30 Men That Showed Their True Colors With Their Weird And Delusional Expectations For Women
A “wonderful” part of being a woman is accidentally smiling while making eye contact with the wrong man and now he is in love and, even worse, insistent that you must be in love as well. No words, deeds or restraining orders will dissuade him from this thought. Fortunately, folks online have taken to screenshotting messages from these sorts of fellows to name and shame them.
We’ve gathered some of the most delusional expectations “nice guys” have had of women. So get comfortable as you scroll through, upvote the ones that made you roll your eyes the most and be sure to share your thoughts and experiences in the comments section below.
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Ngvc: "I Make 100k+ A Year, What Do You Bring To The Table?"
"Trauma dump their mysogyny onto metaphorical tables" 😂😂😂 I would marry her to!
She won’t marry someone who doesn’t know when to use “to” and “too”. 🤣🤣🤣
Load More Replies...You can do an online test and if you pay them, they will email you a certificate.
Load More Replies...Which IQ scale is that? In the US, often the scale used also has an average of 100, but deviates further than the standard BInet scale. The standard deviation, there, is above 15, and therefore, values other than 100 - if even so at all. Second, you don't brag about that. Not at a mensa meeting, let alone outside!
If a woman's car was in direct correlation with her penis size, she wouldn't have a car.
This Guy Who Expected A Relationship With A Woman After He Comforted Her — Also Known As... Just Being A Bare-Minimum Friend
Not well enough, only because it needs to be said LOUDER.
Load More Replies...There is no such thing as a friendzone ... it's a social construct invented by men that could never understand why the person they have a personal relationship with just doesn't want a romantic relation with them ...
All you've done is pointed out that a "friendzone" is a form of social construct - a social construct that does in fact exist.
Load More Replies...I have a feeling I will be dating all the bears after this list.
Romantic feelings that aren't returned suck. But your interest is in no way an obligation on the other person's end. If you don't want to hear about the people she dates, tell her. I'd be willing to bet this guy has never told her he has feelings for her, either. I've known too many people of all genders who just expect the other person to know
Weird idea: If you want to insert your apparatus into a crotch-garage, and that's the sole goal of any of your interactions, ... there's numerous ways to achieve that without any hassle or potetial damage to intact friendships. Tinder, brothels, good old right hand and a plethora more. If you're truly a friend, you never even aim for "friends with benefits", although I don't want to state that this wouldn't be possible. But, such a thing as a "friendzone", I don't consider even really existing, because it is always framed as if that was sort of a punishment or shorting somebody off their deserved efforts. Which, totally, devalues the concept of friendship these folks are capable to have. Just think about that, being considered and treated as a friend comes across as punishment to those folks ... there's something seriously wrong with them!
By his logic she should be f’ing her women friends too because that’s what real friends do???? 🙄
Ngvc: “You Got A Nice Set Of Mommy Milkers”
Yeah gross, the moment something like that's uttered you're ick to me
Load More Replies...Mommy milkers? WTF fella, are you in some really bad B movie, or just a complete Pr!ck.
Every time I read these types of articles on BP I am dumbfounded by the remarks these men make.
It would be so easy to show it to his mom. Just put down the doritos and mountain dew and walk upstairs from the basement.
Ppl in the comments have no idea how popular the term mommy milkers is in some parts of the Internet. The first time I heard it was a virtual youtuber referring to her... stuff... As a man it reminds me of the whole daddy thing.. it is creepy... Just remove the mommy plz. Ow and dont Harris strangers. The rules of creepiness are simple. Only do this s**t if you know the other person is into it.
For those who are not in the loop, a “nice guy” isn’t just a fantastically underrated Ryan Gosling movie or a man who is nice, it refers to a very specific subset of romantically unsuccessful men. These men, similar to the ones in these screenshots, have a misguided and frankly entitled belief that if they are just nice to women, they will receive love and attention in return.
Given the fact that humans are not vending machines, this has no bearing on reality, but when this fact rears its head, these men tend to get very angry. It’s also worth noting that “nice guys” are not particularly nice in general, equating some conversation and favors to being a “perfect partner.”
“Toddlers Are Well Built And Curvy”
Pervert! You DEFINITELY did the right thing! That's creepy as he!!, talking about a toddler that way! Or any child!
What people does she know that say she is overreacting? They need to be on the list as well.
I had to put my phone down for a while after reading this. The people that say she’s overreacting are shady af too
You should probably contact the police and tell them it might be worth looking into him.
Don't photograph your children and don't put them online. Even if they don't comment, the pedos will collect these sorts of pictures
Yes and for the love of God don't bring people you don't know or trust around your children. And do not let them be naked in front of those people. I have kids. I know after going potty sometimes they run around without pants or clothes but when you have someone in your house you make sure they stay covered. Should they have to in their own home? No. But if you're bringing people around, then you have to take steps to protect your kids. Trust no one with or around your children. Period. You know how many "trusted" people violate or hurt children every single day? Too many.
Load More Replies...Creep. My brother (in his 40s) said to me "I'd f**k her if she wasn't my niece" talking about my daughter. She was 12. I'm glad he's dead.
EW EW EW!!! I couldn't get away from someone like that fast enough. In fact I'd likely report to the police. omg So freaking gross. And men wonder why we don't feel safe with them. A TWO YEAR OLD!!
Why Aren't Women More Superficial?
Imagine being such an enormous dnozzle that even gold-diggers (who do exist) will run away screaming.
The common denominator in alle these relationships - is him.... I wonder why...
it kinda says a lot about him if he has all that going for him mean he probably has s**t personality
I have a friend who says that he can't find a partner because "women only want me for my money". He doesn't live in a particularly fancy condo or anything so the only way that they would know that he is doing well.... is if he tells them!
This clown: Hey ladies, I make $300K a year and have a condo! You may jump on my d!ck now.
Ngvc "Decent Guy, Only Wants One Thing From His Date"
when your date says they want to see you again thats a good end to a date what is wrong with this moron
He would have been better of with a pro, for his investment of time and money.
Load More Replies...honestly I was worried this would take a worse turn. What a creep
Load More Replies...When you put money down and expect goods and services what you're really after is prostitution.
Jfc, he was gonna rape her if she went to his house and said no.
He did all of that because he wanted to PRETEND to be a decent guy. If he actually only wants one thing, it's just baffling stupidity to say that he wants to take things slow. She did want to see him again, odds are that date might end the way he wanted it to, but now that date will never happen. If he had been able to be patient for a week, he might have gotten what he wanted...
He's the type of disturbed person that has a noise proofed basement. He's so creepy
When told that, actually, being nice via text or internet comment doesn’t make someone instantly fall for you, “nice guys” tend to react with anger. First and foremost, this very quickly shreds any last illusion that they are nice at all. This anger at their delusions being dismissed is almost as ridiculous as some of the demands they have of women who wouldn’t look at them twice.
This Guy Who Expected To Find A Match Because He Said He Doesn't Care About Looks Or Sex In His Profile... But Then Had This As His Opening Line
That and "I hope your day is as pleasant as you are" are my favorites.
Load More Replies...Maybe I don't understand because English is my second language but why bless anything about him?
Load More Replies...Did with the t*ts? They just grow there, naturally! She was probably not so much offended as flabbergasted at the sheer stupidity.
Poor Brandon
*typing furiously* What sort of person types the words what they are actually doing? *pauses* Must be a playwright or something *returns to the watching the movie*
*imagines that the person thought they were two cats and a soft can-opener*
Load More Replies...And he thought the way he approached that the girl/woman would've been interested???
no. This is obviously a guy who gets hot by harrassing women.
Load More Replies...roleplaying mixed with the unsolicited d**k pic. a wonderful marriage of douchebagery.
he likely doesn't care. The harrassment is the kink and the object doesn't matter soooo much.
Load More Replies...Ngvc: "It's A Real Shame Too. I Would've Treated You Like A Princess"
I'd be contacting the police as well as his superiors. It was bad enough that he used her personal information to contact her, but that last text was scary and disturbing.
These are the reasons women hesitate to talk to anyone, and then we're blamed as frigid when we don't want to open ourselves up to a potential stalker
Load More Replies...LVN = Licensed Vocational Nurse. Dude is a super creep. I really hope he got fired over this and I hope she pushed for his license to be revoked. I wouldn't trust this guy to take care of a room full of tires.
LVN is a nurse? Totally inappropriate use of confidential information which is against nursing principals and standards. Disgraceful! 😡😡
Load More Replies...Their pro-tip at the end was right though! Keep a rabid animal at bay while phoning the authorities --- don't go and aggravate it!!
Load More Replies...Holy sh*t. That guy needs to be a on a freaking watch list, under 24/7 surveillance.
I work in a hospital. 1000000% that guy got fired so fast. Especially if it's a good sized clinic at all, almost everyone here is replaceable. Corporate doesn't give a s**t about you. You f**k up this bad, they'll f**k you up next.
Wow, now he'll lose his job AND get to talk to the police. Well played, idiot!
Nothing will happen to this guy, except maybe, MAYBE getting fired. Police certainly won't, or can't, do anything at this point.
Load More Replies...This is all to say that self-proclaimed “nice guys” tend to be neither nice nor good romantic matches. There have been enough cases where these men, met with rejection, turn to stalking and other forms of harassment that tend to be considerably worse than anything the stereotypical “jerk” might do.
This Guy Who Thought He Deserved Constant Communication With His Dating App Match Simply Because They Matched... A Few Hours Prior
Adding "gross"! Good on her for blocking him...
Load More Replies...He's trying to control the woman, and they just matched? Oh no, hard pass on that one!
Only time I ever forgave a guy for asking that was a friend who wanted me to come with him to a company party at a fancy restaurant. I guess sweats and old jeans would have been unsuitable?
Load More Replies...I hate hate hate neediness so much. Like Mallory said in Natural Born Killers, “Next time don’t be so fùcking eager!”
Load More Replies..."Babe"? Like they are in a relationship? Oh, my goodness! BLOCK! and HIDE!
We're running out of red flags on this list, anyone have some red paint so we can paint some of the other flag emoticons red?
Load More Replies...This Nice Guy Who Expected Immediate Replies To His Texts And Then Told The Woman He Was Texting He Was Just Trying To Teach Her A Lesson
Anyone who spams you period, let alone in the middle of the day during normal working hours (when they also should be working), has already shown their true selves. Don't bother replying & block!
Not everyone works normal hours, I think the bigger issue is the fact she HAS to reply back right away, people shouldn't have to be available all the time even when not working.
Load More Replies...Same thing happened to me, but worse. I was online dating and this guy wrote me. I didn't think we were a good match (no shared hobbies/interests) and that's what I told him. He didn't take no for an answer. He started pestering me how we were perfect for each other (just because we were both artists). I then went to clean my apartment but left the site open and forgot about it. 2 hours later I had like 20 messages in my inbox and they really escalated. "Why are you not writing me back? You're online." Then it got more aggressive "WHY ARE YOU IGNORING ME?" until he just started to call me all kinds of names. The last message was something like "B*TCH! I'LL BLOCK YOU!" which was kind of a relief. Blocked him right back. But then he freaking stalked me on one of my art accounts and was like "You really hurt me by not replying, but I'm willing to give you another chance." Blocked him there too. That was scary.
This is when you hit the block button hard enough to break your screen.
Unless it's referring to the cat.
Load More Replies...All of these people are so needy and unhinged. Its quite scary
This Guy Who Thought He Deserved A Woman Because Of His Persistence... And Expert Gaslighting Skills
Yup, I would have shut him off right after "Answer my question first"... W T F
Load More Replies...What gets me is, why do these people keep responding? My rejection would have been quick and silent.
Go to the reddit post, he keeps going for 3 more screenshots.
Thanks for suggesting it... Gets worse. The time line is MENTAL!
Load More Replies...Just block him already. He's already proven he can't take no for an answer.
I'm wondering, too. But then, my husband sometimes exchanges messages with Crypto spammers for days. So I guess some people enjoy pointless and annoying conversations....
Load More Replies...The main cause of the issue, as with so much else, is a feeling of entitlement. Not only do these fellows think that having a partner is some sort of God-given right, they also have pretty strong opinions about what this partner should do, think and look like. Naturally, we can probably guess that these men most likely don’t, themselves, fit the bill at all, but that is beyond the point.
Ngvc: "I Sexually Harassed A Woman Who Didn't Have The Ability To Just Walk Away From Me, And She Isn't Happy About It. And You Women Say You Want Nice Guys"
Nice guys don't badger a person after they say no. They understand NO means NO!
Nice guys don't solicit dates from someone while they're working, no matter what the answer turns out to be.
Load More Replies...Similar to "alpha males" - If you have to describe yourself as one, you ain't one.
Kicking out a patron who makes sexual advances on staff should be policy at the FIRST attempt.
"Nice" is overrated and misused by men who obviously aren't decent or respectful... And absolutely need to do some serious self reflection (and stay away from women until their sh1tty attitudes change).
F*****g creep, stop harassing women, men who say they are a nice guy, aren't.
Ngvc: "Just Trying To Be Nice"
sounds like a good idea, unlike telling a man that totally lacks a sense for how the social rules work, and who has shown an interest in you, where you are going.
Load More Replies..."no one would let a woman make that choice on her own that age" OH FOR F***S SAKE
Right? These are exactly the kind of guys signing bills telling women what to do with their bodies.
Load More Replies...I especially like that he says he's only "thirtyish", which could mean anything from 30 to 39, and his unwillingness to use a definitive number makes me think his age is on the higher side of that scale
and you can have children very well with women who are a) potentially willing and b) definitely not children themselves anymore. That girl hardly lived for two decades!
Load More Replies...Imagine walking up to a stranger and saying, "Yeah, I know I'm much older and inappropriate for you, but you're prime breeding age, so whaddaya say? Wanna go bang? I'm a really NiceGuy™".
Not a line to set my panties on fire, for certain.
Load More Replies...Gross, a nasty dude in his 30's hitting on a 19 year old just screams "creep". She is right, you clearly cant get a woman your own age, so you have to try to hit on teenagers, gross.. Wow, how on Earth did you make into your 30's and stay single with all that charm? *eye roll*
Ngvc: "I'm Not A Sexist But Females Owe Me Sex"
This guy sounds ready to snap and shoot up a school or something. Scary with all that rage and hate against women.
Load More Replies...He's the reason people who need help refuse to go to psych-wards
Load More Replies...Maybe start with not calling them 'females' like they're animals. That's number one. I wish these guys understood that there wasn't some magical equation that equals them getting sex. They see sex as a transaction and that's the problem because the women you want aren't hookers. Sex isn't a math problem to solve where you think you solved it by following steps/guidelines that YOU came up with. Then you get annoyed because you didn't get your 'prize' that we never agreed to in the first place.
I cant stand when a man refers to women as "females", we are not discussing gender. It is derogatory, and you can 100% tell what kind of man you are dealing with.
Load More Replies...I'm a middle aged man serious d**g and alcohol addiction in remission. I have been married 6 years and never had a problem meeting women before. I'm also ugly as heck. Just be cool that's all you have to do. People like nice people.
Stay strong! I'm where you're at as well my wife and step kids are making my life better every single day! But yeah, just be kind and respectful. This guy's a time bomb.
Load More Replies...They all owe you alright: A collective restraining order, that's what!
This Guy Who Felt Entitled To A Date After Putting Down Other Women
"Act like a braindead b!tch"? What? You want me to pretend to be you? Kinky!
Yep. This is a guy seeking a victim to abuse. He enjoys HURTING gals w-a-y more than he does pleasuring any of them.
Load More Replies...This whole article is uncomfortable and sickening. What people have to deal with nowadays is disgusting
Ngvc "I Am Handsome, Educated And Have Money But Single. What Is The Problem"
sometimes, you should be fair... they just dont want a relationship, are just out of it and need time, or other reasons :/ I am out of one and just... don´t want, it was a lot after nearly 7 years, you know? The relationship ended because she wanted to go back to her home country, I did understand since her family needed her help, I couldn´t follow - I wanted but I have my business and had to change things around... then after 2 months she found someone else Idk to which category I belong of these/those two
Load More Replies...Handsome just works in the beginning. If your personality s*cks, you won't get further. Kinda the same with education and money; if you haven't used your education to better yourself, or used the money to make life better for people around you, you are pretty boring.
Well, it might be that you're marooned on a deserted island. Otherwise, it might just be a you problem.
Ngvc: "I'm Also A Little Older And More Mature Than You (No Offense)"
Step one: get a screenshot. Step two: take it to the school counselor. Step three: prepare to get a restraining order issued if it continues. I've been stalked before. It's not fun.
well, we're looking at it so I guess step one complete!
Load More Replies...This freaks me out as an autistic person. Just because she's autistic doesn't mean she doesn't have agency, like wtf.
As the mother of an autistic daughter, this makes me want to throw up on the OP and then whap him with a frying pan. Cast iron, none of that lightweight aluminium stuff.
Load More Replies...As an Autistic women, this also screams "I know how to take advantage of Autistic people". 🤮🤮
You just don't know it, because no nice guy explained it to you yet, you uneducated female...tsk.
Load More Replies...This "Nice And Stable" Guy Who Thought He Deserved A Date After Catfishing 200 Women To Try To Prove His Misogynistic Point
200 women out of 200 were instantly put off when they found you'd already lied to them before they even clicked on your profile. What a surprise.
Notice how he said when they talked to him, not saw him. His crummy attitude drove them away, not his looks
Load More Replies...I threw up a bit in my coffee at "perfect body for lovemaking" and "birth years"
"How date they be superficial when I am only looking for hot models!"
Load More Replies...a smart female do catch on very quickly that you’re not worth anyone’s time on a dating app, and also congrats I guess for being a very stable genius
Yeah another story that existed only in some dude's head. This self delusion is super cringe and bordering on a mental health issue.
I'm convinced height has nothing to do with anything. My mid 20's nephew's pants size is so small that levi's don't even make men's pants in his size. The young women he brings around are cute as hell and he's never lacking for female attention. All you need is a good personality and self-confidence. Don't radiate incel vibes like this jerk and it doesn't matter how tall you are.
Exactly! My 1st major crush was on Davy Jones. My hubby's 2" shorter than I am, and No one is More Manly in my book than HE is! And that Very Virile part isn't even his Best quality! 🥰 People w/ a "Napoleon Complex" don't realize that gals RUN from their *personalities*, not their height. They give other "fun-sized" fellas an Undeserved bad rep. Ladies, find yourselves a shortie w/ ample *true* Confidence in himself, and you've found a Keeper! That's a guy who's not too insecure in his manhood to be able to RESPECT his mate. Tall & mid-height dudes can easily do the same, of course. Too many still need to try harder, and more often. Respect is a 2-way street. We can't demand it w/o also showing it. 1-way people end up traveling Life's roads Alone.
Load More Replies...Ngvc: "I'm A Nice Guy Once You Know Me, But No You Judge A Book By It's Cover"
That's the fallback for all guys who think like this, because when you say no to THEM, their mind automatically goes to, "She only said no because she's already f*cking all the guys who are hotter than me. Because if she wasn't a s*x crazed wh*re, she'd want me because I have something better than looks. I'm a Nice Guy™." They're even worse about it if they find out you're a lesbian.
Load More Replies..."He's a nice guy once you get to know him."------translation------"He's an A55H0LE, but you'll get used to it."
That Happened
Things that didn't happen so much that they unhappened some things that did happen.
Load More Replies...He would never woke up. How dare you suggest this! He is an ALPHA MALE. He will have nothing to do with woke.
Load More Replies...this is is soo fake that other fake stories have become true and other true stories have become fake
Ha ha, maybe *Planet* Alpha, cos he's really out there...
Load More Replies...Really sad is making up a pathetic story like that to make yourself feel better. Just Ewww. He probably self identifies as an "incel" and listens to Joe Rogan every day.
This Guy Who Mistook A Woman Just Being A Normal Human Being As Romantic Interest And Felt Entitled To A Relationship With Her
So all women are supposed to be available all the time? What is this dude's point?
Cue up the Doobie Brothers "What A Fool Believes" in the background.
Being a decent person is "leading someone on?" WTH is wrong with people?!
This Classical Music Enthusiast Who Expected A Dm From This Woman After Insulting Her Taste In Music
Classic hipster bro circa 2003. "Why are you listening to Britney Spears? You should be listening to The Black Keys/TV on the Radio/Arcade Fire/Coldplay/Wilco/Modest Mouse" Sorry if I insulted anyone's music taste but that's what it was like back then. TWENTY YEARS AGO! So much "I'm into this band. You've probably never heard of them". You could smell the condescension from a mile away.
This Guy Who Thought Buying Someone Drinks Meant They Owe You Sex
If that's how you expected the evening to end A) you should have gone to a professional and B) $20.00 wouldn't begin to be enough.
That what his dad Saud it cost when he was in high school
Load More Replies...I just looked up professional escort rates: “ For appointments for company only, a minimum duration of 3 hours applies, with an hourly rate of EUR. 200,-.”. I’d venmo him back for $580. :p
I was reading one of the advice columns in the newspaper, and the answer the columnist gave infuriated me- 'If a stranger that you want nothing to do with has the bartender send you a drink at the bar, you should take a sip of it and acknowledge your thanks"- I thought that was idiotic- if you have no interest at all, I would just politely decline the drink. There are too many nutjobs who think you "owe them" just because you accepted a drink!
No kidding! I used to be a regular at a bar and the bartender had my back when a guy wanted to buy me a shot. "Nah, man, she doesn't do shots." Which was true, but I really appreciated it!
Load More Replies...He thought $20 dollars of drinks... WTF is wrong with these people?!? It's not that hard to speak to women. Just have some confidence and don't act like a douche, bonus points if you know how to cut loose and dance.
What kind of cheap whore do you take me for?! $20 is not nearly enough
My reply, "I sent you a Venmo for $100 for having to waste my time on a pathetic loser like you!"
Ngvc: "I Hope He Dead, He Maybe Doesn't Even Love You, I Do"
And report! (Let everyone know this happened too... He sounds like he has psychological issues)
Load More Replies...the thing we do man in my hand ... when in the world, would this statement work ... WTF
translation: I fantasize about you when I'm jerking off
Load More Replies...My parents had a dog that would try every trick she knew in a row as an attempt at getting a treat.... I don't know why I suddenly thought about her.
I hhope he dead, jesus xDDDD i am sorry my bois and grills but this killed me XDDDDD
This Guy Who Expected A Date After Showing A Random Woman At A Bar How Much Was In His Bank Account
He’s just showing you how much of a banker he is ,…… opps that should have started with a W
In short, b/c you're a gal, he thought you were *for sale*. To him, girls & women are just "things". That's truly ICK-Inspiring.
Oh dear, kind of reminds me of the time I was at a bar 20-ish years ago (now in my 40s) and some much older dude was trying to pick up on me. I kept declining politely. Then he said “Well would it help if I told you I fly Tommy Lee’s plane?” and I said “nope,” finished my drink, and left with my friends
This Guy Who Expected A Stranger On The Internet To Want To Date Him Just Because He (Sort Of?) Complimented Her
He said, "I ask myself" and then expected her to answer. I think the rest of the conversation happened in his head and he thinks she was there. Criminy.
Load More Replies...Where was he looking "OnlyFans? JFC why do people like this exist?
HE was the one saying "Bye", not her. How did he get a "No" from her "Thank you"?
Ngvc "I'm Such An Awesome Guy! Why Won't Girls Date Me"
if a man really needs to give you stuff that costed him money.. 1. he has no money 2. he thinks he can try to buy you <.<
Load More Replies...I dress nice. I waste money. I waste more money. My attitude is sh*t.
Maybe because he spends all his time talking about his sunglasses and his car?
Ngvc: "High Value Man"
This guy is clearly not good at his job. Otherwise he would have done his due diligence and properly calculated the risk of being perceived a wanker with an opener like that.
wouldnt even think of posting me like this... the f**k is that even - yeah 8.... such stuff is reaaaalllyyy depending on the view. For me "8" (I ANYWAY HATE SUCH RATINGS) is way different than others -.- and f**k everyone, like.. I work at a pharmacy and srsly... everyone pisses me off, this dude... nah thanks won´t serve whatever, others will do
Load More Replies..."this high value man knows his way around homer depot".... especially the part with the duct tape, rope, tarpaulins, hacksaws and shovels.
Yeah, I can talk circles around most men at Home Depot. Whoopee.
Load More Replies...Since when are toddlers allowed to get tattoos and go on dating sites?
I don't want any of my body parts hang on the wall, thanks.
Ngvc: "I Tried To Be Polite... F**k That B***h"
I don't mind guys trying to shoot their shot. In general, we still ask men to make the first move a lot of the time, even this day and age. So it doesn't bother me when they want to approach someone and talk to them. And some women could be nicer about saying no thanks. It takes courage to approach someone so telling someone to 'f' off isn't necessary. Especially in a social place where most people go to BE social. But I don't understand why 'no' automatically makes a woman a b!tch? If a woman says no, just move on. You can feel rejected, but why is she automatically a b!tch and why does it immediately get to this weird, almost violent response as if she's a bad dog who didn't obey your command?
1. You approach her & she makes it known she doesn't want to talk. Then you sit at her table & she still doesn't want to talk. Which makes sense, because you didn't listen to her the first time. 2. If a woman not wanting to talk to you ruins your evening, she's not the problem.
"I rarely see women I'm attracted to" sir have you considered the possibility you might be gay?
How can you like someone you have never talked to, or even seen before. Sure, you can like the look of them, but that's not the same as liking THEM.
Ngvc: “I’m A Really Good Guy… If You Have A Girlfriend I Don’t Associate With You Because I Know You’re A Bad Person”
Not shown: "I want beautiful, young women without a brain, while I am obese, a neckbeard and have the social skills of a pet rock. But women are so shallow!"
"I'll open car doors for you" - no thanks. I have my own arms. "I'll get down on my knee and kiss your hand" please oh please do not do that. It's not romantic. It's icky.
Men talking about themselves as if they are amazing guys is the new 'I have a big d!ck'. And we didn't believe you then, either.
You’re not entitled to love, relationships, or someone of the opposite sex giving you the time of day. Grow up and deal with it.
Ngvc: “I Want To Show You A Good Time”
And ofcourse he expects something in return.. Why be so hung up on paying for someone? (Edit:typo)
You answered your own question. These guys think life, and especially relationships, are transactional.
Load More Replies...What A Fckn Loser
"Marry down"?! B***h, trades people make the world function. Get over yourself.
You beat me to it, Tamra. Couldn't agree more!
Load More Replies...I have two university degrees, my partner builds houses. And he is the most inteligent, kind and sarcastic person I ever met. So, thats not marrying down... Its the perfect match
You're doing this all wrong, Ancsuri. Their job determines what kind of partner they are and what they can buy you. Basing a marriage on love, mutual respect and what kind of person they are? That's ridiculous and doomed to fail.
Load More Replies...Not the point, but I hate when people look down on tradespeople. They make the world run, and their jobs are very technical and physically demanding.
If you think an electrician, plumber, or carpenter is beneath you, you should probably remain single. Here in Germany, my husband's nephew cleans toilets for a living. You know what they say behind his back? He's responsible & he works hard. Yet another reason I love Germany.
I feel like there needs to be a listing of guys with comments they've made like this and their picture, like a mugshot gallery to warn women in the area that they are out there, existing. You should be allowed to see the crimes they've committed before going out with them. We need a man Carfax.
This has nothing to do with education, blue collar vs. white collar, or careers. It's all just "No one will f**k me."
Ngvc: “I Stopped Caring About Women When I Realised They Have Freaky Seggs With Other Guys That Aren’t Me”
I'm Looking For A Large Breasted Sex Nymph... But She Should Want Me Because I'm So Nice And Sweet
Hahahah. This big boobed cis female would like to pass. Not a PARTIAL nymph
How very dare you, has reading these not shown you all the nice guys and absolute gents your missing out on. this is just the best of the rest ;-P
Load More Replies...Umm, how about you wash your greasy hair and shave, then we'll talk?
Ngvc: "But I Asked Nicely"
I know, but I don't know why some of these people just show up randomly to ask for things when websites exist to find people open for participation or, you know, you can pay for it.
I thought about that and the only explanation I could come up with is: they get aroused by the harassment. As shocking as it is, it's not about sex, it's about dominance, stalking and imposing fear and disgust onto women. ☹️ Edit: and they're on the search for vulnerable and / or very young women that wouln't confront them.
Load More Replies...lol I am glad you asked, I wasn't going to google it.
Load More Replies...Ngvc: "I Can Do Chivalry"
This is a like an alien disguised as a man who's trying to steal secrets from the people of earth without getting caught. "Looking for an adult human woman...I mean adult woman, preferably in the human politics, to take long walks on the beach and talk about nuclear launch codes."
Dude, the easy way to spot them is to look for the ones that are avoiding you.
If he's not a feminist, then he can't "do equal." So many forehead slaps in this one.
looking for an adult human female huh? Well then. Thanks for clarifying that you aren't into aliens or children.
Ngvc: "I Was So Loving That's How I Lost Her"
Guarantee "Give her attention 24.7" translates directly to "Stalk her relentlessly"
Smother her. Don't give her a chance to breath. Had one of those for a short time.
Bruhhh don't do Patrick dirty like that. He's too smart to be like that
This Guy Who Thought He Deserved A Date Because He Gave This Woman Her "Bong Piece Back"
From OP on Reddit: "not really, just that he used to party at our last house a bit and we hooked up and then hung out for apparently 2 weeks then I wasn't feeling it anymore so i ended it. he just got kinda weird and pushy afterwards" and "yeeahh he did some weird stuff back then too. like I ended the fling and while I was at work he told my roommates we were still seeing each other so that he could come inside and just wait for me there. also came by the house twice after with boxes of food like he was trying to bribe me or something. LUCKILY I've moved since😅"
Load More Replies...'Righting wrongs' is all too often about alleviating your own guilt, rather than making things better for the wronged party - it's a lesson I had to learn. Sometimes the best thing you can do is leave them alone and give them the space to move on.
At The Local Renaissance Festival Today
Love the skull and crossbones and death reaper there. A bit of woman warning women?
The aid in transportation to your love is definitely something, but the rest of it is... no.
Renfair food tends to be pretty good tho. Buy that instead.
Load More Replies...Tip: Borrow it for a minute, & if it really works you can make a "lady" buy it for you. You're welcome!
Hot Tub Offer
serial killers are rolling with times rather than going out looking for victims they are using the internet
i mean yea, have you heard of the craigslist killer?
Load More Replies...This is the start of a horror movie about a serial killer who fetishised his mother.
"No guys, no fatties, etc...." Like that's a standard list we all work off.
Ngvc: “I Try To Be A Gentleman But Most You Ladies Not Into That”
I gotta know what that tattoo is. They had to cover it up so I'm guessing that is at least part of his issues.
Ngvc: “Typical Recycled Niceguy’s Saying”
Well, he just had to come up from the basement to get more Doritos and Mountain Dew.
Load More Replies...Is funny how these "nice guys" that complain about how all women go for good looking guys and won't give them a chance ALWAYS go for women that are waaaaay out their league. 🤷♀️
Ngvc: “Do Girls Even Like Nice Guys?”
here is something that will blow your mind women do like nice guys your just not a nice as you think you are
Desperation reeks. Stop thinking of sex as the end-game prize. If you were actually nice because you like being nice it would come off completely different.
This Guy Who Thought He Deserved This Woman's Attention After Telling Her He's Going To Court
If you click the grey link below the bottom left of the picture, it takes you to the original post.
Load More Replies...The worst thing about this is a growing number of incel 'communities' mainly online chat groups, who encourage each other to share stories about how they're constantly being rejected by the 'bitches' in favour of 'chads' and how the deserve so much better. They manage to convince themselves that all women are superficial and will only ever date what they (the incels) think is the perfect specimen of manhood.
whilst they (the incels) only date women they see as the perfect specimen of womanhood
Load More Replies...The sad thing is that most of these men wouldn't date a woman who they didn't think was "perfect". I'm sure they'd reject any woman who isn't thin and conventionally beautiful.
Okay, real question: is this what dating is like in all age groups who use the internet, or is this more a "younger folks" thing? I'm almost 36 and sometimes think it would be nice to have a partner once more... but if this is what the dating landscape is like, I'd rather die alone.
I'm dating in my mid 40s, and I haven't run across a dude like these in at least15+ years. The dating pool gets smaller as you age, but I think the quality improves!!
Load More Replies...I want to know why these men are self-identifying as a 'nice guy'. Are they really so deluded that they think their behaviour and words come under any definition of 'nice'? I'd love to see a list compiled by women of the things they would classify as 'nice'. Then a list compiled by men who would never use the words 'nice guy' to describe themselves, and then lastly a list from the 'nice guys' themselves. It would be interesting to see where the communalities arose.
That's my question too. "Nice guy" = gives you compliments, pays for dinner, opens doors for you? That's a red flag. But it's the "I was a nice guy for an hour & you wouldn't have sex with me" part that really frightens me.
Load More Replies...ok I'm speaking from personal experience only here, so I'm likely wrong about most people, but what I've found is that being yourself is what attracts people the most. that is, unless you are an insufferable æßhole
I would have been disturbed to know there was ONE man out there like this, but it looks like there is no shortage of them. Ugh, Ick and EWWWW
The worst thing about this is a growing number of incel 'communities' mainly online chat groups, who encourage each other to share stories about how they're constantly being rejected by the 'bitches' in favour of 'chads' and how the deserve so much better. They manage to convince themselves that all women are superficial and will only ever date what they (the incels) think is the perfect specimen of manhood.
whilst they (the incels) only date women they see as the perfect specimen of womanhood
Load More Replies...The sad thing is that most of these men wouldn't date a woman who they didn't think was "perfect". I'm sure they'd reject any woman who isn't thin and conventionally beautiful.
Okay, real question: is this what dating is like in all age groups who use the internet, or is this more a "younger folks" thing? I'm almost 36 and sometimes think it would be nice to have a partner once more... but if this is what the dating landscape is like, I'd rather die alone.
I'm dating in my mid 40s, and I haven't run across a dude like these in at least15+ years. The dating pool gets smaller as you age, but I think the quality improves!!
Load More Replies...I want to know why these men are self-identifying as a 'nice guy'. Are they really so deluded that they think their behaviour and words come under any definition of 'nice'? I'd love to see a list compiled by women of the things they would classify as 'nice'. Then a list compiled by men who would never use the words 'nice guy' to describe themselves, and then lastly a list from the 'nice guys' themselves. It would be interesting to see where the communalities arose.
That's my question too. "Nice guy" = gives you compliments, pays for dinner, opens doors for you? That's a red flag. But it's the "I was a nice guy for an hour & you wouldn't have sex with me" part that really frightens me.
Load More Replies...ok I'm speaking from personal experience only here, so I'm likely wrong about most people, but what I've found is that being yourself is what attracts people the most. that is, unless you are an insufferable æßhole
I would have been disturbed to know there was ONE man out there like this, but it looks like there is no shortage of them. Ugh, Ick and EWWWW
