I believe we all can agree that people are strange creatures. We do loads of random stuff without really thinking about it. Our society is built in such a way that we tend to normalize things or expect someone to act according to a typical pattern. However, when you really think about it, some patterns appear to be pretty odd and bizarre.

So, I got curious about what behavior our pandas think is considered to be normal but is actually weird. I was surprised to receive so many insightful answers! Scroll down to read them and don't forget to share your opinion with us!

#1

"It's Actually Very Odd When You Think About It": 50 Things That Are Considered Normal But Are Weird As Shared By Our Community That the best paid jobs are likely to be non-essential for sustaining our societies, like cosmetic surgeons or stock market brokers. And that essential jobs are paid so little, like cleaners, teachers or social workers.

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Caro Caro
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4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

This ons needs to be higher. Remember a while back in Milan the bankers went on strike and there was a panic but nothing terrible happened? And then the garbage cleaners/collectors went on strike and the city was a filthy mess. Essential workers need better wages because they are the people that make the world a better place.

Kathryn Baylis
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3 years ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

PLUS, lower level workers in every damn company are the ONLY ones who keep it running and make the profits for it, yet it’s the suits, who all think they f*****g geniuses when they’re actually just a bunch of entitled f**k ups and suck ups, who make bank—-and all they seem to be able to do is come up with b******t ideas that never work, but only make the lower level employees’ jobs even harder. And they do it without even asking any of the people who will be affected for their opinions as to whether it would even work. ALL employees should be given the opportunity to give their input when it comes to ideas being floated, whether by the suits or by the CEO or owners, that will directly affect them, but never touch anyone with a key to the executive washroom.

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Jar of Pickles
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4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Don't forget sportsmen, like football players etc

Chich
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3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I have never understood the reasoning behind over-paying grown men to play school yard games.

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DonS
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3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Totally agree. Where I work, let's just say that the pandemic showed that we don't need that much managers making 6 figures salaries (where I worked).

Celia T
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3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

And people making 7+ figures. They make sure the company is more “profitable” , but the workers doing the actual work aren’t making a living wage. Those workers are often crippled by the time they can retire. But hey, the higher ups can get that Bentley & multi-million dollar mansion.

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Sweetpotato314
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3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Based on a recent thread I saw, teachers shouldn't be on this list. I was shocked at how many people had negative things to say about my profession, which used to be respected. It's so sad.

Den Ver
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3 years ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Agree. I think one solution would be to require anyone getting a degree/license to demonstrate knowledge by teaching one lesson ... just ONE lesson ... to Secondary/Middle-High School students about their occupation. Of course this would require CFU (Checking For Understanding). If students didn't learn anything, maybe they aren't qualified for their job. Or maybe, it's not true that most people can teach; maybe it involves uncommon natural ability combined with skills perfected over time. ... This isn't some abstract "Dream Solution", because Guest-Teachers are invited into classrooms by hundreds of thousands every year. Unfortunately, although they have the best of intentions, a lot of them fail.

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SCP 4666
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3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Exactly my opinion. And this is the reason why everything is going south. Oh yeah and don`t forget about "pro-gamers" . Playing video games for a living? Give me a break

LeeBreezy
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3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

yes, how dare people make a career out of doing something they love!

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Tim Gehrke
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3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Plumber here. Yall can't live without us. Plus we tend to make good money.

Ueda
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3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Bored panda wouldn't exist without BS jobs.

Charles Chamiux
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3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Scarcity and specialists will always trump menial workers.

Sarah Kathrin Matsoukis
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4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Idk for a lot of people cosmetic surgery is important, because they're really disfigured and suffer

Lorraine R
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3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Children with serious burns, cancer patients after disfiguring surgery, soldiers after suffering wounds from explosives, not to mention that woman whose neighbor's pet chimp ripped her face off -- all of them would suffer even more without the skills of cosmetic surgeons.

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    #2

    "It's Actually Very Odd When You Think About It": 50 Things That Are Considered Normal But Are Weird As Shared By Our Community Liking, following, and worshipping influencers. They’re just people, and most are faking their looks and profiles, yet it’s normal to idolize them. No thanks.

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    Kona Pake
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Are they really people anymore with all the implants fillers, injections and prosthetics they’ve used to modify themselves. Can they still be considered human?

    Leah Williams
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Yes they can, that's very dramatic to say, hahaha

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    Buren
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    They all look the same to me. Is there some kind of 'template' for influencer's look?

    1ch0
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I hate the term "influencers". f**k them

    Dee on bikes
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    People, myself included, have been doing this with musicians, historical figures, scientists, and others since before the days of the internet. Still weird.

    Carrie Laughs
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I genuinely don't understand celebrity culture. The idea that someone is more interesting or special because they can sing/write/act etc. They're just people who have a talent that puts them in the public arena. As human's they're no more interesting or better than most people you meet. I know I'm in the minority but I still don't get it.

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    E R
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Last I checked, using photoshop does not physically change the person Kona...

    Bubbles and sparks
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    3 years ago

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    GenericPanda09
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    it's 'normal' now because they've kinda made up their own job title, got other like-minded people to somehow vouch for their bone fides and relevance and all of a sudden the mainstream media are reduced to copying them or even just mentioning them as 'news' in order for themselves to appear relevant. They're not all talentless f*****s... i mean it takes at least some skill to start off editing and presenting without a script etc if they're youtubers......so i can kinda see how some of like youtubers would have been recognised for such talent whatever the media..... but instagrammers who just wear bikinis and hope sex sells just enough, or like people that fake eating massive pizzas........ or people....... and these are the worst ones imo.. just 'react' to other people's original videos...... no don't get why that's still even a thing... clive james did it better waaaaay before the internet came along. Your's truly...... Grumpy old man x

    Stephanie A Mutti
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Normal people do stuff. Influencers pretend. There is nothing normal about them.

    Adriaan Verhelle
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Nothing new under the sun, makeup has been around foor thousands of years. Not a single public figure out there that is not faking their looks

    LeeAnne B
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Never understood the term "influencer" either.

    GlassHalfWay
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I CANNOT stand influencers. They act so privileged when it comes to wanting free stuff for "exposure" to that company/person.

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    #3

    "It's Actually Very Odd When You Think About It": 50 Things That Are Considered Normal But Are Weird As Shared By Our Community Voting against universal healthcare, paid time off, and higher taxes on the ultrarich.

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    Tamra Stiffler
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I just don't understand why anyone would NOT want these things! Ffs!

    Zophra
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    because they are tied with a Christian agenda, anti-abortion views and gun rights. Take that away from the party, and it would fall pretty fast I think.

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    FABULOUS1
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    It has always baffled me that the poorest states within the US are extremely republican. These states usually have the highest welfare rates and lowest wages yet the continue to vote in these rich replublican politicians who who consistently do nothing to help make their situations better. To top it off they despise the liberal states who help fund them.

    Emma Darq
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    They prefer to blame those who are poorer than them or ethnic:(

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    H.L.Lewis
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    The people voting for this are all getting donations from these lobbyists. Make no mistake about it. Why do you think Senator Sinema doesn't want negotiated drug prices? Because she lives in the pocket of big Pharma. Lobbying should be banned!

    Kathryn Baylis
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Counterintuitive, isn’t it, voting against your own best interests.

    AuntT
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I have a feeling that USA are going back in time, about 50 year or so. You need to take your country back and stop letting a few old men and women take this decisions.

    Amber Seanez
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I've discussed this. But we're too divided now. Any physical army made will be taken out by the military. But I don't think one big enough would ever be made as they are so successful at dividing us. I don't see an answer in sight. Move away but that's running, not solving a terrifying problem

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    Rick Hoppenbrouwer
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Guess that will always be a problem as long as the rich make the rules.

    Carman Ferraro
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    3 years ago

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    They only make the rules because no one ever tries to search things up. People only ever take what others are saying and do that, they never actually try to find things for themselves anymore. If people would think for themselves we would have wayyyyyy less problems in the world right now

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    bottomless.abyss.of.bordem
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    ....But one day, when I'm a millionaire those things will help me....

    Jon Steensen
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Yeah, the ironic part is that your chance of living the American dream is much better in Denmark, where we have all that stuff. Turns out that getting a bit of help in the begining, increases your likelyhood of achieving the social mobility needed to make it and move from the bottom to the top.

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    Phil Green
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Most of the world already have these things. I think you're just talking about the US, which, unsurprisingly, is way behind the curve.

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    #4

    "It's Actually Very Odd When You Think About It": 50 Things That Are Considered Normal But Are Weird As Shared By Our Community When someone is in a situation (think being hurt/attacked) where they need help and instead of helping, everyone takes out their phones to record video of it.

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    MyOpinionHasBeenServed
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    People have been idle bystanders for a long time before cellphones came with cameras.

    Speedgoat
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    It still somehow seems worse. Oh look, a terrible thing, lol I'm going to record that so others can see the thing. Having said that though, that footage has been a help for investigating terrible things.

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    Adriaan Verhelle
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Pro-tip, if you are ever in such a situation, don't just yell "call 911" or "can someone help me get this person up". Instead say "you in the red shirt, call 911", you with the yellow scarf, help me get this person up". When you call people out, they are much more likely to help due to peer pressure.

    Bouche Clay
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Also, it gives one specific person a task. If it's red shirt's job to call 911, he's going to know he's the guy calling 911. "Somebody" could be anybody, so red shirt isn't going to think, "Oh, I should be the one to call." He's going to think "Someone's calling." and so will everyone else.

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    Rench
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    It's something about mob mentality. Everyone assumes that someone else has or will call 911 or get help.

    royal_antelope
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    knowing about mob mentality can help to get over it. i must admit - one time i witnessed what seemed to possibly be an emergency and my first impulse was to walk away in panic. instead i remembered that this impulse is very common and i shouldn't do that and was than able to ask "do you need help? can i do something for you?" i think that's what many people experience

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    Kathryn Baylis
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Kitty Genovese. Bystander Effect. Good Samaritan/Bystander/Failure to Act Laws.

    Gozer LeGozerian
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    It wasn't actually. Several people did call for help.

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    Kika González
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Bystander syndrome is a real thing and getting worse

    Buren
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Black Mirror comes true

    Lady of the Mountains
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    better than walking away, saved george floyd's death from being written off as an accident

    Kanuli
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    That’s lack of training imo. Often you are puzzled and shocked yourself. And making a video at least creates evidence? If it’s just someone life threatened though, f**k anyone for recording a persoj literally dying instead of preventing that. Btw: where I lived before there was news that a guy trying to help another one who was attacked got actually killed. News like this make you be cautious too.

    Oliver Nelson
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Reminds me of how people are told to shout "fire" if they're being or about to be r@ped since people will respond more to that.

    lara
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I think that people who do that are engaging in complicity and should be arrested.

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    #5

    "It's Actually Very Odd When You Think About It": 50 Things That Are Considered Normal But Are Weird As Shared By Our Community Hunting animals as a leisurely activity. Not for food, but fun. Like fox hunting in the UK. Hunting humans for fun is illegal, murder and very very wrong. Surely people who hunt animals for sport have psychopathic tendencies and psychological issues?

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    Tee Witt
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Fox hunting has supposedly been banned in the UK, not Scotland though I think. I 100% agree with you, but what about bull fighting in Spain and Portugal, sheep stabbing for halal meat and many other abuses, do not blame just the UK

    Najwa Khalid
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Sheep stabbing for halal meat? For the meat to be halal, you're not supposed to stab the animal. Halal slaughter involves one pass of the blade across the throat of the animal, severing the carotid arteries, jugular vein and trachea. Research (Schultz, Hanover University, Germany) indicates this process involves very little pain. Animals lose consciousness very quickly, yet the heart helps rid the body of blood. And no, you can't kill an animal for sports in Islam. You certainly can't compare bull fighting in Spain with the process of halal slaughter as one is completely disregarding another creature's life for pure inhuman pleasure whilst the latter is meant for consumption (with a very humane method).

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    Kathryn Baylis
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    3 years ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Some hunting is done merely to cull herds that would overproduce, eat all the foliage, and end up slowly starving to death. As long as the hunters hunt respectfully and humanely (quick kills, tracking wounded animals to stop their suffering, etc, and NO stupid f*****g bow hunting—-just use something you know how to aim, which also kills quick and effectively, ffs—-I am sick to death of seeing so many poor deer on the side of the road with arrows in them that the lazy fake a*****e play “hunter” didn’t bother to track and humanely finish off, so the poor animals suffered greatly, collapsed on the side of the road, and bled out in a ditch), then either eat or donate the meat, I have no quarrel with it.

    EpicWolfandSparrow
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Yes! This! Kathryn, I always see your posts and you're always so kind and respectful. I admire all your comments :)

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    Atreïdes
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    If nobody hunted where I’m from, the deer population would explode and create an imbalance, bringing disease and endangerment of their food sources, causing their own eventual starvation. Hunting is highly regulated though, as to not create another imbalance by killing too many.

    Grammarly
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I have no problem with this as long as the meat is eaten and the animals hardly suffer

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    Jonn Thundergun
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Sometimes hunting for sport coincides with population control. Where I live White tail deer would run rampant if we didn't actively hunt their numbers down. Too high numbers means crops getting destroyed, more invasion of residential areas(white tail deer can kill easily a human)and worst of all more deer on the roads meaning more auto accidents. Hunting has more purposes than just securing food. That being said I am sure OP is referring to useless hunting like when rich a*****e hunts down a lion just for the hell of it. I'm not cool with that s**t.

    Becky Samuel
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    The most efficient method of population control is to restore the natural predator/prey balance, but the USA spends millions upon millions of dollars every year hunting and destroying the predators.

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    Randy Volz
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    And they call themselves "Sportsmen". In every sport I am aware of, opposing sides are similarly equipped and have an equal chance of victory. Let's see one of these "sportsmen" take on a buck with a full rack of antlers with their bare hands. They get off on the idea of ending a life. That's all.

    Mary Doe
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Every trophy hunter deserves to be hunted for somebody's trophy case, IMHO

    Marilyn Holt
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I agree with this one for sure. I still feel sick about some photographs i've seen online--a proud hunter with the majestic lion he has just killed. What pleasure can there possibly be in doing that?

    iseefractals
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    If you hurt or hunt animals for "fun" i feel i should be able to do the same to you using the same justification.

    Deron Newman
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Trophy Hunting is Evil - plain, simple, truth.

    L hill
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Or hunting elephants and holding their cut off tails as trophies. Trump children.

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    #6

    "It's Actually Very Odd When You Think About It": 50 Things That Are Considered Normal But Are Weird As Shared By Our Community The whole concept of Religion is actually very odd when you think about it.

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    Oerff On Tour
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I have no problem with faith. The problem lies in the man made rules that define the organized Religion. Made by men with ulterior motives, like power and/or wealth

    Mewton’s Third Paw
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Faith is just belief without evidence, which is actually kind of a huge problem.

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    Miguel justino C
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    31 percent of the world are Christian, 24 percent Muslim, 15 percent Hindi. It hilarious that they all think they’re right. It’s the adult version of a playground argument. I’m right your wrong. God is Santa Clause for grown ups.

    SCP 4666
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    "My god can beat up your god." " Oh yeah, my god goes to the gym everyday" "Well my god has a black belt in karate"

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    Reynard
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    It only seems normal because most people are indoctrinated from their infancy to believe such nonsense. It's normal if that is all you know. But come on, the idea that there were 2 people in some garden and a snake convinced a woman to eat a forbidden fruit and that results in the whole of humanity to be damned in some sort of way? Not to mention other ridiculous notions like a wordwide flood that killed everything except this one guy's family who happened to take samples of every species on a giant boat to repopulate the world? And somehow all the kangaroos ended up in Australia and nowhere else? Seriously, it's all complete nonsense.

    Reynard
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Oh, and Genesis and Noah's ark stories mean that the world's population, including animals is completely based upon creating the current population based upon incest - and according to what we know about genetics, that is completely absurd and impossible because there is no diversity of DNA. If any of that actually happened, not a single species would last many generations due to genetic defects.

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    Emma Garcia
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Most religions have turned into cults, and their are cult disguised as religions(scientology) but people should be able to believe what they want. But they should not be forced to participate in 'donating' or paying anything, and should feel comfortable enough to be able to practice in their own homes.

    Kathryn Baylis
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    True faith is a beautiful thing to behold, but most religious people don’t have it. They’re just there to get anything they can out of religion. Going to church to make business or social connections, or just so you can make yourself think you’re superior to someone else because you “just know” you’re going to Heaven and the rest of us are going to burn in Hell (Hint: We’re not. Heaven and Hell are right here on Earth, and we’re all already in the middle of it.). Joining, or forming, a cult to coerce believers into turning all their assets over to the “religion”—-meaning you. Happens in the older religions too. What’s the net worth of The Vatican? I’m not saying religions haven’t ever done anything good for anybody. There are very selfless people in each of them who have done wonderful things for people who really needed it. But then there’s the rest—-most—-of them, who would rather blame and judge than help, then cherry-pick their particular book to justify themselves.

    UpQuarkDownQuark
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    There are people of exceptional faith that are good, bad and everything in between. There are people with no spiritual faith whatsoever that are good, bad and everything in between. It’s not about the faith or the religion, it’s the quality of a person’s character.

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    Phil Vaive
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Creation stories and faith based explanations for natural phenomena are completely sensible to me. But using religion to control how people live their lives? It's a no for me, thanks.

    Kusotare
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Fear of the unknown is a tremendous motivator.

    Candia Lee
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Now that we know thunder and lightning aren't angry gods, it's way beyond time to abandon our attachments to our religious teachings. Arguing over who is right has led to so much suffering.

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    Leslie-Ann Drummond
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    God is just Santa clause for adults. "He sees you when you're sleeping. He knows when you're awake he knows when you've been good or bad so be good for goodness sake." God is also very much about ego - I'm so important god watches over me. I'm better than you because you don't believe what I believe. Or I'm going to heaven but you're going to hell. Even missionary work is all about believing your religion is so 'right' you need to force it on others. So happy I'm an atheist.

    J Robertson
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Religion was invented by man to control the masses.

    Alecto76
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    It is very odd. But I will keep my (agnostic) mind open since I live on a rock, revolving around a ball of gas, hurtling thru a void. And there's another rock revolving around this rock that somehow controls my lady parts. So for me, who knows? But formal "religion" appears to have been bastardized into a control mechanism. I think there is something there, but humans harness it to their benefit.

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    #7

    "It's Actually Very Odd When You Think About It": 50 Things That Are Considered Normal But Are Weird As Shared By Our Community Forcing relationships on kids at a young age. I’ve seen shirts made for infants that say “ladies man” and similar stuff on them, and I think it’s disgusting.

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    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Mine had a shirt with 'eat sleep s**t repeat' and that was far more accurate as 'ladies man'.

    Viviane
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Years back, I found the perfect onesie for a cop/prosecutor couple waiting for their first kid. It said "I was in for 9 months and then I got out".

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    royal_antelope
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    sexualizing little children and babies shouldn't be this normal. i completely agree with you

    Wondering Alice
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I find bikinis for tiny tots really off. I don't want to judge the parents, but I still dislike seeing this. A tiny girl has no need to cover her chest and surly any small child would be better in a t- shirt if it's sunny.

    Pizzagirl 91
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    To be fair, children often want to wear what their primary caregiver wears. Where I live, it's alright to have toddlers topless when you still can't tell their sex anyway, so letting them have a bikini top so they can look like their mother/big sis/self confident uncle is no problem in my book.

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    juztme
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    At my sons school there was 6 year old wearing sweatpants with sexy written on the butt. Why do they sell stuff for kids with that.

    Shylee G
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    But then parents are like "oh no we can't let our kids dare until their married" or other nonsensical crap like that. Like, if your gonna do one of these things, just pick a side and stick with it.

    Bored Panda
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Don’t forget “the gays are forcing their lifestyle down our kids throats!” whilst they giggle about their 4 yr old having a girlfriend. 🤢

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    HooowlAtTheMoon
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Also thats assuming the child will be heterosexual and starting the pressure of being heterosexual because it's "normal"

    Viviane
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    It's also assuming gender identity, sexual orientation, etc.

    Pascale Pierloot
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    4 years ago

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    It may not be popular to say what I'm about to about this but AS I SEE IT...that probably means he's got many aunts or/and female friends that dote on him. It's a display of affecton and humor. How can that be disgusting? However you raise your child, you will always be bound to make mistakes...no one's flawless.

    Evan Martin
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Good points don't go over to well here...but that is one

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    PegLegShrek
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Or when a child has a friend of the opposite sex and the parents act like their children are a couple. I even saw two parents that threw a wedding for their TODDLERS! STOP PRESSURING CHILDREN INTO RELATIONSHIPS

    lara
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    How is that "forcing a relationship" on a baby?

    Evan Martin
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    It isn't in any sense of the word. Surprised nobody else picked up on that.

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    #8

    "It's Actually Very Odd When You Think About It": 50 Things That Are Considered Normal But Are Weird As Shared By Our Community Being offended by literally anything and everything. Lighten up people!

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    J. F.
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    4 years ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    "Lighten" up? That does sound like a racist slur, as lightening up usually means to make things less dark. We should replace this saying immediately! (Please note that this is a satire)

    SciencePandaTheSecond
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I snorted. But---- Snorted implies pig noises and that is so rude! We must not snort while laughing! /s

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    Walking On Sunshine
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    This is what is usually said by people trying to excuse racist and offensive things.

    Sweetpotato314
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Yep. Privileged people love telling others not to be so sensitive. They could try not being insensitive jerks, but it's easier to blame the victim.

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    Hobby Hopper
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    This one needs context. Laughing at my mismatched socks is completely different than laughing at your Holocaust jokes.

    Keley Babs
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    That's the best and quickest way I've heard this explained. Going forward I might use this phrase but I'll always remember the Hobbyhopper and quote them accordingly when I have to use it

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    Monday
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I find it offensive that you find this offensive.

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    Tiny Dynamine
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Totally. Some things that are proper bigotry, yes, but every little bloody thing? That's where we're at these days and I hope we get over it.

    Nami Tantrum
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    especially being offended on behalf of someone else..for example: comedian daniel sloss makes fun of his disabled sister she thinks it's funny and people tell him he can't do

    Bored Panda
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I mean, his sister isn’t the only person in the world with a disability, so I can understand this one.

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    Laura Ketteridge
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    'Lighten up' is almost always said by people who are the ones causing offense. It is often said because they don't want to deal with being in the wrong.

    smugdruggler
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Agreed. There is no right to never be offended. My grandad used to say that offence is not something you can give, only something you can take.

    Viviane
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I find that saying simplistic. I'm sure you're smart enough to disagree with an annoying colleague or client without yelling "F**k off, you [epithet]!".

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    Wuttf
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Good lordt! There's no such thing as cancel culture. It's called consequences. Go ahead, make that racist, sexist, misogynistic joke. Just don't whining to Twitter, reddit, facebook or whatever it's calling itself now like a 4 year old when you're called out on your revolting behavior. "No one can take a joke anymore". No one wants to be the butt of jokes either, and when ordinary people do it to so-called comedians those same edgelord comedians get all butt hurt. Oh, can dish it but can't take it huh?

    Emma
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    It's kind of hard to "lighten up" when many offensive jokes can actually harm marginalized people.

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    #9

    "It's Actually Very Odd When You Think About It": 50 Things That Are Considered Normal But Are Weird As Shared By Our Community Sexualizing literally everything that does not need to be sexualized. Eg, tacos and hotdogs. Let me enjoy my food without losing my appetite due to some unnecessary joke.

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    Gerard Neaux
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    4 years ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I hate that too. It's really bad in the cultures where friendships between genders are regarded with doubt.

    Conservative Christian
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    "where friendships between genders are regarded with doubt" yesssss!!! platonic friendships exist

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    RedFox
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Bananas, ladies, listen up: eat that banana! Do it furiously! Like you’re ripping the end of something off. Mouth wide open, teeth chomping. HOLD EYE CONTACT WITH A GUY!!! Guys will not associate furious banana eating with pleasurable things! If you do it aggressive enough, most will cross the legs.

    PegLegShrek
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I swear I cannot enjoy a lollypop, a literal candy made for kids, without remarks like "do you suck d*-k like that" and other unnecessary sexualised comments.

    Robert Trebor
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Your friends suck if they say such things to you.

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    Benita Valdez
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    "It's sexy how you eat that" oh yeah? *aggressively starts eating like a starved savage and now making a mess* still sexy?

    RandomFrog(He/They️‍️)
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I haven’t been able to eat popsicles or corn dogs properly since middle school cuz of this. Makes me too subconscious. Also I’m afab so I got sexuaized alll the time before I was consistently passing as male

    RandomBeing
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Who sexualized tacos?

    Vhardamis
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I feel the same way about genderizing everything. It's stupid to call a car a her or say a man can't be called pretty because that's a girly thing. We assign the stupidest logic to these things.

    Bouche Clay
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    My male kitten is very pretty. I tell him that whenever he's not pouncing me.

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    Shane S
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Or guys can wear pink, or carry a man bag. Even the fact that I have to use the term “man bag” is how sexualized purses are. Lol

    Yukon Charlie
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I used a satchel for a bit and everyone I knew called it a man purse constantly.

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    Yukon Charlie
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Every day in high school ever. Let me eat my stupid cucumber in peace you mentally disenfranchised gorillas.

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    #10

    "It's Actually Very Odd When You Think About It": 50 Things That Are Considered Normal But Are Weird As Shared By Our Community Asking when you’re gonna have a kid! Why is that normal and ok? I’m gonna monumentally change my life because it’s socially acceptable, nay, demanded that you procreate on an already overpopulated planet!!! And when you state you don’t want any, you’re told that you’ll change your mind!!! Or if you’re over 30 as a woman, your body clock is ticking?!?!? Not only from family, but strangers!!! I tell people I simply can’t have them (half true) or that I would eat them if I did… second one is great for family dinners… lol x

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    Lara Verne
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    It's fine if people ask you if you have kids. It's not fine when people start questioning why you don't have kids.

    Gabby M
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I personally don't like when people ask me if I have kids. Just don't ask people personal questions like that.

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    Injun Joe
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Kinda like the old aunts at a wedding. Aww, are you getting married next? Then at a funeral, looking at the same aunts...ok, who's next?

    RedFox
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I don’t want kids. I constantly get asked questions like these at ANY public event. I’m 15!!!!!

    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I'm Eastern European, Polish, so yeah those are the crazy people I hang with, they love to get all up in your business x

    RedFox
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I’m American and I think depending on the person, it’s worse!

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    Charlie grace
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I respond and ask 'why did you have kids?'.... It's so rude and intrusive to grill someone on why they do not have or want children and really drives me nuts. I have zero time for anyone who asks me that stuff and tell them how rude and nosey they are

    Justacrow
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I think that's a great response, as a mom I fully aprove

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    Leah Williams
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I'm so glad I have never been asked this excerpt for by very close friends who were just asking because they are actually interested in my life. Also, telling a woman their body clock is ticking is so rude!

    Terry Filkohazi
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    This might get down voted but I want to say it. I have 3 adult children and I have never asked them/pressured them as to when they're going to give me grandkids.

    HooowlAtTheMoon
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    AND asking when someones going to get a s/o. You can live without having another person, some people don't want to date or get married, and that's totally fine, yet people still ask ALL THE TIME.

    Freckles
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    As someone who has been desperately trying to conceive for 4 long years, this can get to me. If I had a pound for everyone who’s told me I ‘need to get moving’ or ‘the clock’s ticking’ because I’m 37, I would be a very rich woman.

    A Thousand Years Wide
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    My grandmother just passed away last week😥 and my mom had the audacity to tell me her(my Mom's) only regret is that my grandmother didn't have great-grandchildren. She knows me and my partner don't want to have any kids, and my Sister and her husband haven't even decided yet as they are still in their 20's.

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    #11

    "It's Actually Very Odd When You Think About It": 50 Things That Are Considered Normal But Are Weird As Shared By Our Community It should not be normal to pierce a baby's ears. I know that earrings can look really cute, but that is not good enough a reason to penetrate healthy skin of someone to young to agree to it. If a child actively asks to get their ears pierced, it is if course totally ok. But no baby ever asked for this. They don't talk. They're babies.

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    Caro Caro
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    This should be done when the child is old enough to decide. It being a culture thing is not an excuse. Culture evolves too.

    lara
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I wish people would remember this when I get down voted for objecting to the way women are treated in "other cultures."

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    Kanuli
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    It should not be normal. Correct. Same with circumcising young boys btw. Let people get old enough to decide for themselves! Also educate people. It grave to hear of medical conditions only rising up because the mother never told her boy to put the skin back once in a while to wash himself properly. Instead they kinda think a 4-8 year old would be sexualized when cleaning himself properly!?

    Sammie 19
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    My mother had mine done when I was tiny and I'm grateful she did.

    NotTodaySatan!!
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    My first were done when I was around 2, I think. At 8 I asked for the second set for my birthday. I have seen babies get their ears pierced and usually are more irritated about being held still than anything else. I have yet to meet a little girl, not that I've met them all of course, but I was a teacher so...., that has said they didn't want them. Usually they have been told they have to wait until their older. I'm torn on things like ear piercing and circumcising as I know such things are more painful the older we are. So I kinda feel it is a decision to be made by the parents and if we can do it when they are young and it is less painful and they won't remember, maybe we should do it as babies. I have a step daughter but she was 12 when we met and hers were already pierced. I had two boys and both were circumcised prior to leaving the hospital after birth. I won't be having any more children, but if I did, I'd do the same thing.

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    Lisa Owen
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Mine were done as a baby , I'm not mad, I've got lots of piercings now . Really don't see the big deal ! Earrings can be removed.... foreskin, not so much ! Quit comparing the 2!!!

    Stylishsidewaysbird
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Different procedures for sure but doesn’t make infant piercings benign. They carry an infection and choking risk. Not worth it just to stick cheap jewelry in their ears.

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    The Starsong Princess
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    My cousin had very identical twin girls. She was very concerned about mixing them up and the doctor recommended piercing their ears with different colour studs. He did it in two seconds and it was great. She highly recommends it to anyone with twin girls.

    Jon Steensen
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Come on! You can give them differently coloured bracelets in the beginning, until you know them well enough to tell them apart. Labeling them with an eartag like they were cows shouldn't be nessesary.

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    TheEndIsNigh🇨🇦and🇬🇧in🇺🇲
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I suppose it depends on the person. I had my ears pierced in the hospital when I was a baby. I remember nothing, I am not traumatized, and tbh could give 2 shits in a bucket that it was done. However, someone else may have had a different experience. I mean...when you think about it, I didn't give my consent to be born, but here I am. I didn't give my consent to be dressed in frilly, pink baby dresses either, but I lived🤷‍♀️ Definitely not trivializing cultural mutilation, just saying I had my ears pierced, I'm fine, I still love my mum ♥️

    Leah Williams
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    It's the same with circumstances IMO. It's mutilation

    Gregory Gibbs
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    It's actually illegal in the UK - but (as far as I'm aware) is never prosecuted.

    Lousha
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I understand the issue with it. At the same time I was always happy that my parents had it done for me when I was too young to remember and be anxious about it or scared. In my culture at the time every girl had pierced ears, it wasn't really a question so it made sense to spare them a conscious bad memory. Nowadays I'm not sure I'd do it if I had a kid.

    Tsvetomira Videnova
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    3 years ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I can totally relate to. My parents had pierced my ears when I was 3 years old and I don't remember anything. If I had to pierce my ears now, I probably would't do it, I would be scared. But I have always liked to wear earrings, I have many different pairs.

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    Kazi Hito
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    YES. I am SO glad that my mom didn't do it when I was a baby, because now I just see it's super wrong. Doing it on a BABY?? Without consent??? Caro Caro is right, the child should have a choice in the matter, and it should be done when they want it.

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    #12

    "It's Actually Very Odd When You Think About It": 50 Things That Are Considered Normal But Are Weird As Shared By Our Community Forcing kids: "go hug/kiss your grandma/grandpa/aunt" body autonomy level zero. That's what kids are taught from a young age, they have no right to choose who can touch/kiss them, or forced to give away their affection against their own will. :(((((((((((((( NOT NORMAL at all

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    Bettie-Jean Neal
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I grew up that way and always thought I had no choice. Far forward to age 13 where I was a junior bride's maid and at the end of the after-party, a man, about 80 years old, asked me for a kiss as we were leaving. The dirty b*stard stuck his tongue down my throat and made an mmm sound. Now, a 51, ANY time a man kisses me and makes that sound, I want to vomit.

    Thay
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Yeah... I hated that growing up. Especially being the mind that i am. I dont enjoy physical touch and it killed me every time a family member I barely knew insisted on a hug and kisses. Now that I am an adult though, they finally realized that I dont like this and so they stopped unless I go in for it, they won't. I will ask my children if they are comfortable with it and let them know that they don't have to do anything if they are not comfortable with it.

    Laura Ketteridge
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    When my children were little I would give them some suggestions, "Hug, kiss or wave". It allowed the children to decide how to interact. At one point the list included 'dinosaur roar', because 'Roar!' means 'I love you in dinosaur language'.

    Jorie
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Years ago, my friend was forced to kiss her dead grandmother in her coffin in the funeral home. She never got over it.

    piruoztek
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Nearly same, but my grandmother was on deathbed and in horrible condition, I was scared and I remember that I was physically forced to do that.

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    Yo Momma
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I HATE this. My parents always tell my children (11 and 13 now) that since they didnt give them a hug or kiss or say hello than the would not get any birthday/christmas/etc presents. It made me so mad. I tell them all the time to stop it too. They think its funny.

    Nitka Tsar
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Wow. Putting prices on their "love" seams like. Maybe a time out for grandma and grandpa would help. Or just answer with "well since kids don't get presents, they don't have to be nice to you anymore".

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    Mona
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I always ask my son "Can grandma get a hug?", and a no is a no. He's almost 3.

    Glen Ellyn
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    3 years ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    What gets me is parents who make an effort to teach their young children to be wary of strangers and anyone else who makes them feel uncomfortable, yet at Christmas time they expect their children to smile and sit on the lap of a strange, white-bearded man in a red suit. 🙄 And they wonder why the kids are scared, crying, and trying to get away?? 🤦🏻‍♀️

    Bouche Clay
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I was immediately expected to do what I was told, including hugging and kissing extended family members. In the early '70's, people didn't notice Uncle Charlie was fondling me under my dress. All they saw was that Uncle Charlie was holding a wriggly kid.

    Manny_Flawz
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    After a family member told her 11 year old son to give me a hug, I told the kid not unless you wanted to. I told him he could do what he wishes Hug/high 5/ fist bump/simple bye! When I was leaving 20 minutes later, he ran up to me and gave me a big hug.

    Charles Chamiux
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I live in France and I really hate the "bisous" greeting. I "get" that it's the cultural norm, but I hate kissing people I've just me, and my coworkers (yes, coworkers!) . Thank God for Covid19 which greatly curbed this practice! There's nothing wrong with a handshake, or just a plain old wave hello.

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    #13

    "It's Actually Very Odd When You Think About It": 50 Things That Are Considered Normal But Are Weird As Shared By Our Community Idolising billionaires. Like when people think people like Elon Musk have a willingness to save the planet.

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    Caro Caro
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I don't think anybody here thinks Elon Musk is a good guy. Personally I think he's a sh!t.

    Mary Doe
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I don't even respect billionaires, much less idolize them. Nobody needs that much money, or deserves it, while anybody else is suffering or going without something necessary. Just my opinion.

    Jules
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Musk is having vivisection carried out on monkeys under the guise of 'research'. He is a sh*thead of the highest magnitude. The pollution he is creating with his constant space trips, never mind the massive one he has planned, are polluting the planet massively.

    Hill Branda
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    He's a brilliant engineer but not that great at being a human being. Bezos is a brilliant businessman and has donated to charity, but by all accounts, is an opportunistic egomaniac. Just because you're great at one thing--business, engineering, sports, acting--doesn't mean you're great at anything else, like being a decent person. America in particular idolizes the rich and successful and never talks about character--things like empathy, honesty, charity, kindness.... which sadly explains where we are now.

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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    There are plenty of people idolising these psychopaths. Indeed, there is a whole market within self help related to billionaire advice. And plenty of alienated people who believe they will be better equipped to govern a country than anybody else.

    Amanda
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Dude is a disgusting human being.

    Alecto76
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    They need to be taxed like everyone else (US). Seriously why are we not pressing for this?

    Carla Phillips
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I swear if I had the money those idiots have, I would make the world a better place and help so many people. I definitely wouldn't be worried about buying social media or over compensating by sending a penis shaped rocket to space

    Thatkamloopsguy
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Elon Musk only cares about money. Even his daughter wants nothing to do with this pri ck

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    #14

    "It's Actually Very Odd When You Think About It": 50 Things That Are Considered Normal But Are Weird As Shared By Our Community (US) abundant luxury but scarce necessities: plenty of choices for entertainment, gaming, clothing, travel, etc. beyond your grandparents’ imagination. But… housing at < 1/4 your annual income and cars < 1/2 of it, like the formulas your grandparents lived by? Affordable education and healthcare? All de-normalized. Having nothing in savings and no expectation of being free from debt has been made normal.

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    RedFox
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    The moment anyone says anything along the lines of this comment is an immediate down vote to the commenter. Often times the post will be either at the top or close to it, and if it is at the top, the comment sounds utterly ridiculous because it cannot go any higher! And what if you don’t find out for a while that it is at top? Then tens or hundreds of people will have seen it by then.. still at the very top… looking ridiculous.

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    All's Gravy
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    That's capitalism and the blind belief in the lie of trickle down economics. Neoliberalism is the various mechanisms of private corporate pockets pocketing the tax of the many. (Profiteering from Government contracts, government bailouts etc.)

    keighterz
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Lol 1/4 of income going to housing? Try 3/4 of income here.

    Step
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Resources and necessities are not scarce. They are abundant and plentiful and constantly growing. We just can't have those resources we all need because of greedy powerful people using money to control all those things. It's a lie that resources are not enough for us all. Everything we see around us is coming from or growing from this planet. Constantly being produced and we could all at the very least have our needs met equally until our times up on earth. But we will be denied those things for no reason other than not having enough money. It's cruel and wrong how the system is even though everything we all need to stay alive is right in front of us. It's insane and crazy how we do our own kind.

    Candia Lee
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    The "American dream" of living beyond your means to show up the Joneses. My folks lived by "wear it out, use it up, make do, or do without." I got a Mitzi doll because it was cheaper and mom wouldn't buy into the Barbie cult; I made her clothes. I learned to buy used cars (most just need front end work or tune-up). I used county healthcare when I was out of work, food stamps, and food banks. I know I've had it easy, but not buying what I couldn't afford and finding aid has helped.

    Candia Lee
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    And furniture! The only new furniture I've bought was a modern office chair. Some of my faves have been thrifted, like the $12.50 (senior day!) double rocker/recliner I'm sitting on.

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    Otter
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    My housing takes up less than a quarter of my income. Of course it's not the sort of housing that impresses anyone, but I'm thoroughly comfortable and saving!

    Masen Silas
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    "We buy things we dont need, with money we dont have, to impress people we dont like"

    Anonymous
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I'm moving to Australia first chance I get.

    Becky Samuel
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Hahaha. First of all, it's insanely difficult to qualify to move to Australia. Secondly, housing in Australia is really, really expensive unless you live in the middle of nowhere. Thirdly, if you haven't noticed, Australia is kind of f-ed and goes on fire every summer.

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    Chich
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    How it works is that the populace is kept at a level where they might complain but are just comfortable enough that they rarely get off the couch to do anything about it. Delicate ballance at times.

    Sharkbait1313
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I couldn't agree more.... I honestly don't know how to survive in the US anymore.... and it's only getting more difficult at an alarming rate. I know many people like to say "well you should have gotten a college education, so you could make a better living" but that is not a luxury most can afford, not to mention student loan debt and no guarantee of available, sustainable employment after the fact....

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    #15

    "It's Actually Very Odd When You Think About It": 50 Things That Are Considered Normal But Are Weird As Shared By Our Community Trying to talk people who decline a drink into having 'just one'. Stop it! You don't know people's situation. Stop with the bullying/peer pressure BS. 'No thank you' means no! Not keep trying until I submit. Stop pushing people off the wagon just to save face.

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    Tenacious Squirrel
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Totally this. Had to go to a dinner party thing recently hosted by a couple I’d never met. They asked my partner what alcohol they should buy for us, and he told them I don’t drink alcohol so not to worry. Their reply? “She will be doing tomorrow”. They have no idea why I don’t drink, and I think it was a real out of order answer. Of course they then tried to get me to drink all evening.

    LesAnimaux
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    As if drinking is a requirement! Maybe they knew they were terrible hosts and tried to get everyone drunk so they'd forget.

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    Kathryn Baylis
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    No means no, regardless of circumstances. If someone is a recovering alcoholic, and that “just one” drink could be a very slippery slope, or someone who’s really allergic to alcohol and drinking it could put them in the hospital, or someone like me, whose digestive system just can’t tolerate more than one drink, so sometimes I just abstain, especially if I have to work the next day, or I’m driving myself home, or if I feel like I should stay in my right mind just to be safe in general. Just respect the NO, ffs!

    Jessisaur
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I used to be a heavy drinker but ever since becoming disabled I already feel sick enough without the alcohol, and I haven't drank since my diagnosis. I honestly don't know how badly it would affect me. It bothers me that drinking is the norm especially socially, and people always ask why I don't drink.

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    Antony Aston
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I haven't drunk alcohol for 14 years and this has to be my pet hate. I don't need alcohol to enjoy myself.

    Holly Hobby
    Community Member
    3 years ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I had a liver transplant so no drinking for me. When I decline a drink I am almost always asked, "in recovery?" WTF kind of question is that to ask stranger??

    Mario Strada
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Same here. In my case my first transplant team got it into their head I was an ex-alcoholic because when I was younger I worked as a waiter. They refused to accept me as a patient unless I went to AA, which I wasn't going to do because that would have been an admission that I was indeed an alcoholic. It was a bad time.

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    Jordi Sharpe
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I've been sober for 7 years. You can offer me once. Twice, you offend me. Three times and I'll be taking your liver home.

    Jon Steensen
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    people sometimes slip up. I e.g. once talked about my manager having a beer, despite him not touching it. I knew it at the back of my mind, but since had been a long time, that minor detailed slipped for a moment. So leave people a little room, and things will run smoother. However in cases where there is not doubt that they are trying to manipulate you against your own interest, e.g. by continueing right after you told them no, you are perfectly justified in calling them out.

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    Mario Strada
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I had a liver transplant, so drinking is not something I can do. It's rare that people insist these days though. Sadly, they mostly assume you are an alcoholic. Even my transplant team thought so. That's when I realized it's practically impossible to prove you are NOT something.

    RH-8514
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I don't drink because I never really enjoyed it all that much so I just gave up. When I tell people that I don't drink they either look at me like I just punched their sainted mother or assume that I was an alcoholic.

    KY dog mom
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    People do this to vegetarians as well. I can't tell you how many times people have said to me, "You should try it. A few bites of meat won't hurt you."

    Loki’s Lil Butter Knife
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I feel like people who force other people to drink are incredibly insecure and cannot have fun or hold a conversation with another human without drinking.

    Yugan Talovich
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I don't know why, but I really dislike the taste of alcohol. I just don't like it! Also, I'm stubborn. When I was young and people tried to force me to drink, I'd say, Let's fight. If you can beat me, I'll drink. Nobody ever took me up on it. Nuts. (My first job was teaching martial arts.)

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    #16

    "It's Actually Very Odd When You Think About It": 50 Things That Are Considered Normal But Are Weird As Shared By Our Community Cancel Culture! Even when joking about this, it's an incredibly childish thing to do and normalize, especially when people jump on the bandwagon and attack anyone, especially celebrities for messing up or doing something that even slightly rubs people the wrong way. Everybody makes mistakes, don't harass them for it!

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    Freya the Wanderer
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    It works both ways. Conservatives are just as guilty as liberals, if not more so.

    Mitchell
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    This was not a political comment. Why raise it?

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    Stephanie A Mutti
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Context. When someone did something stupid 25 years ago in college we can be a little graceful considering stupid things we all did 25 years ago. When someone does something stupid yesterday and they're 40years old and a public figure, that's kind of on them.

    El Dee
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Nope. We have ALWAYS criticized people for failing to meet current norms. eg being racist is not acceptable and only now are people being called out for it..

    Patricia O'Rourke
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Yes, but where does it stop? It's one thing to highlight a racist, misogynist, bully, for example, but quite another when someone gets cancelled because of an unintentional slip, like the singer who got criticised for unknowingly using an offensive, ableist word in a song because where she comes from, it's perfectly acceptable and has a different meaning. There should be some limit, otherwise nobody can say anything, which is the most undemocratic thing ever.

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    Cammy Cat
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    And to think that people don't change over the years. A celebrity is responsible for things posted or said when they were 12, as if they felt the same now at 30. Nobody is the same person they were when they were a kid

    Enlee Jones
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    R. Kelly and Harvey Weinstein deserve to be canceled.

    Amy Taylor
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I work in the film industry and everyone knew about Weinstein!! That was so infuriating. The ones that are damning him now are only doing it because he finally had to be accountable for it, but they sure stood by and watched when a lot of those horrible things he did were happening.

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    Jordi Sharpe
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    How is it cancel culture if the people who have been "cancelled" continue to be heard and seen? It's all b******t; it's Consequence Culture.

    Laika-Mutton
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Yes, thank you. Maybe you were banned from a privately-owned social site, as is their right, or fired from a job, as is the employer's right, or criticized/called out, but if I'm hearing you gripe about being cancelled, you were not "cancelled".

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    Doge
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    But this whole thread is kinda about wanting to cancel things.......

    SCP 4666
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    This is what twitter is now used for. Only single word falsely interpreted and you`re gonna get blasted. Like the Anti-witch madness in the middle ages

    Mikey Kliss
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Eh this view point of "cancel culture" is skewed. Going after someone for a 15 year old post that is not the person they are today is messed up. Seeing a comedian saying hateful things (in the now) and deciding to not waste your money on them (and others also making that choice) is not cancel culture. If anything its capitalism. You are selling a good or service. I do not want that good or service therefore I won't buy it and a competitor will get my money. That sort of thing

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    #17

    "It's Actually Very Odd When You Think About It": 50 Things That Are Considered Normal But Are Weird As Shared By Our Community Taking pictures of strangers without permission, and worse, go ahead and post them on the internet.

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    Caro Caro
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    This should be forbidden. It's a breach of privacy. Just stop..

    Wondering Alice
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Totally! Family doing it with out permission is bad enough. I got married about 12 years ago. It was a smallish affair, I had no intention of sharing pictures on line and told my guests so - we could share later personally - so relax, be daft don't worry about your kids in pictures.... One guy choose to share every minute of the occasion with his church, who went on to share a lot. No actual harm done, but he really could not see why I did not like it. When it comes to strangers, real harm can be done!

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    Robert T
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    This sets a very dangerous precedent, as it prevents news being reported. It also prevents people from taking photographs of places or street scenes for fear that the people in them might be offended. I agree that taking close-up photos of other people without permission, particularly where they can be identified, is wrong, but the difficulty is deciding where you draw the line. There would be a lot of blank BP threads on historical photographs if such photographs could not be taken.

    Thay
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    And their excuse is "you're in a public environment, its my right". Which is what Ive been told before and what Ive overheard. I understand public is public but if you do not have my direct permission, you better hope you blur out my face if you post anything cuz I watch and if I see you recording or snapping pics I will scour the internet for your profile and have it removed. I take my privacy very seriously.

    Chich
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    No problem if I am out in a public space where there is no expectation of privacy. Would be annoyed in a private setting.

    lara
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    If someone does post your picture without your permission and you can be identified in the picture you CAN take legal civil action against them. It is a violation of your privacy IF you are not a public persona and you have NOT done it to yourself.

    Laurie Ostergaard-Overbey
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    do you not realize that you are on camera ALL THE TIME? your government is watching you, everywhere, always. welcome big brother. if you are referring to people taking video of police interactions, i welcome them, thank you. they need outside accountability.

    A Thousand Years Wide
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I have a question in regards to if it is at a festival, carnival, or fair of some sort. I personally like taking photos of the chaos of such events. Not like I can ask everybody I pass for permission. These are crowded! Asking for future.... I haven't taken photos like this in several years. The same thing goes for photographers like Charles Peterson who photographed concerts in the late 80's/Early 90's. No way could he have gotten every concert goer in the crowds permission.

    Angee Eyers
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    But if you take a photo where there is a particular person who is the subject, then you should get permission if you want to publish it. I have many friends who are photographers who are very careful about this kind of thing

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    Kathryn Baylis
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    3 years ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Especially if it’s one you never consented, or expected to be taken and/or is a potentially embarrassing picture. It’s one thing to think you see your face in a random crowd photo in the news (but it’s so tiny you can’t really be sure it’s you), it’s quite another when a picture of you—-that you never consented to—-in someplace like the gym locker room is floating around social media. A crowd photo when news trucks are all around the area doesn’t carry the same expectation of privacy as a gym locker room does. Not just people you know, but employers also have a tendency to stalk social media (even though they should NOT), and will see that, which may have repercussions on you that are absolutely NOT your fault, but that of the picture taker. Remember, stuff we do, that we don’t even think anyone else knows about, can have an affect on people we don’t even know. Sometimes a minimal effect, sometimes a good effect, but sometimes a potentially devastating effect. So we really need to use our critical thinking skills to take that into consideration before acting on impulse and putting something up, online or elsewhere, for public consumption without the other person’s knowledge and/or consent.

    Scott Rackley
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Pretty sure all states recognize that locker rooms and bathrooms are off limits. People have a "reasonable expectation of privacy" in these location. Also, if the gym is private, they can prohibit pictures being taken inside. Some could still photo you from outside the big plate windows though.

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    Mel
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Looking at YOU Peopleofwalmart.com!

    Shane S
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I get so annoyed when a friend posts pictures of strangers even if it’s supposed to be a compliment like “look at this hot guy”. It’s rude and creepy. Don’t be a creeper.

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    #18

    "It's Actually Very Odd When You Think About It": 50 Things That Are Considered Normal But Are Weird As Shared By Our Community Shaming women for not breastfeeding. People should just mind their own business!

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    Kiki Müller
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    And shaming women for breastfeeding publicly. Like: As a mother you can't do it right, since you are judged anyway.

    H.L.Lewis
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Feed your hungry baby.. if it is crying because it is hungry, feed it! I don't care if it's bottle fed or breast fed. Take care of your childs needs. All I care about is not having to listen to it screaming!

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    Tamra Stiffler
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Seriously. Being a mother is hard enough without everyone else weighing in on how you should be doing a better job. Unless abuse is involved, mind ya damn business.

    Amy Taylor
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Geez...if someone told another mother how to rear her child when I was a kid in the early 70's, they would've gotten an earful, lol

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    Freya the Wanderer
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Breast is best, but some women may have good reason to resort to a bottle. They may not be able to produce enough milk, or have some health condition that makes breastfeeding difficult if not impossible.

    Jeweled Dragon
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I have a female relative who can't produce milk, she just can't. When she gave birth to her first child, she was shamed by the doctors for not breastfeeding.

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    Carla Phillips
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    This! When I had my daughter I wasn't able to breastfeed. Physically unable. She couldn't latch on. They let her go 24 hours without food because they kept trying to get her to latch. Finally, my husband had had enough. He told them to get some formula right now. Then, in the US there's a program called WIC that provides nutritional assistance to new moms. They berated me to keep trying to breastfeed until I broke down in tears. My sister came to my rescue then.

    Amy Taylor
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I so feel you!! I wasn't producing, I did everything I could...she wouldn't latch, I got a double mastitis... Your sister is an angel.

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    Got Myself 4 Dwarves
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    4 kids, all breastfed, all over the place and never once had a negative comment. It is illegal here to stop a woman feeding her child wherever it is.

    Miguel justino C
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Who the hell keeps tabs on a ladies breasts? Must be the evil Facebook

    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    It's the women in actual life that stare and shame moms

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    Enamelcamel
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Stop imagining that a procreating woman is somehow public property. Don't touch her ... and please don't offer unsolicited opinions - no matter how brilliant you think they are.

    Justacrow
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I WISH I could have breastfed my boys. But my body wouldn't. The amount of s**t I got for that was insane.

    Amy Taylor
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    THIS!!!! Until I had kids, I had NO idea how judgy and harsh women could act towards one another. It was really hard to find support when I struggled with breastfeeding. They were vicious.

    Richard Smith
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    My wife was not able to breastfeed, she just didn't produce enough. Feeding formula is better than starving your child. Yes, MYOB.

    Hyde and Seek
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Myob? Besides that seems obvious if you're unable to have your child breastfed for whatever reason ,then you do the next best thing.

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    #19

    "It's Actually Very Odd When You Think About It": 50 Things That Are Considered Normal But Are Weird As Shared By Our Community Celebrity culture

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    Miguel justino C
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Let’s have an awards show every 3 months and pat each other on the back. We need awards for best waitress or best mechanic. Teachers, firefighters, cops and such

    Dre Mosley
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    If I never hear about the Kardashians and Jenners again, it would be too soon.

    Anonymous
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I can like the movies in which they star. I don't have to like them.

    Kathryn Baylis
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    3 years ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Disrespectful happy go lucky fashion (!?) selfies in front of historic sights where people greatly suffered and died. Learn about your location before deciding to do a f*****g stupid vapid photo shoot there, assholes!

    Randy Volz
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Paparazzi should be wiped from the face of the Earth.

    Firstname Lastname
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I know someone who tries to tell me all about celebrity lives because she doesn't have friends to talk about but still wants to gossip. Can we just not?

    L hill
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I'm in a bad mood so I will hold off comments on this one.

    Solidhog
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Too many celebrities and not enough audience now. Too many people being "famous" for nothing or such minor things.

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    #20

    Expecting women to cover up or leave the room to breastfeed a baby. If the woman is more comfortable that way then fine, but treating feeding a baby as something dirty is really strange and unhelpful. People who want women to cover up to nurse a baby should try eating a meal with a blanket over their head!

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    C C
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I didn't care where I was or who was around. If my baby was hungry, I'd whip out the boob and not cover his head. Breastfeeding is natural and breasts are meant for feeding, that is there sole purpose!

    Sam rice
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Stop. Over sexualizing. Breasts.

    Emmydearest
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I'm conflicted on this one. Because yes, breasts' purpose is literally to feed a baby but it's naive to deny that they have also a sexual component. In fact women don't expose all the time their naked breast if not in certain contexts (obviously in western countries at least). Like, we all know the purpose of a butt but it's also a sexualized body part and in fact we don't go around butt naked all the time. I'm a huge advocate for breastfeeding but I think there's a way to find a middle ground. You can't just say "This is my kid lunch, deal with it!". You could cover yourself a little with a light scarf, at least in the "taking out the boob" moment, it's not unreasonable to ask. And no, the fact the boob is attached to a baby doesn't suddenly make it an elbow, it's still a naked boob with all its collateral connotation, otherwise you would bare yourself in front of your friends at a restaurant table all the time, but you don't. Why not? Because breasts have also a sexual connotation.

    Sarah Kathrin Matsoukis
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I don't care as long lond as they don't care about people staring, because that's what people do if you whip out a boob.

    FRAN6IX
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    In Africa they breastfeed anywhere anytime, no one cares as long as you are a breastfeeding mom, your boobs doesn't count

    Amanda
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I’m not a mother, nor will I ever be, but THIS. That’s what your boob is meant for after having babies, don’t be f*****g shy. Breastfeeding is natural and a beautiful way to connect to your child. If it makes people uncomfortable, that’s not your problem.

    Rens
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I breastfeed my daughter in public and I never covered up because I was always so hot; making milk for an infant as hard work!

    Sharkbait1313
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Not to mention the sweats you get when you have a surge! Do what you gotta do! Everyone else can eff off.....

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    Miguel justino C
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    It gets tricky when you have two boys aged 6 and 9 and your at red lobster. Your gonna say teach them properly then. Can they come watch if it’s not that big of a deal or is it private?

    Tamra Stiffler
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    You simply explain that a mother is feeding her child. No need to turn it into a circus sideshow.

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    Thay
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Well... It still involves a more modest, personal part of the body. But if the woman is comfortable with however she chooses to do this, then go right ahead. But being in public i would think they want to be more modest and respectfully cover themselves from prying eyes

    Tamra Stiffler
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Breasts LITERALLY exist to feed young - that is all. "Modesty" plays no part in it. Men walk around without shirts all the time. Should they also be more modest? Cover up those man boobs?

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    Suzanne Haigh
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    If I go to a restaurant/cafe for a meal then I do NOT want women hauling their boobs out in front of me, there is a time and a place.

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    #21

    "It's Actually Very Odd When You Think About It": 50 Things That Are Considered Normal But Are Weird As Shared By Our Community Expecting children to socialise with everyone and share everything. I was a very shy child so when my mum invited her mom friends over they’d all send their kids to my room to play with my stuff and it was like a form of torture. We should teach children about reasonable boundaries and respect - We don’t expect the same behaviour from adults so I don’t see why it’s acceptable to do to our kids

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    King Joffrey
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    4 years ago

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    Actually, we do expect the same behaviour from adults. In a work environment, it's called networking and everyone seems to hate it but it's necessary for doing business. Also, how else would you meet new people at a party?

    LinkTheHylian
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I interact with my coworkers on a daily basis, but I don't socialise with them. We support each other when we need it, and then we punch out and disappear back to our own lives. And who wants to meet new people at a party? What are we, 5?

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    Bobby
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Socializing your kids is important. There does come an age when a kid can articulate what and who they like and don't. That should be respected

    ethan kraner
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    if this had happenedto me, i would have heard it, then locked my room's door

    Celtic Pirate Queen
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Or being at a public park and having some entitled b*tch of a Mom have a problem with the fact your child doesn't want to share their toy with this random stranger. I applaud the Mom who told her child (and the other kid's Mom) that he was not obligated to do so. No, KAREN, my child DOES NOT have to share his favorite toy with your destructive little demon seed. Give me half your sandwich & the PIN to your ATM card.

    Mosheh Wolf
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    3 years ago

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    What's wrong with people? They expect everybody to be kind and empathetic, but, at the same time, they all think that it's normal not to talk to anybody, to not let anybody get close to them, and to be totally isolated. I mean, saying "be kind", and then when somebody needs help, responding "leave me alone, I don't like being around people!!" is hypocrisy.

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    #22

    "It's Actually Very Odd When You Think About It": 50 Things That Are Considered Normal But Are Weird As Shared By Our Community Sharing your kid's photos on social media. Family albums are okay, when they are printed, or storing the pics just on your PC. It really stays on the net like "forever", or at least, as long as the internet exists.

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    J. F.
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    4 years ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    The advantage of being a millenial: Old enough to not have everything from childhood posted on the internet and young enough to grow up with the Internet

    LeeAnne B
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    This has always horrified me. I've seen pics of kids posted outside their school, citing their name and grade and all Im thinking is how anyone could abduct them.

    Becky Samuel
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    The level of paranoia displayed here is astonishing. The number of children abducted by strangers is vanishingly small. Treating children like prisoners because "they might be abducted" has led to a generation with appalling fitness levels, very little independence, loss of freedom, and skyrocketing anxiety.

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    SeaLouse_Comics
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Depends on the photo. Be normal. Don't over share private moments.

    Romeoslover
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    The first time I saw myself on a facebook wall, called the poster and requested not to do that without asking me first

    Leah Williams
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    My mother-in-law sent her friend a picture of my baby I guess and when I was over at their house and the friend came over too, she said to my baby "ooh hi! I saw you on my phone!" And it made me so uncomfortable since I didn't even know who this lady was. And it was a weird way to say that haha

    Buren
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Yup, and location. And whatever you do, wherever you go, whatever you eat. It's dangerous, and most people don't give a fish.

    Kazi Hito
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    my parents: you're not allowed to have social media accounts // my mom: *posts pictures of me and my brother on special occasions on her private facebook account* || I'm fine with the posting pictures of me thing, but- I- what-

    Got Myself 4 Dwarves
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I'm torn on this one. My husband lost all his younger photos in a house fire, and I would be heart broken to have that happen. So I put ones on my private Facebook page as I know I can get them back. My kids aren't bothered and I won't post anything they don't want me to, but a stranger couldn't access them anyway

    Local foodie
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    But that’s private. It’s not like strangers can access pictures, and you’re not exploiting them for likes and shares on social media

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    Jon Steensen
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    not just your kids, it should go for any friend or relative. People are entitled to privacy and deciden what gets posted and what does not when it involves them.

    Scott Rackley
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Not to mention that 99% of parents posting children pics don't have the sense to remove the xif data from the picture.

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    #23

    "It's Actually Very Odd When You Think About It": 50 Things That Are Considered Normal But Are Weird As Shared By Our Community How we encourage and love models and actresses who wear short clothes, but if a girl does it, she is attacked with the words hoe, dirty and shameless

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    Cammy Cat
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Always found hypocritical when parents would blame Brittany Spears and Christina Aguilera for the short shirts, but parents took NO responsibility for being the ones that bought their kids those clothes and let them wear them

    EpicWolfandSparrow
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    For real! Had a neighbor, poor 8y/o girl wore the most I'll fitting and inappropriate things for her age. Her mom always complained about her being too girly (that's a whole different deal in itself), and her clothes being to short/tight/revealing etc. But yet she was the one buying it all! It's ridiculous

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    Solidhog
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    How many females celebrities, especially pop stars have basically made porn an acceptable things with what they wear on stage and the way they act.

    Liberal Disease
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Who is "We" who encourage this? Please keep Me out of that!

    Michelle C
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I don’t think I follow more than one or two professional models and I didn’t follow them for that reason. They have other talents which I appreciate and that’s why I chose to follow them. I just don’t participate in affirming when they show off their bodies for public consumption.

    All's Gravy
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    4 years ago

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    Do WE? I think we have to understand that models are generally of a body type and have stylists to make them look their best. Whereas J Bloggs' body types are not all suited to the same and don't have the professionals to tell them so before they step out.

    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    But who r we to judge ? Its her body , Its her choice. She can wear whatever she wants

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    MoreBrains
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    4 years ago

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    it's all wrong...feminism is a disease...

    LinkTheHylian
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    No, stupidity is the disease, and you're exhibiting symptoms. Be careful, it has proved fatal on countless occasions.

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    #24

    How 40 seems to be the cut off point for desirability in workers. Being over 40 is like a death march in life. Experience means nothing. Over 50 and people might as well just retire because people act like you are 100 years old.

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    Susan Stead
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    So true! When I was in my 40s, I couldn't get a job to save my life. However, we recently moved to Washington, and I got 3 job offers after 2 months of job hunting. In the state government application system they ask if you are over 40, and it weighs your application in your favor. I presume it is in response to the discrimination you described. I had two public and one private job offers, so I guess the culture here is different? I've lived in other states where my age was definitely used against me, so Washington has been a tremendous relief!

    Tee Witt
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Ageism is illegal in the UK, still happens though they pretend it doesn't

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    Donkey boi
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I just employed a woman in her mid 50's. She is over qualified for the role but hasn't been able to find fork for 2 years and was desperate for work. I can't pay her what's she's worth but I can train her on our systems and help her up the chain. I hope I have to replace her next year and start calling her "boss".

    BetweenTheCracks
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Absolutely true. I went to university in my 30s to many cries of "Good for you!" and "It's never too late!" Guess what? Those cheers are nowhere to be heard when you're a 40something new grad. Neither, as has been said, are interview offers.

    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    How 40 seems to be the cut off point for desirability in workers. Being over 40 is like a death march in life. Experience means nothing. Over 50 and people might as well just retire because people act like you are 100 years old.

    SCP 4666
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Corporates seem to want employees in their early 20s with at least 10 years of experience. Bruh...

    Scott Rackley
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I'm glad my trade is not like that. The more experienced usually the better.

    Phil Green
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    The job I'm in now, I got when I was 54. I even had an interview. But then, I don't live in the US.

    Diolla
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    So true. Have been working fulltime my entire life up to 3 years ago, am highly educated, highly skilled, but ever since I turned about 45 never got invited for job interviews anymore. Due to circumstances I ended up on disability at age 53. Will stay on it because I KNOW I will never find a job again.

    Sarah Summers
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I stopped putting graduation dates on resumes for this reason!

    L hill
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Retire? With the cost of living these days?

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    #25

    The existence of Facebook.

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    Susan Macaluso
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Hallelujah for saying this. FB is so messed up.

    Freya the Wanderer
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I have avoided Facebook like Chernobyl from the get-go, and am always finding reasons that justify this. Now we have the big Facebook scandal! Facebook-a...ec08d4.jpg Facebook-and-you-617f5bfec08d4.jpg

    LeeBreezy
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    i personally think twitter is waaaaaaaaaaaay worse

    Bouche Clay
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I enjoyed the farm game back in the day.

    Sharkbait1313
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Yep! I said bye bye to Facebook years ago and it is a genuine breath of fresh air. I realize BP is also considered social media, but it is mostly anonymous and not so much keeping up with people you don't even see in real life anymore.... who the hell cares!

    The Crushinator
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    3 years since I've logged off for good and my mental health has improved soooooo much!!

    FABULOUS1
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I think the issue is how people use FB. I think it has been a great tool for families who live far apart to stay connected and share photos. But when you get caught up in the hoopla of social medical that becomes the issue. But I think twitter is up there as being far worse.

    Cindy Jordan
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    My 80-year-old mother lives on Facebook

    SirWriteALot
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Just downloading my data, then deleting the account. Haven't been on there for ages.

    Remington Greer
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    This. Lately I've found it's easy to get zucced for anything. When I started emotionally reacting to getting banned (even for content that I've grabbed from Facebook or previously banned and appealed to be ok) is when I started realizing I needed to get off it. I've opted to just deactivate Facebook because I have contacts I can only communicate with through messenger. Facebook is a toxic cesspool

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    #26

    People swearing and screaming at retail workers and they’re just supposed to take it?!

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    Tee Witt
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Appalling behavior:- displays the low IQ, total lack of manners and desperate need for attention.

    Holly Hobby
    Community Member
    3 years ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I don't think it has anything to do with IQ. It's more of a mood/impulse control issue. That or they've never been knocked the **** out.

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    Jenn C
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Everyone should hbe required to work a customer service job for 6 months.

    Richard Reese
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I used to think the U.S. needed to have mandatory military service until I got out and worked my first customer focused service job. Now I know it should be mandatory to work a job that is customer service focused.

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    Bubbles and sparks
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Oh, and don't forget people that snap their fingers or whistle at them whenever they want their attention, like they are calling a dog or something, just rude!

    Tree P
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I had that happen. I just ignored them because I am not a dog. Even if I was, I still wouldn't answer them!

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    Mosheh Wolf
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Every retail worker should be allowed to slap one customer each day.

    Tree P
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I would have had to do that every single day!

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    Thatkamloopsguy
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I work in retail and that is the worst thing you could do to me or my staff. You will never know what just hit you.

    Celia T
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    It would be nice if people would also show respect for our workplace. Don’t throw merchandise down, wad it up, etc. I always want to find out where THEY work, undo hours of their work and then yell at them.

    Tree P
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Yes!! Had one Karen(didn't have the term then, but she was) move all the bottles I just straightened up because the one she wanted was empty but it might be behind these others even though they were different!

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    SeaLouse_Comics
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I work in customer service. Get disrespectful of me, I kick you out. Boss is fine with that.

    Jordi Sharpe
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    My father did this in front of me when I was 11. I still think about that poor kid.

    The Doom Song
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I work in retail, I got yelled at once because a little old lady I was serving took too long. F@#$&!g Karens

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    #27

    Reality tv shows that are clearly scripted and rehearsed. Before the ad break you’re shown a clip of what’s to happen , then we see an interview shot telling us what is going to happen , then we see it happen then another interview shot explaining what just happened

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    Kathryn Baylis
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    The novelty of reality TV wore off for me about halfway through the first episode of Survivor. Can’t stand the genre, don’t watch it. It needs to go away.

    Thatkamloopsguy
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I could kiss you. I thought I was the only one that hated survivor that quick.

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    FABULOUS1
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Reality TV shows are one of the worst things to ever happen, yes I know there has been worse c**p but this one is way up there on my list. Who the hell wants to watch scripted fights, arguments or rich people walking around their mansions and their day to day lives that arent real.

    Trond Øien
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    ...and after the next ad break there's a recap of all that and the cycle starts again. Most so callled reality (oh, the irony) TV is so stupid that it's borderline insulting imo.

    LesAnimaux
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    And that, folks, is why I don't watch television. I hate ads.

    Mikey Kliss
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    While its true that alot of these are scripted, I feel like the points brought up here can just be described as editing

    ZeroCapacity
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Big Brother is worse by far, stupid s**t that means nothing yet has a cult like following. Really grinds my gears.

    Melissa
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    One time a home makeover show was filmed in my neighborhood and they wanted to create fake drama. They asked my dad permission to "accidentally" have a tree fall over to destroy his above ground pool, which he declined. The hosts only showed up to do a few shots for like 20 minutes or less.

    K.H.M.
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    YES! I never understood reality tv! It's like " This is our totally normal real life except it's scripted but you have to guess what's real and what's not "

    Evelyn Haskins
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    it is the dreadful faces the females make that truly annoys me!

    Hiram's Friend
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Somebody's got to watch them. You can't sell ads otherwise. Schadenfreude.

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    #28

    "It's Actually Very Odd When You Think About It": 50 Things That Are Considered Normal But Are Weird As Shared By Our Community Colour coding babies clothes so that people know which genitals they have.

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    Kelley Baltierra
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    When I had my twins, I wanted to be surprised by their genders so I asked for yellow and green outfits and color schemes for the bedding and such. When they both turned out to be boys i didn't automatically change everything to blue either ☺️

    Penny Hernandez
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    At a baby shower for my first child I got 3 sets of pajamas in pink (roses, gingham, etc). All 3 of my boys wore them.

    Lizzie
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    That's is weird come to think of it, but I find it useful because sometimes it's like embarrassing to ask gender

    Chris B
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Why would you need to know the gender?

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    SCP 4666
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I don`t think it`s a big deal. I do however think it`s ridiculous when they have blue scissors and pink ones for cutting the umbilical cord. Does anyone care about it at that moment?

    AnonymousApple
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Even knowing what we were having both times, I still asked for gender neutral clothing. I don't get color coding babies, or anything for that matter. I sure as hell didn't want my boys covered in footballs and "ladies man" c**p. When my oldest was about three, he was wearing a pink shirt with a gorilla on it and some poor lady was honestly confused about why a boy would be wearing pink. Because it's a COLOR. Colors don't have genders, ffs.

    LeeBreezy
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    what if i like blue or pink?

    Bouche Clay
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    My mom put me in a blue dress, and was congratulated on her son.

    Pizzagirl 91
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I put my twin girls in a yellow and a green dress with polka dots, sun hats with flowers and lady bugs, pink name bands on their pacifiers - they were taken for boys because of the sky blue stroller.

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    Scott Rackley
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I know, I imagine it permanently scars a 9 month old bc of the color. A color they can't name and have only been able to see for 4 months.

    Injun Joe
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I know right?! I wonder about the parents coaching abilities, if you catch my drift.

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    Tobias Reaper
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    pink is a manly colour Brett the hitman hart wore pink you dont get much manlier than that

    Injun Joe
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Why are people obsessed with other people's genitals?!

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    #29

    "It's Actually Very Odd When You Think About It": 50 Things That Are Considered Normal But Are Weird As Shared By Our Community As an American, all the reasons we have to ‘party’. I’m not necessarily complaining because I like to get together with friends and have a good time but I don’t remember my parents’ generation having this many ‘celebrations’ to go to. For only ONE young couple we know, we have attended the engagement party, bachelor/bachelorette party, the bridal shower, the wedding, 3 housewarmings, and soon to be 4 baby showers. They have been married for 6 years. I believe next year will mark their eldest child’s kindergarten graduation.

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    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I forgot to add their gender reveals.

    Daniel Marsh
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    You are officially uninvited from the shire's celebration of Bilbo's hundred and eleventy-first birthday.

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    Oerff On Tour
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    What's next? Throwing a party because it's Wednesday? Or raining?

    Tee Witt
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Kindergarten Graduation? The rest of the world laughs out loud.

    Kathryn Baylis
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    And every damn one of them expecting you to contribute food or time or decorations/bring a gift/give them money. I stopped participating and just say Congratulations, because I just don’t have the money to waste on myself, much less someone else and their OTT expectations.

    Gerard Neaux
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Sounds like a lot of fun but also very expensive. If these occasions would be celebrated without gifts but with the guests helping buy the food and drinks, the financial pressure would be much lessened.

    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    It really is expensive! I’ve become a baker just so I can make something and bring it as a gift.

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    Alex Smith
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I agree with this. One time I knew a couple who had a bridal shower, a couples shower, a lingerie party, bachelorette party, bachelor party and the wedding was a destination wedding. It was ridiculous.

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    #30

    People who talk to me on the train. Dude, I’m wearing headphones and have a book in my hand, take the hint!

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    Wondering Alice
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Is it a good book? What kind of music goes with the book you are reading? I have questions

    Daria B
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I actually wouldn't mind if they asked me these kinds of questions, it can be a nice ice-breaker for a new friendship. The problem is, so far they just tried either kicking on me (yeah, not taking the hints), or it was elderly people asking confirming questions of whether or not I actually understand what I'm reading (because I don't look east Asian). *sigh*

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    Remington Greer
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Modern day etiquette rule one: if you see someone with headphones on, they clearly want to be left alone. Unless you need help, the headphone wearer should be left alone

    Kathryn Baylis
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I agree, especially when you’re wearing the usual signals for “not in the mood to talk unless it’s a dire emergency”. Respect the signs, people.

    Dre Mosley
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I'm in the very back of the break room, I have a book in my hand, and a mouthful of food. There's twenty other people in here. . . .but you want smalltalk with me. 🙄

    No Clue
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Or when you are reading a book and someone (or usually everyone) asks what you are reading. Nothing anymore, thanks. WHY DO PEOPLE DO THAT? 😡

    InvincibleRodent
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I'm more annoyed when they ask if it's a good book. Like.... I don't know? I'm literally in the process of reading it? I'm enjoying it now, but I'm visibly like halfway through it, I've no idea how I'm gonna feel about it at the end!!!

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    The Doom Song
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Yes! I'm the headphone and book person!

    Kate
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    So ignore them. I mean, you do have headphones.

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    #31

    The fact that so many jobs exist where you work full time and do not get paid enough to support yourself independently. And you are then told you have to go tens of thousands of dollars into debt to get a job with a living wage.

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    Tee Witt
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Mainly in the USA as now but spreading

    Sue
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    We won't pay people more but we will raise the price of housing. We won't allow insurance companies to pay for birth control if their corporation says so. We get closer & closer to outlawing abortion. Many of us won't teach our children about sex & how not to get pregnant, then berate them when they get pregnant. Then we criticize people for having kids they can't afford.

    Tree P
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    And now, depending on state, expect them to have them.

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    Just a ray of f'ing sunshine
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I'm thousands of dollars in debt in student loans (for mental health related degrees), and STILL can't find a job in my field that pays a living wage! 😠

    LesAnimaux
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Sometimes I wish a had a roommate to share living expenses with. I spend more than half of what I earn on rent and utility bills. On the other hand that would mean someone else is living in my house, so... no.

    Jon Steensen
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    ... and that you have to be greatefull that someone is willing to let you work for them at all.

    Hiram's Friend
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    The military will pay you to learn a skill. They put me through LPN school.

    Mark Faby
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Find a new career. No one is stopping you.

    Poly Amorous
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Money is, as well as some of the bs requirements

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    #32

    "It's Actually Very Odd When You Think About It": 50 Things That Are Considered Normal But Are Weird As Shared By Our Community The greeting, "Hi, how are you?" Or "How ya doing?" And then everyone just says "Fine." In the first place, it seems like noone really wants to know how you actually are. And in the second place, noone says how they actually are. I mean, most of us are not all that fine a lot of the time.

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    Nikki Sevven
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I greeted a server with "how are you" the other day. She responded with a shrug and a "meh." I said, "You know what? I appreciate your honesty. It's 2021; none of us is "fine." She laughed. Be less afraid to disrupt the status quo. Be human instead.

    Tom Spade
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I hear ya. I frequently kick it with cashiers while checking out, and it's great to get to know these people a little here and a little there. We're all in the same boat, and getting to know some of the fellow sailors is a good thing.

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    Lady of the Mountains
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    its a greeting at this point. if you want to actually know, you ask whats wrong or are you ok

    Kate
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    It's a greeting. You say it because if you say, "salutations," people will look at you weird.

    Jon Steensen
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    a simple hi or hello, will do just fine as a greating. There is no need to pretend to care if you really don't. It is fake politeness and most people can sense it, so I consider it to be a backfire.

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    Gerard Neaux
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    4 years ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    In my country we actually answer differently depending who's asking. The closer you are to them, the more detail you give to that question. It's literally "what are you doing".

    HooowlAtTheMoon
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    If you say you're anything other than "fine", people accuse you of searching for attention. It's stupid.

    Viviane
    Community Member
    4 years ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Years ago, I worked in a suburb of Montreal. Most of the employees were English-Canadian and a few were French. I'd ask the Anglos "How was your weekend?" and get "Fine." I'd ask a French employee "How was your weekend?" and they'd talk about what they did. Sometimes they even had pictures ("We went to a friend's cottage. Here's a picture of my kid playing in the leaves."). Obviously, it's a generalization for that particular workplace and area, but the difference was striking.

    L hill
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I work in retail. I am asked this hundreds of times a day. Usually, I just tell them I am tired, and they leave me alone.

    J.L. Martin
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    When someone has the courage to be honest and say something along the lines of "I'm really stressed out" or "I'm struggling TBH" I jump into action- How can I help? What can I do? I live in the US but really do wish we were more forthcoming with our feelings. Makes for better communication (*most* of the time)

    J P
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I would answer “I have been better…and worse”

    Tami
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Just tell them how you really are. Then they won't ask anymore.

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    #33

    Not acknowledging men’s mental health issues except to put down women’s. Like, they’re both huge problems that deserve to be individually seen and taken care of, but neither is a weapon to use against the other, or anything.

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    chonky_rubberband
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    This post needs to be higher. Men need to be heard. There are COUNTLESS shelters in the US for women who have been abused and need help. there is only ONE for men. Men's Mental Health Month is June. be better.

    Matthew Daniel
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I suffer from depression and chronic pain. People often say they have issues also but not as bad as mine (because they are trying to be nice, not arseholes). I always tell them that it's not a competition and their pain or depression is as real and as valid as mine.

    Sam Walker
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    The levels of misandry have gotten extremely excessive the past few years.

    Becky Samuel
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    This site is rife with it. If a woman says she's done with dating because her previous partners have stolen her money, cheated on her and treated her like poop it's all "You go girrrl", but if a *man* says it then he gets torn to pieces. Once you notice it, it's everywhere.

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    Cammy Cat
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Yep! Like the commercials: HERS is about mental health vs HIMS is about ED issues

    Tobias Reaper
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    this really bothers me like there will be post on here about men's issues and someone will comment but women have it worse or arguing the point so basically saying women have it worse so by extension this issue doesn't matter we need to stop competing against each other and support each other

    Richard Smith
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I've always thought it odd that there's so much attention placed on breast cancer when there are actually more cases per year of prostate cancer. I think it's because breasts are more noticeable and attractive than prostates. Or, are we trying to be more nurturing to women?

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    #34

    Youtube channels of toddlers and young kids. I believe parents do it for themselves and their ego, I hate that content is mainly about opening new toys and products.

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    Christoph
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    and they get HELLA PAID. Its almost child labor.

    FABULOUS1
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    The voices these adults use in these videos are annoying as f****.

    Evelyn Haskins
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Yep! Stupid stuff for kids :-( Get them some toys to play with, and call tidying up afterward you exercise for the day :-)

    #35

    Excessive consumption of alcohol. Getting drunk/plastered/etc never ends well.

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    Tiny Dynamine
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I agree. I always monitor how much I drink because I don't want to be in a state where I can't look after myself. It's rude to expect others to get you home and make sure you're safe and I think it's shameful to get yourself into those situations when going out with friends.

    Tom Spade
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    You're absolutely correct. I despise seeing people who are shamelessly wasted and the way they act. Showing up at the band merch wanting free s**t cuz they spent their money on booze. Need a ride home, hold my hair while I puke, hungry but got no money. And immediately want to fight, even though they can barely stand, lol!

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    Rick Hoppenbrouwer
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I always make sure to sober up before I leave work though.

    Shane S
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Alcohol is a drug and a carcinogen in the same class as tobacco, yet alcohol has much better PR and social acceptance. We really need to stop glamorizing it. It’s a drug like any other mood altering substance.

    Tinykame
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I'm a semi functional alcoholic. I do it at home and only on weekends. But I can't seem to have a turn off switch nor leave the s hi t alone

    PegLegShrek
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    And yet it's so pressured into People. "Oh, come on, just one more drink!"

    L hill
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Sure. If you dont mind vomit on your crocs.

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    Alias Delfs
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Hell do you know how many people should from a medical standpoint not consume illicit products (alcohol counts for me) I personally cannot without risk of dying

    Thatkamloopsguy
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I work in retail. I have a goo excuse, sorry.

    Gabi Braun
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    my parents drink 2 to 3 bottles of wine a night. Funny how their new year's resolution was to drink less, (they used to only drink 1 bottle)

    Janet C
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I've never understood how "getting wasted" is a goal. I've had friends and coworkers who'd say something about looking forward to going out on the weekend and say, "We're gonna get so wasted!" as if that's a good thing. Why do that to yourself? Sure, go out, but don't make your goal getting so drunk you can't even remember what you said or did.

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    #36

    "It's Actually Very Odd When You Think About It": 50 Things That Are Considered Normal But Are Weird As Shared By Our Community Being expected to have a gf/bf/ef. Like, seriously, we get it, you want me to be in a relationship. This is especially true in schools with other students.

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    LesAnimaux
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    What pisses me off the most about this is people telling me I just haven't met THE ONE yet. It doesn't cross their mind that maybe I just don't want to be in a relationship.

    Jessi Lovely
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I LOVE being single and people always go “awwww” or “you’ll meet the right one” when I say I’m single. I wasn’t saying it to get a pity party

    Sportsgal
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Don't NEED someone else to complete me! I'm GOOD! 😀

    KING ILLEGAL FOREST
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I know so many people who are so hung up on not being single that they will date literally anyone just for the sake of being in a relationship, even if they're miserable. I just don't get it.

    Lady Luna
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Imagine what this is like for an asexual like myself.

    InvincibleRodent
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    (just gonna slide this in there, "significant other" or "SO" is a much simpler gender-neutral way to refer to one's partner. Much less clunky than the above phrasing.)

    Graham Chapman
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    what's a ef? is it shorthand for elf?? girlfriend/ boyfriend, I except but ef?

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    #37

    "It's Actually Very Odd When You Think About It": 50 Things That Are Considered Normal But Are Weird As Shared By Our Community Showing (and shoving) pictures of babies to strangers. Ummm no

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    Pheebs
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    But… that means it’s weird when I force people to look at my cats, too. 🥺

    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Show your unasked for baby pictures all you want, I understand you're proud. And you deserve to be. Just accept my honest response when I tell you your kid is just as ugly as it's father.

    IlovemydogShilo
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    It's worse when they make you hold the baby . I was lift a few years ago and a woman came in holding her baby. Her phone went off just as the doors shut and she shoved the child into me saying "hold him while I answer this. will you?". The baby need his nappy changing he stank and had snot running from his nose. I just said "no". Well the look the woman gave to me you'd think I' committed the crime of the century.

    Wondering Alice
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Ha. It is worse when you just take the baby! I saw a woman outside Greek supermarket with a small baby, too much shopping and her car keys were clearly not to hand. I yelled over in Greek to wait, I was coming to help - jumped off my bike and took her baby off her before realising she didn't speak Greek. I still feel bad about that, must have really scared her.

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    Kim Blizzard
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Does this include asking a politician to hold/kiss your baby? Because I think that is so bizarre....

    Viviane
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I just smile and try to say something nice. I'm not generally fond of babies, but I don't see the point in being rude. One time, people were ooohing and aaaahing over a baby that had a totally blank expression. I went to play with the baby's older brother who was a lot more fun. Bonus: the mother thanked me for giving him some attention.

    Gozer LeGozerian
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    How is it rude rejecting photos of babies? It's rude to expect everyone else to want to look at the result of your unprotected seggs

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    Bacony Cakes
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    why do babies all look like the pizza monster from zoombinis

    Lady of the Mountains
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    just ask first, normally people will say yes anyway just cuz

    Miss Cris
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    They only say "yes" to be polite... or because they are pedophiles!

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    Mattewis88
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I've found that being unnecessarily honest keeps them from doing it ever again. I refuse to say a kid is cute when they're not.

    Lee
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I had a co worker ask me if I wanted to see her niece's newborn babies and I said no. She SHOVED her phone right in my face and the got very upset when I said "good Lord what is that?!?!" I do not like babies, I said I did not want to see it, you went against my consent so I'll tell you it's not cute

    Jessi Lovely
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    If there’s weren’t child predators this would be normal. The weird bit is assuming someone’s going to be interested in your kids??? Like wtf I don’t want to do another Oscar-award-winning performance on how interesting it is Sara got your nose and Kevin got his grandmother’s 🙄 😂

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    #38

    "It's Actually Very Odd When You Think About It": 50 Things That Are Considered Normal But Are Weird As Shared By Our Community TV shows where you judge people over others because of their talents

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    J. F.
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    4 years ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Some shows cast actors to be especially bad or plain ridiculous to get higher viewer numbers

    Tami
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I think the shows judge only the talents. They don't say you're a bad person because you didn't win. That's made up in the minds of contestants, who maybe need some help with their mental health if they're thinking that way.

    L hill
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I can't stand these shows. Mostly because I hate the sound of constant cheering and clapping and screaming. The world is too noisy as it is. SHUT UP!!!!

    Enlee Jones
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    When was the last time the winners of these shows actually had a career?

    Bettie-Jean Neal
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I'd rather watch a variety show than a "reality" competition.

    L hill
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Yes. Like The Brady Bunch Variety Hour. Now that's a classy show.

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    $cagsy
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    3 years ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I was gonna be on one of those shows until the producers found out that I had a good upbringing, hadn't battled an illness, and that all my loved ones were alive. Dropped me like a stone, they did. At least I might get featured next time as the 'plucky-loser-that-didn't-take-no-for-an-answer-and-is-back-to-try-again-against-all-the-odds'. If that fails who knows, perhaps nan is in for a terrible accident?

    Featherytoad
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Not to mention the fact that they keep coming out with the same shows over and over again every season but, with just a different spin on them.

    Romeoslover
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    anyone remember The Gong Show? It was supposed to be serious but the people who auditioned were so bad that they had to do something different so they made it a comedy by adding comedians and people to dance and what not

    Tinykame
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I love seeing peoples awesome talents! I give standing ovations in my living room for agt, ngl.

    Nikki Sevven
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    It would be fine if contestants were actually judged by their talents. Most of these shows, they've already decided who will win...even if they don't deserve it.

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    #39

    Giving merit to the opinions of actors or famous people based solely on their fame or monetary status. Treating these individuals as if they are gods or goddesses rather than talented ACTORS making a s**t ton of money to entertain us🤷‍♀️

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    Kathryn Baylis
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Especially when most really have no clue what they’re saying. Goes for a lot of people, actually.

    Masen Silas
    Community Member
    3 years ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    SO MANY celebs dont even KNOW/ REMEMBER what movie theyre in... lol

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    Shane S
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    A lot of them are so insulated and surrounded by yes-men and sycophants that they don’t understand the complexity of the subjects they are discussing. Your opinion is literally no more valuable than mine.

    Scott Rackley
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Remember, their main job is playing "pretend"

    Amy Burke
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    same for sporting hero's ... or any other profession .. just get on with your jobs ..

    FABULOUS1
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I hate this one but I am on the opposite end of it. I have that people who are famous are told to sit down and act or just play sports. I dont think they are all treated like gods but they are human beings that are just as entitled to their opinion as non famous people are. Some use their platform for good. But I dont think they should be silenced just because they are famous and we arent

    L hill
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Especially on how to vote.

    Randy Volz
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    When they demonstrate knowledge about that which they speak, they are as welcome to express their opinion as anyone else.

    AnonymousApple
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I don't give merit to people's opinions just because they're famous, but it's not like some famous people don't have perfectly intelligent and insightful opinions.

    Christoph
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    No. I tend to give merit where merit is due. Based on what is said.

    Celtic Pirate Queen
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Gee, like Jenny McCarthy going national with the "fact" that vaccines cause Autism? (which her son, Ethan, does not have BTW, it's something else entirely). I mean, don't you USUALLY get your medical advice/opinions from former playboy bunnies?

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    #40

    Shaking hands. Now you have touched everything I've touched recently, and vice versa.

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    Tami
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I wish we could adopt the bow. But maybe too many people are too egotistical to bow to others.

    Hannah Williams
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    To be quite honest I've always felt uncomfortable with shaking hands anyway so I'm glad I'm not the only one

    John Montgomery
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I still like the idea of going to the Vulcan salute for greetings.

    Russell Speight
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I've studied/taught judo all my life. To bow(rei) is second nature to me. I wish people would understand that it's a respectful greeting.

    Tami
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Right?! It's not like you're surrendering to them in worship or something.

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    Performingyak
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I think it is pretty funny that during covid the campaign was to sneeze into your elbow, but instead of shaking hands you bump elbows....to avoid spread of germs apparently.

    C Lawson
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Holy heck how did I not notice that? I didn't bump elbows with anyone though because I stayed far away from nearly everyone

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    Mosheh Wolf
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Again, people taking something which has been part of human behavior for hundreds of thousands of years, and assuming that it was invented 20 years ago. Normal people enjoy physical contact with other people, and clasping hands demonstrates trust.

    Jon Steensen
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    "Normal people enjoy physical contact with other people". I think that you are ignoring the massive amount of introverts out there and are generalising a bit too much here. It is true that we much experience some intemacy to be well of, but some people can do fine on very little of it, and prefer to only touch a few people they know very well. A handshake can be fine, but during the corona pandemi many people dicovered that the did just fine without it. And especially when it comes to the other common greeting, the hug, many people would actually prefer to avoid it, if they could do so without being considered dismissive and rude. However it has become faux pas to decline both, as it will leave other people diaspointed, and hence many people just swallow up their feeling and participate in the act despite it being a minor step over on their boundaries, which will make them uncomfy.

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    Edurne
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I honestly don't mind shaking people's hand.. but the two greeting kisses, ugh. I just HATE that

    Candia Lee
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    But now I know you don't have a sword and you greet in peace!

    Jon Steensen
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    ...then maybe we should reintroduce the sword and do the sword greating where you hold the blade vertically in front of your face and then swoops it of to the side.

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    Bettie-Jean Neal
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I started bowing a few months ago and really prefer it. I hope it catches on.

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    #41

    Staring at a medium-sized screen on a desk all day then relaxing at home by staring at a bigger screen on the wall while also glancing at a tiny screen in your hand.

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    Tee Witt
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Yes but the one at home is so much more fun, usually I hope.

    Kathryn Baylis
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Because you get to choose what to look at on them. Choice makes everything better.

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    Polly Hart
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Yeah.... But I'm doing this right now so I'm a complete hypocrite 😂😂😂

    Nerdpanda
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I still like doing this,*walks away in I know my own interests and won't be pressured by others to change them even though there is nothing wrong with them*

    #42

    "How did we do?" I'm so tired of being asked to 'rate our performance' Like a bunch of two year olds who want a trophy 'cause they just did a poo poo.

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    Eppe
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    No, they want feedback to improve service, which is a good thing (if they actually follow up on the feedback of course)

    Jon S.
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    How would they know if they are doing badly if you don't tell them?

    Candia Lee
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I appreciate the opportunity to complain and compliment. I like to think my opinion matters.

    Kira Okah
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    It's an invite for feedback - how can someone know what needs improvement if they don't know what needs it?

    SeaLouse_Comics
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Guy asked me that in the drive through of a fast food restaurant. I responded that the service and everything went fine, until it got weird when the person taking my order asked me about a review of their performance (in the second person, of course)

    Celia T
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Corporate makes us do that. If we get criticism (even if its beyond our control) our pay gets dinged. It is stupid to blame us because the prices are high, something is out of stock, or the landlord won’t fix the parking lot lights. The customer has no idea that the person making the least is paying for the bad decisions of upper management.

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    Evelyn Haskins
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    If I am asked to rate my perfomance I say "Good), If I am asked to rate their performance I will take the opportunity to raise any concerns I might have -- otherwise just a tick or 'fine'.

    Celtic Pirate Queen
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    You sucked. You did not solve my problem, nor did you offer a reasonable compromise. No, I will NOT be recommending your services.

    Jon Steensen
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Especially the "how likely are you to recomend our browser to a friend?"-style of questions. I generally give that type of questions the lowest score possible, as recomending software to other people is in general something I really rarely do. I know that this program is your entire life, but in general it plays such an insignificant part in the user's entire life that the peidistal you think you belong on seem a bit out of place.

    Solidhog
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Why don't workers get a chance to do a job performance report on their managers?

    Jon Steensen
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    at the university we got a chance to rate the teachers.

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    #43

    Working more than 40 hours a week, even working overnight. Seriously, if you are going to dedicate all your waking hours to work, is that success?

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    King Joffrey
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Is this success? Not in my book but you'd get a different answer from my boss who thinks you're lazy if you work less than 12 hours a day.

    Heather Talma
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Who will die early from not getting enough sleep.

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    L hill
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    40 hours a week is what I work to pay bills. Lower would be a risk. BUT I refuse to work OVER 40 hours. I don't care how short staffed the place is. I go in, do my job well, I go home and leave work where it belongs.

    Ivy la Sangrienta
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I'd prefer working at night, actually, as I'm an extreme night owl. Perhaps once my kid flies the coop I'll start working nights again. But it still won't be more than 40 hrs a week.

    LesAnimaux
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    At my company it's becoming more normal for people to work 32 hours a week as fulltime. I work 4 days, then have a 3 day weekend. I feel much more in balance.

    Nerdpanda
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    But some people don't have a choice

    Amy Taylor
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    As a film industry worker, we work stupid hours. That hourlong TV show is about 70 plus hours of us making it...lol

    Mattewis88
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    If you have to work that many hours and you're not doing it for yourself, you may need to look at your time management skills.

    RyanRyanRyan
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    If you like your work, sure. I lose track of time and work 15 hours a day sometimes. It's 1:16am right now and I just stopped working at midnight. When I had jobs without enough to do, I took side jobs in the same field even though I already made plenty of money. I'm a software engineer.

    chonky_rubberband
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    i mean its different for healthcare workers and 911 operators and stuff who have to work overnight

    Whodathunkit
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I routinely work 48 hours a week.

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    #44

    Taking sport seriously. I mean, it is fun to watch and fun to do whatever sport you like. But it is and should be just that: a fun way to exercise and meet others. The world is not dependent on wether your team/favourite sports person win or not.

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    Gerard Neaux
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    You mean taking supportership too seriously. Sports can be taken seriously if they're your actual job.

    Candia Lee
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I'm thinking of bodybuilders on steroids ... sport taken too seriously. And maybe we shouldn't pay men to beat each other up for sport.

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    Karin Gibson
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I really do not understand why footballers are paid so much when nurses are paid so little.

    $cagsy
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I agree that nurses should be paid far more. Some footballers get paid a lot, that's also true. But once you drop out of the top levels of football into the second or third tier, wages drop quite spectacularly too. It's like acting. The big star gets millions and the extras get enough for a modest shop at Aldi. I'm not saying feel sorry for footballers, they do alright, but maybe it's worth noting that they are not all millionaire, Ferrari-driving, mansion-dwelling, prima donnas. But yeah, nurses deserve more, definitely. That's a no-brainer. (I know that this won't get many upvotes but please don't downvote me to hell. It's all true!)

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    Kathryn Baylis
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Sports is supposed to teach good sportsmanship; learning to win—-and lose—-graciously and congratulate the other team for playing a good game. Greed ruined that.

    Bettie-Jean Neal
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I briefly dated an Eagles fan. If they didn't win, I wouldn't hear from him for days.

    KING ILLEGAL FOREST
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I lived in Philly the year they lost the super bowl to the Patriots. I got stuck on my friend's couch that night because people were rioting in the streets and I did not feel safe enough to walk home.

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    Paola Martz
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Here in Mexico, many football (soccer) matches end up in massive brawls. That's just stupid. I mean, I like football, both watching and playing it, but some people take it as it was their whole personality and would start a fight with anyone disagreeing with them

    Otter
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Worse, taking school kids' sports seriously! My breeding co-workers can spend hours and hours talking about their grade school and high school kids' sports teams... and they think it's not only normal, but INTERESTING!!!

    FABULOUS1
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    So you are saying that I should stop yelling at my neighbor across the street each season to tell him his football team sucks? Sorry but its the fun part of it. I know some take it to serious and it could because money due to betting is involved but I love football season. I wouldnt even let my brother come watch the superbowl at my house this past season because I didnt want his negativity in the air while my team was playing. It can get a little serious but I love the people I get to talk s**t to every season and tell them how much I think their team sucks and they tell me it right back.

    Briana Kessler
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I disagree. Sports can be a good, healthy outlet for someone to focus on. It can be good for your body, reduce stress, and just fun to not be serious about all the bills and politics in real life.

    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    That was kind of what I meant. It should be fun to watch and fun to participate - and for way too many it is not.

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    Leah Williams
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    4 years ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    It's as if they crave to be the audience of a battle and the teams are more than just sports teams or something haha smh

    Miguel justino C
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    It’s also annoying when athletes say “it’s gonna be a war, we’re going into battle”. Then they throw fits and cry when they don’t get a penalty. Timeouts, commercial breaks, trainers rubbing your legs and people squirting Gatorade in your mouth because you can’t hold the bottle yourself is not a fricking war.

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    Solidhog
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    True in the UK where we have serious fights and even murders over soccer. Even more funny is that so many of these fans are so homophobic that many footballers are scared to come out as gay, but these same fans are happy to walk around wearing a shirt with another man's name on their back that they adore.

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    #45

    When female celebrities can touch/kiss/smack/whatever a male colleague and it's not considered harassment

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    IlovemydogShilo
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    It's like this IRL as well. I have seen women slap men in pubs or other public places during an argument and storm out and nobody would bat an eyelid. Some of them would say "He probably deserved it". But if a man did this all hell would break loose and the police would be called.

    Thay
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Ikr. I thought we wanted equality here so why is this okay?

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    El Dee
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    This behaviour is slowly but surely dying. Bad behaviour is unacceptable doesn't matter who's doing it. The fact this comment is here proves it..

    lara
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Gee, who woulda thought that there is a double standard? I am so shocked to see that some women are considered above normal, polite, courteous behavior.

    Jessi Lovely
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Hitting men in general, like even if a man hits another man it’s not seen as bad as if a man hits a woman. And then women hitting each other is sometimes sexualised lmaooo wtf

    Remington Greer
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    One thing that still gets me is cardi b outright admitting to drugging and stealing from men and her sycophants are all like "make those money moves" but if a guy were to do that, he'd be crucified

    Melissa
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Are you sure? Chris Brown still has a career despite brutalizing a woman almost to her death.

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    Gaby Almodovar
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Giving your real name and dates on social surfaces. Like the Bored Panda.

    Enamelcamel
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    In my early 30's (F), I was telling a sexist joke ABOUT MEN in my brother's office (brokerage trading desk - all men), and they were all good sports who laughed. My brother took me aside afterward and asked how come sexist jokes were okay if women told them ... but not men? It was a perceptive question, and I've never forgotten it. Don't BECOME that which you find icky in others.

    Missy Moo Moo
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I went to the shooting range today and the guy there couldn't keep his hands to himself. I got groped, touched, brushed against, nudged. And that was only today. So if men can't stop doing what they do, why shouldn't women do it too. So women should do it more often... equality?

    Evelyn Haskins
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    'Celebrities' are simply acting. The 'public' exoect it!

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    #46

    Stopping what you're doing to answer the phone. Would you immediately stop what your doing to talk if someone was nearby shouting ring ring ring ring, I'm stopping in 10 seconds if you dont talk to me? No, you'd ignore them until they leave.

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    Supernatural
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    That's a really weird analogy

    Kathryn Baylis
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    4 years ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I think they’re talking about people who will interrupt delicate and/or important face-to-face conversations in favor of a non-emergency call from a friend who just wants to bullshit about nothing important with them. You don’t have to answer every call. No one should have to be THAT available.

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    Eucritta
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I don't think this is weird at all. I assume if someone calls, and it's a legit call, then whatever it is, is fairly urgent. Texts and email are for news that can be read & answered at leisure.

    Supernatural
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    So you don't think the comparison of a phone call to someone standing and shouting "ring!ring!" Is weird? Ok.....

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    Jane Alexander
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    In a shop, answering the phone while a customer waits, money in hand, right in front of you. If you don't tell the caller you'll be right with them then get back to me, I'll walk out and you can put all my intended purchases right back on the shelves.

    Angeline Shalyn
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    A lady at my work did this the other day, I work front desk in a doctors office and she was talking to a patient on the phone , and then her personal cellphone rings and she puts the patient on hold for 10 minutes so she can answer her personal phone, rude

    MyOpinionHasBeenServed
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    .... I usually stop what I'm doing when someone talks to me. If I'm busy I'll let them know I can't talk. Simple.

    Heather Vandegrift
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    One reason I hate calling people and answering calls: I don't know if they are available, and it seems rude to just insinuate myself into their time because it's convenient for ME! I tell everyone who wants to call me to send me a text first so I can set that time aside to talk, or tell them I can't.

    GFSTaylor
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I phoned a friend the other day just to chat. She answered happily, and mentioned that they were still eating, rather later than usual because they'd been out. I simply asked if I should call back later. We settled on half an hour. I called back 40 minutes later and we had a good, long natter. If you call someone, you can always ask if it's convenient to talk. If a call is not convenient for you, say so, and arrange a better time. No one will mind.

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    Alexej Dvorak
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    4 years ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    That's because you can tell those weird people around you that you'll be there in a minute if you want to, but a ringing phone is literally a technical means to announce the desire to communicate. Like, what are you gonna do instead?

    Joanna Werman
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Yes. If I'm in a conversation I don't stop the conversation to have a new one

    Kathryn Baylis
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    3 years ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Worse. Being forced to drop everything to answer calls on your multi line desk phone WHILE being expected to finish your regular pile of work on time. Multitasking is a myth, assholes. You choose. You want me just answering all 3 lines on my phone and dealing with that work as it comes in, or do you want me concentrating on my huge pile of everyday off-phone work you expect done by the end of the day? One or the other. NOT both.

    Zedrapazia
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    It seems to be a very American thing to hate phonecalls in my experience. I live in Switzerland and have never had an issue with calls, however, it's not like I'd have ever been spammed with them. Not sure why the US dislikes it so much to have calls with friends and family.

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    #47

    The kiss hello greeting, why do people do this?

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    Tiny Dynamine
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Because it's cultural. It's not normal in the UK, but I like it when I meet friends from abroad and can greet them like this. It's much more affectionate.

    All's Gravy
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    It's perfectly usual and common in the UK. But I do think it's a class thing.

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    Kate
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Because they're European...?

    IlovemydogShilo
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I hate this. I just refuse to do it. Nothing wrong with shaking hands or at most as far as relatives are concerned a quick hug.

    Viau Anna
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    As long as it's consensual, who are you to tell people what they should or shouldn't do?

    lara
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    It is a really big deal in Russia. If you do not make a big deal of greeting someone they think that you are rude. The "greeting" scenes in Dr. Zhivago made Russians laugh.

    All's Gravy
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    To kiss on the cheek one has to get very close. With the closeness, one can 'frisk' for weaponry. You can also see/smell for illness/health. A common greeting from ancient Babylonian and Persian cultures; it is Biblical references which starts the tradition. But became popular in Europe with the Christian Crusades. It was originally a chivalrous signature between nobles and knights - an imitation of the allegiance of the Apostles to Christ. A kiss on each cheek is normal but in some cultures this is extended to three kisses. The multiple kisses may have evolved to distinguish between the kiss of betrayal Christ received.

    All's Gravy
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Edit: illness/health thing shows no fear/trust in the other person.

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    Kika González
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Eeeewww, no. Kiss hello greetings are a cultural thing in many cultures.

    Mattewis88
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Very normal in our culture. Even men greet other males in the family with a kiss. Stop making other people's cultures sound weird when you have a warped sense of something.

    Jon S.
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    There's a biblical command to do this. Its called the kiss of peace

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    #48

    Thinking the customer is always right.... No, in fact, they are not.

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    Local foodie
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    The phrase is “the customer is always right in matters of taste” which means that if someone is buying something you think is ugly or tacky, just let them buy it. Not that you should bend over backward for a customer’s will

    Brenda
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    No, many times they're just a$$holes

    Thatkamloopsguy
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    This is one phrase that needs to disappear and when it does you will see a change in customer attitude.

    BasedWang12.2
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    More often than not, they are wrong

    Doge
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    That was never meant to mean an individual customer is right. At no point would any business think that, as an individual may ask for unreasonable things. It's referring to an overall customer base and consumer behavior trends. (e.g. u may think your product is great or cheap etc. , but if no one buys it you are wrong) Only idiotic Karen types ever thought it meant a single customer is always right.

    #49

    Tipping! Pay servers a living wage already so they don't feel like they have to perform to make a living. Their job is to take your order, bring your food and answer questions about the menu, not to be your friend. Also every counter has a tip jar now. Don't make me feel guilty for not tipping when I know your wage does not depend on it. Rarely does tipping in general make sense, pay people a living wage and include it in the price of a service.

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    Kathryn Baylis
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Yeah, but management’s idea of a better wage still won’t be enough. Hell, Amazon spent god knows how much on commercials where they pat themselves on the backs for offering a measly 15 f*****g bucks per hour, which is far from enough to live on. They should’ve used that money to pay their employees, instead of stroking their own egos. And blasting off in their d**k rockets.

    James016
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I’m currently on holiday in Florida. Last night we went to the Olive Garden for the first time ever. Our server was great so he got a good tip from us. The bill actually has tip amounts based on a percentage of our bill. It was just under $100 so it has amounts for 15%, 18% and 20%. I have never seen this before. We left just over 20. As my SIL is with us and it’s he first time in the USA we had to explain why we tipped that much. Basically the server does not get paid a living wage and it’s expected here to give a good tip. I should say I don’t know how much Olive Garden pays their servers.

    Arthur Waite
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    When the pandemic hit, (in Canada), I started tipping quite a lot more for the usual things, wait-persons mostly. One time, when s(he) noticed the amount, and commented/thanked me, I replied 'This is not a gratuity; this is an investment. Because I want you to do well at your job, and be here next time I'm in. And I want the restaurant to be here, too.'

    Christoph
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    No one pays a living wage. I made GREAT money on tips because I was really good.

    Tee Witt
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Never would use a tip jar, often does not reach who it is intended for.

    #50

    People expecting you to tiptoe around their fragile, underdeveloped emotions so you don't "hurt" them. They'll expect you to change your behavior to suit them and their beliefs, but they won't change to respect yours.

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    Joanne Fabrick
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Is someone grouchy? I think it's a fair expectation that people treat eachother well and with kindness.

    Tee Witt
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Gosh this is so true, you could have many personal issues but do not voice them, do not expect others to tiptoe around you.

    Kathryn Baylis
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Worse, those “expecting you to tiptoe around their fragile, underdeveloped emotions”, so they don’t hurt you.

    Jules
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    It is OK to be offended.

    JMil
    Community Member
    Premium
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Nope. Not this one. That last sentence? What hypocrisy.

    #51

    The stigma associated with having incontinence and having to use some form of protection for “leaks” be it catheters and bags or absorbent underwear (of any type) I was in an RTC that caused damage to some of the nerves in my spine and now have days where I can not control my bladder at all, for these days I choose to use what is colloquially called fitted briefs (adult size nappies/diapers) as they are more comfortable and easier to change that the catheter and bags. There should not be any shame in having to use bladder protection nor should people be made to feel like they are peculiar for wearing absorbent underwear of any type.

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    Eglė Bukauskaitė
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    3 years ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Period panties ftw!! Those are quite size inclusive!

    Jordi Sharpe
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I was really annoyed when people started saying that Trump was wearing diapers. Who cares? It's not something to shame people about. And besides, there are literally hundreds of other, more profane things to excoriate him over.

    Sportsgal
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    What's RTC? A car wreck? No shame over something that happened to you.

    Emmydearest
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Exactly. Would you shame a person that needs a bypass or a wheelchair? Obviously not. Adult diapers and such are medical devices so I really don't understand the stigma.

    Penny Hernandez
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Life must have been really smelly before all these products were inventted.

    #52

    Blessing people when they sneeze but not for anything else like coughing or hiccups. Why??

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    Thorfin Wolfsbane
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I'm with you on this one. I heard it's origins have to do with the belief that at the moment of sneeze a demon could swoop in and possess you, so saying a blessing helps prevent that. Now you have to say it; and if you don't people get offended for some reason. I was roommates with a woman from Berlin and she said to say gesundheit, explaining it meant, roughly, 'don't die from the plague'. She was probably joking.

    Samantha Lomb
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    It has to do with disease and coughing or sneezing being a symptom of a disease that could kill you, so you bless the person to wish them health. Hiccups are just diaphragmatic spasms. You won't die from them and they are not contagious.

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    lara
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    During the pneumonic plague, the form of the bubonic plague that infects the lungs, death was generally within two days. So when people sneezed at that time they were blessed in case they did have the plague and might die.

    J. F.
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    We germans say "Gesundheit" (Health) as wish for the other person to be or to get healthy

    Shylee G
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    People say bless you because a sneeze was like sin leaving your body or a demon entering or something similar to that, and so Puritans would bless those who sneezed because of this. They didn't believe these things for coughs or burps or anything else. I still think its weird, which is why I always go with the classic "gesundheit"

    Wondering Alice
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    If some one says bless you if I fart, I'm going to think you started this. Now I'm thinking about it though.......

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    Kaleb
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I only say it because the old movie leprechaun if he made you sneeze three times without somebody saying bless you he would take you!

    Kristie French
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I prefer “You’re so good lookin!”

    Reynard
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I have always had a thing about this one. I mean, why do we need to ackowledge a sneeze when someone does it? I've been told 'because it's polite'. What does that even mean? The idea of it is born out of superstition and it just persists. 'Just because it's polite' is a terrible excuse. It's polite to hold a door for someone behind you, or to say please and thank you, but just to aknowledge a bodily function? How so? Because society has done so for centuries? That's a dumb reason.

    Tami
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I always hated that at the office. First, there's the explosive disturbance of someone sneezing once or twice. And then someone has to call attention to it with another disturbance by saying, "Bless you", sometimes yelling it from a couple aisles over. Enough already!

    Stephanie IV
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Sneezing might occur early when you had the plague.

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    #53

    Nice people who are generally polite and decent creating an anonymous identity so they can be rude and hostile. I also don't understand the ride-or-die mentality some people have for social media. Everyone I really love (as in, I would donate a kidney to this person), I can call directly, and I know their name and where they live. And we don't send each other manipulated photos and stuff, because why bother? We know what we look like.

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    Miguel justino C
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I always say they’re not your friend if you don’t know their phone number. Get arrested, fall in a river, lose your purse or backpack, get mugged. All sorts of scenarios can leave you without your phone book. The saying “will your Facebook friends help you move” comes to mind.

    Candia Lee
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I have one friend like that, the one of two numbers I have memorized. I once ran out of gas on Christmas Eve, called him, and he found a mutual friend to go rescue me.

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    Anonymous
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I didn't do it so I could be hostile. I did it because I have VERY unpopular opinions.

    Jordi Sharpe
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I try to be the same person online that I am in real life. If I say something onlineto someone, I like to think that I'd have the temerity to say it to their face.

    Nerdpanda
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Being nice means absorbing all those insults and can never react,so we vent out... On the internet...or on rusty scrap metal

    Tenacious Squirrel
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    People who live in the same place as their family/friends don’t really have the same need for online methods of connection as those of us who have friends all over the place - and by that I mean all over the world. No, I can’t go and see the vast majority my friends or any of my family as we’re all thousands of miles apart and the time differences are immense, so keeping connected online is a brilliant idea way to stay in touch/connected to each other’s lives. I’ve also literally not been able to see anyone overseas for 2 years due to our borders being closed (due to COVID). It annoys me that people assume everyone’s friends are just round the corner and anyone you can’t go and see/visit is some kind of fake/online friend.

    #54

    Documenting every moment with a posted photo.

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    Kathryn Baylis
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Like the rest of us really care, and apparently have all the time in the world to waste on you. The time it would take for me to look at the pictures or video from your dinner out would be better spent on my own life. Outside of the inner core of people who truly care about you, you are not as important as you think you are.

    Kristie French
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Don’t forget the doctoring of said photos.

    #55

    Graduation ceremonies for Elementary and Middle School.

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    Tee Witt
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    You forgot kindergarten. Purely a USA idiotic thing, no where else needs this.

    Yo Momma
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Why shouldn't kids get feel good when going to a different grade school? (elem to middle, middle to high) Why should only seniors get the celebration? Agree to disagree on this one.

    Featherytoad
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I don't know where this came from or when it started. I had a graduation for 8th grade and 12th grade.

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    #56

    worshipping a corpse of a tortured guy nailed to the cross

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    King Joffrey
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    You don't worship the corpse but the sacrifice and I say that as a full blown atheist.

    Mel
    Community Member
    4 years ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Non Denominational Christians do not worship the cross but the risen Savior. Jesus rose again on the third day. We remember his sacrifice but worship the living Jesus. I believe Catholics do worship the cross though.

    Libstak
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Not the Cross but the sacrifice. His words on the cross that saved humanity were "Father forgive them for they know not what they do". It was his cross to bear...

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    Tami
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Well, it's the idea of the thing actually: forgiveness and self-sacrifice.

    Generic Account
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Commenting on other people's religious beliefs

    LesAnimaux
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Using religion as an excuse to exclude people is what's really baffling to me

    Step
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    No one worships a corpse, but alright than. As you were.

    Kerri Russ
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    This should be at the very top.

    BasedWang12.2
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Never have understood this. Forgot to mention that he was a carpenter who got nailed to wood. Those authors were assholes

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    #57

    The feeling when a youtuber says: "LIKE, SUBSCRIBE, AND TURN ON THE NOTIFICATIONS OR ELSE THIS CENTIPEDE, SLENDER MAN, AND TARANTULA WILL HAUNT YOU WHEN YOUR SLEEPING" or "LIKE, SUBSCRIBE, AND TURN ON THE NOTIFICATIONS AND YOU'LL GET 9,999,999,999,999,999,999,999,999,999,999,999,999,999,999,999,999,999,999,999,999,999,999,999,999,999,999,999,999,999,999,999,999,999,999 AMAZING YEARS OF VERY GOOD AND PROMISING LUCK"

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    Kathryn Baylis
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Websites that won’t allow you to join without ticking the box to accept notifications you don’t want. I clip coupons before grocery shopping. The brand websites are notorious for this, so I create new email addresses to sign up with, and don’t care how overcrowded with bullshit notifications they become, because I never look at them.

    Laurie Ostergaard-Overbey
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    i like YT, i learn a lot from some videos, it can be awesome. but you're absolutely right. let me watch your video, then I GET TO DECIDE if i want to 'like/sub". you just irritate me with all that other crap. OH, and also: i really don't need your life story, a tour or your place and kids, or a 5 minute intro to get to a how-to demo....good lord

    SAVE THE CHINCHILLAS!!!
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Or like "only 10% of you guys are subscribed, that means only 10% of you guys are actually cool. If you wanna be cool subscribe"

    FabulousMari
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    well i guess it's better than those chain mail letters from back in the day. It's the same message, just a different format. The real question is, who originated the chain mail letter?...

    Tiny Dynamine
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Also, just the constant reminders to like, comment and subscribe. Yeah, I think we know what to do if we would like to do any of those things.

    #58

    Having fun with friends by drinking until you can't remember what happens 😅

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    LesAnimaux
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I don't drink alcohol at all and I still have fun at parties.

    Lsai Aeon
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Same, it's more fun to watch everyone else make fools of themselves

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    LeeBreezy
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    i dont black out at parties, i jam to paul mccartney, if ask me how i doing i say.....well...

    El Dee
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    If you HAVE to do this then you have an alcohol problem..

    Susan Albert
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I never understood the I must drink to have fun mentality.

    Thay
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    4 years ago

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    Seems like you are guilty as charged lmao. I miss those days😆

    #59

    That people happily and willingly pay several thousand more for clothes, bags and shoes just so they can go around and do commercial for a company like Nike or Gucci. So you are telling me that you have paid 1000 dollars for a pair of shoes, so you can go around advertising for Nike and they dont even pay you for that? A thing they normally pay several 1000 dollars to get, you not only do for absolutly free, but they also made you believe you were cool and smart when doing it? And you think it is a great idea? Ok.

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    Rick Hoppenbrouwer
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Like buying a truck and the dealers name is in big letters across the back window when I went to pick it up. Gave them the option to remove it, keep the truck or pay me $400.00 a month for advertising. Funny how fast it was removed.

    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    exactly. the funny part is people who wear this clothes will defend their reasons to wear till their death bed: " oh no, I just wear it because I like the style, it is not because it is expensive so others might think I am worth spending time with" ( since they apperently have no personality of their own worth to spend time with) yeah right......

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    LesAnimaux
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Paying a lot more just for the brand name is ridiculous anyway.

    Kathryn Baylis
    Community Member
    4 years ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Especially since people from old money families (the other side of my mother’s family were old money) will tell you the true mark of being fashionable is to have your clothes made specifically for you by a professional tailor. They’re one of a kind, so no one else will be wearing the exact same thing you are, because only one was made for you. Expensive, sure, unless you’re good at sewing for yourself. But unique to you, and you alone.

    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    what a stupid thing to use motheir money for. the planet is dying, people are starving, but they wanna use their money for extra expensive clothes just so they can feel one of a kind? way to show you are an arogant selfish asshole.... jesus, they must have a very low self esteem. grow some balls, and start helping instead you moron.....>.<

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    King Joffrey
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I don't think a Gucci bag is any better than a normal bag but what it does is it screams "I can afford it and you can't" which is horrible in itself.

    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    well at least it makes them easier to spot, and therey stay far away from them, even from a distance...

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    Libstak
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Spending 100 grand for a handbag gets me. You spend what to carry your c**p around with you?

    FabulousMari
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Did my Dad post this? He instilled this in me as a child and I totally agree. Now I vote every day with when and how I spend my money or my time.

    Brenda
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    They actually HAVE to remove it if asked

    SCP 4666
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I think this is called "brand addiction"

    Laurie Ostergaard-Overbey
    Community Member
    4 years ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    oh i love this one! i buy all my clothes (and anything else actually) either clearance or second hand. i have better things to do with my money. entire outfits, top to bottom (ok, i do buy my underwear new , on sale lol) accessories, whole thing, ten bucks.

    Lara Verne
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Or people "improving" regular clothes with DIY giant expensive brand logos.

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    #60

    Parents encouraging their young children to sit on Santa's lap.

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    Kerri Russ
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    And this is bad why? It's a good thing to visit Santa, see the smiles and giggles. Now my son just cried on Santa's lap so he didn't want to but if a kid wants to, why not?

    S Mi
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    They didn't say bad. The title of this says weird. It is weird that we get our children to sit in some stranger, so dressed up we couldn't pick him out again if we tried, to take a picture. Weird doesn't have to be bad. Honestly, I can't believe Halloween isn't on here. I love it, but what a weird set of traditions.

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    #61

    pressuring gender roles. but also: pressuring gender identity. not everyone who likes nail polish is a girl and not everyone who likes sports is a guy. there is no need to suggest to change someone's pronouns or cut off penis or breasts just because they don't fit into stereotypes 100%.

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    #62

    Letting assholes and idiots, basically all who have no shame, talk whatever they want because it's seen as socially awkward or pointless for decent people to challenge their behavior.

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    Kathryn Baylis
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    4 years ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    All it takes is just one brave soul to step up and tell them to “just shut the f**k up, you’re just showing everyone how ignorant you are”—-in just the right tone of voice—-and they’ll dummy up and skulk off into the corner. Sounds mean, but sometimes an asshole like this just need to finally get their long overdue comeuppance.

    FabulousMari
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    When people talk on speaker phone, I like to comment to myself on their conversations. Not loudly but I dare them to say I'm being rude. Sorry Brenda, I think you're dead wrong for gossiping about Susan's pregnancy ankles!

    Penny Hernandez
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Ask such people, in a caring and kindly tone, if they are suffering from the Kruger Dunning effect. (That's when people are so ignorant they don't know what they don't know and think they know everything.)

    #63

    The incredible obsession with pushing an alternative gender identity/sexuality. By all means you do you boo but it's so much in my face anymore and everyone gets super offended when addressed incorrectly. Ok scenario: I'm in a Starbucks about to pick up my drink and me being my polite self says to the seemingly female barista by the name of star "thank you ma'am" (I regrettably live in the bible belt of the US) and she snaps at me "actually it's sir." Bitch I don't know you and you look like a girl I'm going to address you as such. Don't get pissy with me.

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    Jen Perea
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    "snaps" or politely corrects? And I agree with cookie panda, avoid gender specific terms if you don't like being corrected. I got news for you, your ego and need to not ever be seen as incorrect doesn't trump anyone else's right to autonomy about how they want to be addressed.

    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Again, cool story bro as I stated in the south it is standard to say ma'am and sir to everyone and it's not my job to walk on egg shells with every random person I meet to try not to offend them with a simple ma'am or sir. 😘

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    Cookie Panda
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Well if you don’t want people to get mad, just don’t use gendered terms. Just say “thank you”. if you say mam or sir it’s just too easy to offend someone. And if you personally know someone, just ask their preferred terms.

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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Ok cool story as I stated in the south it is standard to say ma'am and sir to everyone and it's not my job to walk on egg shells with every random person I meet to try not to offend them with a simple ma'am or sir. 😘

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    El Dee
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    We should wonder why we feel the need to address people by what they have between their legs. We simply don't need to. In the above example as simple 'Thank you' would have done..

    Lsai Aeon
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Ok, y'all I get what Sam is saying. I'm in the south too and it was literally beat into some of us. You say "Yes Ma'am/Sir, No Ma'am/Sir, Thank you Ma'am/Sir" period end of discussion and if you deviated from this as a child you were slapped, smacked upside the back of the head, or spanked. It's INGRAINED in some of us, we're expecting the beating that comes with not using these words

    Yo Momma
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I grew up in the south as well and will use ma'am and sir all the time. Its my manners and I will not stop.

    David Struve
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    4 years ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I was thinking about this the other day, and I came to the realization that I don't think I've ever actually called anyone "sir" or "ma'am" outside of the years I was in the Air Cadets. Even during that time I thought it was weird that up to a certain rank, you call out their rank when engaging with them (like "yes, Sergeant!") but beyond a certain rank it's suddenly "sir" or "ma'am" rather than just their rank. Not even my ex-Air Force dad required me to call him anything other than just "dad". And it's not that I'm impolite or even rude - I say please and thank you all the time and have lovely chats with all sorts of people. I just have always referred to people by name or instinctively used "they" in natural conversation unless they are my family members as using the terms "sir/ma'am" seems too weirdly formal to me and just doesn't roll off my tongue in any kind of natural flow during regular conversation.

    Jessi Lovely
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    What does looking like a girl mean? It’s the very foundations of what gender really means that needs to change. This “scenario” is totally acceptable imo.

    Theo Blackwood
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    You know that Starbucks baristas wear name tags right? So unless they’ve got a gender neutral name I don’t see how you could have got it wrong.

    Jules
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    YES! Be whatever the hell you want to be but just get on with your life. And if you look and behave like a typical male/female you can't reprimand people if they get it wrong.

    BasedWang12.2
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    If they actually snapped back then thats bogus. The intent was to be polite.

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    #64

    Working for a living. I had an interesting career, as a researcher and academic. I liked my students, staff and colleagues. Since retiring I've realized how oppressive it all was.

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    King Joffrey
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I don't need to retire to realise how oppressive work is but these bills won't pay themselves and I wasn't fortunate enough to grow up with money...

    JMil
    Community Member
    Premium
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Yeah. Let's only make farmers, hydrologists, firemen, police officers, tradesmen, officials, teachers, etc work. Then the rest of us can enjoy food, water, an educated populace, and have housing in a safe and organized environment. Without working nor being oppressed.

    #65

    People who say "you made me do this". Dude, you're in control of your body and your actions. It's not like my soul leaped out of my body and possessed you to do this. SMH

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    LesAnimaux
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    After years of emotional abuse I can say for certain that 'you made me do this' applies because I was brainwashed into believing it was the right thing to do. Yes I did the things myself, but looking back it wasn't my choice.

    El Dee
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    'Look what you made me do' An old favourite of gaslighters everywhere..

    Jessi Lovely
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Anyone grow up I fundamentalist religion/cult? I can proudly say “They made me do this” for a lot of things because I was NOT in control.

    Jen Perea
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    You've clearly never been bullied or the victim of an abusive love relationship. It's not black and white.

    Kathryn Baylis
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    True. Whether we’re conscious of it or not, we choose our actions/reactions. Unless they’re threatening you (real threat, or perceived), no one “makes” you do anything. YOU are the one choosing to do it. If it’s something bad, then YOU are the one not using your critical thinking skills to consider all possible outcomes of your actions, and choosing the least destructive one. Your fault, not theirs.

    Jen Perea
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I have level one autism. When certain people figure out how to trigger me, unfortunately, sometimes they do it incessantly and the behavior that I go into is both my behavior and completely out of my control. Believe me, none of us want to be screaming like a 4 year old and curled up on the ground because we literally can't process or make the bullies stop/go away/just leave us alone. I have sobbed, asked, wrote down, sought support, compromised, begged, and lost it trying to beg for the harassment to stop. And then when I lose my s*** I get called a crazy b****.

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    EpicWolfandSparrow
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Hoe many people are saying this to you that it's become a problem? Either you're controlling or being controlled it seems like

    #66

    Narrating one's life. My mom announces EVERYTHING she is doing/going to do. "I'm gonna ago brush my teeth." I can see announcing a shower so no one flushes the toilet or starts a load of laundry. But every tiny thing? Ugh.

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    Christoph
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Maybe you used to freak out as a kid whenever mom disappeared.

    Stephanie A Mutti
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Sometimes it's being offered as an opportunity to do something before I trot off. "I'm heading to the bathroom" is silently followed by "so if you need anything or wonder where I've dissappeared to etc"

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    Lsai Aeon
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Depends on the situation. I announce when I have to go to the bathroom at home because of nerve damage that causes me to not get the body notification that I need to go until it's almost too late and I need everyone to clear the way so it isn't too late.

    Emmydearest
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    And what about people who narrate their life? Like my father, while doing a chore or something, narrates what he's doing/thinking, what's happening and what he's about to do. For example: "now I'll make dinner. I'll start chopping the onions. Where are the onions? Ah here they are. Oh that reminds me, I have to go buy some more tomorrow. Ok now zucchini... Chop chop chop. Ah perfect. Now I'll boil the pasta. Spaghetti? Nah, penne is better. Ok, penne it is..." He's not talking to anyone, he's just talking to himself out loud. I genuinely think some people love their own voice so much they like to hear it all the time.

    KING ILLEGAL FOREST
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    My mother is like this. I think she just has no inner monologue so she needs to say every single thought out loud.

    Eglė Bukauskaitė
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    i do that as a warning that i'll take the one bathroom for a longer period of time - go use it now

    Tami
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Oh geez, my mom too. Plus she makes a big deal of it whenever she burps or farts. I find it rather vulgar.

    She
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    This annoys me so much in movies and in books!

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    #67

    Over eating at the holidays. Why? It's like you can't celebrate a holiday unless you end it laying on the couch, belt undone, pants unsnapped, slowly going comatose from all the food you just ate.....

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    J. F.
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    4 years ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Holiday celebrations are often group activities, and we humans tend to eat a lot more when we're eating with company

    Caro Caro
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    That's true, and then you open up another bottle of wine and there's cheese so ....

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    Amy G
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    That is the best thing about the holidays, in my opinion. All my favorite carby foods that I don’t really get to enjoy the rest of the year? You bet I’m going to overdo it and regret NOTHING.

    Big Blue Cat
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    "It doesn't matter how you eat between Christmas and New Year, it matters how you eat between New Year & Christmas".

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    Jon S.
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Hunter-gathers go through feasts and famine phases when different resources come become available. So periodic cycles of over-indulgence, often accompanied by social bonding rituals are very, very deeply ingrained in our past, perhaps even having a genetic basis. You over-indulged or you staved in the lean months.

    Nehla Zikria
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Human beings have an inclination to overdue and exaggerate things, and celebrations and holidays gives s person to overdue things and thus he or she eats himself or herself to death.

    Viviane
    Community Member
    4 years ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    So I'm risking my life if I accept second helpings of my sister's amazing borscht? Damn, I had no idea it was *literally* to die for.   :(

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    Kathryn Baylis
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    4 years ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Maybe some people are strict with their diets the other 360-odd days of the year, and the holidays are a chance to reward their hard work by “letting their hair down” and indulging themselves for a couple hours that day. Besides, some food is only made or sold at certain times of the year, so we have it while we can. Basically it’s periodic overindulgence, and is usually done in moderation anyway, as the funny thing about eating healthy the rest of the year is that you tend to not gorge yourself when given the chance, even if it’s totally acceptable to do so.

    Miguel justino C
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Plus road trips. Driving 8 hours doesn’t require a bag of snacks. I wouldn’t eat all that crap on a regular day, why does the car bring that out in people

    EpicWolfandSparrow
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Cause I need my snackies! And it keeps kids quiet. And if I'm not eating I think I would distract the driver by talking nonstop. I eat for safety😂

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    Incitatus
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I must stuff as much Thanksgiving in as possible, because of the lack of Thanksgiving the other 364 days of the year.

    King Joffrey
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    It's because this is what people would do everyday if there were no consequences. Same with drinking too much, etc. So people pick a few days when it's ok to do it without being judged.

    Jessi Lovely
    Community Member
    3 years ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    All mammals do this hahaha binobos our closest relatives will masturbate each other if there’s an abundance of food cos they’re happy lol

    Nerdpanda
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I like the blissfulness of knowing there is no school tomorrow tho

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    #68

    Being called a Karen when you did nothing like a Karen...

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    cookie
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Honestly though. Like my mom isn't a Karen by any means, but she will complain when it's needed, like one time when I was eleven, a group of staff were talking at the counter, and they would loudly using vulgar words, at a family restaurant. And being a mother of two kids, both under the age of 12, she got upset. The staff didn't listen and just continued talking like before, after twenty minuets the manager was called. The manager heard what happened and suggested to pay for the meal. And almost all the staff was calling her a Karen!

    Susan Albert
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Many Karens don't think they are Karens.

    LesAnimaux
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    It comes to a point that I feel bad for people whose real name is Karen

    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    My mom is named Karen ...she's the nicest person you'll ever meet 😁

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    4 years ago

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    #69

    There are some foods (meat with bones, iceberg lettuce) that would be much easier to eat with our hands, but “good manners” require us to use utensils for. To me, it would make much more sense to drink soup out of a bowl than to spoon it to my lips from a bowl sitting on a table!

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    DannX68
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    The joys of living alone ... :D

    EpicWolfandSparrow
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    In informal (family/home) situations, I eat leftovers, especially steak or meat in general, with my hands. If I sit down to eat with the fam, yes I'll use silverware, but dang hands are easier. It's what they're gosh darn made for dangit!

    #70

    Not being interested in experiencing life without the mental filters that bias every perception according to our own limited experiences.

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    Angelar
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    "Being too attached to ones comfort zone to live a life worth living" ? Just rephrasing for a short digestive tract ;) If I could, I would give you 1000 points.

    Kathryn Baylis
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    A kind of learned helplessness. Locking themselves in mental and emotional cages, and throwing away the keys to the freedom of expanding their minds and lives. And they find having such small lives and minds completely acceptable. What a waste.

    Otter
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I don't think that humans can get rid of mental filters that bias all our perceptions. They're there, even if you've convinced yourself that you've overcome them.

    King Joffrey
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Yes but the flipside is that if I learnt something through my own experience, I don't need an academic source to validate it.

    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    It's all about experiencing for yourself, not relying on knowledge learned from external sources.

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    Kat Zwingle
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Sounds nice, not really possible I think. I think we can change the filters, but I'm not sure we can eliminate them.

    Mewton’s Third Paw
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    This has been, “I am 14, and This Is Deep.”

    Angelar
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    4 years ago

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    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Filters = xenophobia, distorted self-perceptions, attachment to appearances, greed, the list goes on...

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    #71

    Not being to talk about your pay at work.

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    Tiny3000
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    That is illegal. If your workplace has this rule, that is an immediate red flag and you should report them immediately

    Brenda
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    IT IS NOT ILLEGAL IN THE US! In fact, it is a protected right. Most employers don't want you to talk about it because then people know who's under paid and who's over paid for the same jobs. YOU CAN'T BE PENALIZED OR FIRED FOR DISCUSSING YOUR PAY! And if you are, wrongful dismissal suitas well as them breaking the law

    #72

    Peeing shoulder to shoulder with another guy in a public bathroom.

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    EpicWolfandSparrow
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    One of the very few reasons I'm glad to be a girl lol

    #73

    Smalltalk.

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    Tee Witt
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    It is far better than big talk (loud), harms no one and passes time with friends.

    #74

    Cell phones for each person in the family. Everyone turns into a cyborg and is available 24/7.

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    King Joffrey
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I think that ship has sailed...

    YoyoSthlm
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    So you would rather have no way of contacting your kids then?

    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Of course I know cell phones are normal. But they're weird. That's what's so funny--- That you think I wouldn't be able to contact them if they didn't have cell phones. Because if no one had cell phones that would mean they had a landline. If they weren't home I would leave a message. Or not. Back in the day we were all still able to function without constant surveillance. There was never any emergency that could have been prevented if communication had been immediate, although that is one of the reasons cell phones actually are great. The misconception is that we MUST be available 24/7 to the whim of everyone else's needs, texts, etc. We don't. Most of our lives are not filled with emergencies. So constantly having a phone in my hand is weird. It's just my opinion.

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    #75

    Gossiping, fake behavior. What is the point of talking sh*t about people behind their backs? How is this absolutely normal EVERYWHERE? If you don't have proof of something happening, why spread it further? And if you are having a problem with someone, why'd you tell everyone but them? It ruins workplaces, it ruins all teams, relationships... I swear most people are just overgrown toddlers terrified of communication/direct confrontation...

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    Kerri Russ
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Not having proof hasn't stopped Trump World from selling their lies over and over again without any evidence whatsoever. It's a new American tradition, doncha know.

    #76

    Defending yourself for your sexual preferences or even your gender.

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    El Dee
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Please never 'defend' yourself this way. Remind people that it's none of their business and doesn't affect them and so their opinions, and changing them, are none of your business..

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    #77

    Eating vegetarian or vegan versions of meat. If you don’t want to eat meat, why would you want to eat something that looks like meat, smells like meat, and tastes like meat if the actual concept of eating meat repulses you?

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    Otter
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I used to eat meat, and I liked the taste. Occasionally I want to enjoy the taste of meat, but without anything dying for my meal. I'm aware that these things have no nutritonal value so I don't do it very often, but why shouldn't I once in a while.

    King Joffrey
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    If I ever go vegan/vegetarian, it wouldn't be because I don't like the taste of meat but because I don't like the animals being slaughtered. And there's the answer to your question.

    SendMeABrownie
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    You've answered your own question. It's because the concept of eating actual meat repulses them, and many other reasons of course.

    LesAnimaux
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Because I like the way it tastes? Why judge people over their choice to be vegetarian?

    Deena Salzman
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    The concept of eating something that was an animal's body repulses me. The concept of eating a substitute that any meat eater is all too eager to say doesn't quite taste the same does not.

    Tenacious Squirrel
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    People are veggie and vegan for a multitude of reasons. I’m veggie and don’t like meat substitutes but plenty of people do. I don’t know why anyone has an issue with other people eating meat substitutes, it’s none of their business. If anyone is really struggling with the concept, do they also have the same problem with someone giving up alcohol who is drinking alcohol-free wine or beer? Or a smoker using nicotine patches? Or people drinking oat milk?

    Scagsy
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I'm not a veggie but I eat Quorn because it tastes like the real thing and is healthier for me.

    El Dee
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    They don't dislike the taste though. That's why. I wonder why people get so wound up about vegetarianism and veganism? It's like they feel threatened..

    Jules
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    A lot of vegans didn't give it up because they didn't like it but for moral reasons.

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    #78

    Smacking someone in the butt after a particularly good sports play. It would not be acceptable to smack a co-worker on the butt after a good presentation, why is it ok if you score a basket?

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    LeeBreezy
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    its just the culture of the sport, if players were actually uncomfortable about it, they wouldnt do it. its not like their doing that to anyone but their teammates who are supposed to work and respect each other

    #79

    Schools working like a "factory". Think about the school system; then think about how a factory works. It's similar to a prison. For kids. Like-

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    #80

    Assuming someone is heterosexual/cisgender from birth. And pressuring people to be straight/cis because its "normal" it's really weird to me

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    Tami
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Glad I grew up when a girl could act like a boy and not be pressured into thinking she was not cis. I was just a tomboy!

    Myst Edenflower
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Same. I wore male clothes cause I liked them, didn't wear makeup much, if someone had pushed some narrative about transgeder on me, instead of just letting me be me, I'd likely have more emotional or mental issues than I do

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    Kanuli
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Biology, facts and experience show you are correct. It is normal for some people to be different than the rest...maybe I would even go further and say being different is normal. Isn’t that basically what makes us human? And individual? But it is also fully ok to be average, just saying. You don’t want to be forced being someone you aren’t? Guess what, almost no one wants that. So let others the freedom you deserve aswell.

    Tee Witt
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    What is wrong with being different? I always wanted to be different

    Brenda
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    "NORMAL" is however you feel. My normal isn't anyone else's normal

    LesAnimaux
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Heteronormativity pisses me off.

    #81

    The towards business in the US K-12 education system. To me it’s odd and is creating a generation that sees business at the goal, not just one of many choices for what to do with their lives.

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    #82

    Running as a sport. It's weird, no one is chasing you! Sometimes I wonder what the other animals must think of us, like a deer : "why is he running? Is there a danger?" or a wolf "Is he hunting?". No we just like to run around in ridiculous outfits and expensive shoes for no reason at all.

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    Jon S.
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Have you tried it? The endorphins are amazing! And you'll be able to outrun your friend when the bear shows up.

    littlesaresare
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Humans evolved to be one of the most absurdly efficient runners in the animal kingdom. Really, choosing not to run is the weird thing for us to do.

    Miguel justino C
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Our early ancestors created a method of running down prey. One would start the chase until they were worn out then his homie would tag in and continue, then the other and the other until the animal was gassed. Dinner

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    Fat Harry
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I think athletes that concentrate on one particular discipline are weirder, like people whose entire livelihood comes from being a triple jumper or hammer thrower!

    Philler Space
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Think of the first person to go on a jog just for exercise, just having to stop explain to everybody that they're not late or being chased, just intentionally trying to get sweaty and exhausted.

    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Haha X) That's exactly that kind of situation I was thinking about! Imagine the incredulous looks! "But... why??"

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    SendMeABrownie
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    One of those, don't knock it until you've tried it. I love running, it's like my therapy

    Nerdpanda
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I like running,it's good exercise,if you don't like the sport that fine

    GFSTaylor
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Other animals like running too just for the hell of it. Horses will gallop madly around without being asked by a human.

    Eglė Bukauskaitė
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    why dogs get zoomies and they start running laps? Why guinea pigs run in a wheel?

    Christoph
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    its the best. Better than packing a bag to go to a gym - change workout - shower change go somewhere. Slap on some shoes and gogogo!

    Tenacious Squirrel
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    You can say that about any sport 🤷🏻‍♀️

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    #83

    Drinking the milk of other animals.

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    Tiny Dynamine
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    While finding the idea of drinking breast milk revolting. Now that is weird!

    Tamra Stiffler
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Fun fact: humans are the only animals who regularly drink the milk of other animals. Also, we are the only animal to drink milk beyond infancy.

    Laurie Ostergaard-Overbey
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    do you eat eggs? wtf is wrong with milk? cheese? yogurt? butter? .....

    Jules
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Do you really need an answer to this??!!

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    Thay
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    It's definitely a strange thought, but if it wasn't meant to be, wouldnt it be more harmful then helpful

    Jules
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Lactose intolerance my friend. Technically we should all have it but most of us seem to have evolved to be able to tolerate it in adulthood, more's the pity...

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    Whodathunkit
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I think if non-human animals knew how to raise goats and cows and harvest their milk, they would.

    Whodathunkit
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I love a tall cold glass of milk!

    El Dee
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Why is it called 'breast' milk? ALL milk is breast milk..

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    #84

    Halloween. Children in disguises go to strangers' houses and ask for candy. Some people terrify both adults and children.

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    S Mi
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Finally! I love Halloween, we celebrate big. But it really is objectively weird.

    EpicWolfandSparrow
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Dude, going into an almost adult life, I still freaking love Halloween. Def not a fan of the scary side, but being able to make a costume? Awesome. I'm actually sewing my own costume from scratch this year! Tim Burton season? Awesome! Free flippin' candy?! Awesome, with precautions. Ooh, and it's candy corn season, psl time, scarecrows hay and ravens everywhere! It's this spoopy girls dream lol

    Kerri Russ
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I remember as a very young child having to do a little dance or utter a nursery rhyme in order to get the good candy from my parents friends. Those were the good old days. LOL!

    El Dee
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Guising was meant to be a disguise for children to keep them safe. Doing a party piece for money and sweets was how the tradition of getting something began in my country, we're not fully on board with the 'trick' part yet..

    #85

    Parents saving their kids' teeth, or even worse, umbilical cord stumps.

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    Tee Witt
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    ~ Who saves umbilical cord stumps? Yuck, yuck, yuck

    Maja Hovedskou
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    4 years ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    you do know that some people also eat the placenta? yeah.... apperently this is the latest new thing. first they saved it in a jaw and had it on a shelve to show guests (!), then a year later it changed, then you had to dry it, and then make it into powder, and then eat it. but now 15 years later.... they are seriuosly eating it raw.... >.< we had a reality star him and his friend ate his wife's placenta raw.

    Maciej Zajaczkowski
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    4 years ago

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    You realise the reason for this is because teeth have stem cells?

    King Joffrey
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    And? Unless you're some sort of a scientist, not sure what you'd need stem cells for...

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    #86

    Knowing everything about someone. I've been in situations where someone close to me has been upset because they realized they didn't know every little detail of my life....like yeah no that's never going to happen.

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    Kathryn Baylis
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    On the flip side, expecting someone to know everything about you, therefore being able to “just know” what you want every second. I am not psychic, so just f*****g tell me what you want/need/prefer, so I don’t have to mentally exhaust myself having to guess, and emotionally don’t have to hear you tell me I guessed wrong (which I suspect you would do, regardless of what I guessed you wanted). Because that’s just f*****g cruel, asshole.

    King Joffrey
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Not sure what the problem is if they're close to you. Fair enough with people you don't know too well.

    Kathryn Baylis
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Yes, but people don’t stay the same their whole lives. We grow, we learn, we experience, we change—-or at least, we should.

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    Caro Caro
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    One of my friends does that. She askes really personal questions whenever she tells me some personal stuff of hers. It's like tit for tat. I always reply with "that's none of your business".

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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Yeah, it's rough when someone expects you to tell them everything. Proud of you for telling them what's what.

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    #87

    Saying , it’s going to be all right “. Or everything’s gonna be just fine. I hate how often I hear this in movies, tv, school, hospitals. Find something more realistic to say if you want to comfort someone, but please just stop with the pie in the sky.

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    Kathryn Baylis
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    4 years ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    It’s not always “pie in the sky”. It depends on the person and/or the circumstances. Sometimes everything actually will be alright. You’ll get out of the present bad situation, and things can only look up from there. Other times, not so much. But, as long as there’s a chance, you can’t just doom yourself to failure without even trying to make things better.

    Thatkamloopsguy
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Yup, your going to die. There, I said it.

    #88

    Strategically planning the way you will eat your food so your mouth remembers the last part. Imagine looking over at me and seeing me stare at my food with a fork in hand and sorting it

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    Amy G
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Hahaha I do this too!! Whatever my absolute favorite thing is on the plate gets saved til last. My husband thinks I’m so weird.

    Leah Williams
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    You're not! Haha food is not only fuel, it can be so good

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    Bettie-Jean Neal
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    OK, I go one step further. When I eat strawberries, I cut them in 1/2. Not all strawberries are sweet/ripe. They may look it, but there is no guarantee. But I you cut them in 1/2, you can save the best halves for last and get like 9 good bites in a row!

    Miguel justino C
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I’m with ya, when my wife throws off my cheeseburger to French fry ratio I get angry. When I was a smoker I savored that last bite so the cigarette tasted even better.

    Candia Lee
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I really like it when the balance is maintained like that. I've added raisins so the last spoonful isn't"empty".

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    NotTodaySatan!!
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Ha! I take one bite of each thing and when I run out of one thing, I'm done. But I accept I'm weird!

    EpicWolfandSparrow
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Similar method here! I just wanna have a bit of everything without feeling like Aunt Marge!

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    El Dee
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I think everyone does this with a REALLY good meal??

    Candia Lee
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    4 years ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Then being foiled by a chunk of black pepper that shows up to ruin dessert.

    #89

    Asking people 'Are you ok' when they obviously aren't.

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    Scagsy
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I disagree with this one. Asking 'are you ok?' is an entry level conversation starter with someone who appears to be struggling. It's the most caring question a person can ask, particularly to a stranger. Maybe they'll be able to help, maybe they can call someone who can help. By asking the question, they are just showing that they care and want to help. What are the alternatives? Just ignoring you as you struggle.

    Kathryn Baylis
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    This! Some people find it really hard to ask for help. Or feel threatened in some situations, and feel like asking will make it worse. So, stepping up and offering it may be the only way to get them the help they truly need. All they can say is “no, but thanks for asking anyway”.

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    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Omg I did NOT expect people to actually scroll down enough to see this. Kudos to all the people who have that amount of patience!

    King Joffrey
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    'Are you ok' is just a polite version of 'I can see something is wrong, tell me about it'. If you ask the question, you've already assumed the person is not ok.

    Alexej Dvorak
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Because the more fitting "what is wrong with you?" has grown to have an ofensive connotation.

    YoyoSthlm
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Well what do you suggest then?

    Debrina Blackmoon
    Community Member
    4 years ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Or if they will be. Like, "How the fucck should I know right now?!". Depending on the situation, I guess.

    #90

    Having to stuff yourself with overpriced junk when you watch a film.

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    Piet Puk
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    You don't have to. Who is making you stuff yourself?

    Thay
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    .... Who is forcing you besides the masses of advertisements? Lol chill. Invest in a small backpack or handbag and beat the system cuz the workers in theatres dont care as long as you aren't disturbing and clean after yourself. And if you do this at home, thats all you friend.

    LesAnimaux
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Sounds like you're being forced to eat popcorn.

    King Joffrey
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    'Having to' implies obligation - there isn't any.