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Vet Nurse Downing from PDSA explained to us that cats prefer bonding with others on their own terms because they’re such independent creatures. “You may want to spend time with your cat, pick them up, or even try to cuddle them, but cats always prefer interactions to be decided by them,” she told Bored Panda.

“Whilst it might be hard to resist wanting to give your cat a snuggle, it’s best to wait for your cat to approach you before giving them a fuss. Even then, only very tolerant cats will accept ‘cuddles’—and it doesn’t mean they actually like them! Gentle strokes and cheek and chin rubs are more likely to be welcomed, but too much close, held contact can make them feel trapped and unhappy. Try to be a little more reserved with them to help them learn to trust you, and, in turn, strengthen your bond and make them more likely to approach you for affection.”

The representative from PDSA shed some light on belly rubs, too. “Many people view cats rolling on their back as the perfect opportunity to give them a belly rub, but contrary to popular belief, most cats really don’t enjoy this. It can be seen as invading their personal space, which could damage the trust between you. They might try to run away or even claw at you! Feel honored and embrace the fact that your cat feels comfortable enough around you to show you their tummy. Cats take time to get to know and love you, and once they do, it will be worth it, as you’ll have the reward of a cat friend for life.”

According to the Vet Nurse, most cats aren’t ‘huggers.’ Luckily, there are other ways to bond with your cat. “Playtime releases ‘happy’ hormones in cats’ brains, so if you incorporate playing together in your daily routine, chances are your cat will start to associate those happy feelings with spending time with you,” she explained to Bored Panda.

“The best toys to keep cats active and engaged are ones they can ‘hunt’ and ‘chase’ such as fishing rod type toys, as this replicates their natural desire to go out hunting. Fishing rod-style toys are great for owners, too, as they also keep hands out of the way of your cat’s sharp claws whilst playing. Cats also enjoy puzzle feeders, where they can ‘hunt’ out their food.”