‘Twas the night before Christmas when all through the house, not a creature was stirring except two parents frantically wrapping gifts and trying to sneak them under the tree without waking up their little ones.
Celebrating Christmas as a parent is quite different from celebrating as a child. Rather than being surprised by a visit from Santa, moms and dads are in charge of creating all of the holiday magic themselves. And sometimes, it’s a struggle to pull it off. Below, you’ll find some of the funniest posts parents have shared on X detailing their experiences with Christmas shopping that may have caused them to consider becoming grinches, as well as a conversation with mother and founder of Pregnant Chicken, Amy Morrison!
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This is actually super clever, because during those months, toy ads are at an all time high, and streaming helps you skip that AND the kids get to choose what they want to watch. A win-win for everyone lol
When I was a kid, Christmas was always the most magical day of the year. I would wake up around 5 in the morning and sneak around the house with my brothers ogling at the presents under the tree for several hours until it was an appropriate time to wake our parents and show them everything that “Santa” brought us.
As an adult, Christmas is still a wonderful time, but it isn’t quite as exciting as it was 20 years ago. I know nothing’s going to appear under the tree that my partner and I (or our cat) didn’t place there, and the present I receive from my parents is never a surprise, as they simply ask what would be useful at the moment. (We cherish that air fryer every day though. Thanks, Mom and Dad!)
They’ve gone into the same universe as these missing socks and pen lids.
Me doing literally any online shopping. Don't show me $50 pants, I'm not that guy. Let's see what's on clearance.
Just cut out that avocado toast and extra Starbucks coffee and you ought to be able to do it. 😉
If you’re a parent who works tirelessly to create a magical Christmas for your little ones, know that your efforts are appreciated, even if “Santa” gets all the credit. And I’m sure I don’t have to tell any moms or dads out there how much work shopping for all of those Christmas presents is. In fact, according to StudyFinds, three out of four parents believe that holiday shopping is even harder than an Olympic sport.
76% of parents say that finding the perfect present is the most stressful aspect of the holiday season, and perhaps they have a right to be nervous. Because apparently, 43% of moms and dads have watched their child cry or express disappointment after not getting something from their wish list.
Sharing is caring. Giving unconditionally is also caring XD
To avoid any meltdowns on the big day, 56% of parents say that they’ll simply ask their kiddos directly what they want for Christmas, and thankfully, 83% say that their kids have no problem being upfront and honest about what they’re hoping to unwrap on Christmas morning. Half of parents will also try to gain additional information through asking their kids’ friends or discreetly trying to bring up the topic of holiday gifts. And when it comes to how much research moms and dads do before the big day, StudyFinds reports that they’ll spend about 5 hours consulting blogs, reading reviews, and making sure they’ve found the perfect present.
I remember when I was a kid, I thought you had to keep your list a secret. This ended up with my parents not knowing what I wanted, and having to ask one of my friends what I wanted, as I had told them what “Santa was bringing me”.
Wooden toys are such a great concept until you step on an alphabet block.
To learn more about what it’s like to be a parent turned Santa Claus during the holiday season, we reached out to mother and founder of Pregnant Chicken, Amy Morrison. When it comes to what makes Christmas shopping different as a parent, Amy says it’s the added consideration of what message a gift is sending.
“Is it encouraging fast fashion or disposable consumerism? Are they going to use it, or is that gag gift just going to get tossed in a corner by January?” she asks. “I find I'm more measured when I shop for my kids versus family and friends.”
Hire any pet cat. They will gladly tear apart boxes or take them for their trophies!
We were also curious if Amy ever has a hard time deciding what to buy for her boys. “I definitely struggle with gifts as my kids get older,” she told Bored Panda. “Their taste becomes more and more specific as they age, and I don't want them wearing a 'cringe' sweater because they don't want to hurt my feelings (or telling me the sweater is cringe when they open it - 50/50 chance either way.) Plus, the things they really want and need tend to be on the pricier side, so there's less of a 'wow' factor on Christmas morning.”
I have a Lego container where I keep the different sets in baggies with instructions I find that works pretty well
As far as what the best part of Christmas shopping as a parent is, Amy says, “Nothing beats that feeling of surprising them with something they'll use and love.”
And if you’re a parent who needs tips on what to buy for your kiddos, Amy recommends taking a close look at your child’s day-to-day.
“If [your kids] have a phone or tablet, would it be easier to charge if they had a longer charge cord? Is there something they love doing that can be expanded on? If they love listening to music, would they enjoy a record player and some vintage vinyl?” Amy asks.
“If they love snacks, would they love a 'snacks from around the world' subscription box? Really looking at what your child loves and enjoys will always serve you better than just picking the top gifts from this holiday season.”
We hope you’re enjoying your scroll through this list, pandas. If you’re a parent who still has some Christmas shopping to accomplish, know that you’re not alone, and try not to panic. And if your kids have decided to change their list at the last minute, well, good luck, Santa. Keep upvoting the posts you find most relatable, and if you want to read another Bored Panda article discussing what it’s like to be a parent around the holidays, check out this piece next!
I recently discovered through a book club "The life and adventures of Santa Claus", written by L. Frank Baum (the same who wrote wizard of Oz). It answers all those questions, and has at least one film and one cartoon versions available on youTube. I can't say I loved the book, but if your kids are asking you the same questions as OP, here's an easy option...
I miss the days when my kids were younger and their gifts cheaper. Now 100 bucks might cover one thing my son asked for if I'm lucky.
My Christmas present to me was buying the last and only 2 seasons of Little House On The Prairie that was available at the record store. I'm happy. Also finally finding a good box of those hazelnut Belgian chocolates with the shell shapes.
I haven't been shopping at a mall in over 10 years now. Online is the way to go. You can choose from millions of things and have them delivered to your house. All while wearing your pajamas. :)
I shop and wrap throughout the year, and try to limit the presents to 7-8 things (make, do, wear, read, need, want, chocolate) plus some silly sticking fillers.
Used to do that back in the day, then forget where I stored them.
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My son gave me a Xmas list totaling about 5k. Needless to say he will be pissed!! My favorite day of the year is 12/26!
My daughter's sister (my bonus daughter) is very upset she has no money to get my daughter a present. She's coming to visit at the end of the month, which I told her is enough of a present. (Their douche-canoe father refused to share contact info for either of them. 5 years ago my daughter found bonus-daughter online.) I am broke but managed to order a few things for my daughter and told bonus 1 can be from her. She about cried.
I shop and wrap throughout the year, and try to limit the presents to 7-8 things (make, do, wear, read, need, want, chocolate) plus some silly sticking fillers.
Used to do that back in the day, then forget where I stored them.
Load More Replies... My son gave me a Xmas list totaling about 5k. Needless to say he will be pissed!! My favorite day of the year is 12/26!
My daughter's sister (my bonus daughter) is very upset she has no money to get my daughter a present. She's coming to visit at the end of the month, which I told her is enough of a present. (Their douche-canoe father refused to share contact info for either of them. 5 years ago my daughter found bonus-daughter online.) I am broke but managed to order a few things for my daughter and told bonus 1 can be from her. She about cried.
