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Article created by: Gabija Palšytė

Everyone’s got opinions, sure, that’s normal. But here’s the thing: not every thought needs to be shared, especially when no one has asked for it. You don’t get a gold star for offering unsolicited advice to strangers at the grocery store or weighing in on someone’s outfit like you’re the fashion police. Sometimes, the kindest (and smartest) thing to do is zip it and sip your coffee.

That’s exactly the energy Melani brings to TikTok. She’s the founder of the “We Do Not Care Club,” a community for women navigating perimenopause and menopause. Her daily videos are packed with honesty and humor, and the comment section? A goldmine of women sharing the things they’ve stopped caring about entirely. Get ready to laugh, nod, and maybe join the club yourself.

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Woman over 42 reading a book in bed, surrounded by notebooks and papers, reflecting on what she won’t tolerate. We don't care that we want to be home all day on our days off! Everything I like is at home. I paid for it, Imma stay in it!

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    Small curly-haired dog resting comfortably in a colorful bed, capturing a peaceful moment for women over 42. We do not care if we have pet hair all over our clothes. Our pets are the only people we like

    mookiepookie23 , Alfred Lee Report

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    #3

    Woman over 42 cleaning a window wearing blue gloves, holding a spray bottle, reflecting empowerment and change. WDNC if the house is clean when you come over, also don't come over.

    bratcat178 , Andrea Piacquadio Report

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    #4

    Mature woman over 42 with thoughtful expression, wearing white shirt and silver earrings in a soft indoor setting. I do not care if people don't like me. Even if they are related to me.

    tab28882 , Timur Weber Report

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    #5

    Woman over 42 with glasses expressing frustration during a video call, illustrating what women are no longer willing to tolerate. We do not care that we no longer keep a poker face at work. My eyebrow said what it said.

    tlen1985 , Kaboompics.com Report

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    #6

    Woman over 42 loading laundry into a washing machine, illustrating daily routines women over 42 are no longer willing to tolerate. WDNC about washing instructions. If it can’t survive a cold wash and a dry cycle, then it wasn’t for me anyway

    shannihilation , Nik Report

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    #7

    Woman over 42 with messy bun sitting outdoors, holding and studying a folded map on a sunny day. I do not care that my hair has been in a ponytail since 2001.

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    #8

    Woman over 42 in a gray blazer having a serious conversation with a colleague in a modern office setting. I don't not care if the 26 year old I work with thinks I "spoke mean" to her. And I don't care that my 28 year old manager had to talk to me about it.

    _michellemckenzie_ , Tiger Lily Report

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    #9

    Woman over 42 in blue pajamas lying on bed surrounded by clothes, using smartphone and reflecting on what she won’t tolerate. I don't care that I have a California king and I sleep on one half and the other half is a two-week pile of clothes out of the dryer.

    sam_i_am_1968 , LightFieldStudios Report

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    #10

    Two women over 42 in an office, smiling and high-fiving while working at computers, showcasing empowerment and confidence. WDNC to go to another work event. My teambuilding skills expired and will not be renewed.

    bethklongpayabal , Kampus Production Report

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    #11

    Open dishwasher filled with plates and a blue mug, highlighting daily chores for women over 42 no longer willing to tolerate. We do not care if it says 'Not Dishwasher Safe.' It’s about to learn some hard lessons in this house

    theathletesocialcoach , Mohammad Esmaili Report

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    #12

    Woman over 42 adjusting air conditioner remote near a green plant in a cozy indoor setting. We do not care if the AC is on 60. Don’t touch that fan. If you're cold, get an extra blanket. I’m good.

    mizzterminator , Behnam Norouzi Report

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    #13

    Person making bed with breathable mattress cover, representing comfort and care for women over 42 priorities. WDNC about folding our fitted sheets. I’m rolling them up in a ball and throwing them in the dresser. They will straighten themselves out!

    sprouting_with_ivy , The Sleep Judge Report

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    #14

    Mature woman over 42 sitting in an armchair, holding a cup, reflecting on what she’s no longer willing to tolerate. We do not care if we said we would go. We changed our minds as soon as we got home.

    spot.on.shay , Getty Images Report

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    #15

    Two women over 42 sitting on a park bench, smiling and sharing a joyful moment outdoors. WDNC if we forget the name of something. We will make a new word for it, and you will have to understand what I meant.

    noonespecial0515 , Dario Valenzuela Report

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    #16

    Showerhead spraying water with droplets in focus, symbolizing women over 42 no longer willing to tolerate. I do not care that I haven't showered in 3 days. I'm not going anywhere. Tomorrow I will. Today? Nope.

    angelbythebook , Pixabay Report

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    #17

    Modern bathroom with double sinks and wall-mounted toilet showcasing design trends for women over 42 unwilling to tolerate discomfort. And I don’t care about the perfect kitchen/bathroom/bedroom beige Pinterest aesthetic. I’m too old and tired. WDNC club.

    itsjusterind , Max Vakhtbovycn Report

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    #18

    Folded blue jeans on wooden floor with natural light, symbolizing women over 42 embracing change and refusal to tolerate. We do not care to wear hard pants ever again

    mylittlegardenplot , Dylan Ferreira Report

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    #19

    Person wearing pink Crocs with charms and blue socks with flamingos, relaxing on grass, representing women over 42 confident stance We do not care if our shoes are cute. Comfortable shoes only.

    rme80 , Melike B Report

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    #20

    When my hubby says he's hungry I ask him if his hands are broke, because I don't care.

    hollie.furbush.be Report

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    #21

    As an Eastern Canadian chapter applicant, We do not care that our Governments want to fight about terrifs. We just want the Mcdonalds ice cream maker to work when we pull up in a 7 seater with 9 kids.

    AMac Report

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    #22

    WDNC about your FaceBook post about how proud you are that your son or daughter has graduated from kindergarten.

    jmcred Report

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    #23

    I'm going to sleep at 7 tonight and idnc ..... might be waking up at 2

    tictocoana Report

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    #24

    My grandson is eating marshmallows and I'm eating raisin bread. Dinner is served. We do not care!

    mo_v_ta Report

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    #25

    Woman over 42 with blonde hair combing in front of mirror, representing women over 42 no longer tolerating old limits We do not care if a side part or a middle part is the hot trend. We style our hair whatever way the wind blows.

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    #26

    Woman over 42 in a pinstripe blazer working on a laptop indoors, reflecting confidence and clarity in her expression. I do not care if my resting b—— face offends anyone. It's my face, it's not going to change right now.

    lorib431 , Mert Coşkun Report

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    #27

    Older woman over 42 reading a book by the window in a cozy wooden home, symbolizing women over 42 mindset shift. I’m POST menopausal- I’m in. I could stay in my room w/o people, in sweats, with a book for YEARS! I don’t care about clean ANYthing! I am exerting my DOMINANCE after 70 years of service! NO is my new word!

    Sheryll Petrosky , cottonbro studio Report

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    #28

    Woman over 42 in casual jacket smiling and using smartphone against a tiled wall, embodying empowerment and confidence. I do not care that this club is for perimenopause/menopause women and I’m in my 20s, I relate to everything

    imjustdolly_ , Liliana Drew Report

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    #29

    Women over 42 standing barefoot on sand near flip flops, symbolizing independence and refusal to tolerate limits I do not care to wear high heels anymore. flats and flip flops are the way to go. I do not care to follow fashion trends

    Rina Ramirez , Pew Nguyen Report

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    #30

    Woman over 42 resting on couch, reflecting on changes and boundaries they are no longer willing to tolerate. I don't care that I came home.. got in the bed at 5 o'clock.. ate potato chips and raisins for dinner..and am fully under these covers

    miminicole70 , Kaboompics.com Report

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    #31

    Older woman over 42 standing on a forest path with arms crossed, reflecting strength and resilience. We do not care that the look on our faces says exactly what we're thinking.

    2l82btess_ , A. C. Report

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    #32

    Woman over 42 shopping at checkout, placing groceries on the conveyor belt, illustrating women over 42 themes. I do not care how long it takes for me to put my wallet back into my purse after I pay for my groceries. Your turn starts when I am finished. Don't rush me.

    luckyredfriday , Getty Images Report

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    #33

    Two women over 42 wearing white shirts, smiling and talking while leaning out of a wooden window frame. We do not care if we repeat the same story twice. If it was good once, it'll be better the second time.

    dorkapottamus , A. C. Report

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    #34

    Woman over 42 wearing headphones, looking thoughtful and reflecting on what she’s no longer willing to tolerate. We don't care about learning new music. The '90s was the best era anyway!

    ashan1976 , Katie Lyke Report

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    #35

    Woman over 42 with a green backpack walking on a city street, symbolizing what women over 42 no longer tolerate. WDNC what we look like from the back. That is not our business.

    sarahh5510 , felipe prieto Report

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    #36

    The older I get…the less I care about looking presentable!

    jlsyd75 Report

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    #37

    Close-up of a homemade Italian lasagna on a white plate with fresh herbs, tomatoes, and a glass baking dish in the background. We do not care what healthy salad, vegan, vegetarian, gluten-free, lactose-free rubbish our co-workers are having for lunch. Just let me eat my lasagne in peace!"

    lararandle1 , Karolina Kołodziejczak Report

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    #38

    I don’t care if I’m the first teacher to the car leaving after school

    hootchie.nana Report

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    #39

    I have cellulite legs with shorts on. WDNC!

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    #40

    I do not care that my pants are orange and my sandals are pink. This is what I wore today. WDNC.

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    #41

    we are on vacation and we do not care if our swimsuit doesn't fit like the advertisement

    Livingreel Report

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    #42

    A hand reaching into a bowl filled with colorful jelly beans, symbolizing women over 42 no longer tolerating limits. I don’t care what my family eats for dinner NO MORE! Eat Funyuns and jellybeans, WDNC.

    khershalynn , Patrick Fore Report

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