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Burs • upvoted 38 items 1 year ago

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The Best And Worst Transformations Seen During School Reunions, As Shared By These 30 Internet Users

We are going backwards, reversing all the good that feminism did against gender roles and sexism. Now we have again people pushing sexist stereotypes but this time in name of "progress".

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That sounds awesome

“No, It’s Permanent”: TikToker Shares How A Gynecologist Refused To Sterilize Her And Goes Viral

But it’s not their place to play the decision maker here. A doctor can have a discussion with you, but bringing up the correct reasons is key. The possible meeting Mr. right thing is stupid. Pushing an IUD or hormonal birth control is not right. Mention them and move on. Have the right conversation and then go from there.

The Best And Worst Transformations Seen During School Reunions, As Shared By These 30 Internet Users

THIIIIS

“No, It’s Permanent”: TikToker Shares How A Gynecologist Refused To Sterilize Her And Goes Viral

For the women here suffering from the sexism of doctors. There is a reddit called childfree that has a great list of doctors who are sterilisation friendly all over the world. Please check.

“No, It’s Permanent”: TikToker Shares How A Gynecologist Refused To Sterilize Her And Goes Viral

Its ridiculous how little doctors care for womans bodily authonomy and for their health. Even with severe endometriosis I had a gyn yelling at me "what about your husband!" when i stated that i didnt want children and theee other gyns denying me a needed hysterectomy.

“No, It’s Permanent”: TikToker Shares How A Gynecologist Refused To Sterilize Her And Goes Viral

That is not what the statistics say. The percentage of childless women who regret getting a sterilisation is very low. But even if it was 50% a woman has the right to get sterilised. Its none of the doctors bussiness.

“No, It’s Permanent”: TikToker Shares How A Gynecologist Refused To Sterilize Her And Goes Viral

Guess plastic surgeons don’t count in your narrative.

“No, It’s Permanent”: TikToker Shares How A Gynecologist Refused To Sterilize Her And Goes Viral

To your PS, exactly! People who adamantly don’t want children will usually end up with someone who feels the same way. It’s a nonsense argument made by doctors.

“No, It’s Permanent”: TikToker Shares How A Gynecologist Refused To Sterilize Her And Goes Viral

Exactly. Also a hysterectomy for endometriosis is not done "because i dont want children" (even if she doesnt). Its done to treat a severe chronic illness. But apparently a hypothetical baby is more important than a womans health...

“No, It’s Permanent”: TikToker Shares How A Gynecologist Refused To Sterilize Her And Goes Viral

For many doctors womens value is just giving birth. Our lives are less important to them than our hypothetical childre

People React To Elon Musk's Daughter Disowning Him And Changing Her Name

At least someone with brain. Thank you !

The Best And Worst Transformations Seen During School Reunions, As Shared By These 30 Internet Users

Sadly society punishes women who not follow sexist gender roles. I was told all my youth how disgusting i looked and how "I was not a real woman" for having short hair and not dressing in a traditionally femenine way.

The Best And Worst Transformations Seen During School Reunions, As Shared By These 30 Internet Users

The sexism in this text is disgusting. You cannot "act like a boy, talk like a boy" because there is nothing inherently masculine or femenine. We went from "women are this men are that" to "everybody can be as they want" back to "women do this man do that". Its infuriating.

“No, It’s Permanent”: TikToker Shares How A Gynecologist Refused To Sterilize Her And Goes Viral

It's not just young, childless woman either. I had my tubes tied at age 40, after giving birth to my third child. I was married. We were done having kids. My third child was a surprise, and I didn't want to have to keep taking hormones the rest of my life. I was still asked, about a hundred times, if I was sure I wanted this, and had to switch hospitals because the original hospital I picked refused to do the procedure. It shouldn't be so difficult.

“No, It’s Permanent”: TikToker Shares How A Gynecologist Refused To Sterilize Her And Goes Viral

Women are often ignored by modern science. A man going in to get a vasectomy is never lectured to about wanting kids.

“No, It’s Permanent”: TikToker Shares How A Gynecologist Refused To Sterilize Her And Goes Viral

My wife tried for years to do this. Finally (yeah, it was slow to break through my thick head) I went in for a vasectomy. Damned doctor wanted not only my opinion on it, but hers too. My wife is pushing 50 now and I still suspect, if she asked, her doctor would try to push some BS agenda about her not having kids.

“No, It’s Permanent”: TikToker Shares How A Gynecologist Refused To Sterilize Her And Goes Viral

Wow!!! I had no idea! So much for women's rights. Not to mention individual rights to your own body.

“No, It’s Permanent”: TikToker Shares How A Gynecologist Refused To Sterilize Her And Goes Viral

I told the specialist that I'm adamant I didnt want anymore children and that if I ever fell pregnant, I WILL get an abortion. I made sure I gave them as many reasons as possible to not deny me having a salpingectomy (fallopian tube removal). Didn't take them long to make the decision after that. And yes, even after getting your tubes tied or removed, you can still fall pregnant with IVF if you ever change your mind. Not saying you will coz I know I certainly won't. In saying all this, we shouldn't have to jump through hoops or be told what we want or should do when it comes to our bodies.

People React To Elon Musk's Daughter Disowning Him And Changing Her Name

Yeah....I'm kind of with him on the whole pronouns being an aesthetic nightmare. Usernames are so much more cluttered when they have them included. Now don't get me wrong, I understand why it's done and I will happily use whichever pronouns a person prefers (heck I even added my own to my profile after that ally post) but I still don't like how cluttered it makes usernames look.

“No, It’s Permanent”: TikToker Shares How A Gynecologist Refused To Sterilize Her And Goes Viral

I find it mind-boggling that a doctor would rather risk a woman's life than her future relationships. As if every man on the planet wants children and is willing to risk killing his partner for it.

The Best And Worst Transformations Seen During School Reunions, As Shared By These 30 Internet Users

*butch, sorry, my autocorrect

“No, It’s Permanent”: TikToker Shares How A Gynecologist Refused To Sterilize Her And Goes Viral

When a hypothetical man's hypothetical wishes are deemed more important than your personal decisions about your own body...

The Best And Worst Transformations Seen During School Reunions, As Shared By These 30 Internet Users

I'm sorry, why's a b***h lesbian haircut considered non-flattering here? Short hair on women isn't ugly, stop the stigmata.

“No, It’s Permanent”: TikToker Shares How A Gynecologist Refused To Sterilize Her And Goes Viral

Good grief. Not even an informed argument from the doc. Tubal ligation is only considered sterilization because of it's effectiveness rate (99%) but it is by no means, always permanent -should one choose reversal which has pretty darn good odds. Exam room soapboxes aren't cool for something like this.

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Burs • commented on 2 posts 1 year ago

The Best And Worst Transformations Seen During School Reunions, As Shared By These 30 Internet Users

We are going backwards, reversing all the good that feminism did against gender roles and sexism. Now we have again people pushing sexist stereotypes but this time in name of "progress".

50 Interesting Comparison Images To Give You A New Perspective (New Pics)

That sounds awesome

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Whats Your Phobia?

Burs • commented on 5 posts 1 year ago

The Best And Worst Transformations Seen During School Reunions, As Shared By These 30 Internet Users

We are going backwards, reversing all the good that feminism did against gender roles and sexism. Now we have again people pushing sexist stereotypes but this time in name of "progress".

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That sounds awesome

Someone Asked “What’s The Easiest, Legal Way To Make Money On The Side?”, And 30 People Delivered

Chill j was just asking a question. No need to be a d**k

Someone Asked “What’s The Easiest, Legal Way To Make Money On The Side?”, And 30 People Delivered

I imagine that this is USA only?

Bride Doesn't Want To Force Androgynous Niece To Wear A Dress To Her Wedding, Starts Family Drama

And not even teens. I am in my mid 30s and might marry this year. I plan on wearing a suit. I never liked dresses and avoided them as much as possible.

Burs • commented on 15 posts 2 years ago

“People Who've Been Banned From Somewhere For Life, What Happened?” (30 Answers)

And sadly most governments dont even pay attention to them and other extreme right wing movements

“People Who've Been Banned From Somewhere For Life, What Happened?” (30 Answers)

I got almost insta banned from r/short (together with other women) when I explained that not only not all women want tall men but some, like me prefer them short. I even made a calculation and it turns out that like 70% of guys I ever liked would be considered short. Naive me tough that it would bring hope to these men. But they are just disgusting incels so they insulted me and banned me.

Hey Pandas, What's An Unpopular Opinion You Have On Society?

Its a social difference. Sexism creates gender roles that dictate what a "man should be" or a 'woman should be". Conforming to those roles is sexist by definition.

Hey Pandas, What's An Unpopular Opinion You Have On Society?

A trans person would have their biological sex. But they could be of any gender they chose to identify with since its not a biological thing, just a social construct. So a male could be a man or a woman or nobinary but never stop being a male

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Exactly! It cannot be the same. My sister is ill and she describes it the same way as you do.

Hey Pandas, What's An Unpopular Opinion You Have On Society?

Sex (male or female) is a biological thing determined by your chromosomes so its nothing that you can identify with. Gender as a social idea/construct is something you can identify with

Hey Pandas, What's An Unpopular Opinion You Have On Society?

It depends. If you talk about gender man= person following the sexist gender rules about how "to be a man". Woman= person following the sexist gender rules about how "to be a woman". Other people use man=male woman=female

Hey Pandas, What's An Unpopular Opinion You Have On Society?

https://www.yourgenome.org/facts/what-is-dna

Hey Pandas, What's An Unpopular Opinion You Have On Society?

If you want a detailed explanation here there is a good article, but I will look for a easier source. https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/books/NBK6360/#:~:text=Times%20have%20changed%2C%20and%20several,require%20a%20plethora%20of%20proteins.&text=We%20are%20reasonably%20sure%20now,in%20an%20RNA%2Fprotein%20world.

Hey Pandas, What's An Unpopular Opinion You Have On Society?

Fun fact: That is not how mutations work; seriously get a biology book. DNA is made out of four basic components ( adenine, guanine, cytosine and thymine) that are organized in specific sequences; during the duplication of the DNA said replication can fail, getting extra copies, deletions or modification in the 'basic components' that make the DNA different, resulting in different genes. Another fun fact: What are you even saying? Eyes are in no way cacerous lumps; there is a really well researched path between simpler eyes and modern ones; it is very well known how they developed. Thrid, evolution doesn't have 'Ideas' because it is not a sentient being; it is a law of nature. Electricity doesn't have 'ideas' either and yet electrical current happens.

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It is extremely common where I live. I have found that the cheapest something is the ruddest people usually are. Not long ago I was attacked by an idiot because I didnt want to drive to another town to deliver an office chair FOR FREE!. Like I try to help others giving away the chair (which is great just old) and I get insulted for not delivering it. I told the a*****e that i would do it for 100 euros.

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Not from most of European countries so unless OP was in UK or Ireland it is not that weird that they were surprised.

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Including UK that was invaded many times: rome, saxons, normands...

Hi Pandas, Im Bored, Write Something Controversial.

You mean genotype, which are your genes. Phenotype is how they express themselves, which is not always reflecting your chromosomical sex. An individual who is XY is a male but might not develop a male-like phenotype due to developmental problems.

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One of the few times were I am glad that somebody got murdered. It really helped free my country

Burs • upvoted 20 items 1 year ago

“No, It’s Permanent”: TikToker Shares How A Gynecologist Refused To Sterilize Her And Goes Viral

Guess plastic surgeons don’t count in your narrative.

“No, It’s Permanent”: TikToker Shares How A Gynecologist Refused To Sterilize Her And Goes Viral

For the women here suffering from the sexism of doctors. There is a reddit called childfree that has a great list of doctors who are sterilisation friendly all over the world. Please check.

“No, It’s Permanent”: TikToker Shares How A Gynecologist Refused To Sterilize Her And Goes Viral

Women are often ignored by modern science. A man going in to get a vasectomy is never lectured to about wanting kids.

“No, It’s Permanent”: TikToker Shares How A Gynecologist Refused To Sterilize Her And Goes Viral

Wow!!! I had no idea! So much for women's rights. Not to mention individual rights to your own body.

“No, It’s Permanent”: TikToker Shares How A Gynecologist Refused To Sterilize Her And Goes Viral

When a hypothetical man's hypothetical wishes are deemed more important than your personal decisions about your own body...

“No, It’s Permanent”: TikToker Shares How A Gynecologist Refused To Sterilize Her And Goes Viral

doctors like this always think we're going to wake up on our birthday and be like "me want baby!"

“No, It’s Permanent”: TikToker Shares How A Gynecologist Refused To Sterilize Her And Goes Viral

For many doctors womens value is just giving birth. Our lives are less important to them than our hypothetical childre

“No, It’s Permanent”: TikToker Shares How A Gynecologist Refused To Sterilize Her And Goes Viral

To your PS, exactly! People who adamantly don’t want children will usually end up with someone who feels the same way. It’s a nonsense argument made by doctors.

“No, It’s Permanent”: TikToker Shares How A Gynecologist Refused To Sterilize Her And Goes Viral

I find it mind-boggling that a doctor would rather risk a woman's life than her future relationships. As if every man on the planet wants children and is willing to risk killing his partner for it.

“No, It’s Permanent”: TikToker Shares How A Gynecologist Refused To Sterilize Her And Goes Viral

I experienced the same at her age. I never wanted children. Additionally another specialist found out that hormonal contraception or a pregnancy will very likely kill me. Even that wasn't enough to get a sterilization. Luckily after a year I found a doctor about 500km from where I live who does sterilizations on women that age. I told him about my journey of denial by other doctors and he answered, "It's all BS. You're over 18, an adult and you can speak for yourself. The other medical conditions make it even more reasonable. If you want it, that's all that matters. And if you really change your mind, there's IVF, adoptions or fostering." It's now 9 years and I don't regret anything. PS: Mr Right was with me back then and still is, not wanting to have children either.

“No, It’s Permanent”: TikToker Shares How A Gynecologist Refused To Sterilize Her And Goes Viral

This makes me so mad. It took my sister almost 15 years with severe endo to find someone who would do a hysterectomy. I can't even stress how effed up and patronizing the argument "you might regret it later" is. 1) No one tells that to young men wanting a vasectomy 2) Yes I might regret it but I am an ADULT and I get to make my own mistakes if it turns out to be one and 3) I can get a facial tattoo with no questions asked and they are permanent and a lot of people will regret them at some point and while I am ranting 4) kids are permanent and some women regret having them so how is all this not valid??

The Best And Worst Transformations Seen During School Reunions, As Shared By These 30 Internet Users

*butch, sorry, my autocorrect

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