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Most people would agree that they would prefer to be in a relationship than alone. This is particularly true if the person in question is single at the moment. However, even at one’s lowest, it’s best to always have a few red lines, because a bad relationship is worse than just being alone. 

X user Usman Tariq asked internet users “What's y'all biggest fear in a relationship?” and people shared their thoughts, from dealbreakers to worst-case scenarios. So get comfortable as you scroll through, upvote your favorite posts, and be sure to share your thoughts in the comments below. 

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2 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Trying to make it work and keep things civil between the two during/after the relationship, all the while he’s out there trying to make you look like a clingy ex who’s obsessed with him

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Chriss21
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2 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I absolutely agree. Before committing to a relationship you must ensure that one of you will be able to kill the bug.

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LaserBrain
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2 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I had that. She started off so nice, i trusted her completely. It was a difficult time but walking away from her was the best thing I have ever done.

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2 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

The worst feeling is when that fear actually turns out to be true… :(

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Tempest
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2 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

And for me that’s exactly what happened. Years and years of a relationship that was all just a lie. :(

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nomnomborkbork
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2 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Yeah, that's not fair at all. But you should watch for the signs too.

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nomnomborkbork
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2 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Wouldn't hurt to be able to be funny on your own. My husband made a promise to himself to make me laugh every day. Sometimes it involves memes, but mostly it will be something he says.

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2 months ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

It sucks to be on either side of this. I’m saying this as the one who couldn’t return the love for a person who loved me. I always felt guilty but also I learnt to forgive myself because I can’t force to love someone, no matter how great they might be.

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2 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

...I'm a disappointment in bed that you absolutely should have to experience tonight...🤔 🙅🏽 🤭

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2 months ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

That's what nightlights are for and idc what anyone thinks. I need just enough light to know my eyes still work ok when I wake up to go pee 187 times a night, but not enough to keep me awake.

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2 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

A good pillow over the nose and mouth will stop that! Don't act like you haven't thought about it!! 👩🏼‍🦰

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2 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Just because you're an adult doesn't magically make certain foods more palatable.

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Ashley Noelle
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2 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Just experienced this. He said she was "just a friend". I knew better but still tried it, I feel so stupid!

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nomnomborkbork
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2 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Very different standards of "clean" and "neat" can make one crazy!!

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2 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

The big light is the main living room one. I hate the big light. I like ambient lighting.

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