Sometimes you get hit by a wave of curiosity, wondering where that one person from school is now. Social media has done wonders to allow us to keep in touch, even when we maybe would prefer to keep our distance, but sometimes it can be interesting to hear others’ experiences.
A netizen wanted to hear others’ stories about where the “smart kid” from school ended up after everyone graduated. From brilliant careers, and weird turns to tragedy, the internet delivered, so prepare to sift through a multitude of human experiences, be sure to upvote your favorites and comment your own tales below. We also got in touch with therapist and neuroscientist Bobbi Banks to learn more.
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He went to Harvard Law School then moved back and created a startup that helps make healthcare accessible in disadvantaged communities. Was a great guy then and great guy now.
That was me. I'm now a stay-at-home dad of four wonderful kids and in a loving, sixteen year marriage. My wife is my best friend. While I may not have reached my full potential academically, I'm happy. Very happy. I realized that life is too short to care about anything other than living my life the way that I want to, not the way that I'm expected to.
Having a big brain and a big job, and not finding happiness is just awful. I am happy for you!!
I amounted to nothing.
Is what most people would say looking at me. But the truth is I am living a satisfying and happy life, no debt because I chose not to go to college, a wonderful woman who is madly in love with me and I her, and I enjoy my free time doing what I love. I'm happy. I'm not rich. I don't have a prestigious job or title, but I am legitimately satisfied with life.
I win.
Bored Panda got in touch with award-winning integrative counselor, coach, and neuroscientist Bobbi Banks to learn more about how high school affects a person's development. “High school is considered a key period in our development. It’s a time when we start to establish our identity and how we fit into the world around us. Whether filled with positive or negative experiences, it’s a time of many firsts and emotionally charged memories.”
“Strong emotions often equal strong memories, which explains why we often think of people from high school in the later stages of life. Apart from the general curiosity we all have, we check up on the people from our past who made us feel something. It’s often closely linked to what’s currently going on in our lives or perhaps something we’re missing, longing for, or even something we’re trying to heal from. Essentially, it stems from the desire to experience certain feelings again or to process painful memories which may have been triggered in our present.”
Smartest guy from my high school became an actual rocket scientist.
Dropped out of college to marry and support the much younger woman he got pregnant. Now (30 years later) owns a boardgame store with a large back room for mini painting and games and plays dad to half the neurodivergent kids in town. Still married to the same woman too. It's not a high flying life but he makes a difference to so many people.
To make y'all feel better: He was 23 I think and she was 18, a big age gap when you're young. It was also in the Netherlands, were at least at the time (I've been gone a while) we didn't really care so much as long as it wasn't a 10 year difference or one of them was under 15. Teenagers have sex drives, it happens.
Superstar pediatric neurosurgeon.
Most confident person I’ve ever met. (Guess you’d have to be, to cut open a little kid’s skull and operate on their brain.)
We had two smartest ones. One became a neuroscientist doing international research and the other one a stay at home parent of a 4-5 kids ,writing urban fantasy for fun. Both are equally happy and enjoys their choosen paths 😀
Even as adults, people still invoke feelings and concepts about who one was in school. “The people who have had mainly positive memories may find themselves longing for the sense of belonging, connection, freedom, and acceptance they may have experienced, especially when they’re facing challenges or are feeling disconnected in the present. Revisiting such memories or reconnecting with those people in some way is an attempt to recapture the feelings or provide temporary relief,” Bobbi shared with Bored Panda.
That was me! Or smartest as in best achieving academically. Went on to uni and studied history and a masters in medieval history, graduated both top of the class. Everyone expected me to do a PhD but I found academics too lonely and wanted to have a more social workplace so became a history teacher in high school instead and love it!
There were two. They were twins. They're both geneticists now with PHDs, and they work at the same university.
He went to MIT, works for Apple, and has a very expensive home in California. He also has a wife and 4 kids and seems to be very happy. I remember he was programming games in high school and was valedictorian. A big nerd who became a wealthy big nerd.
“On the other hand, people who have had negative or traumatic experiences may also often recollect painful memories from high school and the people behind them. This can be a way of processing unresolved emotions, healing the wounds they carry, and seeking closure. Contemplating the challenging relationships of the past can also be a means of reaffirming their personal boundaries and ensuring they avoid repeating unhealthy patterns in their present and future interactions.”
Guy had 3 scholarship offers, lasted 1 year in uni before jumping off a building. Feel sorry for him and his family.
Died from a brain tumour right after he graduated high school. He was dang smart. Could play the piano upside down too.
She got a PhD is Neuroscience from Stanford and I think she's a professor or associate professor somewhere now. She was possibly the sweetest girl I'd ever met. I was an intelligent underachiever, and ended up in a few AP courses with her because our teachers saw my test scores and refused to continue to let me do dips**t things with my dips**t friends; she was always super proud of me when I actually showed up and put some effort in and, Lo and behold, got excellent marks. Honestly she really turned around the last 2 years of HS for me. Also she's wicked hot now. A hot genius.
“Ultimately, reminiscing about both positive and negative aspects of high school experiences can serve as a powerful catalyst for self-discovery and self-awareness. It allows us to confront our past selves, reflect on our vulnerabilities, and appreciate the lessons we learned along the way. By recognizing the connections between our past and present, we become better equipped to shape a more meaningful and fulfilling future.”
I ended up being a drug addict and a cook at a bar. Being smart doesn't do anything if it just drives you to insecurity and depression, except make you loathe yourself for not living up to your potential.
I hope OP gets help and realizes it is never too late to fulfill dreams.
Not my class but the one above me, and it was my brother. He was superlative winner: best smile, most likely to be famous, likely to succeed, best dressed, most likely to be famous, etc… the school made him pick two. He also won prom king and fulfilled all his projected roles.
As his little sister, my big brother is my absolute HERO of a human all around. He is a PA making bank, drives a cool car, humble af, has a beautiful gf I hope to call my SIL one day.
Me? I got “seinoritis” and the school had to call my Mom to let me know I needed to show up for superlative pics lol. I’m an artist. I work with rockstars on the spectrum. I have a hundred plants and solo travel to go hiking. Imo, WE made it. All the money in the world wouldn’t put me through his academic endurance. He is such a great role model, I’m so blessed to have him as my big brother and best friend. He calls me for his mental turmoils and I make time. I call him when I made a new art/plant sale. Our relationship is unmatched.
Lastly, we wanted to know if high school really can show who a person will be or if it’s not the be-all, end-all of a person’s life. “Although high school plays a significant role in shaping our identity and values, I don't believe it's the sole determinant of future success or happiness. It's only a chapter and luckily we are the authors of our life story. The past will always be a part of us but we shouldn't forget that today's actions also hold power in determining tomorrow's reality.”
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He is currently an aerospace engineer who played a big role in the engineering of the Canadarm.
I believe he works for NASA. He deleted his Facebook a while ago (like the smartest kid in our class would do), but that’s what he was doing last I checked.
It's my biggest desire to fly up into space one day. And an even greater desire to make it back alive
He got his PhD in engineering, started his own company, and was a multimillionaire by 45.
Crushed under the weight of expectations and mental illness he burned out and works call centers now instead of his full potential.
She married a religious fruitcake 12 years older than she was almost immediately after graduation and started pumping out kids. Never went to college. Has never had a job. Spends her days on Facebook shaming people for being sinners.
Has anyone thought to contact her, as my initial reaction is that she's caught in a cult.
A girl I know of got a full ride scholarship to Brown, and turned it down because her religious zealot fiance told her "Women don't need college. They don't have careers. They stay home and raise the children while the man works ". They got married and had a couple kids, but she had to get a job to support the family because hubby was too busy "studying" to be the next leader of their church (when his daddy retired). Seems women can't have "careers", but they CAN work s****y minimum wage jobs.
Does it go without saying she's an anti vax, Trump supporting whack job?
Probably. You should have taken that scholarship to Brown. Best of luck. Make America Great AGAIN
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God is Watching her Closely!! She will Have to Answer to Him one Day!! He is the HIGHER POWER not She!!
those people should be spay/neutered - it can only be a blessing to everyone else
I hate the term 'religious fruitcake'. If it was true, wouldn't what they were dishing out taste better?
Sounds more like "freedom" to get brainwashed into a cult.
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Being book-smart does not equate to being smart about life (street smart).
Load More Replies... My understanding of its use here is merely implying that the person was a religious zealot. Words can have multiple meanings.
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He was an idealist, became a priest and served in the Vatican, became disillusioned and left the church, got two masters degrees, and died by his own hand. He was a truly good person who couldn’t marry his ideals with the reality of the church.
I see a theme here: get into academia, become a religious nutcase, or take your own life. Seems he did all three of them
All the pressure made me have a mental break down in college. I was diagnosed with many illnesses mentally. Finished my first round with a 3.98.
Got diagnosed with fibromyalgia. F****d my body and memory so bad i had to quit my job working at our doctor's office. Developed severe myofascial pelvoc pain syndrome.
I lost everything. Including my husband. He cheated and left because not working made me not part of the team.
I wish I put more effort into experiences rather than education as now I'm disabled and it all feels pointless and worthless as I'm in debt I can't work out of.
your story is very similar to mine even to having the disease taking away everything. i mourned for about five years and then woke up and said life is going to be what i make it. so, even in daily pain and often disappointed with the fact that i still lose the ability to do certain things as the disease progresses - please don't give up! but, also remember that it is perfectly okay to be angry/resentful. i have about 2 pity party days a year and then pull up my granny panties and move on.
He went to ace the board exam... twice in two different fields. I couldn't be prouder. Most importantly, he became my boyfriend and changed many perspectives I had in life. I'd have never lived up to this day were it not for him, and I hope I did (and still do) my best to care for him the same. It wasn't always shiny days. He had very depressive episodes, with lots of doubts and being forced to face heavy pressure. We had a toxic relationship in between and a lot of things weren't healthy at all. I even projected a lot of insecurities, especially being with this very intelligent person compared to my "inferior self". Imagine hormones and adulting mixing up, wow. Fortunately, we are in a sooo much better state right now. Man, was it a journey. We changed and developed as our own individuals, with lots of moments shared together. I'm lucky to have him. I don't care if he's smart or whatever, he's fcking funny and is able to listen to me rant about whatever favorite thing I have for the day. He's not a cat person, but damn I'm trying to convert him through the cat subreddits here. And I'll be here for him.
He is a cat person, he just doesn’t know it yet. When his cat finds him he’ll be converted in an instant and then there’s no going back 🙂
He moved to Poland and became a Molecular Biologist.
Off topic: I'm doing stuff in a molecular biology lab over at Duke Uni, the same one that created the first treatment for GSDII aka Pompe Disease.
She's a professor at Oxford University.
my little sister wants to go to oxford. really low acceptance rate. She’s determined though!
She worked at John’s Hopkins doing research with Psilocybin.
Cool! Isn’t John Hopkins a huge prestigious uni? or is it a hospital? Sorry, not american, not sure :)
After never having even smoked a cigarette or drank alcohol in high school, straight As all the way through, he got a full ride to a really good university. As a freshman he dropped acid, walked out in front of a car and was killed.
[EDIT: Let me correct my post. She married the now SECOND richest man. It’s hard to keep up with the billionaires and how fast their interest doubled their wealth over the pandemic 🙄]
She married the (now) richest man in the world. Divorced him and is now the 4th richest human. Not bad.
She became an right wing religious fanatic with 9 kids.
Everyone is becoming insanely religious isn't it, I mean I am also religious but not this much..
He was drafted in the seventh round by the St Louis cardinals and he was getting his masters in biomed at 21-22, played a few years in lower ball after signing around a quarter mill signing bonus.
Now he’s a nuclear medicine doctor.
We graduated high school 23 years ago. Now she's a neurosurgeon. And a Hooters girl on the weekends just for fun (was a Hooters girl in college, made the calendar and everything). I still run into her from time to time, still as nice as she's always been.
Had a full ride through Berklee. Ended up experimenting a lot with hallucinogens. Started to believe he was a Starchild or Starseed and was from another planet. Ended up starving himself in a national park to die with the earth so he could meet other star children. F*****g miss and love you buddy.
Not a very much liked opinion... but if you are genetically disposed to schyzophrenia, drug use will open the doors wide opened for the gene to take off. You would notice how the rate of shyzophrenia remain stable amongst the population vs rising amongst canabis users for example. If your family has an history with mental illness, or one of your aunties feel off, stay away from drugs, i mean really stay away.
She directs (if that’s what it’s called) a popular children’s cartoon on netflix and makes $$$$. She often posts about houses for sale in her Los Angeles neighborhood- each is asking about 10 million minimum. Guess she did ok. Wish I knew we were both gay back then 😂. Joking. She was boring.
That was me. Dux (or valedictorian) of my high school. Voted “brainiest” by my peers for the school year book. Highest university entrance grades of my school. Quintessential nerd.
I went into chemical engineering, because that was the degree “brainy” kids did. I was okay at the job, but never great. Bounced around across five different manufacturing companies, mostly in entry level positions or close to it. Has some mild successes, got a few promotions. Got made redundant a lot. Finally secured a management position after ten years. And realised I absolutely hated every aspect of the job.
Did a lot of soul searching. It really was a massive shock to my system that I had “failed” at something that was meant to be for the smart people. Took a lot for me to redefine my identity without smart being at the heart of it.
These days I teach chemistry at the local high school. I absolutely love it. Kind of regret that I turned my nose up for years because I was “to smart to be a teacher”. But I can’t change the past, so all that’s left to do is learn from it.
One of the top students in my class (of 8 or so who all had the highest possible GPA) followed a similar path: studied chemistry, bounced around the industry for a while, and now teaches at a community college.
I had such a big crush on her and told her. We dated, she moved across country to study and is now a Doctor. So proud of her even though our lives changed paths.
Good for you for letting her grow and not turning her into a baby machine like the above posts.
Got a full ride to Harvard. Did an internship his first summer at Intel and was killed by a drunk driver a few weeks after arriving in California. F*****g couldn’t believe it when it happened 25 years ago. Still can’t really.
I was voted "Most likely to succeed"
At the time I was a B student (graduated with just under a 3.0 GPA). I'm not sure why they voted me that. I was "smart" and did spend my time programming and thinking about physics and math, so that's probably why.
I went to community college and did well enough to transfer to UC Berkeley. Then I did an MS at UCLA. I started working at Google after and got married and had a kid. I left after 5 years to do a PhD at Stanford in Computer Science (artificial intelligence). Just graduated. It'll be my 20 year reunion soon.
So I guess I did succeed, though I haven't really made a mark on the world (yet maybe).
But actually, there were tons of really successful people in my graduating class. During high school everyone seemed angsty and mean, but so many of them got their acts together. There are dozens of PhD's and MD's and journalists business people, etc. I mean, yes there were definitely a good number of not so successful people too, but I don't think I was a major outlier.
Works in Tesco stacking shelves. He was an aerospace engineer but he had some mental health issues and just couldn’t take the pressure. Super smart and really nice guy, but always struggled socially.
My best friend (at the time; we drifted apart and speak only rarely now). He got a PhD. at Harvard, studied science in Antarctica, and now teaches at an Ivy League university.
His mom wouldn’t let him play with me anymore because he was in the advanced reading group. Ran into him 20 years later, he was a paper salesman at a failing paper company.
He did his undergraduate degree, couldn’t afford a masters etc so ended up working in offices for 15 years where he had to hide his intelligence around his co workers. Finally founded his own company & is now in politics where he can be the smartest person in the room & people will respect it. Good guy just way above most people’s level of intelligence & has had to hide it most of his life.
Topper of our class and me ended up at the same big tech company. And it irritates him to the core that someone who didn’t put in as much effort as he did throughout school and engineering are at the same place, and in a similar position as him. I know I even earn more than him, but that would be rubbing salt with masala on his wounds.
He was smart enough to never associate with people from high school, again. He has never attended a reunion and it’s been over 30 yrs.
Went to a big college. Got a degree in tech. Now makes six figures and owns a townhouse outside of Baltimore.
He lives with his grandmother mainly. Smokes a s**t load of weed. Flys a girl from Colorado to f**k and smoke with.
I married his sister.
Dude signed a multimillion dollar offer for an engineer at Comptroller who sent him to Europe where he traveled, added to his funds, became FB with a pop idol in Korea, came back here, left again to go be Zaphod Beeblebrox.
Guy farted clouds of luck and charisma.
Winner. And, a genuinely kind man.
The smartest one I knew ended up drowning, tragically, right after we graduated. I wish I could have seen him make an impact on the world.
The smartest kid in my school was really popular, and was one of my closest friends. But when he graduated he left everyone and everything behind-including his family. He even changed his name.
I found out this little bit of information because a friend went to an academic conference and showed me a group photo and he was in it. I exclaimed, “That’s my friend Pascal!” He kept his first name but his last name was an anagram of his original name.
There are two. I remember one of them crying when they got an A- on a test in like 7th grade.
One of them(the one who cried) is an executive in a fortune 500 company. Nothing special but making a lot of money.
The other one is a brain surgeon.
I had one who would cry if she got anything less than a 20 in a test, because "she wouldn't be accepted in a top university in England to study music'. She ended up studying Physics in a Greek Uni (Greek public Universities are actually very good) and teaches Physics in high school. That is a very well paid job in my country, which is why a lot of people do it, and I really hope she is happy, but that is not the mark she was so obsessed over.
He spent years researching how to cloak himself like “the predator” from the 1987 film with Arnold Schwarzenegger. He got surprisingly far before he ended up getting a top-secret government job. Haven’t heard from him since. Maybe he’s a secret agent, maybe he actually became the predator ? No one knows
Unfortunately, the smartest kid in my class in middle school ended his life in 8th grade. He was also a brilliant violinist, I was his stand partner in orchestra. I was proud to be his brother's stand partner in high school. Rest in peace Connor.
I was one of 19 valedictorians in my class of about 520 (no weighted grades so we all had 4.0 GPA). I got a BSci degree at a state university (magna cum laude), worked lab tech jobs, worked for the forest service, moved overseas, earned a Masters, and now I'm a park ranger. Doing well academically in high school and college really burned me out. Now I get to work outdoors and am pretty happy. Still have regrets and think about what I could have been but I try not to let it get to me.
No clue whatvthe other 18 valedictorians are up to.
I was one of those. I got my BA, dropped out of grad school. Now I make 18k USD in a developing country and I'm reasonably happy with my life after about 7 years of on-and-off s*icidal depression.
He just accepted a full professorship at a big university in the States. Particle physicist.
Also my bestie.
When I was in middle school, we had a super smart kid join later on in the semester that was always teased because he was above everyone else mentally. I think in 8th grade he was doing 10th or 11th grade mathematics. Any test that he took he passed with flying colors (hardly even studying). He befriended me. I was kinda quiet in middle school because of stuff going on at home. His mom always made me an extra sandwich whenever she made his lunch.
I lost contact after graduation but a few years later when I was a sophomore in college I decided to look him up on Facebook and couldn’t believe what I saw. There was my friend the brainiac smoking salvia out of a huge bong as his profile picture. I think he had to take it down because when I looked him up again he had pics of him drinking out of a funnel..
Material science PhD at Georgia Tech. Working on some weird adhesive that they plan to use on a space mission. Got into IIT Bombay but instead went to some Northwestern University for material engineering in US. You feel dumb talking to him, but he’s a good guy.
Died in a car accident sophomore year. I loved her. First person I felt those feelings for. I could remember the first time I saw her in kindergarten. We also learned to golf together my freshman year. It was tragic because she had so much potential and died overachieving trying to get to school early for jazz band practice. It was snowing and school hadn’t been delayed or canceled yet as our superintendent liked to always wait last minute. She hit a slick spot and collided with a semi.
Went to college for mathematics as one of the most promising young minds in the Midwest. Was in college for a year before switching to study Spanish. Dropped out a year later. Currently works at Gamestop 20 minutes from his parents house, where he lives.
He was a good friend of mine, but I recently learned that he considered me his best friend. It's such a shame that his intelligence is going to waste. He is literally so smart, and has such a talent for math, bit he seems "content" with his life. Who am I to judge.
He got someone preggers right out of hs. So he decided to not go to the ivy league school he had a full scholarship to and stay home to be a dad. He got his associates at the local community college and is now a science teacher at the same high school he graduated from.
I talk to him every once in a while when I’m down there to visit my parents. He’s always asking about my job cause he wanted to be a software engineer when he graduated high school and the community college didn’t even have regular computer classes so he settled for some environmental science degree.
I was valedictorian in a class of <20 people in high school. I never found work in the field I studied in college and was tired of the s****y entry level work I’d been stuck doing for years, so I went back to school for some certs related to IT and programming. I’m doing just above entry-level IT work now, which is fine. The girl I was planning to marry left me shortly after I turned thirty, but because of the housing market I’m forced to live in the guest room of the home we had bought together. Due to one of the jobs I’d worked before getting into IT, I’m dealing with anxiety and depression caused by PTSD. I’m living in a city that I hate after having left my friends and family behind to move in with my now ex, so I’m very much alone.
People often said I was smart, but it was always just surface-level facts and decent communication skills.
I know my situation could always be worse. I’m grateful to have a job and a place to sleep, and being able to communicate with friends over Discord has been helpful.
Still, I’d hoped my thirties wouldn’t be like this.
Start by setting achievable goals on paper, like committing to a short daily run or a 15-minute workout. Gradually increase your efforts and push yourself further. Cultivate the habit of self-improvement by reading a few pages of educational or documentary books every day, slowly increasing the amount you read over time. Furthermore, begin your day by hydrating with water and waiting for an hour before breakfast. These small steps might seem insignificant, but they can make a significant difference in how you feel. Remember, life is a series of moments, and each moment counts. You have the strength to overcome difficulties and grow into a better version of yourself. Keep moving forward, and believe that you can create a brighter future.
Overdose. Kid was valedictorian and probably the highest person at our school at any given moment and that’s saying something considering the town we were in. Sad as f**k. RIP
She died of alcoholism last year.
The brightest student in our class is currently working with some software development company in Germany. Found this out a week ago when was out with friends.
He works for Apple and hits the gym like crazy bc of all his free time. Has more women and less worries than me. And I respect it.
1 person works for Philips in Japan. Another completed PG from JIPMER. Another one works for an AI startup in Bengaluru.
The smartest kids I knew in school turned to alcohol. and doing really dumb s**t (maybe not all but quite a few). The bullies didn’t amount to anything either. The mediocre ones in the middle were the ones that had successful careers and normal lives.
Got married, became a Christian (much to everyone’s surprise), and started a chain of after-school tutoring programs in Singapore where parents will pay any price for after school tutoring.
One is an anaesthetist, one is a paediatric cardiologist, and the other was CFO of a major bank in our home country before moving to Switzerland to work in finance there.
Dude hated physics, chemistry, bio, he wanted to study commerce with maths but parents and principal forced him to take PCM, so he just barely passed 12th and did B.com anyway
The smartest kid in my high school class is typing sh!t on Bored Panda; right now, even as we speak (type?) :-)
Smartest in my grade was my best friend, top of the class. She now teaches at our high school in a teeny tiny town. People would say that she really should have moved away, could have gone to a huge university, done more with herself, but I know her and she's happy teaching high school and living close to her family. I fully support and love her.
Same for me. She's awesome doing what she did. :-)
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But maybe he is happy. That is actually the true measure of success.
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Not sure if he was the smartest but he was definitely up there. Came into my store and asked if he could do any odd jobs for cash. Told me he was homeless. I couldn't do anything like that because of corporate policies but I gave a few bucks and I had helped him put in a job application. He failed the background check. Apparently, he had quite the criminal record. Was the last I saw of him.
There was a smart kid in my high school? News to me. It was not a school known for the intelligence of its students.
The smartest kid in my H.S was a exchange student named Bjorn. Legally he was supposed to be in grade 8 but did grade nine and ten. Was super smart, super funny and the friendliest dude you could meet. He was killed when he was nineteen when his home got broken into. Tragic and awful
This post made me wonder who was the smartest in my school. Probably this kid who got a perfect score on the SATs. No idea what he is doing but after the school found out we celebrated his achievement at a school pep rally. The school erupted in praise for him. It was a beautiful moment.
My friend was one of the smartest kids in school—straight A's without even trying. She ended up getting in with the wrong crowd, fell in love with a guy 15 years older than her, ended up addicted to heroin, and got pregnant at 17. Never graduated despite having dreams of going to college, suddenly went missing during senior year, and nobody knew where she went. 5 years later, we found out that she was involved in a crime ring, and was sentenced to 3 years in federal prison. After being released from prison, she ended up as a prostitute, nearly lost custody of her child, and was pregnant with her 2nd. Good thing was that, she eventually got her GED and was accepted into a college. After that, she fell in love with this guy (really nice. He treats her right), became a fashion designer, got married, and recently welcomed her 3rd child. Honestly, everyone kind of looked down on her back then for going down such a destructive path, but I'm happy for her and how she managed to turn her lif
Got turned down from Oxford and Cambridge for 'not having enough extra curriculars' (translation: was a stuck up a**e who thought everyone and everything was below him). His friend who was lovey got in, lol
Some people who do not do extracurricular, are lovely people who have serious insecurities. I know a very very smart man, who's social anxiety stops him from participating in any group activities. But if you met him you would state that he was the nicest person you had ever met.
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If memory serves my year's smartest guy was the rugby team captain (yay for breaking athlete stereotypes). He was all set to go off to medical school after that last summer holiday but he ended up getting hit and killed by a taxi(minibus for you non SA folks). Ironically his last facebook post had been of a tombstone he found with his best friend's name on it.
We had covaledictorians my senior year, and while we haven't been out for that long, one is a youtuber growing at a steady rate who's in college for digital media to please his parents, and the other is a hairdresser at a local salon. I wasn't ever in the running for valedictorian, but I graduated 7th in my class, and most considered me one of the "smart kids", mainly because I was really good at explaining things in different ways to those who struggled. Now I'm in college to be a psychologist for neurodivergent and disabled kids. I want to give people the support that I never got myself.
This is technically a story from a kid in my moms class. He was one of the weird kids and, he once almost electrocuted himself with a fork and a socket. Now he is a college prof and a leading string theorist. He was a triple major.
Well I was the smartest kid in my class (asperger) now I'm disabled at 19, I feel 91.
"Crying because of A- "brought back memories about classmate. Exactly the same, cried over A- because it was "unfair" and was standing in his way to get into ivy league university on full tuition at age of 16. So he was genius I may say. Though, always grumpy and was taking badly any possibility of being ever wrong. In fact A- got corrected to A+ after a lot of begging and proving teacher wrong. Was working for worldwide known organizations as a researcher. Was in the middle of doing PHD and just straight up dropped studies, work and left to volunteer to some African country away from everything. Probably it was some sort of breakdown.
The smartes kid in my class is saying this: 4 suicide attempts before the start of 8th grade
That was me. Gave up everything to take care of my family in various levels of physical & mental health. Now living in a s****y rented house with otherly-abled siblings and a thankfully bright & independent niece (raised her too) paying for everything, no vacations, no friends, no life.
I like how this post shows the dark side of genius and the crushing weight of everyone else’s expectations.
Those who referred to themselves as the smartest person in their school seemed very disillusioned to me
I’m in high school on the smarter side (I’m in the highest math class and stuff like that) and I just hope none of that happens to me
I wouldn’t say I knew who the smartest was for sure, but one of them became a pastor and lives much further down south than where the school still is. Anyone who knew him knew he’d do something faith-based because he was certain of his calling young!
the smartest kid in my grade became a mental illness specialist. he helped ALOT of ppl. all who now live normal lives instead of being stuck in a psych ward. unfortunately he took on a patient that proved too difficult and the paitent stabbed him. from wat i heard he was stabbed in the neck and died on the way to the hospital. i went to his funeral and most of my graduating class and a few teachers were there. not only them tho. all 300 and something paitents who now live normal lives came too. he was a truly loved person. he tutored me in high school and i remember to this day he said during one of the tutoring sessions "wen we graduate i want to learn how to help ppl like u. only the ones with extreme cases who cant live normal lives. u r my inspiration." he apparently took an interest in the fact i have an anxeity disorder that prevented me from learning properly. on top of that i had adhd at the time too. if he was still alive id totally get him to b my doctor and immediately joke about how im worse now then i was then. its been a year since he passed. i still talk to his mom every now and then and she always thanks me for giving him a goal and cheering him on the whole way thru college and stuff. he managed to graduate with his phd and everything 3 years early bc of how motivated my cheering him on made him. it really is depressing. he was such a kind soul and a good friend
I believe the smartest kid from school was a girl, and I can't find where she's ended up. I suspect because she got married and changed her name. The second smartest wanted to be a doctor, and I believe he actually is a well regarded pediatrician now.
He was super smart, also nerdy and shy. Touchingly, the cool, popular guys never picked on him and helped him come out of his shell by treating him like one of the gang. Last I heard he had become a noted mathematician. I've got a class reunion coming up next year, so hopefully I'll see him there and find out what he's up to these days. ^_^
I know one person who says I was that guy. I went to one of the easiest four year schools in the US and dropped out in my third semester. I ended up an ok forklift driver and a bad saxophonist, now I'm 56 and live with my mother. The main thing that makes me still feel smart is that I know none of it is worth the effort
I have no idea about anyone from high school but I know people didn't think I was smart then, other than some teachers that wrote "try harder" or some such. Now, being in a PhD program, people expect me to be smart and I'm like, goodness, I still have the math skills of a high schooler lol PhD is a very specific topic one researches, not a vast knowledge unless someone is genius level/incredible memory retention
The smartest kid in my high school class is typing sh!t on Bored Panda; right now, even as we speak (type?) :-)
Smartest in my grade was my best friend, top of the class. She now teaches at our high school in a teeny tiny town. People would say that she really should have moved away, could have gone to a huge university, done more with herself, but I know her and she's happy teaching high school and living close to her family. I fully support and love her.
Same for me. She's awesome doing what she did. :-)
Load More Replies... Guy I knew at school was a straight-A but ended up just being an after-school tutor. Could have done big things. But at least now he's stepping up again and going digital, which helps grow his business. Whereas I was a C- student mostly and I was the one that ended up with high academic achievements (publications, phd, etc), and I was the one that ended up in a high-powered job. Weird hey. Just shows that school marks don't mean that much.
But maybe he is happy. That is actually the true measure of success.
Load More Replies... Not sure if he was the smartest but he was definitely up there. Came into my store and asked if he could do any odd jobs for cash. Told me he was homeless. I couldn't do anything like that because of corporate policies but I gave a few bucks and I had helped him put in a job application. He failed the background check. Apparently, he had quite the criminal record. Was the last I saw of him.
There was a smart kid in my high school? News to me. It was not a school known for the intelligence of its students.
The smartest kid in my H.S was a exchange student named Bjorn. Legally he was supposed to be in grade 8 but did grade nine and ten. Was super smart, super funny and the friendliest dude you could meet. He was killed when he was nineteen when his home got broken into. Tragic and awful
This post made me wonder who was the smartest in my school. Probably this kid who got a perfect score on the SATs. No idea what he is doing but after the school found out we celebrated his achievement at a school pep rally. The school erupted in praise for him. It was a beautiful moment.
My friend was one of the smartest kids in school—straight A's without even trying. She ended up getting in with the wrong crowd, fell in love with a guy 15 years older than her, ended up addicted to heroin, and got pregnant at 17. Never graduated despite having dreams of going to college, suddenly went missing during senior year, and nobody knew where she went. 5 years later, we found out that she was involved in a crime ring, and was sentenced to 3 years in federal prison. After being released from prison, she ended up as a prostitute, nearly lost custody of her child, and was pregnant with her 2nd. Good thing was that, she eventually got her GED and was accepted into a college. After that, she fell in love with this guy (really nice. He treats her right), became a fashion designer, got married, and recently welcomed her 3rd child. Honestly, everyone kind of looked down on her back then for going down such a destructive path, but I'm happy for her and how she managed to turn her lif
Got turned down from Oxford and Cambridge for 'not having enough extra curriculars' (translation: was a stuck up a**e who thought everyone and everything was below him). His friend who was lovey got in, lol
Some people who do not do extracurricular, are lovely people who have serious insecurities. I know a very very smart man, who's social anxiety stops him from participating in any group activities. But if you met him you would state that he was the nicest person you had ever met.
Load More Replies... If memory serves my year's smartest guy was the rugby team captain (yay for breaking athlete stereotypes). He was all set to go off to medical school after that last summer holiday but he ended up getting hit and killed by a taxi(minibus for you non SA folks). Ironically his last facebook post had been of a tombstone he found with his best friend's name on it.
We had covaledictorians my senior year, and while we haven't been out for that long, one is a youtuber growing at a steady rate who's in college for digital media to please his parents, and the other is a hairdresser at a local salon. I wasn't ever in the running for valedictorian, but I graduated 7th in my class, and most considered me one of the "smart kids", mainly because I was really good at explaining things in different ways to those who struggled. Now I'm in college to be a psychologist for neurodivergent and disabled kids. I want to give people the support that I never got myself.
This is technically a story from a kid in my moms class. He was one of the weird kids and, he once almost electrocuted himself with a fork and a socket. Now he is a college prof and a leading string theorist. He was a triple major.
Well I was the smartest kid in my class (asperger) now I'm disabled at 19, I feel 91.
"Crying because of A- "brought back memories about classmate. Exactly the same, cried over A- because it was "unfair" and was standing in his way to get into ivy league university on full tuition at age of 16. So he was genius I may say. Though, always grumpy and was taking badly any possibility of being ever wrong. In fact A- got corrected to A+ after a lot of begging and proving teacher wrong. Was working for worldwide known organizations as a researcher. Was in the middle of doing PHD and just straight up dropped studies, work and left to volunteer to some African country away from everything. Probably it was some sort of breakdown.
The smartes kid in my class is saying this: 4 suicide attempts before the start of 8th grade
That was me. Gave up everything to take care of my family in various levels of physical & mental health. Now living in a s****y rented house with otherly-abled siblings and a thankfully bright & independent niece (raised her too) paying for everything, no vacations, no friends, no life.
I like how this post shows the dark side of genius and the crushing weight of everyone else’s expectations.
Those who referred to themselves as the smartest person in their school seemed very disillusioned to me
I’m in high school on the smarter side (I’m in the highest math class and stuff like that) and I just hope none of that happens to me
I wouldn’t say I knew who the smartest was for sure, but one of them became a pastor and lives much further down south than where the school still is. Anyone who knew him knew he’d do something faith-based because he was certain of his calling young!
the smartest kid in my grade became a mental illness specialist. he helped ALOT of ppl. all who now live normal lives instead of being stuck in a psych ward. unfortunately he took on a patient that proved too difficult and the paitent stabbed him. from wat i heard he was stabbed in the neck and died on the way to the hospital. i went to his funeral and most of my graduating class and a few teachers were there. not only them tho. all 300 and something paitents who now live normal lives came too. he was a truly loved person. he tutored me in high school and i remember to this day he said during one of the tutoring sessions "wen we graduate i want to learn how to help ppl like u. only the ones with extreme cases who cant live normal lives. u r my inspiration." he apparently took an interest in the fact i have an anxeity disorder that prevented me from learning properly. on top of that i had adhd at the time too. if he was still alive id totally get him to b my doctor and immediately joke about how im worse now then i was then. its been a year since he passed. i still talk to his mom every now and then and she always thanks me for giving him a goal and cheering him on the whole way thru college and stuff. he managed to graduate with his phd and everything 3 years early bc of how motivated my cheering him on made him. it really is depressing. he was such a kind soul and a good friend
I believe the smartest kid from school was a girl, and I can't find where she's ended up. I suspect because she got married and changed her name. The second smartest wanted to be a doctor, and I believe he actually is a well regarded pediatrician now.
He was super smart, also nerdy and shy. Touchingly, the cool, popular guys never picked on him and helped him come out of his shell by treating him like one of the gang. Last I heard he had become a noted mathematician. I've got a class reunion coming up next year, so hopefully I'll see him there and find out what he's up to these days. ^_^
I know one person who says I was that guy. I went to one of the easiest four year schools in the US and dropped out in my third semester. I ended up an ok forklift driver and a bad saxophonist, now I'm 56 and live with my mother. The main thing that makes me still feel smart is that I know none of it is worth the effort
I have no idea about anyone from high school but I know people didn't think I was smart then, other than some teachers that wrote "try harder" or some such. Now, being in a PhD program, people expect me to be smart and I'm like, goodness, I still have the math skills of a high schooler lol PhD is a very specific topic one researches, not a vast knowledge unless someone is genius level/incredible memory retention
