30 Times People Spotted Men Having A Miserable Time While Shopping And Just Had To Take A Pic (New Pics)
There is a stereotype that men are usually fast shoppers—one or two stores, and they're done. Women, on the contrary, may spend hours in the shopping mall, comparing prices, choosing the best option, and then deciding on something completely different (and the cycle goes on). They love to bring their partners with them to get their advice but accidentally end up making their day miserable, and their expressions don't lie!
The Instagram account 'Miserable Men' hilariously captures poor partners, relatives, or friends patiently waiting for their ladies. They are mostly on a bench in a shopping mall, surrounded by shopping bags or in a seemingly never-ending queue.
Join us in exploring our favorite new posts from this account. Scroll down to check out the top posts. If you're one of these men, remember, you are not alone.
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We completely understand that the saying 'men hate shopping' is a generalization and that there are plenty of women who don't enjoy it either. However, there is some evidence that this isn't completely a myth.
A survey done in 2013 in the United Kingdom found that men become bored after only 26 minutes of shopping, while it takes two hours for women. According to author and senior psychology lecturer Steve Taylor, "The survey found that 80 percent of men didn't like shopping with their partners." Furthermore, 45 percent of respondents said they avoided doing so "at all costs." Taylor notes that "almost half of all spousal shopping trips ended in arguments, with men becoming frustrated because they bought what they needed straight away, while their partners were still looking and taking too long to make decisions."
Men tend to shop with a goal in mind while women treat it like a journey. Studies have shown that there are actual physical differences in the brain between men and women. "The left hemisphere in the brain is in charge of performing logic computations and processing facts. The right hemisphere is dominant in processing visual imagery and interpreting context," explains Tanya Lewis from Scientific American. Women have a thicker bridge between the two hemispheres than men, allowing them to use both of them more efficiently, while men predominantly use the left side of their brain more.
In the context of shopping, this different brain structure leads to men being more task-oriented, while women are more on a journey of discovery.
I did that once when my mom was giving birth. Dad caught me and took a picture of me instead of waking me up.
Frank, after 10 years of not understanding why everyone needs phones, finally figured it out.
The psychology behind different tendencies in shopping can also be explained by the responsibilities of our ancestors, the hunters - men, and plant, vegetable, fruit, and nut gatherers - women. These responsibilities can be attributed to modern-day shopping in a way that when women shop, they are more in a 'gathering' mode - browsing from plant to plant (or shop to shop). They spend a lot of time checking if the food is good and fresh and discard quite a bit of it. At the end of the day, they are back home with lots of nourishing food (or shopping bags).
Men, on the other hand, go hunting with one goal in mind - kill the animal and go home (get the item from the shop and be done with it).
Scanning for details with his magnifying class, the detective finds what he was looking for!
Let's be grateful for the efforts of our male companions while shopping and maybe (if they don't share the same passion for shopping) let them stay at home instead. After all, a long shopping spree is not in their nature and might just leave them feeling miserable. Continue scrolling and see our favorite posts from the Instagram account 'Miserable Men'. Feel free to read Bored Panda's previous post about the witty account right here.
'Other' man things he could be doing. Think this post confirms he is currently doing 'a man thing'.
Load More Replies...He looks. like his mistress just called and said "you either tell your wife about us or I will."
he's been waiting so long he's looked at absolutely everything there is to see on every app. he started seeing posts from yesterday and now has nothing to do; he's all caught up on social media.
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Load More Replies..."that was the longest tea party I've ever sat through" said Dave, who had been waiting for 3 years for his wife to return
"I've done my waiting, 12 years of it!"~ [in this stupid red chair]
If bro is sleeping, that's some control he has on his muscles.
"Then the light shone on his face, and he found that heaven was no different then the life he was once used to."
I scrolled too fast past this picture. Did not see that as his hand….
Here let me fix the title: "72 times men were in public minding their own business when strangers felt the need to post their pictures on social media."
Let me flip this... These could happen to take pictures of women who are cooking, ironing, or vacuuming (which we ALL do at some point during the week). "72 pictures of showing women doing sterotypical genderised roles"... Anyone thought that these men just happen to be waiting for SOMEONE? Easy to fall into the ol' 'sterotyping' eh BP?
"Anyone thought these men just happen to be waiting for SOMEONE?" Or even - and I know it sounds crazy - quite possibly out shopping for themselves & got tired?
Load More Replies...Do these people know that they can stay at home and they don't have to follow their wives 24/7?
Exactly! I'm not a 'shopper' I buy 99% (and I can't think of the 1% that I don't) of things online - but if you're doing something with me, do it with me - interact, engage with me and the activity - otherwise, yeah, stay home and have a nap, they look exhausted!
Load More Replies...Why do people think it's ok to take pictures of strangers and post them online for ridicule? Mind your own F***ing business.
My last few ex-g/fs and I had a deal. They didn't 'need' me to go shopping with them but sometimes they wanted a second opinion or just wanted my company. So we agreed that I got to sit down while they shopped but that if they brought over items for my opinion on I'd be happy to offer it. And that they could call me over to the dressing rooms to see how something looked/fit. It worked really well for us.
1) why do men do this and 2) why do women drag them shopping?! I never understood this
I’m female and hate shopping centers. Lots of my friends do too. I only thrift shop of buy on vinted now. I know people with anxiety who hate going to them too. Not just men
It's completely awful for anyone to take someone shopping with them if that person doesn't enjoy it. Surely they can find someone who loves to shop. And this is not just a situation that men find themselves in. It can happen to anyone.
I never understand this. When I went shopping with my sisters they knew exactly what they wanted so we would get in then get out. maybe do a couple other shops and then I would go to the comic shop so it was balanced.
I always thought Hobby Lobby should have a men's lounge. Comfy seats, tv, vending machine.
Men, if you don't want to go shopping, then don't!! It's not that hard! Be disinterested at home rather than shoving it in your partner's face how much you don't wanna be around! For godsakes, grow the fúck up!!! I hate shopping but would rather go by myself than having to drag a disinterested, pouty man-baby around with me.
Meanwhile if I brought my husband to the mall he’d be right next to me doing one of two things, one: complaining and trying to get me to hurry up. Two: asking me if I really NEED the item I’m looking at and commenting on the price. I’m perfectly happy to go by myself thank you. *edit for spelling *
This should include kids. Because when my bro and I were kids we hated when my mum went shopping! It's 30 years later, and I will take my wonderful lovely mum shopping, but I will find somewhere to sit down. My bro just won't go. And when asked, yes, my mum looks beautiful in whatever she puts on. She's beautiful!
Here let me fix the title: "72 times men were in public minding their own business when strangers felt the need to post their pictures on social media."
Let me flip this... These could happen to take pictures of women who are cooking, ironing, or vacuuming (which we ALL do at some point during the week). "72 pictures of showing women doing sterotypical genderised roles"... Anyone thought that these men just happen to be waiting for SOMEONE? Easy to fall into the ol' 'sterotyping' eh BP?
"Anyone thought these men just happen to be waiting for SOMEONE?" Or even - and I know it sounds crazy - quite possibly out shopping for themselves & got tired?
Load More Replies...Do these people know that they can stay at home and they don't have to follow their wives 24/7?
Exactly! I'm not a 'shopper' I buy 99% (and I can't think of the 1% that I don't) of things online - but if you're doing something with me, do it with me - interact, engage with me and the activity - otherwise, yeah, stay home and have a nap, they look exhausted!
Load More Replies...Why do people think it's ok to take pictures of strangers and post them online for ridicule? Mind your own F***ing business.
My last few ex-g/fs and I had a deal. They didn't 'need' me to go shopping with them but sometimes they wanted a second opinion or just wanted my company. So we agreed that I got to sit down while they shopped but that if they brought over items for my opinion on I'd be happy to offer it. And that they could call me over to the dressing rooms to see how something looked/fit. It worked really well for us.
1) why do men do this and 2) why do women drag them shopping?! I never understood this
I’m female and hate shopping centers. Lots of my friends do too. I only thrift shop of buy on vinted now. I know people with anxiety who hate going to them too. Not just men
It's completely awful for anyone to take someone shopping with them if that person doesn't enjoy it. Surely they can find someone who loves to shop. And this is not just a situation that men find themselves in. It can happen to anyone.
I never understand this. When I went shopping with my sisters they knew exactly what they wanted so we would get in then get out. maybe do a couple other shops and then I would go to the comic shop so it was balanced.
I always thought Hobby Lobby should have a men's lounge. Comfy seats, tv, vending machine.
Men, if you don't want to go shopping, then don't!! It's not that hard! Be disinterested at home rather than shoving it in your partner's face how much you don't wanna be around! For godsakes, grow the fúck up!!! I hate shopping but would rather go by myself than having to drag a disinterested, pouty man-baby around with me.
Meanwhile if I brought my husband to the mall he’d be right next to me doing one of two things, one: complaining and trying to get me to hurry up. Two: asking me if I really NEED the item I’m looking at and commenting on the price. I’m perfectly happy to go by myself thank you. *edit for spelling *
This should include kids. Because when my bro and I were kids we hated when my mum went shopping! It's 30 years later, and I will take my wonderful lovely mum shopping, but I will find somewhere to sit down. My bro just won't go. And when asked, yes, my mum looks beautiful in whatever she puts on. She's beautiful!
