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Nobody has all the answers. Not even Wikipedia. So, generally speaking, we shouldn't be too hard on ourselves if our lack of understanding of the universe takes center stage. In fact, acknowledging the limits of your mind instead of giving into your insecurity to always appear smart is a sign of intelligence.

To show you that we all have our moments, Bored Panda is taking a look at a discussion on Reddit, started by user Big_Piccolo_8369 where people have been revealing what things they found out embarrassingly late in life. From preserving veggies to making decisions when you're horny, continue scrolling and check out some of the most popular entries!

#1

40 Things People Weren’t Aware Of Until Embarrassingly Late In Life Percentages are reversible. So 8% of 25 is the same thing as 25% of 8 and sometimes the reverse is easier to calculate.

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tara
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3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Yeah I don't know if you heard the pop...but that was my mind being blown apart!!

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Adam King
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3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I remember figuring this put while lying in bed and doing head calculations (I was a fun kid). It makes sense, like in the example it's just 25 x 8 x .01 so whatever the order is it still works.

Brocken Blue
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3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Thank you for this! Honestly I was scratching my head over this one still, but your way of expressing it makes me finally see it!

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Redemption Happens
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3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Whaaaat?!!! Why was I not taught this?!

Viktor
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3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

You were. 8 x 0.1 x 25 = 8 x 25 x 0.1. If you haven’t been taught that multiplication is commutative, something seriously went wrong.

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CD King
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3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

51 years old and thank you. Life just got a little easier.

Sandy Kavanaugh
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3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I didn't know that! (I'm almost 67!)

AJJ
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3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Oh my gosh I have a math minor from college and never realized this, I'm embarrassed

rodger coghlan
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3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

If the individual digits of a large number add up to 9 (or 18), the number is divisible by 9

Nicole Holt
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3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

51 and just now hearing of this?!?!

Clover
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3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Wow! I never realized this before. Thanks!

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We managed to get in touch with Big_Piccolo_8369, and they said this post was a result of a conscious attempt to create a viral thread.

"I kept on trying to think of questions that would blow up. Since everyone has found out something way too late, and Reddit users love answering questions about themselves, I decided to ask that question," they told Bored Panda.

"I was kind of expecting lighthearted answers, but I was met with random things to do if you get sued or if you buy a house or something. I did see some funny ones so it sort of worked out."

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    #2

    Being well-educated in one area doesn't mean that a person can't be a total idiot in other areas.

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    Vorknkx
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    As the old saying goes, the Jack of all trades is a master of none.

    Syringa Wessels
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    that’s actually not the saying, the saying is “a jack of all trades is a master of none, but oftentimes better than a master of one” look it up

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    InvincibleRodent
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    3 years ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    The best example for this is Ben Carson. You can be an accomplished neurosurgeon of high renown, and still believe that climate change is not real, and that Joseph from the Bible built the pyramids.

    Nicole Weymann
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I'm always surprised by statements like Carsons' (especially coming from supposedly intelligent people), and not sure which one of the two you mentioned I find more stupid.

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    Riley Quinn
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    My circle of friends was made up of grad students in physics, mathematics, and astronomy. Lovely, brilliant people, but they could barely function in their daily routines like shopping, laundry, and cooking.

    Well then
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Book smarts don't always add up to street smarts.

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    Daniel Yamada
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Also, being well-educated in one area doesn't mean that the person can't make be wrong about something in that area.

    Snakery Bakery
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Yeah, no s**t. Ask an astrophysicist to do an open heart surgery and you'll be left with a fresh corpse.

    Ondřej Macák
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Germans have a word for this (because of course they have) which we borrowed in Czech - fachidiot.

    Chich
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I've met so many "i'M aN eNGiNeER" types who believe that makes them an expert in everything that when I find out someone is an engineer my opinion of them automatically falls 25%.

    Fluffy mommy panda
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I've seen this so many times. Someone be book smart but not have common sense and be a total idiot but think they know everything. Or extra.

    StrangeOne
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    "I know what I'm talking about more than you because I went to college and you didn't blah blah blah"

    RJ
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Or indeed the area they are well-educated in.

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    #3

    40 Things People Weren’t Aware Of Until Embarrassingly Late In Life Tell the police nothing. Tell the paramedic everything.

    Accurate_Leg_2447 , cottonbro Report

    Minath
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Always ask for a solicitor before speaking to the police, you don't have to answer questions and can say "no comment"

    Nicholas Kramer
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    You have the right to remain silent. But do you have the capacity?

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    $cagsy
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    If it was you that called the police, don't just ignore them when they arrive or they will probably arrest you for being an idiot. If that isn't against the law then it should be.

    Kirsten Kerkhof
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    And don't tell the doctor you're on your period if it isn't relevant. They will try to blame any medical complaints you come for on your period if you are.

    Metalhead Turtle 🇺🇦
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I've met male healthcare providers (not just doctors) who don't hesitate to blame your problems on being a woman... Or having those body parts. ... Even if I keep my mouth shut.

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    Riley Quinn
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    It's vitally important that paramedics, doctors, nurses know the truth, otherwise you might be given a drug/treatment that further endangers you.

    troufaki13
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Cop: "Tell us what happened that night"' Witness: "I ain't sayin' nothin'" Cop: "Please ma'am, we need your testimony to nail this bastard" Witness: "I'll only talk with my paramedic present"

    Hill Branda
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    My Dad was a lawyer--mostly corporate and land law--but he told all of his kids, "If you're ever taken to the police station, ask for a lawyer and say nothing until one shows up. Even if you're innocent."

    ohjojo (you/your's)
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Just because someone official asks for entry into your home doesn't mean you have to grant it.

    Syringa Wessels
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    i will never understand people that lie to health care workers.

    Sue User
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    After years of bad diagnosis or outright dismissal, i dont disclose anything unless I ( that shpuld be bold ) decide.

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    Molly Whuppie
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    3 years ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Depending on the country you are in, Police ARE legally allowed to lie to you, to trick you into confessing, whether you committed the crime or not. Don't say anything. Get a lawyer.

    Cat Monaghan
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Do NOT be a douchebag, though!! Try to follow any and all directions. Don't give an officer ANY reason because you never know the end result!!!

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    Dr. Adi Jaffe, who holds a Ph.D. in psychology and teaches courses at UCLA that address addiction, pointed out that the more we learn, the more we realize how little we actually know. But when we lack this awareness, we fall victim to the Dunning Kruger Effect (DKE) — a cognitive bias in which people wrongly overestimate their knowledge or ability in a specific area.

    "Because the world is full of know-it-alls who don’t actually have any idea of what they are talking about—and the more aware we become of this phenomenon, the better we'll be at deciphering the trolls spouting fake news from the truth-tellers," Jaffe explained on Psychology Today.

    #4

    40 Things People Weren’t Aware Of Until Embarrassingly Late In Life Don't ignore bullies. That's terrible advice. The only way they will leave you alone is through the sight of their own blood.

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    oktopus
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Or by realising you have some other power over them.

    Parmeisan
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Protip: If they're popular and you're not, you have power over them. They will be terrified of being associated with you. I actually stopped a bully in high school by pretending to greet him happily like we were best buds - he never approached me again. Cheers, hope this helps somebody.

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    Remi (He/Him)
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I was told exactly that. Ignore them and don't let them see that they managed to upset you. Bullies didn't stop and now I have trouble identifying my own emotions. Gotten better with practice, but still

    Vorknkx
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Indeed. They don't stop when ignored, they just intensify the harassment until they get a reaction out of you.

    Redemption Happens
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Worst advice ever. The research on bullying is that the behavior needs to be addressed immediately and consistently.

    SCP 4666
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    What do animals do if they're being "bullied"? They use their natural defence mechanisms. So should humans do

    Madeleine
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Ok, but we have more options than physically fighting. Other animals can’t speak, for a start.

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    Phyzzi
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    There is a huge amount of research on human (and animal) behavior, and the people giving this advice may be misinterpreting what is known as "extinguishing" where a behavior that receives neither positive nor negative reinforcement tends to go away. The problem is, picking on someone who doesn't respond still gets positive reinforcement, because there is still an interaction, and usually a noticable effect. Often the best thing to do is to confuse the "reinforcement" path by reacting in an unexpected way, especially if that reaction undermines their social dominance which is often the hidden motivation for bullying (remember, we're basically just chimpanzees with smaller hands so we still have the need to figure out who leads our groups). Unfortunately, you can look at adults and pretty easily see that bullying really is a way to get power, so it's certainly not just kids who need to understand that this behavior is not actually a demonstration of meaningful strength.

    Weirdest Bi You’ll Ever Meet
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I have had blood drawn from bullies. TELL SOMEONE IF YOU BULLIED OR IT COULD GET LIKE WHEN I WAS BULLIED!

    Otakupanda
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I am always told that by literally everybody in my family if I were to ever get made fun of

    Andreas Deml
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Total nonsense. I always reacted and still was bullied for years. Because bullies like it, when you react. If you cease to react, it gets boring to them. It gets worse for a short while, because theys want to provoke any reaction. But if there is none, they will stop.

    R J
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Until you become the bully and take the lesson to be whoever hits harder and shouts loudest is the winner.

    SGH
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    That is not at what is being advocated here. Standing up for yourself and stopping someone hurting you does not make you a bully.

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    #5

    40 Things People Weren’t Aware Of Until Embarrassingly Late In Life Taking medication for mental illness actually helps

    IceCreamDream10 , Andrew Neel Report

    Cee
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    And don’t let anyone tell you that “you should just get some exercise or go for a walk and you’ll feel better”. That may help some but not all. Instead, I suggest, kicking the person in the shins and then start running. That way they can’t be mad since they were the ones that gave you the advice to go for a run

    Cee
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    On a serious note.. what works for one person may not work for another. Be kid to yourself while you’re trying to figure that out. Find your own best way to help yourself and “run” with that. See what I did there? Haha

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    $cagsy
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    It's actually a bit of a lottery in my experience. I seem to be on a good combination right now but in the past, various meds have caused hallucinations, increased suicidal ideation and psychosis. It's very much trial and error and the psychiatrists seem to take a scattershot approach to it. Everyone reacts differently to different meds, which is tough because you're taking the pills because you are struggling and then to have to deal with side effects on top is an extra large kick in the teeth. To anyone that needs it right now, good luck and stick with it, you'll find what's right for you eventually and things will improve.

    tirebiter
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    The brain is an organ. You'd take medicine to manage a heart condition.

    SageHare37
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    In this same excellent view, in addition to medication, counseling/therapy is much like physical therapy for injured movement tissue. With the right practitioner it can really help you heal/grow/be you.

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    Riley Quinn
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    This is absolutely true if, and only if, you have been properly diagnosed. For years I was prescribed cocktails for bipolar, which made my life a horror show. I am NOT bipolar! I wasn't suicidal before taking the medication. The inappropriate medications prescribed to me created additional mental, financial, and legal problems that lasted for years, nearly ruining my life. Shop around for a bonafide therapist. They are like any other professional - some are better than others.

    piruoztek
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Exactly, I know many autistic people who were horribly misdiagnosed and get even more problems because of that.

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    Jp@nda
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    HOWEVER, if it's your first time taking medication for mental health, you will see greater benefits if you pair the medication with some form of therapy, even just talk therapy.

    Cat Monaghan
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Yes it does help! There is just one thing to be mindful of..... If the meds prescribed are making you feel uneasy or weird or any way you don't like, TELL YOUR DOCTOR ASAP!!! Don't wait, don't just go off them or say they don't help. You need to advocate for yourself. It can take quite sometime to find the correct dosage or meds that work. It can be dangerous to stop something immediately both to your body and your mental health. Remember that no one can advocate for you, better than you.

    Fluffy mommy panda
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Yes do this. It not that medication might not help. It just may be that you need different one or a lower dosage.

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    Mrs. EW
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Same. I had a bad experience with Effexor from a family doctor that put me on way too high a dose. It was over 20 years before I realized I did, in fact, need medication and it’s helped me so much!

    Weirdest Bi You’ll Ever Meet
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    😅 I am someone who had to have medication for my depression or I wouldn’t be here. My brother takes ADHD medication or he wouldn’t be here; his implosiveness almost got him killed by a semi truck. My mom wouldn’t be here if she didn’t have here antidepressants. Therapy helps but it wouldn’t have been enough for me or it would of gone to slow and I would have done IT i long time ago.

    T. B.
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Diet and exercise helps everything. That doesn't mean that it cures anything.

    Fluffy mommy panda
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    It would help my mother for certain of period of time then they would change her medication. There was even one she was allergic to that made her worse and my dad told them about it And they still put her on it. It was bad.

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    Many tend to overestimate their capabilities."People will rate themselves as average or above average on essentially all tasks," Jaffe said. "If you understand how averages work, you know this is impossible (some people have to be below average, some are average, and some are above average for the whole thing to work)."

    But the incompetent fail, through life experience, to learn that they are unskilled. Why?

    "One reason is that people rarely receive negative feedback about their skills and abilities from others in everyday life. We can call this tact, being diplomatic, or respect for others, but the end result is the same: We typically shy away from telling people they messed up. But what DKE teaches us is that people need honest feedback."

    #6

    40 Things People Weren’t Aware Of Until Embarrassingly Late In Life Always get it in writing.

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    Cee
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I am a huge fan of the “gentleman’s handshake” only because I feel like if I can’t take you for your word, why am I getting into business with you? But as much as I’d like to rely on that for everything, I’m a realist. A little slip of paper is your safest bet

    BlackestDawn
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Any difference and/or conflict that come up doesn't need to be malicious in nature but can be something as simple as just based on what you are accustomed to due to education, upbringing, and/or regional variations (especially international ones). So yes having it on paper what is expected from every involved party is the safest thing to do.

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    Bill Evs
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I've had my fingers burned by this in the past. Someone in work would ask for something outside of the norm then when questioned about it denied ever asking, thereby throwing me under the bus. Now whenever someone asks for something informally I always insist they send it via email as "confirmation" of our conversation. Until I get that email I ain't doing it!

    Nicholas Kramer
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Yes! Once I moved up so many people send questions to me by IM. I always ask them to send me an email because I'm working on something else.

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    $cagsy
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Emails from Nigerian princes don't count.

    Tim
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Technically, you can use the email as evidence of fraud. Technically, what they are doing is illegal here and there, so technically, they can be prosecuted. Not that anything will typically happen that results in your money being returned. I do remember at least once or twice, the Nigerian government trying to crack down on this kind of thing.

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    Ash
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I once lived in an apartment where our downstairs neighbor decided that the structure of the house being noisy was our fault (it was loud in their apartment when we walked across the floor, but we literally couldn't help that). She started trying to torture us by doing things like getting up at 4 am and running the vacuum cleaner and the blender and stomping around all at once. So we started keeping a written record of her behavior, with dates and times. Eventually she got evicted for her behavior, and the reason she didn't try to argue against it in court was because the landlord's lawyers were able to inform her that they had a written record of all of her bad behavior stretching back six months. Keep written records.

    Nora Chavez
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Nowadays I just say can you email me that? What you just said.

    Josurf
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    That's why I prefer an email to a phone call.

    alicia
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    This is the one thing my mom taught me that has been useful.

    Deborah Barron Brown
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    3 years ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    This happened to someone I know who owns their own business. He had a contract to perform services for a company. They asked him for additional services that were NOT in the contract. When his company billed them for the additional services they wouldn't pay because it wasn't in the contract.

    L hill
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Thats what Judge Judy says and we know she is ALWAYS right on.

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    #7

    40 Things People Weren’t Aware Of Until Embarrassingly Late In Life You can’t get lazy with birth control just because you turn 40. Signed, Middle Aged Mom of a newborn

    KayaXiali , cottonbro Report

    Tiny Dancer
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Yeah, pretty sure the expression, "You can’t get lazy with birth control." should cover ANY age.

    Beth Newby
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Yep I'm 42 and just got back on it be cause I don't want an "oopsie" lol

    Min
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    And some antibiotics will render your birth control null and void.

    Aleia T
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Taking another perspective from someone whose longing for baby for a very long time (YES, me and my husband get ourselves together and prepare for this children/ parenting journey) and struggling with infertility (not from my side), reading this advise really breaks my heart. Just saying...

    Happy_Pandalover
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I wish your dreams will come true with your own baby. Maybe you can have a sperm donor or another solution. Not being able to have an own child can be just as devastating as getting pregnant unwanted.

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    StarlightPanda!
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Obviously. Why did she think otherwise? =/

    Callie Ge
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Contrary to popular opinion most unplanned pregnancies are no teenage girls, they are married women over 35 with 2 or more children. Married couples tend to get lax about contraception with many believing it’s almost impossible to get pregnant without ivf over age 45.

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    There's another reason why so many of us may not accept that we are incompetent or lacking knowledge. We may be ignorant of an important form of feedback: social comparison.

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    "One of the ways we learn about our competencies is by observing the actions of others. Research shows that, compared with people who are experts in particular areas, people who are incompetent in those same areas are less able to identify the skills in others," Jaffe explained. "Consequently, they are unable to learn that they had less competence in the area and were more likely to overestimate themselves."

    So when you think you're really good at something, finding an objective way to assess your expertise might be really useful.

    #8

    40 Things People Weren’t Aware Of Until Embarrassingly Late In Life Flushable wipes are not to be flushed ever.

    Mysterious_Valuable1 , Maria Kozyr Report

    Chucky Cheezburger
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Damn right...and grease isn't ment to go down the drain either.

    CHRIS DOMRES
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I just found out that eggshells interior membrane clogs garbage disposals because they are sticky.

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    R J
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    3 years ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Three P's... Poop, Paper and Pee are the only flushables

    mrsmir
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    You must be a man because you forgot the 4th p… Period 🙊😆😬 (before you downvote me off of boredpanda, I’m just being silly)

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    Elsker
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Check for flushable AND biodegradable and you should be just fine

    Ace
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Not true. Wipes like those pictured are not flushable, nor are they labelled or advertised as such; many others, specifically the wet toilet paper ones, are, as long as your sewage system is up to standard (i,e, not in those countries where TP should not be flushed anyway),

    madbakes
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Most of the wet toilet wipes are not flushable, even though they say they are. Ask any plumber. They do not break down and will eventually cause a blockage. Same with tampons. NEVER EVER flush these things down a toilet in a home with a septic system.

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    Karin Gibson
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Fat burgs in the drains are caused by fats these wipes and the chemicals to clean up after doing these things. Fats plus alkali cleaners make soap which are what the fat burgs are made if.

    Riley Quinn
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    The only thing that should go down the toilet is human waste and toilet paper. Or, you can set aside funds for the plumber you'll be calling.

    Demongrrrrl
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Google "Fatberg" and see why wipes should not be flushed.

    Lawrencium
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    On the box: "tested by plumbers!" Not on the box: the results of those tests

    Jaya
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Doesn't this depend on the country? I've done that my whole life, in homes and in apartments, never had a problem whatsoever, never needed a plumber.

    Scifi1203
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    What? I flush those teensy flushable kid wipes and have never had a problem? Am I missing information? Are they awful for the environment? I know you're not supposed to flush more than ONE at a time, but someone help me out here?

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    #9

    40 Things People Weren’t Aware Of Until Embarrassingly Late In Life The people you work with aren't your friends. Always keep your guard up. Any and all of them can throw you under the bus at any time.

    rrickitickitavi , Jopwell Report

    troufaki13
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    That's a bit harsh. I mean, they could be your friends. And on that note, your "friends" can also throw you under the bus, so...

    RJ
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Please... spend some time working retail.

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    Remi (He/Him)
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Depends on the work structure. If there are promotions to be had internally, or if the bosses tend to fire people too easily, this is true. If you work in a stable environment where there's very little to be gained by blaming others, you can make some actual friends that can last beyond the time you work together

    #1jengablock
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    okay so this one isn't true in all situations... i have worked in a couple places where yes... i did feel like it was every man/woman for themselves. but i also have worked with people who are now my friends even after i left the job. i just think you have to use ur own judgement to determine whethrr or not its a good idea.

    Oerff On Tour
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Especially if you work for a bus company

    Phyzzi
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Hahaha, I see what you did there but yeah, the two years I worked for a bus company one of the first things someone (I think it was a driving instructor or a manager) told my cohort was "don't gossip. Lots of people here are related or connected in ways you might not know and anything you say could come back to bite you". I did actually become friends (not close but cordial beyond someone I just met a few times) with some people there but it was also good advice that I followed and benefited from.

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    Winter
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    That goes in any situation...work, school, theatre, etc. Not everyone is someone you can call a friend. In my life, in any group I have been a part of, I have found similar archetypes in all groups. There's always a friend, and there's always an a*****e, and everyone in between.

    John Bujold
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Also remember that if you step off a sidewalk and get killed by a bus you family will get condolences and your company will replace you the next day. Spending as much time with family and friends is way more important than any job. I should have and didn't.

    DennyS (denzoren)
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I don't mind being friendly but I don't share things with coworkers. That's my limit.

    Riley Quinn
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    We tend to confuse the terms friend and acquaintance. If you can call someone to help you "bury a body", that's a friend. Everyone else is merely an acquaintance.

    Phyzzi
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Huh, that seems like a stricter definition than I think most people would agree with. I tend to think of "close friends" who might spend hours helping you with something personal or genuinely keep an important secret, and who know who they can tell what about you and you know the same for them, then "friends" who are people who will spend time with you without other obligation to do so, or choose to spend time with you over spending time with other people, and then there are acquaintances, who are people you recognize and probably know the name of. If someone hasn't inconvenienced themselves for you, they are not a close friend, and if their interests come first, you shouldn't expect them to look out for yours. That doesn't mean you shouldn't enjoy hanging out with them or talking to them, but don't hand them the knife to stab you in the back with.

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    Darian Starfrog
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Yes! I lost my job because of this? Had a hard day..told who I thought was a friend.. got me fired!

    Diana Schlafer
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I honestly thought they WERE my friends after all we'd been through (at work and outside) over 13 years. Then my job was eliminated and I literally never heard from any of them again. Lesson learned.

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    #10

    When it comes to trying to save someone from addiction: love is not enough.

    Loot_my_body Report

    Linziaj
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I spent 3 years helping my friend who was an alcoholic. Had to cut ties as it starting effecting me mentally. He dies 2 months ago and I feel I let him down but realise you can't help people who don't help themselves.

    DuchessDegu
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Sorry for your loss, but you're right. Sometimes you have to cut ties not to be dragged down as well

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    smugdruggler
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    The only thing that's enough is the addict wanting to stop. And it means a lot of changes other than just not taking that substance any more.

    R J
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Sadly addiction is something you can't be saved from, but it can be helped, unfortunately the inflicted needs to want to be helped. Or at least transfer choice of addiction to less harmful version. There's many of choice addiction to choose from.

    Syringa Wessels
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    i completely disagree. love may not be quite enough but it is endlessly important, not to smother, but to let them know, every single day that you love and care for them, i’ve dealt with a lot of family members with extreme addictions and they really need to know someone cares.

    madbakes
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    No one said it's not important. What was said that love alone can't help someone who isn't ready to be helped.

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    Joshua Moore
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Couldn't agree more. I lost my brother more than 8 years ago. My mother, his ex-wife, my ex-wife and people from his work and church tried to intervene on numerous occasions. It really came down to myself and my mom over the last two years, but nothing we did helped. My mom blamed herself for so long. Just like you said, you can't help someone who won't accept the help.

    Xan Maranya
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    The question is, How to help a person get to this point? Love may be part of this change.

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    Mr. Pigeon
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    letting go is the best option...

    J
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    This is very true but also very sad 😔

    Xan Maranya
    Community Member
    3 years ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    It's clear there has to be at least a willingness to get help. But... How to help a person to get to that point? Love may be part of this change.

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    #11

    40 Things People Weren’t Aware Of Until Embarrassingly Late In Life Just because I hold an opinion on something doesn't mean that I need to share it. I spent WAY too much of my early adulthood inserting my viewpoint into discussions that I wasn't really a part of.

    xjuggernaughtx , Budgeron Bach Report

    Luke Branwen
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    A crypto investor, a vegan, a Trump supporter and The Last Jedi hater walk into a bar. How do you tell them apart? No need to, you'll know within five minutes.

    SCP 4666
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    😄 and a person who hasn't watched game of thrones

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    IamMe
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Ok, so I'm an American with a simple view on politicians. They. All. Suck. Our elections have stopped being about who is best, they're about who is less bad. Yet, every conversation for some people has to go there. Question"What kind of sandwich do you like?" Answer "Trump is a big orange dummy!" Question "What's your favorite movie?" Answer "Biden is a crazy old man!" Please stop. It's annoying.

    Vorknkx
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    There is a time and place for everything. One shouldn't stop having opinions, of course, but should learn when and where to voice them.

    Odd1Out
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    off topic, sorry, but that woman is wearing five shirts

    Michael Largey
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I once had to tell a student "Not everything that pops into your head has to pop out of your mouth". He got it.

    Riley Quinn
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I don't object to people giving their opinions. It's when opinions are offered as facts that I get annoyed. Or when someone has a differing opinion and it boils over into an argument. Truth/facts are worth an argument, but not opinions.

    CHRIS DOMRES
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    The only person I will listen to political discourse from might be a Political Science professor. At least I can be reasonably sure he is well informed with facts.

    Phyzzi
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I actually prefer people who study human behavior and thinking as experts on "politics". On most issues, though, I would prefer to hear from someone who is an expert in the thing being discussed, not an expert on the discussion.

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    Aiden Brough
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    My daughter has strong opinions and voices them. I salute her for this, but I also warn her that others may not agree with her, which surprises her has she thinks that HER opinions are the right ones and therefore the ONLY ones to hold. For example - she believes that sex and gender are the same thing. I say 'no, sex is biological and gender is social - one is immutable but operable, whereas the other is now changeable'. She will not accept my view to the point I'm some facist. I try to tell her that people CAN have an opinion that differs from hers, and I accept that she has hers - but she needs to perhaps broaden her knowledge and seek other sources (her current sources are all like minded). But still, I am wrong. Wisdom and youth I guess?

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    #12

    It is possible to commit no mistakes and still lose. That is not a weakness. That is life.

    Fifetwo Report

    R J
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    The winner takes it all, the losers standing small or something. That's ABBA.

    Bob La Capra
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    When I coached youth basketball and football after a tough loss I'd tell the team, "sometimes you play a pretty good game and lose anyway. It's just the way it goes."

    Riley Quinn
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Crying foul or unfair isn't the answer because the universe is a swirling entity of chaos. Nothing's fair. It is what it is, now move along.

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    #13

    40 Things People Weren’t Aware Of Until Embarrassingly Late In Life Just because they're older than you, doesn't make them more mature. Would've saved me from an entire marriage

    Ok_Chocolate3253 , Emma Bauso Report

    Jennik
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    That dress is making me anxious

    ggus44
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Leonardo DiCaprio: *awkward look monkey puppet*

    Just saying
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    My husband is 15 years younger than me. Most of the time, he is the older one. Not sure if this is good or bad, lol.

    alicia
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Opposite is the same -- just because they're younger doesn't make them IMmature, either. Everyone is different.

    Callie Ge
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    True that but you dont expect a 27 year old man to be a 4 year old tantrum throwing toddler disguised as an adult do you?

    J
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I am older and maturity is optional for me 🤣

    Viola Powell
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    She’s half undressed already.

    Raven DeathShade
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Thank goodness, I know this already. I love my bf, but he's just as mature as I am while being 2 years older.

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    #14

    “This little piggy went to market”.......the pig was not shopping.

    jerseycityfrankie Report

    RJ
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Daaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaamn!

    ohjojo (you/your's)
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Then explain why the piggy had roast beef?

    Andi
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    this dawned on my in my 50s .... in the picture books it was always going off with a wicker basket .... oh they lie ....

    lol.litl.owl
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    OMG! I'm 45 and I've always thought he went shopping. That's just horrible!

    Pamela Blue
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    He probably DID go shopping. This again is people deciding that something doesn't mean what the author intended it to mean. I'm not sure why people think they're smart by rearranging the meaning of things.

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    Nobody
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    he was off to make bacon :P

    Финикс Дэ Лионь
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Big toe= big fat piggie ready for butchering. Pointer toe= stayed home because he wasn't fat enough for market. Middle toe= ate all the bread an butter to fatten up for market. Ring toe= had none because the other two ate everything. Pinke toe "runt"= went weewee all the way home 🪓😇

    Kat Lyle
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    See also the chicken who crossed the road... once you realise what the "other side" is...

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    #15

    40 Things People Weren’t Aware Of Until Embarrassingly Late In Life That most people can actually see pictures in their mind. Growing up, I always thought 'counting sheep to fall asleep' meant using my head to think the words "1 sheep, 2 sheep, 3 sheep" etc, and so I was understandably puzzled as to why sheep, and not any other word? Then, when I was 34 years old, so not exactly young, I actually figured out that I have aphantasia. Turns out, nearly everyone can actually 'see' animals, or their family member's faces, or characters from a movie, in their head - whereas I've always built quite detailed descriptions, in words, because that's all I have in my head.

    NegativeFunk , cottonbro Report

    BluEyedSeoulite
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    That's interesting. Like the people who have an inner monolog and those that don't

    Polly Hart
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Sometimes my inner monologue turns into whispering or talking out loud without me realising, especially if I'm concentrating. My colleagues tease me that I'm working so hard, they can hear my thoughts! 😅

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    Ace
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    3 years ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Yes, I only discovered that people could 'see' a face in front of them just from their thoughts later in life too. I'd never understood how people could remember things like hair and eye colours, imagining that they must make a mental list of all these things for everyone they meet. To me it's like some kind of super-power. Then again, I'm aware that some people can't play music in their head, whereas I can conjure up a whole song, different instruments, voices, harmonies etc. so maybe I'm the one with the superpower?

    smugdruggler
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I've never understood the " picture it in your mind" idea. Like the OP said, I can build quite complex descriptions of things in my head but I never get actual images. And now I have a word for it. Cool.

    Brocken Blue
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I always thought people were speaking metaphorically when the said they were “picturing” something or that they could see it in their “mind’s eye”

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    Ozymandias73
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Ugh, I can't imagine how it would be being like that. Being a creative writer, I visualize what the scenes would look like that I'm writing about to get a better perspective of how the reader would see it. Then I write what I see in my head. For me, it would be impossible to do so without that visualization.

    Jessica Cifelli
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I have this as well. I have a hard time being creative because I can't picture what I want the end result to be. But I am great at problem solving. Even my dreams are like I am reading pages of a book. Its all just words. No pictures

    Eli D
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I can’t imagine not seeing in a dream, I feel so bad for you

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    Alienking06
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I have some sort of mild Aphantasia. The images are very very hard to "see" for me.

    oddly_informed_raven
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    why does everyone in the comments have aphantasia, is it that common?

    SarahBee
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Because 1% to 3% of all people have it, which makes it way more common than you'd think!

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    Taibhse Sealgair
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    What's really freaky is that that it's been shown that an above average number of Disney animators have aphantasia. Especially the early ones.

    Edurne
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I can relate, even though it's a bit different for me : I can see the faces of people I know or places I've been to.. but I am completely unable of "making up" an image in my head. if I haven't seen it before, it doesn't exist to my brain. also I've never heard an "inner voice" in my life

    DennyS (denzoren)
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Oh wow. I remember reading somewhere that not everyone can imitate someone's voice in their mind...don't know how true it is. It always seemed so normal.

    Phyzzi
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    The other related thing is whether you "hear" words when you read. Most really fast readers don't, but if you like word play you may be more likely to.

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    #16

    40 Things People Weren’t Aware Of Until Embarrassingly Late In Life Never make an important decision if you are hungry or horny. Both have a massive impact on your decision making abilities.

    Ill-Appointment6494 , Liza Summer Report

    Cee
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Don’t forget about grocery shopping!! I’m embarrassed to tell the amount of times I’ve bought candles, whipped cream, and chocolate sauce on a whim

    Remi (He/Him)
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Going to buy groceries while hungry is especially bad. You end up with too much stuff that probably includes a lot of unhealthy choices

    Chucky Cheezburger
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Yep...blood has to get to brain for brain to work properly. That's why people get stupid when spooled up.

    Christof Irran
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    the difference between being Horny and Hungry is where you put the cucumber the-differ...1ed80e.jpg the-difference-between-being-Horny-and-Hungry-is-where-you-put-the-cucumber-6318f061ed80e.jpg

    MSP
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    HALT and ask your self, am I Hungry, Angry, Lonely, or Tired? If no to all, then proceed.

    Diana Pahule
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Oh yeah don't talk to me when I'm hungry unless it's to ask me what I want to eat.

    Tina Harnish
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    If I shop on a full stomach I tend to buy way more junk food. When I am a little hungry, I get healthier groceries. Always been that way.

    BG
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Doesn't leave a lot of room for decision-making.

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    #17

    40 Things People Weren’t Aware Of Until Embarrassingly Late In Life If you press Windows Key + V you can see a list of all the things you've copied

    btween3n20chars , Christina Morillo Report

    troufaki13
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Nice!! It will definitely come in handy! :)

    General Anaesthesia
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    You not only see a list, you can paste from it. It works only if clipboard history is turned on, Windows Settings/System/Clipboard. I don't remember, it might be turned on by default, but turning it off survives years of updates.

    DuchessDegu
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    WHAT DID I JUST LEARN? Thank you form the bottom of my heart!

    RJ
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    What Windows Key + combo do I need to upvote this 10 times?

    Brazen
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Turns out I have copied nothing. lol

    siri.exe
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    unless if u turn off copy history

    Alvia Vseobecna
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    did not know, now I know and am happy about it :D Thanks!

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    #18

    40 Things People Weren’t Aware Of Until Embarrassingly Late In Life Saving money early in life is a really good idea.

    Bomphilogia , Alexander Mils Report

    Minath
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Learning how to save and the best place to keep your money is an important skill

    Lisa H
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Having money to save is cool, too. Wonder what that's like.

    piruoztek
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Only if your income is more than you need to barely survive which is hard to get in many parts of world (and I mean also developed countries) and especially if someone is disabled.

    Lara Verne
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    If only I had money to save....

    Deborah Barron Brown
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Yes yes yes. In my 20s I put $10k from my first employer into a 401k retirement account and never touched it. It is now over six figures. Keep your hands off the retirement account until you retire.

    Nicholas Kramer
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Say it with me, compound interest. If you can, I know not everyone can, but if you have the ability to; starting at age 16 put $100/m into an investment account (like the S&P 500 index fund). At an average rate of 10% you will have $950K by time you're 60. So age 16, $100/m, 10% rate over 44 years = $950K. It's a lot easier said than done but knowledge is power.

    Nicholas Kramer
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Also, if you can when your child is born, if you choose to have kids, $20/m at 10% over 18 years is $12k. That's enough to pay for two years of community college. It may not be much but it's 12K more than I had at 18.

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    Robert Robi Z
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Having money to save it early in life is a very good idea

    Gloria Julian
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Plus, get a job that gives you a pension.

    Beachbum
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    It is a good idea, but really hard.

    Bryan W.
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I always take exception to this "nugget of wisdom". First of all: duh. Secondly, the real challenge is developing the self-discipline to do it which most people will lack in their formative years. Finally, unless you know how to do it properly, the value of saved money is actually lost over time to inflation and you'd be better off spending it. Bonus: A lot of people don't even make enough money to meet an acceptable quality of life in US, so saving isn't even an option.

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    #19

    That common sense is not that common

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    $cagsy
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    It's so endangered that Edinburgh Zoo has started a captive breeding program with a view to releasing a little common sense back into the wild every few years.

    Mr. Pigeon
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    my father used to say "common sense is a currency that most people have very little of.."

    Michael Largey
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    "It's just common sense" is often used to mean "I have no facts, logic, or qualifications for what I claim, but I'm calling you an idiot if you dare to disagree with me".

    Rachael Kumm
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I once had a coworker tell me intelligence is not evenly distributed. No truer words....

    Christof Irran
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I disagree; "common sense" is just that: "common." What's not common is an open, questioning mind and critical thinking.

    Timothy Leung
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I keep telling my wife this whenever she said someone did not have common sense. Common sense is different for everyone.

    Sandy Kavanaugh
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    It's not common at all, unfortunately.

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    #20

    No one really cares about you. I don't mean that in a bad way. But everyone is so busy thinking about themselves, you are always an after thought. The most embarrassing thing in your life, probably doesn't matter than much to someone else.

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    Oerff On Tour
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    We live in an egoistic world. Everyone only thinks of themselves. I'm the only one who ever thinks of me! (I heard this from a teacher maybe 40 years ago)

    Zalzany Games
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Oh I had a teacher people made fun of for being "selfish" by time I graduated she was so messed she had a tick, but kids had no clue, its like see that twitch, that is bad, and involuntary, that woman has her own problems way worse then yours...

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    CatFist
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Something I heard many years ago that stuck with me, and that I've taken great comfort from ever since: "You'd be surprised by how much people don't think about you when you're not around."

    VM37
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    You can't say that like a general rule. I know many pepole dont have living and carring family and friends, but I know a lot do. I have 3 children and what is important to them is important to me. And same goes for my husband. I feel sorry that you don't have someone like that in your life.

    Frank Ropen
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    It doesn't mean nobody loves you but others don't remember all your mistakes and embarrassments because they fear their own mistakes and embarrassments

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    Darian Starfrog
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    This is big people.. care not what others think of you!

    Will Payne
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    “You will become way less concerned with what other people think of you when you realise how seldom they do.” - Derren Brown

    Grammarly
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    *me who's always thinking about other people*

    Elsker
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Lol:) this!! :) i had a nightmare sometimes, about being at highschool and suddenly realizing i'm naked. A few years ago, at the cafeteria at my office, the new skirt i was wearing dropped down. Picked it back up as quick as i could, starting to feel flustered, and then i realized no one had noticed. Everyone was involved in their conversations or smartphones. So yeah, people don't worry about you as you may do about them. Not sure if thats a good thing, though it is quite comforting. Never had that nightmare again:)

    Vicky De Raedemaeker
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    My therapist believes everyone in your life will help when you just ask for help. I don't want to burst his bubble ;)

    Ed Kramer
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I really care about my partner!

    Xan Maranya
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Then care about yourself... genuinely.

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    #21

    Your brain isn't trying to make you happy or your life easier. It's trying to keep you alive. Everything else is secondary.

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    smugdruggler
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    In fact it's just trying to keep you alive long enough to breed and multiply your genes. Ideally by having grandchildren.

    Nonna_SoF
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Sometimes not even that. Some people are wired just to help their siblings and their kids survive. The current hypnosis being it prevents the population growing too fast and causing a famine.

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    Riley Quinn
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    IDK. Sometimes I think my brain is deliberately sabotaging my day.

    Xan Maranya
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    3 years ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    That's not your brain, it's how you are thinking The good news is, you can make new choices about that.

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    Xan Maranya
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    The brain isn't 'Trying' to keep you alive.... it IS keeping you alive: your heart beating, your breathing, your blood circulating, your nerves and muscles functioning, your biochemistry balancing... and oh yes, your thinking and feeling.

    Frank Ropen
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I really doubt that. Just look at all the live threatening decisions it makes

    Zalzany Games
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Varies on brain, mine often times wants me to give up, and just curl into a ball, and not bother anymore at anything including staying alive. That is why I seek help at VA. Some people's brains is looking for easy out, and the quick happeness ever at the expense of your saftey. Hell I got whole family who would sooner drink themselves to death then face reality. And literally people have died that way, had 3 die to booze one homeless vet uncle die covered in track marks on the street all with in 5 years of each other when I was younger...

    Malwin Wellham
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    3 years ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Being happy & having it easy prolongs your life. So yes it is also trying to do that. However it often does not know what true happiness is.

    Helen Waight
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Given that mine has severe depression I’d dispute that - it keeps trying to kill me.

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    #22

    40 Things People Weren’t Aware Of Until Embarrassingly Late In Life That you can actually say no to your parents.

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    Adam Chang
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Thats the only thing my 2-year-old say.

    Andrea
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    The elder millennials and all the generations before that didn't get that privilege. It was always about what the parents wanted.

    Zalzany Games
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Exactly and some parents are still like that to this day. My cousin was till his kids were old enough they could just leave, pack up leave and he did that "oh they comming back" like when I was kid parents called your bluff and no one would take you in. But now its like ok there is like 4 safehouses in the family for warword teens so that s**t don't fly anymore. But my child hood was do what dad says, or get you a*s beat if he found out. Some times my mother helped me cheat the system but if he found out I didn't get a spanking I got taken outside and used as a body bag for his fists carefully not leaving a bruise were a teacher could see it telling me if I ever tell he deny it, and beat me worse once he beats the charges...

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    B Hobbit
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    As an adult, yes. As a kid, this would have gotten our a** kicked.

    Grammarly
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Me: no - My dad: gEt OvEr YoUrSeLf

    Madeleine
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    It’s very sad that a number of responses to this are speaking as if abusive parenting is standard.

    Oerff On Tour
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Especially if they ask you if you broke something!

    Richard Nichols
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Depends on what kind of parents you have.

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    #23

    That gargling saltwater works way better than cough drops for colds and sore throats.

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    Deborah B
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Rinsing your mouth well with hot saltwater also helps a lot of dental pain (not all). If you have to wait a few days to see the dentist, or have pain afterwards, it's worth a try.

    Mrs. EW
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    A hot tea bag does too. It draws out the infection and acts as an antiseptic.

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    Puppeteer Saint
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Gargling is a weird thing to do.. "Here. Take this undrinkable liquid... No.. Don't drink it.. Just pour it in your mouth and almost choke to death on it. Now spit it out."

    Poly Amorous
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    It soothes your throat, but only if it's warm

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    Katy McMouse
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    If you get post nasal drip, gargling hydrogen peroxide helps break it up and also numbs your throat a bit. I try to do this every couple of hours and it seems to help it clear up faster.

    Syringa Wessels
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    and GARLIC salt water is much different than salt water… learned that after puking all over a rooftop tent the day we bought it, trust me, it will just cause more vomit on brand new things..

    Beachbum
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    For a bad sore throat gargle Benadryl and Mylanta, it coats your throat... It really does work!

    Brooklynn Jackson
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    It does work! Whenever I had a cold, my mom would always nag me to gargle saltwater!

    John Bujold
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Several old school solutions had value this one does but not all of them do.

    Jaya
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I learned about this once and I liked the idea to use such a natural thing, but unfortunately every time I try it, my throat immediately gets way more sore, so I've given up on it.

    Callie Ge
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Todays trivia. Beer works as a mild anaesthetic on a sore throat. Do not give beer to children.

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    #24

    Do all the crazy stuff when you are Young. By the time you can afford it, you no longer have the stamina to.

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    Babsywabs
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I can sure attest to this! I'll be retiring in a year or two, and many of the items on my bucket list are outside my physical abilities and/or stamina now. Don't 'save it for tomorrow' - tomorrow is not guaranteed.

    tirebiter
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Heed the line from "It's a Wonderful Life". "Youth is wasted on the wrong people."

    Christof Irran
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I am now doing a lot of the crazy stuff I missed doing when I was young. However, a great many of them I no longer consider to be crazy.

    BasedWang12.3
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Seriously man. If I had the chance to do it all over I would... But worse

    Weed in the Garden
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I disagree with that logic, but not the idea. Doing 'Crazy stuff' in your youth is the definition of youth - it's all crazy! You can't differentiate normal from abnormal, it's all new. What seemed crazy then wasn't necessarily crazy, just a completely new experience that you learned from and would or would not repeat for multiple reasons. I hitchhiked across California as a 15 year old runaway and had the time of my life. I was too young to realize the potential danger I was in. I certainly wouldn't do that now because I know better. You can't afford much when you're young, but you can gain experience in life for pennies.

    Gail Wilson Webb
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Not to mention the old body can't handle crazy stuff!

    Lea S.
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    What's crazy? I'm much healthier than I was when I was younger.

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    Lea S.
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    This is nonsense and we shouldn't be promoting it. First of all 'young' and 'crazy' are both subjective. Second, I am in better financial, physical and mental health right now than I was when I was younger. I've done things in the past few years that I couldn't/wouldn't do when I was younger. My parents went to their first music festival last year, they are in their seventies. My mom also took her daughters on a vacation last year; we took a pole-dancing class, went sky-diving, and walked/hiked for miles. My best friend is in her 40s and has just picked up and graduated to extreme hiking and rock-climbing. Don't teach people to limit themselves in this way.

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    #25

    Your oral health is just as important as your general health.

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    Cee
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    And mental trumps them all. Without it, there’s no motivation to look after either

    Kathy Richardson
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Except that your physical health and oral health both can play a major role in your mental health. Sometimes you have to take care of the physical/dental before you can focus on the mental. Been there, done that.

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    Laura Jackson
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Getting decent dental insurance in the US is ridiculous. I need several teeth surgically removed and can't afford it. They've abscessed several times, I'm in constant pain, it's hard to eat, and you can forget about it if something is too hot/cold. I have Medicare of a whole whopping $1000 total for dental coverage. The oral surgeons I've been referred to (there's been 6) will not take Medicare. The teeth are broken off even with the gum so there's no hope of even getting all redneck drunk with pliers and doing it myself, not that I would🤔. I also have mitral valve prolapse so I worry about the very serious risk of cardiac complications, especially since I'm supposed to take antibiotics for 72hrs just for a dental cleaning. And vision insurance? Insurance companies act like it's a luxury and not a necessity to see. I got an eye exam and 1 pair of glasses several months ago. Frames were 60% off and there's no extra coatings, bells, or whistles to the lenses. The total amt was >$450.😭

    Lady Lava
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    American healthcare and insurance is a total scam, from my European point of view. I can barely imagine in how much pain you must be... I have had some dental issues myself, but I feel blessed that I never had to refrain from treatment for financial reasons. And that I get a pair of decent new glasses covered by my health insurance every three years. Anyway, I'm just a random person on the internet and I can't solve your situation, but I wish you all the best and hopefully a little miracle to happen...

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    Mrs. EW
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Your oral health can significantly effect your physical health. Why in the US we don’t make it more of a social and financial priority blows my mind. But then again, we can’t even manage to make health in general an affordable priority.

    Riley Quinn
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Poor oral health can lead to cardiac ailments and death. Google it!

    Qadgop the Mercotan
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    As a physician I note this to be very true. But also it's very important to pay attention to the health of the far end of your digestive system. Rectal/a**l issues such as hemorrhoids, fissures, fistulas and more can make one's life quite miserable. And can often be successfully prevented/treated.

    Xan Maranya
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    3 years ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    A guy I knew died in great pain from failing to get treatment for an abcessed tooth, so yeah.

    Elizabeth Butler
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Gum disease often leads to heart disease.

    Bonnie Edwards
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    The yucky tasting chemicals that leak from bad teeth, actually damages your heart.

    Helen Waight
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Unfortunately it costs to go to a dentist whereas I can see my GP for free.

    Xan Maranya
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    However, dental care can prevent health conditions that you would go to your GP (or a specialist) for.

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    RJ
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Tell that to the Ministry of Health.

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    #26

    Life can literally change forever in the next second, hour or day and that when people say to enjoy every moment of life as if it’s your last, it’s actually good advice to maintain a positive attitude and feel like you have no regrets. I’m speaking from personal experience - my SO has been diagnosed with a major issue and the good days are limited, so we are living our best life, just enjoying the simple things.

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    Syringa Wessels
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    That’s why it makes me so mad when people make fun of YOLO, yea it’s become a stupid term now but it really is a good saying to live by, you shouldn’t get it tattooed on you but it’s made me realize i wasn’t going to get anywhere in several years and made me reconsider many bad relationships

    GoGoPDX
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    3 years ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    So very true! Working as a nurse for 20 years I learned this young. I also learned that not one single person on their death bed has ever said they wished they spent more time cleaning their house, had a fancy car, etc. It is always they w wished they spent more time with their loved ones, traveled more, went after their dreams. There are also so many people who had mental health issues preventing them from really living and never got proper treatment or medication, most of the time by their own choice. .Therapy and/or medication can help a vast majority of the time. Don't let any stigma or people insisting that just being in nature, exercise, just choosing to be happy, etc is just as good or better. This is the only life we have, please live it and love to the fullest!

    Miss Frankfurter
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Learned it this past January when my best friend of 52 years was at the physiotherapist, said she felt a little tired and was going to go sit down and rest a bit. She had no sooner sat down and had a massive heart attack. Dead before she hit the floor. When her husband called to tell me I couldn’t even process the words. She was 66. She’s not supposed to be gone.

    Lady Lava
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    3 years ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Oh, this is so sad... I'm sorry for your loss. I know from my own experience that it can be over in no time and totally unexpected. My father suffered a sudden fatal CVA when he was only in his fifties. It's not fair, all those beloved people that go way to early. But it absolutely taught me to set my priorities to what really makes me happy, because life is short and you never know when your time is up.

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    Marty Sunderland
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Learned this years ago when my 2 year old was diagnosed with cancer. Everyday is a gift, live your best life. (She was fine after 2+ years of treatment)

    MRSS
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Learned this exact thing last year when my 18yr old Nephew was killed in a freak Jet ski accident by his best friend. My life was forever changed. Not all in a sorrow way. I learned life is so short and we are not here long. Since then I have gotten married to the love of my life and next month I am moving to a new state and starting a new job. Live every day like it is your last.

    Brechje Geutjes
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I have Ehlers Danlos Syndrome and since it affects my organs I'm really feel life has an ending. Actually it's a good thing, but sad I just feel it now. It make me more aware of thing I really want. Or things I do cause someone expects me to do it. Like spending weekends with my family who is not very nice to me.

    Riley Quinn
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    As an existential nihilist, I accept this is my one and only life. But having a positive attitude is merely the cherry on top, not the main ingredient to living. As for regrets, we all have them. The trick is not to obsess over them.

    Diana Pahule
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I still can't afford the Supernatural convention next weekend.

    Mistdew Azjol.Nerub
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    On August 7th my daughter got into a car accident (not her fault that an idiot ran thru a red light...). She only got an ugly scratch and a huge bruise (she was on a motorcycle) and nothing else. I couldn't stop thinking with immense gratitude that on August 8th I wasn't forced to bury my child and that she's still with me alive and well! Literally from one second to another my whole world would have gone dark.

    Just saying
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    No one is guaranteed tomorrow. Love and live as much as you can today. Make those mistakes and learn from them. Love yourself, you are doing great!

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    #27

    40 Things People Weren’t Aware Of Until Embarrassingly Late In Life Hard work isn’t always the answer. When I worked a minimum wage job, I would work hard and not take breaks, so a great job, and always finish early. I just then got told to pick up the slack for the employees who spent their time goofing off. Never got a promotion, raise, or even a “Hey, good job”

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    De Burke
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    The reward for digging the best ditches is a bigger shovel.

    Riley Quinn
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Neither is bragging about how long your work week is. Working 40+ hours a week isn't impressing anyone.

    Laura CIdoni
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    That is the absolute story of my life....I ALWAYS killed myself at every job to prove myself, and EVERY SINGLE TIME, all they did was dump more work on me. Unfortunately, I learned Wayyyy too late. I was never anything more than a pack mule!

    bottomless.abyss.of.bordem
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I worked at a place once that had a sign, "IF YOU HAVE TIME TO LEAN, YOU HAVE TIME TO CLEAN!" Maybe, just once in my 10 hour shift, I could lean? Not like a full on sit like all of those who actually make money, but just a little lean?

    Deborah B
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Working hard enough to keep busy makes time go faster. I'm not saying push yourself or skip your breaks, just, if you are hiding so you can slack off and your shift is dragging, or you're standing around doing nothing and complaining that you're bored out of your mind, working can help pass the time.

    Diana Pahule
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I've been so busy it made the time drag before.

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    Vorknkx
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    "Worker smarter, not harder" - Uncle Scrooge

    Giles Ensor
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Minimum wage, minimum effort. If they want employees to work harder, they should pay more.

    SCamp
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I’d venture to say you’re in a bad working environment if that’s the case. Good environments reward good workers - that’s been the case in my 35 years in the workforce

    Tim
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    3 years ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    It's always mixed. As a front line supervisor, I have always had to work hard to convince my manager to fight hard to get my people promoted. And when I said I wanted to promote all of them (4 people, all with good work records, attitudes, and experience), I wasn't asked why, I was scoffed at and told that I might get to pick one. Without two advocates, they wouldn't go anywhere. The same goes for giving raises above the standard amount. Sometimes, the good people get rewarded, but more often, the favorites get rewarded.

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    XenoMurph
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I worked a minimum wage job, part time. Worked hard, was curious about everything in the factory, annoyed all the other staff by getting more done in the time and "sucking up" to the bosses. I was promoted, and offered to be supervisor over the entire factory. But I left to get married in a different country. If you want to improve your position, laziness is not the answer. Education/training if it is offered, informing yourself about the operation of the company and the job you do, and the jobs other people do. Make yourself better informed and harder working that your peers. When they want to promote, make sure you are the one who is the obvious choice. Always better than sitting back and staying ignorant and minimum wage.

    Brocken Blue
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    One anecdote about your one good experience with a good set of encouraging managers does not offset the millions of meaningless dead-end minimum wage jobs in which there is zero benefit to doing more than the job description requires.

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    Diana Pahule
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I once had a manager ask in a sarcastic tone that we shouldn't need to be told we were doing a good job. Yes, yes I do. I felt like I was failing all the time, and would have liked some encouragement. If I'm not doing a good job then please fire me.

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    #28

    40 Things People Weren’t Aware Of Until Embarrassingly Late In Life Basic living skills My parents were hoarders and neglected me growing up, we lived in filth and wore dirty clothes, rarely bathed etc. So I never learned what goes into keeping a house clean, or good hygiene practices, or the basic skills needed for normal life. I know "in theory" how to do those things now, but the underlying core organizational, management, etc skills still aren't there. It's kinda hard to explain but it just feels like there will always be a gap for me.

    thesomethingfox , Logan Ingalls Report

    BluEyedSeoulite
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I grew up with a chronically sick mom. Same, it is hard for me to get motivated

    GoGoPDX
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    This is a great example of why we shouldn't judge those who's hygiene is not up to society norms, and why we need to make sure our children know this about their classmates.. We do not know the factors behind it. Maybe they have their water shut off, maybe they come from a home where their parents are mentally ill and/or they are neglected and/or abused, like OP. Maybe they are immigrants from a culture or place were running water isn't a thing or water is scarce. Quietly and privately reaching out to a person that may need hygiene help can help them tremendously. I am a nurse at a School Based Health Center in a high school, where we have a shower and free hygiene products and it is shocking how many kids need theses services and are so thankful when they are told these services exist.

    Lady Lava
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    3 years ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    It's sad that these services are necessary in today's society, but for those who need them it's great rhey exist. And I think you are doing a great job in reaching out in a subtle manier, as the subject is embarassing enough...

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    Callie Ge
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    My mother Never did house work , she couldn’t cook & refused to learn, we lived in filth at times, she was also an animal hoarder , had forty or so cats at one point. It was disgusting. I learned to cook out of desperation & taught myself how to cleans& maintain a house.

    Natalie Kelsey
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I have ADHD and neurotypical parents. Growing up I was taught this stuff but if I didn't meet expectations or got distracted my mom would redo it for me or take over. She never showed me how to make it better or let me finish. Now that I'm an adult I not only still have ADHD but I also automatically expect things just to do themselves or that someone else will take care of it. Parenting isn't an issue but housekeeping is so difficult. No motivation or skills. I just have to keep trying to improve I guess

    Lady Lava
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    3 years ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    It is really a thing you can learn! I have ADHD and autism and I struggled with this too. It was the worst when we had a newborn baby and all of the little routine I had was completely gone... With the help of a professional organiser I made a schedule for all things that need to be done in our household. That's still the baseline I use, and I am the one of my family now that exactly knows what needs to be done and when. I feel so much more in charge now!

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    Riley Quinn
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    We learn what we live, for good or for bad. It takes excruciating effort to pull away from our teachings and learn new habits.

    Babsywabs
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    My mother was a hoarder, as well, but fortunately she was a clean one. We always had clean clothes and food on the table - we just couldn't have friends over due to the embarrassment of stuff piled everywhere, nowhere to sit, etc. I learned early on that I didn't want to live that way. I'm in my 60s now, and thankfully still maintain my aversion to disorder and 'stuff'.

    Mr. Pigeon
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    thats sad youll be in my prayers

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    #29

    40 Things People Weren’t Aware Of Until Embarrassingly Late In Life That kitten's baby teeth also fall out. Found out when playing with my cat he was young. Rollercoaster of emotions between it happening and me googling while holding a little ~~canine~~ fang in my hand.

    dexemplu , Mike Stimpson Report

    Bored Retsuko
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    3 years ago

    Jeeezus, I almost made an idiot of myself. I was going to post "*Feline", then googled it just in case, and learned that corner teeth/fangs are called canine 🤣🤣🤣

    ThatG
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Never too late to learn 😋

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    Johane Roberts
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I've rushed my kitten to the vet in tears, after his canine fell out while we were playing the vet sent me home without charging.

    Winter
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    When I was a kid I caught a snake and had it in a box (for an afternoon, not forever) with sticks and leaves in there. At some point I saw that its guts were coming from a wound out of its side! I thought it must have been poked by one of the sticks. I let the snake go, and I felt so terrible. It wasn't until later that I learned snakes have a cloaca on the side of their body, and that it wasn't injured...it was pooping! My relief was greater than the snakes, I am certain!

    Vorknkx
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    They usually swallow them, and that's why we don't normally see their baby teeth fall out.

    Ivy la Sangrienta
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Ah. Shoulda read the comments instead of commenting. Oh well 🙃

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    Zoe
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    It happened to me also when my kitten had to take a liquid medicine and he was refusing to cooperate with me. I thought I put it so hard that his teeth fall.... Devastated until I googled it.

    Ivy la Sangrienta
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I never found my cats baby teeth. I wonder what he did with them...

    Diana Pahule
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I don't know how I missed that, we used to have kittens all the time when I was young.

    Ange Roy
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    3 years ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Well, technically you'd have to either use canine or fang; using both would be a pleonasm or would actually mean a fang from a dog.

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    #30

    40 Things People Weren’t Aware Of Until Embarrassingly Late In Life Apparently you’re not supposed to rinse off your toothpaste. Edit: Just Google it. Apparently it’s better to leave the toothpaste residue in your mouth so the fluoride can work on your teeth.

    Alberwyne , National Cancer Institute Report

    Ivo H
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    3 years ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Don’t worry, it’s just not true. I heard this rumor long time ago and asked a dental hygienist specifically. She said basically the same thing as @Markus Louw - you should rinse because you don’t want to swalow any fluoride.

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    Markus Louw
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    No because fluoride should not be ingested, it damages the gut. If you don't rinse it, you will eventually swallow it, which is BAD

    Sarah
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I think they just forgot to mention to spit out the residue. My dentist has also given the same advice.

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    3 Owls In A Coat
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    It’s like washing your hands but not rinsing the soap off (to my brain at least) 🤢

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    K R
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    What about rinsing and then a final rinse with a fluoride mouthwash?

    Huddo's sister
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    My dentist said it was fine to rinse in the morning, but I shouldn't rinse at night, as my mouth breathing and dry mouth from medications causes the saliva (which has the good bacteria) to be to not be released.

    mrsmir
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    This!! And I use a $20 prescription toothpaste lol

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    Error 404
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    But toothpaste tastes so bad... 😩

    Jack and Coke
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Not necessarily. I found both orange and bubblegum flavored toothpastes. Yummy.

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    Susie Elle
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I knew this, but I really hate to do it

    DennyS (denzoren)
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Say what now? This can't be right....is it? I've been doing it wrong for the past 34years!?!?!?

    Xan Maranya
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    You are right to wash the floride poison out of your mouth. The idea of not rinsing is wrong.

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    Powercat
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Yikes no thank you I’m good. That’s gross.

    Gray
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Hold on.. so people walk around with toothpaste residue in their mouth!!?

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    #31

    "Every action made in anger ends in sorrow." An attorney, when I was 24

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    FrillyDragon
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    3 years ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Many actions though yes, especially if an attorney is involved. It's a general statement meant to warn people that anger can lead to bad s**t.

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    Kantami Blossom
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    True, but sometimes it's worth the sorrow.

    Robert Robi Z
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Not necessarily by the same person. Sometimes, it ends in sorrow of my target, for example when I'm angry and punch someone in the nose.

    Susan Teter
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    AMEN. TODAY. Was crabby at the laundromat cuz an elderly gentleman kept his car door open too long, and I had to work a little harder. I was a HUGE A*S. If I see them again, I have a roll of quarters, a new attitude, and the willingness to make up for being what my parents NEVER wanted me to be!

    Christof Irran
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    "A night out with friends in jail often ends."

    Sentin White
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I quit my shitty job in anger and now I found a better job.

    Robert Trebor
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Every law passed in an emotional fervor is a bad law.

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    #32

    That when people ask to borrow money especially if it's a friend or family just expect to never see it again.

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    shawn mckinney
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I tell people that I don't LEND money. If I have it to give I do but I never expect to see it again. I also tell them they can choose to return it if they wish (so far no one has lol). If I don't have it to GIVE I just say No.

    Sarah
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    "Never lend what you Can't afford to lose." My Dads words.

    Vorknkx
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    To be honest, I wouldn't mind, if it's a friend I really care about. Losing a bit of money won't make me poor (and won't make my friend rich), but losing a friend is a big deal.

    Riley Quinn
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Gave a friend a substantial amount of money. Her husband took it and left. I never saw the money, but I did have a part in waking her up to the reality she married into.

    The Veil of Fire
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Only loan money that you can afford to lose. Yet, always get every loan in writing if you expect payback.

    J
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I have family like that :(

    Linnoff
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    From The Name of the Wind: "There are two sure ways to lose a friend, one is to borrow, the other to lend."

    Duane Johnston
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I will do any favor for anyone if I possibly can however I never ask others for help no matter how many favors I've done for the because we they wil always have an excuse why they can't help you. This is life, stand on your own 2 feet because nobody is going to help you stand up. Get use to it!

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    #33

    If you're a parent of a child who has had psych evaluations done by their school district you need to read each and every single thing that's documented in those papers. Then ask yourself if your child may not have the correct diagnosis after all. I went 32 years without knowing I was Autistic. I just found out last year. Who I'd be today if I had only known... I'm traumatized as hell from this. The documents from my schools psych evals had loads of evidence to support this, but no one ever said a word to me! No one! Take matters into your own hands and never EVER rely on the system.

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    FrillyDragon
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    If they don't line up with an independent psych evaluation, it's time to get a second (or third) independent evaluation. Second opinions are a thing with doctors of all sorts.

    Pantherkatz
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I was just diagnosed this year at 39. I think my life could've been so different.

    Phyzzi
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Same age and I just realized last year I have lived my life with ADHD due to a family member being diagnosed.

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    Mrs. EW
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Also, that Asperger’s can be managed with any parent who’s aware or shows the same symptoms. My son is brilliant. Although he can’t handle overstimulation and neither can I. I had 2 of his teachers ask him to be evaluated. The pediatrician asked me if this was something my son and I can handle together. I said I could, because I’m the same way. So he told me to just inform the teachers of his needs. I did. He’s always excelled in schooling and is so awesome. Class clown even. Graduating this year with a job he also excels at and scholarships. I believe it’s because we didn’t make him feel like he had a problem? In my eyes, he certainly doesn’t.

    Phyzzi
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I don't think neurodivergence is a "problem" but it does create specific challenges (while also sometimes easing other challenges). If someone understands those challenges and has a good framework and tools for facing them then it will help to be successful with those other things that are easier and more enjoyable for people with neurodivergence. If people don't understand themselves and how their expectations may not mesh with "neurotypical" expectations, then life can be much more difficult than it should be because frankly stupid misunderstandings will get in the way of good stuff. There are many good ways for someone with neurodivergence to gain the tools to have good interactions in groups that are, just as a numbers game and our relative reluctance to discuss human behavioral science, unaware of neurodivergence, be that a mentor who has their own good tools or access to tools through schools or therapeutic programs. Then, hopefully, the things we love doing can really shine.

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    Richard Smith
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Take responsibility for your own health, physical, mental, and otherwise, and learn all you can about whatever symptoms, conditions you have*. Become your own expert and advocate, because you can't depend on anyone else to do it. *This doesn't mean self-diagnose via Google or WebMD, just be informed. Even after research, tell your doctor about your symptoms in a much detail as possible, let them diagnose, then ask questions.

    Phyzzi
    Community Member
    3 years ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    And, I would also say, if a blood relative gets a diagnosis, it's worth talking to your doctor about getting evaluated, again for pretty much anything but certainly including neurology and mental health. It also means being extra careful about things that may trigger those health conditions to get worse even if you are not diagnosed yourself.

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    Just saying
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I have found that the schools today evaluate spot on. Autism is such a hard disablity to diagnos. Because there is such a large spectrum, kids with ADHD could be misdiagnosed. As a parent, always ask teachers/doctors if your child is right where he/she should be. Always ask, never assume.

    Shelli Aderman
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Independent Neuropsych Evals are FAR superior to that of the DOE.

    Paul Neff
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    The fun thing about my own slice of HFA, my emotional maturity level lagged behind roughly 10 years. In hindsight, my behavior makes much more sense in that light, but at the time I was so often confused by my 'peers'. Also, undiagnosed officially, unofficially I was late thirties when I put it together.

    Phyzzi
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    3 years ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    That's rough. I have a kid with HFA and ADHD and the last few years have been an exercise in me looking back at my life and going "Oh @#$&, that's a symptom?!?". My parents are in their 70's and I haven't had the heart to tell them all the flags they missed. We have all pretty well realized that my uncle is HFA misdiagnosed as (or ignored because of) dyslexia though, and he definitely deserved better.

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    Peter Korsten
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    10 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Your parents were in denial. Happens all the time.

    Craig Townsend
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I was diagnosed on the autism spectrum at the age of 52, better late than never. Life would have been easier with more supports, however I'm thankful that my wife recognised my autistic traits and suggested I go through a diagnosis.

    Christine Zanfino
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    When my son was in 1st grade, the school suspected he had ADHD and wanted him to take Ritalin. I absolutely refused and told them he's bored in class - try challenging him. They moved him into the 2nd grade reading class and he thrived there. I would never take the word of a school psychologist without discussing issues with his doctor first. I was furious that at the first sign of " behavioral issues " the school's first response is medication, not accessing the behavior itself.

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    #34

    40 Things People Weren’t Aware Of Until Embarrassingly Late In Life That after high school it's incredibly hard to find real friends.

    depressedMegatron , Helena Lopes Report

    $cagsy
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Team events are a good way to meet people and it doesn't always have to be sports. Maybe the local pub runs a quiz where you can join a team, or a dominoes team, or allsorts. Even a dog-walking club or down at the dog park? I think you probably need a dog for the last two but if you arrive before someone, talk only to them and then leave after them, they will never know. At the dog park, that is. They will definitely notice if you join a dog-walking club without a dog and they will think you are strange. And that hurts. Or so I've been told.

    Ervin Conn
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    At the dog walking club you could always just say you don't have a dog and miss it. Anyone with a dog should understand that.

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    Brocken Blue
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Thank goodness this is not true, or I would have no friends at all. Life after high school does exist folks

    Happy_Pandalover
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    3 years ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Agreed. I get to know people all the time. There are always people interested in new friendships. Also most of my real friends i made way after high school. During college and later at work. I used to be shy during high school. So i didn‘t have many friends then. After i got way more open and now i make new friends all the time.

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    Circa
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Not really. Lots of chances to make real friends at university for example.

    madbakes
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    My closest friends are ones I met in college, and I haven't spoken to anyone from high school for over 10 years.

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    Happy_Pandalover
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I actually disagree with this. This depends on you and on how actively you are pursuing friendships. I found all of my real, close friends after high school - even after university.

    piruoztek
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I have opposite experiences. Friends from school weren't really friends and I never felt close to them.

    Lady Lava
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    3 years ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Same. If I'm very honest to myself I never really felt a deep connection with that group of friends, but it was the best I could get back then. After high school we did meet up regularly, but over the years it increasingly felt it was not worth my time anymore and I didn't really enjoy it. I came to know other people with whom I felt a stronger bond. I slowly backed out more and more of the groups' activities, and now the contact is only sporadically. I don't feel I miss out on much, but on the other hand it's hard to let them go completely, because of the long history we have together.

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    Sandy Kavanaugh
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    They're easier, really. High school friends usually become mere acquaintances later.

    Paul Neff
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I never realized you could find real friends in HS. I stumbled across one in middle school, (6 to 8 grade range), and that one connected me to a friend in a nearby town. I guess autism complicates things.

    Dianellian
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I found all my real and best friends way after high school.

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    #35

    40 Things People Weren’t Aware Of Until Embarrassingly Late In Life On Wednesday I learned that pancakes are so called because they are a cake made in a pan. smh I’m 61yo

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    Tim
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    This post actually fits the title of the list. Things you learned embarrassingly late in life.

    memyselfandI
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    And cupcakes are cakes made in a cup.

    Phyzzi
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    And beefcakes are made in a... Wait, what? XD

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    The pizza girl is here!
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    But did you know that sand is called that because it's between the sea and land? Because I didn't, until today

    Barney Jones
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    That's a folk etymology, it's not true. It comes from Old English via Dutch, 'sant/zand/sand', nothing to do with sea and land

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    Kantami Blossom
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I never actually thought about it😂

    Harry Hwt
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    So if you made a cake in a bowl it would ve bowl cake?

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    #36

    Don’t let the in-laws move in.

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    Vorknkx
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    3 years ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    In my family, we have a rule - "Every generation lives under its own roof."

    Joan Dobbert *Wachs*
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Take this with a grain of salt. My mother-in-law is amazing I LOVE having her live with me. I can't get my own mother out of the house soon enough. Roommates are roommates you have to be objective in your selection.

    Laura Jackson
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Just make a general rule of nobody's parents are moving in at any time ever. Been living that dream for awhile and I'm so over it. I actually had to tell my elderly mother that she's got to GTFO while I still have a shred of sanity, dignity, self respect, patience, and love for my fellow humans cause it's all going fast!

    Amber McKnight
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Instead of boring you all with my own experience, let me just say how much I agree with this comment!

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    Denise Wilson
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Depends on your culture - I live in a multi-generational home and it works fine!

    Amy Fisher
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    This is a true story: During WWII, an American military magazine ran a contest asking readers what the appropriate punishment should be when Adolf Hitler was captured by the Allies. The contest was won by a Jewish soldier who said, “He should live with my in-laws in the Bronx.”

    Poly Amorous
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Depends on the culture, and on how good/bad the relationship is

    John Bujold
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Relatives are like fish left out of the fridge, after after a few days they start to go bad.

    maragato
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Are you telling me now...!!

    J. Brelner
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Make that -- roomates as well. When you're kids move out, sell the house and get a 1 bedroom unit. Oh, and as Homer Simpson says -- "when you're 18 you're out the door".

    Vanessa
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    True. We have been caring for my FIL for years now and I am so sick of it. He is on a wait list for a care facility because he has dementia, but I feel stuck with him until then.

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    #37

    40 Things People Weren’t Aware Of Until Embarrassingly Late In Life you can preserve fresh vegetables by getting plasting containers and putting paper towels on the bottom and the top. it absorbs the water. its the water from condensation that makes them go bad so fast. then just change the paper towels every few days and wipe out the container. Makes them last WAY longer. i wonder how i am not dead that i did not know this. Especially as a single guy. My fresh veggies can last 3 weeks. I dont have to get little bits and keep going back to the store.

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    Minath
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I buy frozen vegetables instead. They are flash frozen not long after they leave the field, often cheaper and last longer.

    Car Ola
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    3 years ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    The idea is good but maybe don't cause unnecessary garbage by using dish towels instead and wash them with the laundry you are doing anyway. I find papertowels a superfluous invention.

    Lee Kerr
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I always have them in but a roll can last a year, so yeah!

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    madbakes
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    This definitely does not work for all veggies. It does work well for mushrooms though

    Jihana
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Yes, mushrooms stay fresh waaaay longer like that.

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    Crissie Laugesen
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    If I had any idea what a plasting container is I might try this.

    Verbalocity
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Works amazingly well for salad greens. Change the towel every time you open the container

    Natalie Kelsey
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    As long as you're not refrigerating the tomatoes. Don't do that it takes all the flavor away. Room temp on the counter in a fruit bowl

    Linnoff
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I've had similar success with a tip from my mom: store vegies in a paper bag, same idea, it keeps condensation from building up on the produce.

    Diana Pahule
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    The drawer in my refrigerator does this for me.

    Tarik Dursun Zorgulen
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Most refrigerators nowadays dries the air inside, you only need to make sure you put stuff without packaging and make sure that your vegie/fruit drawers have air circulation (usually there are vents somewhere in those sections that you can open). Unless you overfill them they stay there fresh for a very long time. (ps: also make sure you do not put anything that is wet, especially leafy stuff as they can keep a lot of water trapped inside without drying first.

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    #38

    40 Things People Weren’t Aware Of Until Embarrassingly Late In Life My name is Aaron. Turns out when you go to the bank, and the post office and the store, you are running Errands. Not Aarons.

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    XenoMurph
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    It could be true, do you walk, or...

    tara
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    At the end os Seasame Street they used to say "This episode was brought to you by the letter....." I used to think they said "This episode was brock-tue-yew by the letter...." No one could tell me what brock-tue-yew meant.

    Susan Betz
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    omg same! Except for me it was Captain Kangaroo - brock-tue-yew by Kellogs!

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    v
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    3 years ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    You may not be running Aarons but do you know for certain that other people aren't running Aarons?

    Mrs. EW
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Nearly the same. My name is Erin. As a child I always thought so too, lol

    qiao
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    american accent problems can't relate

    howdylee
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    "For the last time, Joey, it's not named after the individual man!"

    #39

    40 Things People Weren’t Aware Of Until Embarrassingly Late In Life A pony is not a baby horse. Edit: the number of people who are responding to this saying that they didn't know this makes me feel so much better for having learned it last year from reddit. At 36 years old. Glad I'm not the only one it took a while for! Cheers.

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    Karin Gibson
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    That pony needs a vet and some food.

    Laura Jackson
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Chincoteague or Assateague ponies are feral ponies that live on Assateague Island off the coast of Virginia and Maryland. They are believed to have been there since the 17th century and came from shipwrecks. The saltmarsh plants, dry brush and saltwater make for poor nutrition sources so that's why they're shorter in stature than other ponies. There's also others legends/tales of how they came to the island and some of it is pretty interesting if you like that sorta stuff!

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    Vanner
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    A baby horse is a foal if you don't know the gender. A colt for a male and a filly for a female.

    Riley Quinn
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    This, and the confusion between the terms stray and feral. Both refer to domesticated animals, but a stray can usually be rehabilitated with time and patience. Feral animals are strays that have become wild, and their rehabilitation is much more complicated.

    Philly Bob Squires
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Horse Kittens... oh, and someone feed that poor thing...

    Mrs S
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    That pony is emaciated!! Wtf!?

    kirtis hickey
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Not emancipated- look at the shoulders, withers, and head. None of which are sunken or hollow. Hip bones may look visible- but that's more due to it's stance than anything. Have had horses for 25 years- even our old half-Arab/quarter horse mare showed ribs no matter how much we feed/grained/wormed her. Just was the breeds nature. If you look at the coat you can even see that in it's also in its winter coat and like all livestock, get a little thinner than they are during the spring/summer/fall. If you'd ever seen an emancipated horse - you'd know this one isn't

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    Ivy la Sangrienta
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I've always known it but that's because I was way into horses and ponies as a kid/preteen/teen. Still like them, just can't afford them anymore, lol.

    Learner Panda
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Also there are miniature horses that are not ponies.

    Robert Robi Z
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    It is a little bit disturbing that there are people who don't know that...

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    #40

    40 Things People Weren’t Aware Of Until Embarrassingly Late In Life That you can get pregnant the very first time you have sex.

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    troufaki13
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Well, according to a high ranked member of the Greek Church, a woman cannot get pregnant if she doesn't participate (I really don't know what that means) and also she can't get raped unless she wants to (again... I have no words...)

    Ace
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I thought it was an American politician who claimed that rape victims have some mechanism to avoid pregnancy. Yeah, here it is, Rep. Todd Akin “If it’s a legitimate rape, the female body has ways to try to shut that whole thing down.” Moron.

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    Laura Jackson
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    You can get pregnant without penetration, too.

    Per-Ole Sjuve
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Got news for you about the whole "pulling out" move as well. XD

    David Jacobson
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Come on, that is your basic sex-ed.

    Natalie Kelsey
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    You can also get pregnant while nursing and on birth control, like I did. I got pregnant four weeks after I had my first baby, so my first and second are 9 months apart. Then it happened again, I was nursing and taking a pill but I had a baby 14 months after the second one. My sister had a baby even though her tubes were tied. Nothing is foolproof

    Riley Quinn
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Yeah, and don't bank on the pull-out method either.

    Learner Panda
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Also standing up makes no difference.

    WA2DK
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I don't mean to be condescending, but how do people NOT know this? Is it under the assumption you haven't yet had your first period? Your first period doesn't come until approx 2 weeks AFTER you ovulate, and it's during the ovulation you get pregnant, therefore one can absolutely get pregnant the first time they have sex. Does people also not know you can get pregnant from unprotected intercourse, even if the man doesn't "release himself" in you? 🤔

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    #41

    Buy a plunger BEFORE you need one.

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    Nicole Weymann
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Goes for several "I need it NOW" things, from batteries to band aids and toilet paper

    Parmeisan
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    And a fire extinguisher, fire alarm, and carbon monoxide detector

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    Nicholas Kramer
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Also know there are two different types of plungers. The small little one is for sinks. The big giant one that has a narrowing surface is for your toilet. Toilets have a 2" diameter pipe and need the extra force to dislodge whatever is in there. DO NOT use a toilet plunger on a sink. Besides just being gross, your sinks pipe is only 1" in diameter and the amount of force created by a toilet plunger on a sink can cause your pipes to separate.

    Ivy la Sangrienta
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I have never needed one. Our toilets work differently.

    #42

    Here in the United States of America, I found out that being loyal to an employer, working my hardest, having an excellent attendance, and being the overall best employee I can be means...absolutely nothing, particularly to corporations.

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    Chucky Cheezburger
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Bullcrud...It mean alot to companies...It means you'll be getting more work and zero loyalty or compensation as a reward for all that hard work.

    Ozymandias73
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Meh, I sorta disagree with this one. Doesn't matter where you are and depends on what company. Thankfully for me, all the jobs I've had have acknowledged my hard work and I've always been promoted for my hard work and work ethics.

    Elin Calliel
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Your loyalty is not reciprocal.

    ADHD McChick
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    3 years ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    "Loyalty" is a lie, invented by corporations to brainwash workers into giving up their off time, and working more, for less. Incentives are nothing more than carrot-shaped turds on sticks, dangled in front of workers for the same reason. Promotions are popularity contests, and have absolutely NOTHING to do with skill, experience, knowledge, attitude, or "loyalty". Raises are a joke. Your corporation doesn't care about anyone but itself. It sees you as nothing more than a robot, a cog in a machine. Exploitable, expendable, and disposable. DON'T stay where you're miserable. NO job is worth your physical health, OR your mental health. Live for yourself. Choose YOU.

    #43

    Bit late to this but a university lecturer once said "Practice doesn't make perfect, it makes permanent." Make sure you're learning the right way to do things as much as you can, because otherwise those bad habits will take longer to change.

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    Adam King
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I once heard "Practice makes permanent. Perfect practice makes perfect permanent."

    ADHD McChick
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    3 years ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    A related quote I learned from my HS chemistry teacher is, "Proper preparation prevents píss-poor performance." EDIT: Fúck off with your censorship, BP.

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    John Carr
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Proper Preparation Prevents Poor Performance

    No Clue
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Perfect practice makes perfect.

    Bob La Capra
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    The summer before my junior year of high school, I shot 1000 free throws a day in my driveway and made a pretty high percentage. Once the season started, I couldn't make a free throw to save my a*5. Turns out my free throw line at home was 1 foot short.

    Riley Quinn
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Overheard a teaching dentist explain this to one of his students when he caught sight of her arm positions. Learn now and save your body from years of aching pain.

    Ozymandias73
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    My band teacher's motto always was "What you do in practice, you do in performance."

    Susan Betz
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    It's much easier to learn than to unlearn.

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    #44

    That your relationship with your parents, and the relationship between your parents will, if not examined be the subconscious blueprint for your relationships too. Man, I wish I had examined my childhood better - I spent the better part of my 20s wondering why my relationships never worked out, and then started noticing the resemblance to the worst aspects of my childhood. A hard, but valuable lesson to start to recognise those shitty childhood experiences reverberate so much stronger than you can imagine

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    Powercat
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Again, the opposite for me: seeing how my parents interacted with each other made me 100% sure I didn’t want this for my relationships. Constant yelling is unbearable to me and I never tolerated this kind of behaviour from anyone.

    Jimm Warburton
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    When we were kids growing up, we were watching our parents grow up too. We just didn't know it.

    Amy Force
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    1 month ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    i think Yes, to a point... I love my mom and dad (r.i.p dad) to the moon and back, but their relationship was *Very* flawed; they SUCKED at communicating, and fought all the time b/c of it. So as I result, I was pretty sure I'd *Never* get married, b/c I'll be D****D if I was gonna lived my life like that. I think a part of you just assumes you'll wind up in a relationship like your parents... But: YOU DON'T HAVE TO. I didn't think I'd ever get married b/c I thought the possibility of finding someone perfect enough for me to make it last was near impossible. Well, it almost was! lol it TOOK a While... But, my hubby and I have been together for *30* YEARS (married for 27), and we hardly ever have a bad disagreement. My marriage is NOTHING like my parents' was. *Communication* is a MAJOR tentpole in *our* relationship. And I am Positive that's why we've lasted as long as we have, and have NO doubt we;ll be together *FORVER* <3

    Mrs S
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Very introspective...

    Scarlett
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    *laughs in having emotionally and verbally abusive parents* I’m in trouble…

    Just here for the comments ️
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    This! It would save years of therapy and countless heartbreaks if you knew this going in.

    Heather Menard
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I learned that you don't need a man to live. My mother was the opposite

    #45

    Headaches, sluggishness, and crankiness are all signs of being hungry. I took medication that made me lose my appetite, and I am not very good at recognizing different types of hunger cues. Feeling especially sad, anxious, or guilty late at night means I gotta go to bed. Didn't figure this out at all. I saw the phrase "Never trust how you feel about your life after 9pm" early this year, just before I turned 25.

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    N000dle
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    If you hate the world, eat. If you feel like the world hates you, sleep.

    Cherreka Wirth
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    That's actually not good advice. I always hate to the world, so I eat to deal with it and that's why I'm fat. You should never eat for your emotions. It's a very unhealthy thing to do.

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    SMom
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Or dehydration, you can live longer without food than you can without water.

    FrillyDragon
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Your body and especially brain NEED water. Not just to survive but to thrive. I've been drinking more water and the closer I am to how much I need to drink (depending on body weight, medications, and sex iirc) the better I feel. It doesn't get rid of my fibro pain but it can lessen it, and it makes the fog and ADHD much easier to handle.

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    Ivy la Sangrienta
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I had to have 80% of my stomach removed in 2018 because of cancer. It has stretched some since but I have not once felt hunger in the four years since.

    FrillyDragon
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    3 years ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I'm glad you survived that awful experience! I guess you learned your own method of making sure you get enough to eat, regardless of hunger.

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    Powercat
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Don’t take this personally but I’m going to ignore your advice or I’ll end up ridiculously fat 😬

    FrillyDragon
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    For some people it works, and for me it's more a thing of "examine why you feel this way". I ended up fat from emotional eating and am fighting to lose it. On the other hand, I have to remind myself to eat sometimes now because I take meds for ADHD and I get the appetite suppression side effect xD

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    #46

    Exercise actually does make you feel better overall and increase your energy and in fact you may not realize how much you feel like s**t until you get moving and can make the comparison. People have been saying that my whole life. I simply did not believe them. Unfortunately they were right

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    Deborah B
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Exercise doesn't have to mean doing something you hate/find painful. If you hate to run, try swimming, cycling, or exercise classes. I was never able to run without joint pain, chest pain, and feeling like my throat was closing up and filling with phlegm. Walking, cycling, karate, pilates, swimming, stair climbing, elliptical, rowing machine, all much more pleasant than running.

    3 Owls In A Coat
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I hated exercise until I found yoga! Just gotta find something you enjoy :)

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    oktopus
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Also it doesn't matter how much exercise, the main thing is you get something done fairly regularly. Then you can build up from there.

    Andrew French
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    When you first start to exercise you're probably not going to feel amazing, it takes a few weeks to notice your strength and endurance improving, that's when you start to feel good. In the first few week just focus on keeping the habit or routine going. And remember, it will get easier and more enjoyable.

    Daniel Yamada
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    A study conducted by Duke University found that exercise can be just as effective in treating depression as taking antidepressant drugs.

    Riley Quinn
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    It's not easy for me to get in exercise. My neighborhood isn't conducive to walking, weather's an issue, and my flat is awfully small. Still do yoga, but my cardio is rather silly, but effective. I start in downward dog, and maintain that posture as I walk on all fours from room to room. Not hands/knees - hands/feet. It really gets my heart pumping.

    K R
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Or fortunately they were right because it's another way out of the doldrums

    #47

    Not sure if common knowledge but win+left or right snaps window to half the screen. Handy when you are referring to 2 different documents or websites at the same time. I learned that last month.

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    DuchessDegu
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I learned that now! Again, a huge time saver!

    Catharina Geerts
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    1 month ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I also learned that now. Might come in handy now and then.

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    TGHW
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    OR.... Use alt+tab to switch to the full screen version of each.

    Jack
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Yes, if I have two tabs I’m using, I put them in separate windows and alt+tab to alternate between them. But, I like this win+left thing too if I want to see them side by side!

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    Riley Quinn
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Click/hold the document and pull to the side. This will 1/2 it. Do the same with website page or other documents.

    Arun Manickam
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Holding the title bar and dragging it to either sides would also make it fit in half screen. In the latest windows, it will even ask for which other app to be on the other side!

    Susan Betz
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Ctrl + increases font size. (Ctrl - decreases it). Works on any OS. Very handy as you get older.

    Latibule_dreams
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I literally use this every day at work. Always referring to two or sometimes 3 documents. You can press windows left and then up to make it 1/4 of the screen

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    #48

    How much truth there is to the phrase "You'd rather have it and not need it than need it and not have it".

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    SCP 4666
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    True, especially for condoms☝️

    Riley Quinn
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    This is every hoarder's mantra!

    Laura Ketteridge
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    It depends on the items. For many things, I'd rather keep the money in my bank account, and the things in the shop. When I need, I'll buy.

    Sleeping Solipsist
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    .. I mean.. I couldn't agree more but I am also a pathological hoarder.

    Bob La Capra
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Not a hoarder but I save a lot of things thinking it would be a shame to need something like this and not have it. When the things get to be too much, I go through them and recycle or trash the oldest ones. (And then a week later I finally have a use for it but that's a different story)

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    #49

    You can just buy towels and pillows. I thought they were handed down over the generations. I also thought pillows were naturally a dull brown and went looking for brown pillows.... until I realized mine were brown with bodyoil stains from 40-60 years of use.

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    oktopus
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Eww, getting childhood flashbacks here.

    Sue User
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Grew up like this and now i am a pillow buying fool. Oh, and socks. Just buy new socks. Dont put up with ones that have no elastic or holes.

    tara
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Reminds me of the office when Erin was shocked that people buy their own toothbrushes. "There just always seems to be one around...."

    SageHare37
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Also, learn the best ways to wash towels/pillows/sheets. Things that collect body soil. Whether you bought them or you are financially stuck with hand-me-downs, educating yourself on the best way to truly get them clean is worth the time and effort.

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    #50

    For the love of all things holy, trust your gut feeling!!! Don’t be suspicious, but your gut feeling is the best advisor you’ll ever have!!!

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    CHRIS DOMRES
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Unless you are hungry or horny.

    Elin Calliel
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    The Gift Of Fear by Gavin de Becker is a really good book regarding this topic that everyone should read. Trust your instinct. It knows more than your conscious mind suspects.

    Michael Largey
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    If you think with your gut, do you eat with your brain?

    Powercat
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    When something seems too good to be true, it most likely is.

    Syringa Wessels
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    no thanks, it’s used up the last of the “that guys a murderer” tokens

    Darian Starfrog
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    You are doing it wrong..start small..that voice ..isn't your intuition

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    Sandy Kavanaugh
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Nope, your brain feelings are the ones to pay heed to.

    #51

    40 Things People Weren’t Aware Of Until Embarrassingly Late In Life Don't make permanent decisions based on temporary feelings.

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    $cagsy
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Aren't most feelings temporary? I would hazard a guess that Bad Company don't always feel like making love and Shania Twain, despite her remonstrations, probably feels like a Big Mac on occasion.

    Oerff On Tour
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    That's why the saying "Su!cide is a permanent solution to a temporary problem."

    Nonna_SoF
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Which totally ignores chronic health problems.

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    Michael Largey
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Making temporary decisions on temporary feelings can be just as disastrous.

    Thomas Jones
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Which is why it's so maddening when people who've never suffered depression – severe or otherwise – feel so free to comment on it to people who've suffered it for life.

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    #52

    40 Things People Weren’t Aware Of Until Embarrassingly Late In Life "Netflix and chill" does not mean watching something on Netflix and chilling.

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    tara
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    That must be for the people who DONT spend 1.5 hours scrolling, trying to settle on something to watch on netflix.

    Nicholas Kramer
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Yeah I learned this waaaay to late after saying this in front of a group of coworkers when asked what I did during the weekend. Thankfully thr person that asked knew me well enough to follow up with another question right after I answered. She asked "so you just hung out and watched TV all weekend". Later that day when talking to my wife she busted out laughing and schooled me. Technically, I wasn't wrong, but that's not what I wanted to say in front of 12 other coworkers.

    DennyS (denzoren)
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    If I say let's netflix and chill, I'm 100% expecting to binge some shows while eating snacks and laughing at plot holes and characters.

    Andrea
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    In the early 2000 it used to be "watch a DVD and hang out" 😅😅😅

    Luke Branwen
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Once again, (Laughs in asexual)

    Sobri Kate
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    (Demi) I complained to my friend that there is no hint for us. "What are you 'chilling'? Champagne?" A champagne mention would help me here.

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    Circa
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Well it does for most people

    Lorrie Rothstein
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Why do you have to watch netflix to have sex?

    oktopus
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Err, what does it mean then?

    Nobody
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    watching something on netflix and having a damn good shag (apparently)

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    Riley Quinn
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Well, in my home it means exactly that!

    Donnie Mc00
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    59 when i learned this and asked my daughter if she was going to netflix and chill at the weekend...

    mrsmir
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    How did daughter respond? 😆😂🤣

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    #53

    Going too long without sleep can impair your ability to drive the same way as drinking too much alcohol. 

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    FrillyDragon
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    People it's not worth driving impaired in any way. Also the one comment by Circa isn't worth their account potentially being banned. Stop downvoting this isn't reddit. (Also BP stop doing something as dumb as banning accounts for negative scores)

    Screen_Addict
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Don't mind me just covering up a negative comment :)

    Circa
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    3 years ago

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    Kinda obvious.

    #54

    People can break your trust quickly, even when you thought you knew them well.

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    AutumnSong2009
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Yep this happened to me. My old friend was fine then we got into an argument one night and she abandoned me for weeks. Then I realised she didn’t want to be my friend anymore even tho she didn’t tell me 🥲

    $cagsy
    Community Member
    3 years ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    True. The guy I thought was my best friend really blew it. We were at the pub and ended up talking to this pretty hot girl and her and I were kind of hitting it off. She went out for a cigarette and he followed. Once outside, he told her all about my mental health struggles without any prompting. Everything. I know this because I married the girl and he was best man at the wedding. I only found out about it years after when my wife said she had to tell me how my best mate betrayed my trust completely and told a stranger of my most private struggles. A$$hole. Note: We are not friends anymore. My best man, that is. Not my wife. We celebrate our 10-year anniversary in May!

    Mariana van Lill
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    'The heart of another is a dark forest, always, no matter how close it has been to one's own.' - Willa Cather

    Riley Quinn
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Eventually, something will crop up where you and your friend are diametrically opposed. A true friendship will find a work around.

    Mrs S
    Community Member
    Premium
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Had to "break up" with a good friend of 20 years because she was married to a not great man. Its been 20 years and still, all that I have been able to feel is relief.

    #55

    40 Things People Weren’t Aware Of Until Embarrassingly Late In Life My gf found out at age 15 that you can breathe out of your nose. She has a lot of alergies and has never been able to

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    RJ
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    The upside to this is that this would make SCUBA diving easier for her to learn.

    SageHare37
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Yes and no. Diving with clogged sinuses can cause severe pain and some health issues due to pressure at depth.

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    Susan Betz
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I was 40 when I moved to Florida from Ohio and so much of the flora was different that my allergies abated enough I could finally breathe through my nose.

    Riley Quinn
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Nose broken twice, later allergies. I was a freakin' mouth-breather! Yuck! About a year ago, I read that keeping my tongue along the roof of my mouth would improve nasal breathing. It does!!! I'm breathing thru my nose like a normal person.

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    #56

    Lungs aren’t bags that fill up, they’re like a spongy meat.

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    Daniel Yamada
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    If the lungs where like bags, there wouldn’t be enough surface area to absorb an adequate supply of oxygen. Instead, the lungs contain an average of 480 million tiny sacs called alveoli. If all the alveoli were to be cut open and laid flat, they would cover an area the size of a tennis court.

    #57

    Effort doesn’t equal result

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    Powercat
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    This one is really sad but so true. Hard work doesn’t automatically pay off. It’s unfair but that’s how life is.

    Riley Quinn
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Ask any toddler throwing a tantrum after their efforts failed.

    Michael Largey
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Well, the result may be that you now know this approach doesn't work. Which is how a process of elimination operates.

    So Grateful
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    More like effort doesn't always equal result... sometimes it does. For example, if one puts in the effort to study hard and learn well in medical school, they most likely will become a doctor. Conversely, without any of this effort, the achievement would not be possible. Whether the new doctor winds up happy later on is another question that can again change the OPs statement to "effort doesn't always lead to our being satisfied with the results."

    Juan Alcorta
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Intelligent effort equals results

    #58

    buy cheap - buy twice

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    madbakes
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    More like at least thrice...

    FrillyDragon
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Now that I'm finally out of poverty, I try to buy quality more. And there are some things that aren't worth buying cheap (cheaply made), like mattresses. Before that it could be harder, but thrift stores and yard sales can be a Godsend for many things.

    Just here for the comments ️
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    My husband always jokes "cheap is cheap" and I'd hate to admit how many times he's right at my expense

    ADHD McChick
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Unfortunately, if one is poor, it's sometimes very difficult to have enough money to buy one nice thing, once, that'll last a long time. So you have to buy the cheaper thing, because it's all you can afford at one time, and just buy it over again when it breaks. :-(

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    #59

    40 Things People Weren’t Aware Of Until Embarrassingly Late In Life I thought islands were floating landmasses for way longer than I am proud to admit.

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    Cee
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Everyone knows that they’re held up on the backs of turtles, silly

    FrillyDragon
    Community Member
    3 years ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Just like the world (which is disc-shaped, and also involves four elephants)! All hail Great A'Tuin!

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    Daniel Yamada
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    We had a teacher in high school who said Antarctica is the world's largest iceberg. She also said it stays at the bottom of the world because it is so heavy. Obviously this was at a public school in the United States.

    Alienking06
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I, as a child, you used to think they were chained down to the bottom. I was always thinking about the poor divers who had to go maintain the chains every once and a while. Man I was a dumb kid.

    Juan Alcorta
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I was really disapointed when I learned that they weren´t actually floating

    Darian Starfrog
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    3 years ago

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    That's so... stuuuuuuuu....piiiiid

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    #60

    Sometimes regardless of how good a person you are, how hard you try, and how sincere you feel. There are people who will mistreat and take advantage of you. And more importantly them doing that usually isn’t your fault. It’s more often a product of who they are and wasn’t as personal or important of a choice for them as it will feel for you.

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    Minath
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Yep, it's how I learnt to never completely put my trust in anyone.

    Darian Starfrog
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I feel the do it because you are.. it's gross, and I hate it.. I don't associate with those people anymore.. or any

    Riley Quinn
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Life is a continuation of lessons learned. Getting screwed over is a lesson to protect yourself, not a personal failure.

    SCP 4666
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    They will take advantage of you even more when you own a car/truck

    madbakes
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    It took me many years to truly understand this.

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    #61

    I didn't know my urethra was separate from my vagina until I was like 18. Sex Ed failed me.

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    kasa alex
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Hmm I was older than 18 when I learnt this

    Bug-666
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I have vivid memories of talking a friend through the use of a tampon and having to assure her she didn't actually have to worry about urine filling it up. Sex ed has failed many many people

    FrillyDragon
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    On a more serious note, parents really need to step up and tell their kids this stuff...

    FrillyDragon
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Unless you're a bird or lizard 🦎 🐦

    Shelli Aderman
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    HOW can people not learn this? 🤦🏽‍♀️

    SCP 4666
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Many guys don't even know that. 😉

    Elin Calliel
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I’ve known of women who don’t even know this.

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    Ervin Conn
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    There is a video making the rounds of a young man asking a group of girls how they can pee with a tampon in. They got a good laugh out of it.

    Abby
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I didnt take sex ed. didn't know this until my early 20s from a 1950s sex ed video. ( yes really )

    Darian Starfrog
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    As a dude I always knew that.. what do your schools teach?

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    #62

    If you’ve been chopping chillies, wash your hands WELL before you touch anyone's genitals!

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    Vera Mzega
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Also wash those hands well after touching genitals before u chop my chillies

    Joldeneye
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Screw that, WEAR GLOVES! Depending on the pepper, chopping with bare hands can make you feel like you’re holding your hands over an open flame and there’s nothing you can do but wait until the skin cells are replaced with new ones. If you don’t have gloves, never ever touch the seeds and you *should* be ok.

    Cherreka Wirth
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Or any other part of your body!! Cue me trying to snort milk up my nose because I scratched an itch inside my nose after chopping chilies. Eyes are horrible too (tried to take ny contacts out after). Honestly, I've gotten to the point where if I'm chopping chilies, I just wear rubber gloves.

    Squiff
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Hehehe! Poor person. No one needs spicy genitals 😂

    Jo FrH
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Also never ever put contact lenses in with chilli or even onion hands

    Powercat
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    That thing gets into your pores, washing your hands isn’t enough. Sometimes when I cook with jalapeños I can wash my hands several times afterwards and still feel the burn on my skin for several hours.

    Riley Quinn
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Depending on the amount, leave a window or door open or wear a respirator. And never touch your face!

    Mrs. EW
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Jalapeños too. Actually, anything with a high capsaicin level, lol

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    #63

    That you need to regularly check and top up the fluids in your car. I bought my first car at 16, a cheap old beater, and knew nothing about cars other than gas makes it go. Found out the hard way that it had other required fluids that I had neither checked nor filled. Broke down on the highway and f****d up my engine.

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    Daniel Yamada
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Remember to check the oil in your Tesla.

    Cactus 1549
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I saw a sign once at a car mechanic's shop that said “free oil changes for all teslas.”

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    Lynn Morello
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    When we went for our driers license, dad taught us to change the tyre, top up on oil and check the water levels, as well as how to change Spark Plugs. I am now 68 and can still do those things for myself.

    Mrs S
    Community Member
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Me, too. Sweet '67 Ford Falcon. Sad, but never happened again and we made sure my son damn sure knew better

    Riley Quinn
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Knew how to rebuild an engine before I got my license. It helped.

    Andrea
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Every mechanic just got a dreadful feeling and they don't know why

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    #64

    Simply asking "how are you" once in awhile is all it takes to not fall apart from old friends.

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    Cee
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    But please wait for and listen to the answer

    StrangeOne
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Yeah. i hate it when they go "Are you there?" Especially when it's only been a minute.

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    #65

    Never lie to 1) your lawyer 2) your accountant 3) your psychologist Edit: full disclosure to your doctors

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    Minath
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Your doctor won't report you to the police if you have taken any illegal drugs, so make sure you tell them what you have taken because it will have an impact on what treatment they use for you.

    Sam Juan
    Community Member
    3 years ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Depends on the type of doctor. Some (pediatricians, for example) are considered mandatory reporters and must report anything questionable to the authorities. That said, if it will save your life or someone else's, be sure to be open and honest.

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    Powercat
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    They won’t report you to the police but could give you trouble with insurance. A nurse once was nice enough to delete some information from my file because it wasn’t very relevant to my health and could be a cause for having insurance denied. I thanked him and never mentioned it again.

    Michael Largey
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Or your IRS auditor. Unless you made your money from drugs or child pornography, they can't tell anybody about anything you tell them. Of course, if you're a bank robber, be sure that you declared all the loot as income. (And yes, you can deduct mileage for the getaway car.)

    Riley Quinn
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I agree with 1, 2, and 4, but not 3. There are things you can't tell your psychologist without them reporting you or having you locked up in a hospital. Tread lightly.

    FrillyDragon
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    There's only certain things that would be the case for, one that mean you're a potential danger to yourself or others. Otherwise it's very easily a HIPAA violation and ethics issue.

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    #66

    That hens can produce/lay eggs without the help of roosters

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    StrangeOne
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    It's basically the chicken ovulating the eggs incubate outside their body.

    Riley Quinn
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    A hen needs a rooster to lay fertile eggs, not our unfertile breakfast eggs.

    Mrs. EW
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    They’re chickens menstrual cycles. You can’t eat them when fertilized.

    Jennifer Crompton
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    You absolutely can eat fertilized chicken eggs. If you collect your chicken's eggs daily the chick will not yet have started to develop. It will only grow if incubated (kept very warm). So if it's kept at room temperature or refrigerated, the chick will not develop and it will be like any other egg

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    Syringa Wessels
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    …did you assume all of them came… fertilized?

    Michael Largey
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    So this answers the old chicken-egg sequence paradox.

    TKA
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    They don’t have to ever see a rooster in their while life and can lay up to 4-7 eggs a week. If they don’t mate with a rooster, the eggs can never produce a baby chick.

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    #67

    Life doesn’t get easier, you get stronger.

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    Michael Largey
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Sometimes life does get easier. That's one of its ways of being unreliable.

    Riley Quinn
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Bullsh!t. Not saying life doesn't teach us how to become stronger, but some either don't get the message or don't think life is worth the energy.

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    #68

    The ratio of laundry soap to water is lower than you think, and using more soap than you need can make your clothes stink and promotes mold.

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    Mrs S
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Plus drought

    Riley Quinn
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Just read the instructions posted. Ditto for manuals.

    #69

    Time goes by fast.

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    $cagsy
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    SO fast. The Righteous Brothers got that badly wrong.

    Daniel Yamada
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Also, time is like a clock of the heart.

    Riley Quinn
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Time is time is time. You determine its speed by your choices.

    Elin Calliel
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    The older you get the faster time goes till the days become a blur. When you are young the days can last forever.

    Shelli Aderman
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    The days are long and the years are short…

    Darian Starfrog
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Lucky you! I feel every second, I'm hyper aware..one good thing about it, I hardly age..

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    #70

    There’s no rules to doing chores. You can make it more fun if you want to. For no reason I forgot that I could watch a tv show while I fold laundry and I didn’t have to just sit there and do it.

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    Deborah B
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Play music loudly when you clean. Much less objectional that way. I don't like headphones, but I have a small wireless speaker that I move from room to room.

    Remi (He/Him)
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I put on headphones and listen to music or a podfic when doing chores. Makes them less of a chore ;)

    Andrea
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    When I do the regular house cleaning I put earbuds in and listen to a nice audiobook.

    Riley Quinn
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Watching TV while ironing makes it seem less of a chore. Same with some solid house music for doing the cleaning.

    Laura Ketteridge
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    This is when audiobooks come into their own. Listen to favourite authors to keep the brain busy, and allow the hands to do their folding laundry thing.

    #71

    40 Things People Weren’t Aware Of Until Embarrassingly Late In Life Flammable and inflammable mean the same, found that out the hard way

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    $cagsy
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    The way the 'R' and the 'E' don't align is annoying me way more than it should.

    Powercat
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    They don’t mean exactly the same: « If something is flammable it means it can be set fire to, such as a piece of wood. However, inflammable means that a substance is capabble of bursting into flames without the need for any ignition. »

    Linziaj
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I thought inflammable meant it was safe !!

    Circa
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    This is both valuable and invaluable information.

    Riley Quinn
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    This is a good place to warn folx to keep their flammables in a secure storage unit, esp. with natural disasters on the rise to prevent a worst case scenario.

    Gabby Ghoul
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Flammable isn't really a word, it was invented because people mistakenly thought "inflammable" meant "not flammable" instead being merely derived from the root word "inflame."

    Bored Person
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Wait these are the same thing?!?!? What is it called when something won't catch fire then?

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    #72

    40 Things People Weren’t Aware Of Until Embarrassingly Late In Life The direction of the arrow next to your car fuel indicator lets you know what side your filling point is.

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    $cagsy
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    So in this instance, that would be left, right?

    Michael Largey
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I imagine this is useful when you're pulling into a gas station in an unfamiliar car, like a rental.

    Tim Douglass
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    All the cars in my family (6 vehicles) have fillers on the left except one. Guess which one doesn't have the little arrow indicator?

    kate h
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Not all cars. Mine has no arrow, and the fuel handle on the indicator is on the right side but my fill port is on the left side.

    Arwen
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I assume this is only in certain countries. I’m in the UK and none of my cars have had this arrow.

    over it already
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    In my experience, it's only on newer model cars (but I'm not in the UK.) My 2015 has it, but the 2001 & 2002 cars we have do not - all 3 different car companies.

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    Ozymandias73
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Why is this gauge backwards?? (USA here)

    Charmaine Swart
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Except when you drive a car that is built in a country where the steering is on the opposite side of where your country's is. I.e Ford is from America where it is a left hand drive. I live in South Africa where it is a right hand drive thus the arrow points to the wrong side

    over it already
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    But... this makes no sense. Arrows point the same regardless of where the steering wheel is.

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    #73

    I wish i didn't think sex was so important into my mid-late 20s. I wish someone told me that going out to bars and clubs wasn't all about hooking up. That the nights success isn't gauged on whether you met someone, got a phone number, made out or took someone home. I didn't even have any chick friends on my teens. Non of us in my group and other groups i knew had. Girls and guys were separate. I moved to France from Ireland and was so surprised that you could just be friends and hang out and have a good time. So much pressure growing up and such time wasted

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    FrillyDragon
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    This needs to be higher.

    Tiny Dancer
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Amen. In my late teens, early 20s (the '80s), I lost a ton of weight (for me at the time, 50 pounds) and spent far too much time and energy looking for "love", or whatever you wanted to call it. Every single person I met (I'm bi) was a potential forever person. And it didn't have to be at the bar! If we locked eyes on the street or on the bus, if you were my waitress or bartender, I didn't care, you were fair game, lol. Ultimately, it was such a depressing, lonely life, as I picked my heart up off the floor time after time. Once I stopped looking for a partner, they pretty much fell in my lap! First befriended the father of my son at work. My partner now (20 years) first challenged me at trivia and then stole my heart. I can't even fathom all that pressure-filled nameless sex again.

    #74

    I didn’t know there were “Top/Bottom” tags on the insides of most bed sheets until I was 25 when my bf pointed it out to me. Before that, I had just picked a side I thought was shorter and hoped for the best, but I was usually wrong, lol.

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    Shawn Matalino
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    And here I just thought that my sheets were sexually harassing me

    Mrs S
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    They do??

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    #75

    If you are really committed to making a relationship work, you have to stop worrying about who's right. Winning arguments just isn't important. Stop. Walk away, breathe. Ask yourself if who loaded the dishwasher more times last week is really worth arguing with someone you love over. I bet its not but you may not think that way if you just lash out at any critical comment.

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    Minath
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Dr Phil is an a*s but one of his phrases is "do you want to be right or do you want to be happy" and I think that is a useful one to remember.

    Michael Largey
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Like everything with Dr. Phil, it's someone else's phrase.

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    Joldeneye
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I find that sleeping on it before confrontation if you can really helps. Most of the time in the morning you’ll be able to see it more clearly and can approach the problem in a more constructive way. Also, never bring up old fights in an argument and never let someone else do it to you. 100% it will make things worse. Just say, “We can talk about that again later but right now we’re talking about this.”

    Cherreka Wirth
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Unless you are the only one who loaded the dishwasher, and the only one who does any housework or works any sort of job while your partner plays video games all day. In which case, please argue over the dishwasher. Or better yet, just leave. You will never be happy in that situation.

    ADHD McChick
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    One of my favorite bits of advice is, "Always say you're sorry, even if you're really not." This doesn't mean that if your partner does something wrong, YOU should apologize. It doesn't mean you ignore or dismiss important issues. It just means if you get into one of those silly pointless arguments that we all have sometimes, & maybe there's some shouting &/or some anger, come back a few minutes & say, "I'm sorry for my part." Even if you aren't feeling particularly apologetic. Even if you feel like it was more their fault than yours. There's always two sides. Just like it takes two to "tango", it takes two to argue. And saying your sorry soothes hurt feelings, & helps you both get over it and move on faster. Also, life is unpredictable. Anything can happen, from one second to the next, just like someone in an earlier entry said. So if you love someone, TELL them. That way, if anything does happen, they'll never have to wonder. And even nothing ever happens, they'll still always know.

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    #76

    lefty loosey, rightie tightie. That made my life so much easier

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    Chucky Cheezburger
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Untill you run across left hand threads...

    over it already
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Usually only in motors or other specific situations.

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    Joldeneye
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Until this year I pictured that in my head as Lefty Lucy and for some reason I associated it with Lucille Ball. The idea that it referred to loosening never clicked. I’m 45. To be fair, I was really into I Love Lucy as a kid.

    Powerful Katrinka
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    But you have to say it out loud for it to work. Muttering under your breath works too.

    #77

    I always thought that putting a lid on pots and pans when cooking was some unnecessary gourmet chef s**t. Turns out that it can massively improve your cooking with basically no effort when food gets hot faster, it heats more evenly, and stays warm for longer after turning the stove off. Now I can finally do sunny-side up eggs without one side being burnt and the other side half-raw. This is especially important now with increasing energy prices.

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    Cal Smiley
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    3 years ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Heat the pan before you put the egg it, but on low/medium, and then cook it low and slow. The yolk and white have different protein structures and will naturally cook at slightly different temps/times so lengthening that gap by using low heat helps gauge when the white is set and the yolk is still runny.

    John Yaskowich
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Adding a teaspoon of water beside the eggs before you cover it will create steam in the pan and cook the eggs faster.

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    Tiny Dancer
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Bless you for finally realizing this (afraid to ask how old you are!), but this shows a lack of basic food education to me. I knew as a child to not touch the pot on the stove, but I was also told why (it's keeping food hot, stopping the grease from splattering etc.). I was never taught HOW to cook without also being told WHY this is done that way. You need this kind of info to keep yourself and your family alive.

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    #78

    The workplace is not a meritocracy. That incompetent moron is going to get promoted before you get promoted, deal with it.

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    Michael Largey
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I once worked for someone who was not only TheWorstPersonIEverMet, but also an incompetent moron. And yes, he got promoted - to a job in another location. This was worth more to us than a promotion, a raise, and six weeks paid vacation.

    #79

    Most of the arguments over text makes things worse! If it was face to face, most of the arguments would seem like it's nothing

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    Powercat
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Also applies to social media arguments. Jeez! Nobody has ever been as rude to me in person as people can be on social media.

    Laura Ketteridge
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    My husband had problems with one person's emails. They were continually taking at cross purposes, and picking up on the wrong bit. After a while I suggested he should not engage with them via email, and instead talk face to face. This made a huge difference in their relationship.

    Lynn Morello
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Text does not include voice tone. Makes a big difference.

    Riley Quinn
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    It's extremely difficult to convey feelings in such a short form. I remember chewing some idiot out for his comment only for him to reply he was being sarcastic. My r/woosh moment publicly revealed. We joked about it.

    Joldeneye
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I can’t tell you how many times I’ve misread the tone in work emails.

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    #80

    your ABCs and twinkle twinkle little star are sung to the same tune

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    Nate Wu
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Ba ba black sheep also!

    Riley Quinn
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    And the cops won't let you sing either at a stop!

    maragato
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    and probably Ob‐La‐Di, Ob‐La‐Da

    Powerful Katrinka
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    "The melody is from the 1761 French tune, 'Ah! vous dirai-je, maman' ('Oh! Shall I tell you, Mama'), also a popular children's song." Wikipedia

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    #81

    All of the associated costs of being a homeowner versus renter.

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    K R
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Just an opinion of course but it still beats renting...says a renter

    Joan Dobbert *Wachs*
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I agree with your opinion says a home owner. But not doing the repairs was a nice perk of renting.

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    Riley Quinn
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Sold my house, renting a flat. I no longer concern myself with the maintenance of anything. In my case, I'd have to do something flipping insane to lose my lease.

    v
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    It really all comes down to how you want to spend your money in your later years but you've got to commit to paying off the mortgage. If you run the numbers honestly you'll see that the cost is just about equal between the two for the entire term of the mortgage. Once that's paid off the benefit of home ownership becomes evident.

    IamMe
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I'd rather own a home. My brother bought a house last year, and his mortgage is less than half my rent. We still pay about the same utilities as each other, and with the money he saves he can afford the occasional repair, especially since he does them himself. As long as you don't get a house in a HOA, owning is generally better.

    Susan Betz
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I actually talked one of my adult children out of a house and into a condo because of this. Her HOA fee is exactly what I put aside each month for general maintenence.

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    #82

    Stripper poles themselves spin. Got drunk ended up having a stripper bet me I couldn't spin on the pole so dumb me climbs up there grabs the pole and flings myself as hard as I could. Well I ended skidding across the stage... Been a long running joke now. Don't drink then bet a stripper when they are bored. It was like 3 in the afternoon and me and my friends were the only ones there.

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    Chucky Cheezburger
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I just learned this now...I always wondered how they could hang on yet spin around it so well. Thought they had Hulk level grip or something.

    oktopus
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I have written this down on a piece of paper which I will keep with me at all times.

    Tiny Dancer
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    There's some solid advice for the kids right there, "Don't drink then bet a stripper." That'll keep your butt out of jail.

    Mrs S
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Wow, it's obvious when you think about it!

    Joldeneye
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Lol that’s not true. It just requires incredible core strength and control. Try taking a pole dancing class and you’ll see that most of us are way weaker than we think!

    mrsmir
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I am DEFINITELY as weak as I think LOL

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    #83

    The plastic top on a new stick of deodorant comes off easily if you just give it another turn or two. My teeth appreciate no longer being used to pull it off.

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    maragato
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    FYI deodorant is for your armpits not your teeth

    Dispatcherqueen
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I just learned that twisting the bottom takes the lid off too...and I'm 58!!

    TKA
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I only learned this like a year or 2 ago, I’m 41. 😳 🤯

    lol.litl.owl
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I had to teach my husband this!

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    #84

    Pickles are cucumbers. I found this out at age 25.

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    Ace
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    They're gherkins, which are a specific small variety, not the same as cucumber you might use in a salad. Only in the US, I believe, are they generically referred to as 'pickles'. In the UK and many other English-speaking areas they're generally just called gherkins, with or without the 'pickled' prefix, whereas 'pickle' on it's own refers to a type of chunky relish.

    mrsmir
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Reminds me of an episode of Mom where Bonnie says something like “oh he’s packing a gherkin!!” and thats all I think about when I hear gherkin…a little peepee lol

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    Vorknkx
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    This confusion can't happen in my native language, as pickles are called "sour cucumbers" :P

    Susan Betz
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    You can pickle an amazing number of fruits and vegetables.

    #85

    My wife just found out that the ocean tides are caused by the moons gravitational pull…she was under the impression that tides where caused by wind. She is 37 years old.

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    Vix Spiderthrust
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    3 years ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I'm afraid your wife is still wrong. Tides are caused by the Earth's rotation. The moon's gravity is just a force multiplier. Think about it: if tides were caused by the moon, you'd get high tide all the time the moon was full and low tide every time it was new, not two tides a day.

    OhnoI’vebeencensored
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    No, the moon's gravity isn't a force multiplier. Your comment makes it sound like tides are caused by centrifugal force due to the Earth's rotation. That's not true. See https://scijinks.gov/tides/

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    #86

    If you’re not wearing a tie, you don’t button the top button of a dress shirt. Let’s just say I looked like an idiot at my first internship lmao

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    boone williams
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    You can, if you want to. Don't let "rules" get in the way of dressing how you want.

    3 Owls In A Coat
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I worked with a pretty hipster dude once who did this….he kind of rocked it tbh!

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    Mrs S
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Sheldon does.

    Riley Quinn
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    It's buttoning the top button on a Polo shirt that gets me. Just doesn't look right.

    over it already
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    ...🎶the hardest button to button 🎶

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    #87

    It's "up and at 'em" not "up and Adam." Said up and Adam until I was 23. I always make jokes to people and say "up and *insert their name*" and have done so since I was single digit and NO ONE stopped me until I said it to my now fiance the first time he stayed over and embarrassed tf out of myself first thing in the morning. Also, not something that lasted super long obviously, but my fiance and his dad would the chip shortage all the time when it first started happening and I deadass thought they were talking about chips that you eat, not computer chips. In my defense, it started at the beginning of COVID and we had nationwide toilet paper shortage so I thought "oh okay, people are buying more chips to eat since they'll be home!" Embarrassed tf out of myself making a joke in the chip aisle and they were both like "excuse me?"

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    Syringa Wessels
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    my moms a Chemist so she always said “Up and Atom” like everyday and she made a point of telling us she was saying Atom, even after 21 years, she still has the driest sense of humor of any person i’ve met

    Bob La Capra
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    A girlfriend thought the expression was "it's a doggie-dog world."

    Mrs. EW
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I used to tell my kid, “Up with your atoms!” to get him out of bed, hahaha

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    #88

    It's not Duck Tape....it's Duct Tape :)

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    Ace
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    It's actually both, historically. Google it.

    Panda in the Fake South
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Duck tape is also a brand of tape. There's a picture of a duck on it

    Local foodie
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Yeah, but no one can stop me from pronouncing it “duck”

    Daniel Yamada
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    It was originally called duck tape.

    CHRIS DOMRES
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    And it is the worst tape to use on ducts as it dries out and peels off.

    over it already
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    There is, however, an actual duct tape. It's steel and flexible and works great, but does have sharp edges, so beware.

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    Syringa Wessels
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    jokes on you, here in oregon we have University of Oregon (The Ducks) branded duct tape so it actually is Duck tape

    Amy Force
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    1 month ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Um... *DUCK* Brand Duct Tape is a thing! lol

    Freya the Wanderer
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Originally it was Duck tape because it's waterproof. No self-respecting handy person is going to put this on any duct!

    Riley Quinn
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    For most of us, the ''t" in duct is silent. Not saying this is correct, just stating facts.

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    #89

    That “court” in an address means it is a cul-de-sac.

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    Huddo's sister
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Wait, when Americans write an address they use court, even tough when they say it it is cul-de-sac? Where I live we say court as well as write it. I thought Americans would write the same word they said too.

    mrsmir
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Instead of downvoting Huddo, maybe someone could’ve explained instead? So I will try for you: a cul-de-sac is a way of describing what kind of road you’re on, not an actual address per say. I lived on Chestnut WAY which happened to be a cul-de-sac but when referring to it, you wouldn’t say I live at 123 Chestnut Cul-de-sac right? A cul-de-sac loops at the end so you don’t have to turn around anywhere as opposed to a “dead end” where you’d have to do a 3-point-turn (or however many “turns” you need lol) to get out of there. Hopefully this helped lol

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    3 Owls In A Coat
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Like when an address says “123 Bored Panda Court,” it usually means the address is in a car-de-sac :)

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    Riley Quinn
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Generally consisting of 8 lots or less.

    OhnoI’vebeencensored
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Hampton Court Palace: "Spacious home situated in extensive grounds in secluded cul-de-sac. Offers over £250,000".

    #90

    Most probably, if you hate someone or maybe strongly dislike them you do end up having 1 or 2 traits similar to them.

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    Cowws
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    yea, I often find I mentally impose my flaws on others like me

    Jill Rhodry
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Yes, so true - it tends to be the things you don't like about yourself that you see in them which is why you don't like them - good self-improvement tool if you're so inclined.

    3 Owls In A Coat
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Yep! I get SO annoyed with one coworker because he gets SO annoyed at everything around him….was a bit of a wake up call :D

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    Sue User
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    There probably isnt a person on this planet that you dont have 1-2 similar traits.

    Mrs S
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    That was a bit of an eye opener for me

    Riley Quinn
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I can honestly say I don't hate anyone, not even my mother. It's too overwhelming and all-consuming of an emotion for me to cope with safely. I do hate traits, characteristics, behaviors, attitudes, but not the people.

    Michael Largey
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Freshman year in college, I was assigned a roommate who exactly matched me in an unbelievable number of ways. We couldn't stand each other. And neither of us could ever say "You may be right. I've never been in that situation." It was always "I have been in that same situation, and you're wrong!"

    #91

    There are no vineyards at Martha's Vineyard.

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    Riley Quinn
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Nah. It's named after some guy's daughter. Should've left it as Noepe (Wampanoag for "land amid the streams").

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    #92

    When tying your shoes, the direction of the loop before you knot matters. Most of my life my laces were constantly getting loose throughout the day until well into adulthood.

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    oktopus
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Wait, I need to think this through, possibly with a sheet of paper, and review my shoe-tying skills.

    Troy Keogh
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    If you start your first knot right lace over left then finish it with left loop over right. It should hold better

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    Syringa Wessels
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    i’ve done double loops my whole life and i will never stop

    Adam King
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    YES. I had to learn knot tying for my union exams and that's when I learned I was tying my shoes wrong the whole time. Still a struggle to correct the direction each time.

    Heather Talma
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    You're not gonna tell us how to do it right?

    FrillyDragon
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Head_on_a_stick linked a site telling how: https://www.fieggen.com/shoelace/grannyknot.htm

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    Error 404
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Thanks for making me proud of my shoe tying skills.

    Riley Quinn
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Make a loop as usual. With the loose string, wrap it twice around the loop before pulling it thru to make the second loop. You've created a double-knot that's easy to undo by pulling both ends.

    Devin Singh
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I'm one of the lucky ones who happened to learn the right way. I learned this a few years ago at the age of 30. And luckily I didn't have to retrain 25+ years of muscle memory.

    Bored Retsuko
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    You just have to wrap around twice before you knot... if that makes sense... like this they won't get loose.

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    #93

    That *K9* comes from “canine”.

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    #94

    A spendthrift is the opposite of a thrifty person. This still feels uncomfortable to me.

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    Vix Spiderthrust
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    But it makes perfect sense. They spend your thrift, i.e. what you have saved through being thrifty

    3 Owls In A Coat
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Aha! Thank you, my brain is satisfied with that :)

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    #95

    You can actually download the entirety of Wikipedia.

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    Syringa Wessels
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    you could, doesn’t mean you can, i mean, that is a lot of data

    iseefractals
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    109 gigs for english json dump. About 20 min downlead with gigabit connection.

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    Ozymandias73
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Just because one "can" doesn't mean one should. ;)

    Tiny Dancer
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Oooo, I think they're going to want more than my measly two bucks a month for that kind of thing!

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    #96

    That people are saying “quote unquote” when quoting someone and not saying “quote on quote”. I was thinking while driving about a month ago and it suddenly hit me. It took 30 years…

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    Error 404
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    But if you quote a "quote unquote", do you "quote" or do you "unquote" ? Cuz if it's "unquote", it's not a "quote". But then- Ok I stop

    3 Owls In A Coat
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    How many quotes can an unquote quote if an unquote unquotes quotes?

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    3 Owls In A Coat
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    3 years ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I thought I was saying “quote unquote,” as in, there are two quotation marks and the first one is “quote” and the last one is “unquote.” Which made perfect sense in my head but now that I’ve typed it out….😅

    Mrs S
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    No worries, it's for verbal communication and if in person, accompanied by one or both hands making bunny ears to further indicate a quote is to follow. In written communication, you would use actual quotation marks...

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    #97

    Never use water on a gas fire. If I hadn't recently learned this from reddit, something might have happened some day

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    Riley Quinn
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I don't even cook any more, but I still keep baking soda next to the stove. Fire safety is something we should all know by the time we're in our teens.

    Susan Betz
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Also never use water on an oil fire (like if you're frying on your electric stove).

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    #98

    Watermelons don’t grow on trees

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    Karla Torres
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Else if Newton was sitting under a watermelon tree...instead of an apple...

    SCP 4666
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I thought this of pineapples

    Error 404
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    For me it was strawberries.

    VM37
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Same as pumpkins, zuccini, melons....

    #99

    People come and go. From a random stranger you moshed with at a concert to a female friend you've known for many years (10+ years) that said she loved you as a friend multiple times then just suddenly ghosts you and may have changed because she is completely devoted to her significant other. But I guess you have to learn sooner or later. Not much I can do honestly.

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    TJ E
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Omg, I might be that female friend... Sorry, Ryan, I still love you

    Joldeneye
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    If she had to say that multiple times then you are the problem my friend.

    Mrs S
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Gotta say, I'm with you on this one.

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    Riley Quinn
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    We no longer live in villages and hamlets. We're vastly more mobile than we've ever been. It's easy to remain friends if neither of you leave your village, but that's not our reality now a days.

    Tiny Dancer
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    People will come and go in your life, that's a fact. Save yourself a ton of grief by accepting that and moving on. I've mourned so many lost friendships (grown apart, physically moved apart, came to a slow realization that we had nothing but drinking/smoking in common), but I've also met so many new cool folks along the way. Life can be an awesome journey, but you have to keep looking ahead, not behind.

    Elin Calliel
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Everything is temporary. Everything.

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    #100

    Live Christmas trees require water in their base or they die and turn brown.

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    OhnoI’vebeencensored
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I mean, they're still gonna die. Just prolonging the inevitable. Uh... merry Christmas everyone!

    IamMe
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Don't forget to cut off a bit at the bottom. The water can't really get into an old cut that's covered in pitch.

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    #101

    That a Dachshund is pronounced 'Dax-hund' not 'dash-hund'. Totally changes the softness of the name!

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    Syringa Wessels
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Dachshund needs to be a scary sounding breed name, i feel like people assume they are nice because they are cute. mine absolutely hates men (for some reason) and kids, in general you need to ask before touching a dog, but especially small dogs.

    Daniel Yamada
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Where I grew u, we pronounced it the same as "Datsun".

    lol.litl.owl
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I've been really bitten by 2 dogs in my life and they were both Dachshunds... Mean wienie dogs (not mine)

    Cowws
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    ...not quite. It's more throughty

    Bored Retsuko
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    3 years ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I do find the description quite accurate.(German is my mother tongue)

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    #102

    That "Jim" is a shortened/nickname for "James". Up until about 20, I just thought they were two entirely separate names.

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    Circa
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Me too. And it doesn't really work as an abbreviation. Not like Tim or John or Mike.

    Nicole Weymann
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    As a non native speaker Peg for Margaret and Bill for William were somewhat unexpected.

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    #103

    The tongue thats part of dispoable paper toilet seat covers in public restrooms should be in the front & folded over the seat, not the back, when putting it on the seat before use. Its to protect against splashing urine and splashes from large s**t drops. Im in my 40s and learned this a month ago.

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    Kathy Rayborn
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Can’t stomach reading tongue and toilet in the same sentence. Ew.

    Panda in the Fake South
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    It also gets the toilet to flush it down without having to touch it when done

    TKA
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I hd to read this so many times. It’s talking about the middle part that you punch out partially and let it lay in the water. Then when you are done and flush, the whole seat cover usually gets flushed without touching it.

    lol.litl.owl
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I read somewhere that, yes, it goes towards the front but it's supposed to be used as a way for you to grab and put into toilet to be flushed

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    #104

    That red orange and green peppers aren't different types of peppers, they're just at different stages of ripeness🤯

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    Megan Curl
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Not true! I grow peppers. A green pepper will never go full yellow, then orange, then red, but it will eventually go all red. There actually are different varieties of pepper plants. This one is just silly.

    Catharina Geerts
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    1 month ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    No it's not silly. Although there are different kinds of peppers, some will really change colour by ripening more, I've seen it happen in my kitchen multiple times

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    Syringa Wessels
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    kinda. if you grow a green pepper plant and wait for it to “ripen” into another color, your just going to end up with a rotten green pepper. all peppers start out green but that doesn’t mean it’s a green pepper if you pick it while it’s still green, it will just taste really bitter and gross.

    Riley Quinn
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Same with certain varieties of chili peppers. The green are unripe, the red/orange are ripe.

    VM37
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I am almos sure red orange is a variery on its own.

    madbakes
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    It's not quite as simple as that. See other comments for explanations

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    #105

    Gorillaz is the guy from Blur

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