It would be really hard to escape the influence of American culture if you tried, especially in Western countries. It feels like the media is saturated with American life, starting from cartoons and going on to high school-set TV series, Hollywood movies, sitcoms, drama shows, YouTube channels, and everything in between.
Even though we consume so much content based in the US, there are still some things that raise questions. One Reddit user wondered what non-Americans still don't understand about America, and people flooded the thread with their questions. To be fair, some of the things mentioned are just as confusing to Americans as well.
Over 36k comments later, Bored Panda selected the most popular answers to what foreigners just don't get about the US. If you're from the US, maybe you can answer some of these, and if you aren't, maybe there are some things you'd like our American Pandas to clarify, so feel free to leave your questions in the comments below!
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How people seem to be liberal or conservative and will support their side no matter what bad decisions they're making. In Ireland we frequently change allegiance in terms of political parties and support the ones that are doing the most for the people at that time- we are person centred, not party centred. I could never understand this about America.
I also don’t understand that in America you are party centred, yet they still have to elect a candidate. Most other countries trust the party to put forward their best candidate, and will then vote accordingly. Not subject the people to months of campaigns just to elect one person who will then go on to another round of campaigning. What a waste of time and money.
The length of time our American elections take is 100% insane, no arguments there.
Load More Replies...I'm American and I've *never* understood this. I choose whichever side or party has the best ideas and aligns with my choices. I just don't understand why people blindly vote "their" side.
It’s easy when one side promotes bigotry nonstop? I wish it was different, truly, but my voting is often shaped by the fact that only one political party thinks I’m a person who deserves equal rights. Democrats suck in many ways, but at least *most* of them think I should have bodily autonomy, the right to marry who I want, and the right to be seen as the gender I *truly* am (which is none of them, thanks)
Load More Replies...This is a more recent thing. I'm old enough to remember when it wasn't this way. I think this is the inevitable result of only having TWO parties.
The US has at least a half dozen parties. It's just that two of them get 95% of the votes.
Load More Replies...It's because we have a two party system and the reason why is that we are NOT a parliamentary system. We can't build coalitions and so it becomes one or the other and as a result very tribal. The occasional strong third party candidate in a presidential election siphons votes off of one candidate and helps the other. Our form of government is pretty messed up. Add to that long campaigns, unlimited money in elections and the Electoral College. Our president rarely wins the national popular vote. I would much prefer a form of a parliamentary system.
I’m 62 and, even though my politics are basically liberal, I have also voted for candidates from the other side who I felt were the best person for the job—-better than my own party’s person. I have rarely voted a straight party ticket (all candidates from my party). I think of voting as being like hiring an employee. My tax money pays them, so they actually work for me, as well as the rest of their constituents. So I read up on their backgrounds, which is like reading their resumes, and watch them debate, which I consider to be their interview. I don’t care which party they’re from. All I want is the best, most qualified, and most capable person for the job. Give me a boring, but brilliant and capable candidate, top of their class, who knows all the ins and outs of governing. Not a celebrity, not a personality, not a “name”, not a rich kid who only wants the power and could care less about the people, not a bloviating egotist who thinks personal attacks instead of backing up statements with verifiable facts, and shouting everyone else down means they’re the smartest person in the room. They’re not. They’re just a loud and abusive a*****e—-not the characteristics of a leader.
I honestly can't understand why anyone with a working brain would even consider voting for a Republican these days.
Load More Replies...This is misleading. The majority of Americans are somewhere in the middle and go about their lives not paying attention. Its the loud obnoxious minority of Americans who get the attention.
Politicians keep us divided in order to keep us from turning on them.
"Politicians keep you distracted with petty bullsh!t so you won't notice that big red white and blue d!ck they're shoving up your @ss" ~ George Carlin ~
Load More Replies...According to this description, Ireland sounds like a perfect place. Hope it is close to one.
It doesn't have to be perfect. But in this aspect, it's better.
Load More Replies...Some of us are actually Independents (or other parties). However, if you vote in one of the major primaries because you like a particular candidate, you are automatically registered as being in that political party. During actual elections you vote for whomever you want as all official candidates are listed (there is an area for write in candidates). Unfortunately, Independents and other parties don't have primaries
When you are brainwashed, you end up voting against your own best interest to support those who do not have your best interest .
Healthcare and higher education prices. Isn’t having healthy and educated population is what society would benefit from the most?
A large part of "the American Dream" replies on social and class distinction. Even many of those at the lower end of the scale believe that a system that rewards success is good, even if they themselves aren't benefiting from it. Free healthcare and education for all is seen as a bad thing because it removes the incentive to work well and improve one's position in the hierarchy. Nonsense, I know, but seems to be at least a part of the reasoning.
Load More Replies...The US spends more per capita on healthcare than any other country, while coverage is less than developed country level. That would suggest that "socialized" healthcare could cover everyone AND be cheaper than American healthcare is now. Don't fall for the "nothing is free" argument, socialized healthcare isn't free, nobody ever said it's free, it's paid for by taxes. But your private insurance would be zero. And access when you need it costs anything from nothing to a token payment. None of that $100,000 co-pay.
Plus ask anyone around you if they would kind paying 5% more each chfck but have no more insurance payments or premiums. No or tiny (I pay less than $5/visit in Korea) copay when you go to the doc. No more fighting with insurance to pay. No more having to do stupid tests or PT BEFORE you get a much needed MRI? How about 10%? It becomes clear real fast who doesn't want to pay more each paycheck
Load More Replies...An educated population is a big threat to despots tyrants and oppressors
indoctrination is harder when the population has an education and doesn't have to rely on handouts for healthcare
Yep. I've seen it quoted that something like 70% of all crowdfunding efforts are for US medical care/debt.
Load More Replies...If you were seeking a permanent underclass, why would you want them hale AND smart?
One party wants to portray America as a scrappy, individualist, rugged, pull yourself up by your own bootstraps place, like pioneers of the old west. What they mean is, they want the rich to be super rich and everyone else to struggle. Health care and education are not rights, and only the weak need them is the message they send (even though all the politicians have Ivy League educations and excellent health care.) You want those things? Work like a dog and BUY THEM!
Why tax is not included in the price tag?
Baffles me how sales taxes vary not only from state to state but often from one area in a state to another in the same state
Taxes vary from state to state and area to area because each state establishes the tax rate for the state, with some states not having any sales tax. But then, each county, city, region or however that states names it's districts, those districts can add their own sales tax on top of the state tax. Usually for specific expense such as additional fire station, public park, etc. Most states also have crazy expensive taxes on hotels, motels, etc. called lodging tax. It can add a lot to the price of a hotel bill.
Load More Replies...I know people say it's because tax laws vary area to area but in most countries prices vary from area to area, the same thing might cost more in a WH Smith in a train station that it does in the WH Smith down the road. Plus most chains print the shelf edge label in store, and have till systems that automatically calculate the tax so a software update would mean they can print shelf labels with the tax added just as easily as without. But if one store started doing it now customers might think they were more expensive than other stores and they'd lose business.
Sales taxes shouldn't exist at all. They always shift the tax burden to the poor. Poor people pay a tax on toilet paper and rich people get a bidet installed. A crude analogy but it serves.
The poor and the rich go to a cash register and pay the same tax for their toilet paper.
Load More Replies...Different states, counties and cities have different tax rates. Texas is one of the few states that doesn't pay income taxes. But our taxes also differ depending on what is being purchased. Luxury taxes on alcohol and cigarettes and high priced items like boats. We have a tax on hotels and rental cars that was only supposed to be charged to out of town tourists to pay for a new stadium years ago. Nope, locals pay it to. It's crazy
It tricks people into thinking the price is actually lower than what it is supposedly. I think it should be illegal, it's shady marketing at best, false advertising at worse.
In the UK we have a supermarket called Tescos that has different levels of pricing depending on whether it's a local, town centre, or large out of town store. They seems to manage perfectly well at printing out correct pricing labels for each product because we have strong consumer laws. It's a simple enough task, but Americans seem determined to defend a system that makes their lives more difficult.
Load More Replies...To trick you into thinking the product is cheaper than it is. Scammers becoming the rule instead of the exception. If the price tag say 39.95, I will give you 2 20 bills and that's it. You need to pay a 5 dollar tax for that product? Cool! How is that my problem? Your taxes, your product, your price. Do your own math, I pay the price you asked.
10 vacation days a year. There’s life outside of work.
I've been working full time since I was 16 years old, and I'm about to be 39. I've had a total of about 3 weeks (15 days) paid vacation in that nearly 23 years. Been at my current job almost 2 years, and I get zero paid vacation and 5 sick days per year. Which is still better than most places I've worked. The USA is hell, and I'd leave here in a heartbeat if I had a chance.
Load More Replies...😲 10 vacation days? This has to be a joke, right? I have 28 days in my contract and can earn at least one extra day a month by engaging in out of work activities. So I'm at 40 days and I still think I work too much.
Now that I've been at my job 3 years, I now get 15 days PTO. That includes sick time + vacation. I won't be eligible for 20 days until I've worked there 10 years. I'm not planning to stay there 10 years, by the way.
Load More Replies...America is controlled by the rich, who don’t care about their workers one bit. They only want to make money. If we ever tried to pass a bill requiring more vacation days, they would all push back.
In my contract now: 30 days paid leave, half a day of on my birthday, 2 days to take part in educational programs, christmas/newyears eve paid leave. So all 33,5 days paid leave in total. Here isn't something like 'sick days' - you come back to work when you are feeling healthy.
Show us you don't live in the US without telling us that you don't live in the US
Load More Replies...We get the minimum of 20 paid vacation days + additional days based on our age. Combine it with your 2 days off per week, you can leave for at least a month. If your job allows, you get all sorts of national and religious holidays off as well. Some places let you collect bonus hours instead of paying for overtime which you can then use as additional days off, paid as normally would have been.
I get 120 hours of PTO, 120 hours of sick, 3 personal days, 12 flex days, 13 holidays, and 6 weeks paid medical leave. I’m in the US. Just depends on the company and where you live.
In the UK the minimum annual leave is 5.6 weeks (up to 28 days/year) but it's up to companies if they give more days for years of service, birthday, Xmas etc. 10 days a year for full time is ridiculous!
What is up with Homeowner Associations? Why would you pay to let a nosy neighbour (neighbor sorry) dictate what you can and can not do on your own property? I understand living in an apartment block and paying maintenance fees etc, but in a suburban home?
American here. I don't understand it either, that's why I don't belong to one
Oh, I understand it, and that's why I'll never live in one. HOAs are for people who value conformity above everything else. It's actually a similar mindset to the people who think the existence of LGBTQ+ people infringes on their religious freedom. These are people who feel threatened by any reminder that there are humans in the world who don't think and act exactly the same way they do, so they create their own clubhouse and set up the rules to literally write any hint of difference out of existence. They claim it's about property values, but it's really an inability on the part of rich white people to deal with a world where they aren't the center of the universe.
Load More Replies...Weren't they originally created by white racist homeowners to get rid of POC homeowners? I read it somewhere.
Whether that was the origin, I don't know, but it's certainly in the spirit of the whole thing. Not just POC, either - I've seen stories from r/JustNoHOA and other places about people with disabilities being ostracized and discriminated against by their HOA. It's a whole mindset of 'I don't want to see anything or anyone whose difference makes me uncomfortable or have to think about why I feel that way.'
Load More Replies...TBH I don't know. I live in a real city. Not some McMansion filled suburb so we're just happy when the cops show up for a drive by. I wish I was exaggerating.
So, you mock the suburbs and fear drive by shootings in the same sentence 🤔
Load More Replies...I worked for an HOA once, it was a nightmare...the area was nice and the community had amenities like 2 pools, club houses, gyms...but the complaints I had to field. Had a lady come up to me because her neighbor had 5 (she counted) blades of grass growing in between the bricks of the driveway. A lady was mad because I kicked her daughter out of the club house..I was like did she mention it was because I caught her and her boyfriend half naked on the sofa? I have video...the worst was the case of the pool pooper, had someone who was sneaking in every friday night and crapping in the main pool...I would find it on Saturday morning and have to close the pool to have it cleaned and shocked. Come to find out it was one of the residents who lived near the pool who would complain about the noise of children having fun on the weekend. Paid great money but I quit.
Only a smallish minority (26%) of Americans live in a homeowner association... and that includes condo owners. HOAs include the majority of newly built homes, however, which I find alarming. But what they want is for their investment to be protected against "eyesores," which Americans have been conditioned to believe means the neighborhood is turning into a drug-saturated hellhole.
I refuse to live in neighborhoods that have HOAs. It's ridiculous. Let me keep my Halloween decorations up year round damnit! LOL
In theory, it makes sure that the value of the homes in the association stay as high as possible. If the homes and land are well kept, the value of the home stays higher.
I can speak to this directly. I'm not a fan of HOAs, in general. In state of GA, there are basically two types: aggressive (think rule-enforcing) and passive (think maintain common areas). We avoided the aggressive and bought in a neighborhood with a passive. We have one neighbor that apparently runs a tow company and now has a junk-yard in his back yard. Another just "collects" c**p vehicles in his yard for everyone to look at that some-decade he's going to "restore" Another has had a Jeep without wheels on jacks in his driveway for going on two years. There are about three houses that are literally falling apart since the owner do zero maintenance on them. Now this is a fairly nice, middle-class family neighborhood. People are trying to keep it nice and some would like to sell. These folks are f-ing it up for a lot of people. But, that was our choice.
Load More Replies...Those meetings get wild. People get into intense debates and power struggles over fences and lawns. It's like a microcosm to work out their issues. You don't have to live there. Only people who want to, do. And many run to be board members so they can oust the standing members. There's so much more to it than you think.
The Americans are genuinely friendly and kind, whenever I travelled there I had great experiences. We often see the bizzare side of your vast nation on tv etc. but your average American is a pleasure to meet.
I do find it odd that service industry workers aren’t payed appropriately - tipping really stresses me out as I know it’s not just a bonus for great service. Also, you lot deserve better healthcare.
Why are your policies not friendly, warm and big hearted then?
Load More Replies...This. Most Americans are good people. But the media loves to highlight the bad over the good, because that gets more ratings.
Many people ask me what to expect before their first trip to America. They expect angry New Yorker treatment everywhere based on movies and the news. They are shocked to find Americans are super polite and considerate in public while being super helpful.
I was among American supporters during the semi-finals and final of the 2019 women world cup in Lyon (in the stadium and then the temporarily overcrowded subway after the games) and it was like when I was in the US, people are so easy to have a good chat and laugh with. By comparisons French people are much colder.
This. There is so much negativity around the US and it is not unfounded. And yet the paradox is that every American I’ve met has been the most wonderful and friendly person. Maybe I’m just not crossing paths with the petty and insular ones. But I used to have a job where I’d need to contact people and companies worldwide and those in the US were hands down the most approachable, the most helpful, and the most fun to speak to.
Our healthcare is the laughing stock of the entire civilized world. I pay around $6000 a year for my medical insurance, which doesn't include dental, and I'm retired and on Medicare! Totally a scam
Most of us are like that in person, we can be bad when separated behind tv screens and monitors. We have been conditioned, (in many cases), to believe the person we don't know wants to take from us.
I disagree, at least on a personal level. I don't feel conditioned to be suspicious of others in that way. I generally believe most people have good intentions. That said, I have met people as you've described, but I'm hoping that's not the majority.
Load More Replies...However, don't put foot on their property. Because gun laws. Also, they are a lot less affable about religious or political matters.
That is an example of one noisy minority of Americans walking around with MAGA hats and an AR-15 strapped to their backs. It’s not all of us.
Load More Replies...I would tend to agree, accept for saying we all disserve better healthcare. The ones who keep voting against it should be allowed to deprive themselves until they die from preventable causes. I'm just sick (literally!) of them dragging me down with them.
So, why do you buy politicians' merchandise? Shirts, caps, banners, stickers, etc. They're public servants, not rockstars. Also, usually the more boring they are, the better.
You'll notice, though, that our country's liberals aren't walking around with Biden hats on or waving Biden flags. Because we're not part of an insane cult that believes up is down.
There are some, but it's definitely much fewer. The problem is how so many people here look at politics like it's a sport. They talk about it like Trump or Biden is their 'team'. They aren't. They are their own team. They don't care about us in the long run. I will never understand the almost romantic love some people have for a politician. It just reminds me of the way cult followers love their leader, no matter how insane what they say or do logically is. They'll kill for him. Get married in dresses with their names on it. Celebrate their birthdays and give them everything. It's almost religious. Which goes to show how many religious people are in this country and why they shouldn't have their beliefs as part of policy. Because they have no rational perspective when it comes to faith, whether in a politician or in a spiritual god. It's crazy.
Load More Replies...I am American and don't understand it either. I will never "love" a candidate enough to want to make it 1. My whole personality 2. Put a sign in my yard 3. Bumper sticker on my car 4. Buy and wear merchandise from them. It is wild to me.
Before Tr*mp, some people might have a bumper sticker or a t-shirt and that is still the case... with everybody but him. It is a cult and not a belief system.
It costs more than a billion dollars to become president of the United States. New members of the House of Representatives , with 2-year terms, have to start raising money and campaigning for re-election before they have found the 'restrooms' in the Capitol building. There is too much money in American politics, with the accompanying grift and graft.
I don’t understand why Americans make politics part of their identity. Politics in my country is a private affair and it is quite rude to talk about it. In the US you even register your voting intentions! That’s so odd to me. I think Americans like to put people on pedestals that do not deserve it. Make them Demi Gods. They’re just public servants,
Only a small percentage of people do. The rest are part of the shut out and silenced voter demographic where our opinions don't matter because we are neither Democrat or Republican. We are also told our votes are worthless if we don't vote for a D or R....but wait! Voting matters and we should vote with who aligns without own ideology but not those other candidates. It is messed up.
Load More Replies...Alright so it starts in 1952 with the invention of the first Bumper Sticker. "We Like Ike". EDIT: forgot to ad that while campaign buttons were common earlier, this was the first time people were charged money for the campaign merch. Sported by supporters of Dwight D. Eisenhower. The T-shirts, hats, etc, can all be traced to that one ad campaign.
Most Americans don't so this. Honestly the only ones I know of are stupid a*s cult worshipping Trump supporters.
Politicians used to give out merchandise like pins or ribbons as advertising. It has just sort of carried over like rooting for a team.
The fact that workers have to file their own taxes, even though the government knows how much everyone owes. But they won’t tell you. They make you do complicated calculations based on a set of ever-evolving rules to figure it out. And then they fine you if you’re wrong.
Same reason we have private health insurance. There's a massive industry out there making money off of people who find the whole process too complicated.
Then there are all the loopholes and deductions that people wouldn't want to give up even if it made everyone's taxes easier and saved the government a lot of money and time by being able to eliminate a big chunk of the IRS.
Load More Replies...Now, I'm self-employed and it's a little more complicated (just a little more). My wife is employed and it takes 20-25 min. to file her taxes online and make the needed payments. She doesn't need to make any calculations. This is in Spain.
Spaniard here too, can corroborate. I've been "doing" my parent's taxes since I was 17. It takes no longer than what you said
Load More Replies...Taxes are like math tests for adults for the math that they weren’t even taught in school.
This is a common misconception. It's not true, the government does not know how much you owe. They know what you *earned* (i.e. from your paycheck) but not about what you may have received from other sources or about deductions like charitable donations, or various credits like a home office, etc. All that said, yeah, it is harder than it should be.
In my country you can also deduct charitable donations, and I could never understand how you can want to make everybody else pay for your donations too.
Load More Replies...It’s very, very simple. Unless you have a complex tax situation, you just go online, plug in the numbers from your W-2, and you’re done. A lot of W-2s can be automatically imported. Did mine and my wife’s taxes in less than 10 minutes
Why everything is just SO damn supersized.
My first time in America I went to get ice coffee from Dunkin Donuts, I ordered a large and my friend is like… Are you sure you want large? Yeah no biggie, in the UK a large is not overwhelming I feel so I was expecting the same kinda thing. Oh my god it was like a god damn bucket of coffee. I think maybe a small would have been equivalent to a UK large, lesson swiftly learnt.
From the opposite end of the spectrum: I visited the UK and decided to catch a movie while I was over there; I ordered a Medium popcorn and drink. The cup was smaller than the palm of my hand, had no ice, and when I asked for salt for my popcorn they informed me that they don't do that there. :|
When I visited the first time, my American friends all ordered large drinks at a fast food chain. I asked why, because they had free refills. They said that it's not convenient to have to get up to refill that often. Also they all refilled their drinks before leaving and so they could take more drink home.
I did this once with my husband. He always drinks most of my stuff so I got an extra large milkshake and was shocked when they handed it to me. It was like a quarter of a gallon of ice cream!!
You couldn't have 60% of the population obese if you didn't overfeed them!
But then I ordered a small orange juice from McDonalds (I didn't want a "large"), and ended up with a thimble sized cup. Go figure.
The amount of sugar in everything. It's so very very much.
Because they want you to spend money on healthcare for your poor, poor teeth
Load More Replies...a slight trigger warning- when i was a teenager i would not eat for days at a time because i was so scared of gaining weight and the food that my family was able to afford was just sugar with a little flavoring of something else mixed in. we couldn’t buy the healthy stuff so i just… skipped
Don’t forget the all the genetically modified high fructose corn syrup in practically everything. That stuff is poison!!
American here. Oh dear God so much sugar in everything. Cutting it out of your diet is so hard because so many foods I buy at the market have added sugar. To avoid sugar, you pretty much have to cook many foods from scratch.
It’s more important than smoking ever was - that’s not trivialising smoking, it’s spelling out how serious the problem actually is
Load More Replies...No worse than many countries where everything is fried in gallons of oil.
What I really don't understand is pancake's with syrup and bacon what the actual hell is that about.
I can't find a brand of sliced bread that I can tolerate at this point. It's all way too sweet for bread, so I'm going to have to start baking my own. (Actual bakeries are few and far between here.)
Lobbying - that’s bribing.
The lobbying in Europe does not even compare to the situation in the US: regulations.
Load More Replies...Yep and it should be illegal. Just look at George Santos. There's a lot of money "donated" to his campaign that went... somewhere... I guess...
Lobbying should be illegal but the greedy politicians in DC aren't going to change that law because then perks go away and politicians wouldn't have anyone to sell their souls to.
MM/DD/YYYY.
Meh. YYYY-MM-DD is what works for CS. MM-DD-YYYY or DD-MM-YYYY doesn't really matter. You still can't order them. And Excel is just a matter of settings.
Load More Replies...When you are used to dd/mm/yyyy and you come across: 02/03/2023 on a website that uses American English but caters to UK customers. Is it dd/mm or mm/dd?
YYYYMMDD Only logical system. Ask anyone using a computer, which incorporates a date into a file name, where a naming convention is regularly followed.
yep, you want to know which year it was in, first. Then month, then day, so largest to smallest. Otherwise the directory listing alphasort will sort 1 january with 1 november (1-1 and 1-11).
Load More Replies...Even worse: using "." instead of ","! 1.000 instead of 1,000.
That's a northern european thing. USA uses comma separations, a lot of the rest of the world uses spaces for thousands.
Load More Replies...February 23rd, or the 23rd of February. I think it follows how we speak.
So do you say "the fourth of july" then???? or do you say "this here holiday is called july fourth".
Load More Replies...My old boss used DD(MON)YY For example, Valentine's Day of this year would be 02 FEB 23
My late wife was from Scotland, and even being married for 46 years, she still never accepted that format so would always write out the date
Pledging allegiance. To me that's just silly. i love my country but I would never expect or be expected to stand and salute the flag in school (or is that just the movies).
Being German I cringe so hard at all those displays of nationalism. Here, I side-eye people who fly the flag unless they are a government building or it's soccer world cup.
I grew up doing this. The only thing that needs to change is "...one nation under God...." As much as people fight it, we're supposed to have a separation of church and state.
Jackie Kennedy believed the same thing and she would stop reciting the pledge once she got to that part.
Load More Replies...Nationalism. The US is part of the club of extreme nationalist countries, with Uk, Russia, China, etc. The others have evolved to accept and enjoy a diverse world and are able to muzzle their superiority complex.
Every day at school I used to stand up and look at the flag with respect, and pledge my little heart out because I thought our country was the greatest. Now I just stand up and look boredly at the flag and talk in a monotone voice, and I’ve noticed a lot of my class does the same. I honestly do not like my country in the slightest, and hope to move out someday. The older generations should really listen to the younger ones. Edit: you guys have brought up a lot of good points. I guess what I was trying to get across is that us younger kids are starting to get depressed as society is getting worse, and also everything with climate change and stuff and we’re not old enough to do anything about it yet.
Back in high school, I went to Boy Scout camp one summer. We had a visiting Scoutmaster from Australia that week and we all decided to surprise him on the last day at morning assembly by singing the Australian national anthem. He admitted privately later that he had no idea what we were singing.
There are some of us who see it as a form of indoctrination and are trying to change that.
Nationalism. A colleague that grew up in Russia told me when she was in school the greatest honor given to students was to get to stand in statue to a portrait of Lenin.
(Excluding The World/European Cup/Olympics)It's getting like this (flag-wise) in England. It seems Patriotism is only real if you openly carry a flag or have it poled in your front garden or shown on your Twitter Profile (at least two or three flags are 'standard'). We usually see this need in Far Right peeps (NF, a percentage of Brexiteers, etc), and lately, as background in both Tory and Labour Party speeches. We don't have pledges of alliance in schools - classrooms or hall Assemblies. But I do cede that there is a lot of indoctrination of our kids on many levels around the globe.
Well you guys did do that brexit thing which was a ridiculous show of jingoism.
Load More Replies...That happens at my catholic school. During salutes we pray the Hail Mary and then we salute the Flag. Kinda weird
If going to a catholic school, you can expect to have to do a prayer once in a while. But combining that with the flag salute is weird indeed.
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The amount off National Parks! My dream came true in 2017 to make an RV trip southwest off USA. Yosemite blew my mind away.
National parks of the US and the public library system are two of many great things about the US(for me).
the public library system is currently under attack by far right conspiracy theorists in the US. Racism and bigotry are rising at a rate that hasn't been seen since the 1930s-1940s. The racist really lost their minds when President Obama was elected and that is how the Trump Cult and the Q-idiots & that lot have become what they are. Keeping everyone dumb and unsure, that's the way that the backward thinking "traditionalist" are able to lie, cheat and steal to meet their own ends.
Load More Replies...Yosemite is just the tip of the iceberg. Oh yeah, do you want to see icebergs? We got those too.
Hope it stays this way in the future. We need more national parks everywhere!
After reading the possible hundreds of lists on how much America stinks, it's nice to see someone say something completely positive.
Yes, the bashing is annoying. I often disregard the comments section for this reason.
Load More Replies...The amount OF national parks, right? Because I thought you meant money or something taken off national parks! Glad you enjoyed Yosemite.
The weird obsession with race and heritage.
America isn't called "the melting pot" for no reason. I am Native American, and my ancestors were told to comply and worst of all assimilate. The US government tried to commit genocide of Native Americans. My particular tribal family did not go on the Trail of Tears, and were labeled outlaws at their own peril. You're damn right I'm proud they stuck up for themselves. I'm proud of it because they tried to obliterate it.
I mean, I'm sorry and you should be proud,but I think OP was talking about people saying s**t like "I'm Irish because my second great grand uncle's ex wife dated someone for a month whose parents were Irish"
Load More Replies...The way that Americans will say 'I'm Irish/Polish/Italian/whatever'. No, you're an American. If your (e.g.) great-great-grandfather had wanted you to be Irish/Polish/Italian/whatever, he would have stayed there.
Maybe it’s not that the ancestor wanted to leave the country, maybe they were fleeing persecution or looking for economic prosperity.
Load More Replies...Heritage is extremely important, especially for teaching our children. I come from a large Ukrainian Jewish family that escaped Russian persecution over a century ago. Some chose to settle in the U.S. such as my grandfather. A large portion emigrated to Poland, only to be wiped out by the Nazis during the Holocaust. I"m sure I still have distant relatives in Kiev (where my ancestors lived for 7 generations), once again fighting against Russian persecution.
*Kyiv. If you're proud of your Ukrainian heritage it seems weird to use the Russian name for the city.
Load More Replies...Uggh. Not this again. We are a melting pot. My mother and my dad's parents emigrated from Greece. Greek was my first language and I celebrate and enjoy it. I share my food and experiences. And I love that I can go to the North End of Boston and enjoy a celebration of Italian Heritage. It's not an obsession. We came from everywhere. You can embrace both though- your heritage and your nationality.
Yeah, but you're not claiming to be something you're not. Half of these dimwit will claim any hEriTaGe as long as it gives them attention
Load More Replies...Isn't the English class system based on the same thing? You are an earl only because your great great great grandfather fought the French with distinction, not because of anything meritorious about you
Remember, England is not a Republic. As a Sovereign Country, it is (still) quite feudal here with a discriminatory hierarchy and a Monarchy that isn't as powerless politically as they like to let us think. France got it right in many areas.
Load More Replies...We don't really care how you feel about it. It's how we identify with our ancestral heritage. If your family has lived in County Cork for 80 generations and you're so inbred that they named a sandwich after you, you're Irish and everyone around you is Irish and you all do Irish things together. In my workplace we have people of European, East Asian, Indian, Mexican, and Black American ancestry all of whom have unique parts of their families cultures that they celebrate. Just because your grandmother became an American doesn't mean she's going to stop talking about growing up in Sicily and talking about the family she left behind and how important that connection is to her identity and by extension your identity. And because we love our grandmothers we'll carry that identity with us.
Might have something to do with the large number of people who immigrated from Germany... J/k the worst are the white people who claim American Indian ancestors, followed closely by those who claim to be from Ireland. "You're from Boston Mikey. You got clam chowder for brains."
They tend to say " My great great great grandmother was a Indian princess"
Load More Replies...The most ridiculous statement I have heard so far, "I love ice cream. I suppose it's my Italian heritage."
You can be an American and still be proud of your heritage. Unless your ancestors were Native American, they came from somewhere else. I don't claim to "be" Scottish or Swedish, but I like to learn about the countries that are part of my family's history, and I don't see anything wrong with that.
The tipping culture is so foreign to me, I would be so scared to make a mistake or not tipping enough if I ever go to America, because it's not something which is common here in Denmark.
It'd be easier if employers payed a living wage instead of relying on customers to do it? Surely tipping is intended to reward exceptional service
Yes, I tip for good service (UK) as a Thank You.
Load More Replies...Tipping in Spain means their service was good and you had a great time. Tipping here is not mandatory but appreciate
Same in the UK. You tip for good service if you want to. When I was in the US I didn’t tip the hotel bar staff because I’ve never heard of such a thing. After the second day they wouldn’t serve me. I asked what was going on and they said they don’t like people who don’t tip them. I was horrified. The US really is a primitive country.
Load More Replies...First ever time in the US - just arrived, very tired, wanted to eat and then go to bed. Bought a pizza for $15, only had a $50 (you don't get coins or small notes when you exchange currency) Was going to tip $5, but waitress walked off and avoided me and never bought any change. I asked another waitress and was told, oh, she's on her break and won't be back for half an hour. Devious.
We are tired of it ourselves, but trapped. Employers paying non-livable wages and expecting patrons to subsidize with tipping. It's gone from nearly expected to required.
This might seem a little out of the box but hear me out. If it's is pretty much compulsory to tip say 20% for customers, why not increase your price by 20% and pay your staff the extra. Their wage is then fixed and guaranteed and everyone from the tourist to travelling salesman know what the score is.
Can someone explain the difference between a person offering service in a restaurant from a person offering service in a shoe-shop, or a dress-shop, or a grocery shop, or any other kind of shop, or a school, or ... Maybe you should tip the sales-person after they opened 12 boxes of shoes for you, and you decided that none is good enough.
It has gotten out of control. When I buy a sandwich at the counter, they flip the tablet around, and while I can be seen, it asks me how much I want to tip. And I always do out of guilt. But if we should pay people a living wage...
Why do public restrooms include a small opening between the doors that allows passersby to see you when you're taking a p**s?
Always needed so in crime dramas the cop can look to see where the crook is and bust down the door
That always made me feel weird. Sooo gross.
Load More Replies...My personal conspiracy theory is for liability (on the part of the facility). If someone is in distress, you can easily check on them. The US is the most litigious country on the planet.
I'll one up this one, and I'm American and a dude. Why the heck would I want to stand next to another guy and to pee with no barrier between us. Some urinals have wall around, but some do not. Then we got those trough urinals, just a long urinal that spans along the length of the wall. Not sure who's the engineers behind those things, but obviously doesn't care about privacy and thinks guys like to stand openly peeing next to each other!
Hang your coat on the door to cover the gap. Or a vest. Works perfectly.
I have only ever experienced this online. IRL I don't see this unless someone has broken the stall door.
How ready people are to sue.
We need money :/ . America is basically an oligarchy controlled by the rich.
People say it but most lawyers will refuse to take the stupid cases if you decide to waste your time consulting them. Generally though, people are suing the insurance agency, not the person
I'm only willing to sue for one reason. The person I'm suing really screwed me and I want revenge. Hey, at least I'm honest about it right?
Simple. It's easier to not take responsibility for their actions. If I try to iron my shirt while wearing it and burn myself, then it is the iron maker's fault for not warning me not to.
Problem is more the justice system enabling it. Here the judge would laugh in your face and say you're an idiot. You won't get anything
Load More Replies...Most people just say it and cannot actually afford to do it. And why not it's better than violence to solve your issues.
Because of how many do things people do that deserve suing. And how many more things they'd try if there was no danger of being sued. I'm looking at you, Corporate America.
Scottish person here but the work/always available for work culture. Minimal vacation time, minimal maternity/paternity leave and the fact you can pretty much just be let go. It makes me sad to think about it!
But I do love that you guys cram so much in to your time off - you guys love a road trip!
We understand, it's just you follow employer rules or get fired. Although things are changing now with younger generations no longer tolerating unreasonable work standards.
Load More Replies...We're disposable. 🤷 Why provide support for a worker when you can toss em and get another one?
Covid has made a substantial dent in that always on, work/life unbalance. The challenge is that while people don't want to work as much as pre-plague, they still expect every store/restaurant/business to be open when they want it. These two things are not compatible.
How else can the very rich get that way without stealing from the people who made them rich in the first place!
We are or at least were the most powerful country in the world for a reason. We worked for it.
It's pretty infamous that Americans get very little time off and there is no mandatory maternity leave. Almost zero protection for workers, especially in a work at will state
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Valet parking. Why would I want some stranger messing with my car? I can park my own car, thank you very much.
Yes. Also, my local hospital system offers it as a free service. Anyone can use it, but most people don't without a reason. They offer it openly, since they don't want to pry into your medical issues, though. It makes good sense at a hospital, since you have a higher percentage of people visiting who may have a hard time trekking from the parking garage.
Load More Replies...It means you can get out at the building entrance and not have to walk through streets or underground carparks which may be perceived as dangerous.
Because not every place has parking on site, especially in cities. So lets say you're wearing 5 inch heels and it's snowing and raining and you're dressed up and now you have to walk 1/2 a mile where the garage would be..it could deter people from wanting to go to your business just because of the hassle. So it's a courtesy service so you don't have to do that. And it's also insured, although sometimes hard to prove if a valet damaged the car or if the car was already damaged so they always recommend taking a picture of your car and your mileage before handing it over, but honestly most people don't do that.
This is not just in America. It’s quite common in the western world
I would be the worst, most evil valet attendant. "Ahh nice Audi, be a shame if someone were to eat, this day old tuna fish sandwich in here..." Sorry if you own an Audi and you aren't a horrible person. Just consider buying a new car.
Recently saw a youtube video of a lambo catching fire at a stop light. The driver revved the engine so much, that some of the car's fuel caught fire. Turns out, the driver was a valet, taking the car for a short joyride around the block.
Load More Replies...I love valet! It's cold as heck and raining sideways. Do you want to park your car at some lot somewhere or drop it off by the door and let someone else freeze?
Ooh we had them in Hong Kong too but only in the rich bits
I love the convenience personally, especially in big cities. Staying in a hotel with a car full of luggage? Pull up to the front entrance and let attendants take the car and let the bellhop load up your luggage on a cart. Going to a nice restaurant in a trendy super busy area, let them deal with the hassle.
Shoes indoors.
It is *intensely* weird. It must result either in dirtier floors, or a need for more frequent cleaning and there does not seem to be a good reason.
The climate varies widely across the US. Shoes may be for warmth in some areas. In the summer, my family roams around barefooted, indoors and out.
The solution; Indoor slippers. You can even have fuzzy ones for winter and non-fuzzy ones fro summer.
Load More Replies...Most Americans remove their shoes in the house and wear slippers inside. TV PERPETUATES THIS MYTH, WE DO NOT WEAR SHOES INSIDE OUR HOMES. I'll say it every time since this is repeated often. I'm currently wearing slippers and my shoes are placed neatly by the door as are my husband's when we came in.
I know a ton of people who wear shoes indoors. In fact, up until I moved out of the northeast, I never saw anyone remove their shoes.
Load More Replies...I wear shoes inside. I have congestive heart failure and lymphoedema, both of which cause swelling in the feet. If I don't wear proper shoes, my feet swell to where, standing up, my toes don't touch the floor.
Honestly, I'd prefer guests to leave their shoes on, cos foot odor can really put the breaks on a friendship sometimes.
I dunno, if you have dogs, the whole taking your shoes off is redundant
Yup. People are welcome to take their shoes off in my house. However, that wet patch you just stepped in could be anything from drool to vomit and everything (literally) in between.
Load More Replies...I’m honestly tired of this one. The US is a big place with all sorts of households. Not everyone wears their shoes indoors. Lots of different customs, folks.
This is not uniquely American, unless it has changed recently many Australians wear their shoes in the house.
UKs the same. People are clutching at straws with some of these "differences".
Load More Replies...My dad wears his shoes indoors because he needs the extra arch support during the day. Dude's big and has completely collapsed arches.
How about people wearing sandals in some of the filthiest places, then walking around their house with all that filth on their feet?
The culture of just... Talking to people, strangers you dont know and just up and start a conversation with them or join a conversation.
Im British, and we go through great lenghs to not talk to people, let alone opening up and pouring our hearts out to a random person.
I have had some great conversations with strangers. I have also learned a lot. For example, when I was young, I was buying my own groceries for the first time and had no idea how to pick out a cabbage. An elderly lady just up and told me how to do it. It worked!
I’m British and I strike up conversations, say hi, interact with random people! I know a lot of people don’t tho. I’m just friendly
Momabear you're right. I try to make eye contact, in bus stop/shop queues, etc. If the other person doesn't look at you, fair enough, they don't want to talk. Usually I find it's the older people want to chat.
Load More Replies...Hmmm. My experience is that it's south-eastern English people who go to great lengths not to talk to people. The Scots, Welsh, Norn Irish, Geordies, Cornish etc, all enjoy a good chat with strangers. ..... Hold on... weren't there waves of immigration from these areas of the UK to the USA? ... Perhaps these people to some chattiness with them. :o)
I'm from the south east of England I talk to everyone. You're thinking of people from London. They don't even look at you unless it is to shoot daggers at you with their eyes because you did something wrong.
Load More Replies...We have a healthy middle ground in Australia. The protocol is:1) you see stranger and make eye contact.2) you both nod upwards and say "how ya going?". 3) you both, at the same time, say "not bad" regardless of your condition. 4) move on
I've always thought this is such a beautiful thing. I love talking to some one new and learning about them and their experiences. It's wonderful to connect with others.
It is a beautiful thing. Although, double edged sword - random strangers think they have the right to comment on your life as they see it
Load More Replies...I can't remember who said it but I remember reading some comment from a notable British person (might have been Stephen Fry, not sure) along the lines of "Upon meeting an American woman, you have learned within ten minutes about her affair, her divorce and her hysterectomy"
Ummm. So not true. I'm an American woman and I don't talk about those things in public, let alone with someone I just met.
Load More Replies...Several years ago I was the assistant manager at one of the convenience stores in town and was shocked at the things strangers told me. There was a woman that came in one evening and proceeded to tell me she just learned she had cancer, she hadn't told anyone yet, but spent almost an hour, in between other customers, pouring her heart out to me. Sometimes people just need to work through whatever is happening in their life by talking to someone who allows them to speak freely and doesn't try to fix anything like family and friends do.
Nothing wrong in having a conversation with a stranger. I do it all the time
There's a lot. But I visited the US for the first time in December, and one thing that stood out to me: billboards. All along the highway. Billboards everywhere. Most of them for scummy looking lawyers. Why this?
And private land running alongside the highways. Free money to the landowner to rent it out.
Load More Replies...Also the length of television adverts! A 30 minute programme might only have 22 minutes of content, and the rest is filled with adverts.
In the UK it might be 25 minutes of content. I think that's pretty bad.
Load More Replies...I think that I sjall never see A billboard lovely as a tree. I think unless the billboards fall, I'll never see a tree at all. (Not mine, but remembered from childhood!)
They make money, but distract drivers i think they should be illegal.
Highways are often near cities, so you'll get the most audience. And billboards are a lot cheaper than tv or radio advertising.
I’m American but I’ve worked with a lot of people who aren’t. The one thing they always wonder is why Americans are so obsessed with the NFL. They think it’s a boring sport. They explained “you wait for 30 seconds, they hike the ball, you get about 5-10 seconds of action, then you wait another 30 seconds, another 5-10 seconds of action, then commercial break”
because they don't wear armour unlike the fraidycats in usa. ;-) justttt trolling our american friends don't kill me. thanks.
Load More Replies...American here, and I agree with them. Not to mention its basically just men.
Me too. Can't get interested. Even at a live game. Other sports are uninteresting to follow and/or spew about but I like going to games once in a while. Part of this is that I hate being cold, and much of American Football in my part of the country is just too damn cold.
Load More Replies...I'll upvote you for that most boring sport ever.
Load More Replies...I've said for decades that NFL is so boring. For the exact reason OP says plus after each down, the players act like it was the best moment to ever happen in sports and the announcers have to analyze it and replay it from multiple angles. Wash, rinse, repeat for 3 hours. Zzzzzzzzzz
Darts is a sport too, but here most of us would laugh our @sses off at the amount of flair put into dart games in other countries. It's darts for goodness' sake, and you're saying football is boring?! C'mon people, you can like or not like certain sports - I don't get most of them, but it's personal preference.
As it is with most sports, the more you understand the strategy and nuances of the sport, the more a person MAY enjoy it. I dislike baseball for the exact same reasons, but I also understand that there is a lot of strategy going on that I am not noticing that others enjoy.
Oh come on...all countries are when it comes to sports. I don't even watch sports and I know all the England team soccer players. It's not even my country, lol. That's how popular it is. And I'd rather watch paint dry than watch a soccer game or really any game. I find them all super boring. Like...golf in particular. I think I'd rather close my hand in a car door than have to sit through golf on tv. So I think it's just a preference thing. If you love it, it's not boring to you.
Why is that one Kansas, but the other one is not Arkansas? America explain. What do u mean its aRkAnSaW???
Any British person pointing the finger at Americans about the disconnect between spelling and pronunciation is definitely a case of the pot calling the kettle black
Isn't one named for the Kaw people and the other the Quapaw people in different Algonquian languages? That is what I have heard anyway.
When you are integrating dozens names from Native American languages that europeans never heard before. It's why I get so irate whenever I hear a Brit mispronounce "Chinook".
I don't see the point in this one. All Countries have their own unique name places, so picking out one is silly. I come from a Country (England) that has Twatt End and Bitchfield; Netherthong; Piddlehinton; Sheepy Magna; Shitterton and Tickle C**k Bridge.
Which brings us to the pronunciation question. The 1881 Arkansas Historical Society pamphlet concluded that both Kansas and Arkansas have roots in similar Indian tribal names, but that Kansas chose to follow the standard English pronunciation — marked by the hard "a" sound in "can" and vocalizing the final "s" — while Arkansas stuck with the original French pronunciation. It's the long French (and Italian) "ah" sound, wrote the Arkansas Historical Society, which explains why Arkansas was sometimes spelled "Arkansaw," including in the 1818 peace treaty between the United States and the Quapaw. The inclusion of the "s" at the end of Arkansas was likely a product of pluralization. If the tribe was called the Akansa, then multiple members of the tribe were the Akansas. But since the final "s" is silent in French, all that's left is the "ah" sound.
There were people here before us and some of the things were named by them
From Slate magazine: In 1881, a heated disagreement between the state's two senators, one who said “arKANzis” and the other who said “ARkansaw,” led to a ruling by the state legislature making the “ARkansaw” pronunciation official. Ever since, Americans have gone along with the s-less, first-syllable-stressed version of Arkansas. (Aug 27, 2014)
Many places in the U.S. keep the names of the Native American people who lived there or the names they gave to places.
They're not English words, they're from Indigenous languages, so they don't follow the same rules.
How you have to share a room with some complete rando when you go to college.
Crikey, you'd better not join any military service then. In any country.
believe me, I have absolutely no intention of ever doing so.
Load More Replies...One of the best experiences of my life. My bestie forever is my college roommate. I'm so glad I got to meet her because if it wasn't for having her as my roommate, I never would have.
Yeah, I tried. My first one thought I was to weird and moved out. That was nice. Then I got this guy who was super quiet, watched anime and had the largest Magic card collection I've ever seen. Not much trouble there. The next one though... OMG. A Republican ex army Vet in the year 2000. I voted for Gore.
I'm american and I still don't understand why 5280 feet is a mile.
But the British have overcome that system and are now metric. Must be possible to overcome things that root you to the dark ages.
Load More Replies...The basic concept of the mile originated in Roman times. The Romans used a unit of distance called the mille passum, which literally translated into “a thousand paces.” Because each pace was considered to be five Roman feet—which were a bit shorter than our modern feet—the mile ended up being 5000 Roman feet, or roughly 4850 of our modern feet. If the mile originated with 5000 Roman feet, how did we end up with a mile that is 5280 feet? Blame the furlong. The furlong wasn’t always just an arcane unit of measure that horseracing fans gabbed about; it once had significance as the length of the furrow a team of oxen could plow in a day. In 1592, the English Parliament set about determining the length of the mile and decided that each one should be made up of eight furlongs. As a furlong was 660 feet, we ended up with a 5280-foot mile.
Because in British Imperial measurement standardisation in 1592, a mile was standardised to the length of 8 furlongs. A furlong is 660ft, so 8 furlongs is 5280ft.
well, obviously, 3 feet in a yard, 22 yards in a chain, 10 chains in a furlong & 8 furlongs in a mile = 5,280 feet in a mile.
USA, Liberia and Myanmar: the only 3 countries that still use the Imperial system for everything.
As I understand it Liberia and Myanmar were both occupied by USA at some point hence the imperial.
Load More Replies...thats because you guys are overly sentimental about outdated things like lords, queens, etc.
Load More Replies...College and even high school sports. One of the last times I was in the US I passed a high school. Their football field looked like a university stadium — complete with lights, stands, logos, and advertising. My Canadian high school had football too but nobody cared about it other than the team and the players’ families.
I am amazed by the importance Americans put on sport, and the whole concept of sports scholarships to colleges and universities.
Money, a lot of things on this list can be explained simply by money. It makes money.
It's because they bring in revenue for the school, so they're going to make sure they take care of the arenas/stadiums. Sometimes football players (or any sport where it's popular with the locals and there's a 'star' player) get away with murder and bad grades etc because they're really good players and the school doesn't want to loose the revenue it gets from selling tickets to a game. It's not like a major team who recruits the best players...they have to take what they can get so if one guy is amazing and is leading them to victory every week, the school isn't going to let bad grades or harassment claims, etc get in the way of their money machine.
The size of a high school stadium varies drastically depending on the reion you are in. In the south high school football is huge and the whole town takes part in games so they build bigger stadiums. Where I live in the mid atlantic its not like this.
Sports are important in school because they teach students how to work with other people, teach skills, promote exercise, and give many students a reason to come to school and achieve academically. In many towns, the high school or college football team is a source of pride and community and the conditions of the fields reflect that community. Businesses and community members support the team financially and participate in the social part of the game. Football is a social sport for the spectators. We get together before the game to eat and socialize. During the delays between plays we talk about what we just saw and speculate on what will happen next.
At my high school in Canada most of the player's families didn't care either
My mom is from Moscow during the Soviet Era, and she is confused why there is no teacher-student hierarchy. She thinks it's weird when teachers participate in school plays or speak to students informally.
She also DOES NOT GET pajama day. To her, it's just the weirdest thing in the world. In Russia, there is an important distinction between "clothes for home" and "clothes for outside". They have a concept of "home clothes", like your cozy or ugly clothes, that you are supposed to change into after school or work. At bedtime, you change out of your "home clothes" into pajamas. As a result, pajamas, for both adults and children, are considered extra-extra private in Russia. My mom perceives pajama day as something extreme like wearing only undergarments to school. That's how private pajamas are considered to be in Russia!
I have many students from the Ukraine. We have certain morale boosting events at school to make things fun, but students are not required to participate. Not all of the American students participate. As for how we speak to students, I am always respectful, and I speak in a way I think they will best understand.
Well, that's Moscow. My last GF was from Irkutsk and she could ride a horse to school with pet chicken Capka. Granted that was during the 80s so things may have changed a bit since then.
Comparing any current western education system with that of the Soviet Union is very difficult. It was a totally different culture in which the children had very different expectations of them. Of course it going to be different!
Sorry. I approve of school uniforms, it makes life so much easier. As I teacher I DID wish that we too had uniforms.
Why your toilets have so much water in them? Just came back from a holiday there, very deep. Just seemed wasteful of water in some places I've heard with drought conditions before. Also, the gap in public toilet doors as well. I've heard people mention before on reddit, but didn't realise until experiencing it. Never seen that gap anywhere else in the world I've been.
THE WATER THING. I have been saying this forever!! In Australia the toilets are only so full of they are completely clogged and flushed. Like why???
Yep, when I was there the first time the high-water toilets surprised me, too. Popular culture didn´t prepare for that.
High water toilets have not been used in years. They have been. Hanged for these terrible low flow that require two or three flushes to work. Saving less water.
Load More Replies...I'm American and I also don't understand the gap. I also don't understand why men's rooms sometimes don't even have doors. Like...even if you're fine pooping in front of someone, I don't necessarily want to see it happening. But I don't know, maybe guys just feel differently. I don't get why they aren't allowed to at least have a door, lol. As for the water thing, I think it just has to do with how the mechanics of our toilets are. Some have less, some more. Some people prefer more because it feels like the toilet stays cleaner.
Do American toilets still use single flush too? All new Australian toilets have to be dual flush, to save water, and the US also has problems with drought too
lol the people that don't understand this do not have an american diet. The bigger the poo the more water that is required to flush without getting stuck.
Imagine not having enough water and your turd just lands on the porcelain 🤢 Lots of skid marks
That's why toilets in Europe have brushes. Seriously.
Load More Replies...American toilets are apparently filled halfway up with water. In Europe the pipes are filled with water, but the basin is mostly empty.
Load More Replies...American high schools. Growing up watching American media made my perception of high school so distorted. Apparently at some point in one's late teens to mid-twenties, you're still attending school, but you're also dating on a pretty serious basis and have a car and a job (not to mention a fairly dedicated sports career), and if you're really driven you might also be in a band and tutor while managing the yearbook, school newspaper, and local Shakespeare production. And you still find another two hours to spend lunch with your friends at the mall!
I am sure this is just in the movies and shows. Plus no one looks like that in High School. Edit: I am an idiot!
Maybe not to the grandiose degree being depicted, but my high school was like that. Even took a fencing class. But my regional education system was very well funded and it's not like that anymore. Student parking lots were one-third of the school's total lots.
Load More Replies...****This is satire, OP doesn't actually think this, they're just pointing out how unrealistic US high school tv shows are
yeah that's not how high school actually works the movies are always made by forty and fifty year olds glory day remembering what high school was like thirty years ago. The high school in movies is completely fictitious and does not exist.
High schools in media are absolutely not what high schools are actually like. NOTHING on tv is really quite what anything is actually like, lol. But high schools in particular. High schools on tv are like...bars. Or clubs, lol. The way girls dress always annoyed me. You wear jeans and a shirt. If you feel fancy, maybe a skirt. Nobody is wearing 6 inch heels to school. No one is wearing a school uniform with the skirt at mid thigh...you'd be sent home. Also, the amount of free time is ridiculous.
Plot twist: My 10th grade sex education teacher ended up marrying my grade's homecoming queen after she graduated. I guess that's why he always assigned her extra homework!
I mean, they specifically said that it was a distorted view of American high school as presented by American media.
Load More Replies...As a British person, I am genuinely confused with the difference in middle school and high school, in Britain what would be sixth graders are in the same school as what would be tenth grade. It's much easier to only have 3 different schools to go through before college
Its not like this. Some aspects of movies are accurate but a lot of it is pretty exaggerated
I had a part time job and a car in high school. That was pretty normal. I wasn't involved in any after school clubs or sports but many were
Waiting like eight weeks after your elections until the new guy comes into power is pretty damn weird.
This is down to the communications system when the USA started, and it's sheer size. It took a lot of time for the election results to be returned to each state, and then each state to send their appointed official to the capital to inform the other officials.
So now that we have modern communications, isn't it logical to change this? Why cling to pointless old traditions?
Load More Replies...It's like they need time to have an issurection or something before giving up power?
The endless campaign cycle is pretty damn weird as well. Our last election took 38 days of campaigning. By comparison the US took 1194 days in 2020
Well it takes a bit to move the old president out and shift everything to the next person.
Why most of the shower heads are glued to the wall. How on earth do you wash your t**ts.
"Most" is an odd statement. In apartments and hotels, sometimes yes. They don't want you messing with them. In our homes? We have handheld showerheads.
When I rented, I always swapped out the fixed showerhead for a handheld, then put the fixed one back when I moved out.
Load More Replies...Nonsense. I haven't had a fixed shower head for maybe 35 years and I would imagine that a majority of people have handheld shower heads as well.
I've tried that but the water goes up my nose!
Load More Replies...these are common in expensive houses in my country (SA). Only poorer people have the attachment on the bath tap (faucet). If you want to wash your nether regions, well, the water is running down your body right, and you have a cloth or loofah, right...?
If god had meant us to take showers, he would have given us upward facing armpits.
Load More Replies...We have a plethora of shower heads to choose from. It comes down to choice.
Where have you showered? Most showers I've had have handheld nozzles.
Take your "what" and replace the w and h with t and w respectively.
Load More Replies...I have a huge rainfall shower head but also have a smaller one you can either leave in the holder of by hand - my thinking was it'd be easier for washing kids hair - turns out it doesn't matter, they'll scream like banshees regardless
Why is it only shorter people who determine the height of where it gets attached? Thankful that in Aus, attachable handhelds are becoming the norm.
Housing codes, and why all your front gardens are just grass, and identical.
Lawns, used to be a status symbol...coming from England. The tradition just persisted when Americans started building homes. But times are changing. With water becoming more scarce, people are opting to go without lawns (especially if you live in a townhouse).
Lawns became a big thing in the US post WWII and the advent of DDT to keep mosquitoes down. Er, darn, too much King of the Hill. I need to go back to bed.
Load More Replies...Actually, I have a story on this: friend of mine from South Africa settled in Austin, and as an avid gardener, was a little put out by this exact phenomenon. Turns out, most people in Austin generally stay indoors in the air conditioned environment, and don't bother with doing anything to their garden apart from planting grass. She decided to buck the trend, and made up flower beds in the front garden, planted flowers, and set out a small garden table and chair set, where she spent the evenings sipping wine and waving at the incredulous neighbours. As a result of her mad efforts, she achieved a few things: she got to know her neighbours, who eventually got around to joining her for the odd glass, she fostered a flower-growing and more outdoorsy culture in her neighbourhood, and was single-handedly responsible for bring butterflies back into the Austin suburbs. She was awarded by the city for this feat :-)
Once again, TV standards much? I mean, sure, Mcmansions are similar, but we decorate and landscape here. In the house I grew up in it was so pretty... I was devastated when my mom sold it and they tore all the pretty flowers up. I guess it was "too much work" to take care of. :c
A lot of new builds - esp cul de sacs, are designed with open squares of lawns at the front in the UK. In fact, I once lived in one as far back as the '90s. Neighbour's kids would just walk over the lawns rather than use the pavements, which was annoying, tbh.
I like to have herbs in a garden, if I was in America I would just have herb and flower beds and some wild grasses
A lawn is something to be used, not stared at. And guess what no matter what you do the s**t is just going to keep growing. millions of years from now you'll be dead, but that one blade of grass will still be there.
Why do Americans put their TVs so high up the wall? I understand that sometimes it’s because there’s a fireplace below where it should be, but how do they even watch the TV without straining their necks?
Balances out craning your neck to look down at your phone all day.
I have no idea why some people do this. Ours is on our entertainment center at a comfortable level.
Again, we have that in the UK. Mine is on a cabinet, and my daughter has hers above her fireplace, so I suppose it's more of a choice people make in where they put their TV? Isn't it the same in the USA? A percentage rather than every single citizen?
This is not an American thing. It's a person who is making a bad decision thing and not unique to the US
When I was a kid, we used to put them on the floor. Everyone would sit or walk in front.
Why so many parents just kick their kids out at 18 and if they get in financial trouble in early 20s say “you’re on your own.”
I think that’s all over the world, depends on the parents and not where you live.
It is most definitely not the same all over the world. Have a look at this map of Europe. It's the percentages of people aged 25-34 who live with the parent(s). https://brilliantmaps.com/europe-live-parents/
Load More Replies...Not all do. But not all parents are wealthy. If they're struggling to pay bills and there's someone who is an adult living there, then either they should be contributing or making plans to leave. At 18, whether you agree or not, you are legally an adult. I understand your parents maybe haven't done a good job getting you ready for that, but it still is what it is. By 18 you should either be on your own, or mom and dad have agreed to let you be home because your in school, or maybe because they just want to. The problem is more when we treat parents who *don't* as if they're doing something wrong, or that by asking this person to contribute is somehow mean. Asking for help around the house, having a part time job even if you're in school...yes it's hard. It's supposed to be. That's what you should be learning and adapting to because that's life. Preparing your kid to be able to take care of themselves is not cruelty-- you're setting them up to be more independent people.
When I finished HS, I was ready to build my own life, not continue to live off my parents as an adult. Sure, they were a safety net, but I was ready to be an adult. A lot of time, if a kid isn’t on their own or at college by 20, they’ll never be independent… we call it “failing to launch.”
All the ones who can barely pay for themselves. It's really bad here and I'm glad I'm never having kids. I'm paycheck to paycheck in my 40s barely hanging on. Damn glad I don't have kids.
There’s like 50000 kids in your high schools???
That's an exaggeration. The largest in the whole country is 45,000. They are big though. Especially West of the Mississippi.
EXCUSE ME? 45,000 is still a lot!! I go to a school with like 1,600 kids and that's just about the biggest school around!!
Load More Replies...Depends on the area. Rural schools may have as few as 50. Big urban high schools can be 5000 or more. Most schools I've seen are between 1500 and 3500.
schools in my country (SA) are average 500 kids. Some really small with like 100 kids, some large with 2000 kids, seldom more. Universities are a different story, usually over 20 000.
It depends on where you live. My elementary school was shut down due to an insufficient number of students and we had to travel a few towns over. Despite being shared by about 5 towns the high school there still had only about 600 students.
Wow! A comparison: "What is the largest secondary school in the UK? Exmouth Community College is an academy in Exmouth, Devon, England. The college provides secondary education for 2000 plus (max: 2,850) students aged 11 to 18." We are a small Country, though, so... :)
My graduating class was 170. My kids is 150. Of the 140 high schools in our corner of the state, only 17 have more that 500 kids per grade, with the largest at about 850 per grade. Way too many imho for kids to have experiences with sports, etc. but too small and you don’t get the academic and extracurricular offerings.
We had less than 1000. I graduated with 150 in my class in a suburb outside of NYC. My kids though, their class will have about 1000 alone and we are outside of Washington, DC.
WHY IS THERE NO EAST VIRGINIA???
Long story short. There was one Virginia. Most of it joined the Confederacy during the Civil War. The little chunk to the West wanted to join the Union. So West Virginia is a state that seceded from another state that seceded from the United States of America.
Wait a minute……what happed to West Dakota, East Carolina, and Old Hampshire?
I'm guessing New Hampshire is because it was named after the county of Hampshire in England.
Load More Replies...And is the east of west virginia technically central virginia, or just east west virginia?
It's literally west... of Virginia. Aside from that - apparently this was a big thing because when the western part of Virginia seceded from the Confederate state and joined the Union, they had to have a name to make it official, and there was a lot of argument over whose regional name was more unpronounceable until they went with West Virginia as a compromise.
Something like with part of Virginia wanting to secede and West Virginia was the compromise? I haven't looked into the American Civil War in a while but it was something to do with that. The other part is just Virginia.
I would like for once reading an article about USA (and about the rest of the world to be honest) that points out quirky or funny habits without feeling the need of bashing them. The US have big social problems, but most of the Americans are aware of them, they don't like the situation they are in and they are probably frustrated that there's no way to change the system in a eyeblink. Why bashing them for something that is out of their control? Why don't let people know how do they differ in culture, habits and tradition highlighting other aspects of them that aren't just the problem?
I totally agree. I live in the UK and there's easily enough bad stuff here for a couple of posts and I imagine the same goes for other countries. If they're going to criticise they should at least make it equal.
Load More Replies...Enough already, BoredPanda. These articles are nothing but lazy and obnoxious stereotypes. I’m not even originally from the US and can’t believe how many negative articles this site posts. It’s truly disturbing and lazy on behalf of your “writers.” What the heck has happened to this site these past couple of years? It used to be a place where you wrote quirky articles and celebrated artwork from around the world, now it has become so mean spirited. I highly doubt that you actually read your comments, but you’re going to lose your readership
It's either these type of posts or AITA posts where they very clearly aren't. I agree that the quality of BP has dropped considerably. I actually find it kind of boring now.
Load More Replies...Can we talk about the things that make more sense in America? I like the drive-in/ drive through culture, much easier for people with mobility issues and safer during covid. I also like that your cities don't look like the town planners threw a pot of noodles on the floor and called it a map. Edit for clarity - I'm not a fan of driving culture, but I specifically like drive in and drive through facilities along side the regular facilities.
Yes! While driving culture has its ups and downs, and historically f*cked over a lot of minority communities, it has been great benefit to my disabled @ss. I particularly admire our willingness to pave roads up ridiculous mountainsides. I’m not healthy enough to be a mountain climber, no matter how much I dearly want to be, and American roads have gotten me very close lol
Load More Replies...OK time to be nice to the Americans because they get a lot of hate on Bored Panda. America also has a lot of really great things, and has done some great things. Lots of national parks, lots of space, awesome buildings, NASA (omg the best thing), hollywood (I do like it even if it is predictable), silicon valley (we owe you a lot for that), standardisation of english as lingua franca due to the bretton-woods thing, military intervention in ww2 (but wars after that were probably your fault), er... m&m's, those are nice. Fast food... hmm quality needs improving but the basic idea is useful (my country's fast food is slower but better, but the speed with which a big mac is made amazes me)... er what else. Ford and the production line concept, edison light (even if he stole some ideas)... telephone, internet. We owe USA a lot. So I think it's good that even if we pick on the americans for their weirdness (eg imperial units) and violence (e.g. George Floyd), let's also remember we owe them.
Thanks, nice list. England still uses Imperial. Violence is everywhere-I mean, you live in SA
Load More Replies...Whew, I’m glad we got another one of these…It’s been a couple weeks, I was getting worried.
A bunch of false generalizations that could apply anywhere in the world peppered with the occasional true comment.
OH MY GAWWD YOU AMERICANS WEAR SHOES IN YOUR HOUSES LOLOLOLOL - I swear my eyes are going to roll back in my head if I see that one more time
No s**t! Not all of us were shoes indoors! I only keep them on if I'm going back out soon. Plus, you CAN wipe your shoes on the door mat before entering, you know!
Load More Replies...The usual weekly USA bashing is right on schedule. The only problem with this is that they are always the same. Can you people come up with something new besides the healthcare, metric system, bathroom stalls, high school football, why it is called football, etc etc etc. C**p is getting old, overplayed and just plain stupid. If you don't like what we do here then just stay away.
For a site that purports to embrace diversity and understand that different cultures do things different ways, BP loves to point the finger at the US with the regularity of an addict jonesing for a fix. The only time fingers should be pointed is when people are being hurt by a cultural practice. Otherwise, live and let live and stop throwing stones from your glass house. We are a relatively new culture, historically speaking, and a melting pot of multiple cultures, including all of yours. The rest of the world has millennia of history of questionable behavior, but it's always the US and its measly 246 years of existence that everyone bashes. It's like bullying the new kid. It's cringeworthy and sad. You should stop.
I would like for once reading an article about USA (and about the rest of the world to be honest) that points out quirky or funny habits without feeling the need of bashing them. The US have big social problems, but most of the Americans are aware of them, they don't like the situation they are in and they are probably frustrated that there's no way to change the system in a eyeblink. Why bashing them for something that is out of their control? Why don't let people know how do they differ in culture, habits and tradition highlighting other aspects of them that aren't just the problem?
I totally agree. I live in the UK and there's easily enough bad stuff here for a couple of posts and I imagine the same goes for other countries. If they're going to criticise they should at least make it equal.
Load More Replies...Enough already, BoredPanda. These articles are nothing but lazy and obnoxious stereotypes. I’m not even originally from the US and can’t believe how many negative articles this site posts. It’s truly disturbing and lazy on behalf of your “writers.” What the heck has happened to this site these past couple of years? It used to be a place where you wrote quirky articles and celebrated artwork from around the world, now it has become so mean spirited. I highly doubt that you actually read your comments, but you’re going to lose your readership
It's either these type of posts or AITA posts where they very clearly aren't. I agree that the quality of BP has dropped considerably. I actually find it kind of boring now.
Load More Replies...Can we talk about the things that make more sense in America? I like the drive-in/ drive through culture, much easier for people with mobility issues and safer during covid. I also like that your cities don't look like the town planners threw a pot of noodles on the floor and called it a map. Edit for clarity - I'm not a fan of driving culture, but I specifically like drive in and drive through facilities along side the regular facilities.
Yes! While driving culture has its ups and downs, and historically f*cked over a lot of minority communities, it has been great benefit to my disabled @ss. I particularly admire our willingness to pave roads up ridiculous mountainsides. I’m not healthy enough to be a mountain climber, no matter how much I dearly want to be, and American roads have gotten me very close lol
Load More Replies...OK time to be nice to the Americans because they get a lot of hate on Bored Panda. America also has a lot of really great things, and has done some great things. Lots of national parks, lots of space, awesome buildings, NASA (omg the best thing), hollywood (I do like it even if it is predictable), silicon valley (we owe you a lot for that), standardisation of english as lingua franca due to the bretton-woods thing, military intervention in ww2 (but wars after that were probably your fault), er... m&m's, those are nice. Fast food... hmm quality needs improving but the basic idea is useful (my country's fast food is slower but better, but the speed with which a big mac is made amazes me)... er what else. Ford and the production line concept, edison light (even if he stole some ideas)... telephone, internet. We owe USA a lot. So I think it's good that even if we pick on the americans for their weirdness (eg imperial units) and violence (e.g. George Floyd), let's also remember we owe them.
Thanks, nice list. England still uses Imperial. Violence is everywhere-I mean, you live in SA
Load More Replies...Whew, I’m glad we got another one of these…It’s been a couple weeks, I was getting worried.
A bunch of false generalizations that could apply anywhere in the world peppered with the occasional true comment.
OH MY GAWWD YOU AMERICANS WEAR SHOES IN YOUR HOUSES LOLOLOLOL - I swear my eyes are going to roll back in my head if I see that one more time
No s**t! Not all of us were shoes indoors! I only keep them on if I'm going back out soon. Plus, you CAN wipe your shoes on the door mat before entering, you know!
Load More Replies...The usual weekly USA bashing is right on schedule. The only problem with this is that they are always the same. Can you people come up with something new besides the healthcare, metric system, bathroom stalls, high school football, why it is called football, etc etc etc. C**p is getting old, overplayed and just plain stupid. If you don't like what we do here then just stay away.
For a site that purports to embrace diversity and understand that different cultures do things different ways, BP loves to point the finger at the US with the regularity of an addict jonesing for a fix. The only time fingers should be pointed is when people are being hurt by a cultural practice. Otherwise, live and let live and stop throwing stones from your glass house. We are a relatively new culture, historically speaking, and a melting pot of multiple cultures, including all of yours. The rest of the world has millennia of history of questionable behavior, but it's always the US and its measly 246 years of existence that everyone bashes. It's like bullying the new kid. It's cringeworthy and sad. You should stop.
