“I Sleep With The Lights On”: 30 Things No Relationship Can Recover From

My last marriage...NO commitment...

As a seasoned bug killer, I'm going to let you in on a trade secret. We don't really kill the bugs, we scare them away so they can come back and haunt you another day.

I get cave crickets in my house. My cats are on them like lasers. I'll find the occasional 2 inch sickly striped leg on the floor like they're letting me know they're on the job. I don't want to know what they're doing with the rest of it.

Depends on if it has wings. No wings, that bug is toast. wing, AAAHHHH HUBBY COME KILL THIS BUG FOR ME!!!

I am scared of spiders, my husband is scared of cockroaches. We have spiders and cockroaches, so we help each other. I kill cockroaches, he relocates spiders.

Mine started off nice. I could write a book but, here is a few. Cheated on me with both my best friends, had anger issues and turned everything around to where fights were always my fault. Got physically abusive. We actually (he actually) reconnected about a year ago through texts and calls after 30 some years, he hasn't changed a bit. He went off on some rant about things that never happened and then blocked me when I confronted him about it. He also said he's been with someone for 15 years so, he's cheating on her in a sense also. Ladies, beware. His name is Todd Hamer and he lives in Central Illinois.

This. "I'm not looking for anything serious, can't we just keep going on like this" when you inevitably have already fallen in love and it takes ages to get over the pain and depression of losing him and shame not being good enough. So now I choose to be volcel and single with cats. Serenity 😊

Im the problem, its meeeee lol

Ehh. I got used to it!

One of the reasons I'm glad I'm single. If I wasn't, I would be worried about waking them up and annoying them, I would have to get up when my first alarm went off!

My husbands solution to this has been to just wake me up himself. I don't hit snooze 8 times and he doesn't have to listen to my alarm. Win win

Guilty

Same...I was used...So sad...Love me, but not for me, but what I could bring to the table: activities, fun, $$$$

Yes. Yes they do. If it's a choice between you or the cats there really is no contest.

I love my pets in my bed, but I can agree with compromise. I can cuddle or sleep with them in our living room, if we let them in, but our bedroom is a no zone.

My cat goes where he pleases and does as he will. That doesn't work for you you know where the door is. His thing for beating up dogs has caused issues though and that one is fair.

Either the cats sleep in here or you sleep out there, take your pick.

Absolutely, and the floor is your's...🙋🏽

Yes, I had that happen so hard to come back from that, hard to trust after that too.

I need the air to move or I feel like I'm being smothered.

I have personal summers constantly. So, no.

I just finished a conversation with my co-worker about this 2 minutes ago. I need the fan!

Kill the non-fanner

My husband and I sleep in separate rooms for this reason. Works great for us!

As an adolescent / young adult, this wasn't unusual for me, BUT when I was in my late twenties and eventually had to try my own medicine, I finally realized the hard way how disgusting it is to juggle with the feelings of others so thoughtlessly...🤷🏽...I was awful and I regret the things I've done...😔

Yes. Agree. My first husband had shocked pikachu face when he came home and told me he had a gf and I just needed to deal with it. He was shocked when I laughed and left him.

Or multiple someone elses.

NEED subtitles!

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Like most of my family, I have a severe hearing loss. This is an absolute necessity for us.

I don’t like subtitles….. it annoys me…..

It's really hard for me to process information, and quickly, so subtitles help. I have two ways to absorb info which makes processing faster and easier

What? You can easily read Norwegian?

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But there's such thing as self-fulfilling prophecy....

Worse yet, being compared to someone deceased that died while they were at the height of their relationship. There is just no way to come out on top there