People Are Sharing 40 Things That Are Completely Normal In Their Culture But Would Be Considered Weird Elsewhere
We tend to glide through life doing countless little things every day without any second thought. But the truth is that our lifestyle, views, and values are strongly influenced by the culture we’re exposed to. And if there’s one thing we can all agree on, customs and traditions vary widely around the globe. It’s a part of what makes our beloved planet such a diverse and charming place to live, isn’t it?
Traveling is a great way to learn about the similarities and differences people share with others across borders. After all, a thing that seems ordinary to us may look totally bizarre to people elsewhere. Thankfully, with the internet at our fingertips, those of us confined to our countries can expand our perspectives from the comfort of our own homes. So one Redditor, kerris2508, decided to delve deeper into the facts about other parts of the globe.
Recently, they reached out to the 'Ask Reddit' community with a very fine question: "What is something that in your culture is normal, but in another place is a weird thing?" People jumped to type out their honestly fascinating examples, and the thread immediately became a hit. We’ve hand-picked some of our favorite responses to share with you, so check them out down below. Be sure to upvote the ones you have not heard about before, and if you know any odd quirks about your home country, let us know about them in the comments!
Psst! If you’re keen to broaden your cultural awareness even more, take a look at Bored Panda’s earlier piece right here.
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USA
Bankrupting people with medical debt. 🇺🇸
Also, doctors refusing to treat you unless you have insurance or pay in advance??
Let's just all get on the same page, and all agree to take our shoes off indoors, shall we?
I will do as I wish in my own house, but follow the etiquette in someone else's.
Why do you object to this? Personally I like any way of keeping my house cleaner so I have to clean it less often.
Load More Replies...I wear shoes indoors. I don't have carpets or rugs as they are a trip hazard and I need to have shoes with anti slip under them. Does that mean I'm a horrible person?
But are they the same shoes you walk around outside in?
Load More Replies...No, I don't ask people to take their shoes off, and I don't take my shoes off when I enter someone's house. If you have pets, how do you ask them to take the shoes off? Your "clean" house means that you have no dogs, or other pets. BTW, I have the PhD in pharmacy.
I upvoted you, because you should not be down voted just for a "disagree." We don't wear shoes in the house, but if you or anyone else does, that's your choice and your preference.🤷♀️
Load More Replies...I live on a farm and we get snakes, slugs, centipedes, etc... in the house. No way am I walking around without shoes. Sorry
I forgot about the slugs! My mum gets them through her house very regularly. Also sometimes mice (though not as common in the house as she has a cat).
Load More Replies...Speaking for the inland west of the US. I can say that up until very recently (1950s or so) there was very little differentiation between inside and outside. Most people farmed, animals came in and out, often had dirt floors. Taking off shoes wouldn't make any sense when you're coming in and out a thousand times a day. Now that's all changed very rapidly and seems super quaint nowadays, but there are boomers who still remember those times. The shoe thing is just a leftover from then. No one around here takes them off - though that's slowly changing.
In my region shoes off is standard for most homes, but farms can be an exception to that here too. At my in-laws we always kept our shoes on unless we were in the one living room with the carpet, or in bedrooms with carpet. We were expected to give our shoes a good wipe on the doormat when we came in, or use the boot scraper if needed.
Load More Replies...India
Swastikas are very core of Hindu culture and you will find one (if not very many) in almost all Hindu households. Unfortunately they were hijacked by some crooked people and mean something else in whole rest of the world, since.
:( yes it is a truly horrid thing....however some random teen trying to argue that it means something else somewhere else so their swastika tshirt is not offensive is garbage.
Hey, depending on what depiction of the swastika it is. Anyways, I'm Polish and have all the reasons to hate swastika, but being pagan / native religion I cannot ignore and condemn slavic versions of swastika or "sunwheel". Nevertheless I do not buy or wear clothes with swastika knowing it's not common knowledge that it's an ancient slavic holy symbol.
Load More Replies...I'm German and I travelled South-East Asia when I was 20ish. Seeing swastikas literally everywhere weirded me out a little the first couple of days, due to them being illegal symbols over here. It's not my fault history happened, but I'm so sorry for all "my" people have done to the world. I'm just glad "we" are (mostly) at the other end of the spectrum nowadays, although there are still way too many right-wing morons and their number seems to be growing :(
You are not responsible for the deeds of your precedesors, as long as you condemn them. I'm a Polish guy with many German friends. I would never hold them acountable for the WWII.
Load More Replies...Is it different though, mirrored i think, so at least some people can tell the difference
true for buddhists...in fact, the symbol predates most modern religions
Yes. A fylfot is not at an angle and a swastika is at a 45 degree angle.
Load More Replies...Yet, if you really look at the two you will notice the Nazi one is anti clockwise and the Hindo one is clockwise. In Hinduism, the right-facing symbol (clockwise) (卐) is called swastika, symbolizing surya ("sun"), prosperity and good luck, while the left-facing symbol (counter-clockwise) (卍) is called sauwastika, symbolising night or tantric aspects of Kali.
The same thing is happening right now in the USA with Nordic culture/Iconography being co-opted by racist militia groups.
What symbol are you talking about? I'm just curious.
Load More Replies...There's a difference between the swastika and the religious symbol, one is two zd's crossed over each other and the other is two ss's. They look similar but are very different a lot of Asia has the two zd's design.
Among the endless list of things our environment and upbringing can tell about us, strange cultural norms are included as well. After all, growing up in any community will inevitably lead to gaining particular assumptions about the world and how everything is supposed to be. And since there is rarely one true way of doing anything, the differences between their lifestyles can vary significantly.
Anthropologists believe there are over 3,800 distinct cultures in the world, but in reality, that number is much higher. Humans are complicated little beings, so it’s almost impossible to tell the exact number of unique communities because of how hard it is to draw the line between their identities. Cultures are not restricted to specific regions or territories, and it’s possible to find countless communities with different belief systems and customs in one area. But if we can agree on one thing, every single one of them has something important to teach us.
Denmark
To leave the stroller (with the sleeping baby inside it) outside a café, while the mom/dad sits inside - if the weather is good. (Denmark)
Edit: It's a common thing all over Scandinavia/Scandinavian Peninsula - I'm specifically mentioning Denmark because I live here.
It is safer in Denmark, but here in the U.S. people overestimate the dangers of America.
Load More Replies...True, it's very normal in Denmark, my siblings and I always were put to sleep outside, even in Winter 😊
When my siblings and I were young, it was normal to leave babies outside shops in thier prams while mums were inside (pre supermarkets), then, a couple highly publicised (rightly) abductions later, it stopped, forever. Totally understandable. (U.K.)
Same in Ireland, there used to be one department store in particular where prams were left off to the side of the stairs of the cafe while their parents went in for a cup of tea. In general it was also common to leave the pram outside smaller shops rather than block up the whole aisle with your pram
Load More Replies...LIthuanian there, i can confirm. Also witnessed in Estonia and Sweden
I remember maybe 20 years ago, in New York City, a couple did this and had the police called on them by a "concerned citizen." The police showed up and were milling around the baby, which got the parents' attention. I believe they were given a citation and cautioned against doing that in NYC. The parents had no idea it could be dangerous because it was normal where they lived. I think they were from Denmark, too.
1997. It was a danish woman. She was detained for 36 hours, while the child was placed foster care for 4 days. Her and the childs father was charged with child endangerment.
Load More Replies...My oldest is 32, when he and his sitter were babies this was normal in Scotland
Same in Finland. I'd take my daily trek to the grocery store, the baby would fall asleep and I'd just park him on the balcony to finish the nap. You can tell when they wake up by seeing the stroller start shaking, lol.
Pacific Island, Samoa Or Tonga
When getting a traditional body tattoo, you lie on the hard floor with strangers “stretching” your skin for the tattoo artist to pierce. One person is designated to wipe your blood 🩸 and excess ink and the tattoo session usually lasts over a couple of back-to-back days or a week depending on a few things. While you are being held down and your skin stretched, women fan you and sing you songs. When getting this tattoo, it’s common for you to ask someone to be your tattoo partner. Meaning the other person will have to come with and get the same tattoo as you. This is somehow meant to ease the pain, encourage you, and so they can lend some of their strength to you and also for luck so you won’t die in the process (as many did in the past from infection or whatnot). The tattoo itself is done with boars teeth or carved whale/shark bones, but nowadays some artists use steel needles. Men are tattooed from the torso to to their knees (also around the penis and almost to the butt crack). Women get it from the the knees to the top part of their thighs. After days of pain, you will have to dance for your family party to show your tattoo and to have a grateful celebration in that you didn’t embarrass your family by not finishing the tattoo.
I’m coming with, we’re getting matching bob ross paintings
Load More Replies...There is so much intensity to this tradition! This is no ordinary tattoo, for sure! I can't imagine what this must be like. It sound both beautiful and intimidating. Your people must take so much pride in this!
I've seen photos of my sister's friend getting her tattoos. She looked a bit green at some points! Beautiful tattoos though.
Wish I could see her friend’s pic. What is worth the pain and what does it mean?
Load More Replies...Awww I love this! I'd be happy to sing to you and fan you! I'm not afraid of tattoos I have one...I just struggle to find things I want permanently on my body. I have a butterfly which for me symbolizes my personal ability to change and adapt.
i love seeing peoples deep, meaningful tats. for me and my impulsive, ADHD, BP ridden mind i just get something in my head and have to do it immediately. all my tats were from a piercing pallid i frequent so they let me just walk in during a quiet period. ended up w a flock of birds on my ribs (pretty painful as i'm extremely skinny, underweight, w robs that massively jut out. also my 1st tat) and a little alice in wonderland portrait on my side boob/side ribs just below my under arm on a drunken whim. they were just random things i thought of and got an overwhelming urge to do. luckily i don't get tat urges much! deffo more of a piercing gal. i have to forcibly hold myself back as much as i can or i'll soon run out of spaces for them
Load More Replies...Wow! Tattoo as part of a culture or religious event is pretty fascinating.
America
Celebrating a chubby, mystical, groundhog that can predict the end of winter based on its shadow :o
You're so right. I'm positive no one had any idea what was meant by "America."
Load More Replies...Wow, I’m from the U.S. and I had no idea that was how you spell it!
Load More Replies...Don’t feel weird. In Zurich, Switzerland they set an artificial snowman on fire to determine how much more weeks of winter we get.
and Mexico is part of Noth America as well.
Load More Replies...It’s impossible to become an expert in all of them, but delving deeper into the ways of life that interest you is a rewarding experience. To learn more about the benefits of discovering the unexplored territories of other cultures, we reached out to travel and lifestyle blogger Kate. She runs a successful website called Sunshine Adorer, aiming to spark our desire to go out on adventures by showing the beauty of this planet.
Kate told Bored Panda it’s very important and equally interesting to learn about other cultures, especially those that are completely different from ours. “It can help you always to understand them better,” she said. On top of that, knowing how people function elsewhere helps us when traveling abroad and motivates us to become more knowledgeable and rounded human beings.
US
Where I live in the US, we pull over for funeral processions. It’s a respect thing and everyone does it. A friend of mine from a different part of the states saw me do this while driving once and was SO confused and made fun of me out of confusion. It’s so common I didn’t realize some people don’t do this.
I'm from California and we do this too. It's considered extremely rude to cut off a car in a funeral procession. There is usually a 1st car and end car with signs that say funeral so ither drivers know
In Sweden it is illegal to cut off a funeral procession. You could be fined.
Load More Replies...In my city in Louisiana, the funeral processions are often led and ended by an officer. The officer leading usually stops at all traffic lights on the route to stop all traffic and let the procession go by. I've seen this done with just about every funeral procession I've witnessed, and even when my own mother died.
Same (in NY). The cops don't even need to stop traffic, people just automatically stop and you can go through lights and such on your own. People will let you go through put of respect.
Load More Replies...For my father's procession, an inline skater stopped and stood in respect. I wish he knew how touched I was. It was over 40 years ago and I can still see him.
South Carolina here. When my dad passed and we were in the funeral procession, a man walking down the street stopped and took his hat off as we drove by. I was so touched by the gesture.
More common in the south but not as much in the north east of US. Cars going both directions will pull to the side of the road to let the funeral procession pass. The cars involved all have their headlights on.
Was going to say this we pull over going the opposite way on a four lane road not just at an intersection cut off. I was on bus that stopped.
Load More Replies...Most small towns across USA. Pull over and wait, regardless of the direction.
Driving long distances. In Canada and the US (and I assume other large countries) people don’t think anything of driving 3-4 hours round trip in a day and driving longer distances for a longer stay. I’ve spoken to people in the UK who think driving an hour is an incredibly long distance.
This is funny because in some countries those hours would only get you to the other side of the city, and in the UK and Ireland etc, it would get you across the country.
It would, once you leave the town or city you're in. It can take me more than 30 minutes to drive 7 miles into the city centre, or 1 hour and 20 minutes to drive 80 miles to a completely different part of the country. If the traffic is bad, it can take even longer. I remember it taking 20 hours to get back from London, versus the 3 hours it took to get there. We had to abandon it and get a few hours sleep in a hotel before continuing the journey!
Load More Replies...When I visit my sister's family, it's 3.5-4hrs one way. Same area code. Canada.
Oh gosh. Where I am in California a 3 or 4 hour round trip could just be a normal daily commute to and from work. That's because so many people can't afford to live in Los Angeles, but of course that is where the jobs are.
That was my daily commute for many years, two hours each way if there wasn't traffic. There was always traffic.
Load More Replies...In the UK, people think that 100 miles is along distance. In the US, people think that 100 years is a long time.
The oldest building in the US can be more new than your grandma's house in the UK
Load More Replies...We drive 3.5hrs just to go camping for a weekend. Drove almost 8 hours to camp in another state for a long weekend once.
In Aussie you can drive in a straight line for two days or more and still be in the same state. NSW)
This isn't just American/Aussie thing, although admittedly those countries are huge. In Finland it's not uncommon to have 4-10 hrs drive (one way) to visit summer house or relatives, because people move to southern parts of the country for work. Also people living in north might have 4-5 hr drive (again one way) to see a doctor or go to a hardware store. I believe same applies to Sweden and Norway because both are also long countries and most people live in the south. We don't drive for days to reach some other part of the country, but we really don't think 1 hour drive is a long one and 3-4 hours drive is something many of us does every week or so.
Fun fact: ig in the us we measure distance by hours cuz everyone has a car but other places they do miles or kilometers I think.
Sweden
Getting a sausage from a hardware shop
I knew my fellow Aussies would be leaping in here, flyin the flag (snag)! 😁
Sausage sizzle baby! Is it even a weekend without a trip to Bunnings and a snag???
Load More Replies...Excuhoooose me! A great Australian tradition, thank you. We also use schools as polling places at elections and sausage sangers are sold by the parent's association. We call them democracy sausages. Beat that, you Scandinavian try-hards.
But do you love your hardware-store dogs enough that you can buy hotdog-print merch at those stores as well? (I recommend the underwear, very comfy)
Load More Replies...this is a normal thing in Australia - a sausage cooked on a bbq then wrapped in a slice of bread topped with sauce & onions
Here in Canada, our local chain hardware store has someone cooking and selling hot dogs outside the door.
Load More Replies...Pretty much every bunnings (hardware store) in Australia has a sausage sizzle every weekend.
In Germany you can buy bread and cakes in hardware stores or drink coffee and eat cookies in garden centers. It is now normal for shops of various types to contain bakeries or cafes.
Are the grillers inside or out permanently there,as in a Kiosk?
Load More Replies...We do this in Australia too! Nothing better than going to Bunnings and seeing a sausage sizzle. It's Community clubs that do it
While “cultures have many parts you can explore, I like to start learning about the differences in the daily lifestyle of other nations. Anytime I travel to a new place, I am curious about what kind of food they have and how they live/work on a daily basis. After that, you can move on to learn more about their tradition, history, language or whatever you are interested in,” the travel blogger said, adding that you can go as deep into exploring them as you want. Or at least as much time you have to spare.
China
Guests pay to attend the wedding banquet. Depending on who you invite, it's quite common for the newlyweds to make a decent profit.
Common in Italy too to gift money, but then you're not expected to give any other present
Yes, it's called "the envelope". Instead of gifts, you donate money.
Load More Replies...Visited a Chinese wedding in the Netherlands (2018). Guests each gave a minimum of € 500,-. The gifts (only money) were placed on a large round table. With 250 to 300 guests and common money notes, that is an impressive mountain.
It used to be to help the newlyweds pay for the expenses, but it's become extortionary, at least in Spain.
I've been to 2 weddings in 2 different parts of Spain, and this wasn't the case in either 🤔
Load More Replies...Ireland
Cheering in a pub when someone drops a glass.
Saluting magpies
saying "bye bye bye buh bye, bye now, bye bye bye, buh bye..." a hundred times before you hang up the phone.
Going to the funeral of anyone you even remotely know. Our funerals can be massive.
Waving a salute to anyone you pass on the road.
Leaving the pub without telling anyone.
my Irish Mum has this thing about saying hello to Mr Magpie and asking after his wife, and how if you do that he will not attack you
The full greeting is 'Good morning/afternoon/evening Mr Magpie, How's your wife and children?". If you've got a hat on, you touch the brim, otherwise you give a little nod.
Load More Replies...The hanging up is more like: 'Bye now, bye-bye, bye, bye, cheerio, catch ya soon, alright then, buh bye, bye, you take care now, see ya, bye, bye, bye now, bye, Oh and give my love to Gerry, and the Girls. Oh and if you see Agnes tell her I've still got her casserole dish! Ohhhh kay then, Speak to you soon, buh bye, bye. Oh Siobhan! Tell your boy I'll be stopping by the shop, I need to ask him a favour... Oh well it's Alice y'see.... yeah that ting again, but that's a whole separate issue. Alright now, you be good and I'll speak to you later, Okay, bye now, bye-bye, bye, bye, cheerio, catch ya soon, alright then, buh bye, bye, you take care now, see ya, bye, bye, bye now, bye...' And so on. Then you turn to your partner and say, 'Jaysus, I can't get her off the phone that one...'
There is a whole etiquette to waving at someone you meet on the road while driving......especially out in the countryside. Raise the index finger from the steering wheel for someone you don't know. Whole hand for someone you know. Show the back of the hand with fingers splayed for a good friend. It's quite funny when you have a "townie" travelling with you......they think you know everyone lol
The lack of a wave for someone who yields or lets you into their lane is a major social offence.
Load More Replies..."Leaving the pub without telling anyone" We should normalize this all around the world. For the sake of all introverts like me.
In the US we call it an Irish goodbye and never new it was an actual thing.
Load More Replies...People tend to yell "taxi" when someone drops a glass where I live
Where I live in Australia, dropping your glass will always elicit cries of “Taxi!”
Where I live, in the Midlands in England, when a glass is dropped somebody will usually shout "Sack the juggler!".
Finland
Being casually naked in same room with strangers, sometimes even with opposite sex. In this case, it's of course good ol' finnish sauna.
We even have "naked areas" at lakes, beaches, in some parks, "naked days" (we call it FKK in German) in pools.
In Europe we have naked areas at beaches, lakes, parks and even woodlands. Most are known as FKK area's.
Not everywhere. Some countries saunas are not so common, and they wear a towel. Duh. I downvoted you for the sarcastic 'duh', unnecessary.
Load More Replies...We definitely are naked here in the US gyms and spas, too, but they are definitely separated by traditional sex and it's a little more sparse. Still kind of weird to be putting away my gym bag and see boobs just out and about.
Infinitely better than in the guys locker room where old dudes just casually do stuff with their junk hanging out. Not like, talking a little while actively changing clothes. No this is, standing there with nothing on but a towel around your neck for 15 minutes having a full blown conversation with another guy who is sitting on a bench with even less on. I don't know at what age you just stop caring, but it seems to be early to mid-50s.
Load More Replies...Is there a better way to learn about the differences in nations than packing your bag and flying off to scour them for yourself? While traveling may mean something slightly different for everyone, it is a learning experience unlike any other. It inspires people to seek out new places, immerse themselves in and embrace different cultures, and soak up as much knowledge as they can before jumping off to their next adventure. And Kate wholeheartedly agrees, saying that leaving your comfort zone to probe other lands is one of the best ways to learn from other people.
“It does not matter how much TV you watch or how many movies you saw, you can never have the same experiences as when you go there personally.” Kate pointed out that to really understand other communities, you need to “go out swimming” and feel it for yourself. “Also, there are things that you can’t see on TV, so you need to be there to perceive them.” The travel blogger explained that it’s reasonable and encouraged to have some ideas about the place you wish to see, but you can gain much more knowledge by experiencing it firsthand.
UK
Using a puzzling mixture of metric and imperial measurements, for example, measuring cooking ingredients in grams but measuring body weight in stones.
So can we stop making fun of Americans for using the imperial system? The UK uses mph and gallons also and feet and inches for height. Yes I know you guys can convert to either easily but still.
Nope, wont stop making fun of Americans. But will ad UK to the list.
Load More Replies...The US uses a puzzling mix as well. Soda is sold in 12-ounce cans, 16-ounce bottles, 1-liter and 2-liter bottles. Same product, two different units of measure. Weed is sold by the gram...until you reach 28 grams, whereupon it's an ounce. Beer is sold by the ounce, but wine and liquor are sold by the liter. We should just switch, ffs.
Except when we slip up and give height in feet!
Load More Replies...we do that down here in Oz too, but that is not surprising if it is done in the UK already.
I read a book once where a British author apparently thought 150 pounds was a good weight for a well-built 6 foot 2 inch man. 🤣
I was at a conference in Florida & half of the classes were run by people from the NHS. We were covering patient transportation & all of their weights were in stones. Us Yanks quickly had to learn that unit of measure. Meanwhile the Brits had to learn that the hoist we use to lift patients we call a lift. To them a lift is an elevator.
Canada. A mix of both metric and Imperial. Fuel sold by the litre, as is milk. Bulk food sold by the pound, yet packaged meat, fruit, sold by grammes. Temperature in Celsius but body weight in pounds. The federal government never gave a deadline for complete conversion to metric decades ago because the grocery industry fought against it (prices sound cheaper in Imperial).
thats a healthy thinking...not being alarms of gaining some gramms of weight...if you say your weight is something between 5 and 6 stones...takes off the pressure
In this day & age everyone's got Google, so what's the big deal?
Not as strange as Americans measuring solids like butter or fruit in cups instead of weighing them.
Nepal
Addressing strangers using terms used for family members like brother, sister, uncle, aunty, grandpa, etc. The most common being brother/sister. We have unique words representing all 4 variations of little/big brother/sister.
And guess what, one day you would be calling a girl 'baini' (little sister), that girl be calling you 'dai' (big brother) and a couple weeks later you are dating each other and ditch the sibling style addressing. Then you either call each other by name or come up with nicknames.
Edit: I'm from Nepal.
I think this is common for all South Asia. I'm from Sri Lanka and we also do this.
I work with many Sri Lankans and they all call each other anna or thumpy
Load More Replies...Very South Asian and actually sweet unless someone calls you uncle and aunty at the wrong age
I just used to love it when people would call my parents aunty and uncle. Oh heck they would probably call me aunty now....
Load More Replies...In Mexico is common that any random person on the street call you "amigo/amiga" (friend) 😅
I work with Nepalese and Gurkhas and they are the most polite people. Always "namaste" and I use the term "bai" a lot. Mostly, I am "dai", I am very old!
i'm indian in the us, but with other indian people i know they're always uncle/aunty, bhaiya/didi, but you have to make sure they have a solid preference between aunty or didi haha.
I have family friends and the mother is from SA and I love that her daughter is always called sisi. That's the only one they use though weirdly.
Load More Replies...Australia
Calling someone a c**t is sometimes a term of endearment. It's all about intonation, as in "cuuuuunt", translates to "maaaate".
I always find it funny how Americans in particular are so highly offended by the C word. You can curse and insult their entire bloodline...but call them a c***t and that gets them.
I am American and use that and Twat frequently. I love how they sound...and the way people come completely unhinged over it just makes it that much more delicious. lol.
Load More Replies...Had a crazy woman on the bus start verbally attacking me, after working her way through the others. I told her leave me alone, called me a "F****t" and slapped me. I in turned called her a "C**t" at which point the entire bus gasped and started giving me the Evil Eye. Even the bus driver chastised me, but Not one single person had an issue with her calling me a F****t and slapping me, what would amount to a hate crime. That incident has only strengthened my use of C**t. C**t and Twat are two of the greatest words.
This has always been crazy to me. Im in the US and C**T is a super offensive word to a ton of people. But my thing is, c**t refers to a vagina right? So with half the population having one, and a decent amount of the other half of the population wanting to be inside of one, how is this offensive?
Where I'm from, words are just words! Tone tells you everything. What most people consider "swearing", we consider "emphasis". It's one thig seeing a 'great big dog' but it's a totally different thing to see 'A big f**k-off dog'. You might see Mr Mcfadden carrying a 'big piece of of wood' but did you see him carrying a 'big bastard lump of wood'? add tone and most words can be an adjective.
If someone said it to me I'd call them out for their disgusting language. The average Australian does NOT speak like this.
Depends where you live. I live in SA which is apparently the most foul mouthed capital of Australia and the C word is used quite often.
Load More Replies...This is a new'ish' thing, I somehow blinked slowly and this became a thing, we would never have used the C word in Oz in the 90s and earlier, it would have been a HUGE insult.
Absolutely right. I don't know anyone who uses that word, it's disgusting. And, I'm so sick of this being seen as an everyday "Aussie" thing, because it's not.
Load More Replies...It’s an every day term in Scotland, my fave word ever. Sprinkle it like parsley
When asked about the peculiar quirks or things from her culture that may seem odd to the rest of the world, Kate told us it’s really hard to choose them because, for her, it’s completely normal. “If I can lean on tourists’ reviews, I can say they are surprised at some foods that we eat.”
Throughout her travels, however, she has seen plenty of customs and behaviors she didn’t know about before. “What I would say about my travels abroad (and mainly out of Europe) is I had some weird surprises. When I went to countries in North Africa or the Middle East, I met local people who were rude, and I did not feel welcomed.” Kate explained this felt strange to her since she has been taught from childhood to be kind and welcoming to others, especially guests. “However, nature was beautiful and the weather was good, so in total, I did not regret traveling there.”
Canada
Hold the door open behind you a minute ahead of the next person, making the person run to it, then expect a thank you.
It's not expected in Canada either, but almost always offered.
Load More Replies...US also often in office buildings. I don't mind waiting but people often feel like the have to hustle to the door if you're holding it.
That's why I judge the distance/time and often opt not to hold. I think it's more polite towards the person so they don't have to run - though I do realise that it makes me look like an a*****e.
Load More Replies...Yea this is very much British & Irish thing to do aswell, also if the person we have made do a little run for the door has the nerve not to thank us they'll get a loud "You're Welcome!!" 😂
Reminds me of a time when my sister and I were at a baseball game and went to get some food. My sister opened a door that lead to the concourse and a bunch of people just kind of pushed their way past. A few people were fine, but literally 20+ came in, as if they were all waiting on her to hold the unlocked door so they could go through. After all that, not one person said "thank you", or even acknowledged her. She was so mad, she yells "YOU'RE WELCOME!!!" And from like 30 feet away, some yells back, "THANK YOU!!!" It was the most angry (and hilarious) exchange of "pleasantries" I've ever heard lol.
Load More Replies...The expectation for the person to hurry has to be something personal to the poster, never my thinking when I am holding a door for someone and I am Canadian.
All East Europe
In my culture it is considered an insult to refuse food offered to you in someone else’s home if you are their guest
I don' think I would ever want to refuse food offered by babicka. I bet every single babicka has special recipes that only they know how to cook, and the food is so packed with love there is no room for calories.
Load More Replies...A very Polish thing too. If you're invited to my house you have to eat and drink all that's on the table :D Oh, and take those darn shoes off ;)
i did this, as i am from Macedona, and i got shamed by her 6 yr old daughter
Anyone on a strict diet or having an eating disorder, would get anxiety visiting family.
New Zealand
Greeting each other by pressing noses and foreheads together.
Now this is just misleading. This is a traditional Māori greeting (hongi) but it doesn’t happen every time and the majority of NZers will never do it.
We don't do this generally. It's a Māori custom, and I've only seen it at formal occasions, such as tangihanga.
They do this in the Gulf Arab countries as well ... well, the nose touching not really the foreheads. It is also fairly common for straight men to hold hands as they walk around.
As a kid we always called rubbing noses Eskimo kisses. But honestly I don't know if the Inuit culture really does that.
If reading the responses from this thread sparked a desire to see different cultures for yourself, Kate mentioned a few things to keep in mind before venturing into lesser-known waters. “If you travel to a country for the first time, always try to find out as much information as you can. And if you travel to farther countries or other continents, then be extra careful.”
First, find out what kind of documents you need for your trip, as well as the locations of embassies and consulates in case you need to contact them. “Then read for safety advice and useful information about the destination. Also, read more carefully about countries with different cultures or religions before you go there. Furthermore, have travel insurance.”
Sweden
Eating very salty licorice.
There once was an advertisement slogan for Fishermans friend : " If they`re too strong, you are too weak" Applies to salmiakki as well :D
As a Finn I would say that our good western neighbours eats quite mildly salted licorice... ;)
Ah, yes. Salmiakki. My Danish relatives got a great laugh out of their American cousins reactions.
USA
Saying “No, Yeah” to mean yes/agree and “Yeah, No” to mean no/disagree. And “Yeah, yeah no” as fk no and “No no, yeah” as of course. Changes with inflection.
Similar in Germany, to some extent. Also in Germany, when offered something, answering "thanks" means, "no thanks".
Also in the US, but not necessarily universal, the word "dude" has a plethora of meanings depending upon volume and inflection. From "come here" to "look at that" to "wtf?" to "don't do that," the word "dude" is incredibly useful.
I think the same with 'mate' here in Australia. Maaate means someone you've known for a while or saying hello. Can also be used as look this way, or to state a fact. Oi, mate can be used as an aggressive when you're about to confront someone. When with someone and you see a person they don't like, you say "There's ya mate" describing an older person - old mate
Load More Replies...Little Brittain had a running skit of a character who said "Yeah, yeah but...no" or it may have been closer to "Yahbut" when spoken ~ I never quite got that one. Seemed a bit mean-spirited to me, a person who has never been to England.
Load More Replies...International... Aussies are great at the yeah - nah and nah - yeah, only roped by you got to be f*****g kidding, situational good or bad
Ooohh gosh. I thought this was really confising and uneccesary until I read it aloud and realize people say this all the time😂
same in south africa. "no, ok" means "ok" and "ok no" means really,no. "ja nee" (yes-no) however means something like "errrrrr riggggggghhht"
Indonesia
Uuh lets see - living with your parents in your 20s, and when you get married it's still commonplace for the husband and wife to live with the wife's parents for the first couple of years of marriage. - Alcohol is strictly frowned upon but smoking (even from a young age) is a societally acceptable act. - Eating rice with every meal. - Being late (up to around half an hour to 45 minutes) is societally acceptable nd is sometimes expected so invitees would often push the meeting time a bit earlier. - Absolutely stuffing your guests with food. - Eating chocolate with cheese
Today especially in cities seeing people drinking alcohol seems to be okay as long as you don't make a mess with people. Eating pork on the other hand will you seen like a criminal.
I eat apples and cheese, i eat vegemite and cheese, I eat a lot of things with cheese, and I will now forever wonder about Chocolate and Cheese, so that will have to happen at some stage.
👍🏻Bread/toast & jam & cheese, dried fruit & cheese. In Yorkshire they eat fruit cake with cheese 😋
Load More Replies...Drinking alcohol is not necessarily frowned upon, especially in big cities with lots of expats and tourists.
I couldn't believe when I went to Bali, you could smoke in restaurants
When I was younger you could still smoke basically everywhere. But when I came up from Florida you could still smoke in bars. Or nightclubs but I'm sure it's changed since then.
Load More Replies...Kate pointed out that arming yourself with knowledge and being prepared can absolutely save money and time, and make sure you enjoy your trip stress-free. If you consider traveling to unexplored destinations or countries where there can be potential risks for tourists, see if your friends or family members would come along. “Together is better than alone,” Kate said.
Central/ Western European Countries
Giving two kisses, one on each cheek, when meeting someone of the opposite sex.
I'm from Portugal, and I've always seen 2 kisses whenever a girl is involved. No more than a handshake between two guys.
Load More Replies...We do this in Italy, but only among friends, not when we meet someone for the first time. I'm talking northern Italy.
Honest question. Do you actually kiss each other's cheeks or is it more of an air pretend kiss on each cheek like they show on the movies? I've had people do both and I'm always embarrassed because I don't know the protocol.
Load More Replies...In Central Europe, people shake hands rather, especially for a first meeting.
Same in Switzerland - and I hate it too! But Covid has stopped that to a certain extent
Load More Replies...In Hungary, when meeting for the first time, it's only women who do this. Men among themselves and people of different sexes usually shake hands. The relationship needs to progress to a certain level of familiarity for kisses to be involved. (Like I kiss my dad on both cheeks, but never my boss.) But women among themselves, often kiss one another when meeting for the first time- especially middle age and up.
Yup, as an introvert who hates this I had the hope this with would disappear with COVID, but no... its back
Balkan - 2 or 3 times no metter are you the same sex or different, but yes- kisses are common:)
and thank goodness it disappeared with covid. No more getting kissed by any strangers even those you might as well not want to be touching you!
Load More Replies...Australia
Saying "Hey, how you going?" as a greeting. Extremely common in Australia, but apparently it isn't used anywhere else in the English-speaking world.
Was extremely surprised when I said it to an American one day while talking online and they were confused. "What do you mean how am I going...? By car...?".
It's interesting, because it's like the perfect amalgamation of "How's it going?" and "How you doing?", but for some reason it doesn't seem to register that way for non-Aussies!
See above. It's not 'how you going'? It's 'owyagoin' - all one word.
I got very confused hanging out with an English person because she kept asking me (an American) "Are you okay?" In the US, you only say that to people when they look upset. She said it to me several times throughout the night, and I was like, "Yes! I'm fine!!!!" Turns out in England, people just say that to mean, "How are you?" or "How's it going?" lol
The American "What's up?" is similar in that it appears to assume something is wrong.
Load More Replies...My Irish relatives say "Where you to?" meaning, what is going on, what are you up to, where are you headed? I love this phrase and I have adopted it to everyday use.
Addition, a lot of Aussie greetings/sayings are questions? What's happening mate? - response "not much" How ya travelling? - "yeah good"
Something to do with the winds in the tropics. Doesn't cross the equator.
Austria
Dressing up as scary goat demons that wield whips made from weeping willow branches and then visiting school and hunting down children who misbehave them and whip them all the while a few girls dressed like angels and a dude dressed up as saint nic stand and watch.
Krampus-Day is December 5th, Nicholas Day is December 6th. It is an Advent Tradition. There are also a lot of Krampus parades - some of them really big with thousands of visitors and hundreds of Krampus. A lot of the costumes are really valuable and handmade. Some of them are really old. But you gotta be careful when going to these, they usually hit pretty had with their whips (more for teens and grown ups). The info on Wikipedia is not too bad, but there are a lot of regional differences.
Load More Replies...But I do that as an American and its "weird" and "dangerous" and I'm "trespassing" and I'm a "menace to society." Hypocrites, all of you!
Tradition or not. I would have serious issues with anyone whipping my child with willow whips. Those things hurt and leave welts.
Provide some context! This is an advent tradition on one certain day of the year.
These are just individual social media posts from Reddit. They are not meant to be comprehensive sources of information. That is what the comments are for.
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“Also, I would recommend to every single person to spend at least one year abroad before you start your life somewhere in your 20s. Anyone who can afford to live or work abroad or travel will definitely be a different person after that experience,” Kate concluded.
Asia
Washing our a*s right after we poop
this should be common worldwide. But we would need to have clean public restrooms for that
...and a bidet next to each toilet (because I have my doubts about the cleanliness of those built-in showers that come out of the toilet)
Load More Replies...Bidet. I have used them in various places in the world, and if we did it that way more often, the world and our health would be a lot better for it.
IDK about this, I was in China for 3 weeks and it was amazing how many people would poop right in the street, pull their pants up and just keep walking along. Pretty nasty
I would think most people in the world do this but most native English speakers do not. I am not saying the habit is language related of course :)
Most in US dont bidet or wet wipe but most shower or bathe every day, especially men.
Load More Replies...France
Let’s see… In no particular order:
-Giving your boss a kiss when you arrive at the office,
-Drinking one big glass of alcohol whenever we’ll you eat something, even the 6pm snacks,
-Getting mad at people who arrive early at your parties or even on time because who the f**k shows up without being at least 5 minutes late,
-Giving a nod to the fully-armed military whenever you go out in the city center,
-Preparing about three different glasses, four plates of different sizes and three sets of cutlery **per person** whenever you invite them to eat at home.
Guess where I’m from?
I never gave a nod to military men or saw someone do that. I'm a 55 year old French.
that's the one you take issue with?have you kissed your boss?:|
Load More Replies...Have done all that. Lived in Montpellier and close to Le Mans, about 27 years. Drinking can start in the morning, depending on who you are. The most confusing part when you go from one part of France to another is how many kisses, it differs from place to place. Male relatives will do the cheek kissing with each other, but also between male good friends, I think especially around Marseille and Montpellier.
that's true but la bise is not so common anymore (thanks covid), and many people are actually relieved to not have to kiss "that" person anymore :)
Load More Replies...I kind of welcomed the brief respite from kissing everyone during Covid shutdown. Saying goodbye to my village, however, meant lots of parties and drinks invitations and that got exhausting too. I think I am still recuperating here in Austin.
Load More Replies...Kissing your boss: It's possible but not very common. Military presence is only there since terrorist attacks, so that didn't existed like 15 years ago. A big glass of alcohol with every meal: not common at all Using different sets of glasses and plates: that would only be used on very special occasion and absolutely not whenever you invite someone to eat at home. So this is mostly wrong
Oh , the weirdest custom I had heard of was a festival where you throw sour wine on your neighbors for a weekend. In that village, if you don't want that happening to you, you have to stay inside or else get out of Dodge for the weekend.
Africa Or India
Calling elder people aunt and uncle, even if you're not related to them.
As a kid people were always introduced to me as an aunt or uncle even when they were just friends of my parents. Now I'm questioning if that was a Finnish thing or Egyptian thing.... Someone more Finnish than me, plz tell me if you had a parade of "aunts and uncles" in your life
It's very common in the US for people that are close to your children to be referred to as auntie or uncle.
Load More Replies...Ireland Or Scotland
Saying all sorts of vulgar words to each other, including wishing they were dead, telling then to drop dead etc supposed to be some kinda endearment among best buddies. So it's like Bro A gonna go away from a long trip. Bro B : good, finally you're gone. Don't come back, and better die somewhere else. Bro A : I don't wanna see your face either, don't ever call me. After parting. Both A and B thought to themselves "that is a good friend indeed ".
Idk, the c**p talking amongst friends seems to be universal. I do that a lot and if my friend has a good comeback I appreciate them even more.
yep I have a buddy that we do this... greetings include anything sweary.
Load More Replies...In parts of English-speaking North America, people call each other by the worst slur on the books, and it's friendly and loving amongst your personal and tightly knit social group, and deadly fighting words to people outside of it. From my experience.
Friends, especially male friends tend to talk smack like that rather than express true emotions. It is all good because everyone understands.
"Willst du denn schon gehen, Gott sei Dank - bleib doch noch, um Himmels Willen!"
It seems to most likely stem from an ancient belief that by cursing your loved ones it would protect them from being cursed by demons. You were already cursed so they would pay you no mind.
Maybe not to quite that extent, but "friendly insults" are pretty common in the southern US (among men, at least).
Israel
In Israel, yelling and cursing is normal, even between bank managers and customers or people of different rank in a hierarchy. There's no politeness or etiquette. We're extremely informal. Obviously, moving to Germany with that socialization earned me several police reports for insults.
Ugh I wish! Honestly if we could give it right back to customers without consequence, I doubt they'd pull the BS they try to pull.
I recently saw a meme that suggested that all the evil Disney queens were just Disney princesses who had worked in retail. Makes sense to me.
Load More Replies...Police reports for insults, B******t. Germany is pretty liberal on what you do and what you say as long as it's Not hate speach. So Clearly this person is down playing what they said or did to get themselves in trouble. My guess is that they perpetuated Racist held sentiment on a population of people in Germany that Israelis hate.
Interesting, as many people say that we in Germany were very direct and informal.
Yes, and I could be wrong, but this sounds more rude and insulting - didn't find that in Germany. I found people to be helpful and polite (with one exception but that happens!).
Load More Replies...In my office in Tel Aviv, whoever yelled the loudest for the longest won the argument.
That sounds dreadful. I could not maintain any respect for people who behave that way.
Load More Replies...Oh, that is too funny! That would not get you too far in the US, either.
Words are only words, we make them what they are and we need to stop that.
The only power any word has is the power you, individually, give it. I was trained to withstand verbal abuse, because knee-jerk reactions can be dangerous in my field. It was easy for me until the "C" word. I didn't even realize the word bothered me because I'd never been called that word. It took me about a solid year of incorporating the "C" word into my everyday vocabulary (silently, in my head, of course) but I did manage to take that power back. It kills me when people shut down and stop listening simply because the words the other person is using offends them. I know a lot of older people who do this. It doesn't change the quality of the information, though ~ not everyone can speak "The Queen's English" as my British friend calls it 🙂
Load More Replies...My mother's parents came from Ukraine. Both had been indentured servants to Jewish families. They regularly threw all kinds of insults back & forth at each. But when one of them said in Ukrainian "May lightning strike you" now you knew it was war.
Scandinavia
Putting parents in care homes, I've been in some cultures where that's unbelievable.
When my parents can't look after themselves they will be going to care homes. I would want the same when I can't care for myself. I don't want my kids to look after me.
There is room for all opinions on this. If you plan on needing a care home, please have funding ready to go because Social Security does not cover enough.
Load More Replies...I will ABSOLUTELY take care of my mom when it's time. Nursing homes in the U.S . are a joke. Unless you have a huge amount of money, the state pays and you end up in terrible nursing home. I've worked in numerous ones and it is terribly sad.
My mother is very frail and we take care of her. She doesn't want to go to assisted living. We'll keep her home for as long as it's feasible. My dad (they're divorced) hates that I do that for mom, but I think he's projecting his own guilt and defensiveness onto what I do - my grandfather wanted to live with my dad, but bc of the stairs in their house it wasn't a good environment for him. My grandfather hated having to go into a nursing home. I'm not judging my dad's decision, but I'm glad I can take care of my mother and I'll do it for as long as I can.
In africa we think this is definitely a "white people" thing. It's unacceptable to "discard" your parents in this way. Just saying what I see here.
Not everyone in America is capable of taking care of their parents. If both members of a married couple have to work, who is left to take care of the elders? We don't have a system where people can take extended paid leave to do this. In my case, both my sister and I are disabled, and so my father did have to spend a few weeks in a nursing home before he passed. We were not capable of taking care of his needs. And he understood that.
Load More Replies...I've been in care homes I'd have moved in the next day. And others that I wouldn't go into alive. It's getting easier in the US to stay home as long as possible.
(US) When my sister and I were bratty little kids and our parents made us do something we didn't want to do, we'd use this as a threat, e.g. "if you make us do this, we're putting you in a home! (when they get older)". The expectation over here is that parents will move in with their kids when they're unable to live alone, assuming the kids can afford it and have a large enough house. Nobody wants to be sent to a home, forgotten, waiting to die; versus living with loved ones!
That's just one way of looking at it... I had an older auntie who needed some medical attention and she went to live in a home. And she had great last years. Many new friends, all the workshops with singing painting, decoupage, what have you; having the meals prepared and cleaned after - she really thrived in that place, much more than she would've sitting alone at someone else's house (since few people would afford to quit their job just to keep their relative's company).
Load More Replies...Scandinavia must have nice nursing homes. In the US it's rolling the dice. So many stories of abuse in American nursing homes.
What are you supposed to do if you need around the clock care and all your kids and their spouses work 40 hrs a week?
Philippines
Pointing to a direction with your lips.
They do it in central America also. At first, I could't understand what they meant.
I had an art teacher in high school who had taught art at a school on a Native American reservation (I don't know what nation). He said that this was one of the things he had to get used to with the culture: because pointing with your finger was something a teacher did with their students. So if you do it with somebody who's your peer, it's considered condescending and rude. So he said he had to learn to point with his finger while teaching but point with his lips when talking to his students' parents.
I have a feeling it has something to do with the fact that the Tagalog word to say "over there" is "doon" (pronounced doh-OHN), which would cause a Filipino to pucker their lips when they say it.
In the US, especially among Mexican men, it is called chin pointing and it is almost universal.
I was just going to say that I used to live on the US-Mexico border, and we used to point with our chins.
Load More Replies...Spain
Calling someone a monkey isn't racist here it just means they are being cheeky or hyper if its a kid
It's all in the context, isn't it? If you see someone doing silly stuff and you call them a monkey, it should be fine
I know. Just NEVER call a black person a monkey in ANY way shape or form because they will kill you.
Load More Replies...Monkey can be both in Australia. It depends on the context and who you say it to. If you say it to someone with darker skin then it can be extremely offensive but calling a child a cheeky monkey or just monkey coz they are climbing things then it's fine.
I've heard this in the US too. Especially if the child is climbing all over everything.
It depends on the context. Just never call a POC that.
Load More Replies...I am guessing that it is only racist in the US if you say it with malice. Chunky Monkey is heard often.
India
You could just start talking with random kids and start playing with them. It isn't considered a offence in India. Also head nods and bobble.
The head bobble thing is so cute. At work we had a pair of twin sisters from India. Whenever they got excited while we were talking and they did that quick bobble plus a specific hand gesture next to their face, I had to withhold laughter and stop myself from chiming in to not offend anyone. It always looked so happy on them it made my day 😊
It isn't normal in most places for strangers to take an interest in children because they could be pedophiles. Sad to say. In the US the only time that happened to me while walking home from school I refused to respond just as I was taught and told my parents who reported the guy to the police. I wasn't allowed to walk to school for a little while after that.
Load More Replies...That bobble head thing took some getting used to haha. I used to get so annoyed at this guy I worked with because he did that to the extreme. I know it's supposed to signify respect and that he is listening or something like that, but I'd ask yes or no questions and he'd do what looked like a combination of yes and no head bobs and just respond to everything with "ok ok ok ok". I had to fight the urge to reach out and grab his head and just yell "stop it...is it a yes or a no?" lol
Not sure if this is accurate. As far as I remember, the quick bobble can be an expression of agreement paired with happy and/excitement. Slow bobble is more of acknowledging what have been said but disagreeing or being sceptic about that matter. I can also be a sign of listening and thinking. It's a combination with the facial expression. Please correct me if I'm wrong.
Load More Replies...The head shake when enjoying music I think is interesting, and also that it is not rude (or didn't use to be... things can change) to keep time for a live musician by clapping if they happen to lose it.
While it isn't offensive in the US, it does draw the parental eye. Too many nasty things happen to not watch what strangers do.
Germany
We build huge crosses out of straw which then are set on fire to burn the winter. I guess seeing burning crosses could make the one or other person feel uneasy not understanding the tradition
Yes. I only know Sonnenwendfeuer with on oversized campfire or Kartoffelfeuer (when the potato field is harvested villagers gather the remaining potatos and roast them).
Load More Replies...Well, we burn people made of straw (huge straw scarecrows) to burn the winter, while chanting "Winter winter, get out of the yard!"
The burning cross was a call for help a couple o centuries ago in Scotland
That's okay, every year, the kids here make effigies of some bloke who tried to blow up the Houses of Parliament with gunpower and then throw him on a bonfire.
We have this in Western Lithuania (which used to be under German authorities for some centuries). Not only crosses, but other figures made of straw, like birds, stars, etc.
Ah yes, I remembered it now, it's also practiced in other parts of Lithuania, which never had anything to do with German rule. For example, Aukštaitija (the North Eastern part of the country)
Load More Replies...Singapore
Using a small packet of tissue paper, name card, office access card with lanyard, heck even laptops to reserve a seat at an public eatery. Once you place those items down on an empty table, it’s known to be occupied and you can then make your way to the food stall to place your food order and come back to the table you’ve reserved. When foreigners come, some may not understand this local practice and take the seats anyway, or assume that the packet of tissue left there as a form of reservation is for their use, or trash left behind by the previous user.
I wish food courts would do that, where you grab a number from a bay or something and then you put it on the table you find and then go find your food, it would be so much nicer.
Depending on where I am,I will use my jacket or coat on the chair or table bench and keep an eye on it. Have not had a problem,thank heavens.
Load More Replies...If I only could reserve a seat, I wouldn't steal your places. Seriously tho. Anything that's not valuable won't be seen as a reservation here and anything valuable... well not a good idea if you like to see your laptop or something again. I wish we could do it like that.
"When foreigners come..." you mention the tissue but not the laptop. Have they stolen it already?
In the US we touch the tip of the index finger to the tip of our thumb, making a circle, to express approval. Ii's the Okay sign. I understand that in some cultures the the same sign means something completely different, and is an insult
Not in the US. It seems to be an open invitation for someone else to commandeer that space.
All races do this at resort pools. Not suppose to.
Load More Replies...This sounds like an important one to know! Often, in the US, someone needs to stay at the table to keep it from being poached.
Iran
Some casual Iranian sayings of endearment:
“I want to eat your liver”
“I will sacrifice my life for you”
“My stomach is tight for you”
“Wishing your breath to be warm”
Not endearing, but “dirt on your head” if you are upset with someone, essentially meaning that you should be buried.
Just fine, I want to eat your liver. And you?
Load More Replies...Please, someone explain to me the origin of “I want to eat your liver” as a term of endearment? I doubt it originally had to do with Hannibal Lecter but maybe now I know where he got the term?
Maybe this will help, saying #5: https://www.chaiandconversation.com/2014/11-persian-sayings-make-no-sense-english
Load More Replies..."I want to eat your liver" hahaha funny seeing this, remind of this japanese romance novel/movie "i want to eat your pancreas"
Kenya And India
I wouldn't say this is part of my culture, but in both Kenya and India, when you go to the movies they play the national anthem on screen before the trailers and everyone has to stand up. I'd been away for so long that I'd completely forgotten this craziness and was visiting my mum, went to watch a movie, everyone stood up and I was so confused until the memories were unlocked.
They used to do that in the UK too but at the end of the show. Everyone would try and leave a little early so they did not get caught and have to stand still. The massive stampedes finally stopped the practice.
I remember this from the 70's when we lived in Germany
Load More Replies...They used to do this in Australia, as well, until...ooohh the 1980s, I think.
I have never experienced our anthem at the movies, and I went to the movies often in the 70s and 80s I was just going to comment that I thought that was kind of cool, but honestly never experienced it here at all.
Load More Replies...Personally I'm not confused by the standing for the anthem, I'm confused by playing the anthem in a cinema.
Load More Replies...They used to do this in Canada back in the 70's and 80s. I remember having to stand for the anthem before the movie started.
it happens here in the philippines too, but ive notice they usually do the whole national anthem for before the start of the first show of the day or last full show of the night. in between those, no national anthem being played. but yeah, we stand for it, its actually a law to show stand up and show respect for the national anthem.
Germany
eating raw pork Mettbrötchen (seasoned, raw minched pork on a bun, optional onions, salt, and pepper) is a pretty cheap and delicious snack or meal in Germany and some surrounding countries. Shouldn't be attempted elsewhere since raw pork isn't safe to eat unless you know it's fresh. Mett is made specifically to be eaten raw and has to be made fresh on the day and either eaten, cooked or frozen (to cook later) on the same day. If your country doesn't have this kind of standard you shouldn't try it unless you trust your butcher with your life. Edit: a lot of people pointing out Trichinosis as the main issue, and after into looking into it for a bit it seems that testing samples of every piece of meat meant for Mett production has to be done by a vet to verify that it’s free of parasites. I’m assuming this is what’s not being done in places where it’s not normal to eat raw pork, because if you’re gonna cook it anyway, you’re also killing the parasites.
Classic german sushi. Somtimes it is served in form of a hedgehog (Mettigel).
No, raw onions are NOT optional. You have to be a savage to have a Mettbrötchen without it 🙀😸
The part where I‘m from, we call it „Bullenmett“ and it‘s not pork but beef. As cows don‘t get Trichines, it‘s quite safe. But the meat has to be fresh, that‘s true.
Cooking to an internal temperature of xxx is to be certain all the bad bacteria and parasites have been killed. As more producers go to 'organic' methods and not vax or de-parasite their livestock, it will be imperative to cook to these temps. If you like to eat it raw or rare, know your supplier!
India
Here are some famous ones! 1. Touching someone's foot as to give them respect (Usually Young children touch elder's foot, which symbolizes them giving respect to the elderly) (only people who are lower can touch a person's foot who is higher, in whatever be the circumstance). I can touch my father's foot, as he is older than me. If I teach my friend something, who's technically older than me, he can touch my foot, because im his teacher... 2. Pointing(objects close to you) with your middle finger (Ive done this many times unknowingly) 3. Touch NOTHING with your foot. All objects have 'god' inside them, so touching god(higher power than you) with your foot is like showing disrespect. So whenever you need to pickup that fallen book/pencil, you bend down and pick it up with your hand
That's just northern part of India. India has a southern part too where most of this is not in practice anymore .
Yeah it’s still common in south India… im living in America but we still practice That here too
Load More Replies...My monkey foot way of picking up things from the floor would be highly frowned upon eeps
I pick up lots of things with my feet, too. Try picking up something with one toddler on each leg when you've finally sat down comfortably - no way I'm finding another way when our four-legged ancestors left us such dexterity!
Load More Replies...My soon to be husband is Gujarati and I am learning all this now. Every time I leave his parents house I bend touch feet and say a greeting/blessing
foot touching is disrespectful towards god, but respectful towards elders? Very interesting!!
It seems like you touch someone's feet to show respect. But using your feet to touch something is making them (higher beings) touch your feet thus making them showing you respect.
Load More Replies...Serious inquiry here... What if you have no arms and do everything with your feet? I.E. play guitar, paint, etc...
I think what the OP meant was sacred things like books/paper.
Load More Replies...India
Eating with the hands, but only the right hand because you clean your a*s with the left hand
My mum told me that when I was a small child and I would not eat at Indian restaurants, ever. I thought she meant they don’t use toilet paper after pooping, then head straight to the kitchen to cook. Anyway, I’m in my 40’s now and have been enjoying Indian food (from restaurants) for over 20 years now.
I have heard this about some Middle Eastern countries as well. Especially in regards to shakinghands.
One of my favorite graffitis of all time was at UC Berkeley in the 1980s that said, "The Ayatollah eats pork with his left hand." A perfect culturally aware put-down.
*lol* I use my right one for the toilet business. so I have to starve in India? :/
Ethiopia is on the "eat with your right" group too
Load More Replies...Poland
beating women with a bundle of twigs, throwing cold water at them and then spraying them with cologne as a part of folk tradition on Easter
Someone needs to start a new tradition. More champagne and compliments and less stick beatings and cold showers, I say!
Guess you werent raised to think that was a normal thing (i'm half slovak and i think it's just standard practice, more like a joke if anything else)
Load More Replies...Uhm what? Noone beats women with twigs (unless it's a local tradition), the cologne thing isn't a commonplace tradition either. Spraying with water (everybody, not just women) is totally a thing tho
Umm, that's a VERY archaic version of the Easter traditions. Apart from few small village communities that try to preserve Slavic tradition, no one does that. We do spray water on each other - regardless of gender - for good luck on Easter Monday, called Śmigus Dyngus, though.
Yes, we do that too. More than in Poland I would think (mostly because we dont have the cologne and water part).
Load More Replies...It's called Śmigus Dyngus and it was always mayhem. Water guns, water balloons being dropped from balconies, random garden hose attacks - most people just hid at home on that day. It wasn't just women, everybody went after everybody. If a guy didn't want to get in trouble with his wife he would just gently spritz her with perfume - tradition upheld, zero damage.
What part of Poland has the perfume tradition? I'm from Dolny Śląsk, my husband is from Lubelskie, we live in Małopolska and non of us heard about it.
Load More Replies...USA
I'm from deep south US but currently live in Northern US........ apparently it's normal for people to not bring a dish when they are invited for dinner or to a party unless it's called a potluck. Where I'm from, if you don't bring something it's disrespectful. Just for context I'm in Western Pennsylvania and everyone that I know around here has said the same thing. The way it got brought up was my boyfriend was invited to dinner one night at my house (I live with my oldest sister and her husband) and he just showed up, ate, and left. My sister brought up how it was weird (we were born in the same place) and of course I agreed but I said maybe it was just something they do up here. Normally, where I'm from, we feed you til you're about to pop, always bring a dish, and always offer to help with the clean up. I've lived up here for a while now and I asked my coworkers who say they've never heard of this either. Like I was brought up that this was manners.
I was born in Southern Illinois, and it is very much ingrained in us that we when we receive an invitation to someone's home is, "What can bring?" If the say nothing, I buy a bottle of wine or similar host/hostess gift. When the meal is over, I help with clean up in some way.
NW Ohio, here. Yes, this. But, if you bring something after being told not to, like a bottle of wine, it’s not expected that it will be served. It’s a gift. If they choose to serve it, fine, but it would be rude to expect it. If they want wine (or whatever) served with their meal, they will choose it based on what they are preparing and they will provide it. The bottle you bring is for them to enjoy later, not for the party.
Load More Replies...Here (Australia) you'd normally take a hostess gift for a dinner party - but always offer, and generally bring, something to a BBQ.
Can confirm, I'm from the southeast, and this is accurate. If you're invited to someone's house for a meal or party, you ask what you can bring, and you make sure to bring that item. (If you have a different idea on what you'd like to bring, offer that, but always default to what the host prefers, as they will know what other guests are bringing, and there might not be enough people to eat two cakes.)
In Canada, it used to be - Cities: Wine, whiskey, or beer. Small Town/Countryside: Beer and or Desserts. Things have changed, but it's usually discussed when invited.
Native New Englander...it is polite to bring something for your host or hostess such as a bottle of wine, a potted plant, cut flowers, a box of chocolates. It's a gift for them, not to be served to the guests. But we're not expected to contribute to the meal unless that has been specified by "pot luck." Nevertheless, we will always ask you if we can make a dish to contribute to the meal.
Bring a plate is pretty common practice in Aus and it doesn't mean to bring an empty plate, you bring something to share like chips and dip, salad, a dessert etc.
One of our church members had an anecdote about a family (English maybe?) who were very confused when they were asked to bring a plate to a get together. They literally brought an empty plate, but soon learned and embraced the tradition. The other tradition that seems to have gone out of fashion is progressive meals, where people are designated a part of the meal to cater for, and each part is served at a different house.
Load More Replies...Australia
Buying your 5 year old daughter a pair of thongs. In Australia flip flops (the shoes) are called thongs.
I think the bathing suit "thongs" got its name from the Y-shaped strap, known as a toe thong.
That’s what we called them when I was a child in the US, too. That seemed to change over in the early ‘70s. I still sometimes slip and call them that.
I once saw Australians complaining that their thongs melted during heatwave. Very interesting mental image.
Spain
Eating dinner at 11 pm.
Not really. Maybe if you are on holidays or don't work the day after. It is usually at around 9, 9.30
9:00 is still late. Do you go to bed later as well? Just wondering because in America we are told that it is unhealthy to eat within an hour or two before bedtime, particularly if a person is prone to heartburn.
Load More Replies...Yeah most restaurants are closed at 11. 9-10 is normal dinner time tho
A Spanish friend of mine who now lives in the UK says he found life in Spain exhausting- there was still a cultural expectation of late dinners, but because he worked in an air-conditioned office in a business that dealt with Northern European clients, he was expected to work a more-or-less 'Northern European' working day too. 'Burning the candle at both ends', as we say in the UK.
Found this in the Greek Islands, too. It was something to do with the heat of the day finally breaking. I'm not sure, my Greek isn't very good.
Indonesia
Swearing using body parts, for exampe if we angry at someone we would yell "YOUR EYES" or "YOUR HEAD!" or even "YOUR KNEES!"
Can't believe bp didn't censor... my goodness /s
Load More Replies...Japan
Poking each other's anuses with our fingers in school with friends as a prank. It's so gay that it's straight
My niece went around doing that to statues when she was visiting here from Japan, I thought she just watched too much Naruto until her dad explained the ancient practice of kanchō to us. :p
Gnarly! Me and my buddies at school had a running game called "Elephant Love" where the objective was to ambush your victim, anytime, anywhere, and knee them between the butt cheeks as hard as you could. Yes, it was as stupid as it sounds.
Panama
My culture is very sex positive and flirty. Compliments, touchiness and being upfront with your intentions is seen as a good thing. Move to North America and it was a culture shock all the unnecessary steps people take here if they want to sleep with someone. Like damn, is it that hard to just do the nasty without caring what others might think?
Different strokes for different folks. I don't think machismo is all that positive., especially for women.
I think you are confusing being sex positive with assuming consent. What you describe is expressing your desires without taking into consideration if the other person is interested. In fact, you make it sound like a tidious burden, when it is a morally and legally necessary condition. The line is narrow between undesired sexual advances and sexual harassment or agression. In this case, I think that an adjustment to the social norm of the society you now live in is urgently necessary. Just like you have to abide with different driving laws for example and couldn't use your culture as an argument to justify an infraction, you cannot expect people to adjust to your seduction techniques if they offend the people you are interested in.
Us
Apparently thanking bus drivers
I thank everybody. Server brings me water? Thank you. A napkin? Thank you. Getting on the bus? Thank you. Getting off the bus.... you see where this is going. Sure they're getting paid, but they are also making my life easier. Of course I'm going to thank them for that s**t. I appreciate you, dude!
I normally see one person say thank you, then everyone getting off behind them also remembers to say thank you. But in my rural area, the only public transportation are school busses, so its all kids
I only do that on Fortnite cos we don't have functioning buses where I live.
India
Bartering instead of paying the asking price
That explains the "Our prices have been pre-haggled" signs you can see in cities with lots of immigrants.
My dad went to Madagascar once, and they took them to the marketplace and told them that haggling was normal and they should haggle. So my dad went into this shop, and they were selling this GORGEOUS hand-carved thing that would've gone for $200+ in the US, and this Malagasy seller told my dad the price was $10. My dad felt bad haggling him down from an already crazy-low price, so he didn't haggle at all and just paid it! Apparently the seller felt bad for taking advantage of this foolish American tourist, because he stuck something free in the package and wouldn't let my dad pay for it. I think it was adorable of both of them.
Spain
Calling people nicknames by their appearance if you don’t know they person like for example we could see someone random in the streets and we need help with SM and the person is skinny the just scream “skinnyyyy” which is “FLACO”
What they’re saying, big ears, is that they will call a stranger over by a nickname based on their appearance. :p
Load More Replies...That's dying out quickly and I'd advise against doing it, particularly in cities. You never know how people are gonna react. Between friends all levels of verbal abuse are fair game
Peru
eating guinea pig
In the Peruvian Amazon basin women make cassava beer by chewing it and spitting into a pot for fermentation by salivary enzymes
Sounds like the way they make rice whisky (lao-lao) in Laotian villages.
Load More Replies...People say "how can you eat a Guineau pig?". Guess what, that's exactly what they were bred for. Modern Guinea pigs don't exist in the wild. They were specifically bred for eating.
Born and raised in the states here and I cannot bring myself to see Guinea pigs as pets. I’ve never eaten one but I only see them as food.
Load More Replies...it's a GUNIEASAURUS REX https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=iMfcxUjYQ7Q
Fun fact: they're called "guinea pigs" in English because British soldiers in the Andes would pay a guinea to eat the porky critters on a stick. In Spanish they're called conejo indio "indian rabbit" because the meat is like rabbit.
Nobody is certain about the origin of the name, but it's definitively not that! The name was already in use before the English Guinea coin was introduced (which is named after African nation much of the gold used to make them was mined). Not to mention a Guinea is the highest denomination of English/British historic coinage- it's worth 21 shillings. Which was a substantial sum of money. Put it this way- in the late 18th century a British army private was getting 6 pence a day. So that "Guinea Pig" would cost nearly two month's wages! The real reason behind the name is much more mundane- In the 16th century "Guinea" was quite a generic term in England used to describe "exotic places", and Guinea Pigs first made it to England in the 16th century as exotic pets.
Load More Replies...USA
Hot dish and jello salad. Waiting for the bus in -30 degree weather because “it could be worse!”. The kindest community I’ve ever met. One time I got stuck in a snow bank trying to get on the city bus and everyone around me helped pull me up and onto the bus
Despite what our media depicts, people in the US are generally very friendly and open. It's really just a certain sect of people ruining it for everyone else and giving us a crazy reputation. The biggest idiots always get the most camera time.
They have to help, or else when the snow melts, in July, there would be bodies everywhere.
India
1- Giving money at every event. Someone gave birth? You give them money. Someone got married? You give them money. Someone died? You give their closest relatives money. Someone is sick? You give them money. 2- Traditional and long ( so long it can take hours) oratory art, particularly at a funeral and a wedding. 3- Having the weirdest congratulations/wishes. IE at a wedding : We hope you have 7 boys and 7 girls. If you encounter someone who survived an accident: Congrats for still having a living heart and soul. 4- After a funeral, you have to jump above a flame lit at your doorstep otherwise the angel of death will follow you. 5- Most people wake up at 5am to go to work, some people start to sell vegetables at 4am.
The money thing seems practical. So much better than gifting trinkets.
Czechia / Slovakia
On Easter we go to the Koleda. Koleda is, in most places, that guys go from house to house singing/saying rhymes and then whipping a*s of the women in the house with pomlázka (entwined rods of willow). And then the women give them reward (eggs, or alcohol shot for older guys and chocolate for kids). As you can imagine not many younger women are keen on this tradition. I was lucky to be born in village where only kids go to koleda and not grown men who get drunk in process and then start to whip with more force than necessary. And we also unwrap our christmas presents on evening of 24th of December and Ježíšek (Baby Jesus) brings them - which is irony because we are super atheistic nation lol.
other nations have Santa Claus or Saint Nicholas for us it is for some reason infant who is belived to descend from the sky on golden rope (and children watching for him so parents have time put presents under the tree)
Load More Replies...Australia
Australia: Calling your mates "d**khead" and d**kheads "mate"
When you've got half an hour, I can give you a quick rundown on all the ways 'mate' is used in Oz. Very versatile word.
as an Aussie, I remember the first time an American freaked out at my use of the word mate, because we have this tendency to use wording that has an actual meaning but it is rarely used for that...such as Mate does not mean your partner you do things with...bloody has no blood involved at all, and I once almost lost a job because I called my Boss a bugger not having any idea as a teen in the 80s what that REALLY meant.
Australia
Mimosas for breaky on Christmas morning. Followed by lunch and too many beers. Backyard Cricket with the family then falling asleep on the lounge.
India
Straight men holding hands
happens in africa as well which is super homophobic, so it's confusing.
Mediterranean countries, as well. At my Navy training base in California we had two older civilian students come, one from a shipyard in Italy, one from Spain. They made friends and were often seen walking back to their quarters arm in arm. I had to send a memo around to the schools to explain this. Also saw this on the Ramblas in Barcelona.
Pakistan
Marrying our cousins. Completely normal tradition, and I've many family members that have multiple children from such unions who are all healthy.
Thanks for this insight. I’ve got a Pakistani friend who married her first cousin. All of their children are intelligent and healthy. I was never gonna ask if it was normal so I’m glad you shared.
My observation is this is more common in societies with sex taboos and strong gender roles, plus arranged marriages etc. We don't see it much in africa anymore.
In the US if you point out that cousin marriages have been the norm throughout most of human history and that it's only a problem genetically if it happens over and over again through the same family line... everybody freaks out. There's SUCH a taboo here about cousin marriages. It's very ethnocentric.
It's been proven to weaken genetic lines to marry first cousins. Google why royalty have health issues over the centuries. Though second cousins are ok though. Who the hell thinks this stuff up!?
Load More Replies...UK
Putting milk in tea gets you weird looks when living abroad
My very British grandmother (half Welsh, half English) taught my siblings and I to take our tea this way. I still drink it like that three decades later.
not down here, and most countries I know of do the same, the only place I can think of that doesn't milk tea would be the U.S but more to do with the fact that they drink tea more as a cold beverage than a hot one.
I like iced tea with lemon but I put milk in my hot tea. There are alot of hot tea drinkers where I live in the US. I personally think that tea drinking was something passed down from my English forebears. My mom's family are all tea drinkers.
Load More Replies...This was how I learned to drink tea from my 1st-generation Welsh-Csnadian grandmother. Black teas only, of course, but I would never drink those without some form of milk/dairy unless none is available. On the other hand, I won't touch "breakfast" tea, be it Irish or English, which I'm sure is what my grandmother grew up with. Why anyone would want to start the day with a cuppa that tastes like dishwater, ash and old cobwebs is beyond me.
Depends on whether you're having rooibos, green tea, jasmine tea, ceylon, earl grey ceylon, etc.
Putting milk in tea is for people who hate the taste of tea or have horrible tea quality
Turkey
Turning a hole in dirt into an oven.
Pit barbecue is the most primitive and probably best bbq I've ever had. In Texas.
I think hawaiians traditionally do this as well. Apparently in africa also with termite hills.
USA
People asking: 1. Why are you fat/skinny during Christmas family reunions. 2. Why I am not yet married. 3. Who I voted for in the last election.
Yeah that's just shitty toxic family members all around the world, not just USA
LOL, you just listed the three easiest ways of starting a fight (the knock-down/drag-out kind) - in the wrong order, but high marks nonetheless.
Brasil
Normal to greet females with a kiss in informal settings. Quite common to eat shark meat, not the fins the actual fillet of the fish and probably a lot of people have eaten it under a commercial name elsewhere.
I'm Brazilian and I've never eaten shark in my life. Also in Rio and some places, it's two kisses, one on each cheek.
India
Yelling "TAXI!" when someone drops their drink at a bar/party
India
The whole family sleeping in a single room.
No that happens when you have a small house size of a bus, like my childhood home. On functions and vacations it just get even crowded with cousins and relatives visiting.
Load More Replies...Vietnam
in vietnam, when you order in places with menus. The waiter will stare at you when you chose food
Netherlands
We celebrate blackfaced people helping an old dude on a horse delivering candy and presents to kids.
This info is off/incomplete. Not saying that wiki does give a 100% proper impression but its accurate enough: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Sinterklaas.
It's not blackface. And the tradition has changed thanks to people who thought it was so it's no longer applicable. We now have all kinds of colors.
And I have seen people just smearing black dirt in their face, not coloring the face black
Load More Replies...You’ve gotta listen to David Sedaris’ take on this. The man is hilarious: https://youtu.be/hPfg20k5TE8
Apparently people don’t just walk up to strangers and start a conversation in other places. Friendly people here tend to do it and most actually don’t mind a little small talk.
Edit: apparently everyone does this everywhere except around the baltic and north seas
Sweden
Ever heard of a certain swedish controversy regarding guests?
Excerpt from my findings on Google: "...people in Sweden do not serve meals to their guests, even if they are eating themselves. The hashtag 'Swedengate' has been trending on Twitter after a Reddit thread ..." etc.
Thank you for posting your findings here. I had no idea what they were talking about.
Load More Replies...USA
Saying Howdy
This is incredibly regional. And honestly a lot of people outside of the south hate the whole cowboy thing.
That's got to be a regional thing. I've never heard it except in cowboy movies.
I'm Canadian and I say it unironically. And I'm not even from the Prairies!
India
In India, it's totally normal and even encouraged to beat the s**t out of your children over the smallest things like scoring low or falling asleep in class. I remember that this "Very smart but acts out due to childhood trauma" kind off boy get beaten the s**t out of for getting 87% in an optional subject in 5th grade. I saw him getting the s**t beaten out of him by his parents when he didn't come to them when they called for him in the park. My mom was like "He is deffo going to shine in future and thank his parents for slapping him"
I just saw a video on this, same here in SA (south african indians)
But 87% is good. I understand the other one though……his parents must have been worried for him
India
head bobble
Interestingly we have a large indian population here in SA but they don't do this. What they do do is use "but" as a questionmark. "Are you going to the shops but?"
are you sure they arent saying boet (afrikaans it means friend/brother)
Load More Replies...Greeting strangers as you walk past them on the street, maybe it’s a small town thing idk
It's just good manners to acknowledge someone politely and briefly. Even a head nod is better than pretending someone doesn't exist.
Czechoslovakia
Putting ice in beer.
We don't do that! No ice in beer. Ridiculous. AND for clarification: we separated 30 years ago! Now there are 2 countries, the Czech Republic and the Slovak Republic. Writing from Slovakia
for those individuals that made this post - Czechoslovakia fell apart ages ago, maybe it was a thing when the country still existed, but now it's two separate entities
You've been living in CZECHOSLOVAKIA for 10 years? Are you in the past?
Load More Replies...Because long standing beer has no foam, little salt makes it foamy.
Load More Replies...I also like ice in wine. I don't understand room temp alcoholic beverages.
To tip
You mean expecting customers to pay the employee's wage directly to them?
Australia
Drinking a VB long neck at twenty to eight in the f*****g morning
USA
I'd say not knowing geography, but I've met some dumb Western Europeans who have no grasp on the geography of Easten Europe. Like thinking Romania is another name for Italy.
Well, I remember Palin not knowing the difference between Czechia and Chechnya. If even American politicans don't know, how about the people?
A lot of people do know geography but I'd say the people who don't it's because they don't get to travel much. I'm generalizing but I know Canada and Mexico better because it's close to me. I think with Europe, some places are like 2 hours away so it's just easier because of location. News is also more inclusive in other countries. Sometimes it's a struggle knowing smaller places in Europe and Africa because it's so far away and there's no real hope of ever being able to afford to go there, so unless we really love geography for some reason or it's on the news in some way, once you learn it in Elementary school it sort of gets forgotten. A lot of kids are learning about Ukraine now because of what's going on. They may have had an idea of where it was before but now they really know. US media tends to focus on the US--that's the biggest travesty.
well Romania speaks a latin-derived language which originated in Rome. Some samples: spanish: vamos a la casa . Romanian: hai sa mergem la casa.
Drinking beer like almost daily.
In USA people drink Coca-cola , Slavic nations prefere fermented drinks, Calories amount is lower in beer, beers are usualy not very strong.
Australia
Touching elders' feet as a greeting and sign of respect
I think they got the country wrong with this one unless it is an Indiginous tradition.
Thought the same thing - did a quick google and nothing came up about it.
Load More Replies...Never heard of that, shaking hands is the most touching you'll do outside of immediate family.
America
Marmite
No, noooo, no Marmite tradition in the US of A. We may be able to get it here, but it is peanut butter in out gullets.
Eating beef.
Definitely more cultural dependent. Indians don't eat because cows are considered to be sacred. I think most Middle Eastern/Muslim/Islamic countries don't eat beef due to their religious practices. Same thing with Jewish people as well.
Load More Replies...In Mexico is very common to have people selling food on bike-carts yelling at the top of their lungs what they're selling. From very early in the morning till night. It's quite the background noise always hearing "Tamales!!!!" Or "Tortillas!!!", Etc. So you hear the yelling and you rush to the street, even if you're still in your PJ's, and men often get out just in their underwear too 😅
Yes! I remember that in California also. And guys with the little carts ringing bells selling icecream.
Load More Replies...In the Netherlands it's considered impolite *not* to finish your plate, even if you're full. In eastern European countries it's embarrassing for the host, if the guests finish their plates, because the host didn't give enough food. Imagine they are hosting a Dutch guest: plate empty, more food, guest finishes plate again. And again, and again. Till guest's stomach explodes...
I live in California & when my son was about 1 year old, when out in public Mexican women would always touch my son. He was quite chubby from being breastfed. I later learned it was good luck to touch a chubby baby. Also, I had a few unmarried coworkers who would freak if a broom came near their feet. Turns out, if her feet are touched whilst someone is sweeping, then she would never marry.
breastfeeding does not make a child chubby ... some kids are, some kids aren't.
Load More Replies...Germany? The legendary Autobahn. We have no speedlimit on certain parts of the autobahn and we take traffic laws very seriously. So on the autobahn people drive on the right lane and people that want to overtake are only allowed from the left side but have to go back to the right lane after that. Thats why it works that you can pass other cars with more than 120 mph or easily more in fast cars and be relatively safe. Its also a lot more expensive to actually get a drivers license and pass the tests. We germans take driving a car very seriously. Mine cost me in 2010 around 2000 euro. It includes driving on the Autobahn, citytraffic, driving at night and over land.
Italy: - in some northern regions it's not Santa who brings the gifts but it's Saint Lucy on the night between December 12th and 13th. And in some southern regions it's the Befana, an old woman/witch that comes on January 6th. - telling people things without saying a word, just using hand gestures and facial expressions. - you can get fined if you curse God. There have been a few people on tv (like on Big brother) who accidentally cursed and they've been eliminated. In the very same tv shows they showed people having sex, fighting, saying very nasty words, being blatantly racist/sexist/homophobic and nothing happened but cursing God or even Mother Mary is apparently worse! - on Sunday it's very common to go to your parents house and have lunch with them and your siblings/relatives. Every sunday, pretty much. It's a big deal. - summer vacations (from elementary to high school) start on the 1st/2nd week of June and end on the 1st/2nd week of September. THREE MONTHS 😛
It's incredible that countries outside of the US have no problem with nude beaches and breast feeding is completely natural. As It Should Be!
Former Yugoslavia - cursing and swearing is legendary. The swears are horrible but completely normal over there, I won't even mention them as I'd hate to be downvoted for it.
In Mexico is very common to have people selling food on bike-carts yelling at the top of their lungs what they're selling. From very early in the morning till night. It's quite the background noise always hearing "Tamales!!!!" Or "Tortillas!!!", Etc. So you hear the yelling and you rush to the street, even if you're still in your PJ's, and men often get out just in their underwear too 😅
Yes! I remember that in California also. And guys with the little carts ringing bells selling icecream.
Load More Replies...In the Netherlands it's considered impolite *not* to finish your plate, even if you're full. In eastern European countries it's embarrassing for the host, if the guests finish their plates, because the host didn't give enough food. Imagine they are hosting a Dutch guest: plate empty, more food, guest finishes plate again. And again, and again. Till guest's stomach explodes...
I live in California & when my son was about 1 year old, when out in public Mexican women would always touch my son. He was quite chubby from being breastfed. I later learned it was good luck to touch a chubby baby. Also, I had a few unmarried coworkers who would freak if a broom came near their feet. Turns out, if her feet are touched whilst someone is sweeping, then she would never marry.
breastfeeding does not make a child chubby ... some kids are, some kids aren't.
Load More Replies...Germany? The legendary Autobahn. We have no speedlimit on certain parts of the autobahn and we take traffic laws very seriously. So on the autobahn people drive on the right lane and people that want to overtake are only allowed from the left side but have to go back to the right lane after that. Thats why it works that you can pass other cars with more than 120 mph or easily more in fast cars and be relatively safe. Its also a lot more expensive to actually get a drivers license and pass the tests. We germans take driving a car very seriously. Mine cost me in 2010 around 2000 euro. It includes driving on the Autobahn, citytraffic, driving at night and over land.
Italy: - in some northern regions it's not Santa who brings the gifts but it's Saint Lucy on the night between December 12th and 13th. And in some southern regions it's the Befana, an old woman/witch that comes on January 6th. - telling people things without saying a word, just using hand gestures and facial expressions. - you can get fined if you curse God. There have been a few people on tv (like on Big brother) who accidentally cursed and they've been eliminated. In the very same tv shows they showed people having sex, fighting, saying very nasty words, being blatantly racist/sexist/homophobic and nothing happened but cursing God or even Mother Mary is apparently worse! - on Sunday it's very common to go to your parents house and have lunch with them and your siblings/relatives. Every sunday, pretty much. It's a big deal. - summer vacations (from elementary to high school) start on the 1st/2nd week of June and end on the 1st/2nd week of September. THREE MONTHS 😛
It's incredible that countries outside of the US have no problem with nude beaches and breast feeding is completely natural. As It Should Be!
Former Yugoslavia - cursing and swearing is legendary. The swears are horrible but completely normal over there, I won't even mention them as I'd hate to be downvoted for it.
