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Life isn’t always unicorns and rainbows, is it? 🦄🌈

All of us have difficult moments where we’re stuck between what feels right and what feels real. And those choices reveal a lot about us. This poll puts you in the middle of 30 situations where the answers aren’t clear, and the “correct” choice depends entirely on your own values. 

Take a moment with each one, trust your instincts, and cast your vote. You might be surprised by how you respond - and by how everyone else does too.

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#1

A criminal breaks into your house and attacks your family. You manage to overpower them. You have the choice to let them escape or restrain them in a way that may seriously harm them.

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Flickers_and_Sparks
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1 hour ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Sorry, but no one hurts family without getting a decent payback first

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    #2

    A fire breaks out in a building. You can save either a stranger or someone you know who has wronged you deeply.

    A large fire engulfing wooden pallets with intense flames testing your moral compass and shocking dilemmas.

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    #3

    Your friend is convinced their partner is cheating and asks you to spy on them.

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    Beady El
    Community Member
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    1 hour ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    More information needed. “Spying” covers a wide range of different activities.

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    #4

    You’re a surgeon with one available transplant organ. You must choose between a 70-year-old scientist who may discover a cure for a major disease or a 19-year-old student with a long life ahead.

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    Mike F
    Community Member
    1 hour ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Thankfully I don't think the decision is made by the surgeon but a committee.

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    #5

    You’re on a jury. Everyone believes the accused is guilty, but you secretly have doubts that no one else shares. A guilty verdict means life in prison.

    A woman in a white suit passionately presenting a case in a courtroom, highlighting moral compass dilemmas and decisions.

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    #6

    You learn your child has been bullying another kid so severely that the school is considering expulsion. Your child begs you to lie for them.

    Children facing a moral compass dilemma as one kid is bullied while others stand around in a dimly lit room.

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    Flickers_and_Sparks
    Community Member
    1 hour ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Bullying is wrong, in any form. Covering up for the chid will only make them a bigger narcissistic bully in the future, and in time they could turn on you too

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    #7

    You’re hiking with a group and someone slips off a cliff edge. You can save them, but doing so may drag you down too.

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    Ray Ceeya (RayCeeYa)
    Community Member
    20 minutes ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I'm always going to try. I was trained for confined space rescue.

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    #8

    A team member at work is clearly having a mental breakdown but insists they’re “fine.” You’re the only one who noticed.

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    Nathaniel He/Him Cis-Het
    Community Member
    1 hour ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Should be tell their line manager. Many places also have mental health champions and the like.

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    #9

    A teacher accidentally gives you access to the test answers before a huge exam. No one else sees it.

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    Ray Ceeya (RayCeeYa)
    Community Member
    19 minutes ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Delete it and inform the teacher. They will appreciate your honesty.

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    #10

    Your partner wants children, and you absolutely don’t. They assume you’ll change your mind.

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    Beady El
    Community Member
    Premium
    1 hour ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    This is one that practically screams for additional options.

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    #11

    A distant relative leaves you an inheritance that actually belongs to another family member who was cut out of the will unfairly.

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    PirellisMiracleElixer
    Community Member
    1 hour ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Really surprised this is so close. The relative chose you for a reason. Take the money but don’t tell anyone you received it.

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    #12

    A coworker is about to be blamed for a mistake you made. Speaking up puts your job at risk.

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    #13

    You discover your parents have been lying about a huge family secret for decades. Confronting them would tear the family apart.

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    Mike F
    Community Member
    1 hour ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    If the secret doesn't involve you then you keep your mouth shut. This whole "so and so DESERVES, to know is BS unless you know the entire picture.

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    #14

    Your sibling needs an organ transplant and you’re a match. The surgery is risky and could permanently damage your health.

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    Beady El
    Community Member
    Premium
    1 hour ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    For people with multiple siblings, the answer might vary depending on WHICH sibling needs it…

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    #15

    You witness a teenager vandalizing a memorial site. They look shaken and regretful.

    Hand with tattoos holding a spray paint can, creating street art on a colorful wall, testing your moral compass visually.

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    #16

    A stranger sends you a large sum of money by mistake. The bank won’t notice. Legally, you don’t have to return it.

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    Zig Zag Wanderer
    Community Member
    47 minutes ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Keep it. Happens often. My mate's son had a thousand or so deposited every month for 6 months. Nobody asked for it back, but it did stop.

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    #17

    Your teenage child wants to drop out of school to pursue something extremely risky. They are determined.

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    Mike F
    Community Member
    1 hour ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I dropped out, it broke my mother's heart. I took the GED the same year, I should have graduated in June, I took the GED in August. I actually came out better by taking the tests (GPA wise) than I would have finishing school. She was beaming when I got my certificate.

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    #18

    Your sibling wants to disconnect your unconscious parent from life support. You believe your parent might recover.

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    Data1001
    Community Member
    1 hour ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    You can't ask a yes-or-no question like that and expect to get an answer that will be true under every circumstance. Is the parent elderly? What was their quality of life before they were hooked up to life support? Would they be in pain afterward even if they recover? Would they have brain damage? What are the *parent's* wishes?

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    #19

    Your friend wants to adopt a child, but you know they’re not emotionally ready for parenthood. The agency asks for your honest opinion.

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    Data1001
    Community Member
    1 hour ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Does this sort of thing ever actually happen? A friend is asked by an adoption agency to vouch for the prospective parent? Even if that might be something that happens, I wouldn't say anything because is *anyone* ever emotionally ready for all that parenthood entails? Who am I to make that call? The adoption agency is, I'm certain, more than willing and able to make that decision without asking random friends of theirs.

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    #20

    Your company offers you a promotion, but you must fire two people you know are hardworking and innocent.

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    Zig Zag Wanderer
    Community Member
    29 minutes ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    My son had a similar dilemma, but regarding salary amounts. He discovered that a woman he was training to do his job would be getting significantly less than he was, even though just as qualied. He challenged hus bosses. They said it was none of his business. He thought it was, and they BOTH resigned in protest.

    #21

    You witness a stranger collapse on the street. Helping them will make you miss a once-in-a-lifetime job interview.

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    Beady El
    Community Member
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    1 hour ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    There’s a Stephen King short story about a nearly identical scenario. “ That Bus Is Another World”

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    #22

    You uncover evidence that your town’s only factory is poisoning the water supply. Exposing it saves lives but leaves hundreds jobless.

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    Zig Zag Wanderer
    Community Member
    27 minutes ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    1% would stay silent, eh? Go on. Justify that one!

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    #23

    At a wedding, you overhear the groom admitting he’s unsure about marrying the bride. She’s your close friend.

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    Data1001
    Community Member
    1 hour ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Neither one. I'd talk to him about it. Find out what his concerns are. If I think those are really serious concerns, then I'd advise him to talk with her and tell her how he feels.

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    #24

    You witness someone secretly filming women at a beach without consent.

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    #25

    Your partner asks you to lie and say you’re sick to skip a family event they don’t want to attend. The family will think it’s serious.

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    #26

    A student in your class plagiarized an essay and is about to win a major scholarship for it.

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    Data1001
    Community Member
    1 hour ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    As long as I'm not personally affected by it, and it didn't really affect anyone else, I probably wouldn't bother saying anything.

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    #27

    Your partner’s sibling admits to cheating on their spouse and begs you to keep it a secret. You’re close to the spouse.

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    otiose
    Community Member
    1 hour ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    What would you want if you were the one being cheated on - to be told or not? I would want to know and if I found out YOU knew and didn't tell ... Why would you keep someone else's secret about betrayal? Either they come clean themselves or I'm telling.

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    #28

    Your friend wants to borrow a large amount of money you know they won’t repay. Refusing may ruin the friendship.

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    Emilu
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    51 minutes ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    If the friendship is dependent on money, that isn't a real friendship. It's called 'being a mooch and seeing how long you can get away with it'.

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    #29

    You’re driving and accidentally scratch a parked car. No cameras, no witnesses, minor damage.

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    Zig Zag Wanderer
    Community Member
    22 minutes ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Not necessarily going to say what is in the note..... But these days I have enough money that I would be honest. Have done the one time that happened.

    #30

    You find out your cousin has been illegally working under someone else’s identity to survive. Reporting it means deportation.

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    Zig Zag Wanderer
    Community Member
    21 minutes ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Good on em, if they can get away with it and aren't harming anyone!

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