As we grow and develop, our perspectives and opinions tend to change, often making us view some things completely differently than we used to; and that applies to everything, from favorite pasta to reading books, and beyond.
One common thing that people tend to view differently as children is people themselves. When you’re a kid, a 20-something-year-old might seem like they know what they’re doing, when you’re a teen, a 35-year-old might look old, and when you’re a freshman in high school, seniors might appear to be so much cooler than they often are.
Members of the ‘Ask Reddit’ community discussed views similar to the latter, after one user asked them what was something that seems cool in the eyes of most high schoolers but is actually cringe. Fellow redditors came up with many answers, including “high schoolers” themselves, so scroll down to find them and see what other things people have grown out of or into as they closed the awkward chapter of the high school years.
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Driving like an idiot/ having a loud car.
I once was one of those kids with a loud car. Man it drives (no pun intended) me crazy now.
Jeez. We were driving the other day and a car zoomed by so loudly, it was stupid. It literally gave off a massive Zoooooom sound. Completely unnecessary
I had a loud car in high school on account of it being a piece of sh!t
Definitely applies to most adults or even college students. This is one reason I'm glad I didn't drive in high school. There's no need to drive like you're entitled.
Yes... You have a car... Yes... You have a p*nis... Just because you have a loud exhaust pipe doesn't mean you've got a huge... Y'know... Just Sayin 👍🙂
literally no one does it because of that, we just like the sound it makes
Load More Replies...Omg! I absolutely can't stand these wannabe idiots. The bad thing is that it seems like 9 times out of 10, the car is an old Honda POS and the exhaust system has either been removed or modified to be as loud as sonically possible to take being inconsiderate and obnoxious to new levels. The other thing is that these idiots seem to think that everyone wants to race them and no matter how childish or dangerous, they refuse to let someone pass them. They don't seem to understand that people just want to get away from them and that no one cares about their ridiculous vehicle that is somehow supposed to reinforce their fragile masculinity.
Discussing sex loudly with the purpose of having random strangers hear it as if that somehow is a sign of maturity.
As you read these posts, please remember, teenagers brains are not finished being made !
So, you're saying consider them as if they were Republicans. OK.
Load More Replies...Was on a flight to Amsterdam to see friends and this FOOL was sitting behind me, he spent the whole flight yelling about all the girls he had been with and how they were all ugly. When we were getting off I turned to look at him, Ugliest guy EVER!
Some kid at the back of the bus did that. The whole back half had to hear about how upset he is that his girlfriend wants a certain something. When we reached the terminus, he was the last person to get off the bus and I waited for him. And I gave him s*x advice. He looked sooooo unccomfortable!
Weird... When I was in school? Girl who had sex = s**t/easy and major gossip about her... Boy who did = Stud, got congratulations. Yes... Whoohoo... You managed to put your thingy into another thingy!!! Well done!... Now learn about Respect. To any girls reading this who have been "Sl*t Shamed"? Just tell others that he's got a "TeenyWeeny". Get them back where it hits hardest 👍
when i was in high school it wasn't people hearing you talk about sex.. it was absurdity. the weirdest thing you could possibly say to someone. like one time we're waiting for a bus, and as a person is walking by we would say "your (blank) is showing" and hope that the person walking by would laugh and/or look.
Vaping.
I hate it so much, especially indoor, that now it irks me immensely whenever I see someone vaping outside! I went to food courts to get a quick bite to eat and all the tables were full with teenagers, just taking selfies and vaping indoor, with just a McDonald's' soda in front of them, while most people, including myself, were searching for a table to eat their meal........ No respect!
I hate the feeling of the air on the street that was recently in the rotten lungs of a vaper/smoker... 🤢
i do vape and my health has rapidly gotten better since i quit smoking. i understand that people do not like it to walk through clouds of vape, so i try to keep my "exhaust" as little as possible. But what i really hate are the people that try to tell me that vaping is soooo much worse than smoking. No its not. My Lungs have gotten better, my skin too, my endurance has come to a level that i had when i was in high school and played basketball(now i ride a lot on my bike). FU Haters!
Being rude to teachers. Every person who I know who was rebellious in school cringes hard when they think about the s**t they said to teachers.
When I was in middle school back in the 80's one of my good friends had something against one of our teachers. Hated him and never knew why. One day he decided he was gonna "whip the teacher's a**". He definitely made a mistake. He got the first hit in and our teacher picked him up and slammed him down onto the top of the table. My friend finally got up and again went after the teacher and the teach went full on bar brawl with him. Cleared the classroom. Then the teacher told him when he was able to get up he needed to go to the office. Teacher made us all come back inside, fix our desks and right back to the lesson.My friend got suspended. When he came back he was right back in the same class probably reliving that day over and over.
But there's that one teacher I will never cringe for. He made my life heck, and I'm a "you get what you give" respect person. No regrets.
How about teachers being rude to students? I had a (sub) teacher in 10th grade who wouldn't let one of my classmates use the restroom for some reason I don't remember why. I know there are some students who use that excuse to skip class, but this person needed to go BADLY, but he wouldn't let them. I believe they were arguing, but I don't remember. What is the point of being rude to a student when they weren't being disruptive?
and then there are the ones that are proud of the things they said forever and more so as the year go on...
Heard. Sorry Ms. Bird! You were just trying to teach AP English. Sorry I hated Mrs. Havisham and took it out on you!!!
I don't think so, I think it's mostly peer pressure or just being bored/not liking a class
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Being loud and obnoxious everywhere they go. Like dude no one thinks you’re or your friends are cool over there yelling penis and moaning cause you think it’s funny.
I was on a flight a few years back, and a late teen aged guy was eating a bag of beef jerky in the next row. Every bite he took, he would make loud, overly sexual moaning noises, and repeatedly telling his friend how much he loves "how it feels to slip that meat in his mouth"
ok but that s**t is funny to them. just like you have your own sense of humor.
Calling Millenials/any older generation cringe. They're also going to get old and seem cringe to the kids one day. It's the cycle of life.
Wait, he has a name other than “Grandpa?” Mind. Blown.
Load More Replies...Having entered my 40s, I can feel myself becoming more and more detached from whatever is considered cool. I was never really "cool" to begin with, but at least I was more familiar with what people thought was cool, and understood it a bit better. Now, if you'll excuse me, I'm off to yell at the weather.
"It's just a prank bro" no, you're being an a*****e.
Schrödinger's Douchebag: decides whether the $hitty thing they just said was "just a joke" based on the reaction of the surroundings.
"Oh its just a joke, lighten up!" or "You're too sensitive!", "You're overly sensitive!".. Nope, you've just insulted me and do you think I'm going to take it? So fight back verbally, never physically.
"I was kidding" no no you weren't you were being rude, mean and an a$$hole
I hate hate HATE people who say this. It’s always dudes and they’re always douchebags
I've had plenty of girls say this to me too (minus the bro part)
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Worrying what other people think. The concept of “cool” in the first place.
My brother and I (in our early 30s) were watching a group of teenagers trying so hard to put on this cool, unemotional facade at Disneyland while everyone else around them just enjoyed themselves and we were laughing to ourselves that teenagers are so afraid of displaying emotion or passion and nobody else cares. But we all went through it, and we all reach the realization that it’s more fun to just enjoy ourselves.
It can actually be really stressful. Waiting in line, the cost, all the planning and scheduling with restaurants and stuff, etc
Load More Replies...My brother's GF for not wanting to go at Disneyland: "What if we don't enjoy ourselves?" He asked: "Did you ever heard of anyone saying they didn't have fun at DL????" She just didn't want to go because everything was in English. Eye roll. They went but my brother was ready to leave her home and go with their kids.
I had that phase. It really isn't worth worrying about what other people think about you
Blasting loud music in busses and public places.
And also, whenever someone is blasting loud music in public, it's ALWAYS the $hittiest music you've ever heard.
Pulling up at a convenience store and going inside and leaving your music blasting out of the crappiest set of speakers ever made.
That one really makes me insane. You have the freedom to listen to whatever you want, but you do NOT have the right to force me to lesson to it. The fact that older adults will pull up to next to me at the gas station, with 3 small children, and absolutely blast the most obscene music is a brazenly inconsiderate behavior. I could care the less what you listen to, but to forcing my young children to hear it is criminal. How about I pull up in front of your home, but in the road on public property, and just shout obscenities through a loudspeake in my car and see your reaction.
There's nothing more satisfying than walking up behind those idiots and blasting Industrial or Death Metal into their ears. Even people who don't like my music appreciate me giving those ash soles a taste of their own medicine.
AH! I remember when blasting loud music means carring a huge cassette stereo on your shoulder
That one like, tikok haircut that guys get where they have like, no hair on the sides and then too much hair on top. No shade it's just douchey.
he may have just won a superbowl but mahomes looks so stupid every time I see his face
Load More Replies...I really don't get the shaved up the back and sides haircuts.........having said that I'm 69 and in my time I've had my hair buzzcut, a mullet, permed, and a pony tail, so I should probably STFU!
I lived in a place with 100+ summers, and a cold winter day was 50s. So not having hair on the sides was a lot more comfortable and you felt less sweaty. I started shaving my whole head down to 3/4in or less soon after highschool. I can't stand letting my hair grow now, been bald since early 40s.
Load More Replies...As someone who really likes hair (especially long(er) hair on men), these haircuts always make me cringe.
The reverse mullet. But… there’s stupid hair in every generation. In the 80’s we had boofy hair and oversized clothes and shoulder pads. We thought we looked awesome. We were wrong.
How hairstyles originate: some famous person gets bored of ring a decent person decided to go all crazy and asks the hairstylist for the "Picasso hairstyles". They go on media and then young and the super easily influenced population tries to imitate thinking that the stupid hairstyle is so cool.
This is a personal choice; let them be. You're not the one wearing the haircut, so let it go.
You are right, we are not the ones with that crappy hair. They get to look at other nice hair styles while we get to look at mop-tops.
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Tiktok.
Aka.... I'm going to put on a short video loud as f**k and I don't care if you don't like it
Load More Replies...Every generation does something, but the older generations left no evidence. Tiktok is going to come back and haunt everyone who uses it.
Teens who think they know about anything in this world. I know it's a phase we all went through but it's very cringe listening to a kid lecture you on stuff theve never stopped to think about or arnt even capible of thinking about.
And LISTENING! When I was a young guy (and, of course, cringe) many of the older folks I disagreed with would say things like "you don't have to agree, just listen". Never took it to heart until I got past 30, lol.
Load More Replies...Unfortunately there's a lot of adults who never matured that do this too.
I wouldn’t say that this applies to the majority, but it does apply to a pretty decent amount at my school: saying slurs and barking at people they find weird (they really think it’s peak comedy).
In my schooltime there were three older girls that made chicken noises too me to mock me...I found it odd since they are the ones making weird sounds... But if course I felt kind of insulted because they wanted me to be and I was always bullied. It was also strange that I didn't know them but they somehow knew me (probably as the school target......)
Are you okay? Hey... You know what? How's your life now? Probably better than theirs 👍🙂
Load More Replies...I know of a guy in his mid 30s who finds it hilarious to bark at strangers while hiding behind something cause they look around for a dog but don't find one. He told me this story as we decided to no longer date and I was thinking "Thank goodness I dodged that bullet". Thats some teenage crud right there and if a full grown 30-somethibg year old is doing it unironically? Well, that's just a big old red flag for not being emotionally mature
What I get at my work a lot (after school care) is kids goading others into saying a slur, only to call them racist!
Hickeys or so I've been told.
I actually have no issue with them just so long as they're hidden.
It's all fun and games until you get a blood clot and have a massive zit style crater where health skin used to be.
OK. Perfect. I was looking for this! The blood clot; I don't know about the rest.
Load More Replies...This has always been a thing. I have had friends over back in the 80's and they were trying to pinch themselves so it looked like hockey's. They asked why I didn't want to do it. I said well first it looks trashy but also because my grandmother would have murdered me. No thanks.
And not only kids, I'm afraid. I found myself trying to explain a hickey my husband had left on my 30 something neck to a Muslim lady in her 50's who had never married and was very innocent. Luckily, an older lady that I also worked with explained it better than I could because she was convinced he was abusing me!
I don’t think I ever had one since the age of about 22. Never wondered if there was a cut off age before? Ironically, I’ve worn a lot more scarves since I hit 30!
Even in high school I thought they were nasty. Just looked like you had a disease or something.
Glad this is on the list. Boy do I hate seeing a student with one of these.
Pretending to have some type of disorder, like that makes them special. Like some how everyone has multiple personalities now, one of the rarest disorders of it's kind and everyone and their cousin suffers from it.
People with actual disorders don't "enjoy" them in the slightest. I know a guy with genuine OCD and I've seen how it could mess up his life at times.
I have ADHD (I'm 33) and it is HORRIBLE. I would not wish it on anyone. It is not fun, it is not funny, it's ruined relationships, it's hard to function, short-term memory problems, difficulty managing time, the list goes on. Fortunately I am on medication but meds only do so much.
Load More Replies...Yep it can be life crushing with panic and confusion at the world. I get people thinking my child is trying to be naughty when they cry because they get so overwhelmed they don't know what to do anymore
Load More Replies...There is a lot of weird self diagnosing and misinformation about health going on on ticktock. “I never knew I had X until I found d this informative account!” No, you just found someone who told you what you wanted to hear and validated you. You did not find researched information about X.
It's not the teens' fault when they're being fed misinformation by grown a*s adults. (sometimes they don't genuinely believe they have the disorder(s) they claim to and in those cases, they are obviously at fault)
I blame TikTok and Instagram for this. Girls acting like it's trendy to pretend to have a disorder. "OMG Starbucks is closed, I'm so depressed" you're not depressed Lindsay, you're just a twat.
The idea that everyone needs therapy. Lots of people just need a firm slap up side their head.
I've agoraphobia, panic attacks and PTSD. I've been clinically diagnosed after everything that's happened to me over my life and especially the last few years. I work with my doctors and specialists but... It's people who self diagnose and say laughingly that they've PTSD after, like, losing their keys that get to me. You don't know what true PTSD is like. It's horrific.
They personalities thing is how it’s like there’s a extrovert me and a introvert me, guess which one I like more
Doing things to gain other peoples approval..
Seriously, when you grow up and stop giving a f**k about other peoples opinions, life is so much better.
I regret so much trying to be funny at all costs when I was at school. Of course, I was not.
I'm funny for me. If other people happen to also think in funny, yay!
Load More Replies...I was still funny back then, not stand up funny, but I could make a few people laugh
Telling people how mature you are.
I'm very mature for my age. But as I am over 60, I guess people expect me to be
LOL, telling each other how mature they are. Like you are 13, but you act like you are 15, I swear you are so mature.
Making fun of people. Like you're not funny, you're annoying and childish.
Gossip at someone else’s expense.
And it's not just teens that engage in that particular behavior, sadly.
Load More Replies...This started with the invention of language and will carry on until the last of us has died.
Older you get the more you realize the one truly cool thing is the air conditioner.
and the one thing that is super hot is a microwave burrito...gotta learn to chill on some things or you're gonna get burned
Being d***s to the teacher who just tries to do his\her job.
I had a grade 9 math class in a portable (basically a trailer outside the school because they had run out of real classrooms) so there was a seemingly sense of more freedom because we weren't in the actual school. My teacher, I hate to say it, was ripe for young jerks to make fun of - picture the principal from Billy Madison. It was a basic math class, people just taking the class because we had to. The class was complete chaos. The whole semester I don't think we learned much of anything about math. He was nice to me. I wasn't one of the trouble-makers. But I still feel terrible about it all. Young and stupid. He never got mad at the verbal assaults against him, the non stop chatter, and people not paying attention...he just nervously laughed and tried to get everyone back on track. It never worked. He was a nice man just trying to do his job. I hate my classmates. He died a few years ago - I wish I could say I'm sorry for what he went through.
I had a history teacher that was just plain goofy. It would seem that he was also a teaching genius, because we REMEMBERED everything he taught, as a result.
My 8th grade science teacher was a complete goofball but if you wanted some real fun you signed up for the other elective class he taught: Greek mythology, can't remember how many times meter measuring sticks were used as swords
Load More Replies...When I was in school some teachers would beat your a$$ while others would kick your a$$.
I am 50 and from the South. I was taught to respect and literally fear my teachers. During elementary and middle school, I couldn't even imagine disrespecting a teacher. Plus, we still had corporal punishment and you could very well get "licks" from the principal. In high school, I witnessed a young Geography teacher literally driven to a mental breakdown by several students who would harass her daily. She was very pleasant and quiet, she never yelled, punished, or disciplined students. Yet, these students were absolutely cruel to her. How or why this was started, I have no idea. She eventually broke down in a class one day, was taken away in an ambulance, and hospitalized for a month or so, she then returned and tried to resume teaching and was gone in less than 3 days. These kids thought it was funny. Even at that age, I understood that they had probably destroyed a part of her life, the possible dream of teaching, years of work, and was mentally assaulted by them. Sad
There is this one girl in period 10 and she is a brat. She laughs about her freinds house burning down. This girl also lies constantly and will deny anything even if there is several people around her to hear her.
Filming instead of helping.
I've filmed so I could show the ambulance team. There was nothing I could do at the time but if you've a record of it? It could help them.
They do it for likes on social media. Do you know what would make me like you? As a human being? Helping the little old lady being attacked on the subway, for no reason. "But, he might have a weapon." No. He doesn't. If he did he'd be using it on her. Ffs. If even half of the ten or so people filming, were to tackle him, you could easily put a stop to it. Sorry, this particular social media habit, makes me furious!
YES. I'm just thankful that iphones weren't really popular when I was in high school. I got assaulted once, some people in the hallway did nothing to help...thankfully someone else from a classroom in that hallway heard what was going on and yelled at them to go away. I'm thankful for that kind stranger. (don't worry, I'm ok...I reported it..nothing got done unfortunately).
This was always the case though. Gawking instead of helping even has a scientific name like bystander syndrome or something. That's why when you take CPR classes, they teach you to single people out, "you in the red shirt!, yes you, call 911!". Because of you just say someone call 911, everyone assumes someone Else did.
Being 'edgy' and 'offensive' just for the sake of it. Yeah, we get it. You think that mocking dead people or posting racist/sexist stuff on social media makes you a tough edgelord not to be f****d with. No, it just makes you look like a complete tryhard.
The sad thing is that edgelord teens usually grow up to be actually dangerous incels / alt-rights.
“I’m not like other girls”.
I was watching a compilation of Say Yes to the Dress recently and every other bride started their interview by saying they weren't like the average bride. They then went on to describe their perfect dress which was just like every other Dress chosen.
Yes. This needs to stop. Pretty much every girl I knew went through this phase one way or another, even if it was just saying that we hated pink because it was a “girl color” and we wanted to be different. I love pink now. I care less what other people think. But this “not like other girls” mentality has to stop. Society portrays women as one dimensional characters who are pink loving men pleasing bimbos. Or course nobody want to be that! Of course these young girls are saying these things! It sucks, but you can only blame the girls to a certain extent, just like you can only blame the world around them to a certain extent.
I remember back when me and the guys played Fortnite to much, we always said “the bus driver is built better than us” and somehow we did that for a year or two. Weird people, me and my friends are
"I'm not like other girls... I've been through a lot in my life... I keep things hidden because it's for me to deal with and not you... I'm not like other girls... And I can't all the time... Yet I do"
Saying 'hashtag' in a spoken sentence, and not ironically.
Also the word *like* that doesn't need to be said to make the sentence complete.
The lifestyle of being "young and reckless".
Having an addiction to d***s is not cool.
Being in codependent relationships is not cool.
Having sex in bathroom stalls and on a couch stored behind the theater stage is not cool.
Its just gross.
Skipping class is not cool.
I don't even know why people skipped classes at my high school. There was literally nothing to do but loiter in a bathroom.
Just enjoy your time not paying bills and be as self-centered for as long as you can.
I skipped school to leave school, not hangout somewhere at school. And I know a lot of kids that skipped when they had tests/exams they weren’t prepared for. None of this is cool, but none of it was done to “seem cool” either.
We hung out in my friend's jacuzzi and drank wine coolers, or went to the park. No one was skipping school to hang out in the bathroom. And kids are having sex on the gross theater couch bc teenage hormones are wild, not to seem cool.
Load More Replies...This one feels a little bit judgemental. It seems like OP is projecting a little bit, and assuming that the reason to do all of those thing is because "cool". I don't know anyone who skipped class because they thought it was cool; they did it because they wanted to be not-in-class for whatever-reason. "There was literally nothing to do but loiter in a bathroom" - an alternative to this would be "hang out with friends in the only place they could". Wouldn't you rather hang out with friends than go to a class that (maybe) you hated, or found too difficult, or hadn't done the homework for?
Many didn't do it to be 'cool'. It was a way to deal with abuse, neglect and desperately trying to feel complete in a world that didn't give a s**t about you. We live our lives based on the examples in front of us. Trying to shame people who did those things listed above and just 'enjoy your time' is about as insensitive and clueless as Nancy Reagan starting her 'Just Say No' campaign.
Or doing it in a CROWDED stairwell during dismissal and others filming it and posting it online to socials...really not cool.That was the reason social medias got blocked for the rest of my senior year. Don't do it at all.
you're points make you sound like the person who was upset they weren't included in anything.... having addiction to d***s? like what?... codependent relationship... again what? let them be, they're going to learn this the hard way.... sex im bathroom stalls or a chouch stored behind the theater stage is oddly specific, and sounds like you were again left out.... skipping class; people don't just hang out in the bathroom, maybe if you skipped school you'd know what they actually did (i.e. go get pizza, leave and go to the mall, or in 1 case in my school, pool hopping)... you sound like you had a very boring teenage life.
I skipped classes because a teacher was bullying me and tried to feel me up. 1984. The school counselor didn't believe me. So yeah, people ditch class for a reason.
Calling themselves an Alpha male or Redpill and Calling random people npcs.
Even cringier yet, the fact that many adults say that stupid c**p too
Cough-cough jocks cough-cough no offense to jocks that weren’t like that cough-cough
Bullying. For example, that thing where they comment "oh" on peoples posts and then claim to "just be saying oh." Everyone knows it's not innocent, it's done with the purpose of making the poster feel insecure or dumb. Just things that can be played off as small, but that they know will have a bigger impact.
Does anyone know what Im talking about? I really dont know how to explain this.
I do that on things that are actually offensive or inappropriate, but I've never seen anyone do this on regular things.
Like in the old "joke" about indifference and ignorance, I don't know and I don't care. I couldn't care less, actually. I'm not criticising the comment or OP, but the attitude.
Calling things 'cringe'.
Sus, dipped, yeet, and a whole lot more. They think they invented slang
Binge drinking. It's fairly prevalent and accepted within a lot of social circles when you’re in your 20s. You know, those nights out with your buddies when you pre-game, go to the bar and order a few rounds of shots, and let the night take you where the alcohol fuel leads. This feels progressively out of place as you move into your 30s and beyond.
I could never understand the "appeal" of feeling sick, being unable to walk in a straight line, or having no memories from the previous night. I guess I'm not "cool" enough ;)
Never in my life have I failed to remember the night before. Drinking enough to be sick? Yeah, perhaps ten or so times over the last 40 years, but knowing when to stop is an important part of this.
Load More Replies...I remember how fun it's been to get drunk when I was 18-20. Now makes me sad seeing some people I know who still need to do it 25 years later. Also alcohol is so expensive in bars.
These days most of my (rare) binge-drinking is done at home. Not a frequent thing, but having a few at the bar and then continuing when you get back home is a much cheaper and more easily controlled way of having a good time.
Load More Replies...I learned this one way too late...now I hardly ever drink and enjoy being lucid an in control and able to remember everything...also extra cash in my wallet
Never did this. Never sounded fun to me; even in college, I avoided parties.
I drank, but never got into getting soused. I'm also ok being the designated driver as I have a high tolerance for stupid drunk friends.
Naah, it's not that it gets out of place, it's just that your recovery slows down. This is still fine as long as you give yourself a full day to recover. And you need to keep in practice too.
Having said that, the concept of "pre-gaming" is not cool. It shouldn't be about being drunk, but the experiences and fun you have on the journey.
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Using mature language to sound smart. Anyone can string together a bunch of big words, doesn’t make you intelligent.
True intelligence can show itself by explaining complex matters with simple words.
Absolutely, making the complex simple is true genius.
Load More Replies...I can't help it, I just read a lot of books and am a perfectionist when it comes to phrasing.
Sleep deprivation. I loved pulling all nighters as a teen and young adult. Now, they just give me migraines and make the entire subsequent day hell.
Pulling an all-nighter was trivial at the age of 20. Today, it would probably incapacitate me for several days :P
OMG this!!! I used to be the Queen of the all nighter and now I wanna die if I stay up past 10🤣
Load More Replies...science has actually proven that teenagers go through this, where they stay up late, and sleep in late (in some cases they wake up early too). this wasn't something that was "cool" per se, but ended up being the cool thing because it's natural without you even realizing it.
Bragging about how much weed you smoke or how much you drink.
People are so free with how many others they let know that they deal or smoke themselves. A girl I wasn’t really friends with but knew well enough bought a vape from a senior in the middle of culinary class right in front of me. I don’t know if I would’ve trusted her if I were the one buying, but whatever. It’s insane that the teachers and administrators don’t crack down on this more. I could tell you most of the sophomores who dealt and I don’t even smoke. I get it, you wanna be cool but damn, you also gotta be discreet
Flipping off the camera when you get your picture taken.
Disrespecting other people for no reason.
Adults who hang out with them.
I don’t think all adults that hang out with teenagers are looking for sex. They’re just immature adults that cannot relate to people their own age and being older than the school kids makes them feel cool.
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Being popular for the wrong reasons. As soon as you graduate that s**t starts over. Better not to rely on being popular and prepare.
Using slang terms like “the fuzz” with reference to police or “bread” for money. Also, wearing bell-bottomed trousers and beads. (Note, I’ve been away from the high school scene for a while, so take this with a grain of salt, as it may be somewhat dated).
Talking back to teachers and laughing in their faces, bullying others, smoking and drinking and then bragging about it. Acting "alter" when they are just following the trend and not really belong there.
TikTok b******t.
I've recently seen a teen guy scrolling TikTok. One of the videos consisted solely of Peter Griffin saying the N-word. Like...
Could say quite a few, but the best is probably - Not caring.
Being genuine even to the point of seeming uncool is an amazing personality trait in adulthood that some don’t get back until they are parents.
The people who act like they care the least about what other people think normally care the most. Those people that actually go about their day actually not caring what others think are the happiest
Yes, absolutely this. Being passionate about something is the most attractive personality trait ever. Those "IDGAF about anything" people are so tedious to interact with.
Putting people down You best stop doing that s**t real quick cause it won;t score you points in college.
Crying on TikTok, or any kind of dancing on TikTok to something completely inappropriate, like a funeral or someone in a hospital bed fighting for their life.
you calling tiktok cringe is unbelievably cringe
Load More Replies...The concept of "cool".
The Monks of Cool, whose tiny and exclusive monastery is hidden in a really cool and laid-back valley in the lower Ramtops, have a passing-out test for a novice. He is taken into a room full of all types of clothing and asked: Yo, my son, which of these is the most stylish thing to wear? And the correct answer is: Hey, whatever I select.
Terry Pratchett fans will always be cool in my book.
Load More Replies...What kills me about the concept of "cool" are the qualities and attributes people feel they need, or the lifestyle they portray, in order to be "cool". In the 50s, being a good student and a conscientious citizen were considered "cool". Now, anything from being a violent criminal to a wealthy, shallow, but extremely attractive is considered "cool". I explained to my children that within 5 to 6 years after graduation, the "cool" people aren't really so cool any longer. It's that nerdy guy who was in the computer club is now the "cool" guy making a six figure salary and to remember the gawky girl with long legs and glasses? Well, she usually turns out to be incredibly attractive by that time. I told them to never underestimate or write of people because they can surprise yoi.
Civics with loud mufflers.
I dunno, it was quite handy to be able to tell my boyfriend’s brother was on his way over a couple of minutes before he arrived.
Pretty much the whole persona they play to fit in. You'll eventually grow out of it. The question is just when.
Guys who "get around" with lots of girls.
Yelling “Let’s gooooooooooooooooo!”.
Sleeping eight people to a hotel room to save money.
Dating older guys.
No to that one, that's victim blaming. It's the older guys that are the problem.
Exactly. Be the adult and back away from the child.
Load More Replies...How is it helpful to have an entire list dedicated to saying how cringey teenagers are, when I think it's commonly understood that should be the one time in our lives when we should receive a little more grace for being that way. Teen hormones are rough, peer pressure is rough, high school is rough. Give em a break.
I agree with BrookeBT, but also almost all of these (there are a few exceptions of course) adults still do. It appears some BPers are in denial that these things change but there are lots of cringey adults out there.
While I do agree with most of what is said on this post, I'm in my 40's and really the majority of this is things that are listed are not that bad. I find most kids I come across to be a lot more tolerant and accepting than my generation was. Yeah there are jerks, but there always are jerks. Things change. They always do - and that makes me happy. Better for kids to be doing what they want for a little while before they realize the world of hurt they are inheriting.
Fighting is another one. It may be on the list, but BP won't always let me see half of the posts. This one I couldn't see the last 26. I hate when that happens.
Are you using the website? The button to view the rest is just below the last post. Just click the underlined “56 images” and the page will reload with all of them.
Load More Replies...I’m not gonna lie most of these were things teenage boys do. They have so much confidence for absolutely no reason.
How is it helpful to have an entire list dedicated to saying how cringey teenagers are, when I think it's commonly understood that should be the one time in our lives when we should receive a little more grace for being that way. Teen hormones are rough, peer pressure is rough, high school is rough. Give em a break.
I agree with BrookeBT, but also almost all of these (there are a few exceptions of course) adults still do. It appears some BPers are in denial that these things change but there are lots of cringey adults out there.
While I do agree with most of what is said on this post, I'm in my 40's and really the majority of this is things that are listed are not that bad. I find most kids I come across to be a lot more tolerant and accepting than my generation was. Yeah there are jerks, but there always are jerks. Things change. They always do - and that makes me happy. Better for kids to be doing what they want for a little while before they realize the world of hurt they are inheriting.
Fighting is another one. It may be on the list, but BP won't always let me see half of the posts. This one I couldn't see the last 26. I hate when that happens.
Are you using the website? The button to view the rest is just below the last post. Just click the underlined “56 images” and the page will reload with all of them.
Load More Replies...I’m not gonna lie most of these were things teenage boys do. They have so much confidence for absolutely no reason.
