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Hey Pandas, Whats A Song That Makes You Feel Deeply Sad, Like You're About To Cry?
Small Bump but Ed Sheeran. It is one of the saddest songs I have ever heard. It's one of those songs where I always listened to the beginning but never listened to the lyrics all the way through... the day I did though I absolutely sobbed. Essentially it is about coming to terms with being a dad-- at first unsure but then kind of worried you'll be a bad parent, then a super odd excitement over what your life will be like-- then the rug pull, the child is either still born or miscarried and the final verse is just shock and grief.Hey Pandas, Whats A Song That Makes You Feel Deeply Sad, Like You're About To Cry?
There's something about Bastille's Oblivion, specifically the live art capitol hill one ( https://youtu.be/vlcDX77rzPM?si=M6T33nNXZ8M7OpYn ). I know the song is clearly about addiction, but whenever I hear it, I think about an ex I had who really struggled with mental health and was suicidal. They had periods of absolute mania by they also would just crash, suddenly and I used to have this constant fear that I may never hear their voice again. I recall, their mom (oh yeah this was like high school) coming to pick me up from school to bring me to the hospital to see them and I would just sit there while they are restrained to the bed after tried to slit their wrists and I would just cry. I was also very depressed, but seeing and feeling the impact of them every time they tried to end it, absolutely hardened me against ever going that far myself. Even though they found a way through and are substantially better now than they were then and we are still good friends, this song just reminds me of them and every other friend or acquaintance i have lost to self destruction... but it's a beautiful song.Hey Pandas, Post Your Two-Sentence Horror Stories
She tried her best to ignore the liquid pooling around her toes as she walked across the damp bathroom. A she stepped over the tub side, she allowed herself to look down for the first time, at the stinking dingy shag carpet. Her expressing of discomfort became that of utter horror as she realised it hadn't just been water oozing from the thick unwashed fibres.Show All 6 Upvotes
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Hey Pandas, Whats A Song That Makes You Feel Deeply Sad, Like You're About To Cry?
Tears in Heaven....gets to me every time...Hey Pandas, What's The Most Delusional Person You've Ever Seen?
Everyone is going with famous figures or trolling so I'm going to change it up. I had a friend from grade school and we went to uni together. She at one point had been a really nice. Over time though, I stopped being her friend because I liked her, and was just friends with her because we had been friends. What made her so delusional was that she essentially had a crush on a guy in her dorm (across the hall) and decided they were soulmates. He had no interest in her, they went to a party during homecoming, and hooked up after. After that his passing fascination was over and she felt they were meant to be together. So... she would but stuff based on what he would want her to wear, wear her hair how he liked it, would constantly knock at his door, if he opened it, would push her way inside and try to get in his bed... he had a girlfriend. I warned her that it was weird and I was concered. At one point I came up to see her after she had missed class and saw him shove her out of his room, against the wall after she tried to block the door from closing with her foot and force herself in wearing lingerie (this was an apartment style dorm so people were coming and going). I had to take her to her dorm and try to talk some sense into her-- that's when i saw that she was wearing one of his chains. She said that he gave them to her to show he cared-- turned out he had actually left his door unlocked while he grabbed coffee, she went in and was going through his stuff, when he tried to remove her she broke his necklace and kept it as a souvenir. Whenever he said anything negative to her she would either willfully ignore it or get spiteful and depressed. She would tell others they were a thing and he would literally scream in her face in front of others that there was nothing between them, she was crazy and sleeping with her was a mistake. He admitted was a jerk and kind of a douche but no one deserves to be treated the way she treated him. He ended up dropping out and moving home. Her level of delusion about everything else intensified and I realised the best way to help her was to stop enabling her by trying to smooth over her bad behaviour. She messaged an ex who was stalking me where I was-- because she 'liked him more than my then-bf' and thought it was cutesy-- add in that she had me meet a guy she liked off the internet early in case he was a creep, which is to say used me as bait, and used the N-word in relation to my mum out of nowhere (who adored her and treated my friend like a daughter) and I was super over her bs. Last I heard she got a server at her dad's restaurant fired after he had rejected her because he had a gf (the server was 17 allegedly she was 22 at the time-- not sure I fully believe that but by then she was so far from who I had known it's insane).
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Hey Pandas, If Sent Back To Cavemen Times With Immortality, What'd You Do?
I'd get a jump on the housing market lol. Hales M • upvoted 8 items 1 month ago
Hey Pandas, Whats A Song That Makes You Feel Deeply Sad, Like You're About To Cry?
Tears in Heaven....gets to me every time...Hey Pandas, Whats A Song That Makes You Feel Deeply Sad, Like You're About To Cry?
Small Bump but Ed Sheeran. It is one of the saddest songs I have ever heard. It's one of those songs where I always listened to the beginning but never listened to the lyrics all the way through... the day I did though I absolutely sobbed. Essentially it is about coming to terms with being a dad-- at first unsure but then kind of worried you'll be a bad parent, then a super odd excitement over what your life will be like-- then the rug pull, the child is either still born or miscarried and the final verse is just shock and grief.Hey Pandas, Whats A Song That Makes You Feel Deeply Sad, Like You're About To Cry?
There's something about Bastille's Oblivion, specifically the live art capitol hill one ( https://youtu.be/vlcDX77rzPM?si=M6T33nNXZ8M7OpYn ). I know the song is clearly about addiction, but whenever I hear it, I think about an ex I had who really struggled with mental health and was suicidal. They had periods of absolute mania by they also would just crash, suddenly and I used to have this constant fear that I may never hear their voice again. I recall, their mom (oh yeah this was like high school) coming to pick me up from school to bring me to the hospital to see them and I would just sit there while they are restrained to the bed after tried to slit their wrists and I would just cry. I was also very depressed, but seeing and feeling the impact of them every time they tried to end it, absolutely hardened me against ever going that far myself. Even though they found a way through and are substantially better now than they were then and we are still good friends, this song just reminds me of them and every other friend or acquaintance i have lost to self destruction... but it's a beautiful song.Hey Pandas, Post Your Two-Sentence Horror Stories
She tried her best to ignore the liquid pooling around her toes as she walked across the damp bathroom. A she stepped over the tub side, she allowed herself to look down for the first time, at the stinking dingy shag carpet. Her expressing of discomfort became that of utter horror as she realised it hadn't just been water oozing from the thick unwashed fibres. Hales M • upvoted 9 items 2 months ago
Hey Pandas, What's The Most Delusional Person You've Ever Seen?
Everyone is going with famous figures or trolling so I'm going to change it up. I had a friend from grade school and we went to uni together. She at one point had been a really nice. Over time though, I stopped being her friend because I liked her, and was just friends with her because we had been friends. What made her so delusional was that she essentially had a crush on a guy in her dorm (across the hall) and decided they were soulmates. He had no interest in her, they went to a party during homecoming, and hooked up after. After that his passing fascination was over and she felt they were meant to be together. So... she would but stuff based on what he would want her to wear, wear her hair how he liked it, would constantly knock at his door, if he opened it, would push her way inside and try to get in his bed... he had a girlfriend. I warned her that it was weird and I was concered. At one point I came up to see her after she had missed class and saw him shove her out of his room, against the wall after she tried to block the door from closing with her foot and force herself in wearing lingerie (this was an apartment style dorm so people were coming and going). I had to take her to her dorm and try to talk some sense into her-- that's when i saw that she was wearing one of his chains. She said that he gave them to her to show he cared-- turned out he had actually left his door unlocked while he grabbed coffee, she went in and was going through his stuff, when he tried to remove her she broke his necklace and kept it as a souvenir. Whenever he said anything negative to her she would either willfully ignore it or get spiteful and depressed. She would tell others they were a thing and he would literally scream in her face in front of others that there was nothing between them, she was crazy and sleeping with her was a mistake. He admitted was a jerk and kind of a douche but no one deserves to be treated the way she treated him. He ended up dropping out and moving home. Her level of delusion about everything else intensified and I realised the best way to help her was to stop enabling her by trying to smooth over her bad behaviour. She messaged an ex who was stalking me where I was-- because she 'liked him more than my then-bf' and thought it was cutesy-- add in that she had me meet a guy she liked off the internet early in case he was a creep, which is to say used me as bait, and used the N-word in relation to my mum out of nowhere (who adored her and treated my friend like a daughter) and I was super over her bs. Last I heard she got a server at her dad's restaurant fired after he had rejected her because he had a gf (the server was 17 allegedly she was 22 at the time-- not sure I fully believe that but by then she was so far from who I had known it's insane).Hey Pandas, How To You Feel About The New Updates To This Site?
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