30 Examples Of What Young People Have Had Enough Of Hearing From Older People, Shared In This Online Community
When we were kids parents taught us to be respectful towards older people than us and we did, because they had more knowledge and experience, so it seemed that they knew better and we couldn’t disagree with them or oppose their views. But growing up you start to realize that actually, adults don't actually always know what they are doing, how things work and their knowledge might be expired.
So we get frustrated when older people than us still try to pretend they know better and criticize our way of living. There are things that they like to repeat all the time and Reddit users shared what they are when baker10923 asked them, “Younger people of Reddit. What are you tired of hearing from older generations?”
Do you get annoyed when you hear older people say these things? What other things you personally are tired of hearing? Let us know in the comments!
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I'm 64 and I'm really tired of listening to people my age whine about stuff that younger people do.
* It definitely was NOT better when we were kids;
* a phone isn't that f-ing hard to figure out;
* It's not that nobody talks anymore; it's just that nobody wants to talk to *you.*
They just remember the good parts of "back in my day..." the horrible stuff has been conveniently forgotten.
My kids have gone to mimicking my "back in my day..." impersonations, but changing the obligatory ending "and we were grateful!" to "and we were hateful!" and honestly, I feel like it fits better 🤣
Load More Replies...I'm 65 and feel the same way. It makes me grind my teeth whenever I see those stupid "when we were kids" memes. Or people that b***h about kids not learning cursive anymore. Attention: there's no need for cursive anymore.
What's wrong with kids not learning cursive? I now have a retirement plan: a career deciphering holographic wills. :)
Load More Replies...I hate when some people younger than me try to lump all Boomers together. Trust me, I get disgusted with them on a daily basis. And living in Florida over half of the population is over 60. Me, included.
Every generation lumps other generations. That's how stereotypes work. Most of those millenial-hating articles can't even get the right generation while complaining about "millenials are killing X".
Load More Replies...The most clued-out idiocy I've heard is of free-wheeling writer in his 60s who noticed that young women rejected his overtures... and complained that "Young people nowadays, are so inconsiderate." (At least Warren Beatty took rejection from a much younger waitress to mean "Time to settle down and get married, you old fool.")
I hate the "when *I* was young we kids went out all day on our bikes and only came home when the streetlights came on." Some of that was fun, IF you had neighborhood buddies like you see on tv and movies. My mother threw me out in the blazing heat - ' get out of here, go find something to do' - while she sat alone in the cool house smoking and yakking on the phone all day. I would go sit under a tree and read, because I spent the worst of it in the library a mile away. No one cared, but the library was a refuge.
I can recall three of us (one was a neighbor) stretching out on the tile floor trying to cool off. Someone's mom would think we should be outside "playing". What, sunstroke?
Load More Replies..."Back in my day" always has me wonder at what age that was. Things were very "good" back in my day because I was too young to understand the importance of it such as the missile crisis just to name one thing.
I'm 63 y/o and I approve of this post! I work around 20-30 year olds and I call them "my fountains of youth".
I agree 100%. There are also two sides to this subject. Just because I am 67, please don't treat me like I don't know anything about how modern technology works. I'm fully capable of figuring out a new phone, my laptop, smart TV, etc. Just because I am now considered a senior citizen does not mean my brain stopped working and yes, I can still learn new things.
God love those who are more mature but still keep it real. The body may let you down but growing old is a mindset, not a mandate. My Dad and his wife are in their 70s but I'm only just beginning to see the occasional glimpse of an older couple. Most of the time, they are still in their twenties and I have so much respect for that!! Some people CHOOSE to be old, even in their 30s and 40s. One of my younger friends recently had a "lovely day out" as she sat in the library garden and had a "frightfully nice packet of cheese and onion crisps". If I get there... kill me for my own good.
"Don't believe everything you see on the internet"
~ my parents when I was a teenager in the late 90s
Now I have to tell my parents that.
You've got to laugh at people who somehow believe they've won a lottery that they didn't buy a ticket for in a county they've never been to.
My SO's mum (❤️) is the absolute worst with this. 😆 We often have to tell her that Dr. Google is NOT the same as going to the doctor.
We have been trying to get ahold of you regarding your cars extended warranty. Ice T told us to call.
The orange sh!tstain is sleeping in the white house basement, running the country! Running to change his loaded Depends in the golf course outhouse, maybe.
I'm tired of people complaining about how younger people are terrible as though they weren't the ones that raised those younger people to be what they are.
This! I'm Gen X myself, but this never made sense to me. You don't get to complain about the generation you raised!
I must say that Gen-X is pretty mellow about the younger millennials and the Gen-Zs. The only thing that I like telling them is that "in MY day, we could upgrade computer hardware, we didn't need to buy a whole new computer!", Honestly, though, I like my kid's generation.
Load More Replies...I know! I love the idea that an entire righteous generation raised another generation perfectly and properly, but then the younger generation just spontaneously and without cause said, en masse, “Let’s be terrible people!”
I don’t think little kids were buying participation trophies for themselves in 1992.
A child is the product of his parents. What you put in, they let come out. What you don't put in, does not come out. (Gen X raised by Boomer who compains a lot about his own son who still has not accomplished anything at 40+).
I'm not younger, but I'm a fed up with some older people expecting gratitude "for all that they have done" while taking zero responsibility for the problems that they will leave future generations.
What exactly DID Boomers do? The last major civil rights legislation was passed when 90% of the Boomers were too young to vote. They have, though, consistently voted for politicians who work to overturn that legislation. They only protested against the war in Vietnam because there was a draft, and they didn't want to fight. The majority of Boomers supported every American war after the draft ended. The constantly voted to reduce taxes while living off the taxes that their parents had paid. They changed "the war on drugs" from war on drug addiction to a war on drug addicts. They benefitted from a welfare state while doing their best to have welfare programs that benefitted the poor cut. I could go on, but that is enough for now.
Interesting take. There are plenty of "Boomers" that are fighting to prevent civil rights being taken away. We are very much appalled by the conservative voting. The Vietnam War was protested (don't believe the conservative BS) because it was a war we, the USA, had no reason to be in. It was not like WWI or WWII. Plus the draft was taking the poor and men who were not going to college (again poor or middle class). Rich men were going to college. Oh by the way, even back then college cost a lot. The rest of your Boomer entries are conservatives. Had there been a bigger push to get more voters to use their power some of these things wouldn't have happened. There were large groups of people that felt their vote wouldn't count and therefore didn't.
Load More Replies...Yeah cool, maybe you did some shi.t, but honestly, that stuff doesn't matter in comparison to, hmm, say climate change and how you've fuc.ked up the housing market (and pretty much everything tbh)
Climate change? All boomers fault? Dig some more history. The industrial revolution is when most of pollution began but there were people already noticing air quality issues before then. It has been a battle for several generations. Acid rain in the '60's was so bad trees on higher elevations were dying. The rivers and streams were to acid for the fish. We ran into park service people while hiking that were adding, on a regular basis, chemicals to cut the acid so possibly native fish would survive. BTW what are you doing for the climate? Do you burn candles for light? Walk for ride a bike for transportation? Have you gotten rid of freon, and all chemicals, including cleaning supplies from your home. Do you have an aerosols? If so you will be the next generation to blame for climate change. It rolls over from generation to generation in case you haven't noticed.
Load More Replies...Regarding the entitlement these people have and expecting us to just be submissive and comply because "respect your elders"-My grandmother a few years ago. "She is being so disrespectful to her elders!"(talking about me in the other room to my Mom). She literally came into our house and immediately started complaining about our furniture, saying it is awful, and that we need to get rid of it because she says so! The chair she was complaining about was my property and I liked it. It was comfy and was an older chair but served it's purpose. I simply told her that I didn't find it respectful that she was coming into our home and telling us what to do with our OWN property. She was appalled! Her face was like, "how dare she not listen to me and my advice!". She actually thought about after a while and called me apologizing later that day.
It's BECAUSE of the things they have done that they get negative gratitude.
I’m 61, and really want to apologize to younger generations for my generation not fixing all the s**t that was wrong when we were young. We made it worse, because we decided money was what we wanted instead of a better world. I am so sorry we got so badly sidetracked and totally f****d up our chance. I hope you younger people have more fortitude than we did when the evil old farts start trying to tempt you away from your cause by offering you things like money and power. We took their bait, so I hope that I can warn you to be on the lookout for it and not to make the same mistake.
Every generation can be blamed for that kind of thing! We were the generation that stopped the whaling and introduced better conservation policies, we're the generation that.... we're the generation that... It is a fallacy that any one generation is responsible for the mess the world is in. No one is still alive from the industrial revolution, coal is much less-used than it ever was....
This does annoy me, it is not the older generation that made the problems but the people supposedly running the countries. Get your facts correct or you will be blamed for Trump.
Look at the bright side. We'll all be dead in a few more years. The generations to come will be blaming your generation for everything. Nothing new under the sun.
They're so judgemental and rude. I'm a restaurant worker and I swear young people are way more polite and easy going while older people have zero patience (even though they're the ones who are already retired), oftentimes make racist, sexist, homophobic and bodyshaming comments and still act like they're above the younger generation simply because they've been alive for longer.
My foster Dad was one of the kind hearted people on the face of the earth, but when dementia struck... oh, man, he made all SORTS of unkind public declarations.
Load More Replies...Yes! I was in a supermarket when an elderly man (70 something) asked for one of the employees like 'Hey, where is that fat woman who works here to help me'. So rude.
"Well, it's the truth!" was first used by the older generation now that has morphed into, "Just being honest.". NO, you're being de-constructively critical. Find another way to say it or don't say it at all.
Load More Replies...Especially in customer service, older people can be so ridiculous. Someone said the customer is always right once a hundred years ago and somehow that means even when they are dead wrong, we're supposed to just bend over and go against policies or even break the law in some cases because they don't like inconvenience. Well, welcome to the world. You are not always right. And just because I'm working and want to make you happy doesn't mean you're allowed to say or do things to me or my body that you would get punched for if I wasn't actively working. You do not always get what you want and yelling isn't going to make the reasons for that magically change.. Ugh.
This! Now that I am in my 50s, I do not hold back from my racist parents at a restaurant. Recently a voluptuous black woman and her husband came in to a restaurant after church. She was wearing a beautiful white dress. My father proceeded to point at her and has my mom insult that woman a table away within earshot. I got up, Walked over to that couple and told them that my father was going to be buying them breakfast. Right then and there I decided our breakfast was over and we were going home. When I got back to my parents house with them I let them have it full force.
Welcome to trump world. It's gradually getting worse and worse. It's not how we were taught.
Old people seem to think that because of their age, they do/act as they please and no longer have to take others' feelings into consideration.
That I’m wasting my entire purpose as a woman because I don’t want kids.
I still don't see why it's anyone else's business what a woman chooses to do with her own life and body, ffs.
Sorry Katie, when I ran your comment by the voice-hearing, money-imbezzling human who presides over my community's major decisions and thought-processes, the results were not great. While he love love LOVES the womb part, apparently his ancient, all-powerful, invisible boss does NOT like the implications of female humans roaming freely. (Something about subservience and apples and morality? I dunno.) Anyhow, the point is that I wouldn't get too attached, because...those legs. Those legs may have to go.
Load More Replies...Staaaaaaaaaaay child free. You'll probably be happier (certainly wealthier) and you'll be doing the planet a favour. And cats deserve to rule the world anyway.
Woah woah. Happier? I'm a child and you say that she'll be happier without kids. Are we beings that make older people unhappy? Now, if that woman doesn't want kids, fine, don't have kids, that's your choice, but never ever say you'll be happier without them.
Load More Replies...THAT, dear OP, is when you look them in the eye, and act as if you are about to cry, and say, "The doctor says I'm infertile, I CAN'T have children!" Guilt is SOOO much more satisfying to inflict on busybodies who make comments like that.
I once saw someone say their own tactic was to quietly say "...he died" and just leave it at that. Definitely would make the jerk think twice about minding their own goddamn business.
Load More Replies...It still takes a biological man to produce a kid, so I'm not sure how a man who doesn't want kids wouldn't also be 'wasting their entire purpose as a man'. Aside from that, what b******t.
Pull yourself up by your boot straps and work harder.
Buddy, I’ve been working 60+ hours a week and prices keep going up and my pay is not and I actually cannot afford to change jobs, change my living situation, buy a more fuel efficient car, or go to college. There actually is no out. There is no work harder and I’ll make it. I’m literally in the poverty trap. I’m slowly making my way out of it but it’s going to be a long a*s time unless some other opportunity magically appears. College isn’t the price of a McDouble anymore old man.
People need to keep up with how the economy shifts in the US and to some extent in Canada. For example, prices have gone up far faster than minimum wage, wage disparity has gotten more extreme, job security barely exists, etc. All one has to do is check the news, listen to people, etc. It makes no sense to stay frozen in time and offer platitudes.
Unfortunately this appears to be the situation throughout the world at the moment, I would like to know why?
Load More Replies...I agree 100% that college students today are being robbed, first by the college institutions and second by the predatory loan system. I support loans for education being interest free or capped at, maybe, 2%. All of us in society are going to depend on these young people, why are we trying to either keep them out of school or bankrupt them for daring to get a higher education?
It's almost impossible to NOT go to college. Employers generally expect people to have a 4 year degree. And, even for the worst jobs, they get hired before the High school grads. So, vote for the people who understand that.
Load More Replies...My grandfather, from the time he was in his 70's, had no clue how much anything cost. He was born in 1894, and was dirt poor, but he worked really hard for as long as he could. He never berated anyone for their job, or told them to work harder.
Don't go to college. Learn a trade skill. Electrician, welder, plumber, carpenter, mason....jobs that society require to keep chugging along, all of which have been operating at a deficit of MILLIONS of workers for decades. Many will pay you while you're being trained (welders start at $22/hr and can make as much as $50/hr) Several generations of kids brainwashed into thinking college was the only way forward, and it's simply not true anymore. No one saying it's not hard, but at some point someone needs to consider that they're looking past a good solution to one that doesn't exist anymore.
I don't think people were brainwashed against trade school as much as they didn't realize that white collar jobs and American industry would be outsourced as much as it has. True, you can't outsource plumbng or construction, but your body will not be taking that kind of punishment until you are 67 and retired. And the conventional wisdom is you will be on the blue-collar track socially so you won't marry up either. That's why many people aren't interested.
Load More Replies..."Pull yourself up by your bootstraps" was specifically chosen as a saying to illustrate something impossible. It's like ""pick yourself up by your belt and onto a hook". Obviously no one can do that. And yet SOMEHOW it's moved from being a laughable, "oh, we get it" phrase to something people use seriously.
Now that most job applications are through hiring agencies, and after moving when 62 and looking for a job after over 10 yrs. I really got frustrated at (warning: Boomer content ahead) not being able to go and meet with a potential employer; shake their hand; look them in the eyes and ask for a job. I feel sorry for these young people...no sense of connection to those who will ultimately control their lives.
I am a bit younger than you, but agree that the hiring process is really brutal. It took me years to find my new job I am starting on June 1. I am so fortunate in that I was wanting to change, not needing to change.
Load More Replies..."Pull yourself up by your bootstraps" does not mean what most people think it means.
Some people's bootstraps were cut short or didn't have any boots to have straps for.
every raise i get coincides with a rent or health insurance increase by the same or more. I feel like I can never save significantly and I have a great job.
This exact thing happened to me this year, with health insurance premiums erasing the 2% raise I received.
Load More Replies...Don't vote Republican. The Republicans want to take away even minimum wage so they can pay nothing.
- I don't work hard enough (I've been employed as long as I've legally been able to work, balancing up to 3 jobs at a time...but sure)
- I'm old, i.e., too old to be loved (tons of problems with that, but also, I'm 31?! That's not old)
- I expect too much (yea, decent pay, decent and affordable housing. Totally a spoiled brat).
- I'm immature because I don't want bio children (I'd argue it's a sign of my maturity that I know myself well enough to not have kids)
- My standards in relationships are too high (not to be abused by partners/friends/employers...if that's high bar, I'm speechless).
I refuse to vegetate, so at 37 I have basically nothing because I did not ate instant ramen for 4-8 years, I have worked two jobs at times and I have worked all my adult (and some of my younger years), I don't go on extravagant parties or buy very overpriced clothing, I don't have any drug addiction (not counting smoking), I just refused to live like a hermit for almost a decade so I can have things in my 30s. Oh and I am single and that is a capital offense in my country (our govt gives anything and everything to families, which makes the price of housing, cars, and everything they support skyrocket, so if you are single you are f-ed, even one of their politician said f single ppl). Oh and I have never traveled in my life, I have not even gone on a holiday in my country in a decade. Ppl wonder why I am depressed, and why I hate everything, this does not help to find a partner. Even I don't know why I have not taken drastic measures already.
Because you still have hope, Bela. You hope that in your lifetime you will be recognized and acknowledged for being a good, honest, decent and hardworking individual who takes care of themself and doesn't place a burden on anyone else by being here.
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"You kids and these damn phones..."
My parents are on their phones more than I am by a lot.
When I was a kid in the 70's, no one had cell phones. Or other screens. But we did get in trouble for wanting to spend vacations reading comic books. Drove my grandma esp. crazy. Something I remind my brother of when he complains about his daughter and her phone use. And yes, we are on our phones as much as she is...
Yep, I, too, got the comic book lectures. And remember being criticized for "always" watching TV?
Load More Replies...My mom always says that she is doing productive things on her phone but she is always playing Solitaire.
I do a lot of productive solitaire and sudoku myself. ;-)
Load More Replies...I confess to being a boomer. When my sisters and I were teens, we were constantly being harangued by our Mom for always being on the phone. Fair cop, we were. Biggest problem was that we had one phone, fastened to the wall in the kitchen, and the handset attached by a cord. So, busiest room in the house always crowded and having voices in the background all the time. Now, my teenage relatives each have their own phone and can go somewhere private to use it. No noise, no crowding, and the rest of the family still gets all their calls, plus texts and emails. IT'S WONDERFUL!
I was watching a series set in the 1980s and I forgot how irritating the constant ringing of traditional phones is.
Load More Replies...I hate when they say that. Yes, I may be on my phone a lot but it's because 1) I'm gay and there's people in my phone who support me. 2) Even if I wasn't gay, people seem to be really busy and you can always meet up with people, but this was you can still communicate with them. 3) don't act like you wouldn't be glued to this thing as well if you'd had it when you were my age.
Your parents might just be trying to figure out how to use the d@@m phone.
Okay phone use bugs me. When you're invited to a home and the hostess picks up a phone to read a text, can't it wait? Or your talking to someone and they have to answer their phone mid conversation. I have a son with epilepsy, at times I want to be sure he can reach me. I'll tell you that's why my phone is out. Otherwise, I don't need it all the time.
When I was a kid it was too much tv, then it was video games ( I missed that one I’m old but young enough to remember it ) now it’s phones .. people have been distracting themself with mindless garbage forever Before technology it was rampant gossip lol I dunno what it was before that but it was something
“No one wants to work” we want to work just not for poverty wages
"No one wants to be taken advantage of for poverty wages, in order to make corporations richer". Fixed it for ya.
Also, WalMart is awful. After I had my baby they made me pump my breast milk in the employee training room in front of everyone. "Just face the wall" they said. Also got yelled at for wearing flip flops when my feet were too swollen to wear shoes. Wouldn't let me sit to cashier even with a Dr.'s note. I could go on and on and on.
The only good thing about people who say “no one wants to work” is that they out themselves as assholes.
Who WANTS to work? Really? If I could have the same money not working I wouldn't damn well work, and I quite like my job! No-one wants to work that's why you have to pay people to do it
If you hear them say taxation is theft, then wth are "corporate profits" definitely not employee benefits or wages a.i.r.
It's not that they don't want to work, it's that the majority of them think that being a cashier for example means they get to just stand there and ring people out. They don't think they should have to do other tasks. No concept of reality. And yes, I'm speaking from first hand experience of watching countless get hired and then walk out before their first shift is done because they can't handle the load. I told my coworkers in 2010 that the full time job was dieing out and that within 10 years employers would hire part timers except for management and that any full time hires would be management grade people because they'll do the work of 3 of the younger clueless workers. And here we are, 2022 and this is exactly where employers are and some even took it another step and automated because $15/hr is too high for entry level workers. I'm not saying the workers are all at fault and it's not always the younger workers, there are always exceptions.
I've come across some employers that have a hiring bonus of let's say $2g after 90 days but then fire the employee on day 87. Another case, a guy put in 700 applications to places that all said Hiring Now. 1 called him back and didn't hire him. And no he didn't have any background issues, he was actually a very desirable person.
Load More Replies...Ok to be fair .. I think most people don’t want to actually work lol … but yes I know that’s not the point .. for me I’m wondering why I’m killing myself with three jobs to not be able to afford housing or food anyway … at this point I’m like why AM I working ? Might as well move somewhere warm and pop up a tent near a beach and just enjoy doing nothing lol ..
In Australia wait staff don't need to rely on tips to get by and this is why so many people won't tip here. I'll tip for exceptional service but not because it's expected. If I was in America I would tip because I know it's different over there.
Right. When the first Bush got in the restaurant industry made an agreement that waitstaff wouldn't be paid minimum wage because that would save the restaurant industry. And they said it would be temporary until the economy picked up---but it never went away. Surprise...
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I’m 32 so not young not old but definitely hate hearing s**t like for example my bfs dad saying he didn’t know he raised 3 girls when he found out my bf and his brother drink tea.
It’s just dumb. Like there are much better insults then calling someone a girl ffs
Load More Replies...at this point calling someone a ̈girl¨ is just a really annoying thing to say
Where is this? The UK runs on tea! Tea isnt gendered here nearly everyone drinks tea! also calling a boy a girl as an insult is just dumb, im a boy and i like having long hair, im a goth that likes ‘girly’ clothes and drinking tea from a proper teacup and saucer and being called a girl or gay is just not even an insult those aren’t bad things 😅
Saying things like that is wrong in so many ways! Sadly, many people never grow up mentally or emotionally.
That’s just stupid. I worked for a retired Navy Master Chief. He’s in his eighties. He always drank tea and couldn’t stand coffee. He was bigger, faster, stronger than than anyone else around.
me happily drinking my "manly" coffee, which isn't even coffee and it's just milk and creamer with a little bit of coffee
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How we can't fix anything ourselves. Then promptly ask us to fix their WiFi, set up their new phone and figure out why their computer is running slow.
We can do plenty, we just have a different skill set!
I'm Gen X, I can do both! I've had a computer since I was a child, and was taught all the basic practical stuff. I'm always surprised when people can't hang a lamp or change a tire. If you weren't taught - google it, most things are pretty simple.
Agreed. If you don’t know how to do something, there is a YouTube video out there.
Load More Replies...We can't fix things because our parents never taught us how. Everything I know about cars, I learned from a class I took explicitly to spite my father, who didn't think a woman should go to a class on car repair and maintenance. (Because apparently women have magical vagina powers to fix all of our car problems?)
I think I count as "Gen X", my boomer parents are mystified as to why I don't spend vast amounts of my sparse free time redecorating our house every other year like their generation was fond of doing. Well, it's partly because it's OK as it is for us, partly because we ain't going to get their level of pension and need to spend more time keeping up with the job because darned fast-changing technology and globalisation. If something complex needs doing, it's often more efficient to pay someone to do a proper job rather than faff around using up sparse free time to end up with something unsatisfactory. Not that I'm reluctant to try or anything, but you have to choose which battles to fight with the time and resources available.
We don't "fix" anything anymore because appliances are effectively irreparable due to planned-obsolescence. Ask Gramps to fix a modern washing machine, and let see how long he lasts before throwing in the towel. I could Fix a 30-year old Whirlpool washer because it was effectively electro-mechanical. I can fix a cupboard-hinge because i have a 3D printer. I can fix a wooden desk because i Know woodworking. Fixing "electronified" appliances 20 years ago involved being able to remove a blown logic microprocessor the size of of a toffee, with a chip-lifter. Today an entire computer fits on a fingernail... Electronic components are now so small, only machines can service them or acutely specialized people using high powered microscopes. Spending $250 for a specialist to repair a $15 controller-board is just not worth it.especially when the new appliance costs $150
I'm a boomer and I can do all the tech stuff. Well I could until I got too sick to work, struggle a bit now but I get there in the end.
Not to mention, who taught them those skills? Usually parents and grand parents. I "love" seeing people who never taught a skill bitching when their kid doesn't have it. My husband did that about bike riding. He never bought or fixed up a free bike for my son. never tried to teach him, never took him anywhere to borrow one and learn, but then bitched that a 10-year-old couldn't ride a bike. I asked him "When did he get a bike?" and my hubs got real quiet and realized how stupid he was being.
Yes...the problem is that you're missing practical life skills. How to change a tire, how to fix a toilet or sink, how to build a tree house or change your oil. Having skills that pertain to area's of life that are clearly in "luxury" territory, isn't a defense for not being able to use a screw driver or swing a hammer.
Just had someone the other day ask me "so why arent you married?"
I'm like.. if i met someone worth marrying, then I would!
LOL, I had a well meaning, but clueless older person tell me, "You know, if you lost that excess weight, you could have any man you wanted." I told him I didn't want to get married, and he kind of stammered for a second, "Okay, well, I guess you could have any woman you wanted." I rendered them completely speechless - not easy with this gabby soul - when I said I was NOT interested in being in ANY kind of relationship.
Load More Replies...I would never ask someone why they’re single, but I’d never think a prospective spouse’s main quality was being worthy of me.
My favorite response was "exactly whom that I've dated would you like to see me married to?" Which I guess only works as long as the parents don't think you let a good one get away
There is hard to find good person to marry these days. Marriage don't seem last long these days either.
Ugh, so much this! As women, we grow up having people tell us that we are strong, independent, and don't need a "man" and then ask us "So, when are you going to settle down and get married?"🙄
The answers to all personal questions are, in an escalating scale: "Why do you ask? Why is that important to you? Why do you need to know that?" "Why would you ask a question like that?" "Do you think you should be asking that kind of question?" "Who do you think you are to ask that kind of question?" "Don't you have anything better to think about?" And "Have you tried minding you own business?"
I hate how we've gone from me getting facebook as a teenager and my parents being like "DON'T BELIEVE EVERYTHING YOU SEE ON THE INTERNET" to them sending me "medical research" from unverified/unreputable sources.
Literally my dad. I told him one thing that was clearly right from a very reputable site and just because it wasn’t what he wanted to hear he said it wasn’t true and I shouldn’t be so nieve. Then, just because my mom drinks La Croix he says he saw that there is rat poison in it (my mom and dad are divorced). And guess where he got this info, FaceBook.
“just start saving! you’ll be able to buy a house in no time”
How out of touch do you have to be to say that? I've never heard anyone say that in the last 10-15 years.
This is, verbatim, what I thought when I read it.
Load More Replies...Hard to save when you need a side gig just to pay rent, bills, and food, and you’re just praying every day that the car doesn’t break down.
If you save 200 euros every month you'll be able to afford a 300k home in 1500 years :)
Thats if you save 200 a year, rather then months. If it was months it would be 125 years
Load More Replies...It really frustrates me that people don't understand that house prices are rising faster than people can save. Some stupid woman on the TV suggested people give up buying coffee daily and Netflix to save for a house but that'll save less than £100 per month. My house has gone up in value by an average of £800 per month in the last 5 years, so saving £100 per month puts a hopefull buyer £700 per month FURTHER AWAY from being able to afford it.
I feel genuinely sorry for the young in this respect...so very sad. It is my hope that they can enjoy real fruits of their labors, in all respects of life.
I have always tried very very hard to save for a house. I made budgets and saved $5 bills in envelopes and religiously made deposits to savings every time we had a spare dime. I did that for 20 years. You know how much we had to buy a house after 20 years? Zero.
Typically said by someone who spent a grand total of $5,000 in their entire college career. I know my tuition in first year was $540 dollars for a full course load for the entire year. And if I wanted to take extra courses there was no additional charge. And it was raised to $640 in my second year and remained at that level until I graduated. Again that was for the full year and a full course load. Again, there was no additional fee if I wanted to take extra courses.
If minimum wage had kept up with inflation, it'd be over $25/hour now. When the average house is over $200k and the average salary is 35k, no bank wants to lend you that money. Many people make less.
Anything to the effect of "young people can't have back pain (or any other physical disability)." Like, dude, I *wish* being in my twenties made me immune to being injured. But that's literally just not how the human body works.
Exactly. I wish that I had a healthy body. My grandaunts are 93 and 92 and they can walk longer than me and are healthier...
I get this all the time, too. 11 years ago 32 was too young to have the amount of arthritis I had at the time. Did they help me do anything about it, NO, they ignored it because "There's no way this is true, you're faking it, you're just lazy" Now, 11 years later, I'm bound to a wheelchair with even more arthritis, fibromyalgia and all the discs in my lumbar spine are either bulging or protruding or possibly worse but I can't have an MRI so we can't see how bad it actually is. And not only is my mother bitching about me being in a wheelchair and "You don't need that stupid thing, get up and walk you're fine" and trying to block my receiving a service dog, but the doctors won't do a darn thing for me either, I'm BEGGING for surgery to fix my spine just for a little relief and to be able to go and do what my son wants to do while he still wants to do it with me
"Your young, you shouldn't have chronic back pain!" "You just need to walk more, then all the problems will go away!" uhm- lady- i dont walk because it hurts. You telling me walking will help me get rid of the pain? yeah right. -Jim
Depends on the cause of the pain. Walking helps build muscle in supporting areas so it can help, but only if the problem is lack of support.
Load More Replies...A third of the people in my middle school have a wrist brace or a knee brace.
me, being over 6'6 and having A HORRIBLE back pain issue. and only being around 19
I hurt my back while working when I was 19 and it has never been the same since regardless of what I do. Now I'm almost 49 and I have been dealing with degenerative disc disease since I was in my 30s. So yeah, 20 year olds can have bad backs.
"You just have to work harder if you want to buy a house, that's what I did"
Yeah well I don't make 50% of the price of a house, a year, like you did
My parents' (Silent-Boomer cusp) first house was 1 year of my dad's salary. My (GenX) house cost more than 3 years of my salary. And I was only able to buy it because I worked 6 months of overtime (60-80 hours a week) and, at the time, it was a buyer's market. I still could only afford a small 2BR house.
Eighteen years ago we bought a house (semidetached), now identical houses in the same street goes for three to four times the price, and salaries have "only" doubled. The houses could easily have been more expensive, but we had a local economic recession about eight years ago where prices plummeted.
Load More Replies...I never looked at it this way, but yeah, the house down the street sold for 10x my annual salary. When I bought my house 12 years ago, it cost roughly 2.5x my annual salary. Now it would be at least 6x for this house.
Load More Replies...daaaaang that puts it in perspective. Bought a house last year that's 6x my annual salary and I'm still so thrilled and over-the-moon about it.
I only managed to buy a house because my husband and I got very lucky with timing and several other factors, had to cash in some of my retirement savings for the down payment, and it's gotten so much worse with all the corporations "investing" in buying houses, driving prices sky high for people who actually need a place to live rather than a bit of extra profit.
I ask those people who much they think a house costs these days. Unless they bought a house recently, they're never even close.
Unspoken thought: 'maybe when you kick off I can sell your house and buy my own'. A lot of unspoken 'waiting to fill dead mens shoes' out there..
11 years ago, the houses near my work in the middle of a midwestern city were about 2x my teacher salary (and I am well paid for a teacher since I have a doctorate, I make double what an entry level teacher with a BA/BS would make). These are older, smaller 2-3 beds with 1 baths. Now, they're going for 5-6x my salary, and my salary increased 30% since I started 11 years ago- it would be 10x more if you count my starting salary. The only way I could buy my current home last year as a GenX was due to covid; the pause of student loans, the stimulus checks, and not being able to spend money due to closures. My current home is about 2.5x my salary, which is okay with my. I am trying to pay the principal down quickly so that it would be paid off by the time I retire. Now with the crazy inflation and gas prices, and the return of student loan payments, I worry about being able to continue making extra payments or even just to save.
And in New Zealand a house is 10 times your household income (so, two salaries). And that's after you've saved your 20% deposit.
I get the point in this post but I am 67 and I can't remember a time when you could buy a livable house for double the amount of your yearly wage. In 1967, in Toronto ( highest pay rate in Canada at the time) an electrician made 4.10 an hour, a female typist made .67- .75 cents an hour. If you were lucky enough to get the 4.10 an hour it meant that you made 8,528.00 per year. The average house at the time was 25,000 to 30,000 for a family bungalow with 1 bathroom. So the highest pay for a qualified building tradesman was about 1/4 of the price of a home- better than today by a mile but not 50%.
how sensitive we are
I made a comment on a YouTube video calling a gay couple cute and some f****n boomer stalked my YouTube channel and felt the need to insult me several times
like I’m not the sensitive one in this situation
There are insensitive morons in every age group. I'm sorry that happened to you.
Sounds like someone's grandkids needed to come over for a visit and cut off the internet connection.
I hate how my Dad and step-Mom refuse to call my Trans friend by their preferred orientation. Like straight up REFUSE! It's disgusting.
I'm petty so I would just start misgendering your parents on purpose. At least then they would know how your friend feels.
Load More Replies...We can improve ourselves by being open minded, but we still have to wait for the ignorant to slowly die.
I just can't wait for Jesus to come back and finally save me from this fallen world.
Load More Replies...I just have an issue when it falls to s situation where I might not agree personally with a person, and it is seen as a xxxxphobia of some sort. I don't fear it, I just don't agree with some things.
"The young people always just want to Drink and go to partys"
1. No
2. Don't pretend like you didn't do this too lol
Don't the stats say that the kids these days drink a lot less than previous generations?
being drunk just doesnt have its kick as much anymore :/
Load More Replies...In fact isn’t our generations a lot more introverted so we don’t like going to those huge parties?
I didn't, but I'm boring (and eventually found out I have autism, so that makes sense now)
I grew up not far from Woodstock, NY. Both my brother and sister went to the music festival. My sister came home that night and complained about the traffic. My brother came home 3 days later. True story.
Load More Replies...Who has time to drink and go to parties when we are always on our phones?
How do you know, dad? Do you have a reference from when you were young?
"You should really buy a house and settle down"
I'm bloody well trying Karen. Just cause you bought your house in the 60's for 40k and a blueberry, off your husbands salary, whilst you were a stay at home mom, then sold it for 600k this year to retire off of- Doesn't mean that it's the same for this generation, right now. Far from it infact. Just. Shut up.
The fact that she sold it for 600k when she bought it for 40k didn’t ring any bells for her?
"stop eavesdropping"
I'm not eavesdropping you're just talking loud because you're deaf and I'm not
I've gone from my parents (76 & 80) going from telling me NOT to yell at them as a teenager to now NEEDING to yell at them because they won't wear their hearing aids!
I'm sick of hearing about them b******g about participation trophies. I got one in middle school and was told to appreciate that I got it. I didn't want it. I knew that I hadn't done anything to deserve a trophy. It went into a drawer and was forgotten.
People love complaining about how participation trophies have ruined children when it was the adults that decided to hand them out. How idiotic is it to basically say "here's your award for existing." followed by "You f*****s need to be awarded for just existing!" in nearly the same breath?
My bro-in-law coaches kids' soccer. He wouldn't be keen on participation trophies. He blew off an email from a couple who worried about their kid's self-esteem if they didn't play in every game. My BIL explained to the kid why they weren't playing in one of the games and the kid was fine. He's very good with children, but he doesn't treat them like delicate hothouse plants. He definitely has more patience with the kids than their parents!
A few years ago my sons hockey coach wanted to give all the kids trophies and there was a lot of push back. Even the kids said they didn't want trophies they didn't earn.
Load More Replies...It's so much easier to hand out participation trophies than it is to actually PARENT your children into being able to accept not coming first.
Years back, my boss was on the phone with his disappointed son who didn't win at hockey. First, he commiserated, saying, "Oh, that's too bad", then he reassured him, "Well, at least you tried and that's what counts." It was simple and sweet.
Load More Replies...Participation trophies didn't improve my self-esteem, they taught me not to trust feedback from adults because I'd be rewarded no matter now badly I failed. Which made my self esteem *worse*.
A lot of people don't even care about participation trophies. No one cares except the people giving the "awards" with nothing to do. It's not as big of a problem as it's made out to be.
Like kids dont understand the difference between winning and just being a part of something. Give the kid a f*****g trophy for participating if you want to, they know very well that they didnt win and that the trophy isn't an award for them coming first.
Also, for very young children who are afraid of a new activity, going out there and participating is an achievement. We don’t even keep score at wee little kids’ soccer games because we’re still trying to teach them how to play, so they know there’s no winning.
Load More Replies...I always hated getting participation "awards" when I was a kid. As far as I was concerned it was just another way of rubbing it in that I didn't actually win anything. It certainly didn't give me undeservedly high self esteem - in fact it did the opposite.
The bloody gen. X-ers weren't the ones inventing and handing the stupid things out, were they!
Tired of people referring to their significant others as the old ball and chain or just talking s**t about their wives to friends a lot. It’s like their wives are a burden to them?
It's endless, and even the 25 year olds are doing this. I'm sick of it with both genders, if the other person is such a piece of s**t, why are you with them?
Load More Replies...When I was a stripper (worked a lot of bucks parties ) 😂 (great way to start a story) I found these were the guys who married quick and straight out of school to meet society expectations and they don’t grow together as a couple as they have no life experience to compare and it’s their first serious relationship. Not all but most. This is just from 10yrs experience of listening to men tell me their life stories and problems also in the regular bar but mainly doing skimpy jobs.
I'm thinking religion is the blanket response. What would their parents think sort of thing.
Load More Replies...When I hear them criticize their spouses like that I always think to myself, “doesn’t say much about you does it? After all you’re the idiot who chose to marry them.”
Sometimes the complaint does say more about the complainer than their spouse. For example, my mother would say that my father was awful over pretty much anything big or small. On the other hand, one of my relatives harrumphed a bit at their spouse's lack of interest in travel (but loved everything else about them). No surprise, they worked out a compromise as do many happy couples. A note: my mother married in her teens, while my relative met their spouse in early middle age.
Load More Replies...I never understood the ball and chain talk. I don't think of my spouse that way at all or feel that it's appropriate in a joking way. Everytime I hear it I feel like I'm transported back to the 50's. But you know what? Not everyone had birth control then. There was an expectation to get married if you got pregnant, if if it was later discovered to be someone you didn't like after all. If there is any ball and chain, it would be the times.
Seriously! If you dislike your partner/spouse/significant other so much, just walk the hell away. You don't look like a hero or even a decent person when you talk trash about your spouse.
If you don't like your spouse/SO, why are you with them in the first place? My wife is my best friend, companion and life partner. I enjoy spending time with her. I don't understand the others who just want a vacation from their SO.
I think it's funny when my hubby refers to me as "the trouble and strife" or "the old ball and chain".
Then they ask young people why were waiting so long to get married
"Your generation is sensitive and weren't taught hard work" yall literally raised us, how is it our faults.
People have been sensitive about different things throughout history. Now people are more open and have a vocabulary to express difficult emotions and situations.
That's true. More doors are becoming more welcoming as we progress with emotional growth & awareness from generation to generation.
Load More Replies...My mum fondly calls my generation (z) the useless generation 😑, in my day when I was 20 I would... yeah in your day but you didn't teach us anything, i had to Google everything how to boil rice because you didn't teach me any survival /living lessons I'm worried about finishing university because our unemployment rate is high, and somehow its our fault because we 'don't want to work'
We’re not sensitive, we’re kind, excepting and genuinely care about others.
Remember, all those hours studying for your desk job to avoid talking to ill mannered customers and doing physical labor isn't hard work.
"When I was your age, I already had 5 kids and two grandchildren" or "My granddaughter is your age and she already has 3 kids. When are you going to give you mom some grandkids?!".
I'm 30. Not that old, not that young. But this kind of comment? Definitely old for me. I'm so tired of older ladies saying this. I think I wasn't even 18 when they started! They don't accept any reasonable answer that isn't a "I'm working on it". A "maybe later" or "I'm doing my best to get a steady career before having kids" or "we are saving"? Gets them on a rampage saying some bs about kids not costing a thing and that I'm getting old or that women were born to be mothers or whatever... So I started being rude. Sorry, but not sorry.
Another option is to straight-up lie. It could be a polite lie, "I'll certainly give it a thought" or it could be a ruder one, "I'm having as much unprotected sex as my vag can handle!"
Hahahhahahahahha omg yes, I’m using the last one
Load More Replies...“When are you going to have children?” “I dunno. When are you going to stop acting like a child and asking about things that aren’t your business?”
How about: "you people f****d the world up so badly I don't really want to inflict that on any kids, but thanks for asking".
I've known 30-ish grandmothers and 40-something great-grandmothers. Proud as punch, as if getting knocked up while still children was a 'plus'. Made me think they were too dumb to know about birth control and had nothing else going for them but to breed.
I've seen the 30-ish grandmothers, too! They came across as, "I know! I'm a grandma! Can you believe how good I look?!"
Load More Replies...Funny that women old enough to have been at Woodstock, then burned their bras, went to work, faced the glass ceiling, then took a baseball bat to break it, and tried their best to “have it all” (which meant a career and family), should be talking like women are nothing but incubators. Then again, we did have the hypocrite Phyllis Schlafly, who was very publicly against womens liberation, even though as an attorney, activist, and author, she was reaping the benefits of it.
If it’s your parents, say “if I had kids now, you would have to raise them.” That should shut them up.
Brain-washed vag-bags having no concept of a life outside of being a pulsating baby-machine. 'Great, gran, how were your teens/20's/30's? Miserable? Sounds great!'
How about "mind your own f*cking business"? I don't "owe" anyone grandchildren.
"Video games are a waste of time."
Says the boomer dips**t sitting on the couch, sitting on his phone with Fox News playing in the background.
you could spend a whole day doing anything. Gardening, baking, reading, working, you name it. a whole day. no one says squat. but the MOMENT you sit down to play some minecraft its 'a waste of time' or 'invaluable to your day'...
Playing video games actually HELPS my mental health issues. A little bit of escapism allows me to forget how f**king miserable I am most days. (F**K depression!!)
Load More Replies...I'm 58 years old and I still enjoy playing video games. Keeps the mind a bit sharper.
It depends on what kind of games you play. Many games are simulations of real life, and hence offer the opurtunity of learning important lessons in a risk free enviroment, which is a much better way to get some important experiences than the more hurtful real life experience. E.g. strategy games can introduce you to the consiquenses of the debt trap, in a place where you have the oportunity to start over, once you have gotten the point and knows that taking up new loans to cover the cost of the first loans will just direct you into a downward going spiral. Pay a few games and you will know that it is better off building up a bit of a reserve to pay for unforseen expenses, as being poor so you can only affort short term solutions is costly. Furthermore some logic based games, can help exercise your brain, and help you think in the right way. Despite staring into a screen may seem a bit antisocial, some people build up valuable relationships through coorporations in multiplayer games.
"When you're older you'll agree with me."
Ffs just because you're older doesn't mean you're always right or that you know the answers to all my life's problems. You grew up in a different time period, with different problems, and different social views. Your problems might be similar, and you might be right some of the time, but that is no excuse to shut down every logical point I make against your beliefs with this line.
Nope. Still don't like cooked carrots. Still think you shouldn't be crappy to people because they're different. Guess I'm still an idealist. Now I'm mad that you thought that was an insult.
I was raised conservative. Even as a child, I thought a lot of the conservative mindset was BS. My mother would smile indulgently and tell me that "You'll get more conservative as you get older." Eff that noise--I've gotten decidedly more liberal, esp because the alleged Republicans today are nothing like the Republicans I grew up with. I prefer democracy, not theocracy, thanks.
Some who were idiots at 20, are still idiots at 60. Age doesn't bring wisdom. I'm 60(ish) now, and most of the older folks I knew 'back in my day' were not that bright. Many Millenials/GenZ are smarter now than some of my contemporaries.
Thank you albernistuff! When my mom turned 70, she started to refer to herself as "a wise old woman" based solely on her age. I asked her what she had learned in all her years of wisdom, what knowledge could she pass on to me. Crickets. Blank stare. That's all she had.
Load More Replies...Kinda on the fence with this one. I’m 61 now, and in some ways I wish I’d listened to some of the advice I was given when I was young, some of which was framed with ”you’ll understand when you get older”. I DO understand now, and I’m sorry I had the arrogance of youth to think you were wrong and I was right. Because I was wrong not to listen. Though not in every case. Quite a bit of advice I was given by older folks was dead wrong, and I’m glad I didn’t take it. Guess you have to be open to hearing it, but sift through it, discard the b******t, and keep the wisdom.
Our Grandmother says this c**p all the time, especially about our clothes. Like, jeez, they aren't your clothes, get over it. -Jim
Some rules never change. Liars will be liars, "bad boys/girls" only ever look after no.1. If it sounds to good to be true, it probably is. etc.
“I have more life experience than you…” then proceeds to go on an emotionally stunted rant based on their own personal bias due to trauma they refuse to process because “they know best.”
Alot of people need to know this, especially older ones: If you talk down to someone's feelings due to having gone through similar trauma and "came out fine" - you didn't in fact come out fine.
I have more life experience than my kids, but it isn't the same. I have more life experience than kids from worn-torn countries, homeless situations, abuse situations, living through trauma, etc.. but they know so much more than me in so many ways. To dismiss their knowledge is to choose ignorance
A favorite bumper sticker, "In order to be old and wise, you must first be young and stupid."
F*****g up is an important part of learning. People who have never f****d up, don't know their limits, and properly have not reached the full potential they have in life. However learning from other people's f**k ups, is often far faster and way less hurtfull than making your own experiences and repeating their mistakes. Much of the advice we get from more experienced people is them really saying. I did this, realised it way stupid because of X, and I want to spare you going through the same pain as I did by sharing my costly experience.
Load More Replies...I used to tell my parents that I would never have "life experience" if they didn't let me experience life.
I'm an older millennial. I have a good job, own a house, am married, and have two kids.
It is 2022 and at least half the times I hear someone older reference "millennials" it's talking about people who are currently the age my cohort was 22 years ago when the millennium was a thing.
Are they going to go straight to talking about Gen Alpha, and just skip Gen Z? Just like nobody ever talks about Gen X? It's all Boomers and Millennials.
Sshhhh.... let them fight amongst themselves. Not that we care anyway.
Load More Replies...I am 63 and most of the people I work with are between 20 and 40 years old and they are some of the nicest, most polite, kind, intelligent people I know. All of the comments on this thread are just damned annoying. I never say any of this to my colleagues. They are fine people. Every generation has problems. That is the way of the world. I think we should all just stop whining on about how so-and-such is wrong and just get on and fix it!
I've been called a millennial in a derogatory context. By someone my age. We're both Gen X.
I'm 55 I still get tired of my parents telling me to find a good church home.
A church one attends regularly. I like how the same people who tell us computers/video games are a waste of time spend their whole Sunday at the House of the Invisible Sky Daddy.
Load More Replies...Some of these older people still haven't learned not to force religion on others :|
My maternal grandmother was like that. It was really fun.
Load More Replies...Is there one that doesn't drain money out of the poor, or persecute teen mothers, or single mothers, etc? Or give a wink and a nod about being part of a massive child abuse machine? I can wait...
There are some really good leftie churches and Unitarian ones. You have to look though.
Load More Replies...I'm a Christian with no church affiliation and a practicing witch. So I should find a Catholic church, right?
Oh you mean the one were a spaceship is coming to save us and we need to dance in the 12hr of vega moo beta cycle?
Older folks constantly trying to tell anybody younger than them that they don't know what getting old is!
35 year old: Damn, I'm starting to feel more tired in the morning and feel a little more sore after exercise than I used to!
55 year old: You think you're old!? You're not old! I'M OLD! You think that's old!? Well wait to you get to be as old as I am!
Its like they pride themselves on being older and more sore than you and want to put you in your place for even suggesting you notice a difference in your body because of aging.
I like the bumper sticker I saw that read, "35, that magical age when you finally get your head together in time to start watching your body fall apart."
It could be just an awkward attempt to make conversation and find some sort of common ground.
I see it more as a warning. It is their way to remind you that you are mortal, and that where you are now may be your prime time. So if you are to ever reach the goals you are dreaming of, now may be the best time. If you just keep on waiting for the perfect moment, and think that now is not it due to some minor deficiency, you may end up waisting the majority of your precious life on it. So start acting now.
For some people the discomfort the suffer is their only measure of accomplishment.
I grew up in a family that always aims for the "Who's the worst off?"-trophy and I figured that this was the only way to get caring or loving attention from their families for generations. My brother also started using this as a coping strategy. Another thing is that this "respect the elderly" is stuck into their heads to the extend that age is the overall wisdom paired with very-worst-off-because-time - no matter if this is true or not, whether the elderly are nice in the first place or not. I don't know whether it's the many narcissists in my family, the struggle for money, the endless struggle for some sort of status... I see it as coping strategies for stuff that happened but I decided that it's not the way I want to live and view myself.
Excuses for the fact that they haven't learned anything new since they were 30.
Like bro come on computers been around for 30 years at the very least and you still don't know how to use one?
The only excuse that you have is laziness.
Edit: it's more than just computers. Things like the fact that Yugoslavia, and Czechoslovakia don't exist anymore, nor do east and west Germany, basic geography beyond the US, Canada and Mexico etc., . Many things they should know by know.
- a commenter made the point, it's the same with racist and sexist language. A lot of them have not been ok for literal decades but people haven't bothered to learn that and/or not use them.
Edit 2: those of you exclusively focusing on computer use it's definitely an important thing I'm not saying you have to necessarily know how to create a spreadsheet I am saying that you need to to use the technology that exists in public that the public runs on without slowing down or negatively impacting anybody else. Just like any other societal norms that we do.
Agreed. Learn how to use an ATM. Nobody said you had to like it, just suck it up and do it.
🤣🤣Yeah! and stop writing godd***n checks in the checkout line! Debit cards will not steal your soul.
Load More Replies...My grandad is 90 and he knows everything about computers hes better at tech than me 😅
Meanwhile my grandfather still doesn't have an email account lmao
Load More Replies...Not easy to learn something you have little or no access to or use for. Add mental/physical problems to lack of funds and the difficult and horrific becomes unthinkable
"You kids had it so easy growing up and now your kids have it easier than that"
THAT'S THE F*****G POINT! WE'RE SUPPOSED TO MAKE IT EASIER FOR THE NEXT GENERATION!!!!!
Edit: I should add that Boomers and Gen Xers say this stuff yet IT ISN'T EASIER! Life is hard and expensive because they ruined it. And they continue to ruin it but call us lazy because it's beyond our power and ability to fix.
No. GenXers do NOT say this stuff. We got out of school just in time for a horrible recession with rents and prices through the roof. Employers stopped offering company pensions and started expecting you to give up your entire life for your job, and for garbage pay and benefits. We literally went through all this s**t first. While it is absolutely worse for Millennials than it was for us, don't put us in the Boomer category, because we didn't have it easy like they did.
I'm also a GenXer, I have *never* said that stuff. My parents' generation is huge, and stupidly votes for greedy m-f-ers because they're "tough" and "value tradition" and don't seem to realize how screwed they've made the rest of us.
Load More Replies...It gets even worse when some self-righteous jerk implies that the younger generation is weak and pathetic because we're not fighting WW2. A*****e, the soldiers who fought and died in that war did so in order that others wouldn't HAVE to! To make a safer future for their children and grandchildren! So it's really insulting to veterans as well as young people. I know if I did have to fight a war, I sure as hell wouldn't want to inflict that nightmare on the generation after mine.
I don’t even get the whole WWII “greatest generation” argument. Most of them are dead. Boomers were their kids, and many of the successful Boomers I know treated their parents like sh¡t. And didn’t we just end one of the longest US military engagements in history with how many veterans of Middle East wars suffering from PTSD and other illnesses that lots of Boomers b¡tch they are faking it or just get over it and stop being lazy and get a job.
Load More Replies...I have said it before and I will say it again, don't lump all Boomers together!! I used to be a college prof., but then got hit head-on and my life changed forever. I live so far below the poverty level that I can barely see the sun!
Uh, Gen X here - I have NEVER told ANYONE that things are even easier for them than they were for me. When I graduated from high school in the mid 80s, I was competing for scarce jobs with Boomers in their working prime. So, not ALL of Gen X is disparaging the Millennials or younger generations.
Right! I'm sorry. As a GenXer, I apologize for making other generations miserable. Actually, F that. Every new generation is handed various circumstances that can be blamed on the previous generation. It's also called "life." "Facts" change over time as new knowledge is gathered. I have noticed a trend lately to blame everyone but yourself for the problems that crop up in life. Just deal with it. I don't recall blaming boomers & other generations for anything. Reading this post makes me think; Wtf is wrong with you? Just get it together & move on. The only person who can change your circumstances is yourself. Blaming others is the laziest way to justify your problems.
And THAT isthe gen X attitude. Just do what you need to and if you f**k it up, cry, curse and do it again better.
Load More Replies...Yeah, Gen-X didn't do this. We got screwed before your generation did. And were told it was all our fault, because we were slackers.
"Just pause it"
This resonates with me more than any other post! (probably because I'm a Gen Z)
"when I was your age we never......."
Some things are different, when I was a teenager I never wanted to hang out with my parents or talk to my friends' parents. The teenagers of today actually chose to hang out with me and want to have long conversations. I enjoy how communicative they are, but I don't understand why they do it.
Just wanted to mention that in many restaurants in my city, it seems to me that younger people are more polite, at least to me. I am 67, and I adore young people. Such energy and smarts! Boomers need to shut up.
Maybe your circle didn’t but others did. Everything that old folks (and I’m 61, so feel funny saying old folks) complain about was done back in the day—-and back in the day before that. It just was kept undercover and not talked about. That’s why Aunt Sally went to visit a distant cousin for 6 months in her senior year of high school (teen pregnancy). That’s why Uncle George “travelled” for so long (prison, mental hospital, or rehab), and that’s why Uncle John had a long term “best friend/roommate” and was also too busy to visit (gay, or possibly a wife whose was a different race, and shunned by his family). When you unlock the code for all those issues, the past is as full of problems—-maybe even more so since they weren’t addressed directly—-as the present.
I took great delight in teaching a 90 year old family friend "bad habits". Dipping chips (UK) into soup...in public. Eating dessert first. Wearing whatever you are comfortable in. Blowing a raspberry in answer to a rude comment. Playing in puddles. She would giggle and say "My mother would be horrified" and then do it anyway
Tired of hearing Boomers act like they had it hard
I'm the tail end of the boomers, and yes many of us had it hard. All generations have their challenges.
Guess this is also about which "class" you were born into and how supportive your family was or could be. My grandparents struggled financially, so they couldn't buy a house or pay for their children's education. Sure, school is free and university would've also been free in Germany, but my parents could not have higher education and had to start working right after school. Additionally I am very sure that they experienced violence, not just at home but also in school and on the streets. Back then it was still perfectly acceptable to slap another person's child if they were sassy in public. My father never really talks about his childhood but I know he was terribly harassed in school because as the youngest of four boys he had to wear their old and broken clothes. Suck it up and drive on, seemed to be the Motto. I think that a lot of this is the root for those nasty comments today.
Load More Replies...They did. As does every generation. I'm an older millennial and if I lived in my parents generation (WIDELY accepted racism & homophobia, minimum wage of $1.00-1.25, totally acceptable for your boss to slap you on the a*s and call you "toots," Vietnam, the draft) I would have a breakdown. Oh wait. I wouldn't because it was also still very acceptable to lock women in asylum for having "spells." Yup totally sounds easy.
My least favourite is definitely "Oh young people are offended by everything! What a bunch of crybabies!" Next time someone posts a meme to that effect on my FB feed I'm going to respond with a link to "Moral panics of the 1960s".
Those same people lose their s**t if you suggest anything they disagree with
Load More Replies...Once had an old lady be like, 'there weren't any lesbians back in my day.' b***h of course there were they just didn't want to admit it because of homophobic f***s like you. Now stop bothering me and my girlfriend. Eat your mushy brussel sprouts and mind ya business.
I live in a building for people with disabilities (like myself) and mostly elderly people. They never open their windows, or the windows in the common areas, they crank up the central heating in the common areas even though there is a heatwave, or it's the middle of summer; the corridors of stuffy and stink of boiled cabbage and old urine... The washing machines and dryers are always set on the highest heat setting, because everybody does the laundry on a boil wash; and then there is this creepy old man who lurks around the corridors, listening at people's doors and sticking his nose into everybody's business. Unfortunately I need to live in a place like this but I'm about 20 to 30 years younger almost everybody else - the only other younger person in this building is my partner who is 4 years older than me.
If at all possible, see if you can live out of the country. Sometimes it's cheaper if you have steady income.
Load More Replies...I read somewhere idk where that either Julius Caesar or Augustus complained that "The youth of today have no respect for their elders." It's the same in every generation. Only difference now is media means it can be shouted about, hence this whole post on Bored Panda. Internet. Nothing wrong with that, it's progress and how the human world works, and always has. But, just know, you younger ones, that your children will do the same. Blame you for all the wrongs they want to correct.
for me its the fact that a lot of them wont or dont use the internet claiming its this new thing i mean come on you were alive when it was invented they expect the majority of people to be inconvenienced by not using it because they dont want to
It’s not that older people are more rude and insensitive. Strangers are rude and insensitive to each other. When people only associate with others as much alike as themselves, or interact anonymously online, there’s no relating or kind understanding, just flexing and judging. I know: we old people bore you, but maybe that’s why the only ones who get through are the jerks (who were jerks 40 years ago too)
Well, it is true that people are more likely to remember someone who was a total jerk than otherwise.
Load More Replies...My least favourite is definitely "Oh young people are offended by everything! What a bunch of crybabies!" Next time someone posts a meme to that effect on my FB feed I'm going to respond with a link to "Moral panics of the 1960s".
Those same people lose their s**t if you suggest anything they disagree with
Load More Replies...Once had an old lady be like, 'there weren't any lesbians back in my day.' b***h of course there were they just didn't want to admit it because of homophobic f***s like you. Now stop bothering me and my girlfriend. Eat your mushy brussel sprouts and mind ya business.
I live in a building for people with disabilities (like myself) and mostly elderly people. They never open their windows, or the windows in the common areas, they crank up the central heating in the common areas even though there is a heatwave, or it's the middle of summer; the corridors of stuffy and stink of boiled cabbage and old urine... The washing machines and dryers are always set on the highest heat setting, because everybody does the laundry on a boil wash; and then there is this creepy old man who lurks around the corridors, listening at people's doors and sticking his nose into everybody's business. Unfortunately I need to live in a place like this but I'm about 20 to 30 years younger almost everybody else - the only other younger person in this building is my partner who is 4 years older than me.
If at all possible, see if you can live out of the country. Sometimes it's cheaper if you have steady income.
Load More Replies...I read somewhere idk where that either Julius Caesar or Augustus complained that "The youth of today have no respect for their elders." It's the same in every generation. Only difference now is media means it can be shouted about, hence this whole post on Bored Panda. Internet. Nothing wrong with that, it's progress and how the human world works, and always has. But, just know, you younger ones, that your children will do the same. Blame you for all the wrongs they want to correct.
for me its the fact that a lot of them wont or dont use the internet claiming its this new thing i mean come on you were alive when it was invented they expect the majority of people to be inconvenienced by not using it because they dont want to
It’s not that older people are more rude and insensitive. Strangers are rude and insensitive to each other. When people only associate with others as much alike as themselves, or interact anonymously online, there’s no relating or kind understanding, just flexing and judging. I know: we old people bore you, but maybe that’s why the only ones who get through are the jerks (who were jerks 40 years ago too)
Well, it is true that people are more likely to remember someone who was a total jerk than otherwise.
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