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Few things can make you question your own sanity as much as regretting a text you just sent. You know how it goes, you get an edgy idea, type it out thinking you're the smartest person on Earth and hit 'Enter' only to realize later that what you said sounded way better in your head.

But it's too late and all you're left with is debating whether you should follow it up trying to minimize the damage it caused or just leave it as is and stick your head into the ground until the person forgets about it.

However, sometimes they may not. Even worse, they can send a picture of your conversation to the Facebook page 'Screenshots of messages that probably shouldn’t have been posted' and your mistake is now part of the internet.

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xolitaire
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2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Well technically he is telling the truth. He doesn't have a girlfriend. Anymore.

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    It's not just messaging that people should approach cautiously on the internet. Social media are increasingly blurring the lines between our personal and professional lives, leaving us at risk of posting sensitive information that could have ramifications far beyond our follower list.

    Just last year, Finnish Prime Minister Sanna Marin found this out the hard way after a video of her dancing and drinking with friends, first posted to a private Instagram account, was leaked to the press. Marin was forced to apologize, and even volunteered for a drug test, after a worldwide media storm came crashing down on her.

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    Research reveals that nearly 40 percent of internet users between the ages of 18-35 have regretted posting personal information about themselves, and 35 percent have regretted posting personal information about a friend or family member.

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    57 percent of 18-35-year-olds think people share too much about their personal thoughts and experiences, and nearly that many feel technology is robbing them of their privacy.

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    Van-Hau Trieu, who is a senior lecturer of Information Systems at Deakin University, and Vanessa Cooper, a professor of Information Systems at RMIT University, who have been studying what drives much online oversharing, believe that when we feel strong emotions, we often use social media to communicate with and get support from friends, family and colleagues.

    "We might share good news when we feel happy or excited, or anger and frustration might drive us to vent about our employers," they wrote. "When emotional, it is easy for us to cross the boundary between work and social life, underestimating the consequences of social media posts that can quickly go viral."

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    Jason
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    lol. I've had something similar happen. Like uhh don't look at this it's a personal expense. Have to categorize it and explain why and how it got on there and still get approval just to pay it off yourself

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    Katie Lutesinger
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Is this person using a meat twiggy stick to operate their phone? Because dude, just think of the grease stains.

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    Trieu and Cooper have five simple tips for people to avoid oversharing and creating a social media scandal for themselves or others. The first one is to set clear boundaries between personal life and work. So be prepared to set rules, limits and acceptable behaviors to protect these boundaries.

    "Let your friends, colleagues and family know your expectations. If someone oversteps your boundaries, raise your concerns. Consider your relationship with individuals who do not respect your boundaries."

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    Jason
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    My wife naps like this. Gets more sleep in her nap than I do at night

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    Next, respect the boundaries of others. "Don't share photos or videos of others without their permission," Trieu and Cooper said.

    "If someone doesn't want their photo to be taken, video to be recorded or their name to be tagged, respect their wishes. Treat others on social media the same way you would like to be treated."

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    Moving on, lock down your social media accounts. This means adjusting your privacy settings to control who can view your profile and posts.

    Most social media platforms provide features to help users protect their privacy. Facebook’s Privacy Checkup tool, for example, lets you see what you’re sharing and with whom.

    On the same note, consider what information you place in your profile. If you don't want your personal social media profile associated with your employer, do not list the company you work at.

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    Mistiekim
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Well…it’s not Ten-Thousand Killer Bees so I should be all right. On my way bees!

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    To avoid mistakes, make your sharing a conscious effort. "Do not use social media when you feel emotional," Trieu and Cooper advised. "Especially if you are feeling strong emotions like hurt, anger or excitement, give yourself time to process your feelings before posting."

    "Ask yourself: How many people will see this post? Would anyone be hurt? Does anyone benefit? Would I feel comfortable if my colleagues or supervisors saw this?"

    Assume what you share can be seen by your friends, enemies, colleagues, boss, and the rest of the world. Stop if you don’t want any of them to see what you're thinking about.

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    Hailey
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    2 years ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Andrew Tate, is that you?

    BC
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I’ll put $50 down that this bloke is actually 15 years old.

    Show thyself
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Okay... how about no, sir dıckhead

    Robert T
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    2 years ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Looks like it's just going to be you and your hand tonight. And every night. For the rest of eternity. ;-)

    Roger9er
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    2 years ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I'll adress you as misogynistic moron.

    Tomato Froggo
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I don’t know, personally I wouldn’t address him at all and just leave

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    Hope Cows&Chickens
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Ya! Tell me you took the red pill without saying 'I took the red pill!' Sheesh. What a loser.

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    Iva Kazalova
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Who the f**k is this loser that needs his a*s whooped

    JewishPunnyBunny
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I mean I address people as ma'am and sir anyway, but if you tell me I must, I'll tell you to take a hike. If you DEMAND that, you're either a grumpy a**l person or want to sound grown up.

    Deborah B
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    And blocked. Is this a game to see how many messages it takes to get blocked?

    FrostyJellies
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    *sniff* Ew... "Alpha Male" vibes. Drift away slowly.

    Gmaddles
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    So you mean "Nudes, Ma'am?"

    Shannon Hawks
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    very disrespectful, then asks for nudes. what an assclown

    Bob Brooce
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Nudes? I'm going to climb way out on a limb and guess "no".

    bottomless.abyss.of.bordem
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Yeah, this really hairy overweight guy sent me a bunch. Here ya go. Sorry. Here ya go, sir.

    Pandroid Rebellion
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    He's a real panty dropper. Wait. I spelled predator wrong.

    Victoria Comeau
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Sends a photo of a naked ... hand, giving the middle finger.

    Apachebathmat
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Incelasaurus in the wild right here!

    Gidget Girl
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    What's sad is this isn't even the worst I've gotten. Many, many, many men are garbage.

    BakedKahuna
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    These days this is more common than trying to start a real conversation :(

    EarthGrowl
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    These poor boys. Scientists are worried about over population. But I am beginning to think the human race is going to be extinct because of stupidity. If men only understood. Women respond well to written word. Look at what women's porn is ... Romance novels. Maybe guys should read those instead of listening to Tate.

    Gypsy Lee
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    And they can’t figure out why women avoid them. A mystery, that is, but only if stupid, you are.

    Zeke Wolf
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Needed an lmao response imo

    Trinity
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Hah, if a guy ever texted something like that to me, I'd say "Sure, but only if you agree to wearing a cóck cage, let me tie you up, whip you silly, stab you with my stiletto's and let me ram you up the behind with the biggest toy on a strap on. Although, not gonna lie, it might rip you in half. So, if you accept all that, I'll accept YOUR terms. 😁" And technically, they can't charge you with a threat of assault because it's all under BDSM.

    River wolf
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Wtf, that guy is a sexist idiot!

    Hope Cows&Chickens
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Sir, yes sir, Loser Sir... or is it Sir Loser?

    Samantha
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Him: the way you're talking to me is disrespectful Also him: send nudes 🤔

    Jenna Nadebaum
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    That guys lucky he ain't talking to me like that

    two-sided llama
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    dont talk to me like that very disrepectful you with only speak in full sentences with the magic word. U with say may i PLEASE have your nudes and only address me as sir llama.

    aroace mamabear
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I might consider it if you could spell properly LMAO

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    But if you do overshare, try to remove unwanted content. "Oversharing and accidental posting are not uncommon. If you have posted unwanted content, remove it immediately," Trieu and Cooper highlighted.

    "If you are concerned about information about yourself on someone else’s social media, raise your concerns and ask the person who posted to remove it," they added.

    It is a bit tricky if the information has already spread through multiple sources, but it is worth trying to contact the website or service that hosts it to remove the content.

    Of course, these steps might not protect you from appearing on pages like 'Screenshots of messages that probably shouldn’t have been posted', but they will definitely limit the chance of that happening.

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    Zedrapazia
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    How surface level do you wanna be if all you care for is height? Pathetic! Found a dwarf army together and conquer the heads of the tallest members in our society!

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    Jason
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I was about to ask how one "farts aggressively" then remembered I have a son who is a preschooler and completely understand

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    bottomless.abyss.of.bordem
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Dude walks around with the whole obituary section. Irma May Jocobawicz died, don't you understand, you coldhearted B***h!

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    Anony Mouse
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    It's perfectly average takeout pizza, but the owner is a racist pig.

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    Jason
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    If dreams mean staring into my window at night creepily than sure that's it

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    xolitaire
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    2 years ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Aww, look at him trying to p**n off a Lenovo as a "gaming laptop"... EDIT: I wrote p.a.w.n. Why do the censor p**n?! They don't even censor penis??!

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    sylvantic
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Wasn’t aware that Latinas only like werewolves. My gf’s Latina, and last I checked I’m not a werewolf. Does that mean she’s not attracted to me? 😮 am I an unaware werewolf? Am I actually an alpha male instead of an out of shape lesbian?

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    Monday
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Well he might just be learning a new skill and be super excited to show it off? Please let that be the case.

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    OmBoyGanesh
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Umm…typically best to save the kink convo for date #5. Unless, of course, the initial connection was fetish-focused.

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    HelluvaHedgehogAlien
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Should I start a club of people like me, who are mentally unstable and not hot?

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    Tucker Cahooter
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Seems the best way to get to know what someone is really like is to ignore their message, and they will reveal their true selves next time

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