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Shame and embarrassment can be good emotions that keep us in check. But isn't feeling embarrassed over your own actions enough? Why do we have to suffer the cringe from the antics of others?

Clinical Psychologist Marielle Collins, Ph.D., explains that it's related to empathy. "Our brains are wired to be able to simulate the emotional experiences of other people and feel what another person is feeling." That's why we feel sorry for people when they're grieving, for example. The same goes for being embarrassed when someone else does something shameful.

However, you have to admit that reading cringy stories is quite entertaining and fascinating. It seems this Redditor agreed, as they asked: "What is the worst second hand embarrassment you've ever felt?" The thread filled up pretty quickly, with over five thousand netizens rushing in to tell their story.

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30 Cringy Things People Did That Gave Off Second-Hand Embarrassment For Those Around I used to work at McDonalds. One of my coworkers was mopping the floor and some kids Mother made a comment to her child about getting a good job so he doesn't end up mopping floors blah blah. So my co-worker turns to her and says "just trying to pay for my Mums Chemo". I'll never forget the look on her face. Keeping in mind that this guys Mum was NOT sick at all, he was taking the p**s.

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Nizumi
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1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Done! I had a summer job as a chambermaid in Kananaskis. One morning a couple of golf wives (you know the ones - they were those visor things that have heavy makeup stains all around the brim and spend half the day at the bar) stop by asking for more towels for their room . One of them says to me and a coworker (let's call her Mary), "Don't you want to do something else for a living?" Without missing a beat, Mary says, "Oh this pays for law school next year. I'm not waiting for a husband to buy my vacations."

Craig Boddys
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1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I had someone say something similar about me a few years ago. The store I work in is considered a discount store, and people take the p**s out of it all the time, but still shop there. This one guy said to his kid "that's why you do your homework, don't wanna end up like him" (pointing to me), so I replied "well, at least I'm not scamming the government by claiming disability benefits when I'm not entitled to them, I don't sell d***s outside the college on the afternoon, and I earn enough so I don't HAVE to shop here, unlike some people". Got a complaint put in to head office about it. I deal with all complaints for the area, so that one was swiftly rejected.

somnomania (she/her, queer)
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i'm not sure why people are upvoting you for this, this reads to me as incredibly rude and bigoted, plus you're reinforcing the notion that loads of people falsely claim disability benefits (they don't, it's way too difficult and time-consuming for the majority of people to actually stick with if they don't really need it). and implying that the guy and his kid HAVE to shop there, because they're poor, is the thing really reading as rude to me. good for them complaining about it, IMO, unless i'm missing something.

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BoredPossum
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1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Many of my friends worked extra to get some more cash when they did their PhD:s, and that's the highest education possible.

XanthippeⓐWulf🇨🇦️️🇬🇧
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1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Right!? When I was in Uni, I worked at a local craft shop as a clerk. Didn't need the $ but I'm autistic and the social experience was great. A lot of my fellow students worked fast-food or retail (vet school is spendy), but it's still not a big deal if we weren't in school. You never know a person's circumstances or what led them there 🤷‍♀️ I think the OPs coworker's response was awesome.Serves mum right for being so judgy

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C.O. Shea
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1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I've pulled that one on a few Chads and Karens. Always satisfyingly "Oscar nomination" quality.

Zephyr
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1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Oh this is some good material

Lorrie Rothstein
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1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I don’t understand why people are put down for working at McDonald’s. They are just as hardworking as others

Brian Droste
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1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Yes, without workers in a fast food joint, there would be no fast food joints.

Papa
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1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

A guy on a forum I belonged to about ten years ago mentioned that someone was too bright to wait tables. I told him my daughter was a server and she's brighter than he is.

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    #2

    30 Cringy Things People Did That Gave Off Second-Hand Embarrassment For Those Around Bless my ex gf. She was a waitress, and we were out to dinner with my parents. My mother pulls the "trying to use an expired coupon" move on the waiter. She simply refused to accept that time is a thing and that the written date had passed. While I zone out and wait for my mom to either win or be escorted out by management, my ex was apparently slowly losing her mind. She suddenly snatches the dollar bill sized coupon from my mother's hand and eats it. Literally tore it and shoved the pieces in her mouth. She says that since there's no more coupon, there's no deal. It was nice, having the crazy chick be crazy on the staffs behalf for a change.

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    Mark
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Modern problems require modern solutions

    Soy
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I don't think eating things is a modern invention.

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    Trillian
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I am sorry but if my mom (or someone I was going to eat with) was harrassing the staff in that way I would tell them to quit being a jerk or I would leave.

    ZuriLovesYou
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I was not expecting that ending!

    David Beaulieu
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Your ex sounds fun. I bet you had some great times.

    Poison Ivy/Boo
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I laughed snorted at this one 🤣🤣

    Beachbum
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    This is hilarous! If the coupon is expired, the system literally will not take it! I had some ladt go off on me once. Tuesdays was kids eat free night, she had two kids, so they ate free, but then wanted to use a coupon for her meal, okay find, the system automatically puts the two kids meal back on. She wnet ape s**t on me, I showed her the coupon where it literally says, "excluded on kids eat free night.

    Seadog
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Here's an idea for every business that accepts coupons of any kind. Put a sign up that states if you have to be told more than once a coupon is expired, the amount of the coupon will be added to your bill for each time you insist it's not expired. Wouldn't it be fun to watch how many rack up additional charges. Maybe even give that amount to the employee as a tip for having to deal with these idiots.

    Marie BellaDonna
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Love all of this. Except it's hilarious that you think a greedy company would give the extra charges to their employees. They don't give a shít about their employees. That's why they let them be abused in the first place. Ah well, we can fantasize, though, can't we?

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    Beth Wheeler
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Oh I would have loved to have seen that!

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    #3

    30 Cringy Things People Did That Gave Off Second-Hand Embarrassment For Those Around Wasn't there personally, BUT it has since become a bit of a legend at the school. I went to and worked at a fairly large flight school attached to a university. We had a couple thousand people enrolled in the program that went all the way from 0 hour student pilot to Multi Engine Flight Instructor, and on clear calm days you can guarantee that there would be a handful of student pilots doing their first solo flight. One student, having completed his two landings by himself, taxied off the runway and switched over to ground control and asked for clearance to taxi back to the ramp and complete his first solo flight. Ground obliged, gave him clearance and congratulated him on a solo well done. Solo student read back the instructions but for some reason *forgot to take his finger off the microphone button.* Anyone tuned into ground control could not only hear but could do nothing to interrupt or stop him as he *sang a song of his own invention about how much he loved the aircraft he was driving.* For three whole minutes, this poor bastard serenaded the 50 or so pilots, ramp workers, air traffic controllers and flight supervisors with "I love you Cessna, I love you Cessna" as he taxied back to the ramp. Eventually he realized he was on the air, took his finger off the button, enabling ground control got back on the frequency and, over the howls of the tower cab crew laughing so hard it hurt, the controller thanked him for the song and would pass along the compliment at the next opportunity.

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    Judes
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    This one's kind of cute.

    Ace
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Also kind of dangerous. Blocking the frequency like that for three minutes effectively stops any other activity from taking place, whole place comes to a standstill.

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    My O My
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Lesson learned: always stay a child at heart

    C.O. Shea
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    No way he didn't know he was keying the mic. That magnificent bástard won a lucrative bet that day. Bravo!

    Inglourioustmnt
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Ground/tower and other pilots can still press their button and talk while your talking so this doesnt really make sense. Its called stepping on someone when you talk over them. No way the ground and tower wouldnt cut him off. They are crazy busy as is.

    Mark
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I would also likely invent a song about how much I love my plane if my school had a flight school attached to it. But here’s to hoping

    GottaGo
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I'd love to listen to that song. Sounds catchy.

    Laughing otter
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Adorable! I’m glad he felt so happy!

    BoredPossum
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    They could use the song to promote the plane.

    glowworm2
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Out of all the things to accidentally get caught saying while forgetting to turn off the mic, this one isn't so bad. Pretty cute really.

    RabidChild
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    That is hilarious and totally sounds like something I or a couple of my friends could get caught doing.

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    #4

    30 Cringy Things People Did That Gave Off Second-Hand Embarrassment For Those Around I was selling some kettlebells on Facebook marketplace and a woman, early 40’s maybe, bought them. She came to pick them up and as I handed them over to her, she obviously wasn’t expecting them to be as heavy as they were, and as she suddenly strained to counter the weight, she ripped the most extreme of farts you have ever heard. It was gargantuan. I was shocked, but also proud. I’m usually pretty good at making light of any situation but I found myself speechless for the first time in my life. If I could, I would’ve returned serve but even on my best day I don’t believe I could create such a symphony. We both kind of stared into each other’s eyes and she said “well…” and turned around and walked off. I think about her often.

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    Zephyr
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    "returned serve" lmfao

    XanthippeⓐWulf🇨🇦️️🇬🇧
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    God, how old am I that I'm still dying over a good fart story?🤣 Once, I had an older client who went to lift her cat carrier onto the exam table and let out a mighty wind lol. Her cat was huge & we'd always offer to lift him for her, but she would insist on doing it herself. "gotta stay fit if I'm to attract a young biscuit!" she'd say. She looked at me, shrugged, and said "happens to us all if we're lucky enough to get old." I think about her often, too.

    PeTeH
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    How I met your mother.

    BoredPossum
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I think about her often! 🤣 In my house, she would be a legend a wished for myth to be told for years.

    Upstaged75
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    When I was about 12 one year at summer camp I was sitting on the side of the pool talking to a friend. Our counselor (a college student) thought it would be funny to sneak up behind me and throw me in the pool. So he grabbed me and picked me up by the armpits, ready to toss me. At which point I ripped a huge fart. (surprise farts are the worst!) Instead of throwing me he just dropped me right in the pool like a hot potato. :) It's hilarious now, but as a pre-teen it was the most embarrassing thing that ever happened to me. Thankfully he kindly pretended like it never even happened. My friends, not so much. XD

    Janet Graham
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I don't understand why women try to pretend they don't fart. I also don't understand why its embarrassing. I think I have been around gassy men for too long.

    Belandriel
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    1 year ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    That's what makes the story so funny in the first place! He might be as talented in verbalizing as she is in thundering farts. Like a true bard who passes on the legend!

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    Fussy1
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Um... I think I am this woman.

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    #5

    Was going down an escalator at the mall of Georgia when the 90 something year old guy in front of me very suddenly s**t his pants. We were about 500 feet from a bathroom and he was wearing shorts. I felt so bad for him. My dad gave him his hoodie to wrap around his waist. I was very proud he was my dad in that moment and still am.

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    merlin
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    1 year ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    That's terribly sad. Good for the dad though.

    🩶🩷Marvin HoG🩷🩶
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    It's so sad. That's when my grandpa knew he couldn't take care of himself anymore. Grandma had passed and he was struggling and he lived hours from us. One day we get a call "I went for a walk and I messed myself. I don't know what to do." It was a knife through the heart for all of us. I wish someone like this man had been there for grandpa that day.

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    Say No to Downvoting
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    1 year ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Despite being a nurse and a mum and knowing all the things to do in a situation where I expect that kind of thing, I think if I saw it happen in front of me in a mall I wouldn’t know what to do or how to react and would just play the “let’s pretend nothing happened” card. I’m super impressed your dad had the presence of mind to offer his hoodie - what a guy!

    Tucson Cubb
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    1 year ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    A wise person once told me to Never trust a fart and it has saved me on a few occasions

    Upstaged75
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Is anyone else thinking about the horror of having to clean the escalator after that stuff got smeared all over it?

    weatherwitch
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    That's a wonderful decent human being of a dad ❤️

    BookFanatic
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Had someone do this at the library. He sat in his own s**t, checking his email until staff asked him to leave. Not sure what happened to the chair...

    Krd
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Hey, sometimes s**t happens!

    Alan Gale
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I am old. Believe me, going for a pee, and having a pee, are totally different situations!

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    #6

    30 Cringy Things People Did That Gave Off Second-Hand Embarrassment For Those Around I saw a friend, who was upset that his girlfriend corrected his grammar, throw himself on a couch and kick his feet and pound his fists, while he cried out, "Don't correct me. You're not my mom!" She kicked him out of her apartment and broke up with him. I wondered how she lasted so long.

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    Zephyr
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    She should have asked him to spell "man-child"

    Fussy1
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I would have grounded him and after dinner, straight to bed and no dessert!

    Gardener of Weeden
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    His reaction was ridiculous, BUT I have decided to NOT correct others mispronunciations. I will pronounce the word correctly and if they pick it up great - if not - not a big deal ( only with adults, kids I will work with).

    ZuriLovesYou
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    1 year ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Thank God she ended things with that man-baby!

    Krd
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Was this a literal tantrum, or was he being purposely over-the-top with it, like as a joke?

    Liz Rogers
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    If he was on his last straw... This was probably a justified over-the-top demonstration of frustration. There is such a thing as "Colloquial English". Doesn't need correction - and definitely NOT repeatedly.

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    Floeckchen
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    How do this kind of guys get girlfriends to begin with?

    Shaunn Munn
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Well, what she did was rude. She could at least have spoken to him privately. I have a degree in English and think public correcting is the greater gaffe.

    Trish Christoffersen
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Geez...my dad used to send my hand-written letters back with red correction marks. I thought it was funny.

    Janet Graham
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Well, she treated him like a child, she shouldn't be surprised when he acts like one.

    Lyone Fein
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    honestly, though, why would sh3do that in front of other people?

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    #7

    I was at my Aunt Brenda's funeral, the priest called her "Mary" throughout the eulogy. Eventually my Uncle Hank yelled "Her name is BRENDA, A*****E!" as my Uncle Bob (the widower) burst into tears.

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    DennyS (denzoren)
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Like I get it, he shouldn't have, but I get it.

    PeepPeep the duck
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I feel like we all would if someone was doing that at a very much loved ones funeral, I’d be laughing and angry personally but

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    Sue User
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I was at the funeral of a distant relative. He had died of cancer and they had an open casket. Some lady was going on about how the funeral home had done such a good job. She turned to my Aunt and asked " doesnt he look nice?"My Aunt replied " hell no he looks dead".

    Jennifer Meadows
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    When my MIL, Sue, passed, the pastor doing the eulogy (not our regular pastor, but a man my in-laws had known for years) called my MIL Judy. Judy was my FIL’s previous wife, and their divorce was not amicable. Fortunately, my FIL is nearly deaf, so he didn’t hear it. I never liked that pastor.

    Cat Chat
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    While at my grandma's funeral, someone started stated talking to my dad and his just married 3rd wife. He told them "(last name) fits so well with Linda. I think you finally found the perfect match." My mom's name (his 1st wife) is named Linda. 🤣

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    Michael Largey
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    In our particular diocese, lay people are not permitted to give eulogies at funeral or memorial masses. Since the priest had never met the deceased, I wrote up a eulogy to give him some background information. He read it word for word from the pulpit, telling the congregation who wrote it.

    Aniviel
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    The same thing happened at my sister in law's father's funeral. The vicar kept referring to him by the wrong name. It was a packed out service with many people having to stand, and there were dark mutterings amongst them. Disgraceful.

    JB
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Attending my maternal grandfather’s funeral, a friend of his stood to say how wonderful granda was and how he had influenced this person’s life for the 10ish years they had known him. Unfortunately, they consistently mispronounced granda’s last name. We actually ended up giggling because it was so like him to have never bothered to have corrected his friend. I can still hear his broad Yorkshire accent… “just call me Fred”.

    Jenna Kay
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    1 year ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Sadly, at my DIL grandfather's funeral, the minister called him the Rob and Robert the whole time, his name was Bob, not Rob, not Robert, just Bob. It was painful to sit through.

    Karma Black
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    1 year ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Ugh. My father was across the country from me when he died, so my stepmother had the funeral streamed in order for me to "attend". The pastor called my stepmom by the wrong name the entire time. I wanted so badly to hop through the screen, hug my stepmom, and deck the pastor.

    Upstaged75
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I was at a friend's wedding and the bishop conducting the ceremony said her name incorrectly throughout the whole thing. Those of us who had known her her whole life started doubting ourselves thinking maybe WE had always been wrong. We weren't. I have no idea why she or the groom didn't correct him, but it makes a funny story now. The same guy also got so drunk at dinner he couldn't drive home and ended up passed out in someone's hotel room. We tucked him in with another friend who also passed out drunk. I still have pics of it, LOL! I'm going to share them with my friend's kids someday. ;)

    Janet Graham
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    When my brother in law died at age 27, his mom had a cousin, who was a preacher, perform the service. He called him by his middle name the entire time. And he was a relative!

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    #8

    30 Cringy Things People Did That Gave Off Second-Hand Embarrassment For Those Around A long time ago I worked at an airport where we had an office with a big glass tinted window through which we could watch the passengers and arrival hall goings on. Three of us were sitting at the window doing paperwork, we were all so extremely tired after a long shift when one of the guys I worked with took a glance out and spotted one of our co-workers he didn't like through the window. He proceeded to tell us the most vicious rant...' Look at that fat so and so, etc. etc, looks like a warthog, just on and on with the most descriptive insults. Turns out, I guess bring so tired, he had spotted her reflection in the window and she was actually standing behind us. It was just us three and her in the room. I beep beep beeped reversed out of that room so quick.

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    Kari Panda
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    1 year ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Another one. It’s fine if you don’t like someone and if you stand up to them during a disagreement or if they harrass you. But calling someone names and shaming their appearance? No sympathy from me. Someone should have called you out on that AH behaviour as it is.

    SDLT010
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Well THEY weren't the ones insulting her, they were just listening.

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    Waldie
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Upvote already just for name and otter emoji. I love otters so much

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    Tom Brincefield
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I think she had a pretty good case for a hostile work environment.

    Ezza Bella
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I would be so devastated to hear someone say that s**t about me, I'd probably just burst into tears.

    justagirl
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    i would have smacked them across the face and called him a slab of rancid meat that even my dog wouldn't touch.

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    Janet Graham
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    You are a jerk. Don't blame it on being tired. If you weren't thinking it, you wouldn't have said it.

    HelmGrass
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    sounds like excuses are being made for unacceptable behavior and the one taken the brunt of the abuse was left standing alone. Not a good move folks.

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    #9

    30 Cringy Things People Did That Gave Off Second-Hand Embarrassment For Those Around I'm sure everyone felt this for me, I walked into work one day and everyone was standing around and I was like "what happened some one die?!?!" Yep guy I worked with took his life. .

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    LAWLAWLAW
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Yeah I did pretty much exactly the same in a bar and the bar tenders mum had just died

    Linda Tisue
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Yeah, that whole American thing that servers have to be cheerful, dehumanizes all workers. Say something like that in Sweden, the customer would be kicked out of the bar.

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    Jason
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Was a manager, had to fire dude who was quite bad still felt miserable about it. Walking him out got into the elevator. Dude got in with us and said hah you both look unhappy did you just get fired. Guy said yes and nothing else. Was the longest elevator ride ever.

    PhaseWitFact
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I stopped asking who died after a similar incident 🙁

    Khavrinen
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    After the meeting where he had to announce to us that one of our coworkers had taken his own life, my supervisor commented to me that he really felt terrible that ( before he found out about it ) he had left a nasty voice-mail when he called to see why they'd done a no call/no show that day.

    FrogMan
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    If you see someone dressed up more than usual at work, never ask if they’re interviewing. Almost every time I’ve done that, it turned out they were going to a funeral

    Bob Brooce
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    The only time I asked a coworker who was dressed way nicer than usual if they had a job interview she said "Yeah, how could you tell?"

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    Queeqec
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I guess many people (including myself) stopped asking that question after getting a 'Yes, XY died' answer.

    _-DungeonKeeper-_
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Pfft I both don't and do feel bad for laughing

    C.O. Shea
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    If I hear a certain tonal sound from my wife. My question is always, "who died?"

    MacintoshID
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I had a newly appointed 2nd lieutenant come into my office and told me to smile more and that it's not like my dog just died. I gave him one of those looks and told him to get out and to never be so rude to anyone, because my dog had just died about an hour before. He did not show his face in that office for weeks.

    Janet Graham
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    It is such a throwaway comment until it isn't.

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    #10

    When I was 18 (20 years ago) I worked at Starbucks as a Barista and I loved it! During the summer of 2004 my Grandfather passed away unexpectedly from a heart attack. I was working when it happened and my Mom came in to give me the news and I left. A few days later I’m back at work and it’s a full crew there that day and we were busy. Right before I hit the floor my manager called me into the back to check in on me and to also tell me that she had gotten feedback from her district manager that I crushed the interview I had with him for a shift supervisor position at a new store opening up. I was super jazzed and hit the floor ready to go. That day I was working drive with Jax (Jacki) and she could be a ball of energy! Whenever we worked together she would make these double shot slammers that had 4 pumps of white mocha, 4 raw sugar packets and topped with whipped cream. So essentially you were left with two cranked up baristas making drinks, sweating and heart palpitating. During the shift it was announced that I was being promoted so everyone was really happy for me. They were also really sweet about my Grandfather passing as well. It was a bitter sweet day. As I’m making some drinks at the bar I notice a card being passed around and it’s not making it to me so I figured it was a condolences card for the loss of my Grandfather. At one point I see Jax grab it and write a message and hand it to my manager. At the end of my shift they gave it to me and it was full of sweet sympathy messages from everyone. But then my eye is drawn to a message that says, “Get it B***H! Congrats! I’m so proud of you! You better not be a stranger around here or you’ll be DEAD TO ME” - Jax . Her being hyped up on caffeine and in a rush thought that it was a congratulations card for my promotion. I started laughing when realizing what she did and another coworker read it and in front of everyone clocked her on it! Jax was mortified and took it really hard. I told her that I thought it was funny as hell and to not even stress it. She spent the rest of her shift embarrassed and took it really hard, profusely apologizing for the rest of the day. Needless to say, she probably reads the group card now before she signs it!

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    Shark Lady
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Similar thing happened to a colleague of mine, she wrote "Happy birthday" in a condolences card. Luckily it was spotted before the intended recipient received it. Colleague had to go and buy a new card and spend most of the morning taking it around for everyone to sign it.

    SDLT010
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Couldn't they just use white-out or an eraser or something?

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    Mother Of Birb
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    My co worker wrote “Happy Birthday” in a welcome-back-from-the-psych-ward card

    Genevieve Smith
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    When I graduated high school, our school tradition was to get our uniform signed by friends and facilty. One of my younger friends writes she's sad that I'm leaving and will be missed. She thought I was moving away. Real sweet, actually.

    René Sauer
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Op should have asked to take Jax with them to the new store (yeah, I don´t know how chain stores work...)

    Nana K
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    There goes 1 min I'll never get back.

    🩶🩷Marvin HoG🩷🩶
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Awww poor Jax. That probably why my manager tells us what the card is for before they hand it to us lol

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    #11

    30 Cringy Things People Did That Gave Off Second-Hand Embarrassment For Those Around Was at dinner party when my friend’s mother in law asked another one of our friends when her baby was due. She wasn’t pregnant. Anyway, MIL should have simply apologized, but instead doubles down with something to the effect of “it sure looks like you’re pregnant”.

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    C.O. Shea
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Karma has a special place for these sorts of Karens.

    Cjay
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Im not sure if you understand what a Karen is… ‘Karen’ is entitled. This lady is just an a*****e

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    Manana Man
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Rule of etiquette: never say anything that even suggests that a woman might be pregnant unless you actually see a baby coming out of her.

    Bob Brooce
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Even then, sometimes it's better to just stay quiet and let them trip.

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    Jinx (she/her)
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Lmao ooh I take so much joy when I reply "Nope! Just fat! 😁👍" with a huge grin.im laughing but people get a little nervous after that 🤣

    J C
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I do that too. I used to get upset. Now I just make sure they are embarrassed by the comment. I've never heard it nor have my friends heard it from a man. It seems to be a certain "type" of woman that does this.

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    Fat Harry (Oi / You)
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I've just never understood people who would assume a woman is pregnant!

    SirWriteALot
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    A situation like this made it onto TV once in Austria. The "Who wants to be a millionaire" host, after congratulating one of the contestants in the show's-over-reel with the baloons etc. asked the lady, when the baby was due and the contestant replied "I'm not pregnant". Like 0,5 seconds before the show was over. I know these are taped in advance ... who decided to leave that in?? I laughed so hard

    Bouche and Audi and Shyla, Oh My!
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Now, we all know reality TV is real! No taping in advance. All those idiots running around in the woods naked are just being followed around by magic cameras that automatically smudge the naughty bits. Taping in advance, I ask you! Absolutely not!

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    Upstaged75
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    The last time I got asked when I was due was the last day I ever wore a peasant shirt. :) I AM fat, but I don't usually look pregnant. Apparently the shirt made me look like I was. Gave that damn thing away quickly, LOL.

    𝖊𝖜𝖔𝛋
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    This happened to me once. They wouldn’t accept I wasn’t pregnant, but soon shut up when I said “I actually can’t have kids”. I wasn’t even overweight then, was underweight because I was so unwell (before meds) but used to get really severely bloated so I would look several months pregnant even being skinny. I wasn’t lying though and thankfully it stopped them from ever making comments whenever I was bloated again

    Sara Frazer
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I had a coworker ask me that, a decade ago when I was at my smallest, 122lbs. I guess I had a tiny tummy, but not really. I was mortified. She hustled away embarrassed. JUST DON'T ASK WOMEN THAT. EVER.

    Michael Largey
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    1 year ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Also never tell a woman that you don't like the smell of her perfume. She may not be wearing any.

    Sophia Athene
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    No woman naturally smells like roses, jasmine, amber, etc. I would be thrilled if people thought I smelled like amber! Now I can skip on perfume.

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    #12

    30 Cringy Things People Did That Gave Off Second-Hand Embarrassment For Those Around I was a server at an Americana restaurant and a family came in and the mother was berating everyone. She yelled at the server and complained about the food not being the right temperature and then she thought it was too salty, etc. She really had it in for the 17 year old server. He was fine-- but the customer wanted to pick at someone. Her husband and teenaged children looked embarrassed. She had been like this before. There is a sign on the door that said we reserved the right to refuse service to anyone, and management decided that this lady shouldn't eat with us again so the manager went over and comped the meals and told them to leave and not come back. The woman was upset and left mean feedback. In response the feedback, a regular posted with a picture of the woman and her family. She quickly took down her bad feed back. She deserved the public upbraiding, but I was embarrassed for her family.

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    Tamra
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Sorry, but I wouldn't just sit in silence if a family member was acting like an a$$ like that.

    Frozengeckolover
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Agreed. My ex aunt in-law was a nightmare to servers, and the rest of that family just let it slide. I couldn't let it slide. I told her off and left the restaurant. Everyone demanded that I appologize "to keep the peace". Nope! I never appologized, and I never went out to eat with her again.

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    Nay Wilson
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I remember my mother doing this to the server in a restaurant once. When she, my mother, went to the bathroom, my sister and I flagged down the server and apologised to him. No one deserves that kind of treatment

    Andy Cran
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    yet you are not responsible for the actions of others,that includes family , perhaps next time speak with mother and get her to apologise , don't apologise for other adults ...I'd get up and leave if no apology was forthcoming

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    Maartje
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I am jinxed in restaurants and get the worst meals. If I complain I am always polite. However, people were beginning to doubt me and thought I was too picky. So my brother goes " This is the best restaurant in town, I am sure it is fine?" Me: "Taste this." He: "@)#(*$ holy s**t, this is c**p!" and he let me send it back without any more comments..

    Brooklyn States
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Comped the meals? That is why people act like that, so they get free food. The manager is an idiot.

    BookFanatic
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Really hope the picture-poster at least blurred the husband and kids' pictures before posting.

    Waldie
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    When I read something like this: why is it often women or rather say mothers behaving like this?

    Seadog
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Restaurants should ban anyone who makes claims just to get free or discounted meals. It's not hard to tell when there's actually a problem and when it's just BS. You can bet those that do it would quickly learn how to behave. I make it a point to always tell the server and manager how good everything was. It's easy to see they are happy to hear it because they only hear complaints all day. One restaurant we had poor service. We still left a tip although not as good as it would've been. Sent an email to the GM. He asked for my address to send a gift card. I told him I didn't want it. I don't want free stuff, I want you to know the issue so you can fix it so everyone has a better experience next time. He and we became very good friends and we always told him about anything we saw. He would always come out and sit and talk with us every time we were in. He eventually moved on and the new GM ran the place in the ground in record time.

    BoredPossum
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Wouldn't it be illegal to post pictures of others without their consent?

    Rob D
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I don't think so. There's no expectation of privacy in public. (US)

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    #13

    I embarrass myself enough on my own. One situation that comes to mind from years ago that haunts me. I was 9 months pregnant, bored out of my mind on a Saturday morning and decided to go look for garage sales to pass time. I was also super young and poor and needed things for a house my ex and I had just rented. I went to a few and then turned into a small neighborhood I had not been in before. I see a house with tons and tons of things in garage and a few tables in driveway. I started picking through things, carrying some items, making a pile at one point. I’d say about 10 minutes go by and an elderly woman came out the house and asked me how she could help me, and I replied I was just looking and would let her know if I needed anything. She looked at me really confused. My big dumb pregnant a*s started going through some curtains and things when it dawned on me to ask prices on what I had already put aside. I asked her if she could give me some prices. She replied: “Oh honey, I’ve been looking for whatever died in that garage but if you need some things I can help you out.” I declined and waddled to my car.

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    ano nym
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    to be honest, that's a really cute story - I feel for you, but it's still very sweet :)

    Cat Chat
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Normally I'd say one should never assume a garage sale just because of stuff in the driveway. But pregnancy brain makes makes you crazy enough as it is.

    Frozengeckolover
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I was driving to work one day and noticed what looked like a garage sale with a big sign in the yard. As I got closer, I could read the sign. It said "Not a yardsale!!! Just cleaning the carpets!!!" Haha!

    Alan Gale
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    "If you need some things I could help you out." That is so kind and sweet!

    Diana Lucas
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    NGL, this happened to me once. I had taken a bunch of stuff out of the garage to sort through and organize. A person stopped and walked up to the piles to start browsing through stuff. I just told them this wasn't a garage sale and nothing was for sale.

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    #14

    30 Cringy Things People Did That Gave Off Second-Hand Embarrassment For Those Around Sitting at a desk at my new job with 4 other new hires. It was like our 4th day and a new guy was there, all we heard was that his wife had been having a baby so he started a couple days late. One guy asks him if it’s a boy or girl. He says it was a boy. Asks how he’s doing. The guy says actually the baby didn’t make it. Got real quiet after that.

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    Zephyr
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I once congratulated a friend of mine on his new baby didn't know the baby died weeks ago.......funny how no one gets to fall into a sinkhole when you need to

    Alexandra
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Yep, where is that rock to crawl under when you need it?

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    Panda Kicki
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    It is hard on all sides. I has asked the priest to warn everyone in my groups when I lost my son before birth. She didnt get the word out enough and my first activity after my stillborn I was happily asked about the baby. They looked like I struck them when I said he died.

    NotAPanda
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Did seriously no one in management know who could have given them a warning? Goodness. When someone losing a loved one at work, we have a quiet meeting to let people know to give the person some flexibility and understanding.

    BoredPossum
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Well, it's tragic and sad, but how could he have known?

    Marianne
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    It's still embarassing, even if no one did something wrong.

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    Roxy222uk
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Here's what I have learnt. People that have lost a newborn (and it happens more than we realise, even in countries with great health care) generally would like that they are thought of as parents and that the baby is thought of as their child. Of course "I'm so sorry to hear that" or similar is the first thing that you say. But then ask them what the baby's name is (not 'was'). If they seem okay to talk use the baby's name and ask them things like 'who did X look like?' 'Were they born with hair or were they are baldy baby?'I've known more than one family lose a baby (one stillborn and one died not long after birth) and it means everything to them that the baby is acknowledged as a real child that they are the parents of, not an embarrassing silence. Ask them if they got to hold the baby, if the baby lived for a short while ask them what their temperament seemed like. If people don't want to discuss it it will be really obvious but otherwise give them the space to express their love.

    Petra Schaap
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    thats great if you can... i would just start crying though.

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    Maartje
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Poor guy (both of them) - OP could not have known.

    Jay Scales
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    With a tragic situation like this, why focus on your own embarrassment? Just be sympathetic and empathetic, and support the person going thru it.

    Linda Tisue
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Sad and show how little empathy bosses can have. You should have been told.

    Janet Graham
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    There is no good comment about the loss of an infant. Tears work.

    Zobi123
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    It's a little strange that the birth was communicated, but not the death.

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    #15

    30 Cringy Things People Did That Gave Off Second-Hand Embarrassment For Those Around Does third hand embarrassment count? My uncle died midway through a contentious divorce from my aunt. Nobody on our side of the family liked the guy and we were happy she had finally dropped him. Turns out nobody on his side of the family liked the guy either, his adult children and parents included, and didn’t seem phased at his death. My mom went to the funeral to support her sister and said it was the most awkward funeral she’d ever been to. There were only about 10 people who actually attended, and the pastor running the thing had set aside 30 minutes for people to come up and share their positive memories of the guy. No one moved. Nobody was willing to say a good word about him. Instead the pastor awkwardly tried to fill the space with some general “everyone has value” stuff, and then gave up and ended the service after 10 minutes total. No one in the family bothered to go to the graveside service either. Apparently they decided to go to a bar instead to get sh**faced and trash talk the dead guy.

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    Marianne
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    This might be a reminder to all of us to live our lives in a way that people will have to say something good about us at our graveside.

    Nilsen
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Some times you go to a funeral to make sure the b*st*rd really is dead.

    Nikki Gross
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    That sounds like when my Grandma died from my Dad's side of the family. That woman treated my Dad and Mom really badly long before Dad was killed and when she acknowledged us after he died it was 10xs worse. Mom went to the funeral with me "To make sure that B***h is Dead and in the ground, because if anyone could pull a Lazarus it would be that miserable old hag" so yeah, we REALLY hated her. We used to call her the "Wicked Witch of the South" and Mom ALWAYS hoped a house would fall on top of her every time tornado season rolled around.When we came home from the funeral my Mom was singing "Ding, Dong the witch is dead" which sounds cold, but that woman was seriously f****d in the head. BTW during Christmas time our favorite song is "Grandma got ran over by a reindeer" so if that doesn't tell you the level of hate for that woman then nothing else will.

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    Lost Penny
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Imagine living your entire life in such a way that not a single person is willing even to make up something half-decent at your funeral. Wow.

    Panda Kicki
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I have been to a similar one. Even the priest had a hard time finding something to say about him.

    NotAPanda
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I had a family member who was a horrible person; not a single redeeming thing about him. The funeral was similar. There really shouldn’t have even been one.

    Scott Rackley
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    My biological father had only like 5 people show up. Neither my brother or I know for sure because we weren't there. I don't even recall where it was.

    David
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I don't get the need to fill the 30 minutes. It is very common at funerals that have a time like that to not know how many people will want to speak. If there are not many, they just go on with the next bit (closing hymns or whatever) and end the service a bit sooner. Though, "10 minutes total" sounds like they didn't have much of a service planned. Say, 5 minutes for the awkward filler, that means the rest of the service he had planned was only 5 minutes???

    Jan Feline
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    About 20 years ago, my life was c**p. My marriage was in the toilet, things were tense at my job, etc... I was driving home from work one day fantasizing about driving into a tree and ending it all. I started imagining my funeral, and what people would say. I realized that there were people who would say good things, and really miss me and feel bad, and at that point I decided to just go home and try to make the best of things. Funny how things work out. (I divorced the husband, left the job, and while things are not perfect now, they are a heck of a lot better than they were)

    Frozengeckolover
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    One time, my granny told me you shouldn't speak ill of the dead. I retorted that if people don't want to have bad things said about them, then they shouldn't do bad things while they are alive. Plus, you know, they're DEAD. What are they gonna do about it? She seemed to genuinely ponder that for a moment, but said nothing in response.

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    #16

    My ex had a massive ego and one of the things he had an ego about was football, even though his team was an incredibly low division and had never won. One day I drove him to his game and as we approached the field he goes "ooft yesssss, these guys are total middle aged losers, we're gonna beat them for sure" and kept going on about how some of them were fat, ugly, balding, probably only playing to get away from their wives and s****y home lives, etc. I stayed mostly quiet during this (I hate when people insult others based on looks, something I'd told him off for multiple times) and simply told him good luck. They lost 7-nil. Not just that, but this game pushed them to be knocked down into the next lowest division because they'd lost by too much. At the time I felt massive second hand embarrassment for him but now I just think "lmao karma.".

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    GottaGo
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    A good lesson for all bodyshamers. Welldone fat, ugly bald guys!

    Seadog
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    and he didn't learn a thing. Guaranteed.

    DumYum
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    1 year ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Shoalin Soccor movie - don't judge these guys by their looks. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=KEWUDWYDdYs

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    #17

    30 Cringy Things People Did That Gave Off Second-Hand Embarrassment For Those Around Well, many many years ago, when I was a kid, I was on holiday with my family in a remote location in Indonesia. It was NYE and there was a little party in the hotel restaurant, about half tourists and about half locals. Everyone had some food and a few drinks, and it was all going nicely. Then a guy gets up and taps his glass. He tells the entire gathering that, as a proud West Virginian man, he would like to share something very special to him from his culture. He proceeds to sing "Take me home, country road" by John Denver. Earnestly. A capella. With tears in his eyes. My father is a rather blunt kind of Australian man. He absolutely could NOT reel it in. I think he tried for about 30 seconds but eventually just lost it and began laughing hysterically. So hard he cried. So hard everyone else near him began laughing too, just because it was contagious. In the background, the guy is still singing, "West Virginiaaaaa, Mountain Mamaaaaaa...".

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    Mark
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Mountain Llamaaaaa 🦙

    Seadog
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Hey, maybe he actually sang that and that's why everyone was laughing. Would depend on how many drinks he'd had

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    Jeremy James
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    🎶 Country gnomes / take my bones / to a place / they don't belong 🎶

    Judes
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    This reminds me of the time I was sitting on a bus in Taiwan and some random guy sang me "When I was a little bitty baby" (Credence Clearwater Revival). Completely different story since the guy was Taiwanese, but the similarity is that he was trying to show off his American cultural knowledge (I don't know why he thought I'd care since I'm not American, and I had told him that already).

    DumYum
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Loved hearing Stairway to Heaven with Chinese accents at the Taiwan Ukulele festival. Great musicianship. It's fascinating how western music, rock classics, have traveled the world and made an impact.

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    C.O. Shea
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I'm from Oregon. I'd have laughed right along with your dad.

    BrunoVI
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I kind of don't get this one. Was he fantastically bad? I'm not a fan of WV or of John Denver, but it IS a nice song...

    BoredPossum
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    He probably expected the Indonesian locals to be impressed with his patriotism. In the rest of the world, we don't.

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    Marie BellaDonna
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    1 year ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Sounds like he was drunk af, and wanted to have an "I love you guys" moment, with his new "friends", lmao!

    JP Purves
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Dude must have been seriously sloshed. I can't imagine why someone would sing that at a NYE party anywhere, but especially in Indonesia.

    Marie BellaDonna
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    1 year ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I agree! Sounds like he was drunk af, and wanted to have an "I love you guys" moment, with his new "friends", lmao!

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    Joshua Stovall
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I hate to tell you this but the West Virginia that John Denver was singing about you know the one with the Shenandoah River valley etc is in Western Virginia as in Virginia the state and the west part of it. it is not a song about The state West Virginia

    Bec
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    He was from New England and the landscape described is more about Maryland but West Virginia was a better fit lyrically

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    #18

    30 Cringy Things People Did That Gave Off Second-Hand Embarrassment For Those Around A girl graduating from college falling down repeatedly on the stage. She fell at least three or four times and it was like something invisible was sweeping her leg out from under her. Even she had a WTF expression on her face.

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    3 Otters 🦦
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I laughed because yeah, some days are like that.

    Nadine Debard
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Could be a disease, like MS for example

    Carrie
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I have MS. My first alarming symptom was falling down repeatedly.

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    Lo Kindred
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Reminds me of the girls in high school wearing heels to graduation without ever having worn heels before.

    Themoonprincess
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Plot twist: she's the main character and the invisible alien she befriended was just messing with her even though she repeatedly told him to stay home.

    Cat Chat
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I was at a theater once where the guy behind me was talking to his invincible alien the whole time (seriously, that's what he called it). So I believe this as a possibility.

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    wowbagger
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I fell at my college graduation. Tripped and fell towards the president, almost knocking him over, but he managed to catch me and stay upright. Thank God it was before cellphones were a thing!

    Robert T
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Some days everything just wants to fall on the floor. I'm sure gravity must be stronger on those days.

    BookFanatic
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I wore flats for just this reason. I still tripped. Twice.

    BrunoVI
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    1 year ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Dammit. I thought I'd seen this on YouTube, but when I typed in "Graduate falls four times," YouTube serves me nothing but dozens of videos about Biden and Trump. WTH do they have to do with anything?

    Queeqec
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Use VPN, go via Europe, Africa, Asia, whatever server you can reach OUTSIDE the Biden-Trump warzone. It will be totally different results.

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    Frozengeckolover
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    1 year ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I was helping a girl friend (a couple of years younger than me) get ready for her high school graduation. She showed me her dress and shoes. I asked if she was sure she wanted to wear such high heels. I reminded her she never wore heels at all, and it would be especially hard to walk in really high ones if you aren't used to it. She got an atitude and assured me she had been practicing walking around the house. The only problem was, she lived in a flat house; no stairs. You can probably guess what happened. She fell going up the stairs at graduation, and ripped her gown. Then she was so embarrassed, and nervous, she fell again as she was receiving her diploma. It was so hard not to laugh, and it was even harder to not say, "I told you so!" afterwards. Please listen to your bestie when they try to warn you about stuff.

    Seadog
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Someone stick a couple thumbtacks in the sole or heel of her shoe for amusement?

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    #19

    30 Cringy Things People Did That Gave Off Second-Hand Embarrassment For Those Around I went to an open house and there was this older realtor helping the listing agent. He was excitedly walking around this empty house talking about features while looking back at my husband and I and he ran head first into the chandelier that would be positioned over a dining room table had one been there. It happened so quick we couldn’t even warn him. He got tangled in it and ripped it down as he fell face first to the ground, cutting himself up badly in the process. We both still cringe thinking about it. We saw him out at the supermarket recently and both whispered “oh nooooooo”.

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    Rob D
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    How is having an honest accident where they got hurt embarrassing for them? Guess more info required, but my reaction at the supermarket would have been walking up and seeing if he recovered okay.

    J C
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Yeah, I agree. I had something mortifying happen to me where I got hurt and it seemed like everyone was just either snickering, or embarrassed for me when I actually needed medical assistance. I was like, get over yourselves already and help me!

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    Shea Fujishima
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    OH NO! I need information about his recovery. I hope he healed well and wasn't sued.

    The Abe
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    We had a realtor walk THROUGH a screen porch door while showing us a condo. Ended up buying the unit!

    Captain McSmoot
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    This made me laugh too loudly at my work computer.

    Lyone Fein
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I can't believe the lights were hung so low in the first place.

    Seadog
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Always, always place a chair or 2 beneath that light or use an S hook to raise it to a safe level. This applies to any home where the table is moved. Even if it's just in your own home while you have the table moved. It's a guarantee if you don't you will walk into the light yourself, sooner or later.

    DumYum
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Mother was a real estate broker decades ago. She showed a couple into the foyer where her skirt just fell to her ankles. We always had a good laugh about it.

    Adrian
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I despise real estate agents. They're worse than used car salesmen...

    Bob Brooce
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Sounds like it wasn't the highlight of his day.

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    #20

    That lady who took out like half the Tour de France pelaton with her stupid sign. I only saw it on TV but that second hand embarrassment reverberated across the world for me. If that was me I would be looking into planetary relocation... I can't imagine it. I still think back on it and feel a sense of relief that I have never f****d up _that_ badly before.

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    Mark
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    https://m.youtube.com/watch?time_continue=18&v=MH-bDtGKA0I

    Sue User
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I dont feel bad for her. This is why we cant have nice things. Stay away from the road.

    Ann Kapoxeet
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Ugh...I just cringed remembering it. I wonder if she ever got in trouble for it.

    Katie Fink
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    According to the inter webs She turned herself into the police a couple days later and was fined €1200. 8 riders treated for injuries and 2 had to withdraw from the tour completely including a guy with both arms broken. All for a sign that said granny and grandad. SMH. The initial rider that was hit had to withdraw for a second fall in the same race landing him in a ditch with a broken collarbone. Looking at the way he hit the road and his head/helmet bounced, I'd guess concussion from the initial fall.

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    BrunoVI
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I always felt so bad for that little kid from Baltimore. He went to see the Orioles finally make the playoffs. A home run ball is hit right at him; he reaches and catches it. Now, he probably had reached into the field of play; in which case the umpire should have ruled it "fan interference" and given the Yankee batter an out instead of a home run. The Yankees would go on to win that game and the playoff series, but the series wasn't close! (Yankees won, 4 games to 1) Instead of blaming the umpire for the blown call, the entire metro area of Baltimore decides to hate this poor kid with absolute total abandon.

    Rob D
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    1996 ALCS. Derek Jeter, off Armando Benitez to right field where Jeffrey Maier interfered and umpire Rich Garcia blew the call. Thanks for the memory...like it was yesterday. Lucky break. Go Yankees!!!

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    LiuLiu
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    she was an idiot

    WickedLibra70
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I saw that and don't get second hand embarrassment feeling, I get stupid idiot I hope she embarrassed

    BK BigFish
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    That's not embarrassment. That's a crime. I don't recall the specifics of that particular crash, but cyclists in crashes like that are often seriously injured. Bicycles have lots of spiky parts.

    Janet Graham
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I just watched the clip. What an idiot! Did she think they would get out of the way?

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    #21

    I didn't even have to be alive to be embarrassed for my mom dating in her twenties. Apparently she was on a date with a guy she really liked and she ordered a salad bc she didn't want to get anything in her teeth. Then mid conversation, she bit into a cherry tomato and it exploded and squirted across the table and blew out the candle in the middle of the table. I die every time I think about this.

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    Kristal
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    1 year ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Lol that sounds hilarious! I would laugh if I were in either position (the date or the person biting the tomato) lol. Haha omg, depending on the company, maybe even a squirting joke XD

    R.C.
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Are salads safe for most people? I would absolutely end up with lettuce stuck in my teeth.

    Michael Largey
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    If I had been the guy, I would have said "Wow! Do that again!"

    weatherwitch
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    That would make her all the more endearing to me 😊

    clairebear
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    If they both didn't have a good laugh about that then she was with the wrong guy.

    JP Purves
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    If I'd been her date I'd have bet her $10 she couldn't do it again.

    Frozengeckolover
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Haha! I don't think that's really that embarrassing. I once knocked a soda in my date's lap as I was reaching for a napkin. He was a really good sport about it. We cleaned it up, then he made a joke about how he was supposed to be the one who made ME wet. Then he realized that was probably not the best thing to say on a first date, and he got embarrased and apologized. I thought it was hilarious, we both laughed, and continued the date.

    Anne Roberts
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Hey, when you're talented, you're talented.

    Janet Graham
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    So funny! I was out with my husband shortly after we married. We were at a diner that was a relaxed atmosphere type place. For some reason (I think I started it) He flipped an ice cube at me with his spoon. I ducked and he got the man behind me square in the bald head. I thought there was going to be a fight. There wasn't as my hubs apologized all over himself. He also blamed me and we argued about it on the way home.

    Seadog
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Reminds me of a woman I went on one date with and we talked about how hard it really is to find someone when you get our age. Shew told me about one guy that talked while he ate and his food actually made it all the way across the table. She is a very nice lady and we texted for a few years after but we lived too far apart. Neither of us would move and we just weren't a match in general. We had a nice date, a good lunch and went on our way. Yes ladies, it is possible for a guy to take you out just to have someone besides the guys to eat with for a change.

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    #22

    30 Cringy Things People Did That Gave Off Second-Hand Embarrassment For Those Around I worked retail during COVID. This family would come in, normal looking , mom in her forties, two middle school kids. Except for the dad, who wore a Halloween Mike Myers mask with tape over the mouth and SLAVE written in "blood" across the forehead. Then they would just...shop...but his wife and kids looked like they wanted the sweet release of death every second. Edit: I should have been more clear: this is when mask mandates were in effect.

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    BoredPossum
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Corona definitely made many people stupid, even before they got ill. Or, at least exposed who they were.

    DrBronxx
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    The biggest imbeciles are the ones that think they're so smart and/or edgy

    Sara Frazer
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    ...I bet I know who he voted for.... 🍊

    Shannimal
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Yeah, I would have left him at home

    Janet Graham
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I love the idea of wearing a Halloween mask. The fact that it embarrassed the kids is a plus!

    JP Purves
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Great way to own the woke libs. The mentality of the far right never ceases to amaze me.

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    What's wrong with wearing a weird or funny mask if you've got to wear one anyway?

    BoredPossum
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    He's wearing a mask that does not function as protection, but as a comical gag. Many people did that to ridicule the ones who understood how masks work and wore them.

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    #23

    30 Cringy Things People Did That Gave Off Second-Hand Embarrassment For Those Around I was ringing a girl and her bf up and she was a few dollars short on hertransaction. Bf then got in my face and insisted her redbulls were BOGO, it is true they *were* BOGO but the promo had ended months earlier. This man proceeds to yell and scream at me for five minutes about how she deserves these drinks and how dare I Yada Yada. This whole time his gf was trying to disappear into the chip display like Homer sliding into that bush, just dying of embarrassment. Eventually after I threatened to trespass him he gave me the biggest eye roll I have ever received and spat on the floor and told his gf "let's get out of here this f****t clearly gets off on denying beautiful women what they need". His exact words.

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    Danni
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Ew. Toxic masculinity at its finest.

    Libstak
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    And the bf couldn't front up with the shortfall because?

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    General Anaesthesia
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    BOGO = "Buy one, get one". "Free", I assume.

    CanadianDimes
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    That’s a big red(bull) flag. I hope the GF ditched his åss

    clairebear
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Why do men imagine their girlfriends would be impressed by this behaviour. Same with driving fast and stupid. You just confirm to her you are a d**k.

    C.O. Shea
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Clearly, bubbah had already had one too many Redbulls.

    Kitty1019
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    And yet the bf couldn't put in the money she was short.

    Robert T
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    It was a BOGO. Now it it is a Bog Off. ;-)

    Karen Krause
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    What, BF couldn't come to his GF rescue with a few dollars? He denied his beautiful woman a chivalrous knight!

    David Martin
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Working at a convenience store years back, a young couple came up (late teens) and the young man slapped his palm on the counter, loudly proclaiming "Sir, I wish to purchase CONDOMS!" which were kept on the back wall and needed to be asked for. His girlfriend went bright red, and the four other customers stopped browsing and turned to watch this. I kept my composure and asked which ones he wanted...just as loudly, young man says "I require MAGNUMS for my size!" Okay, sure friend. I rang him up, he slapped the counter again, and announces "Thank you! If you'll excuse me, I'm gonna go and have SEX with my GIRLFRIEND!" I felt so bad for that girl

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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    RUN GIRL, RUUUUN 🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩

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    #24

    A new guy started at work and a couple of us were standing around just bulls***ting. A lady that also works there who is fairly rough around the edges walks by and the new guy looks at other guy we were chatting with and states “Damn. I feel bad for her husband”. It was her husband we were talking to.

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    Jenna Kay
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I feel this in my soul. Poor sod, but that's what you get for judging book covers.

    Seadog
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Place I worked had a guy that simply couldn't get fired. You know the type, doesn't fit in, screws up everything, no one like him etc. Several years go by and everyone else is gone but there stands hemorrhoid. He proceeds to trash talk a Spanish woman after she leaves to the manager. Now the manager has been with the company for about 4 years at this point and has talked many times about the years he spent in SPAIN where he met his WIFE so no one know how this idiot missed all the memos. Yes, you read that right, he was trash talking the managers wife to her husband. That got him fired and to be fair, the DM did it.

    Frozengeckolover
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I'm going to start referring to the unfireable employees at work as hemorrhoids. Thanks for that. Lol. Seriously, though. How do some people stay employeed?!?! The boss threatens to fire me because I'm late for work one day in two years, but hemorrhoid over there is stealing, doesn't do their job, doesn't show up half the time, and everyone hates them, but they no one will fire them because then we would be "short staffed". Like, I'd rather work alone, boss; because I kind of already am.

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    BoredPossum
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    To be fair, I know that my wife can be pretty embarrassing at times, and I don't hold people's reactions against them.

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    I think your wife needs a new husband

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    Regina Holt
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Why would a new employee be so stupid to make a comment like that while talking to a group.There is such an opportunity to p**s off someone who could make your life there very miserable.

    Janet Graham
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Yep. Learn to not say stupid stuff!

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    #25

    I worked at a retail store and my manager was a super try hard, dorky kind of guy. He loved the sales manager and was obsessed with him like to the point of adopting phrases and mannerisms. Anyways one night we all went out for karaoke and he, completely sober btw, went up, said he was dedicating a song to the sales manager, and sang that foo fighters there goes my hero song. I literally had to walk outside I couldn't handle it.

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    yo mama's cookie
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    lol sounds like an episode from the office

    Howl's sleeping castle
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I was the team supervisor and we had this new guy who wanted to impress the team manager. By mistake he saved my number under the manager's name, and his under mine. I started getting messages after office hours. Stuff like I really like the way you lead the team, you are a born leader, that meeting was awesome. I confused me but I would just reply thanks. One day he wrote 'the training was amazing. I learnt a lot today'. That's when I realised what was happening. I was on leaves and my manager had conducted the training. Next time I went to office I told him that all this time he was sending messages to me. As he never wrote the name, or any pronoun was used, I was handling the team, holding meetings along my manager so there was no way for me to know the messages were for someone else. The look he had after that like someone caught him stealing.

    Colleen Glim
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Karaoke makes me cringe in general. I will avoid it like the plague

    Janet Graham
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I worked with a guy that was such a brown-noser! He would mow the department head's lawn on the weekends, hoping to get promoted.

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    #26

    30 Cringy Things People Did That Gave Off Second-Hand Embarrassment For Those Around When a colleague accidentally unmuted himself in a meeting and said something snarky about someone on the call. That particular call was being recorded too. Not me directly, but I had a colleague tell me he'd been moderating a work-related townhall meeting on Teams, and the meeting was being recorded for publishing on the website. Some poor sod didn't realise his camera was on, and took his laptop into the bathroom with him to continue listening while he took a dump. Since most people had their cameras off, his video popped up beside the presenter's on Teams. Needless to say, the recording was quietly lost.

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    Kari Panda
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Yeah, don’t bad mouth people, simple as that.

    Imreallyjustaghost
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    1 year ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    My chair broke mid presentation on a call. The last anyone heard was me yelling"oh s**t" on my way down before I kicked my tower and took myself out of zoom on accident.

    PhaseWitFact
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    In a Teams meeting, people can mute others and turn off others cameras...

    Blue Bunny of Happiness
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    1 year ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Depends on who the organiser is and if the attendees are from the same organisation or external guests. It is also dependent on the person having the skills to do so. I’m still explaining to colleagues how to blur their backgrounds. It’d blow their minds if I told them about the soft focus filter! In a totally unrelated comment, I’ve had lots of compliments about how good my skin looks on camera….

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    𝖊𝖜𝖔𝛋
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Someone I used to work with, when we were working from home during covid, used to work from her bedroom. Didn’t realise her camera was on, and that the background wasn’t set to the usual company one and had somehow switched off. Double trouble. Half way through a really serious meeting, bearing in mind the team presenting was called ‘professional standards’, her partner walks into the room in the background, totallly naked. Can’t remember if it was being recorded, but everyone saw; everything! She was obviously mortified, and I think they broke up not long after. You’d think your partner would stay clear of a room if someone’s having a meeting, especially if you’re completely naked…

    Teddy O'Malley
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    The first part of this reminded me of something that happened in college. My small town is surrounded by smaller towns so they visit a classroom and "zoom* our bigger class where the teacher was. Somehow, one of the smaller classrooms became unmuted and a girl was singing "Are we almost done with this dumb class?" Those of us in the main room all completely lost it and the teacher said, "I don't know what was said, but my ears are burning"

    J. Oliver Scott
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    1 year ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I did this first one once on a conference call, it was muttered under my breath but the speakerphone picked it up and the party on the other end repeated it back for good measure!

    B Jones
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    1 year ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Haha that kind of happened since we were working from home and all on teams. We're testing some applications that were updated for our work and on a meeting to talk about the results and as one manager was screen sharing one of her team members messaged her and it popped-up on the recorded meeting along the lines of "ugh, I can STAND so and so" who was also on the meeting....it was pretty funny to me since not involved, never found out if anything came of it

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    #27

    30 Cringy Things People Did That Gave Off Second-Hand Embarrassment For Those Around That time my old roommate told a table full of his family that “AIDS and Cancer are the same thing.” Just after talking about how much he’s been learning from his night classes. Those classes were being paid for by his parents and *Spoiler* *Alert* he wasn’t attending any classes. They realized it by the time dinner was over.

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    Zephyr
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Sometimes it's better to keep quiet and let people think you're stupid than to talk and confirm it

    Michael Largey
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    He could have been attending all his classes but "doing his own research".

    Mars
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    If we wanna be ridiculously generous to the roommate, technically AIDS can lead to Kaposi Sarcoma I guess. I mean they're wildly different things, but they're technically connected.

    MC Neukalt
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Cancer can be caused by viruses, too. Heard of HPV?

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    #28

    I was out for dinner with my family, and my brother was a wheelchair user, he would’ve been a teenager at the time. A drunk woman came up to us, looked at him, then turned to my mum and asked “is he like that famous astrologer?” She meant Stephen Hawking.

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    BoredPossum
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Astronomy and astrology sound similar so it is not uncommon for people to mix them up, especially people who believe more in astrology. With people believing in Astronomy, not so much.

    Fat Harry (Oi / You)
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Is belief in astronomy really a thing? I mean, astronomy exists... it's the study of space. You can't really deny that!

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    Ordhaj
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    When a friend of the family was in town (we lived in the countryside) with her then very young girls, they were in a store when a nun walked by. The older girl just stared wide-eyed. The younger girl (around 5) yelled, "Mom! Look at that lady wearing a sheet!"

    Bettye McKee
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    So many don't know the difference between astrology and astronomy.

    Seadog
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    When I was young (under 5) I had an aunt that was wheelchair bound. I always liked her and thought the chair was super cool. I didn't think so much of wheelchairs when i ended up in one 7 years later. Lucky for me it wasn't a long term condition.

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    #29

    30 Cringy Things People Did That Gave Off Second-Hand Embarrassment For Those Around This was years ago. Met a lady (40ish) who had a piercing in an unusual spot; upper lip, about half an inch away from the nose and more towards the cheek. It was a plain circular piercing. My friend (M 20s) who knew the lady, sort of reached out to touch it, saying sorry you've got something on your face. She gently recoiled. He tried again. This was with others in the vicinity. I died a bit that day.

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    Hphizzle
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I think it’s called a Monroe piercing. Supposed to look like Marilyn Monroe’s iconic mole.

    madbakes
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I used to have a Monroe piercing, but had to take it out for work. I loved that piercing.

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    LB
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    1 year ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    This isn't an accurate picture of the described piercing.

    PhaseWitFact
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I discretely told a coworker at a new job that she had a booger on the outside of her nose and handed her a tissue. I was modified when she said it was a piercing. She told me not to worry - it happened all the time.

    JenniB
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I had a friend in high school try to help another friend by removing a makeup brush bristle from her neck. It wasn't a bristle, it was a long hair growing out of her neck. We were in a big lineup in the cafeteria so a LOT of people saw it go down...

    Regina Holt
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    So people just reach out to touch someone's face??? How rude and inappropriate is that? If I think there is something on someone's face, I just ask and point.

    Ashlie Benson
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    At least they weren't Oprah wiping off Drew Brees' mole on national TV.

    Daniel Atkins
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I believe it was a birthmark but yeah i was going to add that to this list if it wasn't here.

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    Frozengeckolover
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Him trying again was the most embarrassing part.

    Manana Man
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    People would be more selective about what they put on their bodies if they realized how many of their 'decorations' just look like blemishes.

    Kristal
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    That's not the point of piercing, its for the person getting the piercing, not for people who look at them

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    #30

    I went to school for software development. Very difficult program, high fail rate. First day of second semester we're hanging out chatting and a guy I know from the program chats with us. Now, in first semester, he struggled. We all knew he struggled. I was kind of surprised to see him. We were talking about grades and he says "Oh wow, you guys saw your grades? How?" Yes, he'd got through the semester and never checked his grades. We pull up the school website and he logs in and we point him to the grades section. And he says "What do these W's mean?" I look over and he's got a W in 3 classes, which is basically a grade lower than F. It's like a "Did not complete." I'm like, "Uh, that means you can't really be here right now. You should go talk to the registrar's office." He's honestly more confused than anything, he wanders off and we never see him again.

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    ElfVibratorGlitter
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    1 year ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Okay, a W isn't worse than an F. It stands for withdrawn. Meaning that class doesn't effect your GPA, at all. It's like you never took the class (no credit given good or bad).

    JB
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Thanks. I was just going to post W = Withdrawn, it’s not a grade. Though I was under the impression that you have to sign paperwork to formally withdraw?

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    tameson
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    The post doesn't mention a country. Grading systems vary a great deal from country to county. So the W doesn't necessarily mean withdrawn. Also, if he had withdrawn from the classes he would have known it and they would have known it since he wouldn't be attending those 3 classes.

    ElfVibratorGlitter
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    1 year ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    You're right. So I just googled college transcripts for major English speaking countries, since they're using the A-F scoring method. UK: turns out don't use "a-f" so n/a, Canada: withdrawn, USA: withdrawn, Australia doesn't have a "w", they have WT = Withheld, WN = Withdrawn/fail, WW = Withdrawn without fail, NZ= withdrawn... 🤷🏿 I scrolled through a bunch of countries that aren't English speaking but still use an "a-f" grade scale and it states "f" is the lowest grade. Not saying I'm right, but I personally couldn't find a country where a "w" was anything other than withdrawn. https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Grading_systems_by_country Pandas, any of your countries have a "w" grade? And what does it mean?

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    Julia Ford
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    If he had a W he withdrew, and he would have known that. I call BS. Also “you shouldn’t be here right now” is really rude.

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    #31

    We were at an all-inclusive resort in Jamaica. Every night they had this common area where folks could do karaoke. A middle-aged gentleman got up and started the first few lines of Lionel Richie's "Easy". Some random lady from the audience ran up and attempted to sing the song with the gentleman. He kindly pushed her away two or three times as she tried to sing over his shoulder into the microphone. Finally, she just stood there dejected...swaying from side to side like an idiot - as the man broke from his song and professed his love for his girlfriend - and wrapped up with a marriage proposal. They hugged, they kissed...the idiot girl went back to her seat. I will still never understand why that guy chose THAT song to use to propose. However, he was killing the vocals!

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    Crescent 3
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I'm with you on not understanding the song choice for a proposal. It's the quintessential break up song. The first line is, "I know it sounds funny, but I just can't stand the pain. Girl, I'm leaving you tomorrow." I hope the marriage went well.

    XanthippeⓐWulf🇨🇦️️🇬🇧
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Meh, could be just a song he could sing well & knew all the lyrics to. I had a guy serenade me with "Tell it Like it Is" by Aaron Neville which is a song about cheating. We barely knew each other at the time & were definitely not dating, so the song wasn't applicable, but he had a phenomenal voice & it was one of the few songs he knew entirely in English (he was an international student from Russia). Ended up going out on a few dates even. Super-cool guy that introduced me to the joys of German & Russian death-metal lol

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    Frozengeckolover
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Im sure there is more to this story. Idiot girl was probably an ex crush or something. He probably chose that song to stick to idiot girl before he proposed to his girlfriend, but she wouldn't take the hint.

    #32

    A person from another department who i hadn't seen in a while walked up to me one day at work and said "Congrats! When are you due?" My response? Big grin on my face "oh, I'm not pregnant! Just fat!" He was mortified. I thought it was hilarious! But he was mortified!

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    Shark Lady
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Due to a medical issue, my stomach swells and I look nine months pregnant with twins. I was having a smoke (bad I know) completely out of the way of everyone, this older man made a beeline for me and was calling me a selfish b***h/dirty s**t etc for smoking whilst pregnant. His face was a picture when I told him. Hopefully he learnt to keep his thoughts to himself.

    SeaJaySea
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    If you don't mind me asking, what condition is it? Never heard of anything like it before and am just genuinely curious :)

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    Jinx (she/her)
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    This is what I do, "nope, just fat!😁👍" and then I laugh but they usually don't 🤷‍♀️

    Jackie Calisto
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    1 year ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Same thing happened to me! The person asking me when I was due was mortified, but instead of just apologizing went on about how she is sure she heard from a friend that I was pregnant. Said friend was in the room and just about died. It was histerical.

    ElfVibratorGlitter
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I went to a doctor's appointment, ENT appointment for sinuses. And as I'm talking to the doctor he asks if I'm expecting. "Expecting what?" I asked. "Are you pregnant?" Ohhhh! Nope. Just fat I guess. (I wasn't even that big, I just have massive tits.)

    XanthippeⓐWulf🇨🇦️️🇬🇧
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I think they have to ask regardless now. I had a hysterectomy in my 20s due to complications. It's right there in my medical records, but I still get asked every single time

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    S. K.
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    That is why you wait for the person to tell you themselves before you say anything. Even if they look like they're nine months pregnant, keep your mouth shut!

    Regina Holt
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    This. I can't believe this isn't common knowledge for everyone to know.

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    Cindy Brick
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    A good friend from college came to visit -- I was heavily pregnant with Daughter #1. (He knew this.) The first sentence out of his mouth: "BOY, ARE YOU FAT!!"

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    #33

    30 Cringy Things People Did That Gave Off Second-Hand Embarrassment For Those Around Was on the subway going home from work when I lived in NYC. I was sitting down in a three row and next to me was a two seats. A woman gets on the train and sits next to the window near me. Then a guy sits next to her. The guy tried to get her number, but she said no. Before he knew it the doors were about to close at his stop so he tries to run off, but the doors close. He sits back down in the seat he was at and everyone is staring at him. He tries to get her number again and she respectfully declines. He goes to get up to get off the train at the next stop and drops his phone and a bunch of his stuff. This is because his jacket was off and all his stuff fell out of his pockets. He then misses the chance to get off the train again. Before we got to the next stop he was trying to retrieve a few things that rolled since the train moved. He got his stuff and then got off the train. It was so freaking hard to watch this unfold.

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    3 Otters 🦦
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I like to think as he made his way back to his stop he met the person of his dreams and lives happy.

    PhaseWitFact
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I like to think someone he was not interested in followed him and kept asking for his number after he said no.

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    Fat Harry (Oi / You)
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    If this had been a rom-com, the third time he sat down she'd have proposed.

    LiuLiu
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    No means No people! Not try again.

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    #34

    30 Cringy Things People Did That Gave Off Second-Hand Embarrassment For Those Around A random acquaintance at a party seemed to be weirdly obsessed with my race and during every conversation topic he managed to make some bizarre joke about me being black. All the jokes fell flat. But after every joke he’d anxiously look at me and say “that’s not offensive is it? Because I’m not racist”. Laughed it off and managed to get away from him but he spent the rest of the night periodically coming up to me and saying “sorry about those jokes earlier” despite me saying it was fine and he just would not drop it. Everyone at the party had horrible second hand embarrassment, including me.

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    BoredPossum
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    It is offensive and tacky making everything about race. I've had people try to joke about similarly sensitive subjects and wondering why the jokes weren't very popular. Know your audience comes to mind.

    Sue
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Some people use humor when they are uncomfortable, but then it becomes obvious how uncomfortable they are.

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    Regina Holt
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I kinda think that anyone who claims that they are not racist are kinda racist. If you are not racist, there is no reason to say you are, your actions and words will tell people if you are racist or not.

    Zephyr
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I would have feigned being very offended then laughed at him behind his back

    Regina Holt
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    But let him hear you talking and laughing. Embarrass him.

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    Seadog
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    He wanted to pester you into raising your voice at which point he'd label you as the bad guy.

    #35

    I recently went to an "Open Mike" night at a local comedy club. Each comic was terrible, except for one guy who was a comedy magician, so he'd do some magic then hilariously "accidentally" reveal how he did it (it just worked). The other 10 guys just bombed HARD one after the other. As they say, the "Silence was deafening", I felt so bad for them that I would sort of laugh even if it wasn't too funny in that sort of "Heh heh, OK, that's slightly amusing" but I was also in the front row, so they could see that I was kind of on their side, so they'd target in on me and try to be like Russel Peters, bantering with the crowd. Anyway, they all sucked (except magician), but I applaud them getting up their and bombing in public. I felt sooo embarrassed for them.

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    C.O. Shea
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Eddie Murphy recently talked about bombing at a club when he was 17. Much respect, sir!

    BewilderedBanana
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I hope Mike agreed to be sliced open for the night :)

    Jason
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Pretty much every comic bombs their initial sets

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    #36

    We were at Dennys and my Dad was doing the ketchup bottle smack to the side thing. Well, he was so into his story and he hit it so hard ketchup shoots across onto the lady sitting to his left. She was wearing white.

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    C.O. Shea
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    1 year ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I, as an unnoticed child at the Denny's table tried to operate the mustard bottle. Squeeze. Nothing. Squeeze... nothing. Sqquueezzzeee... instantly yellow plate (lid came off)! I got noticed.

    Jason
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    My mom was an amazing lady. Was pretty significantly physically disabled at the time. We were poor and never really had money to go out growing up but my mom loved seafood. when I got my first few good paychecks of my career I took her out to a fancy seafood dinner at a nice place with my girlfriend at the time. Mom was struggling with the crab a bit but didn't want to admit defeat and ask for help. Somehow she dropped the crab cracker thing into a creamer packet which exploded and the creamer flew like 2 tables over and hit this very nicely dressed lady in the face. Their whole table freaks out, , restaurant goes silent. Mom looks over gives this little wave at them, goes right back to intently working on the crab. Was like a non redneck version of Beverly hillbillies. Almost died laughing. My now wife and I still talk about it together over 20 years later.

    BoredPossum
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Always secure the lid with one finger when doing that.

    Petra Schaap
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    i once did this at home. Its amazing how far that c**p gets. Also glad i didnt have carpet :-D

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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I was about 11 and on a plan with with my sis (15) on the way back from Alaska. It was my second time on a plane, first time being going to Alaska and I was really nervous. There was a man sitting next to me in a REALLY nice suit. I ended up spilling orange juice all over him and myself.

    Jan Moore
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I once picked up a bottle of ketchup at O'Charlie's and shook it before I started to pour. Only problem-the cap wasn't really screwed on. Ketchup everywhere, table, window frame, window, just everywhere. My son will no longer allow me to touch a bottle of ketchup.

    Adam Zad
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    There he goes, hitting the bottle again.

    #37

    A guy poured his heart out confessing his admiration and respect for a (male) teacher and requesting him to be his personal mentor, that he would follow his teachings like a disciple, in a very long message with lots of pleading and reasoning. I know this because he accidentally used the group chat, with every single person in the facebook group for the school on it. I still cringe 10 years later from reading it.

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    BoredPossum
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Did he become his acolyte? I wouldn't see it as bad to admire a teacher.

    Emie N.
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Look on reddit to find out. The link is the tiny print underneath the post.

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    #38

    Watching a guy do an aerial silk routine to Imagine Dragons and he got tangled and stuck and couldn’t move and they had to stop the show and lower him to the floor, face first. I had to go outside to cool down because I couldn’t stop laughing.

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    Ranger Kanootsen
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    "Woooah-oh, woooah-I'm RADIOACTIVE, RADIOACTIVE"

    Just here for the comments ️
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    This needed to make it at LEAST in the top 30😅

    #39

    I went to a small hospitality class with a guy I was seeing because they were presenting a graded project. When it got to this one girl’s turn, she connected her laptop to the projector and opened her Google Drive. First thing that pops up on the big screen in a room of 30-40 people was a video of her using a vibrator on herself. She closed it quickly, but we clearly saw.

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    Jesse
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    And that, folks, is why USB sticks were invented.

    Lily bloom
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Idk. Not a very good substitute as they don't even vibrate

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    Ellinor
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    How can you move on with your life after that, I wonder...

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    #40

    When some lady mistakenly sent me pics in lingerie, I didn't respond, she asked if I got them, and I had to reply "you have the wrong number".

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    C.O. Shea
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    😂🤣😂🤣😂

    Queeqec
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Sounds like spam to me, and you confirmed that the number is in use.

    Regina Holt
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    This would have been a good time to use the wonderful phrase: "who dis"

    Dogfacedboy1980
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    1 year ago

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    Yeah I got them but you look fat as s***

    #41

    Waiting for a friend after class when he asked a girl he'd been interested in for a while, but had been missing from class for a few weeks, out for a drink. She said she was flattered but just lost her boyfriend in a motorcycle accident and wasn't in a good place. He apologized and stands there stunned while she asked the professor for an extension for an assignment. Trying to be nice she turns back and asks him how the class has been. He said, "it's been alright but the assignments have been killing me". I too, died inside.

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    DennyS (denzoren)
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Oh noooo. As the Joker said, poor choice of words.

    Sue
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Out of habit when returning from Christmas break I asked one of my coworkers how her Christmas & immediately remembered her mom had died over the Christmas holidays. She was so sweet & said great.

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    #42

    A kid in my highschool wore a toga to school for toga day. Except he got the day wrong. So he just showed up, half naked and wrapped in a sheet when no one else was dressed up.

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    Lil Miss Hobbit
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    1 year ago

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    JB
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    ?! We only ever did this for toga parties as college/university students! Since when do high schools have toga days?

    #43

    My BIL and his wife had a contentious divorce. The pinnacle came when she posted all of their tax returns for several years with no personal information blacked out on FB and IG. She was trying to show everyone my BIL’s actual earnings in relation to what she was getting in spousal support. Which apparently she thought was unfair. Of course all of her personal info was laid out too. The replies had zero sympathy for her. Just things like “I know you’re mad but you’ve gotta take that down.” Or “he should sue you for posting this stuff.” Very cringe. She wouldn’t back down but she did disappear from social media about a week later. I haven’t seen her since and this was like 10 years ago. Tbh, I was surprised how much my BIL made though! Way more than his older brother (my hubby). 😂 So in a way it kind of back fired and made him look really successful.

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    NutsnB0lts
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Im sorry, but that woman is incredibly stupid. Posting that kind of stuff is one of the dumbest things you could possibly do. She could have ruined both her life and the life of BIL.

    Michael Largey
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    When I worked for the IRS, I had a guy report his wife for running a business for years and not reporting the profits. It never occurred to him that, since they had filed a joint tax return, his signing it made him as guilty as her (since he knew about the business profits all along).

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    #44

    I was at a museum and a lady next to me leaned in for a closer look at something and bonked her head straight into the glass. She thought nobody had noticed until she saw me laughing and then she just about died.

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    Lily bloom
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Same. At disney world when I was 5. 40 years ago. Still cringe when I think of it. Thanks, BP, for reminding me, lol

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    Howl's sleeping castle
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Happened to me at a book store. Just left quietly

    Jason
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I'm too old to care. I've done similar and just laughed it off. Kinda tall so smashing my head on things is common.

    Jay Scales
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Quite a few of these are things that an older person wouldn't be embarrassed over - because we've done worse & lived :D

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    SheamusFanFrom1987
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Always going there, always doing that XP

    Petra Schaap
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    yep did this once. Very loud BONK! everyone looked at me and i just said "AUCH!" next!

    #45

    30 Cringy Things People Did That Gave Off Second-Hand Embarrassment For Those Around A colleague of mine put in his two weeks. For context, he's a fairly attractive man. Well, this woman from HR (of all places) comes by his cubicle to, uh, wish him well, I guess? Anyway, she basically gives him a lap dance right there in front of the whole office.

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    HF
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I've never had any exit interview like that...

    BoredPossum
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Unwanted sexual attention comes to mind. Imagine if a guy would have do it.

    XanthippeⓐWulf🇨🇦️️🇬🇧
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    And you would think as someone in HR, they would know better... As a woman (and a human), it disgusts me that there are these double standards because it's a man, and thus just penises with arms & legs that can't "unwant" sexual attention. I hope he sorted out who her boss was and reported her.

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    ElfVibratorGlitter
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    There was this ridiculously attractive guy at work. Many of the women were super grossly inappropriate, sitting on his lap, rubbing his neck. He complained to HR for harassment. How do I, and everyone else know this? Because they blew him off because he's a man so it can't be harassment. I ended up moving to a different contract so not sure what ultimately happened. He should have sued them at best for blowing off what was overt sexual harassment and assault.

    Mark
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    What was the response?

    Queeqec
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I guess,. ... and then everyone clapped?

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    #46

    Someone at my college graduation ceremony yelled “I’m queen of the world!” when accepting her diploma. Not a single person laughed.

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    BoredPossum
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Aaah, to be young again. So young that stuff like that would embarrass me.

    Alexandra
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Youth is wasted on the young.

    #47

    A kid in boot camp s**t his pants. We were at the rifle range all day and they have to inspect every part of you to make sure you’re not sneaking rounds back to the squad bay to shoot your DI with. So they told us to stand up, pull our trousers and skivvies down, and to turn around. One of the DI’s goes “what the f**k is this?” And instinctively we all turn and look to see this pale, skinny 19 year old that has s**t all over his a*s and cami’s. I can’t describe the humiliation and horror I felt. They made him march with his trousers around his ankles around the squad bay until our senior DI came out to see what was going on. I don’t think I s**t for a week after that. It was like my body stopped producing it out of fear. We had 63 guys in our platoon and he was the only one who didn’t graduate.

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    C.O. Shea
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    There's a place in hell for DIs like that.

    Zedrapazia
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    This boot camp is shît, this is mental torment. Stuff like that should be illegal.

    Jeremy James
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    "Making sure you're not hiding ammo in your underwear" sounds like a pretty flimsy excuse to look at butts.

    Zephyr
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    " My body stopped producing out of fear " this made my day,

    CSC
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    That is terrible. However, the only one that truly looked like an idiot was the DI.

    somnomania (she/her, queer)
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    imagine if the military didn't have this macho strongman shithead vibe that punishes people for having human flaws and turns them into other macho shitheads. maybe if the DIs weren't such abusive a******s, they wouldn't have to check to make sure none of the kids are planning to shoot them.

    Frozengeckolover
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    They treat you rough in boot camp to help prevent you from dying during deployment. S******g your pants during a mission could get you (and your mates) killed.

    Aelin Wildfire
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    A) Not something you can always control, B) this does nothing to stop it from happening, and C) how would it have any effect whatsoever on a mission?

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    #48

    Smoke break at a tech support call center. A really pretty girl ask anyone there for a smoke and a pencil neck geek got her one quickly and insisted on lighting it. For the next 10 minutes he attempted to dominate conversation because this was about him and her and he now had some sort of shot. We were all standing around a garbage can with an ashtray on top. It was stuffed with bag lunches. The girl snuffs out her butt and tries to put it in one door of the garbage can, but it's a locked side. The geek says, "allow me" and launches into a strip mall karate kick, the biggest kick his 90 pounds can muster. The garbage can goes over and the ashtray scatters wet sand, ashes and butts everywhere and on everyone. All the smokers take the last minutes of our break to pick up. The geek just stands there stiff like he's willing time to reverse before the time he f****d up and lost his true love forever. He stayed there even when the girl yelled at him to help. We finished cleaning up and left him standing there.

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    C.O. Shea
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    And this is how incels are born.

    Sue
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    And yet they don't understand that the problem is themselves because no one owes them a date or relationship. Meanwhile women's magazines have tons of articles about how to change yourself to get & keep a man.

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    jakub hála
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    OMG this is so sad... And so funny.

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    #49

    30 Cringy Things People Did That Gave Off Second-Hand Embarrassment For Those Around My son was really involved in sports, regularly going to national tournaments. He went to practices 4 times a week. Obviously, his coach really important person in my son's life, and a my family had heard a lot about him. So when my parents came to a tournament that was near them, they finally got to meet his coach. My dad shook his hand and said "Nice to meet you my brotha" (exactly like Tom Hanks in the SNL sketch) I wanted to melt into the floor.

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    ZuriLovesYou
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    The coach wasn't black, was he?

    Crescent 3
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I once attended a "Meet the Candidates" event for our County Republican Party. I'm Black and i am not a Republican; however, I worked in a County office that was led by a Republican elected official and employees were "encouraged" to attend. The candidates, nearly all of them middle-aged and up White men, were in a receiving line and we had to go through and shake hands. One judicial candidate, who was White and in his late 70s, was shaking everybody's hand normally; but when I approached him, he attempted to give me the "Soul Shake" (palms together, hooking the thumbs) like something he'd seen on "Sanford and Son" or "Good Times." I pulled my hand back, gave him a regular hand shake, and walked away shaking my head.

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    #50

    A girl went up in front of hundreds of people to accept an award, but all she heard eas the name “Olivia” and assumed it was her but the actual winner was also named Olivia, and when they realized they gave the award to the wrong Olivia (because the actual winner came up) she screamed and burst into tears and ran off stage. 😬.

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    Zoe's Mom
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    This is why we use first and last names.

    Michael Largey
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I once had a class where there were two Eric Hendersons and an Erika Henderson. None of the were related. They weren't even all the same race.

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    #51

    Witnessing a fully grown adult man have an absolute meltdown at Sea World bc he had wanted to pet a sting ray and literally lightning was coming down from the sky, so, he couldn’t. He tried arguing with the employee and everything and she didn’t know what to say to him bc he *kept* going.

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    justagirl
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    but then poseidon would get mad because the zap might also kill the poor stingray.

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    justagirl
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    just let him pet the stringray and let natural selection do it's thing

    #52

    It's was a funeral and the pastor talked for about 15-20 minutes about his latest mission trip and all the fun they had and only mentioned the deceased twice during the entire service and even that was pretty generic like " he was a good man or he loved to work cattle." Actual quotes, forgot to invite to people who was supposed to give some sort of eulogy. Made a joke to try to smooth things over and I was one of the many that hugged the family and fled before it got even more awkward.

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    C.O. Shea
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I did a funeral detail once while on active duty. Tiny town in Kansas. Thick Irish accented Catholic priest was lit well before the service. It was cringey.

    Sue
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Some families just hire whatever pastor because the deceased didn't attend church. I guess they don't think the deceased will go to heaven if a pastor doesn't do the service.

    Frozengeckolover
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    When my grandma died, her preacher did the service. He briefly mentioned her; lovely woman, will be greatly missed, etc. Then he spent the next 30 minutes giving a sermon about hell and damnation, and how we'd all better commit our lives to God or burn for all eternity. My siblings and I were the only non-Christians there, but he didn't know that. He thought he was giving a fire & brimstone sermon to a crowd of believers. It made everyone uncomfortable. One of my relatives told me all his sermons were like that. Like, ok, but this was a funeral!

    justagirl
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Be memorable so that this doesn't happen at your funeral. that poor family.

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    #53

    My mom berated the hell out of a Kmart cashier. I think it was over something stupid like rewards points. Huge line behind us, and I still had to check out my stuff after her.

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    Jason
    Community Member
    1 year ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    My dad's girlfriend managed to get the cops called on them at a freaking Irish bar of all places for trying to scam free food. It was an impressive story. Edit: wealthy family took us out to a like $300 plate place and the manager had to come over and tell her to stop stealing drinks from the bar. Got stories for days. She's constantly bragging how rich she is and has planes and water front property

    Leanne Hailes
    Community Member
    1 year ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    No one likes belittlers!!!

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    #54

    College class in a big auditorium, professor very strict about attendance on test days. Day of final exam, literally as the professor is closing the door a girl who was nearly late every day comes running in and up the steps to her seat near the top row. She tripped halfway up and rolled down a few steps then started doing the Peter griffin skinned knee routine.

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    #55

    I went out with a friend of mine who is some older than I but we’re both boomers. We’ve gone lots of places but it seemed like a switch flipped in her. She pushed her way in front of another customer at a jewelry store show, she started questioning another customer about her travel money pouch *in detail* and the woman was backing up. I was so embarrassed for her. Last we went to lunch and then Forever 21 and in both places she talked to the manager about turning down the music because it was too loud. You know clerks have no control over the music they play. I wanted to crawl under a table. I am not shy but I am not rude. It was awful.

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    Mark
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    She reached critical boomer

    Verena
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Hope OP got the advice to gently nudging her to take a dementia test. In many cases this not "boomer behaviour", but related to approaching Alzheimer-age.

    Sue User
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Wish i would have knownthis was a symptom when Mom kirked in a store when the cashier asked for her email address.

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    KimTx ‍️
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Gen X here. I've asked if the music could be turned down in a couple of places. Usually if I am heading toward a store where the music is absolutely blaring, I just skip the store. Restaurant? I give it as long g as I can before asking if it would be possible to lower the volume so I can hear conversation at the table. I don't make a "Karen" of myself and I really do make a huge effort to be discreet.

    Kel_how
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I'm in my early 30s (Millennial) and I've asked for the music to be turned down in restaurants before. Sometimes it's just too loud! If I can't hear the people I'm with, it's too loud; I'm not in a club.

    #56

    My sister in law went to tell her grandparents that she was pregnant, and they thought it was a joke. Ultrasound photos in hand she is getting more upset by the minute and a slow look of horror starts taking hold of them as they realize that one - they have f****d up, and two - oh no she really is pregnant. My mother in law tries to smooth things over, but only manages to make things more awkward. The family takes a five minute break to collect themselves, and I'm not sure what my mother in law told them during the break, but threats of eldercide are not out of the question. In any case, it's all forced smiles and congratulations after the break. Despite her grandparents concerns my sister in law has actually turned out to be a great mom, but that was some weaponizable levels of cringe.

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    Jay Scales
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Wonder why they thought it was such a joke?

    Bored Trash Panda
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Old school grandparents and she wasn't married? Maybe she was really young? Those are the two things I can think of.

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    #57

    My soon to be sister in law compared my engagement ring side by side to hers then proceeded to kiss her ring. This was at my daughter’s birthday party and people saw and heard her.

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    BoredPossum
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Is this something you shouldn't do? I'm asking as a guy who has never seen a ring as something beyond a strip of metal.

    Manana Man
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I think it's an act that says 'My ring is better than yours." Engagement rings are traditionally diamonds so hers was probably bigger. It's gloating.

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    Michael Largey
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Sounds like someone who expected other people to kiss her ring too.

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    #58

    When a mildly popular travel vlogger decided to sing an original song at every destination he visited. Not only did the music sound like cheesy 90s karaoke, but the lyrics were insipid. And he couldn’t sing for s**t. I mean, he was awfully brave to try to do that, but damn it was terrible. Luckily for his viewers, he stopped doing that after just a few episodes. The comments were not kind.

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    Seadog
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    This one reminds me of a local woman who the city contracted to write a song about the town. She did and at Octoberfest she set up a table where people could get a copy. The city fined her for not having a business license.

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    #59

    My friend and I were both texting someone we were upset with separately but at the same time. She took a screenshot of their conversation to send me, and sent it to them instead.

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    Seadog
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    It says she sent THEM a picture of THEIR conversation, not yours. So the person receiving it already has every exchange on their own phone. Where's the issue?

    Frozengeckolover
    Community Member
    1 year ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Because, why would they be screenshotting and sending that anyone in the first place? Think about for a second. If someone sent you a screenshot of YOUR conversation with them, you would have to assume they intended to send it to someone else; meaning they intended to gossip about you.

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    Kel_how
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Whoops, we've all been there

    #60

    Went to the Barbie movie and during the first few minutes where people are gagging my mom just projectile vomits. Packed theater.

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    Sheena Leversedge Wood
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    why were people gagging? didn't happen when we saw it.

    justagirl
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I think it was a scene near the beginning of the movie? maybe? idk, never saw it.

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