30 World Travelers Rank The Friendliest And Most Unwelcoming Nations In Viral Thread
Interview With ExpertIf you’ve done quite a bit of traveling, you’ll know that you can have vastly different experiences around the world depending on your country and how well you fit in there.
In one place, you might be considered crazy if you smile at a stranger while walking down the street. Meanwhile, in another, you might be called rude if you don’t converse with the bartender before ordering a beer.
Your experience might also be greatly impacted by how the locals feel about tourists. Globetrotters on Reddit have recently been detailing which countries they’ve met the friendliest locals in and which ones weren’t exactly welcoming towards foreigners.
We’ve gathered their most eye-opening replies below, so be sure to upvote the ones you’ll keep in mind for future travels. And keep reading to find conversations with travel experts Alyse, aka The Invisible Tourist, and King Siu of Travel, Eat, Drink!

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Dear female travellers travelling alone in India: don't travel alone.
I have no business in the rape capital of the planet. They can find other tourists
https://www.pulse.ng/lifestyle/beauty-health/5-countries-with-the-highest-rape-incidents/r6kvs25 It's actually not the rape capital that would be Botswana
Load More Replies...Better yet, don't travel to India. Period. Even male travellers aren't safe there.
This is for @Kitty Powers because they rightfully have been hidden. So you're basically saying that you can understand why women get raped and that women who are drunk or wearing revealing clothing deserve to be raped?? You're a disgusting excuse for a human
Load More Replies...Have to agree sadly. I spent 6 weeks in India travelling all over (so I never lived there so can only discuss what I saw). But I saw dozens of women touched inappropriately, made to flinch away from men, women having to scream at a man to get away from them. It doesn't matter if it's a group of women or a solo woman. I'd say go with a guided tour if you want to be left alone (relatively speaking).
This also applies to Tunisia where women travelling without a man are judged to be dirty.
I've been advised this before when I was a lot younger and thinking of travelling. My mothers friends were from Mumbai and gave me tips on protocols, how to dress etc if I did go but most importantly? Do NOT go alone, especially in certain areas. It's such a shame but I always listen to and hear the advice from people who are from there or lived there.
Even in a business group w/ men - India sucked. Never ever again.
Female, American from DR, raised in NJ in the 80s and 90s. I appear mixed/brown and when I traveled in my 20s and 30s, I mostly did alone.
Nicest people: Japanese. I've lived in Japan and traveled there a lot since. Never had a truly bad experience. People were helpful and once the ice was broken, very friendly; everyone tends to mind their business and customer service was always great, even when the konbini part-timer looked like they'd rather be anywhere but at work. Friendliest people I met were at Kamakura.
Meanest: I wouldn't say "mean" but I am never going to Egypt again. The sexual harassment was unbelievable. Made NYC Construction Sites seem like a monastery by comparison.
Sadly, I have found that travelling in any Arab country is not a great idea for single women. I have heard so many horror stories.
My Brother and one of my friends both did tours on the Sinai Peninsula, they both said that they wouldn't take any women period. Once you get off post they cannot guarantee your safety. Women were advised to have a male with them if they went off post and NEVER go out after dark, basically it was a sun up/sundown rule.
I loved Egypt. But I am a man, and traveling alone as a man is always easier.
I was there with a friend. The harassment came from boys,between 11 and 15. Where did they learn this from
For me, a white woman in my then early twenties, Scotland was by far the nicest country. I found it so endearing that everyone kept calling me “love”.
I'm glad that you had a wonderful time in gorgeous Scotland. I miss my beautiful country every day-- was so happy that I got to go back recently to visit.
Im so glad you got to go home, even if only for a bit. Its always been on my bucket list of places to explore.
Load More Replies...People don't tend to say "love" in Scotland. At least, I can't think of anywhere where I've been called that. In Glasgow, you get called "hen". "Lassie" (and "wifey"!) are used as descriptions but not to address someone, e.g. "D'ye ken that wifey from the telly?".
love Scotland, but has to be said, Edinburgh is bloody expensive as hell these days! ;-; (well, it generally was before but it was like 250 a night for a premier inn type place, whereas in other cities the same kinda place would be like.. 50 a night)
SO many nice people when we did a Scotland road/camping trip. they were a bit harsh oh the surface, but actually really lovely.
To learn more about where you can find the friendliest locals in the world, we reached out to globetrotter Alyse, aka The Invisible Tourist, to hear her thoughts on the topic. Alyse was kind enough to have a chat with Bored Panda and share where she's encountered incredibly kind people.
"I'm sure many readers will agree when I answer this question with Japan, people genuinely go out of their way to help if you need it," the travel expert says. "For instance, I've been surprised when a lady in Osaka walked me from the train station to my hotel. And another time when I caught the wrong train, a lady jumped off onto the platform to direct me where to go and therefore missed her train... Just selfless encounters like this."
"The locals in Thailand are also some of the friendliest I've ever encountered, too!" Alyse added. "The genuine smiles on their faces are so heartwarming, it's no wonder Thailand is known as the 'Land of Smiles.'"
Some of the nicest people I’ve come across in travels:
Japanese and Balinese, also New Zealanders
The rudest and most disrespectful:
Russians and Chinese.
People in Japan are overwhelmingly nice! If you look lost, people will approach you and try to help. If you ask a stranger for directions, they will go above and beyond to help you find your destination. Even if you don't share a language, they will do their best to help and always be nice.
I once watched a video where traveler asked for the way at a police station in japan. they did not just simply tell him, they drew him a detailed map of the neighborhood 🤣
Load More Replies...I'm Japanese and I can confirm that we are probably the nicest people you will ever meet!
Russians, Croatians, Slovakians…(I’m also naming my decendents) can be so rude when they are tourists in the US I can only imagine how bad they are when we are in their country. Having worked, lived and vacationed in areas that have a lot of international tourists and workers This has been my experience as a white woman. Especially when visiting NYC. I have found Asian people to be the most polite whether it’s at my local zoo or up in Canada asking me to take a photo.
A friend of mine went to Russia when it was still communist. Everybody's job was safe and secure so there was no need to be polite or look after people. He said that it was one of the most miserable times of his life.
We have cruised to a lot of different countries and found the Russians the rudest. I was having problems with climbing stairs when we went to Vietnam and was unable to get on the bus, the step was very high, level with my knees and they didn't have a step stool, 2 of the guides put a shoulder under each hip and boosted me up. They were friendly and never made fun or laughed, while I was there. Needless to say I didn't get off that bus again.
Japan story. Only American living in a local subdivision. Day 1 (of this story): noticed my car taillight broken and pieces of plastic on the ground. Drat. Day 2: Knock on the door. Young man with "no English" grandfather. Says grandfather hit car with his bicycle. Wants to pay to fix it. I declined. Day 3: Got lens fixed. About $2 downtown. Day 4: Knock on door. Man says grandfather would be insulted if he couldn't pay. I agreed to it. Old man pulls coins out of his change purse one by one, counting them into my hand until he reached the 750 yen. I swear that purse was almost empty at the end. The young man shook my hand and told me I did the right thing. We did the usual walking-backward bow thing until they were out of the driveway. Loved that country.
I feel like men and women may have VERY different experiences in some countries. India for example. I found it very friendly/respectful as a big/tall western man, but I’d not want my wife or daughters traveling alone there.
Morko the Ork, why are you finding it so difficult to accept that women can be unsafe in places? It’s such a weird hill to die on lmao
Morko the Dorko is literally all over BP posting disgustingly sexist viewpoints. To the degree of "dogs deserve to experience the wonder of childbirth, even if I have to steal and impregnate your dog myself".
Load More Replies...Don't forget that in some countries like India, women are considered by men to be less valuable than some animals.
okay morko, jewish people aren't unsafe in palestine. you know who is? PALESTINIANS.
Why do men find it hard to grasp that women are unsafe around MEN? 🤔
As an obese white American woman I wonder how I'd fare if I was traveling in India
You don't need to lookin any specific way to be unsafe. I was trying to get cellphone signal at the airport (there was no free wifi). I had just came out of the migration room and I was almost arrested for some made up rule (something like that I was wandering about the airport... huh?) My hosting family appeared out of nowhere to my rescue. They told me they'd probably wanted to shake down some dollars out of me by threatening me with jail-time... If you resist is worse...
Load More Replies...Depends on the city and its govt.. The state i stay in is pretty safe
Sadly, some cultures are still very sexist. As a 6' tall 180lb fit American, I have been okay everywhere I've traveled with very few tense moments. But even those tense moments could (should) have been avoided if I had just thought harder about the situation and avoided them.
I am pretty sure that any small person will respect and be intimidated by a bigger one no matter their country. 😁 I am glad that at least he can aknowledge the fact that his wife and daughters won't have the same fate.
This highly depends on who you are. Race, gender, ethnicity, nationality play a huge role.
Additionally, how you behave. I traveled to France once without talking a single word of French except Bonjour and Merci and still didn't encounter any rude French. I greeted, asked friendly if they spoke English and wasn't mad at all when they didn't bit happy and thankful when they tried.
Many people think all french people are like parisians. They are not. Rural people are way more friendly than those living in megacities constantly bombarded by tourists. Even netherlander can get pissed at tourists sometimes when they don't respect the local way of life (like walking in the middle of cyclist road)
Load More Replies...Having been to Paris many times and only speaking about 5 words, I found the French to be extremely gracious and welcoming. As long as you respect their culture, learn the "polite" words, and make an effort, you will be welcome there.
Last time I was in France, I found the people to be very friendly and nice. I, too, only speak about five words of French, but I made the effort. People seemed to appreciate that.
Load More Replies...A few seemed to have missed the assignment. You're not wrong, but I don't understand why these are a in here. This is meant to be a list of places, not a list of observations about life.
RACE : “Classification category within the human species according to morphological or cultural traits, with no scientific base, and of which the usage is at the foundation of different forms of racism and their practice.” there is only one race : the human race !
Don't go to South Carolina. SO many reasons, but I went to a mall wearing a hockey jersey (I'm Canadian) and was told that I was s**t, hockey was s**t, and to go back up north. I was 12. I really don't like the south. There are good people there if you can find them.
So you met one a*****e, and on that basis you recommend people avoid a whole state?
Load More Replies...Agree with below comment. Your experience is largely determined by your attitude and behaviour as a visitor to that country. If you're pleasant and respectful, you'll be treated the same.
Not in all countries. I'd like to think in NZ we'd treat you as you deserve to be treated no matter who you are.
On the other hand, we were curious if Alyse has ever met locals who weren't exactly welcoming towards her. "For me personally, I did have less-than-friendly encounters with locals in Vienna and Prague," she shared. "Now, it is a cultural difference there for locals to not be overly enthusiastic when meeting visitors, which is understandable, but separate vendors in each city refused to give me change when I paid for street food. I had to insist, and felt as though they were trying to take advantage. Hopefully that has changed there now."
People posting nicest places needs to post if they're a man or woman. Going to someone of these places as a woman is down right dangerous yet men see it as "nicest people ever".
If I don't think my wife or daughter would be safe there, I wouldn't consider it nice even if I was there alone.
I'd like to see some of these male posters made up like and pretending to be a woman for a day in their "nice" countries.
But if these people treat women differently to men, they're not the nicest places
Moved from California to Hawaii (Oahu) and local males were disrespectul to me but not ever to my male partner.
Also they should give a minor description of themselves. If you look intimidating and strong you won't be a target no matter your gender.
Safety isn't "culture." Hate crimes aren't "cultue." If they were happening to you, you wouldn't write them off. Creepy
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The world is filled with nice people and I keep travelling to remind this myself: you will find great people in any country.
I'm sorry but, I find this post to be very naive and could easily leave single women especially in dangerous situations.
Nope. Reading this post and taking it at full face value is naive. Being paranoid is not healthy. Being cautious is what makes you safe, and I say this as a woman. I suppose you upvoted the first post about India and automatically assume all of India is "dirty and filthy and full of scum", huh? 🙄
Load More Replies...A wise person said there is a lot of nice people out there, but you don't have to look that hard for the mean ones.
It's also a matter of luck. I have met the most depraved people in my country as a kid and imagine that at the time it was much safer than now. Certainly I have the rabbit's foot when it comes to people!
Nicest place I've ever been was New Zealand. The land is gorgeous, the people are lovely, and welcoming. I live in Niagara Region, which can be very touristy, and all over NZ was just so pleasant.
Worst place I've ever been is the Walmart next to Walt Disney World in Florida. There was a shooting as we were leaving, heard the gunshots while pulling out of the parking lot.
All they really had to say was Walmart and the US. It's even a running joke here...
Load More Replies...Florida is also the worst place many Americans have been to 😅 lol jk but it is a running joke here about how 🦇💩 crazy Florida culture is.
Republicans have made Florida and Texas "shithole" states, using Trump's language.
Oh no! Your scary curse word is offending my delicate sensibilities! (/j)
Load More Replies...That Walmart is sooo shady! When we stayed nearby, some man came up harassing me to swap his foodstamps for cash, wouldnt take no for an answer so I had to firmly tell him to leave me alone. Then he was hanging around outside agitated AF.
It's just Florida, being Florida. We moved to Miami after a major hurricane, way back in the 90s, because my dad worked for a big construction company. I remember asking my neighbors why there was so much jackhammering going on at night. They laughed. It wasn't jackhammers, it was machine guns.
Alyse also suggests that travelers be extra mindful of locals in places that are known to suffer from over tourism. "Kyoto, Bali, Santorini, Venice, Dubrovnik, Amsterdam, Barcelona and Paris are just a few places where locals are fed up with tourists," she noted. "We don't want to make their lives more difficult, so it's important to be as respectful as possible when visiting."
I haven't travelled the whole world but I felt safe and comfortable travelling in Germany, and totaly scared for my life in China.
I travelled China alone (western woman). Never once felt unsafe. I found the people, welcoming, curious, helpful and kind.
Knowing 30 or so words of Mandarin goes a long way with people there.
Load More Replies...Depends here in Germany - Bigger cities, train stations, public pools and festivals can be very dangerous nowadays. If you're LGBQT, a woman or jewish inform yourself about the destination you're traveling to and apply safety rules for Middle Eastern countries if necessary
The ever growing right wing nutjobs are also problematic. For every decent person
Load More Replies...You scare very very easily. Crime vs foreigners is vanishingly rare in China, unlike the U.S. where it is endemic.
I had an older colleague insist he wouldn't drop me off at the place with gay prostitutes at Frankfurt main station. I have no issue with places like that. The house next to ours has a doctors office for methadon therapy and I never had problems with the addicts either. I propably wouldn't walk Görlitzer Park at night and I give our resident schizophrenics a wide berth but generally I always felt very safe.
I lived for four years in Shanghai ,China and I consider it one of the safest places that I've ever visited ,could easily walk at night by myself without being scared ,now living in Europe I miss that feeling. People are different everywhere there were plenty who were ready to help others were more ignorant ,it all depends.
My ex-fiance and I went to mainland china since I was fortunate to be sent to a work conference in Hong Kong and she accompanied me for a few days in mainland prior to my conference (Beijing & Xian). We were literally treated like movie stars and are now in countless photos taken with random Chinese people. I am tall and had long blond hair, she was attractive and generally well dressed. People wondered who we were since we didn't look like "normal" American tourists. IMO, china is a place where the government is evil but the people are generally wonderful.
I understand Mandarin/Cantonese and went to Guangdong for a holiday. Worst holiday ever because I understood how rude they were. When I tried on clothes at a mall shop and didn't find anything which I liked, the sales girls b*tched out loud to each other that I shouldn't be trying anything if I wasn't going to buy anything. At another shop, I asked if they had a certain design in stock. When they offered an alternative, I tried it on, and I could hear them complaining out loud about me being a nuisance just because I asked if they had a particular design in stock. Plus, they did it deliberately loud Mean Girls style, like they wanted you to hear what they were saying. I had people scold ME for exclaiming 'hey!' when THEIR spit accidentally landed on my shoe. One lady in her 20s cut the line when I was just about to pay, and then yelled at me. Ordering food at a semi-popular dessert store meant being body slammed like we were at a mosh pit. I was never so glad to leave a country.
I'm surprised u didn't chance upon locals defecating in the streets. China gives me the shivers..
I have a bachelor's degree in Sinology. 10 years ago I went to China on a scholarship funded by the Chinese government. Having experienced the country and the people, I couldn't imagine working with anything China-related anymore. Completely dropped my Sinology career. No regrets whatsoever.
Load More Replies...I literally would have said that if they had better clothes maybe I would buy it. Obviously they can't make clothes worth a s*** so that's why you're not buying it. Tell them they suck.
This post is hilariously the opposite of another post above this one where one person had a good time in China, yet people are taking their experience at face value. Please learn "just because someone was nice to you doesn't mean they're nice to everyone else they meet, and it doesn't mean the rest of the country is that way. Goes the same for if they were mean to you".
The rudest tourist in my country are the Chinese. Just unbelievable. I have travelled a lot and mostly people are polite and helpful. (O:
We were in China in 1995, we went to a couple very rural cities. We were in a group and we may have been the first white people they had seen. We were obviously a curiosity. People would stop and stare. They were all very nice. We were told that getting into a line was very different in China they do not follow a first come first served. The will push into any line where there is the tiniest gap. We were told to press ourselves to the person in front of us. It was awkward, but we did see several people try to jam themselves into any line. There are plenty of cultural differences. In the places we went everyone was polite and helpful. I was with my husband and we got lost walking one day. The people on the street were more than willing to help us find our way. We had kids call out "Hello" and giggle, they were practicing English.
Went to Montreal once. Just got to the city and stopped in front of a street kiosk with a city map. Within a couple of minutes of staring at it, a woman approached us and asked if we needed help finding anything. She was local. English, but with a French accent.
I was so confused and startled by this random act of kindness, that my initial thought was she was setting us up for something and I started looking behind my shoulder. The concept of a stranger helping us out for no particular reason was so alien to us that we were on guard for something that never happened. Turns out, people are just nice there and we weren't used to seeing it.
The thing is, Quebecois are much nicer to tourists than their own folks from other part of Canada. I was appalled by the numbers of mean comments and snarks, even from 1st and 2nd generation immigrants there, that I wondered if being an AH to non-Quebecois is part of their integration into society.
Quebec and the rest of Canada have a very strained relationship. Quebec is VERY nationalistic and feels they would be much better off promoting their philosophies and history without the rest of country.
Load More Replies...I moved to Montreal from Manitoba, and honestly, I find a lot of older french people just really mean, especially if you cannot speak french. The younger generation doesn't seem to have that much of a chip on their shoulder and I am grateful for that. I've had other friends visit here and say that they will never return because of how rudely they were treated while they were out in public.
If you're English in quebec you are second class they are racist and xenophobic...... lived there for 20 years and their govt is very much like that if you are not "pur Laine " you are nothing
I live in Vermont and spend quite a bit of time in Quebec. In the big cities like Quebec and Montreal, it's not terribly different than traveling to any other big city and you're more likely to encounter bilingual folk. But much of my time is spent in the smaller border towns where English is a rarity, and I've found the easiest introduction is to greet people in French FIRST, then in English. It's like a secret code that tells the Quebecois that, yes I respect their language and no, I sadly don't speak it. It's worked wonders!
Canadians are incredibly nice. I always feel so at home there and like it's the country I should have been born in! We had an experience where our car broke down and the only place we could get it to was an oil change place that was about to close. They took us in and very kindly stayed open late to diagnose the problem and let us stay inside while we waited for a ride. They fixed it for us the next day even though they weren't even a full-service garage! This was in a small town in Ontario. Never would have happened in the U.S.
I do this sort of helpful thing all the time when I see people looking bewildered touring around Boston looking at a map or their phone (Boston being the closest major city to where I live). I am always so appreciative when someone helps me when I travel alone to new places...I just have to pay back the kindness when people visit where I am from! After an initial startled look (particularly if they don't speak English well) we can usually figure each other out and help.
I am formerly from Montreal and moved to Ontario 11 years ago. My two children still live in Montreal and I visit frequently. I LOVE that city. They have the best food, Mount Royal is one of the loveliest of spots and I miss the conversations that you hear everywhere - one person speaking French, the other replying in English and both understanding each other perfectly. Old Montreal is beautiful and quirky and the city has a charm that is hard to beat. Traffic is horrendous but I will always love that city.
I've lived in Canada for 62 years and it's a myth that the Quebecois are rude to non-French visitors; I was always treated very kindly and they sure know how to feed you....you can stop at a truck stop for breakfast & that will be the best bacon & eggs you've ever had
We also asked the expert for some tips on how travelers can have better experiences with locals when abroad.
"Definitely try and 'blend in' as much as possible during your trip by learning some basic phrases of the local language (and possible responses!) beforehand," Alyse says. "Find out any cultural differences (for example, why you should never show the soles of your feet in some Asian countries), catch trains outside of rush hours with luggage where possible, dining etiquette, and cover up appropriately at any places of worship."
"And overall, try to keep our voices down. No one likes an annoying tourist, but we can amplify the positive aspects of tourism through thoughtful exchanges with locals," she added.
Nicest? New Zealand by far.
Worst? Isreal. Arrogant and mean.
you have to watch out for the tricksy little hobbitses though.
Load More Replies...Oh my word, yes, Israel is known for being extremely rude. But yet extremely hospitable on an individual level. It's such a paradox. So, at public institutions, airports and ticket offices etc, expect the absolute worst, but if someone welcomes you into their home - oy, you'll never want to leave!! I think a lot of Arab countries are also the same. My friend who was raised in Cairo and travelled extensively in the Middle East certainly used to say so.
Israelis may not smile at you (esp in the big cities), but they will take a bullet for you - literally. And will often go out of their way for you in other ways. Sort of like the difference between CA and NYC - CA is nice, but not always kind, NYC is not always nice, but often unexpectedly kind.
Israelis living outside Israel are like Americans outside the US - they left for a reason. Everyone I met in Israel was a bit harsh. The kindest people could say things that made me shudder. Not surprising, though - almost everyone there lived in a war zone for all of their lives, and many have fulfilled their military service seeing things the rest of us keep firmly in our nightmares.
Visited Israel on a once in a lifetime 4yrs in the planning school trip. I found most people to be very welcoming, nice. We stayed on two different Kibbutz. We did have an armed police escort when we went to certain places. We were advised to when walking around in our groups to have the darker haired and those with darker skin on the outside of the group with the blonde hair girls on the inside to avoid them being touched, mainly their hair. The people there though in the vast majority of the whole? Welcoming but as with any country? Respect protocols, especially in a highly religious country.
I concur with the niceness of NZ, I'm working here for 6 months and cannot wait to come back!
Nicest people - Thailand; people were just friendly and helpful for no gain; I remember the nicest lady who saw we were confused and helped us to cross the street and then she couldn't speak English so she found someone else who spoke English so we could get directions and then made sure we got safely to building.
Runner Up - Wierdly Americans; seemingly always open to starting a conversation and trying to assist you or give you helpful tips
I think Americans get a bad rap due to the fact that most tourist's stick to the big city attractions once you get to small town America it's much different experience.
Americans will talk to anyone, if you like it great. If not it comes off as creepy. I'm prefectly happy to talk to a complete stranger while in line for something.
I was travelling through California in my 20s and was in a tiny town. I'd tried to use the ATM to get cash for the next bus into San Francisco but for some reason it wouldn't take my card, I hadn't had time to get extra cash out at the Greyhound station (and yes, I should've gotten money out the day before!) It was either get cash or miss the bus and sleep overnight in the Greyhound station it was that tight a connection. I went into a bar because the supermarket wasn't open to ask if there was another ATM around? Unfortunately not. "Oh gosh, okay I'll figure it out but can I please use your bathroom?", "Yes, of course!" I went to the bathroom, came back out and they'd had a little whip round and it must've been like a dollar each but they got me into the city! Obviously, I've never forgotten that kindness!
I have found Americans to be incredibly helpful and friendly people. The worst I have ever experienced of Americans is mostly in movies. In movies it seems as if no one can live a normal, peaceful life in America. The good people are always threatened by the criminal, psychotic, anarchic, weird and deranged.
That's great if Americans are nice to tourists-they suck to other Americans in daily life. (American here.)
Problem is with a lot of Americans, they can be real sweet with pleasantries and such, but still batshit crazy zealots under the surface. ie Nice, but not Kind, whereas you go to some places near me and people aren't exactly warm and fuzzy, but we'll jump off a pier to save your drowning tourist a$$ (also just jump off a pier for fun)
I agree. I found Americans very friendly and helpful. Also Canadians.
Depends on the part of the us. Southeast coast? Hell yeah. Southern hospitality is a spectacle to behold. But the southwest? Uhh...just try to be as polite as possible. It's hot and miserable, most people have been living here their whole lives in the heat...it makes some cranky lol
Nicest? Easily Canada- some very nice people up that way!
Meanest was easily Germany, though I did find their rudeness to be almost comical haha. I still like them though and appreciate their blunt manner!
I'm German and I want to apologize to all the people who though that we were rude to them. We Germans are very blunt and compared to the behavior of let's say an American, our normal manners might come across rather rude.
it is called 'efficient'. At least one does not need to try and figure out what you guys have in mind. (I'm Polish and we are even more blunt btw)
Load More Replies...Blunt and rude are not the same. As an English speaker who has many international friends, I would often be offended by how I was spoken to. Then I realized that when English is your second language, the basics learned may come off as blunt. Unless one is fluent in English, the subtleties of conversational English language are often not learned.
I'm a "new German", having got my citizenship in 2017, and have lived here for 20 years. Germans can come across as comically rude to English speakers because of their directness and fondness for blowing raspberries and suchlike. The south is friendlier than the north, generally. But I'm from Yorkshire and I find the fondness for complaining and talking about the weather here in the Hamburg region really reminds me of home. I love the dourness personally and find the southerners a little too friendly! :D I can't speak for the East since I barely dare to go there any more with my multiracial Jewish family... :( (I know #NotAllOssis but we did have a very intimidating experience in Rostock and have never really dared to go back that way.)
I can confirm that Germans' direct, blunt, "no-nonsense" style is often interpreted as rude. However, I had several nice experiences with several German people I met - including the waiters of a restaurant who cheered for me when I managed (with some effort) to order dinner for our group in my very basic German :))
Germany highly dependents on how you behave and where you are. My parents often tell me how rude people are when they make trips, I barely encounter anyone rude. However, regions are very different. I was brought up in an area where language sounds harsh to people not from there but totally normal to oneself. (Noticed this when I met my now-husband who is from the other side of the country.) I also think that where I live now people always sound and act sleepy. Both regions are just 100km apart lol
Are you by chance Franke? We are no chatterboxes and a bit stoic. It seems to be a issue for some, especially if they are from BaWü. On the other hand BaWü is a bit to bright and chatty for me.
Load More Replies...They came from Toronto, amirite? (Full disclosure: born and bred in TO)
Load More Replies...As a German, all I can say is we are direct and honest, often bordering being impolite. Has nothing to do with "mean", though.
Actually I went to Germany in the 60s/70s when I was a kid. Also went in 1990. I never met a rude German. They were all so kind and friendly. I can speak a bit of German and they’re jaws tended to literally drop when I showed I understood what they were saying and managed to answer them.
Finally, Alyse suggests to "try and opt for small businesses as much as possible rather than global conglomerates during your trip."
"This helps to keep tourism money within the local community who rely on it, rather than it being sent offshore," she explained. "This applies to restaurants, accommodation, retail, traditional handicrafts and cultural experiences... As tourists, we have the power to funnel our money to where it is needed most."
And if you're looking for even more travel advice from Alyse, be sure to visit The Invisible Tourist or check out her book!
Morocco for both. Had some of the most obnoxious dumba**es harass us but on the other hand had the one of the best meals of my life offered for free by the nicest strangers I’ve ever met one Ramadan there.
I prefer to remember the second but I can see how others would not. And that’d be every bit as reasonable.
That's right as regards to Morocco. A very friendly country but be careful when traveling alone as a Western woman. When I was a kid I remember having to tell an American friend of ours to not speak English too loud because us two (females) were the attraction of the souk, with grown ups men staring and making very lewd comments.
Not defending their comments by any stretch...but I think that the men learning at women and making comments is unfortunately universal no matter what culture. I admit that sometimes people of my gender can be pigs.
Load More Replies...Totally agree.. I (male Scandinavian) hated Tangiers for the constant harassing.. Been there twice and second time my then girlfriend refused to leave the hotel and wanted to go back to Spain.. I convinced her that once we travelled south from Tangiers, things were better, which is true.. Spent 4 months in Morocco.. Gorgeous country and great people but DO expect harassing and getting scammed.. as in any poor country with a different view on women..
Yeah, plain, older, overweight woman catcalled multiple times in Morocco, never anywhere else and I've been to 29 countries total. Of course left alone when I hired a guide for a tour of the souk. My solution, ignore them so hard, it would make them doubt they even existed. They want attention? It's a power move to withhold.
Morocco was lovely, vibrant, beautiful, amazing food, but you definitely do get a sense of being a second class citizen as a woman, unfortunately. But Paradise Valley near Agadir was 100% worth the visit. Stunning place.
This is the case in most of the Middle Eastern/Middle East-adjacent countries I've traveled to as a woman. There will be street harassment, especially if you're alone. However, the hospitality and kindness is also above and beyond. This comment based on travel to Turkey, Georgia, Armenia, Lebanon, Syria, Jordan and Iraq.
I read somewhere there are parts of the world where, if you are a woman travelling alone, and if you are blonde, you should die your hair brown or black. A lot of the men know western women only from movies and blondes were made only for sex.
Morocco was amazing, but I was with a small tour group and I am a guy. Very welcoming culture. You truly feel you have insulted them if you don't pause for a cup of tea at their shop or have a small sweet with them. Sure, they do this because we are tourists in a shop where they want us to spend money. But usually their questions while sipping tea are inquisitive and genuine.
Morocco was most awful experience ever. angry, harassing and scheming men
A gay couple and a single woman in Marrakech, we ended up partying with the locals on New Years Eve after our booked dinner was over and done with. Great experience!
I haven't been to all that many foreign countries, but I thought New Zealanders were quite nice. Sarcastic and teasing at times, but nice in general. I got really, super-bad vibes in Rwanda, like I was hated. That was difficult.
Rwanda is gonna depend on when you went. The country has done a lot healing. You should visit, because it's beautiful and ridiculously clean (they completely banned single use plastics). But don't go dragging things up, because half the population are too young to remember, and the other half are trying to move on. Since the mid-late 2000's Rwanda has been a place of peace, growth, hospitality; And it's people reflect that beautifully.
Our government in the UK (in their wisdom- NOT) had a plan in place to fly illegal immigrants to a special centre in Rwanda. After much political shenanigans and protests from the public, the plan quietly disappeared. Maybe you caught that vibe?
We were also lucky enough to get in touch with King Siu of Travel, Eat, Drink to hear about some of his experiences with locals around the world. "I’ve been to over 30 countries on six continents, and I’m happy to report that I’ve found friendly people everywhere I’ve been," the travel expert shared.
"There were definitely spots where I wasn’t sure what kind of reception I’d receive, but that was less about whether I thought I would find friendly people there and more about whether they would be friendly towards me," King noted. "There were many reasons for my hesitations, but the main two were how they would react to someone of my ethnicity (as an Asian, I kind of stand out everywhere I go outside of Asia), and how they would feel about a foreigner in general, as geopolitical issues can create tension."
Nicest was Indonesia , so friendly and genuinely so. I’ve been many times and always have the same experience (touristy parts of Bali exempt)
Most unfriendly , Israel. They just looked so miserable all the time and any time I tried to start a chat I just got a dead eyed stare back at me.
well if you went shortly after october 7th or around one of the sad holidays (tisha b'av, yom hashoah, yom hazikaron are the big 3 - in order, 'general sad day in Judaism, allegedly both temples fell on that day among other things, also historically some Bad Stuff happened then too...google it, also it's a fast day and it's hard to be happy when you can't eat or drink', 'holocaust remembrance day', 'veterans' day, but very different to the US') yeah they're going to be sad. In my experience Israelis tend to be about normal, definitely not like that.
Wouldn't it be quicker to list the few 'happy' days?
Load More Replies...I cant speak for Israel, but in a lot of cultures it's weird to just start up a convo with a stranger.
no. It´s the most normal thing to do. It´s the fundamental of being a human being. Stop excusing israelis for the persons they are.
Load More Replies...Can you blame them. They are surrounded by a billion enemies. Anyone can be someone carrying a bomb in the name of their god. You try living like that
oh these bad and evil countries, going and establishing their states around israel, desclaring themselves as "enemies" ts ts t s
Load More Replies...Literally Israel is one of the most alive places I have ever been. The only thing Abt it that sucks is customer service
Ice travelled so much in Israel and always had a great time... That being said I did learn Hebrew. So that helps a lot. But with the sheer influx of tourists all the time, a lot of people a weary. I feel the same towards people treating my home city like an outdoor museum when I have stuff to do and no patience for tourists standing in my way.
Like I said above, Israel may not be super friendly, but they will go out of their way for you. Ex: an older guy asked me for directions and I said apologetically that I didn't know. I started to walk away and another passerby said 'good health to you' (that's like a southerner saying 'bless your heart'). I realized later that it's a total faux pas and sign of not caring that I didn't stay with him until we both found someone who could direct him properly. Didn't make that mistake again. Again - would compare it to NYC, warm and kind people, but not always overtly friendly.
ISRAEL is contantly under attack? Hmmm maybe because they went there before 60 years and occupied a country and maintaining an apartheid state? hmmm who could guess
Load More Replies...well, indonesia is a big county, and each island has its own vibe....java is less friendly...or i should say jakarta...though yogyakarta is very friendly....
King says that, for the most part, he's been very surprised by how much he's been ignored while traveling. "Whether I’m wandering alleys in Egypt, markets in Colombia, or small towns in Australia, I’m generally left alone," he told Bored Panda. "The exception being if I’m in a super touristy area, because then I’m mobbed like a celebrity as they try to sell me stuff. However, the locals I’ve engaged with in every country have typically been quite friendly, even when there is a language barrier between us."
Ireland = nicest, I was surprised as I'm English but everyone was very friendly. France = rudest.
Edit: Runners up for nicest, Greece.
My experience with the French is: They're super nice, if you're being nice to them. And it's easy to come across rude to a French person without intending to do so. Make sure to know some expressions in French and always greet them in French, even if you continue the conversation in English. That shows them that you respect their language and culture. And always greet the shopkeeper when you enter a shop.
Living in France now, I agree: I've seen foreigners behaving like shіt even when the French switch to English trying to help them. No hello, no thank you, nothing. And they play surprised when the French stop helping. You don't even need to know any French word, just be polite and they'll try their best for you.
Load More Replies...Greece, my love! But apart from the spirituality we share, there was a very palpable reason: a few months before, there were big, devastating wildfires around Athens. Romania sent several well-equipped firefighter teams; their help was significant, and they were praised in the local press. So when we told our hosts we're from Romania, they were overjoyed. We were treated like royalty.
yeah, its true that we have a loooooot of morons in France, a lot, but i wish there was more precision on that statement : Paris i guess ? Because i'm in the Pyrenees, mediterranean side, and my neighbors are english, and they love it here. Gotta love that brexit right ? They tried italy, spain but they prefer france. And there's at least 3 other houses with english people living in, in my little 1600 people village. And no, they're not in vacation, they live here. I'm not downvoting this statement, i get it.
Paris and Nice (2 different trips). We hardly found anyone willing to help us (information, directions) or to speak English. Or to understand the very simple sign language. We even tried other languages we happened to know, like Spanish and German (quelle horreur! :)))
Load More Replies...Even the French say Parisians are super rude, to they point they can spot them when they travel. It's like an inside stereotype. In the Pays Basque and Aquitaine I haven't met any outstandingly rude people, and very few in Bretagne.
Greece for the win! Came back from Crete a couple of weeks ago and miss it dearly
Greece in general and Crete specifically is a bucket list trip for me. Ancient Greek mythology is fascinating
Load More Replies...Okay only on #17 but I'm going to say? You get rude people everywhere! No matter what country, city, town etc! I've been rude to tourists here before now because they wouldn't move!!! I'd been saying a few times "Excuse me, sorry need to get past!" with a smile and getting a blank looks back! Then after the 5th time of asking, said loudly, "WILL YOU PLEASE MOVE ASIDE?" 😄 As with any tourist city? If you're visiting, please remember that people do actually live there. We need to get to work, do our food shopping or attend appointments etc. Try to be mindful of the people who live there. If you're nice and polite towards the locals? That's when you might get little nuggets of advice on where to go for a good cheaper meal in a little side street pub or the best way to get somewhere! 😉
I've heard Paris is often rude. not been to Paris, but been to other parts of France. my stepdad recently went to Ireland and it sounds like people were mostly lovely there
I’ve met very friendly French people. I think if you show you are trying to speak their language they appreciate it. I think it’s the height of rudeness to go to someone else’s country and expect them to speak your language.
Taiwan is awesome and the people are super welcoming and nice
I've not been to Taiwan, but my university in the US was relatively popular with Taiwanese students we had probably 300 out of a total enrollment of around 4000. They were almost all exceptionally nice and polite, if a bit shy. We also had students from several Balkan countries and that was hit or miss - for every amazing guy from Dubrovnik who got along with everyone there was a creeper from Belgrade who was a dedicated misanthrope. One of my favorite memories of university was when a Taiwanese student (probably 4'9"/150cm) got paired as roommate with a Slovenian member of the university's volleyball team (maybe 6'6"/200cm), became inseparable friends and went everywhere together.
I almost got pickpocketed by a group of teenagers. Ended up following them to see what they were up to. Funny enough, they were operating from a beauty parlor.
I totally agree, I lived in Taiwan for 6 years and 99.9% of people are absolutely lovely.
"I’ve also found that the more a place differs from where I am from, the friendlier the people tend to be towards me," King pointed out. "Logically, one would assume that it would be the other way around, but that’s not what I’ve found."
"When I stayed in a favela in Rio de Janeiro (which is probably the scariest thing I’ve done to-date, and not something I recommend you do without doing extensive research and taking the proper precautions), once I got over the possibility that I could be killed or kidnapped and got to know the people in that neighborhood, I would say that they turned out to be some of the friendliest and most generous people I’ve ever met," he shared.
Meanest in Morocco, lots of catcalling and no respect for personal space. Nicest I am going to say America from personal experience.
We were in the US in 1997 & again in 1999. Everyone was friendly, helpful & especially interested in what we thought of the US
We have a lot of issues as a country, but most of us really do try to be kind to everyone. I have had tourists ask me for help while trying to speak English and apologizing. I always tell them they don't need to apologize and that their English is better than my (insert language). Once I was traveling for work in Chicago and while waiting for a place to open overheard a French family talking about trying to find a place (THEY WANTED TO GO TO WENDY'S 🤣) - I understand it far better than I speak it. Eventually they walk up to me and the dad is trying to ask me if I know where it is. I respond in (my not great) French that I don't know where it is, but give me a moment and I will ask someone. The look on his face was great! I'm sure my French was sloppy af, but it still surprised him. (I did find where it was and got them directions.)
Load More Replies...We're not all bad. Some of us are really f*cking cool. (Limited, depending on locale).
I have to say that including America as one place on this list is just plain silly. I've been to the states a few times and as far as the friendly of the people is concerned it differs hugely from place to place. Las Vegas, everybody we came into contact with felt so much like a piece of plastic, the same with LA. However, the people we met in NY were great, really helpful and seemed genuinely happy to chat and help.
I think most of us Americans are, in general, nice ..can't speak for the bigots tho
Best: Japan. By far the worst of what I’ve experienced: Turkey. God I hate everything about that country.
That's weird re. Turkey - and again, it may depend on several aspects. I travelled to Turkey (Istanbul), wandered through the streets alone (including the great bazaar), and people were all nice and helpful. I was once mistaken for a local by somebody who asked me for directions.:))) We got lost once, it was already dark and police escorted us to the hotel when we told them we were tourists. I asked why they bothered, and they responded that tourism was vital for their country, and they made sure tourists were safe, so they'd want to return and share positive experience to others.
Yeah, been several times to Turkey, not really sure what this person's problem was.
Load More Replies...I had a great time in Turkey! Though I was a bit annoyed in Istanbul, where it seems I was stopped every 20 feet by people trying to engage me in conversation so they could sell me carpets hahaha!
LOL. True story: one of my classmates went from being a drùg dealer to being a rug dealer.
Load More Replies...Wow! I have been to Turkey maybe 15 times. I love the nice people there!
I agree and find it unfortunate you had a bad time in Turkey. Been 4 or so times and found the nicest, friendly people. Other winners, Japan, Canada, Ireland.
Ive only been to Turkey once ( Istanbul ) and loved it. Wandered around on my own and felt perfectly comfortable. Of course the shop owners try to get you in, but it's just polite fun. Wonderful food and friendly people. I'm an Aussie and the Turks love Aussies even though we tried to invade their country in WWI.
Turkey has more history on a single block than than the entirety of North America. A great country and I found it friendly. But you also must demand your personal space as merchants will definitely get in your face. Istanbul is one of my favorite cities.
Love, love Istanbul. EVERYONE we met both times was warm, welcoming, and kind.
Can't just say u hate a country without at least context on why u hate it. I've travelled Turkiye & i loved everything about it - the food, the ppl, the places & especially the experiences!
"People are naturally curious, and the opportunity to learn new things and have a new experience in a safe environment brings out the best in people," King says. "This isn’t like someone trying something new because that often puts someone in an uncomfortable situation, and people don’t like feeling vulnerable. In this scenario, they are in their comfort zone as the local dealing with you, so there is no feeling of losing control to deter them from the experience."
The French. I am not a huge world traveler so I'm no authority, but in my experience the French folks I met were not very friendly, and liked to make fun of people and any attempts to speak their language."
Ive read that japanese people often need treatment for ptfsd (post traumatic france stress disorder), and the embassy in france will help send people home earlier because of this.
If people are used to courtesy in public, it can feel really personal when someone is rude. Someone from the American south told me he was upset by rudeness in New York and Paris, but really liked Munich.
Load More Replies...I'm English and moved to France 5 years ago. We live in the country. The locals are so lovely, friendly and helpful. We've been invited to neighbor's houses numerous times, even though I can hardly speak the language. But even here, they don't like Parisians because they're so rude. It's not all of France that's horrid, just the cities - same as anywhere on Earth really.
I only had one waiter in France who kept trying to correct me and wouldn't listen to my question. But there were many times the people would let me practice with them and helped with my pronunciation and wording. They seemed to appreciate my effort. My wife's BFF was with us the last time and only knew a few words, but always said bon jour, merci, and au revoir... she had a great time and can't wait to get back!
No French person would "make fun" of you for trying to speak French. They may very well not understand you though - quite a lot of words are close enough that mispronunciation can cause genuine confusion, and for anglos some of the rules like accents and er, et, es endings are counter-intuitive.
In Paris I experienced rudeness, and I'm always a very respectful traveler. Outside of Paris people were lovely! Maybe it's just a big city thing like NYC.
My mom swears the French were so thankful to Americans for WWII, they still comment about it...
We laugh at tourists trying to pronounce Dutch wordd too. Try saying "Spui".
That's the literal translation of the Romanian phrase "You are saying/ You say" :)
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Philippines is very friendly to travellers. The rudest I'd say were France and Belgium. I honestly can't say I was really personally impacted by that, but coming from Canada it was quite shocking to see how rude some service staff could be to customers.
Ah I bet this Canadian is a Quebecois and tried speaking h French in Belgium and France.
As with most languages, this is a difference in dialect. Quebec French is also different from New Brunswick French. No reason for anybody to get uppity about it
Load More Replies...Having just done a conference in Amsterdam I can confidently say that Dutch people are never in a hurry. ;) And I'm jealous of how much vacation time they get.
When I travel, I forget I'm Canadian and how typically Canadians are viewed. It doesn't necessarily matter to everyone. I know people in UK, who live close to an airport, they've told me they find Canadian men more obnoxious than American men. It depends on your personality and how well you can blend in with the local culture. In Germany, I was called a "crazy person" by a German airport gate attendant (not sure the right job title) because I thought I was about to miss a connecting flight and ran through the airport, along with another lady. (There was a gate change while I napped.) I sorta laughed though. He wasn't super mean about it. Germans in Munich don't seem to like panicking and loudness.
Note that they mentioned rude service staff... Belgians can be nice, but never while they're serving you! ;p
Slightly OT, because not Belgium but Italy, but when I was in Rome I felt I could have found the next big tourist attraction by the service staff's behaviour (and the coffee prices): the closer you got to the Trevi fountain or the Colosseum, the more personal the waiters took it when you inconvenienced them by trying to order a drink. On the plus side I saved about 20 bucks (three cups of coffee) when one of them disappeared after I ordered, never to return. I hadn't seen the prices beforehand, and when after 15 minutes of waiting no drinks were forthcoming we just left (and found the Trevi fountain one cross street over).
Load More Replies...We also asked King about any experiences he's had with locals who weren't particularly welcoming. "In my experience, their unfriendly attitude towards foreigners often stems from the fact that the foreigners are being disrespectful," he noted. "Usually, it’s not on purpose, but when you’re traveling to a new place, especially if they have a different culture or religion, make sure you do your research about the local customs and behaviors. I’m sure we’ve heard of the extreme cases where idiotic tourists damage historical or religious monuments, but sometimes it’s just simple things like talking too loudly or eating on public transit."
"When you’re traveling, you are a guest, and just as you’d behave yourself and do your best to not be an idiot when you’re visiting a friend’s house, it’s your job to know how not to upset people who live in the places you visit," the expert added.
Vietnam is probably the friendliest place ive been.
South Vietnam was lovely. North Vietnam was... confronting. This was 20 odd years ago, but the outright hatred, abuse, rudeness, snide comments and attempts to completely rip you off if you are white were awful. I understand the impact the Vietnam war had on the people in the North and tried really hard to be patient and kind in the face of the racism but it was hard. The good thing to come out of it was that I have a much better understanding of my privilege being a white person living in a western country.
Being born in a country that hasn't been tormented is nice (new zealand) but choosing to hold that generations later just proves they're lesser humans, moving on is essential for PTSD.
Load More Replies...I learned a trick for traveling in the northern parts of Vietnam (20+ years ago). I'd introduce myself as follows: 'Hello, I'm from [insert any country that is not the USA or Australia]'. You probably wouldn't need it now. Lovely people, lovely food.
Extremely friendly but young people are focused on economic stability and work hard. This may come across in markets as indifferent but it should not be seen as disliking North Americans. I spent 3 weeks there and loved every minute, especially Hanoi.
For me thus far, nicest: Denmark. I don't think I met a rude person once. They score very high on reported happiness quizzes. Close second would be Costa Rica.
Meanest: France, but I still wouldn't say they were mean. People in the Loire valley were great, Parisians were a little less nice. But still much nicer than the stereotype, which I think comes from Americans who believe that everybody understands English if you just slow it down and shout it.
Stereotype does not come from Americans. I'm from the Netherlands and I feel that here it's either you love em or you hate em (the French)
Now I get your previous comments lol ;). There are a few French people who indeed hate the Dutch for no specific reasons, and Dutch people who hate the French. I have no clue where it comes from. But the vast majority of us have no specific hatred whatsoever and all the Dutch people I met were cool with me (even as a French woman lol), even made some longtime friends. I feel like a lot of stereotypes come from confirmation bias, if you've been told that people of this country are awful, the first time you'll meet an actual moron you will believe that the whole country is like that. It's ok for you to hate us ;) we'll just not return the favor.
Load More Replies...I find the French "explainable". The people in Paris act in the any anyone anywhere in a World class city acts: busy! They simply just don't have time for us Rubes to be in their way. They are not necessarily trying to be rude, it just comes from the territory (e.g. London, Hong Kong, NY). I've found the people outside of Paris to be quite middle on the nice / rude scale.
Costa Rica for the Win. Absolutely amazing people. We did hear from a lot of the locals about some dangerous places and people, but they assured us that ALL the trouble came from Nicaraguans. But we never encountered any trouble.
I have been to parts of France, which were fine, but I've heard Parisians can be very rude. and unlike a lot of countries you are likely to be looked down on for trying to speak the language, whereas elsewhere people tend to appreciate that you're at least trying.
I stayed in Paris for a week's holiday in a small hotel. We spoke French to the Receptionist and I got the feeling he was sneering at us the whole time. As we were checking out, he spoke perfect English to us (2 f in our early 30s, my cousin obviously 5 months pregnant). It certainly annoyed us. So rude.
Reading that about Denmark made me smile... I had a good friend from Copenhagen, I wish we'd had longer 'together'. (I don't mean that in a couple sense, it was purely platonic on both sides.) RIP boss x
I think what OP meant was that French people from Paris are generally a bit ruder, but other regions from France are nicer.
Load More Replies...King also recommends that tourists be extra mindful of respecting the local religion when traveling.
"Just because a place shares the same language and many of the same values, don’t assume that you don’t need to be mindful of how you’re behaving," he added. "Even in the U.S., acceptable behaviors can differ greatly across the country. It’s often more difficult because everything is so similar, yet some things are completely different. Take, for example, attitudes on public transit. Someone in Florida would think you’re crazy for taking public transit, but in NYC, it would not even be a topic of conversation."
Thailand. Nicest people.
Even the scammers do it with a smile. So many scammers targeting tourists, and they hike up the cab fare when you are non-Asian.
This tends to be true for Tuk-tuks much moreso than full taxicabs, which mostly have set prices established and automatically in the meters, required by tourist police/gov't. We lived in Thailand 4 years and had a terrific experience there.
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The meanest is probably Manila Philippines. I've been there 3 times and every time I encounter the coldest least friendly people I've ever met. I heard good things about other places away from Manila so I'll have to experience that first.
Interesting, I don't remember coming across any rude Filipinos in Manila.
I think it depends who you're with. My husband was born in the Philippines, raised in the UK, and when we go with his family, we're treated like family by everyone. Everyone rolls out the red carpet, particularly for me the white wife (EEEEEEEKKKKK!!! makes me so uncomfortable). There is a certain aloofness sometimes, and there is a lot of superstition which can be a problem. For LGBT+ travellers, much of Asia is fine but it's very "out of sight, out of mind" - but that goes for any PDAs, even for straight people. Also if you're not Catholic some older people might have an issue but generally it's live and let live.
Understandable. The Philippines and Philippinos are absolutely amazing and welcoming. Not Manila though. I got stranded there on an extremely sponateous visit there and even though I met nice people, the city itself was a shithole and I saw some horrible things there (e. G. Police "encountering" street prostitutes)
I agree, the poverty I saw in the city was extraordinary. But I can't say that anyone was rude, even the desperate beggars I came across
Load More Replies...Been to about 30 countries (didn't bother to count after the tenth. Even Morocco and it's souks had me for a time) so I'll go with comes to mind immediately. Friendliest, hands down, is Japan. Worst, as in gives you the creeps, is Cuba. Not the people, mind you. But the experience itself - from visa issuances without receipts, dingy hotels, the internet system, the two-tiered currency system, up to the Orwellian experience of hearing people being called to the security office at the Departure Area of the airport. Was able to breathe freely when I was sure we were out of Cuban airspace.
That’s really surprising. You must have done something totally obnoxious for a Filipino to be mean to you. Honestly!
"If people are reacting badly to you, it’s not usually because they are unfriendly, it’s usually because you’ve done something they view as wrong or unusual," King pointed out. "Before you start attacking me for blaming you for someone else being unfriendly, I want you to think about the last time you judged a tourist for doing something you thought was annoying or offensive and how you’d treat that person if they immediately started to talk to you after the offending incident."
"If you’re American and reading this, I want you to think about what you thought or shouted the last time you were driving and someone with an out-of-state license plate did something stupid on the road," he added.
Nicest customer service: Mexico
Friendliest locals: South Africa, Southern USA
Worst customer service: Russia
Least friendly locals: Northeastern USA.
My dad has a bun face (you go to the bakery and they slip in a free bun for the wee laddie). He seems to bring out the best in people wherever he goes, no matter how harassed or cross they may be. But not in Russia.
In the Northeast, we're a little more reserved. But the friendliness in the south is fake, fake, fake. "Bless your heart" might sound sweet, but it actually means "F*** you."
Yeah, the South scares me, my autistic a$$ couldn't survive there. But our New England bluntness is perfect for me. Plus, we may not be warm and fuzzy, but we'll legit save your life (tourists can be REALLY dumb). Except Bostonians, it's everyone for themselves there.
Load More Replies...Ireland. Hands down. One of the women in our tour group had unexpectedly lost her husband (who was supposed to go with her) and had a small container with some of his ashes. She asked our guide if there was a quiet spot she could scatter them. He called his uncle and he picked up a bunch of us in his carriage and took us to a beautiful park. The driver in the carriage behind us asked why we'd stopped. He then proceeded to whip off his cap and sing the most beautiful, soulful rendition of Danny Boy I have ever heard. We learned later that Uncle D was deaf as a post and not really supposed to be taking carriages out!
Lol I'm from Northeastern PA, and we can definitely be unfriendly to outsiders. Depending on the towns, but most are very close-knit - even larger towns like Scranton. We all look out each other, and tend to look at outsiders as a threat. Now, the lake regions are unfriendly because of people form New York and New Jersey. They are coming, working remotely from the city (started with Covid), and buying the locals out. They're buying the homes and turning into AirBNBs and second properties. In turn, the few homes available are rising to ridiculous rates. It's a country area. There shouldn't be one bedroom apartments for $1000!! Our groceries have gone up, disproportionally more than the rest of the US. I work in local government, and they are killing our funding for the poverty-stricken locals. Because their median pay makes it look like the area is much more well-off than it is. Because everyone hates what's happening, any tourist is immediately included in the "them" category.
Haha, PA might as well be the deep south from where I live, but the locals being pushed out is definitely a huge problem here too. A lobsterman shouldn't have to drive an hour everyday to get to the coast.
Load More Replies...I'm from Massachusetts originally and I can agree with that. Lots of mean people and racists to boot.
If you'd like to have better experiences with locals when traveling, King suggests doing your research before and finding out what behavior is acceptable (and what is not).
"If you’re traveling for work, research the local business customs. Do you need to arrive at meetings half an hour early or bring a gift? Think about the types of interactions you will be having in that place, and find out how to behave so that you don’t offend everyone around you," he explained.
But this doesn't mean you can't be yourself when traveling, King says. "It just might be a modified version of you," he noted. "If you think that changing yourself for the situation will be too suffocating and take all the fun out of traveling, I promise that you will have more fun as this modified version of yourself surrounded by friendly people, than the authentic you surrounded by a crowd of hostile locals."
Spain, France, and Ireland have the kindest people in my experince. Germans, Poles and Czechs are very nice too, but as an American they can come off a bit cold/ awkward.
Dublin does have small roving bands of hoodlums that you have to watch out for but people in Ireland are by and large very friendly and easy going.
France gets a bad rap I think because they get annoyed by people talking at them in English all the time. Learning a bit of French prior to my trip payed dividends as I ended up needing a lot of help from the locals and they were more than willing to oblige.
The UK, specifically London had by far the rudest people I have ever dealt with while traveling.
As a Czech, I can say with certain confidence that this person who found Czechs "nice" was not a person of color / visibly queer or any other flavor of "other".
Lived in London all my life and I love it. In a big city you are likely to find a wide range of personalities.
Load More Replies...I am happy the person put it in perspective to what they are used to. I grew up knowing many US army personal and US preacher families... many used what I consider a customer service voice. I am not shaming this, but it shows we are wired differently.
I am confused by the statement "France gets a bad rap. I think they get annoyed by people talking at them in English all the time", but others say that they laugh and make fun of you when you try to speak French.
"..but as an American they can come off a bit cold/ awkward." That'd be "..TO an American...". The past tense of 'pay' is 'paid', not 'payed'. 'I've let 'experince' go: typos happen. And don't let Londoners cloud your view of the UK. We send all our rude people there to contain them in one place.
King also pointed out that learning the local language can go a long way in creating a friendly environment. "You don’t need to become fluent, as just the basics like hello, thank you, and goodbye will buy you a lot of good will, as it shows you’ve taken some effort to learn about them," he explained.
"Finally, I would like to add that popular culture and media often create a misrepresentation of places beyond our borders, so keep that in mind and give each new place you visit the benefit of the doubt," the travel expert shared.
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Most Irish people and Japanese are welcoming and humble.
When I went to Vietnam, a vendor slapped my hand for giving the wrong amount of money.
In Israel, the woman at the bus station slammed my change down so hard on the metal counter that it ricocheted off and hit me in the face! I had to laugh because it was so stereotypical of the Rude Israeli! But most people weren't like that - we had some amazing times staying on kibbutzim and with locals of all religious and cultural stripes.
Hopefully you have the humanity to boycott Israel and anything Israeli from now on
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I’m French (not from Paris).
I haven’t been all around the world yet, but so far, the nicest people I met were….Americans. All over the East Coast, from NYC to Key West, I met a lot of really outgoing and friendly people, always willing to help out or eager to chat.
And the meanest, I’d say Italians. I always felt like they were a little rude.
not from paris ! See ? Its like an insult for us : " ah non, je ne suis pas parisien, s'il vous plait ! "
Many years ago I was (in a French ski resort) leading a bunch of skiers when two very rude French guys pushed past us in the queue for a drag lift. Not worth arguing, and I'm in uniform so don;t want to make a scene, but when we all got to the top these two guys were stood there waiting for their wives who had been more patient. Anyway, so I've got my back to them, talking to my group prior to setting off, saying very loudly in English "Yes they must have been Parisians". Apparently the looks on their faces was a picture - gets them coming and going, whether they were Parisians or not they realised they'd been behaving like the stereotype.
Load More Replies...Last place I traveled was southern Spain and most of the people were very friendly. I’m from the US and it’s not uncommon for many of us to nod or say hello to passerby’s. Just a friendly hello. In most places I’ve visited in Europe, people don’t like that but southern Spain seemed very welcoming and happy in return.
I did Greece in summer, everyone, everywhere was fantastic.
As for mean or nasty folks. Well you get them everywhere (except Greece).
Nicest people - Philippines (yet to meet anyone that isn’t kind or welcoming)
Meanest people - Russia (not everyone, but few people seemed to care about anything at all… strange).
I'm pretty certain I wouldn't want to be a Russian. To all Russian Pandas, stay safe my dears.
I'm latino. Germans treated me terribly. Malaysians loved me and were all super nice.
Malaysians are naturally friendly and inquisitive about foreign visitors.
This might sound strange but I find Americans the nicest.
I mean I suppose it depends where, but in general you are all such a welcoming happy bunch it makes me feel uncomfortable as a moody Brit when you engage me in conversation and I’m like, eh alright hi 😂.
It's sad that OP thinks it "might sound strange" to find Americans to be the nicest
I would rank the nicest folks in El Salvador, Japan, Thailand and Denmark.
Rudest, possibly Belgium but I was only in Brussels and sick and had trouble navigating the health care system. Not so much rude as just...not friendly. Probably not a good sample, though.
Irish, Americans, and Brits are all very friendly people, and accommodating when you're a tourist. Most recently, felt very welcome on the Central Coast of California and into Santa Barbara. In fact, most places we went to greeted you with a "welcome in".
I've traveled internationally for 45+ years( 55F American) and I've found warm, friendly, welcoming people everywhere except Italy. Special shout out to Ireland!
I keep seeing Italy as being rude but I received nothing but nice treatment from the locals I encountered.
Rudest is unarguably Hong Kong. Of the three times I've visited I've always had a sh*tty encounter
Bosnia was a hugely friendly and welcoming place.
Everyone mistakes Japan's social politeness policy for niceness.
Female who has been traveling since my early 20s:
So far the friendliest , most genuine , people were in Mexico.
A certain less famous Caribbean island felt dangerous and like everyone wanted something from me or to take advantage of me (I was young with nothing to offer even).
Japan experiences have been mixed with surprisingly more negative than positive.
It's hard to say any place I've been so far had solidly mean people... though I've traveled to mainly non- Caucasian majority countries .
Anyone who respects and practices his society's standards for social politeness is being nice enough for me.
Best: southern Spain. I really don't know if it's the same all over the country. I had quite the opposite impression of Madrid, for instance, but southern Spain has wonderful people, full of humanity, and the strongest culture I have experienced anywhere. People there work to live, not live to work.
Shout out to America, too. I experienced some of the friendliest, most hospitable people ever over there. It was a bit overwhelming.
Worst: Morocco. Constant, unrelenting harassment. Saudi Arabia was bad too, because the people could be threatening or cheat you - but they could also be the opposite, so I can't pass judgement.
Friendliest would be Bali, meanest would be Egypt.
Croatia was the worst experience by far, and the only negative one i’ve ever had. Maybe surprisingly the US was the best, i was shocked by how kind and helpful everyone was. i’m european, F, and i look mixed (asian-latin + white).
balkaners are very friendly, they only get upset with you if you're rude
Oh wow, Croatia has always been extremely kind to us! We've had so many great times joking with people, going on random boat trips, being invited for coffee...!
Lived in Italy a bit - pretty bad. as a woman, men were AWFUL. Catcalled and everything for first time in my life and I was a young student. The people also so judgey and rude to foreigners. I once got yelled at a grocery store for putting my basket on the conveyor belt (for a sec so I could reach for my wallet before unpacking). She yelled at me so hard I cried and never returned to the store. So yeah. Lots of bad stories.
Also worst maybe the French in Paris, they’re def sick of tourists understandably. But don’t take it out on em.
Best - are from Philippines! The sweetest people and so welcoming.
Been to ~55 countries —
Nicest:
Turkey, Philippines, Ireland
Meanest:
Egypt (tout overload), India (to each other)
All were worth going to.
In India there’s a lot of diversity and the population is high which is why people act xenophobic to each other
Mexico has the nicest, most laid back people IMO. Germany was the meanest... Very very intense.
I've met lovely people all over, but I would have to say the nicest were Italians. I hit my head at the Vatican and had a flurry of people exclaiming at me with Italian concern. At least I think it was. But the French were also lovely, as were South Africans.
The worst people I've encountered were in the Dominican Republic. They were rude, demanding and condescending everywhere we went.
Weird...DR is the only place I've really been outside the US, and everyone we met there was kind and helpful and fun. We loved it there
Very wrong about Dominican Republic.....I lived there for over a year and they are the most gentle people. The whole country went on strike to oppose rising gas prices and not 1 fight!!!!!!!! Not just nice but integrity through the roof....married a Dominican man and we divorced later in Canada many years later when I was I in trial against the pedophile It offer my ex first 50 thousand US to testify against me He said no and when it went up 100 thousand US He told It to eff off and Die....guess what it committed dooooicide and I celebrated with him!! Love him and his family Forever. ;-)
Oh his family lived in a wooden hut with no running water or electricity, it broke my heart that they "couldn't " take the money!!!
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Nicest: Hawaii
Meanest: New Jersey
We were only in Newark for one night before flying back to the UK, but given how lovely everyone else in every part of the states I've visited has been, New Jersey was a surprise.
Hawai'i really does not care for tourists, and I can understand that as many of the native people are being driven out of their own homes and native lands are being bought up. There are A LOT of anti-tourists campaigns in Hawai'i.
Most of the areas that are close to NY are pretty crappy places in NJ. I'm def not a fan and I love next door in pa and wish they would stop coming over here that's for sure....
When Jerseyites see how crowded their beaches are every summer with out of staters, maybe they hope you'll set the example.
Load More Replies...One of my favourite memories of The States was from Newark airport. Going through security, I get randomly selected (I always do because I look dodgy as f**k), my bag gets swabbed and sets off the machine. I glance at it, it says 'TNT'!!!!!! I start to picture my Irish a**e being carted off to Guantanamo, as I'm "casually" surrounded by security. The first agent calmly explains that it's likely either the batteries for my camera leaking and giving off the reading, or the last person probably didn't clean the machine right. Then the bastard joked, 'Hey, the last guy was on the same flight as you. What are the chances?'. Another agent , searching my bag, said my batteries were good, so the one dealing with me purposefully looks down at his absolutely MASSIVE hands and says, 'Cool! Then we'll just do a quick cavity search and you can be on your way. Would you like it here or a private room?', I asked him if I could see my wife beforehand, in case I don't survive. They were cool people.
I've been to over 20 countries across the world (Germany, UK, France, Belgium, Mexico, multiple Caribbean countries, Canada, Guyana, Brazil). All had nice and not-so-nice people.
Germany was interesting. They weren't the friendliest at the airport and customs and the first time I was there I had this worry that I'd made a big mistake. But I ended up enjoying my stay there because people were very genuine. I got invited to dinners and drinks from almost strangers that I'd met at a hostel. I've been back multiple times.
Mexico had some of the nicest people. Get past the shops which seemed almost cut-throat and abrupt and I met some really beautiful people. Also got invited to dinners and drinks from almost strangers.
Canada was a little disappointing. I think I was expecting everyone to be friendly as with the stereotype. But they were just normal. Bored restaurant staff, bored check-in clerk at the hotel, sort of abrubt service when I was renting gear.
Haiti was pretty bad. Mostly because of very aggressive vendors who literally grabbed my arm and shoved merch in my face. When I said no a couple got angry and almost pushed me out of the way to talk to the next person. But the restaurant staff at the couple places I ate were fine.
Brazil was awesome. Everyone there seemed to treat me like I was some long lost cousin. Oh, but I got my phone stolen.
The last time I was in Germany I got invited to a "theoretical mathematics party", which was a trip and a half. I went, and it was big group of very trendy people of all ages, sitting or standing around, smoking weed or drinking and discussing the kind of math that makes my head want to explode, all while low-volume techno/electronica played in the background. 10/10, would do again.
Goodness me, that's not something you hear every day! (well I don't anyway)
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Best service - Japan, but the people in general were not particularly nice outside of the service industry
Worst - Tunisia, Spain.
Context: I'm Irish and white.
Nicest: Americans, Indonesians, Japanese
Meanest: Australians - though I just think they hate tourists in general.
As a fellow Irish & white, I agree about the Americans. Some parts of Indonesia have nicer people than others. Japan, it's only a society thing, more like manners that actual niceness. As for the Aussies, I think they are kindred spirits. Any group of people that can use the 'C' word properly are golden.
Tourists? Nah mate. Most of the year it's just too damn hot and humid to be polite to anyone, and that's assuming we're not dealing with country-destroying fires or floods. Or both. [eta] That said, the last decade we've had a lot of problems with irish travellers coming here, ripping people off, scamming folk, stealing everything they can get their hands on and starting fights in public. So yeah, we're a little more stand-offish toward the Irish than we are anyone else.
I take it you're talking about 'Irish travelers' AKA what we would normally call 'gypsies' as opposed to actual Irish tourists coming from Ireland to visit your country?
Load More Replies... Friendliest country unironically Iran or Afghanistan. You get invited for dinner almost every day. People are eager to help you, and they take a personal pride in travellers experience of their country. You feel looked after like a beloved relative.
Unfriendliest maybe China, but that can be related to language barrier aswell.
It depends, are you attractive or ugly?
This comment really makes no sense considering each country in the world defines beauty differently.
I think the general idea of beauty is much more standardised now through social media than say, 30 years ago.
Load More Replies...I did find 'Pretty privilege' a thing in Paris. I thought Parisians were really nice and friendly, until my mates pointed out that they were only nice to me.
I am hoping they are referring to a person's personality. Do you have a nice/friendly personality or do you have an ugly and toxic personality.
France is the only country I’ve been to where it doesn’t seem to matter. They can be really rude
My experience - the warmer the climate, the kinder the people.
Considering my likely destination in the hereafter, that's great to know!
So.....everywhere is awesome and sucks simultaneously!! This list isn't very helpful at all. I think I'll go visit with penguins on Antarctica!! 🐧💜
I don't know why people are surprised that people from the USA nice, like that is what they're known for (don't downvote please) :)
My main criterion for deciding on a country to visit is: If things go south, how f***ed am I? Things happen and there are some countries, where the police is no help at all and the law sucks. Whether a waiter is smiling or not is low on my list.
I've never been anywhere where people were so bad it would stop me going back. And though I've only ever been to the southern parts of France, I found people to be universally friendly, and I loved their sense of humour. All in all, I have some cherishable memories of encounters in other countries. It helps if you know a little bit about the culture, so you don't make too many misunderstandings. And I didn't know until today that the Gallic shrug does not have the same meaning as the English one, every day's a school day!
I've found both Canada and the UK to be a mixed bag. Probably because there are nice, accommodating, friendly people everywhere, as much as you'll encounter people on their bad days, or just mean in general. Local people are just people trying to live their lives. Not actors supposed to perform for tourists all the time.
I've been to many countries, and I've had some isolated negative encounters in a few. But there's no place I've been where I've had an overall terrible experience, including some places mentioned in the posts. I honestly can't think of a place I've been where there was an abundance of rude people.
This is such a useless discussion, I've been to about 20 countries and spend between a few days and a few months there. Some countries vibe more with me, some less. I'd say China was by far the friendliest, but I don't understand their language so they might've bitched about me non stop. Did they take selfies with us white Europeans without even asking? Yes, we thought it was funny because my country has strict privacy laws and random people taking selfies with you without asking was a completely foreign concept to me! I totally get why some would see this as incredibly rude (because it is) but I saw it more as quirky.
lots of contradiction from one post to another :) . B country is cool --- B country isnt cool) , i guess beauty is in the eye of the beholder ..... but still, quite funny to read
So.....everywhere is awesome and sucks simultaneously!! This list isn't very helpful at all. I think I'll go visit with penguins on Antarctica!! 🐧💜
I don't know why people are surprised that people from the USA nice, like that is what they're known for (don't downvote please) :)
My main criterion for deciding on a country to visit is: If things go south, how f***ed am I? Things happen and there are some countries, where the police is no help at all and the law sucks. Whether a waiter is smiling or not is low on my list.
I've never been anywhere where people were so bad it would stop me going back. And though I've only ever been to the southern parts of France, I found people to be universally friendly, and I loved their sense of humour. All in all, I have some cherishable memories of encounters in other countries. It helps if you know a little bit about the culture, so you don't make too many misunderstandings. And I didn't know until today that the Gallic shrug does not have the same meaning as the English one, every day's a school day!
I've found both Canada and the UK to be a mixed bag. Probably because there are nice, accommodating, friendly people everywhere, as much as you'll encounter people on their bad days, or just mean in general. Local people are just people trying to live their lives. Not actors supposed to perform for tourists all the time.
I've been to many countries, and I've had some isolated negative encounters in a few. But there's no place I've been where I've had an overall terrible experience, including some places mentioned in the posts. I honestly can't think of a place I've been where there was an abundance of rude people.
This is such a useless discussion, I've been to about 20 countries and spend between a few days and a few months there. Some countries vibe more with me, some less. I'd say China was by far the friendliest, but I don't understand their language so they might've bitched about me non stop. Did they take selfies with us white Europeans without even asking? Yes, we thought it was funny because my country has strict privacy laws and random people taking selfies with you without asking was a completely foreign concept to me! I totally get why some would see this as incredibly rude (because it is) but I saw it more as quirky.
lots of contradiction from one post to another :) . B country is cool --- B country isnt cool) , i guess beauty is in the eye of the beholder ..... but still, quite funny to read
