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Whether we like our family tree or not, it’s something we belong to and there’s nothing we can do about it. Although every family has its strengths and weaknesses, some people feel like they were not that lucky in the gene lottery.

“Which shitty genetics did you inherit?” someone posed a bold question on Ask Reddit, and many people took it as an opportunity to confess some of the traits they’re neither happy nor proud about.

From baldness and anxiety to poor eyesight and acne, many of these genetic traits will hit very close to home, but remember that whatever it is, we’re all beautiful in our own way.

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30 Times People Lost The Gene Lottery, According To This Viral Thread Likely Alzheimer's.

Both gamma's had it, my mom has it and I'm in my early fifties and starting to feel the beginning of decline.

Frankly, I'm scared s***less.

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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I think we all worry to some extent, my aunt and uncle were both diagnosed in the same year. Remember to remain both mentally and physically active and socially interactive. A lot of new research points to the gut and dietary issues. My Dad kept a daily journal, learnt a new language, walked an hour every day and swam all in his last 5 years. He enjoyed those last years even though he knew he had a terminal illness.His philosophy was he knew it was coming but he was determined to fill each day. A new hobby, learn something new, keep active, engage with people and embrace life. Wishing you good health and a positive future

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30 Times People Lost The Gene Lottery, According To This Viral Thread A very rare recessive progressive genetic disorder. I'm a carrier. My wife also is a carrier. Incidence of being a carrier is over 1 in 1,000,000. Unfortunately for our kids, they have a 1/2 chance of being carriers, 1/4 chance that they won't, and 1/4 chance that they'll inherit the double recessive gene and manifest the disorder. 2 out of our 4 kids have manifested the disorder and their life expectancy is 10-12 years.

Life sucker punches everyone.

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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

And this, folks, is one of the instances where adoption is an infinitely kinder option to become a parent than having biological children.

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Jackie Lulu
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Oh really, people, stop hurting these parents. They have enough heartache already.

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Cloudberry
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

It's obvious they didn't know until one of the kids got sick. And probably it was a difficult diagnosis to set since it's so rare.

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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Is nobody reading the original posts before passing such a hard judgement on people? It was my first though as well: Why did they have four children? But then I clicked on the poster's name and they explain they didn't know before the second child with the disorder was already born. Symptoms don't always show early in life and if it's such a rare disorder it would also take some time to get a diagnosis.

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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

This is why I am firmly of the opinion that genetic testing and assisted reproduction should be standard covered healthcare. Genetic testing would mean they would have known they were carriers before they had children. So, instead of playing roulette they would have harvested eggs from mom, sperm from dad, tested resulting fertilized ova and kept only the 25% that did not carry any copies of the lethal recessive. And voila, in one generation this family no longer has this tragic time bomb in their gene pool.

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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Unless they only discovered the genetic disorder after the birth of their 4th child (which I doubt very much), having 4 kids is beyond irresponsible... And no, life didn't sucker punch the parents, the parents sucker punched their own kids... FOUR children, for fücks sake!!! How selfish some people can be is unbelievable.

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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

it's recessive, they might not have known they had it until their kids started showing symptoms.

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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

to people saying that they could have adopted or had less kids, here's a possible scenario: neither one knew that they carried this gene. they have child #1 and #2, and neither showed symptoms because they are either carriers or not, but do not have the double recessive gene. child #3 was born, and by the time the disorder manifested, child #4 had been born or conceived. by this (and this is not the only possibility, obviously), the parents are in no way at fault.

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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

This happened in my first husband's family: his eldest sister became ill and started reverting to babyhood when my just after his second sister was born, but a genetic cause was not suspected until the same thing happened to the younger girl, by which time my ex MIL was already pregnant again. It was a rare form of genetic leukodystrophy for which both parents quite unknowingly carried the recessive gêne, although this was not understood until years later. My ex was lucky enough not to inherit even one copy, but they obviously didn't risk having any further children.

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Vincent
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Why would you have children knowing that you will almost definitely pass this on to them? How selfish can you be?

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1 year ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I know a family who have 3 boys and sadly this happened to them they had identical twins and already had a third son before the twins manafested symptoms all three have the disease its very sad. Girls don't generally get the disease.

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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

My family (well, my mum, sister and I) have an appointment booked with a genetic counsellor, because I had two brothers with a mitochondrial degenerative neuromuscular disorder. One died at 14 and the other at 10. When the eldest was born, my parents were told there was a 1 in 4 chance of each subsequent child having it. 2 in 5 of us did. Not much known about it at the time, and it was before the human genome project was completed, but biopsies were taken when they died and submitted to the databank(?).

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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

This is one of the reasons you used to have to get a blood test before being issued a marriage license.

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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Wow. It surely does. I am hoping they come up with something for all these diseases that need to be studied snd cured or treated.

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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Just like me being colour blind. Both my parents had the recessive gene. I'm the only one of 4 kids who is colour blind.

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1 year ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I would not get any children, if I knew I had such a deadly genetic disorder with a good chance the kid would have it.

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Why the hell would you have kids? Why would you subject another person to that?

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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

They didn't know. They found out when the first affected kid was diagnosed. But then, the second affected kid had already been born, but had no symptoms yet. They did not have more children after they knew.

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This is when you do the right thing and choose to either adopt or remain childfree. To do otherwise is selfish.

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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

They didn't know until after all 4 were born ,at least read the original post before judgement

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Aaaaand this is where you do embryo screening and abort the pregnancy if it can be determined the child will suffer from it, too. They basically did it blind, playing the lottery, by bringing 4 kids into this world. When they KNEW they are VERY LIKELY to pass it on. Or maybe they didn't know. Not trying to be an a*****e but we have modern medical diagnoses available to us. Do the tests. Do the screenings. Try to be as informed as possible.

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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

The standard generic test may not check for a disease that's 1 in a million to be a carrier

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Both carriers......hmmmm...... Reminded of Alabama anyone???

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30 Times People Lost The Gene Lottery, According To This Viral Thread Teeth. I brush using an electric toothbrush for 2 minutes twice a day using prescription toothpaste, I floss twice a day, I've had braces and I floss under the permanent retainers once a day, I wear my night retainer every night and clean it every morning, have a dedicated tongue brusher and scraper that I use as needed, I go to the dentist twice a year and get fluoride treatments, I don't drink soda or eat excessive sugar, and I still have cavities.

I had to get a root canal that ended up failing (missed by the guy who did the root canal and 3 separate dentists) and when the cap eventually rotted off I had to get an implant which got infected, then got infected again, then was deemed chronically infected and had to be removed.

Now my wisdom teeth are acting up and need to be removed.

I am so f*****g sick of putting in so much time, energy, and money to be *below par* with most of the rest of the world

I'm only 33

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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

All the pain comes on top. I can relate so well to this. I also had too many teeth on one side, and one less on the other which made my braces-time (5 years) even more painful (and also is the root of my chronic headaches now). The last root-canal-treatment meant one appointment per one to two weeks for half a year (!), two antibiotics and one infection also affected my sinuses. Luckily I have a great dentist and live in a country where public health covers the costs (except for fillings). Still it sucks.

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30 Times People Lost The Gene Lottery, According To This Viral Thread My parents met in their 20s, bonded over how they both have shitty circulation and everyone in their families has shitty circulation, and were like ‘I know, let’s breed!’.
Went as you’d expect.

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30 Times People Lost The Gene Lottery, According To This Viral Thread Hair on every inch of my body except for the top of my head

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30 Times People Lost The Gene Lottery, According To This Viral Thread Short, acne, small tits, crooked teeth and underdeveloped/too far back jaw (they got mostly fixed with braces), thin hair, mental illness, scoliosis, tiny toes (what the f**k is up with that, I get too many comments about my baby feet)

Can't think of anything else atm

It's like I won the reverse genetic bingo. If this was medieval times I would definitely be the repulsive town witch

Wdit: oh right, forgot IBS

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1 year ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I had really thin hair all my life.I started taking an OTC hair and nail pills. They are from appliednutrition. They are with biotin, silica, collagen. They say three times the biotin. My hair is thicker and stronger. I have to take them daily. The stores now seem to just have the gummies which I don't care for. My son is 19 and takes a medication for his liver disease which caused him to lose his hair on top. He has new hairs coming in. He likes the gummies. Amazon is where I get them from now. I hope this will help you. I too have IBS-C

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30 Times People Lost The Gene Lottery, According To This Viral Thread Lynch Syndrome. I am on my third round of (different each time) cancer.

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30 Times People Lost The Gene Lottery, According To This Viral Thread excessive sweating

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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Idk if my sweating is excessive, or just a result of general heat intolerance. if the temperature goes up past 75F/24C, I start losing the ability to function. Summer is a nightmare.

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30 Times People Lost The Gene Lottery, According To This Viral Thread Starving myself and still being fat

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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I was just thinking today of a comment someone made about this. She tried to loose weight but according to her her genetics responded with something like "Oh! are we runnin' from the english lass? Don't worry! I'll keep you plump as a partridge to help you survive"

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30 Times People Lost The Gene Lottery, According To This Viral Thread Half of my face has my moms bone structure, the other half my dad. Come on, evolution, I thought this was all about symmetry.

OH and they both have addictive personalities which makes substance abuse almost instinctive. Luckily I was a pothead instead of an alcoholic or pill popper. We’re all doing better now LMAO!

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No male in my family line has ever lived over 53 years old. I went through our family graveyard to verify this is true back to the 1860’s.

My family do not like me mentioning it. I am 38 now and have fully accepted my genetic fate.

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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Let's hope you have a long life. Think positively. May be you have the gene's of the other side of your family!!

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30 Times People Lost The Gene Lottery, According To This Viral Thread My wife says it not a big deal but I always tell her she would be freaking out if she started to lose her hair too. Hair means just as much to men as it does to women. Confidence killer.

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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

alopecia universalis diagnosed at age 3... took me until 25 to get to grips with it, when i ritually burned my wig in our backyard (which I had been wearing since about 13)

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30 Times People Lost The Gene Lottery, According To This Viral Thread Two of my sons have muscular dystrophy. That's about as shitty as it gets.

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30 Times People Lost The Gene Lottery, According To This Viral Thread Severe acne when I was a teen that left behind scars.

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My grandma's large chest. Have a lot of back pain now and everything hurts. Getting a bit of them removed in a few years👍

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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

My mom had a large cupsize and it was the bane of her existence for a good 40 years. After reduction, she felt so much better, I hope the same for you OP!

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30 Times People Lost The Gene Lottery, According To This Viral Thread I'm slowly going blind from RP. Thanks mom. My spinal discs are deflating and pinching off my nerves, Thanks dad.

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30 Times People Lost The Gene Lottery, According To This Viral Thread It's alcoholics all the way down

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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I used to think that this wasn't real until I experienced it as well, my grandfather is an alcoholic (clean 30 years) and I became one as well (clean 1 year 8 months)

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30 Times People Lost The Gene Lottery, According To This Viral Thread Being unusually hairy, oily, and large framed for a woman. It's a thing with my family, none of the women in it are exactly the picture of traditional feminine beauty. I have to wear guys sizes in shoes because my feet are too wide for most women's shoes.

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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Don't let it make you self-conscious. Two of the most elegant and fashionable women I know have large frames (broad shouldered, barrel chested), and I don't think I ever saw either of them wear a skirt. One woman wears mens suits often and looks fantastic. Just wear the kind of clothes that look good on you.

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30 Times People Lost The Gene Lottery, According To This Viral Thread Terrible teeth. Extra long roots, extra root points, an extra row. UGH.

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Female pattern baldness from my father’s side of the family and white hair from my mother’s side.

I don’t mind white hair in theory, but thinning white hair is nearly invisible.

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30 Times People Lost The Gene Lottery, According To This Viral Thread Allergies

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30 Times People Lost The Gene Lottery, According To This Viral Thread My back went out in my 20s, and wasn't getting better. After a while I couldn't stand up straight, and had to get it scanned. The found the channel in my spine that the nerve goes through is 1/4 the size of most people's, so the very minor disc slip I'd had became a major problem. They wound up having to carve that channel (dunno what it's called, sorry) wider. Instant relief, but I now have a pretty weak back that's prone to going out. I recover with rest, now, thank goodness, whereas before I wouldn't.

Anyway, that's probably my worst thing, genetically speaking. Bad spine.

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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Me, too. Every day is a c**p shoot, every movement a gamble. It is exhausting, mentally and physically.

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30 Times People Lost The Gene Lottery, According To This Viral Thread A bad spine (scoliosis, stenosis, & spondyolisthesis) and arthritis in other joints. Luckily, I’m not as bad off as previous generations of women in my family.

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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Just a few generations ago, short life expectancy didn't see these long term breakdowns.

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Mother has a full head of thick hair

Father had thinning hair and a receding hairline

Guess whose genes this guy got

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30 Times People Lost The Gene Lottery, According To This Viral Thread dark circles under my eyes

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30 Times People Lost The Gene Lottery, According To This Viral Thread A very rare case of keratosis pilaris (it covers my whole body not just the limbs, apparently it's super rare)

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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I am familiar with keratosis, although in my case it's only on the arms and legs (which is the typical scenario). For those who don't know - it's like having a lot of tiny dark spots on your skin - the photo gives a pretty good idea.

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Acne that forgot to leave with the rest of puberty is also not fun. I have the scars AND I have the angry zits that like to crop up along my bra line. At least at this point, my face is taking the least of it and I don't have deep pockmarks or scarring there. But I don't wear plunging necklines because my chest is a mixture of new and old scars.

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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Try using cocoa butter. When I had wrist surgery the rehab lady rubbed my wrist with the cocoa butter and you can barely see the scar's. If I don't point them out nobody would know. The new scars should fade for you and the old may become less visible. Hope this helps.

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30 Times People Lost The Gene Lottery, According To This Viral Thread im adopted, but me and my twin both have godawful eyesight

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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I have twin friends and one is autistic, legally blind, ADHD, anxiety. His sister has ADHD and anxiety/depression. They got the short sticks but the male twin got the shorter one. AND THEY'RE BOTH SHORT!

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30 Times People Lost The Gene Lottery, According To This Viral Thread My big a*s forehead.

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