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Few things can make you question your own sanity as much as regretting a text you just sent. You know how it goes, you get an edgy idea, type it out thinking you're the smartest person on Earth and hit 'Enter' only to realize later that what you said sounded way better in your head.

But it's too late and all you're left with is debating whether you should follow it up trying to minimize the damage it caused or just leave it as is and stick your head into the ground until the person forgets about it.

However, sometimes they may not. Even worse, they can send a picture of your conversation to the Facebook page 'Screenshots of messages that probably shouldn’t have been posted' and your mistake is now part of the internet.

It's not just messaging that people should approach cautiously on the internet. Social media are increasingly blurring the lines between our personal and professional lives, leaving us at risk of posting sensitive information that could have ramifications far beyond our follower list.

Just last year, Finnish Prime Minister Sanna Marin found this out the hard way after a video of her dancing and drinking with friends, first posted to a private Instagram account, was leaked to the press. Marin was forced to apologize, and even volunteered for a drug test, after a worldwide media storm came crashing down on her.

Research reveals that nearly 40 percent of internet users between the ages of 18-35 have regretted posting personal information about themselves, and 35 percent have regretted posting personal information about a friend or family member.

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57 percent of 18-35-year-olds think people share too much about their personal thoughts and experiences, and nearly that many feel technology is robbing them of their privacy.

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Van-Hau Trieu, who is a senior lecturer of Information Systems at Deakin University, and Vanessa Cooper, a professor of Information Systems at RMIT University, who have been studying what drives much online oversharing, believe that when we feel strong emotions, we often use social media to communicate with and get support from friends, family and colleagues.

"We might share good news when we feel happy or excited, or anger and frustration might drive us to vent about our employers," they wrote. "When emotional, it is easy for us to cross the boundary between work and social life, underestimating the consequences of social media posts that can quickly go viral."

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Katie Lutesinger
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10 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Is this person using a meat twiggy stick to operate their phone? Because dude, just think of the grease stains.

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Trieu and Cooper have five simple tips for people to avoid oversharing and creating a social media scandal for themselves or others. The first one is to set clear boundaries between personal life and work. So be prepared to set rules, limits and acceptable behaviors to protect these boundaries.

"Let your friends, colleagues and family know your expectations. If someone oversteps your boundaries, raise your concerns. Consider your relationship with individuals who do not respect your boundaries."

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Next, respect the boundaries of others. "Don't share photos or videos of others without their permission," Trieu and Cooper said.

"If someone doesn't want their photo to be taken, video to be recorded or their name to be tagged, respect their wishes. Treat others on social media the same way you would like to be treated."

Moving on, lock down your social media accounts. This means adjusting your privacy settings to control who can view your profile and posts.

Most social media platforms provide features to help users protect their privacy. Facebook’s Privacy Checkup tool, for example, lets you see what you’re sharing and with whom.

On the same note, consider what information you place in your profile. If you don't want your personal social media profile associated with your employer, do not list the company you work at.

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To avoid mistakes, make your sharing a conscious effort. "Do not use social media when you feel emotional," Trieu and Cooper advised. "Especially if you are feeling strong emotions like hurt, anger or excitement, give yourself time to process your feelings before posting."

"Ask yourself: How many people will see this post? Would anyone be hurt? Does anyone benefit? Would I feel comfortable if my colleagues or supervisors saw this?"

Assume what you share can be seen by your friends, enemies, colleagues, boss, and the rest of the world. Stop if you don’t want any of them to see what you're thinking about.

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But if you do overshare, try to remove unwanted content. "Oversharing and accidental posting are not uncommon. If you have posted unwanted content, remove it immediately," Trieu and Cooper highlighted.

"If you are concerned about information about yourself on someone else’s social media, raise your concerns and ask the person who posted to remove it," they added.

It is a bit tricky if the information has already spread through multiple sources, but it is worth trying to contact the website or service that hosts it to remove the content.

Of course, these steps might not protect you from appearing on pages like 'Screenshots of messages that probably shouldn’t have been posted', but they will definitely limit the chance of that happening.

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10 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

How surface level do you wanna be if all you care for is height? Pathetic! Found a dwarf army together and conquer the heads of the tallest members in our society!

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10 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I was about to ask how one "farts aggressively" then remembered I have a son who is a preschooler and completely understand

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10 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Dude walks around with the whole obituary section. Irma May Jocobawicz died, don't you understand, you coldhearted B***h!

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10 months ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Aww, look at him trying to p**n off a Lenovo as a "gaming laptop"... EDIT: I wrote p.a.w.n. Why do the censor p**n?! They don't even censor penis??!

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jacqueline
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10 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Whoa easy there, this is probably the only real conversation you'll ever have with a real woman, baby steps

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Hailey
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10 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

It pisses me off that scumbags like that still exist.

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Stefan
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10 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Jealous because you might your butt kicked by a girl with a second hand rig?

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Adam Zad
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10 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I'd say maybe he's just stupid, but there's no maybe.

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tabithapaquette98
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10 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

It's not a sewing machine? WTF? I am a female and I have never used a sewing machine in my life! A*****e!!

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Lincoln Mills
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9 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Blah Blah, Bro shut up, it is OBVIOUSLY A JOKE, What's wrong with girls using sewing machines anyway, you need some feminine pills

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Alexandru Bucur
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10 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

The funny thing is my wife is literally a game developer, so not only is she a bigger gamer than me but she needs to play games to keep abreast of what other studios are doing... Meanwhile, I don't think she ever touched the sewing machine once, while I regularly use it because I do both cosplay and reenactment, so I need to make and mend uniforms.

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Nykky
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9 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

1) This lady might be a gamer, you dunno, you sexist piece of s**t. 2) She could be buying it for someone as a gift, you dunno, you sexist piece of s**t. 3) You lost out on money, you moron.

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OmBoyGanesh
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10 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

The Refresh Rate Ceiling has been broken and typical gamers are now 50% men 50% women. A change of 2% in the past year. Alas, the stats on this don’t seem to include non-binary or genderqueer.

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Paul Ackerman
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9 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

My name is Paul. After careful and deliberate discussions with the council of Pauls we officially hereby declare this Paul to be a jerkface.

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Jestinna Welch
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10 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Lenovo sucks anyway. I have one and it is terrible for gaming. The processor is garbage.

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Athan Steenbock
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10 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Same. Not sure why these comments are so triggered. 90% chance it was a joke

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Iamnaturalcare AOE
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10 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I wonder how he'll feel when he realizes girls play video games too. He could have just picked one of those women vs marrying a shrewd who told him 'real men don't play video games'.

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Monday
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10 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

The machine was already 6 years past release date when he was selling it...no way does it still qualify as a gaming laptop.

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Dr. Skulhamr (Skulhamr)
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10 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Women did the calculations for the Apollo missions my friend. Methinks you left your thinking cap at the witch burning.

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Athan Steenbock
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10 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I doubt it. He likely spends all the time he has not talking to women on videogames, thus increasing his skill drastically.

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Emie N.
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10 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

How is this "iconic"? This is a trash misogynist jerk. And nearly as many women like to game as much as men do.

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9 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Aww, poor Paul is afraid he'll p**s himself if he has to meet a REAL woman face to face to finish the transaction! Tell your inflatable the gamer girls say hi Paul! She has nothing to be jealous about... we will NEVER try to take you away!

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Lincoln Mills
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9 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

for all you guys offended by this, it is OBVIOUSLY A JOKE, if your offended ur Stupid, your looking for reasons to be offended

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Rudy van Disarzio
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9 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

This "joke" perpetuates the extreme misogyny in the video game sphere. Women are regularly horribly harassed, verbally abused and ganged up on. It's an epidemic that makes it an often traumatic situation to just try to play a game. So yes it's not funny seeing as how now women make up half if not more than the people playing the games.

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EarthGrowl
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9 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I'd like to take this guy for a ride with my Peterbilt... in the trailer... with the temp set at -20 for 10 hours.

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Sara Anderson
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10 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I had an ex who thought this stupidly. My husband and I, on the other hand, game together all the time. Misogynist moron.

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Liz-ard
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10 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

WTF!!! Stick it whre the sun doesn’t shine Paul!!!

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Pamela Christie
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10 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

If you're selling it, you'll have no control over what the new owner does with it. Didn't you learn anything in the 4th grade?

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Beff Jezos
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10 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

He said finishing off the last sip of his Mountain Dew. He gets up and looks at himself in the mirror, tips his fedora and says “I am the alpha”…

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Beff Jezos
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10 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

*this is from the perspective of the guy who said “it’s a gaming pc not a sewing machine”

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CowGhost
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10 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

HEY! Im a female (nonbinary) and love gaming. Take that back!!!!!

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Kirumise
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10 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

There is so much wrong things with this I'm not even gonna start .....

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AngelWingsYT
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10 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

As a girl who loves to game has a whole a*s steam library with 10 wishlisted items. And 2 switches i a f**k you n your shoddy lenovo laptop.

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10 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

So he’ll forgo $450 for misogyny? He really is stupid.

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10 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I've taken vengeance against this individual with my Lenovo Legion.

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10 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Wasn’t aware that Latinas only like werewolves. My gf’s Latina, and last I checked I’m not a werewolf. Does that mean she’s not attracted to me? 😮 am I an unaware werewolf? Am I actually an alpha male instead of an out of shape lesbian?

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