

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I’m Just Glad Someone Else Thought The Exact Same Thing I Did

I’m Just Glad Someone Else Thought The Exact Same Thing I Did

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To gain deeper insights on the effects of social media on self-presentation and the phenomenon of projecting a "cool" or "tough" image online, Bored Panda reached out to licensed clinical psychologist Dr. Jesse Matthews.

According to Dr. Matthews, the desire to present a more idealized version of oneself online is not a new phenomenon, but rather a continuation of what people have been doing offline for years. “It’s just easier online because it’s not usually happening in real time and you can curate the image that you want to, which is often a more idealized version of yourself than reality.”

“Everyone wants to be cool, however, they define it. And typically guys (and some girls) want to appear tough, which can go hand-in-hand with cool. These are valued traits in society or among some groups, so feeling like you have these attributes gives you self-esteem. This increases through validation in the form of views, likes, or comments.”

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Man Thinks He’s Jason Bourne

Man Thinks He’s Jason Bourne

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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

If it was a joke, I'd find it funny. Unfortunately, it isn't one. This person just very edgy

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On A Singles Website... A Real Catch!

On A Singles Website... A Real Catch!

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RagDollLali
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

10 bucks says there's a giant cross with a swastika in the middle tattooed on his body somewhere

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Aria Whitaker
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1 year ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Sir, you are a large, grown man with a messy twin bed, brown stained pillows and Smurfette blue walls. Who do you think is taking a thing you say seriously??

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tw 72
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

...and a cross hanging on his wall. How can he be a Christian and also be that hateful - oh, because he is not a real Christian, that's why.

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Rocco MZ
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I love that his shirt refers to himself as a boy. What a f*****g loser.

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Aria Whitaker
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1 year ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Not just ANY boy....a "certified, WHITE boy"....we got a real tough guy over here! I wonder what he had to do get "certified"....LOL such a chump.

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mr_sarcastic
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I dont like stereotyping, but he looks like someone who shouldnt be allowed to own a gun

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Potato Chimps
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I like the picture of the sunset. It goes well with the overly practiced constipated glare he's sporting.

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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Why is he holding up a cell phone? The text on his shirt and the idiot flag in the background indicate he didn't use a mirror. Someone else took the shot.

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Roger9er
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I am not impressed by a guy who can't even make his bed properly.

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Appalachian Panda
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Never understood why men who clearly consider themselves "tough guys" idolize an effete weirdo like DT.

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Zedrapazia
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

And who certified him? Is there a legal instance that certifies white boys? What does it even mean?

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Riley Quinn
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

That calm, pastel seascape doesn't go with the image he's attempting to portray.

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Shifty McFlea
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Confederate flag (with a gun on it, mind you) + racist/trumper shirt = literal scum

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Rod Garrett
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I'd bet money high school was the toughest 10 years of this guy's life.

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MsLou
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

This looks like Sid Haig (RIP) playing a character in an exploitation film

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Marc
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

F**k every skinhead out there. Come get me, bitches

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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Calm down. He is just bald. And tried to hide it by shaving the sides of his head.

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BoredPandaSucks
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

this is "the guy" everyone is talking about in the "try to take our guns" post higher up.

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Ty Stratton-Quirk
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

To be fair...his shirt does have an accurate depiction of a large number of T***p supporters.

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RavenTheCat
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

And this people is why I hate the confederate flag! Not because I need a ding history lesson!

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Lu
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Not type of man prone to domestic violence, at all.

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ThatRandomGuy
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1 year ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I have never wanted to punch a man out of the stratosphere so much

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Zophra
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

The Jesus cross on the side wall is such a nice touch... I'm sure Jesus is proud. /s

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Untamed Snark
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Between the trump shirt, the flag and the cross he's ticking all my avoid at all cost boxes

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R1MV4Superleggera
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

LMAO! Those individuals might have white skin, but! Their blood is sooo diluted with different races that, well, it is comical. Isn't the US the biggest mixture of races in the whole planet? And a lot of those, very tempted to say, married or ex-married to their cousins.

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Jo Davies
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

He should have got his mummy to make his bed before he took the selfie

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Jenna
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I'm stunned, absolutely stunned that this gem is not only single. But reduced to using a dating app!! Shocking!!

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Bordem Exprt
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

don't dislike because of what it is, upvote for the content it was put in :)

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Snowhater
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I'm just wondering how many wanted to go on a date with him

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Pamplemousse
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Ah yes, my guess would be that this person is most likely also anti-abortion. Yet his t-shirt says "EST. AT BIRTH".

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Austin Sauce
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Nice cross in the background. Everything screams “nice Christian boy”.

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Gmaddles
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Gotta love that peaceful, sun-kissed beach picture in the back... I don't think it matches the Confederate flag and the machine gun

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DebB
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I'd bet anything he's got black or native American blood in him! Almost all Americans do.

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Marie Dahme
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

10 bucks says this guy’s idea of a date is taking her to the shooting range and letting her squeeze off a few rounds while drinking beer at the same time. Another 10 bucks says this guy is from the south and maybe a tad bit racist, ya think ? Lol

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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I thought this was an ironic picture. And this man being arabic or something… making fun of the white boy thing…

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Lea S.
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I can't stop laughing. Besides the obvious here - he scowled like that and then put it on a dating site?!?

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Katy McMouse
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I keep coming back to this guy because I keep thinking that this is Christopher Meloni.

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Car Burglar Messed With The Wrong Witch

Car Burglar Messed With The Wrong Witch

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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

But did it work? Can the car burglar please update, if next time he was at McDonald's the lettuce in his burger was wilted or something?

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As a licensed clinical psychologist, Dr. Jesse Matthews has been dedicated to helping adults improve their mental health and overall well-being. Through his work, he has seen firsthand the connection between self-presentation and self-worth. This makes him well-equipped to address the topic of people attempting to appear "tough" online. In his professional opinion, these attempts are closely tied to one's sense of self-worth and the way one views the world around them.

“Feeling as though you can increase your self-esteem in this way and get validation from others brings feelings of self-worth. And mindset is about one’s worldview and how one approaches each day. More than ever, there is so much content online and people you can follow who discuss mindset, especially as it relates to success, fitness, wealth, or happiness. Men are some of the biggest creators of this content as well as consumers. Often they are tough-looking guys talking about grinding and being disciplined and authentic, and this is all very much portrayed as being cool. If this is what you are into posting or watching, then striving to be more like this is going to create or enhance feelings of self-worth for these individuals.”

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Looks Like He Is Afraid To Use His Middle Finger

Looks Like He Is Afraid To Use His Middle Finger

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Don’t Mess With Dante Or Bad Things Will Happen

Don’t Mess With Dante Or Bad Things Will Happen

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Response To A Simple Yes/No Question

Response To A Simple Yes/No Question

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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I used to RP on AOL in the Red Dragon Inns and even as an actual roleplayer, I was NEVER as cringey as "roleplayers" like this are these days.

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As social media plays a big role in our lives, the way we present ourselves online has become increasingly important. However, sometimes the self-image can be slightly or very much distorted by some individuals, as seen in the phenomenon of those who aim to appear "tough" online. But what are the consequences of this kind of behavior? According to Dr. Jesse Matthews, this certainly depends on how one is portraying ‘tough’. “Obviously, if it involves committing crimes, harming others, and so on, there could be legal consequences or someone could become a target in real life for that kind of thing. If it’s more inappropriate or what many would believe to be objectionable behavior (i.e. posting sexist, racist, homophobic, or otherwise disrespectful content), there could be consequences for employment, college admissions, and things like that. For the individual, of course, there could be future regret or the person could get ‘canceled’ in some fashion. In a more immediate sense, it’s not necessarily positive for anyone to try to portray something that they are not. It doesn’t bring real self-esteem if what you are presenting isn’t reality.”

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Texts From Someone I Know Who Turned 39 Yesterday… I Was Just Trying To Play Dnd With Friends

Texts From Someone I Know Who Turned 39 Yesterday… I Was Just Trying To Play Dnd With Friends

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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Come on! At least try to make the fantasy at least the tiniest bit plausible before trying to bs people.

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Coffee Bad**s

Coffee Bad**s

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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

*I get my kicks making other people feel bad for their harmless choices.

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Whoa.. Gear Down Big Shifter

Whoa.. Gear Down Big Shifter

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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

This reminds me of when i was 6 years old. I would dress in all black and cruise the driveway on my big wheel pretending to be an action hero. Those were the days.

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“If a person characterizes ‘tough’ as self-disciplined, motivated, and as ‘grinding’ or something like that, I don’t think there is anything wrong with it if that’s actually who they are or who they are trying to become. A lot of the mindset content you see out there is of this nature. Of course, it could be harmful mentally or physically if too extreme. As a psychologist and as a man (who a lot of this content is made by and for), I personally love that improving or working on yourself has become cool or tough. I also love that being honest with yourself and others, being more open or willing to talk about things like feelings, and being more willing to do things like ask for help has become cool. Suffering in silence or trying to be some fake masculine stereotype is neither cool nor tough, and I’m so glad people are starting to realize and acknowledge that.”

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Twitter User Thinks He Would Be Able To Survive 2 Nuclear Blasts From "Skill"

Twitter User Thinks He Would Be Able To Survive 2 Nuclear Blasts From "Skill"

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Sleep Well Dear Citizens

Sleep Well Dear Citizens

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Social media has become an integral part of our daily lives, influencing the way we present ourselves to the world. With the constant barrage of images and posts from friends, celebrities, and influencers, it's easy to feel like we're in a never-ending competition for attention. Dr. Jesse Matthews shared that because of that, people are posting or creating content that fits whatever they are trying to portray. “Oftentimes, this is more idealized than reality. Everyone posts about their wins or life highlights, while very few posts are about losses or things they wouldn’t want everyone to know about. And because social media is such a big part of our lives, the lines are often blurred between that world and reality, so there is a carryover."

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What Watching The Batman Does To A Mf

What Watching The Batman Does To A Mf

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This Guy Should Be On The Next Flight To Ukraine

This Guy Should Be On The Next Flight To Ukraine

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“Breakfast Breeds Arrogance And Laziness”

“Breakfast Breeds Arrogance And Laziness”

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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

btw this is andrew tate if ur asking, you probably know him but whatever

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As we navigate the digital world, it can be tempting to project an idealized image of ourselves, but is this really the best approach? According to Dr. Jesse Matthews, being authentic and true to yourself would be the healthiest way to present yourself online. “The more congruent the real you is with what you’re putting on the internet, the better. This does not necessarily mean oversharing or posting stuff that you might be embarrassed about, but keeping the authenticity and what that means for you in mind. Think about your values and try to live as true to them as possible. And lastly, less is more. Trying to keep social media use to a minimal or moderate amount is generally best, as far as productivity and things like that, but the research has been showing high correlations between heavy social media use and things like high rates of depression, anxiety, and loneliness.”

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A Great Addition To Rock, Paper, Scissors

A Great Addition To Rock, Paper, Scissors

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He Is In A Roblox Discord Server

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Zedrapazia
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Sounds like 11 years old Timmy had temper tantrums when his mommy refuses to bring him his gamer certified milk shake powder.

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Alpha Male Right Here

Alpha Male Right Here

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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

POV: I’m that girl and I couldn’t care less what anyone lifts.

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Hot Blonde Mommy Will Cut Your Throat And Drink Your Blood

Hot Blonde Mommy Will Cut Your Throat And Drink Your Blood

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Lakota Wolf
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1 year ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

No, you wouldn't. You wouldn't want to mess up your $120 gel nail job and your $300 weave and Brazilian blow-out.

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Op Thinks They Could Easily Fight Off A Wolf… Or Even Befriend It

Op Thinks They Could Easily Fight Off A Wolf… Or Even Befriend It

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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

And while you're at it there's a big fluffy polar bear that wants to boop your snoot

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Tiktok Creator Says That If You Don’t Have The Unbridled Desire To Fight People You’re Not A Real Man

Tiktok Creator Says That If You Don’t Have The Unbridled Desire To Fight People You’re Not A Real Man

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Lakota Wolf
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Funny, because most of the actually-skilled boxers and MMA fighters say that it's just a job. They don't go in there wanting to "kill" or "hurt" their opponent. Aggression to win the fight? Sure. Actually "trying your very best to hurt somebody"? Nope.

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(Alpha Male)

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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

There is no way he’s an alpha male. He looks like the love child of Ross Mathews and Chris Penn’s character from Footloose.

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Deal With It

Deal With It

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1 year ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

You know, if one looks at the sentence structure of "fúckin' male", the word before the noun implies a verb. This keeps with the sentence structure established by the first two sentences, "Born male" and "Raised male", as "born" and "raised" are both verbs. Thus, "fúckin'" in this sense would be a verb, meaning he likes to fúck males. And proudly.

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I Think I Speak For Everyone When I Say We’re All Scared

I Think I Speak For Everyone When I Say We’re All Scared

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Neighbor Just Put This Up

Neighbor Just Put This Up

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